Erica Is Ready To Move Out 📦 Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2022
  • It's another tear-filled conversation between Erica and Safaree as she packs up the home she hoped to raise their kids in. 💔
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  • @AJsMOM4782
    @AJsMOM4782 Год назад +2640

    I can’t get over how much this man begged to be with her only to treat her so bad.

    • @kaylinthealien
      @kaylinthealien Год назад +4

      Narcissist

    • @kaylinthealien
      @kaylinthealien Год назад +260

      That’s literally narcissist behavior

    • @blackqueen5201
      @blackqueen5201 Год назад +184

      That's how they do it's a game to them and once conquered they want to play a new game with someone else

    • @kimberlypompey1243
      @kimberlypompey1243 Год назад +68

      Ikr like you pulled all the stops got her to feel safe and love you then pull this shit

    • @laurens4479
      @laurens4479 Год назад +2

      @@kaylinthealien 100%. Lovebombed her and then came the discard.

  • @SianiJJJ
    @SianiJJJ Год назад +5021

    When she said “ I gave you a chance and again and again and again and again that’s how much I loved you” whew that hit a hard core the way her voice was breaking 💔

    • @melissajohnson1082
      @melissajohnson1082 Год назад +96

      Yelp I felt that

    • @lashayb
      @lashayb Год назад +132

      Yesss I felt that I was like damn cause it don’t matter how many chance u give a person it’s like they ain’t gonna change 😑

    • @fallonsumpter9969
      @fallonsumpter9969 Год назад +53

      Frfr! Lord I felt that in my soul

    • @Dybeatsounique
      @Dybeatsounique Год назад +33

      I felt that. I just walked away….

    • @watermagegurl627
      @watermagegurl627 Год назад +54

      That shit hit too close to home, I started balling. God had to take me on those lonely days lemme tell you because that heartbreak is probably the third most painful thing anyone can ever feel emotionally. ESPECIALLY if was from the one you made vows and promises to.

  • @sunflowerrose5330
    @sunflowerrose5330 Год назад +1029

    I really felt bad for her. No matter what.. no woman deserves to fell abandoned during her marriage and pregnancy😭 I pray she finds her peace

    • @goldie4756
      @goldie4756 Год назад

      You keep forgetting something this is fake ass reality tv for one and two how do we know she was abandoned just because she said it lol it's a storyline the producers came up with that's all we have to go on an unless you're a child you should know better than to believe anything that's said on these shows hell the actors literally tell you that's 95% of it is scripted anyway 😂😂 that girl won't abandoned it was for ratings because they know people like you will eat that shit up that's all

    • @fatant520
      @fatant520 11 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @FakeAccount-su8cd
      @FakeAccount-su8cd 8 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bsociety4647
      @bsociety4647 5 месяцев назад

      Why the laughing emojis??

    • @RickSanchez-gm6rd
      @RickSanchez-gm6rd 2 месяца назад

      @@bsociety4647it’s probably Safaree’s burner accounts 🥴

  • @heatherleannxo588
    @heatherleannxo588 Год назад +584

    The “again and again “ part really broke my heart. You can see the trauma from that marriage all over her face

    • @brittbratt1382
      @brittbratt1382 Год назад +4

      Too dramatic she knew that camera was there😒

    • @cynthiabailey3714
      @cynthiabailey3714 Год назад +6

      That's what made me CRY... Because I saw ME doing that

    • @sultryone8027
      @sultryone8027 Год назад +1

      Mine too I can relate 1000% Bc I’m going through the same bs smh

    • @starwarsnerd79
      @starwarsnerd79 Год назад +2

      @@brittbratt1382, you strike me as the type to be the kind of trash-assed person to elicit these emotions.

    • @patriciar.8682
      @patriciar.8682 Год назад +1

      LOL it's all scripted.. they did it for the money..they are both a joke.

  • @Xoxojksn
    @Xoxojksn Год назад +4523

    The most toxic and manipulative men say the same things. “Can we be cool one day?” “Can we be friends?” “Can we start over?”… ALL THE SAME. The thing that kills me is that they know what they’re doing regardless. It’s sad a lot of men want kids but don’t want to be better for a woman first. Makes no sense.

    • @djkeith9315
      @djkeith9315 Год назад +59

      She just let him walk all over her

    • @brittthecancerqueenempress9137
      @brittthecancerqueenempress9137 Год назад +17

      This !

    • @Peresphone
      @Peresphone Год назад +91

      Chile I have ptsd from your comment. Whenever the trash guy says they still want to be in your life somehow

    • @emmeythegod3910
      @emmeythegod3910 Год назад +90

      No Literally they always say “ I want us to be friends” then they end up screwing up the friendship

    • @trefens5635
      @trefens5635 Год назад +85

      I remember when Cyn was having an actual breakdown because Erica announced her engagement to Bow straight from her and all Erica did was say the same things Safaree is saying and doing right now. Soooooooooo yeah, that blade cuts both ways.

  • @janewawira9829
    @janewawira9829 Год назад +1876

    It's sad that she wants him to fight for her so bad, but he's not interested. The saddest part is that he knows that's what she wants him to do

    • @Teeconsultingg
      @Teeconsultingg Год назад +76

      That ish hurts omg 🔥🥹

    • @djromaxtions8328
      @djromaxtions8328 Год назад +42

      he is using her feelings and that is not right so much so called men do that and its sick its like they live to play the game like kids and its not a game those kids have to grow up and see this co parenting !!!?? he is a *#* let those kids grow up to know they have a broken home oh no then kids see this and think. its ok to do with there spous and so on and so forth

    • @sharieannpryce9127
      @sharieannpryce9127 Год назад +86

      He is too in love with himself to see where she is coming from.

    • @majourpayne
      @majourpayne Год назад +41

      I saw that too. It's in her eyes. Sad.

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 Год назад +85

      He couldn’t keep up that same energy he started with. That loving attentive sweet guy that she thought he was isn’t really him it was an act

  • @dmani6368
    @dmani6368 Год назад +217

    Their relationship proved to me that even when men go above and beyond to pursue you take it with a grain of salt

  • @evelyneeliana8254
    @evelyneeliana8254 Год назад +72

    I don't think I've ever seen Erica so hurt and defeated.

  • @imanikingel6103
    @imanikingel6103 Год назад +903

    It just shows men really BEG for attention, BEG to marry you, BEG for you to be their woman and do THISSSSS idc what she did in the past nobody deserves hurt

    • @heymissdemic
      @heymissdemic Год назад +33

      Thank you! Damn someone said it…….I don’t think she deserved it either…..

    • @itsbjbaby
      @itsbjbaby Год назад +13

      I agree she didn’t deserve this

    • @miffycarter3876
      @miffycarter3876 Год назад +32

      Well guess what sis karma is real and it always comes back 10 fold, you can’t do wrong to people and be mean and nasty and think your time to pay won’t come 💯

    • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth
      @zammymynakersnackstbmoth Год назад +16

      The thing is that she completely changed her ways. I used to hate Erica cuz she was violent and mean. She did a total 180 and I commend her for that. She didn't deserve what he did to her AT ALL!!

    • @imanikingel6103
      @imanikingel6103 Год назад +11

      @@miffycarter3876 First, I’m not even really sure where everybody got that from when tbh Erica been dogged the WHOLE time and if everybody talking about Cyn, Cyn played a part in what happened between them as well they were both messing around Erica been hurt since the beginning IE Rich he who even brought her on the damn show

  • @sethmoore2771
    @sethmoore2771 Год назад +2475

    It’s sad that Safaree couldn’t even once acknowledge the fact that Erica tried her absolute hardest to be the best wife and mother she could be

    • @misshoneei63
      @misshoneei63 Год назад +100

      @Rockyworld444 That’s what Nicki and JuJu said he used to do, provoke and then act like the victim when you retaliate.

    • @BabyGirlTiny
      @BabyGirlTiny Год назад +37

      We haven’t even seen their married life to claim she tried to be the best wife and mother. I mean she got pregnant a second time when he said he didn’t want anymore kids. That doesn’t sound like the best to me

    • @placeholder9455
      @placeholder9455 Год назад +23

      @@BabyGirlTiny Agree!! Well said! Erica always plays the victim,nothing is ever her fault! She loved it early on when Safaree provided her with jewelry, furs, and materialistic lifestyle!!

    • @summerana9514
      @summerana9514 Год назад +19

      The first time she finally settled down it didn't work how sad 🤣

    • @ImreallylikethatIRL
      @ImreallylikethatIRL Год назад +34

      @@BabyGirlTiny did he not get her pregnant?....I mean she cant be pregnant on her own right?.....however i do agree we dont know their marriage for real (for the record i think the break up is all fake anyway)

  • @natashawilliams4405
    @natashawilliams4405 Год назад +282

    When she said again 6 times, that hit me. We as women give men too many chances. We have to learn to walk away when we see the signs. We can’t fix them, they have to want to be fixed.

    • @lenzie5o
      @lenzie5o Год назад +8

      Men change for the women that want to change for

    • @growthcountry
      @growthcountry Год назад +6

      That was best part. Erica turned into an award winning actress all of a sudden 👍

  • @75carameldiva
    @75carameldiva Год назад +163

    It’s Erica saying, “that’s how much I LOVED you.” That hit home for real. When you fall in love with a narcissist, it’s difficult to break those ties. I pray for a healing for both of them.

  • @TashaExplainsItAll
    @TashaExplainsItAll Год назад +1241

    When Erica said “You don’t got no feelings” I felt that 😞 it’s so hard to get out of a toxic situation but it feels good to find your strength to move on

    • @MarriageAcrossCulture
      @MarriageAcrossCulture Год назад +1

      That’s what boys do!

    • @KatinaVentin
      @KatinaVentin Год назад +7

      Frfr it really does like a ton of bricks is lifted off and you can breathe

    • @AshleyWilliams-zs1sp
      @AshleyWilliams-zs1sp Год назад +1

      Sure do been a week since I went no contact. MANY MORE TO GO ❤️🫶🏾

    • @lenakidwell3972
      @lenakidwell3972 Год назад +3

      He is to full of himself to love anyone but himself. Sad he will be old one day and so alone ! Really sad

  • @BrookeLynn-sr6vy
    @BrookeLynn-sr6vy Год назад +1603

    I pray Erica heals and is able to move on.

    • @jameswilliams6594
      @jameswilliams6594 Год назад +22

      Again and again and again again

    • @tanicathornton8249
      @tanicathornton8249 Год назад

      But not with bitchy Richie

    • @kztwitter
      @kztwitter Год назад +12

      i mean she got her fair share of how she used to treat people in ny. especially cyn

    • @donnatownsendp
      @donnatownsendp Год назад +3

      Ericka is going to be fine…she didn’t let a hello Jack like safari cause her to loose herself. Now that’s bossing up & bouncing back

    • @kerajulionnaa
      @kerajulionnaa Год назад +9

      I understand what this pain and disappointment is and it's a pain I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. She will be ok time and fighting will carry her followed.

  • @acadam8324
    @acadam8324 Год назад +266

    I realise this is an entertainment reality show. But she’s genuinely heartbroken and I can feel it. 🥺

  • @strowderallen
    @strowderallen Год назад +33

    Each time, she said, "Again and again and again and again that's how much I loved you." I lost breath each time the pain us so real 😢😢😢😢

  • @lyssaslookzzz
    @lyssaslookzzz Год назад +837

    This is the most depressing marriage I’ve ever witnessed.

    • @saanasalonen8684
      @saanasalonen8684 Год назад +22

      congratulations if this is the worst youve seen..

    • @lyssaslookzzz
      @lyssaslookzzz Год назад +6

      @@saanasalonen8684 nobody said anything about “ worst thing I’ve ever seen “ do you have dyslexia?

    • @naemack1441
      @naemack1441 Год назад +6

      @@lyssaslookzzz I doubt they would admit that on social media if they did..but then again ya never know 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @saanasalonen8684
      @saanasalonen8684 Год назад +3

      @@lyssaslookzzz i dont believe i have dyslexia but somehow i adequate depressing to not good....

    • @lyssaslookzzz
      @lyssaslookzzz Год назад +2

      @@saanasalonen8684 ur honestly not as funny as you think you are mam 🤷🏽‍♀️.

  • @UGOOMERO
    @UGOOMERO Год назад +1940

    You can tell the pain of this relationship has aged her…

    • @jasonheorth634
      @jasonheorth634 Год назад +144

      Urm it's the surgeries don't lie

    • @trefens5635
      @trefens5635 Год назад +33

      @@jasonheorth634 exactly!!!!! You ain't never lied!

    • @ebonystone8890
      @ebonystone8890 Год назад +219

      @@jasonheorth634 I think it may be a mixture of stress & surgeries.

    • @piinkam0r
      @piinkam0r Год назад +74

      Ok I noticed like her face is longer like she’s lost too much weight or the surgery from weight loss

    • @UGOOMERO
      @UGOOMERO Год назад +86

      @@jasonheorth634 Please. ✋🏽Plenty of ppl have surgery and don’t look this worn out after.

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Год назад +60

    It's like he likes to see her hurt. What a sick human being. 💔

  • @Rodrasroom
    @Rodrasroom Год назад +286

    He speaks to her with a slight smirk like he truly enjoyed destroying her. What an evil piece of work. Demons walk amongst us. Erica looks 10 years older. They drain your entire soul.

    • @patremagilbert682
      @patremagilbert682 Год назад +7

      True

    • @fatant520
      @fatant520 11 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂two ain’t shit ass ppl , both got everything they deserved

    • @keytowomanhood506
      @keytowomanhood506 9 месяцев назад +5

      He is happy he broke her.

  • @asiam1528
    @asiam1528 Год назад +497

    Safaree is so self centered, selfish, immature and narcissistic 😑

    • @LaSweetdremz
      @LaSweetdremz Год назад

      Very annoying ☑️conceited ☑️trash 🗑️

    • @SuperSuperHer
      @SuperSuperHer Год назад +11

      Sums up the Cancer ♋️ man

    • @ParissMusic
      @ParissMusic Год назад

      Idk about him but I’m a cancer and I’m by far anything like how he is. I’m surprised he’s even that. I’ve been surrounded by many cancer people men and women and they aren’t anything like him. He must be close to a Leo or something lol

    • @michellemurphy5873
      @michellemurphy5873 Год назад +4

      Ikr! Does he own a shirt?! Or just furs and jackets!

    • @a.scoob2
      @a.scoob2 Год назад +3

      That jacket says it all. Nicki brought him a hairline, and he started believing his an actual star 😂

  • @dambertaylor5334
    @dambertaylor5334 Год назад +866

    Erica definitely isn’t perfect, but she definitely didn’t deserve how he treated her

    • @Selenee77
      @Selenee77 Год назад +16

      Yes She did

    • @rosevilla7511
      @rosevilla7511 Год назад +31

      She treated Cyn worse 😒

    • @alcoholicbunny2649
      @alcoholicbunny2649 Год назад +30

      Karma is a bitch. What goes around comes right back around.

    • @Beautybizz28
      @Beautybizz28 Год назад +18

      Yes she does and she's dated married men 😂

    • @charlie4006
      @charlie4006 Год назад +2

      @@Beautybizz28 she claims she didn't know he was married 🙄🙄. I didn't like how she was throwing shots at Gia Casey. If she wanted to go after her co conspirator DJ envy go ahead but leave the wife out the mess

  • @pikozaru
    @pikozaru Год назад +53

    The way he sneers at her while she’s clearly hurt… I wonder why he hates her so much?

    • @Avab773
      @Avab773 Год назад +2

      This man is in the closet stg

    • @maram.6044
      @maram.6044 Год назад +5

      I think he hates himself and projects.

  • @face2faceboy
    @face2faceboy Год назад +79

    The look on Ericas face when she told safire she was pregnant with their second child has not changed since then unfortunately

  • @babydeliz62
    @babydeliz62 Год назад +847

    This pain aged her. Its a shame that their love became that pain. God Bless

  • @diamcole
    @diamcole Год назад +3961

    Erica is the perfect example of being intentional and cautious of how you treat people because damn, she didn't deserve any of this but she absolutely earned it. You can't treat people like they're disposable and be shocked when one day that energy is returned, that's just not life. I'm glad she's moving on from this mess and I wish her happiness and peace.

    • @Baelee222
      @Baelee222 Год назад +261

      I agree. She doesnt deserve what happened to her, but they say karma is real. Its going to make her more cautious of everything, everyone now because she has seen how it feels to hurt someone who truly loved her, and to be hurt by someone she truly loved. I pray for her strength and happiness

    • @BbyMxM
      @BbyMxM Год назад +41

      period 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣

    • @Muva2Tymes
      @Muva2Tymes Год назад +38

      That part…

    • @momtingz9447
      @momtingz9447 Год назад +79

      You couldn’t have said it better 👏🏽👏🏽 I pray she takes wisdom from this experience and allows it to shape her into a woman demands respect for her peace of mind.

    • @denariabujenita7946
      @denariabujenita7946 Год назад +47

      Where is her other son .. I haven’t seen him on the show

  • @dearblabby
    @dearblabby Год назад +59

    It's so sad that she never saw him for who he really was.

    • @NM-xr9pi
      @NM-xr9pi Год назад +1

      Narcissists show you the face they want you to see - It's narcissistic personality disorder b/c they shift and switch between personalities to survive and manipulate people and situations to get their way - They can't have emotional attachments...

  • @diva7389
    @diva7389 Год назад +44

    "THAT'S HOW MUCH I LOVED YOU" - THAT STATEMENT THERE SIGNIFIES - ERICA IS DONE AND THE LOVE IS GONE

  • @peanut7968
    @peanut7968 Год назад +113

    Him walking into that situation with a giant fur coat on and a smirk on his face is cringe af. You can tell how pretentious and narcissistic he is even after sabotaging his own relationship.

    • @amanithompson4121
      @amanithompson4121 Год назад +22

      I thought it was just me!!!! Him and his narcissism is very cringe! He wanted to laugh in her face. 😒

    • @peanut7968
      @peanut7968 Год назад +13

      @@amanithompson4121 his fake remorse act afterward is super cringe.

    • @sandriea30
      @sandriea30 Год назад +9

      I never liked him bc of his gradious behavior. It's ugly and disgusting.

    • @face2faceboy
      @face2faceboy Год назад +1

      Uuuurrrrgg I thought I was the only one who wanted to smack it right tf off his face too

    • @AyaAlm-bo7tl
      @AyaAlm-bo7tl Год назад +1

      My narc ex smirked and smiled in my face when I was crying, asking him why he was actively trying to find a new partner while I was in hospital losing my baby at 5 months. They don’t care. We are just fuel to them. They love to watch the destruction they cause because it makes them feel alive because they are so empty inside. He has been with his new girl for 7 weeks no. Filed for divorce, he will never see me cry again!!! I watch videos on Erica on Safaree often to remind myself what life could of been life had our baby of survived and had I gave him another chance.
      (By the way the reason Safaree left soon after Erica cried is because he got his fill of fuel)

  • @tea6306
    @tea6306 Год назад +303

    After she said the "again & again & again" you can tell she was getting emotional, but also upset like a "here we go again" when the tears started. She's done & that's really crazy seeing it play out before us.

  • @mbalingcobo7685
    @mbalingcobo7685 Год назад +50

    I felt tears in my eyes when she said I GAVE YOU A CHANCE AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @JasonKortare
    @JasonKortare Год назад +10

    When Erica says "again and again and again and again...." It hits me every time.

  • @twinkie911
    @twinkie911 Год назад +691

    He is extremely passive aggressive. “Let me know if you need anything, I know you don’t.” You know good and well what she needs. She needs a father who’s present and you just walk away, let yourself off the hook- then dump everything back onto her. Every single time. What a coward. 😤🤬🤯. He does not deserve NOTHING from Erica. No more opportunities look at how manipulative. Just wants to leave enough of the door open to continue using her and be a part time father. If you want to be a part time father- don’t have children. Look at the pain he has caused her and he doesn’t even care. Be gone with you Sir. 😤🤬🤯

    • @liestheytell
      @liestheytell Год назад +14

      This 🗣‼️

    • @naemack1441
      @naemack1441 Год назад +44

      I have a feeling he is secretly loving that he is the reason for her pain. It feeds his massive ego.

    • @bellalee6927
      @bellalee6927 Год назад +16

      Karma,is a bitch. What goes around comes back around. Safari,better pay attention God don't play. You will,get it back how you treat your wife & kids.

    • @twinkie911
      @twinkie911 Год назад +7

      @@naemack1441 100 percent he’s thrilled.

    • @Selenee77
      @Selenee77 Год назад +15

      I honestly think he enjoy every part of it. I don’t understand why he hate her so much. He is the one who ran after her

  • @jerusalem5159
    @jerusalem5159 Год назад +625

    Its wild how men chase you just to derail your life. I feel so bad for her abandon with two kids smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @shajadradavis6177
      @shajadradavis6177 Год назад +9

      Couldnt be more true.

    • @nataliek1074
      @nataliek1074 Год назад +3

      Well said

    • @AB-rx2bk
      @AB-rx2bk Год назад +5

      That is the truth. Had a married many knowingly lied and when I found out he was played victim because I'm dude you married with a whole family what is wrong with you grow the he'll up and if you not happy being married then have an open marriage or get a divorce lying cheating bastard. Just despicable. The have the audacity to say my life is not my business the nerves of these men.

    • @investedfemelle7564
      @investedfemelle7564 Год назад +8

      Omgosh . Derail your entire life 🥺

    • @irisf.5575
      @irisf.5575 Год назад +21

      That's what's crazy. He was chasing her like she owed him money smh.

  • @sarahsementelli6292
    @sarahsementelli6292 Год назад +57

    You can tell all she wanted was for him to fight for her and the relationship and he just couldn’t do it.
    That’s the most heartbreaking part of the whole thing. So sad. Erica has grown up so much since she started love and hip hop and I can tell from the beginning how loyal and and how much love she has for safaree…. It’s a shame that he couldn’t grow up for the sake of a women who loved him and his children

  • @Mamixtinaa
    @Mamixtinaa Год назад +32

    It’s her stopping herself from crying and saying but I’ll be fine. So much pain, disappointment and betrayal. You can see her walls going up around her heart. I hope she truly heals herself because the Érica that will rise from these ashes will be one hell of a woman.

  • @sharyageorge
    @sharyageorge Год назад +2799

    Erica needs to do what’s best for her. Yes, Erica wasn’t a great person when it came down to her past relationships. She was selfish and down right cruel at times but for people to enjoy her pain, that’s not right. She tried to be the best wife and mother she could be. This man chased her down, made her open up her heart for him, etc. Just to be treated worse than a stranger on the street. He promised her all of these things but when he realized he couldn’t have his cake and eat it too, he decided to bail out. That’s not fair to her nor their children.
    Edit: Some of you are saying it’s karma and she got what she deserves, alright cool but that’s not the point I’m making. You want to say it’s karma for her because of the things she’s done but who’s to say that the fact you find entertainment in her current predicament can’t come back around on you for the sake of “karma”. That’s all I’m saying. I’m not judging or trying to start an argument i just think this is a pretty cool discussion.

    • @s.j.t6006
      @s.j.t6006 Год назад +120

      You phrased this perfectly 👌🏼

    • @monicac.7414
      @monicac.7414 Год назад +116

      Hopefully she learns the energy you put out into the world you get back tenfold. If she uses this to look inward she can definitely come out stronger

    • @reyon2673
      @reyon2673 Год назад +100

      She was full of arrogance and venom, and I find it too difficult to feel sympathy for her. We all reap what we sow, honestly.

    • @keithboss851
      @keithboss851 Год назад +33

      karma

    • @monicac.7414
      @monicac.7414 Год назад +23

      @@reyon2673 same she definitely needs to get out the victim mindset if anything positive is gonna come out of this

  • @lifewithkerria4401
    @lifewithkerria4401 Год назад +63

    the way she kept saying again whew you could feel the hurt in her voice 🥺🥺

  • @benjamintribe4652
    @benjamintribe4652 Год назад +4

    When he says: "if you need anything I know you don't but if you need anything call me" and the camera goes back to Erica and you could literally see her face screaming out for help not from a physical standpoint but an emotional one and he just strolls off into the wind with his fur coat!!....sad really sad!!!😠🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @OShawna23
    @OShawna23 Год назад +7

    He said he’s “excited to sell the house” he don’t want her at all and I hate man like him who has no emotion whats so ever to how they hurt you -

    • @thoughtzbytreee
      @thoughtzbytreee Год назад

      She said she was too though. Erica knows how to push and pull folks heart strings. I see safaree as the typical man that hold his feelings and emotions in and just does not know how to communicate

  • @treysimien2223
    @treysimien2223 Год назад +169

    This whole marriage for Erica has literally changed the way she looks

    • @belly3677
      @belly3677 Год назад +13

      A surgeon did that....

    • @rjlondon5801
      @rjlondon5801 Год назад +4

      Reminds me of princess

    • @ThingsILikke
      @ThingsILikke Год назад +8

      It's the lip filler more than anything- she didn't need it

    • @msholliday3935
      @msholliday3935 Год назад +5

      Truly can’t even recognize her from when they got married to them breaking up.

    • @rizikrizik1395
      @rizikrizik1395 Год назад

      @@ThingsILikke she also removed her cheek fat

  • @tiffanyannkuc3523
    @tiffanyannkuc3523 Год назад +957

    Erica gets on my nerves sometimes but honestly from a woman's perspective I completely understand what she's going through and this woman is broken like he broke her I feel so bad for her but she will move on and she's got her kids so she'll be strong I just wish her the best of luck ❤️

    • @zodiacmartnio7256
      @zodiacmartnio7256 Год назад +9

      I feel you

    • @shenikade8565
      @shenikade8565 Год назад +18

      She been broken before safari Erica problem is she wants control in the relationship and safari can't be control and she's very aggressive

    • @alexhenderson8960
      @alexhenderson8960 Год назад

      @@shenikade8565 ya women like to control men when ya can't there needs to be a equal Connection in the relationship so stfu

    • @SkinnyHeroX
      @SkinnyHeroX Год назад +16

      @@shenikade8565 it's not controlling to want somebody to do right by their kids and take care of them instead of being out late all the time, that's just common sense, if not why are you even apparent?

    • @shenikade8565
      @shenikade8565 Год назад +3

      @@SkinnyHeroX you have your opinion and I have mines

  • @sarawellnitz3094
    @sarawellnitz3094 Год назад +14

    Ive been in Erica's shoes. I know exactly how she's feeling. It's a never ending heartbreak getting sold this fantasy life & then it just doesn't come true. I feel for her. Safaree is the worst kind of "man"

  • @melissakhan5095
    @melissakhan5095 Год назад +3

    When she said "that's how much I loved you", I felt that...

  • @TT-zj6iy
    @TT-zj6iy Год назад +544

    I hope this marriage doesn’t ruin Erica. I was so happy for them because Safaree seemed to really love Erica. She has grown so much. I wish her the best

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 Год назад +28

      It’s really hard to recover from being hurt this bad after she let her guard down

    • @tracyd5915
      @tracyd5915 Год назад +8

      Agreed

    • @herexchange_
      @herexchange_ Год назад +6

      @@pearlpearl3806 agreed

  • @twinkie911
    @twinkie911 Год назад +375

    What an ungrateful human being he is. He really does not deserve ANY friendship from her or ANY conversation. She’s RIGHT. He is selfish and does not care enough. He made his decision. 🤬🤯😤 Let it burn Safari. Let it burn.

  • @Shenay_braaf
    @Shenay_braaf Год назад +4

    Narcissits always “wanna be cool” and “friends”to stay in your life and keep u from moving on🙄

  • @rjlondon5801
    @rjlondon5801 Год назад +7

    This was me. So glad i got me and our 3 boys out. Its been hell on earth. I wish her healing and growth x

  • @MelaninCosplay
    @MelaninCosplay Год назад +100

    She strong "packing" in heels and a black mini dress. Last time I packed and moved, it was in pjs and jeans and a t-shirt respectively.

    • @lethallipppz6912
      @lethallipppz6912 Год назад +3

      Reality

    • @louiedd18
      @louiedd18 Год назад +8

      She knew he was coming over 😂😂

    • @reyon2673
      @reyon2673 Год назад

      How much more is just for the ratings, I wonder

    • @lUCIDCITYROLEPLAY228
      @lUCIDCITYROLEPLAY228 Год назад +4

      It’s TV

    • @tianamariee6287
      @tianamariee6287 Год назад +12

      She knew they were filming and being camera ready comes first. Not to mention that a packing company is most likely doing the real work, they just had her throwing a couple of things in a box, in case we couldn't figure out what was happening from the boxes in the room🙄🤦🏾

  • @malasyiabaker5493
    @malasyiabaker5493 Год назад +69

    Erica handled this situation with so much grace im starting to love her again

    • @angelehudson
      @angelehudson Год назад

      So true, like so many Of us women who are going through or went through the same scenario we learn to put on a brave face dress nice and go on about our business as best as we can! So very sad I know firsthand that single parenting is not for punks! it’s one of the hardest jobs that I’ve ever done in my life and the thing is when you’re sick there’s no laying down you have to get up and do your mommy duties as best you can! Yeah it’s a lot!

    • @optacianaramos8573
      @optacianaramos8573 Год назад +1

      Hell no shes annoying always talking about Safari and making everything about her I can't stand it

    • @shenikadevine3887
      @shenikadevine3887 Год назад

      She knows safari would walk out if she got rody

    • @lenzie5o
      @lenzie5o Год назад +1

      @@optacianaramos8573 ofc she's always talking about him, he hurt her so much and he doesn't even care

  • @fatougalandiaye6124
    @fatougalandiaye6124 Год назад +11

    It's ..... how he changed a strong free woman to a hurting cheated baby mother .this breaks my heart

  • @goldenlady00730
    @goldenlady00730 Год назад +15

    I really haven’t followed this story, but he seems so disconnected. I felt her pain. You can’t make it work with a man who just doesn’t care😢

  • @denmichelle5261
    @denmichelle5261 Год назад +296

    She definitely grew up, and she definitely tried to be a wife but he failed her.......

  • @saidsuka184
    @saidsuka184 Год назад +139

    U could tell she was angry can see the veins in her head

    • @skyers1987
      @skyers1987 Год назад +19

      That vein pops up when shes in any emotion but sad or angry it’s more prominent

    • @itsmyopinion8462
      @itsmyopinion8462 Год назад +5

      Yup that other cast member "the vein", shows her growth bc that vein is usually a sign that it's about to go down.

    • @placeholder9455
      @placeholder9455 Год назад +3

      @said suka,True and remember the same expression happened when Rich Dollars gave her song to Olivia because Erica cannot sing! She was livid!!

    • @ytallowskids2seedepravityb219
      @ytallowskids2seedepravityb219 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ytallowskids2seedepravityb219
      @ytallowskids2seedepravityb219 Год назад +1

      @@placeholder9455 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

  • @k.m.8516
    @k.m.8516 Год назад +24

    Erica has mourned the loss of all her relationships, but Safaree broke her. She tried to go toe to toe with him and he trampled her. Lessons to be learned.

  • @victoria-qq4jr
    @victoria-qq4jr Год назад +12

    Safaree’s fake tears 😂😭

  • @aaliyah154
    @aaliyah154 Год назад +38

    im tryna figure out why they are fully dressed like they finna go to the club

  • @brittthecancerqueenempress9137
    @brittthecancerqueenempress9137 Год назад +89

    Lord I felt her pain in my spirit on A personal level …When a woman whispers while talking to you….Chile, that pain is deeper than the ocean. Once she’s done, it’s over.

  • @TaeandDes4L
    @TaeandDes4L Год назад +32

    Despite her PAST behavior she didn’t deserve this . Safaree wasted her time and treated her horribly to an extreme and sold her a fake dream and false expectations that he couldn’t live up to . Seeing him cry is hilarious he’s so manipulative and think she supposed to have sympathy for him . Good for her for not staying and knowing when to walk away . 👏

  • @jairygarcia7157
    @jairygarcia7157 Год назад +4

    "but... I'll be fine."
    I'm sure we have all said that before when your really hurting 💔

  • @ninaangelique4811
    @ninaangelique4811 Год назад +197

    I love the fact that she doesn't hide her ears 😍

    • @Justonevideoplease
      @Justonevideoplease Год назад +11

      Lol wow

    • @rilesfomiles8662
      @rilesfomiles8662 Год назад +10

      @@Justonevideoplease she used to hide her ears when she was younger on the show!!

    • @BbyMxM
      @BbyMxM Год назад +17

      wtf 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ulianamarie79
      @ulianamarie79 Год назад +12

      I give it to her because I’m so self conscious about my damn ears!!! She looks cute!! 🧝🏽‍♀️

    • @MsBadBody
      @MsBadBody Год назад +1

      Lol

  • @kennyroyal8572
    @kennyroyal8572 Год назад +626

    Safaree is definitely immature and toxic. I felt bad for Erica but at the same time, Karma kicked her butt because of all the trifling things she'd done to Cyn and God knows who else.

    • @misshoneei63
      @misshoneei63 Год назад +40

      I get what you’re saying, but people need to stop pretending Cyn was so innocent in that relationship. Cyn was cheating with men as well.

    • @saraworkneh5377
      @saraworkneh5377 Год назад +5

      No karma here cyn or Erica they are not make children because they are women so this is not good at all

    • @msknich0le
      @msknich0le Год назад

      @@saraworkneh5377 Thank you!

    • @sashad1076
      @sashad1076 Год назад +19

      @@misshoneei63 she also hit cyn when she knew she just had surgery and couldn’t fight her back. Erica was still being nasty to her up until pretty recently.

    • @tygadewayne
      @tygadewayne Год назад

      @@saraworkneh5377 what?

  • @jackshira81
    @jackshira81 Год назад +6

    She resonated so much to me...Felt her pain. 😭

  • @carmencaetano5647
    @carmencaetano5647 Год назад +2

    She’s such a strong lady . This is reality

  • @ninaangelique4811
    @ninaangelique4811 Год назад +100

    Erica is just spent, absolutely done!!!

  • @clitoris961
    @clitoris961 Год назад +169

    Do what's best for you peace is what you need erica

  • @cynthiacolon4859
    @cynthiacolon4859 Год назад +6

    I was with a narcissist for 20 years and after a while I had to leave because just looking at him made me nauseous I was that disgusted with the husband that I had who treated me like s*** and also physically abused my ass men like that are not even worth the day or time I'd rather be alone than unhappy and humiliated

  • @sayes2carrots
    @sayes2carrots Год назад +10

    When she said “ that’s how much I loved you “ my heart broke for her wish them both the best at all turns this looks like a relationship where there was a lot of pain and life’s too short to remain there

  • @danzfuzion550
    @danzfuzion550 Год назад +238

    Erica is all of us in some way or another through being in toxic relationships. People is bias toward her actions but in all when they reflect on it genuinely, they see how her pain...the need to have her own back and the courage to still be forgiving is powerful. This is why I stay silent and listen from witnessing the process of pain. She will realize it was never her issue regarding her husband's immaturity. She is a great mother and that is what counts moving forward. Love you for being you Erica. Ja

    • @jamaicanbkslimaz
      @jamaicanbkslimaz Год назад +5

      I leave situations b4 it becomes “toxic” so she aint “all of us.” Speak for yourself.

    • @lw2212
      @lw2212 Год назад +9

      No she's not. Some of us are smart enough to not let it get this far. Safaree straight love bombed her while showing her who he was from the beginning.

    • @ytallowskids2seedepravityb219
      @ytallowskids2seedepravityb219 Год назад +7

      Not EVERY woman ok so speak for YOURSELF and the rest of these low self esteem females like Erica. And I dont feel ANYTHING for these "preferences" because everytime a BLACK woman goes thru something people look for reasons to blame HER but when a preference get treated the same OR WORSE its "WE ALL" and "EVERY WOMAN" need to sympathize now? FOH

    • @Lenasevilla-yb4ei
      @Lenasevilla-yb4ei Год назад +3

      Speak for yourself only

    • @indirafurtado6443
      @indirafurtado6443 Год назад +5

      Damnnn yall need to calm down its just un opinion !! if yall nothing like erica in anyway why so mad hahah it triggerd somethin👀👀🤷🏾‍♀️( just my opinion too so relax ya butcheeks)

  • @taneshajohnson2184
    @taneshajohnson2184 Год назад +64

    I can't wait to see Erica heal through this man, she deserves better

    • @isidroisidro4756
      @isidroisidro4756 Год назад +2

      I feel like she needs to work on her self she seems like not an easy person to deal with

    • @oratiletsimatsima9643
      @oratiletsimatsima9643 Год назад +1

      @@isidroisidro4756 Yep. She needs to heal from ALL her trauma.

    • @brandoncarr5942
      @brandoncarr5942 Год назад

      Deserves someone like who name some potential suitors that would wanna deal with that

  • @TheCabIsHeresOhYeah
    @TheCabIsHeresOhYeah Год назад +5

    The smirk on his face shows what kind of person he is

  • @goddesstee8582
    @goddesstee8582 Год назад +21

    The fact he’s acting like a spectator to the situation is just a mess . Even his attire Im says he doesn’t give af. I wouldn’t be surprised if he jumped up and down for joy after he got outside. He’s a clown 🤡

  • @brownshugar25
    @brownshugar25 Год назад +41

    Safaree is such an imposter. He used her to fulfill his needs atm. As soon as he became comfortable and knew he was inside he started mistreating her and taking her for granted. Now he's crying crocodile tears for the general public to make it seem as though he's empathetic. Such a narcissist.

  • @gracevictorious3922
    @gracevictorious3922 Год назад +75

    Fur coats and thigh high boots in the house. These people are a trip 😅

  • @Simply.Spontaneous
    @Simply.Spontaneous Год назад +8

    Watching this broke my f***ing heart. I honestly felt for them both. I hate seeing a family break apart. I hope they both find the love and happiness they deserve.

    • @emerald_skai205
      @emerald_skai205 Год назад +2

      For them BOTH? Why would anyone even have an inkling of sympathy for safaree? He literally caused ALL of this!!

  • @HouseOfJolene
    @HouseOfJolene Год назад +12

    The smile on Safaris face shows the sociopath he really is. His wife is divorcing him and his kids are leaving, he couldn't even fake his tears. It's so sad. He needs help.

  • @Nasty4rea
    @Nasty4rea Год назад +69

    im feeling for erica right now, the fact that she is literally showing little emotion to him crying, shows how much she was just fed up and doesn't care. in the end, i know erica will do whats best for her and her children

  • @urdadluvsme6606
    @urdadluvsme6606 Год назад +21

    When she said “ I forgave u again , and again and again and again ,” my heart shattered

  • @parzivalpower3587
    @parzivalpower3587 Год назад +3

    I have never seen her so reasonable and honest in all these shows. This the real one

  • @queenkandiikayy1111
    @queenkandiikayy1111 Год назад +41

    As a Scorpio woman we love hard I know how she feels and what she's going through. Safaree been chasing Erica for so long just to hurt her and now their children. Men like this makes me sick, people like y'all don't deserve real true love. ❤️ You Mena ♏Gang

    • @goldie4756
      @goldie4756 Год назад

      Girl bye lol he didn't do shit to her she ain't already do to someone else that didn't deserve he's her karma period point blank lol she got what was already coming to her because nothing hurts a narcissist more than the person you thought you could manipulate and treat like shit beating you to it first 😂😂 that's what she get not ho mention he could've chased her all day but she decided to give him a chance so blaming him for that is just ignorant

    • @scarletteerose7448
      @scarletteerose7448 Год назад +1

      Scorpio ♏️ gang! Yeeeesss! I’m just like her and it’s crazy he knows and sees it and doesn’t care.

    • @jaylenpope5589
      @jaylenpope5589 Год назад +1

      ♏️gang

  • @dannielle6090
    @dannielle6090 Год назад +119

    Safaree turned out to be just like any other Jamaican man it's so sad cause I really had hope for them
    Btw I'm jamaican and is living in Jamaica

  • @aaliyahdurisseau5817
    @aaliyahdurisseau5817 Год назад +20

    The fact that she’s numb to all this is crazy and that’s how u know she’s hurting

  • @litaserine6527
    @litaserine6527 Год назад +3

    She really loved him .. my heart breaks for them but she will be happy again . Erica is a warrior ❤

  • @brittanycamille6460
    @brittanycamille6460 Год назад +5

    Some men just want a woman to bear their children. I had a man who wanted kids with me without marrying me & I refused. He just wanted to use me because I am a good person. He was a Narcissist and Safaree has a lot of his traits! 💯

  • @sanchezarmstrong4534
    @sanchezarmstrong4534 Год назад +88

    Safaree definitely hurt her she really loved him and she has to find peace and what makes her and the babies happy

  • @Toriab
    @Toriab Год назад +17

    This scene is so real. It’s like I can feel her pain through the phone. Eeca gotta stop throwing herself in these relationships.

  • @cmeq9572
    @cmeq9572 Год назад +4

    I hope she treats people better from here on out. But he definitely needs to grow uuuuup!

  • @tye6757
    @tye6757 Год назад +4

    The way Erica tells her words explains her hurt and the way she says letting so many things slide because of how much she loved him, do I at this very moment in my life relate with her. Yet those who cause someones pain or sadness always go by without any consequence or accountability for there impact or negative cause, yet feeling this magnitude of pain😢 is enough to cause shutting down someones life negatively. I Hope Erica finds herself again and she has become a great mother to, hopefully her & Safaree find a place where they can come together for their families wellbeing, im sure they will. Time is a healer of all wounds they say" i guess only time will tell.

  • @cherellerodriguez2946
    @cherellerodriguez2946 Год назад +43

    I NEVER REALLY felt bad for Erica...until NOW.😔

  • @lorencruises7276
    @lorencruises7276 Год назад +22

    FINALLY being over it. The best feeling ever! Good for her!

  • @annaa9383
    @annaa9383 5 месяцев назад +1

    the way this man smiled and laughed through this...

  • @steveneven5128
    @steveneven5128 9 месяцев назад +2

    i like how she was packing in a dress, jewelry, full glam, and heels

  • @BigBabyNelle
    @BigBabyNelle Год назад +29

    Proud of her

  • @queenmimi4966
    @queenmimi4966 Год назад +132

    I don’t normally make comments on things like this but as many of you have mentioned, what Erica is going through a lot of us can relate to. From what I saw from the beginning of their love story, safari was obsessed with the way Erica looked. He was obsessed with her look and that is what drew him to her and made him obsess over her in this unrealistic way. It went from obsession to what it is now because there was never any real love on his part. However just like many women we allow men to woo us based on superficial things we fall for it we ignore the the red signs in the red flags and we allow ourselves to become emotionally attached to immature grown boys. No matter what Erica did in the past which I got a glimpse of on some of the past reality shows she was on, no one deserves to be treated this way. Erica was younger when she did those things and a lot of us make mistakes as younger people. But now hopefully this has taught her to proceed cautiously now that she’s ready for love as an adult. I have personally experienced dealing with a man that rude me told me he was ready for a serious relationship told me he was ready for a commitment got me to completely drop my guard and then started acting like a complete idiot. It hurts and it’s extremely painful and yes this level of stress can physically age a person. Erica is beautiful but yes she does look like she has aged and maybe it’s because she has lost a lot of weight as well. my prayers go out to her and her children because even though she no longer is married to Safari, she still will have to deal with him and see him and every time she sees him she’ll be reminded of the fact that she dropped her guard and was vulnerable and ready for love and ended up getting trashed on by the father of both of her children. Lessons learned hopefully

    • @Tippers94
      @Tippers94 Год назад +10

      I agree. A lot of women's metabolism slow down as they get older and you tend to gain weight. Doesn't have to be a lot but I look at myself for example, fasted metabolism ever & after a child age 7 & me coming in to age 28 I've gained almost 7 pounds. Maintaining it but you tend to keep weight. This girls cheeks look hollow. And all that plastic surgery she has is being held up by skin instead of muscle.
      I think her aging (as little as it is) has something to do with him losing interest. But you live and learn. She has endured happiness and heartache and it's time to move on. Just because he is not the man God intended for her (as she thought) doesn't mean she should stop searching. He will come.

    • @Lenasevilla-yb4ei
      @Lenasevilla-yb4ei Год назад +4

      Correct 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @crystalxoxox1266
      @crystalxoxox1266 Год назад +4

      I couldn't have said this any better!!!!

    • @KL-nw9mi
      @KL-nw9mi Год назад +4

      You’re wise. What can we look out for ?

    • @jasminemilan3225
      @jasminemilan3225 Год назад +1

      You should comment more often. Wise af lol

  • @LexJs20
    @LexJs20 5 месяцев назад +1

    I felt that “I am”

  • @marinaramjeawan5121
    @marinaramjeawan5121 Год назад +1

    Those words hit hard..again and again and again man😔this is sad..be strong erica

  • @NotSoTypikal
    @NotSoTypikal Год назад +78

    All I’m gonna say is….Miss Universe does not forget. That heffa holds a grudge like no other, and eventually, she will reciprocate what you put out to her!!! That’s just the way life works. That’s why you have to be CONSCIOUS of your actions, the way you handle people, the energy you exude, etc. The universe will forever bring shyt FULL CIRCLE. It always comes back baby.

    • @BrandiNaCole
      @BrandiNaCole Год назад +10

      Thank you for being the only one with sense in this entire comment section. This woman is wicked and is reaping what she's sown.

    • @talented1602
      @talented1602 Год назад +9

      Sis. I said the same thing. I'm sorry that Erica is going through this but what you put out there KARMA NEVER FORGETS AN ADDRESS.

    • @NotSoTypikal
      @NotSoTypikal Год назад +3

      @@talented1602 facts. I swear the whole world is in a deep damn sleep!!! 🤦‍♀️

    • @BrandiNaCole
      @BrandiNaCole Год назад +3

      @@talented1602 Yes, I will admit that I felt so bad for her watching this episode, as I do not want that turmoil or heartbreak for anyone...and I finally sympathized with her. But what I don't like is people acting like God's spiritual laws don't exist as if His word is not true. You cannot just commit evil and wickedness in life, treat people any kind of way and not expect punishment or consequence for the life you live here on earth. It's just unfortunate that hers is being played out on national television (which is honestly embarrassing). It's the lack of accountability people always try to strip away from people who they literally witnessed be a toxic person to others. Just like what's happening with Wendy Williams and Tasha K right now. No, these people are reaping exactly what they've sown. You can sympathize with and pray for them, but stop saying they don't deserve it. That mess gets on my nerves.

    • @BrandiNaCole
      @BrandiNaCole Год назад +3

      @UCw51HAdoTSa_jWWclVwFaRA Man God really knows the right people to use to execute judgment and karma against us..and you don't even see it coming when He does, that's the scary part. That's why you do right by people and try your best to live righteously so that you can trust that He is faithful to send good people to you to return what you've given out to bless you in life.. when you obey His word you don't have a reason to fear or fret I'm situations like this.
      This guy literally flipped the script as soon as they got married, but I've been saying that people seem to be ignoring that Safaree likely saw who Erica was behind the scenes and whatever love he had for who he thought she was died. That's what it was. Because you don't just love and want to marry a woman one moment and then hate her and show that you want nothing to do with her the next. He saw some demons and things in her that turned him off and probably realized she's all for show and is merely superficial...so his heart left. He was even apprehensive about marrying her in the past seasons and I told that man..do not marry this woman. You will regret it. He married her anyway. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @melanated_persephone2334
    @melanated_persephone2334 Год назад +28

    The amount of stress, disappointment and anger definitely showed in her face. This show may be scripted, but those veins pulsating on her forehead said enough. Many women can relate to being emotionally defeated. Erica walk away from his men and find true happiness.

  • @makeupntrapmuzik4614
    @makeupntrapmuzik4614 Год назад

    I’m learning and being mindful of how I treat people because it always comes back to find you!

  • @royshaybranch8943
    @royshaybranch8943 Год назад +1

    I felt that again and again and again again 😢