Men Will RESPECT Your Value When They See THESE 5 Things

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  • Men Will RESPECT Your Value When They See THESE 5 Things... Knowing how to understand your value is essential to cultivating self-confidence and a positive self-image. I want you to understand your value on first dates, online dating, or elsewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this relationship advice to learn more about how to understand your value and ensure you watch to the end.
    I want you to know how to get men to respect your value and be able to make choices that prioritize your well-being. Getting men to respect your value is important because when you can get men to respect your value, you empower yourself to build healthier and more fulfilling connections. Pay attention to this dating advice to understand men better and know how to get men to respect you.
    As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you can enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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Комментарии • 829

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +132

    I pray that you receive the peace and love you deserve ❤ Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" here 👉 www.loveafterheartbreak.com. This book will lead you to find peace and happiness in your life.

    • @christinemarielayne
      @christinemarielayne 4 месяца назад +6

      ❤❤❤ your so right ♥️Thank you 🙏🌹 for helping me realize loving Myself and My curves aren't a bad thing ❤❤I can only pray My sisters learn how beautiful 😍 they are too❤❤❤❤

    • @lindsaylimes3362
      @lindsaylimes3362 4 месяца назад +1

      I really needed to hear this today thank you for make the video and sharing it.

    • @severinlippold7841
      @severinlippold7841 4 месяца назад

      Thank you for your quick answer. Maybe I'll order the book

    • @Scortch-bonnitli7yg
      @Scortch-bonnitli7yg 4 месяца назад

      South jams

    • @C.phoebe
      @C.phoebe 4 месяца назад

      ruclips.net/video/bg2z-Fd_bSc/видео.htmlsi=y5lU069wyP9UQSm5

  • @Big_Becks
    @Big_Becks 2 месяца назад +71

    1. Not every man is built to see your value
    2. You need to be confident and authentic
    3. Creating peace around you
    4. Create peace within you
    5. Not accepting less than you deserve
    6. To show that you are open to correction and growth
    7. Be the woman God wants you to be.

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 4 месяца назад +1056

    I know my worth and it's priceless. I'm not chasing anyone, I'm not looking, I'm waiting on God's promises 🙏🏾 eggs don't chase sperm the sperm chase the egg

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +38

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @deedeedoug3416
      @deedeedoug3416 4 месяца назад +17

      🙏 Amen 👍

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 4 месяца назад +35

      God doesn’t promise marriage to anyone tho. Marriage isn’t a biblical promise.

    • @anonymousbyname1121
      @anonymousbyname1121 4 месяца назад +18

      @@Laoriginal718Who said anything about marriage?

    • @shawanahickman6952
      @shawanahickman6952 4 месяца назад +32

      @@Laoriginal718 honey you live your life and let God guide mines

  • @deaudradonald6360
    @deaudradonald6360 4 месяца назад +562

    This video had me crying happy tears. Because I’m walking in my value as we speak. Many have passed me by. Until, one man saw my value and he asked me to marry him and I said. Yes! All Praises for this confirmation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Thank you for sharing this

  • @olayinkacredle
    @olayinkacredle 4 месяца назад +228

    “Some of you have a dirty unorganized home” 😫😭😂😂😂😂I’M SCREAMING because he’s right! This was me until I got it together. I was a newly divorced single mom of three young kids, leaving that bad relationship left me in a deep depression and I let myself and my home go. My sister finally had a serious talk with me and I addressed it starting getting back into clean habits again. It totally changed my whole mood and the way I carried myself around and my kids. ❤thanks for always speaking truth! We need to hear it

  • @Trishamonica
    @Trishamonica 3 месяца назад +60

    "Confidence is not about thinking you're going to always get it right, it's about not being afraid to get it wrong.. it's not about thinking everyone's going to like you, it's about not caring when someone doesn't.. it's accepting yourself, loving yourself.. Whoever's going to like it, like it, and whoever doesn't doesn't" 💖💖💖

  • @weinerwagon6667
    @weinerwagon6667 4 месяца назад +201

    Chased him for 2 weeks. I’m so embarrassed. Not any more! I will NOT be ignored and my value not seen! Amen!!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +10

      🙏 ❤️

    • @outsidethebox8406
      @outsidethebox8406 4 месяца назад +42

      I've learned the more you chase someone, the more they run away from you. It's so hard when you feel like you had a genuine connection with someone but if they can't see your value, gotta let it go.

    • @jessicaatchison5423
      @jessicaatchison5423 4 месяца назад +4

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @sanyaoluoluwafemi1846
      @sanyaoluoluwafemi1846 3 месяца назад +9

      You are not designed to chase, you are designed to attract. That's why personal development is key, and working on yourself to become a better person and the right person will find you effortlessly because without chasing.

    • @AnnDonley
      @AnnDonley 2 месяца назад +6

      @weinerwagon6667 Never chase a man YOU are the prize.

  • @CC-kr3mr
    @CC-kr3mr 4 месяца назад +162

    As a woman who was married to a narcissist, who left me in a very bad place when I divorced him, it took me five years to get back to my full potential, build up my business by my own home, and be financially successful, spiritually, and mentally strong. It took me so much to get to that point yet now that I am in a new relationship, I will never disclose how poorly my ex-husband treated me. It’s in the past, and I fear it will paint me as a woman who will tolerate disrespect. I told my new boyfriend that I was spoiled beyond belief, which is true financially, but not emotionally. I told him that I was spoiled beyond belief and he treats me like gold. You have to mark yourself in a positive light. All I’m saying is don’t tell your new man that your last man was disrespectful. It will make him think it’s OK.

    • @Allaboutthe80s
      @Allaboutthe80s 3 месяца назад +17

      That's powerful and very smart. I never thought of it that way.

    • @sweetcheeks5775
      @sweetcheeks5775 3 месяца назад +19

      i had to learn that the hard way. now i always lie on dates and tell them i’m use to men buying me things and paying for dates. i also lie and say i have a great relationship with my dad. weeds out shit men and sets the bar high for those who are interested.

    • @Zelicious11
      @Zelicious11 3 месяца назад +3

      Love the wisdom! Thank you

    • @BTParent
      @BTParent 2 месяца назад

      ​@@sweetcheeks5775 why lie ... Why not say what we learnt

    • @africanprincessmaya
      @africanprincessmaya 2 месяца назад +1

      and viola the very things shera seven teaches which i just posted about on my channel

  • @talentdzviti
    @talentdzviti 4 месяца назад +196

    I had to tell a guy just a few days ago that I want a man who loves & fears God, who has integrity, is abstaining from sex until marriage & has a well paying job and manages his finances well, those are my standards in how I started valuing myself when it comes to dating. The guy I told this to said that as we're getting older (I'm only 32), my standards are too high. I asked him how are my standards too high (for my age)? Firstly I'm still young, 2ndly, why are we rushing to settle for trash on the streets? For who, for what, for why? I knew that this guy just wouldn't meet my expectation & I'm not forcing anyone to, he's just not for me & it's really ok. There's some good guys out there who will have similar values. God told me never to settle, so I've learned from my past experience, ain't no way Imma be disobedient & allow someone to devalue me by settling for less than what God wants for me. The right one will come 😊

    • @teru8443
      @teru8443 4 месяца назад +9

      Many men or people in general think 30+ is quite a lot already because of the limited ability of a woman to have kids. Especially in men channels they are promoting this idea: to date and marry women who are younger than 30...

    • @alitez960
      @alitez960 4 месяца назад +6

      Trust me,its not about money,love is priceless

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +12

      Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that and pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you ❤ 🙏

    • @heathermetz6576
      @heathermetz6576 4 месяца назад +5

      🙏 to that! Stand strong in your faith and God will bring you the right man.

    • @danijasthestylist1991
      @danijasthestylist1991 4 месяца назад

      Yesss Okayyyyy talk to em 🗣️🗣️🙌🏽🎯

  • @ashleyg1882
    @ashleyg1882 4 месяца назад +240

    I feel like you’re the older brother I never had! Thank you ❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +10

      My pleasure ❤️

    • @aliciabrown6679
      @aliciabrown6679 4 месяца назад +8

      Man… the knowledge this man speaks! He feels more like a mentor to me. He’s in the rotation for my daily personal development time.

  • @imspecial2286
    @imspecial2286 3 месяца назад +13

    I would rather have a peace of mind than a piece of man. He's absolutely 💯 right. Ladies have confidence and love yourself. Don't let any man devalue your worthiness.

  • @sandirichard5461
    @sandirichard5461 4 месяца назад +201

    You have no idea how timely this message is. I've been crying all morning after another disappointing meeting. I'm tired of this diabetic, soda drinking, septic dating pool! It's infested! I've been questioning my standards because I feel like no one is meeting them. I'm acknowledging now that it's not my standard. It's the quality of men I've been meeting. I won't diminish myself for a relationship. If I'm alone for the rest of my natural life, so be it. I'm not going away from the plan.

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 4 месяца назад +18

      I hear you, I affirm you, I am standing right there beside you with this comment, and I am going through this with your same mindset. We got this girlfriend! Lets get out of the cesspool and figure out how to put ourselves in better company as we pray for God's guidance :)

    • @yulias9991
      @yulias9991 4 месяца назад +10

      Thank you for writing this, I feel you 100% and I have the same mindset. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, now I confirm that I am not the only one and that I am not crazy.

    • @naetube9249
      @naetube9249 4 месяца назад +2

      After another situation that ended disappointment, I absolutely agree with this!

    • @cookiecrumb5810
      @cookiecrumb5810 4 месяца назад +1

      Bless your heart

    • @Melanisia
      @Melanisia 4 месяца назад

      P

  • @lisasmith75775
    @lisasmith75775 4 месяца назад +93

    It breaks my heart to detach from people that I love or once loved because I still hold them close

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +31

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @user-hu4ok2if9l
      @user-hu4ok2if9l 3 месяца назад +3

      Not me!

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 4 месяца назад +57

    *When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*

  • @JulieMurray-qq2of
    @JulieMurray-qq2of 4 месяца назад +71

    I’m in 💯 agreement on all you’ve said. I watched my daughter lose 150 lbs and boom, she was lighter, healthier and her confidence blossomed. True beauty showed up. She’s an out door enthusiast and now she blogs, is a photographer and engaged. For myself, health, fasting ( currently) detoxing, prayer, peace and purpose are what God desires for us and where he can do amazing things in and through us. I just stepped away from 18 yrs of chaos in a marriage. I had to leave to find peace. I felt stuck and not appreciated for my true self. It was so freeing and I will guard my space and keep the peace to attract the next right man if God chooses that for me. I love your videos Stephen and find your wisdom so impactful and helpful.

  • @sxymf96
    @sxymf96 2 месяца назад +11

    It's the not letting the bad behavior slide for me.. He will try you and try you and try you some more.. Stand firm no matter what level he's on..

  • @patiencesibanda6599
    @patiencesibanda6599 4 месяца назад +112

    I know my worth🤗🤗🤗God will never fail me , 👏👏i deserve better things in life😊😊😊

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +3

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
    @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz 4 месяца назад +23

    Checking your weight... really got that haven't heard this before..
    That was what I did in the pass years..i was so sick to the extent of me hating my own self..i was so scared, complaining to myself that no man will ever want someone want me the way I was because I was definitely out of place...i started seeking for solutions everywhere and anywhere but to no avail. So i decided to start praying to God to make a way for me so that I can become healthier and beautiful...booms God did it
    I mean for the past 2yrs i haven't been in any relationship i use those years taking care of my health and beauty... here i am now everyone is appreciating God in my life. Even with that am still taking my time because I deserve the best man.

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l 4 месяца назад +59

    First and foremost there s only one me
    I love being me
    There s no one like me
    And there never will be
    I always embrace this genesis thought
    Am fearfully and wonderfully made
    That's conformation from the good book the BIBLE
    Thanks coach Steph for this reminder

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @daphne6423
    @daphne6423 4 месяца назад +22

    Being the woman God wants you to be is the principal cornerstone of all this.

  • @joyricherson4570
    @joyricherson4570 4 месяца назад +57

    Car analogy is great!

  • @antoniarashida
    @antoniarashida 4 месяца назад +27

    The way you care for the heart & souls of women is so appreciated. Your energy is powerful & healing. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge, love, and positivity.

  • @thebeamli
    @thebeamli 4 месяца назад +57

    Loving that yellow on your beautiful skin. Thanks for the new videos.

  • @GaelleEkounda
    @GaelleEkounda 4 месяца назад +5

    The Wright point is on point 😁
    I prayed and asked to be healed in my body and be helped on my health journey, and God helped me stay on track when I couldn't before even though I knew what needed to be done. And yes I feel better in my body, my mindset and the glow is visible, attracting different opportunities. I feel better and I know I'm heading to what's for me, in a more confident way. Thank you

  • @shellarain
    @shellarain 4 месяца назад +13

    Love this so much. This past month I’ve been really finding myself. Turning to God, building a relationship with God. Following truth, happiness and putting in a lot of hard work to be my best self. I’ve been in the gym every other day for this entire month and have lost 10 pounds just this month. I feel amazing, spiritually , mentally, physically.. self love makes the world of a difference. I’m married but it doesn’t change how helpful and inspiring this video was. ❤ thank you 🙏🏽

  • @anthiabaker2695
    @anthiabaker2695 4 месяца назад +28

    The creating peace around us concept makes so much sense.
    And love that you pointed out that ‘messy’ houses - it’s huge revelation. .

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @LetJesusTouchUrLife
    @LetJesusTouchUrLife 7 дней назад +1

    11:29-12:07 Amen. Like me or dislike me, I live to worship and serve my King.

  • @chanelgray555
    @chanelgray555 4 месяца назад +20

    You hit it on the nose when you mentioned "changing the peace around you" ❤

  • @3peasinapodity
    @3peasinapodity 4 месяца назад +5

    Yes! That is me. I've been told that my walk says I act like I'm better. I told this ex neighbor that I've had this walk as a preteen. I told him that I'm usually in a good space, and my walk must show that. In my head; those that have a problem with my presence has an internal challenge

  • @christinebringazi3481
    @christinebringazi3481 Месяц назад +3

    Stephen, you have helped me so much. I am now sungle after being in a 21 year abusive relationship. Your words have helped me to heal. Thank you for being honest, genuine, and honest. You are the big brother we all need.

  • @ariannnaa1
    @ariannnaa1 4 месяца назад +9

    Stephan you really are doing Gods work in regards to relationships. Thank you for the time, thought and effort you devote to these videos and articulating the truth. I am in a relationship going on 4 months and we are passing the honeymoon stage and going on to the being triggered stage/getting comfortable stage and it feels like a cross roads for me. Watching your content allows me to consider other perspectives and look at his behaviour to really understand the nuances and then ask myself the hard questions. I am 32 and don’t have the time to give to someone who isn’t willing to put in the work a mature relationship requires….. anyway, just wanted to say thank you for what you do for us women🙏🏻

  • @chiquitadixon8463
    @chiquitadixon8463 4 месяца назад +9

    This was what I needed. I didn’t get the notification from RUclips but I definitely got the email notification. I am going through it I was questioning myself. Healing is where I am at now. Taking my notes. This message was God sent. 🙏🏾 Thank you.

  • @Happypeacelovejoy
    @Happypeacelovejoy 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you Stephan for this video! It was filled with great advice. You keep it real even when it’s something that we may not want to hear about ourselves. The truth is very very needed. You speak from a good perspective every time and your included analogy’s makes it understandable and helps me to remember the point that you made. Your wisdom and knowledge is very appreciated! Thank you so much!

  • @dannielleturnerbryant7531
    @dannielleturnerbryant7531 4 месяца назад +25

    Stephen always speaking the true values on life & relationships. This man is a blessing walking. 💗

  • @Natalia-nx2bq
    @Natalia-nx2bq 4 месяца назад +5

    😆 Those disclaimers are sooo sweet!! I really feel you try to describe your divine counterpart! Good luck Stephan! ❤

  • @mikefredrick7186
    @mikefredrick7186 4 месяца назад +12

    Someone’s worth and value is priceless, but we should not go and try selling ourselves to another person. They should see it when you show it in time!!

  • @THEREALCANDYOFFICE
    @THEREALCANDYOFFICE 4 месяца назад +10

    Instead I get “ Mrs. Candy thinks a lot of herself but she cool though”. 😂When he said show up being you”, I felt that! I’m confident but never arrogant I’m CANDY. My energy is top notch. Authenticity is me.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @RothePhoenix
    @RothePhoenix 4 месяца назад +11

    I missed a lot of red flags with the last man I dated. When they all came into view after the second date & he asked for too much if we had a third, I told him no. The man was a narcissist who had been lying at every opportunity, and when I called him on it, he told me God hated people like me. I laughed so hard over that one. The complete lunacy and bloated ego that he would even begin to know who "god" liked or disliked. Dodged a huge bullet with that one. I also started screening even more thoroughly. I know people have pasts that many haven't healed from or even explored, but that doesn't give anyone the right to judge me. I don't judge, but I do learn from their actions what to expect from them.

    • @chavondottin2170
      @chavondottin2170 3 месяца назад +1

      You didn't miss them. You were in denial and overlook. Been there.

  • @kristabland1657
    @kristabland1657 4 месяца назад +17

    My homework is not only in fully understanding my worth, but more in the practice of not advertising it. It's not my place to convince anyone of sampling or even purchasing what I have to offer. 11 times out of 10, those that I'm trying to convince are just not interested or even in the market

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @jelenanedeljkovic605
    @jelenanedeljkovic605 4 месяца назад +3

    Men dedicated to serve in the name of kindness, respect, wellbeing, creation, love is a majestic shift in a society, specialy nowadays. My deepest bow to you, dear Stephan, and to all men who were serving, are serving and will serve to that. 🧡🙏

  • @DasAzadeh
    @DasAzadeh 4 месяца назад +3

    It is so beautiful the way you speak , the extra care, attention & kindness you use for delicate topics . The truth always hurt, it’s a knockout so softening the blow or setting up a soft cushion to land on are the only options when you love or care about the person and even ourself. Keep excelling Stephan 🙏🏻💕. Thank you for all your outstanding teachings. God bless.

  • @beautyandskindepot
    @beautyandskindepot 4 месяца назад +20

    This is so well said and presented well! As women we must stay in tune with ourselves and remember to have patience. ❤

  • @buddhabritt1985
    @buddhabritt1985 4 месяца назад +11

    I'm getting to know my worth at 39 😌💯

  • @lelaslipgloss1728
    @lelaslipgloss1728 4 месяца назад +21

    That’s what bothers me. Every time we talk about the healing part. I don’t watch reality tv hell or tv at all, I don’t listen to bs, I workout 5 times a week, maybe even 6 I have an exceptional diet. I’ve lost over 65lbs… I keep my home clean, I take time for myself I journal, but some kind of way… I have found myself back in a weird situation and I can’t understand for the life of me why God would allow me to go through this AGAIN… I have came so far and worked so hard to get to this place this space of peace. Now I feel this gentleman seriously came in my life to disturb my peace and play with me. It has taken everything in me to keep it together and just say okay and walk away but not understanding WHY is really blowing mine. It’s so annoying… smh I hate having to be the bigger person… I feel like I’m saying it’s cool and just leaving and it’s not cool! SMH having to give myself the closure is so annoying! None of this makes any sense. But okay… smh yall this going on real time 🤦🏽‍♀️😩let me get ready for this damn gym smh I can’t…

    • @MsBrwnNProud
      @MsBrwnNProud 4 месяца назад +3

      I feel you! It’s frustrating.

    • @thebeamli
      @thebeamli 4 месяца назад

      It's a test. Learn whatever you can from it and move on. You're now operating from experiencing, growth, and peace. You got this. I went through this last summer it's taken me 7 months to heal. Now I've healed better than before. Because I was able to heal things with that individual that were still unconsciously lingering.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @thebeamli
      @thebeamli 4 месяца назад +10

      You may never get closure from that person and that's ok. Accept this truth, learn from the experience, and the same discipline you use for the gym, use to do what you need to do to heal. Whether it be therapy, self-care, or no contact

    • @lelaslipgloss1728
      @lelaslipgloss1728 4 месяца назад +1

      @@thebeamli thanks mamas! 🤞🏽

  • @milliemill3782
    @milliemill3782 4 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for always looking out for us Stephan ❤. Working hard to be the woman that is more precious than rubies.

  • @kimtucke5136
    @kimtucke5136 4 месяца назад +16

    A wife of Noble character
    Who can find? I am worth more then Rubies 🙌🏾 Proverbs 31:10

  • @kamaleta1379
    @kamaleta1379 4 месяца назад +29

    It is so true that our weight can impact in so many ways...thanks to the man he's brought into my life since my weight loss journey, I'm not where I want to be but I'm getting there with lots of support

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @elenarotestan5823
    @elenarotestan5823 4 месяца назад +4

    As usual, this was an awesome video, full.on love on the delivery. Thank you, @Stephan ❤

  • @Zfaith_fitness_detox
    @Zfaith_fitness_detox 4 месяца назад +24

    I’m a Christ Centered Holistic Personal Trainer and a Specialist in Detoxification and Cellular Regeneration. You’re right about plant based eating. Meat and processed foods absolutely create inflammation in the body which inflames your cells and your brain can not function properly, nor can the organs. I’m heart break, this is especially important. I have had to really watch my diet during heart break! Your mental health depends on what you eat spiritually and physically. ❤

    • @Isaiah_61_7
      @Isaiah_61_7 4 месяца назад +1

      Narc abuse caused me to become MCs/ei, I almost lost my life in 2020. Changing my diet to natural foods 100% changed my life. I lost 55 lbs already and I physically feel like a different person. I was so sick and I now I am so much better. I was allergic to EVERYTHING, and now it’s only 2 things praise God Almighty. Full recovery in Jesus name. Also I want to say I am 38 and have 4 kids all naturally. I was at 250 lbs and currently at 195. Still working on becoming fit enough to ever save someone in an emergency 😂❤🎉.

  • @godiscallingallsouls
    @godiscallingallsouls 4 месяца назад +5

    Weight is a really sensitive topic and I thank you for proceeding with caution. I needed to hear that. Thank you for teaching us all what a healthy relationship and person looks and how to cultivate that. God bless you 🤍

  • @victoriya33
    @victoriya33 4 месяца назад +1

    Hey Stephan, I just want to comment by aging thank you. I have learnt a lot from you over the course of two years. I notice a massive side rent when I implement certain things within my relationship versus when I wasn’t. The moment I walk with an air of value, he is different with me and guess what, he steps it up a few notches because he hasn’t to match or better my energy. He calls me his inspiration and motivation because of how I see myself and what I do to constantly improve and grow

  • @wendolynerodriguez75
    @wendolynerodriguez75 4 месяца назад +4

    Youre Dropping Gems Stephan!

  • @DamuReign0109
    @DamuReign0109 4 месяца назад +1

    Always on point.. Stephan, you're definitely in your purpose when it comes to your gift.. continue to get closer and closer to GOD!!! GOD knows my heart and HES ALWAYS Speaking through you!!! Thank you Jesus!!! 👑

  • @cjay2658
    @cjay2658 4 месяца назад +10

    I SO NEEDED THIS MESSAGE!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! GOD BLESS YOU!!! 🙌

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you and may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @aliciabrown6679
    @aliciabrown6679 4 месяца назад +7

    The house analogies you used for several key points were spot on. One unintended thing I got from this was that it allowed me to take inventory for some course correction. I try to be open to it where possible. So good…

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that!

  • @3peasinapodity
    @3peasinapodity 4 месяца назад +7

    Even those that can discern my worth acknowledge my worth, if they still have brokenness they won't know how to move and act and show

  • @patty12367
    @patty12367 4 месяца назад +2

    Stephan, thank you so much for your content. It is very helpful and you adress so many important points in your videos. You speak respectfully and you aren't afraid to bring up the things we need to hear. May God reward you

  • @almetabowman990
    @almetabowman990 4 месяца назад +2

    God bless you Precious Stephan I thank God for giving me the confidence in knowing my true worth. And being Authentic is what I value the most. I Shall continue to trust God 💯. I know that God has the right King for me that will receive me as the Loving Queen that I Am. I love being in a peaceful state because it's healthy for your heart, mind and Spirit. Precious Stephan I truly appreciate you always sharing words of wisdom and knowledge that's a blessing to All. I've asked God to restore, rejuvenate and to bless you beyond measures in the Miraculous and on time name of Jesus.
    Always Love Almeta ❤️🙏

  • @MsMayra716
    @MsMayra716 4 месяца назад +2

    You're an amazing man/soul. You confirm my entire vibe. Love listening to you!

  • @yulias9991
    @yulias9991 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Stephan for your words and this message and all the blessings that always you send us. God bless you always!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад +1

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @ShaBella509
    @ShaBella509 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for mentioning the home environment this is important you always give great jewel's of wisdom!

  • @MsSunshine846
    @MsSunshine846 4 месяца назад +1

    You being brave will change someone’s life. Way to go, Stefan, saying things many think but are hesitant to say. You did it very well too

  • @jalisam7383
    @jalisam7383 4 месяца назад +2

    Some people can't handle the truth. They run from it. But running affects us more. Thanks for advice ❤❤❤

  • @morentinalana
    @morentinalana 4 месяца назад +1

    Wow, just wow. Nicely put and so true. In my current situation it’s as if I heard God in my spirit telling me to remember who I am. All I could say was yes lord and the what followed just has me in awe. This message is a reminder of that. Thank you

  • @stella99dc
    @stella99dc 21 день назад

    Stephan, I'm grateful for your messages, especially the tough topics! Thank you for your respectful strength, gentle tone and sensitive words.

  • @DaisyOuma-sl4rn
    @DaisyOuma-sl4rn 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this Stephan i understand my worth and i am never gonna chase anyone that doesnt appreciate my value

  • @myboynakai
    @myboynakai 4 месяца назад +1

    HAHA LOVE THE ANALOGIES ! THANK YOU for reminding us all to get back to our highest value that we know we are worth!!

  • @severinlippold7841
    @severinlippold7841 4 месяца назад +1

    That's incredible. You have outdone yourself today. Your advice absolutely resonated with me. I could feel what you mean. Thank you very much, it will accompany me for a while and make me think.

  • @vschilling3598
    @vschilling3598 4 месяца назад +10

    You are Authentic!! I think your an Amazing young Gentleman ! A Man of God!! God sure is Blessing you with this amazing content. I have listened to so many Couches and your content is Real!! True!!! God Filled. Keep up the great work! Thank You!!

  • @NatashaT-vs2vb
    @NatashaT-vs2vb 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, as bright as the Sun. Most important is to clarify your own value to yourself as a woman.

  • @taniellpeterson3803
    @taniellpeterson3803 4 месяца назад +3

    He's really good at expression... You feel what he's talking about...

  • @OM-1111
    @OM-1111 4 месяца назад

    GREAT ANALOGY! I needed to hear that!

  • @Clap22
    @Clap22 4 месяца назад

    Stephan be preaching 👏🏼 like you can definitely tell God is speaking through him to us. Thank you for this message 🫶🏼

  • @NCMarti-td3wj
    @NCMarti-td3wj 17 дней назад +1

    I was anorexic for many years, never managed to get a stable relationship as I wasn't aware that I looked like a skeleton! I didn't even got my period anymore. And I kept on wondering why no men wanted to build a proper connection with me, until I realised that I was not looking healthy and my anorexia was the main reason they didn't want me. I was constantly ill, stressed, cold, anxious, picky, tired...
    I asked God to help me to become healthy and show me the way to become the woman he wants me to be. Weight matters for your mental health and what you attract. This applies not only to overweight. ❤

  • @bsnbabe1
    @bsnbabe1 4 месяца назад +1

    You really spoke to me Stephan. I was so confident until I met a particular man online. Since this man I completely stopped dating all men of this particular race. I cut myself short!! Thank you Stephan. My eyes are now open.

  • @EarthAngelMinistries2
    @EarthAngelMinistries2 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm only 2 minutes I LOVE IT! That car analogy was 🔥🔥🔥🔥 thank you so much!

  • @oluwaseunsmith4027
    @oluwaseunsmith4027 3 месяца назад +3

    I just had the courage couple of days ago to tell a guy I really like that I need to stay away from him.
    He’s got a girlfriend, yet he still wants to get together with me, and because I really like him or so I think, I’m always unable to say no to him.
    I got a notification for this video and decided to watch it and it sure spoke volumes to me, it feels hard but I’m certain I’m going to find Value for myself and also create peace within me. It really is important.
    I’ve been confused and sometimes overwhelmed just because of how I feel about this person and I’m realising that it isn’t healthy at all.
    Thank you Stephan for sharing ❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 месяца назад +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

    • @jadamckinney503
      @jadamckinney503 3 месяца назад +1

      Wow… Yeah… don’t mess with anyone else’s man. What goes around, comes around.

  • @tanialopez2892
    @tanialopez2892 4 месяца назад +1

    Real appreciation for this video! Thanks again for this Stephan 🙏🏼

  • @stellatetteh7725
    @stellatetteh7725 11 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much Stephen for this video.

  • @chigermany0330
    @chigermany0330 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the video. Very enlightening. I definitely have a few areas to work on and I am encouraged and motivated to make the necessary changes to better myself ✨🥰

  • @sheeva3.0
    @sheeva3.0 4 месяца назад

    Very helpful! Thank you Stephan!

  • @monacaltabiano936
    @monacaltabiano936 4 месяца назад +1

    Great analogy
    Thank you, Stephan - you're very wise and entertaining. 🙏

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @jameliabrown230
    @jameliabrown230 4 месяца назад +1

    Love the house Analogy! Real talk!!!

  • @j.m9189
    @j.m9189 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank you so much Stephan , i love this.

  • @myrakucharski552
    @myrakucharski552 3 месяца назад

    You're such a kind and thoughtful coach! Always say it like it is!!

  • @genehughes4022
    @genehughes4022 4 месяца назад +1

    Amen brother thank God for all his blessings and joy he brings to your heart

  • @avaloftin5670
    @avaloftin5670 3 месяца назад

    Good morning Bobbi. Yes, this is a beautiful message for today. Thank you. Have a wonderful day. See you and Chris tonight!❤️

  • @janware2805
    @janware2805 4 месяца назад

    Thanks Stefan you always give great advice and you always inspiring❤❤❤❤❤

  • @christinadowden2561
    @christinadowden2561 3 месяца назад

    Thank you! It’s good to hear this message.

  • @karenascholz4144
    @karenascholz4144 4 месяца назад

    Oooh... I like the backdrop upgrade. Nice. 🌟 🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @MAGAMomma27
    @MAGAMomma27 3 месяца назад +1

    You’re a good man! Thank you for being authentic and forthcoming. You are a breath of fresh air. You are spot on in every way.
    May God continue to Bless you abundantly. 🙏🏻

  • @Mary24700
    @Mary24700 4 месяца назад +9

    That house analogy was 💯💯💯, thank you for your messages!!!!

  • @teresacroft7409
    @teresacroft7409 4 месяца назад +2

    I use this analogy about dating. You have a budget and a style of vehicle you need. You see this really nice fancy car in the showroom floor. You take that fancy car out for a test drive. You want this car, but you know you gotta return it and buy what you really need / can afford. You want that person, but you know down deep this ain't the one.

  • @patriciaviii
    @patriciaviii 4 месяца назад +4

    Light colors look great on you! Great video btw!❤

  • @aliciajohnson3221
    @aliciajohnson3221 4 месяца назад +1

    I received it ALL in love. Thank you for being so careful and thoughtful in your approach. ❤ I love watching your videos..

  • @BrutimalRobinson-nq2os
    @BrutimalRobinson-nq2os 4 месяца назад +5

    I know my value and I know my worth and I can no longer put up with anymore bs

  • @christ_ministries
    @christ_ministries 4 месяца назад +2

    These videos are great. They offer so much insight. Thank you so much.

  • @Julie_loves_YHVH
    @Julie_loves_YHVH 4 месяца назад

    This was beautiful thank you for making this video. From my experience all of this is true. Years ago I was not making room for a relationship and my home wasn’t peaceful or put together. I thank God He’s helped me throughout the years and it’s made a huge difference in my life and how I can enjoy a peaceful home and life without those things.
    I will say, I never realized it until I did it. For those unsure just do it, it’s worth the peace of mind. ❤

  • @mpfree7
    @mpfree7 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for that video. It is very important to be able to look critically at yourself. Sometimes we really have things that we need to improve: maybe our life or surroundings are messy, maybe we are overweight or maybe too busy with chasing the wrong type of people. These thing might be hard to hear, but making an effort to improve them can make a huge difference.

  • @AlisonGobay
    @AlisonGobay 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video! So many good points. I especially liked the piece on confidence and authenticity. Loved the quote on confidence that you referred to. I'm going to continue to work on myself during my time of adjustment and I will definitely look into the eating for your blood type bit. You have great content. Thanks, Stephan.