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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2024
  • After a rocky few months, Erica Mena and Safaree try to figure out where their marriage is at (and where it's goin from here... 👀.
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  • @RoxyReyes
    @RoxyReyes 3 года назад +7368

    She gave in to him and he isn't that into her anymore. I feel bad for her.

    • @dennithia
      @dennithia 3 года назад +692

      soooo sad for her, HE CHASED HER! she didnt even like him

    • @RoxyReyes
      @RoxyReyes 3 года назад +392

      @@dennithia I know if you listen to her she even sounds different like a defeated woman.

    • @demetra4939
      @demetra4939 3 года назад +56

      Totally agree

    • @chinahuntable
      @chinahuntable 3 года назад +187

      @@dennithia the same shit happened to me, only thing I didn’t marry the idot!!!

    • @dennithia
      @dennithia 3 года назад +341

      Absolutely..she was about to breakdown right before he said "you're so dramatic" ..like he's not even listening to her! I hate when a man say oh you're too aggressive, LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR, you're bringing that aggressive shit out with the narcissist nonchalant attitude, she's fighting for the family while he sitting there acting like a grown kid

  • @dona88200
    @dona88200 3 года назад +2589

    1. Safaree only needed a baby not a family
    2. He’s a fool at 40
    3. He only understand his needs and not his wife’s or people around him
    4. He does not understand sacrifice
    5. He is so detached and doesn’t have it in him to make the marriage work 💔
    6. He should never have gotten married

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 3 года назад +36

      Number one is soooo accurate

    • @talyormarie6791
      @talyormarie6791 3 года назад +78

      He doesn't even deserve children with that fucked up mentality.

    • @inphllps2416
      @inphllps2416 3 года назад +8

      @@righteouspopularity599 😭😭 they’re no good at all

    • @geneivemorris8246
      @geneivemorris8246 3 года назад +25

      He is a Jamaican more over in the music business, forget it, he ain't gonna do better right now. Seeing Safaree talking. To Erica makes me laugh although its not funny. I wish Jamaican men would change such mentality. There are good Jamaican men which I think its hard to find, Safaree is not one and I don't know if he will ever be, he is just living for himself.

    • @rhianna7496
      @rhianna7496 3 года назад

      @@righteouspopularity599 righ

  • @TheMommaDiary
    @TheMommaDiary 3 года назад +2934

    “I didn’t know having a kid was this much work.” “You’re so dramatic” “you go talk to someone and fix yourself.”
    He’s such a CHILD.

    • @jonathanadams7628
      @jonathanadams7628 3 года назад +66

      Man I'm not in a relationship but I do know that's not how a loving relationship goes he's such an AH

    • @DC-mh3dk
      @DC-mh3dk 3 года назад +39

      He’s not emotional mature for her

    • @cassandradiaz7651
      @cassandradiaz7651 3 года назад +28

      He makes me ask, "Who raised you?!" Your Mom? Grandmother? Oh, they must be real proud. 😒

    • @Ebonyqueen-ul7pg
      @Ebonyqueen-ul7pg 3 года назад +15

      And a jackass too she needs to RUN divorce his trifling ass ASAP!

    • @didic8731
      @didic8731 3 года назад +18

      He’s horrible

  • @moreofalexus
    @moreofalexus 3 года назад +2188

    He gaslight the hell out of Erica. She is actually communicating and he is just sitting there and acting like he’s the victim. He’s not a man, he’s a little boy.

    • @joharilarosa6230
      @joharilarosa6230 3 года назад +6

      But that's her man

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 года назад +2

      Right

    • @amandamorgan8349
      @amandamorgan8349 3 года назад +15

      Like she gaslit cyn? Oh okay….

    • @ropinkerish3708
      @ropinkerish3708 3 года назад +20

      A Narc for sure. 😂 a Bitch. I dont even want to play little boys like that 😂 my 5 year old son communicates a 1000x better and is actually attentive to feelings. Calling these types of dudes little boys😳 is actually an insult to little boys. 😂

    • @ahkeeantahkeeant8096
      @ahkeeantahkeeant8096 3 года назад +5

      Women have to realize that men are from mars not venus....lol.....seriously tho....men communicate differentely than women .
      As you heard ...their communication is not going well....thats a problem .....and that sucks because its very very very very important .
      HE.....obviouly doesnt want to fight and he doesnt want no drama going forward ...
      like the slamming of doors.....the threat of the tears that are about to flow.....not to mention the sad cracking voice ...
      All of those things overshadow ....block ....and disables ....REAL and HONEST communication ....but that is how WOMEN communicate.
      you NEVER see a man attaching tears to every conversation...ANNNNND becoming aggressive right after the freaking tears that by the way .....never fell from the eyes.
      your voice and attitude cant be like marilyn monroe one minute and lthen ike king kong the next ....lol.....I mean come on
      He obviously cares because he wanted her to elaborate and explain a couple of the
      statments she made.....this also shows "HE IS LISTENING".....that is all women really want ...
      sadly she blew it ....why......because she wants what she wants and she tryna use manipulation annnnnd he aint having it.
      p.s. listen ...straight up ......he is not a little boy ...and she is not his mama ...Period
      she is scolding. him....instead of telling him straight what she needs from her man and asking him ...."WHAT....."""HE""" THINKS THEY SHOULD DO.
      remind yourself he...he ...he is the man......respect the strength and be ready to enjoy the benifits. TRUST ME.
      oh NEVER tell him he is a little boy....or even imply it ...alll your going to get is a brick wall. ...
      dont you want what diana ross want ....diana said ....I WANT MUSCLES . yaaaaaaasah.

  • @Nothingatall1984
    @Nothingatall1984 3 года назад +4934

    Damn, Safaree is a whole child, I see why Nicky talked to him like that

    • @MEAT_BALL_ON_PAWS
      @MEAT_BALL_ON_PAWS 3 года назад +228

      yeah i see why she ended it with Saferee his very immature, but im not sure about her husband either since she have to Register him everywhere they go smh.

    • @Nothingatall1984
      @Nothingatall1984 3 года назад +57

      @@MEAT_BALL_ON_PAWS I feel like that is different though… that was due to his past and the legal cases against him.

    • @brittanybeatrice7668
      @brittanybeatrice7668 3 года назад +104

      It’s different but I wouldn’t want a sex offender around my kid. Every where we go he whole neighborhood gotta know yo perverted ass then moved in.

    • @ibeonit158
      @ibeonit158 3 года назад +58

      Y’all get a grip smh he’s not a sex offender that shit was put on him, y’all know how the law is with black men please stop

    • @MEAT_BALL_ON_PAWS
      @MEAT_BALL_ON_PAWS 3 года назад +54

      @@brittanybeatrice7668 right now Nicki is paying his court fees because he didn't register he might be facing jail time. I don't want that type of responsibility on me as a wife. Hell i wouldn't want no one with that record in my house or even to be next door to one .

  • @Missdgaf440
    @Missdgaf440 3 года назад +2280

    He literally chased her and now he’s acting like he doesn’t care. Safaree is a lame

    • @tootsiepopppp8428
      @tootsiepopppp8428 3 года назад +22

      Righttt . 🙄

    • @thefenns8083
      @thefenns8083 3 года назад +78

      With his peanut head ass !!

    • @ladycouture3014
      @ladycouture3014 3 года назад +17

      @@thefenns8083 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @noelchenault2749
      @noelchenault2749 3 года назад +49

      A whole man child . But gonna be the one crying about he miss his family . Lame asf

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 3 года назад +15

      Who knows what has happened between them, behind close doors.

  • @tskinner5439
    @tskinner5439 3 года назад +2640

    As much as I hate to admit, Erica does make a point. It seems that Safaree bit off WAY more than he could chew.

    • @Cinnamun52
      @Cinnamun52 3 года назад +86

      He did it for tv

    • @v.g7279
      @v.g7279 3 года назад +11

      @@Cinnamun52 Yup‼️💯

    • @BeautyIsHerName27
      @BeautyIsHerName27 3 года назад +40

      Yeah but if y'all watch previous seasons maybe it would have been an easier transition for him if she wasn't controlling him he dealt with a lot getting into her you cannot emasculate a man the way she does remember we still can't handle her mouth 🙄

    • @mzthang82
      @mzthang82 3 года назад +33

      @@BeautyIsHerName27 Yet that's what he liked. He even says she acts different from before they got married so the person she was in the previous seasons is who he wants her to be now.

    • @jasmined1679
      @jasmined1679 3 года назад +80

      How can anyone find this man attractive? Running away from his responsibilities and can’t even have a serious conversation.

  • @becomingtomeka6932
    @becomingtomeka6932 3 года назад +170

    When you’re hurting and a man says you’re so DRAMATIC!! That was painful for me to watch!

    • @ajboss924
      @ajboss924 Год назад

      @becomingtomeka6932 But he isn't wrong she is too dramatic

  • @ashaassistance6000
    @ashaassistance6000 3 года назад +1214

    Erica was so vulnerable in this conversation. Erica was so grown in this space. You can’t do anything but honor her growth as a woman.
    She re-gained a fan in me.

    • @jofloletschat7788
      @jofloletschat7788 3 года назад +21

      same here. wow definitely hurting for her, he was heartless

    • @layedlyfe4277
      @layedlyfe4277 3 года назад +13

      I was watching this saying the same exact thing. She has progressed tremendously since she first came on LHH. I don’t think I’ve ever seen her walk away like this or, express her feelings so calm.

    • @fabriceakangah5636
      @fabriceakangah5636 3 года назад +3

      So true, I was impressed smh feel sad I was really hoping they'd pull through

    • @ahkeeantahkeeant8096
      @ahkeeantahkeeant8096 3 года назад +1

      @@layedlyfe4277 she got better yeah
      but sorry safari wasnt having it anyway.
      He is the type of man she needs then cause again yes ...she changed a little .

  • @frenchyrodriguez9137
    @frenchyrodriguez9137 3 года назад +1638

    Erica is NOT in the wrong here. She is communicating very clearly and he is not receiving the message. He can’t handle real life - like Erika says.

    • @876me7
      @876me7 3 года назад +9

      Erica is not a victim. Foh she and Safaree are the same kind of ppl. They deserve each other.

    • @phelishalevi4018
      @phelishalevi4018 3 года назад +1

      Chiiiiiile a lot of ppl cnt! 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @dianadundidit5343
      @dianadundidit5343 3 года назад +7

      It's her karma

    • @jenalovelyy
      @jenalovelyy 3 года назад +5

      Wrong. Even if all that she said was valid, her delivery was poor. When you come at your partner with blame-placing, “YOU” statements (like “you are this” and “you did that”), it will never be received well… have compassion in your relationships and take ownership of your feelings… we’re all in charge of our own feelings… how it ended was how I knew it would end because neither one of them felt heard.
      (Speaking from experience with my own 13 year long [and still going strong] loving & happy marriage after lots and lots of hard work)

    • @Dena4kids1
      @Dena4kids1 3 года назад +4

      EXACTLY 💯!!! I'M BAFFLED THAT HE ACTUALLY THOUGHT THAT HAVING A WIFE & BABY AT THE SAME TIME TOO WAS GONNA BE A WALK IN THE PARK!!! I REALLY WISH ERICA BOUGHT A BABY ALIVE DOLL TO SEE HOW HE HANDLES IT... MAN I CAN FEEL HER PAIN THRU MY PHONE.😢😫🤬

  • @lionessbydesign
    @lionessbydesign 3 года назад +1622

    The fact that he’s CURRENTLY partying in Jamaica right now while their son is in the NICU tells me everything I need to know about him… Erica, RUN girl!

    • @lichimfboo
      @lichimfboo 3 года назад +42

      Wow i had no idea that this was how bad the case was like are u fucking kidding me she need to let goo I feel her pain tho he offered and got her use to way much more than what he really wanted to give her he aint shit!

    • @rebeccareyna4137
      @rebeccareyna4137 3 года назад

      Yasssss

    • @fennerna1
      @fennerna1 3 года назад +6

      Why do we care if she doesn't?

    • @Beebeechannel2
      @Beebeechannel2 3 года назад +1

      Oh hell no

    • @bellaunruly835
      @bellaunruly835 3 года назад +5

      She have a restraining oder against him

  • @tabbylivvy
    @tabbylivvy 3 года назад +286

    He’s just rude & mean to her. I think he has low self-esteem. Clearly he’s having an affair. Anytime they pick fights and buttons that they know will set you off, that’s their excuse to leave and cheat even more. It’s called Narcissistic Personality...

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 года назад +12

      I think he may be cheating too

    • @tashekacampbell9123
      @tashekacampbell9123 3 года назад +2

      Where did you get an affair from 😂

    • @tabbylivvy
      @tabbylivvy 3 года назад +15

      @@tashekacampbell9123 his actions tell it all

    • @tashekacampbell9123
      @tashekacampbell9123 3 года назад +1

      @@tabbylivvy I don’t think it does his actions are wrong don’t get me wrong but , he simply just doesn’t want a baby , doesn’t mean his cheating he doesn’t want a baby with some body else he just doesn’t want a baby in general .

    • @tabbylivvy
      @tabbylivvy 3 года назад +15

      @@tashekacampbell9123 Babygirl, how old are you? I’ve been around a little bit and I’m not new to the game...

  • @daenerysstormbornofhouseta9185
    @daenerysstormbornofhouseta9185 3 года назад +2302

    Safaree is absolutely disgusting. He’s literally a grown man child. Erica really needs to leave this man and save herself and kids. I’m absolutely disgusted

    • @tonybalony1811
      @tonybalony1811 3 года назад +31

      Nicki said that Safaree was in high school when he was 20 years old.

    • @Jaggeup
      @Jaggeup 3 года назад +2

      @@tonybalony1811 what’s wrong wit that? 💀

    • @tonybalony1811
      @tonybalony1811 3 года назад +18

      @@Jaggeup He’s probably incredibly immature and emotionally stunted.

    • @tonybalony1811
      @tonybalony1811 3 года назад +6

      @@Jaggeup hey... sorry about you getting held back :/

    • @diamonda3253
      @diamonda3253 3 года назад +27

      @@Jaggeup ... While he was supposed to be mentally developing with college aged adults, he was developing with kids as young as 14. That's the problem

  • @miluskaiscool13
    @miluskaiscool13 3 года назад +662

    Jesus, this was so uncomfortable to watch. He does not want her anymore. The frustration of not being able to communicate with your partner..

    • @chrisper3148
      @chrisper3148 3 года назад +2

      Exactly

    • @gorillanotion1024
      @gorillanotion1024 3 года назад +3

      It's no longer continent for him that's why

    • @brandisandkids
      @brandisandkids 3 года назад +2

      I've never liked her but after watching this I truly feel for her. He is literally hurting & mistreating her right in front of our eyes...so sad.

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 2 года назад

      He's abusing her right on screen, true Narcissist

  • @BOYABEANNN
    @BOYABEANNN 3 года назад +737

    This is exactly why Nicki didn’t want to marry him & why Juju left his ass on read - I feel bad for Erica, he’s a child and no shade, but instead of his mom telling him what girls not to bring home, she should have been raising him to be a man a WOMAN wants to bring home!

    • @candiD01
      @candiD01 3 года назад +3

      💯💯💯💯

    • @stonertarot4195
      @stonertarot4195 3 года назад +2

      Yassss

    • @stonertarot4195
      @stonertarot4195 3 года назад +17

      Preach it!!! I was literally like wtf his momma thinking like is she proud of him for disrespecting his wife & mother of HIS children

    • @tainawilliams6271
      @tainawilliams6271 3 года назад +17

      Iyanla said men are who their mothers make them

    • @CherryJoneschannel
      @CherryJoneschannel 3 года назад +1

      This!!!!

  • @ashleyb5539
    @ashleyb5539 3 года назад +52

    Erica communicated beautifully here. Direct questions, vulnerability, honesty. She knows what it takes to make it work but she’s dealing with a child. Imagine a man responding this way to you when all you wanna do is make your marriage and family work.

  • @ajahjackson6482
    @ajahjackson6482 3 года назад +617

    she’s being vulnerable and honest with her emotions and he’s calling her dramatic? girl pls if you can, leave!

    • @everythingroxy3582
      @everythingroxy3582 3 года назад +29

      Gaslighting

    • @mannieballard762
      @mannieballard762 3 года назад +8

      @@everythingroxy3582 at its finest

    • @a.cleveland9210
      @a.cleveland9210 3 года назад +9

      Yeah that pissed me off. Smh

    • @ajahjackson6482
      @ajahjackson6482 3 года назад +4

      @@everythingroxy3582 yup that’s exactly what it is, thank you.

    • @BeautyWithClaire
      @BeautyWithClaire 3 года назад +5

      Exactly how she feels is exactly how my fiancé treated me when I had our child ☹️ men don’t understand the mental emotional and physical toll it takes having a baby and being that baby’s everything the post parting depression and then to feel absolutely neglected by the one person you love during the what supposed to be the happiest time of your life. It’s changes you absolutely we lose our confidence our happiness our will I fight every for my son but I’d be lying if I said I don’t wanna have another baby because of it which makes me sad wanting 4 kids 😭😭

  • @_colelyy
    @_colelyy 3 года назад +652

    I’ve NEVER seen Erica that calm when filled with emotion. She genuinely tried to talk to him and get her point across and she was shut down at every turn

    • @cmac3764
      @cmac3764 3 года назад +18

      Yes, she handled that all with a lot of reserve, maturity and grace. He on the other hand is an immature, vindictive, man child, asshole.

    • @Appreciatethebeauty
      @Appreciatethebeauty 3 года назад +6

      Because his not feeding into it, if he would be like baby I love you she would act like a crazy maniac, women got shit twisted there are many women out there willing to give it to your man nicely with no ties, and no drama. They should get a nanny seriously 😳

    • @kathygomez652
      @kathygomez652 3 года назад +6

      It's called bipiolar

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 3 года назад +1

      She has blown up and seen herself overreact so many times, it's about time, or it's for show. He stayed that she throws stuff, goes off, so this may be a moment or an act. Who knows?

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 3 года назад +2

      @@kathygomez652 More like just crazy!

  • @jasminegrayson8923
    @jasminegrayson8923 3 года назад +1136

    It’s giving CHILDISH… he needs to grow the hell up, be accountable and understanding of his wife.

    • @rickydixon2558
      @rickydixon2558 3 года назад

      How would you feel if your wife was pregnant and she waited to tell you

    • @jasminegrayson8923
      @jasminegrayson8923 3 года назад +16

      @@rickydixon2558 in this clip she is attempting to talk to him and he is completely shut down. So her not telling him makes sense to me… he isn’t a supportive husband

    • @rudolphcampbell4782
      @rudolphcampbell4782 3 года назад

      It. Hip hop nothing from nothing leaves nothing lol take two to fight huh

    • @tifb94
      @tifb94 3 года назад

      Periodt!😵‍💫

  • @Malrie
    @Malrie 3 года назад +97

    This is why you need to TEST the man before you marry the man. Never let them be comfortable ladies!

    • @nemrakstain7923
      @nemrakstain7923 3 года назад +1

      Girlfriend so true..

    • @damienkirksey7026
      @damienkirksey7026 3 года назад +2

      That's how alot women end up being single

    • @Malrie
      @Malrie 3 года назад +12

      @ramcurequeeny once you see red flags...THEN LEAVE! a relationship should be a source of goodness in your life. Not confusion.

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 года назад

      @@Malrie facts

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 3 года назад

      Facts

  • @brandihines2332
    @brandihines2332 3 года назад +1282

    Wow. This hurts her. His non chalant attitude is horrible. Women aren't perfect neither are men but goodness he has no compassion for their marriage he's over her and over it. When the other party is just mean and nasty. I say its time to go. He just doesn't care like he used to.

    • @iamrightyourwrong5198
      @iamrightyourwrong5198 3 года назад +7

      I bet he was into until she gave him hell and screaming and all that! He just tired

    • @brandihines2332
      @brandihines2332 3 года назад +31

      @@iamrightyourwrong5198 All is possible. Marriage isn't a joke. Being married is work 24/7. Both parties have to be willing to work together.

    • @labelmeposh
      @labelmeposh 3 года назад +13

      And the only reason he has given is that "he didn't know it would be so much work." That's pathetic. The answer to her being aggressive was her saying "he stirs the pot" and he doesn't deny that. He's a tool.

    • @may1189
      @may1189 3 года назад

      @@timothyjohnson4812 bb

    • @nikolezbe
      @nikolezbe 3 года назад +1

      He needs to grow up smfh

  • @phoenixastral9046
    @phoenixastral9046 3 года назад +524

    "its like you don't want to do life with me"
    " you're so dramatic "
    It was at that moment that their marriage ended, this wrost thing that can happen is any relationship, being gaslighted for being vulnerable

    • @VOID-gz6jk
      @VOID-gz6jk 3 года назад +31

      I almost started crying for her then and there because this man doesn’t love her and he probably never has

    • @DreamFaithDestiny
      @DreamFaithDestiny 3 года назад +20

      Yeah that part hurt.

    • @emmainniss9335
      @emmainniss9335 3 года назад +18

      This.... he is not even acknowledging how she feels. Very immature.

    • @princejudah3789
      @princejudah3789 3 года назад

      Who would slamming doors always yelling Soo violent

  • @candacelee4317
    @candacelee4317 3 года назад +1203

    Safaree is NOT a man, he's a little boy, and Erica deserves better.

    • @chocolatelovin19
      @chocolatelovin19 3 года назад +11

      No he’s a MAN. He’s 40. Let’s stop coddling them and wondering why they play these roles.

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 3 года назад +5

      @@chocolatelovin19 and she looks like a Man, that face is too huge and dominant.

    • @MultiMadameDegrassi
      @MultiMadameDegrassi 3 года назад +13

      @@chocolatelovin19 Nahh he’s a CHILD. Almost like his brain isn’t fully developed actually. It’s not coddling cause these grown-man childs don’t want to be seen as boys. Coddling is calling them real men when they’re anything but that.😂

    • @luceysimmons1214
      @luceysimmons1214 3 года назад +5

      @@chocolatelovin19 AGE has NOTHING to do with Maturity. I have Uncle's in their 50's who still act like little boys.

    • @diamonddeluxe3935
      @diamonddeluxe3935 3 года назад +1

      @@luceysimmons1214 THIS

  • @stayleenedmond3438
    @stayleenedmond3438 3 года назад +158

    I see now why Nikki didn’t wanna claim him. Like who would want a price of shit clinging to their name?

    • @zone4pezzy
      @zone4pezzy 3 года назад +7

      But she claiming sex offender lol yall females funny as hell

    • @zone4pezzy
      @zone4pezzy 3 года назад

      @Yaa Yahu she ain't said shit

    • @coudgeb
      @coudgeb 3 года назад

      @@zone4pezzy facts🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @houseofmatrix6174
      @houseofmatrix6174 3 года назад

      @@zone4pezzy Factz 😹😹😹😹

    • @Incogn3gr0e
      @Incogn3gr0e 3 месяца назад

      I mean look what she married. He’s MUCH worse 😂

  • @nieshacarver4252
    @nieshacarver4252 3 года назад +839

    This is sad. He doesn't even care. He wants her to just accept him being an ass. Wants her to change but doesn't want to change himself.

    • @Outof_thebleu
      @Outof_thebleu 3 года назад +13

      As if she hasn't gone through a hundred changes within a 10 month period.

    • @Long-live-vacation
      @Long-live-vacation 3 года назад +2

      oki but i feeld bad for a sek but she is prego agen so now she looks dumb to

    • @the5thdim763
      @the5thdim763 3 года назад +7

      He doesn’t want her to change. It wants her to end the relationship.

    • @mariaya1891
      @mariaya1891 3 года назад

      Sound like my man 😭

    • @oarabile__moeketsi
      @oarabile__moeketsi Год назад

      I can't believe I'm saying this but even rich dollars was better😭😭😭

  • @wagnerproductions1
    @wagnerproductions1 3 года назад +571

    I couldn’t even picture myself dating a man like this. He basically got married for the clout and didn’t take those vows seriously.

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 года назад +23

      Most Jamaican men don't take marriage or vows seriously

  • @empathsarah3570
    @empathsarah3570 3 года назад +914

    Saying “you’re so dramatic” to a woman that’s about to cry and fighting to hold her tears back is the most painful comment you can make in that situation. This really hit too close to home, I’ve been there several times and that’s why I come off as emotionless to so many people that actually deserve better from me. You feel like you can’t open up to anyone anymore because they just don’t care.

    • @Simplythetruthfulone
      @Simplythetruthfulone 3 года назад +26

      Wow. I'm so sorry that happened to you😔 My Mom used to tell me, "Never spend time dating or being in a relationship with the wrong man, for if you do, you will neither recognize nor appreciate the right one when he comes along". I think it's true of men, and of people in general that we give our big hearts to. Some folks don't deserve a second look much less a loving chance😔🤷🏽‍♀️ The Lord Jesus will renew your heart🙏🙏🏾🙏🏽

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 3 года назад +19

      It really is. I remember one time my husband told me I was using my tears to manipulate him. That really broke my heart.

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 3 года назад +4

      And I'm so sorry for what you went through. I understand why you are the way you are

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 3 года назад +7

      He doesn't have the capacity to deal with her or marriage in general

    • @charitygillespie5163
      @charitygillespie5163 3 года назад +6

      Narcissist

  • @ChanelAli
    @ChanelAli 3 года назад +65

    Safaree: Getting married was the BIGGEST mistake I've ever made!!!!!!
    Erica: I'm afraid you don't wanna do life with me...
    Safaree: you're so dramatic

    • @xa0vxdivaqueenx681
      @xa0vxdivaqueenx681 2 года назад +1

      Omg girl RUN !
      This just heart breaking me 💔 😭😭

  • @LadyEmjay
    @LadyEmjay 3 года назад +729

    Safaree did not really want to be married. He does everything for clout, including getting her pregnant. He will take a few pictures for the gram and now he is tired of the married dad life. So it’s on to the next stunt and now he back to Harlem shaking in the club. Divorce him Now . You will forever be in the marriage alone with him. Safaree still isn’t done being a kid yet.

    • @Cinnamun52
      @Cinnamun52 3 года назад +11

      👏 That is very insightful

    • @geneivemorris8246
      @geneivemorris8246 3 года назад +6

      True.

    • @toyacaldwell2388
      @toyacaldwell2388 3 года назад +5

      Erica can get a husband that will love her and her baby and give her more children and the life she deserves! Forget him!

    • @Soneelicious
      @Soneelicious 3 года назад +7

      @@toyacaldwell2388 you think it’s easy for her to just jump into another relationship?

    • @aviannawilliams149
      @aviannawilliams149 3 года назад

      So true

  • @tl8117
    @tl8117 3 года назад +857

    He's a scared lil boy, not a man. So cruel to treat her like that, especially while she's pregnant. What an AH

    • @dappaflawless
      @dappaflawless 3 года назад +2

      Neither one of them know she pregnant just yet, girl was drinking wine with Sierra and Bambi before they met 😳 I wonder how she didn't feel any signs or anything

    • @tl8117
      @tl8117 3 года назад +3

      @@dappaflawless really? I didn't catch that clip. Do u know where I can find it?

    • @YasminYoruba
      @YasminYoruba 3 года назад +4

      He’s definitely a man, he has 3 children. He acts like a child. Calling grown men boys erks me and allows them to behave this way. You are grown at 21!

    • @dominqueb10
      @dominqueb10 3 года назад +2

      @@dappaflawless ppl feel sings at different times. Each pregnancy is different as well. Some things are also just scenes. She might not have actually been drinking.

    • @YasminYoruba
      @YasminYoruba 3 года назад

      @Amber Baez that’s your opinion. I disagree. Either way he ain’t shit

  • @Ursupervillain
    @Ursupervillain 3 года назад +2161

    She’s matured a lot. I’m pretty proud. I never saw her being like this.

    • @bmmotives
      @bmmotives 3 года назад +94

      I guess being a mother really does change a person

    • @nikkiw3734
      @nikkiw3734 3 года назад +82

      Right.. cause before she probably woulda flipped out & beat his ass!!

    • @floremullings4822
      @floremullings4822 3 года назад +18

      Plenty growth!!!

    • @Incogn3gr0e
      @Incogn3gr0e 3 года назад +59

      She’s pregnant here that’s why she was trying to stay calm

    • @Ebrie0903
      @Ebrie0903 3 года назад +41

      @@bmmotives I thought she has an older son too but I really think this marriage made rethink her choices.

  • @cindyo7352
    @cindyo7352 3 года назад +90

    Wonder is he’s cheating? Men tend to act differently when there is someone else in their life

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 года назад +5

      I'm thinking that too plus I noticed in his recent ig photos its more body pics and no wedding band

    • @fayevids7391
      @fayevids7391 3 года назад +8

      I think he has. That’s how a man acts, when someone else is in the picture. He’s young in the mind. Not yet, a man

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 года назад +1

      Definitely

  • @jammest.3962
    @jammest.3962 3 года назад +343

    She literally telling him what she needs and he acting like a victim from a situation he caused. Focused on her behavior and not why she’s behaving that way.

    • @TikTokForest
      @TikTokForest 3 года назад

      This is what happens when you think you're a brand and make your relationship a business move. Then when the business tanks you want out.

  • @myishaholley4417
    @myishaholley4417 3 года назад +317

    Please divorce him, find your happiness for you and your kids. He basically told you...HE DON'T WANT YOU. Not your fault, babes. But this man is a WASTE OF TIME!

    • @allonjayd.5057
      @allonjayd.5057 3 года назад +5

      It’s definitely not her fault 💔 I hope she sees this

    • @MsChmpnprzr
      @MsChmpnprzr 3 года назад +1

      Boy.... Man child....etc but not a man 🤨

    • @sydneyrobinson7022
      @sydneyrobinson7022 3 года назад +1

      Right she’s not a old women she got time. She can still have babies

    • @diamonda3253
      @diamonda3253 3 года назад

      She's not going to. She wants love, so the moment he realizes she's actually gonna leave, he's gonna give her the love she wants and then she's gonna think "things are getting better" and stay. It's gonna be like that until she realizes it

    • @bookbag6432
      @bookbag6432 3 года назад

      @@diamonda3253 It’s going to be hard because she just had another child and now she’s a single mom of three. Lord knows how her mood is going to be with postpartum as well. But she’ll eventually find someone else. It will take some time though.

  • @jamilaaustinsigningrealtor8754
    @jamilaaustinsigningrealtor8754 3 года назад +87

    He really displayed how people see our black men in real life. He just lost a lot of cool points. He’s just lost a lot of everything. Especially his since.

    • @sacredandsecured
      @sacredandsecured 3 года назад +7

      Unfortunately he’s only displaying the attitude that a lot of bm in general walk around with

  • @roxykix23
    @roxykix23 3 года назад +734

    If I was safaree mom I would be soo embarrassed to claim him as a “son”.

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel 3 года назад +16

      @@reyfin4922 she actually doesn’t. Watch the clips of her. She’s checked safaree and comforted Erica, letting her know she has a choice to stay or leave; how she should never feel like she doesn’t have a choice.

    • @CharKuriGamer
      @CharKuriGamer 3 года назад

      Me too

    • @reyfin4922
      @reyfin4922 3 года назад +1

      @@TheLovesnowangel I was pleasantly surprised when I did see those.

    • @issasd1172
      @issasd1172 3 года назад

      😀😀😀😀😀😀😀 real talk

    • @truevpcool
      @truevpcool 3 года назад +1

      She can’t be too ashamed he paying for some of her stuff soooo 🤷🏽‍♀️ But you know what his mom probably gonna have to put up with his bs for awhile cause he know acting like an ass still gets him paid regardless but he knows acting like an asshole will get him more attention

  • @foxybrown3005
    @foxybrown3005 3 года назад +708

    And the fact that he was the one chasing Erica and proposed to her, then bragged about wanting a family as well?!? What kind of 40 year old man child is he? Erica better walk away while she can and heal from this demon

    • @Oakcliffagent
      @Oakcliffagent 3 года назад +5

      Wow like she 100 percent innocent I guess u avoiding the fact the she done dragged this man being bitter and wanted a divorce from him then wanted to get mad at him cuz he was dating another chick just wow

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 3 года назад +2

      Who knows what goes on behind closed doors.

    • @fefesmith82
      @fefesmith82 3 года назад +3

      Just like ANY other man out here doing whatever he far from the only one that does this

    • @kiaq1153
      @kiaq1153 3 года назад

      And walk towards who? She old af

    • @Selenee77
      @Selenee77 3 года назад +4

      @@Oakcliffagent he knew how crazy she was when He commit

  • @jasminefranklin7630
    @jasminefranklin7630 3 года назад +2624

    I’m really proud of Erica here. She’s communicating how she feels without flipping out like usual. And also taking the time to listen and respond to what he has to say. She’s flawed for sure, but no one deserves to be treated like how he’s doing her. Wishing her all the best 💛

    • @davidammonds2011
      @davidammonds2011 3 года назад +90

      The bar is set so low nowadays. They should have been more concerned with getting marriage counseling vs a televised wedding before they got married. Looks like he wants to return the product he brought.

    • @bigmaco903
      @bigmaco903 3 года назад +25

      Being a mom really changed her

    • @davidammonds2011
      @davidammonds2011 3 года назад +66

      @@bigmaco903 she was already a mom. This is her second child.

    • @bigmaco903
      @bigmaco903 3 года назад +3

      @@davidammonds2011 nah this convo with him happened before she realized she was pregnant

    • @trinad08
      @trinad08 3 года назад +37

      @@bigmaco903 She has a teenage son from a previous relationship. All those times she wild out when she was younger, she was already a mom.

  • @purrinkittyz4737
    @purrinkittyz4737 3 года назад +82

    He’s weird on another level… like seriously… taking dance class while his son is damn near dying.. that’s insane! Half of y’all don’t think anything wrong with it because y’all daddy was NEVER there.. it’s not okay tho

  • @kimberlynicole4866
    @kimberlynicole4866 3 года назад +1373

    Why’s he acting like he’s a single dad talking about they don’t have help with the baby 🙄

    • @anthonymarshall2012
      @anthonymarshall2012 3 года назад +117

      He's already in his mind left her so that's why everything in this video shows he don't want to be with her anymore, but he's too pussy to say it.

    • @NineDouble
      @NineDouble 3 года назад +57

      Right. A two parent household IS all the help you need.

    • @antoniababy8356
      @antoniababy8356 3 года назад +23

      @@NineDouble exactly like you're already not spending time with them. "Help" is more reason not to do that

    • @kimberlynicole4866
      @kimberlynicole4866 3 года назад +26

      @@anthonymarshall2012 He seems extremely uninterested

    • @Kalifornia_Dreaming
      @Kalifornia_Dreaming 3 года назад +13

      @@NineDouble Even with 2 parents people still need help.Thats's why thw saying goes it takes a village.They can afford a nanny but Safaree has already checked out.They had no business getting married.Erica's bad behaviour I'm sure played a role. I hope women understand that men eventually get tired.

  • @ebonystone8890
    @ebonystone8890 3 года назад +333

    Ladies I hope you are all taking notes. This is just so sad. Some men will sell you a dream then not fulfill his promise. Your still not guaranteed happiness even being married.
    This whole situation is a lesson to all women out there.
    Ladies put yourself first.

  • @westindian5010
    @westindian5010 3 года назад +522

    I can't believe this. She shows her vulnerability, she reveals how she truly feels, her fear, that he will abandon her. This shows just how much she cares for him and he shits all over her. What an example of fine specimen of a man. I don't care how volatile people think Erica Mena is, this episode shows that that woman has a heart and she deserves better. What a shame.

    • @Solofears
      @Solofears 3 года назад +18

      No one is meant to be treated like that .She deserves the world and not this overgrown child

    • @nemrakstain7923
      @nemrakstain7923 3 года назад +6

      She's a human being.

    • @mauriceschultz6764
      @mauriceschultz6764 3 года назад +5

      Little b**** don't want no more kids cuz he likes being the baby feeling a little competition are you female Safari

    • @westindian5010
      @westindian5010 3 года назад +2

      @@mauriceschultz6764 I can't disagree with you there. You hit it on the nail.

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 2 года назад

      She got abused

  • @jaebabew1468
    @jaebabew1468 3 года назад +31

    Awwww you can tell she really loves him she doesn’t even fight him like she did all her other exes she just walks away

  • @thandomthembu2848
    @thandomthembu2848 3 года назад +311

    "You got too fat during your pregnancy" was a red flag I would have left him honestly

  • @miracleashanti1942
    @miracleashanti1942 3 года назад +716

    I remember when he wanted her so bad! would be gushing over her & she wasn’t on the same page but she gave in and now, he got what he wanted and doesn’t put in that same effort he had to bag her ‼️ he got comfortable and now treats her like she wanted him!

    • @Peresphone
      @Peresphone 3 года назад +63

      Exactly a classic mistake and lesson that we may all have to go through at some point..but chile this is why I love myself and we have to focus on our careers, friends, hobbies etc that make us thrive not chaining ourselves to partners.

    • @miracleashanti1942
      @miracleashanti1942 3 года назад +31

      @@Peresphone I’m literally in that same mindset!!! Look at us ✨ what’s meant for us will never miss us

    • @georgia8592
      @georgia8592 3 года назад +7

      Dated a Jamaican just like this 🙄

    • @freshbme2
      @freshbme2 3 года назад +8

      Exactly. Where did that energy go??

    • @lamujermaslinda
      @lamujermaslinda 3 года назад +2

      @Wearing it on my face did he try to get you back when he left?

  • @nijahray7521
    @nijahray7521 3 года назад +687

    His face is showing that he don’t care about what she’s sayin at all.

    • @londiwekhanyase1351
      @londiwekhanyase1351 3 года назад

      😂🤣

    • @ccx3275
      @ccx3275 3 года назад +2

      but when she’s gone he’s not going to know what to do! i feel like he thinks he has her at the palm of his hand for life but there’s actually going to come a point where she’s not going to want to do it anymore and he’ll be the one who’s missed out! not her

    • @yonnahmae1157
      @yonnahmae1157 3 года назад

      His overall body language

    • @periswanjiku7375
      @periswanjiku7375 3 года назад

      @@ccx3275 Hi

  • @margarettreacy259
    @margarettreacy259 3 года назад +631

    Saffaree is an absolute Embarrassment to Erica She deserves much better

    • @mary1stcor15v1-4
      @mary1stcor15v1-4 3 года назад +21

      Lol that's easy to say when u saw how she acted in past relationships. Despite their ups and downs I think they met each others match.

    • @jasmined1679
      @jasmined1679 3 года назад +8

      He’s an embarrassment to himself. Raising kids is hard, let me run away.

    • @meishajames531
      @meishajames531 3 года назад +7

      Erica needs to work on her communication skills, and don't shout at her husband when communicating with him because he will shutdown because I am the same way. She needs to stop the shouting.

    • @DesignzRUs1
      @DesignzRUs1 3 года назад +6

      How does she deserve better? Erica isn’t much better lol
      have you the watched earlier seasons? she’s a toxic, horrible person.
      They’re a perfect match.

    • @nanaanokye1856
      @nanaanokye1856 3 года назад +8

      @@meishajames531 she literally didn’t even shout at him until near the end…

  • @claremandigusi5631
    @claremandigusi5631 3 года назад +318

    Safaree wants fun and a girlfriend he doesn't want a wife and family. He is way to immature for this. Even to the point of understanding mature relationships. Man Erica can do so much better

    • @sanijahmccrimmon4172
      @sanijahmccrimmon4172 3 года назад +6

      I think he thought he wanted that...didmt really take it serious...marriage and children aren't fun and games...its a life commitment

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 3 года назад +2

      She ain’t that attractive, that’s the best she gonna gey

    • @msyemisi7930
      @msyemisi7930 3 года назад

      She should have just had her fun with Safaree and that was that

  • @JayMoneyTv248
    @JayMoneyTv248 3 года назад +313

    she used to talk to anyone any kind of way, but you can see she’s trying to make it work but the energy isn’t reciprocated.

    • @TheReCar1
      @TheReCar1 3 года назад +19

      I said the same thing. I’ve seen her curse the whole cast of LHHNY cheat lie and beat up people but you can see she pulled out her soft side for him and he can careless.

    • @jessicaurbina4246
      @jessicaurbina4246 3 года назад +14

      That’s KARMA

    • @naemack1441
      @naemack1441 3 года назад +4

      She's also pregnant, she trying to be calm for the baby. All that flipping out isn't healthy right now..Now after she gives birth, that a whole different story ...

    • @doveyhandwand
      @doveyhandwand 3 года назад +2

      She has talked to him before like that as well. I believe he has expressed numerous times he doesn't like it.

    • @msyemisi7930
      @msyemisi7930 3 года назад

      @@jessicaurbina4246 exactly! I know dj envy wife somewhere sipping wine 🤣

  • @blackbarbie431
    @blackbarbie431 3 года назад +32

    One of the worst things you can do...in my opinion...is wake up someones love without the intention to really love them. I despise people like him...chase you...even when you keep saying no...then when you finally give them a chance...they treat you horribly. The engagement proposal he did with fireworks really meant nothing now looking back at it all...just photo ops and fakeness.

  • @aida_amore
    @aida_amore 3 года назад +419

    He chased her for so long and promised to treat her lk a Queen and he has completely failed!!! He is an idiot & instead of being a real man & stepping up, he is acting so cold. I feel so bad for Erica. He gaslight her and love bombed her and then once he had her he completely changed for worse. He’s a true narcissist!

    • @Yellowbitchblaze
      @Yellowbitchblaze 3 года назад +7

      Looks are starting to fade he is bored now and age catching up he wants fresh young and new he is a jamaican

    • @Tonz28
      @Tonz28 3 года назад +7

      So true! I knew he was full of it when he kept crying at the wedding. His emotions ust didn't seem genuine to me.

    • @kamacazi9639
      @kamacazi9639 3 года назад +1

      Nah cause he would have done it to Nicki. He and Nicki were together for years. If he was a narcissist Nicki would have left his ass as soon as she got famous. She had that power. I think he and Nicky were rebounding.

    • @shan9453
      @shan9453 3 года назад +2

      @@kamacazi9639 what?😳

    • @b.allison8761
      @b.allison8761 3 года назад +4

      FACTS ALL NARC SHIT

  • @Lovelowvision
    @Lovelowvision 3 года назад +313

    He went from LA to NY to ATL just to have the crown of being the lamest dude ever in LHH history

    • @kaysuksess
      @kaysuksess 3 года назад +1

      He's an ass next! Girl get outta there

    • @princesaiberica
      @princesaiberica 3 года назад

      Him and Peter Gunz, 🐕ing women tf out smh, they should just stay single.

  • @shannacollins8371
    @shannacollins8371 3 года назад +318

    So this is why Juju didn't want anything but friendship with Safaree. She knew how he was in relationships.

  • @thisistiffany
    @thisistiffany 3 года назад +32

    Clearly his over her
    This man doesn't love her it's so sad !

  • @nicolemiller7969
    @nicolemiller7969 3 года назад +455

    Erica might get loud & be obnoxious as times but she didn't deserve any of the hate that safaree was giving her but he gone regret it when she's gone

    • @angelsweet9611
      @angelsweet9611 3 года назад +23

      You noticed that she aged like a lot? She looks stressed!

    • @tRIXIIE1
      @tRIXIIE1 3 года назад +31

      He knew EXACTLY how spicy she was when he got with her…he actually praised that part of her personality. And now all of a sudden it’s too much smh. Ridiculous.

    • @JT_DePrince
      @JT_DePrince 3 года назад +7

      & she a Scorpio they always come back to us 😛🤪😝

    • @allonjayd.5057
      @allonjayd.5057 3 года назад +2

      @@tRIXIIE1 exactly, you knew who she was when you met her

    • @jaebabew1468
      @jaebabew1468 3 года назад +8

      @@JT_DePrince lmao SIKE

  • @TheNaturalist_
    @TheNaturalist_ 3 года назад +267

    This is sad. She’s legit communicating and he’s being so rude and immature

    • @reeupbabygyrl8053
      @reeupbabygyrl8053 3 года назад

      I actually feel bad for her too ( hate to say) this convo told a lot. He actually said he doesn’t care. I don’t know the behind the scene but on the show he doesn’t want the family he created. Who ever thought taking care of kids was easy?

  • @caniktotingmom3681
    @caniktotingmom3681 3 года назад +149

    Erica is a bigger person than me. This dude is simple minded and doesn't care about her. He's checked out already.

  • @chikensaregood9500
    @chikensaregood9500 2 года назад +4

    she hit the nail on the head when told him "its not a rap video everyday" that's literally what he thinks he's in. Folding clothes and being responsible is not part of his lifestyle. he thinks he's a star

  • @kv2811
    @kv2811 3 года назад +309

    When a man says he don't care BELIEVE HIM

  • @CHICKDEBORAHBRANNON
    @CHICKDEBORAHBRANNON 3 года назад +318

    Did anyone else notice that he has already disconnected???
    He isn’t interested in parenting or marriage!
    He realized it’s not playing house and posting internet pics!
    It’s hard work, a man desire to work hard for his family… GO FIGURE… GROW UP!!!

    • @janiimutugi3942
      @janiimutugi3942 3 года назад +3

      100

    • @veronacasimpson344
      @veronacasimpson344 3 года назад +2

      I literally said he has checked out... Smh...

    • @dreadrea3265
      @dreadrea3265 3 года назад

      This is EXACTLY what I was thinking. Although Erica was dramatic at first, here she seems mellow & like she still loves him. He's 100% over it.

    • @jackieb1495
      @jackieb1495 3 года назад +1

      Yes he completely looks like he doesn’t give no fcks.

    • @Love-dc5tq
      @Love-dc5tq 3 года назад +1

      I read yesterday that he was in Jamaica while she was at the NICU with their new son.

  • @SamTankko
    @SamTankko 3 года назад +468

    Let’s be clear here, Safaree only got with Erica just for her body. That comment of “you got too fat during your pregnancy” is a clear sign he just wanted to have relations with her but still wanted to mess around with others. Please stop torturing yourself Erica, don’t destroy your mental health because of him your child is going to see that and possibly be blamed for it.

    • @senam1394
      @senam1394 3 года назад +1

      So true he's clearly turned out now

    • @Yellowbitchblaze
      @Yellowbitchblaze 3 года назад +2

      She will be hitting the plastic surgeon up soon that's what all the rich hoes do when the get played out

    • @Butterflyinthesky1507
      @Butterflyinthesky1507 3 года назад +13

      They got together due to their dual HATE for Nicki Minaj. They both publicly bashed her (& still do any chance they get) and thought it’d be cute/funny to be together. But what do they say about unions made solely based off of hatred for someone? They don’t last 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @myab1471
      @myab1471 3 года назад +3

      @@Butterflyinthesky1507 Exactly!! I don't feel bad her at all.

    • @desireereyes9043
      @desireereyes9043 3 года назад

      I agree

  • @SupremeDreamss
    @SupremeDreamss 3 года назад +47

    How dead his eyes are and how nonchalant he looks really hurts my heart for her

  • @ChaseRaider
    @ChaseRaider 3 года назад +222

    The saddest line out of all of that is a wife telling her husband that she is scared he doesn’t want to do life with her.. It don’t get no more real than that.. that’s a wife trying to save her marriage, family and whole way of life. This is truly sad and a cringe to see.. no empathy, no understanding, no accountability and no responsibility on his part to be a man and fix your marriage to a woman that loves your dirty draws.. SMH 🤦🏾‍♂️ pathetic safaree!!

    • @oneslayatatime7311
      @oneslayatatime7311 3 года назад +21

      Glad to see there's men out here who get it. Thanks for your perspective. It's not all men that act like this, and sometimes women need to remember that.

    • @Marie-sw5cd
      @Marie-sw5cd 3 года назад +4

      Narcissist

    • @amandamwaniki3735
      @amandamwaniki3735 3 года назад +4

      Thanks for you perspective!!! God bless you and your family

    • @ros2274
      @ros2274 3 года назад +5

      Thank u.. this was VERY well said 👏🙌

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 2 года назад

      Safaree is a narcissist, that's why he doesn't get it

  • @emmeythegod3910
    @emmeythegod3910 3 года назад +197

    She didn’t even WANT him at first and now look how he’s doing her.

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 3 года назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Simplythetruthfulone
      @Simplythetruthfulone 3 года назад +23

      Well you know the old saying...Give a nigga a chance you wouldn't ordinarily give a chance to....and he will make you regret you ever gave it!!🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 3 года назад +4

      This is how it is with all guys. 😂. Ive been in that position but luckily didn't end up married l😂😂

    • @rosee9231
      @rosee9231 3 года назад +4

      @@Simplythetruthfulone living that shit right now smh lmao 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Simplythetruthfulone
      @Simplythetruthfulone 3 года назад +2

      @@rosee9231 I'm so sorry that happened to you😶 It was a joke saying, but its truths are painful in real life😔 Some men are so insecure all they know how to do is take you downhill in order to make you compliant with their low self worth😒 I hope and pray you find a man that treats you like a queen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏾

  • @kylaorgan3401
    @kylaorgan3401 3 года назад +266

    Her crying and saying, “I’m scared you don’t wanna do life with me and him saying you’re so dramatic “ literally made me tear up. That’s awful.

    • @jacquelinelee8814
      @jacquelinelee8814 3 года назад +3

      Facts

    • @seriouslyjae5166
      @seriouslyjae5166 3 года назад +13

      Literally !!!! Like this is a real thing spending the rest of your life with your soulmate and they don’t feel the same . Leave run don’t look back

    • @MultiMadameDegrassi
      @MultiMadameDegrassi 3 года назад +18

      so heartbreaking. it’s like she was really letting her walls down to be vulnerable with her “husband” then immediately after that comment had to put them right back up.

    • @hedenathompson8091
      @hedenathompson8091 3 года назад +4

      my heart broke for her after he said that. Hope she takes her children from this clown and never look back.

    • @SUEDUCE
      @SUEDUCE 3 года назад +2

      That was real and deep and very hard for her to express but come out and say as well. And he hit her with that wow!

  • @atheenarumph-mims5833
    @atheenarumph-mims5833 3 года назад +36

    I have always like Safree but honestly he is such a poor excuse for a man.

  • @Chantal202
    @Chantal202 3 года назад +311

    "you dont wanna do life with me" thats deep

  • @geovannacastaneda6885
    @geovannacastaneda6885 3 года назад +428

    Nikki basically dodged a bullet by leaving him . “I didnt know babies were this much work “ sir like you seem like a lot of work yourself . What did safaree think ? It’s just laughs and rainbows? Kids are a lot of work . It’s not always easy . Some days are more work than others .

    • @szhaszha6333
      @szhaszha6333 3 года назад +5

      Girl bye! That piece of sh#! Is rich he can can afford fur coats thats hard to come by, He Can Take Care of 1child. He is just looking for away out because they both had hidden agendas and it was all for the money and camaras and now that baby is here Real Life Begins..... He is selfish and only want to be a bachelor not a married man fawk Um!

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 3 года назад +1

      Just be entertained. What grown man with married and friends that are father's doesn't know that?

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 3 года назад +6

      @@szhaszha6333 I totally agree with them having hidden agendas. Got married for a check, had a baby for another check and now he wants to check out........

    • @fefesmith82
      @fefesmith82 3 года назад +1

      @@szhaszha6333
      Facts all for the MONEY.....

    • @sweetdeadlygyallala805
      @sweetdeadlygyallala805 3 года назад +1

      What he needs to keep in mind is that being a father lasts longer than being a spouse & if he knew he had no patience/desire for marriagehood & parenthood then why waste time signing up for it smh.

  • @CJ-gt9xs
    @CJ-gt9xs 3 года назад +165

    I feel like he's pushing her to say she wants a divorce, instead of just being straightforward and saying he wants out. Then later on he can say that he tried his best to make it work and blame her for their breakup. Overall he got what he asked for and was in over his head.

    • @JoJo-xl4mb
      @JoJo-xl4mb 3 года назад +5

      This is exactly what it is, because he was the one tweeting about divorce but never actually filed.

  • @sophiadilworth885
    @sophiadilworth885 3 года назад +19

    He most definitely has Narcissis traits foreal he gaslighting her very disrespectful an no empathy period.

  • @quila_sohot3841
    @quila_sohot3841 3 года назад +822

    Nicki Minaj is a prophet man because everything she say is true 😂 she literally told y’all Safaree was a damn clown and now look he got the red nose and all smh

    • @candirockstar135
      @candirockstar135 3 года назад +14

      Seriously 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jellybelly6133
      @jellybelly6133 3 года назад +26

      But she dated a clown. Lol and I don't think you understand what a prophet is

    • @jeanandre6998
      @jeanandre6998 3 года назад +14

      Omg yessss. I used to despise Nicky for him but now I see she wasn’t wrong. She dodged the bullettttt

    • @nenilove5100
      @nenilove5100 3 года назад +15

      @@jellybelly6133 u date someone to get to know them so got to know him that’s how she knew he ain’t shirt

    • @casscass9644
      @casscass9644 3 года назад +13

      @@jeanandre6998 she’s with a convicted rapist now so??? 🤦🏽‍♀️She chooses losers it seems

  • @keedss
    @keedss 3 года назад +180

    I cringed watching this.. from the gaslighting to just the overall lack of empathy.. I feel for Erica, it’s obvious the relationship is over but she still wants her family. Hope she can move on for real.

  • @AysiaSmith711
    @AysiaSmith711 3 года назад +453

    Erica actually seems like she changed and matured. She’s not crazy like she used to be. They old Erica would of slapped his ass. As for Safaree he is to damn childish and needs to grow up and start acting like a man.

    • @Simplykiebby
      @Simplykiebby 3 года назад +9

      Maybe that’s what he needs. She should have chucked that baby book at him

    • @chan2009ify
      @chan2009ify 3 года назад +12

      She’s still the same Erica, don’t let the editing of this show fool you

    • @nunyabizness7019
      @nunyabizness7019 3 года назад +11

      New Erica is a tired pregnant mom, probably cooking and cleaning all day, taking care of the new baby, she cant waste her energy on this man child no more that cant even fold his underwear smh

    • @chan2009ify
      @chan2009ify 3 года назад +4

      @@nunyabizness7019 lol that's what you think

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 3 года назад +6

      @@chan2009ify Exactly, it's an act. He's not so cold and rude and she's not calm and collective. It's called entertainment and a check.

  • @96babytaz96
    @96babytaz96 3 года назад +92

    Being married to a woman is easy. Protecting your queen is only hard when you don't know how to be a man. Respect💯
    1 Corinthians 13:11
    11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

    • @chazconway9578
      @chazconway9578 3 года назад

      Yes!!! My father once told me that a real man has to lead his woman and the problem with a lot of these relationships is that they aren't mentally mature enough to lead anyone let alone a wife!!! And the woman has to also be willing to be lead, but only if the man is fit for the role.

    • @princejudah3789
      @princejudah3789 3 года назад

      Proverbs 21:19
      19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.

    • @princejudah3789
      @princejudah3789 3 года назад

      1 Timothy 2:12
      “But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.”
      “But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.”

  • @lifewithabby6177
    @lifewithabby6177 3 года назад +430

    Safaree is like a whole different person now like tf...

    • @damienvoltaire5626
      @damienvoltaire5626 3 года назад +40

      I think safaree bite off more than he could chew…he started to realize how hard marriage can be sometimes

    • @VOID-gz6jk
      @VOID-gz6jk 3 года назад +19

      I already knew he wasn’t shit when he was f-cking around with DreamDoll like you can’t rationalize someone like her if you ain’t got demons of your own

    • @surayachase2534
      @surayachase2534 3 года назад +22

      Idk why ppl keep saying that. Je just as childish, selfish and immature as before they got married. Idk why people think that someone will grow up and change just because they get married or have children. Usually what you see is what you get and we fool ourselves into thinking ppl will change for us. He seems like the same niqqa he always appeared to be. I'm shocked she snd everyone else is so surprised. When did he ever appear to be mature or selfless? I feel sorry for her but a lot of time we set ourselves up when we try to imagine a different version of what someone shows us.

    • @piacrudes2741
      @piacrudes2741 3 года назад +13

      i think it was erica all her ex’s sat the same thing she is too aggressive and violent that will push anybody away married or not

    • @surayachase2534
      @surayachase2534 3 года назад +26

      @@piacrudes2741 yeah I think she has her toxic ways as well but she seems a bit more mature in her ability to want to work things out for her family and child. I don't get that same vibe from him. Not that I'm surprised.

  • @karabog7460
    @karabog7460 3 года назад +70

    You can tell Erica really wanted this marriage to work. But you can't be in a relationship and steering it by yourself. Safaree needs to grow up.

  • @complexjanedoe
    @complexjanedoe 3 года назад +283

    He love bombed her in the beginning got her and now slowly discarding her. He is a narcissist or he just emotionally unavailable

    • @rainerwells1573
      @rainerwells1573 3 года назад +6

      This!!

    • @TheTamitude
      @TheTamitude 3 года назад +14

      I also learned that in that love bombing phase, many ask for children. Will you have a baby with me? Then they know you will stick around cuz of the value of family. It's sick.

    • @complexjanedoe
      @complexjanedoe 3 года назад +7

      @@TheTamitude yes it is. The psychological games and emotional manipulation is crazy. I can't even watch this season bc I get triggered from my own experience. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Erica may have her ways but nobody deserves that. I feel for the children especially.

    • @TheTamitude
      @TheTamitude 3 года назад +1

      @@complexjanedoe Your absolutely correct. I'm going through it too.

    • @SuckerPunch92
      @SuckerPunch92 3 года назад +2

      That’s it! He’s a narcissist

  • @kalaasmith9908
    @kalaasmith9908 3 года назад +31

    This literally makes me tear up, I hope she finds happiness 🙏🏾

  • @marylee4368
    @marylee4368 3 года назад +154

    The part where he tells her he's been sleeping at his studio and she looks broken and ask "Is it fulfilling? Does it hug you back?" 😭😭😭😭

  • @marielbacaba7037
    @marielbacaba7037 3 года назад +114

    The fact that she sat down and was communicating her feelings without throwing a drink or getting in his face says a lot about her growth. She looks like she has matured so much and wants to keep her family together. Safaree on the other hand is a whole man child. She doesn’t deserve what she is going through. no woman does !!!!!

    • @latoyahaskin351
      @latoyahaskin351 3 года назад

      I agree because I use to hate seeing her on screen because she was so extra but I do see the growth in her.

  • @jessicaibe970
    @jessicaibe970 3 года назад +335

    Marriage is a relationship built on understanding, trust, and commitment

    • @tskinner5439
      @tskinner5439 3 года назад +25

      And work. You have to put in the work.

    • @m.j.mbrooks1859
      @m.j.mbrooks1859 3 года назад +13

      And work. It will always take work. Hard work.

    • @meishajames531
      @meishajames531 3 года назад +1

      Yes understanding, trust, commitment but most of all good communication and respect, Erica needs to work on her communication skills and stop shouting at her husband when they are having a discussion. They both need counseling and a good caregiver.

    • @sashn2108
      @sashn2108 3 года назад

      @@meishajames531 she was not shout at him in this video. Idk what you heard ? But she was not shouting. She tried to give him a space to talk about his feelings…. He chose not to say anything now that’s his problem.

    • @meishajames531
      @meishajames531 3 года назад +2

      @@sashn2108 listen to what Safaree said " I do not like your aggressive side " and " I have been sleeping in my studio to be more calm" she Erica has shown the world that she can be very loud and abusive with her words. Listen that man has been hurting and he is over it.

  • @SiaT92
    @SiaT92 3 года назад +17

    She just tried to express her emotions and be gentle but she said she’s dramatic and now she starting to boil up and says he doesn’t like her aggressive side🙄

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 2 года назад +2

      He gaslights, basically take the abuse and shut up

  • @biagraham78
    @biagraham78 3 года назад +426

    He is behaving like a child that can’t get his way. She’s pregnant, CLEARLY.

    • @nettigarcia3753
      @nettigarcia3753 3 года назад +7

      He's a narcissist

    • @mpumelelobeyers957
      @mpumelelobeyers957 3 года назад

      @@nettigarcia3753 it takes a narcissist to see another, how wud u know??

    • @nettigarcia3753
      @nettigarcia3753 3 года назад +6

      @@mpumelelobeyers957 look it up dummy , his character traits are spot on ..Why are you soo triggered by that word huh?!🤔😂

    • @Premiumfeel
      @Premiumfeel 3 года назад +8

      @@mpumelelobeyers957 it's not hard to tell someone is a narcissist when you know the signs 🙄 read a book maybe. I dated one for two years before I realized what I was dealing with, and trust me, they all have the same childish me me me attitude.

    • @Chevy-cack
      @Chevy-cack 3 года назад

      I Don’t Think She Was Pregnant Here She Had Already Gave Birth If I’m Not Mistaken

  • @UrbanBeauty166
    @UrbanBeauty166 3 года назад +291

    He doesn't even look at her when she's speaking. What a narcissist.

    • @shan9453
      @shan9453 3 года назад +7

      @Bet Emnet lust**

    • @elusivepirate2217
      @elusivepirate2217 3 года назад +1

      I was about to say that

    • @diouranke
      @diouranke 3 года назад +17

      Narcs get bored real quick

    • @KellenGaut
      @KellenGaut 3 года назад +1

      @Alicia Thomas and women aren’t?

    • @tctc2703
      @tctc2703 3 года назад +1

      Yes!!!!!!!!

  • @JAZZnMOTION
    @JAZZnMOTION 3 года назад +100

    “I didn’t think it was going to be this hard”
    Broooo it doesn’t even sound like your doing what you should be doing

  • @Angela-ot7es
    @Angela-ot7es 3 года назад +6

    Safaree: Seems confused by where his wife is coming from. Me: Confused by his confusion.

  • @GeeQ407
    @GeeQ407 3 года назад +62

    I remember being treated like this. Being married to a narcissist is no joke. You literally start questioning your sanity. It messes with every part of your being; mind, heart, soul. It’s like a slow death of the self.

    • @raya74
      @raya74 3 года назад +3

      Yesss I feel you on that!

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 2 года назад

      I was discarded by 2 narcs back to back, left me homeless, having a conversation with a disordered person is draining

  • @rockelliajohnson2607
    @rockelliajohnson2607 3 года назад +241

    Attention MEN of the world: 40 is NOT the new 20. They lied to you when they put it in the song, like literally lied 🥴

    • @Simplythetruthfulone
      @Simplythetruthfulone 3 года назад +14

      They sure did lie🥴 They. Sure. Did.🥴

    • @Nirobiscloset10
      @Nirobiscloset10 3 года назад +8

      Truth!!!!

    • @MsTy2908
      @MsTy2908 3 года назад +3

      😅🤣😂 Right!!

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 3 года назад +3

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤣🤣🤣🤣they also lie when they tell them 40s is his prime.

    • @katherinemariv8856
      @katherinemariv8856 3 года назад

      Women start to lose value after 30 years old tho

  • @deeduddie3335
    @deeduddie3335 3 года назад +135

    Nicki wasn’t lying when she described how he was smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @damnchyna7164
      @damnchyna7164 3 года назад +6

      What did she say? I wanna know. I can’t believe I actually thought he was a good dude and nicki did him dirty. Im an idiot for that smh

    • @AyodeleAJ
      @AyodeleAJ 3 года назад +1

      @@damnchyna7164 it’s in her interview with Funk Flex she’s explains everything you’re seeing here

    • @skyexmonique
      @skyexmonique 3 года назад +5

      ChynaBihhh she said he's lazy, ungrateful, self entitled and selfish. Pretty much what we're seeing here 🥴 even when you listen to the pink print she describes him exactly how he's acting in this clip.

    • @AyodeleAJ
      @AyodeleAJ 3 года назад +1

      @@skyexmonique yup. Here’s the RUclips link to the. Interview ruclips.net/video/O0RBngBIKhU/видео.html

    • @damnchyna7164
      @damnchyna7164 3 года назад

      @@skyexmonique damn yep that’s exactly what he’s been showing now. Sounds like she was spot on

  • @skymontclair
    @skymontclair 3 года назад +10

    This is literally the behavior Nicki talked about why she LEFT HOM

  • @anamariaalvarado6742
    @anamariaalvarado6742 3 года назад +77

    I don’t know but this shows that it’s more scary about WHO you have a child with than having a child in general

    • @tf5788
      @tf5788 3 года назад +2

      I swear

  • @brittanyhobson7439
    @brittanyhobson7439 3 года назад +142

    Safaree broke my heart into a million pieces the way we was speaking to Erica. I used to find him super funny. Now he’s just an arrogant asshole. For him to say she’s being dramatic…come on, now. Your wife is hurting bro. Then he says he didn’t think having a kid was going to be this hard. Like bruh…grow up. Raising a kid, no matter how wealthy you are is going to be hard. There are so many single mothers and fathers in this world, and here he goes with a whole partner, who’s at home with the kids. And he still living the bachelor life. And then putting on social media that marrying Erica was his biggest mistake. Bro, that is hurtful. Eric’s feelings are crushed. And now she’s pregnant with his baby. What the hell?? I will never look at Safaree the same…Ever again!

    • @KirtBean
      @KirtBean 3 года назад +1

      Wait for it…. Their baby is in the nicu and he’s in Jamaica celebrating his birthday!

    • @noe6094
      @noe6094 3 года назад

      💔

  • @stacy-annfrederick3680
    @stacy-annfrederick3680 3 года назад +135

    Can't believe I'm agreeing with erica but he tweeted crap out there and upset that she threw the photos in the bin😐. He seemed like he wanted to laugh the entire time. It's just a mess

  • @tatianarodriguez7359
    @tatianarodriguez7359 3 года назад +22

    Safaree is the prime example of a man would do anything to get you and once he does, he gets comfortable and shows his true colors.

  • @mianmar6279
    @mianmar6279 3 года назад +62

    Honestly embarrassing to say that having a kid was much harder than you thought. Then still refuse to help your wife with them. Just selfish. He’s a married bachelor.

  • @rachael7995
    @rachael7995 3 года назад +260

    Safaree knows that Erica is right… but you know men when they feel attacked in anyway they try to cling on to anything to make a point which is why he’s talking about the pictures she threw in the bin. She wouldn’t have done that if you didn’t write on Twitter for thousands of people to see that marrying the mother of your child was the biggest mistake of his life 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @centrovorsial2871
      @centrovorsial2871 3 года назад +13

      @Kano but the funny thing is we aren't talking about women as a collective group at all. we are talking about Safaree. A single man, notice how nobody said all men do this. Just say you dont like women and go. Mysogony isn't gonna get you the mental understanding you require.

    • @jasminegonzalez4391
      @jasminegonzalez4391 3 года назад +4

      Nah twitter isn’t real life 😂🤬 He’s a joke

    • @centrovorsial2871
      @centrovorsial2871 3 года назад +4

      @Kano the irony Is the way that you literally hollered about all women when that's not the assignment, that's not what the topic is at all and that's actually what we're talking about. Irony is the way you are a Safaree, then turn to me and say a hit dog hollers, but my OP comment was literally about you being a hit dog that hollers. Have a nice day lmfaoo

    • @worktreemr
      @worktreemr 3 года назад +1

      @@centrovorsial2871 lmao

    • @centrovorsial2871
      @centrovorsial2871 3 года назад

      @@worktreemr I stg were all tired lmfaooo

  • @labelmeposh
    @labelmeposh 3 года назад +160

    He's been able to be "calm" cause he doesn't have to deal with the kids. He did a pump and dump.

    • @miawoo330
      @miawoo330 3 года назад +8

      Exactly

    • @lovelylove5940
      @lovelylove5940 3 года назад +7

      Don't even think he truly loves his daughter only when it's picture time for social media

    • @lovelylove5940
      @lovelylove5940 3 года назад +1

      Don't even think he truly loves his daughter only when it's picture time for social media

    • @labelmeposh
      @labelmeposh 3 года назад +7

      @@lovelylove5940 No one that leaves their wife to suffer with the children alone with such a callous response has room in their hearts for love at the time.

    • @diamonda3253
      @diamonda3253 3 года назад +8

      Too many black men do this. Why say you want a kid and then leave her a single mother

  • @strryskiis_spam3567
    @strryskiis_spam3567 3 года назад +6

    He just makes me sick. You chased her, professed your love for her, put a ring on her finger, shed all the tears you could at the altar, got her pregnant and then wanna turn your back on your family the minute shit gets too real. A literal CHILD is what you are Safaree. Erica really looks heartbroken, she clearly loves this man, she loves her child, her new life I think being a wife and a mother was turning her life around and he just snatches it away from her. She's trying to communicate like married adults do and he looks so checked out it's disgusting to see him behave this way to the mother of his child. I'm not surprised though he's always had a head way too big for his body to carry, and she's right he doesn't know how to do real life. Everything ain't a goddamn Best Man sequel, shit doesn't resolve itself like it does in television. Be a damn man and talk to your wife, get some counseling, communicate, tell her how you feel and see if just maybe she can understand. Stop being a boy and grow up because there is only so much a person can take before they decide that what's best for their heart and mind is to leave you for good.

  • @lauradamiano1055
    @lauradamiano1055 3 года назад +159

    An absolutely disgusting human being, he’s going to end up alone and miserable. He was never taught how to respect women. Poor Erica. Focus on your babies girl, the right one will come along. Safaree is a boy in a mans body. Emotionally abusive and LEVELS more immature. Ugh

    • @TheSonjaxfactor
      @TheSonjaxfactor 3 года назад

      With 20 baby momma's!!!

    • @YoDaddyBlack
      @YoDaddyBlack 3 года назад

      The right one will NOT come along. Not with her attitude.

    • @sallyliciaglasgow3840
      @sallyliciaglasgow3840 3 года назад +3

      He's a total mama's boy so he's immature af.

    • @zazlar4228
      @zazlar4228 3 года назад

      but why are so many black men like this ??? thinking everything should be fun and games and never growing up ....

  • @tmcharms
    @tmcharms 3 года назад +63

    Safaree needs to grow up. busy gaslighting her as if she's being unreasonable and yet she has valid points.