Erica Mena & Safaree Reflect On Their Divorce 💔 Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2022
- From divorce to child support woes, Erica & Safaree recall their journey this season. #LHHReunion
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I'm sorry but Safaree throwing that chair and it coming back and hitting him is funny AF😂😂😂
I was hollering 😂
😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
I saw the scene at the same time I read your message! IM WEAK! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
God is good 😂
Karma lol 😂
Erica literally looks like skin and bones 🥺🥺the stress has literally stripped her of so much
That's exactly how I looked during my divorce ... It's sad I'm sorry for her yes she has a stink attitude but we all have it at times but noooo one deserves that.... I wish I could give her a longgggg hugggggg... ....n let her know it will all get better with time ...
GOOD
Man when they say stress will kill you QUICKER. I'm proof of that as well. But at this point in my life a ninja could NEVER get that from me. Imma eat through any and every thing with a smile on my face and a "mhmm okay". 😂
Hell she died trying to get rich and wanted to replace Nicki Minaj
Yes!!!!
Looking at Erica really does make me empathetic but I will never forget how she treated Cyn.
How did she treat Cyn?
yes, I was not a super fan of Cyn's but I felt for her when Erica finally turned on her and had the gall to say that was what she does. I feel for Erica here but I cannot help but see it as her experiencing to some extent what she put Cyn through times 100
Girl Cyn wasn’t the only one but I’m with you… Erica been on there in them streets fucking up marriages…. Karma is real fr
Thank You
Yea me either .
4:11 That chair said You're not throwing me!!" 😂😂😂
@irisbrown7267 yup that chair said ‘ nope that’s not how it goes , I am coming right back at ya boy ! Bomboclaatttt !’
You can see the toll it’s taken on Erica’s physical appearance.
Erica had a son before these two kids so people acting like she a new mom she thought she was going to control and be disrespectful and safari was going to stay with her
@@shenikadevine3887 did you watch the show? He treated her like the scum of the earth but I see where you coming from because prior to him she treated people bad so I guess what goes around comes around.
I’m not
@@shenikadevine3887 they were both the same can’t blame one or the other
@@shenikadevine3887 Safaree is a grown man. He could’ve said how he felt and left her. But he didnt do that. He got her pregnant twice then stopped being a father. Men lead their households but he just sat back and let his go up in flames.
Safaree knocking himself out with that chair is a metaphor for how he’s moving through life. I don’t understand how someone can see the mother of their child in so much pain and literally pay her dust.
😩
Maybe she should try fixing her attitude
Safaree throwing chairs at like himself he need cool down don't be like him one reason
It almost seems like he enjoys playing In Her pain !
I like this scene. Powerful stuff. 👍
All these grown ass people justifying this man's behavior and not making him take any accountability for the shit he did is messed up beyond repair. It's absolutely heartbreaking to watch Erica say he doesn't care (we can clearly see that by his attitude), and people still dismissed her like what she said ain't the truth.
they're babying him
A black man not taking accountability? Never 🙄
Facts.😂
@vonderajenkins7989 Narcissist men or women will take no ownership accountability or responsibility for there wrongful actions and all they do try to gaslight there wrong doings by trying to save face.😂
Shekinah Saya you can cuss me out I'm cool with it lol love the way she's so unbothered.😂
It’s so sad how a relationship can ruin you physically and mentally 😭😟 Praying 🙏🏼
I don’t care how people feel about Erica and her past relationships. There is no justification for Safaree leaving her in a hospital during a life-threatening pregnancy. None.
EDIT: The question of karma is a complex one. Bad people in power do terrible things all the time, and never see a negative result. Also, people can change and expecting people to “pay” for something in the past when they’re trying to change their behavior isn’t necessarily something I agree with.
Exactly, that was beyond cruel 😢
Yes it is look back at an ex and how he did you or that ex friend or family member and look how they getting what they did to you back. Just because she is famous doesn’t mean she gets a pass. What you water grows and the intentions grows.
Yeah people have no sensitivity at all
I don't wish bad on people. It's just reminds me to do my best to treat people well because you don't want the energy back coming back in the way that would hurt you.
But… when it comes down to the well being of a mother and her child during pregnancy… shit is scary. He shouldn’t have left her regardless of what they’re going through. His son was in her belly, what if something went wrong?
The most important thing Erica said “there is no substance there”
That phrase speaks volumes. She married him out of love that flourished from infatuation and physical attraction. But a marriage will test the depth of your connection and the foundation of the relationship, and she found out their foundation was not strong enough and he was not the man she thought he was, but really, there was no man there, just a shallow cold hole.
I wish her the best
They were mutally inlove . He even got her healthy stop drinking ..lived with her son . Then Bam. Safaree got something to say but he cant say it.
@@SimSetSoPalestine like most good men they don’t really care about their just users
SHE WAS TRULY!!! PROJECTING!!!...
Like my mom always told me,if a mf wonna leave show them the door and lock it soon as they exit, I guess I just have zero tolerance for bullshit, I'll let a mf go with the quickness, ain't finna throw my scales off balance ♎ period.....If they show u that ur a option show them that u got plenty of them ✌️✌️✌️.
As a man, I believe safaree is wrong in the way he handle erica during pregnancy. However, Because I am not on inside their home I can't give safaree all the blame or say he's truly a bad man, because erica has her own faults and who knows how her treatment or not listening to safaree is truly like inside their home. It's clear he's a man that shuts down during argument or too mich confrontation and maybe she needs to find the proper way to communicate with him. If she did not know how to communicate with safaree then she should javelin never had his baby or married him in the first place. So she has to hold herself accountable for that. Just like safaree has to take accountability for choosing her as his baby mother at his big age 😆. I know most woman are going to look at safaree as the villain in this story, but there's always 3 sides to a story and we won't know because we are truly not in their house
Not safaree hitting himself with the chair 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Listening to her talk about how she had to pull herself out of a dark place and I’m crying….I’ve been there 😢
I think everyone who's ever been in a serious relationship with a narcissist has unfortunately been there. 🙏🏽
“Speak, bro, cause they’re somebody out there like you. So you gotta speak.”
Facts. Scrappy is absolutely right. Men have feelings too and we can’t always be like “just suck it up” or “man up.” But we got things that we need to get off our chest too. But I’m not justifying the way he treated Erica though.
Mannnn she deserve all that stress she ain't innocent.
I love scrappy fr he’s one of my favorites
He left her in the hostpital during a life threatening pregnancy ur right men do have feelings but dose t hide how weak this man is for that like weak
Stfu this wat I hate about black ninjas like y’all who ask tf criminal how do u feel after murder or robing the store lol only y’all make y’all the victim of everything even with tf knife n y’all hand y’all will make away to blame everyone but ureself bunch a grown ass boys uggh
@@ChasidyYasmine n count ure days Lil girl
Best thing Erica can do is pray, focus on herself & her children. No amount of begging, crying , & comprising will make that 🥷 do right by their kids. She’s gonna drive herself crazy waiting for that man to humble himself , & prioritize the kids he helped create. Move on with grace girl, hard times don’t last forever.
Wys... amen.
Amen
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You must be a new watcher lmfao
She ain't waiting for him
Erica met her narcissistic march and couldn’t take it. I never cared and never felt sorry for her because she was evil and violent. Flash forward to 2023 and my feelings about her have been vindicated.
Facts what I said they both got there Karma for how they both have treated each other in the past.
Agreed.
It takes a narcissist to know another.😂
Erica has literally lost so much weight out of stress and depression I pray she get it together
I’m not a fan of Erica but I can’t imagine someone leaving me for dead when I’m giving birth to their child. That’s sick and traumatic. Good for Erica for getting therapy and picking herself back up. I can’t wait for her to move on and flourish.
It's not about Erica alone, what about the man point aview?
She's was horrible FROM the jump and she's still playing the blame game 🎯 she did it with rich and all the others and she has other kids from other men sooo I think she's the problem
I agree with everything’s that everyone is saying but you can t use straight feminism for this situation because yes Erica been around but when it comes down to her kids of course she has to take care of them because it’s her real not saying it’s not his as well. But men need to take care his kids and women need to let the men see they kids and men need to be around to make sure they have they own relationships with they kids not apart because they can cause trauma on kids.
I do agree but it’s not really Safari fault he did tell her before having babies that he wasn’t ready for kids and she stopped taking the birth control and basically surprised him with the pregnancy
@@DiamondTheGameChanger word
When he told big girl to STFU! I was crying🤣🤣🤣
One thing I love in this moment is her level of accountability...she said "I attracted this energy"
You did sis, but it's ok...you live and you learn and move on.
Never seen a man throw a chair at himself until today 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
🤣 i cant take that part seriously
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He meant to throw it at the wall and the universe threw that Uno reverse card 😂
@@sistasoldier7774 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣TRUUU!!!
Erica looking so fragile, on the outside and hurt in the inside. I’m tearing up just looking at her. Prayers for her strength.
She should’ve chose better 😂
@@Pbbbb Facts
😢 I feel for her. Speaking on it while still feeling that hurt and abandonment. There’s nothing to compare it to; to be breaking completely on the inside and having to still be a mother and a good mother. A present mother without being angry or upset around the kids because then you have to explain and it’s just not a talk you ever want to have with your kids
I’m here for the chair throw🤣🤣🤣 Scrappy got me 😂😂😂
This is the worst I’ve ever seen Erica look. She’s so beautiful but you can tell Safaree has stressed her out. He’s so emotionally unavailable and acts like he doesn’t even care about her pain. We gotta stop going out sad behind these men. They’re so not worth it.
I think it’s a lot of surgical ramifications too.
@@Burlykim13 I noticed. She didn’t need the facial work or lip injections. Just saw her on Chris Brown’s “Yo Excuse me miss” video and she was so pretty without all of it:
@Burlykim13 No that's stress. I think she had work done to correct the aging
Exactly! The moment she speaks less about it and is truly unbothered and forgives and moves on, she will be set free from his immature ways, she has to let go completely of the trauma and let God. I know, I went through it, with more kids than her. But God is good!
Don’t put that little boy on us men we are not the same.
I love seeing the men encouraging him to express his emotions💪🏽❤️
Right! man baby steps but the future is looking better
Safaree is a narcissist.
Me too! There’s progress…👏🏾👏🏾
That’s a grown ass boy but fully aware of everything he’s done but like she said no accountability
He does not feel safe in this group cause they jumped down his throat, on her behalf, during filming. It's one day for her to do it but his friends too? Nah....
Prayers for Erica. ❤❤❤ That's a lot of pain her body is holding.
She’s the kind of woman we are warned about in Proverbs. If you’ve ever dealt with a woman like this, you know how those interactions go behind closed doors. You know. Reactions are caused by actions. And I know that spirit. God be with those kids
that's sad if you think this whole thing is her fault
Absolutely. Her reactions were caused by HIS actions.
Erica looks so bad. I really feel for her but can’t even be surprised. She treated people horribly before safaree
Shame she really has aged drastically
She still does lol
Yes she did... karma is real 💯
She definitely ain't as fine as she use to be and she TOXIC ASF
She looks weathered because Safaree broke her down.
*Shekinah: "GROW UUUP!"*
*Safaree: "SHUT TF UP!!!"*
*Shekinah: "You Can Cuss Me Out, I'm Cool With It..." Lmao! She STAYS Putting Safaree's Feet To The Fire And I LOVE It!!* 🤣💀😭💯
Safaree is a Narcissist. And they don't like people that see through them. Shekinah is not letting up that's why she said cus me out that's okay. She staying on his ass cause she actually cares about him and Erica. that's why she keep dragging him. She is holding him accountable. Safaree remained silent as a level of control. Cancer people when they shutdown that's it. Add narc behavior to the mix and you gotta mess. But the kicker is Erica is a Narcissist too. Or atleast shows behavior of one. So in a way they both were each other's karma for people they did this too. And I hope they learn their lessons....but from the looks of it no.
That’s annoying fr lol They only champion her behavior when she’s on their side. Like everybody said on part 1 of the reunion, Shekinah is in everybody else’s business but nobody knows anything about her 🥴
@@nik-at-nite fr like sometimes she does needs to stfu
🤣🤣🤣🤣
They're like siblings🤣
That’s crazy, I hope Eric keeps prayers in her hands❤
I’m glad that chair he threw came back & hit him back
He deserves that and then some
I’ve never really LOVED Erica but Jesus Christ NO ONE DESERVES THIS! I’m praying for her
Erica has grown a lot. She even acknowledged how her past behavior may have led to her attracting negative/ bad energy. I hope she's able to move fully past this and refind herself and find love again.
Safaree is the epitome of a man who is stuck in a child state. He will never fully accept his role in breaking Erica down.
She has not grown not one bit. Tell her apologize to cyn. Until then nahhh.
Exactly. This was well put together. 😄
You are correct
She’s grown a bit but still has a lot of work to do with herself and a lot of healing.
Erica and Safaree could literally be me and my ex, I just pray sis find some peace and bounce back. Cuz lord knows it's a struggle not to let that shit make u bitter.
The fact that she could say that she made mistakes too is growth and the fact that she said he owes her nothing just his kids is strength. I pray that Erica finds her happiness and continues to be that strong women she is
But she's clearly just saying those words, she doesn't actually mean them. She obviously is still feeling extremely bitter about the divorce. She hasn't moved on, the therapy hasn't helped. There is still so much hatred and hurt there. But she knows she will sound good by saying the things she did. She doesnt mean a word of it
@@kanyebreast6072 no I totally feel that she is Sincere I lost my husband so now I am a single mother of two beautiful children and even though it's the most rewarding thing in the world it is very hard to do it on your own. And what makes it worse for them is the fact that he's fully capable of being a present father and his choosing not to. That would cause someone to hate Or Despise. At the end of the day she will be fine but those kids need their father. Whatever issues he has with her needs to be put aside for his children. No one should have to tell you to come spend time with your children
@@kanyebreast6072 right and I feel like he's not saying something she did out of respect for her because she is his childrens mother and I feel he's jus quiet like you really sitting here making everyone feel sorry for you
It’s karma. But, I get it.
@@aprilkatie1134 this is true too Erica has been shitty over these past few years
Opening up and trying to love someone is so rare and hard to actually find a real one without being judge while being helped. Despite how she is and he is they need to find people that will love them 100% and not feel the need to find a thrill through someone else.
And chiiile the way that seat Safari threw assaulted him was hilarious 😂
When she said “for the 1st time, I thought I was safe” “I’ve fought through some dark times, days I could not eat” “he knows my trauma from being a single mother once just turn around and make me a single mother twice” I REALLY felt for her. Her spirit is so fragile right now & honestly, as a woman I wouldn’t want that for any other woman. I am happy she hasn’t harmed herself. To wake everyday going through that along with 2 children while you feel like you’re going to break is strength fr & they will grow up and appreciate that on so many levels. She’s their hero if anything. I hope she truly begins the process of healing ❤️🩹 bc truth be told, she owes it to herself to be happy, to have peace of mind & to live a healthy happy life with her children. I wish a better quality life of pure love & happiness for Erica & her kids & any woman who relates to this.
I felt that. I couldn’t bond with my baby at first from the trauma my ex did . He left me pregnant and now to this day tries pop up in and out . I get when she said she tried to make it up. I’m that way I buy him soooo much and he’s only 5 he literally has a game room . I spoil him so much because the first two years I couldn’t bond with him I had to heal myself
I don't know the details of her past, but I can say as a single mother of 4...I felt that to my core.
This happened to me. When j met the narcissist I thought he saved me. In actuality he was the one that killed me.
@@FaCeSays 🥺Wow. I love that you are now aware of the ways of a narcissist because that’ll be conducive for your life moving forward. Now, you will see those signs & know what you’ll never tolerate again. You’re going to blossom from all your pain & I love that for you because a better quality life is already aligned for you. You’ve gained wisdom from your pain & I’m genuinely sorry that you went through that, my heart goes out to you, but it’s your time now. Sending you love and hugs 💕👑 & I suggest getting into some meditation. Learn of chakra balancing, & continue learning / healing yourself. Watch how life unfolds for you.
@@amirahgood8033 Mother of 4? Ok miss superwoman 😍 getting up everyday to take care of your kids, doing it alone, I can only imagine how hard that may be but you’re not alone. If you ever need someone to check in on you, & those little ones? I got you. We are all we have here on this earth. A little love goes a long way. 💕💗 also, I recommend some meditation. Maybe even teaching it to your babies. It’ll be fun for you guys and helps you become a magnet for so many great things. You’re divinely protected and you’re loved. Proud of you for doing it on your own without folding.
Never thought I would say this but you can clearly see how hurt Erica has been. Being pregnant and in love with your husband’s child and he abandoned you at the moment you needed him the most is life changing.
She should’ve chose better 😂😂😂
Chose better ? Did you not see how he was on social media and tv talking about how bad he wanted to be a father and that he would be the best literally trying his hardest to be a father to do this to his wife and child ? Do you know men pretend to be ppl they aren’t until the baby comes you can say this about a man who has kids and didn’t care for them but not a many who doesn’t and is selling you a dream and the narrative changes when the child gets here they were perfecto until the baby dropped
@@latandakennedy5892 ain’t nobody looking at Safaree like he was a goodie two shoes before the babies came. Especially not after the Nicki Minaj fiasco. There’s a gazillion men out there that would never do that, and would’ve loooved to get with Erica Mena.
Her dumbass CHOSE Safaree out of all those men and now she out here trying to play the victim. Sigh I cant
She chose that
Lmao she can go cry in the corner. Karma always comes back and she deserve all of this.
This is so toxic. He doesn’t care about her at all and they’re forcing her to sit there and watch him be a narcissist and gaslight her. Bro
I'm glad he was in that energy. She was incredibly rude and disrespectful The entire time. I'm glad she got what she deserved. Be kind and you will get that in return
Facts
It's called karma folks
Tf he didn’t say anything she wouldn’t shut the fuck up putting words in his mouth
@@Pineapplezar She did that the entire time. But none of these ladys seemed to have a problem with her nasty azz behavior. She got the divorce so wtf is she still so mad for. Its because she wanted to stay with him lol But he's a playaaaaa lmao
The Eyes is the window to the Soul...Pain brings emotional growth ladies....
The way he threw the chair on himself😂😂😂
This why people gotta think long and hard about Marriage. Get to know the person, not just off lust
People change even after dating and marriage..compatibility doesn't last forever because all people change. The true test comes in after the compatibility fades.
he told shikana to stfu but stayed quiet when scrappy told him sum 😂😭
Exactly!! Meaning he knows what he’s doing 😑…
Both of them need to stay out of that family’s business.
Nah, Tho the Chair 🪑.. Safaree threw the chair and it hit himself 😂😂😂
Cause he doesn't respect women
Sounds like a man who prolly ain't got a daddy at home. Quick to man up to a woman but a man say some shit and he scared and quiet
Shekinah had me weak asf “Grow Up” 😭😭
Crazy what REAL love will do fa ya … damnnn
Érica feels the rage we all know too well after realizing the narcissist has won any part of you.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯this needs more likes wen she get a routine
Safraree is a Narc. And only those that have been on a similar situation can get what erica is going through
😞 I just wish more women would recognize the signs of these narcissistic men. I can recognize the signs from a mile away. I picked up on it immediately when safaree first came on the scene. Almost every woman was so infatuated with him because of his 🍆 but I saw deeper than that. I never liked him
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As a single mother due to a pending divorce, I know exactly what Erica is feeling. Our last child ended up in the NICU & I was left alone at the hospital to deal with the emotional trauma. Yes, she may have treated others in her past wrong but we all have a past. No mother…hell no parent deserves to feel this way! It has taken a toll on her physically & she’s still not completely healed. It’s also clear that he has some feelings that he’s not willing to embrace. And until he does the hard work of healing the boy inside of him He will never be able to love a woman or his children properly. Prayers up for both of them🙏🏾
Exactly ! People are so hard on her! She is human and we all learn through experience. As a mother I have empathy, I don’t understand how any mother wouldn’t.
Well said 👍🏼👍🏼
I felt this
@@christine2952 this part 😢right here real women humans have empathy
When will women realize MEN DO NOT CARE! They act like they do to get what they want. Children or no children, they do not care!!!!
Erica I pray for your healing it’s on the way continue to take care of your children and always put yourself first 😊❤❤❤
May Erica find love, peace, and happiness .. hang in there, a good man will come and treat you right and make you feel like a queen ... Praying for her 🙏
Omg...I can't believe how Erica looks. She needs help. This situation is KILLING her. She looks like she's just at her breaking point. I pray for her and her children. This hurts my heart. As a single Mom...l know what it can do to you. It HURTS feeling ALONE. 💔
Felt this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💔🥺
She was literally being eaten from the inside out. She’s skin and bones and noticeably droopy & tired in the face.
the face is the plastic surgery
In previous clips it was worse I think she slowly getting better. Plus having two kids back to back get make malnourished
I noticed that too. A long time ago. Her looks are deteriorating
I feel so bad for Erica nobody deserves lying betrayal and abandoning the family smh 😢
That’s karma . Erika was a proud side chick and tried to destroy a marriage.
@@bohkhuj9247 Bingo why these ppl for getting this lol karma is something else lol
Always remember there are 2 sides to a coin.
They got in it for the wrong reason. Erica said he left days after she had her son. So ok why would you still be trying to make that work?? Erica has been around and Seafarer being Jamaican man wasn't in that for the long term. These women have better realize that you can't change a man; he has to come already with that mindset.
What did these girls think would happen when they married rappers and those in the industry? Maybe she doesn't deserve what she received, but no one should be surprised.
I feel like antagonizing, belittling, and attacking your partner over and over is just not necessary and I think that’s where Erica loses with Safaree each time. It’s nothing wrong with conveying your hurt. Stand on when you stood up for yourself and know that’s enough. You don’t need to throw it in someone’s face a million times. It doesn’t make them want to be better or regret it more. All the anger she lets off separates them more than his absence and disregard.
Now I have been reading the comments. The good the bad and the ugly. But I’ll say this, no matter the situation, we need to remember there are babies involved and that is the main factor
The saddest part is. Erica looks like what she been through
She has so much she still wants to say
No what the absolute saddest part is... is that Erica unknowingly predicted this whole outcome. She told Safaree after he threw a temper tantrum over a prenup, that she didn't want to end up a single mother and being cheated on while married which ultimately happened to her.
@@Muffingaoh wow
@@Muffinga she must of knew deep down what it was.
I know ! Safari as well wanted to Lay is card on the table too ! But MisS Erica wouldn’t let him catch a break to speak ! Can marriage ever works in a toxic Situation? Anyway this is just my Personal opinion’ that SituationShip has a Dent when she had take safari blind to her lawyer and lay down her prenup on the table without discussing it with him before she even dragged him down town lol It started to give Mix feelings then ! Why so ? Because she should’ve at least let him know what she was doing before taking him there !! Breach of trust Erica! So why u think he’s gonna take you seriously with u running Secret Circles like that around any partner! Doesn’t have to be just safari but anyone men or women!
You lay up together and discuss these steps first before giving your partner a surprise! Feel like you’re running CIRCLES ⭕️ it do comes off as if you’re not being genuine
@@luxurygurlluxurygurl2311 He should be lucky he got to tap her. she is fine af
What hurts me the most is the fact Erica thought that Safaree was sent to her from her deceased father and that wasnt the case at all. I really hope that Erica recovers soon🙏
Yea, you can tell she still has trauma from her father passing they were close when she was growing up, he and her mom never had a great relationship.
Yes, people believe the stupidest things, don't they?
He’s straight from the devil
I remember he bought her something that had something to do with her father's photo in it or something having to do with what her father liked
He was sent by Nicki kicking his cheating butt to the curb.
She brought this on herself
I love comming back to watch all the recaps 2023
Shame on everyone trying to justify Safaree's "hurt." He's shown no regard for anyone. He doesn't "love her deep down." And comments like that don't show him compassion, they only invalidate the very real trauma he's brought into Erica and his children's lives. You don't get to start a family, then numb yourself cause it's just sooo overwhelming dealing with the consequences of your actions.
I know it's really shocking and disgusting to see that too.
Yes!! He's a grown A** man WITH KIDS acting like this and they're making excuses for him smh. Sitting there like he can't speak. Shame like you said. Actions will always speak louder than words and he doesn't even have that!
So true
Why is any surprised..I wasn't a watcher of the show,but from what I saw ,the guy kept kicking her in the teeth and she kept going back. Stupidity
Speak 🗣️ 👏🏾👏🏾
Y’all please learn this lesson from Erica…never confess your trauma to a man. He will see your weakness and use it against you!
This is wrong you,can say the same about women,just stay away from toxic people if you find yourself in a toxic relationship gather strength and walk away.
Facts, happened to me. Men really don't care.
@@tobiisiba1641 I agree 💯
He’s a narcissist, he doesnt give a fuck…
Yes definitely I had to learn the hard way
The fact he threw a chair and it hitted him made me weak 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the chair was like RIGHT BACK AT YA
I’ve been there and no matter what no one deserves that !
Erica looks like a shell of her formal self, I hope she regains her strength
Great now it is a size 4, good business for initiating 70% divorce.
I see its a good hunting season, what you dont hunt in your finest? You losing out.... watch out after 30+ Single isnt far fetch.
Man, am so sorry
But she did this to herself though
@xo_.MuͥsiͣcͫloveRxo true, but this relationship was trash even before it started. Two people with inflated egos
Someone is wearing Erica's skin right now
He threw the chair and Karma was like nope nope, right back at you 😂😂
I super loved these two as a couple and I wish the best for them.
karlie’s face looking at erica was like “awe stink ☹️” i’m cackling
I'm seriously so proud of scrappy. To see the strength, light, and growth in him.... it's a beautiful thing.
Isn't he smashing Erika?
Do you still feel the same?
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI???
@@michigankartel😂😂😂😂
it truly is 👏🏾
Scrappy looks like he wants to beat Safaree up LOL
Like! If Dissapointed had a face! He is so ashamed of the man Safaree did NOT become....🤭
not to me
@@AtimTimLiveswell not every man is gonna be tbe same
I hope that she truly heals
I busted out laughing when he told shekinah “shut the F up”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Having a kid at 36 has REALLY changed my opinion on A LOT of things. I am not a fan of Erica BUT as a mother I can totally feel her pain!!!! The fact that everyone is sitting up there trying to talk for him annoys my soul!!!! That man is selfish!!!!!!!!! GROW UP!!!!!! I’m so happy that Erica is taking steps to better herself for her kids. She is not with the crap and I feel her!!!!!!
Please don’t let it annoy your soul You need to ask why they are doing that. I seen the entire divorce decree on TLA you tube channel ERICA IS TRASH
Secondly ERICA has another child she neverrrrrrrrr brings up . But that’s how she actually got famous , fighting and Kicking her baby daddy and being violent . She’s screwed a lot of women and men over. Safari makes 61 k and she makes 34K a month and he pays 4k for the kids they both asked for joint and she won primary which most of us do get it as mothers
He is definitely wrong for what happened to his marriage. He was dishonest and expected his wide to simply accept it. Now he wants to be hurt. Now he wants someone to be sensitive to his feelings. He needs to grow up.
@@leely577 I just want to know why her first son doesn’t live with her now? He’s old enough where he can help her with he’s little brother and sister. And I believe her first born never lived with her. He lived with he’s grandma the whole time. And safaree even blasted her and said you call me a deadbeat but I only seen your first son once and I been with you for years yikez
I understand where you're coming from I think safari is always giving it the big iam but deep down I think he's hurting from something thing but don't know how to explain himself so instead he tens to lash out
This is what stress looks like. I've been there my heart goes out to her.
For her to say there were time she couldn’t get out of bed. I totally get it because I’ve been there. Praying for her strength 🙏🏾
Drugs too.
You so right sis😔🙌🏿🙏🏻
Erica I have been there with I could give u a hug u going to be ok
@@reasonaliWHAT DRUGS!!! YOU DONT KNOW THAT FOR REAL!!!
First of all this is not the platform where you resolve these type of issues
It cracks me up when he threw the chair and it hit him in the head😂
I feel for her. I know what it’s like having to force yourself out of bed and force yourself to eat. That’s how I developed an eating disorder. My prayers go out to her.
me too girl…. it’s a very dark demon to battle with. May God bless her and you ❤
@@stinabby thank you love my prayers and blessings go out to you too. ❤️ I am now currently attending an outpatient program. If you ever need pointers or someone to talk to I will send you my email. It’s not every day that we meet people like us. A sisterhood is very important.
I don't
80s
Erica look so stress and not healthy I feel so bad for her and their kids.
Bambi and Kirk shutup. I'm sorry but that chair hitting Safaree 🤣🤣🤣#karma
LOL 😂😂😂
That’s coke
I'm surprised that no1 got in Kirk's face and tell him 2 stfu because he also did wrong 2 Rasheeda l
@@neridarivera8818 and still does lol 😂
I know I was saying Kirk need to shut up lol 🤣🤣😂 look what he did to Rasheeda!!
Ladies and gentlemen it is so important to be by yourself to understand who you really are "in the mind". You "must" addresss all of you childhood traumas neglects and other inner conflicts before seeing someone. If you dont you will carry it over to the other person. Who we choose to be with in life has everything to do with who we are on the inside. Focus on the inner you. If you dont you will always get what you have gotten
It'll take time to heal but it will make her stronger.
The silence from Safaree is shocking. Especially after he said he numbs himself so he won't feel anything. Clearly there's some darkness, some trauma that caused that to be the person he is. Not excusing anything he's done to his wife and children, but damn he needs some therapy. Also so proud of Scrappy and his growth, it really sounds like him and Bambi have been getting counseling and healing their wounds. Love that for them
Ikr I was wondering why no one else was mentioning this
When people gonna realize, this man does not care, he is a narcissist, he's cold and dark and that's what I see.
He loves nicki minaj. He lost her and thought he could move on. Once he did with Erica he realized that he made the biggest mistake. He wish the life he had with Erica is really with nick
@@shyannefuller6458 exactly nothings shocking. She needs to let him be and try her best to move on but it hurts because she see that he's seeming unbothered and she needs karma to get him and it hasn't. Maybe if it did it would make her feel better
@@shyannefuller6458 100 percent with you, he's only saying that to appear hurt. He actually doesn't give a single fuck
I feel her pain. After my divorce, it was so hard on me physically and mentally. I became a single mother and he became a single man.
@Belltown Daisy yes, yes!
That’s real 💯
Damn…. That’s A good quote 🥴 but I am sorry you went through that
sorry you went through that❤️
That's why I don't have kids. Because I don't trust a man 100% like that. I don't think I ever will either
Hush up we saw you and your character on these shows you get what you put out!
Lmao safaree has me laughing
My goodness, poor Erica. She looks totally and completely drained. We gotta stop letting these men break us like this. This poor woman.
Cocaine is a hell of a drug,,
@@ftwdamfseyg oh please cry me a River, wat proof, stop dragging women that r already down.
Y'all break hearts too
@@kennethgregory8764 who is talking about woman vs man broke heart, we are talking about this specific case… stop projecting
@@laurenaasheart3886 there is something called karma and with the combination of cocaine that's a bad outcome . This girl was out there fucking married men , and everything now she's some angel? She only settled down with safaree because she was ran thru and washed up and NOBODY else would wife her...
Shekina turned out to be the MVP of this show! “… He’s not living his best life!…He went out and got a girl look just like Erica, that ain’t his best life…” 😂😂😂
As easy as it is to talk about the disaster known as Erica, she’s right, there is no “substance” to Safaree, he’s a whole child. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man get that tired of his family that damn fast… he’s a weirdo!
Well said
She stay in that man's widpipe. Love it!
Right. He even admitted to being a child on IG a few weeks ago
For REAL!!! WELL STATED!!!
💯💯🎯 can't support anything Safaree ever after watching fm the beginning of him and Erica to the end
Prayers for Erica😢
One thing about Erica she articulates her emotions very well. & it hits where it needs to hit. She is too real for a passive aggressive man like safaree. I’m glad she is in therapy, because this took a toll on her. She looks so unreal sitting there.
WHAT IS he suppose to say?...SHE KEEPS talking over him....THE WAY a man should deal with this kind of confrontation is give SILENCE....DO NOT FEED INTO a woman's emotions....then the other women talking over him too....GUYS, this is the perfect way to handle these type of people..,ONLY THING these women will do is attack you and try to talk over you...THEY can't hurt you physically so they try to use their words...THEIR words MUST BE MEANINGLESS to you...GIVE them SILENCE and do not try to go back and forth with them in a emotional way because they want you to get emotional....AND BIGGEST THING is do not listen to these women with their insults and shaming because thats all they can go to....remember, they can't phyically hurt you, so give them SILENCE
@@dariangartrell5620 1st off, Self-Actualized MEN don’t have these types of issues. They don’t run from responsibility. They don’t move in these streets as if they’ve “missed out” a phase in their life. They don’t have to have other grown people put their feelings into perspective. They don’t put women through shit like this period. In this video Safaree is proving his inability to lead as a man. He has no substance like Erica said. There is none there because he refuses to mature. His apologies are empty & she is over listening to them. Secondly, you must be the type of man that have these issues you speak of. If you do, you have to look within & see what it is about YOU that women isnt responding to & therefore not respecting. A woman will never verbally annihilate a man that they respect. Thirdly, there are men in their graves because a woman put them there. It’s a little absurd to think a woman can’t physically hurt a man 🥴
@@iman6141 no …you are talking some sucker stuff…GIVE PEOPLE SILENCE…just as that one woman tried to disrespect him he had to tell her to shut up…That’s what women do, you start talking, THEY ARE NOT going to listen, they will try to talk over him JUST LIKE Erica mena is doing…Proof is in the pudding…GUYS should learn, APOLOGIZE one time, and then give these women silence…DONT GROVEL, do not give in to their emotional energy…all the woman on that panel and the women in the comment section are just going to bash him no matter what he says…SO GIVE THEM SILENCE…and don’t let women Shame you will lines telling what a man is, BC WOMEN CANNOT tell a man what a real man is…IF ERICA MENA was so big and bad, she wouldn’t be crying about her child support…Safaree did the right thing, dismiss what these women say and give them silence, and do not listen to their shaming language at all bc their shaming language and insults are the only power they have
@@dariangartrell5620🙄🙄🙄
@@dariangartrell5620 I wish y'all would give us silence always... Hate men
Safaree taking off his glasses because he “started to tear” instead of keeping them on, to me, says a lot. He’s a lost cause and needs God desperately.
Yesssss
I thought that seemed odd, like he wanted to prove to the world he’s hurt, look at these tears. This whole situation is fucked up.
It’s like look at me and my tears !!
I Know Right... Like What In The Actual Fuck Is Wrong With This Dude Lol. That Was Beyond Cringey...
A lost cause? For someone who believes in god that’s pretty fd up to say
"his hand when he said it's not that I don't care" it gives denial is a river I. Egypt
2:17 she a real one!!!
I feel for Erica. You can tell she’s suffered. Physically and emotionally. You can see it in her eyes.
She’s been in these streets fucking up marriages… karma is a bitch.
A man will really ruin you Erica mena lost herself and looks over a man 😢
it breaks my heart to see another woman go through this much pain
Karma
You can see the emotions in Scrappy face, he’s a father & wouldn’t want to be leave his family. I see the growth in Scrappy God bless Erica & Safaee. I pray that they’ll both find peace & make sure that the kids are good regardless of their situation.
Right, even Scrappy is speechless at how cold Safaree is being and we know the background/environment Scrap had to fight to overcome. He tried to help him, but like a fool, Safaree’s prideful and stubborn ways wouldn’t let him simply acknowledge plus apologize to Erica. Safaree is the type of guy that needs to be abandoned and stripped of money/opportunities for an extended time to really change. He’s too comfortable right now being heartless but still somehow managing to thrive otherwise.
i like how these people think saying sorry just magically makes everything better. It doesn't stop saying sorry and show you're sorry.
Yes Erica, I feel all of your pain and to get abandoned by a safe person is damaging, to top it off to receive the silent treatment!! The disrespect!!!!, the cold shoulder it hurts!
And this is why your career path is blessed, blessings on top of blessings. Be strong for all of us whom has experienced the same tragedy. ❤️
I remember my baby being in the nicu sick for three weeks and the father only seen him once because he was out chasing women , I wouldn’t wish this on anyone honestly
Wowww, I’m so sorry you went thorough that..💔
I am so sorry. God will bless you for being the roxk your child needs. Sometimes their absence is the best thing...
I aint seen mine in 20 years and my child is about to graduate college on my strength.
They were both broken when entering this relationship. He’s was emotionally unavailable prior to her. She had and has serious anger issues prior to him. Seeing how she handles disagreements would make me want to walk away too. I can just imagine what those arguments looked like behind closed doors. Getting aggressive with an emotionally unavailable person will cause that person (safaree) to shut down even more! You will not get anything out of them. They need therapy!
You're absolutely right ☺️
He always wanted Nikki....period
Emotionally unavailable my butt. Safaree deserves more than what Erica is giving him based on his treatment of her. He chooses to hide behind this "I'm hurt" veil while not taking any real accountability. I have seen Safaree's behavior in a lot of Jamaican men who have the mindset that women should just take what a man gives them without getting upset. Very egotistical.
@@kelliew.4285 girl yes everything u said ok.
Exactly!! That man is tired of all the explosive anger- he keeps getting shut down by her so why would he speak. I’m tired of the ‘poor Erica’ narrative. It’s not always the man, sometimes it’s the woman.
Bruh! I love SCRAPPY!!! 😂 He's such a genuine dude and a good friend!
4:10 What went around came around literally 😂
Erica is right Safaree just doesn't care what he has put Erica through. Poor Erica
Poor Erica....lol.......its unfortunate...but Women like Erica will always cry victim. ITs so sad that MEN always have to swallow their pain and be the bad guy when dealing with TOXIC Women..........Erica has always been extra...and I hope she can heal herself first.. Wish them both the best and hope they can be adults for the kids.
@@193122090 she’s just telling her side, not playing victim. They are begging Safaree to talk.
@@icyunvme2400 he doesn't want to talk because she interrupts him so he think it's pointless
@@icyunvme2400 Erica is begging him to talk but is also shutting him down as soon as he opens his mouth. It’s too the point where her castmates told her to chill and let him talk. Bambi was right. If it’s not a safe space, he’s not going to talk and genuinely open up like how Erica wants. Erica wants to yell, curse, berate, and emasculate men and expect them respect, love, and admire her afterwards. It doesn’t work like that.
@@shenikadevine3887 He doesn’t even talk about it when she’s not around. No one is forcing him to shut up. If you got something to say, you better say it💀
I know this pain! Being a single mother is not easy but the reward of the dedication, sacrifice and unconditional love is worth it. Don’t focus on the end result and respect your journey. Your kids are watching.
Keep going 💪🏾💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You got this!!
Naah... Tell the ones who aren't single moms that it sucks and they better make better choices. It's not something to celebrate. You made a poor decision
You literally advocated benefits for being a single mother when the bad outweighs whatever benefits you can come up with. There are a lot of poor examples of men out there. But you know what most of those men say? They tell you “don’t be me”. Women refuse to take accountability for anything. But I digress because I’d be better off talking to a brick wall. You are too far gone for common sense and reasoning. You’ve never had it if you are a single mother by poor choices.
Absolutely. I’m not advocating for women or men to be single parents. I’m speaking reality of some. I didn’t make a poor choice the father of my children did. But my decision after is what’s important. To me that is!
@@TheForgivenman How are you going to tell someone they made a poor decision.. you have no clue about their life. Easy to judge over the internet but I'm sure you've made probably some of the worst piss poor decisions so stop the cap and grow up.
I'm a single mother too. Our children need us more than anything and kids give unconditional love. No love like a child love to their parents. Recently I was sick and wanted to quarantine by myself. Doctor said it's flu season and a lot of people are getting sick. My son wouldn't leave my side and I got mad telling him to sleep in his own room because I don't want him sick. He responded "I want to make sure you are ok" When he said that I started to cry because it really choked me up with tears. A child's love is the best ❤️. My son is 12 and he always ask me if I'm ok. He doesn't like me to leave the house if he doesn't know where I am going LMAO. He is my son but he thinks he is my dad. No love better than the love of a child and a parent. As a single mother my son is my family and I do the best I can to provide for him. Our children give us strength too.
He’s kept that same straight face since the day he turned his back on their marriage. No reaction, no genuine apology and taking responsibility, nothing.
He’s the definition of a mamas boy who’s never actually had to work to keep his woman
I see everyone saying they feel bad for Erica and blaming safaree but we didn’t get to see what he had to deal with during those 2 years. She clearly is very aggressive, verbally and physically abusive. I’ve seen her be very nasty to some people and I remember she posted on one of her stories a bunch of broken vases, safaree also said she starts cursing and picking up sharp objects. It takes a lot of pain and suffering to become numb, I know because I’ve been there but I feel like Erica pushed him away and nobody sees that. Yes she loves him and wants him to forgive her and be there for her but even she said it herself she’s been going to therapy and she even said she attracted that energy and had faults in her marriage. I see the bigger picture. He said he doesn’t speak because she talks over him. Nobody wants to be with a crazy woman or man. Most people won’t understand.
After seeing how she talked to Spice, I have no doubt Safari was subjected to all types of degrading names behind closed doors. She probably was calling him all types of racial “slurs”. It now makes sense why he acts like he can not stand her. Erica is crafty and loves to pull the “woman” card in order to get other women to side with her. Erica is a very manipulative woman.
I been knew Erica was evil and abusive. She’s evil and abusive to everyone why would Safaree be any different
@@nickimillennium exactly, if you watch some of the love and hip hop videos on RUclips she’s crazy as hell.
That doesn’t excuse Safaree though. Especially when we get to a place of needing conflict/resolution. No one is perfect in a relationship. Not Erica and not Safaree. But in his case, He does this delusional thing where he acts unbothered and when gets into a room like this people are forced to speak for him bc he is too childish to speak on how he feels. There is never any hope for progress in a situation where people are holding their cards close to their chest. Without vulnerability there is no way of taking the heights of these arguements back down to the ground.
Safari done ruined Erica's beauty, Omg!😢I'm not a fan of Erica but as a woman, i put myself in her shoes..i never wish this for my worse enemy, i pray for her peace🙏💔
That’s on Erika not safaree
She will heal from this and start to look like herself again. In Jesus Name
The surgeries and constant anger ruined her.
@@bohkhuj9247 she just need to eat and be less stressed out she will get back on track
Erica played apart.
It takes two to tangle.
The dysfunction belong neither to the two, but the interaction between the two.
Ase'