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_She just selfishly goes and gets cancer without consulting with the bride, the nerve of some people._
Lol the sarcasm
Guy Incognito I love your username
Homer, we all know it's you. Nice try though.
oh my god.... how can someone be so cruel? this has to be fake?! i feel so bad for the girl who had cancer :(
The utter audacity of this selfish human being, some people make you sick don't they with their narcissistic ways, I mean couldn't she have waited til she mentioned her cancer diagnosis 🤔🤨😉.
"I'll see him at the divorce party" is just about the perfect comeback for all of these.
Am I the only one wants the name of the guy who writes couples relationships into songs? I wanna hire him for my wedding!
Best reply
Love it, will remember that if the occasion comes! 😁
🎵 "And is it over now? Do you know how, to pick up the pieces and go home?" 🎵
Legit..
I'll say it again: your wedding is NOT a photoshoot, and your friends are NOT props!
Well said
Weddings for my lot are about family play fighting that always gets out of hand coz everyone is drunk and just gets out of hand a bit and having fun seeing people you haven’t seen for ages… i think photos are important… but for the memories and the silly things that happen and the little hiccups that are always hilarious in the end. These perfect princess bridezilla types are purely awful… I’ve met many as a florist. I now hate people! 🤯😂🥴🙈
Wedding are about photos
For some 'people', friends and families are properties
@@alextroy9202 Not about. Photos are just part of it.
If anyone is wondering why Reddit was calling the bride racist: apparently bestie isn’t the MOH because she is Cherokee and her dark skin would have been “distracting”
Oh good lord. Yeah she’s definitely even more of a bridezilla. No doubt
😮
That is a racist thing to say I’m white and my mom’s ancestors are from either Navajo or Comanche. I feel for this girl.
Wow 😯
Waitwhat??? How can u b Bestie w someone and not respect them because...whaaaat?? She's not a bridezilla. She's Crack head Bridezilla.
Omg poor mader! When a friend of mine was going to a wedding where like mader one of the bridesmaids got cancer and was under going chemotherapy, the bride and other bridesmaids wore wigs to match hers but the biggest surprise was at the reception when everyone including the bride whipped off their wigs to display their billiard ball heads! They had all shaved their heads both in solidarity with their friend and to raise money for breast cancer care! Now thats friendship !!! This woman is just disgusting !
😍😍
my heart please, im too soft for this😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
@@feliscatus4921 that’s what I was going to say!! I just can’t...it’s too amazing!
you got me teary eyed bro
My mom fought ovarian cancer for 2.5 years before dying from it. I've seen how rough cancer is. Your friend and her bridesmaids did a wonderful thing that everyone will remember. This other self-centered bride is horrible. Oh...it's going to ruin her wedding and photos! Oh no! Meanwhile, her friend has a disease that could take her life and leave in a coffin. It's not even close to being the same thing. I hope Mader beats her cancer, and I hope your friend's bridesmaid beat her breast cancer. I hope cancer is cured one day. And I hope the douchebagette learns to be a human.
“It’s not like you knew her” made my jaw drop. I think that is the most insensitive, heartless comment I have ever read in regards to a woman who has lost her child.
I know it’s not really comparable, but that comment remind me of what my uncle said to me recently about my dad dying when I was 11 after he spent most of my life in a hospital unable to move or speak. He said that I didn’t even know him, so my pain is stupid, basically. I feel for that mother so much, I’m so glad she dropped her “friend.”
I wish I could say this is the first time I've heard such a thing, but absolutely isn't the 1st and I'm confident it won't be the last.
@@emmahayward6333 the world is so damn sad
@@magggmae sometimes it really can be. My daughter died 6yrs ago this month, and if she taught me anything its that we humans are terrible with grief and death. We shy away from it all, sweep it up under the carpet like a dirty secret so when the inevitably of grief comes around (because we'll all suffer it at some point or another), we have no clue what to do or how to cope with our feelings of loss and isolation.
She also taught me most people aren't trying to be cruel, they just still live in their naivety and haven't a clue what they're really saying to the bereaved. Some still think they can help, or fix, because that's how we're wired, to solve the problem. What they don't realise is the only thing you can ever really do is hold their hand and make them feel a little less alone in the world. I'm so sorry your Dad passed so early in life, life is so very unfair sometimes. Sending love x
@@emmahayward6333 I’m so sorry you have lost your daughter, it does good of her memory to remember her. It’s bittersweet, to remember the ones we’ve lost.
Many years ago I was a schedules to be bridesmaid at my childhood friend's wedding. I participated in all the pre wedding activities but 3 days before the wedding day I ended up in the hospital having emergency surgery. As I was laid up in the hospital I missed the wedding. I was not replaced as a bridesmaid. My seat at the head table was left empty and everyone was told what had happened. The bride and groom left the reception early and came to see me in the hospital before they went on their honeymoon. These are true friends. Also, their Matron Of Honor was 8 months pregnant with my godson . 50 years later they are all still my friends.
YES! That's what TRUE friendship is all about!!!
Yes exactly, be a human being!
That is awesome to hear.
It’s funny because this is normal stuff and I would go as far as to say they are good friends lol but seriously..just normal
That’s awesome. I had a friend who’s son is schizophrenic. She was supposed to be at my wedding. Didn’t see her. Called and found out he was missing and she was looking for him. My heart broke for her. I wasn’t upset for me but for her. And it was on my mind until he was located. I can’t understand these ppl’s mentality.
As someone whose lost my baby during pregnancy, I've had the words of "you didn't know him yet it's better this way" I lost him at 17 weeks. I once tore someone a new one. I could feel him moving, I saw his picture, he had a name already. Screw those types of people
I'm so sorry for your loss and for the cruelty of ignorant fools. *hugs*
Very sorry for your loss. People need to grow up and have some compassion and empathy. I've never had children/been pregnant so I couldn't even fathom the pain your going through. I hope you find peace. Please take care of yourself 🙏⭐️❤️
I think they mean it as a "better than the alternative" kinda way, as a way of comforting you in a it could be worse thingy. They probably just didn't know better and just said stupid shit without considering how fucked up that is to say, it comes off as hurtfull and is by all means a hurtfull thing to say, but I don't think they say it in order to be mean, they just stupid.
Like "well he could have died after growing up and it would be much worse than if he died before you got to know him, so at least it's better than the former."
But yes, I agree with you. They need to learn when to shut the fuck up, so a much needed lesson is in order that involves tearing them a new one.
So sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how that would feel. And I would punch all of those people for you if I could.
So sorry to hear of this! Can’t Imagine what you’ve been thru. 💕💕💕
I love how all these brides are like "The day is about me!" Not my husband to be, not the merging of two families, no a marriage, but "ME".
Ikr..there should be screening tests for weddings..like u are eligible to get married as you are matured enough..otherwise we'll end up with superficial bitches like these bridezillas
I guarantee you, divorce lawyers are around the corner and lurking to get more fat checks from these people 😆
Some mistake their childhood fantasy of being the center of attention as a bride at a gorgeous wedding, with seeing it for what it is. Like, it's not this holy event (thus above any mortal on the guest lists) where the guests will have to make a sacrifice to show their loyalty to you and your new groom. An event to magically grant you access to exploiting people's generosity and good faith. That's called burning bridges on your way towards a new life. 😂
FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT
It's the sweet sweet propaganda.
Thats actually weirdly really prevalent in modern russian culture as well. Woman by definition should want a wedding for herself and to get kids for herself. Just get whatever guy willing for your wedding and to pump out some babies since you'll likely get divorced anyway but wedding and babies are mandatory.
My boss tried to get me a husband like that. He's an old grumpy man with consercative wolrdview "Just marry him and get some kids for yourself while you're young" Like maam kids is the last thing I want and using a man to make some is second to last.
The woman who got diagnosed with cancer and responded with texts of comedic gold is an absolute legend and my hero. Someone get that woman a sitcom!!!!
She seems likes an awesome friend. The bridezilla didn't deserve her. X
Omg her wittiness and self-irony is real! Bridezilla doesnt deserve even one of her hair
You always learn in tough times who you're real friends and family are.
@@johniii8147 cancer really weeds out the scummy people from your life, believe me.
YES!!!
As a cancer survivor myself, I could definitely not have taken such a playful tone. I think I would have simply said "I'm happy not to attend your wedding, but I'd love to attend your funeral"
love it lol
I'm glad you're on the other side. I hope you're doing well!
😂
Glad you are survivor. I can't imagine magine what you went through. My dad died of cancer December 5th of 2018.
But, that is a phenomenal comeback. You keep going, Girl.
That's a pretty awesomely snappy response, ngl. Congrats on beating it!
"We make a day of you walking barefoot across an endless sea of legos" lmao. Pure gold!
I wish you the best of health, Mader. The world needs more people like you.
I found out I was pregnant right after I was asked to be in a friend's wedding. 9 months later, I stood there, 2 days past my due date, with a chair at the ready, next to my friend as she got married. Did I get a lot of attention? Oh yes I did - I was about to have a baby! In fact right at the beginning of the ceremony she jokingly patted my baby belly when the officiant welcomed everyone, even those not yet ready to meet the world. Did this mean my friend was ignored? Certainly not, she just got married!!
Real friends celebrate each other, mourn with each other, support each other, and lift up each other when life gets scary and hard. If your friend isn't doing that, that's not a friend.
Just curious, but how soon after did you have your baby?
Awww❤️❤️❤️
As a mother myself i would feel more than blessed to have a friend of mine attending my wedding while being pregnant 🥺 i would make sure she had her best time just like me, a wedding would be nothing without the guests/maids !
Exactly.
Honestly, I don't think either one of these women are going to have a marriage that lasts very long if their husbands are good people at all, and they see what kind of people they've married, it won't last.
That last one was so shocking I can’t believe people are like that. “It’s not like you knew her, get over it” how DARE somebody say that to a person who’s lost their baby.
@Pretty GAY shitttttt
My friend's recently miscarried 5 months into her pregnancy. The strength she's shown to get through it astounds me, I literally cannot imagine anyone ever saying that to someone who's gone through that.
@Pretty GAY God I'm so sorry. NOBODY deserves that. God Himself wouldn't will that. We have imperfect bodies, unfortunately, and for whatever reason they just fail sometimes. That's just...I have no words. I wonder if our babies know each other...my first one didn't make it either. She would have been 3 this year.
"it's not like you knew her" really is the most fucked up thing. This woman has never been pregnant on top of being a fucking horrible person. Creating and carrying someone INSIDE YOU. Like. That's knowing them. That's the most intimate shit in the world. There's a reason why wanted pregnancy loss is so fucking profound for the person who was pregnant, beyond hormones. Like. This person was the only one to really know their baby at all.
@Pretty GAY okay damn like im all supportive like YESSS QUEEN but DAMNNNNN
Just a thought- if a bride is straight up demanding set 'donations' from all attendees, then you should forward it to the local tax authorities. She's effectively charging a non-negotiable entrance fee.
Do you mean she should declare the "donations" for tax? I like that idea.
All wedding photography (front and side profile only) provided by the local Sheriff's Department.
I like the way your mind works!🥰
Yeah, in my country the wedding presents are exclusively envelopes of cash, following a tradition that got started as giving the newlyweds a head start in life, back in the day, when people married for love and started their marriage with basically nothing material... so the attendees would gift them with livestock, money, house appliances, you know.. kinda like the dowry but extra... now it's just lots of cash and they don't even put up the effort of making the guests feel welcome at their party... it feels a lot like paying them to get married and then help them live off of that for a while (because most of the couples I know, married or not, live together and are pretty well established) or basically sponsor their next bullshit expense.. and the kicker? They only give you a half assed "thank you for sharing our special day with us" when you decide you had enough of the "specialness" and just want to go home and count your losses. Although I am pretty sure that they started to put a tax on that recently, they still get away with a lot, because even if they live abroad they manage to gather a crowd of fools and convince them to come to their weddings here.
My man, how right you are!
Ive been bridesmaid once and it was for one of the four girls I was closest with in high school and my early twenties. She was such a sweetheart. She paid for pretty much the whole bridesmaid experience. When I slept in on the morning of the wedding and missed my hair and make appt owing to working a horrendously busy night shift the evening before, she called my mum who along with one of my other friends who was a bridesmaid drove to my flat with a Maccies breakfast, a strong cup of tea, drove us to the salon and made it just in time to get done. Instead of getting mad at me, she said “I’m just glad you’re here” and gave me a huge hug. 15 years on we aren’t that close anymore but her marriage is still going strong and she’s got the quintessential house, husband, two kids and a dog life that she always wanted and she thoroughly deserves it ❤ At the wedding her new husband even got us all up individually during his speech to thank us for being so supportive of “me and my lovely wife” and gifted us each with a beautiful mother of Pearl compact mirror engraved with “Bridesmaid” on it. I know I’m almost a year late to this video and my comment doesn’t really have a point but I won’t be marrying myself and most likely will not be a bridesmaid again and watching this and reading some of the comments here, it just occurred to me how lucky I am to have had a good bride/bridesmaid experience and I wanted to share. 😊
that is absolutely beautifull!!
i'm so glad you shared this.
Well, your story brightened my day ❤ I love that you had that experience and now have that memory
If I was the woman who had a stillbirth, I’d post that text exchange, tag the bride, and say “here’s the announcement you wanted!”
YES
Oh my god, YES! This would have been fucking GOLD!!!
Excellent karma lol
The fact that we have screen shots means she might have done so! I sure hope she did and exposed that awful person
@@theKRB93 I think she did and he divorced her
When the last girl wrote “she was my baby, how fking dare you” that truly broke my heart 💔
Not there yet & feel like I'm already gunna cry judging from the comments...
The fact that she said "You idn't even know her!" She better be glad they were face to face because I bet she would have effed her up. I know I would have
That bride is truly a pos. I can envision someone so selfish and insensitive not lasting long in her marriage.
And if she knew the sex, then the pregnancy was advanced enough. Two months is definitely not enough to handle such a loss. Heck, who decides how long you can mourn a loved one ?
I have three little kids, but I also dealt with infertility and a miscarriage. My heart goes out to that poor lady (the one who lost her baby, not the bridezilla). I hope she is able to heal peacefully from it.
Maybe bridezilla should have started saving for her OWN HONEYMOON since she was a little girl. Then she wouldn’t have to extort her “friends”.
You would be crazy to participate With someone trying to get money for their honeymoon except maybe if they are your parents. If you can’t afford a honeymoon that’s your problem not your friends problem welcome to the real world
@@johniii8147 it’s so outrageous, I can hardly believe this. “Destination” showers, weddings, asking for money to attend a wedding! It’s extortion. These aren’t weddings, it’s a shakedown. Ten minutes after it’s over, bridezilla and whatever rube she snagged will start planning their divorce.
@@moe9246 Agreed it’s crazy. Unless you’re well-off you shouldn’t be wasting a lot of money on a wedding anyway trust me you’re gonna need it down the road
And she wants 500$ from each... 😳
@@iamkingsdaughtermusic I would’ve mailed her a card with a dollar bill in it
As a man i would literally cancel the wedding and relationship myself if my wife acted like this. Disgusting people
The last one really pissed me off because one of my bridesmaids had a miscarriage the week before my wedding so I postponed the entire wedding so she could heal mentally and physically. I just don't see how someone can be so mean like that.
You are such a lovely friend. X
This brought back a long-ago memory when a friend was asked to be a June bridesmaid in Oklahoma for her college BF.
Being from another state, she never questioned the bride’s choice for the gowns. Velvet. High choker-style necks. Long sleeves.
The church had no air conditioning. The minister liked the sound of his own voice (and saw pews full of strangers he could convert).
I asked if the bride had a similar gown. It was velvet, but sleeveless and low neck, so I asked if Bride was homely and wanted red faced, sweaty, covered-up bridesmaids to make her look better. Surprised friend said “That makes sense now!” We had a good laugh.
You're the gold standard💓
Pisses me off when brides want to be the most important person because the groom/other person is EQUALLY important on the wedding day.
For. fucking. real. And then to presume 2 months is long enough to "be over it"??? I hope no one went to her wedding.
“Could you like tell the cancer to wait till AFTER the wedding to take your hair?... that would be greaaaatt theeeeenks “ - Bridezilla Of The Century
It was more like: can you just wait to get cancer after my wedding?
🤣🤣🤣
“Theeeeenks” 😂😂😂
I don’t think you can control that
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i know! What a selfish cow 🤦🏻♀️
If your bridesmaids are just pretty “accessories” you’re not ready to be married.
Or have any relationship with people. Because relationships require emotional bonding and such people cannot connect.
💯 yes, love both of or your responses.
....that has nothing to do with being married tho.
@@Splexsychiick - has _everything_ about being married.
You think you stand up in front of everyone and recite vows and that's it?
Try living with a person who thinks only of themselves - narcissists.
Friendship/marriage/ANY relations ship is about both parties.
Wanted to see/ hear from the groom to be ...as a psych nurse,.....
The miscarriage one broke my heart. The cancer one was bad enough but come on. She lost a life she'd been wanting for a long time. You CANNOT demean it like that
exactly! i'm a guy, never been a father, and i couldnt even begin to imagine how much pain there is for someone who went through a miscarriage. seriously, not only telling her to "get over it", acting like it's something to quickly get past, then has the AUDACITY to tell her that she should announce something so painful and personal all over social media....completely selfish. i would never so much as entertain the thought of asking my woman to post about something so painful out there for the public if she didnt want to. i hope the groom left that Bridezilla.
Let me be honest : the stories about the friend with cancer and the friend that lost her baby... Omg... Just heartless
Both of them are almost definitely actual psychopaths. No empathy whatsoever
Yes! Very very heartbreaking.
Like if the bride in the friend who had cancer really wanted her to be there this wouldn’t be an issue she such a rude person
Definitely not people you need in your life
I cannot imagine being so cold and disgustingly heartless as to ignore the pain of losing a child because you want all attention on you. Like seriously, it's your wedding. People ARE going to focus on you.
She acts like the officiant will say, *"Does anyone know just cause why this man and woman should NOT be joined together in holy matrimony?"* and her former friend will say, *"Well, since you brought it up, I lost my daughter and..."*
The one telling her friend with cancer she's basically not pretty enough to be a bridesmaid broke my heart
Women like this are the reason there is a high divorce rate. If I was one of the bridesmaids I would have gone through all the motions right until the wedding day and then never show up and I would urge the other bridesmaids to do the same. So on her "special" day, the bride would have been standing there with no bridesmaids like an asshole.
wasnt there a wedding where the bride and bridesmaids shaved their heads cause moh had cancer?
@@LadyMinNYC I don't know, my "mom" Was married 5 times and she always pretends to be nice. I think personally the high divorce rate has something to do with people having this idea that marriage is just something we are supposed to do. I've been married for 20 years. It's definitely for some folks but not for others. I think the legal marriage age should be 30😂 that way you get to a good place in your life and maturity and you can find someone that vibes with you vs just someone to fill in the blank🤷♀️ sorry by you I mean people in general, not you personally. 😅 just because of the topic of divorce I sort of gave sone experience seeing people gonthru it😂✌
Douche baggette was great in the reply. I'm gonna have to remember that one.
My sister died from cancer and she always had long dark beautiful hair and lost all it but to me she never looked more beautiful!!
"It's been two months. How much time do you really need?"
A lifetime.
NO mother gets over losing her child, ever; no matter the age of the child (adult even).
My mom still cries about her miscarriage whenever it’s brought up. It’s been over 20 years; you don’t get over that shit. Losing a child is one of the worst things that can happen to someone.
Yup that’s true. Lost my only child 20 years ago and still miss him now. I just cannot imagine that someone is so selfish like that.
@@lauraj.sawyer9171 I had a still birth 43 years ago and another still birth 42 years ago and I still think about them every day, it never leaves you!
@@lauramclaughlin8268 Oh my goodness how right you are.
The last story is vile. Every woman I've ever known who got pregnant was so excited for the baby and was aware of every tiny change and movement inside her. All the planning that goes with a new baby, all the excitement of finding out what they were having, only to lose it and have to say goodbye before even saying hello. Then to have someone say something so trite and unfeeling while you are still processing the loss? Hell no!! My mom lost 2 babies before I was born, and to the day she died she still remembered them. She would sometimes say things like "It would have been your brothers birthday today" then go off for a little cry. No matter how many healthy kids you have later, you never forget or stop grieving the ones you lost.
exactly! i'm a guy, never been a father, and i couldnt even begin to imagine how much pain there is for someone who went through a miscarriage. seriously, not only telling her to "get over it", acting like it's something to quickly get past, then has the AUDACITY to tell her that she should announce something so painful and personal all over social media....completely selfish. i would never so much as entertain the thought of asking my woman to post about something so painful out there for the public if she didnt want to. i hope the groom left that Bridezilla.
I had 3 known losses..you never forget.
I feel like most of these people want a wedding NOT a marriage
Yes. If they can’t be a decent/considerate human to others how are they going to make it in a life long commitment to another person. It takes so much patience, sacrifice, and love. Like no, these people should have not been getting married lol
Yeah, exactly !
Yes they just marry for the sake of appearances and for bragging rights. They usually don't last long being married.
iḿ only half joking when i say this: i think the men have been chosen for their "aestethic" as well
@@vaderladyl Then they can have ANOTHER wedding and MORE bragging rights!
I can't believe people are really like this, what the hell is wrong with this world?
The one with Mader, with cancer, I would freaking jump on the chance to have her in my wedding! My thinking would be if she didn't make it through I have these pictures.. If she did make it through we have these pictures to say look at you girl!!! I mean Omgosh! That one broke my heart..
@@Swnsasy yes i have to agree with you there, that one was truly heartbreaking
covid…
A lot
Many people are like this and many are worse. That's why I've been a misanthrope since I was 5yo.
I love how she says "I didn't expect you to get cancer" like, girl, if it caught you by surprise imagine how Mader felt when she found out she had cancer.
I doubt she was just sitting around waiting for it.
When she read the the cancer story, I originally thought, that’s the worst thing someone can do. I was happy that the girl she was talking to sent it to Mader. That’s a true friend. I loved Mader response especially the Lego’s comment 😂. However once Charlotte read the miscarriage story, I was thinking I stand corrected. I couldn’t even say that to my worst enemy much less a friend. In the comments, someone said the groom dumped the bride who made the miscarriage comment after finding out about it. Apparently it was his cousin who had the miscarriage 😮!Even if it wasn’t his cousin, that would be a smart move because it shows how she lacks empathy, self centered and heartless and that’s a disaster awaiting.The sad thing is ppl have probably done way worst 😢
So good to know the groom got out lol horrible woman..
“Douche baguette” and “soggy pop tart” are about to pretty common in my vocabulary lol I love it.
Can’t believe some of these women. Especially the bald and baby stories! 😩
I’m for sure stealing those fair and square
That with the baby story has even more to it. The good thing is that the groom dumped her a**.
"Ur being really selfish" says the person whos trying to kick out her friend just because she wants the attention all to herself and not on the poor woman who lost her child
"It's not like you knew her"?! that's just straight up messed up, even as a teen I understand how horrible it is to have a miscarriage.
Do these women even have a soul or what
Probably these women are narcissists.
Right and what aggravated me is the bride acted like her friend was going to walk into her wedding advertising her miscarriage. Like if that was me, I wouldn’t say anything and I wouldn’t want people coming up to me about it most likely, so that poor woman had no intentions of “stealing” the spotlight with her unfortunate news.
@@kameryn2918 right?! My old coworker left because she was pregnant (we’re educators so once pregnant we have to take leave). She came back a couple months later because she had a miscarriage and she had the director send an email to the parents before to inform them and request they not mention it. I think that’s how most women are.
Sad for that woman but glad she found out and can ditch the b****
@@Mama_Bear524 exactly and I certainly wouldn’t advertise my miscarriage at my friend’s wedding of all places. I’m glad she dumped that witch too 😂
I had a seizure at my sister's wedding. The worst one in my life. Didn't upset my sister (well I mean, she was scared but) it didn't ruin her day. She loves the pics from the day even tho the pics show my eyes were glossy and I was not right. Whenever I bring it up she shuts me down. I made her day amazing, that's all.
"It's not like you knew her."
My mouth literally dropped at that line. That child was in their body and, depending on how far along they were, they felt every movement they made inside them. They spend time thinking about names, clothes, the baby room, buying toys and necessities, putting up a crib; a whole life was planned out they were looking forward to. And that future is suddenly just GONE. Their child is suddenly gone. Tell someone to just "get over" that.
I've never been a parent, and that line was like a sucker punch to the gut. I consider it a miracle that woman ever made friends to begin with.
A friend of mine had a blighted ovum- the embryo never got far enough for a heartbeat, as far as they know. Medical exams left her emotionally drained, to the point where when the placenta et al finally started to jump ship, she thought she was going to bleed to death and was actually at peace with that because of how bad she felt.
Don't ever "just a miscarriage".
People can say shit like that, it's legal.
But they can't expect it to end well for them.
That's the kind of shit that deserves a good beating, or at least to be kicked out of the friendship.
mine too. the wind practically left my chest. i've never wanted to physically harm someone this bad. i really hope they never have kids
@Terri Mansfield right. fortunately my first try was how i got my son. and every mother deserves to feel the life within them bloom. and fathers too but that's different. to say that to someone period much less of the same gender makes me laugh w rage.
Oh, I pity the woman who said such horrid things to that poor mom. I can't imagine losing a baby, that poor mom. I wanna give her and the cancer patient hugs and a good meal. I do applaud both women for sticking up for themselves, nicely done. The bridezillas of both stories better hope that they never experiences such pain.
My mother-in-law tried to talk my husband into not telling anyone that we’d gotten married. She said that she was worried about the news stealing from his sister’s thunder, since she was getting married too… 6 months later. She wanted us to keep our marriage a secret for half a year, to keep the spotlight on his sister’s wedding. Half a year.
So obviously, I told everyone about my marriage ASAP.
Edit: WOW! I didn’t expect that many responses. It wasn’t even the worst thing she did lol.
OMG, you awesome human being!
Right on🤙
Yes sister 👏🏼
Suddenly I'm glad my mother doesn't give a flying sh*t if me or my sister ever get married (well except for the prenup contract)
Your Monster in law is out of her mind😑
“It’s been 2 months. How much time do you really need?” That infuriated me in ways I can’t even express. Her daughter freaking died. That is awful in ways most people can’t imagine. Doesn’t matter if she died before or after she was born. That was still her daughter who died. You don’t ever try to make someone talk about something like that. Nor do you have the right to tell them to get over it.
2 mos is nothing when it comes to such a loss. I lost my only pregnancy at 3 mos and I nearly cried anytime I saw a pregnant woman or baby for a year. I cannot imagine having such an insensitive friend at such a time. I luckily didn't have such a horrid friend but someone who ran to my side to help me grieve. Then she was there to help my husband and I go through the adoption process. We adopted a 2 yr old boy through DCFS and he just turned 8 yrs old.
@@azshadow32 I'm sorry that happened to you, but I'm glad that you have a son now
I mean, she really didn't know it though. I could understand if it was already born, but it was a non sentient fetus who never made a peep and she never saw its face. I really don't understand the tears, a miscarriage is a blessing.
@@dontmindme9046 your trollin right
@@dontmindme9046 that’s not the case for everyone. To many women a miscarriage is devastating. You get used to, or even fall in love with the idea that you’re expecting. So you start making plans. Get excited about having a baby. Envision a whole future. And when you miscarry, you grieve. Grieve for the life inside you that died, grieve for all that will never happen, and grieve for yourself because you lost something precious to you. She could have wanted that pregnancy and when her baby died, it devastated her. And it’s really insensitive to tell someone how they should feel about it.
That one made me cry. What kind of monster says “it’s not like you knew her” to a woman who will now never have the chance to know her baby? It’s so evil. Any man who marries this creature is a fool.
The groom dumped her before the wedding, there was link somewhere in the comments. Well deserved!
She is evil🚮 she made me so upset and angry.
So true... I lost 2 Daughter's to stillbirth. My first born at 23 weeks in 2002 from a placenta arrupton. Than my youngest in 2018 during Labor at 39.5 week's.
I've also been told this, that I didn't know her, I should be over it and so much more. It's truly sad because even though we didn't have a chance to get to know them on a physical level, we felt there every kick, we felt their hiccups, we gave birth to them, we were waiting their arrival and We were their Mother.
She is an awful person. Not only that by what she said, her also wanting to push her to announce her loss on social media, when she obviously wasn't comfortable doing so.
I pray she never has to experience that pain. It's a pain I wish on no one.
I am in a stillbirth support group online. Weekly we see post like these.
I just can't understand how some people's brain work. How can these people be so selfish to say such awful things, to someone who Is already in state of grief, as it is. Huh
Because you can't "know" someone who doesn't exist. I wish people would stop projecting personalities and stuff onto their fetuses -- it's unhealthy and leads to people thinking that a blob of cells is the same thing as a newborn baby.
@@wmdkitty ugh what a disgusting thing you said. You are as lovely as that bridezilla🤢🤢🤢
Omg. That lady who lost her baby. 🥺 So sorry that she lost her child and her “friend” is a terrible human being. I can’t even fathom someone being vile enough to actually say that to someone they are supposed to be close with.
exactly! i'm a guy, never been a father, and i couldnt even begin to imagine how much pain there is for someone who went through a miscarriage. seriously, not only telling her to "get over it", acting like it's something to quickly get past, then has the AUDACITY to tell her that she should announce something so painful and personal all over social media....completely selfish. i would never so much as entertain the thought of asking my woman to post about something so painful out there for the public if she didnt want to. i hope the groom left that Bridezilla.
It’s kinda shocking that these people have friends and are getting married.
I wish I knew them just so I could say NO WAY I'm not gonna be there....
I feel bad for their impending spouses. I can tell that the rest of their lives will be hell, even if they get divorced. These people will keep coming back like herpes.
@@turtleinashirt totally agree, they're not getting off to a good start!
@@justmynamehere I know someone like these women, she's the Regina George of the group and I purposely remain peripheral because I'm not about that.
I know right?! Like maybe that's wrong with me.....I'm not a bridzilla type and can't even get a date.
The cancer and miscarriage ones broke my heart. Like, what the ever-lovin' heck? Never suffered a miscarriage myself, but I'm pretty sure that there's no "getting over" losing your baby, just the pain becoming less crippling.
I have suffered a miscarriage and you’re completely right, you never ever get over it, you just learn to live with the pain and missed potential memories. You learn to live again but it’s not something you ever forget
I had a miscarriage 11 years ago... You never get over it. And seeing only makes my heart break for the other person. These brides are horrid..
My oldest cousin died when she was 10 months old. It would have been her 40th birthday last year and my aunt was distraught that she couldn't go to the cemetery to visit her because of lockdown. No parent should have to bury their child.
Honestly it’s probably even worse than the miscarriage. I’ve had one before and of course it’s painful but this woman knew it was a daughter so she was probably close to or beyond 20 weeks meaning this was a stillbirth where she had to actually give birth to a dead fully formed baby. I couldn’t imagine.
The fact she said “you didn’t even know your unborn child, why can’t you just get over it” is the most insane argument. I’m so baffled.
“You-child. Throw flowers for me and then leave.”
Right?! 🤣 Such a jerk!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 this made my day
Lol but I can understand not having children at the ceremony. Personally I think they should have a kiddy corner or area. A safe space for children to receive care and allow parents to have fun without the pressure of their children ruining the event with crying and tantrums. Teens/older siblings can be in charge, the family teacher or hire a professional care giver.
@@Splexsychiick so don't have children at the ceremony, at all, let a grown up be a flower girl, what's the problem with that? but demanding the child to be there at some point and then leaving is not okay
Child: What if I throw the flowers AT you instead?
Didn't happen, I'm sure, but I can dream, right?
As someone who has lost my 1st born son at 20+4 pregnant, thats a hurt you NEVER get over. I "never knew" him either. Its been a little over 2yrs now and I still cry thinking about him.. PLUS I had another baby boy in Dec. Yet still not over my 1st born !!!! SO 2 MONTHS !?! Yeah. I would have to throw HANDS WITH HER !!!!! Shows just how dense people can be. Doesn't matter how far along you are, if you're pregnant you know your baby. Even if you never formally met them. You know that baby better than ANYONE. A mother's bond with her baby is so strong. Everything you feel, they feel. So she knew her babygirl. Forsure !!!
exactly! i'm a guy, never been a father, and i couldnt even begin to imagine how much pain there is for someone who went through a miscarriage. seriously, not only telling her to "get over it", acting like it's something to quickly get past, then has the AUDACITY to tell her that she should announce something so painful and personal all over social media....completely selfish. i would never so much as entertain the thought of asking my woman to post about something so painful out there for the public if she didnt want to. i hope the groom left that Bridezilla.
That dude just offered to pimp out the bride's friends for a song. Literally for a song!
I know! So gross.
Well I mean you gotta use what you have on hand 😂
@@turtleinashirt How about no?
Classy guy! 🤮
If I was a groom/ man and I was about get married to any of these "women" and I found out that they said these awful things to their bridesmaids I would break up with them immediately!
Yes!!
You think they are any different from the women they chose to marry?
@@vladaburlakova1529 some dudes are really chill and sweet
Many grooms are either clueless of their brides true hearts or are as shallow as them. Sadly, not many would be smart like you to catch them in the act before the wedding.
@@vaderladyl exactly
I saw the 1st bridezilla online. The reason her best friend isn't the MOH is because she has dark skin and that wouldn't look right. Why she's her best friend is beyond me.
😱
What the fck
WTF 😳
Oh that explains the response saying "she's not racist"
Whoa...suddenly the racist line makes sense. My best friend is a different race than me. I couldn't imagine if I was getting married and was actually going to do a ceremony (my dream wedding is a courthouse since I don't like big ceremonies), I would want her as my MOH. If she agreed to, of course. My aunt is only a few years older than me since she was a late-in-life surprise pregnancy for my grandparents. Her MOH was a different race too. None of us thought anything of it. What is wrong with people? I question if her best friend is actually her best friend because if she's not willing to have her as her maid of honor due to her skin color, how close of friends are they?
Average people, this would never cross our minds. What the heck?
the last one made my jaw drop. it baffles me to think there are actually people like this. how embarrasing that the groom left her too HAHAHA
The weddings I've seen lately where people expect the guests to help cover the costs and then "donate" toward the honeymoon. If you can't afford it have a smaller wedding.
Amen.
Hell ya
Right in the old days people had raffles with door prize or dance prize, usually nothing too expensive at a lot of wedding but now instead of you buying a ticket if you choose to and spending a few dollars possibly win a prize they want you to give hundreds to them from each person it's crazy
In my culture you actually give money not gifts. I mean you should still save up the money yourself. My husband and I did but all the money gifts actually covered the cost of the wedding. It's looked down on to give anything less than $150. The more people in your family that come the more money you give. The catch is you gotta give the same amount back as a gift if the person or one of their children get married.
@@Whoareyoupeople900 I would never go to a wedding where I was required to give a cash gift . Also what happens if you don't have much of a family do you just do what others do and pay for your wedding then or like not have one ?
I don't understand how some people still go to their wedding. Even as a guest, I read "my bridemaids will need to lose weight and everybody give me 500" I'd be ticking the "not attending" so fast and without remorse.
I wouldnt even bother to reply to her
@@ToniaAlex13 She'd be the kind to knock down your door asking for her "well-deserved donation" anyway.
Hope That nobody came to That wedding, I would So LOL, if That happend😂😂😂
And removing their contacts and blocking their number... I’d try to forget i ever knew them!
Y'know I feel like some women just want to have a wedding and nowhere near ready to be in a marriage. Red, red flag.
Kim Kardashian married Chris Humphries some years ago.
The wedding price: $1 Million.
Marriage lasted: 72 days.
I'd want a nice wedding but not expensive.
I'd rather use the money on a honeymoon and use the rest to put into our home.
It's not about an extravagant, expensive wedding. It's about why they're getting married and then trying to work to make it last.
Marriage is hard work and compromise.
It's not 50/50. It's 100/100.
Two people going into a marriage broken think it will make them whole. Nope. It'll just be a broken marriage.
I don't need a man to 'complete' me. Or vice versa.
I don't want an incomplete man.
This maybe the truest thing ever uttered in the RUclips comments
Absolutely right. Thankfully I found me a woman who has been by my side for 13 years (and when I say by my side I mean we not only help each other but outside of her having an occasional lunch with friends or me having a guys nite out, we spend upwards of 22 hours a day together) and we had neither a wedding or even wedding rings. We made a commitment to each other, signed the papers and that was that. We spend nearly 90% of that time laughing and joking together. Last fight we had was in 2008 because I was sleepy and misunderstood what she wanted 😂
I can only imagine how hard life is for the poor people who married these terrible people.
Totally agree, sadly I know from personal experience. Some women seriousely need to sit down and wonder if getting married is so important. Especially if they know they are going to be miserable later on and make the one they married into a shadow of their former self. This obsession with marriage is seriousely a scourge on humanity, it can and does destroy lives. I wouldn't wish this fate on my worst enemy. Everyone in life deserves happiness, love and respect, but marriage isn't the way to get it trust me.. getting married to the wrong person is soul destroying. It ruins lives. Damn this whole institution, its nothing but a trap for unhappy and needy people. Something to get people to conform to what society wants, when in the end you were born alone and all of us will go to our graves alone. Marriage is the worst farce ever created by humanity for both women and men.
@@turtleinashirt I am happy for you:-)
I know when I first lost my hair from chemotherapy it was devastating, I was the kid who at 9 had hair past my knees and got it cut and shaved off to make wigs for kids without hair, and raised almost 2000 dollars for cancer research, then at 12 I ended up on chemotherapy long term for severe autoimmune conditions. I was told at 12 I would lose my hair so my mom said go wild and I dyed it cut it and just had fun but it did not fall out during that period it was not until I went off for not quite a year checking for remission and then back on as flare ups happened at 21, that time when I started in again my hair, eye brows and eye lashes did fall out and it was so hard, felt like losing part of who I was and that everyone could see it there was no where to hide. I had never thought who I was had been tied to my hair or appearance as I was always changing it and doing new things but as soon as it was not my choice it was crushing. I was taken off chemo in May as my health took a serious nose dive and it was doing more damage then good, and a new kind of treatment was started, I finally have a nice head of hair, eyebrows very pale but there and my long eye lashes are back. How any of this relates to weddings is I am my best friends Maid of Honor for her wedding in May, I am super excited but also worried as I find out in January if the new treatment is working well enough or if I need to go back on the chemotherapy. Which if I do would probably mean losing all my hair again. I am pretty sure my best friend would not care as that is just not who she is but watching all of these Bridezilla videos is making me paranoid.
For the first story: If your letter to your bridesmaids was so offensive that you have to sue the person that posted it, because it makes you look like a bad person… maybe you’re a bad person
Yeah if it is true they can’t do anything about it. Does not matter.
I think what they were suing over, was that the girl posted the note on Facebook AND THEN SAID “this person is a racist”. (That last statement was defamatory, if it was untrue)
With that said the person who wrote the letter is the biggest B on planet earth regardless of if they’re racist or not
The lawsuit threat reinforced to me the importance of how parents are, as bridezilla clearly got her narcissism of her mom.
If the boot fits- Woody, Toy Story 2.
That last one made me feel genuinely sick.
I'm 21, my mother had 2 miscarriages before I was born, she still cries when she thinks about it.
21 years later... You can't say "get over it" it doesn't matter if it's been 2 weeks, 2 months, 10 years, or a lifetime. You just don't.
You don't get to judge how people grieve.
My heart goes out to this woman and I'm so glad she found out the true face of her so called "friend"
Fuck her and her shit wedding honestly
That bride was a truly shitty person. If I was the girl who lost the pregnancy, I would cross the street to get away from her if I saw her coming because I'm not sure I'd be able to keep my hands to myself. Nasty witch🤬🤬
Me too. My mama went through a few miscarriages too. Losing a child is something you can NEVER "get over". Oh, and you'll be pleased to know that the groom left the selfish Bridezilla as soon as he found out about the situation.
My mom's first pregnancy was with twins that she lost at 7 months pregnant. That was nearly 38 years ago and she still cries for them on their birthday. You truly never get over it.
Honestly it's those type of people who don't understand that the grieving process isn't just a temporary thing it's something that lasts forever you will always grieve for that person you lost it's just that you learn to cope with the loss and find a way to work through it
Not to mention that two months isn’t long AT ALL. And I certainly wouldn’t be wanting to announce it on social media! Some people really are heartless. The bride should be concerned about how her FRIEND is going to feel at such a public event, not worried about herself.
The cancer patient and the woman who miscarried seriously deserve better friends. You don't get to dictate another person's road to recovery, not path nor speed. The only role you play is asking, "What can I do as your friend to help you?" Chemo takes so much out of you...the fact that she even still decided to participate in the wedding at all is pretty amazing, and grieving a loss takes a lot from you too both emotionally and physically, yet both of these women cared enough for their friends that they were willing to put their own pain on hold, as much as possible, and go be in their friends' weddings. Those bridezillas didn't deserve friends that great from the sounds of it. I'm not saying I wish them ill, but karma amirite?
Beautifully said.
It really made me feel like those brides truly are heartless, worst (well, not actually the worst just trying to express myself) thing is I've known girls that I can actually imagine saying stuff like this. . Damn, stay away from such ppl
Exactly!! You'd think the brides would be thankful their friends who were going through tough times still tried to attend their weddings.
I'm glad the other bridesmaid (or maybe numerous ones) also called her out on it and then told the woman with cancer what the bride said.
I've read story about one bride who was getting married to the father of a child and she wanted him to not includes the fathers daughter in her wedding saying"I'm marrying him not his crotch goblin".
So glad Mader stood up to ex friend Bridezilla. Hope she’s ok now and has a wonderful long life!
"i want to be the most important person on my special day!"
this means that guests should not wear white dresses to the wedding or misbehave, for example.
not that you are entitled to be an a** to your guest who lost a baby.
I find that "news" at any wedding makes the wedding even more memorable.
Like... it's been many years since I've been to any wedding, and I barely remember how everything looked, etc. Just the bride/groom, and just like glimpses. Not how pretty the dresses were, or anything they said or did... none of the efforts they put into that day. It was just all about them, and it was easily forgotten. I'm sure if there was some extra news that day, I would have locked onto more mental images of their wedding and things they did and said.
I think it's normal for a bride/groom to go nuts because they're in a terrified state of mind and trying to get it all together. It just doesn't sound like any of the people mentioned in this video had like... a helper to keep their feet on the ground lol So I'm kinda not surprised they went crazy like this lol they probably really regret it after they calmed down lol
I couldn’t imagine honestly, my husband and I want everyone to be as over the top as we are and wear whatever. Honestly my favorite part of my brothers wedding was the drunk guy who went swimming in the fountain at the country club 😂 I’m planning to come in on horseback anyway cause that’s how extra I am so I don’t think any of the guests will be able to top that 😂😂 idc idc as long as they’re not doing anything illegal or trashing the place, it’s supposed to be fun.
I can't even believe someone would treat their friends who had cancer and the other who lost a baby that way that is just sick and evil not wearing white is one thing but yeah I hope those husbands wise up and run because their marriages will be miserable with women like that
And if my best friend had cancer I think I would be too upset to be worried about any thing else but her
The bride and groom are of course supposed to be the most important people on their wedding day
I agree with what you said about white and misbehaving, but I would also like to add that proposals or pregnancy announcements (unless from the bride and groom) should also be off the table
I so wish that all the bridesmaids wear bald caps on their head for maders sake but keep it as a secret until day of so when they all come out it looks like their bald it would be such a powerful statement and it would also help this girls self esteem not to mention cause bridezilla to have an aneurysm
Oh, that would be AWESOME!
I love that idea.
Love the idea. I was hoping they all decided not to be her bridesmaids period.
😃😃😃
If she had bridesmaids left, I have no hope for this world.
I wanna be friends with the girl with cancer, she’s so witty. Hope she’s doing ok ❤️
Me too. I'm in love with her now.
Same, I was laughing the entire time at her texts, they were so good. I really hope she beat her cancer or is at least doing alright.
i loved her cute not swearing insults lmao XD.... but that girl deseved them insults for saying the nasty she did about her friend..... its a dumb wedding your friend should come first .... i dont get women who over plan their wedding... whats the point for one day?
Same I loved her response
I came here to say the same thing. She was undervalued and unequally yoked in that friendship. She’s seems like an awesome chick that I’d be happy to joke around with!
As someone who recently had their brother diagnosed with cancer, that one bride’s comment absolutely disgusted me. It doesn’t match your vision? Are you kidding me?
On a side note, I would LOVE to meet her (former) friend who was diagnosed. She had such amazing responses. I love her. ❤
Sorry for your brother ☺️ and I agree
About the heartless bridezilla with the grieving ex friend: the good news is that the wedding ended up canceled! She made a terrible figure online trying to "defend her position", while instead confirming to the world her complete lack of emphaty and intelligence, and then the groom left her - since he was shocked by this side of her. Good for him. Hope he got a wonderful divorce party, ex friend included.
I mean if the wedding was cancelled, its more like a "Glad I dodged the bullet" party. Seriously, I hope the Bridezilla had a long hard look at herself that she suffered the consequences of her actions.
Bet Bridezilla blamed it all on her grieving latter friend
@@yvonneburns2786 You know how it goes with some people; blame it on everyone else to stop them looking at themselves.
Guess the divorce party happened sooner than expected
Omg the woman who did this is so horribly selfish! I’m glad to know the groom dodged that gigantic bullet! This was so cruel of her, it made me tear up…maybe on day when she has kids of her own (if anyone is actually dumb enough to father her children), she’ll take a long hard look at herself and realize what a shitty thing that was to say and do. I hate to think people who think like this are actually out there!
I actually gasped when she said "It's not like you knew her". My god. It's a good thing she said that over text because anyone would've slapped her in person
Legit
Oh, how I hope Mader won her fight against cancer. The world needs people like her! ❤️
The groomzilla was also happy to pimp out the bridesmaids to get his song.
👰♂️ how the hell do these people have friends?....how are they getting married? 😱 I've never been so mad at people I don't know but I applaud the amazing comebacks 👏
To any reasonable person it really is unbelievable.
Exactly! It's baffling.
Because they use a mask in front of the people who they love?
Because they look a certain way and are two faced.
I've never understood women who claim they've dreamed of getting married since they were in diapers. What I think they mean is that they've dreamed of having a wedding, but not necessarily being married.
Yes. That’s exactly it.
Kind of sad that women think marriage is the end all be all to life. Being married is awesome, and I love it. But it was just a day. After marriage we still have goals, visions, dreams, individual persuits. Like its 1 fucking day of your whole journey as a couple - yes its special and beautiful and should be. But like, come on. It's just a day
@@nela3986 yes sister! So beautiful. Our 5 year is coming up September 15th, while I do love looking back at my wedding photos (haven't in a while - but should lol). It really is about the love. Love is real, and it's all around us. It sounds cliche, but it's so true. We need to live in gratitude of that and live life in awe - then all of the small details no longer matter. I honestly pray these women (and those like them) are able to fill the void within themselves with self love and be able to enjoy the bliss that comes when we truly embrace love, gratitude, and joy.
Yeah. I have very few wedding fantasies and more “my husband just did the dishes by himself without me asking, that was SO NICE of him” fantasies XD
I had a friend like that.
She was the last in her little clique to get married.
The ones who married ahead of her had been in long term relationships, and very much in love.
She was in such a red hot hurry to have a wedding, dress, engagement ring, etc. That was bigger, better, and more expensive than everyone else, she married someone she’d only known a year. He had money (requisite 1) and bought her the vulgar size diamond she demanded (requisite 1A)
She was careful to spend twice as much as everyone else on her dress, an outdated monstrosity, and had the biggest venue, guest list, number of meal choices, highest per plate cost, etc. etc.
They lasted a year and a half.
Pathetic.
She’s 59 now, and still alone.
Men have caught on to her nonsense.
She’s a very entitled, wannabe Mrs. Got Bucks, who lives to look down her nose and sneer at people.
Problem is, she’s a poser.
She’s got as much class as a stomped caterpillar.
We’re not friends anymore, I got sick of her snotty superior posturing.
People really be losing friends over a 4 hours party that nobody is even going to remember in a week 😑
I know. Look out for women who still repost or hype up wedding photos online a year or more after the wedding. Like literally nooooo one cares, you're just one of 483829484 weddings your poor friends have to travel to and fork out money for in their lifetimes and they're glad it's over
It like those poor souls whose "best years" were their high school years. Sad, sad!
And the day never truly goes as planned. That's the best part.
I find a lot of weddings to be ridiculous and a waste of money. Couples spend $10-$100k for what? For half of marriages ending in divorce? Don’t me wrong I’m not anti-wedding. These super big productions for only one day is just stupid.
Yes this type of people amplify their perception of themselves and project them onto others and think they are so impacting in the lives of others.
"We hiss at this one!"
I could not agree more
Psychopaths. Seriously, narcissists and psychopaths. “It’s not like you knew her...” The things people have the gall to say because they’re not within slapping distance of you. 🤯
Exactly!!
"when are you going to get over it?" Um, never. the answer is never. you NEVER get over it.
Psychopaths would think it, not say it :D
Yeah - they need a throat punch... grrr🤬
Three months after my partner since 11 years and father of our two children died,
a person sort of berated me for not being over him and his passing.
"It's not like you knew her" was a low blow. I've lost a baby and that's one of the worse things you could say
Sorry for your loss. I couldn’t believe that either, horrible thing to say.
I'm still I'm complete shock. I cried when I miscarried at 5 weeks
Aww I’m sorry hun. My Gma had 2 stillborn, & then the daughter she did have was kidnapped. Have you thought about counseling or perhaps a loss group, sometimes they can help ❤️
Yes, the absolute worst. I lost mine at 11 weeks and I actively mourned him for years. I'm so sorry for your loss as well.
JJ Harper.... 1st let me say so sorry for your loss... I don't know how you feel. I will will never know... but, i can sympathize. My mom lost my big brother when he was 4 hours old. Feb. 13th. I was born Dec. 2nd. I never "met" him. But ut doesn't change the fact that i still miss him... Your precious little baby would've been sooo lucky to have been physically loved by you...
I literally gasped out loud with the "It's not like you knew her." My mind cannot comprehend how... someone... can be like that.
The Groom canceled the wedding after seeing the messages, so there's that...
Seriously 😒 that broke my heart…
That must officially be the most insensitive thing said to anyone EVER!
I agree, I’ve had 2 miscarriages. I never met my babies, but I still love them. I felt so bad for that friend, I bet she was so upset. At least she knows how low her ex friend with stoop. She’s better away from toxicity like that.
@@tbella5186 Really?
The girl who has cancer,I’m sorry you are going through this. Your response to the Bridezila 👏👏👏🥳🎉🎇🎆💜it great response. Take care and stay safe my friend
Dude that woman saying "you didn't even know her" is one of the most savage things I've ever heard said to someone who lost a baby.Holy shit that's VILE!!!
@@phangirlable really? How do you know?
@@phangirlable really?
The lack of empathy and the need to be the center of attention are characteristics of narcissists. It is really painful to have some close family member with this personality disorder. This case particularly made me sad because my sister did something similar to me when I lost my baby. It still hurts.
As a woman that has lost two and recently went through my daughter losing one you are right. Her words sicken me I refuse to consider her to be a human.
Yeah I mean that means she was pregnant enough to know the gender of her kid
The chemotherapy warrior really slayed *“my Dr. didn’t mention the other side effects...”* pure gold 👌 and everything else she said lol
Yes! Omg that person was a awful “friend.”
My sincerest wishes that the ex-bridesmaid conquers her leukemia with ass-kicking authority. She's already demonstrated the immense power of her sense of humour, in both the self-effacing pokes she takes at herself and her dilemma, and the bone-melting sarcasm, the vicious "away team, set plasma cannons to 11, no prisoners" megablasts at Bridezilla without mercy, who, without question, deserved every word and much, much more.
When a bride makes unfeasible, greedy, petty, and patronizing "but it's my day - it must perfectly match my expectations" demands, coated with a saccharine sweetness to sound reasonable and open to compromise, she's reduced marriage to match her four-year-old-child's fantasy, to only the wedding and her "happiest day of her life", forgetting that a "happily ever after" life wonn't magically materialize, but needs to be built by both parties, together. If she can't, won't, or isn't ready, someone must call for an "abort mission - broken arrow", or there'll be years of misery for the couple and close family.
She mentioned "I'm so looking forward to being a wifey." Highly doubtful.
Hair kiss or thinning is literally the first thing that was mentioned to me... Strange and luckily enough, I only lost my body hair
Right?! I kept thinking, I would LOVE to be her friend lmao she's HILARIOUS and she stayed so strong!! Hope she's doing better now
Douche-baguette, I won't soon forget that line 😆
Forget getting married, I’m baffled this person has FRIENDS.
Yeah, No kidding! Like who TF wants to be friends with this broad?!
Wait, the bride was a person?
The BIDEZILLA trying to rush a friends grief. WAA!
My heart goes out to Mader. I lost my mom and way too many friends and family to cancer. At the same time, Mader is my hero. You are right, she is a poet with her comebacks.
I’m stealing the insult “douchebaggette” because that is the most amazing insult I’ve ever heard.
All her retorts were brilliant! I'm stealing douchbagette too lol
As a French, I oppose that use of our holy baguette! 😂❤️
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Same!
At this point I’m fully convinced some women are more invested in wedding ceremonies than the actual marriage.
And you would be right.
Absolutely!!!!
Narcissists. They live for the attention; nothing to do with the marriage.
That I will never understand. I would have been fine going to the justice of the peace for a civil ceremony but we got married on my husband's radio show, had the reception at a friend's house, and ate barbecue. The only thing I cared about was the guests enjoying themselves.
Absolutely. Find one who doesn't care about the day, but about your life together! 💚
That last one though...no words. That person who was mourning the loss of their child did well in not just going mad. I hope they are doing better.
Okay but imagine telling somebody who's just lost their baby that 2 months is enough to get over it... that truly is one of the cruelest things I've ever heard
I know right? Losing a child is arguably the saddest loss anyone can face. No parent should EVER have to visit their children in a cemetery and no parent should EVER have to bury their own children. I despise people who tell someone who lost a loved one to just "get over it." You can NEVER get over losing someone you love.
Judging by how all these women seem to think 'I've dreamed of this since I was a little girl' is a valid excuse, our culture needs to stop ramming princess wedding nonsense into little girls heads. We need to stop thinking it's cute to have toddlers planning their future weddings. It's not cute, it's creepy, and apparently causes unrealistic, toxic expectations with the assumption that weddings are more important than literally EVERYTHING else.
Indeed. My parents knocked 'good education' and 'support yourself' into my head as a little girl. Weddings and marriage were totally not interests of mine for decades. Still not married despite 3 men wanting me to marry them.
@@benjalucian1515 I mean, education and self-reliance are wonderful and important things, but I'm sure your parents didn't mean "run from love" either! :P
@@benjalucian1515 good for you, honestly. Women have been conditioned since forever to equate their selfworth to getting married and having children. I am glad a lot more women are divesting from that and choosing to live their best life on their own terms whatever that looks like.
@@woutertron - love=/= marriage. Surely you know that.
@@benjalucian1515 of course. But also, (a good) marriage is not a prison, and I would not recommend anyone to put their principles before their own happiness. That said I know nothing about your life and I can only wish you all the best 👍
“We are christians and have never been treated like that before” how. How are those two things related??
Also “We ran into a lot of drunk people. No compliments out of their mouths!” You’re pissed because passing strangers didn’t COMPLIMENT you?
@@anondecepticon we're christians and they didn't congratulate us for saving our virginity for god. How rude
Because they found out that the beach is a satanist and ruins christian photoshootings on purpose.
@@gatoniebla4900 eyyyy xD sounds like what christians have been doing for centuries to other ppl
@@sage4365 I'm guessing that it is because the ones who actually do charity work don't need to show off. Usually the ones who have to say they are good, aren't...
Omg the Friend with Cancer is a Goddess. She is an All Star! Keep her in your GOAT videos
I wonder if anyone has ever completely boycotted someone’s wedding, like no one showed up.
I would so want to do that in one of these scenarios
@@rlaura2060 I just feel like it would be satisfying, evil but satisfying and maybe thats just my own black heart. But no one HAS to show up, besides the officiator, it's an invitation. But I truly believe that if you go that hard into the bride/groom zilla stuff you kind of don't deserve an audience.
Yes. I have.
@YoungOasis What? Are you serious right now? Wanting to be free and happy is sinful? I hope that your grandmother cut all contact with those toxic people. They don't deserve her.
@YoungOasis oh good lord wtf is wrong with people! That's disgusting! Brain washing at its finest! I'm so glad you're grandma is away from the turd!
Holy crap. As someone who has had a miscarriage...the part where she says, “I thought you’d be over it by now” 😥 Goodness. What a terrible heartless bride. It’s been over a year and I’ve had a successful pregnancy and birth of my beautiful baby girl AND I STILL feel the heartbreak over the pregnancy I lost. It’s a deep pain.
The fact that brizella thinks you can just get over something like that makes me wonder if any part of her is human. Damn! Didn't know death has a timeline to grief. Not to mention someone with a terminal illness (cancer) is an inconvenience....are these people for real?
Exactly! It’s been 5 years since my first loss and it STILL hurts so bad.
My mom had a “frozen” pregnancy before she had me and my brother, and she still remembers that baby. It’s been more that 33 years now, but there is always a hint of sadness in mom’s voice when she says that we could have had an elder brother (she says he was boy). I think you can never really be over the loss of someone you loved.
i was also expecting her to say several years but the bitch fuckign said 2 months! like wtf! 2 months goes fast! thats like fucking yesterday!
A mom who miscarried will always remember her angel babies regardless of how many rainbow babies she has
I’m getting married in 2022 and I’ve just discovered your channel. Absolutely obsessed with this series 😂
OMG NATALIE!!! suprised to see u here!!! been enjoying ur httyd and marvel movie reactions!!! keep up the good work and congratulations on the engagement!!!
OMG! Hyped to see you here.
Hopefully you’re not a bridezilla !!! 😆jk
Congratulations
Hopefully you won’t wind up on this list! Haha
The instant 😳 when Charlotte read “people would ask why you aren’t pregnant” was fricking hysterical!
The one and only sentence that comes to my mind: „Run, Forrest. Run.“
Oh my, I use that sentence for pretty much everything and anything....maybe that's why my favourite superhero is "Runawayfromdangerman".🤣🤣
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I don’t understand why so many people choose their wedding, a time of supposed love, to declare war & violence on their friends & family?!! Lmao these people are not ok.
I will never understand how women like these brides have managed to find someone to marry them.
They're probably marrying shity men just like them
Apparently one of them (the one who didn't want the woman with a lost baby to attend) got dumped by the groom.
Those grooms must be blind, stupid and selfish too. For starters.
@@nyandoesthings really? Is there a video abt. it or something?
I’ve known more than one guy who was totally oblivious to their intended’s true personality; they hadn’t yet gotten over the pretty face/hair/makeup/adoring false flattery coming at ‘em.
Cousin Rob: “Look at his adoring expression! She’s all over him, and he can’t see that she’s the same kind of greedy, shallow, gold digger as his ex.”
Me: “What was the ex like?”
Cousin Rob: “See that woman? Just like her, hair and all.”
I’m equally baffled. How? HOW???? How do these guys pick these living nightmares and willingly enter a life of hell? 👰♀️
The one about the baby made me cry because as a mother that has lost a child, that has to be the most insensitive thing to say, if you're truly her friend that wouldn't matter. It's been 21 years for me May 7 this year and i still break down. Losing a child is something you'll never get over let alone telling her 2 months should have been enough time. I agree that is not a person you'd want as a so called friend.
Same here. I am so sad about that story, it really touched a nerve. When I lost my baby, my sister was the insensitive one. I won’t go into details, but the lack of empathy and entitlement were pretty similar. Also, those type of people will never admit or see what they have done is beyond despicable. She thinks of herself as a nice Christian girl. So sick of narcissists 🤮
@@priscilalondon I'm so sorry for your loss and that's really bad when your own sister would treat you that way. I'm lucky and had a great support system, my heart goes out to you and all the ones who have had people treat them like this after such a horrible tragedy. There are words for every loss except parents who lose a child
people really need to stop n think before they open their mouth - that was waaay over the top
I know exactly how you feel. Though it had only been a few week pregnancy from what I could tell, and I didn't have the money to support it, it still mentally destroyed me to find out it was lost and I didn't have the chance to figure it out and make it work. Even though it's been 2 years, I still can't bring myself to try again, even if I have the money. I couldn't go through another potential loss and heartbreak. Thank you for telling your story, and the person on this video thinking 'how long does it take you to get over it anyway' is so tactless. I wish you many good things in your life, Heather, and for the same to the women who've also been through this experience
@@me2ontube some really do that was beyond nasty
My best friend of 10+ years hasn’t talked to me since her wedding because I was MOH but ended up hospitalised days before the wedding and had to have my gall bladder out. She wasn’t happy with me and turned against me. That was the end of our friendship. People are vile when it comes to weddings.
Good grief! How are you now? Are you okay?
@@LittleKitty22 luckily it was a couple of years back but it took a long while to come to terms with it. Then when covid first hit, I messaged her to see if we could put it behind us because there were scarier things going on. She ignored me. 😅 some people eh!
@@katychapman100 You had a lucky escape - there's no point trying to resume such a friendship. She has shown you her true face. People like that are not worth it. Better have few friends but good friends. Are you okay physically? That's a big operation, having one's gallbladder out.
You are better of without her! You sound like a great person and deserve equally great friends 😁!!! I hope you are doing well health-wise.
@@katychapman100 Why would you try to resume your friendship with such a horrible human being?
As someone who has lost a child, I hope that woman’s wedding was her worst day ever. How dare she say after TWO months that she should be over losing her baby. How can a person be so selfish.👰⛈🌪🚒🚓💣🔥
Yes! Same here. Unborn or not you NEVER forget that baby. 💜
The nerve of her to ask that lady to post it on Facebook…like, that’s her privacy if she wants to share it or not!
Apparently, the groom dumped her after he heard about this incident. So no wedding happened. Karma 🎉
@@aayushigupta1136 Really? I was about to say karmas a b*tch!
@@aayushigupta1136 I hope that is true. She isn't a good person and he would only be setting himself up for worst later down the road
Props for that woman diagnosed with cancer for fighting back so savagely. I would have been mad if someone told me I couldn’t even be a bridesmaid if I had no hair
"I'm just baffled, I'm baffled that this person is getting married and I'm not" hahaha 🤣 I feel you! I got the very same feeling when I saw the episode of cake boss of the bride destroying her cake 🤪
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I haven't seen that show in a long time, brides have ruined their cakes??!!!
I thought Buddy would strangle her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So disrespectful to ruin the cake
WOW. These people took Narcissism with a capitol N to the next level. “IT’S ABOUT MEEEEEE.”
That's What People Are Like Now 🤬. I Mean Some Of Them 🤬
Our wedding was about everyone, not me and only me.
“I don’t want people to think about you at all on MY day.” One second thinking about anyone else is too much.
The sad thing about the bridesmaid with cancer and the bridesmaid whose baby died is they were probably both really looking forward to the wedding. Something fun to distract them from the crap they've been going through and then their friends showed them what terrible people they were.
It's probably obvious we'll before this, tho.
awww yeah #genuinecomment
The last story, its actually a friend of mine. She's doing well now and has a beautiful child she dotes on with her partner.
Did the Bridezilla ever apologize to your friend