Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!
If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.
I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾♀️
He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!
Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back
Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤
I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.
My ex-husband ignored my saying I'm with you because I want to be not because I have to be. Keep fukng with me and I will walk away. He called my bluff and lost big time. I won myself and he lost everything. 😊❤
It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.
You described my marriage of 24 years that I lost myself in. 5 years and I'm beginning to find the me that I lost while loving someone that wasn't loveable. He fumbled me and drank himself to death. I was the best he was ever going to get. I put myself aside and now I'm finding myself again and for that I will be grateful every day for the rest of my life.
It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤
When you tell him you have lost yourself and you are in pain and all he can say is "that’s your problem" or "don't be so negative" or "I'm sick of you being negative" when all you are trying to do is open up and pour your heart out choking on tears. He laughs in your face repeatedly and feels more empowered to scream when he sees you upset. Nothing hurts more.
Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship … Thanks for keeping it real❤
This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh
I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things
Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊
Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅
Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).
How can you keep moving from woman to woman, and not heal.thats what men and women have to do first, Mind Body and Soul. Finding yourself is worth everything because you can't see nothing until you heal yourself. Know your Worthhhhhhhh
Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.
My friend studies kaballah, I am Christian. I was baptized born again 43 yrs ago, he's studied kaballah 38. He told ne he'd study Christianity for 6 mo if I'd study kaballah. I agreed, but he never set the computer up foe me to study, and I'd ask him to read the Bible from pg 1 to the end, asking God to Open it, to unfold the code to you. No one can tell you what's in the Bible but God. After you know what is, you share it, and those who hear are of like mind.
My ex boyfriend recently passed away (he was married also) but I was told by mutual friends and family that he was still talking about me saying how he regrets losing me 🎯💯 goes to show he did have regrets …didn’t realize it till it was too late though
I was a Good Woman to my Ex partner hee went back to his Baby Mama I guess she was better or I was a placeholder until she took him back not sure I brought future, love honestly compassion showing bring loyalty softness
My ex husband is a perfect example. I've never known him to drink and he's now an alcoholic. He looks terrible and this is after I divorced him in 2009. He looks much older now with a pot belly...ew
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Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!
Thank you Derrick 🙏🏽
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To any woman that’s reading this if you are the ‘ball’ that he fumbled.
It’s HIS LOSS, keep rolling!
I'm so feeling the fumble right now. He went back to his baby mom. I'm in my feelings, but I don't want to be his option if it doesn't work.
Thank u...... ❤❤❤
Going thru it now 😢💔
It’s the energy that some women embody. It can’t be replaced.
💯💯💯
@@Love2Love927🥰 Micheal 😘
now imagine the pain of being the fumbled woman...
Thank you.
It sucks tbh
Exactly the healing she has to go through can be very challenging. And then to attempt to date again 😔
Right.......
Been there..... for sure!!
Especially when you “Fumble” a “Real Life Natural Born Chosen One”😬✂️💯
That part
Amen 🙏 ❣️
Ooooooo you said it
It's a wrap.......... Period..... Blessing in disguise ❤❤❤
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Exactly, there are some levels of disrespect that can never be forgiven or forgotten
Yes Michael facts
Oooo that part 🙌💯 I can forgive but there are certain levels of disrespect... It's like ✌️✌️✌️
If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
Facts.
💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯
Yep. What she supplies
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Yes I sometimes wonder if he feels heavily convicted in his heart for the hurt he caused when the world is quiet & hes alone with his own thoughts 😌
😢
He only regrets it because he can no longer use her.
I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾♀️
Me too
No. Men don’t love and feel like us
He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!
Why not divorce him??
Mine did too before I fully got away.
@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha : because most of these women stay even if there are not happy. Just to avoid being alone....
Exactly, at that point, you're wasting both of y'all time @@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
Been there. I can relate.
U tell'em Derrick, BEWARE !! 😮
Like RKelly said wen a woman fed-up, ain't nothing u can do about it
It Ain't Just with A Good Woman Derrick... It's Losing A REAL 1 PERIOD!!!!
Aww thanks ..... ❤❤❤
After 19 years and some change, my ex husband has STILL not moved on. At 69 he is stuck in the past not only with me, but our children.
Self imposed trauma by self sabatoge is tragic.
Regret is not remorse. They (you) regret losing the utility of your appliance, but you don’t feel bad for doing what you did
Exactly!! 💯💯💯💯
Thank you 🎉🎉🎉
You can see this one hits him different.
I agree. He's speaking of a cautionary tale of his own.
Yeah... this is very personal.
Yup! Such a coincidence how my ex has woman after woman but can't find a "good one" after I left
Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back
Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤
God is using him. He's preaching from personal knowledge ❤
@@user-gm9kl9do3sI agree.
That's true, and we're all different in our unique way, no one can be you❤😊
U won’t miss her until she’s gone 😥
BOOM
I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.
You are so full of wisdom. Thank you for this message today. I am so glad i found you online. 🙏
I agree
I’m only here to say.. I told you so!!! 🤭🤭
This message deserves Gold Thanks
My ex-husband ignored my saying I'm with you because I want to be not because I have to be. Keep fukng with me and I will walk away. He called my bluff and lost big time. I won myself and he lost everything. 😊❤
It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.
KARMA IS REAL❤
That part !! 💯 💯 💯
I like this derrick, his energy is very genuine.
Blessings KING for ur wisdom and being transparent 🫡🎱🙌🏽
Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!
You described my marriage of 24 years that I lost myself in. 5 years and I'm beginning to find the me that I lost while loving someone that wasn't loveable.
He fumbled me and drank himself to death. I was the best he was ever going to get. I put myself aside and now I'm finding myself again and for that I will be grateful every day for the rest of my life.
This is why he is able to give a dialogue on this subject. 🎉
It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤
When you tell him you have lost yourself and you are in pain and all he can say is "that’s your problem" or "don't be so negative" or "I'm sick of you being negative" when all you are trying to do is open up and pour your heart out choking on tears. He laughs in your face repeatedly and feels more empowered to scream when he sees you upset. Nothing hurts more.
Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship …
Thanks for keeping it real❤
Amen. I am patiently waiting for my day.
Thank you for speaking the truth.
You damn sure preaching the truth❤
This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh
I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things
Thank you Derrick! 🙏🫶😊
Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊
Dealing with this now with my husband. I want out. It's exhausting.
THE GREATEST COMEBACK EVER!!
This doesn't apply only for marital relationship, it applies also to any other relationship with a human being.
Derrick, good as always! Thank you for telling things so honestly, 💝!
I fumbled a great woman...and everyday pray i can find a partner half as suitable as she was. And she wouldn't even let me apologize
This is So Very True 👍 and Absolute Facts
Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅
Regular men grieve. But what about narcissistic, users, abusive men? Do THEY grieve?
ironically grief actually plays a part in that narcissistic characteristic that they have. They can’t cope with whatever happened to them.
No they don’t. They deny gaslight deflect responsibility, and then they replace ,and then it’s rinse, wash and repeat.
Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).
Thank you for this
How can you keep moving from woman to woman, and not heal.thats what men and women have to do first, Mind Body and Soul. Finding yourself is worth everything because you can't see nothing until you heal yourself. Know your Worthhhhhhhh
Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.
STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!
This is DEEP! Thank you for breaking this down. This is healing information. ❤️❤️❤️
Your videos has heal me….💥👏🏿
Good Message! 💯
UR AWESOME U HELP ME IN SO MANY WAYS THANK YOU ❤❤😊
Question, for this very reason; is it best to unfollow or not have any ex on social media? 💕great video 👍🏾
6 ft 5" !!!
Thank you Derrick !!
My body perceives it as a reality. I see no future in the burning bed
You are speaking the God's honest truth.
Woman love you first
You have an amazing topic very amazing
Do narsaccist men have a conscience?
Wow! A Great woman is still out there...
Let me find out you intuitive too!🤔
Brother Derek tha thank you for the great message that you are saying to all men and women tell me the truth 100 I am
my ex is regretting it as we speak and has turned to God.
BLESSINGS to you!!!God bless you.
talk is Cheap anyone can afford it....
Yes, you better speak from experience!! Thank u
Yes, OMG, yes!! Please take heed!
Real Talk 🙏
My friend studies kaballah, I am Christian. I was baptized born again 43 yrs ago, he's studied kaballah 38.
He told ne he'd study Christianity for 6 mo if I'd study kaballah. I agreed, but he never set the computer up foe me to study, and I'd ask him to read the Bible from pg 1 to the end, asking God to Open it, to unfold the code to you.
No one can tell you what's in the Bible but God. After you know what is, you share it, and those who hear are of like mind.
Great message ❤️
Thank You
That’s me 🤚🤚 don’t recognize me at all!😢
Brotha
You STILL have so much more to learn
I feel so hurt and lost 😞
It gets better hold on
Is this why my ex kept coming back for years, because of guilt or just because I kept taking him back? Was he just using me when he had no one else?
Kept coming back because u chose to play 2nd option and not 1st priority
My ex boyfriend recently passed away (he was married also) but I was told by mutual friends and family that he was still talking about me saying how he regrets losing me 🎯💯 goes to show he did have regrets …didn’t realize it till it was too late though
I was a Good Woman to my Ex partner hee went back to his Baby Mama I guess she was better or I was a placeholder until she took him back not sure I brought future, love honestly compassion showing bring loyalty softness
Same!
Thank You Derrick ❤❤❤
A vision board woman..❤ yesss 🔥🙏👑
Awesome information and so true
Thank you. 💜
Love You Derrick 💓💓💓
Why single the new thang 2024
Thank you!
My ex husband is a perfect example. I've never known him to drink and he's now an alcoholic. He looks terrible and this is after I divorced him in 2009. He looks much older now with a pot belly...ew
Amen Derrick ... Amen 🙏🏼❤
Ty for this message 👍
Wow you know peoples pain in their emotions🙏🙏❤
Continue to do the good work.
✅ Absolutely right!
Thank you ….. just thankyou ❤
Yes u are correct, I lived it
Love this ❤
I love DJ.. I always have ❤ 😊
Tell'em D❤
Nobody deserves a chosen one!