your fear of being seen is only proof it's your calling.

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @KrishhaRohah-p5c
    @KrishhaRohah-p5c 8 дней назад +1209

    The lack of buzz around Women's Magic Truths is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing

  • @catoniya
    @catoniya 5 месяцев назад +2083

    For those of us raised in narcissistic environments, we've often been conditioned to suppress our voices, remain fearful, conform, and stay small. Thank you for this message, so have the courage to be seen, be loud, and be authentic

    • @sarijass98
      @sarijass98 5 месяцев назад +41

      i cried reading this :c thank you

    • @marquinarawlings
      @marquinarawlings 5 месяцев назад +46

      I am healing from the effects of those environments as well. I just released myself from an adult relationship that kept that going. It’s been three years now, and I’m still finding my full potential in my voice. It’s been scary at times, but I’m determined to fully heal.

    • @catoniya
      @catoniya 5 месяцев назад +12

      ​@@sarijass98 I'm glad it resonated with you ❤

    • @catoniya
      @catoniya 5 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@marquinarawlings wishing you compassion and grace as you go on your healing journey 💚

    • @peaceinapod1
      @peaceinapod1 5 месяцев назад +15

      It seems like we purposefully start our lives at points that are far off from where we would like to end up. I share your experience + admittedly I have developed LOTS of narcissistic traits over the years myself. Feeling that I am supposed to be a person of integrity, pure heart and inner confidence after a lifetime of hiding, feeling horrible about myself, manipulating and acting out of pain (values? what is that?) and external validation.... I would never ever want to start this life all over again. What a mental, emotional and spiritual hellhole :D I wish you the best of luck on your own journey and I hope that you will bring your own good into this world very soon :)

  • @clareadamson7916
    @clareadamson7916 3 месяца назад +344

    "it's not about talent, it's about courage"

  • @CarolineMclean-yd4xm
    @CarolineMclean-yd4xm 25 дней назад +3106

    I can’t believe how effective Shirlest’s Hidden Pineal Gland Activation techniques are! I implemented their exercises, and now I’m experiencing enhanced intuition and vivid dreams. It feels incredible to tap into that creative side of myself!

  • @IAMEverythingUniversity
    @IAMEverythingUniversity 3 месяца назад +69

    I want to be seen
    I want to inspire and motivate the collective
    I want to influence greatness
    I am brave, bold and confident

  • @brysonmercury
    @brysonmercury 5 месяцев назад +1349

    Wow. You saying "when you are longing to be heard is when the universe is longing to hear you" resonated so much i had to rewind!

    • @iamthrivingmeditations3490
      @iamthrivingmeditations3490 5 месяцев назад +4

      ‼️‼️‼️✨

    • @III-mu4yn
      @III-mu4yn 5 месяцев назад +11

      The universe is already hearing you...

    • @LamarDandre
      @LamarDandre 4 месяца назад +6

      Umm... you can talk to the universe from the privacy of comfort of your living room. I don't need a stage for people to here to me talk to the universe.

    • @asia.t
      @asia.t 4 месяца назад +11

      ​@@LamarDandre and that's fine, so don't. that's the wonderful part about the human experience; we can freely make our own choices and do what aligns with our own preferences. 👍

    • @imperfection_beauty215
      @imperfection_beauty215 4 месяца назад +2

      @@LamarDandreexactly

  • @Oogwayascents
    @Oogwayascents 5 месяцев назад +510

    There is no greater agony then the untold story within oneself

  • @BeauMonroe
    @BeauMonroe 5 месяцев назад +616

    "What if you are feeling and carrying the frequency of desire for all of us who want to see you?" Whoaaaa!

  • @Kiki-xd3sn
    @Kiki-xd3sn 4 месяца назад +307

    I recently admitted to my husband that I want to be famous. It’s the first time since I realised i had this desire as a kid, that someone took that desire seriously and didn’t judge it.

    • @elodyluna
      @elodyluna 3 месяца назад +10

      yeees❤ i honor this

    • @celiasleigh2805
      @celiasleigh2805 3 месяца назад +39

      I remember as a teen I would imagine being famous and standing up giving a speech of how I got through it all and got to this point.

    • @Nirosha101
      @Nirosha101 3 месяца назад +15

      Omgosh same here !!! I wonder if most people feel this way. I also wonder if it’s coming from my ego to be famous or a genuine desire to serve.

    • @Nirosha101
      @Nirosha101 3 месяца назад

      @@celiasleigh2805I do this too!!!!

    • @Kiki-xd3sn
      @Kiki-xd3sn 3 месяца назад +30

      @@Nirosha101 Humans have a bias that we think our view is the dominant view. From experience most people don't want to be famous. Social Media has skewed this somewhat. The fact that you are asking yourself that question probably means it's not ego. Wanting to be famous is nothing more than wanting to be seen by a lot of people... think of it that way. Your soul wanting to be SEEN (in its entire beauty) by as many people as possible, and those people want to actually see you in return. Its actually a beautiful thing if you think about it.

  • @simmyz
    @simmyz Месяц назад +17

    this video found me. i think its a sign. to finally stop hiding and being fearful. hope the person reading this have an amazing day and the rest of eternity. lots of love x

  • @mikalowahren
    @mikalowahren 5 месяцев назад +1067

    You are right. I want to be seen. I feel like I have ideas others could really benefit of. I trust my path. I accept my mission. 🙏💖🌈

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  5 месяцев назад +80

      I am so glad to hear you say this, and affirm this truth!!! YES YOU DO!!! I am so here for this, I am wishing you love and luck for all that lies in store for you! Sending love, thank you for being here! 💕 💖

    • @sillylilmurmurs
      @sillylilmurmurs 5 месяцев назад +7

      Claiming this 🙏🏻

    • @dannitycane25
      @dannitycane25 5 месяцев назад +2

      Same.💯💯💯

    • @mikalowahren
      @mikalowahren 5 месяцев назад +8

      Everytime someone comments my comment I'm made to go back and reread my affirmations. A really good reminder. Because it's one thing to believe in yourself while listening to someone pep talking you, than later on when the rest of the world comes crashing in. So I thank you. 🙏💖

    • @ThisHeartInBloom
      @ThisHeartInBloom 5 месяцев назад +1

      ✨🥹🫶✨

  • @jamie-zk1sz
    @jamie-zk1sz 4 месяца назад +508

    Some people need to face their shadows and some people need to face the light

    • @checitytm6100
      @checitytm6100 4 месяца назад +10

      Wow!!!

    • @graceandgratitude9256
      @graceandgratitude9256 4 месяца назад +2

      💚😁💚

    • @haylee7951
      @haylee7951 3 месяца назад +14

      FUCCCCCK I wasn’t ready to hear that 😭

    • @SacredStarReflections
      @SacredStarReflections 3 месяца назад +7

      I hit "like" then saw I was 144 to do so.... I'm afraid of my light and the consequences of burning brightly... this video and comment section shows I'm not alone xxx

    • @kichakra
      @kichakra 3 месяца назад +10

      Damn. I've been doing shadow-work for past, well, many years. Now it is time to face my light, goodness and power.

  • @yeahdatsjay
    @yeahdatsjay 5 месяцев назад +272

    “In the beginning we are the ones on the stage and we are the ones in the audience.” BARS!!!!

  • @Aronyl1
    @Aronyl1 2 месяца назад +72

    This video spoke volumes to me 🥰 For almost 10 years I've wanted to start a RUclips but I've always been a private person. Fast forward, I started a women's wellness channel "Jade Bliss Inc" in June 2024 and have 14 subscribers 😀. It's small lol but I am so very proud of myself🎉

    • @amandajones5302
      @amandajones5302 Месяц назад +3

      That’s amazing congrats 🎉

    • @Aronyl1
      @Aronyl1 Месяц назад +1

      @@amandajones5302 😍🙏🏽 Thank you so much:):)

    • @fiorela6194
      @fiorela6194 Месяц назад +2

      Humm... Now you will have 15 subscribers. I will subscribe.

    • @Aronyl1
      @Aronyl1 Месяц назад +1

      @@fiorela6194 Bless you, thank you so much for the love and support ❤️ 🙏🏽

    • @Aronyl1
      @Aronyl1 Месяц назад

      @@fiorela6194 So amazing 🥰 thank you so much for the sub and support 🙏🏽

  • @learnherskills
    @learnherskills 3 месяца назад +31

    Took till now to realise.
    I want to be seen.

  • @rayvinrey24
    @rayvinrey24 5 месяцев назад +363

    "The more I resist it the more I will be haunted by what could have been." Thank you for this message. I find myself making up every excuse not to show up, and here you come with "it's not about talent, it's about courage" ♥

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 5 месяцев назад +10

      for me i keep getting distracted and procrastinate due to fear of being my true self. The expectations from my TikTok audience also cause me to spend more time doing inner work ❤

    • @relaunchinglife
      @relaunchinglife 5 месяцев назад +5

      Yes! This was profound!

    • @SashaLipskaia
      @SashaLipskaia 5 месяцев назад +8

      Your Courage is the seed of your Talent! Go for it, girl. It's the invitation to Be Seen though the eyes of Love. You are ready! You got this. Your desire is the way.

  • @tscst13
    @tscst13 5 месяцев назад +128

    “When a path has made itself known, it is ours to walk.” ❤ carrying this into the day. Thank you.

  • @OliviaMoonGuildTarot
    @OliviaMoonGuildTarot 5 месяцев назад +98

    Girl!!!!!!! No one has said this like this before. Again, I’ve so needed this. I know being seen is part of my healing.

    • @ZawadiSeas
      @ZawadiSeas 5 месяцев назад +1

      Me too and I've been hiding in plain site for far too long.! 💜

    • @margaleemusic
      @margaleemusic 2 месяца назад

      I know. It's so well-said.

  • @embraceyoufully
    @embraceyoufully 3 месяца назад +11

    My fear of being seen held me back a lot from starting my RUclips channel. I am glad I am doing it.

  • @nenengbitbit
    @nenengbitbit 3 месяца назад +82

    i failed my first year in medical school. i wasn't able to come back because my mom got sick and died. but moreover, i feel embarrassed to come back... and yet the desire to become a doctor is still there. this video came to me at the right time. thank you for this. ❤

    • @itsjessicagordon
      @itsjessicagordon 2 месяца назад +8

      Beautiful. I’m so proud of you for writing this and you will become a Doctor. It’s never too late.

    • @mz.priscillaj
      @mz.priscillaj 2 месяца назад +8

      I seen a guy who longed to be a doctor become one at 74. Go for it. There are people that need to be healed by your hands waiting❤

    • @mariakal.
      @mariakal. 2 месяца назад +1

      i'm not in the medical fielt but what i know about doctors is that they don't give up. you've got that energy in you. it's in your blood. you desire to be a doctor because that's what you are in the future. that's your calling.
      i'm sorry for your loss and i hope God, the universe, whatever you believe in, gives you strength during this hard time. may the pain be the love you have for your mom in disguise and not something to weigh you down and keep you from achieving your goals.

    • @katharinabxbm9763
      @katharinabxbm9763 Месяц назад

      You will become a doctor ❤ I also lost a parent and took two years off from uni. Then finished my law degree and am now going into diplomacy. You can do it

    • @fiorela6194
      @fiorela6194 Месяц назад +1

      Sorry for your loss, be strong, your Mother will be with you forever, make her proud and go back to school.

  • @JourneysInCali
    @JourneysInCali 5 месяцев назад +82

    Yup she was meant to speak. That's it that's all I have to say. ❤

  • @bailarubin4048
    @bailarubin4048 5 месяцев назад +89

    The power in this video is wow!!!!! Your channel is going to be HUGE!

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  5 месяцев назад +7

      Thank you so much Baila, this means the world to me, so grateful for you!!!! 😍😘🌊🦋☀️🌻

  • @bailarubin4048
    @bailarubin4048 5 месяцев назад +87

    I love all of you guys 🥹🥹🥹🥹 all a bunch of cuties in this comment section

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  5 месяцев назад +7

      🌻🦋😘😍☀️🌊

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 5 месяцев назад +6

      Baila, you are also a cutie 🥹🥹🥹🥹

    • @tipennya
      @tipennya 4 месяца назад +1

      🤗❤

    • @iTzMisTV
      @iTzMisTV 3 месяца назад +1

      🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @leahjoy1111
    @leahjoy1111 3 месяца назад +18

    … tears started streaming within 4 minutes of watching your video
    thank you

  • @KrYmZuNhEaD
    @KrYmZuNhEaD 2 месяца назад +28

    Your appearance shows a young woman but your comportment reveals a wise elder, you've been here before, I see you ❤

  • @Zoominero
    @Zoominero 5 месяцев назад +62

    “What if the point of that longing, that desire isn’t any outcome but the transformational journey of healing you would need to walk to stay on that path…” wow just freaking WOW

  • @your_spirit_guide
    @your_spirit_guide 5 месяцев назад +141

    I finally revive my RUclips channel last week after doing 2 years of inner work

    • @marquinarawlings
      @marquinarawlings 5 месяцев назад +9

      Congratulations!! 🎉🎉🎉 Inner work is some serious work! I’m happy for you! ❤️

    • @stevestrickland0425
      @stevestrickland0425 5 месяцев назад +5

      I am doing the same !

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 5 месяцев назад

      @@marquinarawlings thank you love ❤️

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 5 месяцев назад

      @@stevestrickland0425 that’s great! Let’s keep going 😍🥰😘

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 5 месяцев назад

      @@stevestrickland0425 find your pace. It’s ok to just upload 1 video per week or every 2 weeks. Do what works for you
      Building a following on other social media also helps to drive organic traffic to your RUclips channel
      Currently I’m building X, Patreon alongside RUclips. X turned out to be more suitable for me compared to Facebook, TikTok and Instagram as I love to write

  • @yaguabina
    @yaguabina 5 месяцев назад +208

    I was in the middle of rage crying when I saw the title of this video calling me for this very moment. I was furious, livid, thinking back on how objectively alone my path has been. How nobody seems to have ever cared about me. How I've always had to do everything alone and worse, how I can't just give up. It's not just the pain, sweat, blood, and tears that enrages me, it's my stubborn ass never giving up. I couldn't just give in to drugs or alcohol, I couldn't just stop trying at work and stay poor, I couldn't just bed rot and pretend like I don't have responsibilities, I had to compulsively keep fighting tooth and nail. And when it finally got to be too much and I was ready to end my life, I changed it instead. I've been holding back on posting because I didn't feel in a sunshine and rainbows place like many personal growth influencers appear to always be in, but just now I realized...as angry and alone as I feel, I don't want to die. That alone is a miracle. Maybe my message will not be linear, it will change as I evolve, and right now the message is...how to love life even when it's hard, even when you feel like nobody cares.

    • @ZawadiSeas
      @ZawadiSeas 5 месяцев назад +13

      I feel you and resonate with all you've shared. I cannot let myself down...I've come too far and although I don't know what will happen once I courageously step out into the unknown, to do just that...been seen and heard despite all my fears is where I'm at. If not now then when? I knew I'd write my memoirs when I was in my twenties. I'm 57 years now and have completed 2 books in the past few years. It's time to share my story. This message has arrived in Divine Time and I am truly grateful 🙏🏾...Let us step out and up to the challenge...we are here for a reason...in love, light n healing 💜

    • @Idonthavesocialmedialol
      @Idonthavesocialmedialol 5 месяцев назад +2

      Good going!! God bless you.

    • @mbernesdotter6881
      @mbernesdotter6881 5 месяцев назад +7

      ❤🙏🏻❤️🔥 🙏🏻 I hear you and I have been there to. But we rise and we realise we ARE love and we DO matter because we have BIG impact just by being here. Your way too important to give up on YOU. We have something important to share .Rise and may God bless you brave heart. We're all here with you when you take that step into the unknown...and if I may say so I wish everyone who has ever felt this pressure and burden and that you are alone even with people around you: May you be gifted with finally feeling peace within and accept yourself and may you meet people on your path who sees you

    • @adrienne7642
      @adrienne7642 5 месяцев назад +8

      I felt this in my soul. Right there with you babe. You got this! Even now your words have helped me. Keep going we’re rooting for you!

    • @evflyleaf
      @evflyleaf 4 месяца назад +3

      This is literally everything I’ve been saying about my situation lately.

  • @PaigeDanielleN
    @PaigeDanielleN 3 месяца назад +10

    This spoke to my soul. I’ve been talking about creating content for 4 going on 5 years and still have not started. Due to fear and social anxiety I’ve been dealing with all of my life. Today it ends though, purchasing ring light and Osmo pocket 3 to create content, do subscribe and stay tuned!

  • @itspronouncedrahnay
    @itspronouncedrahnay 5 месяцев назад +55

    what if this is your way to heal? that really resonated with me. that one sentence.

  • @Lilly_online
    @Lilly_online 5 месяцев назад +63

    You're a healer, Ayanda. I'm always in awe

  • @CJDuckett
    @CJDuckett 5 месяцев назад +84

    I have no idea who you are. I don’t even know how I stumbled on this video or how the algorithm maneuvered its way to put it in place for me to find it…but THIS…this was for me. I’m the one person that needed to hear this. I have been resisting entirely too much. And it is from fear of not being “seen”. And you are right. It’s time for me to lean to the right instead of the left. It’s time to lean towards the side of desire and not fear. It’s time to respond to the shadow side instead of resisting/denying/ignoring it. This was for me today and I just want to say…thank you. It was well received and I am grateful you felt compelled to speak from your heart and post this video for me to find. Thank you sistah. You are appreciated. 🤲🏾❤️

    • @tipennya
      @tipennya 4 месяца назад +7

      You're #1, I am definitely #2 that needed EXACTLY this, on this day.
      Seeing your comment, knowing I'm not the only one, was just as helpful to me as her message! We have both been blessed ❤ 😊

    • @nathanjones4852
      @nathanjones4852 4 месяца назад +5

      Same here she’s definitely an oracle

  • @olivia_thedreamer
    @olivia_thedreamer 2 месяца назад +9

    I’ve never seen your profile or videos until tonight. Today is August 27th. The anniversary of my youngest daughter’s death. As I’ve had small voices in my head and on my heart for weeks to make my sad past (beyond my loss) public, to have a longing of creating my own life and leave my day job SCREAM at me….. this video came across my feed, and I watched it. It drove me to tears. I NEEDED to hear this! I can’t tell you how much this video spoke to me, and on an emotional day like today, I really wanna believe that my daughter wants to me to create that life I so desperately want. The mention of feeling out of alignment if I don’t give in to that calling of being seen, really got to me. And more that just sharing my story, but to share the gifts that I feel I was born to share with the world. Thank you for making this video. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jencarmiel
    @jencarmiel 4 месяца назад +16

    “In the beginning we are the one on the stage and the only one in the audience.” 🤯🤯🤯

  • @itumelengchiloane2761
    @itumelengchiloane2761 5 месяцев назад +30

    I want to be seen. I want people appreciate me and what I have to offer

  • @MA3CY
    @MA3CY 5 месяцев назад +139

    Ayanda there is not a plate big enough for what you are cooking, yet you continue to both serve and eat, if I might say so.
    Insightful and beautiful as always, I am so grateful that you allow me to see you, and to see myself through you. Ugh, so much love.

  • @theladyalchemist._
    @theladyalchemist._ 5 месяцев назад +15

    I feel like once you finally admit you want to be seen, it becomes so much easier

  • @bea.s.pedroso
    @bea.s.pedroso Месяц назад +2

    "it's not about talent at the end of the day, it's about courage" 💜

  • @Theeluckylibra
    @Theeluckylibra 5 месяцев назад +28

    baby HAVE YOU BEEN READING MY DIARY!!!!!! I have been so used to playing small i find it almost laughable when other people or even myself dares to think differently. I am the queen of " they are more talented and worthy" than me. I never really put serious analysis in the fact that a longing was leading me somewhere. My entire youtube page is content i wish I was making. Thank you boo I needed this

    • @thegoldenzipper
      @thegoldenzipper 3 месяца назад

      Agreed. Let’s follow each other! We got this!

  • @kingdavidvstheworld
    @kingdavidvstheworld 5 месяцев назад +78

    I ACCEPT MY MISSION IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST!

    • @privatethoughts85
      @privatethoughts85 5 месяцев назад +1

      The character (re)named Jesus Christ said the way is THROUGH him, not TO him. In essence, YOUR Lord is a mortal MAN on an immortal mission from THEE LORD?!? 🤔

    • @jessicamcleanofficial
      @jessicamcleanofficial 5 месяцев назад +4

      Amen

    • @MariaLopez-dz9kd
      @MariaLopez-dz9kd 3 месяца назад

      @@privatethoughts85 Jesus is the son of God. But Jesus is also God. To come to the Father you will need Jesus son first. Our God is a Trinity. Jehovah (Father), Jesus (Son) and The Holy Spirit. The same as we as humans have 3 parts, Body, Spirit and Soul. Our God (Jehovah) send His Son Jesus to this Earth to redeem us from our sins and condemnation. Through Jesus we are saved, Jesus set us free. When Jesus was on Earth he died and raise on the 3rd day. Jesus is immortal, Jesus is Lord. When we die, our Soul will go, if a person receive Jesus and his sacrifice will go to heaven with Him. If not, the person will choose their own condemnation in Hell. Which is not good, because that place was not created for Us, instead for the devil and his demons. I recommend the Book the Bible. There is a lot of wisdom and knowledge in there. Hope that helps you. Take care, and have an amazing day. :)

  • @LeticiaLima-uc2yy
    @LeticiaLima-uc2yy 5 месяцев назад +18

    “It only gets louder” it’s so true, I cannot escape the feeling that I should be doing the things I’m so afraid of doing. Thank you for this video ❤

  • @wayrauribe2479
    @wayrauribe2479 4 месяца назад +11

    girl shivers all over my body, I been so ashamed for all the mistakes I've done and all the drama I was involved before awakening that I literally wanted to dissapear, but there was always this part of me that knew I had something to say, I have a story and a way of seeing the world that must be heard, thank you for reminding me of my power, blessings

  • @Reborne_Official
    @Reborne_Official 2 месяца назад +5

    This video is so powerful. I don't even have words to describe the feelings it called up in me. I've tried this so many times and always found reasons not to. well not anymore

  • @queenqahhaar
    @queenqahhaar 5 месяцев назад +75

    "A sense of guilt and self betrayal" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭"part of your healing"😭😭😭😭😭I want to be seen! So many years I have hid myself so that others could be seen!!! Thank you so much for these powerful words. I felt the burden lift from me.❤🙏🏾💪🏾

    • @ZawadiSeas
      @ZawadiSeas 5 месяцев назад +8

      Such a strong sense of self betrayal and guilt! I'm struggling writing this through the tears flowing! I want to be seen! Let us twinkle our light like stars and brighten the darkened skies..it is our time to shine...in love, light n healing 💜💯🙏🏾

    • @queenwere1
      @queenwere1 4 месяца назад +2

      😢No wonder we call ourselves Queen 😂❤

    • @queenqahhaar
      @queenqahhaar 4 месяца назад +1

      @@queenwere1 😂❤️

  • @noanoa8991
    @noanoa8991 5 месяцев назад +38

    I’ve recently realized that my fear of being seen comes from the fact that I fear the EVIL EYE. I grew up in a family that constantly talks about it, there’s not one day - to this day - where I don’t hear my mother say things like "be careful of the evil eye" or "oh this happened to you because of the evil eye you shouldn’t have posted this photo in social media". I really feel like this is holding me back, to the point where I just freeze and don’t act on anything anymore. I know that whatever we believe in is true. It’s like the fear of the evil eye governs my life and I would love to know if there’s a way to stop believing in it once and for all (affirmations or other things). Thank you so much I love your videos ❤

    • @ashleyispresent
      @ashleyispresent 5 месяцев назад +15

      Wow, seems like the concept of an evil eye is the evil eye itself.. I guess a belief in an ultimate supreme higher power can counter that, because if you pray everyday eventually you will genuinely feel God’s strength and protection. I say this as an ex-christian btw, I’m not religious but I see the value of choosing one spiritual framework even if it means closing your mind off a little bit.

    • @noanoa8991
      @noanoa8991 5 месяцев назад

      @@ashleyispresent I should try that, thank you so much!

    • @handoodley4906
      @handoodley4906 5 месяцев назад

      Where did you first hear of the evil eye? Because why should your family be afraid of it? There are wicked people who are jealous but Jesus cover's his people with peace and protection. If you allow an ant to scare you then that is something in the mind. You must tell yourself those thoughts are lies and remind yourself of the truth. Dwell on the truth and it becomes the scenery of your life.

    • @Rose-tu3vk
      @Rose-tu3vk 3 месяца назад +4

      Something that helps me is knowing how divinely protected I am on other realms. No matter what energy or “evil eyes” may have been thrown my way my energy repels it back to whom ever has Ill intentions with this belief. Also sealing my aura and energy field (home, loved ones belongings, etc.) with white protective light.
      I also am mindful who I share my deepest desires and current projects/ accomplishments with. Discernment 🔥you are allowed to keep information to yourself, even when it comes to your family. Maybe that could help?

    • @noanoa8991
      @noanoa8991 3 месяца назад

      @@Rose-tu3vk It does help thank you so much, God bless you ❤️

  • @Mistyymountainlove
    @Mistyymountainlove 4 месяца назад +12

    “You are willing to allow yourself to be seen trying” 💜

  • @christinawalter7843
    @christinawalter7843 3 месяца назад +8

    Your video showed up for me at this moment when I can no longer bear my own self-inflicted silence in the world. I realize I’ve been keeping my empathy focused on the critics instead of allowing myself to feel the people who might be helped by whatever I share. It’s a very old habit of self-protection. But you’re right. Maybe it’s not about protecting myself from what critics will say. Maybe I’ve been protecting myself from acknowleding the wounding I’ve already experienced through judgement, and acknowledging the judgement I place so harshly on myself. And if you had edited yourself and never recorded this video, I would not have finally recognized the deep pain I have been feeling around not speaking up. It’s always there, and you’re right…it is increasingly difficult to swallow.
    Thank you, thank you for using your voice so bravely. Know that you have impacted my life powerfully at a crucial moment. 💜

  • @MirahMirah
    @MirahMirah 2 месяца назад +3

    'I know you say I wish I started earlier but you'll say the same thing 5 years from now if you don't start'
    Thank you. It is all about courage.

  • @ashbash8970
    @ashbash8970 5 месяцев назад +25

    You feel like a guardian angel❤

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  5 месяцев назад +7

      Oh my word, that is the kindest thing ever!! Thank you so so much!!!! I love you!!! 🥹😍🌻😘

  • @relaunchinglife
    @relaunchinglife 5 месяцев назад +23

    I know this is truth. You are a perfect example. I heard something similar once “when you feel that longing to share your story, it is because there is someone somewhere right now who desperately needs to hear it”

  • @Say_yo_jay
    @Say_yo_jay 5 месяцев назад +27

    'you love yourself so much that you still allowed it to be received' - amazing thank you so much

  • @ziyandapalesatutu5633
    @ziyandapalesatutu5633 4 месяца назад +2

    Wow sister. The beauty and love of this video is so massive. Thank you

  • @kitsuneryoga
    @kitsuneryoga 2 месяца назад +1

    It is SO STRANGE, that you mentioned fire dancing! I was in an accident, many years ago, involving fire... I have been scared of it since.
    In 2018 - I started learning different props, and lit my first wick! It is now 2024, Since then, I have performed, many times, and added, more skilled props. I am often paid to do so. People are in disbelief, when I tell them, my story.
    I one told a child, who saw me practicing fire, in a park. He also was afraid of fire. But he said something, that nearly brought me to tears, "I am scared too, but if you can be brave, and help people, maybe I can too. So Ill be a fire fighter, when I grow up!" 😮❤🎉

  • @mcclendonreport
    @mcclendonreport 5 месяцев назад +21

    Unconditional love for ourselves.

  • @Iamleroii
    @Iamleroii 5 месяцев назад +37

    This message could not have come at a better time omg 😌❤️ the universe is speaking through you Ayanda

  • @sayingyestome
    @sayingyestome 5 месяцев назад +22

    I wanted to let you know that when I began watching your message, it was like magic dust was sprinkled onto me and I instantly knew what fears needed to be healed. I'm proud to say I just posted my first video!!!! Thank you for the perfect message at the perfect timing! Much ❤❤

  • @OnlyLilynn44
    @OnlyLilynn44 2 месяца назад +3

    The idea of being seen makes me wanna throw up. I don’t wanna be seen. I wanna find success and happiness in a path that involves me blending in with the masses.
    Yes I admit it, I just want a normal basic 9 to 5
    But the dream of being seen makes my heart light up. I feel like, I’d be able to be myself, in spite of everything…that the personality I was given, is meant for this exact thing…
    Makes me sick. I hate it here 😭

  • @shutup7134
    @shutup7134 3 месяца назад +8

    for some reason I feel like I was born to be seen like every time I think of the future it’s me being out in the world, like I have the personality for it yn!! I just posted a TikTok with my face since 2020😭💕and at first I was scared but then I was like f it if people don’t like it that’s fineeee life goes on.

  • @Lina-cy2yc
    @Lina-cy2yc 5 месяцев назад +35

    I wrote it yesterday in my business diary! That my new exercise is to follow & do what I fear. And now I see your video:) Thank you!

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  5 месяцев назад +8

      YAY!!! The synchronicities are synchronicitizing 😍 I am so pleased this found and spoke to you, and sending love your way!! 💕 💖 ❤️

    • @Lina-cy2yc
      @Lina-cy2yc 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@ayandastood thank you! It''s crazy how Universe is working for us:)

  • @AffirmativeMindset
    @AffirmativeMindset 5 месяцев назад +13

    Ayana, this was a global call of action. Thank you for answering your call. We hear you.

  • @yarasweet22
    @yarasweet22 5 месяцев назад +30

    It’s not about talent it’s about courage❤ LITERALLY! Talent will evolve along the way when you decide to start where you are right now!

  • @louischoisy5352
    @louischoisy5352 3 месяца назад +7

    This video made my mind blow asf and my spirit vibrating like never before. The fact that I've find this video on my time-line as I'm just having an urge to make content (I still don't now what type but surely podcasts ) for so long but specially 2 weeks. And the best part was at 9:54 THERE you hit me you just pointed what I feel since so much time and now I really understand a lot more who I am. I want to be seen, I want to share I want to meet other poeple from all around the world, even if I have to face poeple not agreeing with my ideas, my visions. I want the world to remember me a 100 years after the end of my life. Thank you very much and thank you universe to made me seen this video. ❤❤❤

  • @XariahBluMusic
    @XariahBluMusic 2 месяца назад +4

    We are the medicine for one another. It’s becoming more and more clear to me, especially in the black community. We must hold space for one another to exist, raw and naturally but also in our brilliant essence🖤🌀🙏🏾

  • @sharunbell
    @sharunbell 5 месяцев назад +11

    This message brought me to tears. A message I didn’t know I needed to hear right now. Thank. You. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @rachellov
    @rachellov 5 месяцев назад +12

    I'm exhausted from crying while watching this whole video. This video allowed me to acknowledge the feelings I've been shoving in the attic for years and was put into tangible words. I fear that I'll never be able to look at my life the same anymore and if I don't get over the fear my life will always feel like a fail. As it stands now I feel like a coward but I'm praying that with a video like this; I'm changing. Thank you

  • @FullOfGlow1980
    @FullOfGlow1980 2 месяца назад +1

    I WANT TO BE SEEN!!!❤

  • @ThiCC_Yosh
    @ThiCC_Yosh 2 месяца назад +4

    Im crying. I used to have a million views on YT when i was 12. now Im an adult and i wanna do YT again, but i was threatened and groomed by the internet that it became scary. I need to try. Thank you for reminding me what i was made for

  • @marianafioravante9450
    @marianafioravante9450 4 месяца назад +13

    "we have to be wise enough to accept when a path has made itself known that it is ours to walk." I loved and feel EVERY word you said, thank you! thank you! thank you!

  • @jerrodplummer6850
    @jerrodplummer6850 5 месяцев назад +16

    We often look to the world outside of ourselves for the inspiration we are seeking.
    Sometimes feeling as if we don't yet fully understand we belong leads to melancholy, fear, and sadness, but really it is our own personal struggles in which we find the capacity to inspire others by expressing ourselves regaurdless of the sense that we are lacking something.
    Courage is the capacity to stand for something which would otherwise be a mere fantasy in the minds of those who love you for the hope you bring into this world.
    If you are ever feeling rejected, remember that there is someone else on the other side, trying to inspire the world just like you... we are all connected by our passion, despite circumstance, to make our own lives beautiful.

  • @folaveritas
    @folaveritas 5 месяцев назад +13

    That really resonates with me..that the desire I feel is not just my and Spirits shared desire, it's also the collective's desire to have me express that
    I'm in the place to keep showing up and sharing my creations no matter what. I like what Rick Rubin says about creating...we have to do it for ourselves. Forget the audience. People find that energy palpable
    ❤mmm so good. Thank you

  • @maebelina5100
    @maebelina5100 3 месяца назад +1

    I found your video at exactly the right time. Thank you 🙏 Universe!

  • @alonnaelaine
    @alonnaelaine 5 месяцев назад +11

    Gosh, I love you. It is always such a heavy dose of intentionality and love. Beautiful energy, thank you for being.

  • @lolaevergreen9077
    @lolaevergreen9077 5 месяцев назад +18

    Your videos are incredibly helpful and comforting. You radiate wisdom and love

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  5 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so so so much angel this message absolutely filled up my spirit and made me feel so held and loved and supported!! I am so grateful for you and your divine wisdom, thank you for being on this journey with me, I am so thankful for you and I will carry these beautiful words with me always, lots of love and gratitude to you my divine soul sibling!!! 🌻🦋😍☀️😘🌊

  • @Annabellek2464
    @Annabellek2464 5 месяцев назад +10

    The irony that your frequency is often motivating/encourging us to walk and stand in our own frequencies! Full circle. Apperciate your words❤

    • @graceandgratitude9256
      @graceandgratitude9256 3 месяца назад

      @@Annabellek2464 💃🏾Ditto!❤️‍🔥#Whatablessing! Many thanks dearone!

  • @DominikAljosaMartinovic
    @DominikAljosaMartinovic 2 месяца назад +3

    I'm one of these people aswell, I want to be seen, but it never happens. My toxic family is also a problem, because I don't want to be seen by them.

  • @theenlightenedhour-lt6hw
    @theenlightenedhour-lt6hw Месяц назад

    “The universe has given you this path because it knows this is your path to heal” sister you are dropping divine wisdom here. Thank You❤️

  • @MaybeKindaCrazyWeirdo
    @MaybeKindaCrazyWeirdo 4 месяца назад +6

    Ever since I first found out about RUclips, when I was like 6 years old, I wanted to be a RUclipsr, but my fear of being judged kept getting in the way. About a year ago I faced my fears, I posted my first video, and then I felt drawn to keep posting even more. After that, I started to get more and more popular and now I have over 100 subscribers, all because I faced my fears. Lately I've been doubting myself because I want to try to be a musician and the doubt is just my fear again, this video has helped me remember how to face my fears again. Thank you.

  • @djamiladjibo6129
    @djamiladjibo6129 5 месяцев назад +10

    currently in tears, as you said, someone really needed to hear the exact words you had to say. 💗

  • @ReadByBri
    @ReadByBri 5 месяцев назад +10

    Those who are CALLED TO LOVE 🥺✨

  • @lotsofloveariya
    @lotsofloveariya 3 месяца назад +1

    i need to listen to these words every single day! you are so inspiring

  • @DiandraBlake
    @DiandraBlake 2 месяца назад +2

    this came to me at the right time. I am so grateful for this moment. I am done worrying about what people think of me. I am focused on giving myself permission to be who I am because I cannot stop being myself. Not for friends, not for family, not for strangers. I am supposed to be me, and every thing I do is a reflection of who I am. I refuse to leave this earth being small and limiting my experiences because of fear. I''ve been feeling this way for a while; now, is my time to take that first step towards being true to who I am and what I want for myself.

  • @olaitan2084
    @olaitan2084 5 месяцев назад +13

    Really needed to hear this morning, thank you for sharing this message xx

  • @BEGGERELLA
    @BEGGERELLA 5 месяцев назад +16

    I was about to search for a calming meditation for helping me through a self presentation I have to record and send today - struggling with how I identify myself and how I am received.
    Instead I was blessed with your video. Perfect timing.
    Thanks 🙏

  • @jasminegayle
    @jasminegayle 5 месяцев назад +10

    Such powerful words, Ayanda. I swear you speak life in a way, I've been holding so close to my chest but been so afraid to share out of fear being perceived as crazy. Thank you for surrendering.

  • @Astr0629
    @Astr0629 3 месяца назад +3

    Woo *clutches chest* this brought up so many repressed feelings I had to hit pause and go lay down. I deleted my instagram and Facebook in high school, like 11 years ago, and haven’t been on social media since because I’m afraid to be seen. Now I have a business and I need social media, but am terrified. I just committed to posting and putting myself out there. It’s my goal to also publish e-books pertaining to my field, but also for poetry. I feel dizzy and sick when I think about it. I’m going to sit with these feelings and then return to the video to take in and process the rest. I believe that the timing of me finding your video was divine. Your content is amazing and so helpful, thank you ❤️

    • @ciara5522
      @ciara5522 3 месяца назад +1

      You got this ✨

  • @chloetibbet7745
    @chloetibbet7745 3 месяца назад +1

    “In the beginning, we are the only one on the stage and the only one in the audience.” What a POWERFUL message wow. Thank you. Bless you. ❤️

  • @velaniemarie
    @velaniemarie 5 месяцев назад +8

    This is so gooooood. “What if you are feeling and carrying the frequency of desire for all of us who want to see you” triggered something so deep in me and I literally feel it starting to be released. I saw this video for a reason. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @angelooooooo
    @angelooooooo 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks You SO Much Angel 🙏🏻 It has been more than two years since I've started writing my own music, and I've always imagined myself singing it in front of people. But my body feels so nervous and terrified when it comes to play in front of people. Now I'm thinking about sharing my music on my socials but once again, I am feeling so petrified. I have been on this path for years, I've sometimes put asides making music but it always always came back to me. It is my soul purpose and I'm shaking writing those words. I've posted some videos on here but, I feel "hidden" and safe because nobody knows me on RUclips. I've got to take the leap of posting on my socials, where everybody knows me, but oh gosh... I wish everyone a safe path full of love and wonders. Thank you for the video and I love your vibe

    • @angelooooooo
      @angelooooooo 5 месяцев назад

      Also I've had a healing woman tell me one day : "Do you write music? Because you have got to share your Voice with the world. I can feel such an angelic voice. You have got to shine. And if it bothers people, they'll have to buy sunglasses"

  • @meetalisrivastava34
    @meetalisrivastava34 5 месяцев назад +7

    I was holding back tears the entire time. Thank you for sharing this!

    • @HolisticaliMe
      @HolisticaliMe 5 месяцев назад

      same

    • @tipennya
      @tipennya 4 месяца назад +1

      Oh, you were actually able to hold yours back?!! I had to pause the video because I couldn't see anymore! My shirt all wet, my nose snotty! THIS was, indeed, a word!!
      Blessings 😊❤

  • @TandiWeirden
    @TandiWeirden 13 дней назад +1

    I watched this video twice. It deeply resonates with me. I want to be seen. I am love and light. I want to emit my light because it’s pure love.

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  7 дней назад

      thank you so much for your kindness & support, Tandi!! I am honored that you watched this twice, that means the world to me!!! 🥹 sending love & gratitude your way 😍💜 thank you for being on this journey with me 🫂🌻🦋 if you haven’t already, there’s a free creative activation waiting for you over on my website 🥰🤗 ayandastood.com

  • @Lily-zv7zg
    @Lily-zv7zg 4 месяца назад +1

    I feel seen and called. Very grateful that your words have reached me. It’s part of my path. I will listen to this again and again

  • @danixxrenee
    @danixxrenee 5 месяцев назад +8

    perfect way to get my day started ❤

  • @samanthalee9023
    @samanthalee9023 5 месяцев назад +5

    whewww i want to be seen! I am trusting in my journey to inspire a generation of independent creative powerhouses like myself

  • @lugeenx
    @lugeenx 5 месяцев назад +5

    This is really so beautiful. I teared up about 4 times. The message in the description is so moving. I have never heard or thought of it this way; that the longing I have to show up is not only mine. "Will you believe in us BEFORE we have manifested for you in physical form". I am going to hold onto this frequency and move from that place from now on. Thank you.

  • @L.11.11.
    @L.11.11. 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤ This is the first video and time Ive ever heard of you. At this time, the video was released 2 mo ago. I have prayed the last 3 days for a sign and have stayed open to a sign, and your video popped up today with this massage.❤ thank you.

  • @Nefelibatacomingthrough
    @Nefelibatacomingthrough 3 месяца назад +1

    This hits home.. Thank you for answering your calling. I needed to hear some of this.

  • @BrothaRob1
    @BrothaRob1 5 месяцев назад +5

    Your calling could spark someone else's calling. Thank you for feeling fear, and still making this video 🎉. Now it's my TURN 💪

  • @rmariacarlson
    @rmariacarlson 5 месяцев назад +5

    This has touched my heart so much and opened up a light to view my fear of being seen from a new perspective- on the spectrum of desire and a unique fulfillment in service to the collective. Life changing. Thank you!!

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  5 месяцев назад +1

      Oh my goodness, thank you SO much, I am so so so so so grateful for you and this divine message, I am so thankful and my heart feels so full reading this, sending you big gratitude & thanks my divine soul sibling, you are amazing!!! 😘😍🌻🦋🌊☀️💛

  • @GratitudewithGracie
    @GratitudewithGracie 5 месяцев назад +6

    I am so inspired by you! Thanks for always redirecting us towards presence and growth in a way that makes sense for our inner being

  • @EsmeraldaYilmaz
    @EsmeraldaYilmaz 4 месяца назад +1

    This is my first comment on youtube to someone.Thank you so much.Beeing seen always feels like burden and judgements for me.I didnt open to receive because fear of humiliating.I receive love from you know. Thanks sis 🖤