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  • Опубликовано: 12 окт 2023
  • A crime scene investigator is gunned down in broad daylight. The harrowing scene is captured on surveillance video. Who pulled the trigger? "48 Hours" correspondent Erin Moriarty reports. Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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  • @48hours
    @48hours  7 месяцев назад +127

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    • @kolis_
      @kolis_ 7 месяцев назад +13

      Nicely, been waiting patiently to see this episode

    • @MandiMomOf8Channel
      @MandiMomOf8Channel 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@kolis_ Same 👍

    • @khaledShar
      @khaledShar 7 месяцев назад +3

      at first i thought it was a male teenager from the walk . but in the second footage of her walking back to the truck it clearly looked like a young female

    • @danielmarry
      @danielmarry 7 месяцев назад +1

      Justice here and boy oh boy Wait until our God gets your due

    • @GetCraftyLemons
      @GetCraftyLemons 7 месяцев назад +1

      I knew that was a woman running away! Figured was ex's girlfriend! 😂 #watchtoomuchcrime

  • @historicalcucumber
    @historicalcucumber 4 месяца назад +825

    That woman that stopped and said she didn't want her to be alone has a beautiful and kind soul...God bless her.

    • @gengland8601
      @gengland8601 4 месяца назад +14

      Yessss God bless her ❤❤❤❤ 🙏🏻

    • @5GreenAcres
      @5GreenAcres 3 месяца назад +7

      Wouldn't everybody? If not then America isn't what it used to be.

    • @emilymadsen628
      @emilymadsen628 3 месяца назад +8

      ​@@5GreenAcres unfortunately there's a lot of people who would look the other way and think that they should mind their own business. That helping a person who's been injured will possibly somehow get them pulled into whatever caused it in the first place. That sounds so idiotic to me but I have read so many comments saying that kind of thing and I've seen how people react first hand and it's infuriating.

    • @MoralMaze163
      @MoralMaze163 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@5GreenAcres there are plenty of people who wouldn’t unfortunately

    • @chrisc1896
      @chrisc1896 2 месяца назад +6

      @@5GreenAcresthey would rather take their phone out and record rather than help

  • @jonmichael02302
    @jonmichael02302 7 месяцев назад +2662

    That woman saved her life & is a real hero!

  • @RulesofPepper
    @RulesofPepper 3 месяца назад +192

    Love the "i don't know because I didn't see it" to answer the question "what women view in Tim"
    Absolutely chef kiss 👌

  • @lexy231
    @lexy231 2 месяца назад +62

    The fact that Tim and Colleen knew each other since she was 12, and they started a relationship when she was 18, gave me the ick beyond the Icks that were there from hearing this story. Glad Nicki found her love ❤️

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 23 дня назад +1

      Nicole toxic. Where was Colleen mom? She should be the blame for that. Nicole had a kid with him regardless. So I don’t believe nothing she says

    • @kirstena1363
      @kirstena1363 10 дней назад +1

      I was waiting for someone to say this… what a predator.

  • @christyg.8811
    @christyg.8811 7 месяцев назад +970

    Man the lady who stopped and helped is a true hero

    • @katerinagiannioudi401
      @katerinagiannioudi401 7 месяцев назад +6

      I want to believe that everybody would hv stopped!

    • @thenightporter
      @thenightporter 7 месяцев назад +4

      With ovaries of steel.

    • @kimmiekim7982
      @kimmiekim7982 7 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely!

    • @takashiimotaki9593
      @takashiimotaki9593 5 месяцев назад +1

      She us of course an american hero like in hollywood movies saving the entire univers thousands of times

    • @The_Real_Mier
      @The_Real_Mier 4 месяца назад +3

      @@takashiimotaki9593Sure, she is an American, making her an American hero, BUT I’d say she a GLOBAL HERO!
      Because her fantastic actions are NOT limited to America or any country, but are UNIVERSAL! ❤

  • @kevinberdine3022
    @kevinberdine3022 7 месяцев назад +873

    As a 30 year paramedic those 2 useless medics made a major trauma patient Walk to the stretcher instead of bringing the stretcher to the patient

    • @kiwigirljacks
      @kiwigirljacks 7 месяцев назад +120

      Right!! After I was injured as a passenger in a car accident, with a broken hip (completely severed at the neck of femur), I was made to get myself out the car, walk to the stretcher and get myself on it. You can imagine the pain and the extra damage that caused. Spent 10 weeks completely bedridden in hospital and two full years recovery (I say recovery though I’ve had issues the rest of my life). Some people should not be paramedics.

    • @LynxStarAuto
      @LynxStarAuto 7 месяцев назад +22

      Lmao. I think he thought it was a vampire nibble

    • @Nikki_the_G
      @Nikki_the_G 7 месяцев назад +85

      Thank you, that upset me so much! She was a gunshot victim for godsakes and they made her walk to the ambulance??

    • @EvaMariaJordan
      @EvaMariaJordan 7 месяцев назад +53

      OH MY GOD !!! I WANTED TO MENTION THAT AS WELL BUT FORGOT TO AT THE END. COULD YOU IMAGINE IF THE BULLET WAS NEAR HER SPINAL CORD AND SHE ENDED UP Paralyzed ?!? HER ANGELS WERE VIGILANT IN KEEPING THE BULLETS FROM DECENDING INTO HER FOREAMEN.

    • @Wkd183
      @Wkd183 7 месяцев назад +46

      That was my thought. At first I thought the ambulance didn't have room to get near her. But then saw there was plenty of room for the stretcher. Why would you make one walk to the ambulance no matter the type of injury. Should be a teaching moment to ambulance training.

  • @gigantastore8013
    @gigantastore8013 2 месяца назад +43

    That woman who came upon a complete stranger and did not leave her side is a ABSOLUTE ANGEL. In this horrible world with so much evil, it is comforting to know that angels like this walk among us.

  • @mikerivera7509
    @mikerivera7509 5 месяцев назад +161

    Who else knew it was Tim from the second they showed him

    • @Libbathegreat
      @Libbathegreat 2 месяца назад +19

      I knew it was baby daddy the second they said it happened outside a parenting center.

    • @frogger1952
      @frogger1952 2 месяца назад +20

      The person running after her ran like a woman runs, so I didn't think a guy did the shooting.

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 23 дня назад +2

      I didn’t but I kno this woman leaving out her toxic part in the stories. Only talking about what her did but never what she did. N her man did not want her to have a kid n she said no as if it’s only her choice. Then bringing some other dude around her young son. New man should not affect the bio dad relationship. She seem like a baby mama that a nightmare. Not saying she deserved to be shot. But it’s clear y that man didn’t want her.

    • @LockedNloadEED
      @LockedNloadEED 16 дней назад +2

      Demon from the start.

    • @brandyk
      @brandyk 13 дней назад +1

      ​@@frogger1952yeah ran like an out if shape black woman

  • @jaredpeterson380
    @jaredpeterson380 7 месяцев назад +1102

    I hope that paramedic who made her walk to the ambulance gets some additional training. Unbelievable.

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 7 месяцев назад +132

      Exactly. I was sat there open mouthed that he couldnt bother to bring the stretcher to the car. She had gun shot wounds to her neck FGS!

    • @lolocaboclo
      @lolocaboclo 7 месяцев назад

      and longs too @@sarahholland2600

    • @fiddle18
      @fiddle18 7 месяцев назад +17

      Your qualifications?

    • @lolocaboclo
      @lolocaboclo 7 месяцев назад +164

      @@fiddle18 we don't believe his qualifications matter here. The reality is that they failed, it was wrong asking a victim to walk . Anybody knows that so it does not matter the qualifications. even a person with no study in the area knows it's dangerous to move anybody who got involved in an accident or is hurt as they do not know if there's more damages inside than they can see.

    • @jaredpeterson380
      @jaredpeterson380 7 месяцев назад +156

      @@fiddle18 a brain.

  • @user-meandme
    @user-meandme 7 месяцев назад +485

    He didn’t want the child but then used the child to make her life hell!
    Thank God the poor child has his mom still!

    • @zxy78267
      @zxy78267 7 месяцев назад +30

      Exactly. It's all about control.

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 4 месяца назад +10

      Yes, it shows how cold and brutal, this psychopat treated his child.

    • @llllllllll270
      @llllllllll270 4 месяца назад +13

      She should've never informed him about the pregnancy.

    • @stephenelkins9609
      @stephenelkins9609 3 месяца назад

      Or she used the child to make his life hell. Like ao many mothers do. Remember, the courts are sexist, and mothers typically win even though statistics prove father are way better parents.

    • @antjobert
      @antjobert 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@llllllllll270 exactly.

  • @TurkeygirlJO
    @TurkeygirlJO 7 месяцев назад +165

    I used to workout at his gym! He was one of the owners & I had met him a few times. I never would had expected this...I'm so happy that she survived & had an angel there to help save her life! 😪

    • @ArturoGarzaID
      @ArturoGarzaID 6 месяцев назад +8

      Just “MET” him. 😆

    • @skuhenga
      @skuhenga 3 месяца назад

      Mr jig jig 😂😂​@@ArturoGarzaID

    • @KrisD007
      @KrisD007 Месяц назад +2

      Do you often look at people and know they might shoot someone? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 23 дня назад

      Seem like he was too good for her. She seems toxic. No one deserves to be shot but she definitely not the innocent victim she portrays

    • @jmae8957
      @jmae8957 19 дней назад

      WHAT!!!!!!

  • @abby_reviews
    @abby_reviews 5 месяцев назад +32

    I am in disbelief of emergency response. They made her WALK to the ambulance after being SHOT?? Wouldn't that destabilize the wound and send more blood pumping where it shouldn't?? Can any EMTs weigh in on this?
    Also, "Why didn't you leave?" is an ignorant, insensitive question and one that blames the victim. The cycle of abuse and the manipulative hold of psychopaths is well-documented. Interviewers that reach out to survivors of abuse need to do their research and ditch this question NOW. It normalizes the abuser's response and not the survivor's heroism.

  • @KellHensler-pe2ww
    @KellHensler-pe2ww 7 месяцев назад +857

    She was in critical condition and the Minneapolis EMT's made her walk to the stretcher behind the ambulance. That's definitely not acceptable.😠

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie 7 месяцев назад +79

      I was so surprised to see that! Am glad the reporter raised it as I was thinking "is that normal".

    • @A_Amazi
      @A_Amazi 7 месяцев назад +35

      I’m betting they didn’t realize how bad it was?
      I always figured, if they could walk .. they did.

    • @KellHensler-pe2ww
      @KellHensler-pe2ww 7 месяцев назад +35

      But they knew she had a gunshot wound to the chest

    • @johnmike121
      @johnmike121 7 месяцев назад +16

      Yeah HCMC EMS sucks

    • @kbc1883
      @kbc1883 7 месяцев назад +43

      Right?! They make you be pushed in a wheelchair when leaving the hospital after having a baby, but make a gunshot victim with a gushing neck walk to the ambulance. So bizarre!

  • @9sheri9
    @9sheri9 7 месяцев назад +899

    Emily, THANK YOU for stopping & caring. Not many people would do this. She is alive because you acted. ❤

    • @mercy615
      @mercy615 7 месяцев назад +31

      I agree! Huge thanks to Emily 👏🏾

    • @kes78
      @kes78 7 месяцев назад +41

      100% she was so calm and just radiated warmth and love while no doubt being terrified. She's an angel ❤

    • @rion-cd8kg
      @rion-cd8kg 7 месяцев назад +37

      A good Samaritan for sure. Some still exist in this hateful and murderous world.

    • @cletagonsalves3639
      @cletagonsalves3639 7 месяцев назад +14

      I agree if it wasn't for that lady Nicole would've died

    • @hyceman
      @hyceman 7 месяцев назад +11

      Pretty sure most people would care if they witness a woman being shot in front of them.

  • @nicoleblack5249
    @nicoleblack5249 7 месяцев назад +87

    Emily was an angel, she had the most calm and assuring tone. Helping her to be as calm as possible slows the flow of blood so it probably helped physically not just emotionally. Love you Emily 💕💕

  • @kristelclark5494
    @kristelclark5494 6 месяцев назад +113

    I love how the woman in the car really stepped up and saved Nicki’s life! Kudos!!

  • @nicolec7234
    @nicolec7234 7 месяцев назад +1563

    She was spot on about being a female. I could tell by watching the few seconds of surveillance; I immediately thought “That’s a female’s run”. Tim is such a sociopath to be able to visit with his son pretending everything is okay while he knew Cal’s mom was outside being (attempted to be) murdered. Horrific psychopath.

    • @emmamilburn1905
      @emmamilburn1905 7 месяцев назад +77

      I thought the same as soon as saw it.

    • @seahawks366
      @seahawks366 7 месяцев назад +83

      I could instantly tell too that was a females run

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 7 месяцев назад +19

      Absolutely craziness.

    • @swallowedinthesea11
      @swallowedinthesea11 7 месяцев назад +8

      @@emmamilburn1905 *The student looks like Mollie Tibbetts!*

    • @annereidy7981
      @annereidy7981 7 месяцев назад +10

      Me too!

  • @kristencobb230
    @kristencobb230 7 месяцев назад +660

    My guess is he was abusing and grooming Colleen for years. He’s disgusting and a complete narcissist to think he could remove some logo on his vehicle and get away with this. 😠. Even trying to gaslight the judge… 18 years is not enough for this guy. He was right about one thing. The system is flawed.

    • @cockoffgewgle4993
      @cockoffgewgle4993 7 месяцев назад

      Oh, and I left out that Nicki baby-trapped him and FORCED him to become a Father to begin with. Then took his child away from him. After using his girlfriend as a baby-sitter when it was convenient for her.

    • @jeremiahbacon3651
      @jeremiahbacon3651 7 месяцев назад

      you used just about every big democrat word lol brainwashed much ?

    • @KylieJonkman
      @KylieJonkman 7 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly well said

    • @saramurphy2733
      @saramurphy2733 7 месяцев назад +20

      I definitely think he groomed Colleen for years. That doesn’t make her part any less. I agree that his punishment should have been longer because of the grooming.

    • @cockoffgewgle4993
      @cockoffgewgle4993 7 месяцев назад

      "Grooming" is a word that doesn't mean anything. Women are not children. Let me repeat again: women are not children. You cannot "groom" an adult, unless they have learning disabilities or something.
      The fact that she committed the shooting and he got longer than her (or convicted at all) is utterly absurd. And evidences, once again, the insane bias against men and in favour of women in the criminal justice system.@@saramurphy2733

  • @madeleinemetalmusic
    @madeleinemetalmusic 3 месяца назад +30

    His "Only God can judge me." statement is what made me really think he was guilty.

    • @Vlasko60
      @Vlasko60 Месяц назад +4

      Narcissists believe their above rules and laws that everyone else has to follow. They're special. I'm sure he's conning the cons right now.

    • @luke8173
      @luke8173 22 дня назад

      People should really rethink that phrase, it's not a flex

    • @kirstena1363
      @kirstena1363 10 дней назад +2

      My abusive narcissist ex used to say that ALL THE TIME. Or he would say “God will forgive me” 🤢

  • @mackcappel844
    @mackcappel844 5 месяцев назад +23

    My sister is in the middle of a divorce from a malignant narcissist and with him, he is ALWAYS the victim

  • @Pattsnogle23
    @Pattsnogle23 7 месяцев назад +484

    God bless the woman who helped Nicki. She absolutely saved her life. She’s a hero. 👏👍

  • @lisayork2624
    @lisayork2624 7 месяцев назад +226

    In my opinion, he should’ve received a life sentence. Way too lenient.

    • @MadFlavorz
      @MadFlavorz 7 месяцев назад +22

      Both shouldve

    • @lisayork2624
      @lisayork2624 7 месяцев назад +10

      @@MadFlavorz Agree

    • @kaciewolf772
      @kaciewolf772 3 месяца назад +10

      Exactly!! Just because they weren’t successful means nothing!! God has bigger plans for Nicki! Intent should be punished to the full extent of the law!!

    • @backtoasimplelife
      @backtoasimplelife 3 месяца назад +6

      Yeah, both of their sentences are way too short. Why?

    • @obi-wankedogi
      @obi-wankedogi 2 месяца назад +5

      Welcome to Minneapolis! Our state attorney general has his own domestic violence record. The decline in this state is sad.

  • @truthseeker474
    @truthseeker474 7 месяцев назад +31

    The Lady who stopped to help the victim, a stranger has a heart of gold. It renew faith in humanity & kind people like Americans Love from Asia❤

    • @MissPerpul
      @MissPerpul Месяц назад

      Oh please. Remove your tongue 😂

  • @michellemccabe8477
    @michellemccabe8477 3 месяца назад +20

    I can’t believe those Paramedics made her walk to the ambulance. I was a Paramedic and would have pulled the stretcher to the patient. Shame on those medics. I am now an ER nurse and can say standing upright makes her body, with walking makes the pumping of the heart and more blood loss. They should be reprimanded!

  • @AwokenEntertainment
    @AwokenEntertainment 7 месяцев назад +223

    what a miracle she survived, so glad she is here to tell her side of the story

    • @MMAMike22
      @MMAMike22 Месяц назад +2

      It’s unfortunate. Hopefully she’ll get her karma one day.

  • @dianeriolo2314
    @dianeriolo2314 7 месяцев назад +281

    Charismatic, controlling and manipulative. He wants to control her but wants nothing to do with his kid and he gets jealous. Classic narcissistic behavior.

    • @oldhickory4686
      @oldhickory4686 7 месяцев назад +9

      This is why women need to have wisdom when they enter into relationships, because those are the types that "sweep you off your feet".

    • @appliedknowledgeispower2024
      @appliedknowledgeispower2024 2 месяца назад +1

      Yep 👍🏾

    • @antjobert
      @antjobert 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@@oldhickory4686 yes. Be very careful who you have children with. Because a child means the partner is in your life forever.

    • @oldhickory4686
      @oldhickory4686 2 месяца назад

      @@antjobert Yes indeed, and that's why even the disciples said to Jesus, " it is good not to marry". (Not saying marriage was bad, just being very careful what you enter into)

  • @blucheer8743
    @blucheer8743 2 месяца назад +18

    That Good Samaritan that stayed with her was awesome!

  • @davidc3839
    @davidc3839 7 месяцев назад +650

    This man is a sociopathic control freak. He used and controlled women - ultimately destroying the life of the woman he persuaded to carry out the shooting for him. He didn't want his son, he wanted control. He is a truly evil man who got off lightly in his sentence.

    • @delvarisreginald5781
      @delvarisreginald5781 7 месяцев назад +14

      The ex and the current partner are really alike.

    • @LifeisANovel
      @LifeisANovel 7 месяцев назад +10

      Sounds about right. But that don't say much for the folks easily influenced. Better start using that brain Id say.

    • @SidewaysInTraffic
      @SidewaysInTraffic 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@delvarisreginald5781 Exactly. She was so "abused" that she got with someone that looks like it could be his brother lol. Moreover, when does a patrol cop talk so nice and gently?

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie 7 месяцев назад +21

      @@SidewaysInTraffic So... not sure what you're saying here. You saying the ex, who is nowhere near as good looking as her now boyfriend, was actually a good dude? The same guy who attempted to have her murdered?
      You don't sound unhinged at all.

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@delvarisreginald5781 Physically, only ever so slightly. I don't like the murdering ex husbands look but I'd certainly go for someone who looks like the boyfriend.

  • @paigecarew5322
    @paigecarew5322 7 месяцев назад +820

    The laziness of the paramedics to make her walk to the stretcher, the narcissism of Tim, and the people pleasing lunacy of Colleen. This case is WILD

    • @AriaJade-ys2tq
      @AriaJade-ys2tq 7 месяцев назад +87

      She was shot in her neck! One wrong move and she could’ve been potentially paralyzed. 😣😣

    • @carmenc8428
      @carmenc8428 7 месяцев назад +45

      You do realize that paramedics can't go into an area of active shooter, has to be cleared by police. This is a case of poor reporting. They have a protocol to save lives, including their own. I can't believe people would actually think they would show up carefree and stupid or lazy. Seems vague, don't you think?

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 7 месяцев назад +54

      @@carmenc8428 the paramedic walked to her in the 'active shooter' area...which it wasn't, the shooter fled. He could have taken the gurney with him, don't you think?

    • @RawOlympia
      @RawOlympia 7 месяцев назад +16

      @@E-Kat that's harrowing! had a doctor friend who went to er and knew he needed an appendectomy and no one else was catching on. practically had to operate on himself!

    • @barbie6695
      @barbie6695 7 месяцев назад +11

      @@AriaJade-ys2tq I've seen them make people having serious asthma attacks walk to the ambulance.

  • @ArturoGarzaID
    @ArturoGarzaID 6 месяцев назад +65

    Claire: “He can draw people in and make them feel this connection with him.”
    Interviewer: “What did women see in him?”
    Claire: “I don’t know cause I didn’t see it.”

    • @johnstones1208
      @johnstones1208 3 месяца назад +4

      😂😂

    • @strangecrayon
      @strangecrayon 2 месяца назад +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ezzb
      @ezzb 2 месяца назад +1

      Like seriously! lmao Watching these true crime videos I'm literally Claire, having no idea what people see in most of criminals they describe as having this power to attract so many people

  • @emmalouise7884
    @emmalouise7884 3 месяца назад +15

    Its lovely to see that this woman survived and is happy with a real decent man. ❤

  • @ronyalemerrill
    @ronyalemerrill 7 месяцев назад +141

    What a complete narcissist!!!! This guy should NEVER be released from jail. He is a dangerous and evil "person".

    • @stumack9755
      @stumack9755 7 месяцев назад +1

      & so is she/shooter.

    • @ssing7113
      @ssing7113 9 дней назад

      18 years is a joke.
      She should be worried when he gets out……
      Also women. Stop dating or having anything to do with bad boys. 😂

  • @mnelson2008
    @mnelson2008 7 месяцев назад +725

    He was having relations with that "tenant and student" long before she was 18, and the trigger for him, as a sociopath, was the new boyfriend. Only control. That's everything for him. So damn scary. What's crazy is that he thought he could get away with it. Arrogant and stupid. So glad she survived and has a good man in her life for the sake of the child.

    • @SidewaysInTraffic
      @SidewaysInTraffic 7 месяцев назад +24

      Not to excuse what he did, but it's very odd she would end up with someone so eerily similar looking if he was so abusive.

    • @rocknroller77
      @rocknroller77 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@SidewaysInTrafficyoure a damn momo

    • @jennypham3998
      @jennypham3998 7 месяцев назад +42

      ​@@SidewaysInTrafficthey dont look alike at all.

    • @Nicvy7lo
      @Nicvy7lo 7 месяцев назад +36

      @@jennypham3998 I agree they look completely different! And even if they did look alike why would it matter?? it wasn’t the way he looked that was abusive it was personality. Feel like he’s trying anyway he can to victim blame and say it was somehow her fault or not true?? Every one of his comments have been about either victim blaming,defending/making excuses for the abuser or straight up hatred of women. Seems like a misogynist

    • @kiwigirljacks
      @kiwigirljacks 7 месяцев назад +27

      @@SidewaysInTrafficwhat a weird thing to say….

  • @ksharpe8137
    @ksharpe8137 5 месяцев назад +61

    Colleen seems like such an immature girl but I think it was admirable that she took full responsibility for what she did.

    • @frogger1952
      @frogger1952 2 месяца назад +1

      If I didn't know better, I'd say she was a zombie. The attorney probably wrote the apology statement. She should have gotten life. It's only because she was so epically inept at shooting a gun that the victim survived.

  • @danielleschiazza6172
    @danielleschiazza6172 2 месяца назад +9

    Destroying his family?? The baby he didn't want?? That family? He was jealous that she found a real man. She had no issue accepting his weird relationship with this little 18 year old but he couldn't stand to see her happy.

  • @edwinthomas618
    @edwinthomas618 7 месяцев назад +269

    Just sick. I knew the shooter was a woman because of how she ran. Thank God the the little guy has Mom alive

    • @brianwebber6996_ROADHUNTER
      @brianwebber6996_ROADHUNTER 7 месяцев назад +15

      Total girl run!

    • @KissMahGrits
      @KissMahGrits 7 месяцев назад +3

      Same

    • @SidewaysInTraffic
      @SidewaysInTraffic 7 месяцев назад +5

      I wouldn't be so quick to judge, what if he was getting abused or even still is. That's why I'm against dating when you break-up and have young children. You don't know who you're letting into your home (men or women).

    • @blessinggoodthings3124
      @blessinggoodthings3124 7 месяцев назад +1

      Me too.

    • @Madamegato
      @Madamegato 7 месяцев назад +3

      Same. Soon as I saw it.

  • @204august2
    @204august2 7 месяцев назад +87

    Man, to shoot someone in broad daylight when cameras are around, that is wild.

    • @molliwilson5639
      @molliwilson5639 7 месяцев назад +22

      Yeah, Colleen is not the sharpest tool in the shed .

  • @Miracle-333
    @Miracle-333 3 месяца назад +40

    18 and 16 years?! IS NOT ENOUGH TIME!

  • @eliquinta
    @eliquinta 6 месяцев назад +21

    Emilie (the bystander) is truly a hero. The way she encouraged Nicki to hold on was very touching.
    Also interesting that Colleen immediately took full responsibility and Tim still would not. What a horrible story.

  • @AmandaE24
    @AmandaE24 7 месяцев назад +365

    I'm so happy she got to meet the women who stopped to help her. That was amazing. I'm so happy for Nicole finding a real gentleman who stuck by her through all of it. ❤

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie 7 месяцев назад +21

      And a very nice looking one at that 😃

    • @LynxStarAuto
      @LynxStarAuto 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@It-is-me...Melsiehahaha

    • @katarzynamariamuszynska2811
      @katarzynamariamuszynska2811 7 месяцев назад +8

      If not for this woman ,never know if she would survived

    • @proudgrandma138
      @proudgrandma138 7 месяцев назад +1

      Why would she hav that abusive psychos kid after he told her to get rid of it? Bc she wanted to be in his life & control him. She tries to act so naive, but she knew what she was doing. The shooting was WRONG. But the boys mom wanted to cause probs.

    • @katarzynamariamuszynska2811
      @katarzynamariamuszynska2811 7 месяцев назад +11

      @@proudgrandma138 are you serious?

  • @imdoneplus
    @imdoneplus 7 месяцев назад +384

    Emilie Clancy deserves a medal and a lot of recognition. It may not seem like much, to stay with a gunshot victim and stabilize them while calling 911, but it’s massive. I’ve been on either side of this kind of thing and you can’t imagine how much it changes your life. When someone might be dying in your arms you are never “normal again.” Similarly, when you’re dying it’s horrifying and having someone there is so important (which I guess Nicole didn’t experience).
    Point is, I think there’s a zero percent chance Emilie doesn’t have PTSD. As someone with PTSD, I have so much respect for someone who willingly alters their life forever for a stranger. Most people will never realize how much something like that can ruin your life, but it can and does. She deserves so much for her sacrifice.

    • @kes78
      @kes78 7 месяцев назад +29

      The way she was looking into her eyes with such warmth made me tear up, she was so brave to stop and help her in this day and age of 'me,me, me' not alot of people would have. She's an angel ❤

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl 7 месяцев назад +23

      Everything you said ❤❤❤ I could cry all over again thinking how remarkable Emilie’s actions were! I appreciate Emilie Clancy so much. I hope she has a blessed life forever.

    • @imdoneplus
      @imdoneplus 7 месяцев назад +23

      @@kes78 they’re connected on a level that few people are. You don’t need years of connection, that moment is so powerful that is permanent. I think fondly and often of the girl who saved my life. She’s like 100 pounds soaking wet but she saved my 6’2” self. She’s an Angel in my mind.

    • @seahawks366
      @seahawks366 7 месяцев назад +7

      I get what you’re saying but Jesus she didn’t go to war she just helped someone who got shot

    • @Defender78
      @Defender78 7 месяцев назад +9

      @@seahawks366yeah really Emilie will be okay, this whole thing about how "she's forever tarnished", give us a break, she'll cary on with her life

  • @jeanettebird2739
    @jeanettebird2739 6 месяцев назад +52

    Hats off to the lady who stopped to help her , same can’t be said for the paramedic who not knowing the extent of her injuries made her walk to the stretcher 😮….. I immediately thought it was a woman who did this ! So glad she is still here to tell the tale !

  • @indigowarrior7842
    @indigowarrior7842 6 месяцев назад +16

    “Master Manipulative Narcissist”
    He demonstrates all of the self centered signs, loud and clear!

    • @JJones-zg7yz
      @JJones-zg7yz 25 дней назад

      and women love it!! Nicole is proof of that

  • @pianomanhere
    @pianomanhere 7 месяцев назад +137

    I do not understand why these sentences were so paltry for the crimes committed. Nicole should not have to worry about (especially) Tim's eventual release from prison.

    • @jameslomenzo1139
      @jameslomenzo1139 7 месяцев назад +8

      lawmakers are the blame, and most judges don't place any human value on life.

    • @LynxStarAuto
      @LynxStarAuto 7 месяцев назад +8

      Well let me tell you, he got almost a max sentence. If she would have died, both of them would have gotten life sentences, but because she survived 15 years is usually the max for that charge.

    • @johnmike121
      @johnmike121 7 месяцев назад +8

      Minnesota for ya

    • @richardcranium3579
      @richardcranium3579 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@LynxStarAutomany states see a “life” sentence as 20 years.
      stupid and sick but it’s true.

  • @kerrysanders6668
    @kerrysanders6668 7 месяцев назад +106

    You could tell it was a woman in the security footage. Men and women run differently.

    • @sheribrougham4863
      @sheribrougham4863 7 месяцев назад +12

      Totally agree. That's what I thought straight away.

    • @shayshayw8365
      @shayshayw8365 7 месяцев назад +7

      Same

    • @scroogemcduckrich9705
      @scroogemcduckrich9705 7 месяцев назад +5

      yup

    • @foxibot
      @foxibot 7 месяцев назад +6

      Yeah. You could instantly tell it was a female the way they used their arms as they ran and the way they moved.

    • @Amanda20019
      @Amanda20019 7 месяцев назад +3

      Yep I agree 💯

  • @jayD4321
    @jayD4321 5 месяцев назад +17

    18 years for trying to get someone killed and 16 years for someone that pulled the trigger that’s crazy

    • @alignwithsource
      @alignwithsource 3 месяца назад +1

      This!! I’m disgusted that they both will probably be back out on the streets at all or in such little time.

    • @ybcarlebach266
      @ybcarlebach266 2 месяца назад +1

      Right, now she has to dread his coming out of jail

  • @nessawade
    @nessawade 2 месяца назад +6

    The woman who helped her... man, shes a hero and an angel!

  • @sweetpea_bythesea
    @sweetpea_bythesea 7 месяцев назад +525

    Let's be real, Colleen wasn't protecting any child, she was protecting her relationship.

    • @ExiledStardust
      @ExiledStardust 7 месяцев назад +74

      Lots of people in these comments making excuses for her and trying to minimize her guilt. She was influenced, sure, but she knew what she was doing, knew it was wrong, and didn't care. She's sorry NOW because it didn't get her what she wanted.

    • @missssssssssssme
      @missssssssssssme 7 месяцев назад +11

      I think so too

    • @ALT-vz3jn
      @ALT-vz3jn 7 месяцев назад

      Oh for sure. You have to be a real sociopath to shoot someone, like Colleen shot Nicki. She’s NOT an innocent victim in all of this.

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 7 месяцев назад +19

      true...he probably told her if she was out of the way they would be together

    • @Pixietink
      @Pixietink 7 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@lisawentworth6831 yea some kind of "prove ur love for me" type situation

  • @LS-kg6my
    @LS-kg6my 7 месяцев назад +64

    Look how fast he threw Coleen under the bus. [NOTE to adolescent girls - don’t be manipulated by adult men. You are just being used]

    • @amandab6835
      @amandab6835 7 месяцев назад +21

      Note to adult men - leave children alone.

    • @hay.joy.2001
      @hay.joy.2001 7 месяцев назад

      True!

    • @hay.joy.2001
      @hay.joy.2001 7 месяцев назад

      @@amandab6835And true to this as well!

    • @Aint_no_senators_son
      @Aint_no_senators_son 7 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@amandab6835
      Warn the children. Predators won't listen. They need to know to look for predatory behaviors.

    • @amandab6835
      @amandab6835 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Aint_no_senators_son The children in my life have already been warned. They've also been instructed on how NOT to be a predator themselves.

  • @Venus-gn5oi
    @Venus-gn5oi 4 месяца назад +7

    As the one woman said, I don't see what they saw in him. Can't stand that type of man. She was super lucky to survive.

  • @claudiggah
    @claudiggah Месяц назад +4

    Idk why but I love Erin Moriarty.

  • @sandrastewart-barrett3186
    @sandrastewart-barrett3186 7 месяцев назад +675

    He's the epiphany of evil. A liar, whoremonger, physical and emotional abuser, arrogant and unrepentant. I hope Nicole and her family can go on to live a long and healthy life.

    • @indianastones6032
      @indianastones6032 7 месяцев назад

      Not trying to belittle ya or anything but its "epitome" of evil. "Epiphany" is when ya have a moment of realisation/clarity.

    • @BeRightBack131
      @BeRightBack131 7 месяцев назад +97

      * epitome. Epiphany means a sudden idea/ realization of something not thought of before. 😉

    • @NikkiNoo86
      @NikkiNoo86 7 месяцев назад +11

      @@BeRightBack131dork 😂

    • @soalegria1971
      @soalegria1971 7 месяцев назад +62

      @@NikkiNoo86you have to admit that correction makes the comment more relevant, 🤷‍♂️

    • @sandrastewart-barrett3186
      @sandrastewart-barrett3186 7 месяцев назад +37

      @@BeRightBack131 absolutely correct..thanks

  • @rhd6639
    @rhd6639 7 месяцев назад +134

    "What did women see in him?"
    "I don't know 'cause I didn't see it."
    🔥

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 4 месяца назад +4

      🎯👍 Me either!

    • @derekmensa6959
      @derekmensa6959 4 месяца назад +1

      Women only talk like that after the fact...you must have only had one girlfriend your entire life.

    • @corvettedm1
      @corvettedm1 3 месяца назад

      Same

    • @Demigod8ether
      @Demigod8ether Месяц назад

      She was absolute bomb for giving this response... I fell out on my bed literally ! Hilariousness to full cap!

  • @fffelipon
    @fffelipon 7 месяцев назад +8

    Terrible EMTs or paramedics but, they made her walk like 30 to 40 steps with 2 gunshots on the neck! and by the time she’s going inside the ambulance she never got oxygen.

    • @fffelipon
      @fffelipon 6 месяцев назад

      Very good observation

  • @Autisticbanmeforbeingdifferent
    @Autisticbanmeforbeingdifferent 6 месяцев назад +6

    Don’t move your head from left to right but a-ok to get her up and make her walk

  • @lizziefaul_1999
    @lizziefaul_1999 7 месяцев назад +157

    That woman that helped her is an angel! God bless her tremendously! ❤

    • @kushmob4208
      @kushmob4208 4 месяца назад

      she was at the right place at the right time, krazy, she definitely sure is a life saver though

    • @kushmob4208
      @kushmob4208 4 месяца назад +2

      a beautiful woman you are, such an angel yourself, i hope all is well with you, stay blessed

  • @ReasonableSection216
    @ReasonableSection216 7 месяцев назад +125

    That bystander is a saint. I wish we could all be like her.

  • @annmoore8696
    @annmoore8696 6 месяцев назад +7

    All I want to Say is Thank You Angel For Stopping And Helping Nichole 🙏 God Bless You Dear, You Are A True Hero

  • @trowerz
    @trowerz 7 месяцев назад +10

    My ex wife in many ways has the same characteristics of Tim. She’s a teacher..controlling. Narcissistic. Accusatory to the enth degree..CPS, police, lies to our child, therapists, courts. I can relate to Nicky’s years of harassment. Thank God that piece of crap cannot try to groom and lie to Callahan like he did with Colleen. God bless the happy family and the ppl that helped through that nightmare!🙏🏻
    PS: Ladies beware of a purple light 🤨

    • @neena9202
      @neena9202 6 месяцев назад +1

      Are ppl able to see through her lies?

  • @bettynuggz
    @bettynuggz 7 месяцев назад +69

    They said the killer woman knew the dude since she was 12 years old. Because she was a student of his martial arts. That leads me to believe that more than likely he was also a chomo having underage illegal relations with her before they legally got together down the road. Maybe not when she was 12, but a year or a few after that. Straight disgusting.

  • @BlueskyDenver
    @BlueskyDenver 7 месяцев назад +325

    Tim is a toxic narcissist through and through, no regard for his own son, no compassion for him and how it will impact him for the rest of his life to know he was the one behind his mother being nearly killed. When he couldn’t control Nicki he began making allegations against her and her new boyfriend of sexual abuse towards the child, and such accusations are extremely horrific to imagine but he purposely made it up, just to make Nicki ‘s life a nightmare. When he lost custody and was allowed only a single visitation a week he had then resorted to using a vulnerable teenager to do the shooting of the mother of his son. A child he didn’t want born., and asked her to abort. This man is a complete disgrace to humanity. Toxic narcissist who doesn’t think about anything else but getting his way, controlling and abusing people in order to satisfy his twisted agenda. Psychopath as well most likely..!

    • @kimm.5514
      @kimm.5514 7 месяцев назад +10

      My ex and his Dad tried killing me by loosening all the lugnuts on my tires. Then he set me up and took me to court to take my kid. He hasn't really spoken tho that kid as soon as he left n turned 16. That kid is not only my son but my best friend. Sometimes they win and it sucks...but ultimately they don't win because they're evil.

    • @SidewaysInTraffic
      @SidewaysInTraffic 7 месяцев назад +2

      Cops are known to be abusive, come on. We literally see one on the news weekly beating, choking, or murdering someone. Also my younger cousin was a super kind kid, he became a cop in SF and started beating his wife until she left him. This guy interviewed is trying too hard to speak softly and calmly.

    • @johndonahue4777
      @johndonahue4777 7 месяцев назад +2

      People are trouble. Complicated and simple. Amazing and flawed.

    • @zc6346
      @zc6346 7 месяцев назад +4

      Agreed. Nothing wrong with wanting an abortion (no matter if you are a potential mother or a potential father) though..

    • @BlueskyDenver
      @BlueskyDenver 7 месяцев назад +12

      @@zc6346 Well the thing is that when it’s not your body you can’t dictate if the woman should or shouldn’t have an abortion. If the man didn’t want the responsibility he shouldn’t have had unprotected sex. But he has no right to demand a woman to have an abortion after he gets her pregnant, just because he doesn’t want the responsibility. She also has a choice in the matter..! A man who doesn’t want children has a choice to get a vasectomy or to use protection.

  • @Poptart1598
    @Poptart1598 4 месяца назад +3

    That beautiful “stranger,” Emily, what an angel. Hope her and the victims are healing and happy.

  • @paranoid_android33
    @paranoid_android33 3 месяца назад +7

    As terrible as this story is, I can only think about the wonderful continuation. Nicole & Donovan are a beautiful couple! I’m so happy she survived! I’m happy they were able to have a baby. I’m happy that they get to live happily with their kids & I’m happy that someone was there to aid in her survival.

  • @achtungbaby1906
    @achtungbaby1906 7 месяцев назад +54

    I will never understand how people think they can live happily ever after. After killing someone 😡

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 5 месяцев назад +1

      No conscience.

    • @ericedudzi6267
      @ericedudzi6267 5 месяцев назад

      😭😭😭😭😭

  • @mattkaustickomments
    @mattkaustickomments 7 месяцев назад +242

    First 30 seconds we all knew who was behind this. Actually, I knew even before that. And the rest of the story has happened over and over. Ladies, believe in yourselves, don’t fall for flash, don’t stay with abusers.

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl 7 месяцев назад +34

      And use birth control. Double up if you have to 😂

    • @klgm63
      @klgm63 7 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@nbaoldgirlvery wise ❤

    • @CGMiamiMoods002
      @CGMiamiMoods002 7 месяцев назад +9

      They can’t stay away from bad men she even had a baby with him I mean come on… meaning she wants him to be in her life forever and he will, he is in prison not dead

    • @DixonDixon65
      @DixonDixon65 7 месяцев назад +7

      There no such thing as a Master...its all EGO and insecurities!

    • @lindabrennan4455
      @lindabrennan4455 7 месяцев назад +12

      ​@@DixonDixon65 It will be a cold day in hell before I call anybody Master. That's just creepy to me.

  • @kellykelly6101
    @kellykelly6101 2 месяца назад +3

    Emily, you are a beautiful and kind soul!! Thank you for stopping to help Nicole 🙏🏼 God bless your heart

  • @Jessica-rp6ko
    @Jessica-rp6ko 4 месяца назад +3

    Omg how am I just now hearing about this? April 20th is my birthday and on this day I had an indoor picnic with my friend in a NE Airbnb only 2 miles away… I’m so glad Nicki’s okay. The lady that stopped to help is a true testament of Minnesotans! We rally for each other! God bless Nicki and all who helped!

  • @Pinkflamingo138
    @Pinkflamingo138 7 месяцев назад +170

    This story reminds me of how my nieces ex treats her, torments her life, lies to CPS, and drags her to court over their son. I wish there was a way to prove mental manipulation and verbal abuse enough to make the abusive parent unable to have partial custody and stop the ability to cause such destruction. Not only does the abusive parent disrupt the lives of everyone in their path, it can mentally damage the child that is used as the pawn.

    • @emoliver80
      @emoliver80 7 месяцев назад +19

      My daughters dad did the same to me (his family also partipated) when my daughter was a baby, toddler, and til she was about 10 when he finally stopped. He hasnt even seen her in person since she was 3 except for when i changed her last name to mine and we had to go to court for it. I had a stalking civil protection order before she was born but he always violated it and never did more than a few hrs in county jail. Shes 19 now and a freshman in college and hes not been a part of her life. Luckily hes never had any visitation with her and he personally never tried bc hes been an addict for 23 yrs and never tried to get clean either. His parents tried for visitation, but Ohio doesnt have grandparent rights, and bc he lived with them and was actively using anyway, the magistrate didnt grant it. Thank goodness bc its a family of crazies who hate me and theres no telling how different her life would've been .... and not for the better.

    • @annewahl6421
      @annewahl6421 7 месяцев назад +12

      Unfortunately, I’m going through this… My husband is manipulating my children. I feel like my life is a nightmare. It’s really hard.

    • @MoogieB
      @MoogieB 7 месяцев назад +17

      Suggestions: hidden cameras, recording devices, gather evidence for as long as needed, get professional help from abuse counselor with coping, be proactive & never be a victim. Easier said than done but it’s something to try.

    • @Findpepperbridge
      @Findpepperbridge 7 месяцев назад +6

      Tell your niece to watch her back. He might do something just like this guy did

    • @mikehunt6160
      @mikehunt6160 7 месяцев назад +2

      How dare a father go to court to get to see his kids what a evil monster lol

  • @TentinQuarantino_
    @TentinQuarantino_ 7 месяцев назад +138

    Emilie is an amazing human, I hope she lives the beautiful life she deserves.

    • @bestm333
      @bestm333 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yes she did what any decent kind person would & should do....Common decency & she put herself in Nicky's shoes...Its exactly what humans should do for each other...Treat others how you wish to be treated💚💟💛

  • @cachinnation448
    @cachinnation448 2 месяца назад +3

    This episode was very powerful.

  • @mele9131
    @mele9131 4 месяца назад +2

    After watching a couple of these, the character assessment seem so similar. Smart, outgoing, great person all around.

  • @angelamccrackin5243
    @angelamccrackin5243 7 месяцев назад +32

    I can remember when I was in my 40s I would curled up on the sofa with a blanket watching 48 hours with Erin Moriarty. Her voice is so soothing so informative. She pauses at just the right times and you are 100 percent sure you are going to hear something interesting. So now I still get that same excitement and it automatically transports me to excitement. Thanks erin....

  • @marcheno7431
    @marcheno7431 7 месяцев назад +58

    Love how Erin hosts this show because of how she interviews… you’ll hardly hear her ask obvious leading questions and I like that very much. I also like her calm and poised demeanor and her point of view. Kudos Erin! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @EmilyShae-ik2cb
    @EmilyShae-ik2cb 6 месяцев назад +15

    I can honestly say I felt like vomiting watching this. My ex a pti sergeant in the marine core was so similar. So thankful it never got further than strangulation that I obviously survived. This lady is one of my hero’s - not only is she in a field I would aspire to, but she is a fighter and survivor. I wish I could tell her how much I admire her. May she live the rest of her life happily and peacefully. You’re a brave, graceful, intelligent woman, a total inspiration to me. I will never forget this.X

    • @EmilyShae-ik2cb
      @EmilyShae-ik2cb 6 месяцев назад +3

      And may I add I was so touched by the lady that came to her aid. What a wonderful caring lady. Cudos ❤

    • @alainabilow
      @alainabilow 3 месяца назад +2

    • @somanyfeelz
      @somanyfeelz Месяц назад +1

      I'm really glad you're ok, YOU are very brave!

    • @EmilyShae-ik2cb
      @EmilyShae-ik2cb Месяц назад

      @@somanyfeelz Thank you that’s kind of you to say xx

  • @lisoliveira
    @lisoliveira 7 месяцев назад +7

    I would be thinking about 18 years form now... I'd be terrified after his release.

    • @lisoliveira
      @lisoliveira 7 месяцев назад +4

      I'd change my name and move far away!

  • @CaryPalmerr
    @CaryPalmerr 7 месяцев назад +68

    So much love to the stranger who made all the difference in this story! People like her give me hope for humanity, especially when people like him are around.

  • @missrayelyn3045
    @missrayelyn3045 7 месяцев назад +64

    He is a monster. He couldn't stand that she moved on and was happy. I'm so glad she ia alive and has a wonderful future ahead, despite what these two tried to do. I do think he should've gotten a harsher sentence though.

  • @aquamanGR
    @aquamanGR Месяц назад +3

    Lemme get this straight, the guy got 18 years but the person who actually pulled the trigger got a lighter sentence?!?

  • @MelissaSue1998
    @MelissaSue1998 6 месяцев назад +6

    I’m so sorry ❤ for what this family has gone through so so scary…but her hair is absolutely gorgeous ❤

  • @scottanonymous798
    @scottanonymous798 7 месяцев назад +67

    Tim is your typical run of the mill narcissist with grandiose sense of self, in reality he is sad controlling abusive person who will always destroy lives as his ego cannot handle being slighted by anything ever, prison is where he belongs hope he suffers there for years

    • @richardcranium3579
      @richardcranium3579 7 месяцев назад

      Women chase that type like catnip….I’ll never understand it

  • @justme8837
    @justme8837 7 месяцев назад +76

    I would have never told him I was pregnant. I would have walked away and left it at that, why have a man like him be in a childs life anyway.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 7 месяцев назад +1

      That's silly. He should know! He's partly responsibility for the care of the child!!!

    • @JayTheDodo
      @JayTheDodo 7 месяцев назад +1

      This shows how a lot of women really think about a father's right, they really believe they don't have any unless they say so.

    • @tonmarinaxxzz
      @tonmarinaxxzz 7 месяцев назад

      I believe that she wanted him to marry her because she was pregnant. The oldest trick in town. Hard to believe because he was abusive. Women seem to think the guy esteems fatherhood as much as they might want to be mothers. Just look at the animal kingdom. Very FEW SPECIES have the sires stay around to help in child rearing. Humans make the mistake believing AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY AFTER AFTER.

    • @SuperNCCC
      @SuperNCCC 4 месяца назад

      ​@@JayTheDodo yes because most men automatically assume that the woman tricked him because she wanted child support, even though they choose to have unprotected sex. I will never tell a man I'm not married to about a child he fathered because I will rather raise the child alone and deal with the consequences of being a single mother than deal with the narcissist mentality that most men have. When the child is an adult, if they want to know who their sperm donor is i will tell them, but at that point they are the ones that has to deal with the father.

    • @emmalouise7884
      @emmalouise7884 3 месяца назад +1

      If you know your baby's father is violent, dangerous In any way then yes but if there is no issue with the child's safety or your safety then all children desreve to know both parents and all parents should support and love their children no matter what but sadly that does not happen every time.

  • @aprilpinketon2567
    @aprilpinketon2567 7 месяцев назад +7

    The ppl who stopped to help her are really true and good ppl! All of us could only hope that we would have ppl like them around us during a tragedy,

  • @andrewwolf4963
    @andrewwolf4963 7 месяцев назад +4

    When I got shot, I had a collapsed lung, two holes in my liver, a broken rib and a bullet lodged 2mm from my spine. I drove myself to McDonald’s and got a drink because I couldn’t breathe, and my mouth was dry. Then switched seats with the girl I was with and took off my jacket and shirt and found the bullet hole in my back. I was in shock and didn’t know if I’d even been shot. She then drove us to the hospital and I walked in. lol they thought I was lying and I began crying and they lifted my shirt and started yelling lol they flew me shock trauma to the ICU. I woke up with a paralyzed leg and luckily once information went down I was fine.
    (I got shot by a guy I didn’t even know because he was paranoid on coke)

  • @LAVirgo67
    @LAVirgo67 7 месяцев назад +56

    It's sad how a child was weaponized to control & torment Nicki. He didn't want the child. Sadly, abusers will get a woman pregnant to control them & make them dependent. Luckily, Nicki was self-sufficient & could take care of herself & her son when they left him. This made things worst, especially once she started dating. This is typical abuser behavior.

    • @cockoffgewgle4993
      @cockoffgewgle4993 7 месяцев назад

      Actually read your first two sentences.
      He didn't want the child. She had the child. She forced him into slavery for 18 years. But HE was the one weaponising the child? Christ.

  • @tammyhollandsworth6783
    @tammyhollandsworth6783 7 месяцев назад +58

    I had heard about paramedics making a patient walk to the stretcher while having trouble breathing. She passed away while being delivered to the hospital. To watch this it was unbelievable. I agree there should be more training on how to handle a patient who is on the verge of death. It was so good to know that this young lady survived.

    • @Annie497
      @Annie497 3 месяца назад

      That is total BS. They NEVER "make" a patient walk when they are unable. Depending upon the actual location and setting, if a patient can move on their own, it's faster to get them loaded into the back. They wanted to get her inside and out of this place as no one knew where or who the attacker was. What a gossip you are!

  • @guitarjunky24
    @guitarjunky24 6 месяцев назад +4

    This is exactly why it's so important to vary your routine. People are creatures of habit. Always have situational awareness and change your timeframes as much as possible.

    • @owenlyons76
      @owenlyons76 26 дней назад

      She had to be there bc of the custody agreement. So no way to change her routine

  • @amyrivers4093
    @amyrivers4093 Месяц назад +1

    What an incredible person Nicole is. The lady who stopped to help especially making sure that Nicole knew that whatever was going to happen to she wasn't alone. That is something that I would appreciate in circumstances like that or more than likely it would be me being the person to help especially in a medical situation because being in and out of hospital since I was a little girl my parents told me I'd always go around helping the other patients when I should have been resting. That hasn't changed since I'm an adult but I seem drawn to people in my community needing help as well. You gain an awful lot of knowledge having many illnesses, procedures and surgeries. We all need to put our phones away and notice those around us. It's 12:35am on the 27th of April here in New Zealand so I'm officially 46 and have lived 12 years longer than the two years my lifelong specialists gave me. Sadly it's my 2nd birthday without my Dad and 3rd without my Mum. They are the reason why I stop to help others even though I only get out every 7 to 10 days I like to help others because they helped and looked after me for so long and would always tease me calling me an earth angel and also dad said that I'm his little battler. Sorry I went a bit off topic.

  • @ericvansteenlandt7888
    @ericvansteenlandt7888 7 месяцев назад +219

    If you believe Colleen Larsen acted on her own then there is something wrong with you !!

    • @colleenmahony8803
      @colleenmahony8803 7 месяцев назад +38

      This is the definition of "grooming." He carefully groomed her in that dominant role from the time she was 12. She was living with him almost immediately after turning 18, and still calling him "master" around their home. He absolutely controlled that woman.

    • @theoryofpersonality1420
      @theoryofpersonality1420 7 месяцев назад +2

      @pizzaearthpancakesandother2549 that's a redundant question.

    • @nicolejohnson9244
      @nicolejohnson9244 7 месяцев назад +6

      She did it cause she was jealous. He still wanted her, he was mad he couldn’t have her and she was w/someone else, and she thought if she’s dead; she’s gone.

    • @Deelitee
      @Deelitee 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@colleenmahony8803it’s really really gross actually!! How anyone could of been comfortable with that set up is alarming! Why would any parent continue to send their children to him????

    • @pauladouglas9891
      @pauladouglas9891 7 месяцев назад +5

      So glad she had a happy ending and a strong dependable husband and new baby, finally a video with hope for the future.

  • @tracypolselli1464
    @tracypolselli1464 7 месяцев назад +173

    I hope that young teenage girl gets the help she needs. I’m not excusing what she did to Nicole at all, but what a manipulator Tim is. He’s the one that should be in prison for a very long time.

    • @digby_dooright
      @digby_dooright 7 месяцев назад +18

      I don't get how everyone's saying they can't understand why she did it when we all saw how controlling and manipulative he was.

    • @mayarodriguezsrensen6904
      @mayarodriguezsrensen6904 7 месяцев назад +3

      100% agree.

    • @stephaniek1076
      @stephaniek1076 7 месяцев назад +11

      @@digby_dooright I think it's often difficult for those outside of such a situation to grasp just how strongly coercion, manipulation, grooming and brainwashing can affect a person. Those strategic actions---especially, over time---really do change the brain. I get that it's hard to imagine, and even harder to understand---butvthat doesn't make it an less true, imo!

    • @ivydickson7596
      @ivydickson7596 7 месяцев назад +4

      Coercive control.

    • @ExiledStardust
      @ExiledStardust 7 месяцев назад +9

      She's no less of a murderer than he is. It may have been his idea, but she was happy enough to go along with it, until she got caught.

  • @eatallnowsavenone4later342
    @eatallnowsavenone4later342 2 месяца назад +15

    Once Colleen was introduced in this documentary,you know who the shooter was.

  • @lilgothsouljah6747
    @lilgothsouljah6747 2 месяца назад +3

    If my partner/spouse told me or kept alluding to the fact they wanted my ex dead I would think they are insane. Crazy how someone can be manipulated that easily.

  • @dotbotha5898
    @dotbotha5898 3 месяца назад

    Love your program

  • @highflyer011
    @highflyer011 7 месяцев назад +35

    16 1/2 years because she was a bad shot ? Deserves life without the possibility of parole

    • @lloydchristmas1086
      @lloydchristmas1086 7 месяцев назад +6

      I dont understand sentencing anymore...someone else would get life for that but these two get a slap on the wrist. Makes no sense.

    • @leewilcox5848
      @leewilcox5848 7 месяцев назад

      If she were a "Good Shot" she would have gotten life.

    • @danieldragowski5085
      @danieldragowski5085 7 месяцев назад

      I think it depends on the state but not sure. If this was Texas they would have gotten Life sentence

    • @highflyer011
      @highflyer011 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@danieldragowski5085 which is exactly how it should be in every state!

    • @danieldragowski5085
      @danieldragowski5085 7 месяцев назад

      @@highflyer011 he got lucky she survived. I guess the judge had to give the maximum 18 years for a non fatal attack

  • @cshaffer8258
    @cshaffer8258 7 месяцев назад +39

    My step son from many years ago, fell in love with a girl and at 18 years of age, they proceeded to get married. After they were married, we discovered that she was pregnant. They had a beautiful baby boy and it seemed as if they were very happy. My stepson ended up coming to work with me and after a very short time, he started complaining about his wife. And how much he hated how they were together. Constantly fighting and she was complaining about how much alcohol he was drinking every day. Many times he spoiled about wanting to leave her. This was something that he would talk about almost daily. Then something happened and she ended up locking him out of the house and she filed for divorce. When this happened, I personally saw my stepson become obsessed with the fact that she left him and that he was insulted by this. I cannot begin to tell you how many times the police would come to my home looking for him because of something he did. He would slash her tires, break into her apartment and threaten her and then he actually took his son and attempted to run away with him. It was a sickening obsession about control. He ended up getting arrested and then deported. This case is very similar and all I can say is thank God she lived and was able to get both people behind bars!!! Hopefully she will find people and happiness with her new husband

    • @BalloonSage
      @BalloonSage 7 месяцев назад +12

      Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @Play4keeks
      @Play4keeks 7 месяцев назад +12

      Wow, I'm sorry your family experienced that. Ppl have to understand, these obsessive ppl ruin so many lives. They ruin their own lives, their family members lives, and their victims lives. It's sad you and his ex had to see him lose it like that.

    • @ivydickson7596
      @ivydickson7596 7 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you for holding your stepson accountable. Some people do everything to protect their guilty children.

  • @margwalker6606
    @margwalker6606 7 месяцев назад +4

    Why only 18 years? &
    Coleen 16 years?
    THIS IS CRAZY

  • @TheRenegadeStarr
    @TheRenegadeStarr 3 месяца назад +1

    Bless the bystander who jumped in and got involved. The resiliency Nikki and her showed is amazing.

  • @pupikatz8442
    @pupikatz8442 7 месяцев назад +34

    This lady who saved her in the street is an angel

  • @Play4keeks
    @Play4keeks 7 месяцев назад +107

    If you are ever in a domestic violence situation please leave. Especially, if the person has strangled you. Why? Because you deserve better and because it will save your life.
    Strangulation increases the chances of that partner killing you. It's one of the biggest indicators that determines if a violent partner will lead to your death.
    Edit: As @morselthegod stated when, you leave don't give them any warning. When an abuse victim leaves it's one of the most dangerous times of the relationship. Please be safe, please leave without warning, and please survive. You are worthy of love, compassion, and care.

    • @jeremysmith9694
      @jeremysmith9694 7 месяцев назад +27

      She did leave him. He obviously couldn't leave her.

    • @pokerqAK47
      @pokerqAK47 7 месяцев назад +27

      Leaving doesn’t stop them. Exactly what this episode is about

    • @MartaRC32
      @MartaRC32 7 месяцев назад

      They didn´t say because they can´t prove it, but Tim was probably taking steroids for his muscle and fitness stuff which makes the person have violent tantrums... so scary...

    • @latina305mami
      @latina305mami 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@pokerqAK47exactly

    • @morselsofgold
      @morselsofgold 7 месяцев назад +6

      Agreed about the strangulation. If they strangle you ONCE, time's up. If you stay, they will 100% end your life. After the first strangulation, you need to plot your escape and pack up and leave. Never tell the abuser you're leaving until you've already left and he can't find you.

  • @dreamscoffeewithholly7626
    @dreamscoffeewithholly7626 2 месяца назад

    Im so glad you told him early on. Ive had to tell a child something similar and she is so healthy for knowing it and not being told later on. It also kept her wise and safe ❤❤❤ you are a beautiful family and i wish you so much happiness 😊