He thought I wasn't going to leave him. Hell I thought I couldn't. The light switched on and I walked away no more words no long text just no more of the bull. I'm sure he thinks im coming back as i do. No more crown back on. Ladies self- worth self- care self -esteem self -confidence. Valued!
You’re so true I’ve been there my first love of 7 years just up and left me to raise our children on my own and after that: I didn’t speak to him for 30 years and I moved on and then he tried to come back after I left a 20 year marriage and I said no I don’t love you ; God has ( Delivered ) me from him and my ex husband; I’m at peace and working on my business and I thank my Heavenly Father.❤
Derrick, Please continue to give these deep teachings on social media and not just in your private groups. You have no idea how much you helped me today. Thank you, and thank you for considering what I've requested. Lastly, thank you for being the big brother I never had.
Know your value, know your worth focus on the importance of life a womans job is never done. U allow them to be happy in their relationship and find you. Smile 😁 God loves you.
I have been listening to you all this afternoon and I learned so much, it gave me the clarity to see he was not there to begin with, and I was delusional to think that he cared, and I have hard time to forgive myself for who I thought he was.
Wow this is exactly what I have been through for years he told me early on in the relationship that he was abused for years by his mom and abandoned by many including his dad and asked me to never leave him yet he left me for another woman who promised that she was gonna make his life better she gave him keys to her car and apartment and the code to her bank account we were married for 26 years they now have 2 children
Hey brother, please don't worry about being raw . Truth of the matter is, most if not all women have gotten into these situations with good intentions but road to heel is paved with good intentions. So personally, I feel, u being raw is exactly what is needed. It may be tough love, but it is real love and honesty you're providing as a great brother would and should . There's that saying, "If u do the crime, u must do your time". This is sort of like this situation, except here, your crime is that u let the new shiny thing that just walked into your life with hope and promise, drown out your inner consciences voice until u can no longer hear it. Then slowly it dawns on u, that u lost far more than u thought, u lost u. So sometimes the only way back is to hear the real truth, no matter how ugly , shameful or even painful it is. Some truths are bitter, but u have to face the music. So raw is exactly what we need. Thank u so much, it truly warms my heart to know, that there are still good men in this world. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Brilliant take on everything- that happened last time leaving me feeling so broken in every way . How to manage healthier relationships in future starting with the one with myself .
D you've been called for this . Many people do this just for the sake of doing something but you king was ordained for this. Thank you for not allowing your own circumstances stand in the way of your calling.
Derrick I swear you know my situation. My story I feel you know . I’d like to join your podcast but can’t financially yet but listening to you gives me strength and I know I’m healing . Thank you for being so clear and to the point .
Hey Gwendolyn, I can sense how much you're struggling right now, but I want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's completely normal to feel lost and overwhelmed at times, especially when it comes to relationships. Remember to be kind to yourself and take things one step at a time. You have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class that delves deeper into this topic. You can find the link in the description of this video. Keep pushing forward and never forget that you deserve happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! ❤️
Derrick, you're a blessing to us ladies 😊 I've been binge watching your videos for insight, trying to wrap my head around why he could so easily treat me badly. I know now, he was sent by the devil 😈 I will not be anyones option. Selfish season all the way. He's blocked as I don't want him, but it has been eye opening for me, I need to love myself more to attract better quality men ❤
I feel the right person will fit you and of course there is room for improvement but with the right person or people in your life there shouldn’t be an issue because where everybody is at and that has earned the space in your life, everyone should get it.
He may wanted even thought in that moment. .. . He Needed something from you, that you couldn't give him. Even what he couldn't Give to you. He still wounded from Previous Hurts Pain Emmotional Conflicts Of his heart mind & soul...... Of previous broken Soultie Relationships. Unfinished business.... Even from his youth Childhood. Only to Sooth Suffice Pamper his Brokeness..... Only adds & inflicks Your brokeness Toxic Begats Brokeness. A Broken Spirit who can bare it.
Hi TamikaCooper-ue1so, I completely understand how challenging it can be to navigate relationships, especially when you feel like you're in a toxic and draining situation. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge that something isn't working and to take steps towards bettering your mental and emotional wellbeing. Remember, you deserve to be in a supportive and loving relationship where your needs are met and your feelings are respected. If you're looking for some guidance on how to move forward and heal from this difficult experience, I highly recommend checking out my new master class on relationships. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies that can help you on your journey towards healthier connections. You can find the link in the description of this video. Take care of yourself and know that you are worthy of love and respect. Keep moving forward towards a brighter and happier future. Warm regards, [Trusted Male Relationship Coach]
He told me verbatim #1. He needs to heal before we can be together again. That he loves me more than anything in his life. He left me for another woman to make him better for me but he keeps coming back and I'm so confused.
If he left you for another woman, she didn't take your boyfriend, she took your problem!
Amen
I wish her (probably, more than one 'her') well; she just inherited a whole 100% demon.
Yes!!! 100% 💯
Yup. Let her take him off your hands. 🙌🏾
Absolutely 🎉
The partners that leave, were only using us. A partner that loves us, commits, they never leave.
So true.
Hmm
Absolutely right.
He thought I wasn't going to leave him. Hell I thought I couldn't. The light switched on and I walked away no more words no long text just no more of the bull. I'm sure he thinks im coming back as i do. No more crown back on. Ladies self- worth self- care self -esteem self -confidence. Valued!
Been there with him , that back and forth mess . Finally I guess it had to end. 😊
Congratulations I respect your strength!!
Thank You.
He was not even aware of himself.
Absolutely! I was just a placeholder
Same 😢
people only do to you what you allow it was a hard pill to swallow thank you bro
True true 💯
You are a thousand percent correct, he was never there
Absolutely 😮😮😮😮
Drug addict
You’re so true I’ve been there my first love of 7 years just up and left me to raise our children on my own and after that: I didn’t speak to him for 30 years and I moved on and then he tried to come back after I left a 20 year marriage and I said no I don’t love you ; God has ( Delivered ) me from him and my ex husband; I’m at peace and working on my business and I thank my Heavenly Father.❤
Amen. Sis
I told him he needs to heal from past childhood trauma and he said maybe I don’t want to be healed ✌🏽
Least he was being honest!
It’s making so much sense. I had to walk away for my health. I could feel my decline( depression and anger), I do wish him the best though
ITS EXACTLY WHAT I WENT THROUGH WITH HIM AFTER 10 YEAR RELATIONSHIP, WAS LONG DISTANCE. NEVER AGAIN, IM DONE.
Derrick, Please continue to give these deep teachings on social media and not just in your private groups. You have no idea how much you helped me today. Thank you, and thank you for considering what I've requested. Lastly, thank you for being the big brother I never had.
Let. Go. Let. God take. Control. Of. Heart. Stealers. Remember. There. Is. Reaping. Time. For. Those. That. Goes. Around. Breaking. Good. People. Hearts. ❤❤. God. Bless
Know your value, know your worth focus on the importance of life a womans job is never done. U allow them to be happy in their relationship and find you. Smile 😁 God loves you.
💯
Thank you for the message this is why you guard your heart
So true! This resonated in your first few words!
No, you are helping women.. I love it.
Absolutely! Ghosting... and more ghosting! Oh my! What have I been thinking?!
When I’m listening to D videos I’m not even looking at the phone I’m just listening to his PURE FACTS! ❤ ❤❤
I have been listening to you all this afternoon and I learned so much, it gave me the clarity to see he was not there to begin with, and I was delusional to think that he cared, and I have hard time to forgive myself for who I thought he was.
Wow this is exactly what I have been through for years he told me early on in the relationship that he was abused for years by his mom and abandoned by many including his dad and asked me to never leave him yet he left me for another woman who promised that she was gonna make his life better she gave him keys to her car and apartment and the code to her bank account we were married for 26 years they now have 2 children
WOW!!!!!!. I am truly sorry this happened to you...😢
He sounds like he has Borderline Personality Disorder. Adios! You deserve better. 🫶💪
I am sooo sorry!!😢
I am this person I dont understand people who operate from malice
My my... its so hard to hear this truth, but nescassary for the future to avoid repeating this mistake.
Hey brother, please don't worry about being raw . Truth of the matter is, most if not all women have gotten into these situations with good intentions but road to heel is paved with good intentions. So personally, I feel, u being raw is exactly what is needed. It may be tough love, but it is real love and honesty you're providing as a great brother would and should . There's that saying, "If u do the crime, u must do your time". This is sort of like this situation, except here, your crime is that u let the new shiny thing that just walked into your life with hope and promise, drown out your inner consciences voice until u can no longer hear it. Then slowly it dawns on u, that u lost far more than u thought, u lost u. So sometimes the only way back is to hear the real truth, no matter how ugly , shameful or even painful it is. Some truths are bitter, but u have to face the music. So raw is exactly what we need. Thank u so much, it truly warms my heart to know, that there are still good men in this world. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This help change my life because it’s really important to love me
Thank God that you are not afraid to speak the truth.
Thank you thank you thank you soooo much for this video, Derrick. This is a really powerful message.
I like that analogy of the person controlled by drugs, it’s just the shell of the person..
Good evening Derrick Jeannette here, you are absolutely right...
Everything you have said makes so much sense and it exposes soooooooo much he needs THERAPY, IF HE WILL EVER HAVE ANY % OF a CHANCE for change!!!!!!!
Brilliant take on everything- that happened last time leaving me feeling so broken in every way . How to manage healthier relationships in future starting with the one with myself .
Thank you so much! You did a deeper dive than usual here and it was so helpful! ❤
Yes you are making sense. Thank you for sharing your experiences, wisdom and providing clarity to the collective. ❤
You hit the nail on the head with this subject for me thank you
I just came across this page today, and I've watched video after video. I know men are upset about this 😂. I Am highly anticipating the next one.
I am so grateful for you 🙏
D you've been called for this .
Many people do this just for the sake of doing something but you king was ordained for this.
Thank you for not allowing your own circumstances stand in the way of your calling.
Thank you so much for your wisdom.
Derrick I swear you know my situation. My story I feel you know . I’d like to join your podcast but can’t financially yet but listening to you gives me strength and I know I’m healing . Thank you for being so clear and to the point .
I needed to hear this! Thank you
Derrick I think you should do more videos like this. This is very interesting and informative.
Handsome Derrick,love your channel!😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤
This is a great topic! Thank you!!!
Thank you thank you
Thank you for letting God speak through you you have been a blessing to me 🙏
I love the way you related this . I know about all this but the way you present are so needed ❤
Wow I needed this
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you big bro I needed this confirmation... I'm soooooooooo happy and you are telling the truth 💯💯
A big Thank you 🤩🙏🏼❤️
Tried to make me feel he was invested,but when I started to call him on it and took initiative to set things in real motion..out came the excuses 😊
Make perfect sense thankyou for such powerful message
Hey Gwendolyn, I can sense how much you're struggling right now, but I want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's completely normal to feel lost and overwhelmed at times, especially when it comes to relationships. Remember to be kind to yourself and take things one step at a time. You have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way.
If you're looking for more guidance and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class that delves deeper into this topic. You can find the link in the description of this video. Keep pushing forward and never forget that you deserve happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! ❤️
@@JaxnVideos thankyou
Great message ❤
I'm so grateful to u I've learned so much
Thank you for helping us all try understand each other and want to be better people ❤
FACTS / TRUTH 2 POWER / THANK YOU ROYAL KING
Thank you ❤
Your speaking truth❤
This video
Is a masterpiece! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Sorry brother I have no social media to share to. 100% truth once again ❤
Yes, I understand, I am going through, thank you for your help.
So many good messages here. Thank you ❤
Thank you for your time and effort. Bless you and your family AMIN ❤
This definitely resonates❤
Thank you so much for this video. I so needed to hear everything you spoke about about.
Amen! Thank you for this amazing insight!
WOW RIGHT ON POINT 👍🙏
Hi , I am new to your channel ...yes I understand . Thank you
I GET IT ... Thank You Derrick !!!
Wow , thank you, eye opening for me!
Thank you soooo much❤
Derrick, you're a blessing to us ladies 😊 I've been binge watching your videos for insight, trying to wrap my head around why he could so easily treat me badly. I know now, he was sent by the devil 😈 I will not be anyones option. Selfish season all the way. He's blocked as I don't want him, but it has been eye opening for me, I need to love myself more to attract better quality men ❤
Thankyou so much for the guidance and insight 💯
You are absolutely right 👍💯😊
Thank you- just, thank you
I feel the right person will fit you and of course there is room for improvement but with the right person or people in your life there shouldn’t be an issue because where everybody is at and that has earned the space in your life, everyone should get it.
I kept my word and stayed i kept that promise but i couldn't fight against the streets
i so needed this thank you so much big brother
I think that obsessive thinking and the need to make sense why they left is linked to insecure attachment ergo abandonment (really self abandonment)
Thank you for this video.
Thank God🙏🏻
Thank you for this. ❤️
Than you my big brother ! I needed to hear this message you gave some very good pointers and i needed it. Thank you so much!
I would say leave the door closed a job well done he not going to change make sure you make yourself happy it’s problems when you open the door
So helpful. Thank you.
Love the stray dog analogy!
He may wanted even thought in that moment. .. . He Needed something from you, that you couldn't give him.
Even what he couldn't
Give to you.
He still wounded from
Previous Hurts Pain
Emmotional Conflicts
Of his heart mind & soul......
Of previous broken
Soultie Relationships.
Unfinished business....
Even from his youth
Childhood.
Only to Sooth Suffice
Pamper his Brokeness.....
Only adds & inflicks
Your brokeness
Toxic Begats Brokeness.
A Broken Spirit who can bare it.
appreciate the truth
You make so much sense, in every video!
Yeah I get everything you say :)
You hit the nail on the head
Speaking true Facts ❤
Hi TamikaCooper-ue1so,
I completely understand how challenging it can be to navigate relationships, especially when you feel like you're in a toxic and draining situation. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge that something isn't working and to take steps towards bettering your mental and emotional wellbeing. Remember, you deserve to be in a supportive and loving relationship where your needs are met and your feelings are respected.
If you're looking for some guidance on how to move forward and heal from this difficult experience, I highly recommend checking out my new master class on relationships. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies that can help you on your journey towards healthier connections. You can find the link in the description of this video.
Take care of yourself and know that you are worthy of love and respect. Keep moving forward towards a brighter and happier future.
Warm regards,
[Trusted Male Relationship Coach]
I right there you speaking facts
Thank you.
This is making alot of sense right now
Soooo True❤
You actually look like my brother. This was like one on one with me
I hear you my big brother D.J.
He told me verbatim #1. He needs to heal before we can be together again. That he loves me more than anything in his life. He left me for another woman to make him better for me but he keeps coming back and I'm so confused.
Thank you
I'm get out of this relationship. You is right
You make straight up sense
Makes perfect sense!