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My friend doesn’t know how to swim and when I tell her she needs get some swimming classes she refuses I have to show her this part of the video because I don’t want her get at that point.
@Future Friend i dont think so. I have toppers in my class and neither of them are responsible lol. During our group assignments, they end up throwing the work on us so that they can escape from much work. Am average compared to them and i feel like am more responsible. You shouldnt judge a person by his/her grades because a well educated engineer can also commit a crime.
same, you can start by doing things you as a child didn't do it. Go play in a park, be around other kids. Write a letter to yourself, when you were a child, saying how proud you are and that you don't feel ashamed of them. Hope this help you
That's so true. In the end all of it is thrown out of the window because we have search engines like google and siri to do the job for us. After all it isn't what we learned from school that gives us the job or helps us do better but how we can put that knowledge to use and how we express our creativity. Big waste of time this all really is especially since school was created during the industrial stage where working at factories were becoming a big thing. Main reason why you have to sit in rows and follow orders when given. May not be news to a lot of people but just thought I'd get that out there. Best of luck to all of you! If you ever feel down let someone know :).
If you question life itself and things in life like grades you're smarter than a lot of people because a lot of people blindly do as told without really questioning.
a friend asked me if he could spend the night at my house, i said no because my parents didn't wanted too on a week day. a few days later, I learned that he got hospitalized after getting beat up by his father
It could of still happened even if you were there. That monster could of even killed you if you tried to stop it. Or he would of done it a different night. Im sorry for your loss. I wish for you to find peace and never bottle your emotions. Hugs from Canada 💗💗💗💗💗💗
Here's my secret When I was in school (from about fourth to ninth grade) there was a girl a year younger then me. We all thought she was weird but I was still hanging out with her sometimes. She loved playing with other's hair and since I love that I let her play with mine. We weren't really friends but we weren't strangers either. I remember when I was in eight grade and she found my picture of me on a chess competition online with a caption "just as beautiful as you're now". I thought that was really nice. Last summer I found out she was hit by a train. Some even say it was a suicide. Even tho I didn't know her well I still cried. I just wish I wouldn't bother with everyone's opinions and just kept her company. I wish I contacted her more often. I wish I was there for her and maybe she would play with my hair one more time. I miss you Ajda, rest in peace ❤️
@@tunaarmann No, she wasn't. I'm from Slovenia and Ajda is a popular name here. People of the old religion were called "Ajdi" (in English it would be "Ajds" so "Ajd" for singular). And Ajda is just a female version of it 😊
A child is molested for years and comes to her father for protection but he tells her to be quiet about it and that her body is for men!!! This broke my heart...may God judge him
There's so many people like this.. way more than you can probably imagine. I feel really blessed to have parents who believed me. I can't believe there are parents who don't believe their own flesh and blood..
@@WildVee Your parents are a blessing...I wish there were more like them! I pray you receive justice and that you experience total healing (mind, body, spirit and soul). 🙏🏾
my mom does't believe me. I was eight when I tried telling her and she yelled at me. That moment is burned into my scull. I knew then that if my own mother wouldn't believe me then who else would, so I just kept quiet.
@@meganmiller1530 I am so sorry that happened, and that the person you trusted most didn't believe or protect you; no one can imagine how much more that wounded you to the core of your heart and spirit. She may not have believed you, but I do, and I am stranger; there will be others that will believe you and can give you the emotional support you need. Tell your story--- it will help with healing. You're not alone...praying for you 🙏🏾
@@meganmiller1530 If I were in your shoes, I'd tell someone else. Like a teacher that seems nice, or an older sibling or close relative. Tell him/her that your mom doesn't believe you. Your best bet would be to contact the police if the abuse is still happening and is constant. I hope you're doing alright now though. Best of luck to you ❤
Yeah, Now in this society looks is very important. By being beautiful you will be respected and always have a spotlight on you. And if you’re not beautiful (not meant to hurt someone) you will always stay at shadows or known as darkness. This really makes me sad.
Kristina Petrov Well you don’t know if they were on a boat or something and fell off or they were in the ocean in shallow water and rip tides came through and drug them under and they didn’t know how to get out of it
Kristina Petrov i remember, I heard some dude and his girlfriend were on a boat going to different island since the couple didn’t how to swim they asked for life jackets I guess they already like payed for the ride so they didn’t back down, they both when on the ride and the waves were getting thicker and the boat eventually tipped over and the crew swam to shore and left the couple to drown, at some point someone pulled the girl out of the water, she was still alive although her boyfriend was trying to grab on but it made it complicated because as the boyfriend was trying to gasp for air and try hold on the other two only went down and unfortunately the boy was left to drown, eventually they took his body out of the water and he was pronounced dead they tried to some sort of cpr to save his life but it was too late....
"He said as a female, my body is for men" that is the worst thing to tell your daughter or seen YOUR child. Your own flesh and blood! That's your baby why would you do that!😞
deepest darkest secret of mine ; My grandpa (we called him papa) was on the phone a year ago on may 2nd. I never said goodbye to him when he left to go to bed because I was too focused on my game. The next day he died. I had to get therapy because of this.
Similar to mine grandpa's death. I came to know that he's ill and my mom and dad were on a vedio chat with him. My mom told me to talk but I didn't cuz I don't want to. After someday when my mom and aunt were talking at midnight while I was sleeping I came to know that grandpa is seriously ill so I decided I'll talk to him tomorrow morning. My mom remind me to call him but I told her I'll call him tomorrow cuz again I don't want to. I again didn't call him tomorrow. And next day when I woke up the first thing I heard was from my mom that *grandpa got heart attack and he's dead* I'm such a douche It's the biggest regret of my life till 16 years. I wish I can just reverse time and just tell grandpa last time that I love him. I hope your happy where you are grandpa 💔
When the girl was talking about the swimming thing I was like oh that’s not that bad but Then she said he drowned in September my heart dropped I was freaking sad.
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my darkest secret: when i was 7 i got sexually assaulted by my older cousin. i had no idea what was happening at the time but it always made me feel uncomfortable i remember when things were getting bad my uncle walked in and my cousin stopped and just played it off as if nothing happened. i am 16 now and have started to tell people my story. i started with my best friend and she laughed at me and told some of the other girls in my class. i don’t think she understood how personal it was and because of that i have never told anyone else.
She is not a friend for laughing at your trauma. It's not about her "not understanding how personal it was". I'm assuming she's your age, so she's old enough to understand what sexual assault is. And then her going off to tell other girls about it?? She's not a friend. Throw the whole person away, that's vile
“i’m ashamed of my body but I tell other people to love themselves” ... wow that hit me hard because I relate. I hate everything about me and here I am telling others that they are beautiful and they should love themselves when I don’t even love myself :(
Im currently 14 years old. I don't have experience in terms of being molested or being touch inappropriately, but the fear inside of me to be one of those victims of rape freaks the hell out of me and eats me up. The reason why I barely go out, why I wear baggy clothes, and the reason why Im uncomfortable to be left alone with a man.
Boys at this age dont rape girls, but how about older boys raping girls in this age and lower? You get my point now? They would do everything if their libido over powered their minds.
I relate so much to this I am SO afraid to go out, and the rare times I go out with friends I stay close to them and tell them to not go to dark places because "I'm afraid of darkness", when I am but really in an irrelevant way Every time a older boy is close to me I tend to start walking in the fastest way possible Sometimes I hate living in a really small city, but at the same time I feel better when I think about it I'm afraid to tell my mother about this because I think she will laugh at me? (Don't get me wrong, She loves me and she always helps me when It comes to fears, but when we are talking about something that for her is "abstract" she laughs) Ps. Sorry for my bad English 🙏
first off you shouldnt be ashamed of your body. I'm sure and hope you will manage to change things to feel more comfortable with it, best of luck on that one. And on the other hand, isnt that just nice? I mean, you still do good things like cheering others up even tho you dont feel the same. Thats heroic. Good luck with what you do!
that made me cry. i cant believe one of the people that you should trust the most in life would say something so terrible and scarring. i cant even _try_ to imagine how hard that was for them and how much of an impact of horror that put on their lives, and to never tell anyone that, or send any cries for help, must put so much weight on your shoulders.
On the outside I'm the happiest person in my friend group The person who makes others laugh and smile the most are usually the most depressed and sad inside
My deepest secret is that I feel really lonely- I have a friend, and family but I want a BEST friend someone that I relate to, someone who I can trust, someone I can be open and free with. Thanks for reading...
Me too. I have a friend, she thinks that we're best friends, but I don't think so. I really want to and I tried so many times to get closer to her, but... Every single time when I tried to tell her something serious, it always becomes a f****** joke. Why? In movies best friends can tell everything to each other, they know everything about each other and they're always there for each other. But why it's not like that in reality? I can't say this in her face because I don't want to hurt her feelings. I hope someday she'll just forget about me. (I'm sorry that I wrote this here, I just needed to tell someone about it)
I was like that too but after years of research I found that no one will understand me better than myself. Then I began to question myself on my fears, my hobbies and I was like Wah that’s me ! Now I can explain who I truly am and I can protect myself cuz I know what I value. I’m not afraid of being rejected by people cuz I know that they’re loosing someone priceless... I’m never loosing anything cuz I can’t loose myself. We’re all priceless and unique don’t forget that.
This is my biggest secret.... My best friend died 5 years ago and we buried her phone and personal belongings with her. I still text her every single day.
@@donttakefelixscheesestick6367 lol sorry I'm not joking. I think I misunderstood the sentence? I'm just asking, because if you try to understand it in a negative way the " We buried her phone and personal belongings with her " will look like a ... I can't explain😂 my 1st language isn't English so it's hard for me to express it, pardon me.
These kinda secrets lead to depression and sometimes suicide if not properly shared. Even if it’s anonymously, sometimes what people need most is the comfort in knowing others can listen and gets glimpse into their pain. They may not understand completely but just the release of the secret is satisfying in itself.
My darkest secret: I always tell people to speak up about their struggles, when really, Im the one who really need to speak up about my struggles and I’ve yet to speak
Im not sure, and i guess this is stypid idea, and you dont have to be part of it, but since you all have problems, maybe you should share them to each other? But only if you want. It could help, since you may understand each others better than most people could.
My darkest secret is... when I was in the 3rd grade. A kid named Jacob was the new kid. He really caught on for being well liked in class and everyone wanted to be his friend. So one day when the whole class was watching ‘The Polar Express’ it was close to the end. And he asked “can I sit by you”? I bluntly said “no, someone’s sitting their” *when there really wasn’t* he left and cried. In my young mind I didn’t think I did anything bad at the time. But I guess as you get older you learn from your mistakes. But back to the story. After I had said that, about 2 days later, I was in my mom’s friends salon that she owns and we were watching the news on a dad that shot his whole family and then himself. And among the victims was Jacob... to this day, I still cry and legit mentally punish myself for not being nice to him and I should have let him sit by me. That will haunt me forever. The morale of the story is that... learn from my mistakes and to be kind to others. -T
I had a fight with my friend. She texted me an apology on Christmas day but I never replied because I was still angry with her. She died of unknown causes two days later.
@@jet9097 I always eat chips while reading any content. Haha. Now that you mentioned it, it really was funny and I was being serious about the chips while reading. Hahahha!
@@gamingredditor73 no we shouldn't it is better to have children then to make a law not letting people have kids there is also adoption a loving option
I have a friend who helps at a youth center in my town. She was told to give this one kid a popsicle, but she didn't and minutes later he ran into the road and was hit by a truck and was killed. She feels like it's her fault because she could have just given him that popsicle and maybe that would have saved his life...
JackStrait oh my gosh that’s horrible 😓 tell her it’s not her fault people do what they want and she would’ve have saved him if she saw him run out. But the kid choose to make that desicion not you. So it’s not her fault 😁
I just have to share this... I’ve had anxiety for years, but it got worse in high school. I had attacks almost daily if not weekly. I never told anyone, and basically suffered in silence for years. I felt like I was suffocating myself, like the walls were closing in around me. an invisible ball and chain hooked around my neck and felt heavy if someone asked me how I was doing. I couldn’t trust anybody. I was suicidal, thoughts lingered in the back of my mind and didn’t go away. when I finally told my mom she didn’t believe me, and basically brushed it off. I’m not suicidal anymore, but still nobody listens or does anything to help me when I’m anxious. Please, don’t suffer in silence, it makes everything worse. And please if you can be that amazing person who just listens to people who need to talk, please be them. I love you all and thank you for listening ❤️❤️
Im so proud of you for getting thru those thoughts. It feels impossible at points but im so glad you are here even tho we dont know eachother. Please keep fighting ❤🐢
i am not an amazing person, but if you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me. i am not sure if i can comfort you or not, but i will listen to you
It’s so interesting that every single person has a story or something they’ve never told anyone about. It just makes you want to be a better person and more kind to everyone you meet bc you just never know what someone has going on. And KINDNESS IS FREE
My secret is: I always help people with their problems but I never fix mine. I’m just to scared to face them. Each day they chip away at me. My friends always think i’m joyful and happy but they barely even know me. I’m always putting them ahead of me, and it’s something i’m starting to regret. I guess i’m just to kind that people start abusing the fact I want to help. Yet I can’t even help myself. There’s just so many flaws that I have. I sorta just want to end it all. Edit: yall I didn’t even know I wrote this I was 13 at the time lol but I’m doing tons better now
heyy, i just want to say that i understand how you feel and i cant imagine the pain you are feeling rn... it may not feel like it but it'll get better.. sometimes you just gotta take life one step at a time. just know that people are always here for you ❤️
i relate to this so so much. but please know that this not the end 💗 punishing yourself or giving up is not the answer and it will get so so much better with time. you will heal. you will have days you will feel so full of love and happiness and truly enjoy and love living your life. please don’t give up. if you ever want someone to talk to, i am always here :) all the love xx
You remind me of Ken kanaki, if you watch Tokyo ghoul then watch the last few episodes from season 1 cuz I'm not poetic and don't bother with feelings. Kanaki says that he rather let himself suffer then letting others suffer and your comment resembles him alot. But he will be taught a lesson on how he should let some people suffer so he doesn't and it will be in very gory way. If you don't like blood and stuff then I don't think you should watch it then but you will miss out my point of this long comment I made for you lol
I understand you very well and even I feel the same way sometimes but everything is going to be okay. If you want we can spill all our problems with each other and see how we can help each other through the screen❤️.
Last summer I was having a bad day and thought : "what's the point of having parents if they're never there?" , I didn't actually believe it, but I also didn't know it was the same day my Mom learned she had cancer. She passed away a week and a half ago I feel like it's my fault for thinking that
Ik I'm rlly late but I would like to share my story From the ages of 4-10 I was molested by numerous people. Family friends, strangers, cousins, etc. I had suffered abuse from them too. It happened at such a young age that it didn't bother me in the slightest because I didn't know it was wrong. I thought I was finally free of it until a few weeks ago when I was randomly groped and touched at an amusement park. When the father told his daughter that her body was meant for men it rlly hit me. That's how I think of myself. I'm simply a tool used for other's pleasure and entertainment. Now here I am at age 15. Everything finally coming back to hit me all at once. I've been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, insomnia, bipolar disorder, and PTSD. 6 suicide attempts and I'm dying of stress from school. I'm being pressured to get a job but I'm terrified if being put into work. I don't wanna be around people. I have insane trust issues. I honestly believe that I'm just an object used for others. I no longer see myself as a person. I'm constantly degrading myself and I'm to the point where I can't even look in a mirror without loathing myself. Well, that's it. I had more to say but I don't want anyone to feel as though I'm putting my problems above others. My heart goes out to everyone who's had to witness something so traumatic in their lives. I deeply apologize🙏❤ And I'm incredibly sorry for ranting. Thanx a million if you read towards the end🙏💞❤🙏
Running away and hiding is never the solution, if something of the sort happens, tell someone you trust, never keep quiet, because the chain will continue if you do, and never blame yourself when you didn't know any better, and never give up, I had some tendencies, but I said to myself, what if a miracle happens the day after I give in, and the miracle happened only, it came in the most unexpected way
Love yourself never give up at anything give yourself hope and don't be stressed you have to believe yourself that you can do everything you can success everything in your life if you want love yourself never get scare at anyone like a tiger don't care if your cousin's and friends tell you everything just leave them tell them one day you all will see who i become you're living for yourself not for the others you can do everything just believe yourself this is all i want to say❤️i hope it was helpful to change yourself cuz i changed alot of people like my cousin and one of my friend my friend was sooo negative last year but when i talked with her she changed alot and my cousin was much more negative than my friend and she always hurted herself by peoples she always said they said you're like that you're not pretty and one day i told her stop but it takes along time to fix her i hope you understand you can change yourself lonely is good sometimes but not all days don't make yourself sad okay everything will be ok I hope you understand me i really want to change world but i can't I wish i can one day ❤️🌏🌺change okay🍂🌺it isn't the end of life always be happy I know maybe we had/will have problems but we still have to be positive 🌺
Brodie Wild it's good that you don't, u would be a changed person if you had, I can't even describe you the pain of holding a dark secret at the point to be scared that mind someone read your mind
My darkest secret: I dont feel emotions, I just emulate emotions of those around me. If I were left alone in a room watching a video that made every single person who watched it cry and I didnt know that I wouldnt cry. If someone laughs i will act happy and laugh because that's what i have to do. If someone crys I cry because that's what I have to do. It sucks. I literally genuinely cried for the first time after almost 19 years of life and I dont know how to feel and I dont know what to feel because I've never seen anyone react to something like this before.
I couldn't squeeze out a tear for any sad accasion. But after I went through some emotional heartbreak of my own I now cry at any little sad things to the point where I embarrass myself. My heartbreak soften something inside of me
@@stargazer6694 after rereading my 4 am post, I did miss type one thing. When I say I cried it wasn't exactly true, it was more like a tear. It was the video of the guy who describes his wife to a sketch artist who draws her.
I had connection troubles when I was younger, and acted more than felt. For me, the more I connected with others, the more I actually felt. I would not say that this would help, it is just something that helped me with empathy. A lot of people think psychopaths are serial killers, etc, but the reality is there are many psychopaths in the general population that function day to day, appearing "normal." The human brain has many variances from the uber emotional to no emotion, intellect to feeling, etc. I can understand why you would keep it a secret though--many just wouldn't understand, and you would likely get a mixture of fear to people just treating you like you are weird. I rarely cry, but I do feel. Probably not to the same degree in some things as others still. I internalize most things.
"he said that as a female my body is for men", is one of the most disgusting things ive ever heard, its crazy how men still have the same ideas as back in the 50s, some things dont change
“My best friend used to always ask me to Teach him how to swim.” “But I never did because I was too Lazy.” *”He drowned in September.”* It Hits you Hard to realize most Things come with Terrible Consequences. Not to you, but to those you *love.*
Lucky for me my best friend always stick by my side whenever we're going swimming she almost drowned once. Since then she learned but i wanted to teach her how to swim but she don't want me to
As a child I was molested a few times. Thinking it was normal because of how often it happened to me, I never gave it much thought. My dad taught me from an early age that I should always obey my elderly out of respect ( I was always one to take my fathers lessons very literal). So I did exactly that. I obeyed every single thing an adult told me to do. Even when I didn't want to. My dad never found out till I was Eleven years old how my baby sitters were treating me. He was never around enough to notice. He was always working, trying to put food on the table for me and my younger siblings, he was always busy with bills and never really had the opportunity to spend time with us (we were always poor). My mother chose drugs over her own family, so as the eldest I was responsible for burdening the 'mother' role in our family. The baby sitters were always fucking cunts who almost always yelled and punished my siblings for being kids ( our babysitters made them face the wall for long periods of times) i was always the baby sitters favorite. Always. i never got punished, but they used my body. they touched me everywhere and made me touch them back. The only reason my father found out was because I had the strangest urge to tell my dad what the baby sitter had been doing to me. I honestly felt like god finally took pity on me and sent me an angel to nudge me in the right direction (as cringy as it sounds, it's very true) When I called my dad, I told him 'The babysitter grabbed my chest.' i don't exactly recall the words i used but my dad asked me to go outside the house and talk to him. so i did, he asked me what i meant by that and to make sure the baby sitter wasn't around when i talked to him. i told him that the babysitter grabbed me, put me on his lap, took off my shirt and touched me. my dad told me to walk to my cousins house until he got home (they lived two houses away from us) i did as i was told. when he got home, i saw his car pass by our cousins house so i went outside and followed it home. i remember hearing the loudest punch i had ever heard in my life, it scared the hell out of me even as i was standing outside in the driveway. Ten seconds later, my baby sitter is running outside with his hands holding his jaw. I didn't understand what was going on. I was confused when my uncle picked me up and hugged me. I remember him saying it was all going to be okay. I didn't understand why they were treating me like I was dying. My uncle and dad guided me back over to my cousins house, where my aunt (the only female-figure in my life at the time) welcomed me back. They told her what I told them and I remember she hugged me and started crying. And it was then that I started to break down. Around men i'm completely emotionless and with good reason to be. It had been a long time since I'd been around someone who felt like a mother to me. So when she started crying for me, I started crying too. Still not realizing what was wrong, she later sat me down and explained to me and taught me all about self-worth and that what he did to me was wrong (I still didn't confess about the previous molestation that happened to me out of shame.) and now I realize how violating and disgusting these people are. Call me slow or naive, but I've always been an isolated person. As I'm growing up, I'm beginning to get catcalled in public now.. I've only just turned 17. It's really freaky. i'm still a little naive, but I've grown a backbone now. i'm not the spineless kid I once was. i've cried twice writing this whole thing, so i'm not sure it'll make any sense. i don't want to reread it. i'm done feeling this way. it's to early for me to be this upset.
Mercy You don’t have to feel this way anymore, everything will be ok, your father will protect you and you can yourself now, I’m so sorry for what happened, i wish you the best in your life.
Mercy wow... idk what to say. That's really horrible what he did to you I'm sorry 😕 Life lesson: don't ever let anyone touch your body without asking and your body belongs to you and ONLY you.
Derrick Willis i see this type of comments everywhere even friends of mine put stuff like that on social media. But when i tried to suicide and i was hospitalized for 5 mounths because of that nobody even cared, and now everybody treats me like a freak im Alone and it sucks so go love the ppl around you and dont post stuff like this makes me even more angry. I hope i dont fail to kill mysef again, have a good life.
Diogo Oliveira It’s not that no one cares...they are just afraid. They don’t know what to say or how to react and would rather someone else go first before them. I, too, tried to commit suicide a few times, but when it was not successful, I slowly woke up and no one helped me out of it, it’s really all about what you want in your mind. No one can make you happy and continue to keep you happy, only you can. Yea it sucks sometimes, but once you get to know yourself and forgive yourself, your inner self will eventually change and evolve and grow. No one can do that for you...only you. You don’t need someone else to care about you...you need to care about you. That’s really the secret.
"I wish grades didn't have to define someone worth" So true...even I always have good grades, my mind always whisper "what's the point of learning if I forgot about it the moment I finish the exam... Just what I am learning for?" It's math and the 3 major science subject of course.
I can totally relate! I just graduated from junior high school, my gwa is 96, I graduated with HIGH HONORS, but the funny thing is, I know to myself that I'm not really smart, I'm just studying for sake of passing the exams, get good scores and high grades, but after some time, I constantly forget all the lessons that I have studied. Ever since, I started to doubt my own capabilities but I'm trying to improve myself. Right now I'm reading useful books for self improvement and to change my mindset. I hope you are doing great!
That's so true. In the end all of it is thrown out of the window because we have search engines like google and siri to do the job for us. After all it isn't what we learned from school that gives us the job or helps us do better but how we can put that knowledge to use and how we express our creativity. Big waste of time this all really is especially since school was created during the industrial stage where working at factories were becoming a big thing. Main reason why you have to sit in rows and follow orders when given. May not be news to a lot of people but just thought I'd get that out there. Best of luck to all of you! If you ever feel down let someone know :).
@@bluecats1585 It's fine you're not alone. Many people are just like you as it is only how we use that knowledge which helps us improve. But the fact you at least think about that makes you smarter than a lot of people. Some blindly do as told in life and never question. Hope you are doing great!
Yeah, the worser version of this for me is the fact that sometimes your life worth equals to what you contribute to society. If you are smart for example people will expect you to do this and that and if you don't comply they will scrutinize you (the case of a Korean child prodigy who stop working on NASA to become a High School teacher, he was deemed as a failure by people online and offline) I just don't understand, if we came to this world to enjoy it and to live it to the fullest extent then why do we need to bow to people's expectations? Why can't we be we? Why is someone's worth are defined by what they did to society? It is just The world no more like life mechanism is about bowing down to supreme monarch named expectations
Angery MigMet dude that’s a bad idea. everyone is their own worst critic. people will think oh i hate my lips. tell them that and they’ll go get plastic surgery.
Reading these stories makes me greatful that whenever one of my dodgy uncles were around my mum would always make sure to keep me near her and would always tell me whenever he knocked on the door and I was alone in the house I shouldn't open it, he wouldn't understand that and would continuously knock which was low key scary. At the time I never knew the kinds of stuff he had done but as I grew older and learnt more I became so greatful that my mum was so protective. It hurts to see not everyones mum is like that because I feel as though I don't show my appreciation to my mum for all the sacrifices she's done for me. Sometimes I feel so selfish...
Naimah Khan I am a mum too,I was molested as a child by a friend of the family. I grow up en teached my 3 year old daughter what parts of her body could not be touched by ANYONE, and that she always ALWAYS must tell me when someone does. She is 18 now and I still repeat it. Even if you were never molested (thank God) remember to teach this to your children( also boys)
Its so sad to think a member of your family can hurt you. When I was a child my mom always said if my uncle went to pick me up at school i should wait for her .
Guys WTF, am I the only one who never know someone being abused by a family member? I mean it’s so weird, my uncle was like my best friend and he bought a lot of toys when I was young, always nice and he was the person that always protected me. He was like a 2’ father to me. Wtf
Nimer ツ same with me I was like that and I didn’t know about this but then I met my friend and she introduced me to this harsh reality. I’ve seen what she’s gone through and it’s crazy a lot of people who know her don’t know about this. Someone you know probably has gone through it and are struggling privately. I truly hope they can get through this. Seeing what it does to a person is just scary. I don’t think any of my uncles are like that, they’ve always been like a fatherly figure but nonetheless my mum would be careful.
As a female I'm gonna say that my body is not for a man and just because he is a man does not mean he can own me. I am NOT an object I AM A HUMAN and my body is mine an no one else's
@@hollyjennifer Bruh, it's a joke. I am a girl. Also, maybe use civilised words? I can understand, but it is more desirable to read a complete sentence.
It's sad that you need to affirm that your body belongs to you. It's common sense that it belongs to you and that anyone who hurt you should be jailed and beaten.
We should change the term "I need help" to "I need support". There is a poor stigma around the word help as it implies weakness. Support can be anywhere from co-workers in business to one on one with a counselor.
sam1021 Thank you! The other day my co-worker was talking about applying for a new job and I could see she wasn't taking action due to nerves. I asked her "How can I support you?" and she said it'd be great if you can right me a reference. I was shocked at how a one word change made the difference.
Grant H. It is crazy how a simple replacement of a word can change the tone of a sentence. Positive outlook! Best of luck to you as well as your coworker!
Grant H. I totally understand that, but maybe we should change the attitude around getting help as a whole, mainly because getting help isn't weak. I know it's not what you're implying, but society actively needs to work toward a world where getting help, for necessary things, is the norm.
My dad and stepmom always fought really bad and one day my dad overheard me say "I hate my dad" later that night he took his own life and I will never stop blaming myself for it
I got a deepest darkest secret I told my father I wanted to be a boy he told me "what makes you think that being a boy would be better if you can't even be a good daughter"
"I wish grades didn't have to define someone's worth" -I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS ONE! "My body is for men" -HEARING THAT MADE ME SOO OFFENDED AND SO MAD..
XXX WRLD women are the superior sex if anything men are subjected to giving women pleasure women are in every way better than men sorry you had to hear it sweetie.
My heart broke when they said they were molested by their babysitter and the father said to “Be quiet, the female body is for men.” Why is our world like this? If you are molested and told to be quiet, don’t be quiet and say something. That something can lead to something that can help you get past it. Please, tell someone if you are getting molested.
It is horrible but that is religions people believe that women's bodies are for men and they only cook and wash and we can't drive cars and it's horrible but u can't really change it because hat what ppl believe in x
Abi Bla I just gotta say it's not really the religion itself that makes people think those things, it's the culture of the people who learned it that way from back in the day where they used to live like this, it's just sad that still to this day some people support this perception of gender roles.
Mi Ri but the problem is, for example the bible literally says women are men's property. So people didn't just jump to that conclusion, it isn't based on their interpretation of a vague metaphor. It literally says so.
My darkest secret:I always tell anyone who is struggling to any of Anxiety, Depression, Insecurities,to how to solve that problem and give advice,But I can't even make myself feel fine.
My body has some rolls and a ton of stretch marks, but my body is sacred and holy, and I will treat it like a goddess. It is mine and mine only, and I will care for it!
When I was 6 or 7, I realized what the word “drunk” ment, after my dad and mom hit me with their bottles, I never told anyone they hit me, *they don’t remember either*
I was harrased when I was 7 by this old guy he touched my chest and said to come with him but eventually I ran away from his grip,I told my parents but I dint tell them he touched me... Next day found out he was a organ trafficker . After a few days of not coming out of the house I told myself he must have left or something but saw him again and I had a baby on my hands(cousin) so the only thing I could do was protect the baby,then my neighbor saw me agitated so she told me to come to her house she saved my life
"My whole life, I've been made to feel like I was undeserving of love both from myself and others and I'm afraid that part of me believes them." Aghh.......Goosebumps!!!
Part of me wants to shot him in the head for being that fucked up, but another part of me feels bad for him for becoming that fucked up in the first place. Is there hope for people like that, or are they too set in their ways?
Miraak Prince of Apocrypha yeah - I agree - it does not sound realistic at all. Not only because it's his daughter, but because it was paedophilia too. It makes no sense for someone to make that statement let alone a father unless he was a pedophile himself, something that seemingly would have been important to the story.
My Dad is a narcissist and over the years when I go and visit him, he's been getting better. But he still has moments where he will put one of my siblings down over the smallest things. I don't want that happening to me, so I become a completely different person around him and just do what he says unless its completely out of the question. My oldest sister has severe ADHD, and so because of that he gets mad at her a whole lot. I wish I was louder.
2:00 some guys at my school constantly joke about this kind of thing. they always say “there’s only one gender, male, women are property.” at first, i joked along and said “guess no one owns me,” and i awkwardly chuckled. i realized how wrong this was a while back, at the time some guy was joking about that and i just awkwardly smiled. after that happened in class, the guy i liked at the time pulled me aside and said “how are you ok with them saying that?” and i said “i’m not really” and he said “you can’t do that to yourself, speak up about it. you don’t deserve that.” some people are truly awful, i’m speechless when someone genuinely cares and actually speaks up about that kind of stuff.
As a Kid everyone said that I was brave and strong, and because of that I never showed when I was feeling down. "If you cry you are weak" that idea got into my head, and its still there. Everytime I feel the need to cry, in public or alone, I get an anxiety/panic attack. I fear showing emotions to people, I fear being human
Me as well, I've learned not to feel. Feeling things show weakness and I can't show weakness to them... When they bruise me and make me bleed I can't not show hurt.
Omg I come from a different place, but I've long feared being (fully) human too! I've really only gotten what it means for me very recently, and I will continue to learn
@@malicious_333 I can relate. At the same time, we're the best on the planet in terms of knowing. It's just what we've got and we have a lot of potential. It's just that we're not very good at unlocking it in everybody yet.
I had a friend since I was 6, I would always talk behind their back and always say rude stuff to their face. 7 years later we had became the closest, I realised they were the only person who actually cared about me and the only friend that never left. I had to move to a new country. On the day I went to the airport, went to their house to say our final goodbyes. They weren’t home. I have never seen them ever again
You know what i feel right now? We all have so many secrets. So much pain. Reading others' pain, I feel like my pain is nothing. But, isn't it hard? Isn't that secret suffocating? But, everyone over here, i just wanna tell you, that your pain is not your mistake. It's not an advise. It's what i learnt through my experience. It's not your mistake. You are doing a great job, living your life. Please, stop blaming yourself. Except your pain as a part of you. There's no other way out. If you don't accept it, it will break u. You need not trust anyone else. But, just, trust yourself. Learn from the mistakes you make, and spread as much love you can, so that no one else goes through the same pain you have witnessed. I wish that you all would get the happiness you all deserve.. ❤️ ❤️
What my deepest secret? I was fourteen, turning fifteen in October. I had a boyfriend who got really sick with ammonia and lung infection. Because he was in the hospital for months and we could contact anyone, I decided to have his sister give a letter to him that said I was breaking up with him. Two weeks later, he died. It was also his birthday, turning fourteen. And a part of me believes that I had killed him.
this video gave me the strength to say what i've never told anyone... when i was 11 or 12, my dad assaulted me. multiple times. he would touch my thigh and stick his hand up my shirt and touch somewhere a father should NEVER touch his daughter. i didn't really try to stop him because i was scared. i was young, too, so i didn't fully understand the whole situation. he did this multiple times... it went on for a few months until i finally had enough. i never even confronted him... all i did was simply distance myself. now i'm 15 and i'm really suffering from keeping this in so long. i haven't told anyone... not my mom, not my best friend, not even my therapist. i'm scared that my mom either wouldn't believe me or would get mad at my father which would ruin our family. i'm also scared of judgement and pity... and i know i should hate my dad for what he did to me, but i'm honestly worried that by telling people this, his reputation will be ruined. i've developed really bad anxiety and the depression i had back then is coming back. i know this isn't as bad as what happened to some people but it still affects me and i don't know what to do. a few days ago i was really close to telling someone, but i chickened out like i always do. i'm desperate for help but i don't have the strength to tell anyone in real life. i no longer go to therapy, so that's not an option... my mom always sees my behavior towards my father as "hatred" and "rudeness," but little does she know. i act like that with him because of what HE DID TO ME. at first, while writing this i was scared that my mom might find out, but now it'll be a relief if she does. i'm sick of living like this,, with my mind always in the past.
@@emma-dr5nm OH MY GOD. OKAY LISTEN!!! U HAVE ALL THE RIGHT TO HATE UR FATHER. I WOULDN'T EVEN CALL THAT A *"FATHER"* BUT WHATEVER- Pls, call for help. Do you have anyone u can trust? A good aunt, grandma or cousin? If so then pls tell them and don't hold it back. The longer u keep it a secret the more u will suffer. I really want to help u, get all ur strength together and tell smn what happened. If ur dad touched u once, it might happen again. Even worse, what if he gets drunk and ur alone in the house with him???? So pls confront him (with backup not alone!!!). If I would be in ur place, I would cry my eyes out, put a great show on and tell mom with so much drama, what my "dad" used to do to me as a kid. Then I would tell her that I never had the courage to tell her, since I didn't want to destroy the family and feared that she might not believe me. Important: Ur dad shoudn't be at home, when u tell ur mom what happened. So u have more time and can talk things out with her in peace.
I have a broken family, never had my own home, am not good at school, so every now and then i would stare blankly at a wall, i live in a fantasy world in my head were i have a home and a complete family... And sadly im enjoying it, i enjoyed living in a nonexistent world.
I love my fantasy world too! As a suggestion I made to myself too, I think that it would be good to find a compromise in which you organize your time and dedicate some of it in the real world and some in your own world. Remember that they coexist, so they are both important. The fact that you dream and create your own world is beautiful and healing, who doesn't love to create or fantasize? But also the real world is necessary and can be dreamy too, because the people who love you and you love are in there, and thanks to it you can have the inspiration for your fantasy world: indirectly, your sources for your fantasy world are from the real one, so...isn't the best thing to live fully in each one of them to have the best version of both of them?
My deepest secret: My best friend is having a lot of trouble with her mental health and anxiety. But because she has these problems she’s not the same anymore, I can’t take her to concerts and parties cause she doesn’t like it. She doesn’t want to talk about her problems with me either. She’s getting help from our teacher and I know she hates to talk about her problems with me, so I’m not asking anymore. Honestly don’t know what to do. I try to be there for her, but I’m losing all of my other friends and I don’t have any real friends left that I want to take to parties and carnivals. I’m becoming a friend who’s always in the background. Again.
My secret: When I was 7 years old my grandma's sister gave me a doll, and I was overseas at the time in Lebanon, and I was really happy and all I said to her was nothing, not even a thank you, until my mum widened her eyes at me and told me to say thank you, and I said thanks... She pasted away when I was 11 and when I went back to Lebanon, it was already a month late and when my mother told me she died, I just started laughing as I didn't believe her, " you're joking, right?" I'm now 13 and I still cry over her, and yes I still have the doll. I named the doll after her, I know this sounds crazy but I just can't stop thinking about her its been 7 years since I haven't seen her and 3 years since she died...
I do have my own darkest secret.. I sent a message for my male bff whom i just get in contact with...i wanted to invite him for my school's carnival so that we can hang out more after years of never met with each other....but never i know that he already died just a few minutes before i sent him the message...and what makes me felt more guilty that after 3 days i finally been informed about his death....so for 3 straight days i didnt know at all that he already gone...i thought that i could hang out with him and have fun with each other but it never happened After a month of his death...i had a really weird dream where he saved me from an unwanted married with another man and instead he the one that replaced the spot of the groom and marry me...is this some coincidence? Sorry for my bad english~
Maybe he loved you and wanted to marry you but couldn't say because he would be to nervous? And I have heard dead people comes in dreams so maybe he did to and just tried to tell u thag he loves u?who knows but yea I hope your feeling ok....
When I was little I got hurt a lot. I cracked the skin on the back of my head on a step. I pretty badly injured and nearly broke my tailbone, making me prone to hurting it several times after that. I had minor asthma, I was diagnosed with sleep apnea. I had surgery when I was 7. To this day (7 years later) my head still hurts, my tailbone still hurts, I struggle to eat and breathe. I have been obese since I was around 3 or 4. I don't know why. I was only fed proper portions and healthy foods when I was young. The older I got, the hungrier I got. I couldn't stop eating. My natural body is small, weak and feminine. I weigh more as a young female than a lot of grown males. My parents have been struggling with their marriage the entire time I've been alive. Growing up around constant fighting (verbal abuse), I have had anger issues and nervous breakdowns since I can remember. My dad has had depression caused by tragic events, leading to aggressive and cruel behavior. My anger issues and a need to stand out only made the bullying at school worse. The entire staff were terrible people, the students were all shallow and judging. I've been yelled at for things I can't control for years. When I was 10 I went to a pediatrician, she was helping me better my diet (oops, didn't work). She asked me if I ever had suicidal thoughts. I did. I'm 14 now, I have been diagnosed with anxiety. I can be a jerk sometimes. I sometimes feel like I hate people for what they've done to me and to this world, but for some reason I can't bring myself to not cry when they fall apart. I love animals, I love my family, I love my friends and every living creature on this planet. To add to all my issues, I haven't been eating as much, because I'm sick of being told I'm fat and ugly. I still only eat whatever's lying around, which is usually affordable junk, since my family often struggles with money. I'm losing hair and eyesight from my lack of protein, vitamin a, etc. My dad had threatened to kick me out, and to put me in a mental hospital. I don't want to be around father anymore, he only makes my problems worse. I still love the guy, of course, but it's hard to want to be around somebody who can go from cheerful to hulk mode in a second flat. I want to have a good life after high school, but I've already failed once now. My school is done with me not cooperating, they don't understand what I go through. I am not normal. I'm smart but I think slowly. I'm not autistic but I'm still mentally ill. I'm rude but I'm not apathetic. I'm emotionally challenged but emotional. I hate living but I love it. I'm trying to get help. It's hard when my only comfort was the people I loved, my online friends. It might seem dumb but they're my second family and I am their's. I've already lost so many people. It feels like every day I lose another friend. Some of them decided they don't like me anymore, becoming my bullies in the process. Some of them have taken their lives at the young ages of 11 to 16. Please do not comment to say you don't care about my story, go on with your life if that's the case. If you've taken your time to read this, I care. If you think nobody cares about you, here I am, a young depressed teen. I love you. Thank you for taking your time. May whatever you believe in guide you in life. ❤
I don't know what to say... One thing I do know is that I want to tell you how I love you too. It helps hearing that sometimes. We may be complete strangers, but I can tell from your reading and your opening up that you are a brave, kind person. Thank you for sharing.
You're so strong..You know what ,we all have pain and suffering.The fact that we are still alive and fight with our problems it's a plus👍👍You can write me whenever you want ❤❤
Bruh exactly. I can't stand them succeeding. I know it's bad, I know I must change, but I can't seem to get rid of the feeling. I've rarely felt happy for something they've done.
@sad vill That must have hurt u a lot.i just cant stop feeling bad.Stay strong okay?dont worry..😊I know it's hard but please try to stay happy and enjoy the little thing in ur life.and moreover it's a blessing that u were born,not only u;each and every person are a blessing. Dont ever lose hope my friend😊
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Jubilee please never stop this series !!
Dihr - thank you for the love. As long as there are hurting people in this world, we won't stop.
We need a spot to share our secrets. Like a share your deepest secret in the comments below type a thing.
Derek - we actually do! We used this form last season if any of our audience also wanted to submit their secrets for this season: jubileeproject.typeform.com/to/WhdEyN
Jubilee I love everything you do
"He drowned in September"
Broke my heart right from the start
Ikr its so sad...
My heart sank
ikr
Sarah Aruna just like him /j(im so sorry)
My friend doesn’t know how to swim and when I tell her she needs get some swimming classes she refuses I have to show her this part of the video because I don’t want her get at that point.
“I’m ashamed of my body but I tell other people to love themselves”
This hurt... because it’s so true.
Right
_ VLOGSBYELLA _ i relate so much to that
I am one among them
Yeah ♡♡
This is me. It's also the reason I believe everyone lies to me when they say I'm pretty.
"I wish grades didn't have to define someone's worth "
I relate to this line mentally and spiritually
Same
Same😔
@Future Friend i dont think so. I have toppers in my class and neither of them are responsible lol. During our group assignments, they end up throwing the work on us so that they can escape from much work. Am average compared to them and i feel like am more responsible. You shouldnt judge a person by his/her grades because a well educated engineer can also commit a crime.
This is really true in my life. the smarter you are, the more expectations are expected from you
Me too..
"I hope I could go back in time to stand up for my self when I was young.."
Same
Same
me too
same, you can start by doing things you as a child didn't do it. Go play in a park, be around other kids. Write a letter to yourself, when you were a child, saying how proud you are and that you don't feel ashamed of them. Hope this help you
Same
"I wish Grades didn't have to define someone's worth"
I felt that:(
That's so true. In the end all of it is thrown out of the window because we have search engines like google and siri to do the job for us. After all it isn't what we learned from school that gives us the job or helps us do better but how we can put that knowledge to use and how we express our creativity. Big waste of time this all really is especially since school was created during the industrial stage where working at factories were becoming a big thing. Main reason why you have to sit in rows and follow orders when given. May not be news to a lot of people but just thought I'd get that out there. Best of luck to all of you! If you ever feel down let someone know :).
If you question life itself and things in life like grades you're smarter than a lot of people because a lot of people blindly do as told without really questioning.
@@vim6459 Good point. There is a quote from a book I translated which reads as 'we exchange the gold of our intellect for the bronze of education'.
fck : ((
Me tok i am feeling that Now 😖😖😕
broke my heart in just 10 secs
Benedict Cua How? That was his fault.
it wasn't his fault but I understand the regret because he's taking the possibility of avoiding the incident if he did teach his best friend.
Jana Thabet
The friend could’ve asked someone else for lessons or some other way to learn how to swim. Idiot.
Yep.
Benedict Cua sameee
a friend asked me if he could spend the night at my house, i said no because my parents didn't wanted too on a week day. a few days later, I learned that he got hospitalized after getting beat up by his father
I am so sorry
He's not a father he's a monster
@@l3br1n11 I swear to god that I didn't notice some wrong spelled words. AND IM SO SORRY,!! :(
I am so sorry please be strong
It could of still happened even if you were there. That monster could of even killed you if you tried to stop it. Or he would of done it a different night.
Im sorry for your loss. I wish for you to find peace and never bottle your emotions. Hugs from Canada 💗💗💗💗💗💗
Here's my secret
When I was in school (from about fourth to ninth grade) there was a girl a year younger then me. We all thought she was weird but I was still hanging out with her sometimes. She loved playing with other's hair and since I love that I let her play with mine. We weren't really friends but we weren't strangers either. I remember when I was in eight grade and she found my picture of me on a chess competition online with a caption "just as beautiful as you're now". I thought that was really nice.
Last summer I found out she was hit by a train. Some even say it was a suicide. Even tho I didn't know her well I still cried. I just wish I wouldn't bother with everyone's opinions and just kept her company. I wish I contacted her more often. I wish I was there for her and maybe she would play with my hair one more time.
I miss you Ajda, rest in peace ❤️
Maybe she was bullied for being weird for them, atleast she had a friend like you.
❤️
Just wondering, was she Turkish? because Ajda is a Turkish name
@@tunaarmann No, she wasn't. I'm from Slovenia and Ajda is a popular name here. People of the old religion were called "Ajdi" (in English it would be "Ajds" so "Ajd" for singular). And Ajda is just a female version of it 😊
este me pegó fuerte
"You are your own person. Your body is yours and yours alone."
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Yes.
true!
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"He said that as a female my body is for men"
How can a father say thatto his daughter.... That breaks my heart
He's not a father.
some people should not, by any circumstances, be parents.
So then thats what he thinks of his wife........
Failure of a father
@@onlyhuman5669 THAT WAS EXACTLY MY REACTION 😌💅🏻
A child is molested for years and comes to her father for protection but he tells her to be quiet about it and that her body is for men!!! This broke my heart...may God judge him
There's so many people like this.. way more than you can probably imagine.
I feel really blessed to have parents who believed me. I can't believe there are parents who don't believe their own flesh and blood..
@@WildVee Your parents are a blessing...I wish there were more like them! I pray you receive justice and that you experience total healing (mind, body, spirit and soul). 🙏🏾
my mom does't believe me. I was eight when I tried telling her and she yelled at me. That moment is burned into my scull. I knew then that if my own mother wouldn't believe me then who else would, so I just kept quiet.
@@meganmiller1530 I am so sorry that happened, and that the person you trusted most didn't believe or protect you; no one can imagine how much more that wounded you to the core of your heart and spirit. She may not have believed you, but I do, and I am stranger; there will be others that will believe you and can give you the emotional support you need. Tell your story--- it will help with healing. You're not alone...praying for you 🙏🏾
@@meganmiller1530 If I were in your shoes, I'd tell someone else. Like a teacher that seems nice, or an older sibling or close relative. Tell him/her that your mom doesn't believe you. Your best bet would be to contact the police if the abuse is still happening and is constant.
I hope you're doing alright now though. Best of luck to you ❤
I wish appearance didn't have to define someone's worth
Yeah, Now in this society looks is very important. By being beautiful you will be respected and always have a spotlight on you. And if you’re not beautiful (not meant to hurt someone) you will always stay at shadows or known as darkness. This really makes me sad.
@@parkmochimin891 that stuff doesn't happen outside of highschool
@@phatlewt2932 how do you know? Base on my experience it happens
Have you seen Quentin Tarantino
@@parkmochimin891 yes it does
That first one hit me like a truck
*beep beep* 🚛💨
To be honest He/She isn't guilty for the friend's reckless actions. You can't swim, get out of the water, duh.
Kristina Petrov Well you don’t know if they were on a boat or something and fell off or they were in the ocean in shallow water and rip tides came through and drug them under and they didn’t know how to get out of it
Random Account and I’m the truck driver
Jasmine Alejo I just liked
Kristina Petrov i remember, I heard some dude and his girlfriend were on a boat going to different island since the couple didn’t how to swim they asked for life jackets I guess they already like payed for the ride so they didn’t back down, they both when on the ride and the waves were getting thicker and the boat eventually tipped over and the crew swam to shore and left the couple to drown, at some point someone pulled the girl out of the water, she was still alive although her boyfriend was trying to grab on but it made it complicated because as the boyfriend was trying to gasp for air and try hold on the other two only went down and unfortunately the boy was left to drown, eventually they took his body out of the water and he was pronounced dead they tried to some sort of cpr to save his life but it was too late....
"He said as a female, my body is for men" that is the worst thing to tell your daughter or seen YOUR child. Your own flesh and blood! That's your baby why would you do that!😞
@@genericusername4206 nice b8 m8
This has me so mad you don't even know i-
Because some people are just pure rotten inside.
That one was messed up
Didn’t even care that someone was touching his 4-6 year old daughter.
"He told me my body was for men"
I think his body is for me to give him some broken bones
Grandmasterstick69 that’s what’s up
Lol
PERIODTT
Ayo, you wanna go jump h and the babysitter? If so I'm down
@I'mNoTsCaRy Kim yes 🤣
deepest darkest secret of mine ;
My grandpa (we called him papa) was on the phone a year ago on may 2nd. I never said goodbye to him when he left to go to bed because I was too focused on my game.
The next day he died.
I had to get therapy because of this.
That's sad :( staystrong
At least he didn’t die because of you, I mean, you didn’t disclose how he died but that is your wish.
Similar to mine grandpa's death.
I came to know that he's ill and my mom and dad were on a vedio chat with him. My mom told me to talk but I didn't cuz I don't want to. After someday when my mom and aunt were talking at midnight while I was sleeping I came to know that grandpa is seriously ill so I decided I'll talk to him tomorrow morning. My mom remind me to call him but I told her I'll call him tomorrow cuz again I don't want to. I again didn't call him tomorrow. And next day when I woke up the first thing I heard was from my mom that *grandpa got heart attack and he's dead*
I'm such a douche
It's the biggest regret of my life till 16 years. I wish I can just reverse time and just tell grandpa last time that I love him. I hope your happy where you are grandpa 💔
When the girl was talking about the swimming thing I was like oh that’s not that bad but Then she said he drowned in September my heart dropped I was freaking sad.
lol I was laughing i dont know why
Vampires Huh wtf
I cried :(
Ikr my chest hurt when she said he drowned, didn't expect that
CorinnePerry2 your name sounds familiar are you from Toronto
Goosebumps... wow. Everyone has a story
Depression Talks With Immanuel I see you literally everywhere wtf
Leila Morshed You crack me up😂 Technically if I’m everywhere, doesn’t that mean you’re everywhere too? :]
Depression Talks With Immanuel but seriously how are you commenting on every video I watch wtf?
Leila Morshed I work as a graphic designer, and I play RUclips videos in the background all day. So I’m on RUclips all day everyday. And commenting means a lot to creators, so I make sure they know they’re content was great if I enjoyed it:]
Leila Morshed if he’s everywhere then you are too
That got way more intense than I thought in only 12 seconds
my darkest secret: when i was 7 i got sexually assaulted by my older cousin. i had no idea what was happening at the time but it always made me feel uncomfortable i remember when things were getting bad my uncle walked in and my cousin stopped and just played it off as if nothing happened. i am 16 now and have started to tell people my story. i started with my best friend and she laughed at me and told some of the other girls in my class. i don’t think she understood how personal it was and because of that i have never told anyone else.
She is not a friend for laughing at your trauma. It's not about her "not understanding how personal it was". I'm assuming she's your age, so she's old enough to understand what sexual assault is. And then her going off to tell other girls about it?? She's not a friend. Throw the whole person away, that's vile
Marilize E thank you i’ve started to realize that my real friends are the ones who are there for me and understand
Don't tell anyone your secret except if they're also tell you their secret.
@Gopika Nambiar just typo
@Gopika Nambiar i'm good. Compare to others' in the comment sect, my story is not that heavy.
“i’m ashamed of my body but I tell other people to love themselves” ... wow that hit me hard because I relate. I hate everything about me and here I am telling others that they are beautiful and they should love themselves when I don’t even love myself :(
Everything will be alright, I believe in you ❤️
Ole billy baboosh wants some bacon - it ain’t going to cook itself , woman
Billy Baboosh Hahaha
AYEPRIL same I say to love yourself when I can't even take the first step
Same. I tell others and myself to love yourself but sometimes I can’t seem to do that.
_I’m ashamed of my body, but I tell other people to love themselves_
wow this is deep
Very cool
YOU AGAIN 😂😂😂
The movie?
Finn The human I see him EVERYWHERE
Chou Cheng that’s too funny
*that intro gave me CHILLS*
IKR
omgg sameee
SAMEE
I wish the opposite, cause then I would worth something
natalie eng right
Im currently 14 years old. I don't have experience in terms of being molested or being touch inappropriately, but the fear inside of me to be one of those victims of rape freaks the hell out of me and eats me up. The reason why I barely go out, why I wear baggy clothes, and the reason why Im uncomfortable to be left alone with a man.
Boys at this age dont rape girls
Boys at this age dont rape girls, but how about older boys raping girls in this age and lower? You get my point now? They would do everything if their libido over powered their minds.
I relate so much to this
I am SO afraid to go out, and the rare times I go out with friends I stay close to them and tell them to not go to dark places because "I'm afraid of darkness", when I am but really in an irrelevant way
Every time a older boy is close to me I tend to start walking in the fastest way possible
Sometimes I hate living in a really small city, but at the same time I feel better when I think about it
I'm afraid to tell my mother about this because I think she will laugh at me? (Don't get me wrong, She loves me and she always helps me when It comes to fears, but when we are talking about something that for her is "abstract" she laughs)
Ps. Sorry for my bad English 🙏
@@-erebor-2361 My friend got raped by middle high schoolers when she's 7. I was only 10 when i know her story so i don't know what to do.
It's better to be cautious than regret it later
“I’m ashamed of my body but I tell other people to love themselves.”
That’s so me.
first off you shouldnt be ashamed of your body. I'm sure and hope you will manage to change things to feel more comfortable with it, best of luck on that one.
And on the other hand, isnt that just nice? I mean, you still do good things like cheering others up even tho you dont feel the same. Thats heroic. Good luck with what you do!
Same...
her own father told her your body if for men, i am literally crying, i cant even imagine how much pain that must have brought them :(....
Lilly Valley that is un-freaking believable! Shame on that “dad”
I don't cry, I get pissed,like very.
I don't call people like him dads they aren't worthy of the title more like a sperm donor
that made me cry. i cant believe one of the people that you should trust the most in life would say something so terrible and scarring. i cant even _try_ to imagine how hard that was for them and how much of an impact of horror that put on their lives, and to never tell anyone that, or send any cries for help, must put so much weight on your shoulders.
Same💔
On the outside I'm the happiest person in my friend group
The person who makes others laugh and smile the most are usually the most depressed and sad inside
Same
Caoimhe Tiktoks same
that hit h a r d
I know what you mean, I was shocked to learn my best friend who was the happiest person I know had depression and was cutting.
Someone Talking well people also thought i was purely happy
My deepest secret is that I feel really lonely- I have a friend, and family but I want a BEST friend someone that I relate to, someone who I can trust, someone I can be open and free with. Thanks for reading...
I totally understand that. I feel the same way sometimes
I feel the same way... I hope you find one ❣️❣️❣️🙂
Me too. I have a friend, she thinks that we're best friends, but I don't think so. I really want to and I tried so many times to get closer to her, but... Every single time when I tried to tell her something serious, it always becomes a f****** joke. Why? In movies best friends can tell everything to each other, they know everything about each other and they're always there for each other. But why it's not like that in reality?
I can't say this in her face because I don't want to hurt her feelings. I hope someday she'll just forget about me. (I'm sorry that I wrote this here, I just needed to tell someone about it)
I was like that too but after years of research I found that no one will understand me better than myself. Then I began to question myself on my fears, my hobbies and I was like Wah that’s me ! Now I can explain who I truly am and I can protect myself cuz I know what I value. I’m not afraid of being rejected by people cuz I know that they’re loosing someone priceless... I’m never loosing anything cuz I can’t loose myself. We’re all priceless and unique don’t forget that.
Me toi
This is my biggest secret....
My best friend died 5 years ago and we buried her phone and personal belongings with her. I still text her every single day.
Wow thats too sad
Wait whut?! You killed her?????
@@laskermendoza9151 tf?
Lasker Mendoza this is not the place to joke
@@donttakefelixscheesestick6367 lol sorry I'm not joking. I think I misunderstood the sentence? I'm just asking, because if you try to understand it in a negative way the " We buried her phone and personal belongings with her " will look like a ... I can't explain😂 my 1st language isn't English so it's hard for me to express it, pardon me.
These kinda secrets lead to depression and sometimes suicide if not properly shared. Even if it’s anonymously, sometimes what people need most is the comfort in knowing others can listen and gets glimpse into their pain. They may not understand completely but just the release of the secret is satisfying in itself.
You speak the truth!
This is why I absolutely looove Jubilee Project 🙌
My darkest secret: I always tell people to speak up about their struggles, when really, Im the one who really need to speak up about my struggles and I’ve yet to speak
Same i wanna share my problem with my bf but i can't speak up
Im not sure, and i guess this is stypid idea, and you dont have to be part of it, but since you all have problems, maybe you should share them to each other? But only if you want. It could help, since you may understand each others better than most people could.
@🥚🐣🐥🐓🍗🦴 but its your choice
@@sushmiiitaaa and yours choice
@@catguy5185 already shared my problem with him now I'm happy i finally did
My darkest secret is... when I was in the 3rd grade. A kid named Jacob was the new kid. He really caught on for being well liked in class and everyone wanted to be his friend. So one day when the whole class was watching ‘The Polar Express’ it was close to the end. And he asked “can I sit by you”? I bluntly said “no, someone’s sitting their” *when there really wasn’t* he left and cried. In my young mind I didn’t think I did anything bad at the time. But I guess as you get older you learn from your mistakes. But back to the story. After I had said that, about 2 days later, I was in my mom’s friends salon that she owns and we were watching the news on a dad that shot his whole family and then himself. And among the victims was Jacob... to this day, I still cry and legit mentally punish myself for not being nice to him and I should have let him sit by me. That will haunt me forever.
The morale of the story is that... learn from my mistakes and to be kind to others.
-T
He was a child he is with god in jannah
Innerpeace Love aww
I think I'm gonna cry
you were young, you couldn't have known that would happen. it is not your fault. don't beat yourself up about it, he is in a better place now
@@amirahussein687 and people using vulnerability to push their religion strikes again
I had a fight with my friend. She texted me an apology on Christmas day but I never replied because I was still angry with her. She died of unknown causes two days later.
I am so sorry... ♥️
I'm truly sorry❤
Please don't make it your fault, and I'm so sorry for your loss.. ❤️❤️
it's not your fault, you didn't know ❤❤
❤️
"I wish grades didn't have to define someone's worth." 💔
mademoiselle xx I relate to that part too much rn.
fuck that i broke those chains
All that matters is validation. Be perfect of be a failure
I hate the school system it is like tell a fish to climb a tree
mademoiselle xx everyone else in my life has basically told me that my only redeeming quality is my intelligence. grades are my only sense of worth
Damn i read the comments for an hour while eating chips. The world is so mean!
Same! I almost cried with some comments. I feel so bad for those people who doesn't deserve to suffer
Im sorry but this made me laugh so hard! Everyone is just spilling their hearts out while you're just eating chips 😂
@@jet9097 😭Not even gonna lie i laughed out loud when i saw this comment
@@jet9097 I always eat chips while reading any content. Haha. Now that you mentioned it, it really was funny and I was being serious about the chips while reading. Hahahha!
@@inactivesince2238 Lol! 😅
I think some people shouldn't have the right to have children.
we need to pass a law on this, only mentally stable people can have children. Would make the world better
@@gamingredditor73 So nobody is allowed to have children? Because for all I know the whole world is one mentally unstable mess.
@@gamingredditor73 what if they are mentally unstable and the ugly kid is born from rape
@@gamingredditor73 no we shouldn't it is better to have children then to make a law not letting people have kids there is also adoption a loving option
People also have the decision on what to do with their bodies. That's a natural right.
The people who give the best advice, have or are suffering with the most problems.
Decronome 2019 true
I always give good advice to my friends. I’m like their personal therapist
That’s really deep and so true
Weeeeebbbbbb ttttttttoooooooooonnnnnnnnndssssssss ( web toons)
This is a very inspirational comment and I really appreciate it but I just wanted to say that I love your Lumine Icon ;3
I have a friend who helps at a youth center in my town. She was told to give this one kid a popsicle, but she didn't and minutes later he ran into the road and was hit by a truck and was killed. She feels like it's her fault because she could have just given him that popsicle and maybe that would have saved his life...
I'd like to see a popsicle stop a damn truck
JackStrait oh my gosh that’s horrible 😓 tell her it’s not her fault people do what they want and she would’ve have saved him if she saw him run out. But the kid choose to make that desicion not you. So it’s not her fault 😁
How tf would a popsicle stop the truck? Sorry if I offend you 👐
hi
Giving him the popsicle might have kept him there longer so he wouldn’t have run out in the street at that moment and gotten hit
@@the_one8603. Occupie him? Idk if he did it on purpose or not.
I just have to share this...
I’ve had anxiety for years, but it got worse in high school. I had attacks almost daily if not weekly. I never told anyone, and basically suffered in silence for years. I felt like I was suffocating myself, like the walls were closing in around me. an invisible ball and chain hooked around my neck and felt heavy if someone asked me how I was doing. I couldn’t trust anybody. I was suicidal, thoughts lingered in the back of my mind and didn’t go away. when I finally told my mom she didn’t believe me, and basically brushed it off.
I’m not suicidal anymore, but still nobody listens or does anything to help me when I’m anxious.
Please, don’t suffer in silence, it makes everything worse. And please if you can be that amazing person who just listens to people who need to talk, please be them. I love you all and thank you for listening ❤️❤️
Can I ask you now if you’re doing okay? I don’t mean on hurting you. I just want to help even tho I also needed help 🥺
❤️
Im so proud of you for getting thru those thoughts. It feels impossible at points but im so glad you are here even tho we dont know eachother. Please keep fighting ❤🐢
i am not an amazing person, but if you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me. i am not sure if i can comfort you or not, but i will listen to you
@@zale8829 you indeed are an amazing person
It’s so interesting that every single person has a story or something they’ve never told anyone about. It just makes you want to be a better person and more kind to everyone you meet bc you just never know what someone has going on. And KINDNESS IS FREE
this, but also i don’t know if i have any secrets. i overshare
Rose Love indeed. Take care
Thank you for saying that🙇♀️
Everyone has that one chapter in their book of life they don’t read out loud.
I honestly want to say a part of my story but I'm scared of being judged and looked different...mostly by friends and family😒
My secret is: I always help people with their problems but I never fix mine. I’m just to scared to face them. Each day they chip away at me. My friends always think i’m joyful and happy but they barely even know me. I’m always putting them ahead of me, and it’s something i’m starting to regret. I guess i’m just to kind that people start abusing the fact I want to help. Yet I can’t even help myself. There’s just so many flaws that I have. I sorta just want to end it all.
Edit: yall I didn’t even know I wrote this I was 13 at the time lol but I’m doing tons better now
heyy, i just want to say that i understand how you feel and i cant imagine the pain you are feeling rn... it may not feel like it but it'll get better.. sometimes you just gotta take life one step at a time. just know that people are always here for you ❤️
i relate to this so so much. but please know that this not the end 💗 punishing yourself or giving up is not the answer and it will get so so much better with time. you will heal. you will have days you will feel so full of love and happiness and truly enjoy and love living your life. please don’t give up. if you ever want someone to talk to, i am always here :) all the love xx
You remind me of Ken kanaki, if you watch Tokyo ghoul then watch the last few episodes from season 1 cuz I'm not poetic and don't bother with feelings. Kanaki says that he rather let himself suffer then letting others suffer and your comment resembles him alot. But he will be taught a lesson on how he should let some people suffer so he doesn't and it will be in very gory way. If you don't like blood and stuff then I don't think you should watch it then but you will miss out my point of this long comment I made for you lol
I understand you very well and even I feel the same way sometimes but everything is going to be okay. If you want we can spill all our problems with each other and see how we can help each other through the screen❤️.
I relate to everything you just said
“Some tears are silent because we are too scared to cry out loud”
*Just a quote I came up with, hope you like it*
Josie Malnarich thanks.
Im literally silently crying right now because I don't want anyone to ask me if I'm OK because I don't know if I am
This is beautiful
Very valuable
This is very deep....
Last summer I was having a bad day and thought : "what's the point of having parents if they're never there?" , I didn't actually believe it, but I also didn't know it was the same day my Mom learned she had cancer.
She passed away a week and a half ago
I feel like it's my fault for thinking that
It Will never be your fault Remember that ❤️ I'm Sorry for your loss I Hope that It Will heal someday
I'm sorry for your lost
May she rest in peace 🕊️❤️
Thank you ❤️
Ik I'm rlly late but I would like to share my story
From the ages of 4-10 I was molested by numerous people. Family friends, strangers, cousins, etc. I had suffered abuse from them too. It happened at such a young age that it didn't bother me in the slightest because I didn't know it was wrong. I thought I was finally free of it until a few weeks ago when I was randomly groped and touched at an amusement park.
When the father told his daughter that her body was meant for men it rlly hit me. That's how I think of myself. I'm simply a tool used for other's pleasure and entertainment.
Now here I am at age 15. Everything finally coming back to hit me all at once. I've been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, insomnia, bipolar disorder, and PTSD. 6 suicide attempts and I'm dying of stress from school.
I'm being pressured to get a job but I'm terrified if being put into work. I don't wanna be around people. I have insane trust issues.
I honestly believe that I'm just an object used for others. I no longer see myself as a person. I'm constantly degrading myself and I'm to the point where I can't even look in a mirror without loathing myself.
Well, that's it. I had more to say but I don't want anyone to feel as though I'm putting my problems above others. My heart goes out to everyone who's had to witness something so traumatic in their lives. I deeply apologize🙏❤
And I'm incredibly sorry for ranting. Thanx a million if you read towards the end🙏💞❤🙏
Running away and hiding is never the solution, if something of the sort happens, tell someone you trust, never keep quiet, because the chain will continue if you do, and never blame yourself when you didn't know any better, and never give up, I had some tendencies, but I said to myself, what if a miracle happens the day after I give in, and the miracle happened only, it came in the most unexpected way
I really wanna give you a big hug right now
i am so sorry
those people shall rot in hell and poor you
Love yourself never give up at anything give yourself hope and don't be stressed you have to believe yourself that you can do everything you can success everything in your life if you want love yourself never get scare at anyone like a tiger don't care if your cousin's and friends tell you everything just leave them tell them one day you all will see who i become you're living for yourself not for the others you can do everything just believe yourself this is all i want to say❤️i hope it was helpful to change yourself cuz i changed alot of people like my cousin and one of my friend my friend was sooo negative last year but when i talked with her she changed alot and my cousin was much more negative than my friend and she always hurted herself by peoples she always said they said you're like that you're not pretty and one day i told her stop but it takes along time to fix her i hope you understand you can change yourself lonely is good sometimes but not all days don't make yourself sad okay everything will be ok I hope you understand me i really want to change world but i can't I wish i can one day ❤️🌏🌺change okay🍂🌺it isn't the end of life always be happy I know maybe we had/will have problems but we still have to be positive 🌺
Just before giving up in your life ,just give a chance to you once for living yourself please........
We all have dark secrets. Its called being human. I have shortcomings and dissapoinments as high as the sky...
I don't have a dark secret.
Good for you :)
Shortcomings as high as the sky...
Brodie Wild it's good that you don't, u would be a changed person if you had, I can't even describe you the pain of holding a dark secret at the point to be scared that mind someone read your mind
Josh I don’t have a dark secret.
My darkest secret: I dont feel emotions, I just emulate emotions of those around me. If I were left alone in a room watching a video that made every single person who watched it cry and I didnt know that I wouldnt cry. If someone laughs i will act happy and laugh because that's what i have to do. If someone crys I cry because that's what I have to do. It sucks. I literally genuinely cried for the first time after almost 19 years of life and I dont know how to feel and I dont know what to feel because I've never seen anyone react to something like this before.
I couldn't squeeze out a tear for any sad accasion. But after I went through some emotional heartbreak of my own I now cry at any little sad things to the point where I embarrass myself. My heartbreak soften something inside of me
@@stargazer6694 after rereading my 4 am post, I did miss type one thing. When I say I cried it wasn't exactly true, it was more like a tear. It was the video of the guy who describes his wife to a sketch artist who draws her.
Err0r 4o4 while one tear may not be much at least it shows that you are capable of feeling emotions.
@@zacharykusievich1010 true
I had connection troubles when I was younger, and acted more than felt. For me, the more I connected with others, the more I actually felt. I would not say that this would help, it is just something that helped me with empathy. A lot of people think psychopaths are serial killers, etc, but the reality is there are many psychopaths in the general population that function day to day, appearing "normal." The human brain has many variances from the uber emotional to no emotion, intellect to feeling, etc. I can understand why you would keep it a secret though--many just wouldn't understand, and you would likely get a mixture of fear to people just treating you like you are weird. I rarely cry, but I do feel. Probably not to the same degree in some things as others still. I internalize most things.
"he said that as a female my body is for men", is one of the most disgusting things ive ever heard, its crazy how men still have the same ideas as back in the 50s, some things dont change
Not all men 😔😖
@@riddhiraghavendra9835 you better be joking
@@riddhiraghavendra9835 Umm not all men but all women???
Sheesh. That was actually disgusting
"I wish grades didn't have to define someone's worth"...
Ann+ That hit me
That got me in the feel's
I know exactly how that feels
*Hey Timmy I got an 100 what did you get*
Oh yeah...I felt that before ...
this makes me think of my actions more.
me too
leilv l. Yeah.
l e i l a turkey , cheese, and bacon 4 my sandwich plz and thx
“My best friend used to always ask me to Teach him how to swim.”
“But I never did because I was too Lazy.”
*”He drowned in September.”*
It Hits you Hard to realize most Things come with Terrible Consequences. Not to you, but to those you *love.*
LayLay Waffles
What if you don't love your friend and you're planning something..?
LayLay Waffles but like, why didn’t he ask anyone else?
Lucky for me my best friend always stick by my side whenever we're going swimming she almost drowned once. Since then she learned but i wanted to teach her how to swim but she don't want me to
Oh yeah just quote something and it’ll have a deeper meaning
LayLay Waffles Yeah...
“women’s body’s are made for men” wow. i lost words.
...he drowned in September....
That’s deep
Holy shit that was good
I can't tell if that was a pun or not
Brooke Williams I didn’t realize til now lol
@@commentkingsbestview5596 lol well is it a pun or not?
Brooke Williams no I didn’t want it to be. It’s kinda funny now lol
Well that was a plot twist if I've ever seen one..
Austin A what was
Lara A the first girl when she said the girl drowned
It went really dark fast on the first person when she said the person drowned
Did the person drown him?
Miss Dazz awe 😰
As a child I was molested a few times. Thinking it was normal because of how often it happened to me, I never gave it much thought. My dad taught me from an early age that I should always obey my elderly out of respect ( I was always one to take my fathers lessons very literal). So I did exactly that. I obeyed every single thing an adult told me to do. Even when I didn't want to. My dad never found out till I was Eleven years old how my baby sitters were treating me. He was never around enough to notice. He was always working, trying to put food on the table for me and my younger siblings, he was always busy with bills and never really had the opportunity to spend time with us (we were always poor). My mother chose drugs over her own family, so as the eldest I was responsible for burdening the 'mother' role in our family. The baby sitters were always fucking cunts who almost always yelled and punished my siblings for being kids ( our babysitters made them face the wall for long periods of times) i was always the baby sitters favorite. Always. i never got punished, but they used my body. they touched me everywhere and made me touch them back. The only reason my father found out was because I had the strangest urge to tell my dad what the baby sitter had been doing to me. I honestly felt like god finally took pity on me and sent me an angel to nudge me in the right direction (as cringy as it sounds, it's very true) When I called my dad, I told him 'The babysitter grabbed my chest.' i don't exactly recall the words i used but my dad asked me to go outside the house and talk to him. so i did, he asked me what i meant by that and to make sure the baby sitter wasn't around when i talked to him. i told him that the babysitter grabbed me, put me on his lap, took off my shirt and touched me. my dad told me to walk to my cousins house until he got home (they lived two houses away from us) i did as i was told. when he got home, i saw his car pass by our cousins house so i went outside and followed it home. i remember hearing the loudest punch i had ever heard in my life, it scared the hell out of me even as i was standing outside in the driveway. Ten seconds later, my baby sitter is running outside with his hands holding his jaw. I didn't understand what was going on. I was confused when my uncle picked me up and hugged me. I remember him saying it was all going to be okay. I didn't understand why they were treating me like I was dying. My uncle and dad guided me back over to my cousins house, where my aunt (the only female-figure in my life at the time) welcomed me back. They told her what I told them and I remember she hugged me and started crying. And it was then that I started to break down. Around men i'm completely emotionless and with good reason to be. It had been a long time since I'd been around someone who felt like a mother to me. So when she started crying for me, I started crying too. Still not realizing what was wrong, she later sat me down and explained to me and taught me all about self-worth and that what he did to me was wrong (I still didn't confess about the previous molestation that happened to me out of shame.) and now I realize how violating and disgusting these people are. Call me slow or naive, but I've always been an isolated person.
As I'm growing up, I'm beginning to get catcalled in public now.. I've only just turned 17. It's really freaky.
i'm still a little naive, but I've grown a backbone now. i'm not the spineless kid I once was.
i've cried twice writing this whole thing, so i'm not sure it'll make any sense. i don't want to reread it. i'm done feeling this way. it's to early for me to be this upset.
Mercy You don’t have to feel this way anymore, everything will be ok, your father will protect you and you can yourself now, I’m so sorry for what happened, i wish you the best in your life.
I am so sorry...may you have the best life ever! From now on!
Hi Mercy I sincerely hope you're doing good
Mercy wow... idk what to say. That's really horrible what he did to you I'm sorry 😕 Life lesson: don't ever let anyone touch your body without asking and your body belongs to you and ONLY you.
Im so sorry, you are a strong person who deserves way better
"I hate my self but i tell others to love yourself" -me
U r not alone
"I am ashamed of my body but I tell other people to love themselves"
That hit me way too hard in the chest, I can relate to that way too much.
Wow.. The first one though...
Baekhyun, Seulgi & Jungkook The irony maybe she will die because someone didn't teach her how to put the safety on a gun.
TROPHYSEEKER123 funny
You had 1k likes
Thank me
Jk jk lol😂
Ikr...
I wonder what it would feels if I didn't went through this episode in my Life and it will forever stay a secret
To everyone going through something. I love you. I don’t have to know you but we all struggle and I understand the pain of holding secrets in.
Amen.
Derrick Willis i see this type of comments everywhere even friends of mine put stuff like that on social media. But when i tried to suicide and i was hospitalized for 5 mounths because of that nobody even cared, and now everybody treats me like a freak im Alone and it sucks so go love the ppl around you and dont post stuff like this makes me even more angry. I hope i dont fail to kill mysef again, have a good life.
Diogo Oliveira
It’s not that no one cares...they are just afraid. They don’t know what to say or how to react and would rather someone else go first before them. I, too, tried to commit suicide a few times, but when it was not successful, I slowly woke up and no one helped me out of it, it’s really all about what you want in your mind. No one can make you happy and continue to keep you happy, only you can. Yea it sucks sometimes, but once you get to know yourself and forgive yourself, your inner self will eventually change and evolve and grow. No one can do that for you...only you. You don’t need someone else to care about you...you need to care about you. That’s really the secret.
This honestly made my day thank you
Diogo Oliveira +++++
I just want to say this, I don’t know who needs to hear this but, it’s ok to not be ok
Thanks that really helped
Thanks bro
"I wish grades didn't have to define someone worth"
So true...even I always have good grades, my mind always whisper "what's the point of learning if I forgot about it the moment I finish the exam... Just what I am learning for?"
It's math and the 3 major science subject of course.
I can totally relate! I just graduated from junior high school, my gwa is 96, I graduated with HIGH HONORS, but the funny thing is, I know to myself that I'm not really smart, I'm just studying for sake of passing the exams, get good scores and high grades, but after some time, I constantly forget all the lessons that I have studied. Ever since, I started to doubt my own capabilities but I'm trying to improve myself. Right now I'm reading useful books for self improvement and to change my mindset. I hope you are doing great!
That's so true. In the end all of it is thrown out of the window because we have search engines like google and siri to do the job for us. After all it isn't what we learned from school that gives us the job or helps us do better but how we can put that knowledge to use and how we express our creativity. Big waste of time this all really is especially since school was created during the industrial stage where working at factories were becoming a big thing. Main reason why you have to sit in rows and follow orders when given. May not be news to a lot of people but just thought I'd get that out there. Best of luck to all of you! If you ever feel down let someone know :).
@@bluecats1585 It's fine you're not alone. Many people are just like you as it is only how we use that knowledge which helps us improve. But the fact you at least think about that makes you smarter than a lot of people. Some blindly do as told in life and never question. Hope you are doing great!
Yeah, the worser version of this for me is the fact that sometimes your life worth equals to what you contribute to society.
If you are smart for example people will expect you to do this and that and if you don't comply they will scrutinize you (the case of a Korean child prodigy who stop working on NASA to become a High School teacher, he was deemed as a failure by people online and offline)
I just don't understand, if we came to this world to enjoy it and to live it to the fullest extent then why do we need to bow to people's expectations? Why can't we be we? Why is someone's worth are defined by what they did to society?
It is just
The world no more like life mechanism is about bowing down to supreme monarch named expectations
@@jackpreacher7210 Daaaaaaaaaaang, that sounds awful.
"Im ashamed of my body, but I tell other ms to love themselves" That was relatable😢
Mah Kookieee relatable to me too
The thing is, don't love the way you are, find flaws and be better.
Same 😢
yeah.
Angery MigMet dude that’s a bad idea. everyone is their own worst critic. people will think oh i hate my lips. tell them that and they’ll go get plastic surgery.
You never know how much you love someone until they are gone
True
That’s the truest thing I’ve ever heard.
True 😔
“I wish grades didn’t define someone’s worth”
The realest thing I’ve ever heard.
Reading these stories makes me greatful that whenever one of my dodgy uncles were around my mum would always make sure to keep me near her and would always tell me whenever he knocked on the door and I was alone in the house I shouldn't open it, he wouldn't understand that and would continuously knock which was low key scary. At the time I never knew the kinds of stuff he had done but as I grew older and learnt more I became so greatful that my mum was so protective. It hurts to see not everyones mum is like that because I feel as though I don't show my appreciation to my mum for all the sacrifices she's done for me. Sometimes I feel so selfish...
Naimah Khan I am a mum too,I was molested as a child by a friend of the family. I grow up en teached my 3 year old daughter what parts of her body could not be touched by ANYONE, and that she always ALWAYS must tell me when someone does. She is 18 now and I still repeat it. Even if you were never molested (thank God) remember to teach this to your children( also boys)
Its so sad to think a member of your family can hurt you. When I was a child my mom always said if my uncle went to pick me up at school i should wait for her .
Responsible mother's makes the future life responsible 👍
Guys WTF, am I the only one who never know someone being abused by a family member? I mean it’s so weird, my uncle was like my best friend and he bought a lot of toys when I was young, always nice and he was the person that always protected me. He was like a 2’ father to me. Wtf
Nimer ツ same with me I was like that and I didn’t know about this but then I met my friend and she introduced me to this harsh reality. I’ve seen what she’s gone through and it’s crazy a lot of people who know her don’t know about this. Someone you know probably has gone through it and are struggling privately. I truly hope they can get through this. Seeing what it does to a person is just scary. I don’t think any of my uncles are like that, they’ve always been like a fatherly figure but nonetheless my mum would be careful.
As a female I'm gonna say that my body is not for a man and just because he is a man does not mean he can own me.
I am NOT an object I AM A HUMAN and my body is mine an no one else's
@@rain-wk5qy stop acting like u r living in the old days women r not property this is 2019 we do what we want
@@hollyjennifer Bruh, it's a joke. I am a girl. Also, maybe use civilised words? I can understand, but it is more desirable to read a complete sentence.
It's sad that you need to affirm that your body belongs to you. It's common sense that it belongs to you and that anyone who hurt you should be jailed and beaten.
@@rain-wk5qy It's sick of you to joke about stuff like that. Shame on you.
nirmitha premnath
Same thing around
We should change the term "I need help" to "I need support". There is a poor stigma around the word help as it implies weakness. Support can be anywhere from co-workers in business to one on one with a counselor.
Love this!
sam1021 Thank you!
The other day my co-worker was talking about applying for a new job and I could see she wasn't taking action due to nerves. I asked her "How can I support you?" and she said it'd be great if you can right me a reference. I was shocked at how a one word change made the difference.
Grant H. It is crazy how a simple replacement of a word can change the tone of a sentence. Positive outlook! Best of luck to you as well as your coworker!
Grant H. I totally understand that, but maybe we should change the attitude around getting help as a whole, mainly because getting help isn't weak. I know it's not what you're implying, but society actively needs to work toward a world where getting help, for necessary things, is the norm.
Everlove ly Absolutely true. Great point!
My dad and stepmom always fought really bad and one day my dad overheard me say "I hate my dad" later that night he took his own life and I will never stop blaming myself for it
I got a deepest darkest secret
I told my father I wanted to be a boy he told me "what makes you think that being a boy would be better if you can't even be a good daughter"
you matter, stay strong, you are valid.
I’m sorry ☹️☹️
Some words are not said as it should..Stay strong👍👍God bless you😊A pretty girl❤❤
E TinnyCheddar AHAHAHAHAHAHA
this literally makes me so sad???
"I wish grades didn't have to define someone's worth"
-I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS ONE!
"My body is for men"
-HEARING THAT MADE ME SOO OFFENDED AND SO MAD..
But its true
@@_5ive6 And what does that mean?
@@kjcobbler Men > Women
XXX WRLD women are the superior sex if anything men are subjected to giving women pleasure women are in every way better than men sorry you had to hear it sweetie.
Autumn Vlogs! Um no, it’s equal. Nobody’s superior.
My heart broke when they said they were molested by their babysitter and the father said to “Be quiet, the female body is for men.” Why is our world like this? If you are molested and told to be quiet, don’t be quiet and say something. That something can lead to something that can help you get past it. Please, tell someone if you are getting molested.
It is horrible but that is religions people believe that women's bodies are for men and they only cook and wash and we can't drive cars and it's horrible but u can't really change it because hat what ppl believe in x
Abi Bla I just gotta say it's not really the religion itself that makes people think those things, it's the culture of the people who learned it that way from back in the day where they used to live like this, it's just sad that still to this day some people support this perception of gender roles.
Mi Ri but the problem is, for example the bible literally says women are men's property. So people didn't just jump to that conclusion, it isn't based on their interpretation of a vague metaphor. It literally says so.
36 what’s so funny..?
I know.That one in particular gave me goosebumps and really left me thinking.
My darkest secret:I always tell anyone who is struggling to any of Anxiety, Depression, Insecurities,to how to solve that problem and give advice,But I can't even make myself feel fine.
My body has some rolls and a ton of stretch marks, but my body is sacred and holy, and I will treat it like a goddess. It is mine and mine only, and I will care for it!
Hani beautiful girl/guy you shine!!
I wish.
This comment seriously helped me .. thank u
Ritika Pramanick you are so very welcome my friend. Every body is sacred!
Yeah so fuck everyone else's opinion an opinion is formed by someone else's way of thinking they are not "YOU" so just live YOU
When I was 6 or 7, I realized what the word “drunk” ment, after my dad and mom hit me with their bottles,
I never told anyone they hit me,
*they don’t remember either*
you are strong
Little Dark dragon I’m so sorry.
Please! I hope you are safe now, if not, find a place where you are and feel safe! You are strong, I know it💪🏼
DO they threat you well now? 😨
Stay strong💔💔
I was harrased when I was 7 by this old guy he touched my chest and said to come with him but eventually I ran away from his grip,I told my parents but I dint tell them he touched me... Next day found out he was a organ trafficker .
After a few days of not coming out of the house I told myself he must have left or something but saw him again and I had a baby on my hands(cousin) so the only thing I could do was protect the baby,then my neighbor saw me agitated so she told me to come to her house she saved my life
dang I couldn't imagine an organ trafficker would touch me
Where were you how did you see him twice and how did you know he was an organ trafficker
"My whole life, I've been made to feel like I was undeserving of love both from myself and others and I'm afraid that part of me believes them."
Aghh.......Goosebumps!!!
1:58 wow this is...so digusting. what a horrible father, if you can even call him that.
Naomi Gary theres no way that story was real.
Miraak Prince of Apocrypha yeah this sadly happens more often that you'd think...
Part of me wants to shot him in the head for being that fucked up, but another part of me feels bad for him for becoming that fucked up in the first place. Is there hope for people like that, or are they too set in their ways?
Miraak Prince of Apocrypha yeah - I agree - it does not sound realistic at all. Not only because it's his daughter, but because it was paedophilia too. It makes no sense for someone to make that statement let alone a father unless he was a pedophile himself, something that seemingly would have been important to the story.
Yes u can because he is her father
after watching this,, i realized *i'm not alone*
deenajk _ now go make billy his sandwich
deenajk _ took u 100 years
so you didn't teach your friend how to swim either ?
@@siamhasan288 no because he never ask for it but last year, 21st december he drowned while having having a swim with his brother (my true story btw)
deenajk _ *ok*
Plot twist: it's actually their own secrets
They don't
if it was their secrets they would probably break down while reading them
Not right now, the feels are being hit hard
This messed me up omg
Cieneca Cooke that’s what I always thought but I have a feeling they would be crying.
My Dad is a narcissist and over the years when I go and visit him, he's been getting better. But he still has moments where he will put one of my siblings down over the smallest things. I don't want that happening to me, so I become a completely different person around him and just do what he says unless its completely out of the question.
My oldest sister has severe ADHD, and so because of that he gets mad at her a whole lot.
I wish I was louder.
Narcisst will never get better safe yourself and hold your distance.
2:00 some guys at my school constantly joke about this kind of thing. they always say “there’s only one gender, male, women are property.” at first, i joked along and said “guess no one owns me,” and i awkwardly chuckled. i realized how wrong this was a while back, at the time some guy was joking about that and i just awkwardly smiled. after that happened in class, the guy i liked at the time pulled me aside and said “how are you ok with them saying that?” and i said “i’m not really” and he said “you can’t do that to yourself, speak up about it. you don’t deserve that.” some people are truly awful, i’m speechless when someone genuinely cares and actually speaks up about that kind of stuff.
that guy seems nice do you still talk with him?
That guy just melted my heart. How sweet of him.
If he's the guy you like, you have a pretty nice taste.
you got good taste
You liked the right person...why don't you like him anymore?
As a Kid everyone said that I was brave and strong, and because of that I never showed when I was feeling down. "If you cry you are weak" that idea got into my head, and its still there. Everytime I feel the need to cry, in public or alone, I get an anxiety/panic attack. I fear showing emotions to people, I fear being human
Me as well, I've learned not to feel. Feeling things show weakness and I can't show weakness to them... When they bruise me and make me bleed I can't not show hurt.
Omg I come from a different place, but I've long feared being (fully) human too! I've really only gotten what it means for me very recently, and I will continue to learn
I fear being human... that was amazing... to tell you the truth as a human being I hate the human race because of our ignorance
@@malicious_333 I can relate. At the same time, we're the best on the planet in terms of knowing. It's just what we've got and we have a lot of potential. It's just that we're not very good at unlocking it in everybody yet.
I feel you bro, my father passed away when I was 12 and its exaxtly 12 years ago, that was the last time I cried.
Plot twist: They're reading their own secrets.
Cool plot twist
I had a friend since I was 6, I would always talk behind their back and always say rude stuff to their face. 7 years later we had became the closest, I realised they were the only person who actually cared about me and the only friend that never left. I had to move to a new country. On the day I went to the airport, went to their house to say our final goodbyes. They weren’t home. I have never seen them ever again
You know what i feel right now? We all have so many secrets. So much pain. Reading others' pain, I feel like my pain is nothing. But, isn't it hard? Isn't that secret suffocating?
But, everyone over here, i just wanna tell you, that your pain is not your mistake. It's not an advise. It's what i learnt through my experience. It's not your mistake. You are doing a great job, living your life. Please, stop blaming yourself. Except your pain as a part of you. There's no other way out. If you don't accept it, it will break u. You need not trust anyone else. But, just, trust yourself. Learn from the mistakes you make, and spread as much love you can, so that no one else goes through the same pain you have witnessed.
I wish that you all would get the happiness you all deserve.. ❤️ ❤️
Thank you so much for this
What my deepest secret? I was fourteen, turning fifteen in October. I had a boyfriend who got really sick with ammonia and lung infection. Because he was in the hospital for months and we could contact anyone, I decided to have his sister give a letter to him that said I was breaking up with him.
Two weeks later, he died.
It was also his birthday, turning fourteen.
And a part of me believes that I had killed him.
Leonardo the Lover it’s not your fault
pray for his soul ❤️❤️
I am sorry.. I really am.. ♥️
So your gay
Jaqueline Hernandez disrespectful
He had “ammonia”
this video gave me the strength to say what i've never told anyone...
when i was 11 or 12, my dad assaulted me. multiple times. he would touch my thigh and stick his hand up my shirt and touch somewhere a father should NEVER touch his daughter. i didn't really try to stop him because i was scared. i was young, too, so i didn't fully understand the whole situation. he did this multiple times... it went on for a few months until i finally had enough. i never even confronted him... all i did was simply distance myself.
now i'm 15 and i'm really suffering from keeping this in so long. i haven't told anyone... not my mom, not my best friend, not even my therapist. i'm scared that my mom either wouldn't believe me or would get mad at my father which would ruin our family. i'm also scared of judgement and pity... and i know i should hate my dad for what he did to me, but i'm honestly worried that by telling people this, his reputation will be ruined. i've developed really bad anxiety and the depression i had back then is coming back. i know this isn't as bad as what happened to some people but it still affects me and i don't know what to do. a few days ago i was really close to telling someone, but i chickened out like i always do. i'm desperate for help but i don't have the strength to tell anyone in real life. i no longer go to therapy, so that's not an option...
my mom always sees my behavior towards my father as "hatred" and "rudeness," but little does she know. i act like that with him because of what HE DID TO ME.
at first, while writing this i was scared that my mom might find out, but now it'll be a relief if she does. i'm sick of living like this,, with my mind always in the past.
It's okay babe ❤. U should focus on present and we will support u. 😊
@Gopika Nambiar i'm okay haha
@@emma-dr5nm OH MY GOD. OKAY LISTEN!!! U HAVE ALL THE RIGHT TO HATE UR FATHER. I WOULDN'T EVEN CALL THAT A *"FATHER"* BUT WHATEVER-
Pls, call for help. Do you have anyone u can trust? A good aunt, grandma or cousin? If so then pls tell them and don't hold it back. The longer u keep it a secret the more u will suffer. I really want to help u, get all ur strength together and tell smn what happened. If ur dad touched u once, it might happen again. Even worse, what if he gets drunk and ur alone in the house with him????
So pls confront him (with backup not alone!!!). If I would be in ur place, I would cry my eyes out, put a great show on and tell mom with so much drama, what my "dad" used to do to me as a kid. Then I would tell her that I never had the courage to tell her, since I didn't want to destroy the family and feared that she might not believe me.
Important: Ur dad shoudn't be at home, when u tell ur mom what happened. So u have more time and can talk things out with her in peace.
I have a broken family, never had my own home, am not good at school, so every now and then i would stare blankly at a wall, i live in a fantasy world in my head were i have a home and a complete family... And sadly im enjoying it, i enjoyed living in a nonexistent world.
I love my fantasy world too! As a suggestion I made to myself too, I think that it would be good to find a compromise in which you organize your time and dedicate some of it in the real world and some in your own world. Remember that they coexist, so they are both important. The fact that you dream and create your own world is beautiful and healing, who doesn't love to create or fantasize? But also the real world is necessary and can be dreamy too, because the people who love you and you love are in there, and thanks to it you can have the inspiration for your fantasy world: indirectly, your sources for your fantasy world are from the real one, so...isn't the best thing to live fully in each one of them to have the best version of both of them?
Plot twist the people are reading their own secrets
Dun dun
Chloë Gillan STOP!!! I knew it 😞
Or the ones in the comment section...
Chloë Gillan ......
Chloë Gillan that's what I was thinking
'I'm ashamed of my body, but i tell other people to love themselfs' this is what i tell myself everyday...
than do something about it if you're not sick you can change that
Hah pussy
generic username 420 hah heartless
My deepest secret: My best friend is having a lot of trouble with her mental health and anxiety. But because she has these problems she’s not the same anymore, I can’t take her to concerts and parties cause she doesn’t like it. She doesn’t want to talk about her problems with me either. She’s getting help from our teacher and I know she hates to talk about her problems with me, so I’m not asking anymore. Honestly don’t know what to do. I try to be there for her, but I’m losing all of my other friends and I don’t have any real friends left that I want to take to parties and carnivals. I’m becoming a friend who’s always in the background. Again.
Maybe give her some time and space? Or tell her that you will always be there for her. I'm sure she'll appreciate it
“Help” is what i hear coming from these words
my darkest secret is there is not usually a reason why i’m crying or why i’m sad. it’s my anxiety and i never know what i’m crying about
Claireee iz Bored i can understand u. for me too a lot of time is like this. u are not alone.
Can relate
Claireee iz Maybe there’s something that happened in your childhood or on your family that you never let out
You have to turn to jesus the Lord and For and repent
It's because you're a steelers fan. You cry because they suck.
Well that's a intro I wasn't expecting...
My secret: When I was 7 years old my grandma's sister gave me a doll, and I was overseas at the time in Lebanon, and I was really happy and all I said to her was nothing, not even a thank you, until my mum widened her eyes at me and told me to say thank you, and I said thanks... She pasted away when I was 11 and when I went back to Lebanon, it was already a month late and when my mother told me she died, I just started laughing as I didn't believe her, " you're joking, right?" I'm now 13 and I still cry over her, and yes I still have the doll. I named the doll after her, I know this sounds crazy but I just can't stop thinking about her its been 7 years since I haven't seen her and 3 years since she died...
Just as he gave you that toy and made you happy when you were little, maybe you should give that toy to a small child and make you happy.
I do have my own darkest secret..
I sent a message for my male bff whom i just get in contact with...i wanted to invite him for my school's carnival so that we can hang out more after years of never met with each other....but never i know that he already died just a few minutes before i sent him the message...and what makes me felt more guilty that after 3 days i finally been informed about his death....so for 3 straight days i didnt know at all that he already gone...i thought that i could hang out with him and have fun with each other but it never happened
After a month of his death...i had a really weird dream where he saved me from an unwanted married with another man and instead he the one that replaced the spot of the groom and marry me...is this some coincidence?
Sorry for my bad english~
What a dream, maybe a sign of what going to happen
@@theisthespade3713 he’s dead so i don’t think that would happen
i’m so sorry for your loss
i think that for the dream thing that it feels like u like him more than a best friend
Maybe he loved you and wanted to marry you but couldn't say because he would be to nervous? And I have heard dead people comes in dreams so maybe he did to and just tried to tell u thag he loves u?who knows but yea I hope your feeling ok....
10 seconds in - I NEED AN ADULT
andy franks Is that a Swoozie reference?
acrylicgodoy Not that I know of, Team Four Star is the first place i heard it. But i hear it everywhere now so who nows.
I already needed extra therapy when I was only in them 10 secs
When you are an adult, yet relate to the comment 100%.
andy franks Yeah DBZ Abridged
When I was little I got hurt a lot. I cracked the skin on the back of my head on a step. I pretty badly injured and nearly broke my tailbone, making me prone to hurting it several times after that. I had minor asthma, I was diagnosed with sleep apnea. I had surgery when I was 7. To this day (7 years later) my head still hurts, my tailbone still hurts, I struggle to eat and breathe. I have been obese since I was around 3 or 4. I don't know why. I was only fed proper portions and healthy foods when I was young. The older I got, the hungrier I got. I couldn't stop eating. My natural body is small, weak and feminine. I weigh more as a young female than a lot of grown males. My parents have been struggling with their marriage the entire time I've been alive. Growing up around constant fighting (verbal abuse), I have had anger issues and nervous breakdowns since I can remember. My dad has had depression caused by tragic events, leading to aggressive and cruel behavior. My anger issues and a need to stand out only made the bullying at school worse. The entire staff were terrible people, the students were all shallow and judging. I've been yelled at for things I can't control for years. When I was 10 I went to a pediatrician, she was helping me better my diet (oops, didn't work). She asked me if I ever had suicidal thoughts. I did. I'm 14 now, I have been diagnosed with anxiety. I can be a jerk sometimes. I sometimes feel like I hate people for what they've done to me and to this world, but for some reason I can't bring myself to not cry when they fall apart. I love animals, I love my family, I love my friends and every living creature on this planet. To add to all my issues, I haven't been eating as much, because I'm sick of being told I'm fat and ugly. I still only eat whatever's lying around, which is usually affordable junk, since my family often struggles with money. I'm losing hair and eyesight from my lack of protein, vitamin a, etc. My dad had threatened to kick me out, and to put me in a mental hospital. I don't want to be around father anymore, he only makes my problems worse. I still love the guy, of course, but it's hard to want to be around somebody who can go from cheerful to hulk mode in a second flat. I want to have a good life after high school, but I've already failed once now. My school is done with me not cooperating, they don't understand what I go through. I am not normal. I'm smart but I think slowly. I'm not autistic but I'm still mentally ill. I'm rude but I'm not apathetic. I'm emotionally challenged but emotional. I hate living but I love it. I'm trying to get help. It's hard when my only comfort was the people I loved, my online friends. It might seem dumb but they're my second family and I am their's. I've already lost so many people. It feels like every day I lose another friend. Some of them decided they don't like me anymore, becoming my bullies in the process. Some of them have taken their lives at the young ages of 11 to 16. Please do not comment to say you don't care about my story, go on with your life if that's the case. If you've taken your time to read this, I care. If you think nobody cares about you, here I am, a young depressed teen. I love you. Thank you for taking your time. May whatever you believe in guide you in life. ❤
I don't know what to say... One thing I do know is that I want to tell you how I love you too. It helps hearing that sometimes. We may be complete strangers, but I can tell from your reading and your opening up that you are a brave, kind person. Thank you for sharing.
@@cherubiantactics Thank you so much for being so kind to me! ❤
@@angeliquewu8318 No problem and thank you too! ❤
You're so strong..You know what ,we all have pain and suffering.The fact that we are still alive and fight with our problems it's a plus👍👍You can write me whenever you want ❤❤
Silly Bean Stay strong I don't know if you've gotten away from your dad yet or if you want to yet get some advice from someone you know.
My secret:
I'm jealous of everyone I'm friends with.
Same
Bruh exactly. I can't stand them succeeding. I know it's bad, I know I must change, but I can't seem to get rid of the feeling. I've rarely felt happy for something they've done.
Lol
Same
why
*"They said i'm nothing but clear evidence of a mistake they made while drunk"*
You tell them it was their mistake not yours......
You just love yourself honey at least try to do it🤗
You are not a mistake💜
@sad vill
That must have hurt u a lot.i just cant stop feeling bad.Stay strong okay?dont worry..😊I know it's hard but please try to stay happy and enjoy the little thing in ur life.and moreover it's a blessing that u were born,not only u;each and every person are a blessing.
Dont ever lose hope my friend😊
You are not a mistake . You are born for reason ❤️
You are not a mistake even if you think that trust me you are not.