I had to pause and said the same shit!!! Like oh no he’s too narcissistic to be in a committed relationship where he wouldn’t be the focus bc kids are involved.
I can’t believe that man chased her down just to treat her no better than a stranger on the street. You took a woman whose guard was up, give her hope that you would treat her different just to be the WORST significant other she’s had.
He treated her worse than a stranger. I don't even treat strangers like this nor do most people just dog others out simply because they don't know them. Safaree is a pathetic man
I feel like he liked the idea of being married having children ect but then realized it's a lot of hard work,I really feel for Erica like you say he chased her down made her promises and then let her down,in the last scene you can see she is absolutely heart broken were as he looks like he couldn't give two FFs!
Isn't it CRAZY how she told him that she was afraid of ending up a single mother and cheated on and this is EXACTLY what he ended up doing to her? She unknowingly predicted her own downfall.
This timeline is a perfect example of what narcissistic abuse is. It contains everything... hoovering, gaslighting, deflecting, love avoid/neglect, social humiliation, manipulation, blame shifting, minimizing, and back to hoovering
You forgot the love bombing! Safaree laid the love on super thick in the beginning, even had the proposal with fireworks....funny thing is, I was even fooled too because on the outside Safaree was a sweet goofy guy! SMH
Literally just left a relationship like this. This man chased me for almost 7 years. He was so perfect the first year then year 2 his mask fell off and he was everything he claimed not to be.
Did Erica not do a ton of toxic things to Cyn and Rich? Y’all act like this woman is innocent or some kind of saint. I’m not condoning Safaree’s behavior but karma is a bitch and she never misses when she strikes. Careful how you treat people because the energy you put out will always come back to you. Sometimes it comes back worse!
@@msladylibra8373 Literally. It’s funny coz this was the first quote I screenshot and it’s on my phone. “The biggest coward is a man who awakens a women’s love with no intention of loving her.” - by Bob Marley
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
God, my ex practically BEGGED me to be with him! I told him I was focusing on bettering myself and just taking care of me and I didn't want to mess that up and he was A SAINT courting me and I decided to stop being so afraid of relationships and give him a chance. The very next day after we made it official he started acting like a total prick and when I broke it off two months later he had the nerve to beg me to come back to him! Bro......I just dodged a NUKE! NO WAY IN HELL AM I COMING BACK!
I know Erica isn’t the best person at all but she truly got played in her marriage. She was all in it and wanted to love this man but he did a 180 on her and left her high and dry. I wouldn’t wish that on any woman. I’m sorry she had to go there that.
She got what she gave Cyn, karma is a real thing, even when she was with Safaree she still kept bullying Cyn on fake pages, till this day she "hates" Cyn, just because people felt bad for her. She should've seen the red flag when he didn't want to "lose everything if he cheats"
@@681m4m cyn wasn’t innocent she’s the same one who was saying black men treat Latinas better but was crying cuz she felt like her black man didn’t gaf about her 😭what a joke
@@681m4m cyn was messing with someone while she was with Erica . Watch lhhny again. Erica called her out on it when cyn showed up at her photo shoot after they broke up
I honestly don’t feel bad for her she did Cyn dirty when she went for bow wow and that failed you get what you give and she got her karma like kourtney getting hers with tristen
She looked so happy when they first got together. You could tell the way he treated her on that show made her feel special too. She embraced his culture and really loved him. He really sold her a dream. He use to talk about getting married and having kids with her all the time and as soon as it happened he decided he didn't want it.
I mean not everyone is meant to raise children. It's just something that's pushed onto everyone. We're sitting in a world with 8 billion people but millions of unhoused children and likely over a billion of mistreated children. We should encourage people to understand their limits and if that means no children, that should be ok. I know taking care of kids is a lot of work and that's the main reason why I will not have them.
Married Men like safaree deserve jail time for emotionally abusing their spouse and causing stressful situations when they are pregnant. This should be counted as child endangerment because it’s not healthy for mom to be stressed out pregnant.
When a similar situation happened to me.. I realized that there was no justice for it. A man can lie, cheat, deceive, and there are no laws for it.. I never felt so alone.. I never disliked myself more.. I lost myself. To this day, I have lingering pain and suffering. like if someone steals from you, or hits you, you can get your justice with the law.. but when a man hurts you in this way.. steals something within you.. eats you from the inside out.. there is nothing. nothing. you fight demons just to survive.. I bet he never gave her closure either. I bet he had another woman he was sleeping with and fell in love with. and I bet he never confessed anything to her to help her find ways to deal with the trauma better. To admit to her that he scammed her. So she can go to therapy and get the right help. He gaslit her reality and her universe making her out to seem violent, agrresive and dramatic. There isn't trauma in life that can cause so much pain like that.
That's because those men still care about their kids as crazy as their situations are even rasheeda's husband Kirk seem like a decent dad scrappy's a decent dad even jock is a decent dad you know that's what surprising because if they don't do anything else right they do see about their children. In Safari his actions so he don't care
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@analeahgotay-heart854 if you can't see Erica is toxic and ignore her manipulation and violence then I guess you think she's also a victim with how she abused Cyn and richdollaz 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@mrcharles4636 Yes Erica was a narcissist, liar and was manipulative with Cyn but what Safaree did was even worse. Erica got her karma But Safaree is a man child which is why he can't even take care of his own kids. He not only showed infidelity but also neglect to his own children and constantly gas lighted her. Yes Erica is also a bad person but he by no means is any better, it takes 2.
@@cielthomas5105 he's not caring for his children yet no one talks about how safaree had to run out of the house because Erica grabbed sharp knives and wanted to commit violence. I wouldn't want to be around a woman that is violent either. If safaree called the cops on her and got her arrested, called child protective services and got custody of his kids when that happened then EVERYONE on this chat would say how he's such a sorry person and "he set" her up to take her money or whatever. You guys would try to find an excuse for violence, period. He gave her space. It baffles me how not one person is talking about her violence, there's nothing safaree did to her or anyone to justify wanting to commit violence, there's nothing worse than that.
This happened to a good friend of mine. Her husband knew she didn’t want kids. He agreed. They got married then he pressured the hell out of her to have a baby - which she did - then he because emotionally and physically abusive and she had to leave him. She was a single mom for the next several years.
I can't believe this man really had us thinking he'd be the top tier family man we all dreamed of. He would always talk about wanting to get married, start a family, and care for that family just for him to do this. Man
@@onefromfuture6913 throughout the years he’s always talk about how he was ready to get married, wanted a family, basically acting like he would be the perfect family man. He got exactly what he wanted and treated his wife like absolute shit.
Sad part is she didn't want this and he chased her and made her fall for him just to treat her like garbage. Despite how she was in the past, no one deserves that. 😞
No one deserves this and this is exactly what narcs do and should you leave before things get too bad, they always pop back up with the should of, could of, would of...boy bye.
Imagine safaree crying during the wedding 💒 he can hardly keep a straight face 😐 then he is the same guy who missed the birth of his son and was out wildling,what Erica is going through is my GREATEST fear my God!
Girl me too!!! This is the main reason I dont want to have kids. People don't always mature when they become a parent. Safaree really can't handle that the baby is #1 and that's the root of their problem.
Imagine being afraid of how your husband will react when you tell him you’re pregnant. I feel so sad for Erica and everything this boy has taken her through!
There were soooo many freaking red flags, she just wanted it to be real. She NEEDED it to be real. The fact that she literally told him her biggest fear was being a wife that’s getting cheated on & deceived & then he went out & did EXACTLY THAT is sickening. He’s a malignant narcissist ! I feel so bad for Ericka, he sold her a dream. SMH Safaree TRASH 🚮
Soooooooo many red flags. One of them being how he was okay with bashing his ex in interviews and he was okay with Erica making jokes about his ex. Another one was cheating before they even got married and he only married her because she was pregnant. He’s a playboy and a man child and the women on the other franchises didn’t even take him seriously. Erica and Safaree are the same person.
Marriage takes love, commitment and patience. Safari wants fun all the time and Erica takes being a wife and mother very seriously. It’s not going to be fun and games all the time.
That's a majority of BM for you. That's why no matter where the BM reside around the world his community, his women, and his children are always in poverty and stress. They don't take family, marriage serious.
Rasheeda really got the nerve to say she wouldn’t put up with a man walking out when things get rough, umm does she not remember him escaping to the cabin and cheating on her when things got rough when she was pregnant and she stayed 🤡
imagine getting married to someone who you truly love with all of your heart just to get cheated on and disrespected on. I think Erica would of been better off without him
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
After watching this, I have concluded that giving someone that has always wanted you a chance has got to be the most horrible idea ever. I really feel sorry for Erica, no woman should ever go through what she has been going through.
Safaree from what I’ve seen seems very irresponsible and needs to grow up but I honestly think they both gave up way too easily and quickly. Fair enough I don’t know the full story but clearly her hormones were all over the place due to her pregnancy and he couldn’t see it 🤦🏾♂️ she just needed a bit of support & patience! but he thought she had changed and was worried he married a monster 😂😂
I’m still honestly confused on what happened with this relationship…because there is noooo way Safaree really chased this woman down just to marry, to then divorce her…like there is no way….😒
It’s crazy how someone can look u in ur eyes make u believe there’s nobody out there for them except you just to turn around and stab you in the back in the worst way possible it really is sad how much their relationship has changed my heart goes out to Erica and her baby
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@kristarachenae3204 maybe you forgot how she treated Cyn, the exact things she's accused safaree of is exactly what she did to Cyn. Erica is a psychopath. And a very violent person, where do you see an angel 😇? She's super conniving and uses tears as weaponry and for empathy.
Throughout this video, Safaree has constantly said I love myself, I want to marry a female version of myself. Texting her “I will always put myself before you”. That man will never be truly happy with anyone, and the sad part about it is he chased and preyed on that woman knowing damn well he wouldn’t love/take care of her forever or a long time. He did that for momentary gain and for his ego. He’s a piece of shit and he only cares about himself and Jamaica smh
This is big facts! And the people saying “we’ll this is her karma” and using that to dismiss this situation. It MAY be her karma BUT safaree is still lame as hell for all of this! It’s disgusting and I wouldn’t trust him at all. It’s also crazy he says how much he loves himself all the time but something about him gives me big “ I’m not secure In myself or sexuality vibes” FR
I feel Erica’s pain. People are scary. Too many wolves in sheep clothing out here. Just when you think you found the one for you only to find it out it was a lie. I hope she learns and heal from this traumatic experience. Safaree only cares about himself, he showed red flags from the first few minutes of this video when he mentioned about marrying himself in a female version.
This relationship is sad but it’s also a good reminder to just leave when men show you they don’t love you anymore. The cruelty that follows is really not worth it
Idc what Erica did in her past but no woman deserves to be humiliated by their other half. The fact that Safaree left her alone in the house while she was pregnant shows what a piece of sh¡t he is and there's no way you can justify that type of disgusting behavior!
She does. Lol this is allllll of her karma. Y'all always looking for ppl who do dirty shit to live the best life. It don't work that way 🤣 you get what u give
@@queencharlibee1991 lol stop. Karma isnt a real thing, and even if it was, basic knowledge usually tells people that two wrongs don't make a right. And this is not near as bad as what Richard or Cyn had to deal with.
@@penelopefray1769 lol stop. Karma isnt a real thing, and even if it was, basic knowledge usually tells people that two wrongs don't make a right. And this is not near as bad as what Richard or Cyn had to deal with.
I know the world hates her but no one deserves what he did to her. My heart truly breaks for her. I just know she’s never going to let her guard down like that again and that’s heart breaking 🤍. He’s 🚮
Yes! When he said, “we’re in a disgusting place.” Aw man! When your dealing with a narcissistic abuser get away from them! Now she looks so totally drained. He is literally sucking the life out of her. He’s disgusting! He’ll get his though.
Safaree is the prime example of I should never get married or trust anyone with my heart was a person . If Safaree knew that he could not give his all to a commitment as great as marriage, why waste that time to play someone and waste their time. “I did not know it was so much work” . Kids and marriage is NOT supposed to be easy! Safaree, never remarry !
Man I’ve been through what Erica has been through (without the 2nd child), and felt all that she said with every fibre or my being. The minute a man says or shows that he will always put himself above a child you bore OR are raising - you’re done for life! You will NEVER forget that s*it!!!! Even if you go back to him. The trust, love, care and every other thing you feel for that person will die and the remains turn instantly to hate and will burn hotter than hell itself with a fire that only the grace and mercy of GOD will extinguish…for He hates it when you abuse his children….especially when all they did was LOVE. Erica baby - we leave our battle to God…. ✌🏾 #stayprayedup
This story is honestly so sad to me. I knew their relationship wasn't perfect but it was still sweet watching Safaree be so loving and chivalrous to Erica and I had high hopes for them. In hindsight, watching Safaree become a whole different man and say all those beautiful things back then in comparison to how he treats her now is just so upsetting and beyond disappointing.
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@mrcharles4636 He's not the victim in this situation. Furthermore, even in the video, he said that he saw himself in Erica and "why wouldn't I want to date myself". That's both narcissistic and a confession that he's also a narcissist. Not to mention, how he's the victim in this situation to you but.. him leaving his wife and kids, partying and thotting around with women while his wife is giving birth and their son is in the NICU, doesn't gain sympathy. Foh
@@areiaaphrodite how is she a victim?? Do you know Erica’s track record? Lmaoo. Please. She got what she deserved. She did something to make him act that way. He damn near worshipped the ground she walked on until something went wrong
@@Incogn3gr0e I never said she was a victim and we all know Erica's track record with Cyn etc. I said Safaree wasn't the victim in this case because the previous commentor said "ErIcA dOeSn'T dEsErVe SaFaReE" as if he's some prize 😑 as if women all over are pining for a man who'd leave their pregnant wife to give birth alone and prematurely because the husband induced a lot of stress on her during their pregnancy; meanwhile, he's off partying and acting like a himbo with thot-pockets in Jamaica. Like fr? The victims are the kids. Their daughter doesn't get to live in the same house as her father anymore and their son had to pay a physical price with his health because Safaree said he'd always put himself before his kids and family. (Husband of the year) Not to mention, one day, when their kids are grown and see the way Safaree was to their mother, they will not appreciate that and develop resentment.
@@Incogn3gr0e P.S. She didn't do anything to him. He clearly stated that the reason he started becoming distant from her is because marriage turned out to be different than what he thought it was going to be. He didn't like taking care of their daughter because it was "too hard" and he didn't like Erica taking attention away from him to take care of their baby because he wouldn't even help do anything! Safaree fell in love with dating and didn't realise that marriage is different to dating. He said that he basically wants to live the life of a rap video and that this married life/fatherhood was too boring and difficult for him... which falls in line with his narcissistic behaviour: self-centered, self-obsessed and mainly self-concerned. He doesn't love anyone, including his children, like he loves himself. You saw his reaction when the guitar fell on his infant daughter right? Enough said.
I can definitely relate to Erica and what she went through being married to Safaree. I went through this with my ex & it was so painful. I hope Erica is able to heal, move forward and be happy. I also hope she’s able to find the love that she needs and deserves.
A man is nothing without his family 💔 You don't know a man until you have his baby 💔 A woman will always remember how you treated her when she was pregnant💔
This is what I call honeymoon love, the two seemed to not know each other that well so when the marriage part and children part came in, it all fell apart
Yup. This was the same mistake I made. Now I know . I will never remarry within the first 5 years. Let that honeymoon stage die first and then I will let you know if I love you for real.
Yes. They moved too quickly. Got pregnant too quickly. Got married too quickly. I don’t care how good I feel in the relationship. I’m not marrying that quickly. Worse pregnancy. It works out from some ppl but for most it doesn’t. Any man that loves attention like safari us always a noooooo!!! They love bomb writhin the first couple months but they usually start showing their stink by month 6-9. Wait it out. Don’t rush
The fact that when the ladies came to his car and blindfolded him he said “ladies take me to the bedroom” and Erica after the performance was like “are you happy”. She was ALL for him tryna to do things for HIM. And then his reaction to the pregnancy, the way he said “You’re” instead of “We’re” pregnant that’s sad
@@jamilethliranzo3651 i think she waited to tell him so he couldn’t convince her to get an abortion. at 23 weeks it’s too late. plus at that point in their relationship he was barely home and was distant
My heart broke during that scene where she tells him she's pregnant again. No woman, especially no married woman, deserves to get that type of reaction. When their child grows up and sees that scene is going to be traumatic. He's truly a clown.
Dayummnnn this is such a shocker, Safaree presented a man that was so in love. Hell, I fell in love with Safaree watching this show..😂😂🤦🏽♀️ he became so cold...I can't stand him!😂😂😂
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@mrcharles4636 did u not see how safaree treated erica as well? They’re both toxic manipulative etc, and for u to feel sympathetic for Safaree alone sounds pretty misogynistic home boy but that’s just me 😬
@@studyfairyy7482 oh my goodness, Safaree has been a victim of Erica's games since the beginning, how do you don't discuss a prenup with your fiance but walk into a lawyer's office before having that conversation with your fiance, how do you brag about kicking your child's father in the face on RUclips, she tries the same game on Cyn and rich dollar, Safaree was jus the one that couldn't get her claws out of him!! She played the wifey role perfectly, but as soon as she got pregnant her true colors showed itself. She pulled a knife out on him and no one is talking about it. If safaree chased her out of the home with a knife and threatened to put her life in danger you would want him hung in public.
@@mrcharles4636 bestie bestie calm down. no one is saying that erica is innocent, she’s just as wrong as sarafee if not more, however sarafee isn’t innocent, he’s waaaaayy far from innocent as well so he needs to be held accountable too
I agree but Erica is very, very aggressive and that intimidates a man. A man wants a woman to allow him to lead and for her to be lead at times but when a woman is constantly trying to push and force a man to do things her way, he’s going to stray.
@@Melanin360Studio can I just say men will use any excuse for straying and I think you are looking at their situation the wrong way,she wasn't forcing him to do things her way he chased her down remember and made her a bunch of promises that he couldn't/ didn't keep!
The first half of this video compared to the end is like night and day. It’s crazy how he switched up so fast after she had the baby. He is truly selfish 🤬🤬
@@biblesandbabes3821 um she was afraid he is a NARCISSIST!!!!! At the end of the day that’s her damn husband it’s not like she conceived on her own it takes 2!
@@datt0beauty0queen As a woman with children, I feel like she was being shady. We become symptomatic during pregnancy at 4 weeks so why wait until 23 weeks to tell your HUSBAND? They both are flawed individuals. She has some ugly traits to her as well. The whole situation is unfortunate
Nicki gave him everything he was most definitely a user. She took him with her for years he didn't want to work a 9 to 5. So I don't feel sorry for Erica I feel sorry for their kids they have together
@rizikrizik1395 why tf do ya'll keep bringing up sh-t you don't know the debt of or even the full story??? SAFAREE IS STILL A VERY SH-TTY PERSON ,NOBODY GAF WHAT ERICA HAS DONE WHEN SHE WAS 25 , HE PURSUED HER AND BROKE HER TO PIECES FOR HIS OWN ENJOYMENT, CLEARLY.... ITS FCKNG SICK AND YA'LL JUST AS S-CK ....
@@MuriahStAmant I'm sorry you had to go through that and I understand completely and can definitely relate. Especially when you're a good person and you do the right things, or perhaps you're somebody that's trying to turn their life around and get on the right track, to get hurt like this after putting your trust into somebody is deplorable. Especially if your defenses are up from previous issues.
Loving yourself is one of the most important things you can do in life. But loving yourself does not equate to also humiliating or belittling somebody in the process. Loving yourself also means righting your wrongs and being a better you. Safari does not love himself, he loves his image and loves attention from other people to validate himself
I think what with Safarree and Erica is what happens with a lot of couples. The baby came and daddy changed for the worst. So many people think becoming a parent matures people when really a lot of the times it does the complete opposite. Safarree realized being a parent is hard work, he's not #1 anymore and he can't handle it.
Yep. Happened to me at a later stage. Men on this time will say 'oh women always change' like how can you not after 3 kids??? Their mindset is pure childishness and delusion!!!
Yes, that's the truth. I know so many women who were in relationships or married and as soon as they got pregnant or had the baby the guy switched up on them so quick and started treating them like their worst enemy, it's baffling to be honest smh
Beyond rich dollaz who wanted to spit on her or her first baby father who beat on her constantly he may have done wrong but that wasn’t the worst compared to those 2
@@Coco-chrispyso u would let a man spit on u and beat on u and he didn’t leave her with 2 kids he fought for joint custody and she wanted primary custody so she can get child support from him watch the lead attorney breakdown of the court proceedings and come back to me see if u still have that mindset which u probably will
I never really felt like Erica was actually a "bad" person. She's the definition of a woman SCORNED. I know she had a son before she actually started that crazy relationship on tv with Rich, but I believe that Rich was actually the first man that really hurt her deeply. Instead of giving herself time to heal, she went ahead and then got with Cyn but ended up treating her the same way that Rich had most likely treated her while they were together. So then she supposedly ends up being engaged to Bow Wow and that didn't work (no healing) and then right when I feel she started taking that time for herself to do her own thing there comes Safaree. She had her entire guard up and he did every single loving, sweet, kind thing for her to make her feel comfortable enough to let her guards down and let him in - only for him to turn around and be the most undeserving, callous, manipulative, vindictive, spiteful, selfish and self centered person you could ever meet! Erica isn't perfect but I respect the fact that she never tried to be. I don't condone her actions but as a woman I can see where the issues / acting out was stemming from because I've been there. It doesn't mean she didn't deserve to be loved and treated like a Queen. The way things played out with her and Safaree, she's going to be broken for a while and I just pray that her children never happen to get introduced to the internet and get to witness this relationship and the snide, nasty comments and behaviors of their father because that will be issues on top of itself! I really hope that she can genuinely move forward and find inner peace and be able to forgive so that she can release herself from all of the hurt and the betrayal and just begin again!
Erica has a knack for leaving out her part in the situation and making herself the victim. Erica ignored his red flags & was just happy to have someone up under her 24/7. Safaree is childish but i don't think he was just doing anything for no reason. We've seen Erica lie, manipulate, verbally & physically abuse her partners so I can only imagine the things she's done to him out of anger. I believe she was violent toward him. Not to mention she doesn't miss an opportunity to berate him or nag. Safaree should've spoke his peace instead of shutting down & letting her control the narrative.
You were 💯 .However he had plenty of people telling him and he still wanted her, said she was his dream, the female version of himself. Well he got exactly what he wanted.
This woman read him to the bone on that other show idk how he made it in her life. Softened her up and dogged her. Ladies, stay hard! Protect your peace 💕
That’s not healthy. Stay hard? SMH that mentality born of fear and is a recipe for loneliness. bcuz some men ain’t 💩 doesn’t mean a good man is not out there. Safaree showed 🚩like crazy.
@@angecynthia347 yes. If you ever decide to have kids have them for yourself not for your husband because they switch up so fast I had to learn the hard way
@@djsalteenuts yes sometimes you can lose a good man staying hard you just need to be smart and aware,never ignore any red flags. She was crying the day they were planning their wedding in that castle idk but that was a huge red flag
Marriage doesnt have to be hard, I was told. When you marry the wrong person, it becomes a nightmare. I am so sad she is living this nightmare. This should not be smh
They were so happy in the beginning, just smiling and laugh all the time. Even during their interviews, they were always smiling when talking about one another. Its crazy to me how things can go from THAT good to THAT bad.
They need to show this as a PSA. Too many of us know that this is REAL and can happen. One minute they act like you're EVERYTHING and then they can change up quick just like that... (But also now Mena knows how Cyn felt😬)
Her and cyn were not married. Mean never did her that damn dirty and cyn was cheating to, she didn’t get caught until after the relationship was over 💯 but now I see why juju would not date him because she knew who he was fr
At the beginning hour Safaree talked about he wanted to get with her while everybody was in her dms let's be believe he saw her as a prize and when her dad died she was finally vulnerable enough to give him a chance and once the chase was gone, the thrill was gone. I don't believe he ever loved her or his kids more than himself.
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The fact that he said "Yall know how much I love myself, how could I not wanna be with ME in a female version" was a sign from the beginning.
Facts
You beat me to this exact comment!
That part
THIS YESSSSSS
I had to pause and said the same shit!!! Like oh no he’s too narcissistic to be in a committed relationship where he wouldn’t be the focus bc kids are involved.
I can’t believe that man chased her down just to treat her no better than a stranger on the street. You took a woman whose guard was up, give her hope that you would treat her different just to be the WORST significant other she’s had.
He treated her worse than a stranger. I don't even treat strangers like this nor do most people just dog others out simply because they don't know them. Safaree is a pathetic man
@@DarthFurie Right, I was just about to say, he’d likely treat a stranger better which is concerning.
All truth.
I feel like he liked the idea of being married having children ect but then realized it's a lot of hard work,I really feel for Erica like you say he chased her down made her promises and then let her down,in the last scene you can see she is absolutely heart broken were as he looks like he couldn't give two FFs!
Karma
Isn't it CRAZY how she told him that she was afraid of ending up a single mother and cheated on and this is EXACTLY what he ended up doing to her? She unknowingly predicted her own downfall.
Deep down she knew she should not have married him. I’m telling you, women always know.
It's called manifesting. Sad for her
Exactly.....she was sensing the bs coming before marriage
Trust your GUT y’all
She didn't predict it, she accumulated it. It's her Karma.
so scary how men can be so perfect in the beginning and then suddenly turn into a monster...
they probably were always a monster
Iknw right!!! That's what I'm scared off 😭
Amen
She ain’t no victim yall must forgot how shitty she use to be in her past relationships! She’ll be Ight
As women we have got to stay on our purpose as well..when you put all your cards in a man's life he will leave you in the desert with no water
Rasheeda fixing her lips to say "Oh, I don't play that" took me CLEAN OUT!!! Like girl, BYE!!! You played that, got played, and still playing😂FOH!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Rasheeda is a 🤡 and scared of kirk
💀💀💀😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂Damn it man!
Lmaooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it’s always the ones that take the most shit
This timeline is a perfect example of what narcissistic abuse is. It contains everything... hoovering, gaslighting, deflecting, love avoid/neglect, social humiliation, manipulation, blame shifting, minimizing, and back to hoovering
You forgot the love bombing! Safaree laid the love on super thick in the beginning, even had the proposal with fireworks....funny thing is, I was even fooled too because on the outside Safaree was a sweet goofy guy! SMH
Yes 🎯🎯🎯
I usually don't agree when I see ppl "diagnose" kinda certain cast members lol but I have got to agree with this right here💯
Literally just left a relationship like this. This man chased me for almost 7 years. He was so perfect the first year then year 2 his mask fell off and he was everything he claimed not to be.
Did Erica not do a ton of toxic things to Cyn and Rich? Y’all act like this woman is innocent or some kind of saint. I’m not condoning Safaree’s behavior but karma is a bitch and she never misses when she strikes. Careful how you treat people because the energy you put out will always come back to you. Sometimes it comes back worse!
The worst thing a man can do is awaken a women's heart,with the promise of loving her, with no intention of loving her for life
I think I read a quote like that somewhere
@@jesslivinlife it’s a Bob Marley quote and he was 100% right
She is no walk in the park
Best commemt regarding Safaree
@@msladylibra8373 Literally. It’s funny coz this was the first quote I screenshot and it’s on my phone. “The biggest coward is a man who awakens a women’s love with no intention of loving her.” - by Bob Marley
When he tripped about that pre-nup, i knew something was up then
He snapped, then trying to shade Remy & Papoose like bruh stop
He was trying to break her guard down about him having no intentions of leaving her, only to treat her like complete 💩
The fact she thought he was sent to her from her dad is so sad
Yh idiot
That seriously hurt like ugh 😔
Damn...
Yes, that really upset me. My father is deceased and I hate that she thought that and was sent a wolf in sheep's clothing instead.
mannnnnn
When she said "so you don't care?" And he looked at her dead in the face and said "I don't care'". My heart broke for her because he really meant it.
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@mrcharles4636 right! He should’ve never gotten with her let alone get her pregnant twice smh .
@@Incogn3gr0e she's a devil
@@mrcharles4636 YES
@@Incogn3gr0e bingo
It’s crazy how a man will do everything to make you fall in love just to hurt you.
It’s evil and sick….. safaree is both.
Facts
He really did and that’s the most messed up part , cause she did not take him seriously at first
God, my ex practically BEGGED me to be with him! I told him I was focusing on bettering myself and just taking care of me and I didn't want to mess that up and he was A SAINT courting me and I decided to stop being so afraid of relationships and give him a chance. The very next day after we made it official he started acting like a total prick and when I broke it off two months later he had the nerve to beg me to come back to him! Bro......I just dodged a NUKE! NO WAY IN HELL AM I COMING BACK!
That's the problem falling and not standing...
When she said.. I feel like you're my roommate... I know exactly what she means. It's the most awful and lonely feeling.
I'm here with you boo❤
❤
😔
Not Rasheeda saying “I don’t play that shit”🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴🥴 girl yes you do
this comment lmfaooooo 🥴🥴😂🙄🙄🙄 too accurate
I’m weak 😂
I said the same thing lmaoo
Lmao
I see no lies
Her crying and saying "I'm scared you don't wanna do life with me" and him replying " You're so dramatic" 💔
Right.. wtf?! That would break my heart
Narcissist as it’s finest
That was so cold
He didn't want her no more
@@clarissecatelynn946 juju oh I ussggphzxe
This is exactly the example of wanting something you can’t have and as you have it, you no longer want it. I feel so bad for her.
I know Erica isn’t the best person at all but she truly got played in her marriage. She was all in it and wanted to love this man but he did a 180 on her and left her high and dry. I wouldn’t wish that on any woman. I’m sorry she had to go there that.
She got what she gave Cyn, karma is a real thing, even when she was with Safaree she still kept bullying Cyn on fake pages, till this day she "hates" Cyn, just because people felt bad for her. She should've seen the red flag when he didn't want to "lose everything if he cheats"
@@681m4m bruh, cyn also got played so what are you saying 😂
@@681m4m cyn wasn’t innocent she’s the same one who was saying black men treat Latinas better but was crying cuz she felt like her black man didn’t gaf about her 😭what a joke
@@681m4m cyn was messing with someone while she was with Erica . Watch lhhny again. Erica called her out on it when cyn showed up at her photo shoot after they broke up
I honestly don’t feel bad for her she did Cyn dirty when she went for bow wow and that failed you get what you give and she got her karma like kourtney getting hers with tristen
She looked so happy when they first got together. You could tell the way he treated her on that show made her feel special too. She embraced his culture and really loved him. He really sold her a dream. He use to talk about getting married and having kids with her all the time and as soon as it happened he decided he didn't want it.
Like she was with Bow Wow...ctfuuuuu
Why do some men do this
That's how they do...Narcissist!!!She didn't deserve that!!!
He lovebombed her like most narcissists do...🤷🏾♀️
Damn I feel her pain! She came such a long way and kissed so many 🐸, to only be hoodwinked by Safaree, and locked in with two kids!!!
His dismissiveness towards the end of their relationship was honestly disgusting.
like fr immature & childish asf…
He shuts down
Very 😢 terrible 😔 behavior
This man said I didn’t realize having a child is this much work lol
Right!!! The audacity. What did he think?
@@edie1luv he slow
I mean not everyone is meant to raise children. It's just something that's pushed onto everyone. We're sitting in a world with 8 billion people but millions of unhoused children and likely over a billion of mistreated children. We should encourage people to understand their limits and if that means no children, that should be ok. I know taking care of kids is a lot of work and that's the main reason why I will not have them.
He blew me when he said that.
@@orbius.6555 shut upppppp
Married Men like safaree deserve jail time for emotionally abusing their spouse and causing stressful situations when they are pregnant. This should be counted as child endangerment because it’s not healthy for mom to be stressed out pregnant.
It is a pain like no other.
I just hope her son does not turn out like him...
💯🤧🤧😮💨
When a similar situation happened to me.. I realized that there was no justice for it. A man can lie, cheat, deceive, and there are no laws for it.. I never felt so alone.. I never disliked myself more.. I lost myself. To this day, I have lingering pain and suffering.
like if someone steals from you, or hits you, you can get your justice with the law..
but when a man hurts you in this way.. steals something within you.. eats you from the inside out..
there is nothing. nothing.
you fight demons just to survive..
I bet he never gave her closure either. I bet he had another woman he was sleeping with and fell in love with. and I bet he never confessed anything to her to help her find ways to deal with the trauma better. To admit to her that he scammed her. So she can go to therapy and get the right help. He gaslit her reality and her universe making her out to seem violent, agrresive and dramatic. There isn't trauma in life that can cause so much pain like that.
I agree with this I never give a fuck about these ppl but to see this hurt I felt that shit this is no ok she don’t deserve this shit
I feel like as awful as the other men have been in their own relationships, even they were shocked at Safaree leaving the baby shower.
you know kirk was happy, thinking that the heat would finally be off of his disgusting adulterous ways 💀
@@marissas.5038 Oh no, Kirk will never live that down lol
@@marissas.5038 Lmaoo damn he lowkey probably was. And even then I still feel like he was kinda surprised (even though he basically did worse).
That's because those men still care about their kids as crazy as their situations are even rasheeda's husband Kirk seem like a decent dad scrappy's a decent dad even jock is a decent dad you know that's what surprising because if they don't do anything else right they do see about their children. In Safari his actions so he don't care
It’s so sad cause during the wedding, he was mimicking human behavior.
Narcissist at its finest
He cried at the wedding like he’d never cheat nor mistreat her🤮🤮🚮🚮
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
crocodile tears
Broooo😂😂
She married him knowing that information 😂
Not 1 tear fell bruh 😂😂😂
This is the definition of love bombing/narcissistic relationship.
Absolutely right 💯💯💯
@@Butterflyz-j5m💯
Erica is a narcissist and love bombed Cyn like crazy just to do her the same, so Erica deserves this.
“I don’t wanna be the wife that gets cheated on”, literally becomes that 😭
It's sad
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
Her guy told her who he is but she still married him anyway. That’s why she could have made that comment
@@mrcharles4636 your in every comment stfu no one cares I’ll be so real
@@drknow1997 no he didn’t so please Lowe ittt
Look at his reaction when Erica says "now your free" he rubs his hands together and smirks in excitement. This boy is BEYOND WICKED!!!!
never did he do any of those lol she kno wat she married these women need to use they brain over they heart
Narcissistic people are wicked people and only care about nobody but themselves.
Wasteman!!
Erica was full right in having that prenup meeting. Hopefully she got one because she was right about him back then.
I doubt it.
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@analeahgotay-heart854 if you can't see Erica is toxic and ignore her manipulation and violence then I guess you think she's also a victim with how she abused Cyn and richdollaz 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@mrcharles4636 Yes Erica was a narcissist, liar and was manipulative with Cyn but what Safaree did was even worse. Erica got her karma But Safaree is a man child which is why he can't even take care of his own kids. He not only showed infidelity but also neglect to his own children and constantly gas lighted her. Yes Erica is also a bad person but he by no means is any better, it takes 2.
@@cielthomas5105 he's not caring for his children yet no one talks about how safaree had to run out of the house because Erica grabbed sharp knives and wanted to commit violence. I wouldn't want to be around a woman that is violent either. If safaree called the cops on her and got her arrested, called child protective services and got custody of his kids when that happened then EVERYONE on this chat would say how he's such a sorry person and "he set" her up to take her money or whatever. You guys would try to find an excuse for violence, period. He gave her space. It baffles me how not one person is talking about her violence, there's nothing safaree did to her or anyone to justify wanting to commit violence, there's nothing worse than that.
I can’t imagine my husband putting SO much pressure on me to have a son and then abandon not just me but your own kids too. Jesus.
You're the one who keeps opening your legs though
This happened to a good friend of mine. Her husband knew she didn’t want kids. He agreed. They got married then he pressured the hell out of her to have a baby - which she did - then he because emotionally and physically abusive and she had to leave him. She was a single mom for the next several years.
Narcassist. He chased her just to ruin her. What a 🤡
What is he ruining lmao
@@blueberrytart15 whatever is left 😄
@@chefnic4763 Not “whatever is left” 😩😩😭
@@itsnayifay She needs healing. She has issues.
Well she's a narcissist too cuz she chased him just as much
I can't believe this man really had us thinking he'd be the top tier family man we all dreamed of. He would always talk about wanting to get married, start a family, and care for that family just for him to do this. Man
What did he do? I dont follow the show
@@onefromfuture6913 throughout the years he’s always talk about how he was ready to get married, wanted a family, basically acting like he would be the perfect family man. He got exactly what he wanted and treated his wife like absolute shit.
he should get actor of the year cuz even on the wedding, his acting got a lot of us fooled
riiiiiiigghhtt!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So many men say this!
One thing about Erica. She was always asking Safaree if he was happy. She was so genuine to him. I feel so bad for her.
Now Rasheeda, you don’t play what? Stop playing in our faces 😂😂😂
😂😂👏telll her please
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Facts because she ain’t going nowhere
There was not ONE TEAR on Safaree’s face at their wedding 😭
Man he was just making noises and whipping his eyes lol…. This is just one BIG SHOW FOR HIM!
😅😭😭😭
😂😂lol
Facts🤣🤣🤣
Right?!?!
Sad part is she didn't want this and he chased her and made her fall for him just to treat her like garbage. Despite how she was in the past, no one deserves that. 😞
Narcissism
She gave in and he gave up🤦🏾♀
I really do feel bad for her because she didn’t want any parts of him at first smh
No one deserves this and this is exactly what narcs do and should you leave before things get too bad, they always pop back up with the should of, could of, would of...boy bye.
No one this is Sick
Imagine safaree crying during the wedding 💒 he can hardly keep a straight face 😐 then he is the same guy who missed the birth of his son and was out wildling,what Erica is going through is my GREATEST fear my God!
Girl me too!!! This is the main reason I dont want to have kids. People don't always mature when they become a parent. Safaree really can't handle that the baby is #1 and that's the root of their problem.
I totally agree men scare the shit out of me how do you pretend for so long get the girl then act like this😭😭😭
U kno for a fact he was out partying or was that the narrative that was put out there when she did that nicu post?
Giiiirl! 😭
@@brandoncarr5942 He was posting clips partying on his Instagram.
Imagine being afraid of how your husband will react when you tell him you’re pregnant. I feel so sad for Erica and everything this boy has taken her through!
If VH1 thinks imma spend time to watch all this mess they definitely right 😭
On god 😭 lool
Absolutely 🤧🤣
Fact
Guuuurl 👏 🙌 we might as well. Nothing else on tv😫😫😫🤣🤣🤣
Right? 😂
There were soooo many freaking red flags, she just wanted it to be real. She NEEDED it to be real. The fact that she literally told him her biggest fear was being a wife that’s getting cheated on & deceived & then he went out & did EXACTLY THAT is sickening. He’s a malignant narcissist ! I feel so bad for Ericka, he sold her a dream. SMH Safaree TRASH 🚮
Soooooooo many red flags. One of them being how he was okay with bashing his ex in interviews and he was okay with Erica making jokes about his ex. Another one was cheating before they even got married and he only married her because she was pregnant. He’s a playboy and a man child and the women on the other franchises didn’t even take him seriously. Erica and Safaree are the same person.
@@aneshaelizabeth you’re absolutely right, they’re definitely the same person !
Never tell a man your biggest fears, he will deliver them
@@n.b.0212 yup! Just watch and observe
I never thought he would be this bad. Loser4real
Marriage takes love, commitment and patience. Safari wants fun all the time and Erica takes being a wife and mother very seriously. It’s not going to be fun and games all the time.
That's a majority of BM for you. That's why no matter where the BM reside around the world his community, his women, and his children are always in poverty and stress. They don't take family, marriage serious.
@@Bri-nc8yp straight up facts.
@@Bri-nc8yp pure facts
I'm always saying how Safaree seems to always be joking!!
💯💯😮💨🙌🏽 They don’t like real responsibility. It’s too much for them to deal with.
Even the way he acted when she told him about the dad situation. He just sat there quiet. Ugh love blinds us sometimes:(
Rasheeda really got the nerve to say she wouldn’t put up with a man walking out when things get rough, umm does she not remember him escaping to the cabin and cheating on her when things got rough when she was pregnant and she stayed 🤡
Then had another baby w another woman and lied about too
She's delusional with memory 🙄 looses apparently!!!!
Girl.. yes.. she been getting cheated on. Kirk had like 7 kids total and only 2 are rasheedas.. She claims to be on a good marriage and all happy.
She has some nerve for real, he fucked her up on tv as well and she thinks she's highly almighty
lets not forget the whole baby kirk had with a stripper on her lololol
imagine getting married to someone who you truly love with all of your heart just to get cheated on and disrespected on. I think Erica would of been better off without him
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@mrcharles4636 You sound slow.
Yup, he was future faking
After watching this, I have concluded that giving someone that has always
wanted you a chance has got to be
the most horrible idea ever.
I really feel sorry for Erica, no woman should ever go through what she has been going through.
Erica treated Cyn just like this.
I promise the one person I gave a chance too that beg ruined everything
It happens often
Safaree from what I’ve seen seems very irresponsible and needs to grow up but I honestly think they both gave up way too easily and quickly. Fair enough I don’t know the full story but clearly her hormones were all over the place due to her pregnancy and he couldn’t see it 🤦🏾♂️ she just needed a bit of support & patience! but he thought she had changed and was worried he married a monster 😂😂
I’ve concluded the same thing.
He only asked how many weeks because he wanted to know if it was too late to do the other thing 👀 typical narcissistic behaviour
i'm sad that he ain't even notice she was that many weeks already 😭😩
@@tyannaaaaaaaHe knew. It was obvious. That part was scripted.
I just peeped smh
Do what?
Do what?
"i feel scammed". girl, that statement is heavy for me. thats my sentiments exactly with my recent ex
I’m sorry, you are strong and I’m sorry if you went through similar stuff like this
Me too sis but it is well! I hope it gets better for you ❤
Stop playing around with BM.
She married for the bag...be glad girl you thought you was doing something with bow wow
Me too 🤦🏽♀️ I’ve been there and got through it. So will she and all you beautiful women.
It’s sad when she said “My biggest fear is ending up a wife who gets cheated on and at the end I’m getting deceived”
Cause girl really called it 😪😪😭
She knew she shouldn't have married him and she did anyway.
@@zakiyareignshinellc4299 did he cheat on her before the wedding? That’s what it looks like here
😬😬
She should’ve thought about that before she slept with DJ Envy and showed no remorse for it
@@rizikrizik1395 Naw.. it was after.. After the baby to be specific..
Safaree en Kirk are literally the WORST husbands 😭 they should be locked tf up
Lol ikr
Peter gunz is as well. Theyre worse than the creep squad 🤢 🤡
😂😂😂😂
For real🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️
Crying 😂😂😂😂😂 they belong in the penetentery
I’m still honestly confused on what happened with this relationship…because there is noooo way Safaree really chased this woman down just to marry, to then divorce her…like there is no way….😒
She got pregnant with their son and he wasn’t having it
Narcissist
It’s crazy how someone can look u in ur eyes make u believe there’s nobody out there for them except you just to turn around and stab you in the back in the worst way possible it really is sad how much their relationship has changed my heart goes out to Erica and her baby
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@mrcharles4636 are you fr? Satire?? I'm hoping 🙏🏽
@@kristarachenae3204 maybe you forgot how she treated Cyn, the exact things she's accused safaree of is exactly what she did to Cyn. Erica is a psychopath. And a very violent person, where do you see an angel 😇? She's super conniving and uses tears as weaponry and for empathy.
@@kristarachenae3204 they both were narcissistic and manipulative tbh 🤷🏾♂️
@@mrcharles4636 I’m guessing you’re a man, any sane person wouldn’t wish that on Erica.
Throughout this video, Safaree has constantly said I love myself, I want to marry a female version of myself. Texting her “I will always put myself before you”. That man will never be truly happy with anyone, and the sad part about it is he chased and preyed on that woman knowing damn well he wouldn’t love/take care of her forever or a long time. He did that for momentary gain and for his ego. He’s a piece of shit and he only cares about himself and Jamaica smh
I agree with everything you just said... but when you said "he only cares about himself and Jamaica" lmaooooooo
Lmao @ Jamaica 🤣
This is big facts! And the people saying “we’ll this is her karma” and using that to dismiss this situation. It MAY be her karma BUT safaree is still lame as hell for all of this! It’s disgusting and I wouldn’t trust him at all. It’s also crazy he says how much he loves himself all the time but something about him gives me big “ I’m not secure In myself or sexuality vibes” FR
Not even Jamaica 😭😂😭
Not Jamaica 😂😂
Narcissist knows exactly how to mirror the way you love in order to trap you
They sure do 💯🎯
It’s so difficult to be with a narcissistic man/child. I feel for her. She’s been by herself in this relationship all along.
True that 🎯💯
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Facts 💯
When she said “I’m afraid you don’t want to do life with me” - I felt that
I feel Erica’s pain. People are scary. Too many wolves in sheep clothing out here. Just when you think you found the one for you only to find it out it was a lie. I hope she learns and heal from this traumatic experience.
Safaree only cares about himself, he showed red flags from the first few minutes of this video when he mentioned about marrying himself in a female version.
Well said, you speak as a relationship therapist. Best regards to you in 2023.
Absolutely right! You hit the nail on the head when you said that he felt like he was marrying himself. The signature of a true narcissist.
Tell me about it.
You really think after how she did people that she would have a happy ending? Be fr
@@vanesaterry1632 truly! She’s reaping what she has sown.🎤
crying at the wedding like that & STILL did her the worst way 😭
He really a piece of work girl
Prolly cryin because he had cold feet😅
Narc
He need to be a man and accept he go b a father girl
That’s what narcissist do they play a role. 🤦🏾♀️
"Don't let a man show you he doesn't want you more than once."
This relationship is sad but it’s also a good reminder to just leave when men show you they don’t love you anymore. The cruelty that follows is really not worth it
💯
CRUELTY exactly. Smh
Idc what Erica did in her past but no woman deserves to be humiliated by their other half. The fact that Safaree left her alone in the house while she was pregnant shows what a piece of sh¡t he is and there's no way you can justify that type of disgusting behavior!
Karma
She does. Lol this is allllll of her karma. Y'all always looking for ppl who do dirty shit to live the best life. It don't work that way 🤣 you get what u give
You can't tell karma how and when to move.... Karma is gonna do what karma is known to do when karma wants to do it.. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ period
@@queencharlibee1991 lol stop. Karma isnt a real thing, and even if it was, basic knowledge usually tells people that two wrongs don't make a right. And this is not near as bad as what Richard or Cyn had to deal with.
@@penelopefray1769 lol stop. Karma isnt a real thing, and even if it was, basic knowledge usually tells people that two wrongs don't make a right. And this is not near as bad as what Richard or Cyn had to deal with.
I know the world hates her but no one deserves what he did to her. My heart truly breaks for her. I just know she’s never going to let her guard down like that again and that’s heart breaking 🤍. He’s 🚮
Lol. U really think she loved him?? She never loved him...no woman loves after like 21
The WORST type of man. Not ready for you but won’t leave you TF ALONE!! 🙄😤
Evil evil guys. Currently dealing with this, makes you feel stupid.
My past and definitely my barely “ex”….. do not let them in.
💯💯💯💯💯
Yes! When he said, “we’re in a disgusting place.” Aw man! When your dealing with a narcissistic abuser get away from them! Now she looks so totally drained. He is literally sucking the life out of her. He’s disgusting! He’ll get his though.
You gotta cut it off, and say fuck it!!!
I feel like when she said her biggest fear is being a cheated on wife, she knew deep down that there was something off with their union
Never tell a man your biggest fear he will make it your reality.
Safaree is the prime example of I should never get married or trust anyone with my heart was a person . If Safaree knew that he could not give his all to a commitment as great as marriage, why waste that time to play someone and waste their time. “I did not know it was so much work” . Kids and marriage is NOT supposed to be easy!
Safaree, never remarry !
Man I’ve been through what Erica has been through (without the 2nd child), and felt all that she said with every fibre or my being. The minute a man says or shows that he will always put himself above a child you bore OR are raising - you’re done for life! You will NEVER forget that s*it!!!! Even if you go back to him. The trust, love, care and every other thing you feel for that person will die and the remains turn instantly to hate and will burn hotter than hell itself with a fire that only the grace and mercy of GOD will extinguish…for He hates it when you abuse his children….especially when all they did was LOVE.
Erica baby - we leave our battle to God…. ✌🏾
#stayprayedup
i really can’t with mendeecees pulling up to the baby shower with a backpack on at his BIG age 🥴🥴🥴😂😂😂😂😂
Lol nah fr 😂 these dudes so childish it’s crazy 🤢
He looked like a big little kid lol
Mendeecees has always looked like a big kid to me. 😂
Girl that man is slow asf, always thought that
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This story is honestly so sad to me. I knew their relationship wasn't perfect but it was still sweet watching Safaree be so loving and chivalrous to Erica and I had high hopes for them. In hindsight, watching Safaree become a whole different man and say all those beautiful things back then in comparison to how he treats her now is just so upsetting and beyond disappointing.
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@mrcharles4636 He's not the victim in this situation. Furthermore, even in the video, he said that he saw himself in Erica and "why wouldn't I want to date myself". That's both narcissistic and a confession that he's also a narcissist.
Not to mention, how he's the victim in this situation to you but.. him leaving his wife and kids, partying and thotting around with women while his wife is giving birth and their son is in the NICU, doesn't gain sympathy. Foh
@@areiaaphrodite how is she a victim?? Do you know Erica’s track record? Lmaoo. Please. She got what she deserved. She did something to make him act that way. He damn near worshipped the ground she walked on until something went wrong
@@Incogn3gr0e I never said she was a victim and we all know Erica's track record with Cyn etc.
I said Safaree wasn't the victim in this case because the previous commentor said "ErIcA dOeSn'T dEsErVe SaFaReE" as if he's some prize 😑 as if women all over are pining for a man who'd leave their pregnant wife to give birth alone and prematurely because the husband induced a lot of stress on her during their pregnancy; meanwhile, he's off partying and acting like a himbo with thot-pockets in Jamaica. Like fr?
The victims are the kids. Their daughter doesn't get to live in the same house as her father anymore and their son had to pay a physical price with his health because Safaree said he'd always put himself before his kids and family. (Husband of the year)
Not to mention, one day, when their kids are grown and see the way Safaree was to their mother, they will not appreciate that and develop resentment.
@@Incogn3gr0e P.S. She didn't do anything to him. He clearly stated that the reason he started becoming distant from her is because marriage turned out to be different than what he thought it was going to be. He didn't like taking care of their daughter because it was "too hard" and he didn't like Erica taking attention away from him to take care of their baby because he wouldn't even help do anything!
Safaree fell in love with dating and didn't realise that marriage is different to dating. He said that he basically wants to live the life of a rap video and that this married life/fatherhood was too boring and difficult for him... which falls in line with his narcissistic behaviour: self-centered, self-obsessed and mainly self-concerned. He doesn't love anyone, including his children, like he loves himself. You saw his reaction when the guitar fell on his infant daughter right? Enough said.
That’s so scary , he completely changed on her. Pray she heals properly 💕‼️
I can definitely relate to Erica and what she went through being married to Safaree. I went through this with my ex & it was so painful. I hope Erica is able to heal, move forward and be happy. I also hope she’s able to find the love that she needs and deserves.
She don’t know how right she was in that lawyer prenup meeting. Everything she was afraid of came true. 😬
Course... She was the cheating queen.
She better had trapped him...lol like she had money
@@BellaIsMyBaby EXACTLY, she once upon a time was the other women so she already knew.
At some point every woman has been the other woman
The fact that she was afraid meant she should not of married him..
A man is nothing without his family 💔
You don't know a man until you have his baby 💔
A woman will always remember how you treated her when she was pregnant💔
He sold her a fantasy till he got what he wanted and then decided that’s not what he wanted anymore.
I agree. But what actually did you think he wanted or got from her .. ask for a friend in similar situation???
I don’t care what kind of woman you are no woman deserves the treatment that Safari gave Ericka. The issue is she didn’t think that it could be her.
The fact that women will see this and still go for him is crazy.
This is what I call honeymoon love, the two seemed to not know each other that well so when the marriage part and children part came in, it all fell apart
Yup. This was the same mistake I made. Now I know . I will never remarry within the first 5 years. Let that honeymoon stage die first and then I will let you know if I love you for real.
The fact that they were planning a whole marriage and had never discussed prenup is telling.
Yes. They moved too quickly. Got pregnant too quickly. Got married too quickly. I don’t care how good I feel in the relationship. I’m not marrying that quickly. Worse pregnancy. It works out from some ppl but for most it doesn’t. Any man that loves attention like safari us always a noooooo!!! They love bomb writhin the first couple months but they usually start showing their stink by month 6-9. Wait it out. Don’t rush
Yup you’re right, they didn’t take time to get to know each other well
They cared more about an extravagant wedding more than a marriage. They really needed premarital counseling.
The fact that when the ladies came to his car and blindfolded him he said “ladies take me to the bedroom” and Erica after the performance was like “are you happy”. She was ALL for him tryna to do things for HIM. And then his reaction to the pregnancy, the way he said “You’re” instead of “We’re” pregnant that’s sad
Yes. When he said take me to the bedroom was a huge red flag for me.
Is it just me or she has looked pregnant the whole time before even telling him, did they really not know?
@@jamilethliranzo3651 And to think she said "23 weeks" smh... I knew what that equaled out to so she had to have been showing for sure.
i said the same thing..it’s as though she does things to please him just so they can be okay.. pretty sad actually
@@jamilethliranzo3651 i think she waited to tell him so he couldn’t convince her to get an abortion. at 23 weeks it’s too late. plus at that point in their relationship he was barely home and was distant
My heart broke during that scene where she tells him she's pregnant again. No woman, especially no married woman, deserves to get that type of reaction. When their child grows up and sees that scene is going to be traumatic. He's truly a clown.
Dayummnnn this is such a shocker, Safaree presented a man that was so in love. Hell, I fell in love with Safaree watching this show..😂😂🤦🏽♀️ he became so cold...I can't stand him!😂😂😂
He's an actor... they both are smh
Erica definitely doesn't deserve Safaree!! She's a narcissist and a liar and manipulative. Plus she's violent and that's a recipe for disaster. I'm so glad Safaree, was able to finally wake up and see the real her and save himself!!!
@@mrcharles4636 did u not see how safaree treated erica as well? They’re both toxic manipulative etc, and for u to feel sympathetic for Safaree alone sounds pretty misogynistic home boy but that’s just me 😬
@@studyfairyy7482 oh my goodness, Safaree has been a victim of Erica's games since the beginning, how do you don't discuss a prenup with your fiance but walk into a lawyer's office before having that conversation with your fiance, how do you brag about kicking your child's father in the face on RUclips, she tries the same game on Cyn and rich dollar, Safaree was jus the one that couldn't get her claws out of him!! She played the wifey role perfectly, but as soon as she got pregnant her true colors showed itself. She pulled a knife out on him and no one is talking about it. If safaree chased her out of the home with a knife and threatened to put her life in danger you would want him hung in public.
@@mrcharles4636 bestie bestie calm down. no one is saying that erica is innocent, she’s just as wrong as sarafee if not more, however sarafee isn’t innocent, he’s waaaaayy far from innocent as well so he needs to be held accountable too
They both made their mistakes but safaree's was on a whole different level, he wasn't mature enough for marriage
They both wasnt ready, both toxic in their own ways
I agree but Erica is very, very aggressive and that intimidates a man. A man wants a woman to allow him to lead and for her to be lead at times but when a woman is constantly trying to push and force a man to do things her way, he’s going to stray.
@@Melanin360Studio lol not you sticking up for an abuser because a woman intimidated a man. Eeww
@@thatbeaatcch9884 I’m not sticking up for Erica
@@Melanin360Studio can I just say men will use any excuse for straying and I think you are looking at their situation the wrong way,she wasn't forcing him to do things her way he chased her down remember and made her a bunch of promises that he couldn't/ didn't keep!
The way she gets emotional and excited about receiving a watch and him about the girls dancing at their house shows what type of people they both are.
Expound
The first half of this video compared to the end is like night and day. It’s crazy how he switched up so fast after she had the baby. He is truly selfish 🤬🤬
His reaction to her second pregnancy is every woman/girls worst nightmare. What he did to her and continues to do, is disgusting, period.
He was basically like ok that's YOUR baby I'm out.
Made me look at him with a whole different set of eyes!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She told him at 23 weeks. Sis was 2 trimesters in. That was shady and intentional
@@biblesandbabes3821 um she was afraid he is a NARCISSIST!!!!! At the end of the day that’s her damn husband it’s not like she conceived on her own it takes 2!
@@datt0beauty0queen As a woman with children, I feel like she was being shady. We become symptomatic during pregnancy at 4 weeks so why wait until 23 weeks to tell your HUSBAND? They both are flawed individuals. She has some ugly traits to her as well. The whole situation is unfortunate
I’m trying to figure out how Nicki survived this man for years. Now she’s the mvp
Nicki gave him everything he was most definitely a user. She took him with her for years he didn't want to work a 9 to 5. So I don't feel sorry for Erica I feel sorry for their kids they have together
How do you hurt someone who's been hurt so many times. I pray for Erica. She's a human... Her broke her completely. No one deserves this.... Ever....
It's so sad
Have you not seen how times Erica has hurt other people? Lol
@rizikrizik1395 why tf do ya'll keep bringing up sh-t you don't know the debt of or even the full story??? SAFAREE IS STILL A VERY SH-TTY PERSON ,NOBODY GAF WHAT ERICA HAS DONE WHEN SHE WAS 25 , HE PURSUED HER AND BROKE HER TO PIECES FOR HIS OWN ENJOYMENT, CLEARLY.... ITS FCKNG SICK AND YA'LL JUST AS S-CK ....
What he did to her is truly my biggest fear 😔
Same
When she said I feel scammed.
Lived it...shittiest feeling imaginable.
@@MuriahStAmant I'm sorry you had to go through that and I understand completely and can definitely relate. Especially when you're a good person and you do the right things, or perhaps you're somebody that's trying to turn their life around and get on the right track, to get hurt like this after putting your trust into somebody is deplorable. Especially if your defenses are up from previous issues.
I just think they didn’t really get to know each other well it happened so fast that’s why
Ladies, no father who loves his daughter will send her a Jamaican man. Ever.
That fucking part
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Loving yourself is one of the most important things you can do in life. But loving yourself does not equate to also humiliating or belittling somebody in the process. Loving yourself also means righting your wrongs and being a better you. Safari does not love himself, he loves his image and loves attention from other people to validate himself
It’s crazy how safaree didn’t know Erica was pregnant with there second child…mind blowing 🤯
She looks so preggo while dancing, he is an idiot
Scripted... No way he didn't know. It was obvious lol
@@ashleyskitchen6711 exactly.
Thats what happens when you dont pay attention to your spouse
Erica talking bad about safaree is not gonna make things better
I think what with Safarree and Erica is what happens with a lot of couples. The baby came and daddy changed for the worst. So many people think becoming a parent matures people when really a lot of the times it does the complete opposite. Safarree realized being a parent is hard work, he's not #1 anymore and he can't handle it.
It’s not even hard he jus needed a issue for his childish behavior.
Very true
Yep. Happened to me at a later stage. Men on this time will say 'oh women always change' like how can you not after 3 kids??? Their mindset is pure childishness and delusion!!!
Yes, that's the truth. I know so many women who were in relationships or married and as soon as they got pregnant or had the baby the guy switched up on them so quick and started treating them like their worst enemy, it's baffling to be honest smh
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The prenup shit was warranted
I know people make mistakes and we are human, but the way he treated her is just beyond
Beyond rich dollaz who wanted to spit on her or her first baby father who beat on her constantly he may have done wrong but that wasn’t the worst compared to those 2
@@brandoncarr5942idk safree left her with two kids. He’s worse😂
@@Coco-chrispyso u would let a man spit on u and beat on u and he didn’t leave her with 2 kids he fought for joint custody and she wanted primary custody so she can get child support from him watch the lead attorney breakdown of the court proceedings and come back to me see if u still have that mindset which u probably will
She really embraced his culture which was so sweet and for him to eventually do this to her is crazy
I never really felt like Erica was actually a "bad" person. She's the definition of a woman SCORNED. I know she had a son before she actually started that crazy relationship on tv with Rich, but I believe that Rich was actually the first man that really hurt her deeply. Instead of giving herself time to heal, she went ahead and then got with Cyn but ended up treating her the same way that Rich had most likely treated her while they were together. So then she supposedly ends up being engaged to Bow Wow and that didn't work (no healing) and then right when I feel she started taking that time for herself to do her own thing there comes Safaree. She had her entire guard up and he did every single loving, sweet, kind thing for her to make her feel comfortable enough to let her guards down and let him in - only for him to turn around and be the most undeserving, callous, manipulative, vindictive, spiteful, selfish and self centered person you could ever meet! Erica isn't perfect but I respect the fact that she never tried to be. I don't condone her actions but as a woman I can see where the issues / acting out was stemming from because I've been there. It doesn't mean she didn't deserve to be loved and treated like a Queen. The way things played out with her and Safaree, she's going to be broken for a while and I just pray that her children never happen to get introduced to the internet and get to witness this relationship and the snide, nasty comments and behaviors of their father because that will be issues on top of itself! I really hope that she can genuinely move forward and find inner peace and be able to forgive so that she can release herself from all of the hurt and the betrayal and just begin again!
Wow. I completely agree. This is beautifully articulated! 👏🏽
Perfectly said 👍
SHE GOT BEHIND with cyn never happen
Beautifully said!
I'm looking at their wedding and I see the delusion...You're right she never healed from past relationships, that shadow work is everything...
Erica has a knack for leaving out her part in the situation and making herself the victim. Erica ignored his red flags & was just happy to have someone up under her 24/7. Safaree is childish but i don't think he was just doing anything for no reason. We've seen Erica lie, manipulate, verbally & physically abuse her partners so I can only imagine the things she's done to him out of anger. I believe she was violent toward him. Not to mention she doesn't miss an opportunity to berate him or nag. Safaree should've spoke his peace instead of shutting down & letting her control the narrative.
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Facts💯 totally agree with you
girl you were spot on. did you watch the recent video he put out
@@kittykattt120 yep smh i'm glad he finally spoke out and had receipts
You were 💯 .However he had plenty of people telling him and he still wanted her, said she was his dream, the female version of himself. Well he got exactly what he wanted.
This woman read him to the bone on that other show idk how he made it in her life. Softened her up and dogged her. Ladies, stay hard! Protect your peace 💕
What was the other show?
I am staying to myself..building myself...life thought me early
That’s not healthy. Stay hard? SMH that mentality born of fear and is a recipe for loneliness. bcuz some men ain’t 💩 doesn’t mean a good man is not out there. Safaree showed 🚩like crazy.
@@angecynthia347 yes. If you ever decide to have kids have them for yourself not for your husband because they switch up so fast I had to learn the hard way
@@djsalteenuts yes sometimes you can lose a good man staying hard you just need to be smart and aware,never ignore any red flags. She was crying the day they were planning their wedding in that castle idk but that was a huge red flag
Watch closely ladies. This is what you DON’T DESERVE IN YOUR LIFE. Never settle for this.
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Erica was such a beautiful bride. I hate he broke her the way he did. But he will pay.
Facts
At 26:30 the look Safaree has is the same emotionless look Erica had when Cyn poured out her heart too her regarding the Bow Wow situation
Karma really a bitch
Marriage doesnt have to be hard, I was told. When you marry the wrong person, it becomes a nightmare. I am so sad she is living this nightmare. This should not be smh
There we go keep just blaming the guy it’s both parties responsible for where they are now
They were so happy in the beginning, just smiling and laugh all the time. Even during their interviews, they were always smiling when talking about one another.
Its crazy to me how things can go from THAT good to THAT bad.
They need to show this as a PSA. Too many of us know that this is REAL and can happen. One minute they act like you're EVERYTHING and then they can change up quick just like that...
(But also now Mena knows how Cyn felt😬)
See this is a classy comment, fr 💯
Facts though! Lol
Yup, please don't live it to learn this lesson. It can really harm your soul being in a relationship like this!
Her and cyn were not married. Mean never did her that damn dirty and cyn was cheating to, she didn’t get caught until after the relationship was over 💯 but now I see why juju would not date him because she knew who he was fr
Changing lanes on U wit no signal.
Narcissists favorite saying “you’ve changed”. After they played all the games to make you change to protect yourself.
At the beginning hour Safaree talked about he wanted to get with her while everybody was in her dms let's be believe he saw her as a prize and when her dad died she was finally vulnerable enough to give him a chance and once the chase was gone, the thrill was gone. I don't believe he ever loved her or his kids more than himself.
Exactly !