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  • @angelforanimals7809
    @angelforanimals7809 2 года назад +8788

    I’d say a group of women who want to know if another woman is a “decent” person, all while they are exhibiting imbecilic, indecent behavior, is extremely disturbing.

    • @dawnadriana1764
      @dawnadriana1764 2 года назад +154

      Perfect analysis. Spot on.

    • @angelforanimals7809
      @angelforanimals7809 2 года назад +33

      @@dawnadriana1764 ~ Thank you ✌️

    • @blazingapparition2687
      @blazingapparition2687 2 года назад +210

      Yeah... cause apparently you just can't find that out in regular getting to know you conversation. You have to haze them first. So ridiculous

    • @angelforanimals7809
      @angelforanimals7809 2 года назад +53

      @@blazingapparition2687 ~ I know, how crazy would THAT have been, to have to sit and talk to someone and get to know them?

    • @angelforanimals7809
      @angelforanimals7809 2 года назад +18

      @@pfalky2k ~ Exactly! The only time I would even CONSIDER not being with someone due to a family member, would be my child.

  • @littleblueclovers
    @littleblueclovers 2 года назад +9020

    You know what? That first one WAS a good test.
    The groom’s family failed and the groom passed with flying colors.
    I’m happy the wife is getting someone who will look out for her like that.

    • @marybethodonnell8420
      @marybethodonnell8420 2 года назад +196

      Well said!

    • @sapphiremoonstone1066
      @sapphiremoonstone1066 2 года назад +122

      i am just confused cause i though white was a normal wedding color o.o but yeah they were jerks for mocking her and i am glad the husband stood up for her.

    • @silversamurai0267
      @silversamurai0267 2 года назад +452

      @@sapphiremoonstone1066 Usually, in western cultures, only the bride wears white, unless the bride and groom state otherwise. It symbolizes purity and chastity, and it helps the bride stand out amongst everyone else, to be the only one wearing white. It's considered very offensive to wear white at someone's wedding without permission.

    • @sapphiremoonstone1066
      @sapphiremoonstone1066 2 года назад +68

      @@silversamurai0267 ah I see I have been to many weddings in my life and a lot happen when I was younger lol

    • @mikasaack0000
      @mikasaack0000 2 года назад +4

      Absolutely 👍

  • @Raggmopp-xl7yf
    @Raggmopp-xl7yf 9 месяцев назад +957

    One of the best BURNS I've ever read on a reddit post was the bride caught wind of of her own mother planning to come to the wedding in a wedding dress - not just white, but a full on wedding dress. Bride contacted everyone and had every woman show up in a wedding dress and even paid to rent them if they didn't have one. The bride wore royal blue. Her mother was livid.

    • @aphreyst4551
      @aphreyst4551 8 месяцев назад +42

      Perfect response!

    • @terrig7006
      @terrig7006 8 месяцев назад +53

      but, WHY, WHY, WHY?
      I get a self centered Mom who wants the world to be all about her (I have an older sister and B-I-L who sulk when the attention is not focused on them), but WHY a WEDDING DRESS?? Why not an over the top glam, red carpet dress that gives her center stage because the guests are wowed by her appearance, not because they think she is crazy! It is just a little bit on the looney side for anyone besides the bride to show up in a wedding gown! 😵‍💫🫨

    • @Raggmopp-xl7yf
      @Raggmopp-xl7yf 8 месяцев назад +132

      @@terrig7006 There was another one of these where it was the son getting married and his mom always wore a wedding dress to everyone's wedding.
      So his mom shows up in her wedding dress and the kicker? Son married an Indian girl! The room is FULL of color and the bride is in a vibrant red and gold saree. Everyone makes his mother feel like a walking faux pas b/c Indian people only wear white to funerals. It was hilarious!

    • @JaakJacobus
      @JaakJacobus 8 месяцев назад +55

      I think Charlotte did a video a few days ago about that exact wedding (at least I watched it a few days ago).
      The bride was not religious and MIL had send a priest to the soon to be wed couple,trying to force her vision on the wedding. Priest was at the wedding to the delight of MIL.
      Icing on the cake?
      Bride hired him as MC because after she told him what was going on, they became friends.
      Priest realized the atheist bride had better moral standards than the "religious" MIL. He must have thought: "God works in mysterious ways!"

    • @M_SC
      @M_SC 8 месяцев назад +1

      Oh that’s so good

  • @Aiibh
    @Aiibh Год назад +413

    This happened at my wedding. My SIL after several warnings wore white as a joke. My brother was angry at her, he supported me. My maid of honor however, opened up the cork and "accidentally" dumped red wine over her 😭. I love her for that.
    Anyways, she was toxic and my brother and her are divorced now.

    • @timothyswanson8773
      @timothyswanson8773 8 месяцев назад +16

      God bless your MoH. As well as you brother for not supporting his wife's insulting "joke". I hope the rest of your wedding was wonderful.

    • @cate499
      @cate499 8 месяцев назад +7

      Yes, red wine.

    • @patriciahayes2664
      @patriciahayes2664 8 месяцев назад

      I would have "accidentally" dumped food on her as well.

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 6 месяцев назад +6

      Why would anyone do this????? Not saying you have to be in love with the person that your sibling's marrying, but this is straight up WRONG!!! I have someone in my family who's getting married soon. Granted, I'm not the biggest fan of the fiance, but I wouldn't wear white to their wedding.

    • @Aiibh
      @Aiibh 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@addie-eileenpaige6460 I'm late but i really don't understand the thought process behind it.
      I honestly would never. I cannot even empathize with her because i don't even know what she was thinking.

  • @dragongrrl3
    @dragongrrl3 2 года назад +5611

    Dude, that first one just makes me mad. He is not the asshole, the women in his family are. That's very plain and true.

    • @bugpopsicles
      @bugpopsicles 2 года назад +244

      the fact that he’s even having to question if he’s the asshole is so, so sad. i wish him and his wife a very happy life, hopefully without the toxicity of the women in his family. ‘the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb’ and he might be figuring that out very quickly.

    • @molly1949
      @molly1949 2 года назад +46

      Junior high school clique..mean girls club

    • @levithorstone2876
      @levithorstone2876 2 года назад +11

      There's a easy fix to it just have every one bring white and black outfits that way if they do that it looks like it's planed

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 2 года назад +28

      HE's the only decent ;person in the entire family.

    • @fabledfantasty7343
      @fabledfantasty7343 2 года назад +26

      @@levithorstone2876 .....
      Why tho? Why should everyone be put out & have to deal with the drama, when it's the witches in his family that created the problem. Why put it on everyone else to go thur any of the bs?

  • @chachoulove1758
    @chachoulove1758 2 года назад +6811

    The first man is a keeper ! He defended his wife and acted on his words. He went as far as kicking his own mother to protect his wife, that’s a good man.

    • @UsagiDene8626
      @UsagiDene8626 2 года назад +252

      2:08 i’m curious what they were expecting from the wife reaction that would’ve indicated she passed the “ultimate test” Is it supposed to be if she finds them being disrespectful on her special day funny that she’s welcomed in the family??!no one has to put up with abuse because you call it a joke

    • @courtneywalmsley8284
      @courtneywalmsley8284 2 года назад +130

      The groom learned from his father who thought the female unit/coven was bullying and inappropriate in how they treated a potential new family member

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 2 года назад +113

      How could anyone be OK with being bullied on a big day like their wedding?

    • @aligrotts6016
      @aligrotts6016 2 года назад +78

      Sounds like a cult initiation, starting an argument at a wedding.

    • @wolfsmaid6815
      @wolfsmaid6815 Год назад +32

      true. However I don´t get why his father would allow this. I would never take my spouse to a party if he was throwing a tantrum like that.

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow Год назад +354

    The "just a prank" is right up there with insulting someone and then saying, "It was just a JOKE!" And calling the victim "too sensitive" 😵‍💫
    Bravo to the groom! Now _that_ is a real man.

  • @anakatsukifangirl2944
    @anakatsukifangirl2944 Год назад +493

    He gave them a fair warning and they did it anyway just out of spite. His family probably thought he didn't have the guts to kick his own mother out of the wedding for acting like that.

  • @SusieQ3
    @SusieQ3 2 года назад +3309

    First guy: not the a-hole. If anything, he seems like a good guy in a toxic family. I hope he and his wife have a good life.

    • @creativedesignation7880
      @creativedesignation7880 2 года назад +122

      That guy's family (rather the women in it) low key sounds like a cult. Take the abuse, give up your self esteem to earn the right to abuse the next person... That is beyond toxic.

    • @dreaming4ffr
      @dreaming4ffr 2 года назад +42

      I felt ashamed for the men in that family... no joke.
      Not only do they think they're funny, they're gaslighting for the extra... she's insecure, she didnt want to have other woman at her wedding, like... they're straight up mirroring their own behavior. sshheeeeesh, i understand his cousin

    • @snooganslestat2030
      @snooganslestat2030 2 года назад +19

      @@creativedesignation7880 Deeply insecure immature bullies.

    • @paulabell8747
      @paulabell8747 2 года назад +5

      I would have brought spray paint and spray them and their dresses- something like flouro orange or green

    • @Me-pe8tq
      @Me-pe8tq 2 года назад +3

      Hoping they move FAAAAR away from that toxic family.

  • @TheRealCarolinaQueen
    @TheRealCarolinaQueen 2 года назад +9238

    That first guy is how every husband should defend his wife to his family.

    • @spacebar9733
      @spacebar9733 2 года назад +150

      oh thank gosh, I just started the video and I didn't want to hear it unless it had a good ending.

    • @billymadisonsshampoo8223
      @billymadisonsshampoo8223 2 года назад +31

      What Carolina Queen are you? I thought I held the title in South Carolina but if I'm wrong, hey girl!!! 😆😁

    • @TheRealCarolinaQueen
      @TheRealCarolinaQueen 2 года назад +30

      @@billymadisonsshampoo8223 You still hold your title. I'm in NC 🤣🤣

    • @Trista072
      @Trista072 2 года назад +6

      @@billymadisonsshampoo8223 😆🌞

    • @billymadisonsshampoo8223
      @billymadisonsshampoo8223 2 года назад +8

      @@TheRealCarolinaQueen lol! Have a good day darlin!

  • @ca.luckie2830
    @ca.luckie2830 8 месяцев назад +69

    Nyah!! Any woman who would subject another woman to humiliation and embarrassment, especially on her wedding day, is not only a bully, but is an entitled mean girl! What a horrific, horrific way to be in life. Shame on her shame on all of those women I’m embarrassed on the behalf of the women of world!

    • @Fogysoks4709
      @Fogysoks4709 2 месяца назад

      Internalized misogyny much with those women eh, they are miserable

  • @hunters.creations
    @hunters.creations Год назад +1086

    Tip for your wedding: if you are worried about anyone wearing white, being rude, etc then make someone in the wedding party in charge of being “the mean one”. Both my bridesmaids happily volunteered for this and we had super soakers with red wine inside on hand if needed. Didn’t end up needing them but it was great knowing they had my back and would deal with any drama so I didn’t have to. It’s your wedding day, you shouldn’t be stressed or dealing with drama.

    • @ilbercgross4736
      @ilbercgross4736 Год назад +73

      LoL. That was my job at my friend's wedding. I was on the look out for white and off white colors. A long with black and red. I was also there by the door to make sure the bride's father did not show up.

    • @calicocritterscrafts886
      @calicocritterscrafts886 Год назад +26

      I will happily come to a wedding and be “that person”!!

    • @ericgraham2781
      @ericgraham2781 Год назад +12

      Yes. I'm having security at my wedding for sure.

    • @erzsieke
      @erzsieke Год назад +4

      I love that!!! Hahaha

    • @popcultureoverdosed
      @popcultureoverdosed 9 месяцев назад +8

      Throwing red wine on someone just for wearing white is mad extra. Id beat someone up and kiss their husband if they tried that on me

  • @nailsarelife
    @nailsarelife 2 года назад +2540

    Just my two cents on the groom who threw all the women out of his wedding. Good for him! Those women spent so many years in charge of the family, they didn't think he'd have the balls to actually kick them out. So, they got pissed that they lost control. Toxic women. I hope this guy and his wife stay far away from them. They don't need that crap.

    • @roll3886
      @roll3886 2 года назад +142

      I said that too. They probably didn’t think he’d have the balls to do it, but when he did was surprise pikachu face on their part. Their husbands and stuff encourage it and go along with it, so they’re probably not use to a man sticking up for himself.

    • @Z.O.1991
      @Z.O.1991 2 года назад +98

      Probably why his parents got divorced. His mom was too toxic and his dad got tired of it and left.

    • @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181
      @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 2 года назад +18

      @@Z.O.1991 That's exactly why. There would likely be little other reasons other than maybe financials, or sex life... Likely all those issues also lead back to the BIG a-hole of the pair... Jeee I wonder who that was... Definitely the man, it's always the mans fault for abuse./s

    • @Thurgosh_OG
      @Thurgosh_OG 2 года назад +15

      @@k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 Did you actually listen to the story on this video because you sound a bit Misandrist here.

    • @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181
      @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 2 года назад +10

      @@Thurgosh_OG I was clearly being sarcastic on the last part. here, lemme add notation.

  • @janninmarie8385
    @janninmarie8385 2 года назад +10762

    Finally a man that actually has a spine in the whole family.

    • @nikitag8378
      @nikitag8378 2 года назад +235

      So incredibly and absolutely rare in my experience 😂

    • @dragonflymagictarot1180
      @dragonflymagictarot1180 2 года назад +6

      Lol

    • @altcoinm9312
      @altcoinm9312 2 года назад +28

      Don’t generalize. That’s not very honorable to do.

    • @danaglass1265
      @danaglass1265 2 года назад +10

      @The Onkel I’m a woman and completely agree with you.

    • @cisio64123
      @cisio64123 2 года назад +143

      He was just the first who disagreed to be wiling to take the heat for his bride . Hopefully given his good example the other guys who disagree just might rise up too and be a force to help end this toxic behavior with the future generations.

  • @nendewey8583
    @nendewey8583 Год назад +183

    After all of the husbands or grooms we have seen that don’t do a damn thing when stuff like this happens, the husband is amazing for sticking up for her.

  • @maxbang1813
    @maxbang1813 Год назад +147

    My BFF had a "penny basket" out at her daughter's wedding for the purpose of tipping the venue staff. Putting money in the basket was totally optional. I saw the basket near the end of the reception. Guests were very generous. Months later, I found out that the Mother-in-law took the gratuity basket home. I mean, come on!

    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 9 месяцев назад

      I'd go balistic on her behind if I was the bride or her mother.

    • @JustHereForCats
      @JustHereForCats 8 месяцев назад

      What an awful person

    • @beefstew4698
      @beefstew4698 2 месяца назад

      So ghetto

  • @selenarajovic3117
    @selenarajovic3117 2 года назад +1343

    The first guy is prime husband material. That's EXACTLY how you handle disrespectful family members no matter who they are. Great job. No matter what anyone says, he is not an a-hole. All his family members who were a part of this should be ashamed! He didn't ruin his wedding. If the wedding was ruined, it was most certainly not his fault but theirs.

    • @vikki8699
      @vikki8699 2 года назад +14

      100% agree!!!

    • @mersyvortex4129
      @mersyvortex4129 Год назад +20

      He saved his wedding lol
      They would just humiliate the hell out of his wife beyond white dresses
      On their special day! Disgusting

  • @amymcgee7312
    @amymcgee7312 2 года назад +3201

    Actually, my EX husbands family all showed up to our wedding wearing all black to show that they all disapproved of me. I cried throughout the whole wedding and then followed up with more crying as they continually yelled at me throughout the whole reception. He is my EX for a reason. However, I gave that man 17 years of my life where I tried and tried to be what they wanted. Gladly, I did NOT turn into what they wanted and am now happily with a wonderful man that has a family full of the most beautiful, thoughtful people. There are a ton of horrid people out there. Lesson in this is: Never stop being you for someone else. You be yourself.

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise 2 года назад +16

      same

    • @she-hulkSMASHES
      @she-hulkSMASHES 2 года назад +158

      Wow, that’s horrible. You deserve a hug.

    • @moustachmallow559
      @moustachmallow559 2 года назад +26

      How is that not a Heathers retelling?

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 2 года назад +89

      As the saying goes, you don't just marry the person; you marry the family.
      Good for you for not confirming to what they wanted. I'm happy you're with a good man who accepts you.

    • @shadowlouise
      @shadowlouise Год назад +53

      Amy, That was truly despicable. No one deserves that. In their determination to hurt you, his family revealed what low-lives they are. I'm happy for you that you escaped such creatures, and made a new life for yourself.

  • @Nadz316
    @Nadz316 Год назад +65

    That guy who stood up for his wife is a real one. We need more men like this that support there wives and not allow the family to bully her. Good for him.

  • @Jettypilelegs
    @Jettypilelegs Год назад +109

    My partner absolutely stuck up for me when his brother was utterly despicable towards me, and after telling him exactly what he thought of his behaviour he told him not to bother getting in touch again. I spent years in domestic violence situations and was stalked twice, and my partner instantly and angrily defend and it me took my knees out, NOBODY has ever stood up for me before. He was incensed by his brother and I’ve never seen him angry before. It was 4 years ago and my parter has rebuffed every attempt at contact, making it clear that it is entirely dependant on his brother giving me a sincere apology. Or carry on fucking off because we have a lovely life with each other thanks.

    • @M_SC
      @M_SC 8 месяцев назад +7

      I’m happy for you

  • @pinkarmadillomd
    @pinkarmadillomd 2 года назад +2153

    Re: the photographer changing MIL's white dress to red...they would have earned a HUGE tip from me, not to mention an invite to my family gatherings forever.

    • @melissablackwood
      @melissablackwood 2 года назад +143

      They'd earn a bigger tip if they changed it to a drab or unflattering color. The red looks too good on her.

    • @tantelila7464
      @tantelila7464 2 года назад +66

      Inviting the photographer......especially to MIL's birthday.......🤭

    • @myname4577
      @myname4577 2 года назад +8

      Srsly though

    • @ilaeoa
      @ilaeoa 2 года назад +36

      This photographer should have changed the color to khaki

    • @myname4577
      @myname4577 2 года назад +57

      @@ilaeoa she deserves it but in the end it’s nice the photographer made the dress match the theme

  • @JDog-tn8we
    @JDog-tn8we 2 года назад +1099

    The groom stood up for what was right and stood up for his bride. The white-wearers are as Charlotte said…… bullies.

    • @indigoeye3874
      @indigoeye3874 2 года назад +42

      Sometimes people think something they do is just harmless fun and don't realize it is absolutely not okay. They don't actually have any malicious intentions, at least not consciously.
      They are usually around ten years old.

    • @Zowiezo101
      @Zowiezo101 2 года назад +43

      I agree, the groom clearly asked his family to not pull such pranks on her, warned them with what he would do and yet they still did it and blame him for actually doing what he'd said he would do.
      Who in their right mind would ruin a wedding thinking its considered 'looking out for the groom'..

    • @eunicebenedict7831
      @eunicebenedict7831 2 года назад +17

      This is how they "treat" all the new female relatives?!? Maybe I got this wrong BUT is the MIL divorced from the FIL?!? Hmmm, maybe there's a logical reason for that!?!

    • @jgw5491
      @jgw5491 2 года назад +16

      @@indigoeye3874 Oh, no. These Bs DO have malicious intent, no question. They are confirmed mean-girl bullies. Time to start a new family without the toxic sorority. (But Father's a keeper.) And no contact with Mom especially when you start having kids.

    • @cariciaangela3052
      @cariciaangela3052 2 года назад +5

      Would've left all of the" brady bully bunch in white" at the wedding ceremony and have my revenge when the photographer turn all these dresses into red on the photos.
      And post it with a smiling emoticon, saying how much fun i had marrying the lovè of my life. Something like:,,wanna thank all his family who attended, they are such darlings"

  • @kilren1701
    @kilren1701 Год назад +52

    Honestly saw that cake and I had an aracniphobic reaction immediately.

    • @lisamelroy2855
      @lisamelroy2855 Год назад +10

      Yep - it looked like it was covered in webs!!

    • @chlorophyllheart
      @chlorophyllheart Год назад +2

      Maybe that's why I like it lol, I like insects.

    • @jayesimond9301
      @jayesimond9301 Год назад +2

      Thought that cake had melted😮

  • @lilykep
    @lilykep Год назад +49

    My best friend's wedding was a pretty casual affair and for food she did a sandwich bar, that wall of chips would have been a fantastic addition. Our lack of imagination lead to us having our chips in a boring bowl.

  • @missusCIRQUE
    @missusCIRQUE 2 года назад +1666

    The first story... His new wife doesn't have to 'earn' her place in his family because clearly, those people aren't his family to begin with. The fact that despite him making it clear he won't tolerate it on HIS wedding day, they went ahead and did it. They're not just attacking his wife, they clearly has no respect for him too.
    I think its sometimes very difficult to see toxic personalities in your own family because you've almost been conditioned to love and forgive one another but I personally think... Good riddance.

    • @christinitacorazon5532
      @christinitacorazon5532 2 года назад +54

      I cut ties with my "family" a few years ago. And I've never been happier and healthier, they caused me severe physical ailments, since.

    • @snooganslestat2030
      @snooganslestat2030 2 года назад +33

      Lets hope he cut contact with the female side of the family. Trash.

    • @deeraines9416
      @deeraines9416 2 года назад +31

      I am sure they did not care one tiny bit if it destroyed the day for him as well. What a horrible family to be born into.

    • @cisio64123
      @cisio64123 2 года назад +48

      I think it was more that they are his FAMILY and they thought as such he wouldn't dare follow through on enforcing his boundary line with them. They likely went through with the plan just to spite him as a way to flaunt their power over him too . They got a nasty shock when they found out he was dead serious and they all got tossed out.

  • @rainmamadukes5019
    @rainmamadukes5019 2 года назад +1642

    My MIL wore black to the wedding. My SIL's boyfriend dropped to 1 knee and proposed - WHILE the best man was making the toast. I told my MIL she looked lovely. Stopped the best man and went over to the "happy couple" right then and there and congratulated them. Turned to the best man and said "OK.. now that we got THAT out of the way, we can finish you toast." I simply would not sink to their level. Chose to show them up with grace.

    • @CultLeader418
      @CultLeader418 Год назад +101

      You are amazing and I just hope I can keep my cool at my wedding. I know something like this will happen, my fiance's family is crazy.

    • @nataliawashington872
      @nataliawashington872 Год назад +94

      You’re inspiring cause I would not keep my cool if someone proposed at my wedding-I don’t understand why people do that-the whole point of my wedding is the attention is suppose to be on me and my husband not on another couple

    • @damaramcelrath-fatherree9732
      @damaramcelrath-fatherree9732 Год назад +46

      You are nicer than myself, for I would have football splashed the boyfriend with expensive champagne in the middle of his proposal, and tried not to slap him with the bottle afterwards.

    • @happyzahn8031
      @happyzahn8031 Год назад +24

      Your response was truly impressive!
      Although I would not have even noticed any of that happening at my wedding as I was focused mainly on my bride. *haha*

    • @damaramcelrath-fatherree9732
      @damaramcelrath-fatherree9732 Год назад +21

      @@CultLeader418 Invite me. I got your back. Trust me. I am WAAAAYYYY crazier and meaner, but I will warn them ahead of time to not try not a damn thing, or meet me. My sisters and I will play bouncers for you.

  • @youneedtostop
    @youneedtostop Год назад +27

    I told my grandma she was invited to my wedding, but not her new husband bc he is abusive and talks shit about our family constantly. She ended up not coming and reminding me 3x before. I finally said whatever, and that I didn't care and I haven't spoken to her in 4 years. She hasn't even met our kid. Families suck sometimes.

    • @marciaspiegel5280
      @marciaspiegel5280 Год назад +2

      Sucky behavior can mean eternal isolation. No one needs to tolerate bad behavior.

  • @pamelaslaughter
    @pamelaslaughter 9 месяцев назад +3

    The first man that I don't secretly wish the new bride would leave immediately. Good job new husband!

  • @VexyMC
    @VexyMC 2 года назад +410

    The serial killer thing is gross. Those men had real victims with real families who went through unspeakable things. It's not "quirky" to use them as decoration in a celebration. If you want to do a horror theme, fine, but use fictional killers like Hannibal Lecter or Norman Bates, etc. rather than trivializing the pain of real people.

    • @mechellgrahamchannel1733
      @mechellgrahamchannel1733 2 года назад +27

      I agree!

    • @osakaskuam
      @osakaskuam 2 года назад +56

      I'm glad to see someone pointing this out. One thing is to be into real crime stuff, for many reasons, but to glorify these criminals escapes my understanding. Many of them weren't even geniuses, they got away with their crimes because police was stupid, so what are they celebrating?

    • @valharla
      @valharla 2 года назад +22

      Yeah, my stomach turns when I see a photo of Dahmer (sp?) . I can't even put into words just how sickening his actions were.

    • @Terri_MacKay
      @Terri_MacKay 2 года назад +22

      I was going to comment the same thing. What an absolutely disgusting idea.
      Those monsters ended and ruined countless lives. It makes me sick to think of people joking about being at the Dahlmer table or the BTK table.

    • @katiedrake76
      @katiedrake76 2 года назад +18

      Absolutely agree! When I saw that, it made me feel sick. Totally morbid and wrong 🤮

  • @TulipMint7
    @TulipMint7 2 года назад +1357

    The serial killer centerpieces fill me with so much rage. It’s so disrespectful to the victims and their families. Imagine being so selfish and stupid that you’d glorify the worst things that could happen to a person. I honestly can’t get over it.

    • @janninmarie8385
      @janninmarie8385 2 года назад +153

      Those that look up to serial killers probably have sad, pathetic lives.

    • @melissablackwood
      @melissablackwood 2 года назад +161

      That would even be tacky for a Halloween party, not to mention a wedding. Also the fact that they can't spell "execute." That word comes up a lot in serial killer lore.

    • @kayleesummer9777
      @kayleesummer9777 2 года назад +72

      Honestly I don’t even understand the whole serial killer craze at all.

    • @kelseyconlon9979
      @kelseyconlon9979 2 года назад +73

      I remember it being posted in a Halloween wedding group I’m in. She had to delete her post pretty quickly, hopefully she took note of the criticism and removed the photos.

    • @cristinam3234
      @cristinam3234 2 года назад +40

      @@melissablackwood idk it mightttt be ok for a Halloween party…? Idk I would’ve just done made up killers like Jason and Freddy or ghostface

  • @Chrissy85308
    @Chrissy85308 Год назад +14

    The man who kicked out his family wearing white is amazing for standing up for his wife. Good job!

  • @nebulanigrimleonis3883
    @nebulanigrimleonis3883 Год назад +13

    I was married ... we had 2 ceremonies. 1st - Private, In the Rockies at a Resort in the Spring. Common Law Marriage. It was PERFECT. Simple cute outfit, a cupcake and a dazzling ring.
    Then his mom found out.... 😒We were forced to fly to Florida and do the whole Church thing, with guests. It was awful. Weddings bring out all kinds of weirdness. His mother hated me. His father hit on me. My sister is a crazy drunk, my mom left town. No one helped me get dressed or do my hair. His side of the family didnt even speak to me, the entire time. And they wondered why, we got married without them... I did not want a second ceremony. I wanted a get together, dinner drinks, basic celebration. But all the women from both sides told me how selfish I was, for not having a GATHERING. And... it showed me the my new husband was not on my side, when it mattered. He buckled for his mom, every time she opened her mouth. 3.5 years later, I saw emails from her talking really badly about me. I started a Online Modeling Business ( No jobs in the Rockies) and took care of myself 100% - he paid the bills on his family home. As a Common Law Wife, I have NO RIGHTS to the properties he had, when he met me. No Ownership rights if we divorce. We all agreed to this. But, once I started my modeling business they suddenly wanted me to contribute to the mortgage. The email was filled with my financial information. And him, not scolding her, or defending me at all, just a plan to get me to pay for property I have no rights to. I agreed to pay, but I wanted my money back with interest if we divorce. Why would I pay off a home in the Rockies that I will never own??? Then I found out that was house wasn't even in his name. It was His Mothers!!! Again, why would I buy a house for another woman, who disrespects me and hates me???
    One day I went to the PO BOX, which I never did. And I found an envelope adressed to my husband from an insurance company. With the owrds 'FOR STEVE ONLY' written on it. So.... OFC I opened it. It was a LIFE INSURANCE POLICY for $250,000, for my husband- with my name forged on it as the 0% beneficiary. And a note saying thatthe other policy was on its way. I assumed the other policy was a policy for me. I was terrified!!! After about 5 years, I told him that it wasn't working and we should take time apart. He said if we part, its over. And his mom swiftly paid for attorney to press me for $40,000. But I married Common Law - In The Rockies 😂Which meant we were 2 different financial entities. And they had no claim over my business at all. As a matter of fact, the court said he actually owed me $12,000. Because he did not fulfill his duties as a husband and head of household. I never told the court about the insurance policies and that fraud. I was so busy fighting for my life, that I had no offensive plan. I didnt even hire a lawyer. I represented myself. Because I knew in my heart, that I had done nothing wrong. And the court awarded him $0.00. I said I dont want the 12K, I just want OUT!
    I should have left when I found out that his mom was controlling his bank account. But I told myself that they were just an oddly close family. And his money aint my business. But then, she wanted control of my money. Even suggested that I just deposit my checks, in his account and she would manage it all. I come from such a broken family, that I couldnt tell if that was normal, or if it was the A-Hole. Once she realized that I was not going to submit to her. She used all her powers to put a wedge between us.
    The final straw was when I found 5 lumps in my breast. And she ( A BREAST CANCER SURVIVOR HERSELF) suggested that I sign up for "Obamacare", and not use MY HUSBANDS BlueCross Blueshield, cuz cancer could get expensive. Im black, so that was a racial dig at me. It wasnt Cancer, THANK GOD. But, it was OVER after that. We got to CA and that state didnt recognize COMMON LAW. So they said we should marry a 3rd time and make it LEGAL 50/50. I said No and I want to separate. 🤣🤣 And I did qualify for Obamacare and food stamps... as well as counseling. They asked why I was living in an affluent area of Lake Tahoe - Northern CA, married to a front-end web developer and not on the same footing as my "husband"? Then the counselor, told my that I was a Domestic Abuse Victim. And what he was doing, withholding healthcare and controlling all the money was considered slavery, in some courts. It was so BEYOND Over.
    Thank God I had my fans! They took care of me. I ended it, got through the divorce and never looked back.

    • @jengoodwyn2715
      @jengoodwyn2715 6 месяцев назад

      You are a strong woman. I am so glad you got out of there safely. I wish you all the best in your life.

    • @valiantsfelinesmccarty6678
      @valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 3 месяца назад

      Glad you got out safely Sorry it took you so long. Be glad you didn't bring a child into it. We don't know we're being brainwashed or abused until it's too late usually. Especially if we come from dysfunctional homes. It took me 4 years to get away by that time I was afraid I would kill him defending myself because it had become violent. His mother was a nutcase. All I can say is I hope he's enjoying his elder years taking care of his mother with whomever he conned into marrying him. She'll never own anything because it's all in mummies in his name.

  • @kellyanderson3592
    @kellyanderson3592 2 года назад +583

    I have never commented on a public forum such as this, however, as a marriage counselor I must say congratulations to this bride and groom. They are starting their life off together in good form. The grooms family behaved as bullies- as you stated-at the very least and I would say were emotionally abusive to their new family member. Partners should nurture and protect each other and that is exactly what this young man did.

    • @KhallelaB.
      @KhallelaB. 2 года назад +16

      👏🏾👏🏾 She should bring you on the next video for commentary!

    • @saydvoncripps
      @saydvoncripps 2 года назад +1

      They are still out there, chewing the cud and thinking of new bitchiness to reek upon her. Forever and ever, till death do you part....and I think an AK47 might be their only chance. Is the world big enough to get away from them?

  • @cemiller
    @cemiller 2 года назад +646

    All those women in story one absolutely peaked in high school and never grew up after that.
    Good on the husband for defending his wife from his waste dump of a family.

    • @blazingapparition2687
      @blazingapparition2687 2 года назад +20

      I think you're 100% correct. It also seems like they have absolutely nothing going on in their own lives since all they do is apparently talk trash on facebook and conspire to pull "pranks" on every woman that comes into the family. So ridiculous

    • @xavierbrown4051
      @xavierbrown4051 2 года назад +3

      Exactly, you should be over pulling pranks after 13 years on this earth 🙄 old people, immature mindset.

    • @desubysnusnu
      @desubysnusnu 2 года назад

      I wonder if any of them even have a job
      Because only people with lots of time can do this stupid shyte 🙄

  • @wonderwend1
    @wonderwend1 9 месяцев назад +4

    It's amazing how bullies turn the tables and say "it's just a prank" when boundaries are set

  • @LeoLady3966
    @LeoLady3966 11 месяцев назад +6

    I love the story where MIL wears white and wife wore purple and invited all guests to wear white dresses to show up MIL, had Pagan handfasting and walked down isle to Sweet Child of Mine 🤣🤣 love all your stories Charlotte!

  • @cerisemin
    @cerisemin 2 года назад +913

    “It’s just a prank”
    Who wants to be pranked on their wedding? What would they have done if the bride did go crazy? Run around in circles and cheer?

    • @vikki8699
      @vikki8699 2 года назад +126

      Probably play victim and invalidate the bride's reaction to THEIR bad behaviour. Its a form of Narc baiting.
      I wonder how they would feel if the Wife "pranked" these little girls in a similar manner?

    • @TitaniaBird
      @TitaniaBird 2 года назад +62

      And now it's time for a wedding prank Good Idea, Bad Idea.
      Good Idea: pranking the newlyweds by tying cans to their car and putting "Just Married" on the windows in washable paint.
      Bad Idea: pranking the newlyweds by aggressively hazing the bride into your cult of toxicity.

    • @loribanks1515
      @loribanks1515 2 года назад +38

      My family had a tradition of my cousins pranking bride and groom (typically both because they've generally lived together). My sister was prepared for one of their pranks (removing labels from cans in the pantry) and wrote on the bottom of all her cans, but they got into her house and switched all the clothing and kitchen wear around. When they went home to change mid-reception, go to grab fresh underwear, find it in the dishwasher; plates where the shirts should be, that sort of thing. I'm a bit of a control freak, but I think if I knew that was coming I'd at least look back on it fondly: but that is my family pranking their own members Not hazing my partner in some sort of screening ritual that is super public for the whole of their friends and family. Like that poor bride has to experience that in front of her parents and siblings, friends, etc. These women are so messed up.
      I also wanna know, like what happens if she doesn't pass the test? They treat her like crap for the remainder of their lives together? Like wtf

    • @breannaflores4175
      @breannaflores4175 Год назад +27

      @@loribanks1515 I like the way your family does pranks, switching things around is annoying for who lives there but isn’t humiliating or actually hurting anyone. Wearing white after specifically being told not to isn’t a prank, it’s being self centered and entitled.

    • @DiedIntimewhenkilled
      @DiedIntimewhenkilled Год назад +14

      i would have honestly had someone spray paint their dresses and said: chill, it's just a prank. no hard feelings. you are the looser if you get mad.

  • @amber3574
    @amber3574 2 года назад +1761

    I’m seriously hoping the changing the white dresses to red thing catches on with photographers everywhere! That is genius.

    • @tessgonzalez
      @tessgonzalez 2 года назад +189

      I'm petty, so I wouldn't even match the bridal party color. I would change it to the least flattering color for the wearer.

    • @darkmatter5940
      @darkmatter5940 2 года назад +13

      @@tessgonzalez 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @RealBradMiller
      @RealBradMiller 2 года назад +33

      @@tessgonzalez I'd make their skin purple. Lol

    • @roll3886
      @roll3886 2 года назад +66

      Gotta be green since they’re green with envy lol

    • @MrSuckymcsuck
      @MrSuckymcsuck 2 года назад +40

      I actually found out today that a red dress means you slept with the groom.

  • @genevievehoskins6829
    @genevievehoskins6829 Год назад +2

    That groom is the winning lottery ticket of all grooms. NTA.

  • @tammyfrancis7856
    @tammyfrancis7856 8 месяцев назад +3

    Finally a man who stands up for his wife, when his family bully her! Good on you sir!! Usually people would compliment you’d “parents” for raising a good man, but you and your dad get all the credit here. I love that your dad stood up for you! 👍

  • @Myview246
    @Myview246 2 года назад +747

    If they wore white to my wedding I'd be announcing my pregnancy at their wedding.

    • @MizMima
      @MizMima 2 года назад +90

      If you’re not at the time, fake one 😂😂

    • @darrenrobinson9041
      @darrenrobinson9041 2 года назад +55

      Lol, and your lotto win and gender transition.

    • @Jerepasaurus
      @Jerepasaurus 2 года назад +58

      @@darrenrobinson9041 Or just stand up an announce that you farted. Or broke a toilet. lmao

    • @BrunosSquirrel
      @BrunosSquirrel 2 года назад +7

      like women like that will ever land someone

    • @julyol119
      @julyol119 2 года назад +17

      @@BrunosSquirrel Well, apparantly they already did. But yeah, this is some next level bully BS.

  • @morganpeters34
    @morganpeters34 2 года назад +599

    I'm a forensic scientist and genuinely love learning about serial killers, murder, and the works (partially since it is my job) but those serial killer center pieces are a little too far for. I don't have a problem with with skulls and have them decorating my whole house, but the idea of including the people who commit these terrible terrible acts in my wedding is just sad to me. Weddings are supposed to be a happy celebration of life and love. I don't want to be thinking about all the women Bundy murdered

    • @Ash_Carnelian
      @Ash_Carnelian 2 года назад +78

      Exactly. It's one thing to be fascinated by the science involved in catching serial killers, or being interested in their stories. But there's something very wrong with glorifying murderers, and showing off their faces like a work of art. That's just sick, and insensitive to the victims and their loved ones.

    • @randybobandy4000
      @randybobandy4000 2 года назад +49

      I've always been fascinated by crime, and the forensic science that helps solve them...I'm interested in the abnormal psychology of killers, not the killers themselves. Some people take it way too far, and treat it like they're not real murderers, that killed real people. It's not like horror movies, where none of the killing actually happened, and it's all for entertainment...it's real life.
      If somebody had a wedding themed around horror movies I wouldn't bat an eye at it; but this is revolting, and makes me think these people seriously lack empathy.

    • @alinavaysfligel7249
      @alinavaysfligel7249 2 года назад +10

      ahh good for you! that is literally my dream job. i got my masters in forensic nursing a couple of years ago, because i am just so fascinated by it all! i would love to work on crime scenes with law enforcement, or in a crime lab with forensic scientists, or with criminal profilers studying abnormal psychology of people like this. what type of work do you do, if you don't mind my asking?

    • @RJ-it4hz
      @RJ-it4hz 2 года назад +12

      I agree-- I'm fascinated by criminal psychology, but glorifying murders like this? Ick. I'd be very uncomfortable if I was a guest at that wedding. The disrespect to the victims is staggering.

    • @katkay9923
      @katkay9923 2 года назад +5

      @@RJ-it4hz deadass, like the only excuse to have a serial killer themed party would be Halloween or horror, which would make sense as they are scary and horrifying, but a wedding feels like it’s romanticizing. Couldn’t they have JSUT done like crime-themed? Like Sherlock Holmes?

  • @xoselhket
    @xoselhket Год назад +1

    That first story... that man deserve a medal! So happy to see someone standing up to a bully gaggle of women!

  • @elizabethriegert710
    @elizabethriegert710 9 месяцев назад +1

    Supporting your wife on her special day is a sign of respect. Keep respecting your life with your new wife and you will have a happy life.

  • @jacquelinehays4882
    @jacquelinehays4882 2 года назад +974

    The women, in the first story, are horrible people. I wonder what must be going around, in their heads, that would make this activity seem like a decent idea. When did being a bully become a wedding gift? The husband is a wonderful man, as it must have taken a lot of inner strength, standing with his wife, amid a clique of childish, ancient "mean girls". If this was done in my presence, words would fly, all tact gone, and everyone would be surprised, including myself, over things being said. Whether it's my place or not, that behavior is unacceptable....especially when spoken by grown people. How awful!

    • @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181
      @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 2 года назад +15

      absolute C U Next Tuesday,s that need to die in trash fires....

    • @nzgamelife323
      @nzgamelife323 2 года назад +21

      It will be one real toxic matriarch and all others trying to impress her.

    • @ivorycoffin1563
      @ivorycoffin1563 2 года назад +33

      Right? Can you imagine? I was welcomed into the family with food and movie nights. I tell you what, that more effective than hazing

    • @untitled-gv3qp
      @untitled-gv3qp 2 года назад +32

      And the one who tried to shame them online without mentioning what the women of the family tried to do. I'd have dragged all of them over social media. Them and their weird hazing mess.

    • @Chelle8847
      @Chelle8847 2 года назад +20

      Right??! It made me sooo mad! Fuming. Id be genuinely questioning whether i wanted to go ahead with the wedding! Disgusting behaviour. And the fact they try to use their "power" of being the mother etc, just shows the toxicity, and i wonder if they will ever realise just how disgusting they are. Would be great if one of them found this story!

  • @Dobbyisfree000
    @Dobbyisfree000 2 года назад +1055

    Kudos to this guy for not enabling their behaviour and standing up for his wife. Hats off. No need to apologise AT ALL

  • @kerrybyers257
    @kerrybyers257 9 месяцев назад +2

    Love that man! He’s a keeper! He and his Bride just became the new Alfas in that family. No one gonna mess with them! And in that moment a generational cycle of abuse and bullying was finally broken.

  • @mariah5336
    @mariah5336 Год назад +6

    I am so happy that he stood by his wife and not giving in. What his family was doing was for sure bullying and just flat out gross.

  • @GiuIsMe
    @GiuIsMe 2 года назад +805

    On that last one: Being able to stay together for 10 years WITHOUT the bond of marriage is a really strong thing. I mean, it is much easier to end, but they didn't. And the child is also only a thing now after those ten years, so that wasn't holding them together. If it's not love, what is it supposed to be then?

    • @ashley_smith
      @ashley_smith 2 года назад +71

      My guy and I got married after seven years together, so now eight years total. Agreed. Is rare. (My former marriage was only four years together total, after two dating.) We just didn't see a reason to give money to the state to "prove" we were together. We live together. We have two cat kids together. We do all our stuff together. It's like weddings are just Hallmark cards the state cashes in.

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 2 года назад +6

      @@ashley_smith young and unmarried so I don't understand. State cashes in on marriage?

    • @centimanj8916
      @centimanj8916 2 года назад +42

      @@elithluxe7568 Weddings are expensive. Even if youre not dooing any actuall celebration and only get legally married, it still costs you.

    • @ashley_smith
      @ashley_smith 2 года назад +19

      @@centimanj8916 especially during covid. Had to hire an out of town officiant . It took longer to set up than actually being there that day and signing the papers.

    • @eggymma9453
      @eggymma9453 2 года назад +12

      thinking shady... they might have something together that she doesnt want him in her wedding......

  • @YourShadowKeeper
    @YourShadowKeeper 2 года назад +808

    Nothing quite says "welcome to the family" like belittling, ridiculing, and humiliating someone. It certainly speaks volumes of how the women in that family perceive what a healthy family unit is like, especially if they genuinely believe that they're supporting and loving each other with that sort of atrocious mob mentality.

    • @kezia-lemonthorne2507
      @kezia-lemonthorne2507 Год назад

      I think if a person from a mob married and their in-laws were this awful, blood would be spilled.

  • @francesheinig6420
    @francesheinig6420 Год назад +4

    Post seen 6/17/23
    These women are marking there territory and letting this "new" girl know where her place in line is, the back and she must do what ever they want her to do, including doing this to someone else. I'm super glad someone had the stones to stand up to these horrible women. I'm really really happy he stood up for his new bride. Congratulations on your one yr anniversary.🎉🎉😊😊 I hope you first yr together has been amazing. God bless you both.

  • @elizabethmorin7326
    @elizabethmorin7326 Год назад +13

    My MIL planned to wear a black dress to my COVID elopement ceremony. A dress that she had purchased specifically for a funeral. Glad we asked what she was planning to wear, because we vetoed that. But she did say “well I’m not buying a new dress for this” and FIL chimed in with “a funeral dress is appropriate for this event”. She ended up wearing the same color as my bridesmaids because that was the only dress she had that was formal enough. I told my husband I’m going to buy her a dress for our post-COVID vow renewal/wedding reception in a couple years(it’ll be our five year wedding anniversary). I’m just going to pick it out and buy it and give it to her, and tell her “this is what you’re wearing to the wedding, I picked it for you since you made it clear at the elopement that you can’t be trusted to pick it yourself.”

  • @lovehilaryanne
    @lovehilaryanne 2 года назад +230

    I think a man who stands up to his family to protect his wife is rare and beautiful.

    • @katpage9378
      @katpage9378 2 года назад +2

      Shouldn’t be rare. I doubt it’s rare

    • @battleangel6886
      @battleangel6886 2 года назад +1

      My brother has a bad wife and he defends her

    • @lovehilaryanne
      @lovehilaryanne 2 года назад

      @@battleangel6886 I mean same, but she's a lot more like him than we were

    • @battleangel6886
      @battleangel6886 2 года назад

      Okay

  • @NHarts3
    @NHarts3 2 года назад +494

    WOW people can be RUDE. How do these people even have friends/spouses. Kudos to that groom at the beginning for not letting his bride get bullied.

    • @naruhinastarr
      @naruhinastarr 2 года назад

      They probably have “friends” that are like-minded to them. I’m so happy that the groom stood up for her

  • @yoimsquirtle
    @yoimsquirtle Год назад +3

    I’m eternally grateful for the fact that my ILs have been nothing but welcoming, loving, kind, amazing, and supprtive people in my life. They treated me like family from day 1 of just dating their youngest son and they were so excited for their baby to get married (we were dating for 3 years & engaged for 1 year).
    I was pretty afraid that things would be awkward between our families because we’re culturally different, but turned out I worried for absolutely nothing!
    The entire wedding was emotional for everyone, the pictures turned out beautiful, we all had a wonderful time.
    My husband & I now have a beautiful little 7 month old & that baby is spoiled beyond belief (she’s the first grand baby for both families). I may be biased, but I have the best ILs ever. ♥️♥️

  • @TommyRockKW
    @TommyRockKW 2 месяца назад +1

    Any form of joke about serial killers is grotesque ,aweful ,sick , demented ,disrespect to all the victums ! I would never go around those 2 people ever !

  • @hannahj6327
    @hannahj6327 2 года назад +529

    I actually had the experience of having a friend of my soon-to-be sister-in-law's, who is a professional photographer, offer to shoot our wedding for free. I felt bad and offered to pay her (even though we couldn't afford much), and she said just give her what it costs for gas money to get there and back. She was amazing and took excellent pictures. If she hadn't of been so kind, we would have asked someone in our family to snap photos. I found out later that she had spent a lot of time at my in-laws' house growing up and did this for them since it was their first -- and probably only -- kid getting married. What good luck. What a good heart.

    • @anamazing2297
      @anamazing2297 Год назад +10

      My aunt did the same. I asked two people if they would take photos of my wedding, and she was available. I offered to pay, and she said to consider it a wedding gift. I was so grateful! 😄

  • @spuds416
    @spuds416 2 года назад +356

    A couple's wedding should be a Sacred event and not the Time or Place for the family to pull a Power Trip over the "New" family member

    • @nerdgeekcosplay909
      @nerdgeekcosplay909 2 года назад +7

      Yah I even tell the new member bride or groom “ welcome to the family “

    • @Magpiebard
      @Magpiebard 2 года назад +9

      Just so you know, I've got a friend dealing with this and by god I'm gonna embroider that phrase onto a pillow for her! The marriage made it thru, but I think a nice large pillow with the photos of the jackasses in question might just have to get silk screened onto the back so she and her husband can beat on it at will. I wonder how hard it would be to embroider a punching bag..... huh. Thanks. You just solved my Christmas gift ideas for them. Thanks!

    • @EH23831
      @EH23831 2 года назад +11

      Yeah - it’s not about them! (They clearly didn’t get that memo 🙄) I suspect the whole “testing” is simply a way to make everything about them 🙄🙄

    • @tomboyraider1015
      @tomboyraider1015 2 года назад +7

      Ikr. Is it so hard to be nice to the bride? What are they “testing” for anyway? You don’t test a new bride, you just welcome her anyway no matter what. Be a welcoming family.

    • @rachy48
      @rachy48 2 года назад +4

      Who tf would “prank” a bride? And that’s not even a prank! If you’re gonna prank a couple getting married it had better be an overseas bff jumping out of a cake! Or the wedding car “breaks down “ and the loan car is a Rolls. Nice pranks. Putting the bride “in her place” is just toxic and evil.

  • @arunikaghoshal9027
    @arunikaghoshal9027 Год назад +1

    14:14 the best comeback would be her being the sickly sweet MOH, announce her pregnancy along with the bridezilla's 'expert comment' in a PowerPoint as wedding toast.

  • @flowerpower3618
    @flowerpower3618 2 месяца назад +2

    That’s a family you don’t need to see ever again. I would never raise children around them.

  • @ryano.5149
    @ryano.5149 2 года назад +489

    "Every woman in my family showed up to my wedding wearing white. I kicked them out of the wedding and now they wont talk to me and excluded me from everything." "They excluded me from everything." Chalk that one up to win!!! lol It's always nice when the bullies remove themselves from the situation! lol

  • @xdrghmkl
    @xdrghmkl 2 года назад +241

    'Oh, a family member has fallen in love with a woman and wants to marry her? Let's see if we can completely wreck her mentality and emotional stability.'
    Good on him for sticking up for his wife. That family is f-ed up 💔

  • @Otteal
    @Otteal Год назад +11

    For the live stream one, my sister live streamed her daughter's wedding during covid and the photographer would not help. I think it was going to cost like another $1000 to hire someone to do it. So they did it themselves and we had no sound during the ceremony, needless to say, it didn't go well. If the money for the tickets is going to support a photographer to do the live stream, I'm all for it!! And I would think gifts would still be an acceptable request if the ticket money is paying for the stream.

  • @-SoulLovesMusic-
    @-SoulLovesMusic- 8 месяцев назад

    Fun fact: This is the first video of hers that I watched. I love you, Charlotte!

  • @PapiyoneVineland
    @PapiyoneVineland Год назад +411

    I think I would've just warned my wife and made an alliance with her, my dad and one or two of the other chill dudes in my family to attack all of the women in white with paintguns (hiden in specific caches at the venue). Then, when they inevitably would've freaked out about this and blamed us, I would have served them their own attitude : "What do you mean?! It's just teasing! We just wanted to see how you guys would react! 😮"

    • @obsz7785
      @obsz7785 Год назад +28

      I love this idea

    • @paulawelshhoward
      @paulawelshhoward Год назад +14

      I Love that!! Paintball the white dresses and the mil on Black

    • @izzyt1626
      @izzyt1626 9 месяцев назад +12

      Ooooo ya and put them in one place telling them it's for a picture. Have the photographer get pictures of them covered in paint. Yk Carrie style 😈

    • @nikitagogoibaruah4744
      @nikitagogoibaruah4744 8 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@izzyt1626you lot are positively diabolical. Keep them coming😂

    • @cbel888
      @cbel888 8 месяцев назад +3

      You know you can use paint without a GUN. 😊

  • @nailsarelife
    @nailsarelife 2 года назад +130

    Props to the photog who edited the white dress to red in the official wedding photos. 😂😂👏 👏 👏

  • @haticegul607
    @haticegul607 Год назад +2

    The bullying and getting crititizied by your own familly sounds fammiliur
    My relatives bully me for every thing it REALLY lowers confidance and self estheme 😭

  • @lovejumanji5
    @lovejumanji5 8 месяцев назад +3

    The test was to see how much abuse she would take ……
    That is toxic AF ! ! !

  • @cosmicwaffles2024
    @cosmicwaffles2024 2 года назад +208

    All I can say that photographer went above and beyond by changing the mother-in-laws dress from white to red. Now that's som A+ service. I hope they've gotten ALL the business.

  • @Jininxica
    @Jininxica 2 года назад +229

    so good on the first guys part. he warned them hed kick them out. ALSO if you get upset about other women wearing white to your wedding you ARE NOT A BRIDEZILLA

    • @roll3886
      @roll3886 2 года назад +26

      He warned them, but they probably didn’t think they’d have the balls to stop them (like how the other men were submissive to the behavior and encouraged it). But when he stuck to his guns, they surprise Pikachu faced.

    • @jgw5491
      @jgw5491 2 года назад +21

      My fantasy would be to let them wear white and then bring out a super soaker filled with merlot. (I know- a waste of good wine but sacrifices must be made.)

    • @susanfudge1737
      @susanfudge1737 2 года назад

      Good on?

    • @katearcher8514
      @katearcher8514 2 года назад +7

      yeah, his Dad was decent too

    • @owatagusiam44
      @owatagusiam44 2 года назад +3

      @@jgw5491 lol I had a similar concept idea for whenever I get married. My plan is to ask my brother (who is 6’7”) to be essentially a bouncer and if anyone tries to come wearing white/ivory/some other bs then they can go home and change or get doused in dye or mud or something bc we just are not doing that foolishness. So there ya go, tie dye supplies or muddy water so you can save the wine haha

  • @idk-cm9lt
    @idk-cm9lt 2 месяца назад +2

    Wow, horrible bullies. Well done for standing up for your new wife. Toxic people , not worth the effort.

  • @catherinetrewhella5133
    @catherinetrewhella5133 2 года назад +722

    Petty response to the last bride: the friend should go, be in as many pictures as possible, then cut contact. The bride didn’t want ex partners in the photos, how would she feel about ex friends..?

    • @annajansen6945
      @annajansen6945 2 года назад +148

      That is actually a really interesting revenge plan.

    • @bluejunegraduate
      @bluejunegraduate 2 года назад +17

      🤣😭

    • @tan_2190
      @tan_2190 2 года назад +44

      that's so petty, i love it~

    • @sersastark
      @sersastark 2 года назад +62

      THE LEVEL OF PETTY THAT I ASPIRE TO BE!!!! HOLY CRAP, THAT'S BRILLIANT!!!!

    • @Domcas74
      @Domcas74 2 года назад +14

      This is a brilliant idea , I love it

  • @SNEAKO15
    @SNEAKO15 2 года назад +570

    The last one has me laughing at the bride's logic. She doesn't want someone who is an ex in her wedding photos, but she's marrying someone she has known for less than a year and her BFF has been with her fiance for 10 years. Hmmm...what if the "ex" in the wedding photos ends up being the groom that she barely knows? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @maukschilol
      @maukschilol 2 года назад +91

      Yep it's just stupid. To be honest: A relation that long without a binding commitment like a child or marriage seems to be pretty strong exactly because it is "so easy" (in legal and responsibility terms) to walk away from.

    • @MarufaAkhter
      @MarufaAkhter Год назад +2

      i just do not understand how the other frineds can call OP the asshole!

    • @HonorWillow
      @HonorWillow Год назад +33

      Some people have way too much trust in marriage. They think that marriage is necessary and makes a relationship so no couples even if they have been together for much longer are legit without a ring and if they get married then their life will magically work out. It's funny because they are judging other people's relationships because they know that theirs are weak! No true bond should need a marriage

    • @rebeccaberry8497
      @rebeccaberry8497 Год назад +32

      And even if they do break up THEY HAVE A BABY TOGETHER! Its not like he isn't going to be an important person to the brides BFF for the rest of her life

    • @Lylantares
      @Lylantares Год назад +18

      @@maukschilol Yep. I've been together with my now-husband for 11 years before marrying him. We met at ages 18&20. We wanted to be settled before finalizing the union and also wanted to pay for the whole event by ourselves. By the bride's logic, I would have had to be married at the age of 21 while still going to university oO

  • @kimhouston7091
    @kimhouston7091 Год назад

    I'm a huge comedy fan 🤣, u are very easy to watch, very funny personality. Great job!!

  • @lifewithari203
    @lifewithari203 Год назад +2

    The last one is so crazy like… imagine the audacity. I could maybe see not having you bffs fiancé if it was a really small intimate wedding with exclusively friends and family, however having a 200+ person wedding and allowing EVERY other couple to go but not your literal MOH??? and you’re doing it on the basis of “your relationship isn’t strong because you haven’t gotten married yet” like… you realize most people wait over a year to get married. Also she’s completely forgetting that divorces can happen?? like she probably doesn’t know the other guests relationships as well as she knows OPs, some of them could be in miserable relationships and end up getting divorced, shit she could get divorced… OP had every single right to leave.

  • @ttrev007
    @ttrev007 2 года назад +180

    wearing white to a wedding is the ultimate screw you to the bride. Kicking out people disrespecting the bride and groom should is reasonable

    • @weldabar
      @weldabar 2 года назад +6

      Having the heads up, they should have prepared a super-soaker squirt gun with green die that dies the skin as well as the white dresses. Prank them back, ha ha.

    • @juliarunn5009
      @juliarunn5009 2 года назад +4

      @@weldabar or a super soaker filled with wine 👌

    • @fuzzblightyear145
      @fuzzblightyear145 2 года назад +5

      but love what that photographer to the other woman in white at the wedding by colouring the dress red. I hope he got a big tip from B&G

    • @makardeku
      @makardeku 2 года назад +3

      it’s not even a bridezilla thing either. those women shoulda just balled up and said they didn’t like the wife, bc that much is obvious
      they knew what would happen if they wore white, but somehow refused to believe he would do it.. why wouldn’t he? they have nerve lol

    • @Mithreniel
      @Mithreniel 2 года назад

      @@juliarunn5009 "Wine's such a great color on you, Mom"

  • @Frooggii
    @Frooggii 2 года назад +148

    I love how the first husband stood up for his wife. Those women are toxic. How do you use bullying as an excuse to welcome someone new into the family? The bride would have every right to be a bridezilla. I'd prefer to stay far away.

  • @lourelynamerica5699
    @lourelynamerica5699 Год назад +2

    For the first story : NTA. I'm so proud of him for being a good husband.

  • @Eveonthehill
    @Eveonthehill Месяц назад

    Charlotte, I've watched you since the start. I love you like a daughter, very proud.

  • @tabasco4655
    @tabasco4655 2 года назад +301

    I hate those sisters who are like “I could turn a girlfriend into an ex” like no they will just cut you off coz you not giving them respect?

    • @bethlamb6615
      @bethlamb6615 2 года назад +15

      No it's like.. sis.. u love love your brother or what? Cause that is WEIRD

    • @stag_gt
      @stag_gt 2 года назад +2

      If a man is too close to his sister am out of there anyway 🤣🤣 who’s dating who GURL

  • @BEEDRILL303
    @BEEDRILL303 2 года назад +276

    " we've been together for 10yrs are engaged and have a baby on the way "
    " long term relationships and married couples only. No fiancé and baby daddy doesn't count! "
    * blocks her and never contacts her again *
    With a "bestfriend" like that who needs enemies ?

    • @darrenrobinson9041
      @darrenrobinson9041 2 года назад +19

      That bridezilla is the definition of "burning your bridges".

    • @BEEDRILL303
      @BEEDRILL303 2 года назад +1

      @@darrenrobinson9041 100%

    • @1776rights
      @1776rights 2 года назад +34

      I think the real reason has two scenarios:
      One: she had sex with him a long time ago
      Two: she always liked him and he turned her down and now she hates him for it. Lol because none of her reasonings make sent

    • @beyzayanik3442
      @beyzayanik3442 2 года назад +5

      @@1776rights i personally think they had 10 years long an on-off relationship, got pregnant and get married now. Still super weird to not invite him though because based on the future they plan, it needs to be serious enough

    • @tatianarsb
      @tatianarsb 2 года назад +6

      @@beyzayanik3442 I've seen couples in solid relationships for years and only decide to tie the knot due to pregnancies, so I didn't consider the possibility of one-off relationship... But still, really weird. My guess is the bridezilla wanted to get on his pants...

  • @kiciaharleyofalabama6105
    @kiciaharleyofalabama6105 8 месяцев назад +2

    My fiance and I have been together for 14 year and haven't gotten married yet because of lack of funds not because we're not going strong and still in love. That bride's best friend was right in saying what she said and refusing to go along with it

  • @GachaliaNatalia_YT
    @GachaliaNatalia_YT 5 месяцев назад +1

    6:38 CHARLOTTE! 😂 My first thought was spiderwebs but damn if you didn't make me see it lmao

  • @nonyab5640
    @nonyab5640 2 года назад +81

    We love to see a groom stand up for his bride, particularly against his own family. Shows we’ve got a man on our hands. He’s got her back. That’s what having a partner is about.

  • @mohonamukherjee2511
    @mohonamukherjee2511 2 года назад +90

    The bullying by those women in the family is the worst form of misogyny. The worst. To hurt and alienate other women under the guise of "looking out for the men" , to bully and to gang up on new members instead of welcoming them because they're so so insecure as a family... Ugh.
    The men who support it are just as horrible because they WANT the new women to submit.
    But the husband, brother and Dad - ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @gerrisorg8780
    @gerrisorg8780 8 месяцев назад +2

    That grooms family is terrible and I can't believe a mother and step mother are so close like that

  • @Acidfunkish
    @Acidfunkish 2 года назад +306

    You're not marrying the entire family. You're marrying ONE person. It's your responsibility to have your spouse's back, first. You did that. A+. 👍🏻
    What they're doing is trying to push that "being worthy" is actually "being willing to take abuse from the entire family in perpetuity." Yeahhhh, no. This is gross.

    • @Panbaneesha
      @Panbaneesha 2 года назад +15

      When the newest member of the "unit" joins in the bullying it's a typical abused turned abuser situation, toxic af.

    • @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181
      @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 2 года назад +8

      It sounds like almost every kind of CULT initiation. Break the individuals sense of self to join the collective... I know, I've been raised in a family cult.

    • @husk1061
      @husk1061 2 года назад

      Unfortunately not all families see it that way, been there.

    • @naruhinastarr
      @naruhinastarr 2 года назад

      Exactly. And this would only be the beginning. Also, I really don’t like when people say something along the lines of “if you marry your husband, you’re marrying the entire family” even when they have good intentions so thank you for saying that you are marrying that one person!

  • @kj6446
    @kj6446 2 года назад +435

    re: the last story...screenshot the texts, and when the bride gets divorced send her a card with the picture

    • @kaedeshirakawa1979
      @kaedeshirakawa1979 2 года назад +52

      omg YES! Doesn't matter how petty that is, that's brilliant!!!!

    • @francesca3433
      @francesca3433 2 года назад +14

      😂 my thoughts exactly

    • @swastikasingh4458
      @swastikasingh4458 2 года назад +19

      I wish there was a clapping emoji that I could give to your comment. Genius!

    • @vickiecoles8214
      @vickiecoles8214 2 года назад +15

      @@swastikasingh4458 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. Here ya go! 🙂

    • @evie-rd8tc
      @evie-rd8tc 2 года назад +34

      i love how you say "when" she gets divorced and not "if" exactly my thoughts!!

  • @kathydavenport4422
    @kathydavenport4422 6 месяцев назад +1

    This first guy is wonderful and amazing. Keep this handsome gentleman.

  • @ninamoua5439
    @ninamoua5439 Месяц назад

    For my sister’s wedding we had two photographers. One was designated for the bride and groom and one for the guest. We paid everyone their rates. The pictures captured were amazing.

  • @Claireannette77
    @Claireannette77 2 года назад +203

    Shout out to the man with the insecure female family members who have to break down other women who try to become family. I’m EXTREMELY PROUD of YOU for sticking up for your wife💕💕💕 it means a lot!!💕

  • @simplywonderful449
    @simplywonderful449 2 года назад +349

    First story: They went ahead with their plans even after lying to you and claiming they "would never do such a thing" when you confronted them. So the women in your family are misogynistic liars, too. I suspect this goes deeper, with these women simply NOT HAVING THE PROPER CLOTHES TO WEAR TO A WEDDING! It's too easy to always wear the same thing!

    • @naruhinastarr
      @naruhinastarr 2 года назад +38

      Apart from being misogynistic liars, they are also gaslighters. Completely gaslighting their family member (the groom). Tactics of what narcissists do

    • @usernameisunavailable8270
      @usernameisunavailable8270 2 года назад +11

      @@naruhinastarr So many crazy narcissistic bullies running around these days. They spend all of their time bullying someone out side of their group. But if they didn't have that they would all turn on each other in a heart beat. I bet they all secretly hate each other too but they use that hate, band together instead, and project it onto other undeserving women. They are fake and deceiving. How do they all seem to find each other? They come together like magnets most times.

    • @gaurikakhosla5011
      @gaurikakhosla5011 2 года назад +2

      They're not misogynistic, they're misandrists.

  • @jennifersmith8166
    @jennifersmith8166 8 месяцев назад +2

    I have to say the first story husband was a hero because the women of the family are clearly bullies because no one(bride)should have to go through anyone else wearing white at their wedding. Plus! The groom WARNED them not to!

  • @karlas9961
    @karlas9961 8 месяцев назад +1

    When my husband and I met, his family was very welcoming. After marriage, one of my sister-in-laws became jealous when I was around. She started bad mouthing me to the rest of the family. She would make up all kinds of crap. She made my life miserable, my children’s sad and my husband finally had enough. We simply quit being with the family. When they ask us to come over, my husband would tell them that we’re not today. Thank you. We controlled the time we were with them. My husband visited with his brothers and his mom. Eventually his brothers had enough and I’m not sure what happened but everybody became very nice. We hang out occasionally but it’s not a weekly thing like it used to be. We’ve been married 30 years and still going strong. Everyone’s welcome at our house and we’re welcome anywhere. Sometimes a husband has to set their foot down to change a behavior. Now we can all hang out together and everything goes well.

  • @fabienneclavier5984
    @fabienneclavier5984 2 года назад +215

    So the crazy women/ gang who ruined the wedding say they just want to make sure the new wife will make a decent family member, yet they behave in a way that is far from decent 🙄 Nutjobs! As for the last bridezilla, imho the only “ex” she might have on her wedding pictures some time from now is her own husband, considering how little they’ve known each other 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @TheNormExperience
      @TheNormExperience 2 года назад +11

      Well said! Their family is not a frikken sorority!!!

    • @bhart3321
      @bhart3321 2 года назад +16

      Yeah the comments on the last OP's post were pretty unanimous in saying this bridezilla marriage will fall apart long before OP. See smart self actualized adults like to make sure we're compatible in all aspects of life before taking that plunge because we take the sanctity of marriage seriously. It's not something you enter into because you have a narcissistic need for attention, it's attitudes like the bride's that are the reason divorce has become so prevalent in western culture, nobody takes the institution seriously. Then you have LGBTQ people that still can't legally get married despite taking it far more seriously than the aholes that can.

    • @orelliaorellia142
      @orelliaorellia142 2 года назад

      @@bhart3321 More and more countries are allowing LGBTQ+marriage! Things are changing for the better!

    • @eskimberly7424
      @eskimberly7424 2 года назад +5

      And being married a long time does not guarantee that a couple has a strong relationship and won’t divorce. That horrible “best” friend may end-up having several exes in her photos anyway. I think her reason for not inviting the fiancé is nonsense - makes me wonder if she has another reason that she’s trying to conceal. Anyway, I’d cut off that friendship completely.

  • @JustAGalOnTheGo
    @JustAGalOnTheGo 2 года назад +437

    Hysterical how the serial killer centerpiece person doesn’t know how to spell execute.

    • @Acidfunkish
      @Acidfunkish 2 года назад +22

      "Excicute..?" Like, it couldn't be more wrong.

    • @katearcher8514
      @katearcher8514 2 года назад +1

      @@Acidfunkish nah, not the worst of versions 😁

    • @krisdiane
      @krisdiane 2 года назад +2

      I know! It would have been such a good pun too. Lol

    • @Birdbike719
      @Birdbike719 2 года назад +7

      How bizarre??? Some people have lost their damn minds!

    • @craigusselman546
      @craigusselman546 2 года назад +1

      needs to brush up on your serial killing then.

  • @lynntolleson6688
    @lynntolleson6688 Год назад +1

    How can there be so many stories of such horrid behavior on a couple's wedding day - towards the couple, or the people who are there to celebrate a couple's LOVE. I am stunned at the number of horror stories! SHAAAAME! LOL

  • @JustHereForCats
    @JustHereForCats 8 месяцев назад +1

    No. As a spooky, pixie goth queen. ABSOLUTELY NOT okay to put pictures of serial killers at the dinner tables at your wedding. It’s giving hybristophilia, and you need therapy 😂

  • @maryrinehart2346
    @maryrinehart2346 2 года назад +117

    The first groom was standing up to bullies, pure & simple, it wasn’t just the white dresses at his wedding but the whole pattern of abuse. Kudos to the groom, his brother and dad for refusing to accept this and shame on those women-they should be embarrassed at their immature behavior

  • @allisonh2340
    @allisonh2340 2 года назад +481

    Just throwing this out there because it's an opinion I saw once and wholeheartedly agree with, but have never seen anyone else talking about it... The whole concept of idolizing serial killers, getting their faces as tattoos (it's a thing), buying merch with their quotes and faces, etc. Is SO incredibly messed up. You never know when you're going to encounter someone who may have been connected to a victim of one of those killers, and you're literally throwing it in their face that you're celebrating the person who killed someone they knew and cared about. Even if it's not a person who knew one of those specific victims, but anyone who is closely connected to violent crime of any sort. You're basically showing that you celebrate murderers and don't give a shit about the victims and their families.

    • @ZombehPanda
      @ZombehPanda 2 года назад +43

      I never even knew this is a thing and I'm very disturbed to hear it is...

    • @HaleyJo1992
      @HaleyJo1992 2 года назад +36

      Murder groupies concern me.

    • @janninmarie8385
      @janninmarie8385 2 года назад +28

      They are sick in the head. If I ever met a person like that, all I can ever feel about them is disgust.

    • @jazx5418
      @jazx5418 2 года назад +16

      Yes Like they have some tiny case for fictional serial killers cause they arnt real but its still messed up but real living serial killers that have murdered people yet ppl idolize them? It's messed up and honestly a huge red flag

    • @WiLDCHiLD.
      @WiLDCHiLD. 2 года назад +16

      As a #Murderino, I concur. That's just baffling to me. There's being into true crime, then there's being _REALLY_ into true crime to the point that they idolize those rapists/murderers. It's like, "Yikes!" 😬 Nope. That's just wrong on so many Dante's Inferno levels of hell. 😳