I used to work at a job with alot of attractive women. It was a warehouse job so most women wore workout clothes. The men acted like kids in a candy shop! Most of the women loved the attention but it was lust not like. So many ppl were messing around, cheating, stalking, harassing. I had to get out of there
Same here! I worked at a job like that with mostly women and a few men. It was against the dress code for them to wear leggings but they managers who were men never said anything. Then an older female coworker was berated for wearing a shirt with a logo on it, really? I hated that.
Very true about the modesty fashion. When I changed my wardrobe to more modest, I attracted a lot of kindness from everyone at the gas station, grocery, etc…
@@cherylwebb8340 It does. Unfortunately, we live in a society where the women believe wearing less to nearly nothing empowers them, believing the way you dress means nothing.
Actually my wife dresses modestly and women still don't like her because of her beauty. Actually the more feminine you look, that means acting lady like and being modest is also extremely feminine and can trigger insecurity in evil women.
I second this statement. I am experiencing the same thing even from other so called Christian women. I’ve never received any harassment from men on my feminine modest style. I’ve mainly received it from other women who haven’t embraced their femininity.
Same here. Once I started dressing modestly, became more feminine..Men were everywhere. Wanting to court. I would say most women were hating me! Very, very resentful. Women have a scarcity mindset. Sad.
Girl same! I find the more that I dress modestly and feminine the men treated me with such respect and value. The women on the other hand, as soon as you wear dresses or skirts every day, attack you in very snide comments or acts. It’s like they hate the fact that you are embracing your God given femininity. I am going to change my wardrobe for Jesus even if other people may not like that.. stay strong!
Thank you for sharing this! There are ladies who are mean towards ladies who wear modest clothes and therefore are elegantly. Otherwise there is a group of ladies just hating those ladies who conciously wear modest and elegant clothes. My wife experience this for decades! She is wearing modest and elegant dresses and skirts and the meanest comments came and still come from ladies! I did not expect that.
As a black Christian woman, I appreciate your modesty videos and insight very much. I have shared the link with other Christian female friends as well, not as judgement but so that we all grow spiritually together and get more insight into who and how God wants us to be. Thanks for sharing.
This is a bit of separate question, but do you feel that judgment is misunderstood by a lot of Christians and atheists? I recently spoke somebody who pointed out that saying what one feels is best for a fellow believer to do isn't actually judging as it's not condemning them to Hell or anything like that and that in parts of the Bible that speak against judging, it has more to do with not criminally charging them and such. We see that in the New Testament, the most the church is supposed to do in the worst case scenario of unrepentant sin is excommunication, so I guess some level of judgment is allow for fellow believers who are unrepentant and in the church is permissible, though even then only if the person is completely unrepentant.
Beware of making dressing modesty your God or idol in the sense that it causes you to sin against God by judging others or condemning them for not dressing in modest. God loves all of us
Salaams sis, I’m right here with you! Her videos will definitely be relatable to sisters of our ummah. We need more authentic, feminine and black representation.
I was upskirted and touched by a strange man in public while grocery shopping. The next day I had a man touch my thigh on the bus. I remember going to my therapist and asking her does she think how I dress is causing this? She told she’s not blaming me for what happened but dressing modest minimized male attention. I noticed she always wore skirts that were long and flowy. She taught me the importance of modesty and from then on I got rid of my pants and started building a wardrobe of dresses and skirts only. I still have men who I feel just like to get a rise out of women whether modestly dressed or not bother me but no where near as much as when I didn’t dress modestly
That's so interesting. I wish I could wear dresses and skirts more but here in the UK it's so cold most of the time, it feels impracticle to do so. I'm going to pray about it though xx
@@theparttimehomemaker I get you, I live in the UK myself. What I've found that's worked is wearing thick thermal tights underneath dresses and skirts in winter months. Also wearing shorts underneath has helped aswell. Praying the Holy Spirit leads you on what to do.
The comparison of receiving respect vs lust 🙌 I used to dress exceedingly modest to the point of being called frumpy due to severe body acne. However, I started dressing less modest in a sort of rebellion against my insecurity. Always make sure you’re dressing that way for the right reasons or your heart won’t truly be there! Restarting my modesty journey now💛
As a Rasta wombman you are right on point...I tried telling this to my sisters they say I am old fashion... but if they will experience the honor and great regard issued by men and women... they too will feel the protection I am experiencing
I love the fact that you said that our sin as women gets in the way of us as women having healthy relationships. I always wondered why most women around me didn’t like me or they turn negative towards me when all I was trying to do was form friendships or get to know them. I internalized most of it. And I always question why women didn’t like me( most away ). I even thought that I was subconsciously putting out some type of negative energy. Many of the women around me start to exhibit a sort of non-verbal and unwanted competition with me when I wasn’t even competing and I was just trying to exist. It is not a good feeling but what you said definitely made things make a bit more sense.
Same. That unspoken competition is so true. You're not even thinking about competing. You're simply being you. In my mind, I be like, please stop trying to quietly compete, bc I'm not interested. 🙄
I think it’s instinctive. Before I was a Christian I had the same experience, but then after I got married I realized that a lot of the competition and rivalry stems from trying to protect your own status. My husband is a good Christian man, but he lives in a world where immodesty is EVERYWHERE, and it makes women uncomfortable to see her husband trying to dodge and avoid attractive women because they won’t be modest. And it’s not that we are less attractive physically than the immodest woman, it’s that in that moment, the temptation is to look at the one showing off her body. To be honest, I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum in my life and I still struggle with irritation towards other women when I see them half dressed around my husband.
But what if it situation’s isn’t about Immodesty; ( l know that is subject at hand) , but I dress appropriately and I still get negative vibes from most women… it makes me question the sisterhood of women. ( the internalization of their behavior could lead to insecurity , and I refuse to let that happen)
@@lisabee1260 I agree! You shouldn’t let that happen. Ben courson made a good point. He pointed out that statistically 25% of people will always like you, 25% will never like you, 25% will like you at first and could Be persuaded not to, and 25% will NOT like you at first and then change their minds. So as long as you’re being who God has called you to be, then you are just fine! 😉❤️
Wow. This is the first time I have heard a woman say the things I have been thinking and observing for years. Two opposite emotions honoring and lustful behaviors. Our daughters and young women need this . Thank you.
Am glad to never have exposed my body in dressing, in my 33 years of existence, I never wore skimpy/tight clothes that highlights my body shape (mind you I am blessed with a wonderful body, praise God). There's something about covering up ladies, it honors God.
I miss the eras when women always wanted to look their best before leaving their house, I work in retail, I see a lot of women in gym attire and once I saw 3 pre teens running around the store in little bikini bathing suits. I sometimes go to the grocery store wearing leggings and a t shirt, but most of the time when I am not at the gym I want to look my best. I love your series, even before coming across them, I have been changing my style to more feminine romantic looks, wearing skirts that are either below the knee or just at the knee, if my peplum tops or dresses that are too low cut, I will wear a tank top or a sports bra under the top so that my cleavage is always covered. I have noticed a huge difference now on how people treat me especially at my job or when I am having a date day with my husband.
God bless your soul for sharing this video! I’m fairly new on this modesty journey and the enemy was working on me tonight. I almost fell for the deception that the lustful treatment I used to get is better than the honor I receive now. After reading some scriptures and watching this video, I’m standing back on the foundation of the Lord’s truth! Amen! Also, your points about how God intended for women to interact reminded me of something my mother and I discuss often. Protection is often confused for oppression when it comes to the Lord’s guidance. Anyway, thank you again!!
Such a great topic you touched on. I think most women have had negative experiences trying to form meaningful bonds with other women. You mentioned that some great points!! And let's extend it further social media and celebrity influence are destroying the God given purpose of having healthy relationships as women.. why?? Because social media teaches us to be selfish, we boost our egos when we get attention...wrong attention by the sexual poses, and measuring each other based on physical beauty . We've been taught to be sexually liberated but really it's a form of slavery, we're been taught that the only way to be heard, to be valued and feel empowered is by taking our clothes off.. and add on the Kardashian cult.. women who with body dismorphya, whove done nothing but change alter their looks through surgery are dictating what beauty should look like.. making their beauty as superior..plastic beauty..'literally'..instead of loving the natural features that God gave us.. truly upside down world we live in...but Bindi it's women like you and many women who value modesty, our God given roles..in our example we can be a light to other women who are stuck in that vicious cycle of lust, vain beauty standards that will never lead to any happiness, and start creating healthy bonds as women. God said we are the salt of the earth! Being covered up is an honour, it's liberating! God truly knows what is best for us! And Bindi can I say you are stunningly beautiful!! Women are stunning and elegant when covered up!🙌💗🙏
100%. Thank you sister, your videos motivate me on this journey. The Lord has called me to modesty, laid it on my heart more and more recently. Would love to hear your thoughts/convictions on head covering. Blessings!
Very interesting. Thank you for that. I have three very impressionable boys. Modesty is top on my list. You can tell a lot about society by looking at the women in it…whichever way a women goes, so does society . Our society has gone some dark places. Someone else in the comments mentioned once you are modest, society will reflect that right back at you.
To your point, I've noticed that when I try bring a girl to church or certain Christian circles; the girl will usually be treated somewhat mean even on occasions where she is modestly dressed. Now, I move in really driven and successful circles, in which people take really good care of their bodies(shocking I know, since I'm not a looker lol). So I've concluded its probably their attractiveness that's the issue. Half the time folks won't believe the girl is an engineer or a CEO, etc... on account of the stereotype that too pretty probably means dumb or sinful, etc... Hence why I also believe stereotypes and pre-conceived notions should be addressed more. It's actually why I don't bring girls to church anymore too. What is your feedback? Sorry for the lengthy message. But your video reminded me of this.
wow that's a refreshing take on the Mean Girl Theory. I'm not used to Mean Girls I went to an old girl's Catholic High School and although that was a long time ago I'm used to women being kind to each other. but within the past few years I've encountered so many meaning cold women towards me and I will be more mindful of how I present myself to the world and I will Embrace modesty more cuz I just cannot stand the energy of the people around me and how I am treated by skinny jeans
And regardless lust is something you can lose…as a woman of a certain age..lust ages out vs respect stays throughout your years. Hard lesson for me in my past.
Who are designing Womens clothes these days-satan? It seems ridiculously difficult to find modest clothing I have to piece things together to “cover up” because there’s always a hole somewhere in the garment off the rack. By hole I mean it’s either low cut at the chest, slit up the skirt, bare shoulders, mini skirt , see-through, etc. or combo of!
That's what I notice too! I have to wear multiple layers just to wear one dress because the dress has holes like under the breast or on the back ... None of the clothes made today are just whole items 😔😅😅
I agree. I went shopping yesterday and was shocked how the ratio of crop tops outweighed normal/tunic length tops! If my arms lifted slightly you'd see my midriff (or under boob in some cases!). I'm a 26 year old mom of two little children and I don't fit in with how most women my age dress.
When switched to modest clothing specifically skirts, my daughter, sister and mother found it hard to understand and took it as a criticism of their choices
Can totally relate. It's part of the journey, just got to take your stand and eventually they'll get over it. It's not always easy though, I'll definitely admit.
Hello Bindi, I would love to hear your thoughts on “modest swimwear!” If there is such a thing? Now that I dress modestly, I’m torn when it comes to what to wear to the pool or beach. Swim team was my sport growing up so I appreciate the sport and workout benefits but with all that you are subjected to partial public nudity.
Would love to hear your perspective on dressing modestly among other Christian women who don't share your convictions on modesty. For me it's been pretty tough, because they automatically assume you must be judging them and many times I've found I've been dismissed as proud and judgemental. Do you have any experience of this and how have you dealt with it? For me, it's been to give them space, and to intentionally avoid looking at them much and what they're wearing and hopefully overtime they see that my attention is not on what they're wearing but on wanting to fellowship as a body of Christ. We're all on a journey and dressing differently does not always mean you're judging, it just means God has called you out to something different on that issue. Would love to hear your thoughts and really seeking to learn if there are other approaches you've taken that's been effective or if it's an experience at all.
Just read a thread by @MedleyTrey on Twitter that every admonishion about dressing modestly in the bible is about not flaunting wealth and material possessions. It has nothing to do with sex/sexuality. In cases of lust the bible always holds the person lusting responsible and NOT the subject of their lust. Please address this, thanks.
Right that’s what I came to say how can the “immodest” women be at fault for the way others jealous around her feel and act. Those women should have spoken with the lord in why they are uncomfortable with their own body or dress or why they feel the need to attack other women with certain body types. Looking at another woman who chooses to dress one way should not “make you” do or act a certain way that’s her choice, not yours to judge.
The bible may mean modesty in a different way than how most perceive it. However, it does tell more specifically on what to wear, like women should not wear men's clothes, women should cover their heads when praying, long hair is given to her for a covering. Timothy 2:9-10 "Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness-with good works"
It works both ways. A woman needs to dress in a modest, separated manner. Men need to practice self-control. None of this is cultural. The Bible does not say that. It is Biblical.
The Bible does, too, hold the subject responsible in part. It clearly says that people should not contribute to others' sin. 1 Corinthians 8:9 But you must be careful so that your freedom does not cause others with a weaker conscience to stumble
The bible definitely teaches us (both men and women) to not cause our brothers to stumble. Dressing overly sexually definitely will do that. I know the context is about eating food that's sacrificed to idols but it seems to be more than a coincidence that the verse can be applied to other parts of life.
Never been honored by a man, personally. I get more gawking from dressing modest because it stands out more and ends up ppl like a little mystery. Plus my shape is actually not appealing to many ppl. I just wear some leggings and a tunic like everyone else.
I used to work at a job with alot of attractive women. It was a warehouse job so most women wore workout clothes. The men acted like kids in a candy shop! Most of the women loved the attention but it was lust not like. So many ppl were messing around, cheating, stalking, harassing. I had to get out of there
Same here! I worked at a job like that with mostly women and a few men. It was against the dress code for them to wear leggings but they managers who were men never said anything. Then an older female coworker was berated for wearing a shirt with a logo on it, really? I hated that.
I’m a 20 yr old Christian girl and I’m just getting into modest dressing.
26 and starting too
OMG same. Done sold my ungodly outfits
teen Christian girl here and I’m getting into modesty as well and struggling to find clothes that aren’t crop tops. 😭
Very true about the modesty fashion. When I changed my wardrobe to more modest, I attracted a lot of kindness from everyone at the gas station, grocery, etc…
How we present ourselves means a lot. Modest, beautiful, and orderly appearance definitely commands respect.
@@cherylwebb8340 It does. Unfortunately, we live in a society where the women believe wearing less to nearly nothing empowers them, believing the way you dress means nothing.
I think modest dressing is just pretty, sophisticated and feminine. Not overdoing makeup is also good. I go for a natural fresh look.
Actually my wife dresses modestly and women still don't like her because of her beauty. Actually the more feminine you look, that means acting lady like and being modest is also extremely feminine and can trigger insecurity in evil women.
I second this statement. I am experiencing the same thing even from other so called Christian women. I’ve never received any harassment from men on my feminine modest style. I’ve mainly received it from other women who haven’t embraced their femininity.
Agreed. Femininity is a threat to other women. Shame.
Same here. Once I started dressing modestly, became more feminine..Men were everywhere. Wanting to court. I would say most women were hating me! Very, very resentful. Women have a scarcity mindset. Sad.
Girl same! I find the more that I dress modestly and feminine the men treated me with such respect and value. The women on the other hand, as soon as you wear dresses or skirts every day, attack you in very snide comments or acts. It’s like they hate the fact that you are embracing your God given femininity. I am going to change my wardrobe for Jesus even if other people may not like that.. stay strong!
Thank you for sharing this!
There are ladies who are mean towards ladies who wear modest clothes and therefore are elegantly.
Otherwise there is a group of ladies just hating those ladies who conciously wear modest and elegant clothes.
My wife experience this for decades! She is wearing modest and elegant dresses and skirts and the meanest comments came and still come from ladies! I did not expect that.
As a black Christian woman, I appreciate your modesty videos and insight very much. I have shared the link with other Christian female friends as well, not as judgement but so that we all grow spiritually together and get more insight into who and how God wants us to be. Thanks for sharing.
This is a bit of separate question, but do you feel that judgment is misunderstood by a lot of Christians and atheists? I recently spoke somebody who pointed out that saying what one feels is best for a fellow believer to do isn't actually judging as it's not condemning them to Hell or anything like that and that in parts of the Bible that speak against judging, it has more to do with not criminally charging them and such. We see that in the New Testament, the most the church is supposed to do in the worst case scenario of unrepentant sin is excommunication, so I guess some level of judgment is allow for fellow believers who are unrepentant and in the church is permissible, though even then only if the person is completely unrepentant.
As a Black Muslim woman, I appreciate your modesty videos so much.
Beware of making dressing modesty your God or idol in the sense that it causes you to sin against God by judging others or condemning them for not dressing in modest. God loves all of us
Salaams sis, I’m right here with you! Her videos will definitely be relatable to sisters of our ummah. We need more authentic, feminine and black representation.
@@yolisamrso9827 thankyou for that reminder its real. The enemy is always trying
@shamounian
I was upskirted and touched by a strange man in public while grocery shopping. The next day I had a man touch my thigh on the bus. I remember going to my therapist and asking her does she think how I dress is causing this? She told she’s not blaming me for what happened but dressing modest minimized male attention. I noticed she always wore skirts that were long and flowy. She taught me the importance of modesty and from then on I got rid of my pants and started building a wardrobe of dresses and skirts only. I still have men who I feel just like to get a rise out of women whether modestly dressed or not bother me but no where near as much as when I didn’t dress modestly
That's so interesting. I wish I could wear dresses and skirts more but here in the UK it's so cold most of the time, it feels impracticle to do so. I'm going to pray about it though xx
@@theparttimehomemaker I get you, I live in the UK myself. What I've found that's worked is wearing thick thermal tights underneath dresses and skirts in winter months. Also wearing shorts underneath has helped aswell. Praying the Holy Spirit leads you on what to do.
@@hollyozioma Thank you, Holly. I'll definitely explore layering xxx
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The comparison of receiving respect vs lust 🙌 I used to dress exceedingly modest to the point of being called frumpy due to severe body acne. However, I started dressing less modest in a sort of rebellion against my insecurity. Always make sure you’re dressing that way for the right reasons or your heart won’t truly be there! Restarting my modesty journey now💛
As a Rasta wombman you are right on point...I tried telling this to my sisters they say I am old fashion... but if they will experience the honor and great regard issued by men and women... they too will feel the protection I am experiencing
I love the fact that you said that our sin as women gets in the way of us as women having healthy relationships. I always wondered why most women around me didn’t like me or they turn negative towards me when all I was trying to do was form friendships or get to know them. I internalized most of it. And I always question why women didn’t like me( most away ). I even thought that I was subconsciously putting out some type of negative energy.
Many of the women around me start to exhibit a sort of non-verbal and unwanted competition with me when I wasn’t even competing and I was just trying to exist. It is not a good feeling but what you said definitely made things make a bit more sense.
I've had the same experience. This video is helping me a lot!
Same. That unspoken competition is so true. You're not even thinking about competing. You're simply being you. In my mind, I be like, please stop trying to quietly compete, bc I'm not interested. 🙄
I think it’s instinctive. Before I was a Christian I had the same experience, but then after I got married I realized that a lot of the competition and rivalry stems from trying to protect your own status. My husband is a good Christian man, but he lives in a world where immodesty is EVERYWHERE, and it makes women uncomfortable to see her husband trying to dodge and avoid attractive women because they won’t be modest.
And it’s not that we are less attractive physically than the immodest woman, it’s that in that moment, the temptation is to look at the one showing off her body.
To be honest, I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum in my life and I still struggle with irritation towards other women when I see them half dressed around my husband.
But what if it situation’s isn’t about Immodesty; ( l know that is subject at hand) , but I dress appropriately and I still get negative vibes from most women… it makes me question the sisterhood of women. ( the internalization of their behavior could lead to insecurity , and I refuse to let that happen)
@@lisabee1260 I agree! You shouldn’t let that happen. Ben courson made a good point. He pointed out that statistically 25% of people will always like you, 25% will never like you, 25% will like you at first and could
Be persuaded not to, and 25% will NOT like you at first and then change their minds.
So as long as you’re being who God has called you to be, then you are just fine! 😉❤️
Wow. This is the first time I have heard a woman say the things I have been thinking and observing for years. Two opposite emotions honoring and lustful behaviors. Our daughters and young women need this . Thank you.
Am glad to never have exposed my body in dressing, in my 33 years of existence, I never wore skimpy/tight clothes that highlights my body shape (mind you I am blessed with a wonderful body, praise God). There's something about covering up ladies, it honors God.
Looking like a box doesn’t look feminine either…
God almighty knows why we must dress modest as much as possible in the outside world
I miss the eras when women always wanted to look their best before leaving their house, I work in retail, I see a lot of women in gym attire and once I saw 3 pre teens running around the store in little bikini bathing suits. I sometimes go to the grocery store wearing leggings and a t shirt, but most of the time when I am not at the gym I want to look my best. I love your series, even before coming across them, I have been changing my style to more feminine romantic looks, wearing skirts that are either below the knee or just at the knee, if my peplum tops or dresses that are too low cut, I will wear a tank top or a sports bra under the top so that my cleavage is always covered. I have noticed a huge difference now on how people treat me especially at my job or when I am having a date day with my husband.
God bless your soul for sharing this video! I’m fairly new on this modesty journey and the enemy was working on me tonight. I almost fell for the deception that the lustful treatment I used to get is better than the honor I receive now. After reading some scriptures and watching this video, I’m standing back on the foundation of the Lord’s truth! Amen! Also, your points about how God intended for women to interact reminded me of something my mother and I discuss often. Protection is often confused for oppression when it comes to the Lord’s guidance. Anyway, thank you again!!
Such a great topic you touched on. I think most women have had negative experiences trying to form meaningful bonds with other women. You mentioned that some great points!! And let's extend it further social media and celebrity influence are destroying the God given purpose of having healthy relationships as women.. why?? Because social media teaches us to be selfish, we boost our egos when we get attention...wrong attention by the sexual poses, and measuring each other based on physical beauty . We've been taught to be sexually liberated but really it's a form of slavery, we're been taught that the only way to be heard, to be valued and feel empowered is by taking our clothes off.. and add on the Kardashian cult.. women who with body dismorphya, whove done nothing but change alter their looks through surgery are dictating what beauty should look like.. making their beauty as superior..plastic beauty..'literally'..instead of loving the natural features that God gave us.. truly upside down world we live in...but Bindi it's women like you and many women who value modesty, our God given roles..in our example we can be a light to other women who are stuck in that vicious cycle of lust, vain beauty standards that will never lead to any happiness, and start creating healthy bonds as women. God said we are the salt of the earth! Being covered up is an honour, it's liberating! God truly knows what is best for us! And Bindi can I say you are stunningly beautiful!! Women are stunning and elegant when covered up!🙌💗🙏
Excellent !!!!! 💛💛💛
100%. Thank you sister, your videos motivate me on this journey. The Lord has called me to modesty, laid it on my heart more and more recently. Would love to hear your thoughts/convictions on head covering. Blessings!
I am now on my modesty journey and I feel so amazing! I feel beautiful and happy! God knows what is best for his daughters!
Very interesting. Thank you for that. I have three very impressionable boys. Modesty is top on my list. You can tell a lot about society by looking at the women in it…whichever way a women goes, so does society . Our society has gone some dark places. Someone else in the comments mentioned once you are modest, society will reflect that right back at you.
so happy to come across your page!
I work in a corporate environment and dress appropriately that is modestly and men still sexually harassed me at the work place.
Bindi,you nailed it, honor
👑 energy 💯
Though it takes courage but its the right thing to do. Bravo Ma'am 💗🤗
To your point, I've noticed that when I try bring a girl to church or certain Christian circles; the girl will usually be treated somewhat mean even on occasions where she is modestly dressed. Now, I move in really driven and successful circles, in which people take really good care of their bodies(shocking I know, since I'm not a looker lol). So I've concluded its probably their attractiveness that's the issue. Half the time folks won't believe the girl is an engineer or a CEO, etc... on account of the stereotype that too pretty probably means dumb or sinful, etc... Hence why I also believe stereotypes and pre-conceived notions should be addressed more. It's actually why I don't bring girls to church anymore too.
What is your feedback? Sorry for the lengthy message. But your video reminded me of this.
wow that's a refreshing take on the Mean Girl Theory. I'm not used to Mean Girls I went to an old girl's Catholic High School and although that was a long time ago I'm used to women being kind to each other. but within the past few years I've encountered so many meaning cold women towards me and I will be more mindful of how I present myself to the world and I will Embrace modesty more cuz I just cannot stand the energy of the people around me and how I am treated by skinny jeans
Amen! Love this truth sister
Wonderful points! ❤️
And regardless lust is something you can lose…as a woman of a certain age..lust ages out vs respect stays throughout your years. Hard lesson for me in my past.
More men have openned doors for me etc when im dressed modestly and feminine. Was like light and day. Starting to dress like this now.
Who are designing Womens clothes these days-satan? It seems ridiculously difficult to find modest clothing I have to piece things together to “cover up” because there’s always a hole somewhere in the garment off the rack. By hole I mean it’s either low cut at the chest, slit up the skirt, bare shoulders, mini skirt , see-through, etc. or combo of!
That's what I notice too! I have to wear multiple layers just to wear one dress because the dress has holes like under the breast or on the back ... None of the clothes made today are just whole items 😔😅😅
I agree. I went shopping yesterday and was shocked how the ratio of crop tops outweighed normal/tunic length tops! If my arms lifted slightly you'd see my midriff (or under boob in some cases!). I'm a 26 year old mom of two little children and I don't fit in with how most women my age dress.
It's definitely Satan's minions desinging the clothing of today. The clothes (or lack thereof) most females wear is shocking.
Hi !!!! 💛
When switched to modest clothing specifically skirts, my daughter, sister and mother found it hard to understand and took it as a criticism of their choices
Can totally relate. It's part of the journey, just got to take your stand and eventually they'll get over it. It's not always easy though, I'll definitely admit.
Hello Bindi, I would love to hear your thoughts on “modest swimwear!” If there is such a thing? Now that I dress modestly, I’m torn when it comes to what to wear to the pool or beach. Swim team was my sport growing up so I appreciate the sport and workout benefits but with all that you are subjected to partial public nudity.
Love this😍😍😍
Facts!
Would love to hear your perspective on dressing modestly among other Christian women who don't share your convictions on modesty. For me it's been pretty tough, because they automatically assume you must be judging them and many times I've found I've been dismissed as proud and judgemental. Do you have any experience of this and how have you dealt with it?
For me, it's been to give them space, and to intentionally avoid looking at them much and what they're wearing and hopefully overtime they see that my attention is not on what they're wearing but on wanting to fellowship as a body of Christ. We're all on a journey and dressing differently does not always mean you're judging, it just means God has called you out to something different on that issue.
Would love to hear your thoughts and really seeking to learn if there are other approaches you've taken that's been effective or if it's an experience at all.
I get much more respect and honor from men when I dress feminine and modesty
Just read a thread by @MedleyTrey on Twitter that every admonishion about dressing modestly in the bible is about not flaunting wealth and material possessions. It has nothing to do with sex/sexuality. In cases of lust the bible always holds the person lusting responsible and NOT the subject of their lust. Please address this, thanks.
Right that’s what I came to say how can the “immodest” women be at fault for the way others jealous around her feel and act. Those women should have spoken with the lord in why they are uncomfortable with their own body or dress or why they feel the need to attack other women with certain body types.
Looking at another woman who chooses to dress one way should not “make you” do or act a certain way that’s her choice, not yours to judge.
The bible may mean modesty in a different way than how most perceive it. However, it does tell more specifically on what to wear, like women should not wear men's clothes, women should cover their heads when praying, long hair is given to her for a covering. Timothy 2:9-10 "Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness-with good works"
It works both ways. A woman needs to dress in a modest, separated manner. Men need to practice self-control. None of this is cultural. The Bible does not say that. It is Biblical.
The Bible does, too, hold the subject responsible in part. It clearly says that people should not contribute to others' sin.
1 Corinthians 8:9
But you must be careful so that your freedom does not cause others with a weaker conscience to stumble
The bible definitely teaches us (both men and women) to not cause our brothers to stumble. Dressing overly sexually definitely will do that. I know the context is about eating food that's sacrificed to idols but it seems to be more than a coincidence that the verse can be applied to other parts of life.
I do not envy women who get attention because they dress immodest; I actually feel sorry for them.
Just for clarity: do most of you maintain that wearing pants is immodest?
She addresses this in the videos before.
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Never been honored by a man, personally. I get more gawking from dressing modest because it stands out more and ends up ppl like a little mystery. Plus my shape is actually not appealing to many ppl. I just wear some leggings and a tunic like everyone else.
I noticed this too. I used to think in order to not be invisible I had to to highlight my body in an immodest way. Turned out to not be true at all.
That's what I thought also
I thank God we found this video, so we can change ❤️
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