I had a helluva price to pay. It effected my whole life & I lost everyone and everything. However I'll keep choosing ME AGAIN AND AGAIN. Fuck him and them ppl.🤷🏾♀️
None of these apply to my situation. He actually backed off. Gone. He Is expecting for me to go looking for him. He already changed his phone number, left WhatsApp, he's gone. And I know he will Not come back. His pride Is too big.
When I left my exhusband I could not get a job, I was with my little daughter and it was very hard paying rent , buying food , I could afford a toy...As I was single mother nobody supported us. People did not understood how i was soo thin just now when my situation is better people starts to understand and regret that they did not helped or supported us.
Thanks for your description. Almost everything applies to my situation. It's unbelievable what effort he puts into to provoke a reaction from me and to harm me. There are no limits
I left my marriage 35 years ago and I have no contact with my ex husband most of that time and now my son because, exactly what you are saying, my ex created me as the monster....my son believed that, fortunately my daughter has spent many years in therapy and fairly recently has realised what her father has been doing.....trying to discredit me....thank goodness she has. Narcissistic traits are insidious and are still a long way from being recognised. Thank you for raising this subject.
Yes I have been through all of that and still going through it. It’s true everything you said! Everything job,family,credit,smear campaign all, children.Keep telling the truth.
Everything you are saying is very true!!!! Brother…. The best thing you can do is stay far away as possible from these people. And ignore she definitely did my daughter dirty taking her anger out on my daughter because she couldn’t take it out on me
Keep going! You can do this! I went through some overwhelmingly ridiculous backlash when I went to divorce with my ex, yet. I overcame it, and I am better forward. And so are my children and even my ex communicates more respectfully, especially now that he knows he can't rattle or intimidate me, and that I refuse to fight Let's to stay in peace and in strength.
The kid part is accurate and they wait until they grown!!! U just have to be at peace with the fact they loved them you raised them and they no longer children! Family and EX’s!
That won't happen. I went thru that too. He did it all basically but the best thing I did was leave. He was a co worker. He wanted the narrative of me being obsessed and delusional. Whole time it was him..he had everyone fooled. I just left cuz it wasn't worth the fight.
Was smeared to the maximum. I'm not saying our marriage problems was all his fault, I take my responsibility too but I got to the point during my divorce that I just decided ...enough is enough!! I'm out..didn't even know where I was going to but I needed out. And then the smear attacks started getting worse.
I am married to one and you are so on point!!! I'm willing to pay the price. Leaving with your sanity is the true reward. They will tell anything about you as long as it is to hurt you. So evil and demonic.
He's not only holding my kids hostage against me, he's holding my fancy goldfishs' hostage! 😵💫 walking by faith and not by sight. God fights my battles.
Thanks for the offer but I'm not ready for it. Still working on myself and its been almost 6 yrs from my second divorce. I'm actually starting to love myself.
I am dealing with this now because we have kids. Everything is very true. My ex attempted to take my custodial rights. I can on and on about everything my ex has attempt to do.
Hi JadaGates, I just want to say that I admire your strength and resilience in facing the challenges you've shared in this video. It's never easy to go through tough times, but remember that you're not alone in this journey. You have the power within you to overcome any obstacles that come your way. I encourage you to take small steps towards healing and self-care. Remember to be gentle and kind to yourself during this process. And if you ever feel overwhelmed, don't hesitate to reach out for support from loved ones or a professional. By the way, I just wanted to let you know that I recently launched a new master class that covers topics like self-love, healing from past trauma, and building healthy relationships. Feel free to check it out in the link in the video description. Take care and stay strong, JadaGates. You got this.
I've been through every single word of this. 4years of my life. I'm 53 and it does make it harder to leave. Especially with your self esteem in the gutter...but I'm trying. Ty.
Been no contact for two half yrs...it's bliss !!! Yes all the strategies were there except financial...but that's cos locked that up quick smart.... Peace in life is immeasurable 🎉
Is it possible that you, Lee Hammock and Leon Walker Jr can do a Tri-podcast about y'all childhood into adulthood and help others people dealing with people who have shown NPD...On Stage Plus Q & A on your ? That would be EPIC
The Bastard stole my business truck and $80k; clipped my wings and strung me up slowly then left me for dead…he underestimated me and my power! I’ve got a surprise for him. 😊
😭currently dealing with my auntie she's done all this and i been keeping quite took a bunch of videos this time around because denied everything infront of the family....now I'm waiting for them to come around so they can hear what we been dealing with from 5 years since my mom passed away...i pray God heals her and she becomes a better person because this is tearing our family apart
After 2 and a half years of minimal contact basically only concerning our son HE'S BAAAACCCK😅 it's unfortunate that he won't take no for an answer & im a Lil afraid of his next move I can say I didn't FOLD!! I meant no and I'm still standing on business I am prepared I'm really afraid of what's going to happen come Thanksgiving because his mom wants to see our son 🤦🏽♀️ My child's father is manipulative & narcissistic He is not taking "him not having his family back" easy at all I've told him it's been almost 3yrs why haven't you moved on? He blamed me for not being able to move on smdh 😒
Was once with one Still married But I am no contact for a good solid 5years 3 girls involved But no contact standing firm !!! Thank you for sharing to educate 🙏❤️
I wanted badly to unblock him today (day 18 nc) thank you for helping me keeping him blocked
I said it once and I will say it again…sometimes the best war strategy is not to wage war at all.
I had a helluva price to pay. It effected my whole life & I lost everyone and everything. However I'll keep choosing ME AGAIN AND AGAIN. Fuck him and them ppl.🤷🏾♀️
They will destroy you !!! Get out in silence and move slowly | By the time you leave you won’t be found
This is why it's so important to know who you getting involved with 👁 awakened ,before you get involved with them🎭
None of these apply to my situation. He actually backed off. Gone. He Is expecting for me to go looking for him. He already changed his phone number, left WhatsApp, he's gone. And I know he will Not come back. His pride Is too big.
If only you would just ignore him. He will definitely come back. But, don't go back. Just heal
Rejection is God's protection
I I I I I!!!! All of it! Planning my 2nd exit currently. Nothing easy about it.
@bubblegumk.k.5352they sense it through the soul tie
He will but don’t go back don’t be weak asf just heal and move on.
When I left my exhusband I could not get a job, I was with my little daughter and it was very hard paying rent , buying food , I could afford a toy...As I was single mother nobody supported us. People did not understood how i was soo thin just now when my situation is better people starts to understand and regret that they did not helped or supported us.
My head hears this and knows it's the truth. I just need my heart to follow.
I need to hear from you daily. It's so hard to let go when you are trauma bonded
He's good at this
i can relate with that too i am truly trying to leave a 20 year commitment
Amen Ladies stay strong 🙏 their not on your Level at least that my story we are Done I am done with it First Time Last time God bless 💪
He's 100% correct!
I'm currently dealing with this....he keeps resurfacing with new chaos 😫
Block him
Thanks for your description. Almost everything applies to my situation. It's unbelievable what effort he puts into to provoke a reaction from me and to harm me. There are no limits
The children were the price I had to pay for peace. I gave it all to God. He know about it ALL.
I left my marriage 35 years ago and I have no contact with my ex husband most of that time and now my son because, exactly what you are saying, my ex created me as the monster....my son believed that, fortunately my daughter has spent many years in therapy and fairly recently has realised what her father has been doing.....trying to discredit me....thank goodness she has. Narcissistic traits are insidious and are still a long way from being recognised. Thank you for raising this subject.
Yep with kids dealt with it. Thank God my kids teenagers they are aware of a lot for seeing things on they own
Yes .. I was married to one for 15 years now my kids don’t talk to me ….he manipulated them .😢
Sooner or later they will realize who he is or they already know and will contact you.
It's absolute hell trying to co parent with these " men "
I’ve been through a smear campaign
Amen
Ignore ignore
Yes I have been through all of that and still going through it. It’s true everything you said! Everything job,family,credit,smear campaign all, children.Keep telling the truth.
This is a word in due season... I'm going through this right now! Thanks for the video .
Yep.
Tried smearing my name, and tried turning our Sons and my own Brother against me.
They are some Evil fkrs
Don’t drink poison ☠️ because you’re thirsty
Everything you are saying is very true!!!! Brother…. The best thing you can do is stay far away as possible from these people. And ignore she definitely did my daughter dirty taking her anger out on my daughter because she couldn’t take it out on me
You you are Soo right. When you get comfortable their ghost pops up.
Everything you're stating has and still is happening to me.
Yessssss that co-parent situation is real
I hear you - I am divorcing my covert nar and the games he is playing are ridiculous but God has the final say😊
Keep going! You can do this! I went through some overwhelmingly ridiculous backlash when I went to divorce with my ex, yet. I overcame it, and I am better forward. And so are my children and even my ex communicates more respectfully, especially now that he knows he can't rattle or intimidate me, and that I refuse to fight Let's to stay in peace and in strength.
Derrick, you are spot on on everything😢🤗
The kid part is accurate and they wait until they grown!!! U just have to be at peace with the fact they loved them you raised them and they no longer children! Family and EX’s!
SUPERNOVA: When I show and tell you "Leave me alone, I'm done!"
Mess with me @ your own risk!
I DON'T CARE
I've been through 100% of what you are talking about.
OMG..you nailed it! My divorce cost 65k b/ c he was so vindictive..best and hardest thing I ever had to go thru
It’s so worth it!!!
You’re so right on everything. I experienced all of this.
Oh yes that was also done, even my grandsons was affected.
He wants me broke, homeless, and without a car.
That won't happen. I went thru that too. He did it all basically but the best thing I did was leave. He was a co worker. He wanted the narrative of me being obsessed and delusional. Whole time it was him..he had everyone fooled. I just left cuz it wasn't worth the fight.
Was smeared to the maximum. I'm not saying our marriage problems was all his fault, I take my responsibility too but I got to the point during my divorce that I just decided ...enough is enough!! I'm out..didn't even know where I was going to but I needed out. And then the smear attacks started getting worse.
I am married to one and you are so on point!!! I'm willing to pay the price. Leaving with your sanity is the true reward. They will tell anything about you as long as it is to hurt you. So evil and demonic.
You are spot on Derrick
Well said.. confirmation. ... Keep helping others . Them people need to be delivered
Yes, I'm listening! I got myself in big mess with someone who is pretending to be a celebrity but used identity theft and got everything! 😢
I sooo needed to hear this today.. Thank you for helping keep my mind right!! 💯
Divorcing one after 34 years of marriage. Nco and ppo.
I had a supervisor like that . Picking up women at work.
Thank u for ur honest messages. I am for sure no contact, not talking . I refuse to take on what I don't deserve.. No!!
What about safety? Call the cops? Self defense? What kinds of things do you recommend? You know they can be dangerous.
Divorcing one after 34 years of marriage.
Good luck and God bless.
He's not only holding my kids hostage against me, he's holding my fancy goldfishs' hostage! 😵💫 walking by faith and not by sight. God fights my battles.
Thanks for the offer but I'm not ready for it. Still working on myself and its been almost 6 yrs from my second divorce. I'm actually starting to love myself.
My dog 🐶 was the first to get out the apartment, her safety came first
I love your wisdom thank you so much!!! ❤
I am dealing with this now because we have kids. Everything is very true. My ex attempted to take my custodial rights. I can on and on about everything my ex has attempt to do.
You are speaking so many truths… my big hard head needs to hear this
Hi JadaGates, I just want to say that I admire your strength and resilience in facing the challenges you've shared in this video. It's never easy to go through tough times, but remember that you're not alone in this journey. You have the power within you to overcome any obstacles that come your way.
I encourage you to take small steps towards healing and self-care. Remember to be gentle and kind to yourself during this process. And if you ever feel overwhelmed, don't hesitate to reach out for support from loved ones or a professional.
By the way, I just wanted to let you know that I recently launched a new master class that covers topics like self-love, healing from past trauma, and building healthy relationships. Feel free to check it out in the link in the video description. Take care and stay strong, JadaGates. You got this.
@@JaxnVideos thank you I think I may sign up cause knowledge is power… and I am powerful
I’m dealing with it right now so I literally said can we remain friends just so I can slowly get away
You are speaking the Truth Iam going through this right now
Yes I know exactly what you are talking about so far you are right on the mark
I've been through every single word of this. 4years of my life. I'm 53 and it does make it harder to leave. Especially with your self esteem in the gutter...but I'm trying. Ty.
I have experienced this very powerful Derick
But in this process, you must warn your viewers how dangerous it is to go no contact I’m going through the dangers of that now
Thank you. Very insightful and true.
I'm dealing with all this right now yes it's my peace he can't stand he's lethal n he left me for another woman a year ago! There crazy!
Totally understand everything.
I DEFINITELY KNOW WHAT YOU'RE SAYIING IS REAL. THANKS .
I know exactly what you talking about. My divorce took 6 yrs to come to an end.
Thank you! Im not! Your videos are 🔥💖🙏 been helping me so much!
Been no contact for two half yrs...it's bliss !!! Yes all the strategies were there except financial...but that's cos locked that up quick smart....
Peace in life is immeasurable 🎉
The ex husband did everything on this list
Is it possible that you, Lee Hammock and Leon Walker Jr can do a Tri-podcast about y'all childhood into adulthood and help others people dealing with people who have shown NPD...On Stage Plus Q & A on your ? That would be EPIC
You are fantastic 👏 Thank you
I… wow, mind-blowing examples that I never thought of.
Omg this happened to me with my ex and my son . And I was so mad at him . At that time I didn’t know nothing about narcissistic
I left him. He never called or came back asking. He was in another relationship and moved in with her 3 days after our break up
All that was spot on….❤.
I
Absolutely. I.
Good info, better late than never. 😇
Thank you, Brother.
At this point, I don't care what they say
You are telling the truth 💯
Excellent content
All of these things have been done to me.
Thank you for sharing this information wow
He won’t give me my things???
Took me 6 yrs to get my freedom and peace back
You’re speaking truth 👍
The Bastard stole my business truck and $80k; clipped my wings and strung me up slowly then left me for dead…he underestimated me and my power! I’ve got a surprise for him. 😊
Going though it now,everything you brought up.(thank u 4 u ).
Thank u for everything, everything u said is true.
It resonates with me. Pfff so disguted by them sort of behavior
Yes I am living with one trying to leave 4 children involved
Been smeared to hell and back
Omg talk about hitting the nail on the head
😭currently dealing with my auntie she's done all this and i been keeping quite took a bunch of videos this time around because denied everything infront of the family....now I'm waiting for them to come around so they can hear what we been dealing with from 5 years since my mom passed away...i pray God heals her and she becomes a better person because this is tearing our family apart
After 2 and a half years of minimal contact basically only concerning our son HE'S BAAAACCCK😅 it's unfortunate that he won't take no for an answer & im a Lil afraid of his next move I can say I didn't FOLD!! I meant no and I'm still standing on business
I am prepared I'm really afraid of what's going to happen come Thanksgiving because his mom wants to see our son 🤦🏽♀️
My child's father is manipulative & narcissistic He is not taking "him not having his family back" easy at all I've told him it's been almost 3yrs why haven't you moved on? He blamed me for not being able to move on smdh 😒
Great video bro❤
Freedom yes! But, he 💩 talked me hard to some and others he played victim. Peace is priceless. 🕊️💕✌️
Was once with one
Still married
But I am no contact for a good solid
5years
3 girls involved
But no contact standing firm !!!
Thank you for sharing to educate 🙏❤️
Why still married? Why not divorced?
OMG I’m dealing with that now!!!! It’s like why?
Very interesting 😊
Diagnosed it not. Exactly
Undoubtedly or no doubt/surely!!!!!!
Yes he couldn’t get to me now he is trying to bring my son down.
After I left....I was stalked by him.
YUP!! ?? !! ?? that's definitely for SURE 🙏🏻✌🏻.