Most people will not understand why he kept mentioning how she was 30 and a single mom, in his head he thought she would have no standards and she would be desperate enough to say yes to any man even if he was married.
Yeah they shouldn’t have standards…why would a goodlooking young guy like myself with money, want to step in and play step daddy for a 30+ year old women…or any man for that matter….
the fact that he'd taken the time to find out all that info on her, very very worried for her safety to be honest, but at least she has a record of his disgusting behaviour, lets hope that it ends here.
If you ask a woman out for coffee, and she says no, that she doesn't like coffee, it means she's not interested in you. If she likes you, she would just get something else than coffee at the café. Don't go back suggesting pizza instead... If you're stalking someone on their social media, don't be like "This is what I learned..." like you've studied to a test, and start to list things from her life. That's just creepy, especially if you're married.
@@georgewindsor2667 -Hey, wanna get some coffee? -No, sorry, I don't drink coffee. And: -Hey, wanna get some coffee? -I don't like coffee, but I can drink some tea, sounds good to me!
As someone who has a ranging misogynist as a father instead of a subtle creepy misogynist, I’m almost grateful. It reminds me of left wing men who self identify as feminists but basically cherry pick and appropriate feminism in a way that benefits them. You just know this creepy gym dude is out there talking about “sex work is work” and how much he loves women based on his consumption of sex work, and you know, just wanting to sleep with than rather than actually loving women in a respectful manner. At least right wing misogynists are honest about viewing you as second class citizens whose purpose in life is to please men
@@smoody2 the insidious nature of cushioning misogyny within leftist rhetoric bc the idea is “ this is a guy who wouldn’t do this to women. His beliefs are literally supposed to be against this” was what I was getting at just the way the guy in the video is reminds me of that, like he has some consciousness to know women want to date men they think genuinely care about them as a person (not just looks) but bc this guy is also a unhinged misogynistic narcissist, he goes about that like “to show I care about you (he doesn’t but he might think he does) here is all I have observed about you from being creepy. I noticed all this bc I care. “ Like the misogynistic leftist men who champion sec work and ignore every other women’s issue, his “care” rest entirely on what the woman can provide to him romantically/ sexually
She was extremely nice to a human that she didn’t have to be nice towards. I’ll give her all the credit she deserves for keeping it classy in a very public situation and not lighting him up.
She was probably nervous to say no. I know if someone knew that many facts about me I'd be afraid to let them down in any way that can be misconstrued as mean.
That's where it is does get a bit weird. You never know how creeps will behave if you turn them down and she was trying to stay cordial, especially since they were in public. These creepers can't read the "room" either because though she was smiling, it was an uncomfortable smile. Then he has to drone on after she made it clear married takes him off the table (even though she says after the fact she wasn't interested regardless).
@@Rin-jy9gg I give ONE polite “not interested”, then if they persist I basically stop being polite and tell them “Go away”. I don’t care if they get upset, angry, etc. I just make sure to be ready to fight back if they get aggressive.
When a girl says “I’m not interested” and a guy attempts to ‘convince’ her to change her mind that’s a 🚩 of an abusive misogynist. The man is literally attempting to start a relationship on the basis that you’re too stupid to 1. know what you actually want 2. Judge his character correctly. So he MUST educate you otherwise you’re missing out on the awesome specimen that is him, and he wouldn’t want you to live with such regret bc he cares about you 🥴
@@Deuteromis I doubt it sadly. This guy is the epitome of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (not diagnosing but observing from experience). He likely wouldn’t end up in a relationship with anyone who DIDN’T cave to the same manipulation tactics as displayed here. He’s likely with someone incredibly submissive to the point they tolerate and enable abuse. People who are narcissistic like this dude cannot emotionally handle someone who doesn’t reaffirm their ego so they seek out/ end up with people who are doormats, due to their own unhealthy psychological issues. And if she wasn’t a doormat type at the beginning, he likely abused her into it.
And what's crazy is that his wife is probably beautiful! If Jay-Z can cheat on one of the most beautiful women in the world and if Halle claims that she won't get married due to all the cheating then this proves that most men have a s*exual screw loose.
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 It’s like when I go outside and I act polite towards the elderly or people in general, just because there are some a holes outside that would act very weird towards my kindness doesn’t mean I’m out of place or that I did something wrong or that I shouldn’t do that anymore. If my kindness bothers someone then that says more about him/her than me. That’s the right way, to be polite to others, shouldn’t change it just because of some bad interactions. Most guys would walk away after hearing NO and most likely honestly appreciate the kind way they were turned down.
@@dd65093 oh good grief 🙄 The amount of times an old guy has gone from polite to creepy AF in less than 0.2 seconds is mind boggling! Creeps are counting on politeness . You can be as polite as you want to. That's your own choice. But I don't have to be.
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 they don’t need to be creepy lol disrespectful is way more than enough to get a aggressive reaction from others. is that what you got out of what I said? Really? Of course you can act however you wish. I act polite because that’s who I am as a person. You do you, as I say it speaks volumes of what kind of person you are, however you choose to respond or act. I met women that act real crazy when approached by normal guys, they don’t deserve that reaction, most will take a I’m not interested and go away.
Not sure which is more disturbing. The fact he's trying to cheat on his wife, or that he thought he'd get some bonus honesty points for coming clean about being married. Like that somehow made him a better person in this situation.
I've been a first hand witness to a similar situation. When I was a younger man, I was a welding student at a community college. Since then I've been a welder for 14 years. Anyways, I had an hour or two to kill between classes. So I would go to the cafeteria, get something to eat and read a book. On this particular day the cafeteria was really full and I had a table all to myself. A young lady asks me if she could sit down at my table and I say "sure". And I go back to reading. 10 maybe 15 minuets go by and a guy shows up spitting THE WORST GAME I'VE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE. It was so pathetic. My eyes are glued to my book. I'm not even reading anymore. I'm just trying to keep a straight face. She tells him she has a boyfriend and he leaves. Without even taking my eyes off my book I asked her "did that really just happen"? She loses it and starts laughing.
@@Vayeya1 He said something like: "Hey baby girl, you so beautiful." The she says: "thanks" Then he said: "Don't thank me, thank your mama". That's when I almost busted out and started laughing.
My guess is that he searched her social media profiles, which is why you could never be too careful with your privacy settings - or even better - don’t use social media!
@@SatanenPerkele OMG, I hope this guy finally got the message and backed the hell off! That’s really messed-up and I couldn’t imagine what I would do if I knew someone was literally following me.
I find his timing very interesting, wait until she's on an exercise machine that has her laying on her back in a vulnerable position before starting the interaction. This has him standing over her creating a subconscious physical & psychological power imbalance so they're no longer on equal social footing which kinda forces her to engage with him. Wonder if this was done on purpose ? Was he too intimidated by her beauty & too gutless to approach her whilst she was standing up ?
I think you’re right, the leg press makes running away a bit hard, there’s no way this guy wasn’t aware of that and took every opportunity…what baffles me more though is how he thinks spewing personal facts about her from her socials would make her dtf…like… 🤔
I agree. But it's also a reason why I don't go to gyms. I do dvd's in my own home or I workout outdoors (hiking, jogging, & long walks). Then I know I never have to talk to anyone.
She's trying in the nicest way to call him a scumbag and he's just like no no, yeah I know and just keeps going! This dude has some major problems and I feel sorry for whoever his wife is.
Right? He's just keeps rambling on his unhinged mental gymnastics, talking about "well in the best case scenario...." You'd stop talking and walk TF away?!?! That's what's best right now!!! 🙄
The guys is married and needs to focus on his marriage! I feel bad for the woman in this, she went to the gym to workout not be hit on by creepy married men. She handled this strange awkward interaction really well, and I hope the guy's wife does find out about this and do something about it because this is not the behavior that a married person should be practicing!
She did mention that he invited her for coffee. She said she doesn't like coffee he was probably just asking questions until he got the courage to ask her out. Dude has no respect for his wife and kids
A lot of women act very pleasant and when rejecting men, because rejection that is put more straight forward could sometimes hurt his ego, and lead to retaliation in form of aggressive behavior, insults, unwanted pictures, spreading of rumors etc, so women just want to get out of the situation without causing any hard feelings.
When I worked as a merchandiser for a soda company one of the guys I ran into on my route would always flirt with me. One day the guy asked for my phone number so I gave it to him. He then tells me he can only call early in the day because he’s married. I said “wtf dude give me back my phone number!” He actually acted insulted that I wanted my number back and nothing to do with a married man.
Hello Xenoshot. I hope all is well with you. Please accept my most sincere apology for not responding sooner. My aunt passed away and before I had a chance to take your number down because you said you have something for me, your comment was removed. 🙏🙏🙏
If you wouldn’t approach another MAN like that at the gym…don’t fucking approach a woman like this. Dudes are so quick to respect another random man’s boundaries and space in the gym, but intrude on women.
He's lucky he caught her in a good mood. Most women would have been a lot nastier. He's just a sleeze ball and I'm glad she said I don't think your wife would appreciate any of this.
Weird. So I'm a female and I absolutely hate when a man comes up and compliments me and asks for my number, I just don't even want to be bothered. It makes me super uncomfortable and when they ask for my number, I tell them I'm happily in a relationship, but a lot of them will respond with "Your bf doesn't need to know. What he doesn't know won't hurt him." That happens a lot and I always respond with "Well, I would know and I'm not like that." It's even more annoying when I'm with my sister and some random man just starts awkwardly inserting himself into our conversation. It's rude and super uncomfortable. When I'm alone, I purposely wear headphones cause most ppl will see that and not bother me, but there's always got to be someone that can't take a hint. I hate confrontation and some of these men will be so awful after being told no. Does anyone else feel the same way?
Yeah, I could not go to the store without being talked to for a long time. My girlfriend has the same problem. My ex used to always wait in the car instead of going into the gas station. One day she was like, "Today I think I'm going to actually come inside." She had the door half open, wasn't even fully out of the car, and then immediate whistling and "HEY HONEY". She immediately just climbed back inside and I took her somewhere else. They were yelling AWWW COME BACK. Very standard. I used to be a junkie. I'm realllllly good at acting like I'm still doing meth. I act like a tweaker when I'm alone at like the gas station or store and I'm no longer harassed. People avoid the shit out of me. I've gone from getting approached every day to not having a weird run in with a strange man for the past like 4 months. I hate that I have to do it, but I've already been mugged, followed and chased multiple times before this and I'm done with that.
What's worse is when I was pregnant and just going anywhere attracted a lot of unwanted attention from men. It was awkward and weird. I had to start bringing my ex-husband (husband at the time when this happened) with me to scare these dudes off. By the time I was pregnant the second time we had a routine and most men left me alone, a couple were brazen to still hit on me. It was weird. I did have to get security involved one time because this guy wanted to touch my belly and I told him no. He followed me throughout the store and checked out when I was checking out. I walked up to the security guard and asked if he could walk me out because there was a dude following me all over the store and he was creeping me out. I pointed the guy out and he said he would do better than that and detain him and will call the cops if he gets out of hand. I left with no problems, but also made sure no one followed me home just in case he was able to get past security.
This is an example of a guy that just SO CLEARLY has bad intentions but is trying to hide it by fishing for "bonus points," leading to him making zero sense. Let's be honest. He probably approached her for sex because he was attracted to her. So what does he think the strategy is? "Be as agreeable as possible, then maybe I can get what I want." No principles, no morals, and making *zero* sense. -Starts the conversation off with "here's what I learned..." and probably thought that was charming or something when it clearly wasn't, and proceeds to seem like a stalker instead. - "upfront and honest" about literally being *married*, as if being honest about that gives him bonus points or a better person or something -Agrees with everything she's saying ("Your wife probably won't agree with that." "It makes us women scared...") even tho it literally goes against everything he's trying to pull off by hitting on her. What is he even trying to say? For a guy who said a lot, he said nothing at all because all this exchange did was expose him as a cheating, selfish, desperate man who just wants what benefits only him.
The thing I've noticed in the last couple years is that guys will openly tell you they're "married, but not together". So nearly everyone I get hit on says that, which is essentially, playing house, basically. Yeah, I'm good, thanks.
I used to work at Speedway like 7 years ago. This guy came in and started making conversation. He was doing construction in the city and was staying near the gas station. I would go outside for a cigarette with customers from time to time and so I would smoke and chat with him for like 5 min a day. He asked me out once and I said nah. I'm gay so it was a definite no. He was super chill about it and still was friendly. I was like 19 and stupid, so I thought we were friends at a certain point and let him have my #. He ended up mentioning his wife and kids, so I was like "Oh, he must be in an open relationship." I was again, stupid and thought that people would be like, ashamed if they were cheating? He ended up bringing in a woman and introducing her as his girlfriend. I got a phone call like a week later from a woman three states away who wanted to know if her husband was cheating. She said she needed to know if she needed to take the kids and leave. I explained that he had a girlfriend and he stopped coming in after asking if I talked to his wife. Super uncomfortable situation.
Live and learn, my friend, we all must live and learn. What’s ‘funny’ is with each successive decade in my life, I am realizing just how much I’ve grown since the one prior. I thought I knew quite a bit at 19 and though it was likely more than most 19 year olds, the reality was that I didn’t know shit. At 30, I thought I finally really knew something, but my 40s proved otherwise. I’m 44 now and think I’ll be surprised again at 50! We live and we learn.
The classic line "you behave yourself" 😂😂 that's the line a younger woman gives the guy who is way older & you're trying not to be too mean. Pretty much the only type of guy who hits on me on the rare occasion it happens, but it's OK because I'm married 😂
What a patient lady. If I were her I probably would have said immediately when he said he's married, "what are you doing talking to me? I'm in the middle of a set. Buh-bye!" *Plug earbuds back in and get to work*
Can we all just take a moment to admire this woman's patience and ability to keep her composure and even be nice toward someone who doesn't deserve one iota of her time or attention.
Stuff like this makes me realize why I stopped working out alone at gyms.. /: I always felt so uncomfortable from the stares or ppl trying to talk even if I listened to music. She's so strong handling this so well.
This is like when you have a really close friend and start out making them think you’re about to ask them out or confess love and all you end up saying is something like “I wanted to know if you wanted to be Player 1 on PS tonight?” And everyone just rolls their eyes in weirdness.
So great that she exposed him! Good for you girl!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽my ex was a total sleeve bag like this guy, any attention he got from a woman and he’d be all in! I wish some woman had reached out to me before I got really hurt by him in the end because I knew nothing!😢😢
This is why I stopped going to gyms, made a gym in my home and only go to aerial arts classes for women. They can never just leave you alone and let you workout and live your life.I never went to a gym in 3 states where men werent hitting on your unrelentingly from the parking lot to working out to trying to leave and not wanting them to SEE what car you are driving because they behave so stalkerish.
When I worked at Costco in my early twenties, I had a wayy older man in his 60s say I was pretty and I just tried to shrug it off because I just had great customer service. Then he came in 2 more times to return random food items. The last time he left a piece of paper on the counter saying him and his wife were in an open marriage and wanted to introduce me into the relationship. I’ll never forget that
I give her credit for not freaking out and not running away from it. She "Womaned Up" and stood her ground, in a civil manner and continued her workout. Classy & very lady like. That's the best way to deal with creeps. You go, girl!
Dweeeb...A former neighbor of mine had the nerve to come in my backyard (before I could even build the fence) and hit on me...I ended it with "Next time you come over, you need to bring your wife"...well, that never happend. Guy wouldn't leave me alone. He tried breaking into my home, false animal control reports...etc. I was so happy when he finally moved.
I've had the inverse happen to me. A guy asked me out and when I told him I'm married he asked if I'm up for having an affair. Helllllllllllllll no. Unlike some people, I'm happy in my marriage. I'm not gonna cheat on a 10 for a 3.
He knew several things about her in the beginning of the video, and her reaction means that she volunteered this information through previous conversations with him. No matter who you are, don't give that kind of information to strangers. You'd be surprised what little information people need to steal your identity. He knows her name, the town she lives, her age, that she has a son.. too much.
I agree. Sometimes strangers ask how many times a week I visit a place and at what time…. It’s like, why you need to know everything for ?? I always respond with I’m not sure, or it just depends. Because people are WEIRD. We all have to stay aware of the information we give.
If he’s pursuing other women, he’s cheating, whether they’re accepting his offers or not. Hope his wife sees this and hope that girl can workout in peace in the future.
God bless her. Women are generally too nice to creeps like this guy. She's listening patiently, but you can tell she's cringing inside. There's absolutely no reason why she shouldn't tell him to go away and leave her alone, but she's conditioned to be polite.
I'm surprised she managed to be pleasant during the whole thing. I can't even manage a polite facial expression, it's pretty obvious when I find an encounter distasteful.
@@SatanenPerkele I know, you have to humor them so they don't attack you. But it ends up confusing their tiny little minds because they see an attractive woman smiling at them and they take that as encouragement.
One time I saw this lady at the gym that really captured my heart. She told me she was married. I go to the gym to work out, so I left her and all the other ladies alone. A few weeks later and another lady captured my heart again. I was going to give it up though, having experienced that prior embarrassment. 🤦♂️ But this woman seemed special, worth the embarrassment. I asked her out and then she got mad at me... REMINDED me that she was married. She cut her hair and changed the color. I thought she was someone else. 🤦♂️🤦♂️ I've given up on love. I'm 56, single for life. Never been married, never had a girlfriend, no kids... no PROBLEMS. 😄
As a man, this is so disgusting to watch and to just see guys like this just shit on men as a whole giving them a bad rap is horrible, because there are guys like me who are good and not mentally ill creepers. I’m 21, and way more mature than this guy. I have been with my gf for over a year and I would never cheat on her. What this guy did is the most disgusting, creepy, and dishonorable thing. Attempting to cheat on your wife and just saying all these creepy things is just so unacceptable and it is so sad that we have people like this in our world. I mean it’s the ultimate betrayal and I feel so bad for all these girls who have to deal with these stalkers, creepers, and peeping tom people. A lot of guys like this can’t control their sexual urges. All you girls out there have my support!
I love the fact that you call out creeps and con artists. It’s a very brave move - most of us would be worried about the repercussions. Your have a brilliant way of putting the story into words that make it entertaining. Keep doing what you’re doing!
I’ve literally had a guy at the gym come up to me and keep repeating to me that I’m a single mom after giving me a compliment. It’s not hard to figure out this one had the same plan. Thankfully most men aren’t creeps but the ones really are bottom of the barrel
This girl was way too nice to him, I would have told him straight up that I was not interested and I just want to finish my work out. Why are some dudes so out of touch with reality.
I absolutely HATE when people interrupt me while working out! It's rude and annoying. That's why I bought my own equipment and don't go to the gym anymore. If someone is in a zone w headphones on or doing a set... wait until they're done working out if you want to talk. It's so damn rude. Especially since most people have a certain amount of time to workout and then have to go to work or go somewhere.
He doesn't deserve it but I think it's really nice she's trying to have an honest conversation with him about how it affects her thoughts about marriage. Hopefully it'll get him thinking differently.
“I’m married, stocking you, have fantasized about you late at night, have no respect for you, your private time, your workout, or my wife but I just wanted to see if you are totally down for pizza?” Wth is wrong with people? He needs to “relieve himself” prior to walking into the gym so he can stop trodding around like an insane chimpanzee just looking to mount something! Sheesh!! That should be a policy at the door! “Please go empty your sacks PRIOR to entering our facility! Thank you! -management”
Hes unconscious, he doesn't know, nobody taught him what hes doing comes off creepy, probably a big guy, people intimidated to tell him the truth. He thinks hes rizzing her in his mind, and thats his problem, stuck in his mind.
This was BEYOND cringeworthy, it made me SO uncomfortable I could barely look at the screen. Why do people do this sort of thing?? I can imagine what his wife would think if she saw this (or did she finally get to see this video??)
"Why won't you have a relationship with me?! A) I said you were cool ... multiple times, and B) I also showed you how honest I am by telling you how I'm kind sorta married."
That's not balls That's living in his own delulu lemon head! In his own mind he thought that had some sort of connection or something and convinced himself that it was real enough to try and f**k around on his wife 😮
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His wife when she sees this: "We're kinda sorta getting a divorce..."
She probably doesn't care
Wouldn't be surprised if she's pulling more game than him
NAIL on the Head!!
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Okay don’t care let’s get a divorce 😅
Most people will not understand why he kept mentioning how she was 30 and a single mom, in his head he thought she would have no standards and she would be desperate enough to say yes to any man even if he was married.
OMG!!! I was wondering that cause I thought that was weird but that makes sense now
Dude. I knew a douchy guy in college named "chaz" who only dated moms bc he said he got them at a discount....like vomit.
Yeah they shouldn’t have standards…why would a goodlooking young guy like myself with money, want to step in and play step daddy for a 30+ year old women…or any man for that matter….
@@Colbzz If you are not interested in these women then why are you obsessed with their standards? 🥴
@@Colbzz your comment is hilarious, you look like shrek and still live in the basement. No rich man would spend his time on these videos🤣
Finally, we have a "creepy man in the gym" TikTok that's ACTUALLY about a creepy man in the gym!
I know right. Not a stuck up snob trying to shame an innocent man.
Right!
@@bluestingerborg fr!!! People who do that make actual victims or harassed people look bad
Yeah. Only thing wrong with the video is that she literally used "your" when she should've used "you're" EVERY SINGLE TIME.
@@PrimericanIdol I know nothing about TikTok...are those subtitles auto-generated or typed by the user?
this guy needs to be shamed publicly
I agree with this one this guy has no respect for his wife or kids.
the fact that he'd taken the time to find out all that info on her, very very worried for her safety to be honest, but at least she has a record of his disgusting behaviour, lets hope that it ends here.
He was lol
On this video and the original. She shows his face at the end
Needs to be pepper sprayed
I wouldn't of been as nice as this young lass......
Dude needs a therapist, not a date.
He needs a divorce 😅
Marriage counseling 1000%
Needs a kick to the ⚾️⚾️
No, he NEEDS a divorce. He can get a therapist to find out why he treated his wife so poorly after she leaves him!
More like a punch with reality
If you ask a woman out for coffee, and she says no, that she doesn't like coffee, it means she's not interested in you. If she likes you, she would just get something else than coffee at the café. Don't go back suggesting pizza instead...
If you're stalking someone on their social media, don't be like "This is what I learned..." like you've studied to a test, and start to list things from her life. That's just creepy, especially if you're married.
or she dosnt like coffee :) hahah
@@georgewindsor2667 did you even read the comment? and also no you are wrong
@@georgewindsor2667
-Hey, wanna get some coffee?
-No, sorry, I don't drink coffee.
And:
-Hey, wanna get some coffee?
-I don't like coffee, but I can drink some tea, sounds good to me!
@@oddfcherry lol did you not hear her say she dosnt like coffee. calm down karen.
George all single over here. 😭😂😂
Imagine seeing your dad act this creepy towards someone knowing he is married
Mortifying would be a good starting word lol
I would be sick to my stomach. Also get his name off my birth certificate change my last name if I had his last name lol fukkin creep dude.
As someone who has a ranging misogynist as a father instead of a subtle creepy misogynist, I’m almost grateful. It reminds me of left wing men who self identify as feminists but basically cherry pick and appropriate feminism in a way that benefits them. You just know this creepy gym dude is out there talking about “sex work is work” and how much he loves women based on his consumption of sex work, and you know, just wanting to sleep with than rather than actually loving women in a respectful manner.
At least right wing misogynists are honest about viewing you as second class citizens whose purpose in life is to please men
@@Meanie74 what in earth has political mentality got to do with anything? Everyone has the potential to be a weirdo 😂
@@smoody2 the insidious nature of cushioning misogyny within leftist rhetoric bc the idea is “ this is a guy who wouldn’t do this to women. His beliefs are literally supposed to be against this” was what I was getting at
just the way the guy in the video is reminds me of that, like he has some consciousness to know women want to date men they think genuinely care about them as a person (not just looks) but bc this guy is also a unhinged misogynistic narcissist, he goes about that like “to show I care about you (he doesn’t but he might think he does) here is all I have observed about you from being creepy. I noticed all this bc I care. “
Like the misogynistic leftist men who champion sec work and ignore every other women’s issue, his “care” rest entirely on what the woman can provide to him romantically/ sexually
What a creepy NPC.
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Top tier comment 😂
What does NPC mean?
@@RY-os9vw Non playable character
A shame her speech skill wasn't high enough to shut him down in one go.
She was extremely nice to a human that she didn’t have to be nice towards. I’ll give her all the credit she deserves for keeping it classy in a very public situation and not lighting him up.
She was probably nervous to say no. I know if someone knew that many facts about me I'd be afraid to let them down in any way that can be misconstrued as mean.
That's where it is does get a bit weird. You never know how creeps will behave if you turn them down and she was trying to stay cordial, especially since they were in public. These creepers can't read the "room" either because though she was smiling, it was an uncomfortable smile. Then he has to drone on after she made it clear married takes him off the table (even though she says after the fact she wasn't interested regardless).
@@WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone absolutely, you never know what's going to set some people off and sometimes being in public won't stop them.
She could have interrupted him by saying she wanted to finish her workout.
By being polite and nice he might think he has a chance.
@@Rin-jy9gg I give ONE polite “not interested”, then if they persist I basically stop being polite and tell them “Go away”. I don’t care if they get upset, angry, etc. I just make sure to be ready to fight back if they get aggressive.
When a girl says “I’m not interested” and a guy attempts to ‘convince’ her to change her mind that’s a 🚩 of an abusive misogynist. The man is literally attempting to start a relationship on the basis that you’re too stupid to 1. know what you actually want 2. Judge his character correctly. So he MUST educate you otherwise you’re missing out on the awesome specimen that is him, and he wouldn’t want you to live with such regret bc he cares about you 🥴
@S precisely
Also doesn't help that he's married.
And if his wife sees this video he'll be formerly married.
@@Deuteromis I doubt it sadly. This guy is the epitome of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (not diagnosing but observing from experience). He likely wouldn’t end up in a relationship with anyone who DIDN’T cave to the same manipulation tactics as displayed here. He’s likely with someone incredibly submissive to the point they tolerate and enable abuse. People who are narcissistic like this dude cannot emotionally handle someone who doesn’t reaffirm their ego so they seek out/ end up with people who are doormats, due to their own unhealthy psychological issues. And if she wasn’t a doormat type at the beginning, he likely abused her into it.
@@SatanenPerkele when you have a narc parent they are easy to recognize lol
as a guy, i cant wait for these type of guys to die out, world might be a better place for it.
I hope that guy's wife sees this vid. She obviously deserves better. Respect to this woman for outing him.
Maybe someone who knows them will give see it and gives her a heads up!!
Maybe the wife is cool with having a third. You never know these days. Either way his approach creeped me out!
@@NCPhilnotNPCphil No, he agreed when she said his wife wouldn't appreciate him trying to pick her up.
And what's crazy is that his wife is probably beautiful! If Jay-Z can cheat on one of the most beautiful women in the world and if Halle claims that she won't get married due to all the cheating then this proves that most men have a s*exual screw loose.
I pray his wife take everything from him. This creepy-crawly predator
Dude thought "single women are definitely attracted to married men, I'm going to mention that and she will be all over me." lol
I worked with someone like him, the guy thought he was a ladies man. All the women couldn't stand him and most called him a creep.
I think it’s safe to say even if he wasn’t kinda sorta married she still wouldn’t go out with the creep🤣
Yes. That MF has grey hair and is probably in his 50’s lol. She’s what? 21? 😅
She said that toward the end on her follow up.
I mean, she said that herself, so yeah...
Unfortunately, most women have been socially trained to be kind and polite to creeps like this... and that's why they do this.
@@SatanenPerkele makes sense!
Yup!
And then they pull the "you're rude, mean, not nice" blah blah blah no matter how politely you turn them down 🙄
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
It’s like when I go outside and I act polite towards the elderly or people in general, just because there are some a holes outside that would act very weird towards my kindness doesn’t mean I’m out of place or that I did something wrong or that I shouldn’t do that anymore. If my kindness bothers someone then that says more about him/her than me. That’s the right way, to be polite to others, shouldn’t change it just because of some bad interactions. Most guys would walk away after hearing NO and most likely honestly appreciate the kind way they were turned down.
@@dd65093 oh good grief 🙄
The amount of times an old guy has gone from polite to creepy AF in less than 0.2 seconds is mind boggling!
Creeps are counting on politeness .
You can be as polite as you want to.
That's your own choice.
But I don't have to be.
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 they don’t need to be creepy lol disrespectful is way more than enough to get a aggressive reaction from others. is that what you got out of what I said? Really? Of course you can act however you wish. I act polite because that’s who I am as a person. You do you, as I say it speaks volumes of what kind of person you are, however you choose to respond or act. I met women that act real crazy when approached by normal guys, they don’t deserve that reaction, most will take a I’m not interested and go away.
Not sure which is more disturbing. The fact he's trying to cheat on his wife, or that he thought he'd get some bonus honesty points for coming clean about being married. Like that somehow made him a better person in this situation.
Her facial expression is in complete disbelief that conversation is even happening lol
I've been a first hand witness to a similar situation. When I was a younger man, I was a welding student at a community college. Since then I've been a welder for 14 years. Anyways, I had an hour or two to kill between classes. So I would go to the cafeteria, get something to eat and read a book. On this particular day the cafeteria was really full and I had a table all to myself. A young lady asks me if she could sit down at my table and I say "sure". And I go back to reading. 10 maybe 15 minuets go by and a guy shows up spitting THE WORST GAME I'VE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE. It was so pathetic. My eyes are glued to my book. I'm not even reading anymore. I'm just trying to keep a straight face. She tells him she has a boyfriend and he leaves. Without even taking my eyes off my book I asked her "did that really just happen"? She loses it and starts laughing.
That's Funny!
🤣
Can you tell us something that he said that was specially weird?
@@Vayeya1 He said something like: "Hey baby girl, you so beautiful." The she says: "thanks" Then he said: "Don't thank me, thank your mama". That's when I almost busted out and started laughing.
Nice 👌
It's interesting how creeps like this turn a polite interaction into a "connection"
Spot on 😂🤣😂
THIS!
This is desperation on a whole other level 💀
I don’t know how he knew all those things about her without stalking her outright. Straight up creepy and cringe. Especially when you’re MARRIED.
@@SatanenPerkele yep. Scary stuff.
@@SatanenPerkele that's awful.
My guess is that he searched her social media profiles, which is why you could never be too careful with your privacy settings - or even better - don’t use social media!
@@SatanenPerkele OMG, I hope this guy finally got the message and backed the hell off! That’s really messed-up and I couldn’t imagine what I would do if I knew someone was literally following me.
He’s obviously approached her multiple times
I find his timing very interesting, wait until she's on an exercise machine that has her laying on her back in a vulnerable position before starting the interaction. This has him standing over her creating a subconscious physical & psychological power imbalance so they're no longer on equal social footing which kinda forces her to engage with him. Wonder if this was done on purpose ? Was he too intimidated by her beauty & too gutless to approach her whilst she was standing up ?
Good catch!
You’re looking way too deep into this imo
I think you’re right, the leg press makes running away a bit hard, there’s no way this guy wasn’t aware of that and took every opportunity…what baffles me more though is how he thinks spewing personal facts about her from her socials would make her dtf…like… 🤔
You are my only exposure to TikTok. Thank you for watching all the cringe for us first 😃
@@iamme25yago23 i only use tiktok for posting my stuff, and that's it. i don't use it to watch cringy stuff.
Same
Agreed. I won't defile my phone with tic toc. I'd have to soak it in holy water and my phone does not do well with moisture.
@@iamme25yago23 wdym my comment isnt deleted its still there lol?
@@iamme25yago23 weird
Been working out for 4+ years and having conversation with others is the last thing on my mind.
I agree. But it's also a reason why I don't go to gyms. I do dvd's in my own home or I workout outdoors (hiking, jogging, & long walks). Then I know I never have to talk to anyone.
She's trying in the nicest way to call him a scumbag and he's just like no no, yeah I know and just keeps going! This dude has some major problems and I feel sorry for whoever his wife is.
Right?
He's just keeps rambling on his unhinged mental gymnastics, talking about "well in the best case scenario...."
You'd stop talking and walk TF away?!?!
That's what's best right now!!! 🙄
The guys is married and needs to focus on his marriage! I feel bad for the woman in this, she went to the gym to workout not be hit on by creepy married men. She handled this strange awkward interaction really well, and I hope the guy's wife does find out about this and do something about it because this is not the behavior that a married person should be practicing!
What In the …? How does he know this much about her??? Wow
Stalking possibly even a peeping Tom weirdo
Probably because she post everything online unless he’s actually stalking her.
He lives in her pantry
@@LittleLulubeeLMFAOOO
She did mention that he invited her for coffee. She said she doesn't like coffee he was probably just asking questions until he got the courage to ask her out.
Dude has no respect for his wife and kids
She's extremely patient!
No doubt, she seems like a sweetheart. I hope the next guy who hits on her is worth her while.
Too patient!! The conversation should have ended after he said he was "sort of married"😒 But that's just me🤷🏾♀️
She was being way too patient with him. These types of guys need to be told to "fuck off" immediately.
A lot of women act very pleasant and when rejecting men, because rejection that is put more straight forward could sometimes hurt his ego, and lead to retaliation in form of aggressive behavior, insults, unwanted pictures, spreading of rumors etc, so women just want to get out of the situation without causing any hard feelings.
That's what i said!! You have to tell them right away!!
He's married and he thinks he can hit on girls? Once a cheater always a cheater..
He might as well be a serial killer
Creepy as hell.
👀 my dude.. that was sandpaper smooth
When I worked as a merchandiser for a soda company one of the guys I ran into on my route would always flirt with me. One day the guy asked for my phone number so I gave it to him. He then tells me he can only call early in the day because he’s married. I said “wtf dude give me back my phone number!” He actually acted insulted that I wanted my number back and nothing to do with a married man.
He's testing the water, looking for a side piece. 🤮🤮🤮
Hello Xenoshot. I hope all is well with you. Please accept my most sincere apology for not responding sooner. My aunt passed away and before I had a chance to take your number down because you said you have something for me, your comment was removed. 🙏🙏🙏
@@relakonecorner it's a scam!
Watch the end of the video again!!!!
Lets show his wife. When he realizes she gets everything in the divorce😂
That guy redefined "pathetic."
If you wouldn’t approach another MAN like that at the gym…don’t fucking approach a woman like this. Dudes are so quick to respect another random man’s boundaries and space in the gym, but intrude on women.
Exactly!
Thank you 🙏
He's lucky he caught her in a good mood. Most women would have been a lot nastier. He's just a sleeze ball and I'm glad she said I don't think your wife would appreciate any of this.
“This guy took cheat day to a whole new level” 😂
Weird.
So I'm a female and I absolutely hate when a man comes up and compliments me and asks for my number, I just don't even want to be bothered. It makes me super uncomfortable and when they ask for my number, I tell them I'm happily in a relationship, but a lot of them will respond with "Your bf doesn't need to know. What he doesn't know won't hurt him." That happens a lot and I always respond with "Well, I would know and I'm not like that."
It's even more annoying when I'm with my sister and some random man just starts awkwardly inserting himself into our conversation. It's rude and super uncomfortable. When I'm alone, I purposely wear headphones cause most ppl will see that and not bother me, but there's always got to be someone that can't take a hint. I hate confrontation and some of these men will be so awful after being told no. Does anyone else feel the same way?
Yeah, I could not go to the store without being talked to for a long time. My girlfriend has the same problem. My ex used to always wait in the car instead of going into the gas station. One day she was like, "Today I think I'm going to actually come inside." She had the door half open, wasn't even fully out of the car, and then immediate whistling and "HEY HONEY". She immediately just climbed back inside and I took her somewhere else. They were yelling AWWW COME BACK. Very standard.
I used to be a junkie. I'm realllllly good at acting like I'm still doing meth. I act like a tweaker when I'm alone at like the gas station or store and I'm no longer harassed. People avoid the shit out of me. I've gone from getting approached every day to not having a weird run in with a strange man for the past like 4 months. I hate that I have to do it, but I've already been mugged, followed and chased multiple times before this and I'm done with that.
What's worse is when I was pregnant and just going anywhere attracted a lot of unwanted attention from men. It was awkward and weird. I had to start bringing my ex-husband (husband at the time when this happened) with me to scare these dudes off. By the time I was pregnant the second time we had a routine and most men left me alone, a couple were brazen to still hit on me. It was weird. I did have to get security involved one time because this guy wanted to touch my belly and I told him no. He followed me throughout the store and checked out when I was checking out. I walked up to the security guard and asked if he could walk me out because there was a dude following me all over the store and he was creeping me out. I pointed the guy out and he said he would do better than that and detain him and will call the cops if he gets out of hand. I left with no problems, but also made sure no one followed me home just in case he was able to get past security.
@@figgusriggs6462 The day they stop whistling at her she will be upset.
@@NCPhilnotNPCphil Speak for yourself you desperate no rizz having loner.
@@jellydoughnut9779 Stop trying to flirt with me creep.
FFS. Imagine having to sit there and be subjected to that.
She should've gone for the counter NPC line:
"I don't know you and i don't care to know you."
Option 1: The victim ignores him, and he goes violent
Option 2: The victim is polite because she fears he will go violent.
He's in public
Happy Valentine’s Day to you, too, Xenoshot ❤️
This is an example of a guy that just SO CLEARLY has bad intentions but is trying to hide it by fishing for "bonus points," leading to him making zero sense. Let's be honest. He probably approached her for sex because he was attracted to her. So what does he think the strategy is? "Be as agreeable as possible, then maybe I can get what I want." No principles, no morals, and making *zero* sense.
-Starts the conversation off with "here's what I learned..." and probably thought that was charming or something when it clearly wasn't, and proceeds to seem like a stalker instead.
- "upfront and honest" about literally being *married*, as if being honest about that gives him bonus points or a better person or something
-Agrees with everything she's saying ("Your wife probably won't agree with that." "It makes us women scared...") even tho it literally goes against everything he's trying to pull off by hitting on her.
What is he even trying to say? For a guy who said a lot, he said nothing at all because all this exchange did was expose him as a cheating, selfish, desperate man who just wants what benefits only him.
The thing I've noticed in the last couple years is that guys will openly tell you they're "married, but not together". So nearly everyone I get hit on says that, which is essentially, playing house, basically. Yeah, I'm good, thanks.
I used to work at Speedway like 7 years ago. This guy came in and started making conversation. He was doing construction in the city and was staying near the gas station. I would go outside for a cigarette with customers from time to time and so I would smoke and chat with him for like 5 min a day. He asked me out once and I said nah. I'm gay so it was a definite no. He was super chill about it and still was friendly. I was like 19 and stupid, so I thought we were friends at a certain point and let him have my #. He ended up mentioning his wife and kids, so I was like "Oh, he must be in an open relationship." I was again, stupid and thought that people would be like, ashamed if they were cheating? He ended up bringing in a woman and introducing her as his girlfriend. I got a phone call like a week later from a woman three states away who wanted to know if her husband was cheating. She said she needed to know if she needed to take the kids and leave. I explained that he had a girlfriend and he stopped coming in after asking if I talked to his wife. Super uncomfortable situation.
Good on you though for telling his wife. What a low-life piece of trash that guy was!
Live and learn, my friend, we all must live and learn.
What’s ‘funny’ is with each successive decade in my life, I am realizing just how much I’ve grown since the one prior. I thought I knew quite a bit at 19 and though it was likely more than most 19 year olds, the reality was that I didn’t know shit. At 30, I thought I finally really knew something, but my 40s proved otherwise. I’m 44 now and think I’ll be surprised again at 50! We live and we learn.
The classic line "you behave yourself" 😂😂 that's the line a younger woman gives the guy who is way older & you're trying not to be too mean. Pretty much the only type of guy who hits on me on the rare occasion it happens, but it's OK because I'm married 😂
What a patient lady. If I were her I probably would have said immediately when he said he's married, "what are you doing talking to me? I'm in the middle of a set. Buh-bye!" *Plug earbuds back in and get to work*
'I'm married, wanna go out?'
'Uhhhhhhhh...no.'
'How bout if I let you meet my wife?'
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Can we all just take a moment to admire this woman's patience and ability to keep her composure and even be nice toward someone who doesn't deserve one iota of her time or attention.
She handled that really well.
You're "kind sort of married"? Ok? LOL.
"I'm kind of sort of married".
I guess you're also kind of sort of divorced.
I hope that his wife see this
Stuff like this makes me realize why I stopped working out alone at gyms.. /: I always felt so uncomfortable from the stares or ppl trying to talk even if I listened to music. She's so strong handling this so well.
Straight up stalker vibes from a married man who likely isn't anymore.
This is like when you have a really close friend and start out making them think you’re about to ask them out or confess love and all you end up saying is something like “I wanted to know if you wanted to be Player 1 on PS tonight?” And everyone just rolls their eyes in weirdness.
So great that she exposed him! Good for you girl!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽my ex was a total sleeve bag like this guy, any attention he got from a woman and he’d be all in! I wish some woman had reached out to me before I got really hurt by him in the end because I knew nothing!😢😢
Same.
It's the "this is what I've learned about you so far" for me. 😬💀
Saying your kinda, sorta married is like being kinda, sorta pregnant.
This is why I stopped going to gyms, made a gym in my home and only go to aerial arts classes for women. They can never just leave you alone and let you workout and live your life.I never went to a gym in 3 states where men werent hitting on your unrelentingly from the parking lot to working out to trying to leave and not wanting them to SEE what car you are driving because they behave so stalkerish.
he really thought 'tell her everything you learned stalking her' was a good intro....
"well first off" and "that's what I've learned so far" has to be just about the craziest way I've ever heard someone introduce themselves.
It's always great when people like him make people like me look like a dating expert.
This sht straight up creepy. 😮
When I worked at Costco in my early twenties, I had a wayy older man in his 60s say I was pretty and I just tried to shrug it off because I just had great customer service. Then he came in 2 more times to return random food items. The last time he left a piece of paper on the counter saying him and his wife were in an open marriage and wanted to introduce me into the relationship. I’ll never forget that
🤢 Sorry you had to experience that!
“Don’t make me lose faith in humanity” is the politest most brutal thing she could of said
I give her credit for not freaking out and not running away from it. She "Womaned Up" and stood her ground, in a civil manner and continued her workout. Classy & very lady like. That's the best way to deal with creeps. You go, girl!
So if shed walked away or firmly told him no that wouldn’t be classy? There’s no right or wrong way to stand up for oneself or respect themselves.
Why propose and get married to someone just to turn around and do this shit. Cheating makes you look insecure and weak.
Honestly I woulda told his wife, I would want someone to tell me. & good for her for not being a home-wrecker.
This guy has moves like Big Ed.
Dweeeb...A former neighbor of mine had the nerve to come in my backyard (before I could even build the fence) and hit on me...I ended it with "Next time you come over, you need to bring your wife"...well, that never happend. Guy wouldn't leave me alone. He tried breaking into my home, false animal control reports...etc. I was so happy when he finally moved.
I hope his wife finds out what a piece of crap he is and gets a divorce and alimony. Maybe then she could find her connection.
Happy Valentines from California to everyone here❤ positive energy .✨
Thank You, from Michigan. Hope you had a Good Valentines Day, too!!!
Dude...no means no. Trying to convince her otherwise is an absolute abuse of boundaries. Wow.
Women don't have a day of peace! WTH!
My connection would be your connection.......seriously, what TF does that even mean?
Imagine watching RUclips and seeing your husband doing this in the act? ☹️
I've had the inverse happen to me. A guy asked me out and when I told him I'm married he asked if I'm up for having an affair. Helllllllllllllll no. Unlike some people, I'm happy in my marriage. I'm not gonna cheat on a 10 for a 3.
He knew several things about her in the beginning of the video, and her reaction means that she volunteered this information through previous conversations with him. No matter who you are, don't give that kind of information to strangers. You'd be surprised what little information people need to steal your identity. He knows her name, the town she lives, her age, that she has a son.. too much.
I agree. Sometimes strangers ask how many times a week I visit a place and at what time…. It’s like, why you need to know everything for ?? I always respond with I’m not sure, or it just depends. Because people are WEIRD. We all have to stay aware of the information we give.
@@stijerina6998 it's apple trying to get your data because you turned off data collection
@@youcansave15ormoreoncarins75 that makes a lot of sense. I’ll have to go complete rogue.
He'll be knackered when out doing his weekly shop with his Mrs and bumps into her at some point 😂
If he’s pursuing other women, he’s cheating, whether they’re accepting his offers or not. Hope his wife sees this and hope that girl can workout in peace in the future.
Fooking hell. If he digs much more he'll end up in Australia 🤣
God bless her. Women are generally too nice to creeps like this guy. She's listening patiently, but you can tell she's cringing inside. There's absolutely no reason why she shouldn't tell him to go away and leave her alone, but she's conditioned to be polite.
I'm surprised she managed to be pleasant during the whole thing. I can't even manage a polite facial expression, it's pretty obvious when I find an encounter distasteful.
@@SatanenPerkele I know, you have to humor them so they don't attack you. But it ends up confusing their tiny little minds because they see an attractive woman smiling at them and they take that as encouragement.
He has absolutely zero respect for boundaries, & someone saying “no.” When she said “absolutely not” that should have ended it.
One time I saw this lady at the gym that really captured my heart. She told me she was married. I go to the gym to work out, so I left her and all the other ladies alone. A few weeks later and another lady captured my heart again. I was going to give it up though, having experienced that prior embarrassment. 🤦♂️ But this woman seemed special, worth the embarrassment. I asked her out and then she got mad at me... REMINDED me that she was married. She cut her hair and changed the color. I thought she was someone else. 🤦♂️🤦♂️
I've given up on love. I'm 56, single for life. Never been married, never had a girlfriend, no kids... no PROBLEMS. 😄
Gross he looks kinda old too.
Thanks for calling out creepy assholes. Means a lot for men to stand up for us.
As a man, this is so disgusting to watch and to just see guys like this just shit on men as a whole giving them a bad rap is horrible, because there are guys like me who are good and not mentally ill creepers. I’m 21, and way more mature than this guy. I have been with my gf for over a year and I would never cheat on her. What this guy did is the most disgusting, creepy, and dishonorable thing. Attempting to cheat on your wife and just saying all these creepy things is just so unacceptable and it is so sad that we have people like this in our world. I mean it’s the ultimate betrayal and I feel so bad for all these girls who have to deal with these stalkers, creepers, and peeping tom people. A lot of guys like this can’t control their sexual urges. All you girls out there have my support!
I love the fact that you call out creeps and con artists. It’s a very brave move - most of us would be worried about the repercussions. Your have a brilliant way of putting the story into words that make it entertaining. Keep doing what you’re doing!
I’ve literally had a guy at the gym come up to me and keep repeating to me that I’m a single mom after giving me a compliment. It’s not hard to figure out this one had the same plan. Thankfully most men aren’t creeps but the ones really are bottom of the barrel
This girl was way too nice to him, I would have told him straight up that I was not interested and I just want to finish my work out. Why are some dudes so out of touch with reality.
I absolutely HATE when people interrupt me while working out! It's rude and annoying. That's why I bought my own equipment and don't go to the gym anymore. If someone is in a zone w headphones on or doing a set... wait until they're done working out if you want to talk. It's so damn rude. Especially since most people have a certain amount of time to workout and then have to go to work or go somewhere.
He doesn't deserve it but I think it's really nice she's trying to have an honest conversation with him about how it affects her thoughts about marriage. Hopefully it'll get him thinking differently.
I couldn't agree more. He needed to hear about it
“I’m married, stocking you, have fantasized about you late at night, have no respect for you, your private time, your workout, or my wife but I just wanted to see if you are totally down for pizza?” Wth is wrong with people? He needs to “relieve himself” prior to walking into the gym so he can stop trodding around like an insane chimpanzee just looking to mount something! Sheesh!! That should be a policy at the door! “Please go empty your sacks PRIOR to entering our facility! Thank you! -management”
😂🤣😂🤣
Hes unconscious, he doesn't know, nobody taught him what hes doing comes off creepy, probably a big guy, people intimidated to tell him the truth. He thinks hes rizzing her in his mind, and thats his problem, stuck in his mind.
@@Phantom-ez4zv ok I'll give you that one! You are probably right.
This was BEYOND cringeworthy, it made me SO uncomfortable I could barely look at the screen. Why do people do this sort of thing?? I can imagine what his wife would think if she saw this (or did she finally get to see this video??)
"Why won't you have a relationship with me?! A) I said you were cool ... multiple times, and B) I also showed you how honest I am by telling you how I'm kind sorta married."
People need to stop approaching others in the gym unless it’s to genuinely help people with their workouts.
Wow this guy has some balls to think that she would go out with him lol like wtf is wrong with people
That's not balls
That's living in his own delulu lemon head!
In his own mind he thought that had some sort of connection or something and convinced himself that it was real enough to try and f**k around on his wife 😮
Mid life crisis