What’s 1 thing you wish you never heard?
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- Опубликовано: 1 янв 2020
- This question was suggested by my friend John! I met him a few months ago on a bench at Balboa Park. Since then every time he sees me filming he asks about my question for the day.. we typically talk for 30 minutes discussing the question and so much more. Recently, he came up to me and said that he had an interesting question for me to ask strangers.. and this was it. He said that his answer would be- when he found out on average there are 12 dead spiders in a jar of peanut butter. He wishes he never heard that because he loves peanut butter!!
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"Never have children because it was the worst mistake I ever made." -Mom
Cat Snek oh man I hate this. This is almost as bad as once recently, my mom yelled at my younger sister,”you make my life a living hell” and this is giving me kinda PTSD. This is why I’m not having kids when I’m older. I don’t want to mess up my kids lives like my mom did to mine. I don’t want to talk about it but long story short I don’t want to have kids for many reasons, this being one of them.
My parents say that but then they back it up and say “unless u got everything to settle”😂😂
Probably Buddha okay I get not wanting to have kids for your own reasons, but don’t tell people not to have kids because of overpopulation, that’s a stupid reason
I'm so sorry that happend to you
I'm sure you're a great person. Please don't let it affect you. It's easier said then done but I belive in you!
"If I left you alone there would be nobody that would take care of you"
“you turned out how i prayed you wouldn’t” -my mom
Zoe Tudor aw hope you’re ok! that horrible.
❤dont listen to that
Same for me. My mom always criticized the rude way my aunt (my dad's sister) was. And when I grew up. She told me I was exactly like her (in manners). When I was little she always told me not to be like her. And at some point I was a little like k her (my aunt) I don't know if it was because my parents were very violent with each other and I could control the anger, or if I behave like that for a long time because she repeatedly told me we were alike.
The way you turned out was beautiful. Your mom hoped you wouldn’t turn out beautiful so a guy wouldn’t start liking you and you and that guy make a new life with a new family and leave your mom. Your turned out beautiful and the reason she said that is because she did t want you to leave
That’s not right. I’m very sorry
"People have it worse than you"
I just felt like I had no right to be upset.
@@lilnub3017 Same I can't cry anymore and I miss it. Looking to get therapy for it so fingers crossed
This is what my parents say to me. I can’t trust them with my emotions anymore, it feels like I have to hide them.
Are y’all American because y’all sound American
I'm a Hong Konger@@nathanwilliams9264
Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven becausewe don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Revelation 21:8 KJV. JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY TO HEAVEN REPENT AND BELIVE THE GOSPEL.
"I'm going to die a junky"
My twin brother said this to me after he overdosed, and I had brought him back with two shots of Narcan, CPR, and holding him up in a cold shower. When we got him to the hospital, it was just me and him in the room; I'd rode in the ambulance and my parents were following behind in the car. Just us two, no nurses or doctors, and he said it to me as he broke down. We were about 24-25.
He died three years ago after an accidental overdose at the age of 27. I miss him every day and wish I could have changed the outcome.
He had to know I tried everything I could, I tried it all to get him to quit. He has to know that I tried, right..?
Just saying this to the wind.
You can only do so much. Addiction is a tyrant, and your brother lost control. His actions were not your doing. All you could have done was offer help; if he chose not to take it that is on him. I don't mean to sound like I am dehumanizing him or blaming him; I know addiction is tough, firsthand. Please just don't blame yourself. I am certain that is the last thing he would have wanted.
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Yes, you tried and he knew you did.
Now it's important to forgive yourself for not performing a miracle and living a full and happy life. You deserve that.
You did everything you could have done. You did a lot more than most family members would have done for a loved one to begin with. It's so very clear that you loved your brother and cared a lot about him. It is not your fault at all. Stop blaming yourself please because it's not your fault. There's no one to fault, there's no one to blame at all in this situation. Please forgive yourself and your brother too if you need to and live your fullest life. He wants you to live a happy full life. He knows its not your fault he knows you did everything you could. I promise. I've been in an extremely similar situation myself.
It's not your fault.
“That was years ago, you should be over it by now”
-My mother, who’s brother molested me when I was 7 years old.
It was his decision to molest her, but it should have been her mom's decision to tell him to go to hell (and call the police).
I am truly, truly sorry to hear. I hope you’re okay now, there are so many people out there who love and support you. Don’t listen to what you’re mother has to say, she clearly doesn’t understand the pain you’ve gone through and I admire you so much as a person for being so brave and getting past it❤️❤️❤️ sending my love
I am so sorry, I hope that you are alright now! There will always be people here to help you and support you!💖💖💖
Thalia whaaat...?
Same here
“Look what we have here, a depressed and suicidal kid after giving them an amazing life, how ungrateful” - mom
Edit: I'm way better now, in a better place and happier, thank you for all the support
That's a great profile picture my dude
i love how they always think that they’re right and we’re wrong
@@thenbhdgirlie Do you happen to like Star vs. The Forces of Evil?
@@brimuffins6155 It's wonderful isn't it?
Same thing happened to me when I was a kid. My parents never even bothered worrying until I attempted suicide.
"You're a monster."
When this person said this to me, they caused me to question myself, who I was. It definitely contributed to the depression stage of my life
yo that sucks "(
Sometimes you have to be a monster to provide for yourself and your family. It's one of the harsh realities of being a man. This doesn't mean TRY to be a monster but when you know you have to you have to.
Were you, though? Self examination and questioning is not always a bad thing.
ooga booga
The only issue you should be concerned with is...were they right?
*"Son, I guess it's about time for me to leave."*
My grandpa, four days before he passed away, told this to me while I was shaving his beard because he couldn't for the first time in his life.
No one else knew about this, and no, he didn't commit suicide. He simply decided to let go... as the obsessively independent, emotionally mute, stubborn man he had ever been. Yet, he's also been the biggest role model of mine in his exceptional way of life as a godless humanist, solely for the love of and respect for humanity.
I was both overwhelmed with pride that I was the person he shared his last secret, and crushed with sadness that he's leaving and it's impossible to change his mind.
I miss you, distant man with a well hidden heart of gold. I miss you so much, you stubborn angel in disguise.
A heart of gold from a person from then is worth hundreds of hearts of gold now. Because so much of our time is taken up by distractions, we hardly have time to develop who we are. Having someone with true heart of gold in your own heart can be one of the greatest things you could ever feel.
Damn, almost reminds me of my own grandpa. Sadly he passed away in 2019. He had a heart attack suddenly and i called everyone because i and only my grandma was there with him. Sadly, my father wouldn’t believe it was a heart attack and due to this, he was not able to reach the hospital in time. But something happened me to a month before he passed away and made me spent as much time with him. We played chess together and i wish i could play with him one more time...
"A life worth living is not counted by years"
Wow
That guy seems extremely intuitive and wise
Thats be some deep shit lol be interesting to hear peoples answers though
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Time stamp?
@@swisdom9117 6:31
Dr: You have cancer.
Girl: Shit!
Best response ever. I’m glad she’s still here to tell the story.
Hello Alice from teotfw
ツLory whay
J.J. Madrid Cancer isn’t deadly like it used to be
Ava Johnson my aunt, neighbor, and grandma passed away of cancer...
J.J. Madrid I’m sorry to hear that but more people survive from it today
"Fix yourself, go see a doctor or something. I don’t know how to deal with you anymore"
This was said by a good friend of mine shortly before he ended our friendship. It really hurt me, getting confirmed that I‘m just a burden. Ever since I‘ve became quiet, I tend to not talk about my feelings because I‘m scared I will have to hear those words again.
Stay exactly how you are, or were. Talk to someone. A friend, a trusted family member, hell, even me. I don't know what exactly it is you need, but i may know how to help you, even if it's the tiniest bit. I am here for you, denisa.
awesome
People will alawys say mean things and sometimes they dont really mean it. Try not to care what other people think or say. The only person who will be with you for the rest of your life and who has always been with you is yourself.
It may be harsh but it may be true, it can be a good wakeup call to change things
that person was a lazy freind , dont worry u will meet new freinds in your life that will make u feel good
i think the worst thing i have ever been told was "Nobody cares about how you feel, just deal with it" from my parents who i thought were caring and loving of me but that made me realize how much they didn't care for me
Ofc they care, nobody cares except them and ur wife
Yeah....wrong video.
@@johnd5398 whats wrong
@@johnd5398 still heard it form someone so
nobody cares about how you feelings in reality
anyone past the age of 13 understands that lol
“Mom is not coming home, she is dying”- my dad. She passed away 7.5 years ago from cancer. I love and miss you, mom
I am so sorry for your loss. You're so strong i love you
Have a good day and remember there are good things that happen just look for the good
im so sorry! i love you, okay?
🥺🥺🥺❤️ bless you
Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!
The innocence of that kid who said he wished he never heard that Santa isn’t real is so heartwarming after hearing about the other struggles that the young adults went through.
Grace Burke nah its the other way around he wished that people didnt lie to him that santa was real so in short he didnt want the bs from the start
@@Danny-de1ry exactly, if i had kids im not even gonna tell them about santa.. its nlt because i dont wanna spend money on them.. of course i would.. but if youre gonna lie to a kid from birth to 7-8 years old.. how will they be able to trust you?
You heard that wrong. The kid is super logical since he was young and he's saying his brain was hurting like when you say America is part of what continent and someone goes the North continent. That pain that makes you go wait what did i hear that right. Is the dilemma he was facing.
Nah I meant about how he didn’t want to tell his brother to let him have the fantasy for longer, sry for the misconception
I said his innocence is heartwarming not his problem
i just realized its been a little over 4 years since this video was made. I hope that girl who had cancer lived through it and is living her life to the best
Me too.
The teacher who talked about school funding, I loved that. It was so important for her that it was the first thing that came to her mind. That made me very sad and angry that our society does not make education one of the first priorities.
I had the biggest smile on my face when she said she beat cancer!
O yes, and I really hope that it doesn't come back, and that she can live the life she wants
Oh me too! Just wanted to hug her.
markalocases jr thank You Jesus
@@maryannkalo5003 Your Jesus has nothing to do with this
Gozdii Gozdii for me... He does :)
“It’s ok we could always see each other tomorrow” the day before my girlfriend passed away
I could not even imagine the pain and heartbreak I'm so sorry
no one cares
You'll see her in Heaven
Pizza Lord that’s so true 🦋
@@winterfyleth5103 If you don't care, why comment in the first place?
"I don't care what school taught you, your feelings don't matter" was the thing that caused an eight year old me to tell my mom to ask my dad to stop telling me he loves me because he clearly doesn't. She later told me that he cried when she told him that and my only thought was "good". Its too damn bad that he never figured out that every time he shouted that with that horrendous nails on a chalkboard voice, over a child crying about things like toys being broken, the thing he implied at the end of that sentence was "only mine do"
“We don’t have a relationship because you don’t want one.”
I didn’t do anything to you dad.
I am really sorry to whatever is happening in your life right now, I know you can get through it 🙏 ❤️
Im sorry to hear. Hope you're well. One love.
Did you do anything with him?
You deserved a better dad. I am sorry. 🖤
"Did you seduce him?"
When I finally mustered up the courage to tell my mom about being sexually molested by a trusted family member for most of my childhood years since I was 5.
I was 5... How could I?
Never felt more alone in my life.
Bobbeline I’m so sorry... if you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here. You’re very strong, thank you for sharing ❤️
Im here also ♥️
I'm so sorry
Thank you so much for the kind replies :") ❤️ I'm better now :> the video just sparked a momentary sadness but I've learnt to let it go 😌 Time and forgiveness really helped me heal. Really, don't worry about me :> Thank you guys✨
I'm sorry...
It's not your fault and will never be. Hug💙
"We don't have time for that, you have school." - My mom, when I begged to go to my best friends funeral at the age of 12 after finding out they'd been shot and killed in an accidental shooting. The funeral was out of town and my parents decided that me going to the funeral was an inconvenience to them and also I would have to take time away from school, which they said was more important. I promptly failed all my classes that year, so...
Neru Vadsi Your Mom is an awful person.
I am so sorry you had to endure such a loss, and it was probably just salt in the wound to have to endure this too. Sometimes parents can be so selfish and not look beyond themselves for the wellbeing of their children. I’m sending love your way💕💕
I call bs.
@@afishwithagun2190 🖕
@@user-bl3fl7cu7p 😳
My husband, who generally is a very kind and amazing man, one time very jokingly told me "You ruin everything". I knew it was a joke, and he felt so badly for hurting me. But for whatever reason that has stuck with me every day since.
An acquaintance of mine once said: "In every joke, there's a grain of truth." I think, he's quite right about that.
A well-wisher of mine recently told me that I've become odd 'coz he's gotten the success in the field in which I failed at the last stage.
I've become different 'coz of my own insecurities. I guess it's never easy to make people understand your true thoughts.
I’ve had this said to me many times and after so many times, you begin to believe it, even if it’s not true. I’m sorry this happened to you, even if they thought it was a joke 😢
When I was 7, my dad was in the hospital and after a few days, my mom brought us all into the room.
"His heart stopped beating, and he died."
I remember her tone, voice, expression, everything. It felt like the world froze. I just stopped thinking, but the silence was a killer, too. It was painful. I wanted to cry, to sob, to scream, but I didn't. It hurts to know that I can't talk to him ever again, because in the moment it felt unreal. It fills you with regret, y'know?
I felt the exact same when I got the news that my grandfather died. I think was about 14-15 and the details of that day are foggy but the moment my mother told me “he has irreversible brain damage and won’t make it through the night” is burned into my mind. My mom hugged me and it felt like it lasted hours, I ceased having logical thought, my world just shattered. Though I wasn’t quiet it’s exactly as you mentioned every time i would stop to take a breath from crying, the silence was overwhelming it felt like being underwater.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you were able to recover mentally from that experience. Thank you for sharing this.@@tannergatto7633
"I took his pop tarts"
This comment section is depressing , i'm just tryna cheer you up
bro that caught me off guard and i started wheezing-
❤️
Your profile pic IS depression.
This one made me the saddest
I wish I never heard trump again jokes don’t come for me trumpers
“I’m embarrassed to be with you in public” my cousin said to me when I already have social anxiety and a low self esteem
I hope things got better for you, stay strong!
Man that really sucks. I’m sending love your way💕
Same
Omg that’s terrible to say that to someone.. I hope your feeling better about it stay strong💞
Oh yes, I have social anxiety and low self esteem and my parents told me that a bunch of times.
It's a toss-up between "We failed as parents" and "You're confused because you were s3xually assaulted last year". Both in response to me coming out as a lesbian.
I'm proud of who I am and no one can take that away from me.
dont listen to anyone else's opinions about you because the only opinion that matters when it comes to you is yours
It often happens that gay people were sexually abused, so they have a point. Really consider it. And it's okay either eay
I think some of the energy behind how they reacted might have been from surprise. I hope they have accepted this and you can accept that perhaps their reactions weren't ideal but they don't need to be. You're happy as you are and you're proud of who you are. I just want to say I think it's really good that your parents knew you were assaulted last year, that shows you have a good relationship with them to begin with. I'm sorry that happened to you. It means a lot that you felt you could come out to them at all, a lot of people hide their sexuality from so many people, family and friends and more. I hope things have settled and that you can forgive them for blurting out those comments.
You're proud as you should 💙
Don't deal with anyone's bs and you do you, hope the best for you!
I hope you come to your senses and realize that it’s all fake.
"If you want, I'm willing to apologize and make amends. As long as you are willing to do the same..." A text I received half a year later from my (no longer) best friend of over a decade that sexually assaulted me. This event was the hardest thing I had ever tried to overcome in my life and completely fucked me up mentally even to this day. And to be reminded of what happened so directly by this text message made everything worse. I wish I never received this message showing me that this person was still trying to contact me after the most fucked up thing I have ever experienced. It made me feel like this person has no remorse for what they had done and for whatever reason thought we could be friends again after it happened. It made me view the entire situation in a completely different light, and especially when I was still trying to overcome what had happened.
If you have ever experienced something similar to this, please get help. I didn't and I made some very, very bad decisions I will regret for the rest of my life. Trying to battle something like this alone is the worst thing you can put yourself through and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. If anyone read this, I appreciate you taking the time. Enjoy what you can in life, even if you feel like you've hit rock bottom, it can only get better from there.
“he is no longer with us now”
- school principle on a close friends suicide when we were 17
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@@listerinebottle63 what do you mean?
Ouch, frick
this happened to me too, exact same words, and same age
@@jokutyyppi4226 its an emotion
Isn’t it interesting how people laugh whilst they are talking about terrible things that have happened to them. Maybe a coping mechanism? That stood out to me.
It definitely is, I did that while at my therapist and she asked me why I was laughing. Im not usually sharing how I feel so I just started laughing when we were talking about how shit my social life has been. It’s a coping skill when you’re surprised and don’t know what to do or say
I believe it’s something people do when they’re uncomfortable talking about something bad/traumatic that happened to them
Agreed, it stands out to me as well. I feel like they don't want others to pity them, or they want to act like they're ok, they want to handle it themselves. I think its, sometimes, a false sign of ease.
Like an attempt to lighten the situation and to make it "ok." They're definitely uncomfortable.
It is nervousness, it happens to me all the time. Telling something terrible makes me fell awkward, maybe it's the same for them. When I found out my grandpa died I had to tell my brother and I was kinda laughing and it was because I was nervous. Hope that makes sense 👍🏼
"people die, it's just a part of life" -Mom. My mom said this to me and I remember after she said that I really put thought into it and realized that I don't even know how I'm going to deal with my mother being gone one day, it terrifies till this day. I don't want to loose my mom, I love her so dearly :(
“I’ll make you pasta the next time you’re here!”
last words my gran told me. she died like a month after my visit. i regret not calling her, not messaging her. i miss her so so much. I love you gramma
“I’m not your therapist, I don’t care.” - my ex boyfriend when I told him the story of how I developed suicidal thoughts
Well I care - Ur not alone, watever happens Ur life matters. If it helps, Id give u a big hug.
Wrong guy then
TheAquaticCat My mom when I told her I was depressed: Where are the nearest asilum here ? She needs to be treated.
How can people be so mean?
I’m only 10 and I have had suicidal thoughts and my mom found out and she has done nothing
Production manager: “So how close should we put the camera?”
Everyone else: “Yes.”
Big Oof lol yessssss
I don't think they put it next to their face, i think they just zoom in, but still funny!
To capture the emotion i guess
I hope these people are ok with it and know that they are filming them this close so.
She does this on purpose so you can see their imperfections and their emotions
My grandpa (who I considered my father) passed away in front of me when I was a kid. In the days after that, whenever I cried about it, my family told me to stop, and called me a crybaby. Eventually I learned to just hide everything.
Wow...that's absolutely horrible. Let me guess, you're a guy right? I think it's so toxic that men aren't allowed to express their emotions. You should have been comforted, not ridiculed.
@@kt1pl2 thank you
So sorry that wasn't right
Not necessarily these words that I wish I didn't hear, but they are the words that come to the front of my mind when I heard this question.
"Will absolutely see you there". Last words sent to me by the very first friend I made when I moved at the age of 4. I had not seen him in person for a long time because of separating social circles, pandemic, etc. This was the last message of a conversation where I said I was so excited to see him at our High School graduation in a month or so... He was found dead a few weeks before graduation due to complications with diabetes he had developed a long time ago. I never thought it would catch up with him. He was a really healthy, athletic, genuine guy, and I am still heartbroken now a year and a half later that I hardly ever spoke with him for so long despite us being great friends for most of our entire lives. It really tore up our small town, showed me how many lives just one person touches. Rest in Peace RIffe, If I make it up there I can't wait to see you again.
Rest in peace
“Ugh I can’t handle life I need to go throw up” -My mom’s boyfriend mocking me for having an eating disorder when I was 16
that is literally disgusting im so sorry :(
Find peace in God. I struggled for a very long time with an “eating disorder” too. God heals
@@virex8414 amen! Nothing God can't fix if you have faith in Him.
Omg that's horrible. I hate when people do and say such horrible things because of their ignorance. I'm sorry that happened.
Thanks all for the kind words. 5 years later I still struggle but am much better ❤️
"You look like a monster" - my father at 12 year old me for being overweight.
Edit: Thanks to everyone that left a kind comment and to those that have experienced something similar: know that you are a beautiful, briliant and unique person that deserves all the love in the world! Love yourself and others and stay safe in these difficult times ❤️
overwieght can be beauty but not from capitals prospective as they need fast work force 😅
@@clumsy1421 i feel sorry.
YOU ARE PERFECT AND AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU!
@@clumsy1421 Don't listen! They are wrong you are beautiful and we all love you! Have a great rest of your year 2020 or not.
@@clumsy1421 I know how that feels, but please know that it is NOT true. You are wonderful and you are loved. Keep trying hard for yourself and nobody else. Much love ❤️
I think one thing I wish I'd never heard was someone I thought was becoming my friend say that I was 'weird' in a casual, off-handed way (and not in a positive way). It really crushed me and my confidence was shot for years after, making it practically impossible to make friends at university because of that thought sticking in my head that everyone was thinking that.
Anyone who sees this comment I am sorry for whatever you have seen or heard. I hope you get back from whatever you are going through. Do not care about other people's opinions of you. When you do not care what other people care about life is easier. Life is hard it is an undeniable fact. I hope you are all doing well. Good luck And God bless
“I don’t want her in this family anymore.”
-Dad
Aw I'm so sorry you had to hear that❤ just know no matter what you're important and loved❤
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I'm so sorry for you💕 i had to listen to simular things and even tho I'm still in a really dark place rn things will get better. You deserve more love and care and i really hope you are aware of that 🌈💕
I'm so so sorry he said this. You don't deserve this at all!
I wish you lots of happiness and I hope you are doing okay.
I totally feel this tho. My parents said the same to me, after the doctor told us I have a severe disease..bc I'm a bother for them
“Your not depressed your just dramatic” -
I physically hate the word dramatic it makes me sick
i know what you mean
Can relate
“You’re being overdramatic”
No, actually, I’m being under dramatic, you just don’t understand at all...
@@LilymcSummer they really don't understand trying to hold bricks together with an Elmer's glue stick
I understand that
This...so much 😭❤️
I wish I never heard my mom tell me my brother was going to do better than me and that I was not going to accomplish anything. For the longest time I resented my brother because of it and I wish I had known better and not allowed that to ruin my relationship with him. We are in a much better relationship and we connect a lot more than we used to. I feel that her telling me that had discouraged me from wanting to be better so many times but here I am now with my bachelor’s degree and going for my second bachelor’s. You can do anything you put your mind into, don’t let what someone says make you believe you can’t do it.
Last week I overheard my mom tell her best friend that if she didn’t have kids she would’ve killed herself by now, and she told my dad that she wanted to commit suicide but couldn’t because she knew we needed her. It absolutely broke my heart.
“No one likes chubby people” “you are a fatto” “it’s how I say that I love her” “it’s just a joke.”
-my family
It hurts more because I was not over weight at all.
don't listen to them💜 you're beautiful and amazing!! Stay stong my love💗💜 I'm sending you my support
I get that... I always got remarks on my body when I was a kid (by other kids and even sometimes my parents)... Now I have an ED and when I look back, my body was perfectly fine
this makes me so incredibly angry. your family better have health insurance cuz im coming over there to smash them with my fuking ukulele. do these people not understand what an ed is??? like jesus christ
Emjee CB literlly same here. I see pictures of how I looked when they made those comments to me and it breaks my heart. I looked great and now I have an ED because of it 🙃
Don't listen to them❤ them people are just jealous of you❤🥺
“ if your father ever gets a heart attack and dies, it’ll be all your fault “
- mom
Im so sorry she's so wrong x
the same thing happend to me except that my mom told me if she died it would be my fault :(
My father says the same thing about himself. "When I ever get sick and die, it will all be your and your sister's fault."
I hate to hear that he's not the only one saying shit like this.
Dont let her words get to you! You are strong and loved and I am here for you!
Pls. Go and hug your dad .
"I am ashame that you are part of our family".. some of my relatives told me this when I came out as lesbian, it hit hard because these people respected and were proud of me before I came out, although my immediate family, my mom and siblings were accepting, I just could not ignore the pain of realising how shallow the love of my distant relatives for me. I understand they did not expected it because I am femme and I kinda knew they might respond that way, but I just did not knew it would feel painful, I just thought it will be less painful if I was mentally prepared but it did not worked.
Oh honey I’m sorry. I hope everything is okay now. Just know you are valid and everything is okay. You are okay.
Keep it for urself?
Your family are the people that are supposed to have your back no matter what. I can see how them saying this would hurt you. (((hugs)))
"KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURSELF!"
-my mum when I was seven and lost control of my anger in an argument with my brother's friend during the drive to school; as an autistic kid, I was always confused by vocal delivery/tone of voice and controlling my emotions when speaking was really difficult. Hearing mum getting angry at me repeatedly for honestly speaking my mind just made me fear I should never speak up/have my own opinion at all or people would always scare/hurt/threaten me for being disrespectful.
"Respect is earned, not given" is another one, especially since she used it after she responded to my disrespect by yelling/hurting me back. It made me worry I never deserved to be treated nicely or with basic decency- because all I could understand was that I didn't already deserve respect and love, and never would if I couldn't somehow figure out what this weird dubious concept of "respect" actually meant. All it seemed to mean was completely silent obedience to authority and a whole lot of self-minimising people pleasing. To this day, I still struggle with overwhelming confusion about what/how I really deserve to be treated by others, and I always worry it'll never be good.
Hi! I just really wanted to answer this.
It is really important that you know that none of what she said is true. If you have to cling to one thing, cling to this: you are entitled to as much space in this world as the next person. No one can tell you the space your are taking up is an incumbrance.
You don't owe it to anyone to put their comfort first. Speak your mind. Laugh out loud if you think something is funny. Tell the people when they are being inconsiderate towards you.
Your feelings matter, just as much as anyone's.
You know, there are no absolute truths. No one dictates the rules. We're just all on the same footing.
And you are entitled to as much space as anyone else.
It sounds like she was genuinely trying to raise you and teach boundaries. You stated yourself that you were yelling at her when she made the statement about respect. Not sure what happens in your head but maybe some self evaluation is needed.
@@pria7538 it really sounds like you have no idea of actual healthy parenting. Maybe don’t comment on the experience of Autistics if you don’t comprehend what being Autistic is like. Hitting someone for hitting someone is not teaching that hitting is wrong, it’s just teaching _who_ gets to hit others. Same with yelling, saying terrible things etc- parents demanding that children behave better than THEY do is hypocrisy of the first order.
@@Ninsidhe Umm, my best friends son was diagnosed with autism and retardation and my brother-in-law is also handicapped. Maybe YOU shouldn't speak to things YOU don't know. With that said, that old adage of "hitting or yelling only teaches the behavior" is an opinion, a theory at best. Kids start hitting as soon as they can swing their arms, without provocation. And having been on the planet for quite some time, I've seen PLENTY of kids who were NEVER spanked and will curse and hit the hell out of their parents. Some will even kill them. So miss with that nonsense. Please accept you have a theory and I likely have greater experience. Especially have raised three of my own. OR NOT. I couldn't care less. His mother was right and hopefully one day he sees it. If not, he might end on the street and hopefully you're there to provide him shelter.
Ask people:
What is the thing you feel the most guilty about?
YES PLS
I used to not defend people when people were talking bad things behind them. I never participated in this gossips and rumors but i am guilty of not defending people when rumors spread about them. I learnt to not judge people the hardest way
Lost my 25 years in pleasing others over my own happiness.
I feel guilty for not being there for my son when he got into some trouble last year I wish that it was avoided and that If I knew wat was going to.happen I could have helped him
that I left my best friend alone when she told me that she was suicidal
this comment section is making me realize how many awful people there are in this world :(
Ikr like damn I thought what happened to me was bad
But look at all the likes 💖
Stay positive be blessed.
Nasty people love to have a platform
Damn
Stay positive, my friends. A balance must exist between the truly amazing and the truly evil. Be the light you wish to see in the world. Dont let these fuckers bring you down. Fight until the day you die. Struggle and scrape and fight and push.
You have people to prove wrong. I know I do.
Yeah,
A really good vignette of the viciousness that's out there.
Another easy one... The horribly disgusting sound that came out of my mother's mouth when I had to tell her over the phone that my brother her baby son had just passed away. Thank you very much for asking and listening.
“ Did you know that dad never loved you “
- i don’t think any child needs to hear this at the age of 9 or any age for a matter of fact
I'm so sorry you heard that. Hope all is well in your world. One love.
Another question could be “What do you miss about being a kid?”
I think most answers will be the same(if they had a abuse free childhood)
B .S Could be but not necessarily
@@BijBijTCG what would most people answer do you think?
Having a dad
Being oblivious to the pain everyone goes through
“ Dad is in the hospital. He had a heart attack”.
Don’t worry guys, he’s still alive and doing well
Oh!?
Wait, really? How'd you know? I'm glad he's alive and well!
How u know him
Literally got the same call twice before as well
《berřýçhii》 thank you
Every time I was told “you’re lazy” or “why can’t you just pay attention?”
I’m currently 20 and still deal with ADHD, went through many medications and struggle to fully control my ADHD… it hurts to hear people tell me those things because it makes me feel like I’m not trying hard enough
Me too. "that's not an ADHD thing, that's a you being lazy thing" from my dad is really hard to hear. That was said a while ago but has stuck with me since
My son's also twenty. (((hugs)))
For me it was "People may look nice, but they're not always good people."
This just changed my entire perspective about people.
I tought the world was a happy place, but it was all a big pain.
Everyone is constantly batteling to be better than anyone else. Or trying ro ruin something for someone else to make themselves feel better. I don't know how people can be like that.
I know there are nice people among, but if you try to be nice you get pushed away by society.
I don't even get space to walk when there is much room. I am always the person who has to go out of the way.
I was bullied back in the days, and this made it even worse. I didn't trust anyone, I had no friends, and didn't want to go to school. I failed a really important test, becouse I wanted to go away.
Later I picked it up again, but my trust is still gone.
How people treat eachother is just painfull to watch, and makes me think: "Why am I here"
“Your brother was in a shooting.”
He’s okay, but I cannot imagine life without him. He’s a navy pilot in training. I love him so much.
God bless YOU and thank your brother ❤
Pleb, not to down your story but I am so incredibly happy that your brother is still with us. My sister was lost in a domestic violence shooting in 2017 and I’ve had the largest hole in my heart since.
Nathan Reed i hope you are okay after that tragic incident, may that stupid shooter rot in a jail cell for the rest of their life ❤️❤️lots of love!!!❤️❤️💕💕💕💕❤️❤️
This comment took my breath away. We are so so so grateful for your brothers service.
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“i don’t wanna be friends with her cause she’s too depressed”
that hurt because she said it behind my back.
edit: i realized i wasn’t very clear sorry the misunderstanding i was pushing my sadness on her or anything. i don’t really talk about my feelings so sadness really affects me physically, like i don’t talk or just stop being happy.. sorry for the misunderstanding:)
I'm sorry you feel that way, although I understand where this person might be comming from. Maybe they are just not capable of handling a friend with depression, and they, as sad as it sounds, need to set priorities. If that is the case, they probably feel very guilty for not being able to be there for you. But for them this friendship might be toxic.
This is just speculation tho
hi, this hasnt happened to me but it feels like that a lot when i have ever tried to talk to my friends about how i feel they just suddenly can’t talk to me or change subject and it feels like they don’t care, so i never opened up to anyone and it sucks. i think your friend said this wrong, what she meant to say is ‘i can’t help her’ but she can see you’re suffering. I think if it’s really hard for you find someone to talk to e.g. a counsellor where someone will listen and help, and then you’ll be able to be your best self with your friends and won’t be overwhelmed by your emotions which might be overflowing onto them
I feel sad for you and I also understand your friend. I love my friends but I feel like they are often depressed. Sometimes I get depressed too but not as much as them. I really want to be there for them and I don't want them to feel like I don't care, because I do care. But sometimes their sadness affects me and makes me feel sad... what I'm trying to say is that maybe your friend talked about your situation with others because she needed advice, It doesn't mean she doesn't love you. I think you should talk about it, maybe you can work it out :)
(Sorry for my grammar, English isn't my first language😅)
@@zamz7350 lol you have PERFECT english
@@lexxy6305 Thanks😊😁
Three things I wish I never heard - about ten years ago my mom told me that when I was born my dad didn't want me, he told my mom to take me and leave, at first I thought it was taken out of context, but so many things were starting to make sense. My older brother was always favored by both of my parents. In 2009 my dad told me and my brother that my brother was going to be the only one to inherit from him. He passed away last year, he kept true to his word that I wouldn't inherit. But I think the worst thing for me was that about 3 years ago he told me that he didn't need me in his life and so we didn't speak until a month before he passed. I still have no answers as to why he felt this way about me.
I'm so sorry you went through that. I wonder did he question if he was your biological father?
@@proinseasnihanluain4735 that's probably the most likely answer tbh
Omg I'm so sorry you went through that I know the pain of rejection
8:23 that child is so sweet and intelligent, looking out for his younger brother💕 He's going to do great things
This is proof that
Every Stranger has a story behind them
Actually... Every *thing* has a story behind it
@@Rayan-kf2yf my piece of shit floating in the toilet rn
Everyone has hard times
lorinamae • yep that thing as well
The atory comes from the very first animal/plant depending on what u ate
lorinamae • 👏👏👏
Mom:”I stayed with your father even after he beaten me, threaten me, cheated on me because I wanted you guys to have a father” This broke my heart because my mother suffered a lot. She could have been with someone that makes her happy and safe. My dad has gotten help from the church 6 years back. He’s better than he was, and I love him. But I will never forget what he has done to my mother. :/
It really messes you up... Because you realice the reason of her suffering is basically... You. My situation scarily similar. My dad is been good for two three years, but the trauma of all that happened doesn't let my mom live her life to the fullest
Replying to this is like crazy because sadly my father hasn't changed. He stopped physical stuff but the stuff he can say hurts more than any hits. Can't say I love him but I do have hope he will get better before it's too late. My mom got stronger though and started defending herself :) I'm happy for u dear that ur dad changed 💖
My mom finally broke up with my dad but he is still threatening my my and the people that is involved my mom saying that she is still his legal wife and he could be with my mom until he die
He isn't even inlove with her. HE JUST WANTS MY MOM TO HAVE A MISERABLE LIFE
I love ur mom
omg.. i can’t even tell you how much i can relate. my dad cheated on my mom and was abusive as well. if you ever need someone to talk to i am here.
My mom saying she felt like she was a failure as a mother when I told her and my dad about wanting to take a break from college. It really hurt because they're relatively positive about mental health and it makes me forget sometimes how intense they are about academic achievements and being productive and useful. I honestly felt like a huge disappointment, like it was all my fault for not being enough. My dad started going on about okay, I can take a break, but then I'll probably won't be able to do much or anything at all "since I already struggled so hard with my classes." All of their reactions made me feel like shit, but my mother's felt worse.
Im back home and in better terms with them, and like they asked I found a job (which my mom still criticized because its working from home).
I really love them! But they come from such outstanding "top of their class" (+ the expectations their parents also had) backgrounds that they expect that from me. ¡I can't give them that!
I'll be right back
-my mom to me and my older sister when we were really young. She left us at a child services center to be put into like a foster care system.
“She’s so annoying I kinda wish we weren’t friends” -my “best friend” talking about me to someone else :/
Time for a new friend
With how many people are lonely there’s always room for another friend
Dont be annoying then
she isn’t your best friend. get a new one 💕💕
First time
That’s not a true friend, you deserve better
I asked my mom what hospice was. Tearfully, she replied, “I’m dying Jules...” She passed away a week later. She passed away from colon cancer when she was 42 in 2014. I was only 14. I miss her everyday.
i’m so so sorry i can’t even begin to imagine how heartbreaking losing someone so close to you must have been
This comment hurts 😞. I’m so sorry , I don’t know the feeling but the short experience you shared brought me to tears...
That's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you have to be without your mom.
May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God, Rest In Peace...
💔💗💔💗💔💗 that is definitely a heartbreaking moment & you are not alone!
"Life sucks and then you die"
I heard this over and over again all the time as a child and it really influenced my cynical view of the world and has made it difficult to care about anything around me.
At this point during my life its been drilled into my beliefs so almost everything feels like a waste of time.
Fair. I reccommend "we can be anything" by baby queen (song) that talks about this, if nothing matters then do whatever you want
Well, sometimes, Life's a bitch and then you keep living, you know ?
I had this viewpoint when I was younger, and that was difficult to overcome. I almost tried something that would hurt myself. Thankfully I didn’t, and now I am on a path that can lead me to my dream. Giving up is what life wants you to do. Don’t listen to it, and create a path from the opportunities you are given. Good luck to everyone.
Years ago, as a teenager
(I'm 59 now). My dad said I was too stupid to go to college. I went to college at 27 yrs as a single mom and did it all on my own. I received my Bachelor of Science degree in my mid 30's. As I was graduating, my sister told our dad "look dad, their's your daughter graduating... you know, the one you said was stupid." I never asked him to help me for school. I am happy I was able to bring my children to see me. It doesn't hurt anymore. When my children were of ago, neither one wanted to go to college. I did offer to pay for any schooling or trade school. Always encourage your children for achievements. 👍
"Don't call me daddy."
My dad, to my little brother who was 4-5 years old at the time, while he was on a jealous rage bc my mom saw someone she used to like at my cousin's wedding. My family was trying to calm my dad when my little brother ran up to him saying 'daddy, daddy'. Broke my heart to hear what he said to my brother and his image in me shattered from that day on too.
Noooooo, that brakes my heart
Dielku The K9 breaks* brakes are for cars lul
@@KaZeGamingOnYT you understand it tho, no one cares. Maybe English isn't his first language, Jesus not everyone just speaks English. So shut the hell up.
@@KaZeGamingOnYT AnD iTs lOl
WHY YOU MAD Suckmydick
based off your username and playlist names, i can infer you have an IQ of a rock. English isn’t even my native language, it’s Samoan
"ofcourse she is being bullied, look at her"
-my second grade teacher
Floortje Appel Yikes :( . I’m so sorry. Those teachers who bully children should lose the right to teach. I hope you’re doing okay with it today. Have a lovely weekend
Doesn't deserve to be a teacher!
Wow no child should ever have to experience this from an adult or anyone. I’m so sorry.
Sometimes adults are so immature and pretend they’re better than what they are, no one should be on a pedestal.
Omg im sorry
I asked my husband.. "what will we do if we can never have kids?" And he said, "I guess just live life without meaning." It broke my heart.
Your life will always has a meaning.
Our son recently left the nest and I was thinking about this. If you can't have kids they have Big Brother/Big Sisters. Maybe he could mentor a kid that really needs him.
This channel is such a window to a humanity we forget exists, the heart and souls of others. The effect you have on others can be life changing.
I love this comment.
"We can't find the baby's heartbeat, I'm sorry" -obgyn
2nd pregnancy " I'm sorry, the cord was pinched too long"-obgyn
3rd pregnancy "I'm sorry, there's nothing we can for your babies (twins), you should spend the time you can with them, hold them,love them, while you can "-obgyn.
My son was stillborn, my twins drowned in their own fluids. I "miscarried" at 22weeks.
3 times, I've lost myself, I'm just breathing at this point. Everyday my heart hurts. Every dream of them re-breaks me every fucking time.
And still I got told "God needed another angel"
"God will give you a baby, just have faith"
I wish, I'd have never heard any of it.
Scarlet Boomer I could never begin to understand. I’m so sorry and I hope you feel better. Please stay strong
it must be so hard in your situation and i can't begin to imagine what you're going through ❤️ please take care and know your pain is valid
bless you best wishes
Stay strong ❤
@jon castro idk if im suppose to laugh or be mad at this
“Your sister is much more beautiful than you.” - Dad. It’s not the worst thing I’ve heard but it hurt me badly anyway.
😳 well, sis, you’re beautiful. That sucks for a dad to say, but sometimes family does that 😕
Yeah not something your dad needs to say to you. Oof
quick question but i think this needs to be said... is she
Ekene Anamanya at least, if people like you, they like YOU
Ekene Anamanya YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE!!!!!
I have heard “tungod nimo”, which translates to “because of you”, so many times when I was young. The memory of them saying it with such anger in their voices, and with their finger pointing at me, is still vivid. That was over 10 years ago (just turned 19 today :)), and remembering those incidents still bring tears to my eyes. It still hurts. Thats why I am afraid to show myself to my family, working on it though…
p.s. i didn’t cause someone to die or get hurt. maybe I did smth wrong which caused an argument. Maybe it was just out of extreme anger and they just had to release it to someone.
They shouldn't have did that and I can see why you have your guard up around them.
"Are you crazy?"
-my mom
I was lying on the couch and I guess she seen up my sleeve and my arm was covered in deep scratches, self inflicted and she went on to ask me multiple questions including the one above. I don't know why she felt the need to do that since she had attempted suicide when she was 14.
“Hey, your brother was found dead at home in his bedroom. He killed himself”
-The police man explaining to me how my own brother killed himself.
You always were my favorite sibling bro bro
Rest In Peace I don’t know him but I know this pain not the way you did I’m so sorry he will be dearly missed
he’s in a better place trust me make him proud and give ur other siblings love too! he loves u the way u do, i’m sorry
Rip
Sorry for your loss and sorry for the policemans insensitive way of delivering such devastating news. Much love.
Rest in peace, don't worry, he's in a better place now, stay strong
“Your brother passed away in a car accident early this morning.”
Shifted my entire life..
Im sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing good.
i lost my two brothers in one week, one was in a car accident and one got killed, im so sorry for your loss and we'll get better just have to be strong a little longer , youre in my prayers
Thanks y’all for the prayers, I appreciate all of them. ❤️
Life has been up and down since then. This happened my senior year of high school, I ended up graduating anyway, and still a year early at 17 like I planned. Now I’m about to graduate college in May 🎓
@@emilywylupek5294
go ahead, what are you looking to study ??
I lost my brother in a car accident too. I'm sorry for all of your losses. It's been 2 and 1/2 years for me. Still hurts just as It was day 1.
“What do I do now? I had so many plans, now I do not if I’ll be here to do them.” “And then going back into my own room trying to decide how to reprioritize my life.” This is so real. You tend to think we are gonna live for ever, and you have all these plans for your life but in reality we don’t know how long we are on this earth for a we can be hit by reality at any moment in our lives and it can be scary but we have to understand that we are only on this earth for one purpose and that is to praise our creator, whoever that may be for you. Life is short so be mindful of how you live it and take care of your body and cherish your soul. Be thankful for the people around you and never take anything for granted. ❤️
this isn't really one thing, it's kind of a bunch of things related to each other.
i never wanted to hear people saying, 'woah, you're so smart and good at this! i wish i could be like you!' because yes, at those moments, i do feel invigorated and happy, grateful for the compliments. but some time later, ill feel pressured to do the work to the same standard again or even higher. im always left somewhere else until im the last one, heavily relied upon in those moments and only noticed when i achieve some great, mighty goal. i think its partially my fault though, making the standards i want to reach myself higher than the ones expected from me. while i know that, i still do it. i dont know why.
"You're useless, a disappointment. You're never going to find someone who truly loves you, any boyfriend you'll have is gonna cheat on you anyway"
- Mom and Dad ❤️
@nirujah s Thank you so much... I hope so, at least I'm really trying!
I can in fact, relate to this one 💔😭
dont worry baby, things will get better
you'll find someone as amazing as you for sure
stay strong
idk why “you’re not college material” hurt me the most
it’s always insulting to have your intellect (or capacity thereof) undermined, but they’re not the reason you get from point A to B, disregard and proceed to succeed. Corny but somebody will need to see this somewhere 🤷♂️
- wisdom of groggy ass premed
That basically means someo e called u stupid in a different way
Nadine's ASMR you go Nadine!
Dude the sameeee
not too long ago i thought about changing majors and university/city and i talked to a lot of people. this one friend told me it wasnt something she could imagine me doing which hurt a bit
Things so many of us completely understand. Thank You Thoraya and those kind souls that shared.
11:20This guy’s awesome 👏. We need more people like this guy.
"we're not friends anymore ,bye" - my best friend who promised me that she won't leave me
Edit: guys I’m okay now 😂 I’m fine without my “best friend” I’m living my life to the fullest ✌️
I’m sad I know yeah
I lost my Bff too she replaced me
Elvira 1810 - I F E L T T H A T🥺
I really wish that's the worse thing you'll hear in your life
you know people will come into your life but eventually will leave you but the best one will stay no matter what.
"I'm so sorry. He's brain dead"- I wish I never had to hear those words about the man I wanted to marry. He passed away a year and a half ago and there is not a single day where I dont think about him. I truly believe he was my soulmate and it breaks my heart that I wont get to spend the rest of my life with him, but I know he's always with me and I will see him again someday ❤ I love you Gaige.
Kaila Fry
I am so sorry..
Im so sorry! I really hope you'll have a wonderful live will meet him again when your time has come... wish you the best
I can't imagine what you must be going through... I prayed for you and hope that god will give you the support your partner would've given you. Lots of love.
I am so sorry and sending all the best so that your heart can one day heal
That must be the worst thing ever!! Its so sad to hear of stuff like that, but it’s beautiful how strong your love is. You’ve been very strong, i hope your happy and that you will one day reunite
It always amazes me to remember that some people have NO idea the pain some walk around with. People always assume that smiling and laughing means you are happy, half the time it’s just an act to make others feel better. You have no idea the constant deep thoughts that are there all the time. I’m so happy though that some don’t know that pain. ❤️
These type of interviews r highly appreciated. Thank you for these these efforts. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
“I wish I never heard about racism.”
Feels.
NONYA Business uhm. A preference for a certain group of people?
NONYA Business yeah that’s pretty racist. You’re basically saying that all people with a certain skin color are the same and you don’t “prefer” all of them because there’s something about them you don’t like.
NONYA Business that’s unarguably racist.
But if you have no problem with being racist, then okay.
NONYA Business There is a difference between having a preference and being racist. Do you think it’s okay for people to stare at you weirdly and say bad things because you have a different race than them? People that have a preference for a specific race are not immediately racist, those are two different things.
@@pheladidikgale1071 dude, I prefer green-eyed girls more than other color.
Does that mean I wouldn't want to be toghether with a girl of another eye color?
Of course not. That's silly. But I'll alwais find green-eyed girls mkre attractive. It's just how we are build.
This is pretty much what @NONYA business said.
“How can that still affect you?”
7 years after I was sexual assaulted when I was 9
omg stay strong
I still got that - from the people who refused to help me - 20 years later. Because *they* "couldn't do it." They never cared, except for how it affected them. I guess it should be sad that "they" were my parents, but I guess that it's not so uncommon anymore.
someone said to me "that's what couples do, what were you expecting?" because I just started dating the man who assaulted me.
That's so sad, I'm sorry you had to hear that, there's no age that you should stop being affected by that at, but I do hope that you get over this and are able to move on and grow🤗
I know that feeling my friend, someone even told me I was lying. People can be such arse holes at times.
Freshman year, someone who I thought was my friend told me that my crush had texted her saying I'd "be doing everyone a favor if I slit my throat". That was the first time it was planted in my brain that everyone would be better off without me. Before that, I was just normal depressed because of how I felt, but suddenly it was also because of how I thought I was making everyone else feel too.
“A life worth living isn’t counted in years.” That shit was powerful and really hit me…
I wish I never heard:
"the only time I've ever lied to you is when I told you I loved you"
Jeez that's mad
@@blackbeltufc439 yup... one of the worst feelings i have ever felt
@Blosh3 hmm... I'm still with him. We've been on and off for the past 5 months. I've got that mindset where i love him so much, I'd just let him treat me whatever way he wants...
@Blosh3 i guess i should do that
Sam x I totally understand that mindset it sucks so bad me and my bf recently broke up and I feel so much better now that I don’t have him dragging me down it’s hard but worth it
Aww the kid who wish he'd never heard Santa isn't real is adorable 🎅
❤️😊
He said the opposite ;D
Yes he is, and by the way, he is such a real smart kid! Omg, he's a real genius I guess. Hope he's doing well in the future and gets what he wants out of his life.
@@Deus_Almighty True 🙃
lmao...kid needs to see the movie Santa Claus [1,2,3] of how he gets to houses without a chimney :) lol
i love speaking with elderly people. they have so many interesting stories and they have so much passion, its lovely.
A teacher of mine once told me his father said "you where supposed to become a stain on the bedsheet" he's honestly an amazing teacher and it really makes me sad when I think of it.
"I'm disappointed"
-My father the first time he saw me have a panic attack in public.
Usually my mother deals with these, unless she "doesn't want to deal with my shit."
I have several other ones, this was just the first that came to mind
I'm so sorry that this has been said to you. Nobody should be treated like this
dont worry baby, things will always get better
I understand this, a panic attack is not really understood by some parents and 1. It literally feels like you're going to die and can't breathe, and 2. it can't fully be understood until you experience it yourself. I hope they get better for you, and I hope you know that you matter.
Once my friend had a panic attack and I was the only person there that knew what was happening (Besides her parents but they didn’t see, they were doing something else) And I have no clue how to help so I start panicking. The words I wish I never heard was “Leave them alone, they probably are mentally ill”~Some Stranger
Aww I may not know u but I’m most definitely not disappointed in you and your dad shouldn’t be either. Panic attacks means something is going on or wrong, do u need someone to talk to cuz I’m here 🤗🥺
“You’re not depressed stop doing stupid things like that(suicide attempt)”
-my grandmother
who abused my siblings and i for years.
I am so sorry, I hope you are doing better now, 🙏💕
@@sephie9882 im so sorry for ehat your going through but your incredibly strong and i know i might never come across you again i wish the absolute best future for you, keep tour head up (and sometimes it’s ok to have sad days) ❤️❤️❤️
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I’m sorry, how are you holding up?
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I had been struggling with depression for years but the last few months had become soul sucking. I finally asked my parents to help and take me to a doctor.. they said yes, I had never felt such relief, I heard them taking later on that they weren’t going to take me to a doctor and that I was just lying for attention… I don’t trust my parents the same way I did before, I realised I’m on my own until I die…
Stay strong. Keep moving
You are not alone. There are others out there like you I promise you. If you need a friend im here.
So many stories really touch everyone & shows we're not alone