Jason Doesn't Want Kylen's Parents At Birth "I Want It To Be Our Thing" | Unexpected
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
- After feeling sidelined by the attitude of the hospital staff for being a young father, Jason takes Kylen to a birthing centre that he feels respects him more and will be more comfortable for her, but drops the bomb that he doesn't want any of their parents at the birth.
From Season 5 Episode 3.
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You can see that her parents are hurting. Jason is controlling her, so sad
Jason is controling iits so sad i was with a guy when i had my kids i couldnt even go to doctor bc he said not to pls kylen get away from him you would be better off for the baby too trust me you dont want to stay with a guy like that i was brain washed like you to if i said the wrong thing he would get mad and blame me for evrything but its not your fault its his remember you would be better off with out him pls listen to me you will feel better about yourself thank you
@@lindanorlin826 I was with a guy like this, myself. (As an adult even!) When I miscarried our second child (I lost both at the end of my second trimesters), he called me a baby killer. It was Mother’s Day. I stayed with him way too long. I’m free now, and although I grieve at the loss of my babies, I’m also glad that we never got pregnant again so that I have zero ties to him. This guy is going to keep Kylan pregnant all the time. He’s probably not even going to let her vagina and uterus heal before sticking his dick in her. Poor thing. She’ll have two babies under the age of two in no time. Three if you count Jason!!!
I am only sad for her parents. She lets him run her life. She seems to be a follower by nature and sadly she found the stupidest possible leader to follow.
I guess I would bad if she hadn't frozen her parents out after living him her bf.
@baeshin
Yes she’s “allowing” him to treat her poorly. However, understand manipulative abusers break you down and isolate you. It has probably made her feel dependent on him. Hence, the isolation of her from her family.
this is what domestic abuse looks like. classic example. and people don't take it as serious as they should because jason has built up this goofy persona and also because they are both very young, so it ends up getting written off.
Exactly wish her family would step in I know her father is ill but like this is not okay. And he isolates her from her family she's gonna feel awful when her father passes 😢
He is going to hold that baby over her head until someone helps her escape. Yes, ESCAPE. Afterwards when he has the child on his weekends, he will be talking down to the son about his mother and the kid will come back and tell all of it to her. Someone needs to help her. Like quickly.
Sad
@@cyntk3306 extremely sad. we as a society need to become comfortable being more reactive, stepping in and speaking up when we see clear signs of abuse such as in this case. and that goes for the friends and family and for the healthcare workers who is observing this behavior. why does it have to come to women being brutally beaten or even killed before people step in and take it seriously? women in kylens situation don't gain anything from people tiptoeing around the issue and barely reacting to it in fear of overstepping boundaries.
My heart breaks for her and her parents. It's very obvious how abusive this boy is. What are his parents thinking? They raised an abuser and his behaviour is displayed on TV and they say nothing.
WTF does a male know about child birth and the pain level. It's not his choice of she wants drugs or not
For real… I birthed a 10lb 4oz baby. I was in so much pain (even with the epidural) that right before I was about to push they made me sit up for her to finish dropping and I started throwing up… husband had to hold a barf bag for me and everything. They ended up having an anesthesiologist come in and give me pain medication just so I could effectively push…. That pain med did wonders though. I had minimal pain after that other than when contractions were building for me to push… but for this guy to say it is painless and easy! Lmfao ok.
@@nikkiritchie7535 My mom's first baby (me) was 10lbs 2oz so she likely understands your pain 😅 She's usually not a complainer but she's told me many times about how excruciating giving birth to me was, even with an epidural. She had horrible back labour too. My sister's birth was easy in comparison, and she was 9lbs!
According to liberals men have periods and give birth too so mens opinions matter that’s why lol
@@nikkiritchie7535 I had my first baby in July and I threw up the whole time I had contractions and wasn’t able to get an epidural cause I wasn’t dilated enough and then randomly went to full dilation before anyone thought I would and pushed for less than ten minutes and she was out. The doctor didn’t even finish riding the elevator before she was born lol. I never wanted an epidural cause it gives you life long back pain and makes many people lose a lot of their hair for like a year or two after but when I felt the contractions after a while I was like fuck it I want it but wasn’t able to have it and was grateful I didn’t. Pushing was the easy part, it was the contractions before pushing that weee excruciating. She was 7lbs 2oz
@@bambi7563 the whole thing was bad for me. It was the worst right before pushing. I wouldn’t have been able to even push because the back labor was so bad if they didn’t give me fentanyl. That stuff is a wonder drug for pain. I went from the worst pain (like a 10) in my life to tolerable pain (like a 4.5) Lol 😂
So he’s against all medical interventions for mom but is completely fine with circumcising? He just wants her to suffer.
Spoiler alert so stop reading if you haven’t seen the actual delivery- This BOY watches her writhe in pain, refuses to ALLOW her any drugs, calls her a drug addict if she accepts an epidural. He’s kicked out of the place b/c of his interference with her treatment, then blames them later for the RESULT of his own actions. Her blood pressure was going through the roof, from the pain AND FROM HIS extremely selfish & immature behavior. Epidurals don’t cause a woman giving birth to “get high” but they do make her body numb below the waist. Also, this boy vapes constantly, but claims she’s a drug addict if she gets an epidural?!!? Infuriated! She has no idea how toxic his behavior is. It will only get worse for her & the child. May God bless her sweet parents who have been pushed aside by him. She’s going to need her mama for emotional care. I know I did, AND I was a married adult!
@@kristieric3893 is he stupid how is he gonna get a girl pregnant and not even do research about anything especially all the medication and treatments you would think he would try to prepare with her because going to all her appointments is one thing but actually supporting and letting HER make the decisions about HER birth is important. UGH BOYS🙄
@@kristieric3893 oh my gosh. I just knew he was harmful.
“Prevents infection.” Nope. Just another weirdo that thinks his son’s penis should look like his, at the cost of that baby’s eventual sex life. Gross.
@@kristieric3893 Spot on!!! it's so disgusting to watch, she has no idea.
Anyone who told you it’s painless is full of crap. You need to be in a safe and secure environment to birth your baby and need to have medical personnel in case they are needed
Absolutely
You’re absolutely correct!
I was very lucky to have a painless Labour and birth. Its possible but I was preparing myself for the pain
Especially since she said her family’s side has had complications down the line…
@@latifahmiller5136 that's exactly it... you have to prepare for the pain and make a plan on how you'll try to tolerate it. But it's not PAIN-LESS. Not free of pain.
He’s so awful, so controlling. Narcissist. And so sad he just puts her down and blames everything on her. He’s trash
He is a narcissist
Poor girl has no say in the child's birth. Guy's a total abuser. Communication skills non-existent here. Poor baby.
Hi its Maryanne yes i really do agree with you he is a big peace of trash i hate that he is horrible to her and she is pregnant to im very concerned about the safety and the welfare of the poor newborn baby being around him because men like him can hurt the poor newborn baby that poor newborn baby and the young mother to i really hope that they will be OK she needs to get rid of him before he hurts her and the baby to xxxxxxx
Capital N ~ with addiction issues ~ poor girl. Already isolating her from her family. Classic abuser all the signs are there.
I am bawling listening to her parents talk. She isn’t staying away from you to find her independence. JASON is keeping her from y’all. 😢
That child is being abused and manipulated and pushed away from her parents by that kid. She needs to stand up for herself because it is clear she wants to have her parents with her but she’s too afraid to go against him. Sad
I wish I could scoop her up and get her away from him 😢 when this was recorded I literally lived 15 mins away from her and i truly wish I could’ve done something (not that it would’ve helped obviously but it makes my heart break)
@Hipppiemama her parents shoulda scooped her up!!! She was 17........... do u know how she is
I feel so sorry for her and especially her parents. You can tell they want to be part of their grandsons life. His controlling her is only going to get worse as time goes on.
major red flag of an abuser to say isolate you from your family.
“We feel the hospital doesn’t accept unmarried teenage dads”. He’s so naive! They dont ask dads opinion regardless if you’re married or young or not. When I was in labor, no one asked my husband anything. And even if they did I wouldn’t care about his opinion. I never planned on an epidural but when the nurse saw my condition and recommended it, I jumped on it. My husband was there to comfort me, not make decisions on my behalf.
This is absolutely ingrained in him. I can imagine how his father talks to his mother. Jeesh
The thing is tho his dad seems like a good guy
He seems to be a very controlling boyfriend, the dad said it exactly right he is controlling her
He’s wearing an “I ♥️Hot Moms” to her parent’s house. If only that was the worst he does.
"They say It's painless & it's fine" haha from a man who already do like they are dying from a simple flu. Girl giving birth is like you went under a train and still are alive. But when you see your baby you forget everything. Much love girl. Btw to the mothers here. Who did you want by your side in the delivery room. I know i wanted my husband.
He is an abuser, how come TLC allows this to happen on national TV ???
I agree! They cancelled the show about adults adopting adults because that creepy guy was grooming the pregnant girl he brought over to ‘adopt’, so, idk why they just didn’t air the sections with Kylan and Jason! Smdh!
because it makes TLC money.
Cuz they don’t care they only want what gets them more views and more money
Birth is painless? HA! Lies!
I feel so sorry for her parents. You can see the pain and fear for their daughter and its killing them. They see jason for the monster he is and that's why jason wants to keep her away from her parents. He wants the birth to be about him only. He could care less about what she or her parents want. He is controlling her and it's disgusting and difficult to see.
exactly, I've never been so disgusted watching these videos. he's horrible, poor parents
My dad was this level of controlling with my mom. I can empathize with her poor parents.
GIRL WHO CARES HOW HE FEELS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY
Who told that lie both of mine were anything but painless. Bone breaking mind numbing should've remembered that for my second childbirth ain't no way is it television painless
What’s wrong with these kids?! Jason is a total embarrassment!
He needs to grow up. His parents need to stop giving him excuses.
Her dad seems so sweet 🥲 Jason is def controlling her
How disrespectful can this daughter be to her mom and parents like ofc they wanna be there and her saying “don’t answer” so she doesn’t look bad or feel guilty for remembering her moms words “I wanna be there”
I think it’s because she knows that Jason will take it out on her when he gets mad at her mom for stating how she wants to be there. It is disrespectful, but she’s scared about Jason’s reaction that she’ll have to deal with.
People don’t tend to act in ways that make sense and they tend to do things out of character for them when they’re being abused and manipulated like that. You can’t really blame her especially because she’s really a child and doesn’t really know up from down yet. What she needs is help and that boy needs to get away from her asap he is abusive and it’s only going to get worse.
I’m sure Kylen will be running to her parents when she and Jason are tired! This girl has no idea what’s involved having a baby and looking after him/her. It’s very sad to see children having children 😢
Based off of this and the other crap I’ve seen him in, he’s an abusive POS and she needs to get away from him asap.
This is heartbreaking for her parents …. I would hate to see my daughter loose her voice in a relationship…. I would hate for her to not be able to make medical decisions over her body and her babies body because she’s scared how her partner is going to react …
It couldn't happen. He would disappear without trace. Not my daughters, hell to the NO.
Perfect example of extreme coercive control
I hope she can pull herself out of this abusive situation sooner rather than later
One of the worst cases I've ever seen and in my job I've seen a lot of abuse
His parents must be so embarrassed and ashamed
Kylens parents are heartbroken, she will regret this for all her days
it scares me how calm and submissive she is to her bf but she has a voice all of a sudden when it comes to her parents ?? i hope she looks back at this video and realizes how delusional and sadd she sounds
It’s not surprising behavior considering she’s clearly being abused and manipulated. She’s so young too she probably doesn’t even see it for what it is yet. It’s really sad. She needs help.
I think she's also pretty low IQ..
I hate how a boy can make u tear away from your family….I pray she realizes soon he’s not the one and she gets back close with her parent before anything worse happens to her dad… this is not okay he’s so sick and the fact that he always speaks for her…. She has to realize
someone seriously needs to sit this man down and educate him.
Oh my god when she asked how’s your pregnancy Jason and he responded like it was a serious question 😅
She wouldnt even let her mom touch the belly to feel kicks :(
The babies father is astoundingly selfish! He’s more concerned with himself than his child and GF. Sickening how his parents stand by while he acts like a dictator in their home. 😬😞
my heart breaks for kylen and her mum. its so sad to see an amazing mother daughter bond be ruined just because of an abusive and controlling boy.
My heart hurts for you momma, she will grow out of this someday (I hope) I wish I would have listened to my dad better.
i dont understand why no parents are taking control of the situation. they are LITERAL children.. his obsession with “being involved” and being able to “make decisions” about HER pregnancy and birth process gives me the creeps
For real! Jason always barks that the baby is HIS, well….Kylen is her parents’ baby. And not just figuratively, she’s LITERALLY a minor. Their say trumps Jason’s. Jason infuriates me beyond belief. He’s a nightmare.
She's now as controlling to her parents as Jason is with her..really blind
She is not controlling at all. She is a mouse! She just wants them to shut up in front of the camera because she is embarrassed deep down that her man is controlling her. She doesn't want her family to realize how much control Jason has over her.
This is so awful to watch you can tell they're hurting so bad because they love her so much :(
Now I see why the nurses come in after birth when your alone to discuss domestic violence & support at home.
I give that couple 6 months before he leaves her for another teenage girl.
She can do so much better hopefully she'll get up the courage and the strength to leave him I hope and pray that she gets the help and realizes her worth because she is a human being
@@jessicamcneil3941 , when he knew thats she will look like her mother when she gets older he will cheat on her and continue to look for other young ladies, he will probably pray on his kid's friends.
No, he won't. He has total control over her. He won't give that up. She will leave him when she grows a backbone.
I hope he doesn't abuse the baby. Seriously worried for that little one.
She is just as controlling towards her own parents as he is towards her.
More likely then not he’s puppetering her. Abusers will straight up manipulate you to do shit like that and you won’t even realize it cause at the time you’ll think you’re doing the right thing. She needs help.
I feel so sorry for her. I have been her before and she feels like she is actually doing the right thing but she will regret it later in life!
If he is controlling her now like this then God help her for the rest of her life .
We all need to see Jason strapped to a labor contraction simulator turned up to high to move past this.
These guys live 30 minutes from me. Absolutely nuts.
Is he this terrible in real life!? : ( : P
It has nothing to do with being unmarried it has everything to do with the dad is not the one giving birth
but i bet the parents will be involved when they need bills paid and somewhere to sleep 😂😂😂😂
Why is TLC allowing abuse to happen
She has no issues sticking up to her parents but she is scared if that man, this is more than just verbal and emotional abuse
I’m 26, this is my first baby, and I absolutely need my mom to be there with me. My husband is definitely important, but my mom is my cheerleader and understands the pain I’ll be going through.
Congratulations on your baby!!! You got this!!!
@@wickidbloodymetalqueen7901 thank you so much! 🙏🥰
Jason gives me the creeps, she needs to run like hell 😩.
jason ''they say its painless and fine''
yeah birth is painless lmfaooo
I'm so sad for her...omg he is so mean...can't believe it...he talks about himself like he is the one going through it!I feel for Kylen's mom and dad.
For my daughter, it was just my husband and I. I had a doula to assist me. I hope, at the very least, the facility can provide her with one as they are advocates devoted to just mom and her needs.
CHILDREN HAVING BABIES!!!
Yeah it's happen everyday with different people in Americans same old things nothing have change
Young people choose to have sex. I hate this guy she date in he controlling her! 🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔
I would love if they put a contraction simulation belt on Jason. I bet he’d want an epidural! I would pay $ to see that 🤣🤣
Her parents are so sweet. I feel so bad for her mom
Young thug with a funky hairdo is too immature to call important life changing decisions like this.
He's like a spoiled 12 yr old. Every decision has to be his. Very controlling
She needs to run!!! He is horrible and mentale abusing her. She needs to open her eyes
This hurt so bad to watch… I would kill to have family…. Especially people who cared.. she doesn’t even realize brought me to tears
He is a jackass and he takes it on the mother of baby. She needs to stand up to him.
Ugh!!! Let him have the baby then. He’s annoying BIG TIME.. poor ignorant children… makes me laugh he’s making all the decisions. She said I need to grow up but she’s living with his parent’s.
I would see a brighter spark of humanlike wisdom and awareness from a family of bears.
Seriously, is everyone drunk or tired or something?
This is painful to watch. Everything that comes out of his mouth is absolutely wrong.
Kylen, if you see this, please get out. My ex-girlfriend’s ex-husband is a diagnosed narcissist. She went back again and again and last year, he tried to kill both of us. He’s now in jail and we are both lucky to be alive. You may not be as lucky. I see the narcissism in Jason. Please don’t do this to yourself.
Kylen is really not thinking or deciding for herself x Jason seems like he can be nice but very controlling at the same time, she needs to decide a birth plan for herself cause ultimately she is the one giving birth not him
Where’s Kaylen’s parents?! I just wanna give them a hug bc they don’t deserve to be treated like this
poor kylen she’s litreally being so severely abused and she dosent even realise the extent right now i hope her and the baby are doing well :(
i feel like her telling them to shushh is mostly because she doesn't want to face her emotions when they answer
One day when her mom & dad are gone she's gonna look back & regret pushing them away not everyone is lucky to have caring parents & she sadly treats hers poorly
she says “we” but she really means “he” because it seems like he decides and she complies
OMG those kids have no idea whats about to happen... and the boy speaking about how the labor will be easy and fun 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like I said.. no idea.. Also, listen to your parents, your mum wants to be there for her child and grandchild!!!
I feel so sad for her parents.
Watching jason and Kylen is so sad... I feel so bad for her parents especially with her dad being sick.. her poor mom. My mom passed away last year .. itll be 1 year that shes been gone on july 10th
And when her parents are dead and gone she will hate these decisions that she made.
My mom was my best friend.
I'm only 30. I'll miss my mom the rest of my life. Im so incredibly thankful my mother was alive to get to meet my daughter. My first and only daughter I had in 2018. And my mom was in the hospital. She wasnt in the room and that's ONLY** because I had to be rushed for an emergency c section and they said only 1 person could come so I brought my daughters father because it was his first baby aswell.. and it was an emergency c section because my daughters heart rated dropped so if she had passed away or something bad happened I wanted him to be there to see his daughter
I thought that was important. But she was healthy
As soon as I was wheeled to the recovery room.. not even my room but the little recover room right after leaving the operating room i had them go get my mom to come hold her and meet her. And she would have been in the room if I could have had 1 more person in the room with us.
I'll miss my mom forever.
Um, he seems to be pretty jealous that the birth isn’t going to be all about him. He seems like a spoiled toddler.
If my son were to have this attitude towards the mother of his child I would definitely feel like a failure as a parent.
I hope Kylen came out of all her weirdo- nus , stupidity , immaturity, lack of self love and aelf awareness and got rid of Jason!!!
I like how he keeps saying, “we” but he’s the one that’s making all the decisions and It’s only his opinion that matters.
His obs not evening thinking about her and what she wants. It's all about him and if he don't get what he wants he spits his dummy out of the pram. What a SELFISH BRAT HE IS. Who's the one that will be in labour and delivering the baby.
the way she looks at him after one of his rude comments breaks my heart!
Jason is annoying with his selfish attitude. Kylen parents cannot just sand still while Jason is doing whatever he thinks is best option.
i sooo agree with the father man it seems like jason controlling every little thing she can't make decision for herself
That boy thinks growing up means never seeing your parents anymore, and not taking wise counsel. And he thinks this birth is about him.
Everything's about him. Throws a tantrum about her wanting pain relief and afterwards won't let hold HIS son.
Why she looking to him like he know her body lol 😂
She looks to him for approval. Scary 😧!
That poor girl is letting him control her and she is going to end up with a traumatizing birth because he dictated everything. I know the hurt that her Parents are experiencing & I've been there myself but as small comfort she & baby boy WILL be back eventually. He doesn't care about her at all.. he's way too busy caring about himself. As tiny and young as she is she needs to be in the hospital in case there are complications and have pain control accessible. He's a jr abuser in training and her parents see what she doesn't.
Hospitals always direct everything towards the mom, she's the pregnant one, her body.
Wao... it's imposible to watch this video without getting mad. He is controlling her all the way and to a certain point she even admits it but isn't willing to speak up for what she truly wants.. she is afraid of what? Loosing that "gem" of a boyfriend? Sadly she'll look back and from what I've seen ,have a LOT of regrets.
Did this kid really say it’s painless and fun?!! WTF
Outrage always gets the views. Congrats on using an underage couple to get money
You don't wanna be "involved" you wanna CONTROL. There's a difference.
you can tell he has full control over everything she does, and she seems to like that too and the way she treats her parents is so bad
Circumcised fuck that nun of my boys got that done who would put a baby through that pain
Deadbeat father and the baby's not even born and this is saying something coming from me because I'm a 27 year old father myself
This is so sad. He is controlling lol.
That ‘boy’ is so controlling! And she is so naive!! She has a lot to learn & I hope she doesn’t stay with him. He seems like an abuser in the making.
Then don’t take any of their money or have them watch the baby.
Painless!?? He was told birthing is painless smh wow...
If I shushed my parents like that pregnant or not my mom would smack tf outta me