2 years ago after I left my ex best friend, I was wishing all the bad things happen to him, I hated him, wishing he would die and wishing all karma comes to him. But after going to my boyfriend’s church and doing a lot of healing and self care, I stop wishing for my ex best friend to die and all the hatred towards running through me is over now. Now I’m healed, 2 years of no contact, idc what he do, and I don’t even miss him, not even a single bit. I feel amazing.
Lee’s right, narcissists live miserable lives, and have an extremely difficult time finding internal contentment. Best thing a person can do in addition to no contact from a narc,is heal themselves and go out and just live their lives. Take some gratitude in the fact you can find joy, happiness and contentment on your own.
You are telling me a lot of things that I have known for some years I just thought that I was the only person with this person around me that I could not reach. He has ruined so many lives and people still think he's been such a great human but he's the worst human that I have ever met in my life. You have a great way of explaining what is going on around a person. People are walking DEVILS 😈 😒 😐 Spitting Poison all over
Many live the same lie of a life with many people to afraid to face the cowards they are and change for the better. Best part the ones bad with money will self destruct financially.. No matter what they look like they will lose their looks adding to their misery..
I let my narc ex push my boundaries so much that one day I finally found the strength to leave. 4 weeks no contact and I'm actually finding my self worth and inner peace again
@@lisabuchanan6371 Or maybe some people handle it differently. I've been detached for about a month as well; I was with mine for 10 months. I still have 'withdrawals' and struggle with obsessing, but when the main supply exposed his bullshit to me, it was like a weight had been lifted off my chest. I almost went to therapy over this guy, thinking that I was losing my mind. Once the veil had dropped, it was confirmation I wasn't crazy, all the gaslighting, lying, manipulation, exploiting, passive aggressive degrading was real, and even though it's not closure, it was a form of closure for me. I was constantly apologizing for HIS behavior. Constantly in a state of anxiety and waking up, having panic attacks. I'm not 100%. I imagine the OP is also not 100% but the difference from where I was a month ago to right now is dramatic. Just the physical improvements are enough. I'm finally able to sleep through the night, without waking up with my heart racing every couple hours. Just because a person makes a statement that they're better without someone doesn't mean they aren't going through stuff with it, they just have clarity. And it's the internet. Not everyone is as open about their business as me. Keep that in perspective. Just because YOU are suffering after however long, doesn't mean everyone experiences it the same way.
Me too! I’m using an app called MoodTools and it’s helped me with my rollercoaster emotions during the grieving process. I’m feeling much more stable and happy also I’m sad.
@@lisabuchanan6371 she said she finally had the strength to leave. Meaning it did not just happen overnight. It's a mental process. And I'm sure by the time she let go, she made her final decision and moved on feeling so much at peace. Yeah she's good.
How do I forgive? He tried to kill me several times,is saying I'm a child rapist, poisoning everyone against me,etc etc. How can I let go of the anger? Honest question.
When I feel like this, I HAVE to start singing, "Turn it over to Jesus, turn it over to Jesus, then you can smile the rest of the day." This helps me feel better. The alternative is to sink to his level and do the type of vindictive sh!t he'd do.
True. I'm going to therapy. I'll never go back to the sob. The healing process gets easier everyday. I am happier away from him. Very ABUSIVE in every form. I was discarded. I took that golden ticket and started healing. I'll NEVER go back.
So right! Leaving a narcissist in his/her misery is the best thing ever. Disconnect from their programming in your life and stick to the decision. I know so many narcissists and I can tell for sure that all of them are deeply unhappy and lonely people pretending to be self sufficient and successful.
Facts. I’ve never met a narcissist who wasn’t miserable underneath their fake facade of “everything is perfect in my life because I’m perfect.” My family is riddled with narcissists and I use to be a magnet for them. No more.
@@raggaduxjones but what matters and is important for them is exactly this,how people will see them,how they look, demonstration of prosperity, luxurious life,success...
Narcissists are the reasons why I totally admire Mr Bean (played by Rowan Atkinson) so much. He's the symbolism of "better off living alone than with bad company."
Lee is really out here saving life’s. He speaks the straight up honest truth. I walked away from my ex narc this year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. My karma is not jumping into another relationship but him seeing that I’ve moved on and happy by myself without him. Sometimes being alone is the upgrade.
My ex used to call me his "happy ". One day I told him, "I can't be your happy, that is something you have within." I never understood what he meant until after that day. Literally, I was supposed to be his happiness. He was jealous of my simple happiness.
The same here. He gets upset whenever he sees me happy. He used the word enthusiasm. He chose me for my enthusiastic approach to Life and now he hates me for the same reason..
They are going to reap what they've sown one way or the other. However, The best feeling is when you get to the point of indifference so you are unbothered either way.
"Let them loose you be their karma" love this one and its real...and next time you lay eyes on them you wl get a fright to see what they look like, haggard, thin, stressed, dark empty eyes, you just wanna run screaming Thank You Lord I got away 😊
The pain that a narcissist leaves behind makes you want to get revenge!!! I felt like someone had died, like I was literally grieving after he treated me horribly. The narcissist that I was dealing with lost someone very close to him last year at a young age. That was the only hurt that he ever felt and I explained to him that was the same hurt and pain that you gave to me when you hurt me. So sometimes you have to let the universe get their attention and repay that hurt don't take anything in your hands just sit back and wait. Also his whole life is falling apart for as health, finances, work and his bad habits!!!
I have met narcissists who love to take revenge on former friends or ex-girlfriends or exwives because they left the narc. It's my opinion that you should never take any revenge on them because it's an evil behavior. Let them do all the evil works and hurt themselves by hurting people. Live a clean life and never hurt others.
I blocked my narc last year without warning and ive started travelling and im travelling again in 2 weeks, my career is on point, i have my own place and i have wonderful friends and family... and he lives with his mother, he is 40 and has no job. Im ready for a wonderful man to come into my life, if i see my narc i will just ignore him as he watches me be happy.
Narcissists want control. Most do care when they lose someone, because it means they no longer have control over them. That's why they still want you back after you left, even though they found a new supply!
Hmmm, this gives me something to think about. I was raised by a narcissist and they are very good at what they do. I feel they are miserable when you walk away because they thrive off of making us miserable.
@@j0dilynn234 he discarded me and our son, and as I am going finally to accept divorce, he shows the whole world is the best thing that can happen to him. It’s been 5 years of hell, he just pushed me to leave. I cant take it anymore. I feel he’s finally beaten.
Narcissist always sabotage themselves eventually none of their relationships or anything they’re strive to do whatever work out. My ex-husband is now facing his third strike and I really and truly believe he wouldn’t have it any other way. He’s somebody that’s always sabotage himself just so he could blame others he has always been his karma and his worst enemy.
Like Lee, I’m also in therapy for NPD and I can honestly say.. I was so miserable before. Nothing fulfilled me, I didn’t trust or love anyone.. I just bulldozed my way through life without forming any meaningful connections or experiencing true happiness. In the last year I can honestly say I’ve been tapping into my self-esteem and rebuilding myself as a person. Thanks for the video and reminder of how gruesome that life was.
He is so right. Sometimes a person's karma is being themselves. A narcissists karma can be the fact that they refuse to take accountability for their actions. As long as a person refuses to be accountable they can't change because they don't see where they need to change, or they refuse to do what it takes to change.
They face huge Karma when they get old and ill. It seemed to me the nurses pick up their attitude very quickly, and do not pay attention to all their nonsense
True. They are literally left to their own devices. I've seen it. After all the usual tactics don't work they turn into a little kid - fake tears and sorrowful little girl/boy voices. Meanwhile you can see the undeniable look of manipulation in their eyes .. 😅
They usually die alone, getting worse with age, all bridges burned, all patience lost. Nobody can stand them, they have no friends, family cut all contact.
@Gigi Garcia That was a sadistic facade/game that you didn't sign up for. If you made it out somewhat broken but alive, you're not the victim but the Victor!
@@marilynlvmd that’s true. I felt so much unhappiness when I was still in the dark. But now that my eyes are open, I do feel a great sense of victory. And greater happiness. It took me a while to get free.
This gentleman has helped me soo much. I know how to deal with my husband. Thought I was going crazy at first but now I know what a narcissistic is. Now that I do, it's still not easy but it's easier now that I know what I'm dealing with. Thank You So much!!!
Same. I pray all the time for my daughters father to find that same courage and compassion for himself and his family. We maybe be done forever as a couple but for my daughter and his other children and my sanity lol I truly hope he gets help. He reminds me a lot of lee, what Lee is doing really is something special. It gives me hope.
I now understand that if you do not set an intention to respect and protect your spouse, you are not inteding to fully love them. That is why the spouse of the Narc becomes collateral damage💔
Losing me is his Karma! When I finally get to the indifference stage, I am celebrating bigly! If you keep going back, you just give them permission to continue to abuse you. Leaving them alone hurts them so much more. Take care of yourself and live well.
It's been one week with no contact and two weeks that I have not seen my ex narcissist boyfriend --- it has been so hard I feel so lost and confused I was overly good to him for him to hurt me and discard me like I was nothing -- I wasted four years of being dedicated to that man now I am trying to get me back after all that damage he did to me. Thank you for this video it stopped my tears thank you
They don’t deserve you. Seek God and please forgive. The Lord has the man for you ladies. Seek the Lord Jesus Christ and He will heal you and bless you beyond your current expectations. Ask for a God-fearing man.
I'm going through this too. I almost had a panic attack at work last night just thinking about him. I feel like I don't matter after 3 yrs of loyalty and being faithful. It hurts😢
i used to hate him lots for what he said to me, so mean n harsh. i was so hurt. but after around almost 50 days no contact, one day i woke up, i felt all those shiet feelings flushed into toilet, my heart all of sudden felt so light... i aint angry anymore. i let it go. i feel better since then n hes fading away from my head slowly... every day i often go thru ma day without thinkin him. each day is getting better... now its already 61 days 👻
As a survivor be happy that you really help us folks. I am a supporter of JUSTICE. I'm 2 yrs out NO CONTACT whatsoever. I was angry for being targeted AND TOOK CLOSURE!!
It feels like they are not getting karma by making them lose you, because they act like they don't care if you walk away, and they run off with someone else. I think that's why people get stuck. They only show their ego.
I absolutely love your sense of humor. I'm not trying to get any revenge or vengeance on any of the narcissists in my life I rather just go about my own life and don't spend any time worrying about them. I don't feel like getting arrested.🤣
This is the stance I have taken on this. My ex did horrible things to me trying to blame my actions on why he felt alone and unloved. Now he has to live with the fact that none of the things he did or does will change his feelings of loneliness and I am no longer there for him to scapegoat.
That is the same sh!+ that someone close to me keeps on hearing from her other half, he states " I don't like the way you treat me" over and over again at first it was questionable for her so she evaluated herself and her actions towards him but then she realized that she was just being scapegoated. What I am proud to say about how she is handling her situation is that she has gone the emotional unavailable route which has given her mental elevation above his toxic gaslighting. Hopefully soon she can just get away from him if things don't change on his end.
You should be proud. You got help and admitted you have a problem. I have Borderline Personality and also am in therapy and on meds. My last relationship was with a narcissist, there is no way in Hell he would every admit the things you have about NPD. He has no self awareness. You are on a great path and you have helped me more than anyone because only a narcissist can give us answers Thanks for that.
My husband has cheated numerous times, and some of those times with multiple partners. He has gone as far as taking them into our home, our room, our bed! And blamed me for it. He convinced those women that he is a victim of domestic violence. He has also said I am dying of cancer. One of them had the nerve to try to get me out of my home. Saying I was using him. He had NEVER helped make a payment, he said he bought me a vehicle. I was the one who give him a vehicle, the same vehicle he was using to see them. I truly wish he gets his Karma. Because he never felt guilt for what he did. He never has apologized.
This is my favorite video from you thus far! I’ve been so depressed realizing that people just don’t understand how miserable a narcissist is and that they are empty inside. Thank you for having the courage and strength to share your journey with those who are also trying to heal themselves and their loved ones.
Lee, you are hilarious 😆. This is good content for karma. While I want my narcissistic husband to get physical karma, I believe he’s getting his karma every day living in his own hell. They are constantly chasing some high of new relationships and get bored with relationships that are stagnant. My husband cheated on me with another married woman and that I’m positive is a narcissist herself. Let the battle of the narcissists begin. He’ll regret losing me but I won’t be there when he Hoovers because the old me isn’t there anymore
It sounds as if narcissists do not incorporate gratitude and this is why they are always looking for happiness. I'm wondering if they can just see happiness in the present moment.
Due to trauma, I myself had a lot of narcissistic behaviors. I’m not diagnosed narcissistic. I’m diagnosed with CPTST with all which also carries those behaviors and traits however, like you Lee, I have been working for six years to overcome my childhood trauma and not repeat generational cycles so you go right ahead, man I am so proud of you too. I’m proud of you for standing up and saying I have this and I have overcame this. You ain’t gotta put a word on it. You went for being a total piece of crap to probably a very, very good man father and husband don’t listen to them haters let them be your steppingstone. I don’t speak to not one person in my family. I’m all alone, but I do have my children and I’m showing them different every day at the end of the day that’s all that’s ever mattered is what they thought of me and what God thought of me I have to thank you. You have been a part of my journey for three years and I wouldn’t be where I’m at today if it wasn’t for you so don’t let them get you down, bro.
OMG 😮. My spouse has had over 20 jobs since I met him. He literally quit a job late September and quit law enforcement because all the cops were dumb, started orientation at a new job early October and quit. Now he is back at the job he quit with the stupid Cops. He had to go through getting reinstated again!!! He does this like at least twice a year. This makes my head spin! I have been with the same employer over 20 years. I can’t imagine. I am a very successful professional.
@elizabeth6918 my father was a police officer my entire life and was fired early this year because he threatened the lives of me and my family in a drunken rage. He goes around now claiming he retired and plans to remarry to someone close in age to my oldest sister. However, when he was fired, he was put in jail AND a behavioral unit with charges made by my current state of DV. His lies are currently falling apart due to the fact that those close to him are now speaking out about their experiences with him to us.
My ex was at a job over 20 years.... so maybe there are patterns but they don't all fulfill all of them because they definitely had the other narcissistic traits.
I just got discarded by a narc only to meet another narc WTH? So i quickly blocked the new narc after noticing love bombing and possessiveness in 2 days. Blocked him and he literally called me at 4am from google meets. i have only known this man 3 days. Why am i attracting these narcs!!!
Another great informative video!! Thank You 😊. It's disgusting that some refer to you as anything but a good hearted individual who not only is leveling up himself and bettering himself everyday, but has the heart to reach out and empower others! I see you Lee! God Loves you.🙏
2 weeks no contact! The first week was hard, but now I get flashbacks of all the red flags I ignored. I am a catch, and I can't wait to find a man who doesn't love-bomb but just loves ❤
I really enjoyed this video. I also think the #3 way they get their karma is the holes they dig for themselves. Sometimes they underestimate others so much that they continue their behavior and self destruct.
❤❤❤THIS IS SPOT ON!!!! I know a MILLIONAIRE who is 63 yrs old and is STILL NOT HAPPY!!! Literally a self made MILLIONAIRE!!! Runs to the casino every chance he gets....still not happy
My ex husband at the time said that to me one night while I was doing dishes and he sat at the table and said.."Thank You For Letting Me Be Me"...I said you're welcome boo...Everybody should be themselves...Then 6 yrs into the marriage...I found out what he actually meant😝
Lol. Same here! He said it so many times, just to turn around in our 8th year of marriage and say that he has been pretending to be someone else all these years for my sake. Smh
I was told by a narcissist “I’m sick and tired of everyone else putting my happiness on their back burner” that blew my mind! It’s no one else’s problem to try making u happy…u have to decide for urself if u want to be happy or not…u chose to not be happy so again it’s no one else’s problem lol…so more or less, a narcissist is unable to feel happiness…or have happiness confused with some other emotion. Why aren’t u happy with anything?
My Ex who suffers from Bi Polar & low self esteem. Broke up many times in 17 mos. She said to me a few weeks ago, It's always you who brings us back together, and I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH for that. I imagine she is expecting it this time. I will do my best in NC.
God doesnt make mistakes, Narcissists exist for a reason and are people not demons. Just not a person to be in an empathetic relationship. My ex is loved by many, They enjoy his company. They even understand he hustles people and lies etc. But as his partner I was gaslit, manipulated, triangulated, used, lied to and taken advantage of to the point of abuse. and yes he is hoovering but only because he misses what I gave him ...Ill never go back. TY Lee
Lee, i thank you for sharing with us. I have a Narcissistic son. I've had to pull away from him on ALL LEVELS for my sake. At 64, I'm running out of time. He's actually with a much more manipulative Narcissist than he is. When he was about 42, i pulled back and watched her play the hell out of him. She jumped on his view of me, (interesting they thought all my actions were for the reasons they would do anything). She hates that i saw through her from the beginning. I can all too easily see his future, a very sad, lonely man. 😔😟. I can nolonger have contact with him, be his therapist, but have thought to send him the lifeline of other self-reflective "therapists." Weither he grabs these lines, is up to him. I will be sending him your videos, as well as other videos. I know he may see this as not letting go, but actually i am. Signed, Dave's mom.
I feel your pain. My son is a 40 year old narc. There's an especially gut wrenching pain when it comes from your own child. It would literally make me double over from the emotional trauma he inflicted. No contact for two years, my decision.
You should be proud of how far you have come Lee, but also of how you are tapping into the awareness and doing something valuable with that, and altering your own course and destiny. I am nearly 60 now and have seen it all play out with others who were not smart enough to confront truth and they end up angry that by age 40 they can't convince a woman with dignity and self-respect to even say yes to a date because what they have have made of themselves is to become 'that guy' with 3 or 4 different baby momas and it would just make her look like a fool being with a man with a string of families and a bigger fool to be the 5th baby moma, and that is the end of the road because not even a woman from a poor country with few options is willing to make that selection.
Thank you for this validating video. I love “let losing you be their karma.” I take this also to mean that cultivating self-love (the lack of which is often times the reason we attract a narc and/or stay with one) and thriving, and then the narc seeing it is how karma affects them. This has been the case with my narc ex wife. Thank you for the work you do here on YT!
That's real talk you know just being away from a narcissist and being by myself it's such a blessing for me that I don't have to be bothered with that anymore and I love my life and I love who I am today
After my narcissist tried to unlive me, I regained my energy and my strength to leave him...1year no contact, no communication, he's getting his karma.
Narcissists are easily bored . They need to be preoccupied with something & in an activity with people around them. For narcissists that are not big earners & too toxic to have lots of friends, they will always be hot tempered because of boredom. That will be emotionally draining for them . Another thing, because of the narcissists chronic boredom which makes them feel emptiness , they tend to have addiction of some sort to relieve their boredom . That will be either or more of these : alcoholism , chain smoking , illegal substance such as meth , weeds , cocaine , gambling , womanizing, porn , voyeurism , shop a holic even becoming hoarders . That can make them bankrupt / financially strapped , physically sick & suffer more mental illness. That is how victims of narcissists eventually will eventually get their revenge.... when the narcs own recklessness will make them physically ill.
I have forgiven all the narcs that have hurt me or tried to hurt me. Just like i was ignorant of my self they maybe unaware of them selves. Im on purpose with my healing my growth. Thank you brother, Yes be pround, of ur self, brother, I am pround of my hard inner work, since 2014. I just discovered im an HSP. We gotta lead by example !
I been listeneing to you now for about two weeks, at first, i have to admit I hated the things you were telling us survors and thrivers, but then i started to believe your words and personal insight have truly helped, it is a balm to all those narcissistic effin b.s. pains i suffered and I Thank You Dear Sir, Please continue to grow your army of self awareness. I also would like to share that,, i to have some narcissistic traits and am here acknowledging it whole heartedly and am now making efforts to apologize for my actions that have hurt another. Again Thank You from bottom of my heart.
One of the most helpful videos I’ve ever watched about how to help heal the pain that a narcissist inevitably cause their significant others. Thank you Lee.
If I’m tired-I watch Lee-if I need to take my frustration and anger less seriously-I watch Lee. If I need to take myself less seriously in this situation despite my pain-I watch Lee! Energy-need that? Watch Lee!!! Thanks Lee!
Yes I have seen people inflict “karma” on people. Then I see natural karma show up. Lee you are absolutely correct. Do Not inflict karma on other people. Protect yourself from them like Lee says.
@@bigdeneen The reason why she went into a rage because they r demons remember we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities,power,ruler of darkness of this world,and spiritual wickedness n high places people don't acknowledge that.Its sad how u pour your Love out to narcissist and they r not capable of loving u why because the devil is evil.Its nothing good about the devil he manipulates,plot,lie and try to destroy u.They has been traumatized during their childhood and they will never b committed in a relationship and nothing u do it will never b enough.
I was no contact for two & a half yrs. I finally allowed him to bring my belongings to me. He saw how much Ive improved my lifestyle & I completely rejected him. Four days after that he went crazy! He started a fire on his front porch bc he saw & heard people out there. Put bedsheets in the oven & turned the oven on! Then went outside after dark in his underwear wt a baseball bat in one hand & a machete in the other chasing cars like a dog! Different driver's called 911. He was hauled off in a ambulance & kept in the phyc ward for 7 days. Soooo.....his karma? I think so...
You're on a good part of your healing journey when you realize the worst karma a Narc can have is simply living. I go to sleep and wake up with the brightest smile knowing I got away and don't have be that person or around anyone like them. Don't try to save anyone, save yourself!
Lee, you don’t deserve mean comments because you are doing your best to change the world. You are humble about your past and truthful now. Lee, chasing happiness is a mistake. Joy comes from choosing a life of MEANING. You are on your way to joy and miracles chasing YOU! Your karma is a life of meaning, and sharing your lessons. This will bring you happiness in the deepest places of your heart!
I did that, force the karma on them,and left him. Your right that's not going to deliver or bring his healing to him. Now I just pray for him, that God will take over and heal him of his past hurts; deliver him so that he can truly be happy and at peace like normal people
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If you’re still worried about anyone getting karma you yourself needs to heal and let go.
Stop putting your energy into worrying and wishing bad things on them. Take that same energy and focus on self-love and healing.
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I felt better after I had him cursed and focused on improving my life. Just had to get that negative energy out.
2 years ago after I left my ex best friend, I was wishing all the bad things happen to him, I hated him, wishing he would die and wishing all karma comes to him. But after going to my boyfriend’s church and doing a lot of healing and self care, I stop wishing for my ex best friend to die and all the hatred towards running through me is over now. Now I’m healed, 2 years of no contact, idc what he do, and I don’t even miss him, not even a single bit. I feel amazing.
@@MentalHealness yo! Greenville in da house!!! 🙌🙌💯💯💯💯💯
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Lee’s right, narcissists live miserable lives, and have an extremely difficult time finding internal contentment. Best thing a person can do in addition to no contact from a narc,is heal themselves and go out and just live their lives. Take some gratitude in the fact you can find joy, happiness and contentment on your own.
You are telling me a lot of things that I have known for some years I just thought that I was the only person with this person around me that I could not reach. He has ruined so many lives and people still think he's been such a great human but he's the worst human that I have ever met in my life. You have a great way of explaining what is going on around a person. People are walking DEVILS 😈 😒 😐 Spitting Poison all over
😊...Yes Gurl
Many live the same lie of a life with many people to afraid to face the cowards they are and change for the better.
Best part the ones bad with money will self destruct financially..
No matter what they look like they will lose their looks adding to their misery..
That's what I'm doing. Living my life as best I can and I am grateful that I can still enjoy it.
Contentment is the disorder for a narcissist.
I let my narc ex push my boundaries so much that one day I finally found the strength to leave. 4 weeks no contact and I'm actually finding my self worth and inner peace again
Oh, your good after just four weeks? Perhaps you were just dealing with someone who was just an ass
Nice
@@lisabuchanan6371 Or maybe some people handle it differently. I've been detached for about a month as well; I was with mine for 10 months. I still have 'withdrawals' and struggle with obsessing, but when the main supply exposed his bullshit to me, it was like a weight had been lifted off my chest. I almost went to therapy over this guy, thinking that I was losing my mind. Once the veil had dropped, it was confirmation I wasn't crazy, all the gaslighting, lying, manipulation, exploiting, passive aggressive degrading was real, and even though it's not closure, it was a form of closure for me. I was constantly apologizing for HIS behavior. Constantly in a state of anxiety and waking up, having panic attacks.
I'm not 100%. I imagine the OP is also not 100% but the difference from where I was a month ago to right now is dramatic. Just the physical improvements are enough. I'm finally able to sleep through the night, without waking up with my heart racing every couple hours. Just because a person makes a statement that they're better without someone doesn't mean they aren't going through stuff with it, they just have clarity. And it's the internet. Not everyone is as open about their business as me. Keep that in perspective. Just because YOU are suffering after however long, doesn't mean everyone experiences it the same way.
Me too!
I’m using an app called MoodTools and it’s helped me with my rollercoaster emotions during the grieving process.
I’m feeling much more stable and happy also I’m sad.
@@lisabuchanan6371 she said she finally had the strength to leave. Meaning it did not just happen overnight. It's a mental process. And I'm sure by the time she let go, she made her final decision and moved on feeling so much at peace. Yeah she's good.
You reap what you sow! Vengence is mine says the Lord! Forgive and move on!
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@ barbara head, amen.... Vengeance is the Lord's, he will repay...
How do I forgive? He tried to kill me several times,is saying I'm a child rapist, poisoning everyone against me,etc etc. How can I let go of the anger? Honest question.
When I feel like this, I HAVE to start singing, "Turn it over to Jesus, turn it over to Jesus, then you can smile the rest of the day." This helps me feel better. The alternative is to sink to his level and do the type of vindictive sh!t he'd do.
@@stardustsparkles22 Therapy. And your focus should be on your healing; forgiving him may or may not come with time.
Narcissist don't just let go!! They feel as if you belong to them,and they don't see the toxicity in what they do! It's sick
True. I'm going to therapy. I'll never go back to the sob. The healing process gets easier everyday. I am happier away from him. Very ABUSIVE in every form. I was discarded. I took that golden ticket and started healing. I'll NEVER go back.
Security camera don’t let em run u dam dam ❤
Yes they know exactly what theyre doing
Yes they do
Right you are their toy. They are going to play with you like a cat plays with a dead mouse. They won't stop until you're nothing but a rotten carcass
So right! Leaving a narcissist in his/her misery is the best thing ever. Disconnect from their programming in your life and stick to the decision. I know so many narcissists and I can tell for sure that all of them are deeply unhappy and lonely people pretending to be self sufficient and successful.
Yass!!
Yep
Most narcs I know are very miserable people
Facts. I’ve never met a narcissist who wasn’t miserable underneath their fake facade of “everything is perfect in my life because I’m perfect.” My family is riddled with narcissists and I use to be a magnet for them. No more.
@@raggaduxjones but what matters and is important for them is exactly this,how people will see them,how they look, demonstration of prosperity, luxurious life,success...
Narcissists are the reasons why I totally admire Mr Bean (played by Rowan Atkinson) so much. He's the symbolism of "better off living alone than with bad company."
Lee is really out here saving life’s. He speaks the straight up honest truth. I walked away from my ex narc this year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. My karma is not jumping into another relationship but him seeing that I’ve moved on and happy by myself without him. Sometimes being alone is the upgrade.
that's the goal
What do you mean YOUR karma???
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 I think she meant her way of dishing karma out. Or what she sees to be his Karma
'Being alone is the upgrade'...that part!
Yess he is.🙏🏽👏🏽
My ex used to call me his "happy ". One day I told him, "I can't be your happy, that is something you have within." I never understood what he meant until after that day. Literally, I was supposed to be his happiness. He was jealous of my simple happiness.
My wife is the same way.
YES. he used to say this
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Same. I was his "happy place". He never understood that happiness is inside of every person.
The same here. He gets upset whenever he sees me happy. He used the word enthusiasm. He chose me for my enthusiastic approach to Life and now he hates me for the same reason..
They are going to reap what they've sown one way or the other. However, The best feeling is when you get to the point of indifference so you are unbothered either way.
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Great attitude you have. Be blessed and be happy.
This!!!!;
I’m almost to this point.
"Let them loose you be their karma" love this one and its real...and next time you lay eyes on them you wl get a fright to see what they look like, haggard, thin, stressed, dark empty eyes, you just wanna run screaming Thank You Lord I got away 😊
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My ex is a narcissist
The pain that a narcissist leaves behind makes you want to get revenge!!! I felt like someone had died, like I was literally grieving after he treated me horribly. The narcissist that I was dealing with lost someone very close to him last year at a young age. That was the only hurt that he ever felt and I explained to him that was the same hurt and pain that you gave to me when you hurt me. So sometimes you have to let the universe get their attention and repay that hurt don't take anything in your hands just sit back and wait. Also his whole life is falling apart for as health, finances, work and his bad habits!!!
THIS!!!!!!!!
YES
This comes across as quite bitter, I’ve been in your spot but enjoying their misfortune is undignified and won’t really benefit you.
Them chasing happiness almost sounds like this quote: Wisdom has been chasing you, but you have always been faster
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I have met narcissists who love to take revenge on former friends or ex-girlfriends or exwives because they left the narc. It's my opinion that you should never take any revenge on them because it's an evil behavior. Let them do all the evil works and hurt themselves by hurting people. Live a clean life and never hurt others.
I blocked my narc last year without warning and ive started travelling and im travelling again in 2 weeks, my career is on point, i have my own place and i have wonderful friends and family... and he lives with his mother, he is 40 and has no job. Im ready for a wonderful man to come into my life, if i see my narc i will just ignore him as he watches me be happy.
When narcissists discard, they don’t care about losing that person. Actually, they see it as a blessing.
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@@MentalHealness is this true?
Narcissists want control. Most do care when they lose someone, because it means they no longer have control over them. That's why they still want you back after you left, even though they found a new supply!
Hmmm, this gives me something to think about. I was raised by a narcissist and they are very good at what they do. I feel they are miserable when you walk away because they thrive off of making us miserable.
@@j0dilynn234 he discarded me and our son, and as I am going finally to accept divorce, he shows the whole world is the best thing that can happen to him. It’s been 5 years of hell, he just pushed me to leave. I cant take it anymore. I feel he’s finally beaten.
💯 Narcissists "will"
SELF-destruct!
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Narcissist always sabotage themselves eventually none of their relationships or anything they’re strive to do whatever work out. My ex-husband is now facing his third strike and I really and truly believe he wouldn’t have it any other way. He’s somebody that’s always sabotage himself just so he could blame others he has always been his karma and his worst enemy.
Like Lee, I’m also in therapy for NPD and I can honestly say.. I was so miserable before. Nothing fulfilled me, I didn’t trust or love anyone.. I just bulldozed my way through life without forming any meaningful connections or experiencing true happiness. In the last year I can honestly say I’ve been tapping into my self-esteem and rebuilding myself as a person. Thanks for the video and reminder of how gruesome that life was.
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He is so right. Sometimes a person's karma is being themselves. A narcissists karma can be the fact that they refuse to take accountability for their actions. As long as a person refuses to be accountable they can't change because they don't see where they need to change, or they refuse to do what it takes to change.
Yep
They face huge Karma when they get old and ill. It seemed to me the nurses pick up their attitude very quickly, and do not pay attention to all their nonsense
Haha yes!
True. They are literally left to their own devices. I've seen it. After all the usual tactics don't work they turn into a little kid - fake tears and sorrowful little girl/boy voices.
Meanwhile you can see the undeniable look of manipulation in their eyes .. 😅
They usually die alone, getting worse with age, all bridges burned, all patience lost. Nobody can stand them, they have no friends, family cut all contact.
I just left one but the trauma bond is so strong I am struggling but I know he is a dangerous man
At the end of the day I'm still healing I'm not in no relationship I'm in a relationship with myself. Peace of mind loving myself.
The victim also has a terrible toile finding happiness also, because of the trauma inflicted on us!!!
@Gigi Garcia
That was a sadistic facade/game that you didn't sign up for. If you made it out somewhat broken but alive, you're not the victim but the Victor!
@@marilynlvmd that’s true. I felt so much unhappiness when I was still in the dark. But now that my eyes are open, I do feel a great sense of victory. And greater happiness. It took me a while to get free.
I’m proud of the work you’ve put in on yourself and your family
He is so Awesome...Thank God For Him
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This gentleman has helped me soo much. I know how to deal with my husband. Thought I was going crazy at first but now I know what a narcissistic is. Now that I do, it's still not easy but it's easier now that I know what I'm dealing with. Thank You So much!!!
Same. I pray all the time for my daughters father to find that same courage and compassion for himself and his family. We maybe be done forever as a couple but for my daughter and his other children and my sanity lol I truly hope he gets help. He reminds me a lot of lee, what Lee is doing really is something special. It gives me hope.
God Speed
I now understand that if you do not set an intention to respect and protect your spouse, you are not inteding to fully love them. That is why the spouse of the Narc becomes collateral damage💔
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Losing me is his Karma! When I finally get to the indifference stage, I am celebrating bigly!
If you keep going back, you just give them permission to continue to abuse you. Leaving them alone hurts them so much more. Take care of yourself and live well.
i’m not saying you’re a wizard but what i am saying is that to see a narcissist with this much awareness .. beautiful man just beautiful
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It's been one week with no contact and two weeks that I have not seen my ex narcissist boyfriend --- it has been so hard I feel so lost and confused I was overly good to him for him to hurt me and discard me like I was nothing -- I wasted four years of being dedicated to that man now I am trying to get me back after all that damage he did to me. Thank you for this video it stopped my tears thank you
This is exactly me right now
They don’t deserve you. Seek God and please forgive. The Lord has the man for you ladies.
Seek the Lord Jesus Christ and He will heal you and bless you beyond your current expectations. Ask for a God-fearing man.
oh brother staying with one is lame
I'm going through this too. I almost had a panic attack at work last night just thinking about him. I feel like I don't matter after 3 yrs of loyalty and being faithful. It hurts😢
i used to hate him lots for what he said to me, so mean n harsh. i was so hurt. but after around almost 50 days no contact, one day i woke up, i felt all those shiet feelings flushed into toilet, my heart all of sudden felt so light... i aint angry anymore. i let it go. i feel better since then n hes fading away from my head slowly... every day i often go thru ma day without thinkin him. each day is getting better... now its already 61 days 👻
As a survivor be happy that you really help us folks. I am a supporter of JUSTICE. I'm 2 yrs out NO CONTACT whatsoever. I was angry for being targeted AND TOOK CLOSURE!!
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Happiness comes from within. Yes. That's why you can't achieve. It's not something you can find outside of self.
Preach....Shouting
@@baldwincynthia8455 ???
It feels like they are not getting karma by making them lose you, because they act like they don't care if you walk away, and they run off with someone else. I think that's why people get stuck. They only show their ego.
People need to realize that they’re suffering internally.
I absolutely love your sense of humor. I'm not trying to get any revenge or vengeance on any of the narcissists in my life I rather just go about my own life and don't spend any time worrying about them. I don't feel like getting arrested.🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know thats right
Lol, 😂😂😂😂
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I feel you 😂😂😂
That part
This is the stance I have taken on this. My ex did horrible things to me trying to blame my actions on why he felt alone and unloved. Now he has to live with the fact that none of the things he did or does will change his feelings of loneliness and I am no longer there for him to scapegoat.
Wow great coment thanks for sharing
Be strong 💪🙏
That is the same sh!+ that someone close to me keeps on hearing from her other half, he states " I don't like the way you treat me" over and over again at first it was questionable for her so she evaluated herself and her actions towards him but then she realized that she was just being scapegoated. What I am proud to say about how she is handling her situation is that she has gone the emotional unavailable route which has given her mental elevation above his toxic gaslighting. Hopefully soon she can just get away from him if things don't change on his end.
You're incredible for sticking with therapy and being a better you 🥰
Thank you
Your happiness is their karma.
Wow.
Awesome.
You should be proud. You got help and admitted you have a problem. I have Borderline Personality and also am in therapy and on meds. My last relationship was with a narcissist, there is no way in Hell he would every admit the things you have about NPD. He has no self awareness. You are on a great path and you have helped me more than anyone because only a narcissist can give us answers Thanks for that.
My husband has cheated numerous times, and some of those times with multiple partners. He has gone as far as taking them into our home, our room, our bed! And blamed me for it. He convinced those women that he is a victim of domestic violence. He has also said I am dying of cancer. One of them had the nerve to try to get me out of my home. Saying I was using him. He had NEVER helped make a payment, he said he bought me a vehicle. I was the one who give him a vehicle, the same vehicle he was using to see them. I truly wish he gets his Karma. Because he never felt guilt for what he did. He never has apologized.
I pitty them so traumatic for them but i cannot have them in my life now i am aware they exist good luck lee your a good guy battling this
This is my favorite video from you thus far! I’ve been so depressed realizing that people just don’t understand how miserable a narcissist is and that they are empty inside. Thank you for having the courage and strength to share your journey with those who are also trying to heal themselves and their loved ones.
stay strong
Let loosing you be their Karma. So true. You have been a beacon in the dark. Rescued so many and made us understand what we were up against.
I'm so proud of you. Not a lot of narcissists would go to therapy even if they are aware of the disorder. Keep it up.
Lee, you are hilarious 😆. This is good content for karma. While I want my narcissistic husband to get physical karma, I believe he’s getting his karma every day living in his own hell. They are constantly chasing some high of new relationships and get bored with relationships that are stagnant. My husband cheated on me with another married woman and that I’m positive is a narcissist herself. Let the battle of the narcissists begin. He’ll regret losing me but I won’t be there when he Hoovers because the old me isn’t there anymore
Narcissist are basically the coleric temperament. Most people enable their behavior. You have to forgive and let the world see their nature.
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They call u mean when you stop putting up with their bs
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It sounds as if narcissists do not incorporate gratitude and this is why they are always looking for happiness. I'm wondering if they can just see happiness in the present moment.
i’ve heard they have emotional
impermanence or something like that. like some of em feel differently than others
Due to trauma, I myself had a lot of narcissistic behaviors. I’m not diagnosed narcissistic. I’m diagnosed with CPTST with all which also carries those behaviors and traits however, like you Lee, I have been working for six years to overcome my childhood trauma and not repeat generational cycles so you go right ahead, man I am so proud of you too. I’m proud of you for standing up and saying I have this and I have overcame this. You ain’t gotta put a word on it. You went for being a total piece of crap to probably a very, very good man father and husband don’t listen to them haters let them be your steppingstone. I don’t speak to not one person in my family. I’m all alone, but I do have my children and I’m showing them different every day at the end of the day that’s all that’s ever mattered is what they thought of me and what God thought of me I have to thank you. You have been a part of my journey for three years and I wouldn’t be where I’m at today if it wasn’t for you so don’t let them get you down, bro.
protect your peace
OMG 😮. My spouse has had over 20 jobs since I met him. He literally quit a job late September and quit law enforcement because all the cops were dumb, started orientation at a new job early October and quit. Now he is back at the job he quit with the stupid Cops. He had to go through getting reinstated again!!! He does this like at least twice a year.
This makes my head spin!
I have been with the same employer over 20 years. I can’t imagine. I am a very successful professional.
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My ex husband is a cop. He changes jobs within the police force every few years and he is extremely dumb. 😂 lol
@@elizabeth6918 😂😂😂
@elizabeth6918 my father was a police officer my entire life and was fired early this year because he threatened the lives of me and my family in a drunken rage. He goes around now claiming he retired and plans to remarry to someone close in age to my oldest sister. However, when he was fired, he was put in jail AND a behavioral unit with charges made by my current state of DV. His lies are currently falling apart due to the fact that those close to him are now speaking out about their experiences with him to us.
My ex was at a job over 20 years.... so maybe there are patterns but they don't all fulfill all of them because they definitely had the other narcissistic traits.
The unhappiness comes from chasing and desiring.
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"I am a huge supporter of vengeance " I like that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I just got discarded by a narc only to meet another narc WTH? So i quickly blocked the new narc after noticing love bombing and possessiveness in 2 days. Blocked him and he literally called me at 4am from google meets. i have only known this man 3 days. Why am i attracting these narcs!!!
Another great informative video!! Thank You 😊. It's disgusting that some refer to you as anything but a good hearted individual who not only is leveling up himself and bettering himself everyday, but has the heart to reach out and empower others! I see you Lee! God Loves you.🙏
You are so welcome!
2 weeks no contact! The first week was hard, but now I get flashbacks of all the red flags I ignored. I am a catch, and I can't wait to find a man who doesn't love-bomb but just loves ❤
You have a true gift of explaining things so that a non narcissist can understand. You’re an amazing teacher.
It breaks my heart that your life is that way, that happiness eludes you. I'm proud of you for doing the hard work. 5 years is awesome.
Constant happiness is like eating your favorite food every day. That’s why you can never catch it. You get bored of it.
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@@MentalHealness Right. 😂
Your perception of happiness is what prevents you from achieving it....
I really enjoyed this video. I also think the #3 way they get their karma is the holes they dig for themselves. Sometimes they underestimate others so much that they continue their behavior and self destruct.
You can never find happiness in the same thing or person twice... wow. This explains so much and honestly releases me from a lot of shame.
Yes let’s move out the way and let them get their karma on they own
Straight there
Once you get out the way, God will get them. And the new supply will go thru the karma with their behind
"I'm a HUUGE supporter of vengeance. Don't be like me."😂😂😂❤ You aren't alone in this sentiment lmaoo😂😂😂😂❤❤
❤❤❤THIS IS SPOT ON!!!! I know a MILLIONAIRE who is 63 yrs old and is STILL NOT HAPPY!!! Literally a self made MILLIONAIRE!!! Runs to the casino every chance he gets....still not happy
sounds about right
you described "looking outside of yourself" to attain happiness - it comes from within.
My ex husband at the time said that to me one night while I was doing dishes and he sat at the table and said.."Thank You For Letting Me Be Me"...I said you're welcome boo...Everybody should be themselves...Then 6 yrs into the marriage...I found out what he actually meant😝
Lol. Same here! He said it so many times, just to turn around in our 8th year of marriage and say that he has been pretending to be someone else all these years for my sake. Smh
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@@stephthecreative6312 During the discard, mine said to me, “I can’t lie to you anymore. I was just telling you what you wanted to hear.”
@@PrettyShrinkMALMFT Unbelievable!
my ex told me that his days are great knowing that I’m miserable😩🤦🏽♀️ but honestly I’ve never felt better
I was told by a narcissist “I’m sick and tired of everyone else putting my happiness on their back burner” that blew my mind! It’s no one else’s problem to try making u happy…u have to decide for urself if u want to be happy or not…u chose to not be happy so again it’s no one else’s problem lol…so more or less, a narcissist is unable to feel happiness…or have happiness confused with some other emotion. Why aren’t u happy with anything?
Can you say this LOUDER😅😂
My Ex who suffers from Bi Polar & low self esteem. Broke up many times in 17 mos. She said to me a few weeks ago, It's always you who brings us back together, and I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH for that. I imagine
she is expecting it this time. I will do my best in NC.
God doesnt make mistakes, Narcissists exist for a reason and are people not demons. Just not a person to be in an empathetic relationship. My ex is loved by many, They enjoy his company. They even understand he hustles people and lies etc. But as his partner I was gaslit, manipulated, triangulated, used, lied to and taken advantage of to the point of abuse. and yes he is hoovering but only because he misses what I gave him ...Ill never go back. TY Lee
Lee, i thank you for sharing with us. I have a Narcissistic son. I've had to pull away from him on ALL LEVELS for my sake. At 64, I'm running out of time. He's actually with a much more manipulative Narcissist than he is. When he was about 42, i pulled back and watched her play the hell out of him. She jumped on his view of me, (interesting they thought all my actions were for the reasons they would do anything). She hates that i saw through her from the beginning. I can all too easily see his future, a very sad, lonely man. 😔😟. I can nolonger have contact with him, be his therapist, but have thought to send him the lifeline of other self-reflective "therapists." Weither he grabs these lines, is up to him. I will be sending him your videos, as well as other videos. I know he may see this as not letting go, but actually i am. Signed, Dave's mom.
I feel your pain. My son is a 40 year old narc. There's an especially gut wrenching pain when it comes from your own child. It would literally make me double over from the emotional trauma he inflicted. No contact for two years, my decision.
“I want them to go to Hell!”😂😅Whew!
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😅! Kinda! .. but not really lol 🤭
You should be proud of how far you have come Lee, but also of how you are tapping into the awareness and doing something valuable with that, and altering your own course and destiny. I am nearly 60 now and have seen it all play out with others who were not smart enough to confront truth and they end up angry that by age 40 they can't convince a woman with dignity and self-respect to even say yes to a date because what they have have made of themselves is to become 'that guy' with 3 or 4 different baby momas and it would just make her look like a fool being with a man with a string of families and a bigger fool to be the 5th baby moma, and that is the end of the road because not even a woman from a poor country with few options is willing to make that selection.
Thank you for this validating video. I love “let losing you be their karma.” I take this also to mean that cultivating self-love (the lack of which is often times the reason we attract a narc and/or stay with one) and thriving, and then the narc seeing it is how karma affects them. This has been the case with my narc ex wife. Thank you for the work you do here on YT!
you’re welcome
Karma is having my soon to be ex narcissist ending up with his new supply who is also a narcissist and one day hearing how the relationship imploded.
That's real talk you know just being away from a narcissist and being by myself it's such a blessing for me that I don't have to be bothered with that anymore and I love my life and I love who I am today
After my narcissist tried to unlive me, I regained my energy and my strength to leave him...1year no contact, no communication, he's getting his karma.
protect your peace
"Don't try to force karma on them" 💚💙💜
Its the hardest not to I believe in karma
Who done u wrong will get there's it's not in our timing
WOW, this video is much older than my problems, here, in 2023!!!!!! I watched this, just in the nick of time!!!!!!!!! A big THANK YOU!!!!!!!!
Narcissists are easily bored . They need to be preoccupied with something & in an activity with people around them.
For narcissists that are not big earners & too toxic to have lots of friends, they will always be hot tempered because of boredom. That will be emotionally draining for them .
Another thing, because of the narcissists chronic boredom which makes them feel emptiness , they tend to have addiction of some sort to relieve their boredom . That will be either or more of these : alcoholism , chain smoking , illegal substance such as meth , weeds , cocaine ,
gambling , womanizing, porn , voyeurism , shop a holic even becoming hoarders .
That can make them bankrupt / financially strapped , physically sick & suffer more mental illness.
That is how victims of narcissists eventually will eventually get their revenge.... when the narcs own recklessness will make them physically ill.
They exhaust themselves.
Narcissists love to traumatize others.
But they are just hurting themselves.
We can't give people their karma ,that's revenge ! You can be someone's karma but can't give them karma.
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That makes a lot of sense. It's like a pervasive unhappiness, always chasing a high that's never enough!
I have forgiven all the narcs that have hurt me or tried to hurt me.
Just like i was ignorant of my self they maybe unaware of them selves.
Im on purpose with my healing my growth.
Thank you brother,
Yes be pround, of ur self, brother,
I am pround of my hard inner work, since 2014. I just discovered im an HSP.
We gotta lead by example
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I been listeneing to you now for about two weeks, at first, i have to admit I hated the things you were telling us survors and thrivers, but then i started to believe your words and personal insight have truly helped, it is a balm to all those narcissistic effin b.s. pains i suffered and I Thank You Dear Sir, Please continue to grow your army of self awareness. I also would like to share that,, i to have some narcissistic traits and am here acknowledging it whole heartedly and am now making efforts to apologize for my actions that have hurt another. Again Thank You from bottom of my heart.
One of the most helpful videos I’ve ever watched about how to help heal the pain that a narcissist inevitably cause their significant others. Thank you Lee.
you’re welcome
Lol. You are abundantly funny!!! I Love it!!!
I used to feel bad that he always had bad luck but it was just his karma in his existence…also I love when you say you kna d meen 😄
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If I’m tired-I watch Lee-if I need to take my frustration and anger less seriously-I watch Lee. If I need to take myself less seriously in this situation despite my pain-I watch Lee! Energy-need that? Watch Lee!!! Thanks Lee!
Happiness is an inside job. It’s in your inner treasure chest. Dont look for it outside. It’s waiting to be found. ❤
Yes I have seen people inflict “karma” on people.
Then I see natural karma show up.
Lee you are absolutely correct.
Do Not inflict karma on other people.
Protect yourself from them like Lee says.
A narc will never win with somebody that is highly spiritual with Jesus !
I mentioned God to my ex, threw her into a rage 😡 of insults.
In reality they will. This is the temptation with we have to face.
Actually they don’t care since they don’t have reverence for God, they will try, maybe even a nicer challenge for them
@@bigdeneen The reason why she went into a rage because they r demons remember we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities,power,ruler of darkness of this world,and spiritual wickedness n high places people don't acknowledge that.Its sad how u pour your Love out to narcissist and they r not capable of loving u why because the devil is evil.Its nothing good about the devil he manipulates,plot,lie and try to destroy u.They has been traumatized during their childhood and they will never b committed in a relationship and nothing u do it will never b enough.
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I think the best revenge is to be happy because they are so unhappy.
I was no contact for two & a half yrs. I finally allowed him to bring my belongings to me. He saw how much Ive improved my lifestyle & I completely rejected him. Four days after that he went crazy! He started a fire on his front porch bc he saw & heard people out there. Put bedsheets in the oven & turned the oven on! Then went outside after dark in his underwear wt a baseball bat in one hand & a machete in the other chasing cars like a dog! Different driver's called 911. He was hauled off in a ambulance & kept in the phyc ward for 7 days. Soooo.....his karma? I think so...
YOU ARE THE REASON WHY I UNDERSTAND WHAT A NARCISSIS IS. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO UNDERSTAND FOR YEARS UNTIL I LISTENED TO YOU. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!
When we forget them leave them then there karma will come we might not see it but they will get it
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You're on a good part of your healing journey when you realize the worst karma a Narc can have is simply living. I go to sleep and wake up with the brightest smile knowing I got away and don't have be that person or around anyone like them. Don't try to save anyone, save yourself!
Lee, you don’t deserve mean comments because you are doing your best to change the world. You are humble about your past and truthful now.
Lee, chasing happiness is a mistake. Joy comes from choosing a life of MEANING. You are on your way to joy and miracles chasing YOU! Your karma is a life of meaning, and sharing your lessons. This will bring you happiness in the deepest places of your heart!
I did that, force the karma on them,and left him. Your right that's not going to deliver or bring his healing to him. Now I just pray for him, that God will take over and heal him of his past hurts; deliver him so that he can truly be happy and at peace like normal people
I'm very proud of you Lee! 🌸 Thank you for being so REAL...
you’re welcome