I "met" you when I was lying in a hospital bed, with covid, in November of 22. I listened to your videos for 9 days. You became a great friend. My parents were both hospitalized with me. Dad didn't make it out. My mom came to recover with me for 2 weeks before she got secondary pneumonia and passed away. Three weeks after my dad. I hurt for you when you lost your dad. I have prayed for you when you went "missing" or looked "off." I have POTS and other autoimmune issues and understand and can empathize with you. Some days, or weeks, are just off. I can't name it, but I can feel that things aren't "right." I've learned to accept that and I give myself grace now during those periods. I hope that if you haven't already that you will do the same soon. We spend our youth beating ourselves up. At this stage of life, we should be enjoying who we are. Thank you for keeping me company when I was afraid I was dying. For when I was grieving the loss of my parents. For ALL the days that I don't feel right and just can't bother moving around. Please remember that you are in my prayers. Maybe some time when you aren't doing great, you'll remember that you have a friend out here that is praying for you. I know that I am not the only one. There is an army of us, I'm sure. God bless you 💖💖💖
I'm so sorry for your terrible losses. It is horrible that you lost both parents within 3 weeks. They had to have been great parents because they raised an empathetic daughter who tries to help others. God bless you and yours.
You look amazing! Everyone I know that has had the weight loss surgery says they would do it in a heartbeat. I wish I had the money to do that! I’m morbidly obese and trying to do it with diet and exercise. Wish me luck! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I hope you have a fantastic new year!
I could relate to much of what you discussed here about weight and self-esteem. You have been through so much...now I hope you can truly enjoy your new life! You have been so brave! Nothing was going to stop you. It's funny though...when you showed your pictures throughout the years...you were always beautiful. Always pretty with a kind expression. I know burnout my friend. I also know what it's like to take on the sorrows of our subscribers. It changes us forever. A very Merry Christmas to you and yours sweet one, Susan & Desi
Thank you so much for posting and sharing your story. I wish you much continued good health here on out. I had gastric bypass surgery 2 years ago and had lost 160 pounds. I am in Canada so I did have to wait 4.5 years to get my surgery and there was quite a rigorous process (lots of hoops to jump through). I haven't lost any more weight and I need to, by about 50 pounds worth. I agree about the talk therapy, I have started doing that this year and it'll be a slow process. I ended up being divorced after 24 years and now nearly 2 decades later, I'm just starting to process and start healing. Food too was my comfort. I will be 60 in a few years and would really like to be more healthy, and more mobile (both my knees need replacing but right now I can't because of other chronic health issues) Being over 200 pounds overweight totally destroyed my knees especially. In the last six months I've started to do more self care - wanting to wear makeup to boost my spirits. I've been buying so much and lots of it doesn't work with mature skin. So I have been enjoying your videos. Today's video just really touched me and so I wanted to thank you for sharing your story. Happy Holidays to you and your loved ones!
Melissa….you’re such an inspiration! I know you’ve been through so much, but you look stunning now! You were beautiful before, but your story gives me a lot of hope. I can relate to having such weight gain and am the biggest I’ve ever been. I’m working on my health now and have taken off 18 lbs so far. I look forward to living in a body that I can be proud of. Thank you for sharing your story. 💜❤️🩷
What a wonderful way to share what all you've been through... You have been a source of strength for me as I've gone through one of the hardest years of my life. You may remember that I told you I shared fibromyalgia with you, along with psoriatic arthritis , migraines, gut issues & some follow-ons from the main condition. In February of 2024, my husband was admitted to the hospital with covid, aspirational pneumonia, and swallowing issues. After he was admitted to the hospital, I found out I had covid, which then became pneumonia, I was having some shortness of breath, but pushed it aside as stress. My husband was sent home from the hospital under hospice care on March 4 . He died on March 9. My breathing issues got worse, but I still felt like it was stress & added unbearable grief. Fast forward to November 2. I ended up in an ambulance on the way to the ER because I couldn't get enough oxygen to be able to breathe, talk, move... Anyway, I was admitted to the hospital with Acute Respiratory Failure with Hypoxia. I was sent home after 11 days, with oxygen in several formats, a salt restricted diet, fluid intake restrictions, plus follow-up visits with my pulmonologist, a new cardiologist & my primary care doc. Also lots more tests... Anyway, I am now diagnosed as having Interstitial Lung Disease, which is more than I have the strength to explain... But, the point in all this is that we often face many life-changing events, health issues, loss & grief, but we can find the strength to move forward & still have purpose in our lives. Melissa, you bring hope & encouragement to your viewers who are facing challenges in their lives. You spoke words of encouragement to me indirectly in your videos & directly to me in your replies. Thank you! In this community we can bring encouragement & support to each other in a very safe environment. Thank you, Melissa for all that you do for your viewers. You are loved & appreciated!!!
I, too, have reached 300 lbs. I’m considering Ozempic, but I know I’ll most likely gain the weight back after stopping it. I’ve become so sedentary that just walking down the driveway to my mailbox wears me out. I’m 60 and feel 80. I appreciate you being so real about your journey.
@@karenschmid5465 Could not agree more Karen~ both my husband & myself, as well as many other people we know. It's as if we're aging in reverse, in so many ways. The biggest changes & deepest healing has taken place after transitioning from keto to primarily meat based, or "carnivore". Spent years researching it all, since I just couldn't fathom not eating a "low fat/whole grain/lean protein/12 servings of veg & fruit" type diet. We'd been taught this for decades, yet it was making us sicker.What we eat really does affect every system in the body & brain. It truly does feel amazing, & wish the same for anyone & everyone else it may do the same for.Samantha in AZ
Wow! What an incredible woman you are! What a journey you have been on! We love you, Messila! It's so important to take care of you! Merry Christmas, Beautiful! ❤
Melissa, I am sorry that you are still experiencing pain due to the portal vein blockage. Prayers of healing and low pain days. Take care and thank you for always showing up with great content 💜
You hit it all ! When you’re going thru this kind of weight loss you need an array of Drs for different medical issues you may have but who are all in conjunction with you “ the patient” for your well being physically and mentally ! You are doing remarkable! I’m sure so many will gain an insight on the pros and cons of this surgery and will make good decisions based on your video ! Sending you Hugs and a very Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤Barb
I just wanna say I went to a renowned plastic surgeon from Mexico for a deep plane, face and neck lift and I couldn’t be happier. It’s all about doing your search. I have found the facilities aftercare. The whole experience is way above what you will get here in the United States. I am in 100% support of what you did.
Ah Melissa What a lovely person you are. Thank you for sharing your journey and all the challenges you’ve been through. My weight has yo-yo-ed over the years and I also have several autoimmune diseases. It’s all a bit rubbish, but staying positive and putting on a bit of makeup helps a lot. Wishing you the best in 2025 xx
You’re a very strong woman. You went through so much. Best always. Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, happy New Year. Whatever holidays anyone celebrates I wish the best to all
This video proves you never know the journeys someone goes thru! You shared such personal stories and it means so much to so many! You are a strong, beautiful woman!!❤
Melissa that must have been a very hard video to speak about. I give you so much credit. Thank you for speaking from the heart. You are an inspiration to us all. I have been with you for years & will continue as long as you are here. Love you very much.
I’ve had a tummy tuck. I was 38. I also had my post-baby boobs fixed at the same time. Not sure I’d recommend that…..but I was glad I did it. It made a world of difference to my self esteem. I think everyone should do what they want if they can afford it. Thank you for sharing your journey.
How amazing your journey has been. Funny that even with all that weight, you were still beautiful. I am so happy for you. You look absolutely amazing. HAPPY HOLIDAYS...................MINDY
I remember all this. The night you did an on the spot video loosing hair. You had back issues to. I seem to remember. Love you to. Its good to let people know that don't know. No matter your weight you are always beautiful. And yes it's fine to say but if like you , your very aware. Not easy to live with. Hey Diggy Doggies. XxX ❤❤❤🦮🐾🐾🐶🐾🐾
I remember when you were going through all this. You look amazing. All your pain and struggles have paid off. I hope this New Year brings you good health and happiness ❤
AGREE! I am currently seeing a Registered Dietitian once a month(In person -Not internet 11:32 ) so far I have lost about 30lbs with 40 more to go and having a professional person who has actually had clinicals in order to get their bachelor's/ master's degree shows me they know their stuff. A 3 week nutrition course online will not cut it , for sure get an RD. Very good advice.❤
Thanks for sharing. I have Raynaud’s, too. I had a tummy tuck May 2023. I had just turned 65. I had gained 36 lbs when pregnant- I only started at 118, so it was a lot on my small frame, but doctor wasn’t concerned. I lost it because I was a nervous wreck being a first time mom!I had the bit of extra skin though. Then I had another child 4.5 years later, gained 36 lbs again. I lost that, too. Then, 10 years ago, I had my 4th spinal surgery and recovery was tough- I was 56 then. In the 4-5 years after that, I slowly added 30-35 lbs. overindulging and not be very active. I hated it, so I cut out all the junk and started walking almost daily and I lost it over the period of a year or so. (My older male neighbor complimented me, saying he noticed how much better I looked- that was nice to hear! Those close to you don’t notice as much because they see you daily). But, I did have this loose belly skin. Not much fat, I was about 122 lbs. Saw a plastic surgeon and treated myself. The recovery was harder than the spine surgery! So tough! I had the drains for 6 weeks. I “fudged” the output numbers so they’d take it out. I regret that now, because I think my belly would have been a little flatter if I didn’t. BUT, a year and a half later, I am very pleased with the result. I told the surgeon, I just wanted to look better in clothes and I do. She said I was “the perfect candidate” with that extra belly skin. I have a cut from hip to hip, but it all healed well and my husband likes the result, too. He was very supportive.
Sweet Melissa... I believe we all have a purpose in life even if we don't know what it is. I can't say I understand the purpose of pain and suffering... and as you said no one is immune. Maybe the question is how we deal with the cards dealt us. You've shown grace..strength and beauty. Honestly your resilience is phenomenal!! May the coming year bring you and your family abundant blessings for all things good💞💕
I have heard about you weight loss journey. So sorry about all your medical issues. I admire you in so many ways and you’ve come thru. I admire your attitude and your conviction. You’re doing so well considering all that happened ❤️🎉😔
Hi Melissa I have watched you through all of this and you are a incredible women. You have always been very beautiful. My friend had the gastric bypass surgery and she did good but then she gained some weight back that caused her some health problems. With her Dr. advice she has since lost the weight now. Thank God! She was in a dangers place with her health because of gaining the weight back. You are helping so many with sharing your journey here. I love all your makeup reviews and sick care. I have learned so much from you. Thank you. Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas . 🙏♥️🎄🎁
Thank you for this update! I’ve been up against that wall this year myself. I have a very difficult time just moving. But I believe I’m getting past that, setting goals and moving toward them again. I’ve watched you as you’ve gone though all this, and am so thankful you’re coming through it! Thank you for sharing! You are a beautiful person through and through! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Oh Melissa….you are a strong lady. You have been through so much and look at you now. Talking about it helps you and others. Thanks for being strong and thank you for being here for us!! I look forward to seeing your videos. Thank you for your honesty. Wishing you and the family Happy Holidays. ❤
Thank you for your update. This community supports and loves you! I had a gastric Sleeve 2 1/2 years ago and it's been a struggle. I am finally getting to onederland, but I've had to use Mounjaro to help me. I still don't know if I'll have plastic surgery. I won't make that decision until I lose another 40lbs or so. God bless you and your story and thank you for sharing! I really look forward to watching your videos.
I think you're extraordinary. Even with diagnosed conditions, you got through all of that. You look great! God bless and Merry Christmas to you and yours.
Thank you so much for sharing this bit of information I have watched you for the last couple of years but I haven't watched you consistently on every video so some of your issues I was aware of but not all of them. I am 61 now I just turned 61 on the 15th of December and I'm experiencing so many different things I'm about the same height as you right now I'm about 2:25 I go up and down between 2:10 and 2:25 and when I had my hysterectomy back in 2013 I started developing this gut that I never ever had before and I have had a lot of physical issues with broken bones from horse accidents broken back all kinds of issues I usually have kept pretty busy but I was on prednisone and all kinds of those things that automatically make you feel better but they also make you very fat and I do have a eating disorder definitely deal with issues with comfort food so this was inspiring to hear I am so thankful that you shared I have been considering a few things to try and lose weight and get rid of this gut I have it's very massive and I'm so uncomfortable all the time and I don't want to feel like this anymore I want to be able to do things I'm going to be a grandmother for the first time in May of 25 and I want to be a good grandma I don't want to be able to keep up and enjoy my grandchildren for many years to come So I definitely want to talk to a registered dietitian and start my journey there Thank you again for sharing your journey
I’m so sorry you had to go through so many medical things. Personally, I have taken off 58 pounds. I’ve got about 11 more to go by taking a GLP1 and it has worked fabulously for me and I’m very appreciative of that. I’m not sure if I’m going be able to stay on it to maintain. I am hoping if necessary I can maintain without it because I have made serious lifestyle changes, so we will see.
I am so happy that I watched your video..I have autoimmune disorder and gut issues and had Majpr back surgery( 4 /fusions and four new disks and other issues) that I am not recovering like I hoped I would...wow thanks for all you do for us and we love to see you any time.. Stay strong God loves you and so do we.. God Bless and Merry Christmas😘😘
I have lost a lot of weight and wear the loose skin as a badge of honor and achievement. I am an older woman, way past the vanity of how I look undressed 😅😂 once dressed, I look and feel fabulous
Today (12/21) is the 3rd anniversary of my gastric sleeve surgery. I'm down 120 pounds from my heaviest weight. Weight loss surgery was life changing for me but, like you, I also struggle with the extra skin and the sagging in strange places. I'm considering a tummy tuck and lipo. Hearing your story is more information for me to consider as I figure out my next steps. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.
You know I know...😔 been through it all... including new diagnoses on the regular.💜 I am thankful for every day I awake to a new day!😊🌅🙏🏻 And when I tell you that I love you, I truly do. You'll forever have a special place in my heart. 🩷🎀🫶🏼🎀🩷 Bypass Sisters 4 Life!💛💪🏻 Merry Christmas shug!🎅🎄🎁💄💋 I hope you, Bill & your family stay blessed, Melissa!🙌🏻
Hi Melissa Life can sure throw a lot at us and you are very courageous . One of the things is it shows how resilient we are but there are times we hit a wall and that resonates with me for sure. During this season of my healing one thing that helped me is to sit with where I am and what I’m feeling. As women we try to gloss over it tell ourselves we have to be strong or move on but I stopped doing that. I sit with how I am and allow to feel it and not shame myself into feeling better or snap out of it. Of course ar some point we don’t want it to debilitate us but for me I notice I naturally work through flow with it and it dissipates on its own . I guess what I’m saying is we can only take so much before we hit that wall but it’s ok because it slows us down . Take care of you ❤️
I too had the RNY GB in 2003 30 yrs old I was 405lbs at my largest, I did plateau at about 225 until I got pregnant 2009 I lost weight during pregnancy to 215 then gave birth and lost more weight 154 was my smallest then in 2017 I had knee replacement caught a serious bone infection had a total of 7 surgeries both knees and now I'm at 260, I'm unable to ambulate properly even though I finally beat the infection which took 3 years, I also would do the surgery all over again even though I still have problems with dumping syndrome it's not as bad as it once was but for once in my life for a short period of time I was a normal size wearing what ever I wanted, it's was wonderful, I know what flabby skin is like I just couldn't afford cosmetic surgery I was a single working mother but it just wasn't possible. You are beautiful Melissa thanks for sharing your experiences. You are a very strong woman. 😊
You have always been a beautiful lady, at every age and weight, Melissa. Life is certainly a journey 💓.....I had a tummy tuck at age 40 (I am now 64) to repair my abdominal wall separation and loose skin that was a result of carrying ginormous 7 and 7 1/2 lb. twins at age 21 and two C-sections. Recovery was rough but the results were excellent. I would do it again in a heartbeat. We owe it to ourselves to take care of both our bodies and our souls. You are looking so healthy and happy, my friend, and I am honored to be a part of your community of lovely ladies 💞
I love anything y'all share & I'm hoping that your health is in top form in 2025! 🥰 Merry Christmas my dear! edit: I also have Fibromyalgia & Raynaud's. I get it! I keep gloves in my car & make sure to wear them all wintertime. I was diagnosed with both in 1992 but know I suffered for years before a doc diagnosed them. I also suffer from Barrett's Esophagus so have to get my throat dilated every few years. One Dr. trashed my singing voice years ago around 2015 but I think I've told y'all that before. 🤠
Melissa, it’s impressive everything you’ve been through-truly admirable! Thank God you’re doing perfectly now, and the most amazing thing is how gorgeous you look. ♥️♥️♥️♥️ I want to get a bypass, but I’m very scared. I don’t have extreme excess weight, but for my build and height, I am more than 40 kg over, almost 100 lbs😬😬😬😬 I’d love it if you could share the name of the doctor in Mexico and the one in the United States. I’m currently in Mexico 🇲🇽, but I have no problem moving around since I’m a U.S. resident. I handle most of my things in El Paso, TX, and I could easily travel within the United States. I admire you so much; you look beautiful, and I thank God for your amazing recovery. P.S. I don’t miss a single one of your videos-I love them! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😘😘
You have always been beautiful. You did what you thought you needed to do for your physical and mental health. Thank you for sharing and congratulations. I think now with drugs like Ozempic, so many people are going to be able to achieve a healthy weight without surgery like before. Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family. ❤
Greetings Melissa! I'm so glad you made it through everything safely. Do you still have the blood clot? I have lots of issues to, but I haven't had such major surgery on top of them. I hope 2025 brings you renewal and healing! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
Thank you so much for this video Melissa. Love you and whatever you post. Miss those sayings at the end of your videos though. Merry Christmas to you and yours. Questions: would anyone losing roughly 100 pounds have a saggy sick problem or is it only if you lose it quickly? Can you lose 100 pounds and not have saggy sink?
I use the analogy of a balloon being blown up. Once the air is gone out, it doesn't return to its previous size. But a lot has to do with personal genetics & the elasticity of your skin.
Melissa, you were always a beautiful woman. Today, you are just stunning! Love everything you're wearing; that blouse is lovely and flatters your complexion so well. My late father in law had gastic bypass decades agoand now, my son's girlfriend who has a lot of health issues including stage 4 heart failure, is supposedly having gastric surgery in February. It worries me a bit, to be honest, in her condition. ~Cynthia
Did you have falls with POTS? My primary care physician is sending me to a neurologist for some tests to find out why I fall. I don't lose consciousness, I don't see "stars". Would the neurologist be the one to give me the tilt table test? I've got endometriosis, fibromyalgia and chronic pain.💜💜💜 Love you sweetie. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!
I "met" you when I was lying in a hospital bed, with covid, in November of 22. I listened to your videos for 9 days. You became a great friend. My parents were both hospitalized with me. Dad didn't make it out. My mom came to recover with me for 2 weeks before she got secondary pneumonia and passed away. Three weeks after my dad. I hurt for you when you lost your dad. I have prayed for you when you went "missing" or looked "off." I have POTS and other autoimmune issues and understand and can empathize with you. Some days, or weeks, are just off. I can't name it, but I can feel that things aren't "right." I've learned to accept that and I give myself grace now during those periods. I hope that if you haven't already that you will do the same soon. We spend our youth beating ourselves up. At this stage of life, we should be enjoying who we are. Thank you for keeping me company when I was afraid I was dying. For when I was grieving the loss of my parents. For ALL the days that I don't feel right and just can't bother moving around. Please remember that you are in my prayers. Maybe some time when you aren't doing great, you'll remember that you have a friend out here that is praying for you. I know that I am not the only one. There is an army of us, I'm sure. God bless you 💖💖💖
I'm so very sorry about your parents Tamara. I'm so happy you're here with us 💛
What a touching post! All the best to you!
I'm so sorry for your terrible losses. It is horrible that you lost both parents within 3 weeks. They had to have been great parents because they raised an empathetic daughter who tries to help others. God bless you and yours.
Ooooh my heart. What a touching comment 🫶🙏🏻🥰
You look amazing! Everyone I know that has had the weight loss surgery says they would do it in a heartbeat. I wish I had the money to do that! I’m morbidly obese and trying to do it with diet and exercise. Wish me luck! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I hope you have a fantastic new year!
I could relate to much of what you discussed here about weight and self-esteem. You have been through so much...now I hope you can truly enjoy your new life! You have been so brave! Nothing was going to stop you. It's funny though...when you showed your pictures throughout the years...you were always beautiful. Always pretty with a kind expression. I know burnout my friend. I also know what it's like to take on the sorrows of our subscribers. It changes us forever. A very Merry Christmas to you and yours sweet one, Susan & Desi
Thanks for your sweet support Susan! 💖
I'm just happy tht you got through it all with flying colors and you look gorgeous!!
Thank you so much for posting and sharing your story. I wish you much continued good health here on out. I had gastric bypass surgery 2 years ago and had lost 160 pounds. I am in Canada so I did have to wait 4.5 years to get my surgery and there was quite a rigorous process (lots of hoops to jump through). I haven't lost any more weight and I need to, by about 50 pounds worth. I agree about the talk therapy, I have started doing that this year and it'll be a slow process. I ended up being divorced after 24 years and now nearly 2 decades later, I'm just starting to process and start healing. Food too was my comfort. I will be 60 in a few years and would really like to be more healthy, and more mobile (both my knees need replacing but right now I can't because of other chronic health issues) Being over 200 pounds overweight totally destroyed my knees especially. In the last six months I've started to do more self care - wanting to wear makeup to boost my spirits. I've been buying so much and lots of it doesn't work with mature skin. So I have been enjoying your videos. Today's video just really touched me and so I wanted to thank you for sharing your story. Happy Holidays to you and your loved ones!
Congratulations on such tremendous success sweetie 😘
Melissa….you’re such an inspiration! I know you’ve been through so much, but you look stunning now! You were beautiful before, but your story gives me a lot of hope. I can relate to having such weight gain and am the biggest I’ve ever been. I’m working on my health now and have taken off 18 lbs so far. I look forward to living in a body that I can be proud of. Thank you for sharing your story. 💜❤️🩷
That's wonderful Donna! Congrats 👏
What a wonderful way to share what all you've been through... You have been a source of strength for me as I've gone through one of the hardest years of my life. You may remember that I told you I shared fibromyalgia with you, along with psoriatic arthritis , migraines, gut issues & some follow-ons from the main condition. In February of 2024, my husband was admitted to the hospital with covid, aspirational pneumonia, and swallowing issues. After he was admitted to the hospital, I found out I had covid, which then became pneumonia, I was having some shortness of breath, but pushed it aside as stress. My husband was sent home from the hospital under hospice care on March 4 . He died on March 9. My breathing issues got worse, but I still felt like it was stress & added unbearable grief. Fast forward to November 2. I ended up in an ambulance on the way to the ER because I couldn't get enough oxygen to be able to breathe, talk, move... Anyway, I was admitted to the hospital with Acute Respiratory Failure with Hypoxia. I was sent home after 11 days, with oxygen in several formats, a salt restricted diet, fluid intake restrictions, plus follow-up visits with my pulmonologist, a new cardiologist & my primary care doc. Also lots more tests... Anyway, I am now diagnosed as having Interstitial Lung Disease, which is more than I have the strength to explain... But, the point in all this is that we often face many life-changing events, health issues, loss & grief, but we can find the strength to move forward & still have purpose in our lives. Melissa, you bring hope & encouragement to your viewers who are facing challenges in their lives. You spoke words of encouragement to me indirectly in your videos & directly to me in your replies. Thank you! In this community we can bring encouragement & support to each other in a very safe environment. Thank you, Melissa for all that you do for your viewers. You are loved & appreciated!!!
Thank you so much for sharing Melissa. Wishing you good health for 2025💕💕
thanks for being vulnerable and sharing this story. so many of us are dealing with these things or similar issues. Nice to know we are a community.
I, too, have reached 300 lbs. I’m considering Ozempic, but I know I’ll most likely gain the weight back after stopping it. I’ve become so sedentary that just walking down the driveway to my mailbox wears me out. I’m 60 and feel 80. I appreciate you being so real about your journey.
My dear friend, I hope you will think about going keto/carnivore. It changes everything. God bless you!
@@karenschmid5465 Could not agree more Karen~ both my husband & myself, as well as many other people we know. It's as if we're aging in reverse, in so many ways. The biggest changes & deepest healing has taken place after transitioning from keto to primarily meat based, or "carnivore". Spent years researching it all, since I just couldn't fathom not eating a "low fat/whole grain/lean protein/12 servings of veg & fruit" type diet. We'd been taught this for decades, yet it was making us sicker.What we eat really does affect every system in the body & brain. It truly does feel amazing, & wish the same for anyone & everyone else it may do the same for.Samantha in AZ
Wow! What an incredible woman you are! What a journey you have been on! We love you, Messila! It's so important to take care of you!
Merry Christmas, Beautiful! ❤
Melissa, I am sorry that you are still experiencing pain due to the portal vein blockage. Prayers of healing and low pain days. Take care and thank you for always showing up with great content 💜
You hit it all ! When you’re going thru this kind of weight loss you need an array of Drs for different medical issues you may have but who are all in conjunction with you “ the patient” for your well being physically and mentally ! You are doing remarkable! I’m sure so many will gain an insight on the pros and cons of this surgery and will make good decisions based on your video ! Sending you Hugs and a very Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤Barb
You are an inspiration and a strong woman. Keep on staying strong.
Melissa, you have been through the mill.
Wow.. Your honesty and sincerity touches me every time. Thank you this was so helpful.
I just wanna say I went to a renowned plastic surgeon from Mexico for a deep plane, face and neck lift and I couldn’t be happier. It’s all about doing your search. I have found the facilities aftercare. The whole experience is way above what you will get here in the United States. I am in 100% support of what you did.
Thank you for sharing your story with honesty and compassion.
Ah Melissa
What a lovely person you are. Thank you for sharing your journey and all the challenges you’ve been through. My weight has yo-yo-ed over the years and I also have several autoimmune diseases. It’s all a bit rubbish, but staying positive and putting on a bit of makeup helps a lot. Wishing you the best in 2025 xx
Take care of yourself beautiful lady❤
Melissa - you are so brave, thank you for sharing. ❤
You’re a very strong woman. You went through so much. Best always. Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, happy New Year. Whatever holidays anyone celebrates I wish the best to all
Amazing video, that's for sharing. We all love you, beautiful lady ❤
This video proves you never know the journeys someone goes thru! You shared such personal stories and it means so much to so many! You are a strong, beautiful woman!!❤
Melissa that must have been a very hard video to speak about. I give you so much credit. Thank you for speaking from the heart. You are an inspiration to us all. I have been with you for years & will continue as long as you are here. Love you very much.
You are such a strong woman and I admire you greatly I love you and I asked the Lord to continue to watch over you God bless you
I’ve had a tummy tuck. I was 38. I also had my post-baby boobs fixed at the same time. Not sure I’d recommend that…..but I was glad I did it. It made a world of difference to my self esteem. I think everyone should do what they want if they can afford it. Thank you for sharing your journey.
How amazing your journey has been. Funny that even with all that weight, you were still beautiful. I am so happy for you. You look absolutely amazing. HAPPY HOLIDAYS...................MINDY
I remember all this. The night you did an on the spot video loosing hair. You had back issues to. I seem to remember. Love you to. Its good to let people know that don't know. No matter your weight you are always beautiful. And yes it's fine to say but if like you , your very aware. Not easy to live with. Hey Diggy Doggies. XxX ❤❤❤🦮🐾🐾🐶🐾🐾
I remember when you were going through all this. You look amazing. All your pain and struggles have paid off. I hope this New Year brings you good health and happiness ❤
AGREE! I am currently seeing a Registered Dietitian once a month(In person -Not internet 11:32 ) so far I have lost about 30lbs with 40 more to go and having a professional person who has actually had clinicals in order to get their bachelor's/ master's degree shows me they know their stuff. A 3 week nutrition course online will not cut it , for sure get an RD. Very good advice.❤
As an RD with a Master’s degree: thank you for your support
Thank you Melissa for being vulnerable and for sharing your weight loss journey. Wishing you strength and health. Greetings from London 🇬🇧💜🔮🌺
Have a blessed Christmas, know you are in my prayers for health and strength as you continue on your wellness journey MrsMelissa❤🙏🏼.
Thanks for sharing. I have Raynaud’s, too. I had a tummy tuck May 2023. I had just turned 65. I had gained 36 lbs when pregnant- I only started at 118, so it was a lot on my small frame, but doctor wasn’t concerned. I lost it because I was a nervous wreck being a first time mom!I had the bit of extra skin though. Then I had another child 4.5 years later, gained 36 lbs again. I lost that, too. Then, 10 years ago, I had my 4th spinal surgery and recovery was tough- I was 56 then. In the 4-5 years after that, I slowly added 30-35 lbs. overindulging and not be very active. I hated it, so I cut out all the junk and started walking almost daily and I lost it over the period of a year or so. (My older male neighbor complimented me, saying he noticed how much better I looked- that was nice to hear! Those close to you don’t notice as much because they see you daily). But, I did have this loose belly skin. Not much fat, I was about 122 lbs. Saw a plastic surgeon and treated myself. The recovery was harder than the spine surgery! So tough! I had the drains for 6 weeks. I “fudged” the output numbers so they’d take it out. I regret that now, because I think my belly would have been a little flatter if I didn’t. BUT, a year and a half later, I am very pleased with the result. I told the surgeon, I just wanted to look better in clothes and I do. She said I was “the perfect candidate” with that extra belly skin. I have a cut from hip to hip, but it all healed well and my husband likes the result, too. He was very supportive.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience Janet. Congratulations 🎊
Sweet Melissa... I believe we all have a purpose in life even if we don't know what it is. I can't say I understand the purpose of pain and suffering... and as you said no one is immune. Maybe the question is how we deal with the cards dealt us. You've shown grace..strength and beauty. Honestly your resilience is phenomenal!! May the coming year bring you and your family abundant blessings for all things good💞💕
I have heard about you weight loss journey. So sorry about all your medical issues. I admire you in so many ways and you’ve come thru. I admire your attitude and your conviction. You’re doing so well considering all that happened ❤️🎉😔
Hi Melissa I have watched you through all of this and you are a incredible women. You have always been very beautiful. My friend had the gastric bypass surgery and she did good but then she gained some weight back that caused her some health problems. With her Dr. advice she has since lost the weight now. Thank God! She was in a dangers place with her health because of gaining the weight back. You are helping so many with sharing your journey here. I love all your makeup reviews and sick care. I have learned so much from you. Thank you. Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas . 🙏♥️🎄🎁
Thank you for this update! I’ve been up against that wall this year myself. I have a very difficult time just moving. But I believe I’m getting past that, setting goals and moving toward them again. I’ve watched you as you’ve gone though all this, and am so thankful you’re coming through it! Thank you for sharing! You are a beautiful person through and through!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Thank you for sharing. Looking pretty today. Merry Christmas to you and yours 🎄❤️
Oh Melissa….you are a strong lady. You have been through so much and look at you now. Talking about it helps you and others. Thanks for being strong and thank you for being here for us!! I look forward to seeing your videos. Thank you for your honesty. Wishing you and the family Happy Holidays. ❤
Thank you for your update. This community supports and loves you! I had a gastric Sleeve 2 1/2 years ago and it's been a struggle. I am finally getting to onederland, but I've had to use Mounjaro to help me. I still don't know if I'll have plastic surgery. I won't make that decision until I lose another 40lbs or so. God bless you and your story and thank you for sharing! I really look forward to watching your videos.
Thanks for sharing.
I appreciate you !
Thank you for speaking so openly about your experiences.
I love you and your channel ❤️. Take a break, and come back when you are ready. 🎉
Merry Christmas, enjoy your good life. ❤️
I really enjoyed this. I appreciate your transparency and educational insight. ❤
❤ YOU are amazing and brave and please be kind to yourself. We'll be here when you are more yourself. Merry Christmas dear Melissa
I think you're extraordinary. Even with diagnosed conditions, you got through all of that. You look great! God bless and Merry Christmas to you and yours.
Thank you so much for sharing this bit of information I have watched you for the last couple of years but I haven't watched you consistently on every video so some of your issues I was aware of but not all of them. I am 61 now I just turned 61 on the 15th of December and I'm experiencing so many different things I'm about the same height as you right now I'm about 2:25 I go up and down between 2:10 and 2:25 and when I had my hysterectomy back in 2013 I started developing this gut that I never ever had before and I have had a lot of physical issues with broken bones from horse accidents broken back all kinds of issues I usually have kept pretty busy but I was on prednisone and all kinds of those things that automatically make you feel better but they also make you very fat and I do have a eating disorder definitely deal with issues with comfort food so this was inspiring to hear I am so thankful that you shared I have been considering a few things to try and lose weight and get rid of this gut I have it's very massive and I'm so uncomfortable all the time and I don't want to feel like this anymore I want to be able to do things I'm going to be a grandmother for the first time in May of 25 and I want to be a good grandma I don't want to be able to keep up and enjoy my grandchildren for many years to come So I definitely want to talk to a registered dietitian and start my journey there Thank you again for sharing your journey
Thank you for the update on your health. We all care about you and wish for a wonderful 2025 for our Melissa!
I’m so sorry you had to go through so many medical things. Personally, I have taken off 58 pounds. I’ve got about 11 more to go by taking a GLP1 and it has worked fabulously for me and I’m very appreciative of that. I’m not sure if I’m going be able to stay on it to maintain. I am hoping if necessary I can maintain without it because I have made serious lifestyle changes, so we will see.
Melissa, sending you much love and the very best wishes for a Merry Christmas. 🎄 🙏
Thank you for talking about this very helpful.
I am so happy that I watched your video..I have autoimmune disorder and gut issues and had Majpr back surgery( 4 /fusions and four new disks and other issues) that I am not recovering like I hoped I would...wow thanks for all you do for us and we love to see you any time.. Stay strong God loves you and so do we.. God Bless and Merry Christmas😘😘
Wishing you comfort & hoping for your recovery Sylvia.
💝Thank you so much for sharing your personal journey. It makes a difference.
Melissa, you have always been beautiful. ❤Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your story!
I have lost a lot of weight and wear the loose skin as a badge of honor and achievement. I am an older woman, way past the vanity of how I look undressed 😅😂 once dressed, I look and feel fabulous
Exactly what age does your vanity go out the window?
@ when you feel confident with yourself🥰
@@peggyfitzmaurice4100 if you were “way past vanity”, when was that point in your weight loss journey? And I’m asking in all sincerity
@@rree4551 When I could fit in a size I hadn’t seen in over 40 years
You are an inspiration! Merry Christmas to you and your family! Love ya!
Thank you for sharing your story.
Love watching your videos. Keep your sites high. You arexamazing. Merry Christmas from Northern Ireland. 😘😘
Melissa, thank you for sharing your amazing but tough journey. I love your videos and makeup reviews. Wishing you the happiest of holidays!❤️
Today (12/21) is the 3rd anniversary of my gastric sleeve surgery. I'm down 120 pounds from my heaviest weight. Weight loss surgery was life changing for me but, like you, I also struggle with the extra skin and the sagging in strange places. I'm considering a tummy tuck and lipo. Hearing your story is more information for me to consider as I figure out my next steps. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.
Congratulations! Wishing you wonderful success on your journey.
May God bless you Melissa! ❤
You know I know...😔 been through it all... including new diagnoses on the regular.💜 I am thankful for every day I awake to a new day!😊🌅🙏🏻 And when I tell you that I love you, I truly do. You'll forever have a special place in my heart. 🩷🎀🫶🏼🎀🩷 Bypass Sisters 4 Life!💛💪🏻 Merry Christmas shug!🎅🎄🎁💄💋 I hope you, Bill & your family stay blessed, Melissa!🙌🏻
Yes you are!
My takeaway today is that I need to deal with emotions before they become health diagnoses. Overeating is not my friend. ❤
💯 yes Jessa!
Thanks for sharing your story. Sending love best wishes and season's greetings 💕🌲
Hi Melissa Life can sure throw a lot at us and you are very courageous . One of the things is it shows how resilient we are but there are times we hit a wall and that resonates with me for sure. During this season of my healing one thing that helped me is to sit with where I am and what I’m feeling. As women we try to gloss over it tell ourselves we have to be strong or move on but I stopped doing that. I sit with how I am and allow to feel it and not shame myself into feeling better or snap out of it. Of course ar some point we don’t want it to debilitate us but for me I notice I naturally work through flow with it and it dissipates on its own . I guess what I’m saying is we can only take so much before we hit that wall but it’s ok because it slows us down . Take care of you ❤️
Wonderful advice Nancy. I agree totally!
Thank you for sharing your story, Melissa. God bless you and Merry Christmas! Wishing you health and wholeness in 2025! ❤
I too had the RNY GB in 2003 30 yrs old I was 405lbs at my largest, I did plateau at about 225 until I got pregnant 2009 I lost weight during pregnancy to 215 then gave birth and lost more weight 154 was my smallest then in 2017 I had knee replacement caught a serious bone infection had a total of 7 surgeries both knees and now I'm at 260, I'm unable to ambulate properly even though I finally beat the infection which took 3 years, I also would do the surgery all over again even though I still have problems with dumping syndrome it's not as bad as it once was but for once in my life for a short period of time I was a normal size wearing what ever I wanted, it's was wonderful, I know what flabby skin is like I just couldn't afford cosmetic surgery I was a single working mother but it just wasn't possible. You are beautiful Melissa thanks for sharing your experiences. You are a very strong woman. 😊
You have always been a beautiful lady, at every age and weight, Melissa. Life is certainly a journey 💓.....I had a tummy tuck at age 40 (I am now 64) to repair my abdominal wall separation and loose skin that was a result of carrying ginormous 7 and 7 1/2 lb. twins at age 21 and two C-sections. Recovery was rough but the results were excellent. I would do it again in a heartbeat. We owe it to ourselves to take care of both our bodies and our souls. You are looking so healthy and happy, my friend, and I am honored to be a part of your community of lovely ladies 💞
Love u Trish!
I love anything y'all share & I'm hoping that your health is in top form in 2025! 🥰 Merry Christmas my dear! edit: I also have Fibromyalgia & Raynaud's. I get it! I keep gloves in my car & make sure to wear them all wintertime. I was diagnosed with both in 1992 but know I suffered for years before a doc diagnosed them. I also suffer from Barrett's Esophagus so have to get my throat dilated every few years. One Dr. trashed my singing voice years ago around 2015 but I think I've told y'all that before. 🤠
You are looking beautiful Melissa Love you’re hair and makeup in this video ❤️🎀
Melissa, it’s impressive everything you’ve been through-truly admirable! Thank God you’re doing perfectly now, and the most amazing thing is how gorgeous you look. ♥️♥️♥️♥️
I want to get a bypass, but I’m very scared. I don’t have extreme excess weight, but for my build and height, I am more than 40 kg over, almost 100 lbs😬😬😬😬
I’d love it if you could share the name of the doctor in Mexico and the one in the United States. I’m currently in Mexico 🇲🇽, but I have no problem moving around since I’m a U.S. resident. I handle most of my things in El Paso, TX, and I could easily travel within the United States.
I admire you so much; you look beautiful, and I thank God for your amazing recovery.
P.S. I don’t miss a single one of your videos-I love them! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😘😘
You look beautiful, and so sweet also! Thank you for your honesty.
Thank you for sharing!
You have always been beautiful. You did what you thought you needed to do for your physical and mental health. Thank you for sharing and congratulations. I think now with drugs like Ozempic, so many people are going to be able to achieve a healthy weight without surgery like before. Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family. ❤
Greetings Melissa! I'm so glad you made it through everything safely. Do you still have the blood clot? I have lots of issues to, but I haven't had such major surgery on top of them. I hope 2025 brings you renewal and healing! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
Hi Jean. Yes, I'm stuck with the blood clot forever.
Pretty pink top on u! Such a huge weight loss wow! U look great! ❤ 🎉 😊
Thank you so much for this video Melissa. Love you and whatever you post. Miss those sayings at the end of your videos though. Merry Christmas to you and yours. Questions: would anyone losing roughly 100 pounds have a saggy sick problem or is it only if you lose it quickly? Can you lose 100 pounds and not have saggy sink?
I use the analogy of a balloon being blown up. Once the air is gone out, it doesn't return to its previous size. But a lot has to do with personal genetics & the elasticity of your skin.
You look gorgeous today ❤
🛑How did you know you had the portal vein clot? Also, the therapy and dietitian addition should be included when you start/on a GLP1 journey as well.
I had the worst abdominal pain ever. It felt like a snake around my middle.
@ well you look great. Hoping you and your family are enjoying the holidays
Burnout could be our age. I’m same age as you. Menopause, I just feel tired of everything!! Not depressed just tired.
Melissa, you were always a beautiful woman. Today, you are just stunning! Love everything you're wearing; that blouse is lovely and flatters your complexion so well. My late father in law had gastic bypass decades agoand now, my son's girlfriend who has a lot of health issues including stage 4 heart failure, is supposedly having gastric surgery in February. It worries me a bit, to be honest, in her condition. ~Cynthia
I'll keep her in my prayers Cynthia.
Praise God He saved your life!!!!!
Did you have falls with POTS? My primary care physician is sending me to a neurologist for some tests to find out why I fall. I don't lose consciousness, I don't see "stars". Would the neurologist be the one to give me the tilt table test? I've got endometriosis, fibromyalgia and chronic pain.💜💜💜 Love you sweetie. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!
I'm wondering how much of a difference in price the gastric bypass surgery was in Mexico versus done in the USA?
6 years ago it was a difference of $5500 in Mexico & $30,000 here.
I remember your surgery last year.
Liposuction is extremely painful healing!!!!
Hello beautiful Melissa 😍
WOW...... ❤
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mellisa you are a beautiful women with a beautiful heart! look forward to seeing youe smiling face!
I am betting no matter your weight you were always beautiful!
Keep going….smile and remember God is in Control or this can happen 🤪
My step daughter has Pots.
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Oh , honey the traumas you have suffered through !
You only have one face look in the mirror
I am very proud of you for the weight lost and dealing with all your other health issues on top. You are a fighter!!! 🫵👏💪❤