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I agree with the husband 100% she'll be setting herself up of being unhappy and sexually frustrated in the long run they need to depart ways now and get it over with!
Her over-talking him wasn’t even about logic. She just wanted to win, and wanted to win so badly that she obstructed all of his opportunities to state his position. His point is very valid. Some things can’t be solved with therapies and “the work”. Women often know what size and shape works for them. Not all of us want to settle for a life of oral in place of depths unreached or widths unexplored. Just like most men won’t commit to women who don’t LOOK like their “dream girl”, women should not be expected to go through hell and high water for men who are lacking in their ideal qualities either. In the end, you can’t shame a woman for moving on if the sex is a non-fit. Hell, we sure as hell don’t shame the men for wanting their physical preferences in women. We just accept that Joe Smith and 99% of his comrades want the light-skinned, long-haired, light-eyed, slim-thick, etc women. They can discount women who are otherwise ideal for them for something as stupid as hair texture or hyperpigmentation when those traits don’t have anything to do with overall physical satisfaction, yet you’re telling women to put in 6 to 12+ months of work into a guy “just in case” his lack of girth/depth/technique somehow improves??? That’s absolutely asinine unless the woman wants to by default. But saying a woman is dumb because she doesn’t want to waste the time by living in a Sunk Cost Fallacy is just plain gaslighting and gross.
@theREALblackfeatherfox Women have such a gynocentric and female chauvinistic perspective mind set when it comes to the does size matter question. The does size matter question is not a one sided street, a one sided coin or a one sided pancake. However, the vast majority of women are very reluctant to the point of outright refusing to own their 50% of the sexual fit equation. Whether it is the Kama Sutra which has written thousands of years ago, the fact that OB/GYNs who see adult women have to keep a variety of speculums on hand starting with junior/teen all the way to women's extra extra large or whether it is just having enough experience with the inside of vaginas to know personally, the simple truth is this-not all vaginas are the same size. Not all vaginas feel the same to men. Not all are equally pleasurable. Not all vaginas have the same rugae (most women do not know what this is much less how they vary from woman to woman). Not all vaginas have the same elasticity and muscle tone. The vast majority of women REFUSE To even consider that their vagina might not even be in the top 5 "tightest" (tightness is always a function of vagina size and elasticity) vaginas that their man has ever had. The vast majority of women refuse to accept the fact that there are many women out there whose vaginas are large this is especially true for women who actually have large vagina go to great lengths to avoid any objective assessment of their own vagina size or learning how they rank on the vagina size scale. Women who do not own their own vagina size and elasticity and women who do not own the fact that they are 50% of the sexual fit equation, are simply not real women. So having said all this and given what you said in your post, on the vagina size scale where would you rate your own vagina in terms of size and elasticity and what objective criterial are you basing this upon? Nest, do you hold yourself to the same standards in terms of your vagina size and your vagina sexual pleasure performance that you hold men to and their penis size and penis size performance? Also, why do you refuse to make a male apples to female apples comparison--penis size preferences and standards to vagina size preferences, vulva aesthetic preferences and standards? For every other physical attribute there is a pretty accurate and fair translation from male the female preferences, but women out of either delusion, female chauvinism or fear refuse to equate and compare penis size standards and expectations directly to vagina size and vulva aesthetics expectations and preferences. Also, women routinely shame men, resort to cancel culture antics and attack men over their vagina size and vagina sexual performance preferences, and women who deny this are divorced from reality and not being honest. Men are smarter in a pragmatic way and more mannered in a pragmatic way than women ever give them credit for and so for the most part, men don't talk openly and frankly about woman's vagina size (especially their woman's vagina size) and their vagina size preferences because most women can not handle it or the women get pissed off, resort to cancel culture antics and make accusations of misogyny and the like. So bottom line once again what size of vagina do you have and what objective criteria are you basic your assessment and determination upon? You have no problem talking about penis size and your preferences, do you have what it takes to show your hand and admit what your vaginas size is, what your vagina elasticity is?
Great advice on both ends. There is always going to be SOMETHING to work on in a committed relationship. In the end one has to access what is important to them, that answer is different for different people. I do agree that he sounds like a very nice person. If she can not appreciate his good and his short-comings... I am certain someone else will. Good luck to them both!
wow! Deep conversation and yes it will take courage to talk about this. However, if he is as good as she says in the other areas, it's worth the investment.
Good discussion and honest concern that many folk dont address with their partner if the size is not preferable for them. Obviously all men are not the same size. Likewise all women are not the same size and have different abilities to accommodate a man's penis. Some women are finger tight even when fully aroused and other women have the wizards sleeve and can take a forearm sized man with relative ease. We all have physical preferences that attracts us to the opposite sex when it comes to height, weight, "weight distribution", slim, thick, skin tone etc. so if you're going to buy it and live with it you need to be happy with all of it. If not, move on and let that person find total happiness with someone else.
if he is perfect in every other way the it would be crazy to give him up because he is one in a million. if he will do anything for you then you two should find other ideas to please you before you ruin an honest mans life. most relationships always has a downfall... your lucky that its his penis and he's not an asshole, womanizer, controlling, rapist, killer or beat on you.. with a plus, there is always a negative. would you take a chance and spin the wheel of life and see what the odds are without him on it???? i wouldn't if i were you.. find amazing things to do together and be happy. plus dumping him just because his penis size don't make you seem good enough for this guy anyway.. he might deserve better. Just saying..
This is exactly right. I find myself in deep regret 9 years later with an amazing man who has a micro penis. I overlooked it because he truly is an incredible man but I'm not satisfied sexually at all and haven't been for years. Ib love him so much and feel terrible.
lol sounds like you have a small penis and your trying to make it sound like a woman rejecting you for that is not good enough which is a cop out, she is good enough and she deserves better than tiny dick, if anything she’s too good for a shrimp dick.
I ain't even gonna lie size definitely matters .. i'm sorry but i agree with Mr. Maat. (and with Ms. Aiyana too) while its not just about the size alone, i think some people have a preference and if his size is not her preference it don't matter what else he can do it will still be a problem whether she admits it or not.. she already said she isn't getting satisfied
@debbiea1223 That is a very one sided sexist and female chauvinistic position. Why do women avoid and or refuse to accept the fact that their vaginas have dimensions and that their vaginas have a size and that there are a variations in adult size vaginas (this is based upon the Kama Sutra, the range of speculums that adult OB/GYN's keep on hand ranging from junior teens to XX large women's and actual studies on vagina size) If you want to go there, a woman can do Kegels and work on her PC muscle control until she can crack walnuts but that does not change the size of her vagina in terms of introitus inner circumference, vaginal canal inner inner circumference, vaginal canal elasticity, introitus elasticity and vaginal canal depth. Real women own their own vagina size, vagina elasticity, and vagina sexual performance and they own their 50% of the sexual fit equation. Real women accept that they may not measure up vagina size wise and meet a given mans vagina size and vagina sexual performance preferences and they accept this instead of blaming the man. Women need to break free from their very sexist and female chauvinistic delusion that all vaginas are feel the same to men, that all vaginas are equally pleasurable to men, and that all women and their vaginas have the same level of sexual pleasure performance for men. Whether women want to admit it or not, secretly women worry a great deal about their their vagina size and vagina sexual performance even if they are not able or willing to verbalize it. I will say it again even though his pisses a lot of women off, it is truth that women need to hear and they need to own. Real women own their vagina size. Real women own their level of vagina sexual pleasure performance. Real women own their vaginal elasticity. Real women own their introitus size. Do you own your own vagina size and your own level of vagina sexual performance? If so what size would you say your vagina size is, and upon what objective criteria are you basing this size assessment on?
All I'm going to say is this goes for women and men is ya'll need to read your bible more check out proverbs chapter 6 verse 24 - 28 and I'm going to leave u with this and u fill in the last word, the lord is my Shepard I shall not xxxx
I know right, but then you have to ask on what ruler. Length doesn't imply girth or skill. My girlfriends tell me I'm tacky for asking to "see it". But I figure since most men are conceited as all hell AND swear to God they're the size of Montana, then most won't mind pulling it out when asked. I don't mean just randomly, but after a few dates, maybe even a few months when you're really feeling each other & ready to declare titles, then why not? I hate surprises And aint no need for probation!
I agree with Ayize. What's wrong with having a standard and leaving if you aren't getting your standard met? Then when you cheat you're wrong even though you were never happy at all...get out early.
I just ran into this problem and yeah I’m breaking up with him, I lost all attraction to him after that it was HORRIBLE I was embarrassed for him and now I can’t even look at the man I’m running as far away as fast as I can I can’t be with no grown man that is that lacking.
I've been with the same man for 6 yrs. now. He's a very good man. Doesn't lie, doesn't cheat, works and comes home, doesn't stay out late, etc. HOWEVER, the sex has always been terrible 75% of the time since day 1. But the good outweighed the bad. HOWEVER, a year and a half ago, his attitude got bad, and he started drinking. So I was ready to leave because now the bad outweighed the good. Luckily, he realized I was ready to leave, and he got it together. And I finally mentioned to him this year that the sex was bad, and he took it extremely hard!
@maryking130 Well, it's still the same. We only have sex every 3-6months. He gets so frustrated with me, but then I have to remind him of how unsatisfied I am with the sex, which is the reasin we dont have it often. Then he admits he knows that he can't last long or it won't stay hard. It's a cycle of pointing the finger at the other person. I'm sexually frustrated, and he is, too. But like last week he says he will finally go to the doctor about his shortcomings.
Be careful or you won't be with this man long because you don't listen to him. You have a narcissistic attitude and your opinion of things is the only one that matters. He explained the situation clearly which was absolutely true and you got offended because he wasn't seeing things your way.
Uhhh.....no. 2 opinions can coexist sis. We are celebrating 17 years of marriage and 24 years together on May 27th. I know how to be a wife to my King and there is more than one way to view things. Period. Thanks for your comment though.
@@Blackloveandmarriage That's great that you've been together for 24 years. And I bet one reason was because he's probably great in bed and his penis isn't small like the woman that wrote in whos mans penis is. An you advised her to stay in the relationship when she wasn't being satisfied sexually by him at all. That was terrible advise. That woman is destined to cheat on him or eventually leave. Theres nothing you can do to make things better sexually with a man who has a small penis if you can't feel him. There just sexually incompatible with one another and need to call it quits. Because sex is 70% of the relationship. Without that part of it your basically just friends
Mimi 77 I disagree with the wife as well. I was married to someone and the sex was awful. It’s a huge deal and most people don’t realize it until they are in that situation. The husband is spot on! Sexual compatibility is not shallow and a person should not settle in that area.
@@msjrene05 An ex or two had the same problem. She was married to a 5 inch finger and she told me she went to sleep in the act lol. Luckily she had me to fill in. I hope you didn't have to suffer for years. Youre pretty.
Here's the thing: telling a woman if that's her thing then she should go for something else, isn't good advice because you have to ask her to think about *should that be her thing*. Will that "being her thing" ACTUALLY lead to satisfaction or can she reorient her perspective and can he work on his sex skills, to actually achieve satisfaction. Not every preference we have is good; what if someone's preference is McDonald's, and currently all they eat are salads and they need more. They think they have to choose between the salad and the burger, when really the salad can just have some chicken added to it with some spices and a drink too; while the burger would have missed the point: you don't just need your hunger to be met, you need your health to be considered too ;).
I wish my wife was like u after 18 years and 3 kid's and helping her take care of her 2 brother's instead of being honest with me and us go to buy toys she just ups and cheated on me because of my size
@@85MONEYBAGfind a young fertile girl. Women are like cars they lose their value with age and require more maintenance. The best thing a woman can offer a man is her youth.
Great video. In a perfect world, your wife's point of view would be the standard but this is reality and the reality is that sexual compatibility in relationships are very important to women. Technique can be fixed but size cannot and no amount of counseling will change a woman's mindset or the male's size. Anger & resentment from both sides will always exist in these types of relationships. The best thing that the female can do is leave him and find a man that fits her compatibility profile.
This is a very sensitive topic, I think it depends from one person to another. On my side I would stay. Peace, Love and commitment matter more than sex to me. There both correct. But I am with the wife's advice
so basically men who are small should just concentrate on their careers because women dont want a LOYAL, COMPASSIONATE, HONEST, SINCERE man if hes too small. theyd rather get treated horribly and complain about men.
Some people are so sexually driven that the size of him or expansion of her is a deal breaker. Its kinda low vibrational and not that important in the long run. Sex matters when those other qualities are lacking
Husband is completely understating the delimma, size certainly does matter. There is a certainly level of pleasure that a women seeks and it she is not able to achieve it because of his size... she will be miserable and other issues will begin form. Sir, you are on point with your feedback. Hopefully your wife is able to go back and listen to this video and truly her your perspective.
I really appreciate the husbands insight on this. I understand the wife doesn't wanna be shallow but it is what it is sometimes pleasure is kinda hard to sacrifice just not to be shallow or hurt another persons feelings. Plus it can cause resentment when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. Talking about it doesn't always work technique.. what if he don't get it some men this subject is so touchy they don't always wanna hear that especially if he think he putting work in. It's easier for that man to just go somewhere else where he won't be challenged which would leave the woman probably super mad she even tried when she could have just walked away and going to a professional... unless you are married i wouldn't even wanna invest that time.Yea I'm with your husband on this one lol I know he switched up a little because u were not having the difference of opinion at the end lol but he had a good point
U like what you like. That being said how do you know what u like unless u try it. It sounds as if the guy doesn't ben know she's displeased with his performance so how could he be willing to alter anything, size or technique? I say tell him if he can't/won't alter his technique (as permanent physical changes may be too soon to commit to), be out. Your feelings count but if its as good as it sounds fight for the relationship.
Makes sense, after go’ogling around I didn't realize that Simmy Krotiel's Bigger Blueprint was updated and you can make it bigger even faster, yep, what Simmy suggested before was pretty good, but now it can grow up to 4 ins, I managed 3 ins myself and I feel like a monster lol
It is a choice to "deal" or stay in a relationship based on other matters and sexual needs I feel are no different. I agree with your husband. You can try all you want to hang in there with a person... But if that sexual connection isn't there... I'm sorry, then you can't pretend it doesn't exist. Regardless of how good he is. However, there is no need to drag it on for years if you know that your not fulfilled in this area.
if that a big part of her relationship and she doesnt like it, thats not good. had size not meant Anything to her particularly then thats fine. but if a bigger size is whats going to satify her then what can she do?
I'm sorry, I hear both sides and all, but I'm not a smoker-so I'm not trying to entertain anything I have to hold between two fingers. Maybe it doesn't matter all much to others, but where I am in the middle of this life, boredom in Any way is not something I can tolerate. I'm patient enough to hold off until certain things at the top of my priority list materialize. I'm with taste on this one. The sexual chemistry (and preferences) have to be there, or things will get old in the long run.
I agree with the man. I can learn football but I will never be in the NFL. I don’t have the physical attributes. Plus women can’t fall in love if you can’t make them orgasm. Lol
I dont care who you are size matters! 0 my ex had girth and length I am forever scarred by the fact that it is so uncommon I will forever long for it and he knows it wish yob. was here now so I could objectify him lmao
You should have been a better partner. Hopefully he finds a nice young 18 year old virgin to stretch out with you sit there and the difference between you and her in regret.
Neville Fenton then she wouldn't know what a bigger penis felt like so "penis too small" probably wouldn't necessarily be her argument " I'm not attracted to him sexually", "I'm not satisfied " would be more likely.. if they were even allowed to think that far for themselves (based on religious beliefs)
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Size matters!!!! It's just that simple... Easy for you to say when you're being Satisfied! Your husband is absolutely on Point!
You're right. My problem is though Im a bit too big and it's not satisfying for me only putting in 2 thirds or so.
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He's absolutely right! I thought the same way you did and gave the same advice until I was put in that same situation!
I agree with the husband 100% she'll be setting herself up of being unhappy and sexually frustrated in the long run they need to depart ways now and get it over with!
I agree with the husband your going to be miserable if your not being fulfilled sexually if that's important to you
What if she had married him before having sex. What about the millions of people Muslims and Christians that dont have sex before marriage.
Her over-talking him wasn’t even about logic. She just wanted to win, and wanted to win so badly that she obstructed all of his opportunities to state his position.
His point is very valid. Some things can’t be solved with therapies and “the work”. Women often know what size and shape works for them. Not all of us want to settle for a life of oral in place of depths unreached or widths unexplored. Just like most men won’t commit to women who don’t LOOK like their “dream girl”, women should not be expected to go through hell and high water for men who are lacking in their ideal qualities either. In the end, you can’t shame a woman for moving on if the sex is a non-fit. Hell, we sure as hell don’t shame the men for wanting their physical preferences in women. We just accept that Joe Smith and 99% of his comrades want the light-skinned, long-haired, light-eyed, slim-thick, etc women. They can discount women who are otherwise ideal for them for something as stupid as hair texture or hyperpigmentation when those traits don’t have anything to do with overall physical satisfaction, yet you’re telling women to put in 6 to 12+ months of work into a guy “just in case” his lack of girth/depth/technique somehow improves??? That’s absolutely asinine unless the woman wants to by default. But saying a woman is dumb because she doesn’t want to waste the time by living in a Sunk Cost Fallacy is just plain gaslighting and gross.
@theREALblackfeatherfox Women have such a gynocentric and female chauvinistic perspective mind set when it comes to the does size matter question. The does size matter question is not a one sided street, a one sided coin or a one sided pancake. However, the vast majority of women are very reluctant to the point of outright refusing to own their 50% of the sexual fit equation. Whether it is the Kama Sutra which has written thousands of years ago, the fact that OB/GYNs who see adult women have to keep a variety of speculums on hand starting with junior/teen all the way to women's extra extra large or whether it is just having enough experience with the inside of vaginas to know personally, the simple truth is this-not all vaginas are the same size. Not all vaginas feel the same to men. Not all are equally pleasurable. Not all vaginas have the same rugae (most women do not know what this is much less how they vary from woman to woman). Not all vaginas have the same elasticity and muscle tone.
The vast majority of women REFUSE To even consider that their vagina might not even be in the top 5 "tightest" (tightness is always a function of vagina size and elasticity) vaginas that their man has ever had. The vast majority of women refuse to accept the fact that there are many women out there whose vaginas are large this is especially true for women who actually have large vagina go to great lengths to avoid any objective assessment of their own vagina size or learning how they rank on the vagina size scale. Women who do not own their own vagina size and elasticity and women who do not own the fact that they are 50% of the sexual fit equation, are simply not real women. So having said all this and given what you said in your post, on the vagina size scale where would you rate your own vagina in terms of size and elasticity and what objective criterial are you basing this upon?
Nest, do you hold yourself to the same standards in terms of your vagina size and your vagina sexual pleasure performance that you hold men to and their penis size and penis size performance? Also, why do you refuse to make a male apples to female apples comparison--penis size preferences and standards to vagina size preferences, vulva aesthetic preferences and standards? For every other physical attribute there is a pretty accurate and fair translation from male the female preferences, but women out of either delusion, female chauvinism or fear refuse to equate and compare penis size standards and expectations directly to vagina size and vulva aesthetics expectations and preferences. Also, women routinely shame men, resort to cancel culture antics and attack men over their vagina size and vagina sexual performance preferences, and women who deny this are divorced from reality and not being honest. Men are smarter in a pragmatic way and more mannered in a pragmatic way than women ever give them credit for and so for the most part, men don't talk openly and frankly about woman's vagina size (especially their woman's vagina size) and their vagina size preferences because most women can not handle it or the women get pissed off, resort to cancel culture antics and make accusations of misogyny and the like.
So bottom line once again what size of vagina do you have and what objective criteria are you basic your assessment and determination upon? You have no problem talking about penis size and your preferences, do you have what it takes to show your hand and admit what your vaginas size is, what your vagina elasticity is?
Great advice on both ends. There is always going to be SOMETHING to work on in a committed relationship. In the end one has to access what is important to them, that answer is different for different people. I do agree that he sounds like a very nice person. If she can not appreciate his good and his short-comings... I am certain someone else will. Good luck to them both!
wow! Deep conversation and yes it will take courage to talk about this. However, if he is as good as she says in the other areas, it's worth the investment.
Good discussion and honest concern that many folk dont address with their partner if the size is not preferable for them. Obviously all men are not the same size. Likewise all women are not the same size and have different abilities to accommodate a man's penis.
Some women are finger tight even when fully aroused and other women have the wizards sleeve and can take a forearm sized man with relative ease.
We all have physical preferences that attracts us to the opposite sex when it comes to height, weight, "weight distribution", slim, thick, skin tone etc. so if you're going to buy it and live with it you need to be happy with all of it. If not, move on and let that person find total happiness with someone else.
if he is perfect in every other way the it would be crazy to give him up because he is one in a million. if he will do anything for you then you two should find other ideas to please you before you ruin an honest mans life. most relationships always has a downfall... your lucky that its his penis and he's not an asshole, womanizer, controlling, rapist, killer or beat on you.. with a plus, there is always a negative. would you take a chance and spin the wheel of life and see what the odds are without him on it???? i wouldn't if i were you.. find amazing things to do together and be happy. plus dumping him just because his penis size don't make you seem good enough for this guy anyway.. he might deserve better. Just saying..
This is exactly right. I find myself in deep regret 9 years later with an amazing man who has a micro penis. I overlooked it because he truly is an incredible man but I'm not satisfied sexually at all and haven't been for years. Ib love him so much and feel terrible.
lol sounds like you have a small penis and your trying to make it sound like a woman rejecting you for that is not good enough which is a cop out, she is good enough and she deserves better than tiny dick, if anything she’s too good for a shrimp dick.
I ain't even gonna lie size definitely matters .. i'm sorry but i agree with Mr. Maat. (and with Ms. Aiyana too) while its not just about the size alone, i think some people have a preference and if his size is not her preference it don't matter what else he can do it will still be a problem whether she admits it or not.. she already said she isn't getting satisfied
@debbiea1223 That is a very one sided sexist and female chauvinistic position. Why do women avoid and or refuse to accept the fact that their vaginas have dimensions and that their vaginas have a size and that there are a variations in adult size vaginas (this is based upon the Kama Sutra, the range of speculums that adult OB/GYN's keep on hand ranging from junior teens to XX large women's and actual studies on vagina size) If you want to go there, a woman can do Kegels and work on her PC muscle control until she can crack walnuts but that does not change the size of her vagina in terms of introitus inner circumference, vaginal canal inner inner circumference, vaginal canal elasticity, introitus elasticity and vaginal canal depth.
Real women own their own vagina size, vagina elasticity, and vagina sexual performance and they own their 50% of the sexual fit equation. Real women accept that they may not measure up vagina size wise and meet a given mans vagina size and vagina sexual performance preferences and they accept this instead of blaming the man.
Women need to break free from their very sexist and female chauvinistic delusion that all vaginas are feel the same to men, that all vaginas are equally pleasurable to men, and that all women and their vaginas have the same level of sexual pleasure performance for men. Whether women want to admit it or not, secretly women worry a great deal about their their vagina size and vagina sexual performance even if they are not able or willing to verbalize it. I will say it again even though his pisses a lot of women off, it is truth that women need to hear and they need to own. Real women own their vagina size. Real women own their level of vagina sexual pleasure performance. Real women own their vaginal elasticity. Real women own their introitus size. Do you own your own vagina size and your own level of vagina sexual performance? If so what size would you say your vagina size is, and upon what objective criteria are you basing this size assessment on?
My partners ain't BIG either, but he is still a good Lover & He satisfies me still. He's passionate too & has a intense drive.
All I'm going to say is this goes for women and men is ya'll need to read your bible more check out proverbs chapter 6 verse 24 - 28 and I'm going to leave u with this and u fill in the last word, the lord is my Shepard I shall not xxxx
I know right, but then you have to ask on what ruler. Length doesn't imply girth or skill. My girlfriends tell me I'm tacky for asking to "see it".
But I figure since most men are conceited as all hell AND swear to God they're the size of Montana, then most won't mind pulling it out when asked.
I don't mean just randomly, but after a few dates, maybe even a few months when you're really feeling each other & ready to declare titles, then why not? I hate surprises And aint no need for probation!
I like a woman who is honest.
I agree with Ayize. What's wrong with having a standard and leaving if you aren't getting your standard met? Then when you cheat you're wrong even though you were never happy at all...get out early.
I just ran into this problem and yeah I’m breaking up with him, I lost all attraction to him after that it was HORRIBLE I was embarrassed for him and now I can’t even look at the man I’m running as far away as fast as I can I can’t be with no grown man that is that lacking.
I've been with the same man for 6 yrs. now. He's a very good man. Doesn't lie, doesn't cheat, works and comes home, doesn't stay out late, etc. HOWEVER, the sex has always been terrible 75% of the time since day 1. But the good outweighed the bad. HOWEVER, a year and a half ago, his attitude got bad, and he started drinking. So I was ready to leave because now the bad outweighed the good. Luckily, he realized I was ready to leave, and he got it together. And I finally mentioned to him this year that the sex was bad, and he took it extremely hard!
How is it working out for you? Ty for sharing…I need advice
Wow how did you cope for 2 years with bad sex?😩
@maryking130 Well, it's still the same. We only have sex every 3-6months. He gets so frustrated with me, but then I have to remind him of how unsatisfied I am with the sex, which is the reasin we dont have it often. Then he admits he knows that he can't last long or it won't stay hard. It's a cycle of pointing the finger at the other person. I'm sexually frustrated, and he is, too. But like last week he says he will finally go to the doctor about his shortcomings.
@@1991Mekaya go to doctor and you couples should try 3ex toy etc to make 3ex even better
@@1991Mekawoman you BEEN ready to go! Stop trippin
Be careful or you won't be with this man long because you don't listen to him. You have a narcissistic attitude and your opinion of things is the only one that matters. He explained the situation clearly which was absolutely true and you got offended because he wasn't seeing things your way.
Uhhh.....no. 2 opinions can coexist sis. We are celebrating 17 years of marriage and 24 years together on May 27th. I know how to be a wife to my King and there is more than one way to view things. Period. Thanks for your comment though.
@@Blackloveandmarriage That's great that you've been together for 24 years. And I bet one reason was because he's probably great in bed and his penis isn't small like the woman that wrote in whos mans penis is. An you advised her to stay in the relationship when she wasn't being satisfied sexually by him at all. That was terrible advise. That woman is destined to cheat on him or eventually leave. Theres nothing you can do to make things better sexually with a man who has a small penis if you can't feel him. There just sexually incompatible with one another and need to call it quits. Because sex is 70% of the relationship. Without that part of it your basically just friends
Mimi 77 I disagree with the wife as well. I was married to someone and the sex was awful. It’s a huge deal and most people don’t realize it until they are in that situation. The husband is spot on! Sexual compatibility is not shallow and a person should not settle in that area.
@@msjrene05 An ex or two had the same problem. She was married to a 5 inch finger and she told me she went to sleep in the act lol. Luckily she had me to fill in. I hope you didn't have to suffer for years. Youre pretty.
i agree with the husband 1000000%
Here's the thing: telling a woman if that's her thing then she should go for something else, isn't good advice because you have to ask her to think about *should that be her thing*. Will that "being her thing" ACTUALLY lead to satisfaction or can she reorient her perspective and can he work on his sex skills, to actually achieve satisfaction. Not every preference we have is good; what if someone's preference is McDonald's, and currently all they eat are salads and they need more. They think they have to choose between the salad and the burger, when really the salad can just have some chicken added to it with some spices and a drink too; while the burger would have missed the point: you don't just need your hunger to be met, you need your health to be considered too ;).
...good men don't grow on trees.. she betta go get some toys.. IJS....
I wish my wife was like u after 18 years and 3 kid's and helping her take care of her 2 brother's instead of being honest with me and us go to buy toys she just ups and cheated on me because of my size
@@85MONEYBAG how you keep her satisfied all those years ?
@@85MONEYBAGfind a young fertile girl. Women are like cars they lose their value with age and require more maintenance. The best thing a woman can offer a man is her youth.
Great video. In a perfect world, your wife's point of view would be the standard but this is reality and the reality is that sexual compatibility in relationships are very important to women. Technique can be fixed but size cannot and no amount of counseling will change a woman's mindset or the male's size. Anger & resentment from both sides will always exist in these types of relationships. The best thing that the female can do is leave him and find a man that fits her compatibility profile.
"Straight face"...lol
I think the world of both of you and think you contribute a very important point of interest to RUclips. G-d bless both of you and you're family. xoxo
This is a very sensitive topic, I think it depends from one person to another. On my side I would stay. Peace, Love and commitment matter more than sex to me. There both correct. But I am with the wife's advice
so basically men who are small should just concentrate on their careers because women dont want a LOYAL, COMPASSIONATE, HONEST, SINCERE man if hes too small. theyd rather get treated horribly and complain about men.
Every man with s big penis is not bad and every man with a little penis is not a saint. lol someone hit some nerves
Or just not deal with men at all. Which is a pretty peaceful option if your life is full.
She dont give her husband to say even one word and he is right
Some people are so sexually driven that the size of him or expansion of her is a deal breaker. Its kinda low vibrational and not that important in the long run. Sex matters when those other qualities are lacking
she should stay he would never be able to cheat... I had a boyfriend with the predicament , he tried to cheat and was totally humiliated...
idial goode not if he has money and willing to spend it cause he know his short comings lol
LOL. Thats actually funny.
@@asiad7175 Squeeze him like a lemon till theres no juice lol.
Women want providers not lovers.
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Husband is completely understating the delimma, size certainly does matter. There is a certainly level of pleasure that a women seeks and it she is not able to achieve it because of his size... she will be miserable and other issues will begin form. Sir, you are on point with your feedback. Hopefully your wife is able to go back and listen to this video and truly her your perspective.
I'm 5"...alone forever.
I agree with the husband,too.
I agree with Dr. Dre. lol.
I really appreciate the husbands insight on this. I understand the wife doesn't wanna be shallow but it is what it is sometimes pleasure is kinda hard to sacrifice just not to be shallow or hurt another persons feelings. Plus it can cause resentment when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. Talking about it doesn't always work technique.. what if he don't get it some men this subject is so touchy they don't always wanna hear that especially if he think he putting work in. It's easier for that man to just go somewhere else where he won't be challenged which would leave the woman probably super mad she even tried when she could have just walked away and going to a professional... unless you are married i wouldn't even wanna invest that time.Yea I'm with your husband on this one lol I know he switched up a little because u were not having the difference of opinion at the end lol but he had a good point
U like what you like. That being said how do you know what u like unless u try it. It sounds as if the guy doesn't ben know she's displeased with his performance so how could he be willing to alter anything, size or technique? I say tell him if he can't/won't alter his technique (as permanent physical changes may be too soon to commit to), be out. Your feelings count but if its as good as it sounds fight for the relationship.
I definitely agree with Ayize on this one.
why he look like Dr. Dre
Makes sense, after go’ogling around I didn't realize that Simmy Krotiel's Bigger Blueprint was updated and you can make it bigger even faster, yep, what Simmy suggested before was pretty good, but now it can grow up to 4 ins, I managed 3 ins myself and I feel like a monster lol
It is a choice to "deal" or stay in a relationship based on other matters and sexual needs I feel are no different. I agree with your husband. You can try all you want to hang in there with a person... But if that sexual connection isn't there... I'm sorry, then you can't pretend it doesn't exist. Regardless of how good he is. However, there is no need to drag it on for years if you know that your not fulfilled in this area.
Size matters. You're right. And very pretty btw.
if that a big part of her relationship and she doesnt like it, thats not good. had size not meant Anything to her particularly then thats fine. but if a bigger size is whats going to satify her then what can she do?
U guys are awesome!!!!
if it becomes physically impossible for her to get pleasure she will just need to leave.
you betta say it girl!!!
try kama sutra, it will change ur life!! small or large doesn't matter if u try it.
If your 45 you shouldn't be worried about size old grandma ahhh
I'm sorry, I hear both sides and all, but I'm not a smoker-so I'm not trying to entertain anything I have to hold between two fingers. Maybe it doesn't matter all much to others, but where I am in the middle of this life, boredom in Any way is not something I can tolerate. I'm patient enough to hold off until certain things at the top of my priority list materialize. I'm with taste on this one. The sexual chemistry (and preferences) have to be there, or things will get old in the long run.
This breaks my heart😔😔😔
Defective-Ha! lmao
LMBO. great point!
and yall say all we think about is sex! smh
I agree with the man. I can learn football but I will never be in the NFL. I don’t have the physical attributes.
Plus women can’t fall in love if you can’t make them orgasm. Lol
Now I've had big and small I like the person
I dont care who you are size matters! 0 my ex had girth and length I am forever scarred by the fact that it is so uncommon I will forever long for it and he knows it wish yob. was here now so I could objectify him lmao
You should have been a better partner. Hopefully he finds a nice young 18 year old virgin to stretch out with you sit there and the difference between you and her in regret.
she will have to concerntrate too bad
urine?...lol
What if she had married him before having sex. What about the millions of people Muslims and Christians that dont have sex before marriage.
Neville Fenton then she wouldn't know what a bigger penis felt like so "penis too small" probably wouldn't necessarily be her argument " I'm not attracted to him sexually", "I'm not satisfied " would be more likely.. if they were even allowed to think that far for themselves (based on religious beliefs)