5 Things Your EX Thinks During NO CONTACT!

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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024

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  • @MommieLoves4
    @MommieLoves4 7 месяцев назад +116

    Their not worried about us, they just go with the next weak one who doesn't see the bullshit at first.

  • @cookiesmom584
    @cookiesmom584 7 месяцев назад +115

    You empower me to continue NO contact, love myself by giving him the gift of my absence!

  • @karynmartin2141
    @karynmartin2141 7 месяцев назад +211

    That's not for all men. They just move on to the next toxic, unemotional relationship.

  • @deborahleetalo6708
    @deborahleetalo6708 5 месяцев назад +54

    I doubt he'll ever contact me. He probably moved on. Im fixing up the broken pieces he left behind and im staying strong. I pray for better days to come🙏🏻💯.

  • @donnamaniscalco
    @donnamaniscalco 7 месяцев назад +122

    I just started no contact. I feel a wave of relief at not having to listen to the misery, be put down and blamed for everything. After 3 years, I am done. Taking care of myself now!

    • @iammarycarter
      @iammarycarter 6 месяцев назад +6

      I love this for you

    • @JadaGates
      @JadaGates 5 месяцев назад +6

      Same!!!!! I feel so good today! Still hurting but getting back to me…

    • @donnamaniscalco
      @donnamaniscalco 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@JadaGates ❤️♥️

    • @JadaGates
      @JadaGates 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@donnamaniscalco we got this!! We deserve so much better

    • @RoseTheQween
      @RoseTheQween 5 месяцев назад +1

      Congratulations ❤

  • @cindysantos9300
    @cindysantos9300 6 месяцев назад +31

    He disrespects my standards after i told him to dont do it again.
    And now i am out.

  • @melissachristian2739
    @melissachristian2739 7 месяцев назад +37

    This is a men loving world these guys are confused,, they don't know if they want a men or women,real talk 💯

  • @paradise3529
    @paradise3529 Месяц назад +4

    I walked away for Good Yesterday!!! Not ever Looking Back 🔙✍🏿✌🏿

  • @Janis-ge5ni
    @Janis-ge5ni 5 месяцев назад +31

    Sometimes you have to adjust to their absence rather than adjust to their disrespect!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️you are amazing Big Bro 💋
    Thank you

  • @mandisanqini3132
    @mandisanqini3132 7 месяцев назад +51

    You're absolutely right, its me vs me now. No more.

  • @GG-cl9ww
    @GG-cl9ww 4 месяца назад +8

    Consider lesson and learn. Just move on. Life is too short to wait for somebody to act right. And never ever accept a disrespect because you love someone. Give it to god. Move on is not worth it.

  • @griselda425
    @griselda425 7 месяцев назад +42

    You’re so right. This pain was starting to break me but he’s not worth it… thank you!!

  • @Dreacali26
    @Dreacali26 7 месяцев назад +36

    I wanted peace so I changed my number!!!!❤

  • @beverleyboateng566
    @beverleyboateng566 7 месяцев назад +28

    I’m absolutely shocked that I’ve invited him to come to church, he chose to try to manipulate me otherwise; I’ll remain no contact, you are sooo right!!! He never knew me , he thought he did ! Thanks keep up the great work.

  • @monicalacy6622
    @monicalacy6622 4 месяца назад +7

    Anger and blame is ridiculous when he was the problem. That just keeps you gone, ghosted, poof. Figure it out.

  • @AnastaciaRose-di9nl
    @AnastaciaRose-di9nl 7 месяцев назад +29

    ❤ It's time to get back to me😊

  • @anitawilson8634
    @anitawilson8634 4 месяца назад +8

    Going through this situation now!! Glad I heard this video today, and hopefully I can move on from this situation with prayers and the Lord 1st in my life!! Thank you

  • @deloresstigger3605
    @deloresstigger3605 7 месяцев назад +34

    Thank you so much and I hope your sisters that hear this take it to sincere deep heart because you are definitely telling them Right. First of all the woman needs to know to love God, then she needs to know her woman's Worth. And love her self.

  • @alogan9502
    @alogan9502 6 месяцев назад +14

    I don't know, I doubt he's going through any of this.... he's probably soooo proud of himself, talking ish to other females (yes plural-more than 1 female).... anyways none of my business. I blocked "it" - no access is self care too.

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 7 месяцев назад +19

    U can't carry a relationship by urself i been talking to my friend girl about what she going through

  • @user-bg7ij4uy1z
    @user-bg7ij4uy1z 7 месяцев назад +22

    I'm going through this now, and I agree with everything you say. You are absolutely right. All four!

  • @ivetteortiz5543
    @ivetteortiz5543 5 месяцев назад +12

    I need him to go through this. He hurt me to much.

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 месяцев назад +3

      Hi Ivette, I want to acknowledge the strength and courage it takes to share your story. It's important to remember that healing is a journey, and it's okay to have setbacks along the way. Remember to be kind to yourself and know that you are not alone in this.
      If you're looking for additional support and guidance, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with helpful tips and tools to help you navigate through this difficult time. You can find the link in the video description. Sending you love and support on your journey towards healing. Take care. ✨

  • @Mrsmismikimimi
    @Mrsmismikimimi 7 месяцев назад +12

    Been through the last disrespect and left.... He wanted to show up at my job with a puppy. "Wooow, good luck" was all I said and carried on with my work task.
    "See that I'm just done, sir."

  • @summmer77
    @summmer77 7 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you Universe for this ego death that is coming for him. Amazing divine timing❤

  • @claracruz9066
    @claracruz9066 7 месяцев назад +8

    I told him twice to stay away...He was in denial that I cut all access to me.

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 7 месяцев назад +7

    IAM Better Alone and Happy

  • @sharondafields3518
    @sharondafields3518 5 месяцев назад +3

    I had to choose me after 4.5 years. No contact for me was blocking him on everything. I can only imagine the rage that lurks within. Complete lack of access to his supply? Oh, well. We reap what we sow.

  • @jasminebranygift468
    @jasminebranygift468 5 месяцев назад +3

    Mine reached out after 4days after breaking up with me, with excuses of checking up on me if I am ok and well……
    No contact all the way 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @patsyhampton3698
    @patsyhampton3698 6 месяцев назад +5

    I love that-selfish season! ♥️

  • @amyrowe8014
    @amyrowe8014 3 месяца назад +2

    Silence Speaks VOLUMES JUS KNO THAT

  • @teresastocker9938
    @teresastocker9938 6 месяцев назад +2

    I was very lonely he was still with his Baby Mother he lied he use me disrespect me I bought value to his life
    Now I now very depressed lonely I need get out have fun

  • @Pharmacycenter
    @Pharmacycenter 7 месяцев назад +16

    Wisdom. God bless you

  • @ayotfreda5536
    @ayotfreda5536 7 месяцев назад +4

    6:44 yes the first time I went quiet he could send brief texts. Now I am going no contact again. And it's for good.

  • @Salexander50
    @Salexander50 7 месяцев назад +6

    My current situationship

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 4 месяца назад +1

    Damn I'm so glad I never contacted him I'm glad you said that GOOD for me!

  • @farahbashir7526
    @farahbashir7526 3 месяца назад

    No contact is the best I have ever done for myself.
    You are so right about everything.
    I was alone but never felt lonely. But in all the years with him I neverr felt so lonely in my whole life.

  • @ranawinfield5110
    @ranawinfield5110 5 месяцев назад +4

    All true I thought he was crying on the phone I said I gotta GO 🤷

  • @kurtrinamckinnon4214
    @kurtrinamckinnon4214 7 месяцев назад +4

    Yep!! Everything you saying true I broke up with him first of year he was very angry when I did glad it was via telephone

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford8658 4 месяца назад +1

    I felt lonely I'm wonderful and happy !

  • @rachelhopson2342
    @rachelhopson2342 7 месяцев назад +11

    Yes ....😢 no contact for ever

  • @dianafisher-greene7360
    @dianafisher-greene7360 7 месяцев назад +8

    I really needed to hear this today thank you so much ☺️ ❤

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks again
    That's so true!

  • @antoinettebulatao2299
    @antoinettebulatao2299 7 месяцев назад +10

    This is a great video. Makes so much sense

  • @centrerandom5640
    @centrerandom5640 7 месяцев назад +13

    Women do this to, i tried to talk to someone i hadnt spoken to in 6 years. I never forgot about him but life got in the way. He was rude and basically ignored me and then i saw he was married. We were never together but we could of been if i didn't take him for granted. I made the biggest mistake of my life not choosing him but there's nothing i can do about it now. Let me tell you it hurts like hell 😢

    • @DubaiiMakavelii
      @DubaiiMakavelii 7 месяцев назад +10

      Don’t regret nothing he wasn’t for you

    • @susanhampton9671
      @susanhampton9671 7 месяцев назад +6

      Take the positive. There is someone who is better for you. Please stop beatting yourself up.

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 7 месяцев назад +6

      Forgive yourself and move on. It wasn't meant to be

  • @tracywright1640
    @tracywright1640 7 месяцев назад +10

    You are so on point!!! ❤

  • @user-px9tl9cj6f
    @user-px9tl9cj6f 3 месяца назад

    I’m crying listening to this. I know this to be true. I’m in the selffish season challenge

  • @ameliareaves2381
    @ameliareaves2381 7 месяцев назад +3

    Oh, what you said...yes...yes.

  • @tanjeetstephens5730
    @tanjeetstephens5730 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm a single woman who is only into men..I don't follow trends..I follow my heart ❣️❤️...I am not going to let anyone else near me again until I am in love with someone without having sex with them first. I don't even miss sex because it makes men act like fools...

  • @teresastocker9938
    @teresastocker9938 6 месяцев назад +4

    That how did meI thought I was being there I was just a place holder for her 😢

    • @deborahleetalo6708
      @deborahleetalo6708 5 месяцев назад +1

      😢. It's ok. You are the most valuable 🙏🏻

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 7 месяцев назад +11

    Damn Big Bro -
    Definitely my experience.. They definitely go through this phase ..
    👁!!!!!

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 4 месяца назад

    I'm so proud of myself he never got him to reduce me I never fn let him He even said "what are you going to do without me? I answered I supported you for 2 years I can manage without you since you are here and refuse to pay for anything even though you have a job.

  • @TnL-nt2kd
    @TnL-nt2kd 4 месяца назад

    Absolutely can by with " I'll do ANYTHING" to come back. Straight up narcissistic!

  • @michellesweazy4493
    @michellesweazy4493 Месяц назад

    You're so powerful and motivating to me, I listen to your videos a lot when I'm going through it. Thank you!

  • @debraharris6350
    @debraharris6350 2 месяца назад

    Yes, "I'm NO CONTACT, BLOCKED, SILENTS" in this situation n Father God Devine Timing n Jesus Christ Mighty name Amen 😇😅😇🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯👏👏👏💞💞💞

  • @alicemahomes6976
    @alicemahomes6976 5 месяцев назад +4

    I blocked him

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 Месяц назад +2

    Realtalk

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 4 месяца назад

    yes you right he tried to get my attention by using the car that I own bought for him to drive as an excuse I told him what was what " take it or leave it" He was furious who cared

  • @CarlethaHenderson
    @CarlethaHenderson 2 месяца назад

    I stay my ground.

  • @MsknowledgeseekerNecole
    @MsknowledgeseekerNecole 6 месяцев назад +3

    This was deep❤️

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford8658 4 месяца назад

    You're right about that no more disrespect ok !!!

  • @kathynohl6213
    @kathynohl6213 4 месяца назад

    So so true I just let my person go. He ran 3 times. No no more!!!!

  • @marthadzimega1957
    @marthadzimega1957 5 месяцев назад +2

    Very insightful

  • @suzettewalsh2854
    @suzettewalsh2854 5 месяцев назад

    Yesssss desperation! Spot on with all the stages!

  • @ranawinfield5110
    @ranawinfield5110 4 месяца назад +2

    They were Doormats for those bums prriod

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 Месяц назад +2

    Amen!

  • @vernasmith1108
    @vernasmith1108 4 месяца назад

    I didn't have any status that was suitable for his family and him. I wasn't articulating my words enough. In other words, I wasn't good enough. I was more than enough, I was his blessing, and he didn't see it.

  • @NNV337
    @NNV337 6 месяцев назад +3

    Empowering video 💯✌

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 Месяц назад +1

    SO TRUE 😮

  • @cathywilliams662
    @cathywilliams662 7 месяцев назад +4

    On Point👏👏👏

  • @michellesweazy4493
    @michellesweazy4493 Месяц назад

    Ive been physically and mentally abused by men since i was 16, my first destroyed a healthy women i could have been. I settle for less, im and empath and have alot of compassion for people that treat me pooryy, i always see the good in people. Im 42 and realize im better alone. Even if im the reason i attract these men, i can take that. But im done with manipulation.

  • @jenm8550
    @jenm8550 6 месяцев назад +8

    Yes, I'm going through this right now and no contact is hard for me. He was all I have, and it's hard to let go of the only person I talk to.

    • @maryjuana9231
      @maryjuana9231 6 месяцев назад +4

      It's a mistake to make one person your everything for obvious reasons

    • @tracytonncupp548
      @tracytonncupp548 4 месяца назад +1

      pretty sure she knows that!!

  • @chrissyann3611
    @chrissyann3611 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wasn't a relationship

  • @Emily-ed6ed
    @Emily-ed6ed 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great message❤

  • @Niadrawalker
    @Niadrawalker 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you Derrick my Big Brother this message was very help and very well needed to hear.

  • @mariaamaya4495
    @mariaamaya4495 4 месяца назад +1

    Yup you are right 💯🙃

  • @adriennelarkin8188
    @adriennelarkin8188 5 месяцев назад

    Hello Derrickyou always on Point, Telling it Like Truth Be told, Yes Backbuner part!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 месяцев назад

      Hey Adrienne, I really appreciate you sharing your struggles with us. It takes a lot of courage to open up about personal challenges. Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times but it's important to also take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. You're not alone in this journey and there are people who are here to support you.
      If you're looking to delve deeper into managing relationships and personal growth, I invite you to check out my new masterclass. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies that can help you navigate through difficult situations. Just click on the link in the video description to access it. Keep pushing forward and never hesitate to reach out for help. You've got this!

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford8658 4 месяца назад

    Oh yes he said what do I have to do nothing!

  • @sherrysimpher502
    @sherrysimpher502 7 месяцев назад +7

    I'm in a relationship but I feel single😊

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 4 месяца назад

    OMG he did try to use all kinds of excuses to talk to me and I told "you're on your own now I won't help you translade for you, handle USA all by yourself with your influenced friends"

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yes yes brother ❤️

  • @deniseroper3047
    @deniseroper3047 5 месяцев назад +1

    I. My ex husband doesn't call me. So I don't call him!!

  • @user-dj4zs8dw5i
    @user-dj4zs8dw5i 17 дней назад

    Thank you for your input ❤

  • @michellejames6372
    @michellejames6372 Месяц назад

    That's me Right

  • @user-dj4zs8dw5i
    @user-dj4zs8dw5i 17 дней назад

    You are so right on

  • @preetsrivastava7970
    @preetsrivastava7970 2 месяца назад

    Derrick, respect. I'd love to hear what your thoughts are on dating w an age difference.

  • @cynthfusion5681
    @cynthfusion5681 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you….I needed this!!!

  • @trinajettelson7569
    @trinajettelson7569 4 месяца назад

    Thank you
    You have helped me heal 😊

  • @simpleliving4205
    @simpleliving4205 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you❤

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird3639 3 месяца назад

    You just answered my question thank you.

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford8658 4 месяца назад

    I'm happy now !!!

  • @Yeeeesh
    @Yeeeesh 4 месяца назад

    "You are NOT ordinary girl!!"

  • @romelliapattillo4681
    @romelliapattillo4681 2 месяца назад

    He’s been blocked…NO CONTACT!

  • @transformationsbeautylounge
    @transformationsbeautylounge 7 месяцев назад +1

    Yep this happens ALLLLL the time 😅😅😅😅😊😊😊

  • @Harry-o6g
    @Harry-o6g 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this one... ❤

  • @DM-dl6lv
    @DM-dl6lv 4 месяца назад

    You are spot on!

  • @LayersOfEvolutionMinistries
    @LayersOfEvolutionMinistries 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you!! Definitely going to check that group out

  • @user-qn6tr8pk9e
    @user-qn6tr8pk9e 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much I needed this today

  • @RoseTheQween
    @RoseTheQween 5 месяцев назад

    What would anyone of you do if you attempted to have a discussion about something that was bothering you & the individual says “ I don’t want to talk about it”?…..

  • @cardelmcneil2137
    @cardelmcneil2137 7 месяцев назад +1

    True words

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 Месяц назад +1

    YES 😮