your fear of being seen is only proof it's your calling.

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    if you FEAR being seen, this is for YOU. i wonder if you ever give yourself the chance to hold space for your DESIRE to be seen? what if this path is yours to walk, and the more you resist it, the more it will scream at you... what if this calling is not yours alone, but ours: the collective who is seeking you back, seeking to see you, feel you, hear you, receive you... longing to be moved by your message. will you believe in us BEFORE we have manifested for you in physical form? we hope so...

Комментарии • 902

  • @brysonmercury
    @brysonmercury Месяц назад +497

    Wow. You saying "when you are longing to be heard is when the universe is longing to hear you" resonated so much i had to rewind!

    • @iamthrivingmeditations3490
      @iamthrivingmeditations3490 26 дней назад +3

      ‼️‼️‼️✨

    • @III-mu4yn
      @III-mu4yn 24 дня назад +5

      The universe is already hearing you...

    • @LamarDandre
      @LamarDandre 16 дней назад +2

      Umm... you can talk to the universe from the privacy of comfort of your living room. I don't need a stage for people to here to me talk to the universe.

    • @asia.t
      @asia.t День назад +1

      ​@@LamarDandre and that's fine, so don't. that's the wonderful part about the human experience; we can freely make our own choices and do what aligns with our own preferences. 👍

    • @imperfection_beauty215
      @imperfection_beauty215 14 часов назад +1

      @@LamarDandreexactly

  • @catoniya
    @catoniya 27 дней назад +486

    For those of us raised in narcissistic environments, we've often been conditioned to suppress our voices, remain fearful, conform, and stay small. Thank you for this message, so have the courage to be seen, be loud, and be authentic

    • @sarijass98
      @sarijass98 25 дней назад +15

      i cried reading this :c thank you

    • @marquinarawlings
      @marquinarawlings 25 дней назад +18

      I am healing from the effects of those environments as well. I just released myself from an adult relationship that kept that going. It’s been three years now, and I’m still finding my full potential in my voice. It’s been scary at times, but I’m determined to fully heal.

    • @catoniya
      @catoniya 25 дней назад +7

      ​@@sarijass98 I'm glad it resonated with you ❤

    • @catoniya
      @catoniya 25 дней назад +5

      ​@@marquinarawlings wishing you compassion and grace as you go on your healing journey 💚

    • @peaceinapod1
      @peaceinapod1 22 дня назад +3

      It seems like we purposefully start our lives at points that are far off from where we would like to end up. I share your experience + admittedly I have developed LOTS of narcissistic traits over the years myself. Feeling that I am supposed to be a person of integrity, pure heart and inner confidence after a lifetime of hiding, feeling horrible about myself, manipulating and acting out of pain (values? what is that?) and external validation.... I would never ever want to start this life all over again. What a mental, emotional and spiritual hellhole :D I wish you the best of luck on your own journey and I hope that you will bring your own good into this world very soon :)

  • @mikalowahren
    @mikalowahren Месяц назад +522

    You are right. I want to be seen. I feel like I have ideas others could really benefit of. I trust my path. I accept my mission. 🙏💖🌈

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +54

      I am so glad to hear you say this, and affirm this truth!!! YES YOU DO!!! I am so here for this, I am wishing you love and luck for all that lies in store for you! Sending love, thank you for being here! 💕 💖

    • @GoosesBeSilly
      @GoosesBeSilly Месяц назад +5

      Claiming this 🙏🏻

    • @dannitycane25
      @dannitycane25 29 дней назад

      Same.💯💯💯

    • @mikalowahren
      @mikalowahren 28 дней назад +5

      Everytime someone comments my comment I'm made to go back and reread my affirmations. A really good reminder. Because it's one thing to believe in yourself while listening to someone pep talking you, than later on when the rest of the world comes crashing in. So I thank you. 🙏💖

    • @jkmcarter2988
      @jkmcarter2988 22 дня назад

      ✨🥹🫶✨

  • @BeauMonroe
    @BeauMonroe Месяц назад +245

    "What if you are feeling and carrying the frequency of desire for all of us who want to see you?" Whoaaaa!

  • @rayvinrey24
    @rayvinrey24 Месяц назад +168

    "The more I resist it the more I will be haunted by what could have been." Thank you for this message. I find myself making up every excuse not to show up, and here you come with "it's not about talent, it's about courage" ♥

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 28 дней назад +5

      for me i keep getting distracted and procrastinate due to fear of being my true self. The expectations from my TikTok audience also cause me to spend more time doing inner work ❤

    • @relaunchinglife
      @relaunchinglife 28 дней назад +4

      Yes! This was profound!

    • @SashaLipskaia
      @SashaLipskaia 22 дня назад +5

      Your Courage is the seed of your Talent! Go for it, girl. It's the invitation to Be Seen though the eyes of Love. You are ready! You got this. Your desire is the way.

  • @yeahdatsjay
    @yeahdatsjay 25 дней назад +79

    “In the beginning we are the ones on the stage and we are the ones in the audience.” BARS!!!!

  • @OliviaMoonGuildTarot
    @OliviaMoonGuildTarot 27 дней назад +26

    Girl!!!!!!! No one has said this like this before. Again, I’ve so needed this. I know being seen is part of my healing.

    • @ZawadiSeas
      @ZawadiSeas 23 дня назад

      Me too and I've been hiding in plain site for far too long.! 💜

  • @jamie-zk1sz
    @jamie-zk1sz 20 дней назад +29

    Some people need to face their shadows and some people need to face the light

  • @Oogwayascents
    @Oogwayascents 27 дней назад +21

    There is no greater agony then the untold story within oneself

  • @tscst13
    @tscst13 Месяц назад +83

    “When a path has made itself known, it is ours to walk.” ❤ carrying this into the day. Thank you.

  • @your_spirit_guide
    @your_spirit_guide 28 дней назад +74

    I finally revive my RUclips channel last week after doing 2 years of inner work

    • @marquinarawlings
      @marquinarawlings 25 дней назад +7

      Congratulations!! 🎉🎉🎉 Inner work is some serious work! I’m happy for you! ❤️

    • @stevestrickland0425
      @stevestrickland0425 24 дня назад +4

      I am doing the same !

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 24 дня назад

      @@marquinarawlings thank you love ❤️

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 24 дня назад

      @@stevestrickland0425 that’s great! Let’s keep going 😍🥰😘

    • @your_spirit_guide
      @your_spirit_guide 24 дня назад

      @@stevestrickland0425 find your pace. It’s ok to just upload 1 video per week or every 2 weeks. Do what works for you
      Building a following on other social media also helps to drive organic traffic to your RUclips channel
      Currently I’m building X, Patreon alongside RUclips. X turned out to be more suitable for me compared to Facebook, TikTok and Instagram as I love to write

  • @yaguabina
    @yaguabina 24 дня назад +51

    I was in the middle of rage crying when I saw the title of this video calling me for this very moment. I was furious, livid, thinking back on how objectively alone my path has been. How nobody seems to have ever cared about me. How I've always had to do everything alone and worse, how I can't just give up. It's not just the pain, sweat, blood, and tears that enrages me, it's my stubborn ass never giving up. I couldn't just give in to drugs or alcohol, I couldn't just stop trying at work and stay poor, I couldn't just bed rot and pretend like I don't have responsibilities, I had to compulsively keep fighting tooth and nail. And when it finally got to be too much and I was ready to end my life, I changed it instead. I've been holding back on posting because I didn't feel in a sunshine and rainbows place like many personal growth influencers appear to always be in, but just now I realized...as angry and alone as I feel, I don't want to die. That alone is a miracle. Maybe my message will not be linear, it will change as I evolve, and right now the message is...how to love life even when it's hard, even when you feel like nobody cares.

    • @ZawadiSeas
      @ZawadiSeas 24 дня назад +6

      I feel you and resonate with all you've shared. I cannot let myself down...I've come too far and although I don't know what will happen once I courageously step out into the unknown, to do just that...been seen and heard despite all my fears is where I'm at. If not now then when? I knew I'd write my memoirs when I was in my twenties. I'm 57 years now and have completed 2 books in the past few years. It's time to share my story. This message has arrived in Divine Time and I am truly grateful 🙏🏾...Let us step out and up to the challenge...we are here for a reason...in love, light n healing 💜

    • @D.M.O.B.
      @D.M.O.B. 23 дня назад +1

      Good going!! God bless you.

    • @mbernesdotter6881
      @mbernesdotter6881 22 дня назад +2

      ❤🙏🏻❤️🔥 🙏🏻 I hear you and I have been there to. But we rise and we realise we ARE love and we DO matter because we have BIG impact just by being here. Your way too important to give up on YOU. We have something important to share .Rise and may God bless you brave heart. We're all here with you when you take that step into the unknown...and if I may say so I wish everyone who has ever felt this pressure and burden and that you are alone even with people around you: May you be gifted with finally feeling peace within and accept yourself and may you meet people on your path who sees you

    • @adrienne7642
      @adrienne7642 21 день назад +3

      I felt this in my soul. Right there with you babe. You got this! Even now your words have helped me. Keep going we’re rooting for you!

    • @evflyleaf
      @evflyleaf 18 дней назад

      This is literally everything I’ve been saying about my situation lately.

  • @JourneysInCali
    @JourneysInCali Месяц назад +36

    Yup she was meant to speak. That's it that's all I have to say. ❤

  • @bailarubin4048
    @bailarubin4048 Месяц назад +47

    The power in this video is wow!!!!! Your channel is going to be HUGE!

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +6

      Thank you so much Baila, this means the world to me, so grateful for you!!!! 😍😘🌊🦋☀️🌻

  • @kingdavidvstheworld
    @kingdavidvstheworld 26 дней назад +51

    I ACCEPT MY MISSION IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST!

    • @privatethoughts85
      @privatethoughts85 22 дня назад

      The character (re)named Jesus Christ said the way is THROUGH him, not TO him. In essence, YOUR Lord is a mortal MAN on an immortal mission from THEE LORD?!? 🤔

    • @jessicamcleanofficial
      @jessicamcleanofficial 22 дня назад +4

      Amen

  • @bailarubin4048
    @bailarubin4048 Месяц назад +39

    I love all of you guys 🥹🥹🥹🥹 all a bunch of cuties in this comment section

  • @queenqahhaar
    @queenqahhaar 26 дней назад +31

    "A sense of guilt and self betrayal" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭"part of your healing"😭😭😭😭😭I want to be seen! So many years I have hid myself so that others could be seen!!! Thank you so much for these powerful words. I felt the burden lift from me.❤🙏🏾💪🏾

    • @ZawadiSeas
      @ZawadiSeas 23 дня назад +6

      Such a strong sense of self betrayal and guilt! I'm struggling writing this through the tears flowing! I want to be seen! Let us twinkle our light like stars and brighten the darkened skies..it is our time to shine...in love, light n healing 💜💯🙏🏾

    • @queenwere1
      @queenwere1 16 дней назад +1

      😢No wonder we call ourselves Queen 😂❤

    • @queenqahhaar
      @queenqahhaar 15 дней назад

      @@queenwere1 😂❤️

  • @lisolethusiguqu8068
    @lisolethusiguqu8068 Месяц назад +50

    You're a healer, Ayanda. I'm always in awe

  • @MA3CY
    @MA3CY Месяц назад +104

    Ayanda there is not a plate big enough for what you are cooking, yet you continue to both serve and eat, if I might say so.
    Insightful and beautiful as always, I am so grateful that you allow me to see you, and to see myself through you. Ugh, so much love.

  • @CJDuckett
    @CJDuckett 28 дней назад +30

    I have no idea who you are. I don’t even know how I stumbled on this video or how the algorithm maneuvered its way to put it in place for me to find it…but THIS…this was for me. I’m the one person that needed to hear this. I have been resisting entirely too much. And it is from fear of not being “seen”. And you are right. It’s time for me to lean to the right instead of the left. It’s time to lean towards the side of desire and not fear. It’s time to respond to the shadow side instead of resisting/denying/ignoring it. This was for me today and I just want to say…thank you. It was well received and I am grateful you felt compelled to speak from your heart and post this video for me to find. Thank you sistah. You are appreciated. 🤲🏾❤️

    • @tipennya
      @tipennya 19 дней назад +2

      You're #1, I am definitely #2 that needed EXACTLY this, on this day.
      Seeing your comment, knowing I'm not the only one, was just as helpful to me as her message! We have both been blessed ❤ 😊

    • @nathanjones4852
      @nathanjones4852 19 дней назад +2

      Same here she’s definitely an oracle

  • @ronee-forthesakeofsoul
    @ronee-forthesakeofsoul Месяц назад +32

    what if this is your way to heal? that really resonated with me. that one sentence.

  • @ashbash8970
    @ashbash8970 Месяц назад +17

    You feel like a guardian angel❤

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +5

      Oh my word, that is the kindest thing ever!! Thank you so so much!!!! I love you!!! 🥹😍🌻😘

  • @sayingyestome
    @sayingyestome 25 дней назад +6

    I wanted to let you know that when I began watching your message, it was like magic dust was sprinkled onto me and I instantly knew what fears needed to be healed. I'm proud to say I just posted my first video!!!! Thank you for the perfect message at the perfect timing! Much ❤❤

  • @Lina-cy2yc
    @Lina-cy2yc Месяц назад +29

    I wrote it yesterday in my business diary! That my new exercise is to follow & do what I fear. And now I see your video:) Thank you!

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +8

      YAY!!! The synchronicities are synchronicitizing 😍 I am so pleased this found and spoke to you, and sending love your way!! 💕 💖 ❤️

    • @Lina-cy2yc
      @Lina-cy2yc Месяц назад +2

      @@ayandastood thank you! It''s crazy how Universe is working for us:)

  • @mcclendonreport
    @mcclendonreport Месяц назад +16

    Unconditional love for ourselves.

  • @itumelengchiloane2761
    @itumelengchiloane2761 28 дней назад +9

    I want to be seen. I want people appreciate me and what I have to offer

  • @marianafioravante9450
    @marianafioravante9450 20 дней назад +7

    "we have to be wise enough to accept when a path has made itself known that it is ours to walk." I loved and feel EVERY word you said, thank you! thank you! thank you!

  • @CULT27TV
    @CULT27TV Месяц назад +31

    This message could not have come at a better time omg 😌❤️ the universe is speaking through you Ayanda

  • @djamiladjibo6129
    @djamiladjibo6129 28 дней назад +7

    currently in tears, as you said, someone really needed to hear the exact words you had to say. 💗

  • @rachellovora
    @rachellovora 26 дней назад +7

    I'm exhausted from crying while watching this whole video. This video allowed me to acknowledge the feelings I've been shoving in the attic for years and was put into tangible words. I fear that I'll never be able to look at my life the same anymore and if I don't get over the fear my life will always feel like a fail. As it stands now I feel like a coward but I'm praying that with a video like this; I'm changing. Thank you

  • @LeticiaLima-uc2yy
    @LeticiaLima-uc2yy 25 дней назад +6

    “It only gets louder” it’s so true, I cannot escape the feeling that I should be doing the things I’m so afraid of doing. Thank you for this video ❤

  • @Mistyymountainlove
    @Mistyymountainlove 18 дней назад +3

    “You are willing to allow yourself to be seen trying” 💜

  • @Endless24Recovery
    @Endless24Recovery Месяц назад +7

    Ayana, this was a global call of action. Thank you for answering your call. We hear you.

  • @yarasweet22
    @yarasweet22 28 дней назад +10

    It’s not about talent it’s about courage❤ LITERALLY! Talent will evolve along the way when you decide to start where you are right now!

  • @ReadByBri
    @ReadByBri 28 дней назад +8

    Those who are CALLED TO LOVE 🥺✨

  • @Say_yo_jay
    @Say_yo_jay Месяц назад +21

    'you love yourself so much that you still allowed it to be received' - amazing thank you so much

  • @Annabellek2464
    @Annabellek2464 23 дня назад +6

    The irony that your frequency is often motivating/encourging us to walk and stand in our own frequencies! Full circle. Apperciate your words❤

  • @noanoa8991
    @noanoa8991 25 дней назад +15

    I’ve recently realized that my fear of being seen comes from the fact that I fear the EVIL EYE. I grew up in a family that constantly talks about it, there’s not one day - to this day - where I don’t hear my mother say things like "be careful of the evil eye" or "oh this happened to you because of the evil eye you shouldn’t have posted this photo in social media". I really feel like this is holding me back, to the point where I just freeze and don’t act on anything anymore. I know that whatever we believe in is true. It’s like the fear of the evil eye governs my life and I would love to know if there’s a way to stop believing in it once and for all (affirmations or other things). Thank you so much I love your videos ❤

    • @ashleyispresent
      @ashleyispresent 23 дня назад +6

      Wow, seems like the concept of an evil eye is the evil eye itself.. I guess a belief in an ultimate supreme higher power can counter that, because if you pray everyday eventually you will genuinely feel God’s strength and protection. I say this as an ex-christian btw, I’m not religious but I see the value of choosing one spiritual framework even if it means closing your mind off a little bit.

    • @noanoa8991
      @noanoa8991 22 дня назад

      @@ashleyispresent I should try that, thank you so much!

    • @handoodley4906
      @handoodley4906 21 день назад

      Where did you first hear of the evil eye? Because why should your family be afraid of it? There are wicked people who are jealous but Jesus cover's his people with peace and protection. If you allow an ant to scare you then that is something in the mind. You must tell yourself those thoughts are lies and remind yourself of the truth. Dwell on the truth and it becomes the scenery of your life.

  • @sharunbell
    @sharunbell Месяц назад +8

    This message brought me to tears. A message I didn’t know I needed to hear right now. Thank. You. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Theeluckylibra
    @Theeluckylibra 23 дня назад +6

    baby HAVE YOU BEEN READING MY DIARY!!!!!! I have been so used to playing small i find it almost laughable when other people or even myself dares to think differently. I am the queen of " they are more talented and worthy" than me. I never really put serious analysis in the fact that a longing was leading me somewhere. My entire youtube page is content i wish I was making. Thank you boo I needed this

  • @Zoominero
    @Zoominero 21 день назад +4

    “What if the point of that longing, that desire isn’t any outcome but the transformational journey of healing you would need to walk to stay on that path…” wow just freaking WOW

  • @jerrodplummer6850
    @jerrodplummer6850 28 дней назад +10

    We often look to the world outside of ourselves for the inspiration we are seeking.
    Sometimes feeling as if we don't yet fully understand we belong leads to melancholy, fear, and sadness, but really it is our own personal struggles in which we find the capacity to inspire others by expressing ourselves regaurdless of the sense that we are lacking something.
    Courage is the capacity to stand for something which would otherwise be a mere fantasy in the minds of those who love you for the hope you bring into this world.
    If you are ever feeling rejected, remember that there is someone else on the other side, trying to inspire the world just like you... we are all connected by our passion, despite circumstance, to make our own lives beautiful.

  • @lugeenx
    @lugeenx 27 дней назад +5

    This is really so beautiful. I teared up about 4 times. The message in the description is so moving. I have never heard or thought of it this way; that the longing I have to show up is not only mine. "Will you believe in us BEFORE we have manifested for you in physical form". I am going to hold onto this frequency and move from that place from now on. Thank you.

  • @samanthalee9023
    @samanthalee9023 Месяц назад +5

    whewww i want to be seen! I am trusting in my journey to inspire a generation of independent creative powerhouses like myself

  • @meetalisrivastava34
    @meetalisrivastava34 28 дней назад +5

    I was holding back tears the entire time. Thank you for sharing this!

    • @HolisticaliMe
      @HolisticaliMe 27 дней назад

      same

    • @tipennya
      @tipennya 19 дней назад

      Oh, you were actually able to hold yours back?!! I had to pause the video because I couldn't see anymore! My shirt all wet, my nose snotty! THIS was, indeed, a word!!
      Blessings 😊❤

  • @velaniemarie
    @velaniemarie 23 дня назад +5

    This is so gooooood. “What if you are feeling and carrying the frequency of desire for all of us who want to see you” triggered something so deep in me and I literally feel it starting to be released. I saw this video for a reason. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @theladyalchemist._
    @theladyalchemist._ Месяц назад +4

    I feel like once you finally admit you want to be seen, it becomes so much easier

  • @olaitan2084
    @olaitan2084 Месяц назад +12

    Really needed to hear this morning, thank you for sharing this message xx

  • @angelooooooo
    @angelooooooo 29 дней назад +3

    Thanks You SO Much Angel 🙏🏻 It has been more than two years since I've started writing my own music, and I've always imagined myself singing it in front of people. But my body feels so nervous and terrified when it comes to play in front of people. Now I'm thinking about sharing my music on my socials but once again, I am feeling so petrified. I have been on this path for years, I've sometimes put asides making music but it always always came back to me. It is my soul purpose and I'm shaking writing those words. I've posted some videos on here but, I feel "hidden" and safe because nobody knows me on RUclips. I've got to take the leap of posting on my socials, where everybody knows me, but oh gosh... I wish everyone a safe path full of love and wonders. Thank you for the video and I love your vibe

    • @angelooooooo
      @angelooooooo 29 дней назад

      Also I've had a healing woman tell me one day : "Do you write music? Because you have got to share your Voice with the world. I can feel such an angelic voice. You have got to shine. And if it bothers people, they'll have to buy sunglasses"

  • @BrothaRob1
    @BrothaRob1 23 дня назад +5

    Your calling could spark someone else's calling. Thank you for feeling fear, and still making this video 🎉. Now it's my TURN 💪

  • @jasminegayle
    @jasminegayle Месяц назад +9

    Such powerful words, Ayanda. I swear you speak life in a way, I've been holding so close to my chest but been so afraid to share out of fear being perceived as crazy. Thank you for surrendering.

  • @relaunchinglife
    @relaunchinglife 28 дней назад +7

    I know this is truth. You are a perfect example. I heard something similar once “when you feel that longing to share your story, it is because there is someone somewhere right now who desperately needs to hear it”

  • @lolaevergreen9077
    @lolaevergreen9077 Месяц назад +13

    Your videos are incredibly helpful and comforting. You radiate wisdom and love

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so so so much angel this message absolutely filled up my spirit and made me feel so held and loved and supported!! I am so grateful for you and your divine wisdom, thank you for being on this journey with me, I am so thankful for you and I will carry these beautiful words with me always, lots of love and gratitude to you my divine soul sibling!!! 🌻🦋😍☀️😘🌊

  • @BEGGERELLA
    @BEGGERELLA Месяц назад +14

    I was about to search for a calming meditation for helping me through a self presentation I have to record and send today - struggling with how I identify myself and how I am received.
    Instead I was blessed with your video. Perfect timing.
    Thanks 🙏

  • @DeepMindSquared
    @DeepMindSquared Месяц назад +12

    That really resonates with me..that the desire I feel is not just my and Spirits shared desire, it's also the collective's desire to have me express that
    I'm in the place to keep showing up and sharing my creations no matter what. I like what Rick Rubin says about creating...we have to do it for ourselves. Forget the audience. People find that energy palpable
    ❤mmm so good. Thank you

  • @alonnaelaine
    @alonnaelaine Месяц назад +10

    Gosh, I love you. It is always such a heavy dose of intentionality and love. Beautiful energy, thank you for being.

  • @instagamrr
    @instagamrr 25 дней назад +3

    Wow, I’ve been a successful youtuber before but never liked being seen. And having to be seen is what’s stopped me from coming back. But just now I’m gearing to start up a new channel whether i want to be seen or not, because it’s my calling, and this message is exactly what i needed!

  • @TashaDivine
    @TashaDivine 19 дней назад +2

    You're right. Thank you for lifting my voice higher. I spent 20yrs in an unhealthy marriage and I've been living with the fear and guilt of exposing my narcissist husband. I've lived in fear of not being believed. I've lived in fear that one day my children would find out. I've lived in fear because of the way he has altered my way of thinking. I've lived in my own for 2 years in a healing community finally starting to realize this man i love, hurts me deeply every time we talk. And that's not love. I now know what healthy love feels like, i know what healthy love sounds like. I feel empowered to begin forming a plan to tell my story. It ends with me.

    • @KeeshaJ
      @KeeshaJ 17 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing this! I'm so happy for you and wishing you all the best! ❤

  • @isatheseeker
    @isatheseeker 25 дней назад +2

    “…and what if that was the point all along?” wow, chills

  • @karabomonareng7518
    @karabomonareng7518 Месяц назад +3

    yikesy!!!!!! to hold space for the desire to be seen

  • @rmariacarlson
    @rmariacarlson Месяц назад +5

    This has touched my heart so much and opened up a light to view my fear of being seen from a new perspective- on the spectrum of desire and a unique fulfillment in service to the collective. Life changing. Thank you!!

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад

      Oh my goodness, thank you SO much, I am so so so so so grateful for you and this divine message, I am so thankful and my heart feels so full reading this, sending you big gratitude & thanks my divine soul sibling, you are amazing!!! 😘😍🌻🦋🌊☀️💛

  • @danixxrenee
    @danixxrenee Месяц назад +8

    perfect way to get my day started ❤

  • @GratitudewithGracie
    @GratitudewithGracie Месяц назад +6

    I am so inspired by you! Thanks for always redirecting us towards presence and growth in a way that makes sense for our inner being

  • @racheldasilva8751
    @racheldasilva8751 Месяц назад +4

    Crying at the last part. You are such a powerful speaker, thank you

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +2

      Thank you so much angel, I am so grateful for you!! Thank you for being here, sending all my love to you!! 😍😘🌻☀️🦋🌊

  • @SalemFU
    @SalemFU Месяц назад +4

    I am so grateful for you sharing your wisdom and heart... thank you, truly.

  • @art_withnadine
    @art_withnadine Месяц назад +4

    This was so needed I’m crying I felt that in my soul thank you for sharing ❤

  • @GoldenImpNotorious
    @GoldenImpNotorious 28 дней назад +2

    Thank you! I have lived & struggled in the dark with this, now I can see the light because you were brave enough to answer the call!
    This has been such a battle…
    Just tonight under a comment I wrote someone replied, ‘ love your comment. It’s not just a thought or option but a voice. I could almost hear you speak…’
    Ok, Unicorse, thank you for the winks, that comment & then finding this video.
    I got a song to sing, & it is about freedom. I hear the others singing, & I am ready to add my voice to that choir!

  • @morob1981
    @morob1981 Месяц назад +5

    This truly blessed me. I felt like you were talking directly to me. Thanks you for your love and light. Blessing unto you.

  • @sugisugeetha
    @sugisugeetha 28 дней назад +6

    Today I sent an email that I’ve been battling with for 3 weeks. It wasn’t even difficult email. It is the fear of being seen as something new.
    Gosh.. why do we do that?!
    Now seeing your video, I have clarity. Much love ❤️

    • @tipennya
      @tipennya 19 дней назад

      "The fear of being seen as SOMETHING NEW" - that is it! Almost feel ashamed or embarrassed to even think about being different and better. ❤

    • @sugisugeetha
      @sugisugeetha 19 дней назад

      @@tipennya yes! And guess what? The next email in that series took one week to send instead of 3. The next one took even shorter time. It got better!
      Just now, 30 mins ago, sent similar email to a different circle of people where I’ll be seen as something new..

  • @daginia
    @daginia 24 дня назад +2

    I want to be seen but also have a fear of being seen I’ve never related to a title more😭

  • @tipennya
    @tipennya 19 дней назад +1

    Here's what I find I can't past: feeling ashamed of being better, like since I didn't get it right the first time I don't have the right to 'get up'

  • @myvideodiary24
    @myvideodiary24 Месяц назад +3

    You are such a gift. This message was right on time for me. Thank you.

  • @livvylivinlife
    @livvylivinlife Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for sharing Ayanda! I needed this word. Walking this path has already revealed my struggles with self-hate, and invited me into more love and compassion. What a beautiful journey.

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +2

      Sending you so much love, solidarity & compassion my divine soul sibling, thank you so much for sharing this journey with me. I’m so glad you are feeling invited into more love & compassion, and I’m wishing you liberation from anything that separates you from the abundant love you so deeply deserve, sending you gratitude and big love my soul sibling, love you!! 🦋🌊😍😘☀️🌻

  • @danielberra6747
    @danielberra6747 18 дней назад +1

    I spent years living in and fighting for a country that hates me for the way I look...Ive been seen enough, I want to be heard.

  • @erikarobinson3557
    @erikarobinson3557 20 дней назад +1

    God blessed me with the ability to sing and have a way with words and I HATE it. I can’t stand the upfrontness. I NEVER wanted to be seen and I’m afraid of people, but that’s the position God gave.

  • @MusicLover2Eternity
    @MusicLover2Eternity 29 дней назад +4

    When I tell you Ayandastood..
    SPOKE
    TO
    MY
    SOUL!!!!!!!!
    LISTENNNNN✨🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  28 дней назад +1

      this means the world to me!!! thank you SO much angel!!!! 🌻🦋💕🥰🥹😍

  • @philanthropia1509
    @philanthropia1509 Месяц назад +3

    I love you, thank you ❤

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +1

      I love you too!! Thank you so much for your kindness and for being here with me on this journey!!! Grateful for you!!! 🌻🦋😍☀️😘

  • @THEONLYGOODMOOD
    @THEONLYGOODMOOD 20 дней назад +1

    Ever since I first found out about RUclips, when I was like 6 years old, I wanted to be a RUclipsr, but my fear of being judged kept getting in the way. About a year ago I faced my fears, I posted my first video, and then I felt drawn to keep posting even more. After that, I started to get more and more popular and now I have over 100 subscribers, all because I faced my fears. Lately I've been doubting myself because I want to try to be a musician and the doubt is just my fear again, this video has helped me remember how to face my fears again. Thank you.

  • @successfulalexander5566
    @successfulalexander5566 18 дней назад +1

    You said it all, i want to be seen, everyday of my life i feel like my life is waisting away for not been able to do what i love to do

  • @lara-mariebothe9136
    @lara-mariebothe9136 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you so much for sharing your voice! I resonate so much with your energy! Love you girl!❤

  • @nengitimothy1916
    @nengitimothy1916 Месяц назад +3

    Ha ha first one hereee

  • @ReadByBri
    @ReadByBri 28 дней назад +1

    I might watch this every day when I wake !! I need this as a DAILY reminder until I can soulfully believe it. Thank you .

  • @lysxox
    @lysxox 18 дней назад +1

    Ayanda, I”m sobbing, in the best way. - I saved this video to come back 222… TODAY was the day. Beyond grateful for you and your message 👑

  • @bailarubin4048
    @bailarubin4048 Месяц назад +2

    You are so incredible! So powerful! Gorgeous message and powerful wordssssss I love!!! Grateful thank you God

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much Baila!!! So grateful for you angel, you are incredible & your message filled up my spirit with so much love & joy, sending big gratitude your way my divine soul sibling!!! 😘🌻🦋😍☀️🌊

  • @justjazzyjae
    @justjazzyjae 15 дней назад +1

    THANK YOU! 🙏🏽 I needed this video! 😭 As the eldest daughter I was conditioned to not be seen… I was to be a good girl, set a good example, make sure everyone was comfortable to the point I lost myself when I got married and had children. The people pleasing kept me from living my dreams for fear of them not being good enough and disappointing others. (I’m 47 and people of my age group and older don’t understand “this social media thing”). I am now divorced, with grown children and FINALLY walking in my true self love and fighting with my ego. It’s hard to say to others, much less myself, “I want to be seen (and heard)!” #claimingit #manifesting #healing 🙏🏽

  • @reddamaniac7483
    @reddamaniac7483 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for allowing yourself to be seen and heard by me at this particular moment in time 🙏🏽 i dream of shaking your hand one day ❤ thank you

  • @karenwhitneysewall
    @karenwhitneysewall 26 дней назад +1

    Wow😮 You just spoke to my soul. Thank you for this!!! And we do owe it to the collective to be seen! ❤❤❤

  • @Cydneyaustralia16
    @Cydneyaustralia16 Месяц назад +4

    Everytime I watch one of your videos or listen to one of your podcasts, I am spurred on to finally, finally take a chance and share myself with the world.
    And one day, I know very soon, I'll be brave enough to do just that and to stand there in the light instead of retreating back into the shadows, where I know I can't stay anymore. Thank you for continuing to share yourself with us🩵

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  Месяц назад +3

      Oh my word!!! Thank you so much for sharing this with me, this fills up my spirit and reminds me that I am on the most aligned path, thank you so so much angel, this moved me beyond words, I am SO excited to see what you put out into the world, the world needs and is CRAVING your voice, and we are all so excited to support you and love you & lift you up!!! Keep going & always remember that the universe has your back & is rooting for you!!!💜 Sending you big big big big LOVE my soul sibling 🌻 YOU ARE INCREDIBLE!!!!! 😍

  • @user-sq5sk3dw3i
    @user-sq5sk3dw3i 24 дня назад +1

    I couldn't stop crying during this video ty for helping me be bold, caring, and beautiful.

  • @sandrairen1988
    @sandrairen1988 Месяц назад +2

    Wow this was amazing, it was exactly what i needed to hear. I have never thought that it could be part of my healing. I think i will use this to finally take the step! Thank you!

  • @alicollins4655
    @alicollins4655 27 дней назад +1

    This is so on time. The call to dance with my fears of being seen is one hell of a perspective shift.
    Thank you for this on time love vitamin!

  • @esmeralda8305
    @esmeralda8305 Месяц назад +1

    Just found you yesterday and girl, you have no idea how much I relate to these topics of being seen. I want to be seen but I hold myself back and worry about my expression and how it will be percieved way too much. So I'm basking in your message, I trust I will find a way to be comfortable being seen.

  • @collective_shifts
    @collective_shifts Месяц назад +2

    Ah ste first step.. and the doubts, the fears.. old beliefs, old self fighting to stay alive.. the devil straying you away from your true authentic self. DO IT. Release that energy, its meant to be!

  • @BeaMischi
    @BeaMischi Месяц назад +2

    I love so much receiving your message ❤ thank you for being such an inspiration

  • @silverfascia
    @silverfascia 25 дней назад +2

    You're truly an outpour of wisdom, so intelligent and concise. I've been struggling for so long, deciding whether or not to plant my flag and let the world know I'm into spirituality on social media and through my art. I see the signs in my everyday life, especially while shooting a short film on the inner child recently, pointing me in the right direction and filling me with peace and motivation. They were everywhere!
    For whatever reason, I still shy away from showing my true self daily. I know I need to let the abundance of the world enter my life through co-creativity, but what if absolutely no one resonates with who I am? And I'm left even more all alone than I began? I must have a subconscious tribal fear still gripping me, but I know the true path is to walk into the face of fear to overcome it. I really couldn't lose much else by trying!

  • @wiebi_wellness
    @wiebi_wellness 26 дней назад +1

    Even the title hit so hard already

  • @Sweetsandie
    @Sweetsandie Месяц назад +2

    Watched on June 10th, 2024. Resonating for me. A new take on my fear of being seen and equally calling that requires exactly that. Thank you 🙏 This was my first of your videos but I am glad you have not let your own fear stop you from doing this work, as I found it helpful and inspiring.

  • @terrijeanxoc
    @terrijeanxoc 26 дней назад +1

    Moving into Unconditional Self Love

  • @joyfulhealer808
    @joyfulhealer808 26 дней назад +1

    Thank you beautiful soul! This message arrived for me in perfect timing. Gratitude for the warriors of love and light 🙏🏾✨💫🥰

  • @victoriacreates8362
    @victoriacreates8362 28 дней назад +1

    Wow! I'm so thankful this video popped on my feed. This is exactly what I needed to hear. No reason to fear, just do it! Now I know why there was resistance! and I love how you said that the collective is pulling on us too. There is a reason we came here to share our stories and I"m called to share mine. Thank you!!!

    • @ZawadiSeas
      @ZawadiSeas 23 дня назад

      Me too! In love, light n healing 💜💯