How to get over your fear of being seen- FEAR OF LOOKING STUPID,SELF SABOTAGING&FAILUREl LUCY BENSON

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
  • How to get over your fear of being seen- FEAR OF LOOKING STUPID,SELF SABOTAGING&FAILUREl LUCY BENSON
    Todays video is on how to get over or overcome your fear of looking stupid or fear or being seen or even your fear of failure and change your life forever, i hope you enjoy the video 💕
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  • @FabriciaA
    @FabriciaA 6 месяцев назад +44

    I used to be scared of being seen creating and posting content by the people who know me in real life…after just taking that one step it feels freeing and truly living MY LIFE…Let’s all live our life’s more like Lucy said 🙌🏾❤️

    • @hassanfatimah2555
      @hassanfatimah2555 6 месяцев назад +1

      This is exactly the same way I felt when I started. Cheers to being free🎉

    • @loisbuabeng6382
      @loisbuabeng6382 5 месяцев назад

      Have all the qualities of being seen but fear is pulling me back.

    • @FabriciaA
      @FabriciaA 5 месяцев назад

      @@loisbuabeng6382 Now that you know, keep focussing on your qualities and just do you. Your future self will thank you☺

  • @omamoments
    @omamoments 6 месяцев назад +55

    Girl, you really came for me in this video😭😭😭. My exact thought process last night

  • @fuzzyprincess9462
    @fuzzyprincess9462 6 месяцев назад +18

    I remember telling my mom how I didn’t want to dress up coz I hate being seen or judged then my brother heard it and told me to don’t care coz the less you care about peoples judgement the less insecure u feel bout urself…I really resonated with it and now I include it as one of my affirmations ❤😊😅

  • @julie15957
    @julie15957 6 месяцев назад +22

    The timing of this is insane. You'll never believe me. Thanks for posting.

  • @mccnbinnie9840
    @mccnbinnie9840 5 месяцев назад +5

    I needed to hear this, and reevaluate and take action. Fear will be no more for 2024 and beyond. Trusting God with process.

  • @jaystylez777
    @jaystylez777 6 месяцев назад +16

    even though ur audience is prominently women 💗 as a young black man this video definitely inspired me too!! I have been feeling the nudge to conquer over my fears and embrace my vulnerable side, this is just my confirmation!! Thank you 🙏🏾💞

  • @Sylvi_9
    @Sylvi_9 6 месяцев назад +15

    This video really resonated with me. Thank you 😢

  • @elizabethokoh7604
    @elizabethokoh7604 6 месяцев назад +7

    Can we just talk about how your videos keep popping up at the right time in my life? I really needed this. Thank youuu❤❤❤❤

  • @missqtii
    @missqtii 6 месяцев назад +13

    This young lady ALWAYS delivers when I need a deliverance of sense and guidance 😩👩🏾‍💻🔥

  • @spinach4616
    @spinach4616 Месяц назад

    this video is pure gold, i think the internet isn't the best place for younger people because of all the insecurity from comparison and pressure to keep up but i think you are a blessing and i think its so beautiful that younger people now have access to such wonderful content like this.
    Keep going, the world needs people like you to spin!!

  • @emerald6858
    @emerald6858 6 месяцев назад +3

    Tell me how God will not bless you for this info
    I get nervous a lot. Trying so hard to fight
    I’m appearing as confident and scary to people as they say. But the truth is, I’m actually a very compassionate person. I’m compassionate to a fault. People used it against me in the past in my childhood and teenage years to bully me. I decided to come out of that shell. Ever since then, it’s been wonderful. Sometimes people tend to be afraid of me. But the moment I let anxiety(which is the most major reason for my fear) creep in, I lose control and hold of myself and then I tend to hide myself at that point cause I’ll just stammer at every word I try to pronounce cause I’m all tensed up
    Mannn! It’s been a battle for me. Cause when I’m calm, I allow my compassionate and inferior nature becloud my confidence and superiority and it’s only in calmness I can speak well but I fear being intimidated by people in that state
    On the other hand, my confidence is being seen as aggressiveness and makes me look like a wicked person. But nobody can mess with me when they see me in that state

  • @Callmefierce
    @Callmefierce 6 месяцев назад +5

    Saves to watch later.Go girl,you rock❤

  • @sphiwemasela3575
    @sphiwemasela3575 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you Lucy for such a beautiful video. I had the fear of been seen as "who does she think she is to want to do that?" It held me back for a while from dreaming big and achieving those big audacious dreams.

  • @lee-kaylynnerobyn-nick6245
    @lee-kaylynnerobyn-nick6245 6 месяцев назад +3

    God bless the day I found you on YT!You articulate yourself so well,it feels like you know and understand me.Thank you sister,YOU ARE MY ULTIMATE FAV!

  • @Stecia_
    @Stecia_ 6 месяцев назад +5

    Love Your Consistency, the Advice and your beautiful face card❤
    Also, thank you for sharing and using yourself as an example
    😘

  • @Luchisam
    @Luchisam 6 месяцев назад +3

    One of my majors this year as I get anxious most time whenever I want to take major steps...
    Doing it anyway 😊😊...
    Thanks a whole lot big sis

  • @gloriadee5783
    @gloriadee5783 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this video Lucy, u came at me and I just posted my first tiktok video. Fear is a liar. Love u sis.

  • @shehasvision
    @shehasvision 6 месяцев назад +1

    I clicked on this video so fast. This all speaks to me so much especially because I'm currently sturggling with my sight loss and imposter syndrome. Will edit this comment when I finish watching ❤
    Thank you so much for this oush I really needed. I say these things to other people but have such a hard time really believing in it for myself, and now I realised it has been fear holding me back. Because, what if it all actually works out?! You're an absolute star for this, and wishing you an epic legacy sis ❤✨️

  • @MsMathWiz
    @MsMathWiz 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this video ❤ I need to let go of this fear bc the longer I hold on to it, the heavier my heart feels that I am holding in a gift God has given me to share.

  • @supertuberyou
    @supertuberyou Месяц назад

    SUBSCRIBED! This was gold. Lucy- Thank you for putting this together and broadcasting it.

  • @nnekaojugbeli3558
    @nnekaojugbeli3558 6 месяцев назад +3

    Recently i wanted fo start vidoe content creation but i have allowed fear talk me out of it. Im like the world does not need another content creator, the fear of been drag if i say something that does not align with soneone, fear that what if i start and can not continue or keep it up then people will mock me and this is something my heart cannot take

    • @jesswhycamarz
      @jesswhycamarz 3 месяца назад

      I completely relate to this.

  • @Electra9797
    @Electra9797 6 месяцев назад +2

    I really needed to hear this, thank you so much!

  • @HerJourneytoPeace
    @HerJourneytoPeace 6 месяцев назад

    I just uploaded a video about living a life led by trauma and fear! We are all becoming so self aware, I love it!! Thanks for this, another confirmation!

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 6 месяцев назад

    Having therapy and life coaches that really reassure that I’m valuable and shouldn’t let fear or doubt myself and my talents and goals. This video encourages me keep vlogging and social media content my angles and recording is not easy to me and same for editing and feeling my footage not good and doesn’t catch people attention. But my solution is finding information on RUclips and google and finding courses and etc to be better content creator. And feeling my singing voice not marketable or my look isn’t marketable. But I’m gone ignore and unpack this feelings and practice more and when I can afford voice lessons. I deserve to be seen and celebrated and loved. Sometimes we should stop overthinking and just start. Thank you beautiful for this video. ❤❤

  • @Dear_Amara
    @Dear_Amara 6 месяцев назад

    Regardless of how I feel, I will go through with it❤

  • @TakeATrip.
    @TakeATrip. 6 месяцев назад

    Lucy, sista!! I don’t know you personally but I sheeeee 👁️ you! Thank you for encouraging me. In my old age, fear of being seen has “robbed” me of some opportunities. You are 💯correct; confronting your feelings and stepping out scared has helped me a great deal. I’m still undone but I’m aware of what my potentials are and I plan on going all in!
    Thank you for sharing your experiences and your vulnerabilities so folks like me could be encouraged❤

  • @sabrinajacobs9480
    @sabrinajacobs9480 Месяц назад

    Honestly my problem is that people on the internet are vicious and dig up parts of your life because they think it belongs to them, there’s no privacy and there’s no way to protect yourself from people like that

  • @moforj4318
    @moforj4318 5 месяцев назад

    You just spoke to my soul😭🥺🥺 Thank you ❤❤

  • @chidalumichelle3009
    @chidalumichelle3009 Месяц назад

    I enjoyed watching this and I learnt a lot, thank you Lucy!❤

  • @eternalhonesty
    @eternalhonesty 6 месяцев назад

    You're literally one of my inspirations right now as a small youtube. This video was much needed to remind myself to keep going

  • @sharlaamysamuel
    @sharlaamysamuel 5 месяцев назад

    Brilliant video! Thank you for your words of encouragement.
    I’ve been aware of this fear in myself and trying to consciously “feel the fear and do it anyway”

  • @Ms.Thiaka
    @Ms.Thiaka 8 дней назад

    oooouuuuhh I def needed to hear this !!!

  • @Agnes.shines
    @Agnes.shines 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your earrings are always so beautiful 🥹❤️

  • @JournalwithPraise
    @JournalwithPraise 6 месяцев назад

    As a struggling RUclips creator, I really needed to see this video 😊. Thank you ❤.

  • @nitad.4609
    @nitad.4609 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much Lucy for this video, it came timely.

  • @Shenesecase
    @Shenesecase 6 месяцев назад +1

    So good girl! I finally said I’m doing me this year and started my channel and it’s been growing so fast just by being me!! Inspiration like you is power for us women so thank you 🫶🏾

  • @Veve.A
    @Veve.A 6 месяцев назад

    Ahhh God bless you for this! Thank you 🤍

  • @StellaIhechu
    @StellaIhechu 6 месяцев назад

    To think I just came here to check for new uploads and I stumbled on this very video feels so divine because I really needed this motivation to do something I’m set out to do but fear wouldn’t let me because I feel people would judge me. Thank you Lucy❤

  • @RES-ki2qo
    @RES-ki2qo 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve needed this video this morning 😅

  • @ejilechi
    @ejilechi 6 месяцев назад

    It’s very true that we constantly need to overcome fear throughout different stages of our lives else we live a life of mediocrity..❤thank you so much for this reminder,totally needed it😊

  • @liahlove8297
    @liahlove8297 6 месяцев назад

    I appreciate you creating this video. It's relatable and ill talk about it in therapy.

  • @chinweessien
    @chinweessien 6 месяцев назад

    Really grateful you overcame your fear because this video is ever so timely. Thank you so much 🙏

  • @agathaanthony826
    @agathaanthony826 6 месяцев назад

    Started my channel but I was so scared because of my video quality, thank you for this mama❤

  • @queenshanalee
    @queenshanalee 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you sis I really needed to hear this

  • @MikailaMieke2023
    @MikailaMieke2023 6 месяцев назад +2

    Never clicked so fast❤😊

  • @amaragabriela
    @amaragabriela 6 месяцев назад

    You're coming through for us fr!! Thank you, I really needed to hear this today🤍!

  • @EboneeArie
    @EboneeArie 6 месяцев назад +1

    I needed this thank you ❤

  • @margeyb.8665
    @margeyb.8665 6 месяцев назад

    This video just came at the right time for me 😢. Thanks Lucy for this❤️❤️

  • @etheroluwa9388
    @etheroluwa9388 6 месяцев назад

    Lucy you hit the point so hard 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
    Thanks for coming true❤

  • @Phiyinmmie
    @Phiyinmmie 6 месяцев назад +1

    Girl can you open a podcast already 😢😢

  • @marvannie
    @marvannie 6 месяцев назад +1

    Mamie mamie mamie... Pleeeeeease, can you talk about how you combined a 9-5 with content creation? 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jaincebowes7283
    @jaincebowes7283 6 месяцев назад +4

    my fear is no will engage or I have no audience

    • @leratokgang
      @leratokgang 6 месяцев назад +6

      I swear someone will watch. I had the same fear until I started

    • @encespace
      @encespace 6 месяцев назад +3

      Just do it ... there is no any other way....I started my channel last year and am happy I did it, do it scared

  • @lydia2159
    @lydia2159 6 месяцев назад +1

    The lashes 🔥🔥❤️

  • @Mairopearl
    @Mairopearl 6 месяцев назад +1

    A fan thank you you ❤❤❤

  • @robertamazyck1861
    @robertamazyck1861 6 месяцев назад

    OMG
    You nailed it in this video, keep doing what you do

  • @IamFelixFavour
    @IamFelixFavour 6 месяцев назад

    Omo this sunk, like sunk into my soul, thank you for this ❤❤

  • @breechatmon9533
    @breechatmon9533 6 месяцев назад +1

    I needed this !❤

  • @Jamgana
    @Jamgana 6 месяцев назад

    So timely! Thank you so much❤

  • @tessa111222
    @tessa111222 6 месяцев назад

    Great video!!!! I find that somethings I don’t care but the things I really want is where I get overwhelmed by! I am working on it tho!

  • @Fumiiorange
    @Fumiiorange 2 месяца назад

    It's exhausting to be worried about things my mind may Or may not be lying about.

  • @girliliestv5226
    @girliliestv5226 6 месяцев назад

    Ok ima download this and play as audio every morning

  • @yumgatto467
    @yumgatto467 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Treneedy
    @Treneedy 6 месяцев назад

    You might as should have knocked my head😩😩thank you sooo much❤❤❤

  • @fathimatoulipbuin3158
    @fathimatoulipbuin3158 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you girl, this is a powerful one ❤

  • @Winifredbulus
    @Winifredbulus 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this. It's speaking to me and i have to make adjustments

  • @christineoluebube6743
    @christineoluebube6743 6 месяцев назад

    Omg..this is everything 😔

  • @user-vb3ed6qp6q
    @user-vb3ed6qp6q 6 месяцев назад

    Sis your make up is always on point 😊

  • @JournalwithPraise
    @JournalwithPraise 6 месяцев назад

    Can you give us a makeup tutorial ?
    You makeup is so flawless 🥰

  • @humaneenough6719
    @humaneenough6719 6 месяцев назад

    Haaa! Lucy once again you did it again🔥🙌🏾

  • @IdaraPrecious-yu9um
    @IdaraPrecious-yu9um 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you lucy..

  • @chealsvlog6421
    @chealsvlog6421 6 месяцев назад

    This video was made for me❤

  • @Rebeccanaomi22
    @Rebeccanaomi22 6 месяцев назад

    I really needed this. thank you

  • @Chinecherem_1
    @Chinecherem_1 6 месяцев назад

    You're my best 🥺you inspire me a LOT❤

  • @fruscolarita4250
    @fruscolarita4250 6 месяцев назад

    thanks for the video must confess your video always motivate me 😩❤

  • @forsuhperseverance5579
    @forsuhperseverance5579 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you big sis. I learnt allot❤

  • @leratokgang
    @leratokgang 6 месяцев назад

    I needed this ❤️❤️❤️ thank you

  • @Tovia_Chi
    @Tovia_Chi 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @mavisorisah
    @mavisorisah 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this video 🎉

  • @marionemeagwai
    @marionemeagwai 6 месяцев назад

    Your videos are always top notch ❤❤❤

  • @zinnystella758
    @zinnystella758 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you Lucy

  • @augustinaige7495
    @augustinaige7495 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this word's ❤😊.

  • @jennelinef.9531
    @jennelinef.9531 6 месяцев назад

    Thank You 😢❤

  • @nwabisiebere4252
    @nwabisiebere4252 6 месяцев назад

    My dear u said it all, tanks alot

  • @damistouch
    @damistouch 6 месяцев назад

    You spoke to my soul 😮

  • @lee-kaylynnerobyn-nick6245
    @lee-kaylynnerobyn-nick6245 6 месяцев назад

    To every girl in the comment section or the one's watching, PLEASE LETS TAKE THIS AS A SIGN TO GET SERIOUS AND GO CHASE OUR DREAMS!WE HAVE THE PORTENTIAL TO BE GREAT.#SayNoToFear!

  • @quamegez
    @quamegez 6 месяцев назад

    Girl your face is giving 🥰

  • @charlottelisewilliams
    @charlottelisewilliams 6 месяцев назад

    Mine is not so much fear but over planing i have missed out on alot becouse i wouldnt do something becouse it didn't go according to plan 😢 but this year am unlearning that

  • @idarapeter
    @idarapeter 6 месяцев назад

    Gym body paying off just look at you! Toned shoulders ❤

  • @girliliestv5226
    @girliliestv5226 6 месяцев назад

    1:50 to 1:54 has been my lifetime prison that im still struggling with 😢

  • @thediariesofchi
    @thediariesofchi 6 месяцев назад

    It’s tht “you don’t want ppl to see you trying” 😓🤦🏾‍♀️ it feels embarrassing to think if you don’t get there you’ll look foolish🤦🏾‍♀️ or not being that good

  • @trulyfrancess
    @trulyfrancess 6 месяцев назад

    Fear of being seen...hmmm... You're shaking my table😭

  • @Efyapeprah00
    @Efyapeprah00 6 месяцев назад

    Lucy, is that a perfume store?🥰🥰

  • @yumgatto467
    @yumgatto467 6 месяцев назад

    Your beautiful Lucy

  • @augustinaige7495
    @augustinaige7495 6 месяцев назад

    I will always say tomorrow tomorrow and my tomorrow never coming my goodness, God help me 😢😢.

  • @BCBeautystores
    @BCBeautystores 6 месяцев назад

    Love You Ma... 🎉🎉

  • @cynthiagadi
    @cynthiagadi 6 месяцев назад

    How is this my story fear of literally posting my contents i didnt even know it was fear i just thought it was me not being to edit properly...

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall Месяц назад

    did you use AI to write this? the way you edit the cuts in the video it's like you are not speaking from your heart but reading from a script and cutting between each bit you read

  • @elianeaziza954
    @elianeaziza954 6 месяцев назад

    U amazing 😊

  • @Stecia_
    @Stecia_ 6 месяцев назад

    8:14 this is me everyday on my Instagram and WhatsApp story 😅

  • @jessicaobi1838
    @jessicaobi1838 6 месяцев назад

    🙊 this video hit