WHEN HE LOSES CONTROL OF YOU, HE WILL DO THIS!

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  • @JaxnVideos
    @JaxnVideos  3 месяца назад +33

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    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  3 месяца назад +2

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    • @terilyntucker4361
      @terilyntucker4361 3 месяца назад +3

      Sir! Thank you for putting out this content. Good women need protection. You are truly helping. God sees you. God bless you.

    • @kweenuzuri9018
      @kweenuzuri9018 3 месяца назад

      Factz 💯 😊💗

    • @judyschwenz6436
      @judyschwenz6436 3 месяца назад

      It's 10000% true I'm barely hanging on 😢😢😢

    • @ShirleyWillis-os2bc
      @ShirleyWillis-os2bc Месяц назад

      Me

  • @lisahurst1940
    @lisahurst1940 3 месяца назад +310

    Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!

    • @MissOddyO
      @MissOddyO 3 месяца назад +18

      This is my current situation... I'm hoping i continue to choose me!

    • @cynicalafflictional1725
      @cynicalafflictional1725 3 месяца назад +9

      Yes!

    • @kimbrown5407
      @kimbrown5407 3 месяца назад +12

      Amen! Best decision ever! Get yr peace & power back for good!👊🙌

    • @trinjuwan4422
      @trinjuwan4422 3 месяца назад +13

      Silence & total disconnection are the MOST POWERFUL ACTIONS any of us can take with a toxic manipulator. PERIOD🚫

  • @elmagarza478
    @elmagarza478 3 месяца назад +112

    IGNORE THEM AS THOUGH THEY NEVER EXISTED!

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 3 месяца назад +123

    The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait

  • @user-cy9in5ry9c
    @user-cy9in5ry9c 3 месяца назад +124

    I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.

    • @kukuakukua
      @kukuakukua 3 месяца назад +12

      This is it😅him getting zero reaction from me did not only confused him but it stabbed him in his heart and that was my healing

  • @oliviabarr2986
    @oliviabarr2986 3 месяца назад +105

    Treat him like a stranger ❤

  • @aamne2012
    @aamne2012 3 месяца назад +104

    Going through it at the moment,,he was as cold as ice now ,, switch up and I became a ski resort

    • @bioncadixon1989
      @bioncadixon1989 3 месяца назад +6

      Barz

    • @riasb
      @riasb 3 месяца назад +3

      🔥

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 3 месяца назад +4

      Love it!
      Safe People by Henry Cloud
      The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
      Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

    • @BBFLYRISEN
      @BBFLYRISEN 2 месяца назад +1

      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🖤

  • @Webble_webble
    @Webble_webble 3 месяца назад +55

    "Good women don't have to get revenge!!!!"
    Put it on a shirt because that's facts 100. I let God move and stay out of the way❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alogan9502
    @alogan9502 3 месяца назад +58

    Him not wanting to co parent makes it easier to walk away for good 🙌

    • @westcoastbred7745
      @westcoastbred7745 3 месяца назад +4

      Omg facts...I am going through this currently. He stopped communicating about the kids

    • @brendamartin763
      @brendamartin763 15 дней назад +1

      Yeah, that's tough for me bc it's not in my nature to be cold & unkind to anyone.
      Some confuse the empath for a doormat.
      That's not the case.

  • @angelamartinsanders8209
    @angelamartinsanders8209 3 месяца назад +58

    I'm getting smeared right now and I just say God knows and people that know me knows.... Trying to tear my character down.

    • @rooffoop5358
      @rooffoop5358 3 месяца назад +6

      Keep your head up and keep your crown straight!🙏

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 3 месяца назад +137

    Been ABSENT & SILENT for 5 yrs. Completely done.

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 3 месяца назад +8

      Bravo! 👍

    • @GIGI-lv1qt
      @GIGI-lv1qt 3 месяца назад +8

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 3 месяца назад

      Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis
      Safe People by Henry Cloud
      The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
      Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast
      Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record
      Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate.
      I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast
      Accurate study.

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 3 месяца назад +5

      Safe People by Henry Cloud
      The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
      Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
      The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman
      The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer

    • @Auntie_Sam1968
      @Auntie_Sam1968 3 месяца назад +5

      Me too 👍

  • @michellerogers5582
    @michellerogers5582 3 месяца назад +28

    He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!

  • @glendasullivan7633
    @glendasullivan7633 3 месяца назад +39

    Yes, and they say they come back seven times more demons

  • @lilamckay5982
    @lilamckay5982 3 месяца назад +18

    Manipulation and control are always part of a quad. Intimidation and domination are the other half of the quad.

  • @elizabethbuchanan1931
    @elizabethbuchanan1931 3 месяца назад +48

    Im the Karma when I left...... he felt it . :)

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .

    • @aprildouglass4265
      @aprildouglass4265 3 месяца назад

      💯💯🎯

  • @Stella-kx3lt
    @Stella-kx3lt 3 месяца назад +46

    That’s exactly right!!! Listen to what he’s saying!!!!!

  • @DarleneD-dt5qy
    @DarleneD-dt5qy 3 месяца назад +35

    Anything to hurt your character to try to get reaction from u Vindictive that u left him🦋

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 3 месяца назад

      Standards boundaries a bs detector and a backbone 💪
      Character is actions.
      Safe People by Henry Cloud
      The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 3 месяца назад +31

    Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.

    • @vanessasmith4960
      @vanessasmith4960 3 месяца назад

      Yes Lord. Amen

    • @latashahumphrey769
      @latashahumphrey769 3 месяца назад

      @@vanessasmith4960 on top of it just got off got go get something to cook 😄

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 3 месяца назад +18

    I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused

  • @genXer2024
    @genXer2024 3 месяца назад +11

    I don't want to hurt him. I just want my sanity and for him to leave me alone

  • @shelleyjeanne257
    @shelleyjeanne257 3 месяца назад +14

    Huge empath here… wish I had heard this years ago

  • @valeriebyrd70
    @valeriebyrd70 3 месяца назад +19

    I’m now excited about taking that control he once had away from him.

  • @margueritedrya9807
    @margueritedrya9807 3 месяца назад +27

    Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!

    • @tobilawal2142
      @tobilawal2142 3 месяца назад +3

      You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊

  • @TNT31414
    @TNT31414 Месяц назад +3

    That detach from urself is real…Stay strong queens ❤ a spiritual journey is needed ❤ get back to urself!

  • @Angie-kn8nd
    @Angie-kn8nd 3 месяца назад +32

    You are on fire with these short videos !!

  • @lindagoldsmith5899
    @lindagoldsmith5899 3 месяца назад +14

    You are so right, yes I am a Empath, trying to please everyone, no more it’s about me now

  • @LoveEndures7
    @LoveEndures7 3 месяца назад +15

    He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his RUclips 😵‍💫 here's two that stood out:
    "Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden
    "What Could've Been" - Gone West

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 3 месяца назад +25

    Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌
    To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞

  • @BBFLYRISEN
    @BBFLYRISEN 2 месяца назад +3

    My pledge: 🙋🏿‍♀️ “I am no longer an empath. I have learned to let people down and leave them broken when I find them broken.”

  • @elizabethwerter7171
    @elizabethwerter7171 3 месяца назад +15

    You always make sense Derrick. This video isn’t my experience but it’s “good to know”. Thank you ❤

  • @magdalenachojnowska3621
    @magdalenachojnowska3621 3 месяца назад +7

    That's exactly what happened to me. He antagonized, but I was mentally prepared and remained stoic. I heard I disrespected him by doing this 😉

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 3 месяца назад +8

    Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.

  • @tsioncox3712
    @tsioncox3712 3 месяца назад +12

    Thank you, Big Brotha. May God bless you and reward your work and efforts to be truthful

  • @sarahharrison5157
    @sarahharrison5157 3 месяца назад +6

    Take back control and give it to yourself ! I love that ❤ Thank you 😊

  • @glendasullivan7633
    @glendasullivan7633 3 месяца назад +3

    Yes Derrick boundaries are so so so important. It’s one thing to have them but it’s another thing to protect them. I mean diligently protect your boundaries.

  • @tobh007
    @tobh007 3 месяца назад +4

    You're SSSOOOOO right. There's a great controversy that is between Good and Evil... we are not each others enemy and marriage is STILL sacred!

  • @DarleneD-dt5qy
    @DarleneD-dt5qy 3 месяца назад +13

    Smear champagne half truth they play victim 💯

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 3 месяца назад +4

    Yes I relate. Exactly CUT him off 3 years ago. Yes he tried to come back. Blocked him on all ... phone social media

  • @Katarina503
    @Katarina503 3 месяца назад +3

    I needed to hear all of this. So true, thank you 🙏

  • @valeriebyrd70
    @valeriebyrd70 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Derrick for everything !!! I appreciate you !!! ❤

  • @derailingtraumabonds5181
    @derailingtraumabonds5181 3 месяца назад

    This does it for me, exactly to the tea I needed this I’m so empathic, thank you for going there in this video ❤

  • @annamillan2903
    @annamillan2903 3 месяца назад +5

    Listening to you has been very enlightening.

  • @jamilakhatun3592
    @jamilakhatun3592 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this, so helpful brother, stay well.

  • @user-fn1kx8ow5q
    @user-fn1kx8ow5q 3 месяца назад +4

    AMEN❤ THE best revenge is SUCCESS!!!

  • @donna6783
    @donna6783 3 месяца назад +4

    Me! and this is a really helpful video. Thank you!

  • @cherylanderson8369
    @cherylanderson8369 3 месяца назад

    You’re definitely HELPING me

  • @no.commonsense
    @no.commonsense 3 месяца назад +1

    This is so helpful an encouraging it motivates and teaches me

  • @Jenishabadoo
    @Jenishabadoo 3 месяца назад +1

    This was my aha moment. Thank you Derrick.

  • @shantalchotoki4998
    @shantalchotoki4998 3 месяца назад +2

    So damn true!! Been thru it all! 🥹

  • @marthaavbioroko8249
    @marthaavbioroko8249 3 месяца назад

    Yes, it is very helpful.
    Thank you so much, King 👑❤💯👊

  • @sandratalbert4253
    @sandratalbert4253 3 месяца назад

    Im so glad your doing this.

  • @annetteloliver78
    @annetteloliver78 2 месяца назад

    Bless you for your help!!! I am SO GREATFUL I found it! Wish I had this help YEARS AGO!

  • @user-cj1wk4jz3x
    @user-cj1wk4jz3x 3 месяца назад +2

    Wow i can relate. my baby daddy was like that. In 1 year i will be completely free from him and his antics.

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  3 месяца назад

      @user-cj1wk4jz3x Hey, here's the link for free enrollment into my Self-Crowned Inner Circle: derrickjaxn.rurl.me/freeenrollmentvip1

  • @milomaddyhennessy2643
    @milomaddyhennessy2643 3 месяца назад

    I am working and learning , so much from you. Sincerely I appreciate your wisdom

  • @emilysandstrom2476
    @emilysandstrom2476 3 месяца назад +3

    I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.

  • @7ChakrasTarot
    @7ChakrasTarot 2 месяца назад

    Yeah that's true a lot of people try to take my sunshine for themselves. You think you can make someone happy but you only end up unhappy.

  • @jjcarr6606
    @jjcarr6606 3 месяца назад +1

    I have been there. You are speaking directly to me

  • @user-mb1sy9uz6z
    @user-mb1sy9uz6z 3 месяца назад

    Empaths have the biggest hearts!! Look out for the 7 traps of Empaths!! Thank you for the information, Derrick!! Appreciate you!!

  • @keiannasoares7696
    @keiannasoares7696 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much because this describes my sons father perfectly

  • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
    @SophiaParker-mc3kg 3 месяца назад

    🙏 thank you so much! For this knowledge for us empaths

  • @LMC3860
    @LMC3860 3 месяца назад

    It's definitely helping me rn 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @diboleloanniekamota6585
    @diboleloanniekamota6585 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this

  • @neliakh9118
    @neliakh9118 23 дня назад

    So true! 💯💯💯 Thank you for acknowledging to see our worth 🙏❤️

  • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
    @SophiaParker-mc3kg 3 месяца назад +1

    You are def helping me

  • @Ahay143
    @Ahay143 2 месяца назад

    This is helpful. Thank you.

  • @user-ef5jr6re6v
    @user-ef5jr6re6v 19 дней назад

    He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!

  • @valeriebyrd70
    @valeriebyrd70 3 месяца назад +1

    Me !!! You are definitely helping me !!!

  • @dinajones6571
    @dinajones6571 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for telling the truth❤

  • @Angel-lm6cj
    @Angel-lm6cj 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for giving us women all this information

  • @user-qt1cy4hl9q
    @user-qt1cy4hl9q 3 месяца назад

    You helping me thank you so much grateful for your channel

  • @theresawilliams3633
    @theresawilliams3633 3 месяца назад

    Appreciate you much love 👍♥️

  • @harriettestjohn1699
    @harriettestjohn1699 3 месяца назад +8

    Tell them Zaddy

  • @simonethompson8946
    @simonethompson8946 Месяц назад

    Speaking the truth... God Bless 🕊 🙌🏽

  • @ADE528
    @ADE528 3 месяца назад

    Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.

  • @Ev_89
    @Ev_89 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for understanding

  • @moniquehoward4544
    @moniquehoward4544 3 месяца назад

    Very helpful message ❤

  • @carobrown9498
    @carobrown9498 2 месяца назад

    THANK YOU!

  • @JanetTuttle-cb3xx
    @JanetTuttle-cb3xx Месяц назад

    I have experenced this, Thank you.❤❤❤❤

  • @ILOVEGOD806
    @ILOVEGOD806 3 месяца назад

    Hello from israel dear Derrick!
    That is a great video!!! Thank u it helped me alot❤

  • @margaretbanchansky2890
    @margaretbanchansky2890 3 месяца назад +3

    I did exactly that. Then he went after the 2 children. So that was the end for me.

    • @stephnie8
      @stephnie8 3 месяца назад +2

      What do you mean by going after the children?

  • @maeevans1059
    @maeevans1059 3 месяца назад

    So true sadly...but liberating. Thank you sir

  • @jejohn665
    @jejohn665 3 месяца назад

    Excellent, thank You👍

  • @lateshiakellman4657
    @lateshiakellman4657 4 часа назад

    I appreciate you more than you will enter know. Sincerely, Empath.

  • @lindaclark3993
    @lindaclark3993 2 месяца назад

    You definitely help
    You always do x

  • @jenavenecoolwell9978
    @jenavenecoolwell9978 3 месяца назад

    Very helpful information 💯

  • @jenenrich-wills2164
    @jenenrich-wills2164 3 месяца назад

    Fabulous video..!

  • @mz.ellalobo8531
    @mz.ellalobo8531 Месяц назад

    I've been there and the next day he left me for someone else like I was nothing. Treat him like doesnt exist. Take my word

    • @ellenmorse8559
      @ellenmorse8559 Месяц назад

      He’s trying to punish you, just feel sorry for that poor girl he’s using aS a bandaid. Glad you took out the rubbish!😊

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @April-dt8pp
    @April-dt8pp 3 месяца назад

    Speaking directly to us empaths our here for sure....

  • @stellaeightp8596
    @stellaeightp8596 Месяц назад

    Thank you. 🙏🏾✨️

  • @BBsweetiepie
    @BBsweetiepie 3 месяца назад

    Truths being spoken!

  • @HannahBanana_XO
    @HannahBanana_XO 4 дня назад +1

    Protect your heart and peace at all cost! ♥️✨

  • @sheliasmith2884
    @sheliasmith2884 3 месяца назад +1

    BRILLIANT

  • @SmashMaster
    @SmashMaster 3 месяца назад +1

    So true! ❤

  • @debraharris6350
    @debraharris6350 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes, ME DERRICK THANK YOU JESUS AMEN HALLELUJAH 😇🥰🙏🙌❤️💯💯💯💞💞💞

  • @trinajettelson7569
    @trinajettelson7569 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much

  • @deniseguzman3173
    @deniseguzman3173 3 месяца назад +1

    Me encanta! On point :)

  • @sadiehiester2301
    @sadiehiester2301 3 месяца назад

    Soo relatable geez.

  • @Denise-bj1sq
    @Denise-bj1sq 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you

  • @glendasullivan7633
    @glendasullivan7633 3 месяца назад

    God spoke to me, Derrick and I also appreciate your videos