Experience BETTER Relationships With Men By Avoiding THESE 5 Things
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- Опубликовано: 25 июн 2024
- Experience BETTER Relationships With Men By Avoiding THESE 5 Things...Avoid the bad dating advice out there and listen to how you can start experiencing better relationships with men. I want you to experience better relationships with men you're dating, getting to know, or even colleagues. Take heed to this dating advice to understand men better and ensure you watch to the end to learn how to experience better relationships.
When trying to experience better relationships with men, it's essential to avoid the common pitfalls that can easily undermine mutual respect. I want you to experience better relationships with men and discover the joy of genuine connection. It would help if you knew how to have better relationships with men to cultivate healthy relationships.
To experience better relationships with men, you need to avoid certain things. You will enjoy deeper emotional intimacy when you experience better relationships with men. This relationship advice will help you learn what to avoid so you can experience better relationships with men.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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May you please cover the topic of how to be supportive without becoming motherly ?
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
Great topic advice!! 👍👍
Yes please!!!!! 🙏
Am with you on this 🙏. Thank you
That "find a man who loves you more than you love him" is the same as settling! Ewwww! No no no! We don't settle. I want to be as in love with him as he is with me!
This is very true!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Just because he loves you MORE doesn’t mean you don’t love him. You can still feel very intensely about your man and rest assured with confidence that he is the one LEADING in love. There is nothing ewwww about being in love with a man who loves you more . It actually balances the relationship. The key is you must also love him.
The last guy I was with loved me more than I loved him (at first), but as soon as I fell for him, and he saw that he had control, he started treating me worse and worse until it was over.
Sorry about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith ❤️ 🙏🏼
Wow,that's exactly what I'm doing dealing with now!!!!!!!😮
Im sure thats how it went down...you admitted to changing i wonder what else changed.
@@satonyagonzales3636 sorry.. I hope you can get past the power struggle phase of the relationship.. it really sucks.. my ex and I still talk.. we just can’t manage to communicate properly and it always leads to arguments and hurt feelings.
@@h8h215 I admitted to changing? No. I admitted that as I began to love him more, he began to love me less. Or at least respecting and valuing me less. I believe it is the “power struggle” phase of a relationship that psychologists talk about. The make or break period.
Most people do have issues but many don't have the willingness to work on themselves.
Yes! My mother always said to find a guy who loves you more than you love him… and it never sat well. But that’s just one thing not to do!!
Thank you for sharing your experience. Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼
I had it and it didn’t work 😂 he literally loved me too much and it was overwhelming and turned into control. The fixation was way too much. Now I just be in love with myself and allow a man I’m interested in to show if he can provide, protect and profess for my love in return and we must have the skills to maintain, communicate and stay connected in romance, honesty and honor! Always turn to God for any confusion and guidance outside of each other!
Your mother gave you good advice. Listen to your mother. Why do people confuse MORE with not at all? Just because a man loves you more (which he should) does not mean you don’t love him. You can love him immensely and he loves you MORE. Which the man is commanded to do according to God… “Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church”…. And “wives respect your husbands “. Nowhere in the Bible are women commanded to love a man more than he loves her. Doesn’t Christ love us more than we love Him?
@@MJWife07 you actually have a valid point… but I guess when you marry a guy who you think loves you and it turns out he just wanted you because you complete an image he was trying to perpetrate. I guess you kind of don’t know what to think.
@@candicelondon-hessert8723trust me I can totally relate. Unfortunately all too well. I am currently married to a man who does not love me as a wife and cares for me for all the wrong reasons. He personally told me that if I wasn’t a good wife he would’ve been left me. The question is why would you want to leave a good wife? So that alone proves that he doesn’t love me for real….or either just don’t want be married…which is why we are separating and sadly headed for divorce. Now I usually don’t spread my business especially online but I felt lead to be transparent.
You have literally found your calling.... I haven't heard anything or advice from you that wasn't true....and truely works!! Stay blessed....
❤️ 🙂 thank you very much and may you be blessed as well 🙏🏼
Yeah everything he says makes sense!!😊
Be wise with the company you keep!
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that!
The reason why I got into a bad relationship is because I didn't know how to love myself more. But now with God's healing, I know I deserve way better.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
We all come with flaws…if you are with someone you are excepting the flaws. There is no such thing as a build a partner workshop where you pick and choose what parts of a person you want. No matter how much you work on yourself there will still be flaws and scars and baggage
I wish every guy was like you
❤️ 🙏🏼
Me too ☺️
Hahah yeah true statement lol I wish my husband had the wisdom, knowledge, experience, understanding about love and marriage/relationships like he has
Now, my husband has all the OTHER biblical knowledge and wisdom and understanding, but he needs prayer when it comes to biblical wisdom, understanding, humility, unconditional love, unconditional forgiveness, and responsibilities as a husband in our marriage 🙏 his name is S. Bowan Grossnickle "Bo"
For real lol
I love how authentic you are. Thank you ❤
My pleasure ❤️
This is spot on, not easy to understand when you are mentally not ready or capable of listening 👂. Plus you can’t admit your flaws and much less talk about trauma. It’s a process, mindfulness of yourself and nobody but yourself.
Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼
The man that God has for me loves God more than he loves me .
This is a must for me
🙏 ❤️
We meet online by the grace of God we consistently communicating via vc
There’s balance between us. We put God first that’s the key
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Stephan, thank you for the clarity. I was one of those women who thought longevity meant success because the two are together. I don't think that way anymore.
Him loving me more than I love him is boring I want to be excited about someone who is excited about me.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Yesss being excited about each other is mandatory.....like we both could die RIGHT NOW get real, have fun!
The weirdos online are the same weirdos on the street, at your work & in your church. The world is full of weirdos, you just have to meet a good one.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
We are all weirdos, weirdo.
Not one to normally comment, but thank you so much for the transparency in all of your videos! Thank you for your willingness.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks of course, praying blessings over your ministry ❤️
The chasing part really hit me hard Thank you I really needed this.
Longevity dosen,t represent a successfully relationship
Gospel truth from a wise and experience coach
God bless you Steph
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏
Stephan I love your videos! They are really helpful and they provide lots of good advice. But I must say, you are too funny and I love the way you laugh 😊 😍😁😁
Today I am having one of dem days 😉 and listening to your video made me feel better. I am Italian and I live in Italy so not always can I relate to your description of men, men are men of course and there are some cultural differences still you have helped me a lot and I have learnt a lot from you ❤ I want to thank you and please keep up with the good work! Hugs!
Glad to hear that. Thank you for your feedback and don't forget to share so that others can receive love healing, and clarity ❤️ 🙏🏼
We deal with many people online we wouldn’t deal with live. High value men don’t waste their time with online dating just like jaguar doesn’t advertise in TV because men who buy jaguars don’t spend time watching TV. 🙄😊, high value women don’t waste their time with online dating. I’m no longer online - it’s just not how I want to spend my time or my frequency-vibration. Time you spend on the wrong guy is time taken away from right guy.
I don’t think that’s true. My son found his wonderful fiancée online. They are both in the medical field
Thank you so much for this, Stephan. God bless you
Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏 ❤️
Thank you for everything that you do, Stephan! We appreciate all the time, energy and effort you put in to create content and share your wisdom with us!
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Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼
No one should chase they should attract it should be an organic connection to me that's like forcing it.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
That advice is iffy.....you can't find a job without applying 🤷🏾♀️ but I agree on organic connections or allowing it to flow naturally, not forcing the energies
Excellent Video!! Truth!! Thanks Stephan!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Would you have your team include chapters in your videos again? It really is so helpful! Thank you for the awesome content!
THANK YOU ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL ADVICE ❤️👏🏽💪🏽💯‼️
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
If someone can tolerate you at your worst that's one of the best thing that can happen to anybody more blessings please Lord. When you are busy at God work as well he blesses you plus this relationship comes when you are occupy doing tangible stuff like working as well.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
26:00 made me laugh too cause I often say that to myself when I feel lonely but I never got peace with it. Thanks for stating and clarifying all points ❤
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
You were absolutely preaching, I love your videos. You help me maintain my healthy relationship and fix my toxic ways☺️
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Thank you Stephan Blessings love you....❤🥰💯🙏🏽
My pleasure ❤️
Love what you said about length of time in a relationship meaning nothing. Seen so many in toxic codependent dynamics that claim it’s working or did work, because the number of years prove that.
Thank you for talking about this! My father would just say that all men were dogs and it was never worth anything. But that's his projection
Thank you so much for this! I really felt that you made so many wonderful and instructive points here, you actually challenged my reality as well which I appreciated so much.I resonated with the point of Divine timing, I'm single now and I do feel that there is someone that God/Divine has for me but also that there is something like my work that needs to expand before that person can walk into my life. I'm not religious but spiritual but your words actually resonate with me so much and I'm so grateful for your honesty and guidance.Blessings and love and light to you ❤🙏
I agree with you Stephan. That is why I don't take advice from everyone when it comes to dating. Some people will lead you down the wrong path. You will be living by yourself with a house full of cats lol. I go to God. I have 3 people who I can talk to about relationships and grow folks business. Thanks for this video. I appreciate every advice you have shared. I have learned a lot from your videos and books. I respect people who keep it real. I don't have time for all that fake stuff. Relationships and marriages are not easy. It takes work from both sides.
Thank you for your feedback. It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I listen to like 5 other relationships advice guys from youtube, and i agree and like yours the best, you a blessing thank you, your advice really helps
I'm happy the advice has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Very good video!
So true.
Thank you so much. 😊🎉
My pleasure ❤️
Profound video 👑 King❣️❤️🔥❤️🔥 Thank you 🙏🏽✨️
My pleasure ❤️
You on one today Mr. Stephan! 😂 I feel ya though ❤
❤️ 🙂 thank you for watching and sharing. I appreciate your feedback 🙏🏼
I like your straight talk. This is so authentic.
I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
How about talking about "hot chemistry", "spark", "tingles" "attraction" over long term compatibility and true love?
In my experience women are notorious spark chasers. Hence all of the PUA advice to create "chemistry now" in order just to get a date.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
That laughing love it😂😂THANKS FOR SHARING!!🤎🌟🤎
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
Very powerful video ❤
Love all your work🥰
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Another great video ! Thank you for making great consistent content ❤️!! I’ve have watched so many of your videos but I still have this question. Me and my bf have been together for 1 year. We have a great healthy relationship. He is husband material but he has not brought up marriage. Is this normal for most men ? Every thing he does and how he treats me feels like he is my husband. So I know he probably would want to get married. But can you clear this up for me. Is there a timeline that I should be aware of?. We have met each others families , we live in our own apartments and see each other weekly and consistently, we are best friends, but I’m wondering why he has not talked about marriage with me ?
i felt like i was giving him what he wanted/needed and felt like we both loved each other so deeply and equally but still got cheated on bc he couldnt communicate that he felt like he wasnt getting the things he wanted/needed. i feel like if he would have just communicated with me, we could have created a better relationship but at the same time obviously he wasnt the one for me and i wish he would have just broke up with me instead of sneaking around and lying and manipulating me to thinking he was really into me😔
I wish every man was like you you are awesome
😊 thank you very much
Thank you
My pleasure ❤️
Also been doing your healing process after reading your book finding love after heartbreak. Its been taking me 2 months to write all those letters but my life is taking a turn of 180. I recommend. Thank you. For sharing it with us. A great therapy.
Glad I could help. Healing is definitely key and thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
Thank You for your kind Yours. God Bless. You.🙏
Stephan I will always be grateful . It's topics like this that correct our mindset towards adding more value. I am a testimony 🙏🙏🙏🎉
exactly
💯 yes!
So blessed to b able give advise to us women in respectful honest true words wish there were more men like u to have relationship with. Noone perfect but u know so much bout different subjects❤
I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
Excellent advice on those “wrong”advice! 💯💓
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
You’re welcome 😉
Right, you are both the prize in a healthy aspect across the boarf
Absolutely!
You had me at work wilding out 🤣🤣 Not the “Jesus is my husband” advice…Lol, I laugh cause it’s completely true and I see it all the time at church! This was so good! Keep these coming!
People confuse pursue with chase. It’s great for a man to pursue not chase.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Pursue defined:
follow or chase (someone or something).
Chase defined
an act of pursuing someone or something.
Can you elaborate on what you mean so you create a distinction between the two please.
Either way both parties should be exploring themselves FIRST before "pursuing or chasing
such a great video and is very needed! I have a quick question, I had a guy where he would turn really clingy, hit me up too much, or touch me too much (it turned me off) whenever his insecurities would spiral (we called it, code orange). I told him, this is something he had to work on as this could potentially be a deal breaker for me. I cant be the one to help you, but I can support you. He was upset saying I wasnt willing to be there at his worst. Was I wrong?
This is great advice
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
A cottollary to love you more than you love them is better to be the right person than to find the right person. You've got to find a right enough person to BE the right person for. Because it's hell to lose you trying to be the right person for someone who will never see you that way.
Great video.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Yes, your right Stephan. Yes love for him to chase me
My mother always tell me to find a man that loves me more and after watching this video now I have changed my mind frame
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
that makes sense
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Yes, when I seriously was not looking-The Awakening of those Damn Unearthing Projections.
Yeeeees! So much of the bad advice just reaks of settling. There is no reason to settle and there is no reason to be toxic either. I love that as much as you hip women to dating do's and dont's you also call us out. We need to denormalize the take me exactly as I am, toxic traits and all, and normalize the inward work and healing.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
I know my WORTH 🙌
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Bringing out the best in each other should be something that both parties strive for and shouldn't be hard to work on when you truly care about yourself and the person of your interest.👍🏼 🤔My thoughts on that last piece of advice.😊
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you 🙏🏼
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Me as well. 😊
The Drizzler is here. So never fear😊😊😊🎉🎉❤🎉
I watched a junior welterweight fight, from over 20 years ago and winner was Wade. He kept his arms up for every punch 🥊 and I could tell 10 round he’d keep his up [protected]. He did. He went through a below belt punch in one round and a draw by one judge, led him to win fight 🏆. I believe it and have that visual now. (about point 3 in 16:48)
I thought that was good advice 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ the first one but then I said before you said it" makes sense because it is imbalance.
I thought that they would appreciate me more! lol I have definitely experienced this.and It was a great feeling! I heae ya! I am listening...
In the relationships that I know personally this works and has proven to be true 🤷🏾♀️
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
No disrespect meant… you made me cry laughing when you mentioned the Jesus ‘thing’… you’re spot on with the other points… ✨💕✨🕊️✨💕✨
Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you 🙏🏼
Whats funny about jesus?
A lot of people that says take me flaws and all is a red flag because they come across as someone that's going to do something Faul and want you to respect it .
LOVE 🙏🙏🙏
I heard my ex-husband ask one of his friends... Which girl loves you more? I didn't like it at the time I heard it.
That also made me think is what he did with me and his ex-girlfriend. I feel it should be which one do you see yourself being with for the Long haul, it needs to be a mutual thing.
Facts
💯 yes!
Would you do a video about online dating and some tips for setting up a good profile? Not asking you to give up the farm, but give us something to get us started.
Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video on how to find a good partner using online dating 👉 ruclips.net/video/3BlghTYQOAk/видео.html
I chose to be single for as long as God says, doing the work. Therapy, Counseling, Support Groups, helped me when I embraced doing the work.🙌🏽🙏🏽🥰
That’s what I thought I better go for someone that is more into me then me into them as I want a provider type of man and that’s harder to find but sounds like you are saying no it’s not good to do
I hope this has been helpful to you 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks yes very helpful thank you so much
SPLENDID MAGNIFICENT Stephan am running out of adjectives now
Are there anyone looking for solid God related relatioshop advice ?
Just meet Stephan Speaks i can asure u that your search will be over
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼
Wow I'm totally confuse. What is than the right way to get in a relationship. Their is to much rules. Why can dating just be simple.
Hey hun, just thought I would jump in. There are no rules for finding your person, there is only support and advise to help you get there and to help avoid too many bumps on your journey. All that is needed is to be your authentic self, listen to your intuition, listen to your body, heal to become the best version of yourself, continue to do things that you love, to attract the love that makes life, and love yourself. Love God and you will be peaceful and above all, naturally peacefully with someone
@@subiesims thank you I needed this. I felt like just giving up on love completely . ❤
😊 I like your tips on how women can improve chances for a better relationship. One you discussed was thinking a man should chase you- very good insight provided- however, what about good men who think that’s what they are suppose to do? I don’t think we should chase each other. I hate this term, chase…. sounds like competition and game playing. Language is everything and often misleading. Generation after generation passes these terms down as advice.
Wow this had a lot of points I've never thought about before and you explained it very well thank you!❤❤
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
I believe it's a selfish act saying your spouse should love you for who you are, you should be willing to work on yourself and get better, remember it's for your own good too
I'm not sure I even want to date anymore 💯😢 thinking 🤔 it's best just give up on real love ❤❤❤not every woman find's real love 😢❤
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you ❤ 🙏
If men and women are equal in population and not all men are good men then logically not all women are either good or has a good man being sent to them by god, its logically impossible.
Learn how to love yourself without requireing a partner to do that for you because you never know you might be right and not be the lucky one.
I just want to be a lady❤ and let the man be masculine💪. Because I’m a fitness trainer, it’s hard to let him take the lead and love on me when I’m used to being in control.
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I have been single for over a year. During this time, I have been working on myself physically, mentally, and financially. So I believe I am Ready. ❤️
Do give advice on interracial dating?
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
Right! Why would I settle for a man I don't love as much?? 😂
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Dating and relationships are nonsense.
The conversation needs to be about getting and staying married.
Ladies, meditate on that instead.
If 'dating' coaches are not specifically and only talking about that, RUN !!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate hearing from you 🙏🏼
Marriage is a process it takes time and effort dating is necessary
Are u mad ?
Narcissists love the chase... and once they have you. They no longer want you
In any relationship if we inly depend inself and not on God to show us these individuals hearts, we will run unto broken hearts
Hey can u make one one guy with best friend thing and when a guy introduce some women as just friend who then is denounced as best friend on the date when I meet him.... I fear I am being betrayed in worst possible way it can't be other way around right.
If the guy introduces you as a friend, and he doesn't list you in ALL his social media s as his girlfriend, then you are just a FWB. Believe
Lots of theories that sound good. Need the data to prove it.
Every other point is right on point but i will argue about the chasing aspect, you elaborated on it but some people wont understand. A man was created to chase a woman but not chasing for too long. some ladies may start chasing a man cos of what they understood about it.
I understand what you’re saying. However, I believe a man was made to pursue. Pursuing and chasing are very different.
I loooove u and ur content but I have to disagree with online dating! I tried dating online for years and it's just people leftovers! Guys that can't find any play in real life
My video on how to find a good partner online will give you the clarity you need. Check it out here 👉 ruclips.net/video/3BlghTYQOAk/видео.html
Guys? And girls, you ass found your way to online dating too right? Cmon queen lets be honest now, i know accountability is like cryptonite but you can do it.
You will get better men in the after life ladies, be patience.
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@@patriciasenter7601 🤣🤣🤣
Hey 😊 I think so well said
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Thank ya Jesus!! I used to say Jesus is my husband on repeat to men who wouldn't take no for an answer when hitting on me 😂😂😂😂 it's just to avoid dating or unattractive situations and make yourself feel better lol
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
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