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honestly I'm glad she gave up the kids. I've known people like this, and people that used their kids as weapons to get money from the fathers, and take them to court constantly, and they always *always* hated the children. The kids were nothing to them and neglected like crazy. Raising a mentally well child is hard enough, but it's impossible when you give 0 shits about them. I'm not a fan of children, but no one deserves to be raised by someone that clearly hates them or sees them as nothing but a burden. I hope those kids recover and get to enjoy the new families they're in.
I'm glad, too. My nephew's mother is similar to this, except she was only interested in the attention she got from being pregnant and having a baby. Once the kid started to form a personality or she didn't get as much attention, she'd be pregnant again and the kid would be ignored. Luckily all of her kids were taken away, and are thriving with the family members of their respective fathers.
Back when I was in foster care there was a woman who kept getting pregnant for the financial aid. Each baby was immediately taken and put to the system after birth and this crazy woman would go right back out and get pregnant by someone random man again. She didn’t care about the kids, just the money (like my foster parents) last I heard she was on her tenth pregnancy
"I didn't go on her Facebook page until the evening because I didn't want to deal with drama first thing in the morning." We are not the same. I'm gonna need Beth's socials.
Life isn't a book with a definite ending until you're dead. I'm glad she gave up her children, but it would be better to put them for adoption through the system instead (except baby A), why? Because she will have contact with the woman she gave up her baby to, which means she could come back years later to try to become part of the children's life or demand money from them "because she is their real mother". I can just see it.
Me, too! Giving them to those people, SPECIFICALLY to those people, was the BEST thing she could ever do, as a mother. She probably wanted to give them away, for years, but didn't because she would be viewed as selfish and bad. It was BRAVE to give them up. And it was for their own good. As much as she hated being a mother, she KNEW people would judge her harshly for giving them up, so she kept them as a shield against that judgement. When you're a bad mother, you can't win. Keep them, and you're a bad mother. Give them up, and ... you're a bad mother. Except that, if you ARE a bad mother, giving them up IS THE BEST THING YOU COULD EVER DO FOR YOUR CHILDREN! Giving your children up for adoption IS the loving option. I truly hope that the new parents teach their children that their mother gave them up OUT OF LOVE for them. She didn't like being a mother, true. But she CHOSE to PROTECT them from her future self, putting them in SAFE places before she lost control and hurt them, as she inevitably would, if she kept them any longer. She'd grow to resent and hat them. She might even grow to ENJOY the abuse. I hope they teach their children that THEY ARE LOVED, and to never feel bad about being given up by their birth mother.
That's all a clusterfck, but can we address how that first DOCTOR LIED to her about pills and pregnancy prevention?! She didn't want to get pregnant anymore and it could have stopped this whole mess from getting so problematic. That doctor is horrible and definitely should get the brunt of the blame.
@@steph8030593 He is a professional! Listening to the mother is exactly the problem. Wtf is he doing?! And she already had children if I remember correctly, so if that was the mothers "reason" she is far gone. As i said, this situation is full of horrible decisions/people, but a professional shouldn't let themselves be controlled by (more or less random) people. It is unacceptable to lie to patients. It is unacceptable to jeopardise their health and life just so family members can control what happens to her body and her life. He ain't professional. He is disgusting.
@@steph8030593 By her second pregnancy, I assume she became a legal adult, to which, her mother has no right in her medical choices. The family friend doctor was refusing medication that could've helped Beth simply because they're biased.
Well if she was breast-feeding then the doctor didn’t lie to her. You do know that if you’re breast-feeding your child you can’t take hormonal birth control because it’ll affect the baby right? If a breast-feeding mother takes estrogen so does her baby. No one wants a baby on estrogen.
It isn't the worst thing Beth has done, but the part that sticks out to me the most is her wanting to basically steal Christmas from her children so she can make the holiday all about herself instead. Like just about every other commenter has said, thank God those kids are being raised by people who actually care about them now.
100% She’s the type of mom who would end up with an ahole who abused her kids and she would not care one bit. Or she’d snap one day and start hitting them or worse. They are very very lucky they aren’t being raised by her anymore.
You're not crazy, they're definitely not open on Christmas. But it was never said she got married that day, just that she tried to (not sure why Chad didn't think of that and tell her?) during a live stream and got pissed that it was closed. Then scared baby with her yelling and called baby a c***. @@kahla3363
At first this was all funny, but the longer it went on, the more horrified I became. I was seriously relieved when it turned out that "Beth" was only joking about abandoning her children on the side of the road. At least the kids are with people who actually want them and will love them now.
That was one of the points where I had to stop the video because I was just absolutely shocked. After hearing everything else that was going on with "Beth" I just assumed that she was telling the truth, but was trying to convince myself that it was a joke.
Yes. It definitely took a bad turn at some point and it’s almost relieving that OP was in Beth’s life to just ask the simple question if she liked her kids or being a mom. Those kids deserved love and clearly she wasn’t going to give it to her. People who have been hurt continue to hurt others. It’s a sad cycle but one day Beth will grow up and have a real relationship with her children. PPD is a huge setback for a lot of moms and being honest with yourself has to be the number one action to take to get better. Say what you want about Beth and her choices with everything else. This one and only choice she made was the most selfless and crucial act of all. I think it was the beginning of her becoming another person. Like the parents in Matilda giving her up to Ms. Honey.
Considering what we had heard prior to that... I think most of us believed she was capable of doing it. I'm glad it's not true, but truth be I wouldn't put it past her. Thankfully those children are with parents who really want them and will love them, unlike "Beth".
I imagine beth and chad won’t last long with the baby gone to a new home but I honestly am so happy she got a new doctor who gave her BC. The fact that she was denied it when she was a teen mother is INSANE to me. I’m also glad she realized she doesnt want to be a mother and will probably put more effort towards not getting pregnant again and I’m glad baby A is with her loving father and B and C have a new family that love them and B can still see his grandparents. Beth may be mentally unstable and not a very nice person but I see this as the best ending we couldve gotten to this shit show. I hope she eventually gets help
That talk at the clinic was definitely the saddest part and spoke volumes. “Do you even want your kids? Do you even want to be a mom?” “…No” I feel like Beth needed that talk, and I don’t blame her for giving up her kids. She gave them to people who wanted them and can give them a better life more ever than she or the system could. She’s delusional, and sadly bitter and closed minded because of it, but she went through trauma and never got the right treatment nor coping she needed, even if she had some help to keep her afloat. She didn’t have “real” friends that stayed by her side through and through it seems like, her family wasn’t supportive, and the only form of love she got was toxic and thought marriage and kids and a family would fix all that… I hope one day she can truly leave Chad, focus on herself, and get the help she needs …
@@TvTrollByIvy I can understand that. She’s at an age where she is finally held responsible for her own actions and consequences, and no one including myself can ask for anything different really. However I do hope she gets some further awakening and gets help to become a better person, mostly for herself, and people can see she’s changed, because I feel like at this point she needs to change for herself, not others, and that may be selfish, but sometimes you go too far in life, but the only really you need to change is because everyone else already sees no hope in you and you used to think it was everyone else’s fault, but now you realizes you can make a change and in reality something’s in your life sucked ass and it made you not such a great person in the end…
I know a woman like this... or she dated my bf and my ex, she had 5 kids in like 4 years and gave 3 of them to her 2nd baby dad's ex step mom (all 5 have different dads) and my bf said she'd just let them do whatever they wanted and refused to teach them or anything. Thankfully they're with good people now but no clue what happened to her last 2, just that she doesn't have them
Everything that “Beth” has done is insane and horrifying, and thank god those kids ended up in loving homes. Yet, for my curiosity’s sake I’m dying to know if anyone actually attended her wedding and gave in to her crazy demands!?
@@Coops1985 I'm curious too. I can't see why they would give up Baby C if the wedding happened and they were still together. Either way, apparently even Chad is lousy father who didn't step up for his kid. Only Adam of the 3 dads seems to care for his child. Maybe she should just stuck with baby daddy #1 Adam and not have cheated.
This is the craziest thing I have heard. That bride is a total narcissist with zero empathy, lack of boundary recognition and a sense of entitlement among so many other toxic behaviors! But I am all for this drama!!! Thank you Charlotte for finding this sh@# storm of a story and following up with a part 2.
I'm going to assume she has histrionic personality disorder as well. The constant ranting and raving on social media for attention, the demands, the cheating and attention she craves from men, etc. I'm going to also assume there is an underlying depression and fear of abandonment.
@@nutelloza no its not... She made her decisions. The parents were wrong to kick her out cz of child A but that girl made her decisions & they can't be blamed on anyone else
@@teegee9428 just because someone is an adult who makes choices doesn’t mean we can’t see and acknowledge the role other people play in their lives. In this case her parents played quite a large one.
@@nutelloza oh please, was it her parents who told her to go and have unprotected s*x ??!! It would have been understandable if it were one mistake but doing it THRICE?!! That's what we call stupidity 🙄🤦🏾♀️
My sister-in-law left her 9 year old in front of his dads house (late at night) with a small box of clothes) and didn't even walk her son up to the door. Note: she only raised 1 (of 3) sons herself. Her ex-raised one. Her parents raised the other. All 3 have different fathers.
Beth is the epitome of a problematic person and seriously needs to seek professional help ASAP... I'm shocked that there were people on that thread who took her side. at first it was funny but now I'm genuinely upset. It is a serious condition when you don't feel remorse and aren't self aware. I was not surprised to find that her whole family (even people involved with her like BF B and C) are the same material... My heart broke for those children...
Wdym same material? BF A was actually a good person. He was actually in love with her and wanted to marry her. But she went on cheated on him and got pregnant.
@@azure5273 lol. Yea. He even got their kid taken away from her cause she’s crazy. He was the first one to take his kid back and he was paying child support and for everything involving his baby while she just sat there.
Seems obvious her parents really stunted her development. They told her counseling is for "crazy" people and birth control is for sluts. When she needed them most, they kicked her out.
Her cheating on Adam and constantly rejecting him was her biggest mistake, he genuinely loved and cared about her, not to mention he wanted to do the right thing by her, but bfs B and C I think used her and probably had an equal hand in messing her up even if she should 100% take responsibility for her actions. I'm glad her other kids are being raised by people who actually want them and love them. Women like her do not deserve to be mothers.
As some who has HAD 3 kids in four years (albeit from the same dad… and we are married) it is difficult. But I am *DISGUSTED* that she would neglect her kids while they are crying and yell at them just for being kids. There’s a lot of pent up shame that she imposes on her children. I hope Adam can keep his daughter. He obviously loves her dearly
It's wild cause her frontal lobe hadn't even finished developing and she had 3 kids can't imagine how hard it was and I hope she did give them up but started contact when she got herself better. Poor kids
As awful as social media is, if "Beth" hadn't posted the entire history of her life and OP hadn't witnessed it she wouldn't have had that conversation that made Beth realize she wanted to give up custody of those children. Likewise, there wouldn't have been documented proof of her neglect for "Adam" to gain custody at all. It's sickening to think people like this exist who then traumatize their own children, and give single moms/moms with kids from multiple partners a bad reputation.
I am reminded of a couple I went to high school with who got married immediately after graduation. The social media chaos through the disintegration of their relationship and the nastiest divorce I’ve ever seen was horrifying to watch, especially since a child was involved, but HOLY MOLY was it entertaining as hell.
Lmfao! I keep warning my baby’s father to get the fuck away from his psychotic girlfriend who was married and he cheated on me with! Or else this is what’s going to end up happening to him! Except she doesn’t dare show her face on Facebook anymore because she knows she’d get it!
i worked with 2 ppl that got married, popped out 3 kids and then had a very acrimonious divorce with too many details shared on facebook (and i was friends with both of them).
😲 and Adam sounds like such a nice guy and good dad. She probably could have had a pretty good life with him. 🤦🏽♀️ So glad the kids are being taken care of. Those poor babies.
An FBI advisory board later found that roughly 40 percent of officers who filled out questionnaires in a number of different settings admitted to being physically violent with their spouse in the previous six months. The general population data for self-reported abuse is closer to 4 percent when people are asked to report on the last 12 months.
As a PhD student my first real moment of holy crap concern was the part where Brad is having an affair with his TA. That’s a massive Title IX violation at best and could actually be much worse depending on the specifics. Now I must know what happened with/to the TA. Assuming she’s a graduate TA she is going to land herself in a LOT of trouble and my curious ass is worried about that ultimately irrelevant detail to this whole shiteshow of a situation😭😭
Maybe, I was a TA while I was an undergrad because it was a job the university offered each semester. You had to have done well in the class and be in that major though.
@@Blue_Star_Child lol theyre literally getting their doctorate.. they know how TA's work. they even hold your hand for that fact in the comment youre replying to.
You know, I was one of the people who asked for the rest of the story.... I wish I had not. Beth has so many problems, including destructive narcissism; she needs serious help but is so deeply invested in believing in her self victimization and, frankly, she is addicted to her own negativity. The only thing outsiders can hope for is that those children are removed from her influence so that they might have a chance to grow better than they ever could with her raising them. Such a shame that OP had to endure a slur before cutting Beth out of her life. We all need a cleanse after that story
Honestly, I kind of feel sorry for Beth. Considering how her parents acted with her, I can only guess that she had a rough childhood. Then she became pregnant, got post-partum depression (most likely), and never got out of it because no one was there for her. No one was teaching her. And then she just spiraled. I hope that she will get better
Honestly same.. and that bit towards the end about being denied birth control screams red flags to me... she didn't want to be a mom and going through all that.. no wonder she lost her God dammed mind
Don't feel sorry for Beth, or anyone in the story. Everything on these Reddit subs are just fictional stories, or slightly true but embellished to the point of ridiculousness.
I read the update and she’s not really better. She’s now a feminist who believes in women’s reproductive rights while Chad is a sexist who believes women should be forced to have babies. They did marry but are miserable. Chad has a mistress but Beth doesn’t care. OP saw her post was read by Charlotte Dobre and was nervous that Beth would find out but turns out Beth has asked 15 other women to be MOH and 8 other women were in OP’s position. Beth got therapy but the bridge between her and OP has been burned. Beth’s sister came out gay and her parents kicked her out but the relationship between Beth and her sister still hasn’t healed. OP is doing pretty well for her self. But as for Beth until she realizes that Chad is a scumbag she will forever be stuck in her personal hell unless she divorces him and moves on.
Pregnant teens parents: Let's kick our underage vulnerable daughter out on the streets for sinning. Also pregnant teens parents: We just don't understand how our daughter is making such bad decisions. Well, I could give you a few reasons.
I have a feeling that even understanding from the parents wouldn't have saved this one. As far as I can tell she had enough chances and help offered to turn it around, but she chose not to take them. There is only so much blame you can put on the parents. Not saying that they shouldn't have at least tried.
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All right, so the healthiest parts about this are a) Beth giving up her kids so they can go to homes where they will be loved and cared for as ought to be, and b) the OP saying "Nope, I'm done here" and cutting Beth off for good. Well, I wanted an update. Somehow it didn't occur to me that it would be an update that made ME feel like I needed therapy afterwards. This was...a fucking hellish ride.
18:26 "you just made a joke about child abandonment, you're not being serious enough" dude. That was honestly so healing to me. If they can arbitrarily state "you're being too serious" then I can arbitrarily state that they're not being serious enough. Who says their word is better than mine? Them, probably, lmao. So nope. Now I know what my energy to "lighten up it's a joke" is gonna be.
I have soooo many mixed feelings about this story. I'm just happy that none of the kids are with Beth - horrible horrible person! I do believe she suffers from post-maternal depression and more things, given that her parents kicked her out. Just crazy crazy story, thank you Charlotte for this update... only you could do this in a funny way! As always, you lift up my mornings with your videos! 🦈🦈🦈
@@louisejohnson6057 postpartum can be classified as: 1. Postpartum Blues: totally normal said person just had a baby it's OK to feel overwhelmed. Baby is NOT in any danger, can last upto 2 weeks. 2. Postpartum Depression: postpartum blues lasting over 2 weeks is considered depression, can last for months, symptoms and signs of depression present, NO thoughts of harming the baby are present. 3. Postpartum Psychosis: this is a medical emergency thoughts of self harm/ harming the baby are present. It is a psychotic break can include auditory/visual hallucinations, delusions and many other symptoms. Requires immediate medical treatment. What causes it? No one knows. But people with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder are at a higher risk of experiencing postpartum psychosis. Since she gave the kids up knowing she didn't want them and it was better for them, psychosis doesn't fit, postpartum psychosis is extremely dangerous, if she would have left the kids on that road or tried to harm them then that diagnosis would be a better fit! Postpartum checkups are extremely important, don't miss them and never be afraid or ashamed about how you're feeling post birth, let those who love you know how you're feeling, it's OK!
@@davidsmnje At the end of the day it is impossible to diagnose somebody through a Reddit post, written by another person, who got a lot of information via Facebook, but thanks for the general info!
As a mom of 2, I will always support and try to help my kids. Even if they made horrible decisions like Beth. Sometimes all you can do is be there for them.
The only good thing I can say about Beth is her decision to give up her kids. She may have done it because she didn’t want them. She may not have acknowledged that she was a bad mom. But at least she didn’t insist on keeping them, at least she didn’t force them to live with a mother that doesn’t love them. We’ve all heard the stories of kids being raised by narcissists or neglectful parents who don’t love them, the abuse and neglect that they can experience is heartbreaking. So I’m glad those kids are living with people who will love them and hopefully be good parents.
I would bet the girl was dealing with very bad postpartum depression. When new mothers neglect, harm or hate their kids etc PPD is most likely the culprit. Especially w her going through all that trauma I’m almost positive that’s what happened. I’m glad she didn’t hurt them like so many new moms do. My wife had bad PPD after our daughter and a miscarriage, multiple deaths in the immediate family and more. Luckily we got her help quickly. From reading all this she definitely needs to see someone. When she heals from all this and her mind is clear again I’m sure she’ll regret giving her kids away. It’s so sad really
1/500 experience postpartum psychosis. It's common but barely acknowledged in the medical world. I think that's what "Beth" is dealing with. Glad things worked out well for you! PPD is no joke either.
mandatory: "I'm not a doctor" - but it looks more like paranoia to me; 'beth' is constantly writing as if everybody is against her, or everybody is plotting against her; one simple comment makes her send you to hell... IDK but I wouldn't be surprised if she started with trust issues (beacause of what her parents did, those irresponsible people) and ended up full blown paranoid.
@@dalpz205 my PPP was picked up really quickly as I was considered high risk. But, I didn't bond with my eldest because I had a delusional belief that the nurses has given me the wrong baby (they hadn't). I started to resent him more with every feed because I believed he wasn't my kid. Thankfully I didn't have any urge to hurt him and it took some work for me to make that connection. But, I really don't know where we'd be without treatment (I needed medication, I had to stop BF, and therapy).
@@ladytimeoin Oh I'm so glad it was recognized and you got help. Honestly had no idea it was as common as it is. I would imagine it's difficult to diagnose esp for the patient. Glad it turned out well for you!
Honestly..... Along with Beth's decisions, I blame the parents for making Beth this way. 100% I bet they have a lot of things to do with what Beth is going through and why she chose those decisions.
Honestly - Charlotte’s variety of slightly unhinged faces being superimposed in the most rudimentary way onto everyone and everything that appears in a graphic, is truly genius and just makes me lol so much. It’s such a simple thing but it’s SO effective, especially coupled with the timing of the appearance of the pictures! 😂😂😂😂❤
Beth screams narcissism: Can't take responsibility, always the victim, unreasonable demands, everyone is against her, stupid life choices, probably lying about many things to come out as the victim... But she needs to be complimented and encouraged for her behaviour. You are not gonna change these people. Dump them and be happy you lost them.
@@gw1627 Actually you can do everything right, take hormonale birth control correctly and still get pregnant. There is no 100% guaranteed way to not get pregnant.
@@Freya778 a combination of condoms and hormonal birth control (if stored properly and not left in a hot car for several days) is 99% effective. How add a female condom too and you’ll have 99.99% effective. Yes, you can wear a normal condom and a female condom at the same time. There are also lubricants that contain a spermicide. The list is huge and endless. It’s more likely this gal just didn’t care about birth control and just though “oh poor me, whatever. “
Holly crap, those poor kids having "Beth" as a mom. It's so horrible when the mom is the bad parent because Moms are supposed to naturally want to protect their kids. Not yell at them, scare them, call them names and make them feel neglected and unsafe. So happy the kids are with better people now, hopefully they recovered from all they trauma.
Clinically it sounds to me like she could have borderline personality disorder. A lot of the classic characteristics are there. I could also see some narcissistic traits as well. I wonder what her upbringing was like. Her parents might have physically been there but clearly there was emotional neglect to some extent. Hence why she goes after people who are unavailable then proceeds to “trap” them by getting pregnant so they won’t abandon her. She definitely has a huge fear of abandonment.
I’m so glad she let those kids go to people who care about them. My mom has been a foster parent for almost 20 years, and we’ve seen things like this and worse. As invested as I was in this story, I’m glad the OP decided to distance herself from that woman who clearly is suffering from a mental illness, if not more than one. The trauma of being rejected by family added to the postpartum depression just made things worse for her. I hope she eventually gets the help she needs.
I'm in Canada and even if it wasn't Christmas day, you can't actually just show up at the courthouse and get married. So many people want a simple ceremony that there's a waitlist of many months. I'm in a major city though.
Where I live, the couple also has to apply for a marriage license well in advance. So people can't just randomly show up to get married unless they already have their license in order.
I’m gonna be honest, when she said she doesn’t like her kids, my mind immediately went to ppd. She didn’t have a lot of support. I definitely think therapy could’ve helped her.
I’m glad the children are with parents that love them and care for them. Hopefully she stays on birth control she doesn’t need to have kids EVER! She definitely needs professional help but doesn’t sound like that’ll happen any time soon 😬 I think Adam dodged a bullet 😂 Love your videos Charlotte! So happy you showed up on my FB feed and I found your RUclips channel 😊
Those babies going to loving homes is the only good part of this fiasco! I doubt that she will stay on birth control. That's her preferred method of "man-trapping" and grabbing attention on social media. She's learned she has no responsibility to the babies she births, she can just give them away. It will happen again.
I think she needs to get her tubes tied, period. Cuz birth control can fail as well as if she decides it's too much work to keep taking it and just doesn't take it anymore...
That's how children get abused sometimes parents in thier minds blame children for ruining thier lives then vent thier angers and frustrations on thier kids.
I’ve heard this several times (while taking a shower, doing makeup, etc) and only now did I have the thought: what if Beth was suffering postpartum depression? And just never got diagnosed or treated.
Omg and I thought that my family was crazy lol thank you Charlotte for the update. I now feel less crazy. But I am glad that "Beth" was woman enough to make the choice to let her children go to someone who would love them and care for them in a way that she just couldn't. That is the biggest expression of love that a Mother can do. I'm also glad that her Dr finally put her on birth control, since I would of called her Mertile as in Fertile Mertile, lol. I hope that she someday realizes that she has had a lot of trauma in her life and that there is no shame in getting help with that and seeks therapy or counseling. The fact that this is a true story and someone's actual life makes me sad for them. Unfortunately, I know that there are many more parents that don't enjoy being a parent and take it out on their children. I have to admired the bravery and strength of this young woman had giving her children a chance of happiness that she didn't have herself.
What can you say except WOW! As a mother of 2 boys its so hard for me to believe anyone could feel this way about their own childern! I would starve in order for mine to eat, I'd die to protect them! One of the worst things as a parent is for your child to be sick or hurt and there's nothing you can do to stop it it literally will break your heart into not to mention the mini heart attacks you have when you see your child fall or go too close to the road! Mine are older teens now (18 & 16) but I still get those mini heat attacks if I think something is serious with them so I'll never understand people like this or ones how abuse & mistreat or worse. I'm so happy they are away from her now. But what's that say about the man she's getting ready to marry? He's seen all this and still wants to marry her? And wasn't the last baby he's? They both are trash IMO
As a dad, I applaud Adam for doing what he had to do and taking the risk to “kidnap” his own child. I also completely relate to your “mini heart attacks” description. Very apt! Thanks for being a good mom! Greetings from San Antonio TX USA.
Right there with you as a mother of two boys (6&3) I get anxiety every time I hear a cry or scream thinking who hurt what an how bad but boys will be boys an by the time I see what actually happen they'll both be laughing or moved on to something else 🤦🏼♀️ I sware being a boy mom is going to turn me Gray earlier then I should ( I'm early 30s now) but seeing mothers even fathers legit able to give away a child or neglect a child with no remorse hurts my heart an if I had a big enough home or the money I'd be in every adoption agency possible fostering hundreds of neglected kids to atleast give them a sense of home until there forever home, I'd prolly even be that woman with a buncha kids from adopting them because I couldn't let them leave once I grew attached 🤣 But I'm glad "beths" kids are with someone who will love an care about them. - Godbless xx
@@davidguidry657 awee thank you. I guess I was just raised right. I was adopted away from a pretty bad situation myself ( only 3 wks old ) Tg I wasn't older to endure anything worse then what I did, but my mother who raised me is my everything an tought me everything I know in life, an I am lucky to have had a second chance that some don't have an unfortunately it shows with their upbringing :( But sorry for rambling lol. Thank you again. Hope you have a good day.
And this is exactly why I will always preach "parenthood needs to be a CHOICE, not an OBLIGATION, because when it's out of obligation (i.e. "the right thing to do") the parent could very well grow to absolutely resent their child. Exhibit A 💁🏼♀️
I need therapy now just from listening to that dumpster fire of toxicity! The only thing that made it more palatable was that Charlotte was the one reading it! I really hope Beth gets help because there's clearly underlying issues.
As someone who made a lot of bad decisions, & married a man who was married when we started dating (he had lied & told me the divorce was final they only needed to go to court, didn’t find out differently until he left us & said I deserved it bc I slept w a married man) Sometimes when you grow up abused & in a toxic environment, you’re just super naive & bad at making good choices. Until you heal yourself. I worry for “Beth”, but mostly these poor little babies. This is how the cycle continues. But also, can we plz have her real name. She sounds like the best movie this year lol
I swear I had an existential crisis at the part where they were talking about the wedding colours because I used to watch Cardcaptor Sakura and it was my favourite thing for the longest time. Sakura’s favourite colour is pink and Syaoran’s is green (I think? That’s just what I associated him with), and I used to roleplay them all the timeskskdkfjcndbsndnfnd
I really needed that complete story. Those poor men and those poor children!!! She's been victimized by her own actions... and where I know what that feels like, I've never done anything close to all this. Makes me kinda feel bad for her too. She isn't even self aware at this point.
Yeah, it sounds like she’s been traumatized herself. I’m not excusing her actions by any means! Just acknowledging what are clear signs of trauma responses on her part. Everyone in this story needs help. Everyone reading this story needs help now too. 😉
Beth is just one of those people you’re parents warned you about. The kind of person who thought it’ll be funny to get you hyped on cocaine or push you off a cliff
If I knew someone like that, I would run the hell away. I've seen situations like this where it basically turns into a forest fire and messes up even innocent people just because they've been in the vicinity... What the OP is going through would be a really stressful situation for me.
It's actually the best parenting move "Beth" has ever made to acknowledge that she doesn't like her kids and doesn't like being a mom, and wants to give up her children. That is the best possible outcome for her kids, to get into a nurturing and cherishing environment before many more years pass with this dismissive, callous person for a mother. It actually takes some kind of humility and self-introspection to acknowledge that you hate your kids and don't want to be a mom, for a lot of people it's easy to make it an ego thing that "of COURSE I'm a GOOD MOM".
Oooooo the tea is good in this story and I’m here for it! This is the largest train wreck I’ve heard about on your channel. Thank you for bringing part 2
Beth's kids deserved better, and I'm glad she realized that. Hopefully Beth herself can find therapy or some kind of help- but like other comments have said, it seems like a complicated situation. Social media was probably making things 100x worse, too.
In the 80's starting with my daughter born 1980, eldest son 1981, youngest son 1983. My kids were all from my husband and I would not change anything. Yes it was hard but they brought me such joy. I still love them to bits, they are all in their forties now I am blessed
That... was an unholy mess. As soon as you got to the part about her leaving the kids on the side of the road, I blinked. Who jokes about that?! But you made the story funny, so thank you for that! Also, happy Canada Day to you and yours!!
Holy hell, I'm so incredibly grateful she gave those kids away before they ended up on Suffer the Little Children Podcast. That's all I could think of the whole time -- her kids could be in real danger.
I have a friend who used to complain to me about her kids and husband whenever we talked. We’ve known each other for almost 20 years, and she’s been married for about 15. Right around baby #3 through and after baby #4, we would talk about once a year, and maybe hang out. One time she told me how much she hated being a wife and mother, and how much she just wanted to walk away from everything (she and her husband were going through marital issues, and I think they still have problems). It’s been a little over a year since the last time we talked, and she didn’t mention wanting to leave her family, though she did complain a LOT about normal mom things as if they were these horrible travesties she was enduring 😅. The thing about her, though, is that even though she talks about how much she resents what her kids have “stolen” from her (youth, time, energy, money, etc.), she still does all she can to make sure they’re happy, and that their basic needs are met. Emotionally, I think she could be doing a much better job, but she’s not even taking care of herself in that area, so I can’t expect her to take care of her kids. She’s not a horrible mom (definitely not as bad as “Beth”) but I know she could be doing a lot better, too. Mental health is important, y’all.
That was just... a lot 😅 I'm so glad that the kids are safe. I really hope that she gets some help at therapy, or at least starts to talk to someone. Therapy isn't a bad thing and I really hope she realizes that.
As a Tater Tot, we know that you’re the best kind of Beth! The complete opposite of the one depicted herein. Sorta like the Karens that watch the Karen videos of Miss Charlotte. 😉
In the US we have little doors at fire departments and police stations. When parents are overwhelmed, they can put their children through the door at any time no questions asked. It legally terminates their rights.
Someone that age with that level of income and all those kids spending $20,000 on a honeymoon regardless of where it comes from just shows what kind of person she is.
I have been watching Charlotte for almost a year and a half now (I kept getting recommended her bridezilla vids while helping my sister plan her wedding, funny because she was fine but her now husband was a bit of a groomzilla😂) and I adore all her videos. If I’m being honest, when the little puppet stick things were first used, I didn’t like them. I just didn’t get it I guess, but I’m glad that I’m coming around to them and the shark one is now my favorite😂😂 Keep doing you, girl. Your humor is at the perfect level to get me through college. Anytime my anxiety is bad or I get into a bad mental health state, I watch your videos to help me feel better enough to start climbing back out again.
Charlotte's face after the "I left them on the side of the road" comment. You could see how much the gravity of that hit her and she really had to process before she could "react" in an 'internet-appropriate' way. It just made me really sad.
For shame!!!! One should never undercut the Potato Queen! 😉 Luckily you seem to have learned your lesson so the 50 lashes with a wet noodle will not be administered and you are allowed to retain your thumbnails. 😉😂
My dad would tell at me anytime I cried. Now I have conversion disorder and I think not letting myself cry out of fear internalized my pain and now my body is basically making me feel things if I don't let myself
As entertaining as this was. I just gotta say. Im a child of a woman who sounds a lot like this bride. I pray the fathers get custody. I really do. The emotional damage women like this cause to their kids. Its heartbreaking.
Yeah Beth definitely doesn't need to be a mom and I'm very happy that those children are out of her life. What parent calls their daughter a c▪▪t ? And if Adam had to go to court to fight for his child at least there was a lot of evidence on her social media showing how she isn't fit to be a mother. Love your videos Peace and love to you and your family 💙💚💙💚💙💚
It is from yesterday. It’s a continuation and she decided to give the whole upload to this cheating Bridezilla’s 👈🏼 word salad. 😂 Apologies, couldn’t sleep last night.
I can’t imagine growing up with my cousin and grandparents, finding out I have 2 other siblings and you all have different dads and your mum was a nutcase who joked about leaving you on the side of the road when you were on the way home from the hospital, knowing one day she probably will come looking for money, cause she is a mooch and thinks she is entitled to other peoples money. It’s just really sad, some people shouldn’t be allowed to have children.
You know Charlotte, the background music used reminded me of a restaurant or cafe setting, so it was like you were telling us this story over a coffee or meal. Beautiful
“If he’ll cheat with you, he’ll cheat on you” is 100% accurate! Cops being known for their infidelity is also accurate. Infidelity and abuse are both super common unfortunately and they get away with it because they all cover for each other and use the system to their advantage. This girl needs some real help, like therapy and maybe another (more in depth) sex ed course… I am so tired of watching women do this and not only ruin friendships, rip families apart, but hurt their children in the process. Then be surprised when no one wants to be there anymore. At some point you have to stop helping in the way they want because you’re simply enabling their behavior.
Prefrontal cortex (part of our brain) STARTS to develop from the age of 12 and finishes at the age of 22, but can be up to 25 years old. That part is to do with judgment, decision making, and knowing the right from wrong. That is why children below the age of 12 (depending of country, culture, laws, etc) cannot be held legally responsible for their actions. So, ‘Beth’ hasn’t developed enough to make ANY decisions she was making.
Sounds like a train wreak, Karma at it's finest. I'm sad about the children cause children are innocent an deserve the world. I couldn't carry fullterm an lost 5 babies, I'm glad she gave the babies away to homes that they'll be loved an hour the trauma she gave them, they won't remember. How sad, I was cringing the whole time. Love your commentary, Queen
HERE IS THE UPDATE AS PROMISED! If you've seen the first part, be sure to check out the description for a time stamp!
Oh yes now I see💗
No way! I’m popping 🍿, brewing some 🍵, and settling in to get caught up! Yay!
Yaaas
Thank you so much. This had all archetypes of a hateful person: Karen, Bridezilla, Racist, Toxic Mom, Cheater, Sh!t stirrer, just name it...
Thank you for always following up I know everybody really appreciates it! It’s super frustrating when a creator doesn’t and they just leave you hanging. But you literally have never done that and it’s hugely appreciated. 💗
honestly I'm glad she gave up the kids. I've known people like this, and people that used their kids as weapons to get money from the fathers, and take them to court constantly, and they always *always* hated the children. The kids were nothing to them and neglected like crazy. Raising a mentally well child is hard enough, but it's impossible when you give 0 shits about them. I'm not a fan of children, but no one deserves to be raised by someone that clearly hates them or sees them as nothing but a burden. I hope those kids recover and get to enjoy the new families they're in.
I'm glad, too. My nephew's mother is similar to this, except she was only interested in the attention she got from being pregnant and having a baby. Once the kid started to form a personality or she didn't get as much attention, she'd be pregnant again and the kid would be ignored. Luckily all of her kids were taken away, and are thriving with the family members of their respective fathers.
Back when I was in foster care there was a woman who kept getting pregnant for the financial aid. Each baby was immediately taken and put to the system after birth and this crazy woman would go right back out and get pregnant by someone random man again. She didn’t care about the kids, just the money (like my foster parents) last I heard she was on her tenth pregnancy
@@Coira2 I know so many cases of that
@@izzywolflover that's a damn shame ,can we still call her a human ?
@@suemetzger5302 I sure don’t
"I didn't go on her Facebook page until the evening because I didn't want to deal with drama first thing in the morning." We are not the same. I'm gonna need Beth's socials.
Very this
Same! In fact, I'd love that FB page so I can keep up with Beth's "journey". Seriously, I want that page.
@@robynescott2291 so have found the account yet? Plssss let me know 😂😁
@@juym4256 saaaame please haha
Update if you find Beth's socials pls 😂
Adam sounds like a great dad, and a pretty good dude.
I’m so RELIEVED that all those poor kids ended up with parents who loved them and wanted to take care of them.
Life isn't a book with a definite ending until you're dead. I'm glad she gave up her children, but it would be better to put them for adoption through the system instead (except baby A), why? Because she will have contact with the woman she gave up her baby to, which means she could come back years later to try to become part of the children's life or demand money from them "because she is their real mother". I can just see it.
I just hope babies A, B and C are able to get to know each other and have a good relationship.
Me, too!
Giving them to those people, SPECIFICALLY to those people, was the BEST thing she could ever do, as a mother.
She probably wanted to give them away, for years, but didn't because she would be viewed as selfish and bad. It was BRAVE to give them up. And it was for their own good. As much as she hated being a mother, she KNEW people would judge her harshly for giving them up, so she kept them as a shield against that judgement.
When you're a bad mother, you can't win. Keep them, and you're a bad mother. Give them up, and ... you're a bad mother. Except that, if you ARE a bad mother, giving them up IS THE BEST THING YOU COULD EVER DO FOR YOUR CHILDREN! Giving your children up for adoption IS the loving option.
I truly hope that the new parents teach their children that their mother gave them up OUT OF LOVE for them. She didn't like being a mother, true. But she CHOSE to PROTECT them from her future self, putting them in SAFE places before she lost control and hurt them, as she inevitably would, if she kept them any longer. She'd grow to resent and hat them. She might even grow to ENJOY the abuse.
I hope they teach their children that THEY ARE LOVED, and to never feel bad about being given up by their birth mother.
That's all a clusterfck, but can we address how that first DOCTOR LIED to her about pills and pregnancy prevention?! She didn't want to get pregnant anymore and it could have stopped this whole mess from getting so problematic.
That doctor is horrible and definitely should get the brunt of the blame.
@@steph8030593 He is a professional! Listening to the mother is exactly the problem. Wtf is he doing?! And she already had children if I remember correctly, so if that was the mothers "reason" she is far gone. As i said, this situation is full of horrible decisions/people, but a professional shouldn't let themselves be controlled by (more or less random) people. It is unacceptable to lie to patients. It is unacceptable to jeopardise their health and life just so family members can control what happens to her body and her life. He ain't professional. He is disgusting.
@@kiram.3619 100% agree!!!
@@steph8030593 By her second pregnancy, I assume she became a legal adult, to which, her mother has no right in her medical choices. The family friend doctor was refusing medication that could've helped Beth simply because they're biased.
That doctor should have their license revoked.
Well if she was breast-feeding then the doctor didn’t lie to her. You do know that if you’re breast-feeding your child you can’t take hormonal birth control because it’ll affect the baby right? If a breast-feeding mother takes estrogen so does her baby. No one wants a baby on estrogen.
I would have printed all the kids photos that she had on social media and made a scrap book and sent it to her for a wedding gift.
Oh I *like* the way you think.
Love that idea 👍
I doubt there would be many photos of the children.
I bet Satan's a fan of you 😅😂
@@Necromancer0225 , I'll bet Satan is a fan of Beth (and Beths parents).
It isn't the worst thing Beth has done, but the part that sticks out to me the most is her wanting to basically steal Christmas from her children so she can make the holiday all about herself instead. Like just about every other commenter has said, thank God those kids are being raised by people who actually care about them now.
100%
She’s the type of mom who would end up with an ahole who abused her kids and she would not care one bit. Or she’d snap one day and start hitting them or worse. They are very very lucky they aren’t being raised by her anymore.
I call bullshit on the Xmas situation anyways. I've never heard of a courthouse that's even OPEN on xmas day. Am I crazy?
You're not crazy, they're definitely not open on Christmas.
But it was never said she got married that day, just that she tried to (not sure why Chad didn't think of that and tell her?) during a live stream and got pissed that it was closed. Then scared baby with her yelling and called baby a c***. @@kahla3363
At first this was all funny, but the longer it went on, the more horrified I became. I was seriously relieved when it turned out that "Beth" was only joking about abandoning her children on the side of the road. At least the kids are with people who actually want them and will love them now.
That was one of the points where I had to stop the video because I was just absolutely shocked. After hearing everything else that was going on with "Beth" I just assumed that she was telling the truth, but was trying to convince myself that it was a joke.
Yes I started fast forwarding.
Yes. It definitely took a bad turn at some point and it’s almost relieving that OP was in Beth’s life to just ask the simple question if she liked her kids or being a mom. Those kids deserved love and clearly she wasn’t going to give it to her. People who have been hurt continue to hurt others. It’s a sad cycle but one day Beth will grow up and have a real relationship with her children. PPD is a huge setback for a lot of moms and being honest with yourself has to be the number one action to take to get better. Say what you want about Beth and her choices with everything else. This one and only choice she made was the most selfless and crucial act of all. I think it was the beginning of her becoming another person. Like the parents in Matilda giving her up to Ms. Honey.
The seed was planted in her head though -- it was a matter of time before she had a bad night and tried it--
Considering what we had heard prior to that... I think most of us believed she was capable of doing it. I'm glad it's not true, but truth be I wouldn't put it past her. Thankfully those children are with parents who really want them and will love them, unlike "Beth".
I imagine beth and chad won’t last long with the baby gone to a new home but I honestly am so happy she got a new doctor who gave her BC. The fact that she was denied it when she was a teen mother is INSANE to me. I’m also glad she realized she doesnt want to be a mother and will probably put more effort towards not getting pregnant again and I’m glad baby A is with her loving father and B and C have a new family that love them and B can still see his grandparents. Beth may be mentally unstable and not a very nice person but I see this as the best ending we couldve gotten to this shit show. I hope she eventually gets help
That talk at the clinic was definitely the saddest part and spoke volumes.
“Do you even want your kids? Do you even want to be a mom?”
“…No” I feel like Beth needed that talk, and I don’t blame her for giving up her kids. She gave them to people who wanted them and can give them a better life more ever than she or the system could. She’s delusional, and sadly bitter and closed minded because of it, but she went through trauma and never got the right treatment nor coping she needed, even if she had some help to keep her afloat. She didn’t have “real” friends that stayed by her side through and through it seems like, her family wasn’t supportive, and the only form of love she got was toxic and thought marriage and kids and a family would fix all that… I hope one day she can truly leave Chad, focus on herself, and get the help she needs …
@@TvTrollByIvy I can understand that. She’s at an age where she is finally held responsible for her own actions and consequences, and no one including myself can ask for anything different really. However I do hope she gets some further awakening and gets help to become a better person, mostly for herself, and people can see she’s changed, because I feel like at this point she needs to change for herself, not others, and that may be selfish, but sometimes you go too far in life, but the only really you need to change is because everyone else already sees no hope in you and you used to think it was everyone else’s fault, but now you realizes you can make a change and in reality something’s in your life sucked ass and it made you not such a great person in the end…
I know a woman like this... or she dated my bf and my ex, she had 5 kids in like 4 years and gave 3 of them to her 2nd baby dad's ex step mom (all 5 have different dads) and my bf said she'd just let them do whatever they wanted and refused to teach them or anything. Thankfully they're with good people now but no clue what happened to her last 2, just that she doesn't have them
Everything that “Beth” has done is insane and horrifying, and thank god those kids ended up in loving homes. Yet, for my curiosity’s sake I’m dying to know if anyone actually attended her wedding and gave in to her crazy demands!?
did the wedding even happen? chad was doing the right thing but she gave up the kid...
No, they eloped so probably no one attended.
I’m curious too - cause Chad was cheating on her, so did they even have a wedding? Or did Chad find someone else to run off with?
@@Coops1985 I'm curious too. I can't see why they would give up Baby C if the wedding happened and they were still together. Either way, apparently even Chad is lousy father who didn't step up for his kid. Only Adam of the 3 dads seems to care for his child. Maybe she should just stuck with baby daddy #1 Adam and not have cheated.
This is the craziest thing I have heard. That bride is a total narcissist with zero empathy, lack of boundary recognition and a sense of entitlement among so many other toxic behaviors! But I am all for this drama!!! Thank you Charlotte for finding this sh@# storm of a story and following up with a part 2.
I'm going to assume she has histrionic personality disorder as well. The constant ranting and raving on social media for attention, the demands, the cheating and attention she craves from men, etc. I'm going to also assume there is an underlying depression and fear of abandonment.
I mean a lot of this is her parents fault
@@nutelloza no its not... She made her decisions. The parents were wrong to kick her out cz of child A but that girl made her decisions & they can't be blamed on anyone else
@@teegee9428 just because someone is an adult who makes choices doesn’t mean we can’t see and acknowledge the role other people play in their lives. In this case her parents played quite a large one.
@@nutelloza oh please, was it her parents who told her to go and have unprotected s*x ??!! It would have been understandable if it were one mistake but doing it THRICE?!! That's what we call stupidity 🙄🤦🏾♀️
My grandmother left my Mom on the side of the road when she was 8-10. She's psychotic and hasn't apologized to anyone for her actions.
Omg I’m sorry
@@iHeartAmySue thanks, she's almost dead now anyway so it's hard for us to care
My sister-in-law left her 9 year old in front of his dads house (late at night) with a small box of clothes) and didn't even walk her son up to the door. Note: she only raised 1 (of 3) sons herself. Her ex-raised one. Her parents raised the other. All 3 have different fathers.
I knew a guy whose mother abandoned him at a gas station when he was 10. She was a nurse.
Lol
Beth is the epitome of a problematic person and seriously needs to seek professional help ASAP... I'm shocked that there were people on that thread who took her side. at first it was funny but now I'm genuinely upset. It is a serious condition when you don't feel remorse and aren't self aware. I was not surprised to find that her whole family (even people involved with her like BF B and C) are the same material... My heart broke for those children...
Wdym same material? BF A was actually a good person. He was actually in love with her and wanted to marry her. But she went on cheated on him and got pregnant.
@@AndyStarzs1 oh yeah I forgot about that bit. Should I edit my comment? Ooh yeah he was the responsible parent in this situation
@@azure5273 lol. Yea. He even got their kid taken away from her cause she’s crazy. He was the first one to take his kid back and he was paying child support and for everything involving his baby while she just sat there.
Seems obvious her parents really stunted her development. They told her counseling is for "crazy" people and birth control is for sluts. When she needed them most, they kicked her out.
Her cheating on Adam and constantly rejecting him was her biggest mistake, he genuinely loved and cared about her, not to mention he wanted to do the right thing by her, but bfs B and C I think used her and probably had an equal hand in messing her up even if she should 100% take responsibility for her actions. I'm glad her other kids are being raised by people who actually want them and love them. Women like her do not deserve to be mothers.
I’m completely exhausted after that story! I am so glad she gave up custody of her kids. They deserve better
Me too. Those babies still have a chance to grow up in a loving home.
So does she! I mean she was 19 she was a kid herself
As some who has HAD 3 kids in four years (albeit from the same dad… and we are married) it is difficult. But I am *DISGUSTED* that she would neglect her kids while they are crying and yell at them just for being kids. There’s a lot of pent up shame that she imposes on her children. I hope Adam can keep his daughter. He obviously loves her dearly
It's wild cause her frontal lobe hadn't even finished developing and she had 3 kids can't imagine how hard it was and I hope she did give them up but started contact when she got herself better. Poor kids
As awful as social media is, if "Beth" hadn't posted the entire history of her life and OP hadn't witnessed it she wouldn't have had that conversation that made Beth realize she wanted to give up custody of those children. Likewise, there wouldn't have been documented proof of her neglect for "Adam" to gain custody at all. It's sickening to think people like this exist who then traumatize their own children, and give single moms/moms with kids from multiple partners a bad reputation.
yup, OP truly did one of the, if not the best, things she could do to help her and her children.
Facts!
The whole situation is honestly heartbreaking, Beth is clearly such a broken person
I am reminded of a couple I went to high school with who got married immediately after graduation. The social media chaos through the disintegration of their relationship and the nastiest divorce I’ve ever seen was horrifying to watch, especially since a child was involved, but HOLY MOLY was it entertaining as hell.
Lmfao! I keep warning my baby’s father to get the fuck away from his psychotic girlfriend who was married and he cheated on me with! Or else this is what’s going to end up happening to him! Except she doesn’t dare show her face on Facebook anymore because she knows she’d get it!
I too am shocked at how easily people will air their dirty laundry on social media as if it were a flag to be saluted. Post actual bald faced lies.
i worked with 2 ppl that got married, popped out 3 kids and then had a very acrimonious divorce with too many details shared on facebook (and i was friends with both of them).
😲 and Adam sounds like such a nice guy and good dad. She probably could have had a pretty good life with him. 🤦🏽♀️ So glad the kids are being taken care of. Those poor babies.
The fact that you do both sides of the dating and cheating spectrum gives me so much respect for your channel. Keep being you for real.
An FBI advisory board later found that roughly 40 percent of officers who filled out questionnaires in a number of different settings admitted to being physically violent with their spouse in the previous six months. The general population data for self-reported abuse is closer to 4 percent when people are asked to report on the last 12 months.
As a PhD student my first real moment of holy crap concern was the part where Brad is having an affair with his TA. That’s a massive Title IX violation at best and could actually be much worse depending on the specifics. Now I must know what happened with/to the TA. Assuming she’s a graduate TA she is going to land herself in a LOT of trouble and my curious ass is worried about that ultimately irrelevant detail to this whole shiteshow of a situation😭😭
Maybe, I was a TA while I was an undergrad because it was a job the university offered each semester. You had to have done well in the class and be in that major though.
@@Blue_Star_Child lol theyre literally getting their doctorate.. they know how TA's work. they even hold your hand for that fact in the comment youre replying to.
You know, I was one of the people who asked for the rest of the story.... I wish I had not. Beth has so many problems, including destructive narcissism; she needs serious help but is so deeply invested in believing in her self victimization and, frankly, she is addicted to her own negativity. The only thing outsiders can hope for is that those children are removed from her influence so that they might have a chance to grow better than they ever could with her raising them. Such a shame that OP had to endure a slur before cutting Beth out of her life. We all need a cleanse after that story
I definitely need a cleanse after this those kinds of people make me sick.
Yeah. I'm kinda sorry now that asked also! I need sage, prayer and a huge bottle of red wine now!
@@mariagarcia-pb8rw same here
Honestly, I kind of feel sorry for Beth. Considering how her parents acted with her, I can only guess that she had a rough childhood. Then she became pregnant, got post-partum depression (most likely), and never got out of it because no one was there for her. No one was teaching her. And then she just spiraled. I hope that she will get better
Honestly same.. and that bit towards the end about being denied birth control screams red flags to me... she didn't want to be a mom and going through all that.. no wonder she lost her God dammed mind
Women are ALWAYS victims no matter wat they do...
Don't feel sorry for Beth, or anyone in the story. Everything on these Reddit subs are just fictional stories, or slightly true but embellished to the point of ridiculousness.
@@TryMyMartini just because your life is boring doesnt mean others' are
I read the update and she’s not really better. She’s now a feminist who believes in women’s reproductive rights while Chad is a sexist who believes women should be forced to have babies. They did marry but are miserable. Chad has a mistress but Beth doesn’t care. OP saw her post was read by Charlotte Dobre and was nervous that Beth would find out but turns out Beth has asked 15 other women to be MOH and 8 other women were in OP’s position. Beth got therapy but the bridge between her and OP has been burned. Beth’s sister came out gay and her parents kicked her out but the relationship between Beth and her sister still hasn’t healed. OP is doing pretty well for her self. But as for Beth until she realizes that Chad is a scumbag she will forever be stuck in her personal hell unless she divorces him and moves on.
Pregnant teens parents: Let's kick our underage vulnerable daughter out on the streets for sinning.
Also pregnant teens parents: We just don't understand how our daughter is making such bad decisions.
Well, I could give you a few reasons.
Reason #1: Where were you for the discussion on birth control and safe-sex?
Reason #2: Being narcissistic.
Reason #3: shaming and guilting instead of being compassionate and loving
Beautifully said y’all
I have a feeling that even understanding from the parents wouldn't have saved this one. As far as I can tell she had enough chances and help offered to turn it around, but she chose not to take them. There is only so much blame you can put on the parents.
Not saying that they shouldn't have at least tried.
Hey Charlotte, I wanted you to know that you have helped me through some dark days. I found your channel by accident about a year ago. You have helped me find laughter again. I have Bipolar Disorder type 1 and lupus. I was majorly depressed and wanted to die. Then I saw your videos. I went back and watched all of them. My emotional support animal, Sophie has been along for the ride. Now whenever she hears your voice she runs and jumps up beside me. She knows how much I love your channel and how much I love you. Thank you for everything.
I am about to have surgery and will be unable to DO THINGS for a full three months, and all I will be able to do is watch videos. For three months. I'm going to go mad.
BUT! I have a lot of Charlotte Dobre to look forward to, and that helps me think I can get through this.
Just watching her makes me smile, and she picks those clips and stories that make me think, "Even at my worst, my life is better than that! Yaaay! Silver linings!"
Seriously, if you ever suffer from bad self-esteem, watch a Charlotte Dobre video, and you'll feel better about yourself, in comparison...
Unless you ARE ON the video! Haha!
All right, so the healthiest parts about this are a) Beth giving up her kids so they can go to homes where they will be loved and cared for as ought to be, and b) the OP saying "Nope, I'm done here" and cutting Beth off for good.
Well, I wanted an update. Somehow it didn't occur to me that it would be an update that made ME feel like I needed therapy afterwards. This was...a fucking hellish ride.
18:26 "you just made a joke about child abandonment, you're not being serious enough" dude. That was honestly so healing to me. If they can arbitrarily state "you're being too serious" then I can arbitrarily state that they're not being serious enough. Who says their word is better than mine? Them, probably, lmao. So nope. Now I know what my energy to "lighten up it's a joke" is gonna be.
I have soooo many mixed feelings about this story. I'm just happy that none of the kids are with Beth - horrible horrible person! I do believe she suffers from post-maternal depression and more things, given that her parents kicked her out. Just crazy crazy story, thank you Charlotte for this update... only you could do this in a funny way! As always, you lift up my mornings with your videos! 🦈🦈🦈
Bipolar disorder is a strong possibility, she seems to be suffering from Manic episodes.
I think postpartum psychosis is what would be more likely. My best friend suffered greatly, with this after the birth of her second child.
@@louisejohnson6057 postpartum can be classified as:
1. Postpartum Blues: totally normal said person just had a baby it's OK to feel overwhelmed. Baby is NOT in any danger, can last upto 2 weeks.
2. Postpartum Depression: postpartum blues lasting over 2 weeks is considered depression, can last for months, symptoms and signs of depression present, NO thoughts of harming the baby are present.
3. Postpartum Psychosis: this is a medical emergency thoughts of self harm/ harming the baby are present. It is a psychotic break can include auditory/visual hallucinations, delusions and many other symptoms. Requires immediate medical treatment. What causes it? No one knows. But people with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder are at a higher risk of experiencing postpartum psychosis.
Since she gave the kids up knowing she didn't want them and it was better for them, psychosis doesn't fit, postpartum psychosis is extremely dangerous, if she would have left the kids on that road or tried to harm them then that diagnosis would be a better fit!
Postpartum checkups are extremely important, don't miss them and never be afraid or ashamed about how you're feeling post birth, let those who love you know how you're feeling, it's OK!
@@davidsmnje At the end of the day it is impossible to diagnose somebody through a Reddit post, written by another person, who got a lot of information via Facebook, but thanks for the general info!
@@davidsmnje , I'm a 60 yr old woman. No worries about postpartum anything with me, thank Goddess.
As a mom of 2, I will always support and try to help my kids. Even if they made horrible decisions like Beth. Sometimes all you can do is be there for them.
The only good thing I can say about Beth is her decision to give up her kids. She may have done it because she didn’t want them. She may not have acknowledged that she was a bad mom. But at least she didn’t insist on keeping them, at least she didn’t force them to live with a mother that doesn’t love them. We’ve all heard the stories of kids being raised by narcissists or neglectful parents who don’t love them, the abuse and neglect that they can experience is heartbreaking. So I’m glad those kids are living with people who will love them and hopefully be good parents.
I would bet the girl was dealing with very bad postpartum depression. When new mothers neglect, harm or hate their kids etc PPD is most likely the culprit. Especially w her going through all that trauma I’m almost positive that’s what happened.
I’m glad she didn’t hurt them like so many new moms do.
My wife had bad PPD after our daughter and a miscarriage, multiple deaths in the immediate family and more.
Luckily we got her help quickly.
From reading all this she definitely needs to see someone. When she heals from all this and her mind is clear again I’m sure she’ll regret giving her kids away.
It’s so sad really
1/500 experience postpartum psychosis. It's common but barely acknowledged in the medical world. I think that's what "Beth" is dealing with. Glad things worked out well for you! PPD is no joke either.
mandatory: "I'm not a doctor" - but it looks more like paranoia to me; 'beth' is constantly writing as if everybody is against her, or everybody is plotting against her; one simple comment makes her send you to hell... IDK but I wouldn't be surprised if she started with trust issues (beacause of what her parents did, those irresponsible people) and ended up full blown paranoid.
@@dalpz205 my PPP was picked up really quickly as I was considered high risk. But, I didn't bond with my eldest because I had a delusional belief that the nurses has given me the wrong baby (they hadn't). I started to resent him more with every feed because I believed he wasn't my kid. Thankfully I didn't have any urge to hurt him and it took some work for me to make that connection. But, I really don't know where we'd be without treatment (I needed medication, I had to stop BF, and therapy).
@@ladytimeoin Oh I'm so glad it was recognized and you got help. Honestly had no idea it was as common as it is. I would imagine it's difficult to diagnose esp for the patient. Glad it turned out well for you!
"If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you" Truer words have never been spoken.
Honestly..... Along with Beth's decisions, I blame the parents for making Beth this way. 100% I bet they have a lot of things to do with what Beth is going through and why she chose those decisions.
I agree
Honestly - Charlotte’s variety of slightly unhinged faces being superimposed in the most rudimentary way onto everyone and everything that appears in a graphic, is truly genius and just makes me lol so much. It’s such a simple thing but it’s SO effective, especially coupled with the timing of the appearance of the pictures! 😂😂😂😂❤
Your makeup and hair in your DP look really good. And yes, Charlotte's reactions in these videos are really good XD
Beth screams narcissism: Can't take responsibility, always the victim, unreasonable demands, everyone is against her, stupid life choices, probably lying about many things to come out as the victim...
But she needs to be complimented and encouraged for her behaviour. You are not gonna change these people. Dump them and be happy you lost them.
On a serious note, imagine how different things might have been if this girl had supportive parents in the first place.
OR. Hear me out. Didn’t get pregnant. Then none of it ever would have happened. It’s pretty easy to not get pregnant.
@@gw1627 Actually you can do everything right, take hormonale birth control correctly and still get pregnant. There is no 100% guaranteed way to not get pregnant.
@@gw1627 That’s… not how that works, friend.
Or, imagine if she had been born with a brain that processed thought and a heart that loved someone other than herself.
@@Freya778 a combination of condoms and hormonal birth control (if stored properly and not left in a hot car for several days) is 99% effective. How add a female condom too and you’ll have 99.99% effective. Yes, you can wear a normal condom and a female condom at the same time. There are also lubricants that contain a spermicide. The list is huge and endless. It’s more likely this gal just didn’t care about birth control and just though “oh poor me, whatever. “
Holly crap, those poor kids having "Beth" as a mom. It's so horrible when the mom is the bad parent because Moms are supposed to naturally want to protect their kids. Not yell at them, scare them, call them names and make them feel neglected and unsafe.
So happy the kids are with better people now, hopefully they recovered from all they trauma.
Clinically it sounds to me like she could have borderline personality disorder. A lot of the classic characteristics are there. I could also see some narcissistic traits as well. I wonder what her upbringing was like. Her parents might have physically been there but clearly there was emotional neglect to some extent. Hence why she goes after people who are unavailable then proceeds to “trap” them by getting pregnant so they won’t abandon her. She definitely has a huge fear of abandonment.
Yes, I think there is some undiagnosed mental illness in this situation.
Please don't throw out diagnoses, it gives a bad image to people who actually have BPD and don't do any of this sh*t
I’m so glad she let those kids go to people who care about them. My mom has been a foster parent for almost 20 years, and we’ve seen things like this and worse. As invested as I was in this story, I’m glad the OP decided to distance herself from that woman who clearly is suffering from a mental illness, if not more than one. The trauma of being rejected by family added to the postpartum depression just made things worse for her. I hope she eventually gets the help she needs.
I'm in Canada and even if it wasn't Christmas day, you can't actually just show up at the courthouse and get married. So many people want a simple ceremony that there's a waitlist of many months. I'm in a major city though.
This 👍, it's the same every where, you book in and you take your turn. Same in Ireland.
Where I live, the couple also has to apply for a marriage license well in advance. So people can't just randomly show up to get married unless they already have their license in order.
I’m gonna be honest, when she said she doesn’t like her kids, my mind immediately went to ppd. She didn’t have a lot of support. I definitely think therapy could’ve helped her.
I'm glad that she signed over her kids to a cousin who obviously wants and loves them. I honestly feared for the children's safety.
This was absolutely insane. Those poor babies. I'm glad they are with people who love them. How totally narcissist "Beth" is and how cruel. Sheesh.
I’m glad the children are with parents that love them and care for them. Hopefully she stays on birth control she doesn’t need to have kids EVER! She definitely needs professional help but doesn’t sound like that’ll happen any time soon 😬 I think Adam dodged a bullet 😂 Love your videos Charlotte! So happy you showed up on my FB feed and I found your RUclips channel 😊
Adam dodged a goddamn nuke, honey
Those babies going to loving homes is the only good part of this fiasco! I doubt that she will stay on birth control. That's her preferred method of "man-trapping" and grabbing attention on social media. She's learned she has no responsibility to the babies she births, she can just give them away. It will happen again.
I think she needs to get her tubes tied, period. Cuz birth control can fail as well as if she decides it's too much work to keep taking it and just doesn't take it anymore...
Really love watching these vids, keep it up Charlotte!
That's how children get abused sometimes parents in thier minds blame children for ruining thier lives then vent thier angers and frustrations on thier kids.
I'm honestly surprised she gave up her kids. That's surprisingly responsible.
That shark!!! The SHARK KNOWS!! 😂😂😂
I’ve heard this several times (while taking a shower, doing makeup, etc) and only now did I have the thought: what if Beth was suffering postpartum depression? And just never got diagnosed or treated.
Omg and I thought that my family was crazy lol thank you Charlotte for the update. I now feel less crazy. But I am glad that "Beth" was woman enough to make the choice to let her children go to someone who would love them and care for them in a way that she just couldn't. That is the biggest expression of love that a Mother can do. I'm also glad that her Dr finally put her on birth control, since I would of called her Mertile as in Fertile Mertile, lol. I hope that she someday realizes that she has had a lot of trauma in her life and that there is no shame in getting help with that and seeks therapy or counseling. The fact that this is a true story and someone's actual life makes me sad for them. Unfortunately, I know that there are many more parents that don't enjoy being a parent and take it out on their children. I have to admired the bravery and strength of this young woman had giving her children a chance of happiness that she didn't have herself.
What can you say except WOW! As a mother of 2 boys its so hard for me to believe anyone could feel this way about their own childern! I would starve in order for mine to eat, I'd die to protect them! One of the worst things as a parent is for your child to be sick or hurt and there's nothing you can do to stop it it literally will break your heart into not to mention the mini heart attacks you have when you see your child fall or go too close to the road! Mine are older teens now (18 & 16) but I still get those mini heat attacks if I think something is serious with them so I'll never understand people like this or ones how abuse & mistreat or worse. I'm so happy they are away from her now. But what's that say about the man she's getting ready to marry? He's seen all this and still wants to marry her? And wasn't the last baby he's? They both are trash IMO
As a dad, I applaud Adam for doing what he had to do and taking the risk to “kidnap” his own child. I also completely relate to your “mini heart attacks” description. Very apt! Thanks for being a good mom!
Greetings from San Antonio TX USA.
Right there with you as a mother of two boys (6&3) I get anxiety every time I hear a cry or scream thinking who hurt what an how bad but boys will be boys an by the time I see what actually happen they'll both be laughing or moved on to something else 🤦🏼♀️ I sware being a boy mom is going to turn me Gray earlier then I should ( I'm early 30s now) but seeing mothers even fathers legit able to give away a child or neglect a child with no remorse hurts my heart an if I had a big enough home or the money I'd be in every adoption agency possible fostering hundreds of neglected kids to atleast give them a sense of home until there forever home, I'd prolly even be that woman with a buncha kids from adopting them because I couldn't let them leave once I grew attached 🤣
But I'm glad "beths" kids are with someone who will love an care about them.
- Godbless xx
@@C3C3.B3LLA the world needs more people like you!
@@davidguidry657 awee thank you. I guess I was just raised right. I was adopted away from a pretty bad situation myself ( only 3 wks old ) Tg I wasn't older to endure anything worse then what I did, but my mother who raised me is my everything an tought me everything I know in life, an I am lucky to have had a second chance that some don't have an unfortunately it shows with their upbringing :(
But sorry for rambling lol. Thank you again. Hope you have a good day.
@@C3C3.B3LLA good mothers are definitely a blessing and their influence shapes the world!
And this is exactly why I will always preach "parenthood needs to be a CHOICE, not an OBLIGATION, because when it's out of obligation (i.e. "the right thing to do") the parent could very well grow to absolutely resent their child. Exhibit A 💁🏼♀️
I need therapy now just from listening to that dumpster fire of toxicity! The only thing that made it more palatable was that Charlotte was the one reading it! I really hope Beth gets help because there's clearly underlying issues.
“Oh, I left them on the side of the road.”
*the woman was too stunned to speak*
As someone who made a lot of bad decisions, & married a man who was married when we started dating (he had lied & told me the divorce was final they only needed to go to court, didn’t find out differently until he left us & said I deserved it bc I slept w a married man)
Sometimes when you grow up abused & in a toxic environment, you’re just super naive & bad at making good choices. Until you heal yourself.
I worry for “Beth”, but mostly these poor little babies. This is how the cycle continues.
But also, can we plz have her real name. She sounds like the best movie this year lol
I was thinking this is a case of generational trauma and abuse.
I swear I had an existential crisis at the part where they were talking about the wedding colours because I used to watch Cardcaptor Sakura and it was my favourite thing for the longest time. Sakura’s favourite colour is pink and Syaoran’s is green (I think? That’s just what I associated him with), and I used to roleplay them all the timeskskdkfjcndbsndnfnd
Hearing the story about this "Beth" person. 1 quote comes to my mind. From the iconic Nene leakes "close your legs to married men. Trash box"🙈😂
I really needed that complete story. Those poor men and those poor children!!! She's been victimized by her own actions... and where I know what that feels like, I've never done anything close to all this. Makes me kinda feel bad for her too. She isn't even self aware at this point.
Yeah, it sounds like she’s been traumatized herself. I’m not excusing her actions by any means! Just acknowledging what are clear signs of trauma responses on her part. Everyone in this story needs help. Everyone reading this story needs help now too. 😉
@@davidguidry657 lol no doubt.
I only feel sorry for one man and that's Adam, the rest can choke, especially Chad.
Beth is just one of those people you’re parents warned you about. The kind of person who thought it’ll be funny to get you hyped on cocaine or push you off a cliff
If I knew someone like that, I would run the hell away. I've seen situations like this where it basically turns into a forest fire and messes up even innocent people just because they've been in the vicinity... What the OP is going through would be a really stressful situation for me.
It's actually the best parenting move "Beth" has ever made to acknowledge that she doesn't like her kids and doesn't like being a mom, and wants to give up her children. That is the best possible outcome for her kids, to get into a nurturing and cherishing environment before many more years pass with this dismissive, callous person for a mother. It actually takes some kind of humility and self-introspection to acknowledge that you hate your kids and don't want to be a mom, for a lot of people it's easy to make it an ego thing that "of COURSE I'm a GOOD MOM".
Oooooo the tea is good in this story and I’m here for it! This is the largest train wreck I’ve heard about on your channel. Thank you for bringing part 2
Beth's kids deserved better, and I'm glad she realized that. Hopefully Beth herself can find therapy or some kind of help- but like other comments have said, it seems like a complicated situation. Social media was probably making things 100x worse, too.
I'm so glad I got to finish the story; as invested as I was..
In the 80's starting with my daughter born 1980, eldest son 1981, youngest son 1983.
My kids were all from my husband and I would not change anything. Yes it was hard but they brought me such joy.
I still love them to bits, they are all in their forties now I am blessed
That... was an unholy mess. As soon as you got to the part about her leaving the kids on the side of the road, I blinked. Who jokes about that?!
But you made the story funny, so thank you for that! Also, happy Canada Day to you and yours!!
Holy hell, I'm so incredibly grateful she gave those kids away before they ended up on Suffer the Little Children Podcast. That's all I could think of the whole time -- her kids could be in real danger.
I have a friend who used to complain to me about her kids and husband whenever we talked. We’ve known each other for almost 20 years, and she’s been married for about 15. Right around baby #3 through and after baby #4, we would talk about once a year, and maybe hang out.
One time she told me how much she hated being a wife and mother, and how much she just wanted to walk away from everything (she and her husband were going through marital issues, and I think they still have problems). It’s been a little over a year since the last time we talked, and she didn’t mention wanting to leave her family, though she did complain a LOT about normal mom things as if they were these horrible travesties she was enduring 😅.
The thing about her, though, is that even though she talks about how much she resents what her kids have “stolen” from her (youth, time, energy, money, etc.), she still does all she can to make sure they’re happy, and that their basic needs are met. Emotionally, I think she could be doing a much better job, but she’s not even taking care of herself in that area, so I can’t expect her to take care of her kids. She’s not a horrible mom (definitely not as bad as “Beth”) but I know she could be doing a lot better, too.
Mental health is important, y’all.
That was just... a lot 😅
I'm so glad that the kids are safe. I really hope that she gets some help at therapy, or at least starts to talk to someone. Therapy isn't a bad thing and I really hope she realizes that.
Yes!!!!!! Part 2!!! 🍿🍿🍿
As a Beth I am offended 🤣🤣🤣
Just finished and wow....That was uhhhh
As a Tater Tot, we know that you’re the best kind of Beth! The complete opposite of the one depicted herein. Sorta like the Karens that watch the Karen videos of Miss Charlotte. 😉
In the US we have little doors at fire departments and police stations. When parents are overwhelmed, they can put their children through the door at any time no questions asked. It legally terminates their rights.
You're soo funny... I must say my reactions were all aligned with you through out the video. Thanks for the laughs..🤣🤣
Someone that age with that level of income and all those kids spending $20,000 on a honeymoon regardless of where it comes from just shows what kind of person she is.
I don't care about these tiktoks most of the time but i love watching her reactions. She is so funny to me.
I have been watching Charlotte for almost a year and a half now (I kept getting recommended her bridezilla vids while helping my sister plan her wedding, funny because she was fine but her now husband was a bit of a groomzilla😂) and I adore all her videos.
If I’m being honest, when the little puppet stick things were first used, I didn’t like them. I just didn’t get it I guess, but I’m glad that I’m coming around to them and the shark one is now my favorite😂😂
Keep doing you, girl. Your humor is at the perfect level to get me through college. Anytime my anxiety is bad or I get into a bad mental health state, I watch your videos to help me feel better enough to start climbing back out again.
Charlotte's face after the "I left them on the side of the road" comment. You could see how much the gravity of that hit her and she really had to process before she could "react" in an 'internet-appropriate' way. It just made me really sad.
I got so impatient waiting for part two that I looked it up on Reddit. I enjoy Charlotte’s commentary so I’m sad that I jumped the gun on this one. :(
For shame!!!! One should never undercut the Potato Queen! 😉 Luckily you seem to have learned your lesson so the 50 lashes with a wet noodle will not be administered and you are allowed to retain your thumbnails. 😉😂
@@davidguidry657 your mercy is greatly appreciated
@@erikaraye9387 we’re a gracious bunch here in the Tater Nation. Now, go and sun no more. 😉
17:59 THE WAY MY JAW HIT THE FLOOR OMFG-
"where are you going....to the moon?" I almost got fired at work, I laughed so loud
Is there a special label for two of her kids' biological relationship? Half-sibling-second-cousins?
My dad would tell at me anytime I cried. Now I have conversion disorder and I think not letting myself cry out of fear internalized my pain and now my body is basically making me feel things if I don't let myself
As entertaining as this was. I just gotta say. Im a child of a woman who sounds a lot like this bride. I pray the fathers get custody. I really do. The emotional damage women like this cause to their kids. Its heartbreaking.
Love and light to you.
Not sure which I love more, your content, your delivery or your sense of humor. You are fantastic!
Yeah Beth definitely doesn't need to be a mom and I'm very happy that those children are out of her life. What parent calls their daughter a c▪▪t ? And if Adam had to go to court to fight for his child at least there was a lot of evidence on her social media showing how she isn't fit to be a mother. Love your videos Peace and love to you and your family 💙💚💙💚💙💚
That was a journey with so many twists and turns that I'm surprised it didn't end with throwing a magic ring into a volcano.
Adam = A
Brad = B
Chad = C
💀🤣
Why is everyone worried about Chad cheating on her but not her cheating on Chad? She also has a history of cheating.
"if he cheats with you he will cheat on you"
"How do you know"
*Ad kicks in starting with* "listen" 😅
The audacity!!!! THAT WAS EPIC.
My favorite 💖💖💖💖.
It is from yesterday. It’s a continuation and she decided to give the whole upload to this cheating Bridezilla’s 👈🏼 word salad. 😂
Apologies, couldn’t sleep last night.
@@AimeeAimee444 I got it. Thanks✌️
I can’t imagine growing up with my cousin and grandparents, finding out I have 2 other siblings and you all have different dads and your mum was a nutcase who joked about leaving you on the side of the road when you were on the way home from the hospital, knowing one day she probably will come looking for money, cause she is a mooch and thinks she is entitled to other peoples money. It’s just really sad, some people shouldn’t be allowed to have children.
You know Charlotte, the background music used reminded me of a restaurant or cafe setting, so it was like you were telling us this story over a coffee or meal. Beautiful
“If he’ll cheat with you, he’ll cheat on you” is 100% accurate! Cops being known for their infidelity is also accurate. Infidelity and abuse are both super common unfortunately and they get away with it because they all cover for each other and use the system to their advantage. This girl needs some real help, like therapy and maybe another (more in depth) sex ed course… I am so tired of watching women do this and not only ruin friendships, rip families apart, but hurt their children in the process. Then be surprised when no one wants to be there anymore. At some point you have to stop helping in the way they want because you’re simply enabling their behavior.
Prefrontal cortex (part of our brain) STARTS to develop from the age of 12 and finishes at the age of 22, but can be up to 25 years old. That part is to do with judgment, decision making, and knowing the right from wrong. That is why children below the age of 12 (depending of country, culture, laws, etc) cannot be held legally responsible for their actions. So, ‘Beth’ hasn’t developed enough to make ANY decisions she was making.
That is literally the wildest story I’ve ever heard. So sad it’s true.
Sounds like a train wreak, Karma at it's finest. I'm sad about the children cause children are innocent an deserve the world. I couldn't carry fullterm an lost 5 babies, I'm glad she gave the babies away to homes that they'll be loved an hour the trauma she gave them, they won't remember. How sad, I was cringing the whole time. Love your commentary, Queen
That little “how would you know” to the shark at 6:13 literally killed me 🤣