Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!
The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait
I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate. I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast Accurate study.
Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer
He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!
Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .
Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.
I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused
Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!
You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊
He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his RUclips 😵💫 here's two that stood out: "Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden "What Could've Been" - Gone West
Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌ To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞
Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.
Yes Derrick boundaries are so so so important. It’s one thing to have them but it’s another thing to protect them. I mean diligently protect your boundaries.
I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.
He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!
Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.
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Sir! Thank you for putting out this content. Good women need protection. You are truly helping. God sees you. God bless you.
Factz 💯 😊💗
It's 10000% true I'm barely hanging on 😢😢😢
Me
Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!
This is my current situation... I'm hoping i continue to choose me!
Yes!
Amen! Best decision ever! Get yr peace & power back for good!👊🙌
Silence & total disconnection are the MOST POWERFUL ACTIONS any of us can take with a toxic manipulator. PERIOD🚫
IGNORE THEM AS THOUGH THEY NEVER EXISTED!
💯👌🏿
The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait
I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.
This is it😅him getting zero reaction from me did not only confused him but it stabbed him in his heart and that was my healing
Treat him like a stranger ❤
👌🏿💪🏾
Going through it at the moment,,he was as cold as ice now ,, switch up and I became a ski resort
Barz
🔥
Love it!
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🖤
"Good women don't have to get revenge!!!!"
Put it on a shirt because that's facts 100. I let God move and stay out of the way❤❤❤❤❤❤
Him not wanting to co parent makes it easier to walk away for good 🙌
Omg facts...I am going through this currently. He stopped communicating about the kids
Yeah, that's tough for me bc it's not in my nature to be cold & unkind to anyone.
Some confuse the empath for a doormat.
That's not the case.
I'm getting smeared right now and I just say God knows and people that know me knows.... Trying to tear my character down.
Keep your head up and keep your crown straight!🙏
Been ABSENT & SILENT for 5 yrs. Completely done.
Bravo! 👍
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast
Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record
Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate.
I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast
Accurate study.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman
The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer
Me too 👍
He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!
Yes, and they say they come back seven times more demons
Facts
7×700 more
Manipulation and control are always part of a quad. Intimidation and domination are the other half of the quad.
Im the Karma when I left...... he felt it . :)
Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .
💯💯🎯
That’s exactly right!!! Listen to what he’s saying!!!!!
Anything to hurt your character to try to get reaction from u Vindictive that u left him🦋
Standards boundaries a bs detector and a backbone 💪
Character is actions.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.
Yes Lord. Amen
@@vanessasmith4960 on top of it just got off got go get something to cook 😄
I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused
I don't want to hurt him. I just want my sanity and for him to leave me alone
Huge empath here… wish I had heard this years ago
I’m now excited about taking that control he once had away from him.
Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!
You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊
That detach from urself is real…Stay strong queens ❤ a spiritual journey is needed ❤ get back to urself!
You are on fire with these short videos !!
You are so right, yes I am a Empath, trying to please everyone, no more it’s about me now
He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his RUclips 😵💫 here's two that stood out:
"Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden
"What Could've Been" - Gone West
Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌
To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞
My pledge: 🙋🏿♀️ “I am no longer an empath. I have learned to let people down and leave them broken when I find them broken.”
You always make sense Derrick. This video isn’t my experience but it’s “good to know”. Thank you ❤
That's exactly what happened to me. He antagonized, but I was mentally prepared and remained stoic. I heard I disrespected him by doing this 😉
Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.
Thank you, Big Brotha. May God bless you and reward your work and efforts to be truthful
Take back control and give it to yourself ! I love that ❤ Thank you 😊
Yes Derrick boundaries are so so so important. It’s one thing to have them but it’s another thing to protect them. I mean diligently protect your boundaries.
You're SSSOOOOO right. There's a great controversy that is between Good and Evil... we are not each others enemy and marriage is STILL sacred!
Smear champagne half truth they play victim 💯
Yes I relate. Exactly CUT him off 3 years ago. Yes he tried to come back. Blocked him on all ... phone social media
I needed to hear all of this. So true, thank you 🙏
Thank you so much Derrick for everything !!! I appreciate you !!! ❤
This does it for me, exactly to the tea I needed this I’m so empathic, thank you for going there in this video ❤
Listening to you has been very enlightening.
Thank you for this, so helpful brother, stay well.
AMEN❤ THE best revenge is SUCCESS!!!
Me! and this is a really helpful video. Thank you!
You’re definitely HELPING me
This is so helpful an encouraging it motivates and teaches me
This was my aha moment. Thank you Derrick.
So damn true!! Been thru it all! 🥹
Yes, it is very helpful.
Thank you so much, King 👑❤💯👊
Im so glad your doing this.
Bless you for your help!!! I am SO GREATFUL I found it! Wish I had this help YEARS AGO!
Wow i can relate. my baby daddy was like that. In 1 year i will be completely free from him and his antics.
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I am working and learning , so much from you. Sincerely I appreciate your wisdom
I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.
Yeah that's true a lot of people try to take my sunshine for themselves. You think you can make someone happy but you only end up unhappy.
I have been there. You are speaking directly to me
Empaths have the biggest hearts!! Look out for the 7 traps of Empaths!! Thank you for the information, Derrick!! Appreciate you!!
Thank you so much because this describes my sons father perfectly
🙏 thank you so much! For this knowledge for us empaths
It's definitely helping me rn 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you so much for this
So true! 💯💯💯 Thank you for acknowledging to see our worth 🙏❤️
You are def helping me
This is helpful. Thank you.
He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!
Me !!! You are definitely helping me !!!
Thank you for telling the truth❤
Thank you so much for giving us women all this information
You helping me thank you so much grateful for your channel
Appreciate you much love 👍♥️
Tell them Zaddy
Speaking the truth... God Bless 🕊 🙌🏽
Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.
Thank you for understanding
Very helpful message ❤
THANK YOU!
I have experenced this, Thank you.❤❤❤❤
Hello from israel dear Derrick!
That is a great video!!! Thank u it helped me alot❤
I did exactly that. Then he went after the 2 children. So that was the end for me.
What do you mean by going after the children?
So true sadly...but liberating. Thank you sir
Excellent, thank You👍
I appreciate you more than you will enter know. Sincerely, Empath.
You definitely help
You always do x
Very helpful information 💯
Fabulous video..!
I've been there and the next day he left me for someone else like I was nothing. Treat him like doesnt exist. Take my word
He’s trying to punish you, just feel sorry for that poor girl he’s using aS a bandaid. Glad you took out the rubbish!😊
Thank you so much 🙏
Speaking directly to us empaths our here for sure....
Thank you. 🙏🏾✨️
Truths being spoken!
Protect your heart and peace at all cost! ♥️✨
BRILLIANT
So true! ❤
Yes, ME DERRICK THANK YOU JESUS AMEN HALLELUJAH 😇🥰🙏🙌❤️💯💯💯💞💞💞
Thank you so much
Me encanta! On point :)
Soo relatable geez.
Thank you
God spoke to me, Derrick and I also appreciate your videos