I just got out of the same situation. Keep your held held high and remember your intrinsic worth. He can't take that away from you! My ex has been begging non-stop, and I just roll my eyes bc now I outearn him by 20Gs.
Keep everything that you have planned between you and God with prayers to him through his son Jesus Christ, and then you can be rest assured that nothing will be impossible with him.💝
Thank you so much. My daughter came to me one day and said Mommy, you are beautiful and amazing, men are intimidated by you, they are not ready for you. Says I give off , you either come right or don't come at all. I hugged and thanked her and told her how amazing she was because I really needed to hear that, that day.
A partner who ran their "one" off ~ due to toxic-control issues ~ then returned years later, out of the blue, with "I never shoulda let U go. Would you accompany me to Las Vegas for a (romantic performer's) sold-out concert?" The answer was "Ask my spouse." The answer from my spouse was - "It's not up to me." The End
A lot of men leave or push you away because they don’t feel good enough. They say I can’t handle her and that means people have been telling him she’s out of your league.😮
If he adds no value then subtract. His loss is your gain. Great message. Women need to do the rught thing for themselves. Leave if youre not treated as you deserve. Youre worth more than that. ❤️
*He also comes back because he thinks you're convenient. He thinks he has it like that with you and you would rather be alone than give someone else a chance. Men know how to wait it out.*
Until you show him by your actions that this is no longer the case. That’s why you block them and give them them no contact. Forever. He can’t know what’s going on in your life if he can’t access you in any way shape or form.
Repeat after me “NOT MORE CAPTAIN SAVE A BRO”. He dropped the bag with me and I picked myself up. The only thing I can do now is thank him for getting out-of-the-way for my real future husband to come on through.💪🏾🎯💯✅
Wow! What an awesome pep talk and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My ex is trying to weasel himself back in. I can see all the regrets of his past actions on his pathetic face. Well too bad… he indeed lost a good woman. Thank you Derrick! Great video!
So true! He has tried spinning the block. Why? It's not worth it, he just keep complaining that I am unreasonable. I feel like it's reasonable for me to expect for him to give me what I gave him. Respect, love, and some freaking appreciation.
I’ve been single for a long time after my divorce and I am very secure in my finances and my emotional being. I’ve tried dating sites a few times and some authentic dating with people I’ve met the old fashioned way however, it’s just brutal out there. I’ve chosen to stay single and keep my sanity. But from time to time I wonder if there really are any good men left out there. As I get older now the pool gets pretty small.
I’ve given him chance after chance even after a very deep betrayal. I’ve made crystal clear what I need from him and he’s refused to give me what I need. I’m out! ✌️
This is what I needed to hear. I needed that shake. It was things that GOD had told me, had shown me, and I still kept fall back into that same rut. Thank you Derrick for the words of love that you have shown us.🙏
ex-husband who left me wanted a second chance, I ended my most recent relationship with a boyfriend because he was just another version of ex-husband trying to hide that fact, ex boyfriend is hovering
If he was ‘running through women’ as a means to cope, before he comes back to you, why the hell would any woman want him back? Please have self-respect ladies! We are worth more than that.
Right, and not to mention them running through women during the relationship so why take them back after the breakup. That's something to take into consideration and a reason NOT to take him back.
I feel like your the older brother I never had, thanks a lot I've been through a lot in life and I am making a conscious effort to make the right moves.
I'm 50 now, and darn, I wish you existed back in the days I've had those types of men in my life Mister. I'm also happy I've build myself up, healed and have enough self love, worth and values to say Na Ha today. 😊
Or it's face. There are more creatures than men and women. They have a ton of friends they hide behind. They watch who you talk to so they can twirl and gain access to their phone, tap the line to listen in on the plans. Then show up on accident but on purpose. It not sorry.
I absolutely gave him every opportunity to meet my needs. He told me 3 times he was coming tto my home for us to discuss our future and he didn't show up. Your video is Spot On.
Wise words. Thank you for helping women to see when they are being played, and how to deal with it in a mature way. Much needed, especially in these times.♥
I gave him support strength encouragement and would say I don't deserve you. You're a good woman. He's so full of anger from his ex and had a wall of steel. His loss. I am a great woman and he's an idiot!
She watched one of your videos yesterday. She was interested and paying attention. 'If he wanted to he would '...hopefully between the video and her being honest I'll get my chance! Thanks for making the video. 😎
Thank you Derrick for imparting your great knowledge with us women. I love watching your clips because it's always on time, just like God's word, to keep me on the straight and narrow 😊🙏💯. Stay blessed Derrick ❤
He back begging after 2yrs but he doesn’t know I moved on in silence, even tho he kept contacting me, He will never get another chance. I found my Husband!!
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this right now. My bf asked me to move in and then "got scared" and ran. Im devastated and have been circling the drain.
Appreciate your mentorship. Full of wisdom. Wish I have known you before i could have save so much heartache. Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping a lot of women. Im very Grateful ! God bless❤
Thank you for the power as you speak to me, Derrick. I am listening. In a short while he has to be prepared for me after listening and evolving. THANK YOU for the love.
Wow, that was so awesome 👌🏾 all I can say is thank you for being so authentic!!! My cousin has always told me that they always return to the scene of the crime. Thx again
" it doesn't have to be this way".." your illness was never a problem for me" "can we talk"...... anything than saying "sorry".....regret but not remorse..hell No
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Single Life is sounding really good right now I don't like all the mind games
Oh yes doesn't it sound good . I'm getting to that point .and it's kinda feeling refreshing
Exactly 💯!!!!
As soon as I get my finances fixed it's over,I won't be controled,there will be someone out there who will appreciate me.
Omg, I felt this! I’m in the same situation and can’t wait until my time comes.
I just got out of the same situation. Keep your held held high and remember your intrinsic worth. He can't take that away from you! My ex has been begging non-stop, and I just roll my eyes bc now I outearn him by 20Gs.
Same here❤
Keep everything that you have planned between you and God with prayers to him through his son Jesus Christ, and then you can be rest assured that nothing will be impossible with him.💝
Exactly 💯 !!!! Love yourself......
I am a once in a lifetime woman 😊❤, there is someone out there,who will love , respect, and appreciate me , aameen
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Yup! He left twice and keeps coming back. I used to love him, but now I’m starting to find his behavior boring.
User and abusive
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Rejection cannot devalue you if you know who you are.
Rejection will measure your self love.
Absolutely!💯
I like that. ❤
Thank you so much. My daughter came to me one day and said Mommy, you are beautiful and amazing, men are intimidated by you, they are not ready for you. Says I give off , you either come right or don't come at all. I hugged and thanked her and told her how amazing she was because I really needed to hear that, that day.
I call that big T*tt energy.
Kids know what's going sometimes more than us She's a blessing ❤❤❤😢
Men are not intimidated by women they just don’t want you
AWWW
....MEN ARE READY. A REAL ONE. ONE THAT LOVES N SETVE GOD. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️💜🎈🎈🎈🎈🙏🏾✍🏾
Thank you BBLESS ❤
A partner who ran their "one" off ~ due to toxic-control issues ~ then returned years later, out of the blue, with "I never shoulda let U go. Would you accompany me to Las Vegas for a (romantic performer's) sold-out concert?" The answer was "Ask my spouse." The answer from my spouse was - "It's not up to me."
The End
Pissing in his own yard that is golden.
A lot of men leave or push you away because they don’t feel good enough. They say I can’t handle her and that means people have been telling him she’s out of your league.😮
That's true or his own personal self esteem is too low to think he deserves you. My ex is "spinning the block now". I'm about to see what happens....
Sometimes we're too much woman for them.🙂
absolutely work on your self ladies and keep that door closed ✌️💕
He can’t handle his own frustrations is so damn accurate
They always circle back. Once that door is closed, it stays closed.
Thank you for the reminder.
We are not emotionally compatible, he is emotionally selfish!! there is no coming back to me!!
If he adds no value then subtract. His loss is your gain. Great message. Women need to do the rught thing for themselves. Leave if youre not treated as you deserve. Youre worth more than that. ❤️
Great message, "If he adds no value SUBTRACT," I love it !
@@hazeldunson7258 Thanks Lovely. It makes total sense. Seasons Greetings! 🎄🫂
*He also comes back because he thinks you're convenient. He thinks he has it like that with you and you would rather be alone than give someone else a chance. Men know how to wait it out.*
Until you show him by your actions that this is no longer the case. That’s why you block them and give them them no contact. Forever. He can’t know what’s going on in your life if he can’t access you in any way shape or form.
They can't wait me out. They've tried, yet failed MISERABLY.
Derrick has this power to make me laugh and heal at the same time. Bless him 💛
Totally agree 💯
Yesss! He is a blessing. Really grateful to come across his channel and videos 🤗
Ohhh yess!! I’m soo glad I found him during this time of my breakup… he makes me feel soo validated ❤ Thank you Derrick!!
His voice 😍
Repeat after me “NOT MORE CAPTAIN SAVE A BRO”. He dropped the bag with me and I picked myself up. The only thing I can do now is thank him for getting out-of-the-way for my real future husband to come on through.💪🏾🎯💯✅
Exactly 💯 !!!!
Absolutely, stand your ground 👏
Wish I'm strong enough to feel this way too.
Wow! What an awesome pep talk and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My ex is trying to weasel himself back in. I can see all the regrets of his past actions on his pathetic face. Well too bad… he indeed lost a good woman.
Thank you Derrick! Great video!
I feel like I could’ve wrote this myself!
Left me tweve years now ..he never got married again
So true! He has tried spinning the block. Why? It's not worth it, he just keep complaining that I am unreasonable. I feel like it's reasonable for me to expect for him to give me what I gave him. Respect, love, and some freaking appreciation.
He says he will never chase. He has a huge ego. 😢
Oh he's gonna learn
Factz....this is exactly what happened to me 3 yrs later right now he tryna come back smh
I’ve been single for a long time after my divorce and I am very secure in my finances and my emotional being. I’ve tried dating sites a few times and some authentic dating with people I’ve met the old fashioned way however, it’s just brutal out there. I’ve chosen to stay single and keep my sanity. But from time to time I wonder if there really are any good men left out there. As I get older now the pool gets pretty small.
I am a once in a lifetime woman…
I’ve given him chance after chance even after a very deep betrayal. I’ve made crystal clear what I need from him and he’s refused to give me what I need. I’m out! ✌️
You are absolutely correct. I'm looking better, feeling better, and doing better W/O him.
“Spin the block” 🎯 great parable …
He can beg all he wants, Ain't no going back to that POS EVER, EVER
NEVA!
She was younger, and that’s about it…Spin the block is an understatement!!!😘
This is what I needed to hear. I needed that shake. It was things that GOD had told me, had shown me, and I still kept fall back into that same rut. Thank you Derrick for the words of love that you have shown us.🙏
Like the song “IF YOU LOSE HER “ from Joe says he’ll feel a hole in his soul . Walk away !!!! It’s his problem
Amen 😮😢😊
I'm that woman you have to come prepared for.....yes I'm her...thank you D👏
Me too
me too
Me too 😊😊
ex-husband who left me wanted a second chance, I ended my most recent relationship with a boyfriend because he was just another version of ex-husband trying to hide that fact, ex boyfriend is hovering
If he was ‘running through women’ as a means to cope, before he comes back to you, why the hell would any woman want him back? Please have self-respect ladies! We are worth more than that.
Right, and not to mention them running through women during the relationship so why take them back after the breakup. That's something to take into consideration and a reason NOT to take him back.
I already have my guard up.
Yep that was me he'll need me before i need him
“Glo up” thank you baby❤
Date on your level ladies. A great lesson to learn!
I feel like your the older brother I never had, thanks a lot I've been through a lot in life and I am making a conscious effort to make the right moves.
Me too. I am this.
I'm 50 now, and darn, I wish you existed back in the days I've had those types of men in my life Mister.
I'm also happy I've build myself up, healed and have enough self love, worth and values to say Na Ha today. 😊
I gave my all, I was there for him, financially, mentality , wasn't enough
I know I'm a once in a lifetime woman! There's a few men feeling the loss of me. Thankfully my guard is up, thank you for the reminder to keep it up.
The devil will drag you down and come back to finish you off slam the door in his face
Or it's face. There are more creatures than men and women. They have a ton of friends they hide behind. They watch who you talk to so they can twirl and gain access to their phone, tap the line to listen in on the plans. Then show up on accident but on purpose. It not sorry.
This was the only message I needed to hear so I can officially go on with my life. Thank you so much!!! ❤
You just make me feel so much better about myself.
I absolutely gave him every opportunity to meet my needs. He told me 3 times he was coming tto my home for us to discuss our future and he didn't show up. Your video is Spot On.
Wow!!! He didn't even show up hein ?!
What a jerk. He showed you he is not the one.
Blessing Blockers !! I heard that loud n clear
He came back around the block, and I told him I love myself now so I can't go back to him. 😊❤
Wise words. Thank you for helping women to see when they are being played, and how to deal with it in a mature way. Much needed, especially in these times.♥
That's me right now... I've told him again and again.... Now I'm out the door.
All the best to you. Shoulders back, chin up, you got this! 💪✌️
Wishing you: Eyes in the back of your head, too ~ for the best 360° view on the High Road ~ where Love.Honor.Cherish thrives.
Same 🙏🏻 grieve in peace
Definitely guard your heart the word of God says that everything flows from it
Thank you Jesus. So powerful!!
Thank you, I need to be strong
Thank God for my blessings
I gave him support strength encouragement and would say I don't deserve you. You're a good woman. He's so full of anger from his ex and had a wall of steel. His loss. I am a great woman and he's an idiot!
Yesss!! I can FULLY RELATE!! THANKS DERRICK!
Thank you! Best answer now will be silence❤
Thank you Derrick. I needed this message!❤
Best Internet Big Bro! I know my worth!!! ❤
You’re restoring my faith in men.
Thank you for bringin the truth🔥
TEACH BROTHER. THIS IS GREAT TEACHING.🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️✝️🍂🍁🍂🍂👩🏼❤️👨🏼🍂🍁
Derrick. It’s good to see you still doing what you love to do. Be blessed.
I really don't mind him fumbling tha ball,I can hold my own he thought I was completely broken but now he don't know my strength.
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Thank you. This message has helped me realize what i need to do to begin my healing and glow up.
Yes! Yes! Do it! 🎉
Boom! Facts and thank you so much. I pray all the blessings for you and your loved ones.
She watched one of your videos yesterday. She was interested and paying attention. 'If he wanted to he would '...hopefully between the video and her being honest I'll get my chance! Thanks for making the video. 😎
I see this 💯, straight facts. He's without a single excuse...tik tok. Im Glowing up. And will continue to do so. 😎 thank you!
Thank you so much for this message. I needed this!❤ God bless you Sir!
I am so blessed that l stumbled across this message. She is me! MoViNg FoRwArD.
Yep, he left, ghosted me. Came back. I let him back twice. Smh
Wow! Wow! Wow! This is everything I needed to hear! Thank you for this encouragement! I appreciate the content you post.
Self love is everything
Thank you Derrick for imparting your great knowledge with us women. I love watching your clips because it's always on time, just like God's word, to keep me on the straight and narrow 😊🙏💯.
Stay blessed Derrick ❤
🙋🏿♀️. Yup D. HE left…but he wanna come back. Nope. 🙅🏿♀️
Time is up. Time to focus on yourself. Ain't got no time for manipulative, inconsistent, disrespectful people.
Thank you for being an added blessing in my life. I appreciate your support and mentorship.
Loneliness do surface, but when we were together I felt so so alone and he was there daily , so no no no coming bk he was a dependent
I LOVE YOUR TRANSPARENCY! THANK YOU!!
This has to be my fave of yours ....There's so much truth in this ... its almost soothing ! Thank you ❤
Im a once in a lifetime woman.Ive been the one who walked away from all the relationships after giving so many chances.ive never looked back.
Thank you for the excellent presentation on these topics. I’m a survivor and still learning. 👍
He back begging after 2yrs but he doesn’t know I moved on in silence, even tho he kept contacting me, He will never get another chance. I found my Husband!!
Brilliant, just brilliant
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this right now. My bf asked me to move in and then "got scared" and ran. Im devastated and have been circling the drain.
Im a once in a lifetime women ❤❤
Thank you!!! I needed to hear this.
As a woman,thumbs up,every word is true,personal experience 😊
Appreciate your mentorship. Full of wisdom. Wish I have known you before i could have save so much heartache. Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping a lot of women. Im very Grateful ! God bless❤
This was just what I needed, THANK YOU 🙏🏼🙏🏼
You are on point 💯 it’s so true! I am glowing nowadays! 😊
Thank you for the power as you speak to me, Derrick. I am listening. In a short while he has to be prepared for me after listening and evolving. THANK YOU for the love.
Yasssss! This is truth - he is feeling it now.
Wow, that was so awesome 👌🏾 all I can say is thank you for being so authentic!!! My cousin has always told me that they always return to the scene of the crime. Thx again
Thank You. Healing. 🎀
Derrick thank u u dont know how much this video helped me 😢😢😢
Thank you appreciate your words 🙏🏾✨
AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME CONTENT ‼️🤗
Thank you I needed to hear this 🙏🏾💕
Message received ❤
" it doesn't have to be this way".." your illness was never a problem for me" "can we talk"...... anything than saying "sorry".....regret but not remorse..hell No