What To Do If You've Slept With Him Too Soon? How To Communicate What's Next.
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- Опубликовано: 10 июл 2022
- Sometimes the balance of getting to know someone shifts from being more connection focused to physically focused. It's exciting and fun, but how do you take control and continue building a healthy connection?
Some may feel they've take a step too far physically.
But no matter what it is, you always have time to take ownership and create a standard for yourself.
What to do if you’ve slept with him too soon?
Do you wonder how to communicate with a guy next?
In this video I talk about what you can do to slow things down with a guy you've slept with too soon. It's all about accepting that you're having fun and want the whole connection to grow together!!
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What to do after sleeping with a guy? Will he stop talking to me after I sleep with him? I slept with him too early, what now? Is he interested in me? Will he like me if I don't sleep with him? How to communicate with a guy,
1. Know your value!!! (Do NOT doubt yourself.)
2. Take yourself and your worth seriously. You need to BE A QUEEN to be treated like one.
3. Don’t give easy access to anyone, at any time. Access to your energy should be expensive.
4. Do NOT only express your boundaries. YOU MUST show them.
5. Always be ready to walk away.
6. Show that you are focused on actions not on words.
7. Have a healthy degree of skepticism. You’re not naive and you’re not negative.
8. You must be willing to say NO and you must be willing to lose the man, if needed.
9. Never EVER chase a man! A truly worthy woman, (who knows her worth)
does not EVER chase a man.
Giving the same energy that you're getting
is key
and if you don't like that energy
then move on!!! NOW!!!
It can be hard
but that's when you need to choose yourself
over the damn illusion/fantasy.
A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period.
So...
If he ignores me
I will step back
and he will lose me.
Simple. Simple.
Non-dramatic
and uncomplicated.
I don’t,
under any circumstance:
play these childish-abusive-controlling
mind games.
I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me,
and treats me as the Queen, I AM.
(Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!)
Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine
and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman:
who knows my worth.
Period.
Also,
We create each moment.
This moment contains,
through my focus,
both positive and negative...
I can put my attention on what I lack,
what I don't have,
what traumas I do have etc...
And,
I can put my attention on the calm moment that I am in, NOW,
the food I just ate, and the fact that my body is satisfied, the shelter I do have...
(You get my idea!)
Both are here...
And now.
For the sake of fairness,
I will allow myself to cry my pains, in the moment
if/when they come/arise,
AND
also acknowledge the beauty I still have in my life NOW.
Pain? Yes.
Suffering? Indeed.
And,
also:
wonderous magical divine beauty.
Blessings to you!
Bring comfortable with your own self outside of any relationship is always valuable.
Take a step back either way. Not a deal breaker.
Definitely! Dating is so unique to us all. It’s good to step back and better observe how things are going and moving forward.
Idk what to do lol! This guy pursued me hardddd and after about 2 weeks we ended up kissing and some other stuff (he was on top of me but clothes were on and no touching under clothes) and we dud it again but I’m scared he will think less of me (he said he doesn’t) but I don’t want him to think we’re FWB, I wanna be with him!! Idk how I’m supposed to come back from that 🤦♀️
Hey! So long as you’re both enjoying time together and you feel safe and good! You can never truly know, but it seems clear that there is a positive connection!! Celebrate that and when the timing is right you can continue to tell him how you feel. Something like “I feel anxious not knowing that we are not on the same page and I need better clarity in our relationship. Even though I don’t care about titles, I think we should be exclusive. What do you think?”
Hopefully that can open up more conversation!
@@jimmycue thank you soooo much!! ❤️❤️❤️
Just pinning 3:32 🙂
🎉 Thank you!
Because of original installation, men are designed to go forth .......and look for fresh meat. Old meat becomes hard to swallow.
Designed or programmed?
you sound like a 1 time hookup guy. nothing to offer or build on. get the sex then it is Over. Next