Very interesting everything that is positive is the best way to look at it may some of us be taken , single, married its helpful all around for the ones taken watch it so yiu may help your spouse go into something you think might help thy relationship grow, and single ladies they dont come perfect but you can work around thy area that needs a little lift in this we all gain ,!
1. A loyal woman 2. A woman with vision and that believed in you 3. A grounded woman 4. A grown woman( thinks for herself and stands firm on what she believes; outside can never influence her)
My ex used to say to me, "You're way too good for me. You deserve the best. He knew I would leave one day cause he saw I was everything he never could be. It was the greatest gift because I saw that when you're a good woman, even the bad ones see that. Everyone sees that. Your presence radiates it.
I have fought for him when he wouldn't fight for himself. I have given when he never gave back to me. He told me that I deserve someone to be here with me and he walked away. I am a good, grown woman. A broken heart was what he left.
My ex husband still calls crying.... it's been 8 years....that chapter is dead and gone... its a cold world out there when there's no one there to have your back. Nurse you to health, help with your business and give you peace... Enjoy them streets...
And men lik their peace when another woman doesn't giv him peace yeeh he will think about u who gave him peace even when he ddnt deserve it. Men jus dnt learn. When u hav a diamond keep it.
I for 25 years gave, and stayed. Once I came into my GROWN Women, there was no looking back!! Don’t get me wrong, I’m still learning me!! It’s painful, educating and inspiring 🙌🏾 My journey continues!! Thanks Brother for this video!
I am one of the women that you are talking about. I separated from my husband because he neglected to appreciate what he had. He has filed for divorce.
So am I! I recognize my divinity and honor myself. I walked away after 15 years, and I'm moving forward. I continuously do the work every day! I know my worth. ❤
Me three, been waiting for him to go to God for 5 yrs and he refused. That was my last attempt to save the relationship, so I’m done. Lost a decade but it’s not lost, bc I learned and grew. I’ve changed and evolved from a young lady to a grown woman.
Thank you for this!! My last relationship was so great, then he did a 180° and ghosted me. Before he responded I ended it. I won't be treated that way! My boundaries are clear! 💯
Don't hurt a good woman who is godly radiates' and elevates a partner to become a better version of self . A good woman who is in her healing and spiritual is an angel to protect
"I"!!! Thank you for seeing us. You are correct, after relationship ends they hurt and want to come back. I've learned the hard way you have to move on and be true to your own essence. It's not about gloating or unforgiveness. But about honoring God and how He created you. My evolved mate is out there who God created just for me and I for him🎉❤
I’m a very caring and loyal woman,seems like when anyone has hurt me something bad happens to them. I don’t wish it on them, it just seems to happen that way.
Been there, done that. Done with wasting good energy on bad result. Was patient as well, 25 years trying to speak to the king not realizing he was more comfortable as the court jester.
After all the fumbling, I'm still here for him. Some men grow in the process. I'm glad he's one of them. And I'm glad he knows now there are not many like me.
I've had a relationship or two like that and was even laughed at and called crazy. But they regret it now and want to come back but I've grown so much since then.
Thank you for your teachings friend. I'm passionate about learning what men need while I'm working with women and your Hope for Healthy people is Super Sonic. You Rock 👑
You hit it on the nail🎯I have been that woman and still am I'm in no contact with my so call boyfriend not to hurt him but to heal me because he doesn't appreciate all of the effort love nurturing respect and care that I give to him 32days and I still in love with him however I have to be selfish and put me first even though I know I might lose him forever however I'm willing to walk no matter how bad it hurt🙏🏽
Greater is the Love that is in me than the love that is in the world. Greater is the Peace that is in me than the peace that is in the world.... and so on, keep it going ❤️
I am that GROWN LOYAL woman. Going through a breakup right now because of how he treated me throughout the entire 3 yrs that we have been together. There just wasn't no getting through to him.
I am that woman in more ways than not and it’s so affirming to hear all of this. Despite the disregard by him for all I offered and. How committed to his betterment and happiness. I am so relieved to be done now🌺
Listening from Uganda....and I Pray that many men will listen to this. Real women don't want to waste a man's time, let alone hers!. That doesn't make us "evil/mean" but We KNOW exactly What we want. True Words to The Wise. Bless you.
I was his women with a vision…. Unfortunately he hurt me down bad. I tried one last time but unfortunately he didn’t see how well rounded and grounded I was. Being loyal also meant nothing. My heart still throbs from the let down but my days have gotten better. I am happy I could be there for a him in a season because every year I was with him I saw growth. I wish him the best! I’m on my road to regaining my healing and consciousness.
I definitely did the same things. I try my best and overtime I understand I kept hurting myself. Some people will never realize how much you mean to them until you're gone. Some people just don't deserve you no matter how much you loyal and care. But at least you did it genuinely from your heart. We're strong women and I wish you many blessings ahead ❤❤❤❤
I'm every woman you spoke on but I knew who I was my ex took me for granted .Yes I married my high school sweetheart (he was a dog) I stayed for 25 years but I always told him when you lose me your world will never be the same and I was right
I walked away from that situation recently. I know my worth, and I know for a fact he is in regret. I am now hours away with a new home. Thank God I saw the light!
“I”? Was that it? - good women are not rare - but she will have to want you too right… Im danish and danish men are wonderful - we do not struggle with all those issues as much as you do… yes we have idiots/entitled narcs here too - but not that many… generally speaking men treat women with empathy and respect here and everybody wins - society becomes safe and abundant…. Men and women are friends and take care of eachother without trying to gane or want something, its just normal to be nice, grounded and calm here.
I! Yet, very much so a Grown, Loyal, Humble, Woman👏🙏💎😌💫💝👑. Thank you for this beautifully said message. Always sending Love, Light, Abundance, and Protection to all 🥰💝🥰💖
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Another reason to not hurt a woman with a pure heart is that the karma is so much stronger when you hurt someone like that.
..ANDddd I will add this was On-Point Derrick; many if not all of these talking-points apply to me. Thankyou, this was "healing balm" for a relationship I just ended.
Thank you the hurt is so bad ....I treated him as if he were my king...he was just too immature for me and did not care about my feelings. He's selfish and may never grow up...I'm moving on to mature men who know how to treat a lady....I was loyal and am grounded and grown...his loss...
Loyal Vision (believes in you) Grounded (not comparing herself to anyone still speaks to the king within you) she will never feel like home Grown Woman (not afraid to speak her mind at and firm on her instincts) She is Meh !!
When I listen to you I felt like crying, thank God for the wisdom Upon your life, I was taken for granted, am not beautiful but I am beautiful inside thanks for this amazing message
The did you a favour, you deserve what you offer. Cheaters have a fragile ego! They are the problem not you, they are not worth your precious head space ❤
Thank you Derrick for the Master Class. It was very enlightening. Keep up the good work. I accidentally cut myself off at the end and missed the extra bonus. Look forward to more classes. Kind regards.
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Very interesting everything that is positive is the best way to look at it may some of us be taken , single, married its helpful all around for the ones taken watch it so yiu may help your spouse go into something you think might help thy relationship grow, and single ladies they dont come perfect but you can work around thy area that needs a little lift in this we all gain ,!
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I tried to get in.
I'm interested
Great breakdown for unified understanding to both men and women. Shared in gratitude and appreciation. Thanks Derrick
Never hurt a godly woman, she has an army of angels ready and willing to defend her.
Aman
Some men have a child altitude
exactly
Amen!!!! ✝️🧎🏻♀️
Amen and amen
1. A loyal woman
2. A woman with vision and that believed in you
3. A grounded woman
4. A grown woman( thinks for herself and stands firm on what she believes; outside can never influence her)
Thank you.😊
My ex used to say to me, "You're way too good for me. You deserve the best. He knew I would leave one day cause he saw I was everything he never could be. It was the greatest gift because I saw that when you're a good woman, even the bad ones see that. Everyone sees that. Your presence radiates it.
Amen!!
I have fought for him when he wouldn't fight for himself. I have given when he never gave back to me. He told me that I deserve someone to be here with me and he walked away. I am a good, grown woman. A broken heart was what he left.
Right On 🎯
Absolutely ✅.
Amen!!!
Always stay who you are, and they will surely miss your essence when you're gone.
That's what I did, stay true to who I was. I was hurt for awhile, but God has delivered me. I wouldn't change a thing, stay blessed!
My ex husband still calls crying.... it's been 8 years....that chapter is dead and gone... its a cold world out there when there's no one there to have your back. Nurse you to health, help with your business and give you peace... Enjoy them streets...
And men lik their peace when another woman doesn't giv him peace yeeh he will think about u who gave him peace even when he ddnt deserve it. Men jus dnt learn. When u hav a diamond keep it.
I’m crying while am watching this video… I’m still in pain😭i did my best,but my best wasn’t good enough!😢
It was good but it was for the wrong person.
That’s exactly what I was going to say he was the wrong one @Cocobird. It’ll be alright sista.
@@monica5778 thank u😢
Learn to identify them red flags! Set standards for yourself and tolerate NOTHING no less❤ hold your head up queen don’t let that crown slip!
@@marie012 thank u so much❤️
I for 25 years gave, and stayed. Once I came into my GROWN Women, there was no looking back!! Don’t get me wrong, I’m still learning me!! It’s painful, educating and inspiring 🙌🏾 My journey continues!!
Thanks Brother for this video!
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I am one of the women that you are talking about. I separated from my husband because he neglected to appreciate what he had. He has filed for divorce.
Girl I am on the same situation. There is no way he can win me back
So am I! I recognize my divinity and honor myself. I walked away after 15 years, and I'm moving forward. I continuously do the work every day! I know my worth. ❤
Me three, been waiting for him to go to God for 5 yrs and he refused. That was my last attempt to save the relationship, so I’m done. Lost a decade but it’s not lost, bc I learned and grew. I’ve changed and evolved from a young lady to a grown woman.
Good luck ladies, you are better off, sending you much love ❤
He is givivg you a gift take it dont look back he is in for a ride awackening
Grown, Grounded, Loyal, Visionary. THANK GOD I LOVE MYSELF.
Thank you for this!! My last relationship was so great, then he did a 180° and ghosted me. Before he responded I ended it. I won't be treated that way! My boundaries are clear! 💯
You are on point with this message. 🔥 It's good to know we're recognized. Thank you.🙏🏽
I love when a black men speak about relationship. So deep & real.
Don't hurt a good woman who is godly radiates' and elevates a partner to become a better version of self . A good woman who is in her healing and spiritual is an angel to protect
"I"!!! Thank you for seeing us. You are correct, after relationship ends they hurt and want to come back. I've learned the hard way you have to move on and be true to your own essence. It's not about gloating or unforgiveness. But about honoring God and how He created you. My evolved mate is out there who God created just for me and I for him🎉❤
ABSOLUTELY, AMEN !!! ♥️🙏🏽📖👑
Some men don't learn til it's too late.... there's different ways to loose a woman.. you'll never get those parts of her back
Yes so true I agree
I’m a very caring and loyal woman,seems like when anyone has hurt me something bad happens to them. I don’t wish it on them, it just seems to happen that way.
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Been there, done that. Done with wasting good energy on bad result. Was patient as well, 25 years trying to speak to the king not realizing he was more comfortable as the court jester.
“I” - each one of these is me.
Yes we are out there; so stop taking us for granted because many of us are giving up on men now.
After all the fumbling, I'm still here for him. Some men grow in the process. I'm glad he's one of them. And I'm glad he knows now there are not many like me.
Amen to that..
I've had a relationship or two like that and was even laughed at and called crazy. But they regret it now and want to come back but I've grown so much since then.
Never hurt a woman that is loyal to person and not loyal to possession!
This is so straight to the point and realistic. We need more messages like this for men AND women
Derrick you’re so right with this message. I was grounded,loyal and taken for granted,his lost no coming back.God Bless You
This video deserves a thousand likes!!!! Thanks so much, bro for putting out what is in my heart as a woman.
I thank God for being GROUNDED & GROWN!!!
Thank you for your teachings friend. I'm passionate about learning what men need while I'm working with women and your Hope for Healthy people is Super Sonic. You Rock 👑
You hit it on the nail🎯I have been that woman and still am I'm in no contact with my so call boyfriend not to hurt him but to heal me because he doesn't appreciate all of the effort love nurturing respect and care that I give to him 32days and I still in love with him however I have to be selfish and put me first even though I know I might lose him forever however I'm willing to walk no matter how bad it hurt🙏🏽
AND IT TRULY HURTS. STAY STRONG SIS. ❤️
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@@zionsdaughter5206yes I fear what m’y réaction will be if he comes back
I.... I'm going through my healing now, oh it hurts SOOO bad.
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
That be me💯 I’m a woman of integrity first, loyalty second!
Yes!..."I" did that! He hurt me to the core, but I still pray for him today.🙏🏽❤
DJ, your mother must be very proud of you. Thank you.
I'm that woman, I went through hell with the ex and came through as a rising Phoenix. I deserve better and will never except less ever again.
Loyal, Grounded, Grown, Creative and Visionary Woman!
Derrick you are speaking truth & wisdom! 🦋🌍🙏❤️👱♀️Globalliving in Africa Woman!
Derrick- this was excellent. I’m currently broken hearted because of attracting the wrong men . Thank you for helping me see the light.
Amen, brother 💯!!! 😇 1 John 4:4 Greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world.
Amen
Greater is the Love that is in me than the love that is in the world. Greater is the Peace that is in me than the peace that is in the world.... and so on, keep it going ❤️
You do know that he is LYING
I am that GROWN LOYAL woman. Going through a breakup right now because of how he treated me throughout the entire 3 yrs that we have been together. There just wasn't no getting through to him.
True Love & loyalty is everything ♥️
I am that woman in more ways than not and it’s so affirming to hear all of this. Despite the disregard by him for all I offered and. How committed to his betterment and happiness. I am so relieved to be done now🌺
Grown women will have beliefs and have a voice and the way we are treated. Don't fumble a gem a godly queen ✨️ 🙌 💖
I felt this within because I know I'm a real one❣
Listening from Uganda....and I Pray that many men will listen to this. Real women don't want to waste a man's time, let alone hers!. That doesn't make us "evil/mean" but We KNOW exactly What we want.
True Words to The Wise.
Bless you.
Certain types of women you should never hurt…
1) A loyal woman
2) A woman with vision
3) A grounded woman
4) A grown woman
Loyal woman. Return with Absence 🗣
I was his women with a vision…. Unfortunately he hurt me down bad.
I tried one last time but unfortunately he didn’t see how well rounded and grounded I was. Being loyal also meant nothing.
My heart still throbs from the let down but my days have gotten better.
I am happy I could be there for a him in a season because every year I was with him I saw growth.
I wish him the best! I’m on my road to regaining my healing and consciousness.
I definitely did the same things.
I try my best and overtime I understand I kept hurting myself.
Some people will never realize how much you mean to them until you're gone.
Some people just don't deserve you no matter how much you loyal and care. But at least you did it genuinely from your heart. We're strong women and I wish you many blessings ahead ❤❤❤❤
I feel what your saying, I was one of those to but I was just an object to be used. I kicked him out last year and I'm better for it.
@@Welcome_2_the_candy_shop yea that’s the hard part. Knowing you deserve better
@@artflyer8775 yea being used sucks
I'm every woman you spoke on but I knew who I was my ex took me for granted .Yes I married my high school sweetheart (he was a dog) I stayed for 25 years but I always told him when you lose me your world will never be the same and I was right
YES ❤ I feel seen. Thank you for this D.
Thank you 👑 for articulating everything that was in my heart and soul🙏💝💯.
Solid women never get hurt. They understand life. They just vibe... 🥳✨
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Wait what?? U sound koo koo!!
I walked away from that situation recently. I know my worth, and I know for a fact he is in regret. I am now hours away with a new home. Thank God I saw the light!
You’re always on point. Thanks for the education. You’re doing a great job!👏🏾👏🏾
He's speaking from experience!!! He should know
You are so right, D! 💯💯💯 Thank you, king! 🙏❤️
👍🏽👍🏽
You telling me true I'm that grounded woman you hit the nail right on the head
“I”? Was that it? - good women are not rare - but she will have to want you too right…
Im danish and danish men are wonderful - we do not struggle with all those issues as much as you do… yes we have idiots/entitled narcs here too - but not that many… generally speaking men treat women with empathy and respect here and everybody wins - society becomes safe and abundant…. Men and women are friends and take care of eachother without trying to gane or want something, its just normal to be nice, grounded and calm here.
Beautiful testimony thank you sister!
So true, sadly there aren't many available grown people. This is why us grown women and men often stay single.
You just summed it all up. I don't have 2 say anything u saying it exactly the way it is.
Hey look at the sun settling down its beautiful
God is a forgiving God a God of second chances.
I sure as hell did. Thank you so much for pointing these out
Thank you brother for speaking on this I'm definitely one of those women
Nothing but the truth was spoken. Teach Derrick🔥👑
I! Yet, very much so a Grown, Loyal, Humble, Woman👏🙏💎😌💫💝👑. Thank you for this beautifully said message. Always sending Love, Light, Abundance, and Protection to all 🥰💝🥰💖
Another reason to not hurt a woman with a pure heart is that the karma is so much stronger when you hurt someone like that.
My GOD. That is a word. Thank you KING for sharing these FACTS with all men and women.
I been that type, grounded, virtuous, reliable and speak up
Derrick, you are speaking the TRUTH. SMH. Blessings to you.🙏
Great podcast Thank you Derrick!
Exactly ! Once again you’re spot on!❤
I SO FELT THIS 28 YEARS AND WOW BUT IM STRONG AND BLESSED
Your speaking the the truth!
Been through this yes 🙌🏽
I’m all those women wrapped up in 1 and I’ve been all those women wrapped in 1 to the wrong men
..ANDddd I will add this was On-Point Derrick; many if not all of these talking-points apply to me. Thankyou, this was "healing balm" for a relationship I just ended.
I 4 almost 7 years and still waiting for a miracle 🙏GOD BLESS ❤
“I” this is so me! I am healing from a toxic marriage but was all these things to my ex for 26 years.
Thank you the hurt is so bad ....I treated him as if he were my king...he was just too immature for me and did not care about my feelings. He's selfish and may never grow up...I'm moving on to mature men who know how to treat a lady....I was loyal and am grounded and grown...his loss...
Your not the only one , that was my ex he blamed me for all his problems, it was tough but now I'm free
Loyal
Vision (believes in you)
Grounded (not comparing herself to anyone still speaks to the king within you) she will never feel like home
Grown Woman (not afraid to speak her mind at and firm on her instincts)
She is Meh !!
When I listen to you I felt like crying, thank God for the wisdom Upon your life, I was taken for granted, am not beautiful but I am beautiful inside thanks for this amazing message
You are beautiful sis 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I'm a Spiritual awaken Woman. Love and light Starceed 🙏🏽 💙 ✨️
“ anyone who plays me, plays themselves “ - Prince ❤
There are so many business opportunities spoiled from men who fumbled women with kingdom vision.
I always just pass by your page but now I am grounded here. True words my friend. I have been
I pray you are getting the healing you need. This message must be for yourself.
Love that definition of 'handle' 💥❤️
I am that woman! always have been & always will be!💜👸🏽
He fumbled the Gift !
The did you a favour, you deserve what you offer. Cheaters have a fragile ego! They are the problem not you, they are not worth your precious head space ❤
I. Really think this one is your best. Keep it rolling
Thank you Derrick for the Master Class. It was very enlightening. Keep up the good work. I accidentally cut myself off at the end and missed the extra bonus. Look forward to more classes. Kind regards.
I. WOW A GOOD Man's Perspective. This Definitely is Needed to be Heard.
I broke down emotionally before I filed for the divorce.
I.
Thank you for these video's, they are helping and healing both men and women. ❤
"I" ...to the nth degree!!! Thanks for speaking truth to power for us heartworking and hardworking loyal sisters! ♥️♥️♥️
He on point with these types of women. No doubt!
WOW. You couldn’t be more correct. I’m kinda shocked you said that. And grateful 🙏
Grown and elegantly delivered.
I definitely understand this.
And one of them is me! One with a very very good n honest heart. N no measurement to my love n cares.
Felt this so much I'm to much of a grounded women
OMG! You're hitting all the right notes.
I am grounded, grown, and a woman of vision.
I'm a grounded woman (65yrs old)Loyal for 14 years .
Been betrayed and fumble, disrespect.
I walk away. In the Solo line I love me.