I can testify that this is so true! I was married over 30 years and gave up my career as an RN to support his military medicine career. Then he went thru a midlife crisis and divorced me for a younger woman. Right away God established that He would be my husband and provide for me! An aunt that I had no idea that she was wealthy left me $ which I have invested most of it to provide a revenue stream each month to supplement the alimony. Also the life insurance he had on himself must be maintained as part of the divorce settlement. I also got the house which he is paying off. Every time I’ve started to feel scared about finances with the economy or if medical bills come or car needs work God always shows me with a boost in my investment $ coming in. He really will provide for us!! He is faithful!
Thank you so much for sharing this, it resonates so much. God is currently my husband as well. He teaches you that there truly is nothing to be afraid of. As long as you obey him, God will protect and provide for you 🙏🏽
Solid content! I was married 54 years when my husband died. Before that happened we chose to sell an upscale house and invest by buying a home outright. I only have to pay taxes once a year on a modest but beautiful house. God has blessed me in the past with a wise husband, and now He is my husband and caretaker.
I am divorced and when I was married I remember having that fear “what if I get divorced.” Even though that fear came true, God has been my provider as a single mom. I was a homemaker before my separation and divorce, but God provided a job for me and has taken care of my needs. When we think, “I could never do that” this is a true statement. God hasn’t provided the strength for us to walk that road until/if we need to walk that road. He does empower and strengthen us for whatever life challenges come our way, and it’s a beautiful story with Christ in charge!
I just wanna tell you how much of an inspiration you are to me as a 24 year old young woman looking to be a wife someday. God bless your home ministry! ❤️❤️❤️
You are blessed to hear this at your young age! I am divorced, three almost grown up children, and looking to remarry in the Lord’s will! But I strongly believe that everything is possible to God!
Thank you for sharing this content, it is definite words of wisdom. If I could add my 2 cents; having been a homemaker for the past almost 21 years. I've had side jobs/side gigs, but taking care of my family has been my main "job" so to speak... I manage the finances in my home and through prayer and God's word i have learned some things. Homemakers here are some additional financial tips: 1. KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON FINANCIALLY IN YOUR HOME... do not be ignorant; make sure you know the cost of the bills that come in and how they are paid. Even if your husband pays the bills, you should still know what is happening. 2. BOTH SPOUSES SHOULD HAVE LIFE INSURANCE. if you as the wife passes away, your hubby will need child care etc... and your life insurance policy can give him a cushion to help with that and allow him some room to grieve and console your children without having to rush right back to work. Funerals are also expensive and it can help with that. 3. God forbid... but in case of an unfortunate divorce: KNOW YOUR LEGAL AND FINANCIAL RIGHTS AS A WIFE AND HOMEMAKER; educate yourself about divorce laws and rights in your country/state or province. 4. As was said in the video: BE WISE WITH YOUR MONEY!!! This will help you and your spouse. Have something set aside for a "rainy day" the bible says in Prov. 21:20 that "a wise man saves for the future, but a fool spends all he gets." (TLB); -->HAVE AN EMERGENCY FUND: if your husband loses his job, or gets injured and has to take time off work, have some money set aside for such emergencies. 5. BECOME FINANCIALLY LITERATE. Educate yourself on how finances work, this is not just in case of death or divorce, it's wisdom that will help your family/husband financially as well. If I could suggest: Dave Ramsey's "Financial Peace University" content. 6. STAY OUT OF DEBT as much as is possible. And pay off whatever you may already have. 7. FIND A WAY TO MAKE SOME INCOME WHILE YOU ARE CARING FOR YOU HOUSEHOLD. it may not be a lot, but it will help. With the side jobs I have, we have been able to go on vacations, become debt free, have an emergency fund, help others etc... my hubby makes good money(thanks be to God) and the money I make has been icing on the cake. 8. If you have children: TEACH THEM ABOUT GOOD, GODLY FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP. Most of us wish we had the knowledge we have now, when we were younger. This is your chance to pass it on and help your kids get a head start financially and of course in other areas of life as well. I have more, but I will stop here... since I've already written a book with this comment.🤦🏽♀️😅 Thank you @Bindi Marc for your content. It is a blessing.
As a licensed financial coach who mainly coaches women. This is the most solid advice I've seen on RUclips. This is everything that I teach in the same order!!! This women is giving out WISDOM! Please listen to her. God bless you!
Most homemakers work with their “little” some bake cakes and sale them, some sew and sale their items , some like you have RUclips videos and a have boutique. None of these things require 40hrs of your time. Work with your little and watch how God blesses it .
My mother was 26 when my 29 yr/old father died, leaving her with 3 children under the age of 7 and a mortgage on a home in a great area. Life Insurance saved us, kept us in the house and at our good schools .. .. you are never too young to buy life insurance if you have dependents. Death rates in 18 to 45 y/o have increased over 40% since 2021, according to the life insurance underwriters. I'll leave it at that. Be prepared.
These are practical steps! My husband and I were having this exact conversation and I said that if God calls him home early (divorce or separation isn’t an option), that means God believes I have all the skills needed to care for myself and my children. God provides! I know women who had no life insurance or retirement accounts and even though they struggled for the first few years , God provided for all their needs and in the end they have a home and are being cared for by themselves or their children. We may look at them and call them fools for “trusting” their husbands but they trusted in God and are not out on the street.
Charnele, I love that you say divorce and separation are not an option for you. With compassion for those that have experienced the pain of divorce, I still believe that it would be far less common if it were "not an option". My husband and I did not ever throw that word at each other, even with the pain of losing a child. We have now been married 32 years and counting. They have not all been easy years or perfect years, but God has been faithful through it all.
Yes! It’s called Life Insurance! He’s young….get a million $ policy on him. Get one on you, too! We have 9 children and there are policies on both of us. He can’t maintain that home and those children alone if you die. He must consider what he will do in that event, just as you do. I’ve been home 32 years now and we’ve always had life insurance, just like we’ve never driven a car off the lot without having it insured!!
Facts!! Say it louder for the people in the back! You can also get policies on your children and they can actually cash them out and use it for college tuition. Idk why people ignore the facts and resources are out here.
I am a widow and I will absolutely attest to God taking care of me in ways I never would have anticipated. He has been so faithful, generous, gentle, and kind to me since I lost my husband. I have lacked for NOTHING. I cried out and He did indeed hear me and respond above and beyond what I could have imagined. Thank you for reminding me of the widow with the oil. And thank you for addressing this subject. I needed to hear these things today.
The worst did come true for me in 2012, my husband passed due to complications of diabetes at 49, and I lost my house and I have been fully dependent on my husband but God was faithful and came through and enabled me to move in with a friend go back to school rebuild my life again. Because he had a pre-existing condition we did not have life insurance so I would definitely say please be prepared. God is faithful
Speaking of insurance policy- also any financial advisor will advise you to have 2 to 3 months' worth of expenses saved in an account in the event of an emergency. These emergency funds will keep you covered until the insurance can send you a check. Your husband should set that up to cover the household expenses. As a housewife, I have opened my own retirement account. I look for my own investment opportunities and attempt to spend my money wisely. I am still working on that last one. Of course, tithing and giving are important also. I took a look at your dresses yesterday, so lovely!! I've been lurking on your channel for a month or so now and I am so inspired by you to serve God by being a better wife. Speaking of your story of the widow, I was watching a prophet on RUclips and he told a story a woman had shared with him. One of her water pipes (I think water pipe? some sort of pipe) under her home had burst or broken. So she said a prayer, "Lord, if my husband was here, I would send him down to fix it. But he is not here. And You said, you will care for the widow. So, Lord, I'm going to need you to fix my pipes." and she heard a noise in the basement, and her pipes were fixed.
I just appreciate that you’re giving practical financial answers for home makers because I be wondering what home makers are doing - not for financial independence per say but financial security.
Can I just say how happy that I am that God has put me in a space to find his wisdom all around? Before being brought back to God I would have never come across this page, but since then I see nothing but wise words from God through his children up and down my youtube page. It is so reassuring to see women, but especially black women showing other women that this lifestyle can be accessible to us as well with God being the Head. My childhood looked nothing like this and I thought it was just something on tv. Thank you God for coming back for me. Bindi, thank you for being a true woman of God. May God bless this community that you have built through spreading the wisdom of God.
Single and in the process of developing a portfolio of assets which yield return. Also, this was perfect timing and great information for women. A Roth IRA is absolute as well.
I teared up at this and really felt like yes, Jesus the Holy Father is also MY Father. Not just a dad but my dad. I’m so thankful that you are following God’s word and sharing your blessed life with us for an example, both the difficult and beautiful. Thank you!
Thank you for the response video! I loved your take on it:) The jar of oil was beautiful and what stuck out to me was that he used something she already had in her home and multiplied it🙌 You're right, the "what ifs" conversations isn't always easy but they're necessary! Great video!
I’ve really appreciated your content (I even said a thank you in prayer for you and other Christian women putting out this content). I’ve been married for 15 years and have struggled with what it means to be a Christian wife & mom. I never had a good example growing up and so much Christian marriage advice is egalitarian in nature. I was constantly being pulled and pushed around in what I though to be true. Having such wisdom from wise ladies such as yourself has been an incredible blessing.
I've never been married or romantically involved but I aspire to marriage, God's way. Joyce✨, I find your videos to be very resourceful and your pov resonates with my soul. You bear so much fruit that it is even nourishing to a 22yo young lady like me.🌱Thank you immensely!📝
You are such an inspiration 🙂! I'm a teacher and you've helped me be a better steward of my time during the summer when I'm off with keeping a consistent schedule in keep my house clean for my husband. We are also in the process of paying off debt so that we can really pour into our savings.
@@asulli7606 I pray I'm able to maintain my house cleaning and cooking schedule when school starts. As you know it can be a challenge, but I know through prayer I can😊
Again, I have no desire for marriage and plan on having a career, however homemaking is a very undervalued role and should be given more credit nowadays.
Bindi thank you so much for making these videos. Ive only put these tips into action for two weeks and my life and my marriage are already seeing a difference. I’ve always wanted to be traditional. Ive been a homemaker for two years but I didn’t really know what i was doing and i was struggling with what our roles. I’ve always wanted to be seen as graceful and now i have a practical plan to get to my goals. These last two weeks have been the best weeks ever even with a cranky 2 year old and a struggling to sleep 4 month old.
Something i never worry about but it’s beautiful that you bring this assurance to the believers whom they need to rely on in times of trouble. You’re such a mature soul 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿♥️
Shalom from Brasil! Your chanel is a blessing! I just foud it recently, and I think The Most High has showed me this because I was struggling with my marriage and asking The Lord for knowledge, and your wise advices saved my marriage, it's so good to know whats truely my roll in the marriage, its a relief. And as I started to implement those advices, my life and my husbands life has changed for better. PRAYSE YAHUAH!!
Oi Tati ☺️ legal ver brasileiros aqui... Encontrei a Bindi Faz pouco tbm e estou aprendendo mt sombre feminismo divino q tem me faltado e não sabia...otima professora com meus valores a frente... abraço virtual 🌞
@@MC-pn5ed Que legal, faz uma diferença tremenda saber o nosso papel e nossa responsabilidade neste mundo, são ensinamentos que toda mulher deveria receber da sua mãe e avós desde a juventude!! Muitos problemas atuais nem existiriam eu acho. 😊🥰🥰
I hit the dislike button by accident 😩 Sis, I have been binging your videos. Can you PLEASE make a video on how you homeschool your children, what style, scheduling, etc. I am embarking on this amazing journey with my 7 year old and will continue with my littlest one when the time comes. Also, a big hurdle for me (among other things your videos have helped me discover and face) is that I work and so when I get home I feel like I take a lot of time cleaning and organizing and I feel like that takes a lot of time away from my children. I am going down to part time (I'm a nurse so two shifts a week is plenty) so I think that would help. But your advice on how to juggle working and then children and house duties would be appreciated and insightful. I understand you don't work but you're like that friend that I would go to for solid,but local teaching. Thank you and God bless you and your family and all you do!
I am looking after my house 🏠 better. I enjoy learning about how to be more feminine.God blessed me in being a woman. You video s are beautiful. Smart lady.
I have to say I saw this video and I didn't not want to watch it. I'm so glad I did. GOD is always good. So I will take steps to be prepared but never scared. Thank you
Exactly what I needed to hear! This has been an anxiety of mine! Thank you, the Lord is using you in such a powerful way! So grateful for your videos 🙏❤️
Make sure you have a college degree before you get married! That way in case of a divorce you’ll be able to provide for yourself and your children. After my divorce when my girls were younger I worked during school hours so I was able to be home for them while still having a great income that allowed us to live comfortably. We went on vacation five times a year, own house, and enough money for dance classes, yoga, violin, CrossFit, gardening and whatever hobbies they decided to have 😅I’ve seen it too much; women without a way too provide for themselves, stuck in a marriage with a cheating/asshole/narcissistic husband. When you get married no one likes to think about it ending but Be prepared for different scenarios! You owe that to yourself and your children!
This is very encouraging for women! These are great TIPS for couples, when you apply any of these tips it will shift your marriage or relationship in a positive direction. This is so inline with our video (9 TIPS for Successful and Happy Relationship) to encourage couples to build success and lasting relationship. This is the time for Godly Marriage to Arise! Thank you for the inspirational content on your channel...Be Bless!
Hi Bindi, I found your channel recently and I appreciate your God given wisdom and advice. You are a true inspiration to me. Please do a get-to-know-me q&a type video!
You always leave me blessed, informed and enlighted by your content. Truly I have learned so much and I thank you for availing yourself in this season. Love this topic and I would also, love to hear your views on tithing.
God the Father PROVIDES for His Daughters! I am a living witness! When I decided to leave my job in 2017 to dedicate my service to my husband, home, and family. Even when my husband decided a year later he did not want to be married to me anymore. The Lord told me that because I sacrificed and put my home before my work that even though my husband was abandoning me (and the family), God would STILL make sure enough income would come in where I could REMAIN a homemaker (even as a single mom). Since then God has NEVER disappointed me! As a matter of fact not only am I STILL a homemaker FIRST (and business woman second), but I have started investing and have managed to save over $30k in the process. God told me "As your Father, I will make sure you are financially provided for until I send your TRUE husband." Think about it queens, what GOOD father would leave his daughter without to struggle? None! I am a living witness! #allpraises #toGOD
When you get life insurance make sure you get a disability rider that pays the premium if they become disabled. Some plans come with an unemployment rider but typically you have to be unemployed for that to kick in. Life insurance can help with generational.wealth as well. It preserves homes and enables education.
Can you please speak to moms with little babies? My friend and I are both newly married, with little boys. We are encouraged by your videos, but wonder what you would advise new moms? There seems to be much less time in the day for homemaking!
I’m a young mom of 4 children, I’m 27 & my husband is 29. He works about 50 hours a week and I stay at home with the kids (ages 3 months - 6 years) it’s super doable with a schedule and routines for the kids. I have a task for each day of the week + my daily chores, and my children thrive with morning, afternoon, and nighttime routines. Of course it’s not possible to do everything with little kids, but it’s certainly doable. I stopped hand washing dishes and started using a dishwasher, we also were gifted a robot vacuum. These two things help me save so much time every day! My 2 older children are learning to do chores (like their own laundry & clean their rooms) & they give themselves baths, which also helps. It’s all about time management and being organized. But also ask God for help in this area! Without Him, I would be lost trying to manage it all.
I've been loving your videos as I go through being more modest. I recently read 1 chorinthians 11 and was wondering your thoughts and if you do head covering?
They always ask me this and it boggles my mind that they have no faith in God and assumes the worst. We have also invested in a life insurance being that I am a home maker.
I know this isn’t related, but can you please make a video on mother in law - daughter in law relationships and bonding? I love everything you say, and I have a mother in law that I would like to cultivate something special with, I can tell she feels this as well, but I don’t know what to do? Thank you ☺️
Allow your 18 year and above children to insure you as their parent and have them pay the policy. In this way they can use those funds to continue building generational wealth!
Maybe because there are so many stories of abusive marriage. My mother was an houswife, she didn't finish university, never worked, never earned a single euro. She was a stay at home mom and she made us pay for it, she hated it every single day, saying to me and my sister that her life was miserable because of us. My father was a wife beater and he was abusive and violent on us to, and she did nothing to protect us saying that is a sin to divorse and separate what God has united. She had her fault in this, she was manipulate and always angry and aggressive. I'm so afraid that something like that could happen to me.
THIS is why I tell women. U HAVE TO HAVE a policy that replaces his income and pays you his salary @ 8% of that income or more. You also need a hood and trusted advisor, better yet ladies in your spare time learn the basics of economics and finances so that you don’t have to deplete that money if it ever came to it.
We’re all so accustomed to fast fashion, cheap fabrics made by workers who are being underpaid overseas. It can make $90 seem expensive for a polyester dress but it does depend on the quality of the sewing and the wages that were paid. I know what you mean though, I only buy natural fibre clothing. I would happily save up and buy any of those dresses for $200 if it was natural fibres and I knew the person sewing it was being paid a fair wage to do a good job of sewing it properly so the seams are strong and long lasting. ☺️ Would love to know more info on where they’re made etc xx
Real reality of life.!!!. Death is a reality..Marriage is until death Marriage is temporary. Make sure you are covered Life cover ..Retirement. Make sure you can manage money. Learn to be independent and dependent on God. God is our source. Our provide Isaiah 54:5 Your husband is your Maker.
Hey I'm a very low income female just ssi so I can't afford any of your dresses I do think they are beautiful. I don't have anything beautiful in my closet. Could you donate me some of them.
What if you have a career and you get in a car accident and become a quadriplegic and he doesn't want to care for you because he wanted a fun, materialistic life? You can't plan for everything! You could always be business about it and get a postnup recognizing your contribution as a homemaker.
I can testify that this is so true! I was married over 30 years and gave up my career as an RN to support his military medicine career. Then he went thru a midlife crisis and divorced me for a younger woman. Right away God established that He would be my husband and provide for me! An aunt that I had no idea that she was wealthy left me $ which I have invested most of it to provide a revenue stream each month to supplement the alimony. Also the life insurance he had on himself must be maintained as part of the divorce settlement. I also got the house which he is paying off. Every time I’ve started to feel scared about finances with the economy or if medical bills come or car needs work God always shows me with a boost in my investment $ coming in. He really will provide for us!! He is faithful!
Thank you so much for sharing this, it resonates so much. God is currently my husband as well. He teaches you that there truly is nothing to be afraid of. As long as you obey him, God will protect and provide for you 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing this
My mother always warned me about this situation when I was a teen and young woman.
Amen Sally
AMEN!
Solid content! I was married 54 years when my husband died. Before that happened we chose to sell an upscale house and invest by buying a home outright. I only have to pay taxes once a year on a modest but beautiful house.
God has blessed me in the past with a wise husband, and now He is my husband and caretaker.
Wonderful advice
I am divorced and when I was married I remember having that fear “what if I get divorced.” Even though that fear came true, God has been my provider as a single mom. I was a homemaker before my separation and divorce, but God provided a job for me and has taken care of my needs. When we think, “I could never do that” this is a true statement. God hasn’t provided the strength for us to walk that road until/if we need to walk that road. He does empower and strengthen us for whatever life challenges come our way, and it’s a beautiful story with Christ in charge!
Amen Molly. Praying with you all
I just wanna tell you how much of an inspiration you are to me as a 24 year old young woman looking to be a wife someday. God bless your home ministry! ❤️❤️❤️
Same here!💓
You are blessed to hear this at your young age! I am divorced, three almost grown up children, and looking to remarry in the Lord’s will! But I strongly believe that everything is possible to God!
Thank you for sharing this content, it is definite words of wisdom. If I could add my 2 cents; having been a homemaker for the past almost 21 years. I've had side jobs/side gigs, but taking care of my family has been my main "job" so to speak...
I manage the finances in my home and through prayer and God's word i have learned some things. Homemakers here are some additional financial tips:
1. KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON FINANCIALLY IN YOUR HOME... do not be ignorant; make sure you know the cost of the bills that come in and how they are paid. Even if your husband pays the bills, you should still know what is happening.
2. BOTH SPOUSES SHOULD HAVE LIFE INSURANCE. if you as the wife passes away, your hubby will need child care etc... and your life insurance policy can give him a cushion to help with that and allow him some room to grieve and console your children without having to rush right back to work. Funerals are also expensive and it can help with that.
3. God forbid... but in case of an unfortunate divorce: KNOW YOUR LEGAL AND FINANCIAL RIGHTS AS A WIFE AND HOMEMAKER; educate yourself about divorce laws and rights in your country/state or province.
4. As was said in the video: BE WISE WITH YOUR MONEY!!! This will help you and your spouse. Have something set aside for a "rainy day" the bible says in Prov. 21:20 that "a wise man saves for the future, but a fool spends all he gets." (TLB);
-->HAVE AN EMERGENCY FUND: if your husband loses his job, or gets injured and has to take time off work, have some money set aside for such emergencies.
5. BECOME FINANCIALLY LITERATE. Educate yourself on how finances work, this is not just in case of death or divorce, it's wisdom that will help your family/husband financially as well. If I could suggest: Dave Ramsey's "Financial Peace University" content.
6. STAY OUT OF DEBT as much as is possible. And pay off whatever you may already have.
7. FIND A WAY TO MAKE SOME INCOME WHILE YOU ARE CARING FOR YOU HOUSEHOLD. it may not be a lot, but it will help. With the side jobs I have, we have been able to go on vacations, become debt free, have an emergency fund, help others etc... my hubby makes good money(thanks be to God) and the money I make has been icing on the cake.
8. If you have children: TEACH THEM ABOUT GOOD, GODLY FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP. Most of us wish we had the knowledge we have now, when we were younger. This is your chance to pass it on and help your kids get a head start financially and of course in other areas of life as well.
I have more, but I will stop here... since I've already written a book with this comment.🤦🏽♀️😅
Thank you @Bindi Marc for your content. It is a blessing.
Such a fitting name for you given the advice you posted :)
This right here....say it louder!!📣
Thank you so much for these! More please! If you can 🙏
Wisely spoken! You sound like you follow Dave Ramsey😊👍
@@yrf727 Yes I do. And it's been more than a blessing.
As a licensed financial coach who mainly coaches women. This is the most solid advice I've seen on RUclips. This is everything that I teach in the same order!!! This women is giving out WISDOM! Please listen to her. God bless you!
Most homemakers work with their “little” some bake cakes and sale them, some sew and sale their items , some like you have RUclips videos and a have boutique. None of these things require 40hrs of your time. Work with your little and watch how God blesses it .
My mother was 26 when my 29 yr/old father died, leaving her with 3 children under the age of 7 and a mortgage on a home in a great area.
Life Insurance saved us, kept us in the house and at our good schools
.. .. you are never too young to buy life insurance if you have dependents.
Death rates in 18 to 45 y/o have increased over 40% since 2021, according to the life insurance underwriters.
I'll leave it at that.
Be prepared.
These are practical steps! My husband and I were having this exact conversation and I said that if God calls him home early (divorce or separation isn’t an option), that means God believes I have all the skills needed to care for myself and my children. God provides! I know women who had no life insurance or retirement accounts and even though they struggled for the first few years , God provided for all their needs and in the end they have a home and are being cared for by themselves or their children. We may look at them and call them fools for “trusting” their husbands but they trusted in God and are not out on the street.
I’ve definitely seen the “you’re a fool” side in my experience.
Charnele, I love that you say divorce and separation are not an option for you. With compassion for those that have experienced the pain of divorce, I still believe that it would be far less common if it were "not an option". My husband and I did not ever throw that word at each other, even with the pain of losing a child. We have now been married 32 years and counting. They have not all been easy years or perfect years, but God has been faithful through it all.
Pll do ensure up divorced. Even if they don't want to.
Yes! It’s called Life Insurance! He’s young….get a million $ policy on him. Get one on you, too! We have 9 children and there are policies on both of us. He can’t maintain that home and those children alone if you die. He must consider what he will do in that event, just as you do. I’ve been home 32 years now and we’ve always had life insurance, just like we’ve never driven a car off the lot without having it insured!!
Facts!! Say it louder for the people in the back! You can also get policies on your children and they can actually cash them out and use it for college tuition. Idk why people ignore the facts and resources are out here.
@@onigiri2136 to get people to start operating in fear and not on the Lord.
@@Afrodite96 You are absolutely right, so true!! Relying on God and utilizing the resources available while educating yourself is always key.
CORRECT!!!
I am a widow and I will absolutely attest to God taking care of me in ways I never would have anticipated. He has been so faithful, generous, gentle, and kind to me since I lost my husband. I have lacked for NOTHING. I cried out and He did indeed hear me and respond above and beyond what I could have imagined. Thank you for reminding me of the widow with the oil. And thank you for addressing this subject. I needed to hear these things today.
The worst did come true for me in 2012, my husband passed due to complications of diabetes at 49, and I lost my house and I have been fully dependent on my husband but God was faithful and came through and enabled me to move in with a friend go back to school rebuild my life again. Because he had a pre-existing condition we did not have life insurance so I would definitely say please be prepared. God is faithful
Speaking of insurance policy- also any financial advisor will advise you to have 2 to 3 months' worth of expenses saved in an account in the event of an emergency. These emergency funds will keep you covered until the insurance can send you a check. Your husband should set that up to cover the household expenses. As a housewife, I have opened my own retirement account. I look for my own investment opportunities and attempt to spend my money wisely. I am still working on that last one. Of course, tithing and giving are important also. I took a look at your dresses yesterday, so lovely!! I've been lurking on your channel for a month or so now and I am so inspired by you to serve God by being a better wife. Speaking of your story of the widow, I was watching a prophet on RUclips and he told a story a woman had shared with him. One of her water pipes (I think water pipe? some sort of pipe) under her home had burst or broken. So she said a prayer, "Lord, if my husband was here, I would send him down to fix it. But he is not here. And You said, you will care for the widow. So, Lord, I'm going to need you to fix my pipes." and she heard a noise in the basement, and her pipes were fixed.
I just appreciate that you’re giving practical financial answers for home makers because I be wondering what home makers are doing - not for financial independence per say but financial security.
Young women who are watching these videos are to be praised for their wisdom! God bless and reward you.
Can I just say how happy that I am that God has put me in a space to find his wisdom all around? Before being brought back to God I would have never come across this page, but since then I see nothing but wise words from God through his children up and down my youtube page. It is so reassuring to see women, but especially black women showing other women that this lifestyle can be accessible to us as well with God being the Head. My childhood looked nothing like this and I thought it was just something on tv. Thank you God for coming back for me. Bindi, thank you for being a true woman of God. May God bless this community that you have built through spreading the wisdom of God.
I’m currently reading the book “ managing God’s money” and so much of what you just said is in the book! Good godly advice!
Can I ask what is the author please?
@@ms.1207 Managing God's Money: A Biblical Guide
Book by Randy Alcorn
@@balleronabudgettv9577 thank you !
Single and in the process of developing a portfolio of assets which yield return.
Also, this was perfect timing and great information for women. A Roth IRA is absolute as well.
I teared up at this and really felt like yes, Jesus the Holy Father is also MY Father. Not just a dad but my dad. I’m so thankful that you are following God’s word and sharing your blessed life with us for an example, both the difficult and beautiful. Thank you!
Yes, we have to trust God for our provision with and without a husband. Also, use wisdom with what we have. Amen.
Thank you for the response video! I loved your take on it:) The jar of oil was beautiful and what stuck out to me was that he used something she already had in her home and multiplied it🙌
You're right, the "what ifs" conversations isn't always easy but they're necessary! Great video!
I’ve really appreciated your content (I even said a thank you in prayer for you and other Christian women putting out this content). I’ve been married for 15 years and have struggled with what it means to be a Christian wife & mom. I never had a good example growing up and so much Christian marriage advice is egalitarian in nature. I was constantly being pulled and pushed around in what I though to be true. Having such wisdom from wise ladies such as yourself has been an incredible blessing.
I've never been married or romantically involved but I aspire to marriage, God's way. Joyce✨, I find your videos to be very resourceful and your pov resonates with my soul. You bear so much fruit that it is even nourishing to a 22yo young lady like me.🌱Thank you immensely!📝
You are such an inspiration 🙂! I'm a teacher and you've helped me be a better steward of my time during the summer when I'm off with keeping a consistent schedule in keep my house clean for my husband. We are also in the process of paying off debt so that we can really pour into our savings.
I’m a teacher too and have been using her tips as well! This summer I’ve been putting these things into practice:-)
@@asulli7606 I pray I'm able to maintain my house cleaning and cooking schedule when school starts. As you know it can be a challenge, but I know through prayer I can😊
I am literally crying watching this. Thank you.
Again, I have no desire for marriage and plan on having a career, however homemaking is a very undervalued role and should be given more credit nowadays.
Bindi thank you so much for making these videos. Ive only put these tips into action for two weeks and my life and my marriage are already seeing a difference. I’ve always wanted to be traditional. Ive been a homemaker for two years but I didn’t really know what i was doing and i was struggling with what our roles. I’ve always wanted to be seen as graceful and now i have a practical plan to get to my goals. These last two weeks have been the best weeks ever even with a cranky 2 year old and a struggling to sleep 4 month old.
Something i never worry about but it’s beautiful that you bring this assurance to the believers whom they need to rely on in times of trouble. You’re such a mature soul 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿♥️
Shalom from Brasil! Your chanel is a blessing! I just foud it recently, and I think The Most High has showed me this because I was struggling with my marriage and asking The Lord for knowledge, and your wise advices saved my marriage, it's so good to know whats truely my roll in the marriage, its a relief. And as I started to implement those advices, my life and my husbands life has changed for better. PRAYSE YAHUAH!!
Oi Tati ☺️ legal ver brasileiros aqui... Encontrei a Bindi Faz pouco tbm e estou aprendendo mt sombre feminismo divino q tem me faltado e não sabia...otima professora com meus valores a frente... abraço virtual 🌞
@@MC-pn5ed Que legal, faz uma diferença tremenda saber o nosso papel e nossa responsabilidade neste mundo, são ensinamentos que toda mulher deveria receber da sua mãe e avós desde a juventude!! Muitos problemas atuais nem existiriam eu acho. 😊🥰🥰
I have witnessed Gods provision in this way, first hand with my own mother. Amen to this message
I hit the dislike button by accident 😩 Sis, I have been binging your videos. Can you PLEASE make a video on how you homeschool your children, what style, scheduling, etc. I am embarking on this amazing journey with my 7 year old and will continue with my littlest one when the time comes.
Also, a big hurdle for me (among other things your videos have helped me discover and face) is that I work and so when I get home I feel like I take a lot of time cleaning and organizing and I feel like that takes a lot of time away from my children. I am going down to part time (I'm a nurse so two shifts a week is plenty) so I think that would help. But your advice on how to juggle working and then children and house duties would be appreciated and insightful. I understand you don't work but you're like that friend that I would go to for solid,but local teaching.
Thank you and God bless you and your family and all you do!
I am looking after my house 🏠 better. I enjoy learning about how to be more feminine.God blessed me in being a woman.
You video s are beautiful. Smart lady.
I have to say I saw this video and I didn't not want to watch it. I'm so glad I did. GOD is always good. So I will take steps to be prepared but never scared. Thank you
Thank you for a wonderful content. Indeed God is working through you
Exactly what I needed to hear! This has been an anxiety of mine! Thank you, the Lord is using you in such a powerful way! So grateful for your videos 🙏❤️
I thank you for sharing this. I have been lacking in the money department my eyes are open now learning this wise tip and ask God to forgive me.
Even working wives/mothers need this advice
God bless you 🙏 🕯
Agreed!
It also always touched me how the Lord heard Hagar and cared for her and her son as well 🙌🏻
Absolutely, God supplies and is there for everything! Amen... so beautiful!
Make sure you have a college degree before you get married! That way in case of a divorce you’ll be able to provide for yourself and your children. After my divorce when my girls were younger I worked during school hours so I was able to be home for them while still having a great income that allowed us to live comfortably. We went on vacation five times a year, own house, and enough money for dance classes, yoga, violin, CrossFit, gardening and whatever hobbies they decided to have 😅I’ve seen it too much; women without a way too provide for themselves, stuck in a marriage with a cheating/asshole/narcissistic husband. When you get married no one likes to think about it ending but Be prepared for different scenarios! You owe that to yourself and your children!
This is very encouraging for women! These are great TIPS for couples, when you apply any of these tips it will shift your marriage or relationship in a positive direction. This is so inline with our video (9 TIPS for Successful and Happy Relationship) to encourage couples to build success and lasting relationship. This is the time for Godly Marriage to Arise! Thank you for the inspirational content on your channel...Be Bless!
So proud of your launch ❤️❤️❤️❤️glory to God🙏🏼🙏🏼
Hi Bindi, I found your channel recently and I appreciate your God given wisdom and advice. You are a true inspiration to me. Please do a get-to-know-me q&a type video!
You always leave me blessed, informed and enlighted by your content. Truly I have learned so much and I thank you for availing yourself in this season. Love this topic and I would also, love to hear your views on tithing.
Thank you for this. There is so much I am enduring at home.....
Great advice Bindi!!!
Your brilliant! Thank you for your instruction. Many blessings for you and your family from our Heavenly Father. 🙏
Thank you so much for what you’re doing!! You are such an inspiration! God is using you for my marriage.
The Lord has your back, front, and all around if you will love Him and be obedient and faithful to Him.
Good practical wisdom yet again! 🌸
Thank you for your videos. I am really thankful I found your page
Wow! What a great channel. 🙌🏼It’ll be fun looking around.
God the Father PROVIDES for His Daughters! I am a living witness! When I decided to leave my job in 2017 to dedicate my service to my husband, home, and family. Even when my husband decided a year later he did not want to be married to me anymore. The Lord told me that because I sacrificed and put my home before my work that even though my husband was abandoning me (and the family), God would STILL make sure enough income would come in where I could REMAIN a homemaker (even as a single mom). Since then God has NEVER disappointed me! As a matter of fact not only am I STILL a homemaker FIRST (and business woman second), but I have started investing and have managed to save over $30k in the process. God told me "As your Father, I will make sure you are financially provided for until I send your TRUE husband." Think about it queens, what GOOD father would leave his daughter without to struggle? None! I am a living witness! #allpraises #toGOD
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When you get life insurance make sure you get a disability rider that pays the premium if they become disabled. Some plans come with an unemployment rider but typically you have to be unemployed for that to kick in. Life insurance can help with generational.wealth as well. It preserves homes and enables education.
Your channel is such a blessing in my life. Thank you.
You have one of the most unique and beautiful locs!
Thank you for sharing this video today Bindi, you are a true child of God and it shows 🙏
EXCELLENT! Amen amen and amen 🙏🏻
God bless you for all the wisdom that you share!! You are helping so many of us 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yep, plus a emergency fund of 3-6 months of you and your kids' living expenses (in case the husband leaves).
Thank you for this video Bindi. God bless you🙏
Very practical, awesome video. God bless✝️
This is really encouraging. I’m grateful for your wisdom.
Such a good word 🌸♥️
That life insurance plan had better be a disability plan too. Disability can be a lot more financially impactful than death.
Spirit & Truth! Well said!
Very wise words Bindi ♥️✨ thank you
Thank you very much. God richly bless you🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing 💗
I love that you addressed this.
Thank you. I needed to hear that
Can you please speak to moms with little babies? My friend and I are both newly married, with little boys. We are encouraged by your videos, but wonder what you would advise new moms? There seems to be much less time in the day for homemaking!
I’m a young mom of 4 children, I’m 27 & my husband is 29. He works about 50 hours a week and I stay at home with the kids (ages 3 months - 6 years) it’s super doable with a schedule and routines for the kids. I have a task for each day of the week + my daily chores, and my children thrive with morning, afternoon, and nighttime routines. Of course it’s not possible to do everything with little kids, but it’s certainly doable. I stopped hand washing dishes and started using a dishwasher, we also were gifted a robot vacuum. These two things help me save so much time every day! My 2 older children are learning to do chores (like their own laundry & clean their rooms) & they give themselves baths, which also helps. It’s all about time management and being organized. But also ask God for help in this area! Without Him, I would be lost trying to manage it all.
Very good ma'am ❤️ 🙏🏿
Thank you ❤️
I've been loving your videos as I go through being more modest. I recently read 1 chorinthians 11 and was wondering your thoughts and if you do head covering?
They always ask me this and it boggles my mind that they have no faith in God and assumes the worst. We have also invested in a life insurance being that I am a home maker.
Very encouraging!
I know this isn’t related, but can you please make a video on mother in law - daughter in law relationships and bonding? I love everything you say, and I have a mother in law that I would like to cultivate something special with, I can tell she feels this as well, but I don’t know what to do? Thank you ☺️
thank you
Sounds like solid wisdom.
Great video!!
Love it!
This is a word 👏🏾👏🏾
Allow your 18 year and above children to insure you as their parent and have them pay the policy. In this way they can use those funds to continue building generational wealth!
How does this build generational wealth?
@@dahliaherrod4301 Are you asking how $200k-$500k can build generational wealth?
Where do you get the dresses for your shop?
Great topic!
Maybe because there are so many stories of abusive marriage. My mother was an houswife, she didn't finish university, never worked, never earned a single euro. She was a stay at home mom and she made us pay for it, she hated it every single day, saying to me and my sister that her life was miserable because of us. My father was a wife beater and he was abusive and violent on us to, and she did nothing to protect us saying that is a sin to divorse and separate what God has united. She had her fault in this, she was manipulate and always angry and aggressive. I'm so afraid that something like that could happen to me.
I know this is erelevent but would u ever consider making a colection of modest feminin teenage fits for your younger sisters in Christ
Im binging all the videos i haven’t seen 😂😂
You should read the book “Be Fruitful and Multiply” by Nancy Campbell and do a book review
THIS is why I tell women. U HAVE TO HAVE a policy that replaces his income and pays you his salary @ 8% of that income or more. You also need a hood and trusted advisor, better yet ladies in your spare time learn the basics of economics and finances so that you don’t have to deplete that money if it ever came to it.
Beautiful but very expensive for the value of a polyester dress. Just being honest. $48 at the most ❤️
We’re all so accustomed to fast fashion, cheap fabrics made by workers who are being underpaid overseas. It can make $90 seem expensive for a polyester dress but it does depend on the quality of the sewing and the wages that were paid.
I know what you mean though, I only buy natural fibre clothing. I would happily save up and buy any of those dresses for $200 if it was natural fibres and I knew the person sewing it was being paid a fair wage to do a good job of sewing it properly so the seams are strong and long lasting. ☺️
Would love to know more info on where they’re made etc xx
Beautiful 😍
Is Bindi Marc her real name or a nickname...?
Can you show us kind of modest dresses you would where on a date night.
Be a proverbs 31 wife, she was entrepreneur. Invest!
Real reality of life.!!!. Death is a reality..Marriage is until death
Marriage is temporary.
Make sure you are covered
Life cover ..Retirement. Make sure you can manage money. Learn to be independent and dependent on God.
God is our source. Our provide
Isaiah 54:5 Your husband is your Maker.
Hey I'm a very low income female just ssi so I can't afford any of your dresses I do think they are beautiful. I don't have anything beautiful in my closet. Could you donate me some of them.
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What if you have a career and you get in a car accident and become a quadriplegic and he doesn't want to care for you because he wanted a fun, materialistic life? You can't plan for everything! You could always be business about it and get a postnup recognizing your contribution as a homemaker.
What if your husband is alive but gets into an accident where he's no longer able to work?