Erica & Safaree Finally Come Face-To-Face 💔 Love & Hip Hop Atlanta
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- After going weeks without seeing each other and with their impending divorce looming ahead, Safaree & Erica finally sit down to air their grievances.
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A pregnant woman should never feel like she has to beg her husband to be a husband to her her well being is what’s important she’s a wreck carrying a baby an he should be there for her if he cares about his children .
You reap what you sew
@Melissa Diamond exactly being pregnant only means that you're body can reproduce.. you're not entitled to anything. She's been around millionaires and wealthy men for easily over 10 years and now you want sympathy because you made the decision to marry and get pregnant by Safaree not once but twice? Please miss me
Girl your comment is no where near logical . That’s what she gets for settling with guy she barely knew. Being pregnant shouldn’t be an excuse for her hubby to do the right thing. She knew what she was getting herself into.
All of y'all sounds bitter besides Simpblog. Y'all should sweep around your own front door before you try to sweep around anybody else's.
@@alwensday8120 she never sewed anything with Safari. Stop being a hater.
Safaree: “what’s new?”
Erica: “you being here”
Me: IM HOLLERIN😭✋🏽
😂😂🤣that was so unnecessary
😭😂😂😂
2 sides to every story! All money isn't good $$$ Dont let Wria fool you!
And thats exactly why hes following through with the divorce. She always saying smart shit & got her plastic surgery face & veneers all twisted up
@@malehlohonolo8463 unnecessary but FIRE
I remember Safaree in that haunted house talking about how she wants Erica to be the mother of his kids. When Erica says she feels scammed she is absolutely right, Safaree scammed her and thats wack
This! I hate when people say you picked him… people really are out here faking it and scamming people. They don’t want the maintenance of what they think they desire then they become cowards.
I remember this as well!!! It’s the first thing I thought of when she said that she feels scammed. He practically begged her to give him a chance.
This is factss! She was scammed
Everybody used to view him as the corny good guy, I’m still surprised at how he turned out. Men are never upfront about how they may or may not be in the future, all you can do is wait and find out for yourself 🥴 he love bombed this woman
Safaree was busy selling dreams but not doing the work in building a solid foundation for him, Erica & their children.
She's in so much pain. I feel for her as she is literally begging for this man to honour and love her the way he promised. She is right to feel scammed. He has not grown up. He's a peter pan man
It’s crazy because the way Safaree treats her is the same way Erica treated Cyn. What around comes around.
What yall mean she filed divorce. She quit
@@noahsmiley3099 no….he quit, way before she quit
and the sad part is HE chased her, she didn't even want him from the beginning. she decided to give him a chance after him continuously saying he'd do right by her and treat her like a queen and take care of her 🙄 smh
@@poett8875 I was literally just going to say this, not to mention the amount of times Erica has been seen with men who are in relationships. As much as it's the mans fault, it's hers as well. People often times forget that karma will collect its debt, whether its today, tomorrow or in a decade from now. Do onto others as you want to be done onto yourself. It's the same thing with the Cardi B. DJ self situation and offset cheating on her later on in their relationship. Karama is no joke. So I feel bad, yes but I also think about all the wrong doing she did prior to getting married... life is a give and take, you can't keep talking without consequences.
" I love me more." That's the best thing Erica ever said since she's been on reality TV.
Erica
@@goddeoflove9392 Thanks. I corrected that.
Shit but we always known Erica love some Erica lol. She dgaf like that bout nobody else really
He better do everything in his power to make sure his kids don’t know what love and hip hop is when they grow up
So true
Safaree really chased Erica got her pregnant twice and leaves her ...like if that's not the definition of sick not sure what is .. When Erica said she feels SCAMMED,I felt for her ...This man isn't the one to marry honestly, I hope she finds peace and joy after all this coz ...
True. They should have known each other. They both presented the instagram version without the everyday real world one
Remember when Safaree tried to put the charm on JuJu? JuJu dodged a bullet.
And when he sees her with another man in the future that will love her the way he didn't, he's going to be jealous😂😂😂 he's crazy.
Yep, Safaree is a narcissist, but Karma is a mother. If he knew he didn't love her, then why marry and make babies only to dip.
Erica will b happy and find a man to love her and respect her one day
Imagine having two kids with the wrong person I feel so bad for her .
Some have 5 with 5 wrong people
Some have 10 with 10 wrong people. Just overpopulating an already overpopulated world. I find all these parents selfish bc there are so many hungry children in shelters wishing to be adopted for these ppl to spread their legs ,make messes, then be drama queens blaming others for their stupid problems. You get with stupid you become stupid. Humanity disgusts me.
Feel sorry for him not her. Erica is violent and unfortunately not the baby mama you want to piss off
I think she thought the new pregnancy would change things but OUCH that didn’t fix it at all did it. In all honesty tho and not saying she deserves any of this I think the fighting and arguing everyday is what sent Safari running away. According to what he stated she screams yells fights and bickers just about everyday and the kids deserve better like peace and happiness so you have to at least respect him for doing what’s best that will provide an atmosphere of PEACE for the kids at the end of the day.
Imagine having one smh 😬🤦🏾♀️😭
Erica didn’t ask for this..he did and it’s really sad fr. Way back when he was pressing her so to be with her, wanted to marry her and say she’s gonna be the mother of your children he’s sick
Cancer and Pisces men!!
@@latoyacummings1540 here you go with the zodiacs smh
Men do that shit. Like, we don't even like them at first. Let her find a real man...suddenly he'll start acting up. I hate these types of men. Just selfish
@@latoyacummings1540 please don't start... your comment is not necessary
@@shanice2603 I do not need your permission to start or not start anything. You dont like my comment keep it pushing.
Safaree is the biggest JOKE I’ve ever seen in manhood honestly. So into looking like the victim and the good , mistreated guy. Erica is no saint but you can be sure Safaree’s place in heaven is LOOOOONG lost.
You can’t speak on someone’s salvation. That’s not for us to judge. Is he wrong? Yes! But we see only what tv wants us to see
Is tht what's goin on or is he just trying to find a peace of mind and make sure his kids have two healthy parents tht are happy?
Bro is allowed to say he doesn't Wanna be with her anymore. She's not done fighting but he doesn't want to and tht doesn't make him wrong...we don't know how much he tried to work through it behind the scenes. We can't just take Erica's side cuz shes crying and she's the woman. It looks bad. But there's alot more than what's being said and I don't think safaree's feelings are being considered just Erica. We got feelings too.
@@tjackson4824 💯💯👏🏻👏🏻 this! We have to stop ignoring the fact that men have emotions and feelings too. They’re just as human as us women! We are only seeing what vh1 wants us to see.
@@sabrina6499 thank u miss. Thts all I'm sayin..why arent our feelings ever validated? We matter as well. If he's emotionally checked out then it it what it is. Once tht happens there's no going bk. We would be wrong as men to tell a woman to stick it out when she's mentally and emotionally exhausted. We deserve tht same respect.
Safaree is a JOKE. No man treats they woman like that especially who’s pregnant. He’s just a little boy trying to act like a man. He’s gross
He’s gonna be so embarrassed when his kids eventually have to see this.
He need to be embarrassed right now....
He's sticking up for his kids though, just not a toxic household. Love is not there for Erica no more.
Nope he will not he is narcissistic trust he will spend it to blame her
He made a commitment to her older son that he will love and protect his mom...he has a baby girl who going to look at this and say is this what a man looks like and someone is going to break her heart ill 🙏🏾 it won't but its karma that's why God gives you guys that want to be a player...and son will see this and never will show u respect...God will handle your heart Erica and Sarfee will pay for whatever he's doing to u...so disrespectful to your wife the mother of your kids....Love is Blind i went through the same situation when i was pregnant back to back still with the guy not married with third child and nothing changed cuz im stupid in love😡🤦🏾
*This isn’t the only thing he is to be embarrassed of. She definitely has plenty of things to be embarrassed of as well. Guess they all will be embarrassed, including the kids. Embarrassed of their parents. One big embarrassed family*
She looks so sad when she said " As much I love him I love me more " 🥲 but fact is fact you gotta love yourself , you don’t need him 🥺❤️
Facts! U gotta love Urself before U can love someone else.
Right and I’m sure she feels really embarrassed and stupid fighting for this love bug I’m also sure she feels relief to let him go
Amen
They’ll be alright 💯✅✔️
Y'all really feel for this Pick Me that think she's above black women. Ok chile.
He truly loved bombed her when he first met her, made all these promises and sold her this great future of marriage and kids for him to then turn around and do this…. Safaree has truly showed us what type of man he is 🗑. You can dislike Erica and what she’s done in the past but no one deserves this. I truly feel like the issues the baby had when he was born all stemmed from all the stress she was under whilst pregnant and he probs doesn’t even realise or care.
He just wanted a baby momma that was it
Classic narcissist
Yup..
You're so right. He did love bomb her
In hindsight it does seem like he rocked Erica to sleep tho I don't believe he has enuf sense to do so..anyway karma will show up for him no doubt
I felt Erica when she said “I feel scammed” 😞 He scammed all of us with that good guy act smh.. so disappointing 😔
Lol yah know right. We've all been hoodwinked bamboozled
I'm not a stan but Nicki said it. Unfortunately, people thought that this good man was treated poorly by a mean woman lol. Now look. A real scam!
How has Safaree scammed Erica...he has literally shown from d ay one hes a clown even Erica before dating him said she cant take him seriously...and now shes complaining about her own choice just because she's in the circus.....its called red flags you missed all 5000 of them
Him and nicki spoke everything
But people wanna b hopeful
BIG FACTSS !
My grandpa always said, everybody grows old but not everybody *grows up.* Seems to me someone should tell Safari that being his age does not make him a grown man.... its his actions that determine his manhood, not who he is screwing *this week* ..
@The Cuteness I agree ruclips.net/video/jKqD1dcLlVM/видео.html
I agree and I love this statement
yes grandpa!!! preach 👏🏾
Obviously it’s not about sex did you not hear the man still say he wants to be there for their kids and be an active father he Does not need to live there to do that
Yasssss preach !!!!your grandma was absolutely correct god bless her ,you,Erica and her babies
He didn’t even deny the fact that he wouldnt put his family before him. That’s crazy. No woman especially pregnant should ever go through this. I hope she manages to find the strength to get through this ❤️
I hope she turns that hurt and pain into strength for those kids. Because they are gonna need her to be strong for them. Because it looks like she's gonna have to be mother and father.🤦🏽
Relax it's just a show 😭
True but that’s what happens when you start a family with a person you barely even know. Walking down the aisle doesn’t imply relationship security
@@dougedoug2105 she didn’t barely know him he acted like one person and completely changed once married
@@aliciasmith6387 Well I guess he guilty of pulling an Erica on Erica because she’s been doing that to people for years
Safaree really had the audacity to say “she looks at me with so much anger” as he’s looking at her like he despises her 🙄
He does. Never come between a mother bear and her cubs and never come between a man and his money. Babies cost money which is why he didn’t want her to have another one so soon. She and all these pregnancies are literally attacking Safaree’s finances. His wife left him with only 4 months to mentally prepare for a son whereas she had the entire 9. If anyone is the real victim here, then it would be Safaree Samuels. No one sees that his wife is strangling the hope out of him having all these babies without his blessing/consent
@@dougedoug2105 she 100% did wrong with having another baby when he didn’t want one, but to not say anything about his actions and put it all on her is not fair.
He look like man u were so hot wen we were jus fuckin now u not
I don't like this man anymore 😕 😪 😒
@@dougedoug2105 Lmfaaooo it takes TWO to make a baby. They are a married couple and he stated before their first child that he wanted her to be the mother of his kidS (that’s plural baby boy). He trapped her and when he discovered he didn’t want this life it’s too late. You can’t time a baby. If he didn’t want another he should’ve gotten snipped. He’s not the victim when he gets to ditch his consequences whenever he wants. He’s not the victim when he’s emotionally and mentally abusing his pregnant wife and therefore his unborn children. He’s not the victim when he left his premature son and is wife in the ICU alone while he was drunk parting overseas with his friends. You sound dumb.
That speech she gave him was a desperate cry for him to fight for her. I gave that speech so many times in my life to my “significant other” hoping that something would click. That he would change or have empathy for me. That he would put his family first. But let me tell you something... ladies, men... whoever is having conversations hoping the other person will change; if you have to have these talks just walk away. Love is gentle, kind, empowering, empathetic and an exchange. This ain’t it! And it doesn’t always mean the other person involved is a bad person it means they are not YOUR person. You don’t have to fight for LOVE. Love fights for you 🤍
And that’s on Period!
Well said
A word! 💯
I love this! Thank you for the great advice. “love fights for you”
So true 👍can't put that no other way
I think for Erica she is hurting more that she has to continue to go through the same hurt and pain over and over again.....not only w/ safaree, but w/ the past men she dated. It's almost as if "when will I get this right, when will someone love me genuinely". I truly pray for her, bcus no1 deserve to have that feeling. I once was her. I'm praying she learns to love & put herself 1st and the rest will fall in place❤❤❤❤
💯❤
I want them to last so much and get there marriage right I pray they do!
That's me after a marriage and long term relationship. Seems to me so many men are just selfish and are clueless and unwilling to having a genuine interests in truly loving a woman the way she was intended to be loved, because they don't want to put forth the effort nor compromise are make sacrifices.
She’s always been violent spoiled disrespectful and now she’s reaping the effects. She shouldn’t have ever gotten pregnant. Did anyone hear Safaree say she through sharp objects at him. Where was her love for her kids then
Shes too much.....has alot of anger
It’s so sad because this is going to impact Erica for the rest of her life. The way you treat a pregnant person stays with them well beyond the baby being born. I hope she and the babies get the support and happiness they deserve.
This is so true!!!!!!!!
This is the problem with a lot of women, they think like you! You're one sided and it seems you don't think that women can do wrong or contribute to the toxicity. Though we don't personally know these people we can pretty much tell that their problems started waaaayyyy before her last pregnancy. So why would you or she expect him to be different just bc she's pregnant?
I went through something so similar when I was pregnant, it's the worst pain that you will ever feel in life!! So I really feel for Erica, no matter what people say about her. When she said that she feels like she's been scammed, that s*** is so real!!
@@miraclehappens2053 me too... and it almost broke me. I'm in a happy and healthy relationship now but sometimes i still feel like crying when i think about it.
This is very true
Any woman who dates Safari after seeing how he treats Erica is a fool
Yea he’s with someone now smh
He didn't do this to Nicki
Not just a fool but an entire enemy to women. What we as women should be doing collectively is drying up this narcissists supply. Go let him run around with the transformers.
He looks like he hates her. Unfortunately, I learned at 18 that you can't force a man to be a Dad. It's no ones job to remind a man that he is a father, If it doesn't come naturally
Facts
He does !! I think there’s more to the story that they just don’t show .
No one deserves to have their heart broken but I’m praying that God gives her the strength to understand that some things that you WANT aren’t always what you NEED
She married the 🍆 not the person
IT will be a Dysfunctional home big time both of them
You soundin like my mama, she kept tellin me this sum point after I had my daughter 3 months ago and you’re right. Him being there doesn’t mean it’ll be easy in my case it would be worse
Amen!
I agree but some folks must learn the hard way
He wanted the essence of Erica.. he didn't want to do the "family" thing. Classic "you pay more attention to the kids than you do to me" she wanted a family, he just wanted a pretty wife to show off. But, Erica is a mother, first.
Well said 💯
Good breakdown sis👍
Very well said
Rite jus pretty to show off
@@babyallen1232 i think he low key did it to spite nicki cuz he knew she wanted a ring a baby too
Safaree is wicked! How you stressing out your pregnant wife and leaving her with a two babies
Smh 🤦🏿 right !
Proper disgusting. He’s a little boy!!!
The fact that she said you "would never put us before you" is so sad. And he didn't even respond back or try to deny that. Oof girl you are better off single.
He said it to her more than once that's why he didn't deny it
@Sharon ruclips.net/video/jKqD1dcLlVM/видео.html
Who's to say they didn't have this same convo over and over and he's just like: This again? Also, she said it too..:I love him but I love me more. And that's how it should be...on both sides. Keep the same energy, is all I'm saying. And other people said it too, we see what VH1 wants us to see.
@@suzannev12 Pick-me alert 🚨. It's always a woman trying to be "fair and balanced" and defending male BS... She said that in response to what he's told her several times, but even then, she didn't mean it in a selfish way. They both know that she will be the primary caretaker of their two very young children. Putting herself first is putting her family first. If something happens to her, what will happen to their children?
@@Michelle.1952 Oh, now I'm 'defending male BS' because I don't take reality tv's narrative as gospel? LOL. I was raised with the 'where two people fight, two are to blame' mentality. It never specified any people's gender. Y'all are taking this female empowerment to the wrong level, IMHO. A person isn't right, just because she's female, and I am a female. I don't get to have an opinion because it's not your female opinion? Miss me with that bs...
The fact that she said twice “You would never put us before yourself” and he didn’t say anything means even he knows it’s true. He doesn’t even care enough to say it isn’t. I hope she finds better💗 Some of y’all under here must’ve never been in a relationship where you’re the only one trying. Yea she was being violent but in my eyes it’s a cry for help and emotion from a man who doesn’t give a fuck. So like I said, I HOPE SHE FINDS BETTER💖
He never loved her duh 🤦🏽♀️
You are so right! Those kind of men you leave alone because they will never see it. I’m pretty sure he believes nothing is wrong with him 😑
He actually told her before that he will never put them before himself. She said it in another episode.
Hell yeah he did not say one word
There is no better majority of single mothers do no better then their BD
this was a nasty divorce very sad because he literally pursued Erica and begged to be with her, stated he wanted to marry her and have kids then when reality set in that he had to be this "family man and husband" he folded under the pressure.... wish both of them the best especially to Erica nobody deserves to be treated this way while pregnant by their husband its really disgusting and shows the type of man Safaree is...
Whats crazy is a lot of dudes treat they lady like this....and women still stay it's so crazy.
@@tifftroser9309 facts at least erica did leave plus he also admitted to cheating on her! He's trash asf
This what they do. They pursue, state they want a family etc and when they in it it’s like “ish I dont really want to be in this.” This what they do. This their MO.
@@BigGeminiGoat can you guide me to the clip where he admitted to cheating on her? I’ve heard about it but haven’t seen it
@@davissasa the clip where he's talking too yandy he admits something happened but it was a one time incident (typical cheater b.s)
This is so sad.. he’s literally breaking her to pieces. Bad for the new born . And two under two . That’s so deep . Why would someone not want a family like this .
Erica broke herself to pieces. The man sat there and literally told her didn’t want more kids shortly after their daughter was born but Erica got pregnant anyway. No sympathy over here. She’s going to be stuck raising that family by her dam self because she chose to start that family by her dam self.
Just because a man is having unprotected sex with his wife it doesn’t imply he wants to have more kids. Any married man deserves to have unprotected sex with his wife without consequences. Never once did Erica say “We were planning to get pregnant” which means Safaree wasn’t onboard with the idea. A husband deserves to have some say so in what you do with his sperm.
You can’t just be having babies all Willy Nilly because it’s his money who has to pay for them. Now Erica is going to be stuck raising a family by herself until Safaree decides to quit running the streets and she has to wait for him to do so because if she cheats then he’ll divorce her and never do so(See, the man holds all the cards here). Her decision to get pregnant was an emotional one and that’s what she’s having an emotional pregnancy. Erica played herself trying to play her husband and now she wants sympathy
@Doug E Doug it takes two people to make a baby he new exactly what he was doing now he don't want the responsibility take several seats you sounds dumb
@@lizmariedavila3797 First of all, you always begin a sentence by capitalizing the first letter and it isn’t “you sounds dumb” actually it is “you sound very dumb”. And I don’t care how many people it takes to make a baby, given the recent divorce rates, and the number of fatherless households in this country, it only requires one person to raise a child. If I were a woman in a shaky marriage, I definitely wouldn’t be popping out children like they’re puppies nor would I be so quick to be positioning myself to raise my children alone. Safaree can leave her any day now and she’s be bitterly stuck.
No one has any sympathy for Erica, she’s a dam near 35 year old woman married to a very well known and self-admitted womanizer. Children cost a lot of money to raise and Erica is popping them out like money really does grow on trees. Moreover, and in the middle of a global pandemic and during a significant point in history with skyrocketing inflation; The Bish gets no sympathy here, woman or not, and I don’t care how many people it takes to make a kid. “I said what I said(NeNe Voice)” Erica is on her 3rd child and still hasn’t figured out how to successfully work a man. Bish broke her own dam self down into pieces you idiot 👊🏽
@@dougedoug2105 men don’t deserve any kind of sex that’s where u fucked up
@@dougedoug2105 like why are women the only ones accountable in bc like men can’t make sure they don’t have kids themselves if it’s that serious, u sound like a weirdo incel that secretly just hates women lmao
Safaree isn't facing the reality. And the reality is that he doesn't give a da.n about anything or anyone. He couldn't care less on what Erica goes through or what their kids go through. He isn't the man people think he is.
He fooled me too. Smh.
Your 100% right
You better say that
No i know for sure he is a wasteman thats Jamaican saying 4 a loser
I agree he's a Clown 🤡 Erica got a lucky escape
and how is Safaree still puzzled that Erica looks at him with hatred in her eyes? 🙄
He's not he doesn't care like many men who do this all the time
He is a little boy.
THAT'S WAT I SAID
He has what so many other celebs have.
Yes Men.
He has people like that around him that just let all kinds of things fly and easy come easy go women so he hasn't come to grips with that. Erica is not easy come easy go since they are married
This man stresses me out and he's not my own😭💔 may the universe send Erica a partner to love her genuinely ❤
Facts
Erica needs to love erica genuinely.
He never loved her it was about the pursuit of her and once he had her he realized that work was needed to keep it going he bailed because she wasn't worth it to him.
Damn. It's the truth, though.
He got her…now he done
He is a true lowlife.safaree going to feel what Erica feeling and worst
"If you love us the way you love you" Wow that speaks volumes. I feel Erica's pain. Prayers Uppppp for her and her children. Don't loose hope and faith 🙏🏽
It's kinda karma you got to be very careful the energy you put out cuz what goes around comes around and never seen Erica so vulnerable
And you're not a single mom just because you and the father didn't work out you still have co-parenting help
Throwing sharp objects and him calling the cops also speaks volumes.
@@Blingblow_779 we never si dat; mouth meant fi seh anything. Not that I'm condoning any violence between the two however, I never hear or seen that. We all know it would've gone viral don't it. I'm speaking based on what is presented. Bless
@@sweetpeasurvivor8784 it’s funny how he stated that there might be abuse from her and you are quick to not believe it because you never saw it lol but I bet you if it was the other way around ya would kill this dude. Lol he said she threw sharp objects and she never denied that she did that what proof do you need lol. Bless.
"I feel scammed" That pretty much sums up this entire situation.
BINGO! Agreed
She hit it on the nail....I was left feeling the same when I found out I married a kiddie boy.
@@jacquelineharris-braxton7385 sorry to hear that
You hit the nail on the head with this one
That’s what narcissists do. Scam people.
I really feel for her.
It’s so hurtful when you’re explaining to a man what hurts you and there’s no emotion to it. He’s just cold while you’re sitting there crying. He doesn’t want to be there for those kids because if he did he wouldn’t have done all the things he’s done. Erica isn’t perfect but no person man or woman deserves to be treated like this!
True 😥
Damn I really feel her pain. No one deserves to be treated like that. You can tell she’s grown a lot and is a changed woman. She really wanted to be a wife and have a family. He didn’t have to do her like that man.
What is most crushing about this is, Safaree clearly doesn't regret any of his choices.
Your on point with that, cause it's sad.. on so many different levels smh..
Yes he does, he regrets marrying her and having children with her....
@@jasmic38134 daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn 😢
@@jasmic38134 I agree 💯
Its like man , you really dont care 😔 at lease pretend so it doesnt stress her out.
Talking to safaree is like talking to a brick wall man wtf!!! I’d couldn’t reason with him I’d end up putting my hand on him out of frustration
I’m sure she has behind the scenes 😂
She did that’s why he called the cops😅😂
@@StillAlive-t8e you can’t even fault her Tbh. His like an child in a grown man’s body
This was definitely a scam
Right 😂 I'd end up with a mugshot
One of the smartest things I heard this year was that you cannot EXPECT a man to love you the way you want to be loved. You will only be setting yourself up for disappointment. It seems like she came to the realization he is just not everything she needs him to be, and solitude will make you accept things real quick. I don't know about you all but I'm lovin Erica this year.👏👏👏 glow&grow babyyy
Visa versa
You hit this shit on the head sis. I had to learn this lesson the hard way💯
@@shanna4706 Me too, it's a hard lesson to learn but you gotta realize it tho it's real
There are men and there are boys. There are girls and there are ladies...most people including celebrities have a narcissistic spirit where its about them.. ..the first relationship comes with Christ which leads you to use wisdom through healthy older elders that teach and guide etc....when ppl think men and women are bad etc the first thing is to ask why are you attracting that...blame is easy but reflection is key
At the end of the day it really stems down to what we were missing in our childhoods, you cannot expect to find a Knight in shining armor, or princess, that is going to be everything you want and more. Everybody's expectations are too high
He’s such a child. He’s so wrong for doing her like this. :( that’s so stressful and dangerous during a pregnancy.
I’d rather give 69 play, before this lame azz sorry excuse for a dude
She got someone's to puts hands on him
@@cynthiagipson8039 I saw the video😭😭😭😭
Karma will hit Safaree in a way he would never expected
Safaree was definitely in LUST with Erica, not in love. Now that reality is setting in, he's trying to back up from his responsibilities. This is why we should choose wisely who we get married and have kids with. Now, these kids are going to have no idea of what a healthy relationship between a mother and father is like.
What you mean she quit. She scamed if she quit
"I feel scammed" No truer words have been spoken. 🙁
@Eshadiva87 ruclips.net/video/jKqD1dcLlVM/видео.html
A manipulative and toxic man will make you feel bamboozled.
@@alexakearney But it's the fact that he initiated this whole relationship. He could've left her alone but instead he scammed her into believing he wants to be a monogamous family man. Damn what a waste of time!
@@dosman3458 absolutely! the only thing I really know about him is he’s Jamaican. And as a Jamaican woman I can fully say many men in our culture have similar traits as this man. I feel very bad for her
Man they are really dragging this out. It's giving Kirk and Rasheeda
Right Lol
Right! It's giving storyline
I think this is scripted. I hate they make him look like the bad person for TV ratings.
@@CJ-zn2pu not you saying thi-
@@CJ-zn2pu exactly. Because they are back together now. Smh. They really need to stop dragging and make him look bad
I think the strangest thing about the saying is he acts as if he doesn’t know why she’s upset. Therefore making excuses for his behavior. At the end of the day he asked her to marry him. he said he wanted her to be the mother of his children and because he can’t be free as he wants to be he throws his entire family away? Her feelings and her hurt are completely valid, especially since he seems to think she’s angry for no reason. Until accountability becomes important this is going to be a repetitive cycle not just with them but in general with relationships and coparenting
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That's what being desperate get you. Trying to stay relevant for tv and get with anybody.
Very well said.
Wow he doesn't even show any emotion when his pregnant wife is crying. He doesn't even attempt to hug her! What a P.O.S.!!!!!! #CancelSafaree
She wasn't a wife wen he found her.... He had to learn the hard way
That's still no excuse smfh 🙄🙄🙄
@@alwensday8120 he asked to marry her! He chased her! To then act like a P.O.S.....She's the mother of his children for God sake! He's completely in the wrong. Her behavior shows growth and his shows trash!
@@alwensday8120 That's so powerful and sad at the same time🥺
@@jessecord so because she's the mother of his children that gives her the right to assault and abuse him physically?
“I feel scammed”
You were sis. You were. Nicki was too. Boffum.
Yep. Missed all the red flags. Those Jamaicans aren't loyal lol
1st of all Safaree is not Jamaican he has Jamaican parents second of all Jamaican men protect their bby mothers even if they dont want have a family with them so please get your facts straight.
@@kimberlyanderson5796 ? ._. if he has jamaican parents he is jamaican lmfao that’s how genetics and ancestry work
For you to be Jamaican you have to be born in the country look it up, HAVING JAMAICAN PARENTS DO NOT MAKE YOU JAMAICAN -_- he may has Jamaican roots but he's a born and breed American.
@@kimberlyanderson5796 so you guys have legally that rule or? otherwise ethnicity and nationality are not the same thing still
I really wish men would understand the importance of making sure a woman is at peace during the time she is pregnant. It may not look like it now but babies feel EVERYTHING, especially emotions during fetal development. If you care about your children growing up with the absolute best opportunities in life, give them a starting chance by making peace.
Very true. I can relate to Erica and feel so sad for her because during my pregnancy I was so miserable due to the father. Thankfully my son is a happy child.
Learned this in developmental psychology. I can't believe he's being so heartless.
I wish women stop using their pregnancy as an excuse to be physically and verbally abusive to their partners ☺️
That’s why he came out the way he did. NICU baby ❤️
@@deliciaperry4684 You're absolutely right. I totally forget he was in the NICU.
She’s toxic though I don’t blame him for being fine after she filed for divorce . She has always been the aggressor in arguments and he’s just being honest about not seeing them last. Erica is just toxic and manipulative af always wanting to be seen as the victim like take some responsibility too.
Do you not see how this man has treated her? I get her being toxic and I don't like her either. Not a big fan. But dude left her with two children after saying he wanted them, only to continue treating her horribly and barely take care of the kids?...and she's in the wrong? Yikes
He CHASED HER to get her. And now look. Imagine that.
its all a game once they get you the thrill is gone
Right chase her all the way thru scared famous
I remember he begged to be with her and she told him that he wasn't ready for a relationship he claimed up and down he was ready until he won her heart and stayed with her just long enough to break her heart he's far from being anyone's husband or dad.
@@4rmwestcoastmagsonia with boys.. not real men.
She was a trophy
I don’t like how safaree always treated Erica hes so childish 😒. Erica was right to file for divorce self love is the best love ❤️.
@Zaria he's not a husband material is about time as women stop thinking every man is supposed to be a husband.however I hope you take a look thank you.ruclips.net/video/jKqD1dcLlVM/видео.html
@@africaafrican8931 my thing is he never put no effort in the relationship he never does that so why in the world she wanted Mary him she could have stayed with her ex girlfriend instead of the all these men and she be dealing with in the past I know relationship is my perfect but sometimes you just got to work on your stuff in your children stop chasing after a man that doesn't not want you I don't get it but Erica and Safaree it is so toxic I cannot believe this I cannot put my finger on it I will pray for her and her children he only think about is himself not her and not the kids
@@lethalong3898 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 she's trying to force Safaree to care about her lol but clearly he doesn't.see i ain't mad at safaree for living especially when he's not happy.most people don't understand that being in a toxic relationship is worse for the kids.they pick up that toxic energy as well.this my thing as long as they co parent everything should be fine,it should be about the kids not the marriage.positive environment for the kids is the most important thing but Erica doesn't get it,Erica needs to heal and practice self love first.her ex gf loved her but she did her dirty maybe is her karma I could be wrong.
What come around come around she got what she deserves look how she do people
Erica you were scammed. He sold you a dream. And is he really surprised she looks at him with anger 🙄 ugh can't stand him
Extreme emotional pain she endured while pregnant, brings a lot of unwelcome memories back.
he starting to sound like Tara .."for the kids"... *rolls eyes*...which will forever be sad cuz HEEEE CHASEDDDD HERRRR! i dont care how many times i say it cuz i HATE to see a man mess up a woman peace for fun! she was chilling til he came around with hopes and dreams just to crush it when sh!t dont go your way. he is PATHETIC
That is a narcissist he love bombed her
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In that case he's the new Peter Gunz 😂 I think the creep squad has a new member to initiate 😂😂😂
I definitely feel Erica when she said I feel like I’ve been scammed.
Im on the train n that hit me hard to hear that
Ditto
She was scammed look up narcissism and love bombing
He love bombed her and then proceeded to break her down that’s what a narcissist does
I felt it & was instantly reminded of an ex. Chile when I found out the real, I literally almost vomited I was so disgusted. NGL. Took me a couple of years to heal from it.
@@ThatLadyDray Yes it’s nauseating we all have been scammed honey when I did the research I still I’m still trying to recover to this day because the idea that a week as immature insecure man seeks out a strong loving giving woman just to break them down is unthinkable
I can’t wait for this chapter to be closed and we get to see the point where Erica’s happy and inlove with someone who treats you like the queen that she is! 💯 She deserves that much
What has she done to deserve that?
@@ItsReallyLynx if you hate women, just say that 🤦🏾♀️ Erica definitely deserves to be with someone that’ll love her properly. What has she done that was so bad to the point you don’t believe she deserve better than this cornball? Nobody’s perfect, that includes you.
@@kw6724 Let me get this straight... you assume I hate ALL women because I asked a question of what has ERICA MENA done to deserve happiness? LMAO. Ok then. Last time I checked, women aren't a monolith. She was the common denominator in all her failed relationships, you dodo. Including this one. Even Cyn Santana said she's crazy. That's a woman saying it. She was even coming after Cyn on a dummy account on IG. She deserves everything she's getting.
@@ItsReallyLynx ok
@@kw6724 That's what I thought, coward. 😂
Safaree: you look nice
Erica: I’m sure
IKDR sis. As soon as you move on he’s gonna loose his little mind
Im so sorry for Erica. She's really been scammed in every relationship besides Cyn tbh. Every man just dogs on her when she tried. She is crazy, but that crazy stems from some place of hurt. I hope she heals from this one for her kids.
She scammed Cyn and trolled her when she got in this relationship so BLOOP.
She will find a man that understands her one day
I wished she stayed with Cyn.
@@Miz292 😂😂😂😂😂 Cyn loved her tho
@@queenkayy7851 yea but she gone have to heal and practice self love first
Her pain is showing through that beautiful makeup she is wearing and also physically through her weightloss. Nobody deserves such treatment. I just pray that Erica gets support from genuine friends and family even after she gives birth. Postpartum depression is a real thing.
"As much as I love him, I love me more" YESSS ERICA!!!
If she really loved him she wouldn't file for divorce
Anybody remember how hard safarree fought to get erica and she had her reservations? I feel so bad for her bc you could tell then he was in love, and now hes selfish I hope his son is a better man.
Funny how Safaree victimizes himself 😂😂😂
All the time ✅
Narcissist he actually needs help
Talking bout some sharp objects and calling the police to protect himself 💀💀
@@baddreamshiphop poor safaree, he’s inoffensive against a pregnant woman
We really don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Erica can't be an easy person, she seems it's her way or no way and she petty acting. Their both fuked up honestly
When she said she feels scammed, I can see what she means. He’s okay because now he can go live his life after he made many promises to her prior to becoming parents. Now you made these children with your wife you vowed to love until death do you part, and you’re putting your own selfish needs first. So now the dream of being together and raising a family TOGETHER is gone. Of course if he’s going to be selfish and only think about himself to make the relationship toxic, they shouldn’t be together. But then he also shouldn’t have painted a different picture as to how he wanted to be with her and how much he was devoted etc etc
I feel she was scammed and be pregnant, which is one the worse things to go through.
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For once I feel so bad for Erica, she really tried to love this man despite her past. He broke her beyond repair ATM I hope she can get back on her feet
Dang cyn was begging her the same way
💯🤧😩
The fact that he always just leaves speaks volumes. So sad. Hold your head up proudly queen.
Erica don’t want a divorce. She thought when she filed, he would snap out of it and straighten up. But he doesn’t want the marriage anymore. She’s not listening to him. He told her he knows they will not last! He flat out told you he knows the inevitable is divorce, Erica. That’s him saying looking at it now with hindsight, he knows y’all getting married was a mistake. He sees that y’all are not compatible together. He also feels the relationship is toxic. He was basically stating that when he mentioned she picks up sharp objects and he called the police. I feel a split is what’s right. Erica, sometimes love isn’t enough and we have to accept that L’ and move on.
This was well said !! I agree 100%
Truth hurt
I understand what he's saying but I thought he would've known this( they aren't compatible) before they got married. We don't really know what goes on behind closed doors. I'm sure Erica played a part in this as well but he litterly chased her down until he finally got her. He married her and had kids but now he's saying he's not happy. How long were they married again?
I agree! It sucks that she has to go through this while pregnant but the truth of the matter is we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. They both play a part. I’ve never seen this girl talk to someone with respect. She doesn’t know how to handle her emotions and many are not going to put up with that. Hopefully they both find peace and can take care of them precious babies.
I agree completely with you!! Scroll up and read my comment. Erica is not innocent at all! In life whether it's male or female we have to take a long look in the mirror at ourselves. I think he loved her in the beginning but fell out of love with the other side of Erica (which is the nasty side of her that we've seen time and time again on tv and I'm pretty sure alot has gone on in this marriage that we don't know about). Women feel that because there women they can say and do whatever they want without consequences. The consequence for her is that HE DOESN'T WANT HER. I believe he loves he's children just not her. And I believe it's hard for him being around the children and having to deal with her NAGGING, ATTITUDE and everything else that comes with her.
He literally could've left her alone.
@Tough I agree ruclips.net/video/jKqD1dcLlVM/видео.html
Facts!!!
Real he chased her ...
She literally could've denied his advances 😟 They're both to blame for this. Both had their role to play. But tbh I don't care about them, they're grown, they'll live. The babies though. People always bringing INNOCENT children into nonsense smh
@@leslienava3076 a lot of jamaican men do this for a "thrill" some just genuinely enjoy leaving women broken, they see it as a challenge and when they've succeeded they go on to the next new unsuspecting "project".
awww man. I teared up a lil bit. Erica really is in pain. Everytime that vein pops on her forehead just knowwww😰
We staaay cryin over these dusties! You won’t always feel like this love 🤞🏾💕💪🏾
Agreed. She will find somebody who loves and respects her eventually.
Right
Sorry you have to go through this especially being pregnant. I feel so Bad for Erica , Erica you are Beautiful Strong and ABOVE ALL A GREAT MOTHER… Focus on your Kids and Yourself, Put God First have faith and things will be O.K I support you 100 % ❤️❤️
Erica is a little crazy, we all know that but, she deserves love, REAL love and it's very sad that he's done her like this!!!
Specialy she been through so much
She really don't deserve this especially pregnant I heart goes out to her
@@GoddessLulaBelle it’s always a reason. I hate when ppl esp. a man wanna call a woman crazy but doesn’t say what made her crazy. Anything Erica does violently is because of his actions🤷🏾♀️
A little crazy? She’s abusive both physically and verbally let’s not defend problematic people bird brain😘
@@messyangel1169 bird brain? Lol good one! I'm not defending her but, no one at all deserves to be mistreated!
My Erica has been through sooooooooo much…. I love her strength nobody gets her but I do
Just seeing her in so much pain really hurts my heart.
She's trying to guilt him into staying in a toxic relationship. Keeps forgetting she has 3 kids and not 2. Had she been a mother to her first child, she could have seen how he was with kids
I feel sorry for Erica but this is a learning lesson for her and when she gets her strength back she’ll never let another do this to her again.
I mean.... over 30, aggressive attitude,with 2 kids....its gonna be hard for her to find another man anyway
@@weAllCin 3*
@@fluffybear1539 even worse 🥴
Yeah she'll destroy a nice guy.
She is so beautiful 😍 and strong 💪🏼 don’t worry erica everything will be ok 👍
Ladies learn from this . You cant make a man love treat and respect you as he should. We got to protect ourselves from men like this. Their had to be red signs on both ends that they clearly ignored. I hate the way he acts she hurting and he is chilling with no cares. Erica I know she not perfect but come on now she dont deserved this while pregnant. She look so skinny its sad.🙏🙏🙏💪 I hope this ends in her favor! I've totally lost all respect for him..
Facts
This is so sad. I wouldn’t wish this upon a single person. I pray for her happiness
Erica came with a lot of pain and emotional baggage. She wasn't even checking for this beta male...lol But he pressed and went after her. I really believe she felt she found love and refuge in him. For a man who don't seek to make effort and work on his marriage, is a man who lacks maturity to understand how to build a family foundation. Especially barely 2yrs in, something is awry or amiss. But there is cause and effect to actions and the universe hands out lessons daily.
Overall, this guy acts like he's in his 20's.
Nahhh...20 + year olds act better..lol I'm in my 20s n I don't act like that
No he just gay and as usual the black community falls for yet another closet case
If she wasn’t checking for him why did she marry him? 2+2 don’t equal 5 dear😂
@@amoyaa.a.9500 men are different. And we know a lot men and women who act this way. Hell, even in there 30s, exhibit A in the video.
@@friezasama8860 🎯🎯🎯
I feel so bad for Erica. This man has put her through hell and back at least five times.
Jesus christ 🙄😭😢😓 take this kind of man away from me 🙏
He’s too old to be acting like this. You’re in your 40s Safaree.
Preach. And gawd I at least thought he was in his thirties. What a child
And she’s too old to still be getting pregnant without a man’s consent in order to keep him. Safaree didn’t want more kids and that was his right. Erica’s fertile assss chose to get pregnant anyway. He’s giving her the blues. I betcha she’ll never get pregnant without her husband’s permission again
@@dougedoug2105 they’re married. For better or for worst. People forget the vows they make.
@Funke Adeniji Taking Vows doesn’t justify Erica’s poor decision making. The man is the head so the decision should’ve gone through and been a mutual one from the get go. Everybody knows that the quickest way to lose a man is to have a baby by him, including but not limited to husbands. That said, Safaree has been running the streets like a single man for months almost a year now. The writings are on the wall; He did not want more children and now we’re in this mess
@@dougedoug2105 That don't excuse him for abandoning her at the baby shower , or leaving her throughout her pregnancy.. Immature guys only think the way u do fr fr.... So quick to use the word "man" but act like a child.. Communication is key !!! N things happens!!.... she could've been pregnant before he even mentioned not having a baby but she kept it to herself until she felt right to say something !!! But it okay for females to open their legs for ya taaa miss me with the bull!!!
When he promised to be her rock, I think they took it very differently. She was thinking shelter from the storm, but he turned out to be the drowning, dragging kind.
Whew! 😢
Sheesh.
I just wanna hug her and tell her everything’s gone be alright. He’s still childish and has no respect for her.
He wants to run wild not to be tie down to no women
And this happens in so many black homes, it’s always our mothers that are the backbone of the black community. Not enough men.
And they still get trashed for it.
Could it be that she's a bit much though? I mean she's incredibly beautiful I don't see why any man wouldnt want to be with her but it's obvious that Safaree experienced something that we don't know about her. Not condoning him leaving her with two kids but it has to be a little more than meets the eye.
@@ricardofrench8708
Safaree knows the wild card Erica is from her time on the show and he still pursued her HEAVILY and wouldn't take no for an answer. So, he made that choice to chase her and convince her to give him a chance and when she did, his true colors emerged, thus showing Erica that giving him a chance was a total waste of time.
@@ricardofrench8708 It doesn't matter how beautiful she is, if a man doesn't want to commit to his marriage then he won't. Don't blame her for that.
@@edenredeemed yeah you're right but at that same token it seems to be a bit more than meets the eye with her. I mean multiple people alluded to her crazy behavior and history of her domestic violence. She alluded to changing when they first got together but maybe she didn't and continued on crazy behavior until Safari felt it became too toxic. I mean he did say she was throwing things and pulling out sharp objects. She just doesn't seem to be that stable to be in a relationship if she doing all that.
I have never even been an Erica fan and I feel her pain. I FEEL it. How could he?!
I'm so disappointed in Safaree. I thought he was a better man than that. I thought my girl finally found Mr. Right.
@Sabreen ruclips.net/video/jKqD1dcLlVM/видео.html
She matured so much man 😩 I feel bad she literally changed
Safaree didnt deny it.he loves himself more and the unbothered attitude...this guy is comparing being a mom 24/7 and his pop ins in his motorcycle to see his children for 5 second, he is a joke
That is so painful to go through all alone and he took way to long to apologize
Safaree hasn't grown up as yet he's not a man he's still a boy she's pregnant and he keeps stressing her out that's not good he needs to grow up man
I feel Scammed, Now you’re Free! That’s the most realest shit. I’m glad she finally realized this situation is not good to raise children. Children need to see healthy and respectful relationships.
As soon as he said "we're not gonna last" .. boom. Sign, sealed, and delivered.
Narcissists, they are out there. Protect yourself ladies.
"Im not the one who filed" dude you literally was barely there for her, fleed the scene and the country multiple times, and you certainly made one thing very clear on Twitter. THAT BEING MARRIED WAS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF HIS LIFE AND HE MEAN THAT FROM HIS BOTTOMLESS PIT HEART. Absolutely disgusting how manipulative he is, making her think he actually wanted to stay in this marriage.
I mean at least he’s making it clear that them breaking up and moving on is the best choice and that they wouldn’t last. He could be dragging it even more if he wanted
Right. Erica is pregnant, but she is still for her behaviors, and her part in this mess. Did you hear him say she came after him with zharp objects? Did you see her cover up security cameras to destroy his belongings? Truth is, she has always exhibited HORRIBLY DESTRUCTIVE TENDENCIES. She is trying to sell this poor me persona. I M not buying it. Maybe it is her KARMA. He can be a good father Watch and see if she lets him be a good Father, and then judge the whole situation.
@@vannessasamuel2015 yea part of that is on him though cause if is the viewers knew how she was he definitely should’ve known better to knock her up but he is right that they shouldn’t be together.
A lesson to the rest of us to exercise serious discernment when choosing a life partner. I'm starting to realize more and more the need to actively make God a part of my relationship. For Him to work on my partner, work on me and work on us. Imagine getting into a sacred covenant and not inviting it's author and authenticator to the table? Marriage isn't child's play and I strongly believe a lot of them are collapsing because no one's trying to seek for guidance from God. And by the time you realize the need to it's already late, the bed has been made. If you're still single or in a relationship and not yet married, no kids...you are the devil's target. His aim? To destroy the family structure. Take caution and PRRRAAAAYY!!! Meditate on the sound instructions of Holy Scripture. It's not easy but God is faithful, He would never lead you astray🙏🏾❤️
That was GREATLY put! Thank you! 💕🙏
@@DivineGoddess888 Godspeed sis🙏🏾❤️
Amen!!!!! 👏🏽
Wow !! Amen to that !
I 1000% agree.
You can't talk down to him and expect him to be with you Erica. You need counseling. No need for all that drama ever. That's why he running.
Heal girl. Safaree is not a victim
@@rosanamondi your right, I said that before realizing he's a narc as well. They both narcs.
I’m sorry but Safaree is a bad person, my heart goes out to what Erica has been through, no mommy deserves to be treated the way she was treated😔
Exactly!! Inconsiderate and selfish as heck saying it nicely 😡
@@BigRedd1124 I never genuinely thought a man would switch up SO QUICK like that, I know family life can be hard, but this is what he wanted and he’s never made the effort😪 poor babies
@@Yesnaya.k it's a maturity of a man that says a lot about him. You know some people make moves just to be noticed and not truly committed. My first indication the marriage was not going to work is when if you remember when they all took that trip and he didn't tell nobody Erica was coming I knew it was going to be a problem with their relationship because he was trying to hide her instead of being up front this is my love this who I love. He's just really immature point blank and simple
@@BigRedd1124 you’re absolutely right now that you’ve bought it up!!!👀
@@pvssology it’s not that I thought the cliché of “he’s just different” the way he was going on to look for a wife, even bringing his mom onto the show I just thought he was actually serious, no woman deserves to be sold a dream and have it crushed infront of them like that it’s just evil😪
OMG Damn no one deserves this. The hurt is overwhelming, especially carrying his child and due any day. Safaree is just low down Nasty
Very stressful
_This relationship was a recipe for disaster since the beginning. Love makes Red Flags look like Six Flags._ 🙃
Bruh I hear myself in Erica so much. I’ve said these words myself and it’s just so sad and heartbreaking.