I'm A Christian...He's A Muslim ..Should We Marry?
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thank you I needed this I am a Christian and my fiance is muslim. but he is the best man I have ever had and God is our foundation
You two are not worshiping the same God though. I married a muslim back in 2018.. and it went up in flames quick.. because I am too passionate about Christ and the truth..
I will just say it's not good to marry someone who doesn't share the same religious/spiritual beliefs as you if you are passionate about God, but hopefully, you are able to reach your fiance/husband by being a godly Christian.
@@vendellawatkins9458 It's an act.. and they are worshiping a false god.
@@spiritualisrael007 True girls like sugarcoating things. There are more important things like child upbringing than food staff
@@spiritualisrael007 I agree
You can't serve both the God at same time
Smh I'm Christian and my ex is Muslim.. We broke up Lastnight over our religion smh .. Other than that he was a fantastic man :(
SIESIE CHAMPION same here, makes me think that he didn't truely love me
Univ Fashion not true God jus comes first plain and simple.
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And the LORD said to them, “Now listen to what I say: “If there were prophets among you, I the LORD, would reveal myself in visions. I would speak to them in dreams.
Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, and every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you heard was coming and now is in the world already. (1 John 4:1-3)
When Mohammed was at the cave of Hira, outside of Mecca, he was alone, when a spirit came and squeezed him, and told him, "Read." He went to this wife scared. And he continued to be in doubt of what happened to him. And one day, his wife Khadijah said to him, "Mohammed, let us put that on a test. When the spirit comes to you, tell me, and we will test if that spirit is really Gabriel the angel, or a bad spirit." He said OK. One day, he was sitting with her, and he said, "Khadijah, the spirit came!" She said, "Come, and sit on my right side." So, he sat on her right side. She said, "Mohammed, do you see the spirit?" He said, "Yes." She said, "Then sit on my left side." So, he switched and he sat on her left side. "Do you see the spirit?"Khadijah asked. "Yes," Mohammed answered. "Then sit on my lap." He sits on her lap. "Do you still see the spirit?" "Yes," Mohammed answered. Then she uncovered herself to show some of her feminine parts of body. And then she said, "Do you see the spirit?" He said, "No." She said, "That spirit is good because he doesn't want to see my feminine part. You are the prophet of God." (And by that he came to be convinced) that that spirit who was talking to him was the angel Gabriel, and a good spirit, because when he saw his wife almost naked, he didn't stay to see.
Deuteronomy 16:22
You shall not set up for yourself a sacred pillar which the LORD your God hates.
(Kaaba ) The interior contains nothing but the three pillars supporting the roof and a number of suspended silver and gold lamps
Leviticus 26:1, “You shall not make idols for yourselves or erect an image or pillar, and you shall not set up a figured stone in your land to bow down to it, for I am the LORD your God."
The stone was venerated at the Kaaba in pre-Islamic pagan times. According to Islamic tradition, it was set intact into the Kaaba's wall by the Islamic prophet Muhammad in 605 CE, five years before his first revelation. Since then it has been broken into fragments and is now cemented into a silver frame.
Deuteronomy 7:25
You must burn their idols in fire, and you must not covet the silver or gold that covers them. You must not take it or it will become a trap to you, for it is detestable to the LORD your God.
Kiswah is the cloth that covers the Kaaba, woven with 120 kg gold and 100 kg silver threads. |
www.egypttoday.com/Article/4/73705/History-of-Holy-Kaaba-silver-gold-doors
Therefore thus says the Lord of hosts in regard to the false prophets,
‘Behold, I am going to feed them the [bitterness of wormwood]
And make them drink the poisonous water [of gall],
For from the [counterfeit] prophets of Jerusalem
Profaneness and ungodliness have spread into all the land.’”
The Prophet in his ailment in which he died, used to say, "O 'Aisha! I still feel the pain caused by the food I ate at Khaibar, and at this time, I feel as if my aorta is being cut from that poison."
I'm Christian my husband is Muslim.. its a matter of respect, patience and lots of love... People here judge without knowledge. If you haven't been in the situation, you cant say nothing. God loves everybody, Muslims and Christians alike. Period.
I wanna ask .. How do you get married ? Following Islam or Christian way ?
molly211110 I am a believer of God no religious affiliation (grew up Pentecostal) my fiance is Muslim. We are having both we are going to have a Imam marry us at a Mosque perform (nikkah I think it's the name) and then later find a interfaith officiant to marry us by law at our reception venue :)
We had a symbolic Muslim ceremony in his country and then married in the USA the civil way. Not every Muslim Imam will marry Christians and Muslims, it all depends on the country and the kind of Muslims they are.
Vimari Rodriguez is it possible we can have a private chat about this topic? I am in desperate need to talk to someone that went through this successfully.
Vimari Rodriguez pretty sure your children will be rose as Muslims and then after few generation we ll see ur bloodline wearing burkha and killing women who marry non Muslim but still okay for a man to marry non Muslim and have Muslim kids
am christian and my husband is muslin he never stop me from going church
Than you should stop from your self.
sen bir aptalsin
Omg but it’s so sad going to the church alone.
I have the same situation like them, I'm a muslim and my gf was Christian. I mean as long you love and respect each other, there was no problem about it. For me, she was perfect because she accepted me for who am I. :) I want to marry her someday and not to force her to convert in my religion.
As long as you are very upfront with her about what you expect regarding children, work, dress, ethics, behaviors and so forth it might be ok. Although I will tell you it is a lot of work and very hard.
Are you telling the truth? or this is a kind of "TOQIA" you know what I mean.
Well, I'm not sure what that abbreviation means. I am, however, telling the truth. A Muslim-Christian marriage is a lot of work. Any relationship takes an investment, but in my experience an inter-faith and inter-culture marriage starts out with a need for more investment right from the get-go. If you guys make sure to have open communication and take the time to really talk about what you want and need before you get married, it will help you a lot.
Christine Gresh of course I believe you madame... my comment was directed to gilbert Anecete who said that he won't force his christian partner to convert to Islam... because I know -as you know too- that for muslims it is a MUST to try converting anybody to Islam ... for that I cannot believe him... all my respect to you... by the way "TOQIA' means that the muslim can tell lies just to achieve what he wants.. it is a wide branch in the Islamic Law.
gilbert Anecete .. wow! ure such an inspiration... :)
I just wanna share mine. I just converted into Muslim.. and I've been with my boyfriend for about 4yrs..it is hard for me to let go of someone I cherished for long..
But they said..it's haram ..
what should I do..could u pls give me a piece of advice...he he
thank you. :)
This is not a complex question. Who do you love more? Christ or man? This is a no-brainer really. This couple kept saying there is more than one way. Christ said there is no other way to come to the Father but by Him. The Bible says that there is no name under Heaven by which men may be saved but by the name of Jesus. This is totally irresponsible advice for Christians.
Amen
Very misleading.
Liberaly right. But biblically wrong
go marry christ
Just remember love has no religion.
Georgeous Gail I don't agree with that statement. If you love jesus you shouldn't be marrying a Muslim. Love can be stupid is basically what i believe
Md rezaul karim no akhee no
Thank you for making this video, y'all helped me a lot.
Coexist bay-be!!!! Thank you for your insight and perspective regarding this persons conflict!
Yes, you can marry a Muslim man, from an Islamic point of view if you're one of the People of the Scripture(i.e. Jews and Christians).
That’s not the whole truth.
If Jesus is your life, how can your life partner be someone who doe snot follow Jesus?
It's that simple.
And if your faith "isn't that important to you" or "Isn't a big part of your life" than you're not a Christian. Sorry but it's the truth.
A Muslim is not a Muslim if he or she doesn't believe in Jesus. Moses, Jesus and Muhammad Prayed to the same GOD. Peace Be Upon Them
s2nunn77 you do not belive in the same Jesus, do you?
s2nunn77
But they don;t believe in the divinity of Jesus, so they basically believe in a different person.
If I told you I know Barack Obama, and he was a short, fat, racist white man who believed in free market healthcare you would say "You don't know Barack Obama".
Same thing. They may know a Jesus, but it is not the true Jesus.
James Brown amen. you cant choose 2 masters for your family
thanks for this.this helped me a lot.
You cant work this out by being double minded..following a false Jesus one week in the mosque..then the true Jesus in the Holy Bible..unequally yoked is wrong..especially when kids are raised up..they will be confused with the division in 2 different Gods being taught. .Jesus is Lord!!
I'll just assume you dont read.
I'm a Christian woman and I've recently started dating a Muslim guy. My parents and brother are constantly 'warning me' for him, even though they never even met him. I know they mean well, but he is really kind and sweet and has a good heart. We share the same morals and dream even though we don't share the same religion. I feel guilty for dating him because my parents are not happy with the fact I'm seeing a Muslim guy. I also feel guilty because he said his mom doesn't mind him dating a Christian girl. Should I stop seeing him before we get more involved? I don't want to hurt him, but I think I'm falling in love with him...
Do what ur heart tells you. If he is kind and good then go for it why not! Religion shouldn't separate you.💜
if you are not becoming Muslim you should leave him. Because he won't be happy knowing his wife is going to hell
Hi Laura,
If it feels right between the two of you keep on going! My boyfriend and I are together for 5 years now, he is a Muslim an I am a Christian. We talk a lot about the difference in our faith and respect each other for those things. It took my family some time to get used to the idea. At first they were worried I would become a Muslim bus i'm NOT and I never will. I love my faith and I think it is so so so important to show the world it can be done. I do want to say don't push one another in choosing an other religion ore anything, let time do it's work and keep on learning from each other. I wish you two all the best.
Carry on with him if he's good with you, and Allah will guide you inshallah :)
That is because in islam it is allowed for a muslem man to marry a christian or jewish woman (women of the book). It is however not allowed in islam for a muslem woman to marry a christian or jewish man. Talk about why is that. Why muslem men have far more rights that muslem women. Talk about how muhammed was a pedophile according to the hadith of Bukhari. Trust me. your love will disappear like snow for the sun.
After watching this video I decided to share with my girlfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. She is born and raised Christian, and I have been of the Islamic faith all my life.
I have the same problem :( my bf is Muslim and I'm Catholic. Both of us are not religious freaks but we do believe in God. The problem with us having a future is that our parents would make such a huge deal about it and probably not allow it or disown/hate us for it. I think about this a lot and it makes me so depressed because I can't see myself having a future with anyone else.
I really like this girl, she's my best friend and I talk to her about everything. I feel like she has feelings for me and I think that she knows that I have feelings for her. I'm Christian but she is Muslim, I'm scared that if I ask her she will say no because her parents would be hella mad at me and her, and my parents would beef with me.
I'm only 13 and I love this muslim girl and she loved me so without anyone know her and I been dating for a long time...
***** Peace Be Upon You. Jesus Prayed To GOD.
***** No Offense Bro, The Laws were given to Moses. The Lord Your GOD Is One GOD.Moses, Jesus and Muhammad Peace Be Upon Them. They were Messengers Of GOD And Prayed To The Same GOD. Who Did Jesus Pray To ( GOD ).JESUS SAID HE DID NOT COME CHANGE THE LAW BUT FULIFILL WHAT WAS RIDDEN IN THE LAW
Same situation I am in
glad I came across this video it was very helpful
Could you please share the resources you're talking about? I would love to read some more information on this topic.
You two are the greatest thing I've ever seen. THANK YOU!!!! I only hope to be connected as well with my partner as you two are :)
Absolutely fantastic advice!
Krista x Thanks Krista : )
Marry each other if u love him because love itself is a religion
That question really can really only be answered as long as both are up front and honest with their expectations. The stories of failed marriages I hear are one person assumed his / her partner "would change" od that "They'll come around". That isn't going to work. You really have to be up front an honest as to what you both want out of the marriage. This doesn't just go for religion, it goes for EVERYTHING - sex, kids, money, lifestyle, location, goals, etc.
As long as you have an open and honest dialogue, then there shouldn't be a problem.
yea akhi, seen your channel, mashallah, gained some knowledge from you, good stuff, may Allah give you the HIGH levels in Paradise, Jazakallah khayr.
A lot of people have interfaith marriages, it can work and does and I love that more people see that because I was raised it doesn't matter race religion of any kind. More that morels are what make marriages and relationships work. Another suggestion when you have kids in a marriage like that is to raise them learning about both and let them decide celebrate holidays together, even pray together because we are not that different from the other. I am Christian and I have many friends who are Muslin. I could see myself marrying a Muslim if he and I were in love. So talk and love and problems or differences sort of melt away in the sense of you know more and you can even communicate better.
Your both soooo beautiful!! GOD BLESS
@BINTENTIONAL, Thank you for trying to bring Peace to the situation.
i am a christian but the guy that i love is a muslim. he has been asking me that will i marry him and if i do, he wont allow me to continue going to church and joining activities in church even thought i told him that going to church is important to me and i dont mind going to the mosque.
WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT IT?
I'm a Muslim and I say don't marry him. He is not a true Muslim anyway, no where in Islam does it say to stop your non-Muslim spouse going to church. He is not right for you. Also, don't take him as an example for all Muslims if you find another Muslim man and he is a nice person do marry him. I had a terrible experience with a Christian woman not too long ago, she was a nasty piece of work but that won't stop me getting into a relationship with another Christian woman if I ever do find one that I like.
TriumphantToufik this I what I like to see I love what you are saying.
NAZRR DEEN Thank you :)
Not even a question, get out of the relationship. Jesus is number one period. Noone else takes priority.
Do not marry him. This actually goes against what he believes as a Muslim as well. They are not supposed to control you like that, they are supposed to allow you to believe in and participate in your religious activities. Any children you have won't be able to participate in your religion, but that doesn't mean you can't. Learn about Islam so you can see that your bf isn't acting accordingly, or respectfully. He already sounds controlling which will lead to all kinds of problems, the worst one being a loss of your sense of self. I am speaking from experience. Do not marry him.
in the fact we found many reasons between a muslim and christian to live together,in called of marriage,they love and respect each other more,but i think if one person wish they become one in the same religion,as time passed by,and the other still wont,the problem is will become big more than before.
thank you this video was very helpful towards me because i am in deed in a christian and muslim relationship thank you so much for your advice :)
In my opinion no! god can find you the right person for you. Is god first in your life or the person you think you love. Trust god he knows you better then anyone in this world.I trusted god for the right person for me and we have been married happily for 27 years. Just my opinion. god bless
Wise words but Satan will tell them marrying an unbeliever is ok. Let's pray for these people.
i say no to marriage because this sounds like mere practices (and/or labels) from both sides and the christian women is not allowing Christ to be the center of her life,Christ should be,the center of the household. Christ should be the head of the family.
Great advice thank you!
My boyfriend is Muslim and I'm Christian!
+Molly landkammer Than tell him to convert to christianity
+Stevan Social I'm not going to force him to do anything.
+Molly landkammer Your choice, but at least talk about it. Find out how strongly he feels about islam. Call his prophet a peadophile as stated by Bukhari in the hadith. See how he reacts. If he is true muslem your relationship is bound to end in disaster. Believe me I have seen it happen in my family even many times. Or maybe you don't care about being christian? According to the bible the islamic allah is the devil. Not the same god as they like you to believe.
I'm a Christian dude, but I'd marry an Islamic woman any day.
So long as she's sane, of course. =P
Gilbert Dengdit, i am a pastor and my wife and 2 daughters are Muslims, what i do i do not force either one or trying to convince but i do encourage them to read both the Koran and the Bible to discover more truth, for you look unto the Word of God your being change to the same image you see, for the Word of God is like a mirror and in the mirror when you look at it you will never see anyone but you, my wife nowadays has no problem to come with me in to the Church, and she actually love to hear more and more when i teach, being that i have gone through Quran and Bible. here is my word do not judge anyone including yourself but follow your heart desires for God will give you the desires of your heart if you are willing and obedient to Him.
As long as you understand that your faith is a personal, private thing that should never be thrust upon others, especially children, you can marry and be happy. Never bring up your children under your faith; let them grown up in the knowledge of all the choices and let them choose for themselves when they come of age.
My mother was christian and my father was born muslim. my mother accepted islam before they got married and raised me and my brothers as muslims. With my mother's half of our family christian, I think it helped us as far as knowledge and learning about people of different faiths. They taught us our faith and they tried to make sure we learned about everyone else's too, so we could make the best choice for ourselves. we all chose islam and we're all teaching our kid's how they taught us.
Both me and my husband were
Christian.
Right now I really want to embrace Islam. Is there any problem when my husband don't want to be Muslim?
Amor Cantimbuhan you should do what is in your capacity. Start praying, fasting, giving charity ect. these are the pillars of Islam. these are matters that strengthen your relationship with god. once you are close to god, he will guide your every affair.
Quran 39:62 - Allah is the Creator of all things, and He is, over all things, Disposer of affairs.
Amor Cantimbuhan Believing women cannot stay married to unbeliever. If he won't convert...then divorce...you want your kids to learn your faith and not get confused.
In Islam, it is totally forbidden for a Muslim woman to marry a non Muslim man no matter what century it is or what country you're in (speak what you know). And btw, if you're girlfriend says she is a Muslim then she should know this and she should also know by marrying you, she will leave the fold of Islam. May Allah SWT protect her from the evils of shaitan, ameen.
Me and my wife were married for almost 20yrs,we were meant for each other.The basic necessity in a relationship is believing in God.My wife was christian,I am muslim.My wife past away last month.She was the sunshine of my life,we did everything together.It seems to me man is the cause of all these barriers,you can't do this,you can't do that.My wife,and I born left-handed in the majority f the things we did.As long as you believe in God,love is love.
Thanks for the comment and sorry for your loss
This is misdleading. Always look for godly counsel not confusing advice. Dont go against what the holy Spirit is telling you. Those that arent in God will not see it as a problem. Do not go ahead because it will comes with problems in the future....Trust God not this advice!
Sherene Rodney This comment is exactly the spirit which we should guard against. The inability to make room for more than one way and more than one path is rigid.
Ofcourse it will be a problem bec the kids will later on be confused which way to follow.
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To be honest.....if she is saved, filled with the Holy Spirit then she knows what the truth is. The Bible clearly states that there is only 1 way and that is through Jesus Christ. The only Spirit here is the Holy Spirit! If she truly loves him then bring it to the Lord who can work anything and every thing out but he should seek God first for himself. Believe me...making a decision based off an emotion isnt a solid foundation to begin with and God isn't the author of confusion. There is ALWAYS a peace inside of every decision where God leads us no matter how chaotic things may be......and she isn't at peace! Your children will grow up confused and you will later regret not obeying his Word. Do not be unqually yoked. God loves us ALL and sent his only Son to die on the Cross. Trust in the Lord girl and he will lead and guide you. Be careful about getting Wordly advice....they can only give advice based on what they know. Those that have eyes let them see and those that have ears let them ear.
Our Father is a good good father...Trust in the Lord with ALL thine heart, lean not unto your own understanding. Pray to God about it and even fast if you must for clear direction. One thing for sure though....God doesn't go against his Word. Love you Sis and be encouraged.
The Qur'an clearly shows and states Jesus as messiah. Islam and Christianity both believe this to be truth and that he will return. There are no real conflicts except unclear perception, if this were made more clear and both religions would ever come to the table and see that there's no difference in the God that is being worshipped, so many people would see more clearly. Muhammad is only referenced as the prophet chosen to write the Qur'an, he is not asked nor did he ask to be worshipped. Allah, which is Islam's name for the one God that we all call God, is the one who should be worshipped. Muhammad just as Moses, David, Elijah, and John is a prophet. Jesus is a prophetic role in Islam but is truly believed just as Christianity believes to be the Messiah who is to return. He and Mary are mentioned more in the Qur'an than the writer of the Qur'an itself. You can have the same faith and be in different religions/disciplines.
If he didn't force you to convert and allow you Believe what you believe then marry him.
You love the person not the religion so if your BF love you he will accept what you belief and let you be with it. For the children , you have to teach them about both religion and let them decide what they want.
ive studied islam and christianity and i was in love with amuslim and i was a christian your life be happy
Hi. Thank you very much for making this vídeo. Helped me alot. I just have a weir quesiton.... Anway, I do not use to make this kind of questions but, Im curious... Can spouses have oral sex? I was trying to have an answer in others people vídeos but I still do not get it
Islam is the world's most diverse religion. Muslims live in every country one earth and speak every language on earth.
Hi I'm Mikeson and I just wanted to ask this question because I'm having problem with this in my life, I'm Christian and my gf is a Muslim Girl so are we allowed to get married because right now we're in high school together and we being together for one year going to two years now so later in life want to get married and can U guys please help.
Agree with you both. Chaneg your perspcective and look for commonalities.
i am in the exact same boat
In 2 Corinthians 6:14 believers in Christ are warned, “Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?” While there may be affection and attraction, fundamental partnership and fellowship are lacking in an interfaith
So you guy have to separate. How are your kids gonna know what religion to follow. You will confuse them.
Trust me, I’m sorry Gods word. your marriage will not last
Your still going against God’s word and your own religious rules regardless and going away from God. Pray and repent your sins.
, John 14:6 - “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the father except through me.” All of man's questions of life are answered in this verse
Amen and Amen 🙏
Well said...
How Does a Muslim man approach his family about dating a christian/American woman?
If you are a Christian, what Biblical scripture do you base this interfaith relationship? Just 2 or 3 please, with context. Thanks!❤
if they love eachother evrything is going to be good at the end :)
thank you so much to the person that asked this question and thank you so much for giving your advice.. because I'm in the same boat.. I love yall advice..
You're so welcome. :-)
In the same boat too! And thank you for your warm encouraging words. Too much hostility going on in this topic and it is comforting to hear such a refreshing perspective.
You're 100% correct!
Dear friends, I am also in a relationship wid a muslim guy myself being a christian and.. we both respect and believe each others faith dat we have been raised up with. I am very serious about the guy , And we have planned to marry each other keeping in mind that we shall always give space and room for personal religious practices. It is obvious that children will also someday be a part of us and we have decided dat first kid would practice Islam and second would practice christanity but both respecting each others religion. If they grew up and and wish to practice other religion which dey are not following that is islam or christianity dey are welcome to do so as all religions teach d same thing. I know its very easy to say and difficult to follow but definetly worth a try if your truly in love wid the person. its very important to discuss this before marriage as some mate might turn out to be different after marriage.. Stay happy Stay in Faith :)
As the child grows older they will get confused because they want the truth. Which religion is the truth? Catholicism
I’m a product of that raised one side Christian and one side Muslim if you are both true to your religion try to avoid this because I ended being totally confused and felt like to needed to choose a religion I guess similar to how a biracial child would feel . I’m the end as an adult I went to what called my heart which is becoming saved but I was confused most of my life . One thing is I do have respect for Islam and Christianity and actually see that the religions are more alike than not where most people are ignorant to that but it’s too confusing .
My niece who is Christian, married a Muslim man in October and they are very happy. She continues to study about the Islamic faith. The husband is not forcing her to convert to Islam. Now she and her children will be spending Christmas with her parents. The husband has three children and they will be spending time with him. They don't celebrate Christmas. He has no problem with his wife spending Christmas the Christmas holiday with her Christian parents, at least not now. But this could always change in the future.
Well, the answer has been given with the scripture about not being equally yoked with unbelievers. I think it´s dangerous to put one´s feelings above faith because not only the person in question will suffer but also the children, who will be confused among two totally different religions and will be a source of contention. I was in a situation like that 2 times but decided to stop being stubborn and listened to what the bible says then God gave me a wonderful christian spouse and I´m happy to be able to raise my children according to the word of God and at church since they were born.I believe this person should split from the muslim and marry a christian than getting married based on feelings and suffer the rest of life. Marrying a person of another religion means suffering for both sides.
My Somali, Muslim father married my kinda/former Christian/non-denominational African American mother. They never forced beliefs on the other. When I was around 1, after years of reading, connecting, and trying to understand the Quran...my mother converted to Islam. And my dad was fine either way.
my husband is Muslim and I believe in God but don't really practice any religion. when I married my husband, I married him because of the open mentality I had towards life by accepting others and not to change anyone, but as time is passing by its getting harder to survive in a relationship where you are reminded you are different and Islam is the only true religion. I have a great man, he is very kind, honest and loving but his religion is getting to me. At the end of the day it will catch up. So the best here is to talk about future expectations, does he wants you to convert, how will the children be raised, what religion they will learn about. In my situation, I'm getting fed up with him telling me what's wrong and right all the time, he says I have to listen, so he thinks he owns me.
I definitely know I have test his beliefs as I read many writings of the Quran, I asks questions as who wrote it and why and I question Mohamed's ways and I confront him with facts, he is becoming more flexible since Im standing by my beliefs he knows is either us or the his religion. Thanks for the advise
I will look into it..
I am also married to a Muslim and learning a lot of things. Muslim men have an obligation to try to convert you, they believe that God requires this from them and if they don't try than they may be judged by God for it after they die. Fear of the judgement of God is the motivator here. Open conversations about beliefs are very hard because the motivation is not to get to know one another; on the side of the Muslim the motivation is to change the other. We know that you should never marry someone with the intention of changing something you don't like about them. Call it rescuing, missionary dating or whatever have you, it is very hard for the person feeling pressured to change what they believe in.
Yes morals and principles are important but in which religion will you get married because since he is Muslim he will want to get married in Mosque and she is Christian and she would like to get married in Church.
I would like to know if the woman have to again resignated from her principles and married in mosque. Because than I don't want to be party pooper but in case of divorce it might be some problems if the romance will end up badly.
As women we have to think about every possibility that might take place, we have to be smart here. I know that love is beautiful thing on the beginning but usually after marriage everything is changing.
It was 2010 what I want to know if they are still together and how this all experience worked for them and is really so great to get married outside of your religion please let me know I'm just curious not mean.
i agree, absolutely right
That was not my letter but can fully relate to the lady in the letter. He respects me being a Christian and doesn't force his Muslim religion on me. He understands that this is how I was raised and I respect him being a Muslim and know that's how he was raised. The one thing that we made important is that we pray together as a couple and he lets me pray how I learned how to pray. All about respect between each other. So the video has helped me a lot. Thank you.
So if you have children will they be forced to do ramadan? In islam the children belong to the father and not the mother.
@@stevansocial7980 Oh no. I hate my father, he looks at me like a rapist. I swear he is one, I didnt know I belong to him. Fuck.
@@stevansocial7980 So when muslim follow their beliefs they are "forced" and when Christian follow theirs they are free supposedly?
It's hard . Y'all need to discuss what he is willing to compromise.
I agree that if its a problem now it will be a problem later. But I also believe that they should both have an open mind and not go to war about it but to continue to discuss and go to both temples to see whats good. if you get bad spiritual vibes then it might not be for you.
cool!
There is more than one kind of Muslim just as there is more than one kind of Christian..... contrary to popular belief all people of the same religion don't necessarily believe all of the same things..... there is more than one way. #WeGottaFreeOurMinds
+Relationship Advice with Ayize and Aiyana Maat Bullshit!!!!!!......That PC crap ain;t gonna fly. ONLY Jesus is the way. He said it plain and simple.You don;t like it? Argue with him. You people are so high and mighty on yourselves... BUT
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You
belong to your father the devil, and you want to carry out the desires
of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning and has never stood
for truth, since there is no truth in him. Whenever he tells a lie, he
speaks in character, because he is a liar and the father of lies.
John 8;44
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Jesus told him,;I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
John 14:6
Marry a muslim man and be miserable
yes yes
there 're different kinds of Moslems
and different kinds of Christians
JESUS CHRIST is the Way the Truth and the Life , no one can come unto a father except by him , see JOHN 14:6 . That is not my opinion , those are the words of JESUS CHRIST .
Unlike you , I am not giving my own opinion , I am simply stating the FACTS . Being a CHRISTIAN , is to be a follower of CHRIST , and his commands . That women needs to read the HOLY BIBLE , and not walk in the council of the ungodly , that only offer opinions and philosophy"s of men , see Psalm 1:1 .
If she is truly BORN AGAIN , she has no business being with an idolater , see 2nd. Corinthians 6:15 .
God knows all languages. He is not confined to Arabic or Aramaic. So whatever language you speak, he can understand.
Wow I think you guys really need to look hard on your Christianity walk with God. You've probably have herd of (Pastor Charles Lawson) if you haven't listen to his preaching he's a no nonsense pastor and tells it like it is. I'll pray for you guys.
Thank you I needed but at same time I don’t care when it comes to religion or traditions when it comes to loving someone cus if you guys understand each other and respect every thing will fall in place
i was raised Muslim and I met a wonderful guy at the SCC 2013 in Atlanta who he is the Associate Pastor at a Mega-Church he was raised as a Christian we talk about faith and religion often my future husband is here to foster my relationship with God it can work with the right partner he loves me enough to let me be me
I am a Christian woman whom is planning my wedding to a Muslim man. In visiting Morocco, I have seen that there is a shift in the culture there and that younger generations of Muslims do not pressure their counterparts to convert to the Muslim faith. But respect has to be shown for both religions. I think it would also help to state what the deal-breakers are, and what you will not tolerate in a relationship. And this is something that should go for any relationship.
If you find it easy to have a life partner, who doesn't serve Jesus, you're probably not a Christian, sorry.
James 2:18 "You have faith and I have works, show me your faith apart from your works and I will show you my faith by my works."
Your faith will be reflected in the way you live your life.
Look at yourself, does your life reflect your stated "beliefs"?
I believe in Jesus and Jehovah, but also mindful that we should all be able to worship in the way we see fit. No one has the right to judge anyone because of their religious beliefs.
John 14:6. Jesus says there is only one way to God.
He doesn't way "everyone can believe in whatever God they want to".
That's your opinion. But no one has the right to tell anyone they are wrong because of their beliefs.
Maggie Gilmore
Well, it's not just "my opinion", it's also the word of Jesus Christ, and of God.
And didn't you say you believed in God and in Jesus?
Because they say it's not okay to have other Gods.
Sorry if I sound unpleasant, but it's the truth.
Beautiful and strong couple!
Islam is undoubtedly the most diverse religion on the face of this planet.
I feel sorry for this lady because she has been misled for 2 1/2 yrs. A man shows repect to a woman in Islam by marrying her quickly, not by dating her and test driving for 2 1/2 yrs. Then Islam is a way of life so he can NOT separate the two, so he's lying either to her or himself about children because it is sunnah (apart of the religion) to have many children if possible. Also, certainly the children would be raised Muslim because in the case of divorce in Islam the men get the children.
Family can't serve two masters. Jesus said pick one. If God is not important to you and you're a secular person then do as you please. God would rather you be hot or cold. He can't stand lukewarm.
I think people should step on stand on their feet and give right advice. You can't have both. How are you going to raise your children, family. The other things are less important like food choices but beliefs are critical.
لك التحية ياعمك اخوك من اريتريا
you are so right IBMona
If you can’t imagine yourself marrying a Muslim, why be in a 2-year relationship with him? He’s a sucker for considering forgoing his legacy for one woman. May Allah guide this brother to a sister who is Muslim and will give him children. Ameen.
Make sure you ask about him having multiple wives because they can have up to 4 and don’t really have to talk to or tell you about the others
And you know that how exactly?
guuurl u are so right and how i know is because i have a muslim husband and its terrible she will regret it once she marrys him... i did and thats why im getting out of it asap
you two look so cute !
I'm not sure if this is helpful advice. It's clear that Christianity and Islam are just seen as personal practices which they aren't. As much as some of the moral laws are similar, there are major differences which are detrimental to ones life and has a major effect on marriage. If a Christian builds their life upon the fact that Jesus is God and a muslim doesn't will this not be a constant point of division??? If a Christian believes a muslim is going to hell and vice versa, is this not a very big point of division. If we are going through something and one wants to pray to Allah while the other wants to pray to Jesus, when they both believe the opposite is a false God, How in the world can we function as a unit?? Ultimately it seems like these 'religions' are mere practises. A Christian believes that Christ is the centre of everything they do (this is not a mere practise) and a Christian would find out if marrying an unbeliever is pleasing to God. The answer is no! because they cannot truly build a legacy of unwavering faith in Christ with 2 opposite beliefs. I would commend Christians considering this to ask themselves, Am I truly in faith? Am I placing my love for a man/women above my love for God? Am I covering up for a decision that will have major consequences in the future?? Jesus wants you to choose to please Him above anything else and it's because He knows it's better for you in the long run... Choose Christ. xx
Maggie's Diary Christians don't believe that Jesus and God are the same
+Younas hussain Jesus never said I am a prophet in the Qur'an. So why do you believe he is a prophet?
Jeshua ben Yoseph was NOT Muslim he was raised in the Jewish tradition.
Younas hussain let me shake your world and tell you that Jesus Christ from the bible is not the same as Esa from the quran. Second Allah and Yahweh are not the same we both have totally different religion. So don’t worry about our lord Jesus, follow the rules that Allah gave you don’t worry about christians.
wisdom...
I'm a Christian, Catholic and I have a Muslim girl girlfriend who I love so much. I respect Islam and all religions because I do not know which one which is right. Everyone has to right to follow what he or she thinks is right. I want to to marry her, but we do not know how marriage will take place. We have two kids, and we do not know which religion they will have to follow. The major factor here is parents or other family members.
Ok, if she is a Sunni Muslim 1) she did something that is considered "haram" by having kids with you. But we know God is full of grace and she should know this from Islam as well and 2) in Islam she isn't allowed to marry a non-Muslim man. Having said that, and I am not judging you guys I'm just telling you what I know about Islam, God is full of grace and you guys have a responsibility to your kids. I would suggest professional counseling to discuss things and get on the same page as far as raising the kids. Work to work together.
If i can ask you....in islam womens cant marry is noto allowed only mens can sorry if you be muslim you can
Hi, my man is christian and Im muslim too , we love each other.
@Amdaire.. Exactly. God has spoken and that is the bottom line.
i also love a christian girl and she also my parents has no objection but her father is christian she wants the bible quotation to show her father. any one can give me the answer in short that can a christian girl marry with a Muslim yes or not? and bible quotation plz
ilyas khan You need to get a reality check ok. Marring other religions don't last...they fall upart when raising kid..often ending in divorce. Custody is given to mother most cases..so if she christian..kids will be christian.
No quotation Torah says no marriage with unbelievers. And Jehovah is jealous God no other besides him if want marry her make note the similarities between religions that u sacrofice for her ;let her attend church not taking wives beside her caise in Bible is man and woman on Earth (no spouses on Heaven) dont come with Houris issue. You have to win his father heart. Blessings
Agree with you both. Change your perspective and look for commonalities.
Hello ! I'm muslim and my girl friend is christian .. We love each other since 5 years ... We are going to get married . But my girl friend is not ready to covert religion.. Doesn't matters for me it not important than her to me ... But here problem comes when I thinking about children?? What they will be ?? Plz advice me !
+Sameer Hussain teach them faith and leave the rest to god,
It's matter if ur really Muslim
ur children will be 100% Moslem.
am in the same situation.
and l must say converting is difficult but let her speak her mind and give her time to consider wat would be best for her.
all the best
+Al Zak Which god. The christian god or the islamic god?
+Chantal Zilala Off course converting is difficult. You are giving up god and go with satan.
@Auziah Antwine. Thank you for your reply.I am answering with the word of God. It is nothing to interpret or to guess. I know what I read is to be true. It is easy to overlook truths when under the guise of love. But God's word is crystal clear. He is a jealous God and will not other god's before Him. I would never disrespect my Lord and Saviour Jesus in this way. Muslims do not acknowledge Jesus as Lord and that is a profound apostasy. God bless you to accept truth.
Not at all. Either one must convert with full faith. Then it may work out. Yet there is a challenge ahead of you both.
It is not forbidden for a muslim to marry a non believer depending on the country you are in... Most countries are living in the 21st century. I am not a muslim but my girlfriend is and I won't be leaving her at all.
my advice, don't worry about what people say because I know half the people on here don't practice their religion to the fullest extent.
wouldn't that confuse the child switching one week going to church the next week going to the Mos
I think so. The contradictions would probably turn the child away from religion all together.
Having married a Muslim having been a Christian when we met I would like to say that you should be very weary of a man like this because he is absolutely not who he says he is , if he were he would not compromise his religion and he wouldn't be stepping outside of his religion and breaking the law... You will see that he will compromise his morality and bend other rules.
@BWOGG Just do things ALL OF THEM being sure with GOOD INTENTIONS and everything will come towards you(you'll get your answers, and you and her will be set)
I thought the list was a great idea. I only see it working if the couple is not that serious about their own religion. I don't understand how two different religions can help guide one marriage. Plus, what happens if they have kids? I think the couple should study the other person's religion before committing to marriage.
@misolamor
I knew this already. I've got many Muslim friends, and they all tell me the same. I was just saying that I would if I could.
- Peace be with you.
they should just marry and teach the children both and other religions, and let them choose. Everyone should choose there own religion anyways.♥
@RurouniKhan
Greetings, The emotion 'LOVE", is NOT enough to make a relationship successful. What really makes for a Peaceful relationship, are the similar and foundational Philosophies and Beliefs, because from these beliefs will occur, the 'everyday' decisions and behaviors, that will impact the relationship, to either destroy or nurture the LOVE in the relationship
@SaboorahAmatuRahmaan well yes i agree with to some extent, i'm just saying that if two people love each other but it can never be cuz of religion wouldn't that sound crappy to you? i mean i'd rather be with a person who is outside my religion that i love than with a person inside my religion and race that i'm not fond of at all
It's simple, have children but don't give them any religion, discuss if when they're old enough to understand the issues and let them decide which faith they want to follow....
I'm a Christian woman married to a Muslim man. Before we got married we both talked about and agreed that we wanted children. What we didn't talk about was how we would handle the religion issue in our children's lives. I assumed that we would just respect each other and be able to educate our children with our shared moral values, like you said. What I found out after marriage is, according to Islamic teaching, any children born in a marriage will be the same religion that their father is, and since in Islam all the fathers are Muslim (Muslim women aren't allowed to marry non-Muslim men), the children must be Muslim. This isn't something that can be compromised. My husband and I are now in a sticky situation since I know this. I am now realizing that my children won't be allowed to go to church or holiday functions with me or to family religious gatherings (Christmas dinner). I am welcome to join them in their religious activities, but they cannot join me in mine. And I cannot teach them anything from my own religion in case it should influence them, and they aren't allowed to grow up to make their own decisions. If they ever decide some day that they don't want to be Muslim, there will be consequences (in my case my husband has said he would beat them). I am seriously wondering if this is going to work. What do you think?
I don't think it will work, the children will suffer as they grow older and we will suffer as well. In my situation my husband will allow them to do family gatherings with me as he also celebrates with me family dinners and Christmas, but he said they will have to be Muslim and have Muslim names, he says he don't want his children going to school and eat pork because they have a common name and are not recognize as Muslim, I think is all too much. I be honest and tell you I do not have children yet, and I can say few days im happy but some days I just want to leave the relationship
LaMary heart It sounds like you are really struggling and I'm sorry that you are. I know what it feels like to be wondering if these types of things are going to work for you. It seems very one sided doesn't it? Not to get to have a say in what name your baby will have, what school they will go to, what they will eat, or what they will wear. The man in a Muslim-Christian marriage seems to overpower the relationship. If the Christian woman wants it to work, it seems like she has to sacrifice a lot. Did you and your husband talk about this before you got married, or did he give you the impression that all would be well and that you would have more of a say in how your children would be raised?
LaMary heart I am struggling with anger because I wasn't told about the conditions of having children, I was under the impression that we would have a mutually accepting relationship; one in which decisions would be made with mutual agreement and compromise when necessary. My husband told me that he didn't think that it was important to talk about how to raise children until we had them. This wouldn't be necessary if all parties knew the conditions, but not being a Muslim, I feel as though he should have explained the conditions to me. To Muslim men who are considering marrying a Christian women - give her all the details because she probably doesn't have them. Explain things to her that you probably wouldn't have to explain to a Muslim woman. This way she can make the best decision for herself before she becomes bound to you by marriage, the sacred bond that is not easily broken.
They're a lot of muslim names that are also Christian names, like Adam Jamal breanna etc.
You shouldn't have married a muslim at all.
Two very beautiful people