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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2021
  • Erica returns home after spending a number of days in the hospital (alone) and decides it might be time to give up hope on her marriage to Safaree.
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  • @Pink10Love
    @Pink10Love 2 года назад +7625

    A woman never forgets how a man treats her when shes pregnant

    • @camillaancona9633
      @camillaancona9633 2 года назад +80

      So true

    • @saradavis9137
      @saradavis9137 2 года назад +83

      Amen amen!!! Going through something similar and ironically his bday is days from Safaree’s. Smh. She and her children are in my prayers!

    • @simonasessions3673
      @simonasessions3673 2 года назад +11

      So true. 👍

    • @kateriawilliams4005
      @kateriawilliams4005 2 года назад +13

      I promise you 💯

    • @decemberlove
      @decemberlove 2 года назад +121

      Khloe forgot. She forgot 3 different times 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @afakespace
    @afakespace 2 года назад +3440

    I see why Nicki didn't respect him. He's a man child

    • @kemistri666
      @kemistri666 2 года назад +177

      & I dont like Nicki but she was smart to not get pregnant by him either... he's horrible!

    • @blasiansierra7567
      @blasiansierra7567 2 года назад +62

      @MamiAqua, she made him wear that condom💀💀💀

    • @lenafaison9555
      @lenafaison9555 2 года назад +18

      mmmm but not sure if was the same person as he his now🤷🏽‍♀️I’m guessing he is a lot worse. Completely different time & scenario

    • @kemistri666
      @kemistri666 2 года назад +28

      @@blasiansierra7567 i dont even blame sis 😭 God bless Erika tho nobody deserve to go through that pregnant smh

    • @rettadadoll
      @rettadadoll 2 года назад +6

      @@kemistri666 Yeah and why don’t you like nicki ?

  • @rainypuddz
    @rainypuddz 2 года назад +2234

    “The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her.” Bob Marley
    Safaree is wholly a coward.

  • @tsholofelomakete5587
    @tsholofelomakete5587 2 года назад +640

    I wish we could stop loving someone when it's painfully clear they don't love you.

    • @Kim11546
      @Kim11546 2 года назад +5

      Ikr!!

    • @yomie7026
      @yomie7026 2 года назад +11

      We need to learn to never love someone else besides God more than we love ourselves

    • @tyratucker1218
      @tyratucker1218 Год назад +1

      Omgggg yasssssss please. 💜💜💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @ellinadrozdova886
      @ellinadrozdova886 Год назад +1

      Right!!!

    • @MrsOctober-kc5de
      @MrsOctober-kc5de Год назад

      Yes

  • @BabIblackandblue
    @BabIblackandblue 2 года назад +4163

    "He should never have to be asked" If a parent EVER has to be asked to watch their own kids they should be dropped kicked

    • @lifewdaisia5889
      @lifewdaisia5889 2 года назад +84

      I have a neighbor like that she asked me to take her somewhere one day and she didn’t want to bring her baby so I said ask her could her baby daddy watch the baby because they live together she gonna say he ain’t gonna watch her if you would’ve saw my face and my expression like wtf you mean🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @BabIblackandblue
      @BabIblackandblue 2 года назад +58

      @@lifewdaisia5889 That makes me wonder how they live together. Some of these baby daddies/mamas are insane!

    • @lex2.0
      @lex2.0 2 года назад +16

      Mine never even checked on his kid since he's been alive

    • @allaboutc8780
      @allaboutc8780 2 года назад +2

      Yeeeeesss😭

    • @tayloralexander4413
      @tayloralexander4413 2 года назад +23

      AGREED, I used to call my "baby daddy" and ask him to watch our daughter or if it was okay to drop her off at his house. I felt like crap that I had to ask because he's the father, he should already be there watching his kids.

  • @anastasiarose16
    @anastasiarose16 2 года назад +4442

    "I'd rather suffer by myself" is a lesson in 2021 for some of us, you're not alone girl.

    • @juliebufford6855
      @juliebufford6855 2 года назад +39

      I know, and it's very heartbreaking 💔 😢 😞 😔 😪

    • @kimberlyfeliz5215
      @kimberlyfeliz5215 2 года назад +5

      💯

    • @ashimadaniel31
      @ashimadaniel31 2 года назад +9

      Very well said!!! I needed to read this Thank you!!!

    • @msniquani
      @msniquani 2 года назад +29

      I’d rather do good by myself then do bad with someone else too

    • @yuggsriddle340
      @yuggsriddle340 2 года назад

      Jt hit me up

  • @tiffanylewis7633
    @tiffanylewis7633 2 года назад +722

    I'm just so proud of Erica for leaving a that anger and aggressive behavior behind her ...that's wtf you call growth and development ❤️🙌❤️

    • @kiara198923
      @kiara198923 2 года назад +12

      He made a post showing her throwing stuff and hitting him in front of the children. Its still no excuse for him to abandon her though.

    • @Kalifornia_Dreaming
      @Kalifornia_Dreaming 2 года назад +15

      She's still aggressive

    • @cocosmit7376
      @cocosmit7376 2 года назад +9

      Check out his side, she still seems aggressive. She has some more growing to do but growth doesn't mean they'll be together it just means peaceful co-parenting 🧏🏽‍♀️

    • @cydwelllings5583
      @cydwelllings5583 2 года назад

      Sorry

    • @irisbrown7267
      @irisbrown7267 10 месяцев назад +2

      This comment aged well😂😂😂

  • @lover4beauty718
    @lover4beauty718 2 года назад +502

    Seeing her cry was heartbreaking 💔… I wish Erica the best for herself and her babies 💕

  • @Briy903i
    @Briy903i 2 года назад +2851

    Aww baby tried to give her a balloon when she was crying… our kids love is the purest love ever. ❤️

    • @CircumstancesNeverMatter
      @CircumstancesNeverMatter 2 года назад +105

      Yes she was trying to help. Such a sweet little precious baby. ❤

    • @everythingdana9322
      @everythingdana9322 2 года назад +52

      You saw that too?!!! She even had her hand on her back when she started crying.

    • @layahlove2982
      @layahlove2982 2 года назад +57

      I see why a lot of people say their kids saved them

    • @jordanjada01
      @jordanjada01 2 года назад +14

      Awww I didn’t notice 😌, our children are our purest love ever ❤️

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 2 года назад +4

      So beautiful ♥️

  • @nomangwevubooi9964
    @nomangwevubooi9964 2 года назад +5550

    No matter how she acted in the past towards other people but we can never wish this type of pain to nobody, be strong Erica you'll get through it and find you happiness

    • @fallonsumpter9969
      @fallonsumpter9969 2 года назад +196

      Frfr! She has feelings and it’s like every dude she put her heart into, they ended up hurting her. I pray that God heals her

    • @thierrybrown2417
      @thierrybrown2417 2 года назад +13

      💯

    • @tynikagrant6995
      @tynikagrant6995 2 года назад +98

      Girl what pain?? All this was for a storyline. Y'all fell for it.

    • @frekg-johnson3958
      @frekg-johnson3958 2 года назад +49

      Erica has grown so much like she’s trying to be a better mom, nobody deserves hurt but honestly I think her and Rich really were in love. Safaree needs to grow up

    • @wouldntyoulike2know51
      @wouldntyoulike2know51 2 года назад +156

      I'm sorry, but I can't feel sorry Erica. Although I wouldn't WISH this on anyone, but Erica had way too many SELF issues to jump right into a marriage after horrible relationships back to back when she was basically the AGGRESSOR in all of them. How in the hell do you expect a dude to love you when you clearly don't love yourself. She was still fighting with other people and had already had a son. She was in toxic relationships. I don't think out of any of the relationships Erica ever spent any REAL TIME time reconstructing HERSELF PSYCHOLOGICALLY. Her selection in men is so bad because she picks them according to how they are somewhat a reflection of herself..... and in her case, that aint a good thing. And she done brought another child in this mess to boot. I think these women are so afraid to be alone that they just pick up anything off the shelf. I guarantee if Erica had gotten counseling to straighten out her mindset & really heal, she wouldn't have even batted an eye at Safari. She would've seen the OVERGROWN CHILD in him 100ft away. But she can't see that because she too is still a child in the mental sense. Nope. I don't feel sorry for her at all. I feel sorry for those kids HAVING KIDS raising them.

  • @anaujabarnes4366
    @anaujabarnes4366 2 года назад +182

    I've never been a Mena fan, but this hurts even me. No pregnant woman should be treated like this by a so-called husband. Safaree is going to get his karma. Mark my words

    • @lisasmith8314
      @lisasmith8314 2 года назад +5

      Well🤷‍♀️2yrs ago u couldn't tell her crap(let tht sink in)

    • @sweetdeadlygyallala805
      @sweetdeadlygyallala805 2 года назад +2

      Karma is going to hunt him like sharks🦈 in the ocean and once they smell blood they will bite you from head to toe.

    • @Kim11546
      @Kim11546 2 года назад

      Your words are marked...

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 Год назад

      That chick Kimbella will be discarded next

    • @mai-san8891
      @mai-san8891 7 месяцев назад

      @@jesuswilljudge7296oop

  • @landhae
    @landhae Год назад +47

    Erica complaining about safaree in the club reminds me of when Cyn saw Erica in the club dancing with other girls and Erica acted like she didn’t get why she was mad. WOW

    • @cynt1908
      @cynt1908 Год назад +10

      Yeah Wow. And she probably knows now how DJ Envy’s wife must’ve felt when she (Erica) was having an affair with Envy. People don’t understand how their toxic behavior affects others until they’re at the receiving end of it. Safaree’s time will come too…

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 Год назад

      💯💯🥴

    • @joeannareed2019
      @joeannareed2019 Год назад

      Yooo I literally just said the same thing in my head

  • @cananary
    @cananary 2 года назад +2526

    Safaree is trying to take Kirk’s postition as the most hated llhh atlanta cast member

    • @mango8794
      @mango8794 2 года назад +83

      Then 2 years later Him and Erika will be have retreats on how to make it work

    • @dayswithdaiisy5845
      @dayswithdaiisy5845 2 года назад +11

      Lmfaooooooo I hate yallllllll

    • @fatimaali3651
      @fatimaali3651 2 года назад +53

      I think he’s worse than Kirk cuz he actually cares for his children whereas Safaree ??? I don’t doubt that he loves his kids but he has no sense of responsibility whatever so ever😭😭😭

    • @angelline9155
      @angelline9155 2 года назад +6

      @@mango8794 they on the family reunion girding on each other child ion know atp they giving me princess and ray j

    • @amcclain1989
      @amcclain1989 2 года назад +4

      They are the top 2 at this moment.

  • @Crooklon
    @Crooklon 2 года назад +1853

    Her daughter brought her a balloon to stop her from crying. That was too sweet.

    • @daisyb4614
      @daisyb4614 2 года назад +20

      Yes ❤️

    • @shrondasmith7544
      @shrondasmith7544 2 года назад +30

      Sapphire is the sweetest ever..💖💖

    • @PTSDeeD212
      @PTSDeeD212 2 года назад +18

      Nah that was the 🎈 you release at a funeral. "byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee dad"

    • @PTSDeeD212
      @PTSDeeD212 2 года назад +4

      @S. B Rad "What I do, what I did😏" Kids be knowing, and you know it🤣🤣🤣

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 года назад +2

      @@PTSDeeD212 lmao!!! I love you for that!! 💀😭 🎈

  • @Hyzlysworld
    @Hyzlysworld 2 года назад +191

    This is exactly why I love being childless and single because I’ll be all the way damned if I’m treated like this by someone I love. Although Erica has had her moments in the past, I actually feel really bad for her

    • @bibetkoy2789
      @bibetkoy2789 Год назад +2

      Facts

    • @hotsnatchfever
      @hotsnatchfever Год назад

      Lmaoooooo y’all think this is a good flex and it’s not. Your entire purpose as a human being is to procreate.

    • @alexisvargas3184
      @alexisvargas3184 10 месяцев назад

      🫶🏽

    • @EB-gt1pq
      @EB-gt1pq 10 месяцев назад

      Get back to us when you’re old and lonely with no kids or grandkids

  • @everythingdana9322
    @everythingdana9322 2 года назад +61

    No matter what people say about Erica, she truly love her kids.

    • @mep2737
      @mep2737 Год назад +5

      Lol, you do know she has a whole teenager right? And never talks about her

    • @haleighsmith3455
      @haleighsmith3455 9 месяцев назад

      @@mep2737I don’t think she has custody of him

    • @nicoleotukoya
      @nicoleotukoya 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@haleighsmith3455she does have custody of him, he lives with her. She said that her son doesn’t like to be in the limelight hence she’s respecting his wishes

    • @haleighsmith3455
      @haleighsmith3455 9 месяцев назад

      @@nicoleotukoya when she was on the show he definitely wasn’t living with her that’s why she got triggered when Spice said “go take care of your son “

    • @KanyeBreast4
      @KanyeBreast4 2 месяца назад

      She loves her kids? That's why she didn't raise her first kid, and was never there for him

  • @GreenGeeky
    @GreenGeeky 2 года назад +697

    My husband did nothing BUT make sure I was stress free when I was pregnant. This is so sinister, that’s YOUR baby bro.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 2 года назад +12

      Exactly

    • @deemamcdonald8758
      @deemamcdonald8758 2 года назад +18

      That's beautiful 😍

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 года назад +8

      You’re so lucky girlie 💕😭

    • @shordy77
      @shordy77 2 года назад

      Did u not see the reaction when she told him she was breed 👀…. Talkin bout that’s your baby 😂

    • @jessicachanae9977
      @jessicachanae9977 2 года назад +3

      He doesn't want the baby so whatever the outcome is, he's fine with that.

  • @lilanthony21O_
    @lilanthony21O_ 2 года назад +1781

    Way back Safaree was like the funny guy. And now he's bad and disrespectful

    • @ShaewithChrist
      @ShaewithChrist 2 года назад +16

      Ya before he had kids

    • @dahooper1
      @dahooper1 2 года назад +40

      He always been disrespectful

    • @highlyblessed2389
      @highlyblessed2389 2 года назад +43

      He's that way from Day 1 but it was just hidden, we just didn't see it....what does the saying say? Wolf in sheep clothes

    • @Obeox
      @Obeox 2 года назад +10

      He has always been like that. You guys were just to aroused by him to see it !

    • @donttrip2579
      @donttrip2579 2 года назад +7

      No literally ! I liked Safaree for a hot second

  • @bettyluna1240
    @bettyluna1240 2 года назад +32

    This storyline has been difficult to watch. My heart breaks for Erica no one deserves this type of pain. Safaree is a CHILD.

  • @isaywhatiwantjacksonjackso3940
    @isaywhatiwantjacksonjackso3940 2 года назад +10

    IT GOES BACK TO THAT SAYING WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM.

  • @nye8349
    @nye8349 2 года назад +2208

    I feel sorry for her, Safaree does not care about her or their child. She needs to leave him otherwise he’ll just continue hurting her.

    • @Jessica-li2ib
      @Jessica-li2ib 2 года назад +25

      Their back together tho😭 she didn’t learn the lesson

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 2 года назад +26

      @@Jessica-li2ib omfg are you serious?! She's trying so hard to keep the family together, in this case based on how he treats them and his disregard for them, it's not even worth it

    • @SpIcYMoReNa
      @SpIcYMoReNa 2 года назад +10

      @@DarthFurie Exactly! She will only continue to hurt herself. & she went back to him just to break her own 💔 this time! That’s going to hurt more than anything.

    • @Jessica-li2ib
      @Jessica-li2ib 2 года назад +2

      @@DarthFurie I wish I was lying 😩 I saw it yesterday

    • @jazminbendaw5701
      @jazminbendaw5701 2 года назад

      Facts....tell em

  • @asiaadelane3427
    @asiaadelane3427 2 года назад +1295

    I don’t wish this pain on anyone. Going through a pregnancy alone is NOT for the weak. Oneday, she’ll come out on top stronger then ever❤️

    • @sagittariusoracle4722
      @sagittariusoracle4722 2 года назад +26

      Going through pregnancy alone was my worst experience I ain't perfect and nor is mena I/we didn't deserve this isolation I know her pain and still feel it 8 years on my baby girl is now 8....💔

    • @msroseannab
      @msroseannab 2 года назад +10

      I definitely agree but it definitely will make her stronger I shedded a tear because that scene hit home for me , except I went through my entire pregnancy alone not even seeing the father so I feel her .

    • @user-rc1fc2oq2c
      @user-rc1fc2oq2c 2 года назад

      💪

    • @soundlysouth2962
      @soundlysouth2962 2 года назад +1

      Wellll, maybe she shouldnt have filed for divorce yet 🤷‍♂️

    • @kemjoseph2583
      @kemjoseph2583 2 года назад +5

      U better say that again ,you hv to be strong mentally to survive that kindda pain

  • @shayvlogs360
    @shayvlogs360 Год назад +5

    “I don’t want to keep fighting for someone when they won’t fight for me” 😢 that hit home to me 💔💔💔

  • @cdannio
    @cdannio 2 года назад +53

    I know exactly how she feels. My husband did me the same way when I was pregnant. It seemed like he was trying to make me miscarry by putting so much stress on me.

    • @TTHeavensent
      @TTHeavensent 2 года назад +3

      I’m sorry that happened to you. ❤️

    • @KC-nm7mf
      @KC-nm7mf 2 года назад +7

      Who raises these men? I hear of this too often and it’s one of the reasons I refuse to get pregnant, it’s scary how fast men switch up… I’m glad you’re out of that horrible experience and can move on from it

  • @anonymousunknown3462
    @anonymousunknown3462 2 года назад +838

    Safari son is going to give him a hell of a hard time. He won't stand for his mother being disrespected

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 года назад +41

      I loves that about having Sons

    • @QueenOfKings0402
      @QueenOfKings0402 2 года назад +58

      Babies can feel pain from inside he will hate his father because Erica hated Safree during the pregnancy

    • @itylove02091
      @itylove02091 2 года назад +23

      @@QueenOfKings0402 so true! I experienced this with my last child it took her almost 2 yrs to show daddy love.

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 года назад +15

      @@QueenOfKings0402 Yep! My son barely wants anything to do with his dad. I try to get him to be closer to him but it doesn’t always work..

    • @HelloHi-zh7pc
      @HelloHi-zh7pc 2 года назад +7

      Shoot my daughter doesn't like her dad for how he has treated me and she is only 2.

  • @mrsoreggio.illustrates
    @mrsoreggio.illustrates 2 года назад +802

    He doesn't care about Erica. He is always saying it with his actions. He's waiting for her to leave him.

    • @byrddii3516
      @byrddii3516 2 года назад +16

      Exactly & he claims he is acting that way because she filed for divorce but what else is she supposed to do

    • @shrondasmith7544
      @shrondasmith7544 2 года назад +8

      I feel so bad for Erica this is wrong on so many levels. What goes around comes around Safaree he will definitely need Erica at some point and time..

    • @soundlysouth2962
      @soundlysouth2962 2 года назад +6

      @@byrddii3516 ... ummm, NOT FILE for divorce lol ... The victim mentality kills me... the man was against the wall in a club, dancing. NOT the best look .... immature, yes... but she knew the life she was marrying into. Clearly, she went INTO the marriage, wanting him to change.... her 'happiness' actually contingent on him 'changing' ... that will never work. Now, MORE children ....being raised in ANOTHER broken home. 🤦‍♂️

    • @byrddii3516
      @byrddii3516 2 года назад +13

      @@soundlysouth2962 you sound like a man who would help your married friends cheat then turn around & call the wife your sis🙄 anywho it doesn't matter who he was before they got married he took vows he wanted kids he wanted to be married he's a clown who gets on a flight to Miami while your wife is in the hospital pregnant & your son in the nicu fighting for his life sounds to me like he don't want the family he already has broken & you sit there tryna make excuses why he was dancing on a female like that with no wedding ring if your saying all he did was dance on a chick then I know your the type to help your friends cheat he waited until he got married to cheat & his family is broken because he allowed it to be🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Crystal_Nicole
      @Crystal_Nicole 2 года назад +3

      @@byrddii3516 he’s actually right though, Erica did go into this hoping he would change his ways with the marriage and kids, she forgot to factor in the part that YOU CANT CHANGE A MAN! Just because a man says he wants marriage and kids does not means he’s ready for all the responsibility those things bring. She saw who he was before they got married, after they got married , after the first kid and she still got pregnant AGAIN by someone who she already knew wasn’t really ready or prepared for that life. She keeps going hoping that a new baby, negative social media attention etc will make him change and want to be who she wants him to be and that’s just not him. He still has a lot of growing to do and so does Erica and it is not ok to keep bringing children into such dysfunction. I’d rather be having kids with the one I know is going to be there for me through thick and thin not walking away every time an argument doesn’t go his way. At some point she has to realize she’s the only adult in that situation and it’s time to walk away, it’s not easy raising a man child who basically wants a mother as a wife.

  • @annazikopoulos2668
    @annazikopoulos2668 2 года назад +16

    We have all watched Erica grow up to become such a beautiful strong woman mom. She doesn’t deserve this at all. She can do so much better on her own. She is too sweet and to pretty inside and out to be treated this way. I wish her and her kids well. 💕

  • @mariapace6626
    @mariapace6626 2 года назад +46

    Beginning to see why Nicki never married him & gave him kids. He has a lot of growing up to do. It's like raising three with 1 on the way.... that sucks. Stay strong E, you got this!! #TeamMommaMena

  • @iheartnina_
    @iheartnina_ 2 года назад +558

    “ and I don’t wanna keep fighting for someone who doesn’t wanna fight for me” those words hit so deep :(

  • @FlyBoiQ1
    @FlyBoiQ1 2 года назад +337

    It’s crazy how she didn’t want to deal with him in the beginning and kept dubbing him but he just kept pursuing her

    • @yachatonlinetv7526
      @yachatonlinetv7526 2 года назад +3

      I remember

    • @marissabrathwaite5271
      @marissabrathwaite5271 2 года назад +86

      It's called grooming... Then he love bombed her.... look up narcissist

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 года назад +10

      @@marissabrathwaite5271 Bingo ❗️

    • @kendraseer5198
      @kendraseer5198 2 года назад +25

      Should've kept listening to her intuition

    • @ladellthomas3899
      @ladellthomas3899 2 года назад +39

      She was his quest to conquer. Once he succeeded it was no longer fun and he lost interest in which marriage and babies should not have been on the list! SAD

  • @soniarican6275
    @soniarican6275 2 года назад +33

    The truth is he is Not inlove with Erica and he doesn’t care, he’s going to continue hurting her until she finally says she’s done , he doesn’t want to be the first to say it unfortunately, and it’s sad that she’s going through this but she needs to realize her worth and what is best for her children , she can’t continue to allow this so called man to keep hurting her .

  • @Nae9211
    @Nae9211 Год назад +17

    My heart absolutely breaks for Erica…😢😢😢😢

  • @shavelanglin8738
    @shavelanglin8738 2 года назад +152

    To think he was the one chasing her🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jazzy5410
      @jazzy5410 2 года назад +36

      RIGHT? And now that he got what he wanted and more, he’s treating her like shit??? 🤨🙄💀

    • @OMGRaquelLee
      @OMGRaquelLee 2 года назад +10

      I always say this. This scares me because he really was running her down and is doing this.

    • @BlaqBerrimuzic
      @BlaqBerrimuzic 2 года назад +8

      It always be the ones who to begs to be with you that disappoints you the most

  • @nine8279
    @nine8279 2 года назад +672

    I dont think he turned in to anything i just think That this are his True colors. It’s just sad because his kids are going to watch this someday.

    • @theebonyshow5536
      @theebonyshow5536 2 года назад +5

      EXACTLY

    • @nicolekinman4753
      @nicolekinman4753 2 года назад +11

      Unfortunately true facts, and more Unfortunately he chased her down to be with him and than he shows her how he really, after the fact 😢

    • @lady_bex
      @lady_bex 2 года назад +1

      That part 🥺

    • @KW-hy6go
      @KW-hy6go 2 года назад +2

      Yeh true some of the most charming people you meet are like this when you spend every day with them or get to know them.

    • @kkw-pal1178
      @kkw-pal1178 2 года назад

      I agree

  • @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE
    @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE 2 года назад +3

    My man treated me like a queen when I was pregnant with my first and now he treats me again like a queen now im pregnant with our second ❤

  • @jordanmichelle9042
    @jordanmichelle9042 2 года назад +14

    Erica has matured so much throughout the years. I am so proud of her for standing her ground and not letting someone walk all over her like a doormat. My heart goes out to her and their beautiful family. No woman should have to take on a pregnancy alone.

  • @youmaydisagreebut848
    @youmaydisagreebut848 2 года назад +465

    Safaree was well liked before because his own actions weren't highlighted within this franchise

  • @lahhhjaii7727
    @lahhhjaii7727 2 года назад +567

    I see why Nicki treated him like shit he has a child’s mindset

    • @brianna-nw2zx
      @brianna-nw2zx 2 года назад +3

      wait which nicki?? nikki baby or.. nicki minaj.

    • @Loving.beautifulskies
      @Loving.beautifulskies 2 года назад +10

      @@brianna-nw2zx minaj

    • @cynthiaelliott7277
      @cynthiaelliott7277 2 года назад +1

      Erica is the industry why don't she use her top places to turn around her situation fast get over his bullshit move on Erica never cry about a person like that lame man get your shit together for you and your kids please do .are sense to let him go and you stand strong by yourself divorce him now you have so much help ok please take advantage of it now before it's to late ok please

    • @kaelynedwards3833
      @kaelynedwards3833 2 года назад +5

      @@brianna-nw2zx both tbh

    • @asiafairure3818
      @asiafairure3818 2 года назад +5

      Nicki is kind of a child herself lol I think it’s New Yorkers 😭😂

  • @bianilibeauty6022
    @bianilibeauty6022 2 года назад +23

    I feel so bad for Erica. She seems like such a great mum and wife.

  • @bellacreole6488
    @bellacreole6488 2 года назад +2

    Seeing her baby bring that balloon to her like here mommy it’s ok. That is just too touching. Kids feel when their parents aren’t the best

  • @daenerysstormbornofhouseta9185
    @daenerysstormbornofhouseta9185 2 года назад +738

    I think safaree intentionally stressed her out so she could lose her baby. He didn’t want another one. He doesnt even want his first. He’s a disgusting excuse of a human being.

    • @dinalopes2205
      @dinalopes2205 2 года назад +47

      I totally agree

    • @Shay416
      @Shay416 2 года назад +71

      😳 Wow that never crossed my mind.

    • @candylentz4811
      @candylentz4811 2 года назад +4

      No stop

    • @candylentz4811
      @candylentz4811 2 года назад +7

      That's very harsh of you.

    • @ShhDontWatchThat
      @ShhDontWatchThat 2 года назад +89

      @@candylentz4811 that’s very harsh of HIM to treat his pregnant wife like that

  • @vivian318
    @vivian318 2 года назад +77

    Man she looks so sad, he took her entire identity. True narcissist

    • @Chunlialways
      @Chunlialways 2 года назад +4

      Werd she was so full of life and actually cool and full of personality before him! Now this girl is just another sad Cinderella man cheating typical story.

  • @vsaleo
    @vsaleo 2 года назад +13

    Safaree seems like he has a child-like mentality. He is still living in his late teen years and don't wanna grow-up.

  • @jammijam_
    @jammijam_ 2 года назад +4

    I’m pregnant, and I can’t imagine my husband treating me this way. I don’t wish this disrespect and pain on no woman.

    • @jackrabbit0
      @jackrabbit0 2 года назад +1

      Congratulations momma

    • @jammijam_
      @jammijam_ 2 года назад

      @@jackrabbit0 awww thank yu

  • @heyitsbrya2749
    @heyitsbrya2749 2 года назад +567

    Erica has changed so very much 🥰 prayers for her.

    • @Brittany-ne2gy
      @Brittany-ne2gy 2 года назад +13

      Karma. Humbled.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 2 года назад +36

      @@Brittany-ne2gy her karma is one thing, but innocent children are suffering and a baby was in NICU. That's too much

    • @jeanandre6998
      @jeanandre6998 2 года назад +3

      Pain and being a provider will do that for you

    • @heyitsbrya2749
      @heyitsbrya2749 2 года назад +1

      @@jeanandre6998 I recognize from experience. It's sad.

    • @heyitsbrya2749
      @heyitsbrya2749 2 года назад +2

      @@DarthFurie I agree that's far from karma

  • @sabby6237
    @sabby6237 2 года назад +270

    He’s showing he will always put himself above anyone and anything (including his children) no doubt Erica is no angel we have seen her through the years with her anger. But she nvr hide it Safari didn’t show the true him until now. Which goes to show us ALL to be careful take our time getting to know our partners, because it may take more then a few months for the real person to come out. But when that real person comes out BELIEVE IT, don’t make excuses!!

    • @toyalewis3045
      @toyalewis3045 2 года назад +4

      But erica did a 180 when she got with safaree

  • @richardsdee7184
    @richardsdee7184 2 года назад +5

    She has changed so much. And she showing her strength rn smh

  • @sarahchin3897
    @sarahchin3897 2 года назад +3

    baby girl! YOUR A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMEN! FOCUS ON YOU AND YOUR BABY ❤ it's okay to cry but don't be stressing out boo. i know you love him but that's not a good environment your living in. you need to give each other space. this is too toxic 💯 i feel you erica 🥺😭 YOUR SUCH A GOOD MOM. REMEMBER THAT. PERIOD. everything's gonna be alright!! GOD GOT YOU 🙏

  • @aarushkumar7052
    @aarushkumar7052 2 года назад +800

    It’s hard for Erica. Her older son is a special needs child and he’s in his teens. She’s always been the sole caretaker for him.
    Between that, a baby and an ongoing pregnancy, it’s not easy.
    It’s nice to see the sisterhood rallying for her. Her friend, Bambi and Sierra.
    Hope she’s doing better now because her baby was in the ICU for a while after birth.

    • @MB3lls
      @MB3lls 2 года назад +63

      I don’t recall her older son being special needs. He appeared to be a typical pre teen prior

    • @toobcontinued1965
      @toobcontinued1965 2 года назад +110

      @@MB3lls special needs don’t have a “look,” but I’ve never heard/read he was special needs.

    • @shaudajohnson4356
      @shaudajohnson4356 2 года назад +38

      I don’t recall her ever saying her son is special needs

    • @chalonda6980
      @chalonda6980 2 года назад +18

      no her mom had her son for years

    • @tracychambers2358
      @tracychambers2358 2 года назад +23

      Never heard of that special needs part

  • @valenciaprime9640
    @valenciaprime9640 2 года назад +172

    Safaree was on a competition show with Erica begging for her to be with him and doing everything he can to get her all just to treat her like trash, Eric is such a strong woman and she's grown so much since she first came on LHH and I feel bad she's going through this.

    • @proudblackwoman4824
      @proudblackwoman4824 2 года назад +3

      This is the pathology of most black men. They will fight to get with non-black women and then once they get them, the real niggas shows up. They treat them even worse than they treat black women. It's all about the catch for them. Pure narcissists. I don't feel sorry for her though, because she made comments in the past about how black men "cater" to latino women. Yeeeeeeaaaaaaaa, sure they do. Be careful what you say.

    • @altheahinds7131
      @altheahinds7131 2 года назад

      Nar

    • @valenciaprime9640
      @valenciaprime9640 2 года назад +5

      @@proudblackwoman4824 that's the past sis y'all kill me trying to use something someone said years ago against them as a woman you should be able to sympathize with her situation they had someone break into their home while his black ass was out partying somewhere what if that man attacked her and the baby while he was gone he flat out told her he will always put himself before her, he's disrespected her on so many occasions and so much more but no you wanna say some shit like that which is basically you pacifying his shitty behavior he's a man and shes his pregnant wife no woman should ever go through something like this during her pregnancy.

    • @tarathemama751
      @tarathemama751 2 года назад +2

      @@valenciaprime9640 now the whole break in they house was ALL FOR TV but i agree with you he shouldnt treat her this way whomever she is white balck asian latina NO WOMAN

    • @valenciaprime9640
      @valenciaprime9640 2 года назад

      @@tarathemama751 period

  • @simsimasgaming
    @simsimasgaming 2 года назад +14

    The greatest parents have the most love for their kids, and themselves last. Go Erica!

  • @GetUaButtercup
    @GetUaButtercup 2 года назад +4

    I’m sorryyy Erica 😞, I wish this pain on no woman.. god bless you baby girl the days will become easier ❤️

  • @kaybee9071
    @kaybee9071 2 года назад +200

    I feel bad that she went through this and is currently going through it. I know they filmed this a while back but she’s still hurting and hopefully healing.

  • @Yaann0114
    @Yaann0114 2 года назад +208

    Mommies are the real life heroes I swear !!!! Keep it pushing and don’t look back!!! Nicki sure dodged them bullets chilllleeeeee

    • @jeanandre6998
      @jeanandre6998 2 года назад

      Girl I respect Nicki so much now because she was right!

    • @annaroberts3160
      @annaroberts3160 2 года назад

      Hero is such a whored out word these days. Moms are not heroes. Real heroes are always a hero by mistake.

    • @idek9822
      @idek9822 2 года назад +1

      @@annaroberts3160 lord certain moms are heroes. It’s hard being a GOOD mom.

  • @mcwarhol17
    @mcwarhol17 2 года назад +6

    Love and Hip Hop has really been Erica’s show, we have seen her grow so much and become a mother. Say what you want sis has grown !

  • @jessicaaguirre2286
    @jessicaaguirre2286 2 года назад +5

    She is so beautiful without makeup! Bambi is a type of friend you'd be blessed to have and Erika as well. Her baby girls godmother is a blessing to take care of her goddaughter. Erika's daughter feeling her mamas sadness and wanting to put a smile on her face is beautiful and a testament to how Erika is hands on with her children. I love and respect how she parents and hustles.

  • @ladybughall40
    @ladybughall40 2 года назад +97

    No one deserves this hurt PERIOD especially being pregnant 💯💯💯pregnancy alone is enough stress for a man to add to it I think it’s unforgivable simple 💯💯

    • @Kittz1301
      @Kittz1301 2 года назад +4

      "I'd rather suffer like this by myself." That line cut deep!!

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 года назад +4

      It definitely is unforgivable. 💯 but then people want to call the woman bitter..always 💔

  • @Wednesdayschild1325
    @Wednesdayschild1325 2 года назад +48

    Put him on child support an keep it moving 💯 ✌🏾

    • @veebabie1227
      @veebabie1227 2 года назад

      I feel like there’s more to the story because she would have been did that! DIVORCE him if it’s soooo bad!

    • @preacher_chick
      @preacher_chick 2 года назад

      @@veebabie1227 Soul Ties are strong ties that bind (like marriage & children) , there are plenty of women who have done the exact same thing, carrying a man’s baby or in her case babies can cause such an emotional bond that you convince yourself of things because you want a family. She needs the strength to move on and she may be a single parent based on his behavior.

  • @christidior7773
    @christidior7773 2 года назад +6

    Erica is such an amazing person and she brought a new life to the world ❤️!! Such a blessing!!

  • @brainblastmemes
    @brainblastmemes 2 года назад +3

    The “ayo, its safaree. STRIPP” at the end was funnt

  • @amyr9230
    @amyr9230 2 года назад +120

    I’ve never cared for Erica at all. The way she treated people and her attitude really made me dislike her. However, NO woman deserves to deal with this especially when pregnant. Blows me that Safaree literally confessed his love to her, wanted to be with her, got married, etc. Then once she bares his children, he no longer gives af about her. I was cheated on when pregnant and it hurt a lot more. Fortunately I’m not famous so I didn’t have it plastered all over for everyone to see and criticize like Erica which I’m sure is worse for her. The way you treat a woman when she’s carrying your child speaks volumes. After giving birth in 2019, I realized how incredibly hard it is and the toll it takes on you mentally, physically and emotionally. Safaree did what he had to do to get her now he’s not doing what he’s supposed to do to keep her. She should’ve stayed with Cyn that seemed like the only person who truly loved her and worshipped the ground she walked on. I pray for Ericas sanity.

    • @lovelywilson2112
      @lovelywilson2112 2 года назад +1

      Girl bye she’s not even crying

    • @kkw-pal1178
      @kkw-pal1178 2 года назад

      She treats Cyn like garbage. Don't like Erica, but praying for her baby.

  • @lolla-dolphin.
    @lolla-dolphin. 2 года назад +61

    she really does not deserve him, how he treats a pregnant woman so he lived shamefully, wait until his child grows up and knows. what a terrible father he is.

  • @googoogummy7331
    @googoogummy7331 2 года назад +2

    I Love seeing how strong she is evening through the tear’s God Bless keep going and pushing through your a amazing Mother to your children and friend a hard worker and person and Business Women the Love you have for your children is priceless you got this for sure.🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

  • @Moonrose.b
    @Moonrose.b 2 года назад +5

    No woman, but especially no pregnant woman ESPECIALLY in her 3rd tri. deserves this type of stress & heart break. So much love to Erica even though she is a lot stronger since these events. Much love to all pregnant women & new moms dealing with heartbreak in the middle of what’s supposed to be their biggest blessing & happiest time in life.

  • @a.d.morton4624
    @a.d.morton4624 2 года назад +144

    Erika, I know it hurts because you were deceived BUT MaMa; it literally AIN’T YOU! The majority of people in this world ARE NOT who they present themselves to be! Cry when you need to but knuckle up! Safaree ain’t worth losing a child or stressing yourself into dis-ease. #REALTALK

    • @DMW111090
      @DMW111090 2 года назад +5

      @Wilma Turks your really upset over a word…the message was positive …why even bring negativity

    • @a.d.morton4624
      @a.d.morton4624 2 года назад +2

      @Wilma Turks ignorant 😄 the only ignorant ones here are you & the 4 trolls that likes your comment.
      Gurl Bye, I must have disrupted your evil. You and the lollipop guild, can exit stage left 👋🏾👋🏾 BLOCKED

  • @old_redlk3319
    @old_redlk3319 2 года назад +25

    In my opinion, many of these women focus on the wrong things when it comes to relationships. A man will not magically change because he's married. You have to consider his past to see who he really is and not who he is pretending to be. Having kids will not change a man.

  • @carlettapittman5470
    @carlettapittman5470 2 года назад +1

    Keep your head up ! It's gets better as time goes by ! Good mother u are

  • @dons5808
    @dons5808 3 месяца назад +2

    The diff angles of Safaree walking into the hospital lmfaooooooooooooooooooooo

  • @Sarah-fq5mu
    @Sarah-fq5mu 2 года назад +87

    I feel for Erica and I can totally relate and empathize I jsut found out my husband of 15 years was having an affair and I found a lump on my neck in the same week...and the pain of your significant other not being there for you is devastating it's isolating its depressing it feels terrible. Wish we could chit chat Erica. 😢

    • @myrafarquharson5751
      @myrafarquharson5751 2 года назад +12

      So sorry to hear about your hurt. I hope you get the healing that you need... also if affordable seek to get some therapy for your emotional stress. I'll keep you in my prayers 🙏 ❤

    • @Sarah-fq5mu
      @Sarah-fq5mu 2 года назад +8

      @@myrafarquharson5751 Wow thank you I wasn't expecting any sort of response...let alone one that thoughtful. I truly appreciate it. 💙

    • @breyonaparker
      @breyonaparker 2 года назад +6

      I pray your journey gets brighter and your story changes! No one deserves to feel abandoned and alone! I pray your depressed moments become joyful moments! And your pain just simply goes away!

    • @shrondasmith7544
      @shrondasmith7544 2 года назад +5

      Prayers that everything gets better for you in Jesus name...

    • @soumayahassan5040
      @soumayahassan5040 2 года назад +4

      Be strong!!! Sending you
      Prayers and love❤️

  • @KindTiffany
    @KindTiffany 2 года назад +81

    Karyn White's song "I'd Rather Be Alone" comes to mind every time I see an Erika and Safaree scene this season. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @JAYKAVON885
      @JAYKAVON885 2 года назад +3

      Differently in this world because these men don't understand nothing

  • @ashkayy8157
    @ashkayy8157 2 года назад +4

    Be strong Erica no matter what she did in past she doesn’t deserve this but learn from your hurt 😢 go please be with her 💙🙏🏾

  • @damngina6596
    @damngina6596 2 года назад +5

    Words can not even explain how bad this hurts me to my soul to see her hurting so deeply the way she is especially during her pregnancy...I have ALWAYS been a fan of his and always thought he was just cool laid back dude..NEVER did I see him acting so disrespectful and DISGUSTING towards his WIFE. s Shame on him and I pray for Erica to heal, stay humble, and progress in the most highest ways imaginable. I guess I feel for her so much because I went through the same thing. I'm so sorry mami that you have to endure so much pain but like my mother always told me "THIS TOO SHALL PASS" . And it truly will...he will wake up but it will be way to late and you will be on top of your game and not even worried about his selfish ass any more. Love and prayers to you.

  • @DOUBLEJOE850
    @DOUBLEJOE850 2 года назад +57

    Where’s the Safaree who got into blows with Rich Dollaz and Joe Budden a few years ago?

    • @adarkdiamond
      @adarkdiamond 2 года назад +5

      He was a creation. Dudes like Safaree go hard early on. It's new, exciting, fun, real life issues don't really creep in yet so they are ride or die for their girl at that point. Then they've got her, the long term serious talk becomes real, the responsibility of building a life and family becomes real and the realization that the shit is not easy, not pretty, not always fun turns these man children into destructive tornados. Been Erica while pregnant as well, it really does wear at your soul trying to get thru it.

  • @dr.withoutthedegree3990
    @dr.withoutthedegree3990 2 года назад +196

    I wonder if this is why Nicki Minaj left him 🤔🤡 Idk if erica just had her rose filtered sunglasses on while first dating him or he took a complete 180. A lot of dudes seem to be able to do that unremorseful

    • @justfornowforever418
      @justfornowforever418 2 года назад +20

      Then she had the nerve to bash nicki publicly.

    • @rheajoeyce3481
      @rheajoeyce3481 2 года назад +2

      Narcissist

    • @KKHollywood85
      @KKHollywood85 2 года назад +1

      @@justfornowforever418 this part!

    • @blossomblitz2071
      @blossomblitz2071 2 года назад

      Nicki was insane and maybe she made him into this dude. He put his all into her and she left him for a dude he introduced her to so yea I think he never let what Nicki did to him go. Her and the other Nikki so now he's being a jerk. It's not ok tho. You should be the difference you seek.

    • @safiya970
      @safiya970 2 года назад +6

      @@blossomblitz2071 She absolutely did not turn him into this person. He has ALWAYS been immature.

  • @lupehh_08
    @lupehh_08 2 года назад +3

    I honestly can relate to her I was alone my whole pregnancy but I'm a strong mom for all this years 🤧❤️

  • @Thesashagomez
    @Thesashagomez 2 года назад +4

    This breaks my heart nobody deserves heartbreak

  • @Nyreealexanderr
    @Nyreealexanderr 2 года назад +39

    I really hope one day Erica get the love she deserves ❤️

    • @blossomm29
      @blossomm29 6 месяцев назад

      not after what she did to cyn,

  • @iPrettiiBabiiGurlii
    @iPrettiiBabiiGurlii 2 года назад +17

    Such a beautiful heart from her and it’s sad to see her go through this 😔. No one deserves this pain.

  • @2toosexE
    @2toosexE Год назад +2

    A mother's mental health is so important when she's pregnant for the sake of a healthy baby. I hope the baby is affected by this. God bless them.

  • @diamondbetterson8434
    @diamondbetterson8434 2 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry you’re having an endure this, I’ll keep you in my prayers stay strong mama♥️

  • @sunseraievans1996
    @sunseraievans1996 2 года назад +10

    So erica why you telling us this then turn around and say im married leave my husband alone this shit comically

  • @shakirterry8710
    @shakirterry8710 2 года назад +29

    safaree is such an embarassment, you are so strong erica❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mabimolepo3545
    @mabimolepo3545 2 года назад +1

    “I don’t want to keep fighting for someone who won’t fight for me”💔

  • @countrygirlxo7188
    @countrygirlxo7188 9 месяцев назад +2

    I’ve been with my husband for 13 years. And trust me when I say he’s put me through some hell and I’ve done the same to him. However if he was never there for me while giving birth to our 3 sons, I could never forgive him. Women can literally die from giving birth to the child YOU wanted so badly. And to not show any appreciation for the 9 months of suffering she had to endure, and now experiencing the most pain in her life. And you just don’t care. That’s trauma I don’t think anyone can forgive. Giving birth is the most vulnerable, painful, life and death experience you will go through as a woman. And while your going though it all you care about is your baby, not about yourself and how you might bleed out. You’re literally dying while bringing life into the world and the man your doing this for, isn’t even by your side appreciating any of it. 😢

  • @ericaa4720
    @ericaa4720 2 года назад +40

    So was Safaree not there to bring her home from the hospital? I'm praying for Erica and her children

    • @anonymousunknown3462
      @anonymousunknown3462 2 года назад +6

      No he wasn't there. He never called to check in to see if she was ok. Had he called he would have found out she was hospitalized.

    • @ericaa4720
      @ericaa4720 2 года назад +2

      @@anonymousunknown3462 that's very sad!

  • @tariokpoye2245
    @tariokpoye2245 2 года назад +13

    I was just crying when she was crying 😭😭😭😭 no one deserves this

  • @maddyjohnson7476
    @maddyjohnson7476 2 года назад +2

    She is such a strong woman and a great mother I feel so bad for her ❤️

  • @queenvee9729
    @queenvee9729 2 года назад +2

    You can't force someone to love you .. just walk away for your self respect and self love

  • @avril7475
    @avril7475 2 года назад +12

    Baby go he will realize that he lost the sun while he was counting the stars.

  • @NissiEduardo
    @NissiEduardo 2 года назад +30

    He doesn’t know the purpose of having a wife, kids nor respect. He is a grown as man not even stuck into a younger age’s mind but into this selfish spirit cause even young kids nowadays don’t have the mentality that he has. It sucks

  • @lakeshiaball1609
    @lakeshiaball1609 2 года назад +5

    Erika has really changed everybody looking at how she use to be and act she doesn’t deserve to be treated like this she deserves better ❤️God bless her and them beautiful 👶🏾 👶🏾babies❤️

  • @evelynjohnson6343
    @evelynjohnson6343 2 года назад

    She made me cry 😢🙏💕

  • @nataliesammylovetalbert3759
    @nataliesammylovetalbert3759 2 года назад +17

    He didn't listen to anything his mother said to him. He will learn the hard way. God is with you Erica and your beautiful children 🙏🙏🙏🙏. No stress it will all work out for the better keep your faith and put it in God's Hands 🙏🙏🙏Be Blessed and Safe 💝🙏

  • @tonyafannings9602
    @tonyafannings9602 2 года назад +81

    I send my prayers to you

  • @shaylawashington7700
    @shaylawashington7700 2 года назад +7

    Safire is such a precious little girl, she loves her mommy 💞, I know personally how it is to be pregnant, one baby already, stressing and the dad is a straight clown

  • @itsjackiec
    @itsjackiec 2 года назад +2

    For a married man he is beyond disrespectful and disgusting. Seemed he loved the idea of marriage more than actually knowing what it takes to be married.

  • @Lovediamondz07
    @Lovediamondz07 2 года назад +35

    She’s right you should never have to ask! At this point this is ridiculous and she doesn’t deserve that.

  • @Niniofficialbeauty
    @Niniofficialbeauty 2 года назад +5

    When someone shows u who they are. Believe them. The FIRST time

  • @kmelli618
    @kmelli618 2 года назад

    awww she was so happy to see mommy🥺🥺

  • @thepinkonesoterrify623
    @thepinkonesoterrify623 Год назад +7

    my heart breaks for her