Bridezillas Being Entitled On Social Media - REACTION
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The first story made me cry laugh! My dad was dating someone similar! I was maybe 14? And we were all together, my dad, his girlfriend, her two daughters, and just me. We end up going to taco bell for lunch, we sit down at a booth and my dad is across from me at the table, he reached his hand out to me and says, " I love you boo boo."( Yes, he calls me that still and I'm 37 lol) after my dad says this, we hear a slam and it's his girlfriend pushing her food away from her in a tantrum. (She's 39 at the time) I'm sitting there in complete shock and she actually has the nerve to say, " I can't believe you will tell her you love her and not me!" 😂! I was a pretty good kid but I looked her right in her eyes and said, " Are you actually serious? This is my DAD! You're crazy!". She then stares at my dad with SHOCK! "Are you going to let her speak to me this way?". What he did next was the most gangster thing I've ever seen him do. He looks at her and tells her, " Not only am I going to allow my DAUGHTER to speak to you that way because she isn't wrong. But her and I are going to drop you off at your house and we're going to get ice cream. Because my daughter just help me dodge a bullet! That deserves a reward!" 😂 😂 😂 I wish I was joking! He never spoke to her again 🤷🏻♀️😂🤣 and that 31 flavors ice cream was DELICIOUS! Lmao!
i would have so liked to have been a taco bell worker sweeping and hearing that going down 😭😭 slow clap and all
Awwwhh!!! I love this story bc 1) I still call my daughter "boo boo" although she's now 23 yo; and 2) I did a similar thing when my daughter was 8 yo. My then bf thought it was ok to tell me that he didnt like her at all. I told him cool so he needs to go find his ideal woman who is definitely not me. 😆
And that’s how a real parent handles these kind of situations
@@dianaphillips3979 Good for you mama I would do the same thing
I love this! I hope he found a better person because he deserves it. She has kids and would obviously put them second, feel bad for them.
the fact that the dad didn’t DROP his fiancé the second she showed issue with his DAUGHTER is mind blowing. no one would ever come between my kids and i. that’s insane. i feel so bad for that girl.
Might be a middle aged rich man dating a hot gold digger
That's the same for me...right now I'm in a long distance relationship after my husband's death but the first thing that I made clear is that my sons will ALWAYS come first et I'm happy that my SO agrees
@@86upsmaya maybe but putting looks/sex above your child is even more gross.
Right? No wonder the daughter is "pro mom". She might not be pro mom, she could just be, rightly, anti bridezilla.
@@86upsmaya
And? That just makes him even more of an idiot.
The first story is really yuck. Why is she jealous of his own daughter? That's a very twisted mindset and a huge red flag.
Ikr? Like careful lady, your crazy is showing
Apparently the dad was joking about her daughter finally turning 18 with his friends...
Yeah, it's sickish. It's gonna get worse ya know.
@@Sayushana there’s more to the story??
@@Sayushana thanks for the link!!
The bride who said, "either I pay for my son's surgery or pay the florist, guess what I just won't have flower" yes. Some other brides should take note. You should arrange your wedding around your funds.
Yeah but some people arent abale to afford a wedding,ever,period
@@stephaniemoore8013 , then just elope and get married at the courthouse with a justice of the peace! I would imagine that a lot of people who focus too much on the wedding to the point of causing financial hardship lose sight of the more important marriage and end up getting divorced.
There really should be no issue on asking if people would like to help fund your wedding. The only issues you come when you're a b**** about it if people can't.
@@RachelRoseLynn I disagree. If you can't afford to pay for it yourselves (bride & groom) then either have it a JP do it or wait until you can afford it.
@@stephaniemoore8013 You can do it at a courthouse with a JP. My sister got married by a JP in my mom's backyard. It was beautiful. It's not supposed to be about how much money you spend...its supposed to be a celebration of your love for each other.
“You can’t have the pictures of your daughter and yourself up with her looking womanly.”
That is a legendary level of insecure. What will happen when she finds out about the sun and realizes she’s not the center of the universe?
Shhhh she could be reading the comments and she might ask Mr. Sun to delete itself from the universe so she can shine.
@@ogkpopper To be honest even the sun isnt the center.... merely the center of one galaxy amongst many in the universe.
So she will never truly shine.... but dont let her know that.
Totally. Smdh and some of these men still think it's OK to do as them crazies ask.
Umm Sun is not the center of the universe. What are you talking about? we don't know what the center of the universe is. Sun is the center of the solar system, a super massive black hole is at the center of our galaxy. Atleast make sure when you try to diss someone that the facts you're using are correct. 😂 Otherwise the results are freaking hilarious.
@@zeekyboogiedoo Oh my god! even your correction is wrong. 😂 The sun is NOT the center of the galaxy either, just the center of the solar system. There are multiple stellar systems in each galaxy and some galaxies have a supermassive black hole at its center.
The last guy who didn't wanna invite his 9y/o daughter to the wedding : way to destroy your relationship with your daughter. Pretty sure she'll hold on to this for years and will probably cut all contacts with you in the future.
Seriously,first her mom abandons her,now she has a dad who obviously does not think shes very important, poor kid,she deserves better parents
Hope she never invites HIM to her wedding. She should ask her grandpa to give her away, and do the father-daughter dance with grandpa
I hope she will! That man doesn't deserve to be called a father!
@@86upsmaya The Grandpa will be the one to help her cope with the situation
I was in a similar situation and I can confirm. I’ve been holding a grudge for almost 7 years now and it’s still going strong
Fast forward 10 years to the divorced guy in a bar, crying in his beer about why his youngest daughter refuses to have anything to do with him.
Or why he isnt the one walking her down the isle at her wedding
Facts to the two comments above me
👏👏💯👏👏
Hopefully! POS doesn’t deserve children
Or why he’s mad at his ex for taking everything and his daughter won’t help him.
That poor little girl omg. Her mom abandons her and now her dad is blatantly putting his new fiancé ahead of her. I hope she finds the love of her life, marries into a loving family, and goes no contact with her POS dad 😡
Also the mum left when she was 6, now she is 9 so that's 3 years and he is also together with the new woman for 3 years...
I Agree! You would think her sister would have stood up for her🥺
You marry your partners kids too, it’s a package deal!!! But if you don’t like that, well then you Should Not be getting married, or even be together really!!
@Luna Shadow oooh I missed that.. do you think he cheated?
@@jalenc1997 maybe🤷 or he didn't love her anymore or the other way... But I thought it was sus
Yeah, that's going to be the kind of hurt that will affect the poor little girl for the rest of her life. So damn sad.
When I got married I had no money. I made a wedding with a couple hundred dollars. I baked a tiered cake (it was beautiful and yum!), I didn’t have a fancy wedding dress and my husband didn’t have a fancy suit. We married on a deck with a view which was connected to my mothers house. What I realized is I could have waited and saved for many many years but seeing my husband there waiting for me smiling with a tear in his eye was the most amazing feeling in the world. Sometimes I think I would have wanted a better dress but when I remember his smile, I regret nothing. I’d have married him in a garbage bag and if he gave me that look I’d still be happy.
preach!
I agree. People who are living in a camper with no car like that woman shouldn't b trying to have a big expensive wedding. Ur right about seeing ur groom smile at u ad yr walking toward him, that is the most beautiful moment and no matter what the wedding costs that is the precious moment u wont forget.
Awww that’s adorable and sounds like a wonderful wedding!! Congratulations also on the marriage lol. Also I want cake now-
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Love this, so beautiful ❤️
How can these guys marry a woman who doesn’t LOVE his children?!?!?
Oh it's very common .. men shutting their daughters out for their new life with their partners .. it's very easy for men to do it , it happens frequently in my culture .. often our men re marry and do not have much time for their kids from their first marriage...
or has never even met them...
@@adrxdeedrich5091 I could never do that. If I’m marrying a woman she MUST at least get along with my siblings, there must be mutual like with my parents, and if I had kids they must adore each other. When you have children the are the most important people on this world and the only thing that supersedes your spouse!
I may have some issues with my dad but at least my stepmoms (got remarried twice) weren't monsters.
Because he is a crap father.
I remember hearing that last one before. Apparently his parents found out that he’s not having his 9 year old there and they decided they’re not going and will instead take the 9 year old somewhere fun for the day. The op was upset because he wanted his parents at his wedding but they wouldn’t budge. If his daughter isn’t there then they aren’t going. End of discussion. I remember that there were some great comments from Redditors telling him how awful he is. I think he took the post down after a day. Clearly he didn’t get the answer he wanted, but at least we know that kids grandparents have her back.
Oh that makes me feel better! Thanks for sharing that!
They have her back and hopefully FT custody of her too. That poor child.
So glad she has wonderful grandparents!
Thank you for sharing this! Glad to know she has some strong support!!
Thank you so much for sharing this. Makes me feel so much better.
1:13 also the fact that the lady feels threatened by her spouse's MINOR daughter presents issues of its own
@MaeRose26 frfr, most girls are at least starting to get them at 12, too
@@Kalani_Saiko The fact that the lady feels like that about the husband's relationship with his daughter is absolutely revolting. What kind of person even thinks like that?
@@blizz2795 Awful people
You know these “dads” marrying women who dislike their children also had dating profiles saying “my daughter is my world” 🙄🙄
Omg, they do
Exactly, he is willing to abandon his nine year old daughter by prioritizing the moods and preferences of his new wife. It is disgusting. Bad, horrible father.
Do you know this from experience?
We found a bridezilla here
@@marshhen And we can only imagine how the bridezilla treats this poor child every day...
The man who excluded is daughter from his wedding is a failure of a father...the wedding is the start..i hate to imagine what life is gonna be like for that 9 year old
I agree. I have a 10 year old daughter and I can’t imagine how devastated she would be. I would never marry anyone who didn’t want my children at our wedding.
this bridezilla gives me Meredith from The Parent Trap vibes
That broke my heart! I agree, I can't even think about how her life is going to be with those two monsters. What a horrible father.
I guess dad will NEVER have the 9 year old for any percentage of custody??? DANG! That’s just wrong.
Imagine what it does to a little child to tell her that her parent doesn't want to see her on special days, after the other parent left.
Also, I'm sure that will make her get along soo much better with the fiancé.
"Am I the asshole for not inviting my daughter to the wedding?" Yes...yes you are. I don't need to hear the story
Unless the daughter has repeatedly threatened to burn the place down and has recently started buying jerrycans full of gas, it does seem pretty cut and dry.
@@bararobberbaron859 loool yes maybe then call the police
unless you have a child that would need constant attention during the wedding and you had no one to care for them or a bratty kid she just seem like a kid who wanted to go to a wedding lol
Especially when you say " i dont even need to hear the story", then i'd bet money you're wrong. Context matters.
Hi
When I got married my step daughter who was 10 year old at the time not only was fully embraced as my bridesmaid but also (due to her aunt getting irresponsibley wasted) ended up spending our wedding night in bed with us.... it was a "fun sleepover" in her eyes. If you get with somebody with kids then the kids should remain the priority!! I love that kid like she's my own!! ... also she's 17 now. Myself and her dad are separated but amicable but she comes to mine at weekends. We may not be blood relatives but she's my kid.... she just had an amazing biological mother also.
💗💗💗 Exactly! 💗💗💗 You *extend* your family, you extend your love and the result is *more LOVE* in the world and in your own life! Win win! 💗💗💗
Good for you tbh! Love her always! 🩷
Why did you think it was okay to have sex in front of a child? You're a creep and should stay away from children
Yes, that's exactly how it should be. The more love the better ❣️
Bruh! the 9 year old daughter's mother left when she's 6... and he's leaving her out of his wedding??? that poor baby is freshly dealing with abandonment and is being excluded from her parent's wedding? that's beyond being an asshole.
How much you willing to be that these a pro life hacks
What mental damage has he caused that poor wee girl? What an absolute shithouse of a father.
Same thing happened to me and I was also adopted and sent back it made me tougher but I’m unable to accept feel or give love tho I don’t believe in real and people who do believe love is real I think are childish and stupid fools so yeah maybe I’m traumatized or just living in the real world
Right?! She is not distraught. She is experiencing childhood trauma. He should not be surprised when she’s a “difficult” teenager and becomes estranged from him the moment she moves out.
And may I add- he’s bringing another “mother-type” figure into the home that is going to be icy with her. What we see here is a man with awful taste in women.
The brides that get mad at their bridesmaid for cutting their hair because of health reasons are the worst. "I'm so sorry that you might die from this illness but it doesn't fit with my aesthetic so...." Those people are horrible. How the hell do they have a fiance, let alone friends?
It’s all about the photos with these women. They care way too much about their GD vanity.
Life presents opertunities to behave like a decent person, it's gonna bite them later
Ikr how is such a horrible person able to find a fiance, while I've been single my entire live
I've heard Charlotte ask the same question.
Perhaps I'm just too old, but I've NEVER paid any attention to whether the bridesmaids hairlength matched! This seems BIZARRE to me AND I have a bit of OCD!!
Apparently people’s visions for their wedding days does not *actually* include their friends, only perfect background stand-ins that will perfectly match their aesthetics. Any hints that your friends are real people with personalities and differences don’t really fit.
Bridezilla upset about bridesmaid getting depressed? Depressed friend should ditch bridezilla.
It's disappointing but not suprising because I'm guessing a lot are American and we have such a consumer culture where no one takes time to teach their kids how or what to value in life :(
So sad. I thought you were supposed to have people in your wedding because they are important to you and you love them. SMH..
It’s not their job to make a person who is miserable happy so I’m siding with that bridesilla
They want props to fit their "esthetics", not actually human beings.
@@munirahbakar4123 Umm 🤔 yeah so? Her friend sounds like she is really messed up and instead of working on it she acts out not once but several times.
Maybe they are just tired of her which is understandable.
The fathers in two of these stories putting their fiancé before their children is even more disturbing to me than the women being bridezillas. You shouldn't put ANYONE above your children! I've been married for 19 years and one of the things I love most about my husband is that I know without a doubt that our children always come first with him! A few years ago we had plans to go out for a nice dinner for our anniversary. Our youngest was excited to be spending the night at a friend's house, but our oldest was at an age where he could stay home alone. We were going to leave him some pizza money and figured he'd be on his Xbox most of the night. When my husband got back from taking our daughter to her friend's house, our son came out and asked what time all of us were leaving to eat. My husband and I just looked at each other, shrugged and told him to be ready in 20 minutes. The three of us had a really nice night together! It was great to spend some time with just him, especially since he was at an age where usually kids don't want to hang out too much with their parents. And now we have a funny little story about how he third wheeled us and ended up making the night so much fun! And my husband and I learned that if just the two of us want to go out to eat, we'll do lunch while the kids are in school! 🤣
My ex married a weird woman who doesn't like children, and she treats my young son likes he's a nuisance when he visits his dad. Makes my blood boil.
@queenB I loved this lol
This is the sweetest thing ever! So happy that you're making memories with your son, and that he chose to be with his parents over his XBox. My son's at the age where it's a toss-up half the time *lol* Their childhood doesn't last forever, and the times you get to spend with them now will be held in your heart as you drive them off to college, and are there for them during other highlights of their independent lives.
@@drunkindonuts13 That has to be an awful feeling for both of you, I'm sorry to hear that! I'll never understand how people will date or marry a partner that already has kids and then act like a jerk when the child is around! I hope things get better for you guys!
@@lenanvz8980 Thank you!
I’m a baker… that cake would take DAYS. Also, $200 would not even cover ingredient and decor items 🤦🏼♀️
But... 2000?
@@annakube9504 add up the hours not only baking, but also making each of those sugar flowers, the overheads in having a professional kitchen and staff, licencing, insurance, advertising and admin costs, ingredients and packaging,plus hours to deliver and assemble the cake on site (because they're not transported like that!). It adds up.
That cake was genuinely one of the most gorgeous wedding cakes I've ever seen. Absolutely worth the cost.
@@annakube9504 You have to be a baker, painter, sculptor, basically be an architect, and more, to make a cake like that. It takes several kinds of artistic skills, and not many people are truly that talented across the board.
@@annakube9504 pretty reasonable for a cake that quality.
That last story: that child is going to have *such* a happy home-life, living with a new mummy who thinks she's a waste of space and a father who was willing to throw her under the bus to please his fiancée. I can't imagine how much therapy she'll need later just from being excluded from the wedding, never mind living in the same house as that woman.
I remember that post on Reddit. Dude even made an update. His parents found out about this, so they completely (and rightfully) flipped their lid. OP and his fiancé got upset when the grandparents decided that instead of coming to the wedding they would take their granddaughter on a nice trip/outing. Which led to drama because “ The fact that I was close to my parents prior to dating my fiancé would make it look like the my parents had a problem with my fiancé”. He last commented that his parents want the youngest to move in with them if it would be better for her.
Some more stuff came out in the comments and it sounds like them not wanting his daughter at the wedding was more about optics for the fiancé. If everything OP said was the truth he is so much worse than the ahole here. He even said something along the lines of “my youngest daughter takes things the wrong way when my fiancé makes comments on her appearance over dinner”. The grandparents were furious about that as well.
Edit- It was his parents. Not the parents of his first wife. He deleted the post & comments, but someone on the AITD sub saved a copy of the original post.
Here's the OP:
AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding?
I (46M) am getting married to my fiancée (39F), we have been together for 3 years. I have two daughters (18F, 9F) from previous relationships. My youngest’s mother left when she was 6.
My fiancée is a very sophisticated person and have exquisite tastes. She also does not really care for young children and this has created tension between her and my youngest daughter. While our plans have been delayed due to global circumstances, our plans to get married are finally going ahead. It’s going to be a very lavish and expensive wedding. Due to the nature of the wedding and my fiancée’s preferences, our wedding is also going to be child free. We will, however, be inviting my oldest as she is no longer a child and because, unlike my youngest, her and my fiancée get along well.
However, I didn’t realize that my youngest expected to come to the wedding. She tried to tag along with my fiancée and oldest when they were going shopping for a dress for my oldest, because she thought she was going to need a dress too. I explained to her that the wedding was going to be for adults only and that she wouldn’t be attending. She started crying and getting mad which stressed out my fiancée.
She has been distraught about this for days and hasn’t let it go.
My parents came by to visit today and my youngest told them what had happened. When they asked for clarification on the situation I explained to them that my daughter wouldn’t be attending the wedding because the child free rule applied to her as well. Besides, this wedding would not be suitable for a child and I don’t want my fiancée to have to deal with my daughter on the most important day of her life. My parents told me I was being a terrible father by prioritizing my fiancée over my daughter and that on the day of the wedding they would take my daughter out for a special day, which means they wouldn’t be in the wedding. I told them they couldn’t do that, even if they didn’t attend the wedding I wouldn’t let them take my daughter. This has become a bigger conflict than I intended.
My fiancée and I both think we’re in the right for wanting a child free wedding, but it appears I may lose my parents from the wedding over this and I want to know if I’m in the right or not. AITA?
He won't be invited to his daughter's wedding when she grows up. :)
@@reneebush2399 - unless the child is being 100% complimented - which I doubt [and even compliments can be hack-handed] - there's no "wrong way" to take comments: "helpful suggestions" may be covered in honey but still have thorns in them. "Constructive criticism" is a thing a lot of adults find hard to accept, let alone a child - even when the other person is genuinely trying to be helpful.
@@franl155 exactly! 99% of fully grown, supposedly mature adults don't process constructive criticism in a healthy way, let alone a child🙄.
@@tianamariee6287 - I didn't want to promote my own personal experiences into a universal law :-)
No one messes with me and my kids. They are in their late 20's and early 30's but my girls are still my world. I can always find a new woman easily... can't find 2 amazing daughters like I have.
Amen!!!
W00T! Thank you for being an awesome person.
Well said! It blows my mind how this isnt a given for some people. Dont like my sons? Peace out hair cut. Men or women are a dime a dozen but your babies arent.
Good for you,I think these women have no idea what they're missing out on,my stepdaughter has become one of my best friends,she has been as much of a blessing in my life as her father has
Amen 🙏
I can't imagine the heart break that little girl is going through. That dad is a monster for letting that happen to her. His bride is SOOO CLASSY that she doesn't want his child around??? And what is the older daughter doing, going to this sham event?? If my dad did that to my little sister I would tell him to shove his elegant wedding where the sun doesn't shine. What a bunch of horrid people. They are ALL the A-Holes.
That’s not a “wears the pants” issue; that’s a “you’re not gaining a stepmother, you’re losing your father” issue.
Absolutely 👏
Get rid of the “sophisticated” woman and keep your daughter.
The girl is on her way to have major daddy issues and lose all trust in men after what her father did
I remember a Chinese saying I came across sometime ago that was along the lines of " with a stepmother , you also have a stepfather " . First thing I thought of
This idiot should never have gotten the chance to procreate...what a shame of a "father". This is appalling and disgusting but at least the kids now which priority they are. If you're disappointed you don't expect too much. I'm deeply sorry for this child. This was toxic af...
That last story made me want to cry. "My distraught daughter"..."stressed out my fiancee"? She's never going to forgive him. I grew up with a father who made it clear we just didn't matter much to him. No need to go into it, but he taught me not to trust. After we grew up, he wondered why none of us kept in touch with him. Very sad, but he just broke any connection. I wonder what that father is going to feel in a few years? There may be no way he can heal this.
Friday, bridezillas, Charlotte singing, AND the AUDACITY? It honestly doesn’t get better. 💅🏼
Nope, it sure doesn't!
This is my favorite!!
And it’s my birthday. Day made! ✅
@@Jonathanlaster20 HAPPEEEEE BIRTHDAAAAY TATERTOT!
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The dad neglecting his daughter to please his fiancee says so much about both those people. Explains why the first wife left for sure.
The fact that he, a father of a young child, is marrying a person who doesn't like children, tells enough about him to figure out how much he actually cares about his role as a parent...
I am sure she will love her child/children though. And she will expect him to forget about his two daughters. Unless they need a babysitter. A free babysitter. Because family.
11:18 If it makes anyone feel better, she filed a claim to get her 700$ back in small claims court and they waived the fee so no court costs even if she loses. But she will probably win because of the verbal contract. She has plenty of proof in her text/email communications to likely get her money back. Small consolation for being betrayed by a friend, though.
so i know the person who pisted that and honestly her asking only for $700 is her being nice. the 3 day wedding required her ro by 3 dresses 2 of which were culturally traditional and crazy expensive. plus hair and make up, and the bridal shower that the bridesmaids threw for the bride. thw whole story is crazy and our whole friend group was floored when we found out what happened.
@@brisims3503 I hope she was compensated for all she spent!
That poor kid who’s dad said his new fiancé “doesn’t like young children” makes me wonder why a dad with a young child chose to marry such a witch.
In Italy we say something that roughly translates into "a hair of pussy moves more stuff than a bunch of oxen"
he probably is paying more attention to her looks than her personality
Dads, if your fiancé’s don’t like your children/young children and makes you aware of that, you run! You’re getting into a whole lot of drama, trouble and potential abuse from said stepparent to the stepchildren. It’s not worth it. At least she’s verbalizing it instead of keeping it
in, that’s your cue to not get married! And this also goes vice versa. Woman, if a man is telling you they don’t like your child, do the same thing and don’t get married!
I have a narcissistic stepmom and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone
It's very simple. He values having sex with the fiance' more than his daughter. Some future therapist is going to buy a new car with the money they make from this decision.
Trying to ditch those rotten kids once and for all.
Jeez...That guy's a piece of sh*t!...I can't believe how selfish you have to be to abandon your crying daughter to protect your fiancee's "vision"....
They shouldn’t even by getting married since the fiancé hates children. She’s going to be a crap mother and he should know it
Why do so many people think it’s ok to treat their wedding party as props? They should just go out and hire actors or models, since their “vision” is clearly more important than friends or family
I think they'd save a lot of friendships that way.
"Props". That's a very good way of putting it. I didn't think about it that way before you mentioned it. With these brides, you're right.
I'm kind of old(er) and this os sad that weddings have come to this. Props.👵😢
But that will cost a lot of money and they'll miss out on the gifts
@@susanfanning9480 If it helps, I'm in my 40's myself and I don't think it's new. I think the same proportion of people have been riding the Drama Llama since the beginning of time. Now they can more easily share their shenanigans with the world.
I'm all in favor of hiring actors/models. Excellent idea. And the photos will be as authentic as the photos that come in frames for sale at the store.
The Groomzilla in the last story who doesn’t want to invite his nine year old daughter to his upcoming wedding needs to seriously reconsider his life choices that have brought him to this point. Sounds like his fiancé is going to be the decision-maker for all things and he will most likely lose both daughters and then the fiancé when she realizes that she doesn’t want to be married to a worthless POS like him. You take care of your children first!
Yeah ! This last story broke my heart... I feel so bad for this poor girl, her father is the worst... Same for the older daughter ! If my little brother wont go to a family thing i don't go either ! So sad...
I know poor baby
That lady is going to treat his daughter horribly! I hope he comes to his senses or the mothers sue for full custody!
Yeah that story pissed me off, I have two kids 8 years apart and I don't tolerate anyone trying to favor one over the other just because they think it's okay, we're a packaged deal and the fiance is wrong for that but the dad is indeed the AH
I feel so sorry for the child. Her mom abandoned her, her father apparently doesn't give a shit about her and her future stepmother seems to hate kids in general.
I'm a cake decorator and that cake price was absolutely fair. That didn't take hours, that took days. They had to bake all that, stack it (which is a slightly painful process with tiers that high), base ice it, and then design it. And the flowers have to be put there ON the day, adding even more of a stressful time constraint. That would have been a 4-day project for me, maybe 3 if there aren't too many other projects to work on that week. People think cakes are sooo easy and when they complain at me for how long it takes or how expensive it is, I'm always SO tempted to say, "fine, go make it yourself."
People, PLEASE be patient when it comes to cakes. I'm so tired of customers looking down on us like we're idiots or like our jobs aren't a whole skillset that takes years to perfect.
Yeah fair. I mean, personally, if it was my wedding and I was given a quote of 3000 USD for that cake id say that’s a fair price
honestly i want to tell people in so many things “do it yourself.” Both involving retail, fast food, and any form of art (im including baking in “art” because some of these cakes looking like whole ass masterpieces.)
With photography, painting, digital art, sketching, portraits, editing, music, baking, etc, it’s always “it cant be that hard” “why would it take so long” “all you’re doing is *insert massive understatement here*” “it shouldn’t cost that much” so on and so on. Which all make me want to scream “then do it. Your fucking. Self.” Because if it WAS that easy, they wouldnt be going to anyone. Ffs
From what i've heard delivery/cake preservation is also a big thing in bridal cakes (I heard a story where people refused this and had their cake smudged and slightly melted due to heat)
So I'd assume that is a part of the price as well
People who can make cakes at all are really cool, imagine being able to DECORATE one! But something that's always confused me is how a cake can take 4 days to make and still be served? Like, doesn't it become old and it's not fresh anymore? And then how come if the cake needs to be made beforehand, the flowers can only be added on the ady it's going to be served? I don't mean this in a rude way, I'm just curious as to why it's done that way and how.
@@lindevoskamp4948 yea definitely! And that two thousand dollar cake was super tall imagine how hard that would have been to move ANYWHERE
western weddings actually shock me… for us Indians, not all people have lavish weddings, or can afford to have massive parties, but one thing is common for us, serving food to anyone who attends the wedding, that can include the person who has decorated/ fixed lights/ dj… even if we reduce the budget for venue, or dress or other expenses, but it’s customary to never send home anyone without feeding them.
Please don’t think all western weddings are like this. These are the shocking extremes that are read out on RUclips for fun. We fed everyone at our wedding and sent them all home with leftovers.
@@susankaempfer8427 That's fair, tho it's still shocking at the amount of weddings there (at least based off the many vids and reddit threads that exists) where expenses are burdened on the guests. I suppose those particular people lost the meaning of wedding from a celebration of love to just being an excuse to be entitled? It's kinda sad :( In SEA weddings are paid wholly by the bride+groom and family involved, and even bridesmaid+groomsmen often get the outfit paid for by the bride. Just cultural differences maybe?
@@vha3151 I don’t think it’s a cultural difference so much as some people just getting horribly greedy. Until recently, the bride was expected to pay for transportation, bouquets and a gift for the bridesmaids. Bachelorette parties are a recent invention. The bridesmaids in the US were expected to pay for their own dresses, though. I don’t think this is always the case in the UK.
I wonder, ironically, if it’s modern egalitarianism that’s causing part of the problem- until recently, most rich people only had rich friends and didn’t have to think twice about whether someone could afford an expensive dress.
Anyway, it’s the shockingly inconsiderate ones that make for the best entertainment, not the ones that behave like normal human beings.
I don't want a big lavish wedding (I'm a westerner idk if that's a word or whatever) one, I could never afford it, two, having my family and his family in one place just sounds exhausting and not fun. I want to get married on a beautiful mountain top with just him and our parents siblings and a friend each(my father can legally officiate) and he's said he wants a party. So I'm thinking if we make the ceremony private and the reception a celebration sadly alot of people would be very mad at that and I hate that I have to change what I want so these crack heads don't throw a fit
@@susankaempfer8427 I suppose you're right! I guess the saying that "Your wedding is YOUR day" makes it easier for people to spin their selfishness and entitlement to the preparation of a wedding. Some could really take the words exactly as it is and think everyone will bend over backwards to ensure their day is perfect. And like you said, people certainly provide entertainment and life lessons for all of us 🤣
My dad emailed out pictures from his surprise 60th birthday party (I was living in another state) dressed in a tux and it included a picture of my half sister and her boyfriend as well. I replied to all on the email and wrote, “I’m glad you had a great party and I would’ve come to the party had I known about it.
My step mother replied and said she was sorry and that it wasn’t anything big just FAMILY and a few close friends. I’m like WTF am I?!?!?!
OMG, you have got an evil stepmother. I hope at least there is a prince in your life too!
That’s wrong as hell. Sorry you had to deal with that
So very sorry sweetie, no one should have to go through that. Your dad should have stuck up for you.
Well my family, birth family started doing that with family gatherings and funerals after my father died. They'd post lots of pictures on Facebook of my 3 sisters their families and my mother and her sister. Other extended family would ask how come you didn't go? I'd reply right on the postings I wasn't invited, or I had no information that Uncle so and so died. Soon the siblings dropped me from their FB i guess their joy in screwing me over was outweighed by the questions. So it isn't just step relatives.
Wow that sucks. We've had similar happen. It's messy and we all kinds just decided to cut ties. It's easier that way
As a child who wasn’t invited to my father’s wedding because it was ‘adults only’ and my children who were left out of their father’s wedding even though HER children were there, it causes severe emotional damage to children to do that to them!!!
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I honestly feel like there could be a compromise, let the kids go until 7-8 pm so they can eat, enjoy a bit and then afterwards is adults only. Of course, if the kid is >5 dont invite them if you dont want crying 'spoiling the fun' (they wont remember that much anyway), but older than that they should know how to behave in public and wont ruin your day
edit to clarify, I was talking about the general 'rule' kids are not for weddings nonsense, of course if they are your children they should be included
@@lookatthat2438 if they are YOUR children their presence shouldn’t ruin your day! You should be happy to include them in your special day and into their new family… by not including them in the wedding you’re telling them from day one that they aren’t welcome in this new family/relationship
Oh my god. I’m so sorry. I would love to give all of them a piece of my mind. Damn.
My parents were poor when they got married, they got married at the court house then went home where the rest of the family had set up a BBQ, everyone brought a plate and had a good time. Really don't know why people think lavish and expensive weddings are great if it brings so much stress or breaks you.
My parents were poor when they got married. They had a small private wedding in the house of my grandparents. Several years ago my mother died, and a few years ago my dad got remarried. He was no longer poor. He is a multi-millionaire. So, this time... he had a small private wedding in the backyard of his house. Food was ribs cooked by the best man with some sides. They borrowed my bluetooth jukebox and iPhone for the music. They rented some tables and chairs and put tablecloth over them. Photos were taken with cell phone cameras. The invitations said "No Gifts!". Of course, the couple was in their upper 70s, but age and experience meant they had some sense. Oh, the cake was dry and flavorless. I didn't say anything at the time, but a few months later we had cake for some reason when I was visiting and I said it was better than their wedding cake. They agreed. What they didn't do was throw a fit, demand a refund, or scream that it ruined their wedding.
@@jeffreyclinard2002 Wedding cakes are always very dry! That's because they're layered and need to carry a lot of weight. Think of it as an architecture problem: anything "soggy"/soft will collapse under its own weight. So... yeah, the prettiest wedding cakes tend to be dry and flavorless.
@@Ellerfru This cake wasn't layered.
Exactly!!!!
materialistic culture
The bride expecting advanced notice for her bridesmaid’s health struggles reminds me of a former boss of mine, whose reaction upon learning of my IBS was “can’t you just use the bathroom all at once and not different times throughout the day? I know you have problems, you’re a woman, you have problems, but it’s really affecting my bottom line.” Wish I was kidding, irrational idiots walk freely among us.
About the last story: how do you get as far as marriage with someone who explicitly hates children when _you have a child???_
he probably regrets having kids himself
“I don’t want a non-symmetrical bridal party”
Meanwhile I had three bridesmaids and my husband had two groomswomen (his sisters). There are no rules! 🙌🏻
My sister and I were groomswomen for my brother, I felt bad though that he didn't get to have his buds stand for him but his wife didn't want us to stand for her so he was like, "well, they are going to stand for me then."
Yep. I'm going to be the man of honor at my best friend's wedding. And unless her fiance has a female or a gay best man, then I'm walking down the isle with a straight dude. It truly doesn't matter, that's not what the day is about.
Oh no i ruined the 69
Exactly. My stepmother pressured me into cutting down on my number of bridesmaids and I should never have listened and had all my close friends. I picked one from each group and didn’t have my friends I had known the longest and it caused unnecessary hurt feelings that I regret. I should have had them all!! Luckily they are all still my friends. Just have them all (as long as you & they can afford it) and have fun!
@@olderwiser64 As long as your friends understand that it was your "evil" stepmother everything is okay. I am male, so that is why I said "evil", because she sounds like Cinderella's stepmother.
When we look at the photos of our wedding of 32 years ago, I don’t think about ‘the vision’. My wife looks beautiful in the photos because she always does, but the fashion looks dated - because well it is - it was the 80’s. We do look at how happy we, and our friends and family look, we think about the years that have passed, we see people we have lost and remember them fondly. I can’t and don’t want to imagine that process being any different and feel sorry for these people that just don’t seem to get it.
I'm not tearing up...you are! That's so freaking cute. So precious!!!! I wish you eternal happiness. ❤❤❤❤❤
Exactly this. Today is 37 years married for my husband and I. Cheap wedding, small party, gifts came in the form of things for the wedding (cake, food, family and friends) and it was perfect. We look at the photos taken by our friends and family there and are so happy and appreciative of their love and support. Just wish he was here to spend it with me. Quarantined in another city awaiting test results..... sigh.
You are so right, I couldn’t agree more with everything you said. My 32nd anniversary is next year and you are right about the fashion too!
@@dianajohnson7337 sounds like a lovely wedding and a great marriage, sucks being apart on your anniversary, congrats anyway and I hope you are together again really soon.
@@lilym7579 thanks same to you! I showed my wife my comment and these replies and she said “you soppy old thing”, but she gave me that look and I got a kiss - so - win!
My mom married a dude that gave everyone bad vibes. I didn’t like him, my grandmother didn’t like him, her sisters didn’t like him. He cheated, lied and tried to do horrible things to both of us.
Parents with children, please don’t put ur partners over the children u have. There are plenty of people to date, but no one could ever replace a child.
Better to stay single and cherish your children, sorry you went through that.
I absolutely cannot fathom giving a crap about how my bridesmaid chooses to do her hair , tattoos, etc....like????? I love them for who they are, that’s why they’d be in the wedding !
Exactly! 🤗
@KaitlynTMorris that's because you're not a narcissist!🙂
My cousin asked me to take my glasses off and then got angry when I said no because I needed them to see!
Unless she manages to somehow do her hair into a swastika, I honestly do not care
@@Dxs4all if she's Indian it means something completely different - you see them on temples in India - it depends on which direction the ends point as to whether it's used in a good way or there's something to worry about but yes, Hitler stole it from Indian culture - a little fun fact
the dude that's okay with his fiancee hating his 9 year old daughter to the point that he's perfectly fine with his own daughter not being allowed to come to the wedding because his fiancee doesn't want her there is flipping WILD. i wont even consider a relationship with someone who doesn't like my dog and he's planning on marrying someone who doesn't like one of his own children??? that does not sound like a lasting relationship
Agree, I wouldn't either, but life isn't perfect and neither are partners. Note, wife gets along great with his eldest daughter.
Yeah, dude sounds like a male golddigger, lol. "Whatever she says is fine, 'cause she's filthy stinking rich!" 😂
@@DJHolte Either that or that woman's p must really be poppin
There’s even more disturbing information on the post
“She has been distraught about this for days and hasn’t let it go.
My parents came by to visit today and my youngest told them what had happened. When they asked for clarification on the situation I explained to them that my daughter wouldn’t be attending the wedding because the child free rule applied to her as well. Besides, this wedding would not be suitable for a child and I don’t want my fiancée to have to deal with my daughter on the most important day of her life. My parents told me I was being a terrible father by prioritizing my fiancée over my daughter and that on the day of the wedding they would take my daughter out for a special day, which means they wouldn’t be in the wedding. I told them they couldn’t do that, even if they didn’t attend the wedding I wouldn’t let them take my daughter. This has become a bigger conflict than I intended.
My fiancée and I both think we’re in the right for wanting a child free wedding, but it appears I may lose my parents from the wedding over this and I want to know if I’m in the right or not. AITA?”
@@Shawn-rq4py My god it's worse.
The last story just absolutely broke my heart!! I can’t imagine not wanting to have my children in my wedding. It’s an expansion of their family to be celebrated! Poor baby.
And what kind of asshole marries/stays with someone that doesn’t like their kids?!?
Exactly! I totally get not having kids at the reception bc there is often a lot of alcohol involved and they can run quite late into the night, but for the love of god don't exclude your own kids from the ceremony!
At my uncle an aunts wedding they had two groomsmen walk the last bridesmaid down, as my aunt also didn't want/ have another bridesmaid. Everyone at the wedding thought it was funny and called the bridesmaid "a lucky girl". Compromise is so easy, people are just selfish.
Fun fact: Divorced fathers OFTEN prioritize their new wife over their children, especially if they have a daughter. I know this because it happened to me. When I was 4 my parents got divorced and both married other people. The woman my father married had two daughters of her own and all three of them treated me like less than shit on the bottom of your shoe and my father never did anything about it. He instead ignored everything and stayed in his garage all day. He even allowed the oldest sister to literally throw away my BED that was at his house and buy a new one for her sister. It was quite literally as if one week I had a bed and the next my bed was gone and I was told to sleep in the living room on the couch or on an old air mattress.
There are good fathers in the world, but I've seen more shit fathers than good ones, and that's not a good sign.
Quick questions: Were the step sisters very ugly? Are your best friends mice? Asking for a friend
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
@@SirSealandLister To be fair, the oldest one was in fact not a looker, and she was the one who did the most damage. She hated the fact that her mother married a man that wasn't her father, and since she couldn't take it out on him, she took it out on me. I have MANY stories about that GROWN WOMAN treating a child like shit, just because she was mad that her mother didn't get back together with her father, but the one about the bed has always stuck out to me in my memory.
Sounds like a Cinderella story
@@arielsmangos1172 Yeah a bit, but the saving grace for my story is my mother married a man who, while not perfect and could be an ass, treated me as his own daughter and even always introduced me as his daughter, rather than his step daughter.
While my biological father failed me in many ways, and still does to this day, my step father never did. While my biological father is still alive, I lost my real dad at the age of 12 when my step father passed away from liver cancer.
I told my husband about the guy having 2 daughters and their ages and that he was dating a woman who doesn't like children. Before I could say anything else he told me the guy should get rid of her. You don't date people who don't like your kids.
Yup....100%. Your first responsibility is to your children and to make sure you only bring people into their world who will also love and care for them.
I remember that first bride! She was actually in my Halloween Weddings group on Facebook and there were about 300 of us saying "YO GET THERAPY WTF" and we messaged the dad and daughter. PLOT TWIST: the dad is going through with the wedding anyway! Good news though: the daughter is getting out of the house whenever she can and going no contact with the bride and dad.
Good for the daughter.
@@SonjaElizabethTeal I get what you mean but it’s horrible that the daughter is forced to go trough that.
You can and should cut horrible parents out of your life but it leaves you heartbroken and lonely for life. Trust me. Shame on that father for being a waste of a parent!
Just a comment saying 'Hi!' from one Halloween bride to another! ^_^
@Nicky L It's a Facebook Group that's all about weddings themed around or taking place in Halloween
i give that last marriage 6 months and a huge divorce settlement. I'm also rooting for the youngest daughter to be in charge of all nursing home selections.
Shady Pines!
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The DJ one resonated with me on so many levels. It wasn't for a wedding, but a few years ago I DJ'd for a companies xmas work event. And they had no problem with my fee package and had no problem with catering for me to eat for free and drink for free. However, when everyone was getting up to go and eat, I was in line to get me some food. And as I was nearing the buffet station, a chef/catering member came up to me and asked what I was doing in line. I said getting some food. And she was like um, no you're just the DJ you don't get to eat, and if you want to eat you'll have to pay for it, or go somewhere else to get your food, as this is for the work event only. So I got rather upset and went and talked to the company manager of the event I was working for and said am I not allowed to eat? Do I have to pay for my own food. And the manager so no, you are free to eat and you don't have to pay as per our verbal contract. I then told him that catering manager/chef has said otherwise. And so the manager went and spoke to the catering manager and told her to let me eat and that it was free for me. And that bitch was like she's no one of importance, she's just the DJ. She's here to do her job, so she should go and do it. And so the manager of the event I was working for was like, Okay well I am paying her to DJ the event, and I am also paying you to make the food, so therefore you have no say in who gets to eat and who doesn't. And everyone deserves to eat regardless of the job they are doing, but if you want to be that petty, then I suggest you don't help yourself to the food, and if you want to eat then you'll have to go and pay for it else where. And the chef got so pissed of, that she literally ruined the whole event and damaged my equipment. Me and the company took her and the catering company to court, and they lost their license, and she was never hired in the catering company again, and she had to pay me $5k to fix my gear that she damaged. So yeah. Bloody childish, entiled assholes...
Wow! That's nuts!
This was a roller coaster from start to finish...
Woah. That is definitely not a person who should be working with knives for a living.
I'm really happy to hear the manager was on your side and stuck up for you, and that the courts did the right thing!
Wow! What a story! 😦😦 glad it had a good outcome but jeez that must of been shit to deal with at the time.
The last story about the father inviting only one of his two daughters to his wedding.. almost made me cry for that child. I can't imagine how that poor girl must feel 😢
What horrible horrible people.
I'm 54 and have recently met my 22 year old nephew for the first time. He and I get along great. His girlfriend and he came to stay with me for two days, and after the first night, she acted differently, like a jealous woman. I found out that she was angry that while she was still asleep (at 11:00AM) my nephew and I went down to my garden to run through the sprinklers, fully clothed. I left her a note, but she was pissed.
I'm old enough to be his mother, and I'm his AUNT. Ffs.
I think that for crazy jealous people is not about the logic of it, it's about the micro seconds of attention other people is getting instead of them.
I can’t understand how having pictures where the wedding party is perfectly symmetrical and looks like clones, is more important to someone than having pictures where the people they love are there.
right?! oh my god i feel like this attitude is almost normalised but can we talk about how WEIRD that is, especially when a bride or groom wants people to alter their appearance? You want your family and friends there. Why do you suddenly want them to look unrecognizable? Is the objective really to use all your loved ones as stagedolls to dress up as idealised strangers that look good for a few photos but otherwise dont resemble your friends/family at all? Why? Its so common to see bridezillas complaining about someone being pregant, unnatural colored hair, tattoos, piercings, and even body shape. GIRL they are the people youve decided to sorround yourself with!! Its a little late now to figure out you cant stand how everyone in your life looks! What!?
these i feel are the same people who will look back at a photo and only cry out how fat they looked rather than remember the magic of that day. very sad.
@@Bean-hz8jo i think they have the same standards for themselves. i cant understand it. when i did my make up tryout i told the lady, who was a professional, that she did an amazing job and that i saw a beautiful woman in the mirror, only that woman was not me :') she understood me and adjusted it to suit my personality.
I really like that@@Ruby-yn5fp . Honestly i relate to it on a more normal day to day basis, sometimes i dress up a little extra and feel beautiful and sometimes i think i still look beautiful but i dont look like myself, and it makes me uncomfortable. Id be so deeply uncomfortable to look at a bunch of pictures from my wedding day and see a group of near-strangers looking back at me!
The Stepford generation
The cake is beautiful!
Also these people are clearly living beyond their means YIKES!
Anyone who wants those expensive luxuries should be forced to try making it themselves when they have the nerve to question the price.
You can't have a child free wedding if you already have children. I'm sure the father will blame his ex wife for the ruined relationship with his daughter.
My aunt had a “child free” weddding but the children that were directly related to her like me and my brother and cousin were there because obviously but her friends kids were basically not invited 🤣
@@morganshannon7221 Exactly! You can have a child free wedding and still bring your kids because it's your wedding. You also have only ONE wedding (unless you get divorced) so your own child should really get the privilege to expirience that big moment, because, you're their parents, of course they'd want to expirience such a magical loving moment with you.
@@morganshannon7221 nope other way around the dad will blame his daughter for ruining his marriage and his chance at happiness and when his daughter eventually goes no contact he’ll play the victim and act like he doesn’t know why she doesn’t talk to him
Yep.
We had a child free reception. Our son was almost 2 and was our page boy and was present at the ceremony (he spent most of the time standing up there with us which was cute) but for the reception we hired a babysitter so he and his young cousins could have a pizza and movie party in the hotel across the road. The kids had a ball, and so did the adults. Win win
The last one was just horrific - the dad basically telling his young daughter that she's not invited (even though her sister is) because she's too young and the bride and him don't want her there plus purposefully excluding her from the shopping trip????
That poor kid must be absolutely wrecked. :'(
My sister had a child-free wedding. I, as the maid of honor had to leave my daughter with her father while my son was allowed to attend. Even the sister of the groom had to find a sitter for her newborn. So I get that. BUT!!!!! We're just related to the bride and groom. My sister had no children of her own.
For the father, the groom to exclude his OWN CHILD from his OWN WEDDING is just.....ugh. That particular exception could be made for her to attend. THEN had the audacity to ask if he was the asshole. Umm....YES!!!!!! That's your flesh and blood. She was in your life long before bridezilla. And the fact that he's even marrying someone who doesn't like his child.....that poor kid is in for some abandonment issues and therapy.
I very rarely comment on YT videos, but as a wedding DJ, I feel compelled to, first of all, thank you for the comment of “you could just be a normal human and just give him the food”, because I cannot express how many times this has been a real question that was posed to my company. So muchso that we started having to put the question into our client paperwork- “will there be a meal provided for the DJ/Emcee?” because otherwise, we have no idea when we arrive if we are “allowed” to eat the food or not. Secondly, I have absolutely had to pack a lunch or not eat while working before, when I have been told food would not be provided for me, unless I paid for it. I have also been told before that if I wanted to eat, I have to do so in the kitchen, because GOD FORBID guests see the “hired help” doing something as diabolical as eating at your wedding.
On behalf of every DJ in the world, we understand this is YOUR day, but when I’m working literally 10 hours or more, with no break, a plate of food is really appreciated.
If I ever get married, any vendors or people I hire will have breaks and be treated as guests during said breaks and that includes food and drink. 😊
@@charadreemurr4839 Thank you for your kindness! Truly, your DJ, photographers and any other vendors you hire will appreciate it more than you know!
Turn down anyone that refuses to serve you, problem solved.
Charge them an extra $100-200 for meal costs. @MaeRose26
That's horrible! Have you considered adding a clause stating price reflected includes a meal being served at venue along with three 15 minute breaks. If not, jack up the price by $100 -200.
"And remember the world don't owe you sh*t"
-Charlotte Dobre 2021
Words of great wisdom and very true! *chef's kiss*
Thank you and have a great day. ☺️
For the people with the "Shit you need to know" invite - I liked it. They were upfront, blunt - I thought it was funny. They might also have people in their lives who DGAF, and need to be informed this way. At least they weren't demanding over the top dress codes and requiring specific dollar amount gifts.
So I am in the throws of planning my wedding. I thought it was common ettiquette (spelling is terrible) that the names on the envelope are the people who are invited. I was recently told by a friend that even if the envelope doesnt say the blank family thats she assumes the entire family is invited. Well she has 4 kids...... A lot of my friends have more that 1 or 2 kids and had to explain to her why kids couldnt come. My venue only seats a max of 200 my ultimate number goal was 150 but since changed to a max of 115. IDK why people assume they can bring their kids, it is an adult event. Doesnt mean i dont love kids bc i do, was a teacher for 20 years.
Yeah, I'd give that card a pass. Between the no dress code and the "if you want to give money, then do it for this" in place of the usual demands for gifts, I'd give this one a pass. Assuming that the crude style is in line with their personality and they know how the people they are sending the cards to will react. Actually hold on - there was an issue with the dietary restrictions, if someone had a food allergy or was vegetarian/vegan. But assuming they accounted for that elsewhere and just gave everyone something in line with that, then it'd be fine.
@@Tazzy6923 You are correct that only the persons adressed in invitation (on envelope or otherwise) are invited. If You want to be sure that everyone understands the "no kids" rule, then inform them and say that it is not only the need but also as a safety precaution. In such a large place it would be easy to loose track of them. And as a bonus the parents can enjoy Your wedding without looking for their kids every few minutes.
(Sorry about my spelling)
I thought it was ok too - it's clearly a push back against all the other nonsense they have been exposed to e.g. dresscodes, wedding lists etc. Cant see how it's 'entitled'
Me too, if I got it from one of my friends I would be laughing lol
I wasn't mad at the "shit you need to know"
I think that's more of their humor vs being a bridezilla.
Let's face it, we've all wanted to say that on an invite before. Especially the "Just effing google it" 🤣
I thought it was great!
Couldn’t agree more!
For sure. I laughed.
I thought it was effin hilarious
I've been married almost 22 years. The wedding was a big deal at the time ($3000), but now, the memories are fuzzy, and I don't really care anymore. I find all these people to be ridiculous. Even when it was important, I still didn't act like most of these entitled brats. The best advice I can give is the same advice I give for prom: in a few years, it won't matter anymore. Getting married, and being with your partner is much more important than cake and flowers.
I have only one question, which has been bothering ever since I've discovered this channel: HOW, how do these women get to find someone to propose and marry them? Seriously, they sound like horrible, absolutely selfish people without a single drop of empathy in them, who will bulldoze anything and anyone for the smallest reason. How do men want to spend their life with this?
Lol Katrina Stoeva men want the hateful women! They don’t want nice, agreeable women. I don’t know how many men I dated that told me how sweet I was and what a witch their ex wife was…but I got dumped just as soon as the witch decided she wanted his wallet back.
I could tell you, but it might get me flagged. A lot of men only think with one appendage.
@@dameducksauce7992 , not all men are like that, but unfortunately some are! Many of them may get married in the short-term but end up divorced in the long-term. Men and women would be better served by making decisions based on more than physical satisfaction (like marrying someone who will be emotionally and spiritually stable and mature and not just physically satisfying).
@@terriwaldridge807 r/nice girls
I’ve been thinking about the same since I’ve discovered this channel. I’m shocked. They sound like real narcissists…
The "S*** You Need to Know" invite is possibly the single best wedding invitation I have ever seen. They clearly have a sense of humour and I would totally go to that wedding, you know, if I didn't have kids and got turned away.
Agreed 😄 and it shows quite well in the gift-part. Like, they are stating that it's okay to not give a gift, but if so would appreciate help with funding their honeymoon 😄 seems like a healthy couple
I loved that too, I would totally go!
Honestly I got a kick out of it too! I get why they'd want a child-free wedding. Kids generally don't do well at weddings, especially young ones. It can be a little awkward when you're trying to get ordained and a kid from the back is crying or screaming because they're bored.
I thought so too! I think they were just being funny and they honestly sound fantastic
it was the best 😂😂
"Toxic Parent" is a real thing. At only 9 yrs old she is too young to move out on her own, but a nicer relative could be an option.
Get rid of the Zilla. Simple as that.
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Oh that house is gonna be super FUN after the wedding. 😂😂 Move out with grandma and then Daddy can pay child support.
@@jwkittles 🤔 This is a brilliant idea 💡🤔! As a (soon to be) pair of newlyweds, they've yet to co mingle funds as a legal duo. 🤔 It's like they'd both be making a monetary investment into their future endeavors $1 at a time. 😆
I still have a grudge to this day that my dad didn’t officially have me in his wedding. All I did was help decorate. This was back in 2015. It’s been nearly 7 years and I still hold a grudge. Why you may ask? My older sister was in his wedding. She’s not even related to him! We are half sisters through our mom and yet she was still part of his wedding. I felt very left out. We’ve never been that close because he hardly ever visited or talked to me, but that day just made it even worse.
If I feel like that, I can only imagine what that young daughter must feel like since I was close to that age and had a similar issue. My birthday was even 4 days before his wedding and we didn’t do anything for it
To Cake lady: take into consideration the cost of quality ingredients that won't melt during your ceremony, time baking, mixing the frosting and making it look perfect, forming the decorations by hand, edible gold, time stacking, AND TRANSPORTING THIS INTACT. Seriously, formal cake decorators are superhuman. I can't even go a mile without spilling coffee.
Picked his fiance over his 9 year old daughter. I can see why he's divorced.
I agree, and having been in the position of the 9 yr old myself, I can tell you there may comea time he regrets his priorities. (or maybe not, and he'll just go through life being a selfish POS putting his love interests before his kids).
Yeah. Plus his whole post sounds like something his youngest daughter will tell her future therapist about in regards to why she hates her dad.
Yes He will regret it when he doesn’t have a relationship with his daughter at all and his crazy Fiancée/new wife leaves him for someone else.
When my mother step-dad got married they took all of his kids (5) on their honeymoon & left me with my grandparents...yes it will definitely be a problem..lol
@@april4769 Omg... That’s horrible!
As a daughter, who wasn't even informed of her father's wedding (2nd marriage) until half a year after it took place, I really feel for that 9yo girl. And I wasn't even a kid at the time, I was in my late 20s!! It's been a few years and I'm still mad at my dad for this. He said it was his wife's request not to tell me or my mother. Now I'm planning my own wedding and I almost don't want to invite my dad and his wife XD But then I remember that I love him regardless of being mad, so I simply can't not invite him... oh, family.
I'm sorry, but if I were you I'd do exactly to him what he did to you. Get married and not tell him, let him feel the pain he put you through.
Or an alternative petty revenge, invite him only a day or two in advance. "Oops I almost forgot, it's my wedding tomorrow I'd love it if you can come. It seems weddings aren't that important to you since you didn't invite me to yours so I almost forgot about it. Oh and your wife isn't invited"
@@matchaaalie Oh yeah, no plus one at all!
No, I don’t agree. She loves her father. Which is more important to you, have your father there? Or forever seeing your weddings pictures ever more without him in any of them. Petty revenge harms you more than the revengee . However, that being said, I wouldn’t invite the stepmother. Of course, be prepared for the father not being allowed to attend either.
Invite your dad and don’t invite his wife.
Its times like these where Im even more grateful for my dad 🙏 when he started dating, there was one woman who was mad because he wouldn't make himself available till after 5 pm. Because he wanted to be home when I got home from school, and wanted to make dinner for us everyday. The moment she said, "you treat her like a second girlfriend!" he dropped her. And several weeks later he found a wonderful woman who also understands what it means to be a parent. That was 7 years ago and they are still together, living it up in a beautiful new house. They are so wonderful together and I am just so, so happy. They deserve all the happiness, they are good and loving people. I wish more parents were like them. Good things come to good people, and anyone who chooses their partner over their child deserves the tumultuous and stressful life they will have.
As a kid, the idea of going to a wedding was so fun, but they were really boring. But if I wasn't invited, I got upset and and sad.
The damage that father is doing is immeasurable. I hope that when she gets married, someone walks her down the aisle and he has to watch from a window
You know, after the last post, I felt like I could see the tiniest hint of anger in Charlotte’s eyes. Like, for a minute she looked ready to track down the OP of the story and punch him in the face
As she should!! lol
What is OP?? define please
@@katehenry2718 original poster (I think)
I saw it too, but figured i was probably projecting my own instincts ... 😏
I saw it.
I was not only not invited to a wedding of my mother's when I was around 13 or 14 (but not told till right before it), I am somewhat certain he did not even know I existed at that point. My older (19-ish) half-sister flew in and went to the wedding, but I was left home with my other step dad. Parenting fails don't just belong to the guys.
I don't want to be rude, but how did you have two stepfathers?
@@ihavenodesiretocreateahandle or bi dad
My wedding was TINY. I had my youngest sister as my maid of honor, and my husband had his brother. We ate pizza, salad, and soup (we got married in December and my mom makes bomb beef stew) we also played a bunch of board games. I was more interested in having a fun time and we didn’t have a whole lot of money and we didn’t want our parents to take out loans for us that would have interest to pay back. Kinda glad I did if this is the kind of drama I avoided
I can’t comprehend not having your kids there, or having your friends exactly as they are at your wedding!
I was in a bridal party where all the other girls had long hair, but I had this awkward, going-scruffy pixie cut. I had been looking at wigs, to try and match, but my friend said, “No way! Wear that cute plaid-bow headband you have!” And one of the other bridesmaids worked some magic with a small curler. It didn’t matter that I had the short hair! My friend still insisted I be there!
Icarus Binns because she truly was your friends.
I was the same, my closest best friend shaved the side of her head and did a viking style hair do. I didn't Care, I thought it was different and I loved it.
I’m glad you have a good friend, but I’m sad that it seems like she’s exceptional for just being a decent human being.
When i asked my “friends” to be bridesmaids, I asked that they pay for their dress. I searched all over the internet (2010, I didn’t find Pinterest until a year later) and shops and the best I could do was like a $100 dress. It was formalwear. My friend said she didn’t want to spend the money on something she would never wear again.(27 dresses was also a big show around this time). And she said I was being unreasonable. Uuum…ok? I was upset and probably threw a tantrum of some kind. (It’s stressful planning a wedding)
In the end, we bought all the same skirts for everyone as they were on sale at JCPenneys; $20 a piece. So I just asked them to buy a blue shirt. Her mother publicly mocked me on Facebook saying, “the Bridezilla suit didn’t look good on me”. Our friendship was already strained. The friendship basically ended afterwards. Only one of my friends was an actual friend to me. They didn’t give me a bachelorette party, and barely talked to me through the whole process. Maybe I am an a-hole; but you only get married once and I had always been there for those friends. What do y’all think?
@@kaylahall1219 I think they weren’t really friends, and you did good to cut ties. You tried to adjust to their complaints. They still whined and called you the monster (do they know what a mirror is?) more than that, you went with a choice that could be reused: pair the skirt with another top, pair the top with slacks or add a blazer… I’d have come up with $100, even if I had to ask my parents (some life-sustaining meds are still stupidly expensive.)
When did weddings change from a public declaration of "I love this person" to an excruciatingly curated Busby Berkley extravaganza?
Good point.
True, but I do hear over and over that weddings are for "the guests" which I hate to say is kind of true. People go based off comfort, convience and the food. Unless it's close friends and family, any other extended person tends to have that mind set sadly.
I think TV/Movies influenced/commercialized women's idea of marriage from a declaration of love to a declaration of status.
@@OmniscientlyMe yes, social conditioning for sure.
@@OmniscientlyMe It's also the internet/social media. Some decades ago you only had to compare yourself to neighbors in your probably small town. Outreagous big wedding events was for Hollywood and royals only and far far away. Now everyone is broadcasting through the same channels and with similar content with the "rich and famous" and therefore it all became much closer. In addition to that everyone is "bragging" and showing off through facebook/insta and so on so the pressure became much higher and what is considered "normal" drastically changed. And there is also more available income and events are the newest status symbols. Plus there is a lot of money to make off of it, so business is also a driving force. And it isn't limited to weddings, also kids birthday parties, mothers day, Easter.. Plus they're inventing new market places like "Gender reveal partys".
The cake: It looks like gold leaf on the sides, that isn't cheap, all those flowers, the bigger flowers are harder to make! If she thinks it should cost less, she should make her own!
I don't know what cakes cost but it looked like a million bucks to me
No way was that cake worth $2150 🤣🤣🤣
Why did she choose an expensive cake in the first place? She got what she asked for. If she didn't want to spend that much, she should have chosen a cheaper version!
I mean, it was GORGEOUS, but over 2k? Not sure about that one. They do sometimes see you coming when you’re getting married and hike up the prices.
It was a VERY GORGEOUS cake and I think it’s deffo worth quite a bit - maybe even up to or over 1k ! But over 2…..? Not sure about that. That IS kinda expensive.
With that said, if you can’t afford a cake that expensive, don’t buy it! Find a cheaper one! Lol!
@@Sara-ke9st oh it absolutely is! That cake probably took 12+ hrs, probably closer to 20 given the flowers & marbling effects, to make that's an immense amount of labor for a baker. Then you gotta factor in what kind of ingredients are in it, is it gluten free, is it organic, is it very specific flavor (almond & coconut creme, raspberry & dark chocolate, etc) then there's arranging transportation (you can't just load it into a van & go one wrong turn & the cake is ruined) all these things go into factoring in the price so yes a professionally made cake can very quickly reach over a grand in price.
Weddings aren't "a private day". They're public, legal declarations that require witnesses.
meaning the ceremony. not everyone marries in a court.
As a stepmom to 3 amazing and beautiful (now grown) children, I CAN NOT understand the evil step-monsters or the fathers that side with them. I really feel for these kids. I wanted to cry for the 9-year girl who was so crushed.
Right!? I was with a man for 7 years who had two little girls. I love those kids more than I loved him ffs! And I know he felt the same way. That's how it should be! Your kids go above you and all else.
If I had a girlfriend who was jealous that I had Facebook photos with my daughter who dared to grow a pair of boobs, they'd become an ex-girlfriend. Oh, and same with the wedding thing. If I have to pick, I pick my daughters.
Listen, I'm not a woman, and I don't don't know a lot about women and their hair, but I sort of assumed that many women take some trouble to find a hairstyle that they like and is flattering to them, and put in some time, money, and effort towards maintaining it. I think it's sort of nervy to ask women to change it all up for some kind of "uniform look" among bridesmaids. Besides, I'd prefer to have photos of the wedding party more or less as they actually look (though gussied up in formal wear).
If I'm wrong about that, somebody womansplain it to me.
Oh, and I think the woman evicted from the bridal party has a point that she did a lot of the work of a bridesmaid and miss bridezilla is being a , but as far as a court case goes, I think she's either entitled to the dress or the value of the dress (and shoes, if they were also being held). Maybe she'll never wear it, but if she paid for it, she's entitled to the garment.
Oh, man, I love you!!! Alpha males do exist! They do, they do!!! Theres hope for my granddaughters!🤗🤗🤗😂😂😂
That is crazy. My son was 6 when my husband and I got married. He was okay with it. He bought lawn games to keep the kids busy while people danced and had fun, he also read vows to my son saying he will always be there for him no matter what and how lucky he is to be my sons dad. If he said I couldn't bring my son to my wedding there would be no wedding.
I can tell you that wedding cakes cost as much as they do for a reason. I had a friend that made her living from baking/decorating wedding and special occasion cakes in her home. It requires patience, steady hands, imagination and culinary skills. It can take days to put together a single wedding cake because not only does it have to look good, but it also has to taste good. If you have multiple tiers with several types of filling and then you want fancy flowers and embellishments like sugar sculpture or edible lace, my hands are cramping up just thinking about it. It's worth every nickel this woman asked you to pay.
A thought struck me that is terrifying: these are the people who post about their entitlement online. So like, there's a LOT more of these bridezillas out there. 😭😭
Ooooh, true!
The bridesmaid with the health problems will most likely win her case in small claims court, and I hope she finds better friends too.
As a father I think I'm allowed to say that any father that doesn't want their kids in their wedding doesn't deserve the title "dad". Choosing anything (other than going to work to pay for food/housing/etc) should take the backseat to your kids.
I am more worried that he is man with a little (yes 9yr old is still little) child and he feels it's okay to marry someone who doesn't like kids .....
@@crystalh450 what does the mother leaving have anything to do with the fact the dad doesn't want his daughter at the wedding just because of his entitled fiancée? i don't see how the story would be any different if the mother was still in the picture....
@@crystalh450 no one said anything about the mother, we're talking only about the father here. even if the mother was still present and they (she and the daughters) actually lived together, it still doesn't change the fact that the man accepted to date (and MARRY) a woman that hates children and he's ok with not allowing his own daughter to his marriage. yes, there should be two parents, but since we only know about one, it's this one we're judging for being a terrible parent.
@@crystalh450 i mean the guy literally said his fiancee hates children and that's why she doesn't want his daughter at her wedding: because she's a child and she hates children. it's written there, it's not too hard to read it. i don't know any of these people and i'm only judging about what's being said there. he never said anything about the girl loving her mother too much that she hates the fiancee or any shit like that. i'm not writing any fanfic, he literally said the fiancee hates children and she doesn't want children at her wedding.
@@crystalh450 Why are you making so many assumptions from a 2 minute clip? Playing devil's advocate? Your are doing the exact same thing that you accuse others of. What's different? Most people are only saying that the dad is an a**hole but you're written a whole backstory.
After hearing all these bridezilla stories, I kinda want an "imperfect" wedding. I want colours you've never seen before at a wedding, I want a cake that's a bizzare colour with no flowers in sight, I want out pictures to look as asymmetrical as possible; heck, I'll ask the photographer to do a diagonal photo (if that's at all possible). Like... I hate all these stories so much, that I want my wedding to look like a wedding from an alternate dimension. A wedding _gone bad._ Like... is it not supposed to be like a party bringing two people together and celebrating their love? If it's a party, by George mine is going to be a PARTY.
The shit you need to know card in my opinion was hilarious. I’d die laughing if that’s what I got.
"Shit you need to know" is a fucking mood.
I actually enjoyed it! 😅
I liked it too. Except that ignoring medical food restrictions could kill some of the guests. Probably wouldn’t make for good photos.
@@dees3179 I loved it however I didn’t see the part where they said they’re ignoring allergies to food ? They just said “eat you fat f*, yadayadayada”. I’d assume they have a large choice. And if you’re diet is that complicated then maybe bring your own food haha.
@@solarose7820 I do that!
The first story gave me some flashbacks!!! My step mom use to tell me to stop acting like my dads girlfriend all the time. Like what?!?! I was like 10 and had a normal father daughter relationship. He raised us as a single dad so we were close but it was so yucky the way she’d get jealous of my relationship with my father 🤮🤮🤮 for example, one time my dad had a business trip to Italy and I was saying that I wish I could skip school and go with him … the bitch turned to me and said I sound like I’m trying to be his girlfriend and that’s her job she’s the one that should get to go with him 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ it was so awful. I’m 32 and still get this gross feeling when I think about it. Thankfully they are long divorced and he’s happily re-married now!
This is insane. I have ended a relationship because I did not like how my SO treated my daughter. This to any normal and rational parent is a no brainer! Children come first end of story. No woman/man on earth is worth doing that to your child. I would honestly like to say something to this guys face. What a POS.
Your channel has become my guilty pleasure. Keep up the amazing work!
My friends had a wedding like the swearing invite one. It’s well known both of them were funny and swore a lot. Honestly we all loved the invite because it was absolutely clear what they were planning. Plus they had an asterisk at the bottom of the expensive oyster-shell printed card saying they clearly didn’t mean about the food.
I love how they always threaten to uninvite people from what is essentially going to be the worst party they've ever attended.
The "it cost that much cause it takes me f*cking hourrrrs" is stuck in my head all day and with each video, it's revived :D I need help.. or more videos!
I would say more 🤭
Yes! I sometimes can't get the way Charlotte pronounces 'LOL' out of my head."Loll."
Some people have posted TikTok compilations on RUclips of people showing their crafting to the song, it's awesome!
It reminds me of my days as a photographer and owning my own camera store. I also had my own processing machines. Kodak ones too. GORGEOUS prints. "What? That much for wedding announcement greeting cards?" *Good grief I wish I had known that song 23 years ago.*
Did you sing along with her? Because I did
Seeing the people you love and cherish in a photo of your wedding should be a source of joy.
If the people IN the photo don't spark joy despite any aesthetic, you don't love them as people, you love them as props. Don't use people as props.
That last one just absolutely broke my heart for that little girl. It’s horrid regardless but imagine how she felt literally being told right as she thinks she’s off to join them for dress shopping - usually a bonding experience. She should be invited period this sad excuse of a father couldn’t even sit down and tell her privately. I have a kiddo whose father I’ll not suit and my heart just aches even thinking about how he would feel if one of us did that him! I can’t even contemplate it because it goes against everything I believe in as a parent.
As a child who was left out a lot, my heart is ripping itself apart from that story, that poor poor poor little girl, I bet she feels completely fucking worthless and unloved :(
4:04 I actually love this. These people seem really laid back and fun. Yes, from a stranger's perspective I could see how it might offend, but if you're invited, you're probably not a stranger. If it were my wedding and a guest declined the invitation on this basis, I'd probably just decide that I don't want that buzz kill at my wedding anyway.
I thought it was hilarious. Those seem like my kind of people and I would gladly attend their wedding lol
Me too!
Who the heck would let a fiancé tell them that their children couldn’t be at their wedding?!
it is a VERY common thing. step-father/mothers can and often do completely screw the parent's relationship with their child.
@@deluxlaser5400 tell me about it 🙄😔
Edit: I wasn't invited either... it was all in secret, I found out they married 8 years later ✨🌈✨
@@deluxlaser5400 except the main problem is the parent, not the stepparents. Sure, the steps can ask for asshole types of accommodations. But it’s on the actual parents to look out for their own kids. They’re either weak or just looking for an excuse to leave their own kids out. Evil stepparents can’t exist without really shitty parents letting them get away with it.
@@ShinyShilla this happened to me, too. my dad told me in private half a year later and expected me to be fine with it. and asked me not to tell my mother. like, what the fuck?!
I had a dad like the one who's fiance didn't want his daughter at the wedding. I ended up in the wedding but she insisted an 11 year old wear shape wear because I was too fat, her exact words. My father and I were close until that day. She's pretty controlling and pushed me out of their lives little by little. I'm 44 now and I've seen him once or twice a year for an hour for the last 20 yrs. Our relationship now is more like a distant uncle you only see at family reunions. If the father caves to his bride on not having the little girl in the wedding it will impact her developing self esteem as well as their future relationship. No woman who loves him would put him in that position.