Erica Reveals The Baby's Gender & Safire Takes A Tumble 😱 Love & Hip Hop Atlanta
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Erica reasons with Safaree about his reaction to the new baby, and fills him in on whether they're having a boy or a girl!
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"I needed to sleep"....the conversation would have been over.
im still stuck on that during the video and after...like he can't even come back from that comment.
.. because he would have been knocked out with guitar strings hanging out his mouth. Period.
The relationship too sis !😭🥴🥱
@@jamaicangoddess7104 FACTS!! 😂💯💯
My son father said the same shit nothing changed on his side.. sleep all day as nigga
I used to feel bad for Safaree when people dogged him out, calling him corny and lame....I don't feel bad anymore!! SMH
😂😂
I think we a did but no wonder now
Baby girl they doing that for views and remain revenant safari ain’t going no where
Same!!
Do you feel sorry for Erica? I hope not
When he didn’t pick up his kid from falling on a hard ass floor, just staring dumbfounded while his woman had to pick her up pregnant af?! That bothered me
He tried to but she picked her up first before he can
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 No sir. If you see your child fall your first instinct is to run and pick up your child as soon as she falls and see if she’s okay. He juat stared with no movement coming from him. Come on now wtf
@@Galiboo_13 lol he jumped up he was just staring tho.
I like how he holding a Bible but acting like so...to his wife mother of his kids
He got up, but she got there first because she was closer. She picked up the guitar first, and I believe he expected that she was going to pick up the baby. It really wasn't a big deal
To see Safaree act the way he does with Erica is mind blowing!! He chased her down,then he got her and treats her as if she begged him to be with her!
That’s how SOME men do I’m in the same situation right now and I’m so pissed, now don’t get me wrong I love my baby it’s just he wasted my damn time
Well look at what she did to Cyn .. chased her down and dogged her out on national tv . Karma . No matter how long it takes to get you it will get you . Period
@@lovecardib5463 Never a waste of time love. Always a valuable lesson and an opportunity for you to get to know yourself more. Love and light🥰🧘🏾♀️
That’s what they do It makes other girls curious cause she beautiful so they feel beautiful if he choose them too
@@chrystaladams2707 Exactly sad yet tru been there n done that a couple times
Erica is literally walking on egg shells trying to have a general conversation lol 🤯 She’s pulling teeth with him.
No she's not, Erica's complaining 24/7 and not being perfect herself in their marriage.
@@Marie-jd5de honey no marriage is perfect. She ain't and he ain't. But you all pointing the finger. Neither one of them was ready for marriage imo. But, that's their issue. They can use counseling too. Everyone sees them on TV and thinks they know their life. Marriage is 50/50. You don't just throw in the towel when it gets tough. Yes he has alot of growing up to do. But so does Erica. We all remember her from lhhny days. She had her oldest son with someone else all the time while she partied it up every night and messed with rich. They both need to grow up. And realize marriage isn't just a piece of paper. It's vowing to stick by your partner thru the good and bad. Sickness and health. Til death do you part. Period.
@@Marie-jd5de Just because someone is bringing to your attention the bullshit that you are doing to them does not mean that they are complaining. She has a right to express her self and her feelings when she feels that her husband is not being a partner that he supposed to be. She has a right to complain about this man embarrassing her in front of the whole world and treating her like shit.
@@bigjuicyscosanostra1641 Even if they both are not great, the topic is Safari being a terrible husband and father. As far as caring for their children (including the one in her body), she IS doing what she is supposed to. Great deflection though...
@@boparks3204 im not deflecting anything. No one is perfect. She has every right to be upset. But unlike most of the women in this thread, she's not willing to just throw in the towel. She's trying to help him. I suppose he has alot of growing up to do LIKE I SAID. You really need to re read that comment.
'When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time.'
- Maya Angelou
Facxxxx
True
That should apply to her too right her track record on the show ain’t good
I live by this quote. It’s so legendary 👌🏽😮💨❤️
They pay the elders no mind & talk s** t about...bet they wished would listened NOW
This can’t be the same safaree who was begging Erica to date him and was crying when she was walking down the aisle😂
Those were tears of disappointment
I knooooow 😳 lol
Some girl in Jamaica had to put some voodoo on him to break them up. His whole spirit seems gone.
Lol 😂
Yeah! That’s the one.
Erica: "You neglected me the first few months of our pregnancy"
Safaree: "Well i was tired & had postpartum"
ME: 😳😮😡😤 are u serious ? Compared to the level of stress her body goes through ? Are u kidding me ?
I was so angry when I heard him😡. It hurts my soul that I can’t punch this man child in the face. I’m not violent at all but he gets to me with his nonsense.
m.ruclips.net/video/W_NfoFD0C7s/видео.html
Ikr that made me livid.. How disrespectful & foul, no regard whatsoever for HER circumstances.
He’s a looser
@@aleeshaali3650 He’s Safaree he just talks a good game but don’t live up to it it’s been like that even before he met Erica & we all thought he changed for Erica but he’s still selfish and self centered 💯
Now I see why Nicki Minaj treated him the way that she did.....smfh.
Fr 😂 she treated him like her child she stayed dogging him 💀
She dodged a fatass bullet. 😂😭
True and people were dogging her and she never opened her mouth to speak bad on this man smh
BOOM 💥💯💯💯
She’s still wrong for treating someone that way
The way that baby looks and gets excited when she sees Erica. Children will always show you the little things they notice from their actual caregivers.
Stop it, that baby loves both her parents and probably would've reacted the same if he entered
To be fair at the age she’s at they tend to be with mom more.
Caregivers or parents? Smh
Not true, children will most likely attach themselves to the parent they spend the most time with and bond with, if it’s Erica then that explains why her daughter was so excited to see her.
@@557Deola negative I mostly take care of my daughter and she’s always this way when I come in the room. When her dad comes in the room she could care less and doesn’t even notice.
“Safaree pick her up you freaking idiot” at this moment she file for divorce. lmao
Wow thanks for the likes & I appreciate you guys with the right mind set. We need more of you guys to help the future of this society 👏🏽
Literally. They’re not compatible.
Yes that was the last straw!
He is a jamaican, if it was in Jamaica we would have let her cry. That's how he was raised. That's a man blow.
@@mj-wu3fn what do you mean? Every Jamaican man i know would rush to the baby and comfort her.
@@mj-wu3fn i so understand my mom and my dad is half jamaican and when i was young and fell or my siblings we leave them to cry it toughens them up or like if they crying for you to pick them up you dont so they dont get hooked on your hand you let them cry cuz the cant cry forever
He's awful. She deserves a husband that cares for her and the children he helped create. Girl, he isn't mature enough for you and your babies. 🙏🏾
m.ruclips.net/video/W_NfoFD0C7s/видео.html
cancer man don’t date ‘em
@Klissaura R AMENNNNNN
Even tho Nicki spent 12 years with this man, notice she didn’t have kids, never really publicly came out and said she was dating him etc...I think THIS IS WHY, look at the type of person he is.
I was this years old when I found out Nicki and safaree dated
@@kitthanashaquan watch their compilations there are a few out there so fucking hilarious
Yes the d held him on so long like dont talk in the day just pipe me down at night...Even Debra Atney said she thought Safaree was her gay stylist when she worked with her in Atlanta
But he left her tho🤣😂. She cried about it on a interview..
At first I thought nicki was messed up for how she done safaree,but now I get it
"You look pregnant but you still look small." lol. He is so vain and immature. 😩
@Pretty Brown Eyes what kind of husband tells his wife he doesn't want her to have another child because she gained too much weight? WTF? I don't even like Erica, but homeboy is trash. 😩
How did you get that from a clear compliment?
@Pretty Brown Eyes Exactly. What i said.
@@whatfor2002 if you don't see the issue with it you shouldn't have children
@@dayday8984 He complimented her. The issue is all of you bitter bishes. For her to be in her third trimester and looking like she's a month,he literally complimented her. Y'all are weird as hell.
Wow, his slow reaction to help his child while she is crying on the floor. Unbelievable. I could never respect a guy like this. Wasteman.
Safaree is going to feel it one good day and it will be too late.
he’s lame
He clearly is not bonded with her at all
“I needed to sleep😂 and I had postpartum” THROW HIM AWAY!! This man can’t be serious!
I still can't over the fact that he literally asked for this life, specifically with Erica, and this is how he chooses to behave after getting exactly what he asked for.
The chase is over for him. He got what he wanted. That euphoria feeling in the beginning is gone. Instead of working on it with his wife, he's distant and cold. That shit hurts. Erika is no angel, but she seems like a good mama.
My thoughts exactly
@@TheTamitude couldn’t have said it better
I was whit it when he has told and showed that he wasn't ready for another on but now that it can't be changed to bad so sad you are tired thas your life now dang this makes it dang impossible to get where he comes from and the fact he didn't give a ich that his kid got hut 🤨
He was in lust. Erica is getting what she deserve!! Hard to feel sorry for a women who tormented another pregnant women while sleeping her husband (dj envy).
Erica must have forgot how many married men she slept with. 🤫 She should have had some fun with safaree and kept it moving. She know she not getting no decent man !!
it’s allllll about him… “I had postpartum” how tf are YOU going to have postpartum ?????? you didn’t spend hours pushing a baby outta you SHE DID
Safari had pandemic related stress maybe because we all had it. Being stuck inside is no fun. It can literally drive anybody nuts lol, but come on men may experience some postpartum symptoms of being tired staying up with a new baby.... Yet, women who has the HORMONES AND HORMONAL CHANGES namely " Erica' is the one suffering from postpartum (not Safari). Safari is still young minded and doesn't know how serious postpartum is to have it in his mouth. I think I had postpartum psychosis no lie. It's the worse type of postpartum and God delivered me from it and my church gave me prayer and strength I needed. It's a bad bout of depression and anxiety after the baby; to have postpartum these men need to stop playing. Women go through this based on chemical imbalance in the woman's body .....not the men
😂😂😂
What is the weird thing she is doing with her lips latel?
Men have a form of postpartum as well. Look it up. It's definitely a real thing.
Not to mention the 9 stressful months and him not being there when she had the first one either.
“You look pregnant, but you still look small.” This man is incapable of loving anyone, being nice, giving words of appreciation, understand kids are not collectible cars or clothing. This man is a sociopath. The fact that many of you marry and have babies with men like this…..Disgusting.
Lol you could of picked a better line to complain about
@@chrisper3148 I’m not complaining.
Unfortunately this is the sad truth with what happens sometimes. The man in the beginning will love bomb and sweep the woman off her feet and make her feel so special and that he won't do her wrong. But then they get married and it's like he checks out and is a complete 360 to what he was like before. I seen this happen mannnnnyyy times, too many to count actually. The only individuals I feel bad for are the children involved as they are innocent and shouldn't be put through this mess.
THIS!!!!
When he said that i had the exact same thought.
I gotta say I’m loving Ericas evolution in character. She seems to have calmed down a bit.
Yes she even talks different. I'm proud of her
Bc she is out of New York
@@VETASALMONE11 no I meant she speaks more mature
Yall judge ppl to much so what if she did or didn't wtf
She seems changed because she’s finally the “victim”
He clearly doesn't want to be bothered with her or them kids.
He so checked out. It's like a spell over him
He didn’t expect things to be so serious, he still wants to play around.
Maybe hes gay
Then why he even give her hand in marriage this man is clueless as hell smh
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I feel bad for Erica and I’m not even a mom yet. When her baby fell and she went to go pick up the guitar, in my mind I was thinking “okay safari will pick up the baby”. When I saw that he just stood there laughing I felt Ericas frustration cause that just shows how immature he is. It’s not like she badly hurt herself but that’s not the point! Your baby girl has fallen in your studio, hit her head and is crying and you are doing nothing but standing there laughing??????🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ Then to try and blame his slow immature ass on her when she’s the only parent in the room that reacted to the situation. #nickidodgedthatshit
And waiting for the pregnant woman to pick the baby up 😤
Oooook He just makes me cringe
I don’t feel bad for her that’s what she settled for. I feel bad for that child and the unborn one
I see why those dudes was chasing his ass and robbing him of his jewelry. Dude is a disgrace to men period.
Who picks up a guitar after your baby falls⁉️ As a mother...f that guitar my baby is more important. He didn't move because it's obvious that she run and controls him....so he doesn't know when and how to move. He is definitely in an abusive relationship, but all we see are the edit parts. She always make men look bad.
0:32 “you look pregnant but you still look small” what a disgusting thing to say…
When the baby fell, Safaree had no real concern for her smh that's sad.
He has no connection to her and as a therapist that sometimes happens when the man isn't in love with the mother of the child and there's also a separation when the father sees no resemblance of him in the child this doesn't make it right but it's very accurate
@@chanelsmith1587 sadly, I now understand why my child's father acted the way he did.
@@chanelsmith1587 I understand what you are saying but the baby looks so much like him...
Also, if u didn't realize, she just told him they were having a boy. Right after that the baby fell. And the 1st thing she did was pick up the guitar. I mean come on, yall wanna go in on him, but what about her?!?!?!
@@bigjuicyscosanostra1641 well she had to pick the guitar up off of her before she can be picked up. And she assumed that Safaree was going to help as well.
"It was funny". Those 3 words should never escape a father's mouth when it comes to their children getting hurt.
He’s useless. He doesn’t care about anyone but himself
Even worse, his daughter😫 nah, Erica's a better woman than me because he'd be hurt when Im done with him
If you watch it again, he actually saw her before she even fell he could've jumped up and caught her.. nah, sorry he'd be dead for sure
He needs to grow up. When you have children relying on you, you can't be the same immature person when you need to be protecting them.
Especially his first girl I can slightly understand if it were his son and he was saying that he was teaching him to be tough when he has a boy he's going to treat that boy like he should have been treating his daughter
The way he treats Erica and his own child really bothers me. Sickens me. He is one of the the most CHILDISH people I have ever seen. So many red flags in this dude...Erica, run.
Too late to run now. He will be in her life forever now
@@jbuck566 not really all he has to do is pay the child support that it there nothing else he can do for them children.
It's too late for her. She should have ran when she had no children by him. She should have ran before getting married to him, he's immature.
I can't believe safaree stood there laughing while his child lay on the floor crying smh erica gotta be struggling
Everybody talked about Nicki for the way she treated him...it’s a reason for everything! Now everyone can SEE!
She knew to dominate him and treat him like the trash that he was. Erica let him dominate, he doesn’t know how to dominate though and doesn’t respect her for letting him so he treated her like trash.
Exactly
Facts
🎯
@@aiist2973 true he used to date nicki back then
What else does he have to Say or Do to Basically Say,"I don't want this Marriage?"This man didn't even have the Instinct to Embrace his Daughter and Assure her She was Safe!WOW!
You don't have to be a dad or a mom to have that I don't have kids but would never ever just sit ther if someone else's baby fell like that infront of me the hek 😔
not yall blaming him already common sense, the child walks babies are curious beings and like to touch that is why u have to keep an eye on them … they’re in a studio with guitars and other shit that can fall on her she should’ve been in the hands of safaree or erica. case closed
@@nikalove6971 i get what you're saying but when something do happen pick your kid up
@@Long-live-vacation if i was erica i wouldn’t pick the guitar up first tho…. but they both watched it happen so
I think he need a fathering class if they such. He can learn to love if he willing to. He will be a very good dad and husband if he can just learn to love and care some more
This is literally the worst person to get pregnant for; Nick Cannon would’ve been a better pick
Trust, I'm sure he's not the wors. He's very insensitive and lack emotions but I can point out worse baby daddy's, etc.
I laughed too hard
Not Nick Cannon🤣
Since win did nick cannon ever show he was a bad dad? If 7 don't no stop judging ppls like ur n thier household. Lame!
Nick is more mature than S
“I was tired” men he’s literally the example of what not to do
Why do women want the man to be as exhausted asthem
@@farrahkhalid9138 Huh? Of course you're gonna be exhausted when you're taking care of kids. It's a 24/7 responsibility
@@farrahkhalid9138 cause we both made this baby. So we’re both about to be tired from supporting each other through it.
@@farrahkhalid9138 because if the man help neither of you would be that exhausted? I was tired? Safaree what baby did you carry, push out and possiby ended up splitting your coochie open and need stitches? I don't wanna hear I had postpartum....I would of said oh you had postpartum...spell it 😂
When the baby fell, and Erica removed the guitar, he should’ve had her back and his daughter’s best interest at heart and scooped up the baby. He saw her doing something about it and relaxed. That tells me he is comfortable with her taking on the responsibility, he doesn’t even want to meet her half way.
Yikes!
He should have been watching the baby before she fell. He’s a lazy dad lol
@@COURTNEYVCK You’re right about that, prevention is better than the cure.
Perfect way to say this
Right!
It’s embarrassing that he is really 40 years old.
So true I wouldn't have guessed that either
Growing up and maturity are two different things
@ఌシ not an excuse.
Is he Jamaican?
Let him b, dont judge his life, its his choice
"She's fine," as she screams in pain from hitting her head on a hard ass floor, while having a guitar fall on her. What really got me is, she saw that she was going to fall, and he didn't even try to catch her, and didn't help her up afterwards, and then laughed, and then the icing on the cake, somehow blamed Erica for it.
Narcissistic
That’s my thing too ! Like he literally sat there and watched it happen like 😮 instead of leaping into action . This is why you have to be careful who you have children with.
@@briannarichardson1596 I keep saying that!!
I think he was so stuck on the news of having a boy, he literally neglected what was happening to his baby right in front of him. Very Selfish individual 😒
@@evolvinglove7786 lies
Him laughing as his daughter gets hurt shows how mature of a father he is
@janiesehenderson He was just joking. Plus the baby wasn't hurt. So why you so hurt?
I don’t think it was that deep either
@@gracefully_ebony_exactly children are gonna fall smh 🤦🏽♀️ Erica is too much
yall dumb af. electric guitars and bass are heavy, and look at the position of her arm 3:41 the bass neck was on top of her arm, she was clearly hurting
I don’t think he understands what being a father really means
He didn’t have a father to show him, this explains a lot
@@QueenOfKings0402 stop that
@@nathalie8497 where am I lying tho?
@@QueenOfKings0402 no you’re not. It’s facts that people don’t want to hear.
@@Kay-RT2020 harsh truth.
How is he trying to set up a gender reveal and a baby shower for a child he isn't excited for? Like he is concerned with the weirdest things. The comment about her being small? Him having postpartum? Its weird
L000
Facts !
I honestly think this is just a stunt 😂😂😂
Because he assumed the baby was a girl
He's a narcissist
She looks so uncomfortable in this marriage it’s sad ... she’s scared to tell him the gender , hoping because it’s a boy he will be happy and excepting 🤦🏻♀️ she’s blaming herself for his reaction to her pregnancy, she’s apologizing for his reaction . She’s looking confused af when he’s laughing at the baby falling 🤦🏻♀️ it looks like psychological abuse and karma and some more shit
Walking on eggshells in her own marriage
Besides the baby falling why y’all acting like he post to be perfect yall not thinking bout how he feels he having a kid too and y’all getting mad at his reaction when hers was kinda the same even her doctor told her that
@@Thefloridianprince nobody’s acting like he’s perfect but at least have human decency to comfort your child after they’ve been hurt 🤬🤬🤬 that’s just vile
@@shesagoodgurl I’m not talking about that 😂 I’m talking about the reaction to her pregnancy he definitely should’ve comforted his child plz read before getting mad
Not the karma😂😂
He just stood and laughed when his child fell. His heavily pregnant wife has to bend down to pick her up. What a loser
Once the chase was over for Erica and safari got everything he wanted, is when he truly realized his reality-he don’t actually want to settle. He was hype for the chase of Erica and the hype of what could be. He got it, then got bored. His intentions was just to get the trophy.
What a waste of a black man. I feel so bad for Erica
@TheseKlownsKrazy AsFuq 4RealTho YES THANK YOU, I was looking for this comment. I thought I was the only 1 who rmbrd she even had a son to begin with. It's almost like that child is from her past b4 fame so he doesn't deserve to be there in her "new life" she's an awful person for that&ALL the shit she pulled on others along the way.
@TheseKlownsKrazy AsFuq 4RealTho why do y’all always judge without knowing facts. She has said over and over again that he doesn’t want to be in the public eye. He is a teenager who wishes to stay out and she respects that. How many times she has to say it. I have son his age and I have to bribe him to even take a pic with me. He doesn’t want to be in the public eye and she respects it. Besides why does he have to be in the public eye.
Like Nick Cannon and Mariah
@@nicholelove4008 yes I forgot about them
@@lovecardib5463 at least Nick is ambitious
His baby falls and hurts herself and he thinks it's funny? That's a big no.
Right!!! , not only I’m I never gonna leave him alone with my child ever again, I’m slapping tf out of him.💯💯💯
Oh please. Kids fall all the time
@@neysarae7831 can tell your daddy did you wrong probably never had a real man figure in your life smh
Yea wtf is funny about that
@@neysarae7831 did you see that she hit her head, that’s dangerous for a small child like that
It’s the fact that instead of picking his daughter up when she fell and was crying he stood there looked and laughed at her.
Not only standing there laughing at his daughter but just watching his pregnant wife bend to pick up the guitar. He's disgusting.
NE IS INSANE NARCISSIST..
Yea that was friggin bizarre. He’s a f***ing weirdo to me. Juju dodge an entire clip tbh.
He said she needs to know that there is pain in life. What an idiot, SHE'S A BABY!!!
He was selfishly stuck on the thought of having a boy, that he neglected what was happening to his daughter
So when his daughter is crying scared and feeling hurt he laughs. And that will be her perspective on how men should be and treat her.
Erica is literally a married single mother, I feel bad for her. She didn't even want him, she gave him a chance and she married him now this fool realizes being a responsible adult is a lot harder than he expected to be he wants no parts of it. He is a whole clown! 🤡
At 40 years old!
A big ass clown smh
@@easiersaidwithmeg Age ain't nothing but a number. Some ppl grow up and some ppl never grow up
Well thats what having children is coming with responsibility if he wasn't ready for children or marriage he should never open his mouth I can't stand him
Well said boo 💯
What man laughs at his child getting hurt. He needs to grow up.
He is a really terrible man. His children will see these episodes when they are older and know that their father could not give a rat's a$$ about them.
I said the same thing
Yes. And his reaction when she told him she was pregnant was terrible
Facts , I’d be pissed if I see this when I’m older and found out my freaking father LAUGHED , at my pain. I could of busted my head open. The man watched it happen like 😮, instead of leaping into action …tf is wrong with him… I know … everything!
He is not a bad father, you are wrong for that
@@tentrickspony8925 please clarify and tell me where he seems supportive and grateful for his children. You sound like a narcissist just like Safaree.
Safaree damn near begged for a wife & kids & now he doesn’t wanna be bothered smh. Their babygirl is beautiful & I know the new baby is too 😭😍 how could you not want to be around those babies??
The baby looks so cuteee💖💖
Saffare just So childish and needs to grow up no wonder nicki did what she did🙄
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What did she do again because i forgot
*Safaree
@@rachelrabb I think she stabbed him
So disappointed in safaree. Begging for a wife/family/kids, and then drops em easily 😒
Right? I remember when he said: “This is gonna be the woman that carries my child for the next 9 months.”. To know that it would end up like this… 🙄
And then gets shocked when his dumbass forgets to use a condom.
Yeah he beyond childish my lort
Just because you marry someone doesn't make them a wife or a husband.
"I needed to sleep" 🤣🤣🤣 I know he's playing
“She needs to find out there’s pain in life”. Dude, she’s literally one.
Exactly....He is just immature.. period...
This is the mindset that got parents wondering why they kids don’t like them when dem kids are grown
Like of course it can be funny when baby's fall I'm sorry but it just is but you pick your kid up immediately you don't just sit ther like a pyko and don't get up a is a guitar is heavy as hek to 🤨🤕
@@jjgandthatsenough facts all day. This man is a whole demon.
@@Long-live-vacation exactly I’ve laughed at my kids falling too but I always make sure they’re ok first. That was wild the way he sat there staring and didn’t even have the decency to grab the baby smh
I can't believe she got pregnant by him again, after he abandoned her the first time. There's nothing about his behavior that's funny. It's sick. I can't believe his entire family is made of women and he doesn't know how to treat them.
She craves drama
It sounds like he was spoiled because he was the only boy. They probably doted on him and made him feel like he was the most special thing ever.
This what happens when men are raised by mostly women. They dont know how to act at all
This Man Is A Big Child Himself God Has Giving Him The Most Precious Gifts 🙏(kid's) & he's sitting there showing no emotion what so ever "" I can see Erica divorcing him soon 💯🙌💔♥️♥️
She already did I'm so happy she finally left him
She picked this creep they both played a part
I wouldn't give Safaree the satisfaction of apologising after him being a deadbeat in the first few months of the baby's life.
Narcissis
They sure need to dress that baby different
Wow! He has NO Paternal instinct, that was soooo EVIL
“I needed to sleep” lol. Wow. Typical. Men feel like the woman needs to do everything while they get to sleep and live life. Women don’t lay down by themselves.
Not all men are like this . I’m 25 been married for a year and have been working my ass off as a diesel technician ever since I finished high school. I make good money but I work long shifts. Even despite that, I have a strong urge to have kids of my own abs raise a good family.
@@hawkboy000 not all men are like this I don’t disagree. But sadly one bad apple gives men a bad name in general. And a lot of men actually feel this way.
This!!!! I unfortunately chose two men like that. Smmfh. Single mom 15 yrs.
@@cececmiller6977 Sigh. Sorry you had to go through that but I’m sure you’re a great mother and doing what you need to.❤️
My husband all I had to do was ask and he was up with our newborn even when he had to work full time! Safaree is pathetic!
I used to defend Safaree but, he’s being so ridiculous. He’s clearly gotten tired of Erica & dad life & being a husband.
Yhooo i also liked him...his sense of humour but now im seeing another side...narcissistic one🤔
@@GeminiJune0608 Exactly
She could be tired too
He’s sure going to miss it when it’s gone … I’m single with 4 girlfriends and I would give anything to have a beautiful devoted wife and kids.
@@reeceecup8969 lmaaaaoooo "SINGLE" with 4 girlfriends?
Erica don’t let him TRAIN YOU. When you apologize he takes it but when you tell him his wrong he’s get defensive and can’t admit his wrong…..
Facts. Everything ends up being her fault and she’s “insulting” him by telling him he’s wrong. Emotionally manipulative.
He is a grown man she don't need to directing his traffic, she need to grow up!!! She thinking dollars always has. Bye
+Rhoda Montgomery wait say what? Lol
Safaree is the type of man you “ have fun with” or a “ good time” and move on. The fact that he laughed at his daughters pain only shows how selfish and immature he is. He is NOT marriage material
At all.
How can somebody even work up the courage to even have fun with somebody like that? The moment you pick up on certain clues or behavior, your attraction should drop immediately.
Erica doesn't deserve any of this. I was firstly shocked that anyone would marry Safaree but they seemed to have great chemistry but now?? No one deserves such an unsupportive person in their life!
I dislike the fact that he is concerned about her weight during pregnancy she cannot enjoy being pregnant and eating all of the things she craves for. Due to the fact she has too watch her weight and workout this is unbelievable....
alot of men trick women into thinking they are husband or father material
Narcissists trick people
For him to say it was funny, was completely uncalled for and insensitive. That's a little girl, not a teenage boy on the freaking football field.
Erica grew sooo much I’m proud of her she deserves better 💕
She'll be fine after this dose of karma is over
Hes abusive . "She needs to know that there is pain in life! Wtf!!"
He isn’t going to grow up until it’s much too late. This is a sad reality for many women. You think you found a man and end up with an adult CHILD to raise. 🤦🏻♀️
Narcisisst is what its called
preach
PREACH NO CAP🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
They both are to blame. Not just him. They need counseling. I see a couple trying to be a married couple, trying to be parents. Trying to make it. When all eyes on them. Thats harder than you think. And when you see Erica bitch about him, yall taking jabs at safaree. But not too long ago everyone felt bad for him. This show only allows you to see what THEY want you to see. Everyone has issues. No ones perfect. But safaree is not the only one to blame here. 🙄
I think in this case it's not so much of a discovery. He had always been this way but it was easier to excuse as "he's funny and that's just his personality".
It was “I was going through postpartum” ERICA sign them divorce papers seriously. My Husband made a joke about that ONE time, Until I made his read on it. He felt bad cause he had no Indra what I was going through, he could only imagine.
She already filed for divorce. Erica has been alot of things throughout the years but I think with Safaree he played the role of what she wanted in a man real well and then switched on her when he realized the fun part was over and real work began. I feel going through this situation had enlightened her that she needed to be better because she changed.
Nah but men can go through post-partum I don't think he was mocking her
Please please please sign the divorce papers...he needs help
I read "ERICA" in Cyn's voice. But seriously, that is so crazy that he even fixed his mouth to say that.
Most men don’t. Instead of admitting they don’t know, they’ll joke about it to deflect from the lack of knowledge. Us women have to teach men what things are with us because they really don’t know what really entails with birth post birth and motherhood. We can only fault them once we educate them.
It's the fact he feels the need to comment on her size...while pregnant! Tf 🤦🏽♀️
And I found it werid her saying she working out ik its fine to do while pregnant but I can't help to think she only doing it because he keeps commenting on her size
@@phatface yesss I noticed that too. She does feel the need to stay slim for him even while pregnant 🤦🏽♀️ He told her before he didn't like how big she got so I'm sure that's instilled in her head
This woman is so unappreciated, i'm not sure why she is even staying with him. He is so immature, while she is a whole woman with beauty and brain. There's no connection of any kind between these two
No connection right
Did you watch her in the old seasons? She is lucky she found anyone to wife her.
I find it hysterical that people like you think you know a couple based of a scripted reality show. It's astounding. Real married couples work on their marrige. One day you will know. God bless you
Safaree only loves one person: Himself
That boy need to grow up.
All facts. Leave him by himself! he'll soon see how well that works out for him
I don't even have any kids, my nieces and nephews are around and I am so so protective of them, to see Safaree didn't even flinch to go and get his daughter, SMDH.
I said that too. A man will normally protects their daughter.
@@jivory6131 💯💯💯
Because it’s an idiot with penis. It’s was always obvious. I couldn’t understand what women saw in him. To me he was always shallow
I wanted to reach through the phone grab up the baby and slap the shit out of Safaree. I have a six month old and I watch him like a hawk he cant even fall in the playpen when he tries to stand up. And he there laughing at that baby. Disgusting
It's so sad 😞
The fact he now has a son and neglects him is sadddddd.
exactly wanted a son so bad but when he got here you left him in NICU to go party on an island
The baby is so telling ! The beginning while it was just her and Safari - she’s uninterested , not engaging in eye contact nor smiling BUT as soon as Erica walks in she lit up . Who all know who’s really around .. and it isn’t the daddy 😢
What we're not going to do is pretend we didn't already know Safaree wasn't shit.
But before he was a bachelor so it was kinda funny now he is a husband and father it's horrifying goes to show a person is who they are nothing is going to change them. Don't ignore the red flags
Exactly. JuJu, Nicki, and his whole mom told us this year's and seasons ago.
The baby was like "Oh thank God, it's Mom!!!!"
Word arms up come on mommy come get me yes❣️
As scrappy said "Safaree is now the most hated husband on love and hip hop" !!!
Maybe even the World
Im sorry im still stuck on the "I needed sleep" part, like what ? That right there completely threw me! Im not even sure how he fixed his lips to say that shit AND believe it. Would've walked right out the room at that point!
NVM, didn't even get to the part where he said i will be frustrated if its a girl! Then LAUGHED at his childs pain! Then blamed Erica! This whole thing made my head hurt!
Honey try she should have left the whole house throw the whole house and him in it away 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ladypineapples3995 child you aint lying! Throw it ALL way bc thats ridiculous!
All I heard was
“I needed sleep”
“I had post partum”
“I’d be frustrated”
I’d feel some type of way”
“This doesn’t happen when she’s in here with me”
He’s just grimey
A demon
Filing for divorce ASAP
That baby is not connected to Safaree. She was only tolerating him. You can see the difference in how she lit up when Erica walks into the room.
I agree & because of this Erica will do it all by herself. He is learning...to be a horrible dad & husband. If he doesn't change for the better...before it's too late it's a wrap
it looks SO fake him playing with her at the beginning.
She went to the doctor and found out the gender alone…. This is so sad
Only the mothers are allowed during the pandemic
It's not true, during Covid they have been shutting all of it down. I'm pregnant now and I go by myself and just do video calls.
I had to go solo and no video calls at my Dr office
@@sb8404 with the OB, yes but her machine is the basic machine. For the ultrasound, lol I wasn't allowed to, but I'm hoping I can when I do the gender.
Not true everywhere also depends on doctor
i’m so grateful for my partner , he does everything for our baby no complaints
“Cause it’s funny “ wow
God pls protect me for this kind of man 🙌🏽
Amen
Sissssss!!!!!! 🙌🏼
AMEN🙌🏾😷
In the lordts name AMEN!!
& bind it for all my sisters out there too!! No woman/child deserves this kind of man🤞🏾💯
Now, I see why she divorced him….he was so mentally abusive towards her & he doesn’t even care?! And what’s crazy is that he claims he grew up around women…so why do you treat ur wife like that??? 🤨🤔😬 Talkin bout the baby needed to understand that their is pain in LIFE??! She’s a child….🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
He gets it from the safety of his family first..women cater..dude.. he say it was her fault..he don't want to be there and he doesn't care about being nice to his woman. Divorce and 50/50 child care custody for him.. I feel bad as a woman to see her stuck to this nasty boy for life due to the kids
He's embarrassing himself out here in these reality streets. And in real life period. I'm annoyed by just watching him. Imagine Erica having to deal with him. He sounds like a teenage boy who accidently knocked up a girl and didn't want the responsibility. Every time he talks about his daughter he makes it sound like she came and interrupted his life and then you have another on the way complaining again. He a whole child out here...
Ive seen teenage boys who knocked up a girl behave better. And that is sad.
I couldn't been her, I would have been to depress dealing with him. I'm emotional and crazy I would have been crying and fighting.
@@jivory6131 she probably is
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth 👌🆗️✔ smh
@@jivory6131 yes that's Def a depressing situation and I feel you all the way with crying and fighting.. that's just too much.
Saferee still "finding himself" but soon gonna find himself divorced and paying alimony...
Finding himself at 40 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m speechless.. like I knew he wasn’t shit, but when he baby fell and he laughed.. That felt kinda evil to me!
Narcissistic People Are Evil Sis. My Ex.... NARCISSIST(I Have Stories For Months 😔) Therapy Can't Help What He Is, Only God🤷. But Yeah....IT WAS EVIL....We Only Get To See Glimpse, Imagine When Camera Aren't Rolling...Sick 🤢
He's a demon
Waste man saf if go back a Jamaica and leave wat he can't manage
Pick up woman and can't be a man
Lil boy fi go sit down bout its funny which rite man going to see is child in pain and laugh 💀 a dog shit tat
He's definitely a narcissist!! When accidents happen the shift blame.
🎯 🎯 FACTS
I feel bad for Erica. Hope she gets the husband she’s well deserved of.
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In this situation ppl change…that’s how I’m viewing it.
She seems like a good mom.. Safire was happy to c her when she came home..
She may seem like a good mom, but that's just what lhh wants u to see. It's a narrative 🙄 her oldest son was with her mom while filming lhhny for 3 seasons! While her job was to "get paid to party" those are Erica's words. You're a mom! Get a job that your child can be proud of. You don't always have to party or be a stripper to make it. This narrative that women have to do this kind of work to make good money is bs.
"the husband she deserves" man cut it. This chick showed her tail to the world for years, clubbing, sleeping with diff men, women, fighting, drinking and all other types of stuff. Yeah its crappy of Safari to turn out to be a child but this is why your relationship has to be more than sex, looks and vanity. I wish them well but let's not pretend she's a stand up model citizen/woman.
He is bc she was sleeping with Dj envy and used to being a side 🐥
@@sharah3414 👏👏👏👏
He is the typical narcissistic abuser! And I feel so bad for Erica. I hope she has the strength to leave!
Noticed how he threw it in her face that she didn't fall when she was alone with him. His mom needs to have a serious discussion with him. Everything is about him talking about she needs to know pain. I thought part of being a parent is to make your child feel safe.
I agree!
I’m the oldest and when I was first born my father wasn’t really acting right around my mother during pregnancy and after and his own mother which is my grandmother called him out and told him that he needs to do better so I totally agree there needs to be an intervention with him and his mother.
Exactly!
Why and how is she pregnant again? He’s literally so immature and her daughter is still a toddler at that.... I feel so much stress for her already because what did she see in this clown
Why and how is Erica pregnant again?
Well, Safaree clearly doesn’t know what a condom is. So, let’s start there.
@@brandoniswhoiam well no because it takes two to tango because Cleary he didn’t force her. A mistake like she said
@@brandoniswhoiam you kno women can have the last say . If they wanna go through it or not we have access to birth they have access to purposing
How yall are just blaming safaree is ridiculous. He stated numerous times he didn't want any more kids. She stated numerous times " how he isn't being a good dad" but she chose to get pregnant 😂🤣😅😆 it takes 2 to make a baby its not just safaree to blame. She is not a victim. Just like their are condoms there are also all sorts of birth control and she also stated before she wanted more kids by him .
@@brandoniswhoiam they both don’t only a women can decide to have an abortion not the man not saying that’s what she should’ve done but aye🤷♀️now she going through it that man clearly told her he didn’t want nomo kids she a fool smh
he saw her falling as soon as it happened & sat there stuck on stupid. smh, she was so right about her having to hold her babies down by herself. smh.
I saw the camera view he was even facing the child's direction.....if he'll let that happen imagine what else he is letting happen to his own damn child.......
She should have been watching her self, i'm not sitting at my man job where ever it may be!!! He was laughing at her, she is not a nice person, she is a predator!!!!
@@rhodamontgomery7450 chile what are you saying
He’s emotionless. He can only process anger or “happiness”… it’s masked by him always laughing and making a joke about everything. Where is his father? This is sad
He was so fixated on Erica’s looks and not thinking but her looks.
Def her body cause it for sure wasn’t her face. So now that’s she’s pregnant he has nothing to look at. He doesn’t care about het personality
Agreed
Yes he was
He married her. She have married Rich he really love her
100% woman go through so much while pregnant during labor and postpartum. It's truly amazing.
And it helps to get through it when you have a supportive spouse. I can't imagine having had to deal with this.
Postpartum depression definitely not fun or amazing to go through women kill themselves or they kids going through that shit
@@kelisking8059 most deff. Not taken as serious as it should be. Your body and your mind deff. Go through an adjustment.
Why was his first concern/comment that she’s pregnant but still small? He sounded so relived saying it too. Now if she were to get bigger which is completely ok and normal he’d probably have something negative to say about it.
Yesss!!! He had already said thats why he didn't want anymore kids because she got too big the last time. I just CANT with him!!! This can't be real.
I doubt he'd be mad if she got a little bigger. He'd messed with women bigger than her.
That honestly got me so mad.
I’ve never been pregnant but I can only imagine what a women goes through both physically and mentally when it comes to her body. Like for him to call her “still small” while she is like what 7 months pregnant... chile foolishness
When I heard that he didn’t want anymore kids because Erica got “too big” during her second pregnancy, I got so angry. How can someone be so selfish? 😕
Glad to see that Erica has humbled herself, I see a change in her.
the way he laughed when the baby fell down, thats absolutely horrible, then blaming her? wow.
Right, what if that baby girl got seriously hurt. I'm sorry for saying that but that was messed up and wasn't funny
This breaks my heart. I can't begin to describe the impact of an absent (emotionally or physically)father. This man is willfully setting his children up for unnecessary pain/trauma. Praying for his children
And who laughs at their child while she's Hurt...??? Just sitting there not even helping lord give me strength 😹 He's complaining saying I want a boy yet he genuinely hasn't a clue how to be a father and a grown man
Jamaican parents 😫😫😫😫
Precisely.
Precisely.
I'm not gonna lie there are times when parents will laugh at their children when children hurt themselves but in small ways. For example you're telling your toddler to stop running around the house stop running toddler doesn't listen runs can't stop and time and ends up running into the wall or door. It is a little funny but at the same time we're running to get the baby as we're trying to suppress a smile.Call me evil but some of that stuff it's just a little funny.
I'm not co signing Safarees slow ass reaction to helping Saphire.
literally stood there and started laughing , wow
Damn Safaree. She was apologising for overreacting and not the rest because you deserve it.
He’s literally a boy playing house.
I don't care for how he treats his wife who is pregnant. He needs to grow up.
Huh?
I still can’t believe that he stood there with a smirk while his daughter was laying on the floor crying. But if I were Erica I woulda said FUCK THAT GUITAR and went straight for the baby.
I would have broke that fucking guitar over this man's head. He really laughed at his babygirl in pain... Just wow. 🚮
@@Shay416 exactly!! Smh
I said the same thing. Why didn't she pick her up 1st? I ain't saying he's right. Cause that was beyond wrong to laugh at that baby.
A narcissistic personality disorder makes a person react with a smirk when seeing someone hurt or in pain, I hope he seeks therapy only a therapist can help him heal, there's nothing wrong with having mental health issues we all do, but when it reaches a point where we are hurting others by our actions or not caring about our own family it's time to heal and speak to someone, this post is in no way shaming the disorder it's actually encouraging therapy for everyone that battles with mental health, I went to therapy myself and started healing my traumatic childhood step by step.
@ Lana M Exactly. And he's a leo male. Leo men are narcissistic. It's a key trait of their sign.