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Reconnecting through Reunification - a Father's Journey
Jason Flowerday, a father of three, became alienated from his oldest. In this interview he recounts the difficult journey of reconnecting with his daughter, Victoria, who was alienated from him following the high-conflict separation from his wife in 2014. The alienation manifested quickly, with Victoria refusing to see her father within two to three months, while her younger siblings continued a 50/50 shared custody arrangement.
Despite several unsuccessful attempts at reunification programs, a breakthrough came two years later when the father was permitted to participate in the Family Bridges program. This program required a 90-day pause in contact between the children and their mother, d...
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Reconnecting with Targeted Parent Through Family Bridges
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Victoria Flowerday, formerly alienated daughter, reflects on her experience of parental separation at a young age, highlighting the emotional turmoil and subsequent journey towards healing. Despite feeling alienated from her father initially, she expresses gratitude for the support of her family and her involvement in the Family Bridges program. Through the Family Bridges program, Victoria unde...
Bridging Science and Law in Family Court
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Dr. Demosthenes Lorandos, Ph.D., J.D., boasts an impressive background spanning five decades. With a foundation in science from the New School for Social Research and legal training from the University of Detroit, including studies with the Jesuits, he has excelled as a psychologist and litigator. Licensed in multiple states and federal courts, including the United States Supreme Court, he has ...
Experts on Parental Alienation and Shared Parenting
Просмотров 20714 дней назад
The International Conference on Shared Parenting in Athens May 2023 brought together experts to address the significant mental health impacts of parental alienation and advocate for shared custody. Studies showed that children from alienated families suffer long-term mental health issues, with many fathers experiencing intense grief and suicidal tendencies. Experts emphasized the necessity of s...
Fatalities in Parental Alienation Cases
Просмотров 55214 дней назад
In this interview specialists Catherine W. MacWillie, Kevin Hickey and William Bernet discuss the severe and sometimes fatal consequences of parental alienation, drawing on various cases such as the case of John Mast who was fatally shot by his ex father-in-law when picking up his children for visitation. The phenomenon has broader impact on society. Family law issues are suggested to contribut...
Parental Alienation in the Eyes of Leading Experts
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Speaking from the PASG 5th International Conference in Fort Collins, Colorado in June 2023, these experts discuss the severe psychological impact of parental alienation on children, equating its damage to or even surpassing that of physical and sexual abuse. The experts emphasize that such behaviors stem from deep-seated issues in the alienating parent, often linked to personality disorders, an...
The Cochem Model (Consensus Model)
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Jurgen Karl Rudolph is a retired lawyer and judge in Germany. He and his colleagues founded the Cochem Model for courts to use in high conflict divorce cases involving children. At the core of the model lies the principle that every child deserves uninterrupted access to both parents and the opportunity for a continuing relationship with the non-residential parent and their extended family. Par...
Mediation as a Key to Parental Responsibility:
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Karolina Wilamowska is an attorney at law and certified mediator in Poland. In this video she discusses the high rate of divorces, highlighting the importance of joint custody for children's well-being. Karolina emphasizes the benefits of shared custody, noting that it encourages parents to communicate and reduces long-term conflicts. Despite these benefits, courts often favor maternal custody,...
Shared Parental Custody in Brazil
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Petra Sofia Portugal Mendonça Ferreira is a mediator and public defender of the Amazonas State in Brazil. In this insightful interview, we explore the intricacies of child custody legislation in Brazil, with a particular focus on shared physical custody and dual residence. Despite good legislation, the legal practice still tends to favor establishing a single residence for children, usually wit...
You words shape their minds
Просмотров 2083 месяца назад
Equal Parenting is dedicated to educating on the harmful effects of parental alienation through empirical research. Join us on equalparenting.org
Orð þín móta afstöðu þeirra
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Foreldrajafnrétti stuðlar að fræðslu um foreldraútilokun og býður meðal annars upp á námskeið sérfræðings sem snúa að þeim sem vinna að málum sem tengjast skilnuðum þar sem börn eiga í hlut. Afar mikilvægt er að þeir sem vinna að átakaskilnuðum; lögfræðingar, sálfræðingar, félagsráðgjarar, skólar og aðrir sem tengjast málefninu, afli sér þekkingar umfram það sem almennt er talið falla undir fjö...
Motivational Beliefs behind Parental Alienation
Просмотров 4656 месяцев назад
Alan Blotcky is a Clinical Associate Professor at the University of Alabama in Birmingham, USA. He has a Private Practice in Birmingham and works as a forensic psychologist. In this interview Alan talks about his research on Motivational Beliefs behind Parental Alienation. He studied 40 cases where an alienating parent had been identified. Alan analyzed verbatim quotes made by one parent agains...
Child Abductions in Parenal Alienation Cases
Просмотров 1117 месяцев назад
Karolina Andriakopoulou is a lawyer in Family Court in Athens. She often deals with international child abductions - which she claims are becoming a phenomenon. When parents come from different countries she stresses the importance of knowledge of the law. What can the judicial system in the country of residence offer in case of separation or divorce of families with children? When children com...
2023-10-09 - Velferðarvaktin - Hagir umgengnisforeldra
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2023-10-09 - Velferðarvaktin - Hagir umgengnisforeldra
Lost Dads: New Research Findings on Divorced Fathers
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Ben Hine talks about his new research that sheds light on the difficulties divorced fathers often find themselves in, especially if there are custody or visitation disputes involved in the post separation process. Ben is a professor of Applied Psychology within the University of West London's School of Human and Social Sciences. His research examines the increased vulnerability faced by men fol...
The Judicial Application of Shared Parenting in Cases of High Conflict and Parental Alienation
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The Judicial Application of Shared Parenting in Cases of High Conflict and Parental Alienation
Manifestation of Parental Alienation in the Classroom
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Manifestation of Parental Alienation in the Classroom
An Alienated Child and Parent - Realization, Guilt and Dealing with the Alienator
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An Alienated Child and Parent - Realization, Guilt and Dealing with the Alienator
New Research: Children of Alienation - Comparison with other groups
Просмотров 6769 месяцев назад
New Research: Children of Alienation - Comparison with other groups
Grandparent Alienation: The Primal Wound
Просмотров 2949 месяцев назад
Grandparent Alienation: The Primal Wound
The Neuropsychological Impacts of Parental Conflict in Child Development
Просмотров 53010 месяцев назад
The Neuropsychological Impacts of Parental Conflict in Child Development
Pabbi elskar mig ekki lengur
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Pabbi elskar mig ekki lengur
Ég vil ekki hitta pabba
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Ég vil ekki hitta pabba
Mamma verður svo leið
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Mamma verður svo leið
Illt umtal meiðir mig
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Illt umtal meiðir mig
Ólíkindatólið
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Ólíkindatólið
Mamma var ekki einu sinni á spítalanum
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Mamma var ekki einu sinni á spítalanum
Ég þarf ekki mömmu
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Ég þarf ekki mömmu
Heimir Hilmarsson - Takk
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Heimir Hilmarsson - Takk
Effects of parental alienation on children's health
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Effects of parental alienation on children's health

Комментарии

  • @PBVader
    @PBVader 29 минут назад

    As this man testified to, it was about the money before it was about more money. Good luck when enough people run out of money or the money is worthless, because then it will be about survival.

  • @PBVader
    @PBVader 50 минут назад

    Thats all well and good till you find out divorce magistrates get a cut of separation. Do they have their hand in this cookie jar too?

  • @tiffanyfinley4834
    @tiffanyfinley4834 День назад

    Im at work and cant watch this, its so upsetting

  • @tiffanyfinley4834
    @tiffanyfinley4834 День назад

    Someone hear me. I am experiencing this. My son was taken from me at five and alienated since then. It's been 14 years. I can't fix it.

  • @are_you_a_noahide_yet
    @are_you_a_noahide_yet 3 дня назад

    What is interesting about her theories is her beliefs that the one who is causing harm is somehow not aware that they are doing so. Lady, believe me when I tell you, they know exactly what they are doing. They are creating harm because this is what they enjoy most. Creating harm to young children gives those harmers great joy, mirth, and personal satisfaction. Now, with that information, reform all your great ideas and tell us. Try. I dare you. It's a cluster phaff.

  • @anitaengels7441
    @anitaengels7441 3 дня назад

    Ja,du hast recht. Der Vater unserer Kinder wiederholt sein Kindheitstrauma. Er separiert die gemeinsamen Kinder für sich. Leider hat seine Mutter es mit ihnen auch gemacht. Das ist ein Generationen Trauma. Ich habe 27 Kindesentzug und Kindesentfremdung systematisch durch den Vater und institutionelle Gewalt. In Deutschland werden Eltern psychiatriert um eine Rechtfertigung für ihre Unzulänglichkeiten zu legitimieren Deutschland verstößt gegen die Grundrechte und UN Kinderkonvention. Es erkennt die Eltern Kind Entfremdung Nicht unter P1666 Kindeswohlgefährdung an. Die WHO klassifiziert es in untersymptomatiken. Deutschland ist ein passiv aggressives Land. Unterschlagung von Berichten durch das Jugendamt und Aussetzen der Umgänge weil begleitete Umgänge nicht notwendig sind oder schlicht die Unfähigkeit des Lösungsorientierten Dialogs mit den Fachkräften, lassen viele Kinder im Stich. Die Machtwippe des entfremdenden Elternteils wird dem zugesprochen . Statt die Kinder dem Loyalen Elternteil zuzufügen wird demjenigen erlaubt sein devaluierendes Verhalten fortzuführen ohne Konsequenzen aber mit vorsätzlicher Erwartung der Schädigung herbeigeführt an Kindern.

  • @ultimate8550
    @ultimate8550 3 дня назад

    Looks like Joan Meier already addressed this directly, here is the abstract from her refutation: "Jennifer Harman and Demosthenes Lorandos purport to have identified numerous methodological flaws in our 2019 study of family court outcomes in cases involving abuse and alienation allegations (“FCO study”; Meier et al., 2019). At least half of the supposed flaws they itemized relate to one claim - that they were unable to access our methods and data. They treat the claimed lack of public access as evidence that our study is unreliable, while speculating about other potential flaws. Yet we note - and they acknowledge - that most of the methodological information they sought was in fact available before publication of their article. This article responds to and refutes Harman and Lorandos’ exaggerated and unfounded condemnation of our study. In addition to pointing out that the claimed lack of information would not be a methodological flaw even if true, we explain that their other criticisms are speculative, incorrect, or insignificant. We appreciate this opportunity to clarify that the important findings of the FCO study are valid and should be taken seriously by the courts and those interested in the fairness and safety of custody decisions when there are allegations of abuse and alienation."

  • @ultimate8550
    @ultimate8550 3 дня назад

    Notice how he doesn't actually explain why Joan Meier's study is junk...What exactly is wrong with the study? That's a major red flag. I've read the study and it's results are alarming. This guy is just another alienation zealot who probably gets financial kickbacks from reunification camps. Alienating behaviors are certainly a real thing, no one in the domestic violence field would ever deny that. What concerns Meier and other folks in the field is how alienation is being used as a cross claim, primarily as a response to accusations of abuse. This is a well known phenomenon, its why a lot of these alienation cases are being overturned at the appellate level. It's also why Kayden's law and other similar legislation are popping up all over the country. Its basically an open secret at this point that the alienation argument is a go to tactic for abusers(primarily abusive fathers) to further silence their victims.

  • @littlefire1976
    @littlefire1976 5 дней назад

  • @IanBond007
    @IanBond007 6 дней назад

    This is being done to me, but more importantly to our child. Attempts to get help from the health, social services, and justice services have been turned back on me. I deemed to be the problem because of my reactions to mistreatment.

  • @ultimate8550
    @ultimate8550 11 дней назад

    I am happy to see that this professor understands that we must first rule out estrangement before we can call it alienation. This is extremely important, because its often the case that the child has a very legitimate reason for rejecting a parent that has nothing to do with being coached. However, what we are seeing in courts is that they are generally terrible at making this distinction. In practice, what is happening is that the abusive party claims that the protective parent is "alienating" the child and that this is an explanation for the Childs negative behavior. Rather than the abusive parent's own behavior. And in many cases, judges are awarding custody to the abusive party under the pretense that they are protecting the child from alienation, when there was never alienation going on in the first place. It's absolutely crucial that judges are not overlooking perfectly valid explanations for why a child is a rejecting a parent - whether that be abuse or prolonged absence from the home. Alienation should be the absolute last resort from a diagnostic standpoint, but unfortunately many courtrooms are overlooking evidence that would disprove alienation.

  • @briannab2552
    @briannab2552 12 дней назад

    It is and experience everyday small terroism, and yes it is DV, coercive control and cannot stop him. I appreciate you acknowledging all of these terms. How do we have hope? I’ve done my work but it doesn’t bring power. Some try to tell me so I can’t find it. I’ve started attending PA-A and helpful.

  • @claudiahoem4291
    @claudiahoem4291 13 дней назад

    Can you help me? I emotionally can't do this much longer

  • @aromamom1
    @aromamom1 13 дней назад

    I have a child (26 yrs old) he’s left the whole family because of his twisted therapy

  • @kimparke6653
    @kimparke6653 13 дней назад

    Wow, this man gets everything here. So true, dysfunctional families suck up resources. Get proactive and protect children from addictions. That's what responsible parents do.

  • @nuriamir945
    @nuriamir945 14 дней назад

    In Spain, there's even a law forbiding PA .It is urgent to stop PA, but spanish alienated children and targeted parents just don't exist, by law. No attention on this damaging pyscological abuse.

  • @EqualSharedParenting
    @EqualSharedParenting 14 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. God's blessings to you.

  • @EqualSharedParenting
    @EqualSharedParenting 14 дней назад

    For over $50 Billion a year in USA lawyer profits thieved mostly from fathers, the divorce judges and lawyers demolish families and kidnap 7:00 'the children to the abuser and rip away the loving parent.' The solution is at Equal Shared Parenting Site.

  • @sweetesthawaiianprincess8086
    @sweetesthawaiianprincess8086 14 дней назад

    * Alienation also includes adult millennials where there is NO divorce involved!!! PEAC is a support group for parental Alienation that does monthly zooms ❤ 🤙🏼

  • @kimhynek2170
    @kimhynek2170 15 дней назад

    Thanks alot for a very interesting video!!

  • @PBVader
    @PBVader 15 дней назад

    "If you can't be a father, then what's the point." Welcome to the court imposed birth rate problem and the MRA, MWA, MGTOW solution. It's up to the system to determine how long that solution is warranted.

  • @sqfanatic
    @sqfanatic 17 дней назад

    I have difficulty with child custody situation in Brazil. Can you help me?

  • @higbeedoug
    @higbeedoug 18 дней назад

    👍 thanks guys

  • @sapereaude3077
    @sapereaude3077 19 дней назад

    Do you know the Stasi decomposition? They too have already split families and alienated children. It's the same way it still works today. After all, an entire workforce of skilled workers has to be provided with work. Millions of loans, insurance contracts and much more are at stake if abuse were to be combated. They generate billions from it. Judges, prosecutors, other civil servants and social workers, even the many therapists, psychiatrists, doctors, pharmaceutical companies. they all benefit from it. "The legacy of the fathers"(Das Erbe der Väter) "(Only)Those who have learned to obey can later also command" a type: MK Ultra/Mind Controll which makes this "business model" possible. They deliberately harm people in order to generate jobs and money.

  • @sapereaude3077
    @sapereaude3077 19 дней назад

    a bis problem!! also in austria, germany, swizzerland. the familiycourt and the "jugendamt" they are promote it instead of preventing it. they generate more money when they promote it, instead of preventing it. also the traumatiseing of the children is a kind of brainwashing/mk ultra. its generate narzism borderline and other personality disorders. and it generates belief in authority. and that is systemically relevant. That's why Johanna Haarer's parenting guide was widely distributed and recommended by the state. Many mothers and many fathers have literally “traumatized” their children. That's why in many places the abuse is not even remotely recognized.

  • @ds2348
    @ds2348 21 день назад

    As the alienated parent and everything, the therapist has described has actually happened with me and my child It feels like he’s in a concentration camp and I can’t get to him and even if I could do will be used against me in court

  • @MargaretEdwards-z4j
    @MargaretEdwards-z4j 23 дня назад

  • @davekiernan1
    @davekiernan1 28 дней назад

    An alienator groomer invites into my house an aggressive man, threatening my son's fathers in front of my grandson. A child abuser. I asked who is this child abusers mother? No answer from CP's .

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Sir , what if? i told YOU "DISTURBING THE PEACE" COURT ASSISTED FOR INVASION />> DOMESTIC ABUSE TIED INTERNATIONAL ^ $#@markets by products for lifestyle inorder for the GATED COMMUNITIEs to unleash the GLADIATOR cages _WOULD YOU BELIEVE IT? A+❤NATIONAL EMERGENCY

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Sir, it also sounds LIKE COURTS PROBATE USE of the CHILDREN TO GROOM NATIONS, H0WS THAT POLITIC NARRATIVE? An ECONOMIC DISASTER FOR AMERICAN CITIZENS NOT oNLY PHYSICAL BUT MENTAL & SPIRITUAL 💔 uncivil invasion court assisted

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Sir IT SOUNDS LIJE A PICK POCKET SCHEME COURT ASSISTED , TAKES ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATIONS, THIS IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL BY COMMERCE CLAUSE

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Kritikos vs DeRosa #ES10W2432WD

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Reference/>> LESLIE MILLER GAL CHEST NUT HILL BOSTON MASSACHUSETTS IN SALEM MASSACHUSETTS PROBATE COURT MASSACHUSETTS WOULD USE HER TO RIP OFF CHILDREN🎥🎬🚨A NATIONAL EMERGENCY

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Sir, PAID REFERE IN THE COURT SYSTEM TO PICK POCK AMERICANS IS WHAT BAD GALS ARE, PIcK POCKETS COURT ASSISTED in KAHOOT child abuse

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Sir, it's COURT ASSISTED MARKETS BY PRODUCTS FOR LIFESTYLE, TO SNEAK IN THE UNLAWFULL INTO THE LEGAL🎬🎥ITS A CIVIL MATTER

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Knowledge of the Unlawful sneak in the legal, judges and LAWYERS make up circumstance to fit pockets

  • @georgiakritikos4955
    @georgiakritikos4955 Месяц назад

    Please help Pass MassSenate bill S.1131 CROOKED LAWYERS FOOL CROOKED JUDGES TO PICK POCKET AMERICAN CITIZENS THEIR PROPERTY, CHILDREN and Elders Inheritance, call Mr Musto Boston Massachusetts give testimony

  • @sherrymechum7102
    @sherrymechum7102 Месяц назад

    Best online!!!

  • @kingawatras9707
    @kingawatras9707 Месяц назад

    They ❤their abusers Stockholm syndrom

  • @noeldelarosavlogs
    @noeldelarosavlogs Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • @jolenelara3071
    @jolenelara3071 Месяц назад

    I can’t talk or see my daughter the courts left it up to her. Which was the courts worst decision because now she won’t see me at all she has the say she doesn’t want her dad mad at her or her step mom I just want to hug her and kiss her and tell her I’m always here for her. I know she know that but will she use it if needed I don’t think so because she’s afraid of her dad! Please god give me the strength to get through this !!

  • @jolenelara3071
    @jolenelara3071 Месяц назад

    I wish I had found this earlier my ex had done this twice and the first one oil blamed my daughter for and now the second daughter I’m seeing what he has done! Where can I find help I know this is a really old post but I need help asap.

  • @c.aamold
    @c.aamold Месяц назад

    Feel like I'm learning this all too late.

  • @TheMissingMom
    @TheMissingMom Месяц назад

    Stepmom here. The lawyers in our state won't take our case. We spoke with an attorney last year and she was convinced it would go nowhere. We would spend thousands of dollars, months, or years fighting, and end up right where we started. We have witnessed firsthand, the stepdad saying horrible things about us in front of the kids. One of my SKs harmed herself as a teenager and refused to speak with us for 2 years. We found out after she was an adult what happened. Parental alienation is abuse to both the child and the targeted parent. I fully believe if my husband was dealing with this abuse alone he would no longer be here. There is nothing more painful than watching the person you love lose contact with their living children. Please keep doing this! Please keep fighting for the parents and children subjected to this abuse!

  • @broeheemed32
    @broeheemed32 Месяц назад

    Not every child that refuses to see a parent has been alienated by the other. When my parents divorced, I shut out my dad for at least a couple years because I knew he left for some younger woman. My parents never fought out loud, there was never any physical abuse, and us kids didn't know they were going to split until the day he bailed. My mother defended him vehemently, but I didn't pay attention to that. I was furious that someone could be so selfish. Of course, as I grew older, I came to realize that people grow apart, fall out of love, and eventually I accepted it. I love my dad, but I'll never forget the hurt my mom felt.

  • @timmorris171
    @timmorris171 Месяц назад

    Kind of like trying to visit your 6th grader for lunch and the school has no idea that you're a parent because the mother has stated the boyfriend as the parent or guardian

  • @NuniqueNewNork
    @NuniqueNewNork Месяц назад

    The one parent works to remove the other parent from the needs pyramid. The value chain. Over time, whatever the kid wanted from the parent, is replaced with other activities and people as substitutes. The child is taught that if they still need that other parent, they FAILED. They feel like a FAILURE and a BURDEN whenever they even barely talk to / acknowledge the other parent. After the parent brainwashes the kid for years... The kid eventually believes the lies. The kid believes the other parent is a loser, failure, deadbeat, idiot, jerk, bully, whatever it takes. Lie.

  • @tryme4038
    @tryme4038 Месяц назад

    Very few Parents don’t know how to be proper parents. It’s a revolving door of one narcissist leaving a subsequent generation with that legacy to continue on to the next generation of offspring

    • @EqualSharedParenting
      @EqualSharedParenting Месяц назад

      Narcissists need an empathic spouse to serve as narcissistic supply. But judges usually give child custody to the narcissist parent who wants divorce, instead of the good empathic parent.

    • @EqualSharedParenting
      @EqualSharedParenting Месяц назад

      Judges are pimps for the lawyers, and more conflict means more money for lawyers and their bribes to judges.

  • @shussing
    @shussing Месяц назад

    This video is gold. So spot on with the symptoms and conditions of this syndrome. There needs to be a lot of education regarding this especially in the court system and for attorneys to use PAS as the means to bring justice. Thanks to the speaker

  • @andreaw3844
    @andreaw3844 2 месяца назад

    If the motivation of the alienating patrent is his own psychopathology, that in turn triggers his vindictiveness, do you really think that therapy would work with him?