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  • Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
  • Lily and Lawrence have finally reached moving day into their new house, but Lawrence's attitude towards their new environment results in him laying down his strict and ridiculous rules of the house, which he himself doesn't follow!
    From season 5 episode 6.
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Комментарии • 490

  • @arirose5887
    @arirose5887 2 года назад +1367

    I must have missed the part where he laid down the law because all I saw was the three year old doing what she pleased and Lily not wanting to admit she was wrong.

    • @tokiepoke
      @tokiepoke 2 года назад +86

      i was about to say where’s the discipline? i know they’re both young and the babies are young but if my mom told me to go eat in the damn kitchen i would run my ass there and eat. no timeouts? for not listening? this is where the problem roots always. from childhood

    • @essvelaz
      @essvelaz 2 года назад

      He’s a selfish asshole & the first thing you come to the comment section to say is that the daughter isn’t doing what she’s told & lily wont admit that she’s wrong about a bed in the room? wow

    • @yermom420
      @yermom420 2 года назад +16

      That's all I ever see out of her I'm scared for her to have another kid

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry 2 года назад +7

      Same

    • @moparqween8824
      @moparqween8824 2 года назад +10

      She may do what she wants but that kid is definitely taken care of.

  • @chakragardner7163
    @chakragardner7163 2 года назад +1328

    This video was all the birth control I needed 😅

    • @lakita619
      @lakita619 2 года назад +4

      😂

    • @lianasoares8052
      @lianasoares8052 2 года назад +22

      Chakra Gardner, damn, I don’t blame Lawrence. I wouldn’t be able to have sex with my girl with 2 kids sleeping in the same room as ours.

    • @nice-ei5hr
      @nice-ei5hr 2 года назад +12

      This video is perfect for advertisment😂

    • @dejtv956
      @dejtv956 2 года назад +1

      😂😂

    • @mena5112
      @mena5112 2 года назад +3

      Amen

  • @emillie.2578
    @emillie.2578 2 года назад +1012

    Lilly is so immature for not wanting to admit she was wrong💀

    • @nancymorales2958
      @nancymorales2958 2 года назад +5

      I’m always wrong 😑 that’s why I say nothing. When I’m wrong I’ll just admit it . Do I get mad ? Yes but Ik it’s out of my chest and the situation can be fix 👍

    • @StayWoke1900.
      @StayWoke1900. 2 года назад +2

      Literally

    • @brooke.nelson
      @brooke.nelson 4 месяца назад +1

      even tho she's a mom she's still a kid. people who are 20 still aren't fully developed

    • @MissLadyG99
      @MissLadyG99 Месяц назад

      ​@@brooke.nelsonYep. The prefrontal cortex part of the human brain isn't fully developed until age 25 approximately.

  • @jaylahamilton964
    @jaylahamilton964 2 года назад +593

    I love how the grandma got both babies a toy❤️you can see the daughter look after the baby got a toy she hopes to get one as well that’s sweet of her

  • @inkedmomblu1510
    @inkedmomblu1510 2 года назад +329

    Girl admit when you are wrong. It’s ok! It shows humility and maturity

    • @DaveFerguson-vh5fn
      @DaveFerguson-vh5fn 3 месяца назад

      Can't show what you don't have though 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @itachiuchiha6876
    @itachiuchiha6876 Год назад +191

    Her mother being positive “look! You have a whole CORNER to put stuff!” 💀💀💀💀💀💀

  • @kaebee2443
    @kaebee2443 Год назад +59

    The grandma bringing gifts 🥹💕 and saying “I’m gonna be nosy now” lol she’s a cute and funny lady

  • @fairymay7486
    @fairymay7486 2 года назад +246

    The 3 year old can sleep in her own room i don't see the problem with that and also she needs more discipline

    • @kukinoris8941
      @kukinoris8941 2 года назад +9

      Ok that's you. Your personal opinion. But clearly he likes to see things clean and in order and wants space. What's wrong with wanting space in a room. Its crowded and leads to more mess.

    • @AcousticGString
      @AcousticGString 2 года назад +44

      @@kukinoris8941 your comment makes no sense to what FairyMay said. She didn't say a single thing about the dude wanting a clean house, she was talking about the 3 year old child who should be in her own room.

    • @keahithefieryone8513
      @keahithefieryone8513 2 года назад +2

      @@AcousticGString If anyone thinks a 3 yr old doesn't know how to power play.......

    • @tatianasantiago3296
      @tatianasantiago3296 2 года назад +1

      @@kukinoris8941 yes I’m like this

    • @Youre_dumb
      @Youre_dumb Год назад +3

      There are some social benefits that come with sleeping by your parents as you’re reared, however; it may also hinder the child’s independence going forward. Just something I learned in my educational psych class

  • @andafterallthistime
    @andafterallthistime 2 года назад +133

    I love his Mama lmao she's just seeing all the grief she got before & clapping her hands like, "Boy you are gettin' served a whole plate of what you dished me." She's very sweet to make them all feel included aswell. ❤

  • @chasitygreen3772
    @chasitygreen3772 2 года назад +768

    I don't see nothing wrong with him wanting the kids in their rooms or not eating on the new couch. He can because he is an adult. She is the one that said something about being a maid. He was the one up picking up the house while she was laying on the couch she didn't even get up to answer the door. She is use to her mom doing everything for her. It's going to be different now that she has her own household. She has to grow up

    • @alisha8586
      @alisha8586 2 года назад +19

      Lol he's a wacko that's what's wrong with him he seems like an overly obsessive controlling nut that freaks out over ever little thing hopefully he doesn't turn abusive towards them cause he seems very aggressive and quick to get angry. like someone who gets angry over a dish in the sink or walking around following your mother to collect the garbage from the gifts she got the kids he's wacky for sure

    • @kathrinekathrine
      @kathrinekathrine 2 года назад +23

      I agree with Lawrence. He works and pays the rent and bills. I can totally see why he got mad. He is the maid not Lilly. She doesn’t do anything Could even answer the door

    • @BMarie774
      @BMarie774 Год назад

      Why can’t he get the fuck up to answer the door? Why can’t he pick up the house? You’re seeing a small clip and assuming for some reason that he’s the one doing everything. Nah. Bullshit. He can get his lazy ass up too. He can tend the house too.

    • @uptownkoala305
      @uptownkoala305 Год назад +9

      @@alisha8586 But, think about his perspective. He pays the bills and has to deal with her mess. She does need to grow up.

    • @alisha8586
      @alisha8586 Год назад +4

      @@uptownkoala305 I'm pretty sure he's not the only one paying bills he's on a show that has nothing to do with him he's only on it because of her and her kids. and he still seems like an over obsessive aggressive person with the way he acts about every little thing

  • @brookebishop4654
    @brookebishop4654 2 года назад +115

    What a nice grandma a gift for mom and the girls.

  • @F95GHomestead
    @F95GHomestead 2 года назад +261

    just put her in her room its a new place everything is new she has to get use to it

  • @cherilynnsorensen3637
    @cherilynnsorensen3637 2 года назад +77

    Both of them are just so young to be holding down such huge responsibilities 20 year Olds two babies God bless their hearts

  • @madelynsage6465
    @madelynsage6465 2 года назад +60

    I don’t understand why this is the title. She was more in the wrong than he was. All he said was that he didn’t want a big mess, that’s not the same thing as expecting her to be a maid.

  • @CoolPotatoes1
    @CoolPotatoes1 2 года назад +17

    Her daughter is three, she needs to have her own room. Lily needs to quit babying her daughter

  • @charlotterhotilde7388
    @charlotterhotilde7388 2 года назад +89

    He’s not lazy . He picks up things too. I wouldn’t mind living with someone like that.

    • @judahhall
      @judahhall Год назад +3

      I mean after moving and carrying couches and boxes all day and being woken up in the night (probably) I’d be tired as well, the mom didn’t do much she just said to put things where they go

  • @lawrente
    @lawrente 2 года назад +221

    I knew better than to not listen to my step mother. My dad would back her up in a heart beat. She usually left disciplining me to him but would step up if needed. She was a great step mother and took care of me like she did her own children. Lily and Lawrence don't have to agree but they need to come to a decision together and present a United front to Aaliyah and LJ. Aliyah needs to learn that Lawrence is one of the authority figures and to follow his directions.

  • @shawniebee5969
    @shawniebee5969 2 года назад +37

    This relationship is not going to work, the daughter needs boundaries and structure. She is old enough to sleep in her own room put in a baby monitor and cut the apple into slices and sit her down at the table her hands are going to get very sticky and ruin the new couch.

  • @cewe2003
    @cewe2003 2 года назад +274

    This title is so misleading. Where did he express that he expects her to be a maid? I don’t really care for Lawrence but Lillly does whatever she wants whenever and however she wants to. She doesn’t listen to him at all. Yes, he has expectations but she most certainly isn’t following anything (not that I blame her). I often wonder how the heck they are making their relationship work. He is so aggressive and gets angry quickly while she is so laid back and honestly doesn’t care about a thing. I don’t get it.

    • @yermom420
      @yermom420 2 года назад +18

      He hasn't been allowed to really had a say Lily does what ever she wants and her parents back her so I don't think he doesn't care I think he thinks his opinion doesn't matter and that she doesn't appreciate him which is exactly what I see to. Plus she's home all day she should keep the house cleaned and make dinner I don't think that's being a maid. How did he grow up my kids will probably have the same expectations bc I did those things when they grew up and worked.

    • @blue_akira
      @blue_akira 2 года назад +2

      He scoffed when he noticed she didn't make him a coffee and proceeded to talk about not liking toys on the floor when they have two kids. The scene didn't go into deep details but just by witnessing and hearing those two things alone we can get an extent into how much he expects her to do off camera.

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 2 года назад +13

      @@blue_akira him not wanting toys left on the floor and to be picked up isn’t bad and she’s no angel either lmao

    • @laurencameron3150
      @laurencameron3150 2 года назад +9

      @@blue_akira I mean if they both drink coffee and she made some for herself, how hard would it have been for free to grab two cups instead of one?

    • @Youre_dumb
      @Youre_dumb Год назад

      Opposites attract?

  • @alostprincess1
    @alostprincess1 2 года назад +67

    As parent… or step parent… you see the kid blatantly not listen! How do you not physically escort them to the location you want them to sit while they eat, and you sit with them!?! I would have taken the apple & marched her bottom to the table. Not that hard 🙄

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 2 года назад +6

      why sit with the child???
      she can eat the Apple by herself on the couch,so she can also eat by herself in the dinning area....
      its not like she sits all allone...

    • @xiomarasanabria4263
      @xiomarasanabria4263 2 года назад

      Correct, if not I would of thrown the apple away

  • @dameishafields8365
    @dameishafields8365 2 года назад +33

    "Lawrence can't know that I was wrong." Childish

  • @biancaijezie883
    @biancaijezie883 2 года назад +122

    She needs more discipline

    • @Moonlava722
      @Moonlava722 2 года назад +4

      Yes ! For real.

    • @livylu6287
      @livylu6287 2 года назад +6

      Super nanny would have her in timeout so fast! 😂

  • @DB-vt1kk
    @DB-vt1kk 2 года назад +179

    That little girl did whatever she wanted 🙄 🍎 😂

    • @lifewithyana2924
      @lifewithyana2924 2 года назад +7

      LMFAO she made me laugh, do ya thing

    • @Mila-er6ms
      @Mila-er6ms 2 года назад +6

      It's all fun and games now until she hits a teen

    • @cp2342
      @cp2342 Год назад

      Lawrence was so out of it knew it wasn’t going to work so stopped talking. 😂

  • @ricardslodge
    @ricardslodge 2 года назад +40

    When I first got my own place, I about died when my mum put her cup of tea on the side without a coaster 🤣. The novelty soon wears off

  • @brittneyconner2117
    @brittneyconner2117 2 года назад +16

    Laurance said he has no authority in the house. That why you don't step in to a ready made family. 💯

  • @soniarican6275
    @soniarican6275 2 года назад +60

    Okay she’s 3 🤔 umm 🤨 yeah …. She should be in her own room with a Baby Monitor that has a Camera that way it’s easier to check on her …. Their 2 kids being in their room just isn’t going to work , consider your Love Life Gone sweetheart cuz that’s exactly what’s going to happen if you continue to keep both kids in your bedroom 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ oh another thing he likes things clean and neat and it seems as if there is Zero Discipline with the 3yr old 😑😒

  • @natalieoliver3215
    @natalieoliver3215 2 года назад +82

    Oh no, not in my house is a 3yo going to dominate me. Also,I can't believe how expensive rent is in America, especially when most of the houses are made of wood. Here in the UK, your looking to pay between 450-900

    • @theshannan4967
      @theshannan4967 2 года назад +9

      It really just depends on where you live. My rent is nowhere near $2500.

    • @natalieoliver3215
      @natalieoliver3215 2 года назад +1

      @@theshannan4967 the wages we get over wouldn't even touch that kind of rent.

    • @issypacanins6250
      @issypacanins6250 2 года назад +8

      Where are you renting that is that low, I share with 3 other people and have never paid under 450 lol

    • @juliahorvath4129
      @juliahorvath4129 2 года назад

      Yea where I live it’s a whole 4 bedroom house for 1600$/month

    • @Marsiii.
      @Marsiii. 2 года назад +3

      Jeez- 1 bedroom for where I live can be from 1,610-3,195. Some Two bed two baths are a little over 5K😬😬😬

  • @princezgeekchic3690
    @princezgeekchic3690 2 года назад +262

    I think a quick fix to Larwence's problem with the bedroom is simply to get a nicely priced comfortable airbed and then sleep in the second bedroom until the kids "adjust". Let her keep the beds in there as long as she wants, and he can have a bedroom to himself in the meantime. If she has to deal with the kids by herself, trying to get them to sleep every night, I feel that she would change her mind in a week, two tops.

    • @alyssakwenton1873
      @alyssakwenton1873 2 года назад

      Then they shouldn’t be together periodt they both have fixing to do not just her he is the problem too he talks to the damn kid like he would talk to a dog like idgaf how disgusted you are about a apple being eaten on the couch you gotta realize that kids are gonna make messes and he didn’t just committed to the girl he also committed to the kid so treat the fuckin kid right yeah she gets her way she only fuckin three you just don’t need any damn kids periodt

    • @lashaeleaf8842
      @lashaeleaf8842 2 года назад +14

      Agreed 💯💯 My child slept in her own room in her crib at 1. I keep a baby tv monitor in her room so that we could keep an eye on her.

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 2 года назад +109

    They have a two bedroom place, yes? So grownups in one, babies in the other. Simple enough.
    If you can't admit to being wrong, this marriage is doomed.

    • @gennbenn
      @gennbenn Год назад

      Fr my man and i got a 2 bedroom for our two kids

  • @Ashley-bm9gc
    @Ashley-bm9gc 2 года назад +71

    Why is a 3 year old eating a whole apple like that anyway? Her little mouth can barely take a bite. Cut the apple up into slices, put it on a plate and maybe sit her down at the table and have her eat it if it bothers him so much. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 2 года назад +6

      some Kids like it that way,nothing wrong with it....
      they are no babies when 3 years old.

    • @sailormoonXx
      @sailormoonXx 2 года назад

      Legit ate apples that way as a kid but I get what you're saying

    • @Ashley-bm9gc
      @Ashley-bm9gc 2 года назад +1

      @@mikivanduyn9630 Not about what they like. They are kids. It's more effective to eat it that way and at 3 her mouth is still tiny. 3 years olds are still toddlers.

  • @spiritualeefeminine8075
    @spiritualeefeminine8075 2 года назад +18

    Awe Grandma is so sweet

  • @xxxstronggirlxxx9532
    @xxxstronggirlxxx9532 2 года назад +19

    Where's the dad of the other child?

  • @maryb106
    @maryb106 2 года назад +65

    I’m sooo proud of you Lawrence for stepping up ❤️❤️
    Even though he’s a bit OCD lol

  • @kenny2173
    @kenny2173 2 года назад +91

    I really think it’s a culture thing.. Black ppl are some of the MOST cleanest ppl. Even the men, we have a designated day to clean which is usually Sunday. Lol. I cannot stand a dirty house drives me crazy. Don’t even sleep on my couch.. take your shoes off at the door.

    • @lotus-qg1px
      @lotus-qg1px Год назад

      Same with Asians

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl Год назад

      You need to stop lying. There are plenty of nasty black ppl. Has nothing to do with race.

    • @henriettalopez38
      @henriettalopez38 4 месяца назад

      I feel this 100%. I’m black and my bf is Hispanic where traditionally the women do EVERYTHING. We fight all the time about me living in his filth bc it’s that or be a damn near maid

  • @Ready-ForTheEnd
    @Ready-ForTheEnd Год назад +7

    The way the little girl says "mom" when he told her to go into the kitchen. She does not see him as her father that's for sure. She knows he's not her dad and she's gonna use that to her advantage. His mom should have warned him not to take in another man's child unless he was really serious about the girl enough to marry her and adopt her child. The mom (lily) has no respect for him and neither does her daughter.

  • @kareemtaylor9623
    @kareemtaylor9623 2 года назад +13

    I've never seen this show before except for clips on this channel. I don't know how long these two been married already but I don't see them making it to ten years married.

  • @kingDrAgOnZoRdS
    @kingDrAgOnZoRdS 2 года назад +75

    This ain’t gonna last, But good luck tho.

    • @soniarican6275
      @soniarican6275 2 года назад +23

      Especially if she’s going to be using the kids as an excuse as to why there is a Mess or making excuses for there Not being any Discipline when it comes to the kids, He seems way more Clean & seems to have way more structure than her 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @NBC09
      @NBC09 2 года назад +3

      AT ALL!! She’s messy and he like thing s neat!

    • @cassandraarcos298
      @cassandraarcos298 2 года назад

      @@NBC09 she’s messy? Or the kids are? There’s multiple children of different ages she can’t be in 2 places at the same time. Sometimes there’s gonna be a piece of trash sitting there for an hour or 2 before it gets picked up

    • @Handlemenice
      @Handlemenice Год назад

      @@cassandraarcos298 excuses your house must be a pig pen.

  • @alessandrajackson3768
    @alessandrajackson3768 2 года назад +159

    This man seems to think life revolves around him. The second you have a child, life needs to revolve around them.

    • @lianasoares8052
      @lianasoares8052 2 года назад +11

      Alessandra Jackson, so allow her to eat in the living room.

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 2 года назад +46

      a child should not run the household,but the parents...

    • @entertainmeimboredplease4250
      @entertainmeimboredplease4250 2 года назад +11

      Kids need to follow rules simple as that..please don't have children of your own, an if you do god bless America your done.

    • @kara1782
      @kara1782 2 года назад +8

      @MY YT I can tell you’re from the red pill/ Kevin Samuel side of RUclips. Scary to think there are actually people like this in the world. I feel bad for the woman and children who will have to “serve” a “master” like you. Relationships shouldn’t be built on control, they should be built on love. But undoubtedly these words are wasted on someone with your mindset.

    • @whi1870
      @whi1870 2 года назад +1

      He’s the man of the house.

  • @jamesrobers3351
    @jamesrobers3351 2 года назад +31

    The law was not laid.

    • @scoopitywoop
      @scoopitywoop 2 года назад +5

      No one is getting laid in that marriage

  • @pmc8119
    @pmc8119 2 года назад +16

    Someone needs to grow up! If anyone is a maid, it's the husband!

    • @xIndicaxHigh
      @xIndicaxHigh 2 года назад +1

      No, Lily needs to take on the role of being a traditional woman. That is what Lawerance is asking lily to do. He just confirmed that he is the highest earner of the household by confirming paying the entire rent to keep a roof above Lily's and his kid's head. Lily is expected to take on the household chores and making sure the children are fed and taken care of. He doesn't have the time to take on the Traditional Housewife role plus be The Provider role at the same time. That is exhausting and can't be done at the same time. Most of us can already tell the relationship is a shitshow already. This is why kids can't be mothers/fathers in their teenager years. They both were very ignorant and not ready to take the responsibility.

  • @candiet1506
    @candiet1506 2 года назад +17

    I do not agree that he wanted her to be his maid. I can understand that if he's at work all day and she's at home then she can cook and clean the house. It's nothing wrong with that.

  • @tojiswifue7244
    @tojiswifue7244 Год назад +2

    That girl acts like her momma. She is spoiled.

  • @thegreedytaurus2900
    @thegreedytaurus2900 2 года назад +24

    That grandma look at 7:37 😂😂😂

  • @MaryjanezMom420
    @MaryjanezMom420 5 месяцев назад +2

    “I’m gonna pretend I love it, Cuz Lawerence can’t know I was wrong”
    ME!! 😂😂💀

  • @g0thic_racoon649
    @g0thic_racoon649 2 года назад +66

    I wouldn’t let my kids talk to me like that, that’s just me tho

    • @moarmyforever929
      @moarmyforever929 2 года назад +7

      I mean...she's a child...she wasn't yelling either.

    • @user-jj4zb5jd6r
      @user-jj4zb5jd6r 2 года назад +10

      @@moarmyforever929 I find yelling better than speaking disrespectfully with an attitude.

    • @moarmyforever929
      @moarmyforever929 2 года назад +6

      @@user-jj4zb5jd6r She's what...3? She's a child for gods sake, what attitude are you even talking about? Dis respectfully? At least she didn't throw a whole tantrum, she just stood her ground.

    • @user-jj4zb5jd6r
      @user-jj4zb5jd6r 2 года назад +8

      @@moarmyforever929 3 years old or 3 months old idc...when you show your children their behavior is wrong, you let them know and correct it so they learn young.....and then parents later wonder why their 18 yo disrespects them.

    • @user-jj4zb5jd6r
      @user-jj4zb5jd6r 2 года назад +4

      @@moarmyforever929 and also, this whole "at least they didn't...." attitude is wrong. If a kid does something wrong, don't let it pass because there are worst things they could've done.

  • @leahwilson8982
    @leahwilson8982 Год назад +5

    “Lawrence can’t know that I was wrong.” Wow so immature lmfao 😂

  • @Chosenones572
    @Chosenones572 2 года назад +57

    1-this child needs discipline
    2-this young lady should back him up when he's trying to implement structure that he clearly has had
    3-they will never have a healthy intimate relationship if the children are in the same bedroom. Then she'll wonder why he cheated later on SMH
    4. She was that close to the door and didn't want to answer it??! She might be a little lazy

    • @alessandrajackson3768
      @alessandrajackson3768 2 года назад +15

      I agree. But it’s gross that you think that there is an excuse for cheating. Guys who want to cheat will cheat, it doesn’t matter how much sex you have or what you do.

    • @Chosenones572
      @Chosenones572 2 года назад +2

      @@alessandrajackson3768 i don't think that there should be an excuse for cheating, but i do know that this is one of the reasons that some may do it. She might be sitting there trying to figure it out or where she went wrong. It's a sorry excuse, but it happens

    • @alessandrajackson3768
      @alessandrajackson3768 2 года назад +8

      @@Chosenones572 I’m aware. But at the end of the day. He wanted to go raw, he gave her two kids. That’s 18 months of her life she spent carrying his kids. She’s very immature, but he decided to build a family with her. If he cheats, it is definitely his fault.

    • @Chosenones572
      @Chosenones572 2 года назад

      @@alessandrajackson3768 yes and she is provoking him as well

    • @kara1782
      @kara1782 2 года назад

      @@alessandrajackson3768 Wtf I’m sorry but did I miss a biology lesson or something? How does two black male sperms and two white female egg makes two white babies 👶???

  • @stuff9172
    @stuff9172 2 года назад +10

    If he doesn't like mess too bad cuz he has kids and he has get use to a lot of it.

  • @jmg4881
    @jmg4881 2 года назад +83

    Oh, I see trouble ahead. He has double standards, he can eat on the couch but no one else can! The wife backed him up on his rule but how will she explain his hypocrisy to the children? If you say one thing and do another they will do what you do. His mother well and truly has her nose stuck in their marriage - “so she won the argument” he obviously has invited her in. As for him paying for everything, if she died tomorrow let’s see how he would cope. Much counseling ahead for this family and possibly damaged kids. I do hope for the best though.

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 2 года назад +29

      they are the adults,Kids dont have the same privilege as an adult...

    • @justright.1836
      @justright.1836 2 года назад +24

      Double standard? Children and adults are two very different things there are a plethora of things that adults can do that children cannot and not all of those differences are as extreme as an adult drinking or a child drinking sometimes it’s as minuscule as…
      an adult being able to eat on the couch and a child not being able to do the same I grew up not being allowed to eat on the couch because the reality is no matter how hard you try kids will make a mess and while adults do often times make messes they are able to clean it up thoroughly whereas a young child especially a three-year-old wouldn’t be able to clean up the mess correctly this is not a double standard issue this is just a basic issue of parents having rules in their home…
      when I got a bit older like 12 I was allowed to eat on the couch if I made a mess I cleaned it up simple if we had family night they would alter the rules a bit adults on the couch children on the carpet… so please get off your high horse

    • @Girlsauce333
      @Girlsauce333 2 года назад +10

      Adults pay the bills and can do whatever they want. Kids are kids and need to follow what adult tells them to do. Kids make messes. Adults are less likely to spill something on the couch. There's a reason kids aren't allowed to drive a car and adults are. With your logic kids would be allowed to drive cars since adults can. The adults wouldn't be able to drive because they tell the kids they can't get behind the wheel. Do you not see the logic here?

    • @ruben5146
      @ruben5146 2 года назад +5

      You had to comment this can’t you just be quiet for once,,, kids are messy when they eat and even if you teach them how to eat properly they’ll still make a mess

    • @cutiepumpchickns414
      @cutiepumpchickns414 2 года назад +8

      How is simply telling a kid not to eat on the couch gonna cause family issues ? I thought that was a normal rule every family follows. She’s 3 she’s bound to spill food or whatever on the couch so ofc he’s gonna say sit at the table. This comment was jus rlly dumb lol

  • @josettwatters2217
    @josettwatters2217 2 года назад +13

    How I lost that mom and she really such a good man I love how she walked and have some treats both those babies just like their her grandchildren no favorites That's how it should be I hope it works out for them

  • @Ready-ForTheEnd
    @Ready-ForTheEnd Год назад +26

    And this is why she is a baby mama. Just combative and prideful against the person who is suppose to be your partner for no reason at all.

  • @Beeboop7
    @Beeboop7 2 года назад +62

    Lmao she's a grown child not a CAT she doesn't need time to "adjust". There are many children out there who would be THRILLED to have their own bedroom in a nice new house, I was one of them.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 2 года назад +1

      Cats need time to adjust? Do you have kids?

    • @jfhfhfhhhdjfhf563
      @jfhfhfhhhdjfhf563 2 года назад

      I can see you don’t have children

    • @Beeboop7
      @Beeboop7 2 года назад

      @@CrystalM1917 I do, I have two. They never complained about thier new rooms when we moved ( a few times). Not the first move or any after that. They were actually VERY excited each time to sleep in thier new rooms. And yeah, cats get very uncomfortable in new environments and apparently need to get adjusted in a small space with things they know (old toys old bed etc).

    • @amariahlovelace5113
      @amariahlovelace5113 Год назад

      @@Beeboop7 just because your children were excited, doesn’t speak for all children. Especially when the child is used to sleeping in the same room as their parent(s). I will say, her head was not on straight when she thought all of that was going to fit comfortably in one room.

  • @avisgreen32
    @avisgreen32 Год назад +3

    He looks miserable that little girl is hard headed asf😂😂

  • @whi1870
    @whi1870 2 года назад +19

    Parents (husband/wife) need alone time and intimacy for their relationship to work. Why would they be sleeping in the same room as their baby and adolescent child. This is why people break up after having kids

  • @briannataylor2964
    @briannataylor2964 2 года назад +3

    I don’t see what he did was wrong he doesn’t see her as a “maid” he just wants her to literally grow tf up.

    • @briannataylor2964
      @briannataylor2964 2 года назад

      She is immature to not admit she was wrong. I understand Lawrence rules bc he doesn’t want the place to be messy especially after paying so much in rent.

  • @ONLYB_JOURNEY
    @ONLYB_JOURNEY Год назад +4

    classic grandma move, give gifts to the grandkids and look around the house
    yes

  • @chessicaambrose2014
    @chessicaambrose2014 Год назад +4

    I love Lily’s mom and Lawrence’s mom too

  • @ImnotassweetasIusedtobe
    @ImnotassweetasIusedtobe 2 года назад +35

    The woman at 3:50 when Kim is saying that 3 beds in a room makes sense is like "okay lady, you sound nuts" but trying not to say it. What a mess. Lawrence acts like a child, and Lily also needs to grow up some. But Lawrence's misogyny is a problem.

    • @lianasoares8052
      @lianasoares8052 2 года назад +8

      GK, damn, I don’t blame Lawrence. I wouldn’t be able to have sex with my girl with 2 kids sleeping in the same room as ours.

    • @xIndicaxHigh
      @xIndicaxHigh 2 года назад +7

      Thats not misogyny asking Lily to be the Traditional Woman.
      After he just said that he pays the bills to keep all 3 a roof over thier head and gave the confirmation that he is the highest earner in the household. Paying 2300 for rent to keep a roof over both kids and lily's head.
      If he's working all day an making sure the bills are paid and food on the table. Lily is 100% Obligated/Expected to make sure the kids an the house is taken care of. He doesn't have the energy or time after working 60 hour workdays to do Lily's role. Lily's accountability and attitude problem is a huge red flag and
      She is the prime reason why this generation at that age will be terrible mothers.

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 2 года назад

      How’s that “misogynistic” when he’s the one working and she’s the one staying at home? Whoever stays home should take care of the house and the kids obviously but since it’s “misogyny” for a women to stay home and be lazy lmao

  • @BlueBabyAkaAj
    @BlueBabyAkaAj 2 года назад +4

    I hate when a man complains about all this money he spending on his family. Boy bye

  • @kimberlyevans1274
    @kimberlyevans1274 2 года назад +12

    His mom says it is his house. I think the house is his wife's house and his children's house too which is their home.

    • @cassandraarcos298
      @cassandraarcos298 2 года назад +5

      Exactly only reason he’s paying that much rent by himself is cause he wants her to raise the children so she obviously can’t be in 2 places at the same time aka Work and home.

    • @bubbles7398
      @bubbles7398 2 года назад

      @@cassandraarcos298 well also she’s most likely end up working to pay for daycare unless family watches them. Why work just to end up paying for childcare? That wouldn’t even make sense to do.

    • @christinebutler7630
      @christinebutler7630 2 года назад

      If she's a housewife, it is his house. He who pays the Piper calls the tune. If she wants to be equal, she needs a job.

    • @bubbles7398
      @bubbles7398 2 года назад +8

      @@christinebutler7630 technically she does have a job. A stay at home parent if paid for everything they do would have an annual salary of about $41,500. That’s compared to people who have similar jobs that a stay at home parent does. It’s her house too because if it wasn’t she wouldn’t live there or do anything and most apartments make all adults be on the lease making both have equal rights to be there regardless of who pays. Another reason would be why would she work to just pay for childcare if no family would watch the kids?

  • @alisalaska1786
    @alisalaska1786 Год назад +3

    Wow that’s an entitled man. Being a stay at home mom pays the rent too. 🙄 If you can’t pay for childcare, that tells you right there how much watching kids is worth.

  • @neiciegee8229
    @neiciegee8229 2 года назад +17

    That's way too much 💩

    • @lianasoares8052
      @lianasoares8052 2 года назад +1

      NEICIE GEE, damn, I don’t blame Lawrence. I wouldn’t be able to have sex with my girl with 2 kids sleeping in the same room as ours.

  • @alexisthompson4526
    @alexisthompson4526 2 года назад +6

    He looks miserable

  • @shirmayaeats7443
    @shirmayaeats7443 2 года назад +6

    Just cause he pay rent he act like it’s his house or get out. That’s not how a father should be with his family. He want authority so he need to talk to his girl about that not say how he feel just in the confessional

  • @cc2016
    @cc2016 2 года назад +7

    Doesn't seem like he's going to be a kind step father to that little girl..

    • @kukinoris8941
      @kukinoris8941 2 года назад +13

      What do you mean. The child being a spoiled brat is his fault?? The child lacking discipline is his fault?? The mother not knowing how to discipline and lay ground rules is his fault?

  • @elmasabanovic4673
    @elmasabanovic4673 2 года назад +16

    She picks out the wrong and distasteful men on god ….

    • @kukinoris8941
      @kukinoris8941 2 года назад

      He is a problem for wanting to be clean?? He picked the wrong woman.

  • @chevellerevero9316
    @chevellerevero9316 2 года назад +3

    This guys attitude pisses me off he doesn’t understand being a mother sometimes you don’t have time to clean up messes like me and my boyfriend of six years he’s been there comforting me he would never talk back to me like that he would help me clean up he wouldn’t complain nothing this guy something else fr

  • @tinyturquoise94
    @tinyturquoise94 2 года назад +6

    I'm a minimalist and I have a four bedroom house with two bedrooms empty as I moved from a two bedroom to an actual house. I refuse to own a lot because this type of situation.

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 2 года назад +3

      if you have 2 empty bedrooms,you are not an minimalist...
      you just dont have that much stuff....
      a real minimalist would move to a smaller place.

    • @tinyturquoise94
      @tinyturquoise94 2 года назад +2

      @@mikivanduyn9630 not when you're forced to live in a certain house because your husband's job pays for the rent for you. I wouldn't be living in a huge house with empty rooms if it were up to me. But rent is free. I just use the extra rooms to foster animals for the local shelter until they can find a family. I just always hated the idea of having a ton of stuff. I like the idea of being able to pick up and leave easily as I have done that most of my life.

  • @arbitrarylib
    @arbitrarylib 2 года назад +12

    Lawrence is so entitled and bitter about the rent. I hope I never date a man like that. And his mom is an enabler

  • @neptune5845
    @neptune5845 Год назад +2

    Not wanting to lose a fight between you and your partner is literally what breaks you guys apart! Don’t sit there and try to act like you’re right all the time and try to act like you always make good decisions when in reality, nobody does! it takes a real woman and a man to fess up and say when they’re wrong even for small things like that. I hate being wrong, but I hate it even more when it hurts me and my boyfriend. So next time you realize you’re wrong, do the right thing and apologize and say he was wrong. It doesn’t matter how big or how small it is it matters if I actually brings emotions to the both of you that are positive.❤

  • @gedenironald8635
    @gedenironald8635 2 года назад +3

    I like disciplined kids. Also, this young man is making it sound like because he pays the rent then everyone must follow the rules he set. That's is not how you creating a loving and peaceful home.

  • @Authenticallyathena
    @Authenticallyathena 2 года назад +6

    If you have a two bedroom apartment, why would you put your kids in your bedroom? That makes literally no sense. Too young to be parents, too young to be playing house, too young for all this shit. The immaturity is to die for... Inability to take responsibility and to straight out say I can't let him know I was wrong... This won't last, and I assume then end will be good and ugly.
    I don't think this dude realizes he has very small children. Messes come with the territory, him losing his shit over her eating a whole apple is just ridiculous. First of all that should be cut for her little self, and secondly, you can't spill much with an apple since it's so intact... Ugh

  • @allexisgreen9491
    @allexisgreen9491 2 года назад +4

    Man girl put her in her own room! They won’t adapt if you don’t make these changes she’s young AND old enough to be in her own room, mom needs to teach her kids to listen to their father, I would’ve said “what did daddy just say” ain’t no “mom” expecting a different result were a team!

  • @ny8997
    @ny8997 2 года назад +11

    2400 in rent they could get a house for less than that

  • @omadjourney
    @omadjourney 2 года назад +14

    Welp,she got the same BM.

  • @Shellxo420
    @Shellxo420 Год назад +1

    If she don’t put that baby in her own room, she’s doing too much!

  • @keppingitreal9594
    @keppingitreal9594 2 года назад +4

    This relationship is not going to last 😵😳

  • @tamiko_8369
    @tamiko_8369 2 года назад +3

    Girl get up and and answer the door 🙄 I’m with him I hate a mess!! Your mama ain’t helping you no more! That little girl would have got snatched! You and your girl need to be on the same page. Watch super nanny 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @lifewithyana2924
    @lifewithyana2924 2 года назад +9

    LMFAOOO the little girl made me laugh, do your thing cutie pie

  • @KATHLEENPHALL
    @KATHLEENPHALL 2 года назад +3

    Lily is honestly gross . She jumps from man to man . Watch once lawrence is gone there will be a new man .

  • @chantalmartel4721
    @chantalmartel4721 2 года назад +4

    Like daughter like parents.🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Rosiecat677
    @Rosiecat677 Год назад +2

    If you tell your baby not to eat on the couch and she still does, after a warning or two, take away the apple. The baby will learn not to eat there after that. Can't let the baby do whatever she pleases

  • @angr3819
    @angr3819 Год назад +3

    He has to set an example about where to eat by following the rules he sets.

  • @t.e.m.i7364
    @t.e.m.i7364 2 года назад +4

    Not admitting ur wrong that’s pretty childish for an a duly with two kids lol

  • @itsjustmeflo8684
    @itsjustmeflo8684 2 года назад +3

    @6:04 I can tell Lawrence mom want to say a lot.

  • @amybess
    @amybess 2 года назад +5

    Sandy is my favorite in the storyline

  • @babibrii
    @babibrii 2 года назад +22

    The fact that little girl doesn’t Listen to her father at all didn’t sit right with me. When she was eating that apple on the couch and he told her not to and she did any way that made me want to first take it from her then tear her little legs up. Lilly needs to do better in correcting her daughter when she’s not listening. That part pissed me off so much.

    • @juanitacolette5766
      @juanitacolette5766 2 года назад

      thats not her dad

    • @angr3819
      @angr3819 Год назад +1

      So many of you in the USA are nasty brutal to your children. Even little children. Taking the apple away and telling her to sit at the table with it is one thing. "tearing her little legs up"?! You're a bluddy sadistic bully - no doubt raised by sadistic bullies.

    • @babibrii
      @babibrii Год назад

      @@angr3819 lol I bet your kids call you a bitch. I never hit my son but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to sometimes when he’s being a bad ass. Take ur sensitive ass to bed ! Read slower clearly English isn’t your first language. “It makes me WANT TO” not I’m GOING TO. Take several seats.

  • @Diana734
    @Diana734 Год назад +1

    They need to get a house instead of paying that kind of rent. The kids need to go to daycare and the parents need to work and budget for at max 5 years for a down payment.

  • @SRN625
    @SRN625 2 года назад +3

    I don't have kids but is it normal that your kids sleep with you in your room? My cousin let's her son sleep with in her bed and I slept on my mom's bed till I was about 10.. my dad would always get mad about it and ask that I go back to my room and I thought he was just cruel.. so what's normal what's not? I notice in America it's like the norm to have your own room since you're born right?

  • @PRINCESS2527
    @PRINCESS2527 2 года назад +9

    Wow she’s so feminine and kind and non masculine and so helpful 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @judahhall
    @judahhall Год назад

    I like how they’re blocking out toys

  • @audhdcreativity5899
    @audhdcreativity5899 2 года назад +7

    It's going to be hard because you have a "do as I say, not as I do" attitude. Kids don't automatically follow rules. They have to learn it, so you have to say it again and again. If he wasn't so lazy and realized his responsibility now is his kids, he would walk her over to the kitchen while explaining the rule, and he would pick up the things that make his head explode instead of asking a fulltime mom of a new born or is fully prego, especially if she's your baby mama and you want a close family, not a dictatorship.

    • @lexluthor4321
      @lexluthor4321 2 года назад

      Did we see the same clip? He was straightening up while she lays on the couch in her pajamas yelling for him to get the door. A newborn is 3 mo and under and she is not a new mom, she needs to get her ass up and clean and discipline her child since it seems she doesn’t see him as an authority figure. Especially if she’s not paying any bills, if you want to be a SAHM you need to take care of home!

    • @Ready-ForTheEnd
      @Ready-ForTheEnd Год назад

      @@lexluthor4321
      Agreed.

  • @ONLYB_JOURNEY
    @ONLYB_JOURNEY Год назад +2

    there's nothing wrong with telling your kids to eat in the kitchen, some families are like that
    my aunt is, she has a huge nice house and doesn't like people eating in the living room, thats just being a parent thats not controlling and did y'all see the apple wasn't cut up, getting all the apple juices on the couch

  • @ninagutierrez5759
    @ninagutierrez5759 2 года назад +1

    There are two different parenting skills here. These two won’t last that long together. They are not ready for kids either.

  • @veesancez
    @veesancez 2 года назад +2

    She's something really ppl shouldn't have kids

  • @Puuuurrrr
    @Puuuurrrr 2 года назад +8

    This man is all set up and got his priorities and boundaries in order!! He deserves better than that spoilt brat of a woman

  • @KimberlyGrayxoxoxo
    @KimberlyGrayxoxoxo 2 года назад +1

    raising kids and cleaning a house is 2.5 jobs.
    i have even heard men say that they rather work then be at home with kids because they say its easier.

  • @Sandra.-.
    @Sandra.-. 2 года назад +2

    Where did he say he expects her to be a maid? For all the things shown here, that's all you picked? Hmmm stereotyping and biases...

  • @pokelover223
    @pokelover223 2 года назад +7

    That’s laying the law?

  • @Harlynn2194
    @Harlynn2194 2 года назад +1

    Aaliyah with her strawberry short cake teddy omg 😩😩😩 so freaking cute