(S2E13) HOMEMAKING & THE FEMININE WOMAN | How To: Femininity
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00:00 Teaser
00:40 www.themodestfitting.com/
01:04 The Gentle & Quiet Spirit | Feminine Appearance, Manner, & Nature
07:54 The Weaker Vessel: Softness & Delicateness
12:38 Sweet Submission & Dependence upon men
15:08 Masculine Traits & Expression in Women
20:29 How & Why Men Value Femininity
24:50 The Housewife / Homemaker is the Most Feminine of All
26:18 "That's how you put your balls on the table!"
27:30 Being a woman, wife, mother, and homemaker
29:20 Inner Femininity vs. Outer Femininity
34:28 Outro
#FeminineWomen #Homemaking #Proverbs31Woman 
Хобби
I remember one time when I was working as a waitress in my early 20s, I had accidentally dropped a plate full of water glasses on the floor. One ignorant person in the restaurant stood up and clapped, and I was so humiliated that I just hung my head and started to clean the mess up quietly with everyone staring at me. Right away, an older gentleman stood up and told that person to stop clapping and being foolish. It’s been over 10 years since that happened and I still remember it because it was so significant in forming my perspective on men. I’m so thankful that God created men to protect us, and it’s so beautiful to see how it comes out even in the smallest ways.
I a from the restaurant industry and we would all do that to each other. It was literally apart of the culture of the restaurant (olive garden). We did help each other out though. I will celebrate and help a server till this day! (Most men wont allow the help) It's basically away of showing its no big deal 🤷🏾♀️
Significant right?!
Mamas raise your boys to stand up and to serve women! This is often found within the older generations, but is going out of style these days!!!
@@brecruz4832 ehhh not serve women.
This is wisdom and light that the enemy doesn't want married women to see or understand. Bindi your channel and insight are so needed, I ask God everyday to sanctify my phone and it's content and I consider you a godsend!
Nor does the enemy want single women to recognize Godly wisdom either. 🌷
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AMEN!
👍🏾⬆️👍🏾⬆️all the way down the row
@@bph7506 Amen
Bindi, I'm 67 and I have been in church a long time and many ladies conferences. I have never heard anyone speak as well as you do. You are so intuitive and articulate. So very helpful and a blessing to many women, I'm sure of that. God Bless you
She had a gift! Thankfully the Holy Spirit is opening a desire in men and women to repent of our sin and turn back to a biblical lifestyle!!
You probably know this already but the way your channel is growing… let me tell you, what you are doing is sooo needed but many women have felt they can’t be honest about this because of our culture today!! THANKYOU. .
Real talk!!! Thank your for sharing your comment!!
As a man I watched this from beginning to end. It was refreshing to my Soul just to hear a feminine woman speak ....Lord send me a feminine woman too.
AMEN
Word! Amen brother.
Ask him at Psalms 83;18
Amen brother.
amen!
I remember when I was dating my husband he looked me dead in the face and said “wow you are a whole lot of woman!” And a few months later he proposed 💍. I’m thankfully for a mother and father who showed their children gender roles in a marriage. My mother was a stay at home mother and my father worked as a police officer. I know that’s a privilege but it was one that blessed our family. All three of my brothers are married and are amazing providers for their families. Gods way is the only way!
That's so beautiful ❤️ congratulations!
Amen!!! Well said!!!
Your point about a gentle and quiet spirit being the RESULT instead of instructions was something I've never heard before... It completely changes the way I read that verse, thank you for explaining that!
Yes! That struck me as very wise too! Like a baby with his mother! Love that!
That was so profound 🤯🙌🏼. That's rhema right there. Powerful statement 🔥
I would like to believe that the Bible in its wholeness is result than instruction. The holy spirit and faith in our father is to give us the qualities he wants us to have.. we just have to ask, and have faith he will give. Amen sisters 👏🙌
9:38 "This isnt an issue of differences in value... this is a difference in design" So beautifully stated!
i am so happy i found your channel. i am 30 years old, i have two babies under 2 years old. my husband and I have been married 4 years. i recently left my job after having the 2nd baby to be a full time stay at home mother, wife and homemaker. The amount of pressure i get daily to return to work is absurd. family members friends etc. everyone wants to know when i am going back to work and why i’m not going back to “work”. It is so counter cultural today for a woman to stay home especially couples around our age. It is so refreshing to hear TRUTH. i know that the lord called me to stay home and it is the most fulfilling to me as well❤️
You're videos challenge me. Every. Single. Time. Almost everything within me wants to turn off because of my pride, but I continue and push on putting my pride to the side and I have been noticing the change in my husband and daughter when I put myself aside and implement your suggestions according to the Bible. Thank you for everything you share with us.
I am in the same boat. She says things in the begining that make me want to turn away but at the end of her explanation, I wonder how I ever thought differently.
Even as an unmarried woman, this is so helpful! I realize that if I want to attract a Godly and manly husband, I need to grow in embracing my femininity.
It’s funny that you posted this today because I just had a conversation about how gender is under attack in this country. I agree with all you said. Unfortunately, however, many women -dare I say most of them - exhibit more masculinity than femininity, and vice versa for the men. I think women have for so long competed with men, that they have forgone what it means to be a woman. And to top that off, there are people who wanted to do away totally with gender identity. There is a new generation of people ascribing to the idea that gender doesn’t even exist, and therefore femininity and masculinity are social constructs. Men look and act like women; women look and act like men. Lord help us all!
Agree sista
Amen sister.
Maybe that is exactly why so many people are confused as to whether they are a male or a female. . .
You're right. But your phone is spying you
Years ago I watched a documentary about a hippie colony in CA in the 60's-70's and it highlighted how the men and women wanted to all treat each other as equals. So when a bunch of men started to build shelters, a bunch of the women took on masculine qualities and worked all day with the men and the other women stayed behind and cooked and cared for the children all day. When it was dinnertime, the men and women working with them would go to the common space and eat and then the men opted to spend the night with the women who had been cooking and caretaking all day. The more the builder women spent time trying to be equals they realized the less the men desired them. 😁Cause even the hippies realized God's design was not to make us equal, we are created to each play a specific role. ❤️🙏🏻Love your channel, you are such a blessing to listen to!
I am loving your videos. It is so comforting to have a space where traditional Christian womanhood and femininity is normal. Thank you for being bold enough to share this wisdom. 💜
God bless you I just want to say that not only did you change my outlook of a Godly wife but you have made me examine my role as a God husband. I believe not only can wives learn for your videos but husbands also. Thank you
The gentle and quiet spirit is the result of placing your trust fully in the Lord!! Wow! Bindi this is great!! Thank you
Right? Be Still and Know That I Am God.
Wow. As a young woman this is extremely eye-opening. I am so thankful that you have shared this, it has given me the information that our society hasn’t. I now know how I’m supposed to look, talk, walk, and act. I can adjust accordingly. THANK YOU SO MUCH
Yay! Just don’t forget that the actions/exterior she describes come from a heart fully submitted, and in close communion, to the Lord ❤️ Just adjusting our outward appearance and actions is like trying to get a plant to grow without actually planting it and allowing it to have strong roots.
Amen sister! The weaker vessel, in your example the fine China, is often times made as a display of beauty, and is PRIZED for its delicacy and fine details. It still serves a great purpose, but wisdom dictates it should not be used in ways it was not made for for fear of damaging its value.
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Well said!
Sisssss, I absolutely LOVE this video and the new content you are putting out, especially as a fellow biblical homemaking content creator. ❤️ I absolutely agree with this message, and you spoke the truth in such an enlightening and elegant manner. ❤️ I will be sharing this video with my subscribers as well. 💖
Also, you and your girls are so beautiful! I loved the dresses you are your daughter had on. I cannot wait until your collection debuts because I will certainly be supporting 🤍.
OMG! YOU & Bindi are my absolute favorites on RUclips!! What a dream!😍
@@myaw.7043 yessss!! I love habits of a homemaker!!
@@myaw.7043 Aww, thank you so much!❤️🤗
@@leajones8457 Thank you lovely!❤️ Love you too🥰
Melinated Moms Uniting Once Again! #B-More N da 🏠!!
My husband and I both grew up in poverty. So at his request I work full-time. However, 12 years later we're still in love and I still desire to grow as a wife. I often ask him "Am I doing a good job as a wife and has a mother? Is there anything I can do better?" Lately, I no longer have to ask, he'll come tell me how good I am doing. I told him yesterday after I found your page, that God is about to take me to another level. 🙌🏽 Thanks for your content. I may not be a sahm, but I can improve as a feminine wife! I have never really been outwardly masculine, but I do tend to take on a do it myself mentality when I get stressed. I also tend to shrink myself. I also overly simplify my appearance.
I absolutely love these Godly homemaking femininity talk and I’d love MORE. I also would love to see more footage of you doing it too 🤍
I just got married a month ago and your videos have blessed myself and my marriage beyond what words can describe. The conviction and encouragement that you have brought are priceless gems that I will hold on to and come back to over and over again. Thank you for speaking the truth in love.
A quick request: I'm in the search for dresses that are made of cotton instead of polyester! I would love if you would take the type of fabric into consideration for your clothing line! Lol a kind of bougie request, but a request nonetheless. Can't wait to see your collection!
I avoid synthetic fabrics also!! Be bougie!!! It is healthier for your skin.
I am SO HAPPY that I came across your channel!!!
Practically everyone with a platform is talking about femininity as it relates to the opposite sex, but they're doing it from a very superficial point of view.
It's shallow and only falls in line with the rest of the toxic, redundant, generalized societal rhetoric that forces us to venture further away from the human experince in its totality. Your content is so wholesome and is completely in its own lane, one that allows us to re-examine our inner most selves but still tie that in with our physical.
I'm so thankful for you! As a christian woman striving and working on being feminine. I get upset that I had no role models growing up with very delicate women. It was always masculine with feminine characteristics and nice clothes and heels, be strong, you don't need a man. I've almost fought guys in high school growing up. Smh, so I found that I ended up having narcissistic tendencies in every aspect of my life once I got married. My husband told me one day that I'm not a delicate woman. Now at 26 I'm currently trying to undo the masculine things in my life. Y'all pray for me. I'm so upset 😭 i take full accountability for my actions but it's still upsetting while healing and trying to find femininity and it's even more upsetting that it's not spoken more amongst the church and that we don't have many mothers in the church to help the young sisters. It gets very lonely especially not having guidance on what one may call common sense but another may not know.
What a blessing that you’re only 26! Some women don’t come to this realization till much older. Don’t beat yourself up, keep drawing near to God, reading His Word, and pray pray pray! Pray for positive friendships and examples, God has blessed me recently in the friendship area in a way I thought wasn’t possible at 30 💛. Don’t be discouraged, God’s got this 🙏🏾💛💐
@@dlittle3623 thank you so much for that encouraging word! ❤️🙌🏽
May the lord give you the grace to finish this race. Be careful now the enemy is not happy you came to this realization, so he will fight you. Temptations will arise but pls remain true to the course. God bless you sister
You have youth on your side... while I loved my heels, if you were wearing them, you best be able to run in them. I grew up in a tough area and fighting was normal. While I loved nice clothes, my mouth had it's own opinions. I had to be the man at home, fixing things that were broken. My late husband created this... now I realize why house work is so menial to me. I met a wonderful man that had one word come out of his mouth that started my revolution.... Honor. Then, learning about modesty, I ran into Bindi... submerse yourself with her knowledge and wisdom. You'll be just fine. God Bless you.
@@KingJesus41 thank you my sister! Continue to pray for me. ❤️ I will take your advice 🙏🏽
Can this be a podcast or can you make this a series for purchase so that I can always have this for my young daughter. Such a priceless series!
You can also download and keep it for your daughter, just a suggestion.
Oh Bindi, I want to cry from the sweetness that you've helped me believe could be mine. I am starting over at 49 after 25 years of marriage riddled with emotional abuse, his addiction to drugs and alcohol, and untreated bipolar illness. I allowed myself to take on all the masculine roles. To stop being feminine in all areas of my life. I didn't believe I deserved the help, aid, and protection of men. That was for ladies, and I was never going to be one because I wasn't special enough. The physical labor, the financial worries, being responsible to make his life as easy as possible, all of it has really worn me down. I'm old, fat, frumpy, just learning to shower regularly again, think my own thoughts again, try foods that I want again, and because of this video, maybe start to be soft again. But even the idea is scary, because I feel so uppity to think I have a right for someone to carry something for me. That's always been MY place, to lift the burdens of others.
🤗 I don't know what to say but Jesus loves you. He loves you so much ❤️
@@faithsibanda403 oh thank you for that sweet reminder! You couldn't have said anything more perfect! The love of Jesus has been my hope and comfort throughout this.
@@alreadyandthenotyet I can imagine, this was some journey but I'm so happy it's brought you to God and you're working on yourself and becoming more feminine. The devil must have wanted you to come out bitter, and just believing God has no plan for you, but to his dismay you are the exact opposite and it's truly only through Christ that you sound like nothing you've been through. I believe he will give you beauty for your ashes ❣️.
@@faithsibanda403 thank you. He truly is doing just that!
I love your messages! They are so important for women to hear. I also love how your daughters always follow you throughout the house... So adorable! They are learning well from you. 💞
This is much appreciated, I have been concerned that my nature has always been aggressive and outgoing. I see this in my baby girl (now 9 months). Everyone takes notice of her aggressive and outgoing nature. I am going to school to become a psychologist and I was concerned this was a biological temperament, One that I honestly have struggled to find a solution for. It is very difficult for me to be quiet and tender and peace... but its everything I want to be, everything I admire. I love your nature and I am taking your message to heart, I will truly need to examine my trust with God, I find that to be very profound. I can see my aggression and need to lead agitated when I get scared, when I no longer have trust in those around me even to do what needs to be done. God is the one I should be trusting. Thank you for your message, I just subscribed
That's not a bad trait. You just have to learn to control it and use it when needed, because you'll need it.
You can't change who you are. That's what God wanted for you. Women are not suppose to be a monolith.
This isn’t biblical so cannot be from the lord. God wants all women to have a gentle and quiet spirit. It’s what pleasing to the Lord. This video explains it beautifully x
i like how you are connecting all of this to the bible. like many feminity ppl get kinda spiritial about it but its not christian so it feels kinda "new age" to me. like som type of connect with you femeine goddess type stuff lol. but i appreciate the biblical approach. you give me alot to think about. thanks sis
I love how you said that a gentle and quiet spirit comes automatically to a woman a truly and completely trusts God. And THAT is what I will now begin to pray through.
I thank the Lord that you are allowing God to use you as a vessel. I'm 42 years old and I'm still trying to break out of these masculine ways I was raised in. Love how you can go into slang and back into proper speech in a millisecond, lol 😆.
Yes, I love your content! It's so wholesome and full of wisdom, and the best part is that it's Christ centered. As a young black woman and new believer this is what's I need to hear and be fed, and just recently I've begun my femininity journey cuz I felt so lost and misguided and like my life wasn't in line with the Lord, and after praying so much for help and wisdom and guidance I fell across your channel and this young woman named Jasmyne Theodora, and you've helped me so so much. I'm so grateful for the Lord bringing you into my life☺️💖 I love homemaking and the thought of being a stay at home wife and mother, and in a world that looks down on that it's hard to find good godly teaching on the subject
Whoa. This is the BEST explanation on femininity I have EVER heard. I love learning about Biblical womanhood, and girrrrrl, your stuff is at the TOP of the info list. God has GIFTED YOU, my sister! THANK YOU for making this video...I have a feeling my marriage is about to get a whole lot better and my home a lot cleaner. BLESS.
Wow! I have never seen or thought of it that way. A gentle and quiet spirits as a result of her putting her full trust in God. That really is amazing!
I do think there is a bigger issue than women not being feminine enough specifically in the black community. Naturally, most women are feminine when we feel secure and safe. It is not something we learn but are born with. For example, as a baby my daughter was quiet, gentle, observing, and friendly vs my baby nephews were more demanding with tempers lol to this day they are so outgoing, energetic, loving, and rough lol (note they are raised with both parents). Not sure, but from my experience men of other races have been quicker to assist in protecting or helping me. For example, I remember I was pregnant working at mcdonalds I dropped some ketchup and the white men ran to my aid to pick it up. While black men sat idle. Nothing about my femininity had changed. I didn't even have to ask they just knew to act. Not sure if black men naturally lack this instinct because they lack masculinity due to the fact that they were raised by single mothers? In my experience if a woman is feminine or not will not ensure a man's protection or masculine traits towards you. For this reason, I believe it is just as important to teach our daughters self defense lessons, signs of danger and so on. This is important because the majority of black men lack the courage and or know how to be a masculine. Many of them have spoken out and said they will only protect the women they have relationships and bonds with. Again, be feminine but also be aware of the times we live in better safe than sorry.
I'm not of African ancestry, but I have noticed this. Euro-American men tend to come from a different culture. They're more likely to have a mother and father. Conservative or traditionalist white men are the most likely to help out, even more so.
Also, I've realized that I can wear a skirt and still aim a gun. Some women behave more masculine women practicing self-defense, but that doesn't make them any better at getting the shot. While long hair is a risk with self-defense, you can wrap it around the predator's neck to choke them out. We don't have to go full on GI Jane.
Many of us had female ancestors that rode out in a dress to protect their family, especially the children.
Aggressive personalities don't guarantee success. Our nurturing can make a difference in some scenarios. It's just something that shouldn't be forgotten.
I wonder if this is generational and maybe even regional related. I find the opposite. I have found most Anglo-Caucasian men act like I don't exist and will run me over on the side walk, push in front of me at a counter or dismiss me. I have found most Brown men are attentive. But I will say this, in general I worry about all young men of all ethnicities. I am wondering what are we teaching them. What I see is disturbing.
This is very true. there a various reasons why this happens. It isn't always because a women does it deliberately or even recognizes that she is doing it. I lost my mom at a very young age. My dad raised me who did not seem to get how sensitive little girls are...I grew up and became what I thought was self reliant. However i soon realized it was God who had been carrying me, protecting me, providing for me all along. I am thankful to be a Daughter of our heavenly father, his love has humbled me as he has softened any rough edges that tried to develope. He put a stop to it. I am grateful.
Excited to come across your channel. I see you are launching a modest clothing line, please carry organic cotton, linen. So hard to find modest clothing that's not polyester or other toxic fabric that wont break the bank.
Amen to this!!! Finding feminine clothing in organic cotton can be such a struggle! I pay a ton of money for my clothing.
Love this video!!! 😁 I am 18 and I will love if you could make a video on how to wear dresses and skirts in the winter or make a feminine winter capsule wardrobe.
Be the change that you want to see. I would love a video like that! i'm 17.
I LOVE ❤️ 💕 LOVE 💗 LOVE ❤️ LOVE 💕 THIS VIDEO ITS PERFECT FOR LITTLE GIRLS AND WOMAN TO WATCH!!! Thank you so much! I loved how you explained what a quiet and meek spirit is and how you talked about submissive wives and how woman are the weaker vessels how fragile and delicate we are. PRAISE BE TO GOD! Thank you!
there was a time my husband had a business lunch and my son and I didn’t go to the business lunch but we figured we will go with him, walk around and then we’ll do something as a family after the lunch. While doing that, a homeless person started chasing after my son and I as my husband was already at the lunch. My only instinct was to get away and protect my son. My son at the time three, kept saying “mommy I’m scared, let's go to daddy!” but we were a ways off. What really warmed me afterwards was the response of males. there was this one guy who literally said get behind me and he faced off the with the homeless person and then other males surrounded the homeless person to ward him off. another thing that happened, the woman who was dinning with the tall male blocked us, did what a woman are supposed to do, console her “sister” and protect the young with me while the men went and physically to protect my safety. Your story reminded me of this. As for my husband, the commotion was so big he caught wind that a woman and child were in distress and came looking but we were already in the car because 3 men took us to the car and LITERALLY surrounded the car until my son was harnessed and I pull out to drive away.
Im newly married and recently found your channel and love listening while I do my house work. Very encouraging and helps me keep my mind in the right place. Also curious what you believe about head covering in today’s world? It talks about it in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 11. I grew up in a Mennonite community and we believe there is power in covering our heads, especially when praying and prophesying, and that is is a sign of submission to our husband, fathers, and Heavenly Father. Would love to hear your thoughts!
Sister Bindi your channel is a blessing. I'm glad it was recommended to me. You have a very articulate balanced way of expressing feminity because you are a God fearing woman. I will definitely recommend your channel because you are who women in this day and age could learn a lot from. God bless you sister. 😊💕
Wow, I have to believe God has given you the gift to communicate these things. I’ve never heard a biblical standpoint on femininity that was spoken so profoundly and positively. I think we as Christian’s don’t deep dive into this enough, it seems like it always stays at the surface level. When you said a gentle spirit is the result of being confident in who you are in Christ, WOW! I’ve noticed that when I am at my most loud, aggressive and masculine is when I’m filled with anxiety and insecurity . Thanks for sharing this.
Good observation!
Hi Joyce! I came across your videos this week and I’m so grateful. I’ve been looking for Christ centered homemaking videos and your videos resonated with me!
Something that I learned and hit home was if I need help in an area in my life to simply ask my Father in heaven for help.
I asked God to bless my hands in cooking and my husband has taken notice and has told me my cooking has gotten better!
I also ordered Fascinating Womanhood and have started to read it as well.
Thank you for sharing your godly knowledge through your videos!
One thing I’m interested in know is how do you make time for your feminine appearance? I have an 8 month old son and feel like I have to take care of everything and leave myself for last.
I would love to see a video about this.
Thank you and have a blessed day!
It is important for your son that you put yourself first and be an example of what a feminine woman is.
Luckily, it involves just a change in mindset, and not more time or money.
Feminise yourself.
Firstly, prioritise and pay attention to how you get ready for the day. Feminise it. You shower? Choose a feminine floral scented shower gel or soap. Wash your hair? Ditto. Go to the loo? Have a nice smelling hand wash and hand cream on the sink to use after. This will all make you smell pretty at no extra time and cost. Dry your hair? Let it grow to at least shoulder length. Rough dry for speed then at the end smooth it out Add a slick of lipstick a dab of scent, takes 2 seconds. None of this is taking up extra time on what you would normally do.
By your sofa or armchair you sit in, keep a small basket of the following grooming items and use them when your baby / child is napping, playing. A brush to freshen up your hair, a moisturising face cream, nail file and clippers so you can do your nails, a clear varnish and polish remover. Maybe a pretty feminine colour that you put on when baby has gone to bed for the night. A body spray or a free perfume sample from a dept. store to freshen up how you smell throughout the day. Your husband will notice when he comes home.
Time to get dressed. With a baby, think loose, flowing, feminine and comfortable. A flowing skirt and t-shirt, a flowing dress, flowing trousers and blouse. Choose soft feminine colours - creams, pinks, lavender, soft yellow, mint green. Feminine prints - florals. If money is tight, and you wear jeans, try to at least get a soft pink or salmon pink t-shirt to wear with jeans or a pretty floral top. Have flowers in your home every month. Grow them in your garden. For an upfront cost of about $10, and 30 minutes of work, you can have flowers every month for the rest of your life. ,Buy daffodil bulbs for spring, for summer have peonies, for autumn buy a packet of dahlia corns/seeds. All easy to grow and provide an abundance of flowers every year. I could go on, but I hope that helps as a start.
The discerning spirit and wisdom on this woman is such a blessing!!!❤❤❤
The Lord is preparing me for marriage. Literally every verse you mentioned I have been meditating on. And everything you said is true. New subscriber!
Let me tell you. It takes A LOT of humility to receive this and put it into practice. But when you start to embrace the way we were designed and instructed by God, a divine flow starts taking place between the man and the woman. Thank you for including the word in this 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I started following you when you started your first set of locs and I love your channel. I have to admit that I was annoyed when you first started making videos about femininity but this video was so helpful and I’m glad I watched it. Also I love that knitted skirt. It’s so pretty
Bindi your channel is literally a blessing to me. You have helped me so much to gain clarity in my role.
Your messages are clear. That is why I’m here. Thank you for all that you do. 😊
Although you're a tad bit younger than me, I've been learning wisdom from you that I'm now sharing with women OLDER than me! I can hear your "old soul" and I'm soooo intrigued by it! Glory to God for allowing you the platform to teach those of us who desperately desire to be feminine, but has no examples.
I've been looking for a thorough video about femininity and I just stumbled across this one. I just subscribed to your channel earlier this week and it's funny how you uploaded this video within 1 hour of me searching about femininity. I'm ready to thrive in my femininity!
So good 🥰 a gentle and quiet spirit is less of a command but more of a result 🙌🏾💕👏🏾 She is quiet and gentle with confidence knowing her father goes before her 💜💜💜
Absolutely loved this and needed it. I just found your channel the other day and I’m soaking up as much as I can from your videos! I love the way you talk about this subject. God has definitely given you a gift to speak to other women on this topic!
I'm sitting here crying. I have always been very muscular and stronger than some men. That's just how God made me. I have always been used in the place of a man for my strength and cockyness. Now my body is paying the price. I'm in pain everyday. I have muscles but the more delicate joints of a woman. I regret for being hard and masculine. My husband tells me to nor do certain things to protect. I now get it. Thankyou for this! I now feel like broken goods but I know God can heal me.
I pray for God to restore your health ❤️
Girl, I am here for this!! I just found your channel, and am going to have it playing in the background while I'm doing housework today!! Thank you for this!!!
I think the lowest hanging fruit is appearance. It is much easier to change how you dress to be more feminine then to change how you act. After that, something changes where you start to act more feminine. I know when I dress super feminine, for example, dresses, skirts, pretty tops, pretty shoes, my demeanor changes as well. I am slowly changing how I dress to be more feminine, I still wear jeans but all of my tops are floral and flowy to where I am clearly dressed as a woman, and I only wear ballet flats or heels if I am not exercising. Anyway, these are just my thoughts on how to be more feminine if a person is super masculine in demeanor.
I just found your channel and I love how you explain being feminine. This is definitely something I could improve in myself. You're a wise woman!
I loved this so much it almost made me cry. Not because I never hear content like this-I do, often. But your way of saying it and showing it might be the best. 🌹
I think it's a bit unfair to bring up femininity during a physical assault. The "men" didn't react because they are not "men". He grabbed her and she defended herself, so why make the comparison of her being manly? There are plenty of examples of women being publicly assaulted not fighting back and nobody comes to her aid. I have seen women physically assaulted, defending themselves and other men intervene to help her. Self defense classes and other defense measures would not be necessary if men always jumped in to help. Some "men" will help and some don't and the way she conducts herself while being assaulted should have no bearing on that. Let's not compare a woman defending herself against an attacker to her being masculine, and her being "saved" if she only acted feminine. That does a disservice to all victims and survivors.
I don't think she meant women don't need any self defense skills or it's wrong for them to "have the ability to protect themselves". You need the ability to protect yourself when you're attacked in an EMPTY parking lot. But she's trying to say a feminine woman can get men to come to her aid,when it's not an isolated situation, without even having to vocalize,just by feminine/delicate demeanor . You don't need to put your tae kwan do into action when there are many pp/men around you. Chivalry is only dead to a woman who doesn't understand there's no real crime in being a damsel in distress and needing a man's assistance. Girl boss nature needs to be muted sometimes.
@@crochetedfromTheRose Again....no woman needs to be judged on being masculine or feminine when it comes to her defending herself against an attacker. There should be no expectation of a victim to act feminine for "chance" of someone stepping in to help. Why isn't the criticism held for the men who did nothing to help? Real masculinity doesn't need permission to act in times of crisis and that "girl boss" nonsense isn't a factor when someone is being harmed. If criticism is due in this circumstance then there also needs to be contempt held for the men staying in their feminine looking like damsels in distress and not doing anything. Masculinity never needs permission to surface it is only not accounted for when men don't have it just like in that case of that girl being assaulted.
@@amanispring6637 oh, she said in the video that the men were not right for not helping . But they gave pause because the sis ACTED like she got the situation under control. Anyways that's only one example and one situation - and there is a time for everything under the sun. Even a time for self defense,if it ever comes to that. I will add that walking in a Godly woman's path and displaying such feminine attitude as She talks about in the video will usually lead you far away from such victim/abusive situations. This I know well.
@@crochetedfromTheRose I wish all women walked a godly path, but I also know that walking that path doesn't protect you from everything. There are plenty more examples of women minding their own business being attacked infront of men and no aid. There was just an incident of a woman being attacked in gas station repeatedly being punched and she didn't fight back but again..... no help. And saying that acting feminine will protect you does a disservice for innocent victims which is what I have problem with here. I understand what you're saying of women acting feminine to protect themselves. By not challenging a man, not antagonizing a man, or even engaging with a man that's irate Etc but let's not judge a woman who defends herself when she is grabbed or hit. Instead let's hold the men accountable for not being the masculine leaders they were supposed to be in that situation and all similar situations. There is a time and place for everything however doing the right thing should always take presidence over what somebody else decides to do whether right or wrong. If the right thing to do was for those men to be masculine and to break up the fight then that's what they should have done no permission and acceptance needed. When a kidnapper tries to take a child, a child may fight back but that doesn't mean that everyone should just stand by and watch because the child acts like they have everything under control. Granted she's a grown woman but the fact remains is that someone was abusing their power and strength over somebody who is weaker and committing a crime. Should Christian women who are abused, have acted more feminine and maybe they wouldn't have been abused? Should someone who's walking home have acted more feminine to be saved so that way they wouldn't be beat up robbed and raped? Let's not act like all of this happens in an empty parking lot or all alone at night because nowadays even the most heinous crimes are done in the light. How about stopping an attacker just because it's the right thing to do? How about not judging someone's disposition while they are in distress? How about we help women who are being grabbed and hit regardless if they are fighting back or not because we know any man using his physical prowess to overpower a woman is wrong? Anyways I can see that this is something I just can't agree with either of you on. I pray more women will walk a godly path and more men will be the masculine take action leaders they are supposed to be. God bless 🙏
@@amanispring6637 I think you don't fully understand me, but I understand you. I didn't mean because a woman is feminine she should just sit still gently and be abused,never!
There is a difference between protecting yourself/fighting back and " acting all manly and tough with little results ".
Ur examples are literally ones of women being attacked by a person with real intent to hurt or even damage them, and of course she's not to just cross her legs and sip tea.
Abuse is real,I know that well. But I believe Bindi Marc's example was if a man messing with a woman (if he had real intent to hurt her, he'd just attack her when no one is around, mostly) and her defense was weak/ineffective. And I understand how any one,not just men, with eyes to see that someone is in distress should just jump in and help. But it's not always that easy!!!(especially if the victim is not a child but an adult).
There have been instances, people have taken the initiative to help someone without being asked and the victim just keeps returning to the abuser.
Do you know even the Lord prefers we VOICE OUT our requests, rather than we expect Him to merely see our suffering and take action in all His power. People have been sued before by people who they thought needed help.
So,yes we shouldn't hold back helping as humans,but in the position of victim we need to reach out, scream,ask for help or send out subtle requests through gestures to those around us rather than try and fail,or expect them to do something because they see the situation. Once bitten, twice shy they say. If you've ever helped someone and had it backfire in your face before I doubt you'd be running with all your heart to help a victim who hasn't sent you any pleading glances because she's expecting you to see and do something.
I understand you. But I guess my point is just this: simply ask. Call for help. People respond instinctively to panic situations and the attacker himself will be panic stricken and hopefully run.
This has gotten from femininity to escaping abuse fast. But thank you for sharing your views. Of course in cases of children it's best to just step in cause they may not know they are even in danger, but adults are always complicated. It's kind hearted people that have spared many people abuse. I pray the efforts of such are never wasted!
Have a great day too,Amani!
Way to go girl! This is extremely true! Love the message and baby girl following behind her Mommy
Yay! I’m so excited for this video. Thank you Ms. Bindi 🕊🌸
Ms. Bindi, I wanted to thank you and appreciate you for what you are doing. May y'all be blessed. This topic is something the Most High has been putting within me for a while now and it's been a blessing to me tht the Holy Spirit has led me to you. Have a wonderful day and keep letting your light shine brighter and brighter. 🌈🌻💜🦋🕊️🥰🤗
I am sitting here almost in tears. You bring a light that shines so bright…the words of wisdom and the calming nature got God’s message HEARD. I am so thankful for the two videos I’ve seen of yours…I can’t wait for more. ❤✝️ Words can’t express how important this message is in the world we live in today.
WOW! This is your 2nd video I have watched and I have to compliment you. The content of your videos is absolutely exceptional!
You are truly exemplary, inspiring, unique...one of a kind woman of the Lord!
It is so wonderful to see there are actually women out there who are different than the world, ESPECIALLY at such young age you portray the Lord's wisdom.
The way you put your videos together is wonderful.
I love how you're actually active as you're narrating and also portraying that example of what a clean house looks like, instead of only sitting down and keeping focus on yourself.
Your home certainly manifests a difference, the difference the Lord is! It is beautiful, it transmits the love, peace and modesty through the lens.
Your daughters are greatly blessed to have such a mother raising them. I pray to God they will treasure and live on every detail you've taught them as well as be what you want for and of them from the deepest of your heart.
I want to thank you for taking of your precious time to publish such helpful and inspiring resources for us.
May the Lord guard your marriage, home and family always as He continues to guide you in every step of the way.
THANK YOU!
So much wisdom in this video. I need to re-watch and then re-watch again 😊 Thank you for the work you're doing xxx
I appreciate your Godly perspective. There’s lots of videos on being feminine and modest but you do it the best.
The part of this video where you’re making your bed and talking is so beautiful. Such beautiful words and also such a lovely visual. And your dress is beautiful in that clip too!
When the student is ready the teacher appears.
Thank you for the knowledge Bindi.
Right! I felt this. Student is ready !
Love your videos! Thanks so much for sharing all you do sis! God bless you and keep going 💕🙏🏽🕊
I just discovered your channel and feel absolutely blessed to have come across these 💎 jewels of wisdom! Thank you. I am 41 years old, never been married, no children, and many things are just clicking for me. I just recently discovered RC Blake’s Channel which is very aligned with your teachings. I think something important to mention is that we often attract toxic partners and or have work to do. We can’t be feminine women when we are not in a space of safety or security, when we are with feminine men or men who hate women. Thank you for your wisdom and continue to share your light 🙏!
I love this video so much. It’s a lot of things I’ve been thinking of but didn’t know how to explain. I’m starting my femininity rehab too. I’m getting rid of my masculine clothes for starters
This was such a wonderful video. I’m on my walk in femininity. I’ve always been a tomboy, but now that I’m a mother and a wife, and due to biblical teachings, I’ve been drawn to be more feminine. Thank you for this video and your entire channel!
This video is pure gold. Definitely given me convictions. Praise God for women like you who can help other ladies out here who are confused by this worldly culture.
God told us🥰 you’re right about ppl always thinking they made something up when in reality you are retelling HIS words
I commend you for speaking the Truth so clearly. So, so glad I found your channel. Really incredible.
I love this channel. You give such excellent and wise examples. The baby one made perfect sense!🌸
We are blessed to have such information at our fingertips. I thank you Bindi for your gifts you are sharing with us, you are a blessing. I have never been taught these things, although, my mother herself exuded femininity. We have lost so much to this world... thank you for being the light that shines on our true selves. God Bless you, and please continue this work.
Thank you for blessing us with these gems🙏🏻
This ABSOLUTELY blessed me!!!! Thank You. I am a STAHW and mother, and this is contrary to the way I was raised. I have had only 3 examples: wife who works who was masculine, wife who stayed at home with an emotional abusive partner who's feminine behavior drew to her masculine behavior, and the single woman who doesn't need a man nor wants to submit to one! I have been seeking God lately to help me be the woman He created me to be. He gave me some answers, but I needed examples and some mentorship concerning that which he showed me. I was led to you. Again, I appreciate these videos because I'm walking this path without example, and feeling like I can't find like-minded women to pull from or pour into! The community that is forming from this channel is of God's doing. I wasn't entirely thrilled about what God told me, but hearing the Bible being explained in this way makes me excited for this growing stage I am in! Again, thank you for sharing this!!!
Scrolling through my youtube homepage and I was recommended this video and an interview clip from What is a Woman documentary. Yes the inate femininity graced to us by God is so vitaly important to embrace and live. Thank you for this video. Your feminity radiates Mama ❤
Seriously! So much content on femininity/masculinity/polarity can be so esoteric. Thank you for speaking English 💛
Hello, just found you, been looking for aomeone to help encourage me. I battle laziness and self control issues. I moved to a stay at home position and homeschool 5 kids. I ho back and forth on being on top of things to diving into laziness. Being one of only a few women at my church I feel lonely, then get lazy, then start being angry and depressed. Thank you for picking me up today I don't care how many times I will get myself back up and continue to work on who I am to be in Christ. It isn't easy but it's worth it
Thank you so much for this. I am trying to walk this out in my appearance, manner and nature in my marriage so much undoing. Especially appearance wise just had a baby and I just need to get back healthy. That stomach fat as you mentioned in a previous video is stubborn. Thank you for these videos truly a blessing
Love love love this! Keep them coming.
This is a good thought. We just need to understand that the entire environment has to support this. If you live in a harsh area you have to hard for safety reasons. But you were able to pick a man that encourages softness by keeping you safe. Love this.
Just witnessing you cleaning the house, seeing your girls helping you and playing.. this is the type of home I've desired as a child up until now. I really pray that God leads me to an experience like this while also serving his church in multiple ways. This is so beautiful to me and I'm really thankful to have come across your page
This video made me ball my eyes out. I am going to rewatch this multiple times and let it sink in. Amen. Thank you for the wisdom.
I play your content while I hang out with my 16 year old daughter. She makes comments and asked questions. As planned....Great work!
Bindi, you are the sister I always needed ❤️ thank you for all of your videos, I look so forward to listening while iron the laundry and preparing meals 🥹
OMG, so much wisdom here.... Ways that I have tried to diminish my feminity is many times, when I am around pple I would find myself lifting the heavy stuff, even when men are around and as you said Bindi, they refrained from helping me, and left it to myself since 'I had things figured out'.... I like it when pple praise me saying how strong I am... But after watching this I realise how wrong I was,.... Ways that I have embraced my feminity esp after encountering this and similar videos the past week is that I am more cautious about how I look and I am been the one to serve and clean around esp in social gatherings, it has always brought joy and fulfillment... When I was young I got to listen to this song which says.... 'What a man can do, a woman can do....'... But am learning and noticing ways I having walking away from my femininity..... And I will change by God's help, to be all that He called me to be so that pple around me benefit... Thanks Joyce 💝🇰🇪
Wow! This was very eye opening for me. I tend to to be negative toward myself for having feminine attributes. Now I can celebrate and enjoy them. God bless you. Thank you
Thank you so much. I feel I need a refresher in biblical femininity. This was helpful and inspiring. 💗
Love this! Thank you!I am loving the scriptures with this . You and habits of a home maker are on it!I also enjoy April Mason and the modern Goddess channel! You are 😎! I'm taking notes
This video humbles and challenges me. I have come a long way, but I have SO far to go still. Thank you for the reminder and inspiration.
Really great stuff , Joyce ! I grew up without a father and have adopted a lot of masculine traits. The Lord is teaching me a lot through your videos. :-)
Got here from “Habits of a Homemaker”, love this video, definitely helping me in my marriage to be a better wife 👌🏾
I am thankful and blessed the Lord has brought me to your channel. As a “proud Tom-boy” “tough stuff” gal all my life, it has been in the last year or two where I’ve been convicted of my masculinity and in this season Jesus has brought me to your channel. Thank you for always have scripture present and leaving the references on screen.
Thank you for sharing!! These videos are amazing!! I’m so grateful. 😊
Hello there isn't enough women teaching about true feminity these days. I just came across your channel. Been looking for true biblical content like this ... Thank you lady God bless 🙏🙏🙏