My one time boss told me I'm a very capable woman. I'm really proud of that comment. A friend once said "You Rock" about the way I tackle things. : D My mom's always telling me I'm beautiful and kind. Even my ex used to say I was special and valuable, and he made a point of reminding me from time to time, because he knew I'd need a top up.
If the two of you are compatible and open to falling in love, eventually you'll be vulnerable with each other. And when you do that, you can truly fall in love. If you wait it out and prove to your partner you aren't going anywhere, this person will almost certainly fall for you eventually.
I'm very lucky to find your channel..It will help me to cure my codependency. I started to watch it daily. I hope it will help me if I m consistent with your videos. Lots of love to you 😊
Thank you for watching! You can do this! I just did a video about internal vs external validation. I think it might help. ruclips.net/video/YO-kjGBVPoI/видео.html
#### Summary- - Negative thoughts and self-doubt are common with low self-esteem, which can contribute to anxiety and depression.- Seeking external validation for self-esteem is not sustainable, as it relies on temporary factors.- Building self-love internally is crucial for healthy relationships and accepting love from others.- Accepting imperfections and forgiving oneself are key to increasing self-esteem.- Acknowledging one's gifts and unique qualities helps in accepting oneself.- Writing down compliments received can help recognize and embrace positive aspects of oneself.- Self-esteem is about feeling equal and enough, not being arrogant or self-centered.
Hi, thank you so much for all your words and help. Iam so thankful that you crossed my path. Can I ask for a video on how to deal or better yet overcome being very shy.
Thank you - I will see what I can do - but that is not my area of expertise. Here is something that might help - do you struggle with negative thoughts about yourself and others? If so watch my video How to Get Rid of Negative Thoughts ( and Improve Self-esteem ) ruclips.net/video/UDGBc1Iw5Mg/видео.html. That might help get you started. Sometimes we need to get out of our head and just practice being in the moment. Start with the people you feel comfortable with - literally just practice BEING YOURSELF. We all bubble through this stuff - do don't expect yourself to do it perfectly. Hope that helps.
@@MichelleFarrismft OMG thank you for replying. Yes I’ve watch all your videos and some of them more than once to see if things sink in. Iam a codependent, have anxiety, depression and unfortunately I’m also very shy, I’m a pessimist over thinker about myself and life. Again thank you so much for being so kind and helpful.
A couple of people told me I have pretty eyes and cheeks. And a few people said i have a good nose. That I am unique,funny And there is people that made fun of my lips and made me feel ugly But i started to like my lips And my bestie once said they are cute
Loving yourself doesn't mean that you feel depressed sometimes?. I feel depressed on vacations when i am not in everyday activities ❤but i love myself i run i eat healthy i put toxic people out of my life..❤
Here are a few videos that will help. Understanding People who Talk Too Much ruclips.net/video/4-Y9WydsRiA/видео.html and Solutions for People Who Talk Too Much ruclips.net/video/2a7E3ftIdr0/видео.html@@christineknight5668
Yeah, it’s really gonna improve the relationship. Just ignore him. Take care of yourself they’ll come to you you know that won’t work. If they already doing what they’re doing let them do it you’re not having a relationship divorce him and you know what the next man and the next man and the next man, I’d be totally the same, if not stay single.
My one time boss told me I'm a very capable woman. I'm really proud of that comment. A friend once said "You Rock" about the way I tackle things. : D My mom's always telling me I'm beautiful and kind. Even my ex used to say I was special and valuable, and he made a point of reminding me from time to time, because he knew I'd need a top up.
I love this!! I love that you can own these loving statements about yourself!! Great job!
I was chasing that type of life style love it was self pity . When l need self love more
Key to loving myself more
Thanks so much for watching Florence!
Im struggling with it embrace my self esteem self love 💕
I hope these suggestions help!
Wow. I'm really enjoying your videos. Thank you.
Yay! I"m so glad!
If the two of you are compatible and open to falling in love, eventually you'll be vulnerable with each other. And when you do that, you can truly fall in love. If you wait it out and prove to your partner you aren't going anywhere, this person will almost certainly fall for you eventually.
Thanks for watching Richard!
Clear, concise and really, really helpful.
Thank you!
I'm very lucky to find your channel..It will help me to cure my codependency. I started to watch it daily. I hope it will help me if I m consistent with your videos.
Lots of love to you 😊
I’m so glad! Would you like to get some of my free guides on codependency? counselingrecovery.lpages.co/codependent-worksheets/
thank you, michelle. this is helpful.
Im so glad! I have lots of free resources if you’re interested in joining my list!
Amazing and useful information. I struggle so much with low-self esteem and I eill tru to follow your advice 🙏 THANK YOU!!!
Thank you for watching! You can do this! I just did a video about internal vs external validation. I think it might help. ruclips.net/video/YO-kjGBVPoI/видео.html
I fall into that.
You’re not alone!
#### Summary- - Negative thoughts and self-doubt are common with low self-esteem, which can contribute to anxiety and depression.- Seeking external validation for self-esteem is not sustainable, as it relies on temporary factors.- Building self-love internally is crucial for healthy relationships and accepting love from others.- Accepting imperfections and forgiving oneself are key to increasing self-esteem.- Acknowledging one's gifts and unique qualities helps in accepting oneself.- Writing down compliments received can help recognize and embrace positive aspects of oneself.- Self-esteem is about feeling equal and enough, not being arrogant or self-centered.
Thank you! That's super helpful to those wanting to learn more!
Thank you so much for this!
You are very welcome!
Wow....great...
Thank you for watching!
Very helpful! Thank you so much
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching!
Hi, thank you so much for all your words and help. Iam so thankful that you crossed my path. Can I ask for a video on how to deal or better yet overcome being very shy.
Thank you - I will see what I can do - but that is not my area of expertise. Here is something that might help - do you struggle with negative thoughts about yourself and others? If so watch my video How to Get Rid of Negative Thoughts ( and Improve Self-esteem ) ruclips.net/video/UDGBc1Iw5Mg/видео.html. That might help get you started. Sometimes we need to get out of our head and just practice being in the moment. Start with the people you feel comfortable with - literally just practice BEING YOURSELF. We all bubble through this stuff - do don't expect yourself to do it perfectly. Hope that helps.
@@MichelleFarrismft OMG thank you for replying. Yes I’ve watch all your videos and some of them more than once to see if things sink in. Iam a codependent, have anxiety, depression and unfortunately I’m also very shy, I’m a pessimist over thinker about myself and life. Again thank you so much for being so kind and helpful.
@@Vaniiaa2023 You can do this!
Lightbulb moment, how can you accept love from others if you accept love from yourself, obvious now that I’ve heard it but never put that together.
I’m so glad that helped Suzanne! Thanks for watching!
Michelle you are Terrific Please keep it up ❤
Thank you so much Nancy!
A couple of people told me I have pretty eyes and cheeks. And a few people said i have a good nose.
That I am unique,funny
And there is people that made fun of my lips and made me feel ugly
But i started to like my lips
And my bestie once said they are cute
That’s a great start - focusing on what you and other like about you is important!
My low self esteem impact me little bit
Loving yourself doesn't mean that you feel depressed sometimes?. I feel depressed on vacations when i am not in everyday activities ❤but i love myself i run i eat healthy i put toxic people out of my life..❤
That’s interesting- I think most people can feel depressed at times. But hanks for watching!
I studied psychology so my depression keeps less time than before!!!!Thank you!!
Low self esteem the tone was crazy
Those toxic relationships does get in the way little bit
Yes, they do get in the way but that's why doing your own healing is important.
My daughter says i talk too much. My job is working with customers and i have great relationships with them. My colleagues say others dont get me.
I try to find a common interest to get conversations going. I feel uncomfortable not speaking because I feel it could be misconsrude as rudeness
My daughter hurt me by telling me to shut up and not speak
She talks a lot by texting and messaging friends she does talk but I feel uncomfortable and dictated to
Have you considered therapy? It could help you work through these issues.@@christineknight5668
Here are a few videos that will help. Understanding People who Talk Too Much ruclips.net/video/4-Y9WydsRiA/видео.html
and Solutions for People Who Talk Too Much ruclips.net/video/2a7E3ftIdr0/видео.html@@christineknight5668
Yeah, it’s really gonna improve the relationship. Just ignore him. Take care of yourself they’ll come to you you know that won’t work. If they already doing what they’re doing let them do it you’re not having a relationship divorce him and you know what the next man and the next man and the next man, I’d be totally the same, if not stay single.
Thanks for watching Jerry!
Those corks corny solitude healthy formula relationship is way better than those toxic relationships
Yes, it's way better to find healthy formulas that help guide your healing :)