yeah i see why she ended it with Saferee his very immature, but im not sure about her husband either since she have to Register him everywhere they go smh.
@@brittanybeatrice7668 right now Nicki is paying his court fees because he didn't register he might be facing jail time. I don't want that type of responsibility on me as a wife. Hell i wouldn't want no one with that record in my house or even to be next door to one .
Absolutely..she was about to breakdown right before he said "you're so dramatic" ..like he's not even listening to her! I hate when a man say oh you're too aggressive, LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR, you're bringing that aggressive shit out with the narcissist nonchalant attitude, she's fighting for the family while he sitting there acting like a grown kid
He gaslight the hell out of Erica. She is actually communicating and he is just sitting there and acting like he’s the victim. He’s not a man, he’s a little boy.
A Narc for sure. 😂 a Bitch. I dont even want to play little boys like that 😂 my 5 year old son communicates a 1000x better and is actually attentive to feelings. Calling these types of dudes little boys😳 is actually an insult to little boys. 😂
Women have to realize that men are from mars not venus....lol.....seriously tho....men communicate differentely than women . As you heard ...their communication is not going well....thats a problem .....and that sucks because its very very very very important . HE.....obviouly doesnt want to fight and he doesnt want no drama going forward ... like the slamming of doors.....the threat of the tears that are about to flow.....not to mention the sad cracking voice ... All of those things overshadow ....block ....and disables ....REAL and HONEST communication ....but that is how WOMEN communicate. you NEVER see a man attaching tears to every conversation...ANNNNND becoming aggressive right after the freaking tears that by the way .....never fell from the eyes. your voice and attitude cant be like marilyn monroe one minute and lthen ike king kong the next ....lol.....I mean come on He obviously cares because he wanted her to elaborate and explain a couple of the statments she made.....this also shows "HE IS LISTENING".....that is all women really want ... sadly she blew it ....why......because she wants what she wants and she tryna use manipulation annnnnd he aint having it. p.s. listen ...straight up ......he is not a little boy ...and she is not his mama ...Period she is scolding. him....instead of telling him straight what she needs from her man and asking him ...."WHAT....."""HE""" THINKS THEY SHOULD DO. remind yourself he...he ...he is the man......respect the strength and be ready to enjoy the benifits. TRUST ME. oh NEVER tell him he is a little boy....or even imply it ...alll your going to get is a brick wall. ... dont you want what diana ross want ....diana said ....I WANT MUSCLES . yaaaaaaasah.
1. Safaree only needed a baby not a family 2. He’s a fool at 40 3. He only understand his needs and not his wife’s or people around him 4. He does not understand sacrifice 5. He is so detached and doesn’t have it in him to make the marriage work 💔 6. He should never have gotten married
He is a Jamaican more over in the music business, forget it, he ain't gonna do better right now. Seeing Safaree talking. To Erica makes me laugh although its not funny. I wish Jamaican men would change such mentality. There are good Jamaican men which I think its hard to find, Safaree is not one and I don't know if he will ever be, he is just living for himself.
Erica was so vulnerable in this conversation. Erica was so grown in this space. You can’t do anything but honor her growth as a woman. She re-gained a fan in me.
I was watching this saying the same exact thing. She has progressed tremendously since she first came on LHH. I don’t think I’ve ever seen her walk away like this or, express her feelings so calm.
@@layedlyfe4277 she got better yeah but sorry safari wasnt having it anyway. He is the type of man she needs then cause again yes ...she changed a little .
Yeah but if y'all watch previous seasons maybe it would have been an easier transition for him if she wasn't controlling him he dealt with a lot getting into her you cannot emasculate a man the way she does remember we still can't handle her mouth 🙄
@@BeautyIsHerName27 Yet that's what he liked. He even says she acts different from before they got married so the person she was in the previous seasons is who he wants her to be now.
Wrong. Even if all that she said was valid, her delivery was poor. When you come at your partner with blame-placing, “YOU” statements (like “you are this” and “you did that”), it will never be received well… have compassion in your relationships and take ownership of your feelings… we’re all in charge of our own feelings… how it ended was how I knew it would end because neither one of them felt heard. (Speaking from experience with my own 13 year long [and still going strong] loving & happy marriage after lots and lots of hard work)
EXACTLY 💯!!! I'M BAFFLED THAT HE ACTUALLY THOUGHT THAT HAVING A WIFE & BABY AT THE SAME TIME TOO WAS GONNA BE A WALK IN THE PARK!!! I REALLY WISH ERICA BOUGHT A BABY ALIVE DOLL TO SEE HOW HE HANDLES IT... MAN I CAN FEEL HER PAIN THRU MY PHONE.😢😫🤬
I’ve NEVER seen Erica that calm when filled with emotion. She genuinely tried to talk to him and get her point across and she was shut down at every turn
Because his not feeding into it, if he would be like baby I love you she would act like a crazy maniac, women got shit twisted there are many women out there willing to give it to your man nicely with no ties, and no drama. They should get a nanny seriously 😳
She has blown up and seen herself overreact so many times, it's about time, or it's for show. He stayed that she throws stuff, goes off, so this may be a moment or an act. Who knows?
He’s just rude & mean to her. I think he has low self-esteem. Clearly he’s having an affair. Anytime they pick fights and buttons that they know will set you off, that’s their excuse to leave and cheat even more. It’s called Narcissistic Personality...
@@tabbylivvy I don’t think it does his actions are wrong don’t get me wrong but , he simply just doesn’t want a baby , doesn’t mean his cheating he doesn’t want a baby with some body else he just doesn’t want a baby in general .
Exactly how she feels is exactly how my fiancé treated me when I had our child ☹️ men don’t understand the mental emotional and physical toll it takes having a baby and being that baby’s everything the post parting depression and then to feel absolutely neglected by the one person you love during the what supposed to be the happiest time of your life. It’s changes you absolutely we lose our confidence our happiness our will I fight every for my son but I’d be lying if I said I don’t wanna have another baby because of it which makes me sad wanting 4 kids 😭😭
Safaree is absolutely disgusting. He’s literally a grown man child. Erica really needs to leave this man and save herself and kids. I’m absolutely disgusted
@@rickydixon2558 in this clip she is attempting to talk to him and he is completely shut down. So her not telling him makes sense to me… he isn’t a supportive husband
"its like you don't want to do life with me" " you're so dramatic " It was at that moment that their marriage ended, this wrost thing that can happen is any relationship, being gaslighted for being vulnerable
Erica communicated beautifully here. Direct questions, vulnerability, honesty. She knows what it takes to make it work but she’s dealing with a child. Imagine a man responding this way to you when all you wanna do is make your marriage and family work.
Wow. This hurts her. His non chalant attitude is horrible. Women aren't perfect neither are men but goodness he has no compassion for their marriage he's over her and over it. When the other party is just mean and nasty. I say its time to go. He just doesn't care like he used to.
And the only reason he has given is that "he didn't know it would be so much work." That's pathetic. The answer to her being aggressive was her saying "he stirs the pot" and he doesn't deny that. He's a tool.
The fact that he’s CURRENTLY partying in Jamaica right now while their son is in the NICU tells me everything I need to know about him… Erica, RUN girl!
Wow i had no idea that this was how bad the case was like are u fucking kidding me she need to let goo I feel her pain tho he offered and got her use to way much more than what he really wanted to give her he aint shit!
This is exactly why Nicki didn’t want to marry him & why Juju left his ass on read - I feel bad for Erica, he’s a child and no shade, but instead of his mom telling him what girls not to bring home, she should have been raising him to be a man a WOMAN wants to bring home!
Saying “you’re so dramatic” to a woman that’s about to cry and fighting to hold her tears back is the most painful comment you can make in that situation. This really hit too close to home, I’ve been there several times and that’s why I come off as emotionless to so many people that actually deserve better from me. You feel like you can’t open up to anyone anymore because they just don’t care.
Wow. I'm so sorry that happened to you😔 My Mom used to tell me, "Never spend time dating or being in a relationship with the wrong man, for if you do, you will neither recognize nor appreciate the right one when he comes along". I think it's true of men, and of people in general that we give our big hearts to. Some folks don't deserve a second look much less a loving chance😔🤷🏽♀️ The Lord Jesus will renew your heart🙏🙏🏾🙏🏽
@@reyfin4922 she actually doesn’t. Watch the clips of her. She’s checked safaree and comforted Erica, letting her know she has a choice to stay or leave; how she should never feel like she doesn’t have a choice.
She can’t be too ashamed he paying for some of her stuff soooo 🤷🏽♀️ But you know what his mom probably gonna have to put up with his bs for awhile cause he know acting like an ass still gets him paid regardless but he knows acting like an asshole will get him more attention
Neither one of them know she pregnant just yet, girl was drinking wine with Sierra and Bambi before they met 😳 I wonder how she didn't feel any signs or anything
He’s definitely a man, he has 3 children. He acts like a child. Calling grown men boys erks me and allows them to behave this way. You are grown at 21!
@@dappaflawless ppl feel sings at different times. Each pregnancy is different as well. Some things are also just scenes. She might not have actually been drinking.
@@chocolatelovin19 Nahh he’s a CHILD. Almost like his brain isn’t fully developed actually. It’s not coddling cause these grown-man childs don’t want to be seen as boys. Coddling is calling them real men when they’re anything but that.😂
Safaree did not really want to be married. He does everything for clout, including getting her pregnant. He will take a few pictures for the gram and now he is tired of the married dad life. So it’s on to the next stunt and now he back to Harlem shaking in the club. Divorce him Now . You will forever be in the marriage alone with him. Safaree still isn’t done being a kid yet.
@@NineDouble Even with 2 parents people still need help.Thats's why thw saying goes it takes a village.They can afford a nanny but Safaree has already checked out.They had no business getting married.Erica's bad behaviour I'm sure played a role. I hope women understand that men eventually get tired.
He really displayed how people see our black men in real life. He just lost a lot of cool points. He’s just lost a lot of everything. Especially his since.
She literally telling him what she needs and he acting like a victim from a situation he caused. Focused on her behavior and not why she’s behaving that way.
I said the same thing. I’ve seen her curse the whole cast of LHHNY cheat lie and beat up people but you can see she pulled out her soft side for him and he can careless.
She's also pregnant, she trying to be calm for the baby. All that flipping out isn't healthy right now..Now after she gives birth, that a whole different story ...
He’s weird on another level… like seriously… taking dance class while his son is damn near dying.. that’s insane! Half of y’all don’t think anything wrong with it because y’all daddy was NEVER there.. it’s not okay tho
but when she’s gone he’s not going to know what to do! i feel like he thinks he has her at the palm of his hand for life but there’s actually going to come a point where she’s not going to want to do it anymore and he’ll be the one who’s missed out! not her
And the fact that he was the one chasing Erica and proposed to her, then bragged about wanting a family as well?!? What kind of 40 year old man child is he? Erica better walk away while she can and heal from this demon
Wow like she 100 percent innocent I guess u avoiding the fact the she done dragged this man being bitter and wanted a divorce from him then wanted to get mad at him cuz he was dating another chick just wow
I can't believe this. She shows her vulnerability, she reveals how she truly feels, her fear, that he will abandon her. This shows just how much she cares for him and he shits all over her. What an example of fine specimen of a man. I don't care how volatile people think Erica Mena is, this episode shows that that woman has a heart and she deserves better. What a shame.
Please divorce him, find your happiness for you and your kids. He basically told you...HE DON'T WANT YOU. Not your fault, babes. But this man is a WASTE OF TIME!
She's not going to. She wants love, so the moment he realizes she's actually gonna leave, he's gonna give her the love she wants and then she's gonna think "things are getting better" and stay. It's gonna be like that until she realizes it
@@diamonda3253 It’s going to be hard because she just had another child and now she’s a single mom of three. Lord knows how her mood is going to be with postpartum as well. But she’ll eventually find someone else. It will take some time though.
I remember when he wanted her so bad! would be gushing over her & she wasn’t on the same page but she gave in and now, he got what he wanted and doesn’t put in that same effort he had to bag her ‼️ he got comfortable and now treats her like she wanted him!
Exactly a classic mistake and lesson that we may all have to go through at some point..but chile this is why I love myself and we have to focus on our careers, friends, hobbies etc that make us thrive not chaining ourselves to partners.
He chased her for so long and promised to treat her lk a Queen and he has completely failed!!! He is an idiot & instead of being a real man & stepping up, he is acting so cold. I feel so bad for Erica. He gaslight her and love bombed her and then once he had her he completely changed for worse. He’s a true narcissist!
Nah cause he would have done it to Nicki. He and Nicki were together for years. If he was a narcissist Nicki would have left his ass as soon as she got famous. She had that power. I think he and Nicky were rebounding.
I’m really proud of Erica here. She’s communicating how she feels without flipping out like usual. And also taking the time to listen and respond to what he has to say. She’s flawed for sure, but no one deserves to be treated like how he’s doing her. Wishing her all the best 💛
The bar is set so low nowadays. They should have been more concerned with getting marriage counseling vs a televised wedding before they got married. Looks like he wants to return the product he brought.
One of the worst things you can do...in my opinion...is wake up someones love without the intention to really love them. I despise people like him...chase you...even when you keep saying no...then when you finally give them a chance...they treat you horribly. The engagement proposal he did with fireworks really meant nothing now looking back at it all...just photo ops and fakeness.
Ladies I hope you are all taking notes. This is just so sad. Some men will sell you a dream then not fulfill his promise. Your still not guaranteed happiness even being married. This whole situation is a lesson to all women out there. Ladies put yourself first.
Erica needs to work on her communication skills, and don't shout at her husband when communicating with him because he will shutdown because I am the same way. She needs to stop the shouting.
How does she deserve better? Erica isn’t much better lol have you the watched earlier seasons? she’s a toxic, horrible person. They’re a perfect match.
so heartbreaking. it’s like she was really letting her walls down to be vulnerable with her “husband” then immediately after that comment had to put them right back up.
@@rosee9231 I'm so sorry that happened to you😶 It was a joke saying, but its truths are painful in real life😔 Some men are so insecure all they know how to do is take you downhill in order to make you compliant with their low self worth😒 I hope and pray you find a man that treats you like a queen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏾
she hit the nail on the head when told him "its not a rap video everyday" that's literally what he thinks he's in. Folding clothes and being responsible is not part of his lifestyle. he thinks he's a star
Did anyone else notice that he has already disconnected??? He isn’t interested in parenting or marriage! He realized it’s not playing house and posting internet pics! It’s hard work, a man desire to work hard for his family… GO FIGURE… GROW UP!!!
I actually feel bad for her too ( hate to say) this convo told a lot. He actually said he doesn’t care. I don’t know the behind the scene but on the show he doesn’t want the family he created. Who ever thought taking care of kids was easy?
He knew EXACTLY how spicy she was when he got with her…he actually praised that part of her personality. And now all of a sudden it’s too much smh. Ridiculous.
Safaree wants fun and a girlfriend he doesn't want a wife and family. He is way to immature for this. Even to the point of understanding mature relationships. Man Erica can do so much better
The saddest line out of all of that is a wife telling her husband that she is scared he doesn’t want to do life with her.. It don’t get no more real than that.. that’s a wife trying to save her marriage, family and whole way of life. This is truly sad and a cringe to see.. no empathy, no understanding, no accountability and no responsibility on his part to be a man and fix your marriage to a woman that loves your dirty draws.. SMH 🤦🏾♂️ pathetic safaree!!
Glad to see there's men out here who get it. Thanks for your perspective. It's not all men that act like this, and sometimes women need to remember that.
I feel like he's pushing her to say she wants a divorce, instead of just being straightforward and saying he wants out. Then later on he can say that he tried his best to make it work and blame her for their breakup. Overall he got what he asked for and was in over his head.
Yes understanding, trust, commitment but most of all good communication and respect, Erica needs to work on her communication skills and stop shouting at her husband when they are having a discussion. They both need counseling and a good caregiver.
@@meishajames531 she was not shout at him in this video. Idk what you heard ? But she was not shouting. She tried to give him a space to talk about his feelings…. He chose not to say anything now that’s his problem.
@@sashn2108 listen to what Safaree said " I do not like your aggressive side " and " I have been sleeping in my studio to be more calm" she Erica has shown the world that she can be very loud and abusive with her words. Listen that man has been hurting and he is over it.
I already knew he wasn’t shit when he was f-cking around with DreamDoll like you can’t rationalize someone like her if you ain’t got demons of your own
Idk why ppl keep saying that. Je just as childish, selfish and immature as before they got married. Idk why people think that someone will grow up and change just because they get married or have children. Usually what you see is what you get and we fool ourselves into thinking ppl will change for us. He seems like the same niqqa he always appeared to be. I'm shocked she snd everyone else is so surprised. When did he ever appear to be mature or selfless? I feel sorry for her but a lot of time we set ourselves up when we try to imagine a different version of what someone shows us.
@@piacrudes2741 yeah I think she has her toxic ways as well but she seems a bit more mature in her ability to want to work things out for her family and child. I don't get that same vibe from him. Not that I'm surprised.
I cringed watching this.. from the gaslighting to just the overall lack of empathy.. I feel for Erica, it’s obvious the relationship is over but she still wants her family. Hope she can move on for real.
Being married to a woman is easy. Protecting your queen is only hard when you don't know how to be a man. Respect💯 1 Corinthians 13:11 11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
Yes!!! My father once told me that a real man has to lead his woman and the problem with a lot of these relationships is that they aren't mentally mature enough to lead anyone let alone a wife!!! And the woman has to also be willing to be lead, but only if the man is fit for the role.
1 Timothy 2:12 “But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.” “But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.”
ChynaBihhh she said he's lazy, ungrateful, self entitled and selfish. Pretty much what we're seeing here 🥴 even when you listen to the pink print she describes him exactly how he's acting in this clip.
Erica actually seems like she changed and matured. She’s not crazy like she used to be. They old Erica would of slapped his ass. As for Safaree he is to damn childish and needs to grow up and start acting like a man.
New Erica is a tired pregnant mom, probably cooking and cleaning all day, taking care of the new baby, she cant waste her energy on this man child no more that cant even fold his underwear smh
Nikki basically dodged a bullet by leaving him . “I didnt know babies were this much work “ sir like you seem like a lot of work yourself . What did safaree think ? It’s just laughs and rainbows? Kids are a lot of work . It’s not always easy . Some days are more work than others .
Girl bye! That piece of sh#! Is rich he can can afford fur coats thats hard to come by, He Can Take Care of 1child. He is just looking for away out because they both had hidden agendas and it was all for the money and camaras and now that baby is here Real Life Begins..... He is selfish and only want to be a bachelor not a married man fawk Um!
@@szhaszha6333 I totally agree with them having hidden agendas. Got married for a check, had a baby for another check and now he wants to check out........
What he needs to keep in mind is that being a father lasts longer than being a spouse & if he knew he had no patience/desire for marriagehood & parenthood then why waste time signing up for it smh.
She just tried to express her emotions and be gentle but she said she’s dramatic and now she starting to boil up and says he doesn’t like her aggressive side🙄
Nicki Minaj is a prophet man because everything she say is true 😂 she literally told y’all Safaree was a damn clown and now look he got the red nose and all smh
Let’s be clear here, Safaree only got with Erica just for her body. That comment of “you got too fat during your pregnancy” is a clear sign he just wanted to have relations with her but still wanted to mess around with others. Please stop torturing yourself Erica, don’t destroy your mental health because of him your child is going to see that and possibly be blamed for it.
They got together due to their dual HATE for Nicki Minaj. They both publicly bashed her (& still do any chance they get) and thought it’d be cute/funny to be together. But what do they say about unions made solely based off of hatred for someone? They don’t last 🤷🏾♀️
I remember being treated like this. Being married to a narcissist is no joke. You literally start questioning your sanity. It messes with every part of your being; mind, heart, soul. It’s like a slow death of the self.
I also learned that in that love bombing phase, many ask for children. Will you have a baby with me? Then they know you will stick around cuz of the value of family. It's sick.
@@TheTamitude yes it is. The psychological games and emotional manipulation is crazy. I can't even watch this season bc I get triggered from my own experience. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Erica may have her ways but nobody deserves that. I feel for the children especially.
The fact that she sat down and was communicating her feelings without throwing a drink or getting in his face says a lot about her growth. She looks like she has matured so much and wants to keep her family together. Safaree on the other hand is a whole man child. She doesn’t deserve what she is going through. no woman does !!!!!
Can't believe I'm agreeing with erica but he tweeted crap out there and upset that she threw the photos in the bin😐. He seemed like he wanted to laugh the entire time. It's just a mess
@@mpumelelobeyers957 it's not hard to tell someone is a narcissist when you know the signs 🙄 read a book maybe. I dated one for two years before I realized what I was dealing with, and trust me, they all have the same childish me me me attitude.
Safaree broke my heart into a million pieces the way we was speaking to Erica. I used to find him super funny. Now he’s just an arrogant asshole. For him to say she’s being dramatic…come on, now. Your wife is hurting bro. Then he says he didn’t think having a kid was going to be this hard. Like bruh…grow up. Raising a kid, no matter how wealthy you are is going to be hard. There are so many single mothers and fathers in this world, and here he goes with a whole partner, who’s at home with the kids. And he still living the bachelor life. And then putting on social media that marrying Erica was his biggest mistake. Bro, that is hurtful. Eric’s feelings are crushed. And now she’s pregnant with his baby. What the hell?? I will never look at Safaree the same…Ever again!
He was the biggest piece of sh$t to her to drive her to file for divorce so he could play victim. He didn't want her or anymore kids but wanted a judge to court order for him to be in the delivery room? Best thing that can happen for those kids is if he stays far away.
He just makes me sick. You chased her, professed your love for her, put a ring on her finger, shed all the tears you could at the altar, got her pregnant and then wanna turn your back on your family the minute shit gets too real. A literal CHILD is what you are Safaree. Erica really looks heartbroken, she clearly loves this man, she loves her child, her new life I think being a wife and a mother was turning her life around and he just snatches it away from her. She's trying to communicate like married adults do and he looks so checked out it's disgusting to see him behave this way to the mother of his child. I'm not surprised though he's always had a head way too big for his body to carry, and she's right he doesn't know how to do real life. Everything ain't a goddamn Best Man sequel, shit doesn't resolve itself like it does in television. Be a damn man and talk to your wife, get some counseling, communicate, tell her how you feel and see if just maybe she can understand. Stop being a boy and grow up because there is only so much a person can take before they decide that what's best for their heart and mind is to leave you for good.
Safaree knows that Erica is right… but you know men when they feel attacked in anyway they try to cling on to anything to make a point which is why he’s talking about the pictures she threw in the bin. She wouldn’t have done that if you didn’t write on Twitter for thousands of people to see that marrying the mother of your child was the biggest mistake of his life 🤦🏾♀️
@Kano but the funny thing is we aren't talking about women as a collective group at all. we are talking about Safaree. A single man, notice how nobody said all men do this. Just say you dont like women and go. Mysogony isn't gonna get you the mental understanding you require.
@Kano the irony Is the way that you literally hollered about all women when that's not the assignment, that's not what the topic is at all and that's actually what we're talking about. Irony is the way you are a Safaree, then turn to me and say a hit dog hollers, but my OP comment was literally about you being a hit dog that hollers. Have a nice day lmfaoo
He’s so childish🤦🏽♀️ Why publicly humiliating her with that tweet. And you dont need extra help raising a kid, you need both parents. Not all people get nannies and they still manage to work as a team.
Honestly embarrassing to say that having a kid was much harder than you thought. Then still refuse to help your wife with them. Just selfish. He’s a married bachelor.
Damn, Safaree is a whole child, I see why Nicky talked to him like that
yeah i see why she ended it with Saferee his very immature, but im not sure about her husband either since she have to Register him everywhere they go smh.
@@MEAT_BALL_ON_PAWS I feel like that is different though… that was due to his past and the legal cases against him.
It’s different but I wouldn’t want a sex offender around my kid. Every where we go he whole neighborhood gotta know yo perverted ass then moved in.
Y’all get a grip smh he’s not a sex offender that shit was put on him, y’all know how the law is with black men please stop
@@brittanybeatrice7668 right now Nicki is paying his court fees because he didn't register he might be facing jail time. I don't want that type of responsibility on me as a wife. Hell i wouldn't want no one with that record in my house or even to be next door to one .
She gave in to him and he isn't that into her anymore. I feel bad for her.
soooo sad for her, HE CHASED HER! she didnt even like him
@@dennithia I know if you listen to her she even sounds different like a defeated woman.
Totally agree
@@dennithia the same shit happened to me, only thing I didn’t marry the idot!!!
Absolutely..she was about to breakdown right before he said "you're so dramatic" ..like he's not even listening to her! I hate when a man say oh you're too aggressive, LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR, you're bringing that aggressive shit out with the narcissist nonchalant attitude, she's fighting for the family while he sitting there acting like a grown kid
He literally chased her and now he’s acting like he doesn’t care. Safaree is a lame
Righttt . 🙄
With his peanut head ass !!
@@thefenns8083 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A whole man child . But gonna be the one crying about he miss his family . Lame asf
Who knows what has happened between them, behind close doors.
He gaslight the hell out of Erica. She is actually communicating and he is just sitting there and acting like he’s the victim. He’s not a man, he’s a little boy.
But that's her man
Right
Like she gaslit cyn? Oh okay….
A Narc for sure. 😂 a Bitch. I dont even want to play little boys like that 😂 my 5 year old son communicates a 1000x better and is actually attentive to feelings. Calling these types of dudes little boys😳 is actually an insult to little boys. 😂
Women have to realize that men are from mars not venus....lol.....seriously tho....men communicate differentely than women .
As you heard ...their communication is not going well....thats a problem .....and that sucks because its very very very very important .
HE.....obviouly doesnt want to fight and he doesnt want no drama going forward ...
like the slamming of doors.....the threat of the tears that are about to flow.....not to mention the sad cracking voice ...
All of those things overshadow ....block ....and disables ....REAL and HONEST communication ....but that is how WOMEN communicate.
you NEVER see a man attaching tears to every conversation...ANNNNND becoming aggressive right after the freaking tears that by the way .....never fell from the eyes.
your voice and attitude cant be like marilyn monroe one minute and lthen ike king kong the next ....lol.....I mean come on
He obviously cares because he wanted her to elaborate and explain a couple of the
statments she made.....this also shows "HE IS LISTENING".....that is all women really want ...
sadly she blew it ....why......because she wants what she wants and she tryna use manipulation annnnnd he aint having it.
p.s. listen ...straight up ......he is not a little boy ...and she is not his mama ...Period
she is scolding. him....instead of telling him straight what she needs from her man and asking him ...."WHAT....."""HE""" THINKS THEY SHOULD DO.
remind yourself he...he ...he is the man......respect the strength and be ready to enjoy the benifits. TRUST ME.
oh NEVER tell him he is a little boy....or even imply it ...alll your going to get is a brick wall. ...
dont you want what diana ross want ....diana said ....I WANT MUSCLES . yaaaaaaasah.
“I didn’t know having a kid was this much work.” “You’re so dramatic” “you go talk to someone and fix yourself.”
He’s such a CHILD.
Man I'm not in a relationship but I do know that's not how a loving relationship goes he's such an AH
He’s not emotional mature for her
He makes me ask, "Who raised you?!" Your Mom? Grandmother? Oh, they must be real proud. 😒
And a jackass too she needs to RUN divorce his trifling ass ASAP!
He’s horrible
1. Safaree only needed a baby not a family
2. He’s a fool at 40
3. He only understand his needs and not his wife’s or people around him
4. He does not understand sacrifice
5. He is so detached and doesn’t have it in him to make the marriage work 💔
6. He should never have gotten married
Number one is soooo accurate
He doesn't even deserve children with that fucked up mentality.
@@righteouspopularity599 😭😭 they’re no good at all
He is a Jamaican more over in the music business, forget it, he ain't gonna do better right now. Seeing Safaree talking. To Erica makes me laugh although its not funny. I wish Jamaican men would change such mentality. There are good Jamaican men which I think its hard to find, Safaree is not one and I don't know if he will ever be, he is just living for himself.
@@righteouspopularity599 righ
Erica was so vulnerable in this conversation. Erica was so grown in this space. You can’t do anything but honor her growth as a woman.
She re-gained a fan in me.
same here. wow definitely hurting for her, he was heartless
I was watching this saying the same exact thing. She has progressed tremendously since she first came on LHH. I don’t think I’ve ever seen her walk away like this or, express her feelings so calm.
So true, I was impressed smh feel sad I was really hoping they'd pull through
@@layedlyfe4277 she got better yeah
but sorry safari wasnt having it anyway.
He is the type of man she needs then cause again yes ...she changed a little .
When you’re hurting and a man says you’re so DRAMATIC!! That was painful for me to watch!
@becomingtomeka6932 But he isn't wrong she is too dramatic
As much as I hate to admit, Erica does make a point. It seems that Safaree bit off WAY more than he could chew.
He did it for tv
@@Cinnamun52 Yup‼️💯
Yeah but if y'all watch previous seasons maybe it would have been an easier transition for him if she wasn't controlling him he dealt with a lot getting into her you cannot emasculate a man the way she does remember we still can't handle her mouth 🙄
@@BeautyIsHerName27 Yet that's what he liked. He even says she acts different from before they got married so the person she was in the previous seasons is who he wants her to be now.
How can anyone find this man attractive? Running away from his responsibilities and can’t even have a serious conversation.
Erica is NOT in the wrong here. She is communicating very clearly and he is not receiving the message. He can’t handle real life - like Erika says.
Erica is not a victim. Foh she and Safaree are the same kind of ppl. They deserve each other.
Chiiiiiile a lot of ppl cnt! 🤦🏾♀️
It's her karma
Wrong. Even if all that she said was valid, her delivery was poor. When you come at your partner with blame-placing, “YOU” statements (like “you are this” and “you did that”), it will never be received well… have compassion in your relationships and take ownership of your feelings… we’re all in charge of our own feelings… how it ended was how I knew it would end because neither one of them felt heard.
(Speaking from experience with my own 13 year long [and still going strong] loving & happy marriage after lots and lots of hard work)
EXACTLY 💯!!! I'M BAFFLED THAT HE ACTUALLY THOUGHT THAT HAVING A WIFE & BABY AT THE SAME TIME TOO WAS GONNA BE A WALK IN THE PARK!!! I REALLY WISH ERICA BOUGHT A BABY ALIVE DOLL TO SEE HOW HE HANDLES IT... MAN I CAN FEEL HER PAIN THRU MY PHONE.😢😫🤬
I’ve NEVER seen Erica that calm when filled with emotion. She genuinely tried to talk to him and get her point across and she was shut down at every turn
Yes, she handled that all with a lot of reserve, maturity and grace. He on the other hand is an immature, vindictive, man child, asshole.
Because his not feeding into it, if he would be like baby I love you she would act like a crazy maniac, women got shit twisted there are many women out there willing to give it to your man nicely with no ties, and no drama. They should get a nanny seriously 😳
It's called bipiolar
She has blown up and seen herself overreact so many times, it's about time, or it's for show. He stayed that she throws stuff, goes off, so this may be a moment or an act. Who knows?
@@kathygomez652 More like just crazy!
He’s just rude & mean to her. I think he has low self-esteem. Clearly he’s having an affair. Anytime they pick fights and buttons that they know will set you off, that’s their excuse to leave and cheat even more. It’s called Narcissistic Personality...
I think he may be cheating too
Where did you get an affair from 😂
@@tashekacampbell9123 his actions tell it all
@@tabbylivvy I don’t think it does his actions are wrong don’t get me wrong but , he simply just doesn’t want a baby , doesn’t mean his cheating he doesn’t want a baby with some body else he just doesn’t want a baby in general .
@@tashekacampbell9123 Babygirl, how old are you? I’ve been around a little bit and I’m not new to the game...
she’s being vulnerable and honest with her emotions and he’s calling her dramatic? girl pls if you can, leave!
Gaslighting
@@everythingroxy3582 at its finest
Yeah that pissed me off. Smh
@@everythingroxy3582 yup that’s exactly what it is, thank you.
Exactly how she feels is exactly how my fiancé treated me when I had our child ☹️ men don’t understand the mental emotional and physical toll it takes having a baby and being that baby’s everything the post parting depression and then to feel absolutely neglected by the one person you love during the what supposed to be the happiest time of your life. It’s changes you absolutely we lose our confidence our happiness our will I fight every for my son but I’d be lying if I said I don’t wanna have another baby because of it which makes me sad wanting 4 kids 😭😭
Jesus, this was so uncomfortable to watch. He does not want her anymore. The frustration of not being able to communicate with your partner..
Exactly
It's no longer continent for him that's why
I've never liked her but after watching this I truly feel for her. He is literally hurting & mistreating her right in front of our eyes...so sad.
He's abusing her right on screen, true Narcissist
Safaree is absolutely disgusting. He’s literally a grown man child. Erica really needs to leave this man and save herself and kids. I’m absolutely disgusted
Nicki said that Safaree was in high school when he was 20 years old.
@@tonybalony1811 what’s wrong wit that? 💀
@@Jaggeup He’s probably incredibly immature and emotionally stunted.
@@Jaggeup hey... sorry about you getting held back :/
@@Jaggeup ... While he was supposed to be mentally developing with college aged adults, he was developing with kids as young as 14. That's the problem
This is why you need to TEST the man before you marry the man. Never let them be comfortable ladies!
Girlfriend so true..
That's how alot women end up being single
@ramcurequeeny once you see red flags...THEN LEAVE! a relationship should be a source of goodness in your life. Not confusion.
@@Malrie facts
Facts
It’s giving CHILDISH… he needs to grow the hell up, be accountable and understanding of his wife.
How would you feel if your wife was pregnant and she waited to tell you
@@rickydixon2558 in this clip she is attempting to talk to him and he is completely shut down. So her not telling him makes sense to me… he isn’t a supportive husband
It. Hip hop nothing from nothing leaves nothing lol take two to fight huh
Periodt!😵💫
"its like you don't want to do life with me"
" you're so dramatic "
It was at that moment that their marriage ended, this wrost thing that can happen is any relationship, being gaslighted for being vulnerable
I almost started crying for her then and there because this man doesn’t love her and he probably never has
Yeah that part hurt.
This.... he is not even acknowledging how she feels. Very immature.
Who would slamming doors always yelling Soo violent
I couldn’t even picture myself dating a man like this. He basically got married for the clout and didn’t take those vows seriously.
Most Jamaican men don't take marriage or vows seriously
Erica communicated beautifully here. Direct questions, vulnerability, honesty. She knows what it takes to make it work but she’s dealing with a child. Imagine a man responding this way to you when all you wanna do is make your marriage and family work.
Wow. This hurts her. His non chalant attitude is horrible. Women aren't perfect neither are men but goodness he has no compassion for their marriage he's over her and over it. When the other party is just mean and nasty. I say its time to go. He just doesn't care like he used to.
I bet he was into until she gave him hell and screaming and all that! He just tired
@@iamrightyourwrong5198 All is possible. Marriage isn't a joke. Being married is work 24/7. Both parties have to be willing to work together.
And the only reason he has given is that "he didn't know it would be so much work." That's pathetic. The answer to her being aggressive was her saying "he stirs the pot" and he doesn't deny that. He's a tool.
@@timothyjohnson4812 bb
He needs to grow up smfh
The fact that he’s CURRENTLY partying in Jamaica right now while their son is in the NICU tells me everything I need to know about him… Erica, RUN girl!
Wow i had no idea that this was how bad the case was like are u fucking kidding me she need to let goo I feel her pain tho he offered and got her use to way much more than what he really wanted to give her he aint shit!
Yasssss
Why do we care if she doesn't?
Oh hell no
She have a restraining oder against him
This is exactly why Nicki didn’t want to marry him & why Juju left his ass on read - I feel bad for Erica, he’s a child and no shade, but instead of his mom telling him what girls not to bring home, she should have been raising him to be a man a WOMAN wants to bring home!
💯💯💯💯
Yassss
Preach it!!! I was literally like wtf his momma thinking like is she proud of him for disrespecting his wife & mother of HIS children
Iyanla said men are who their mothers make them
This!!!!
I see now why Nikki didn’t wanna claim him. Like who would want a price of shit clinging to their name?
But she claiming sex offender lol yall females funny as hell
@Yaa Yahu she ain't said shit
@@zone4pezzy facts🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@zone4pezzy Factz 😹😹😹😹
I mean look what she married. He’s MUCH worse 😂
This is sad. He doesn't even care. He wants her to just accept him being an ass. Wants her to change but doesn't want to change himself.
As if she hasn't gone through a hundred changes within a 10 month period.
oki but i feeld bad for a sek but she is prego agen so now she looks dumb to
He doesn’t want her to change. It wants her to end the relationship.
Sound like my man 😭
I can't believe I'm saying this but even rich dollars was better😭😭😭
Saying “you’re so dramatic” to a woman that’s about to cry and fighting to hold her tears back is the most painful comment you can make in that situation. This really hit too close to home, I’ve been there several times and that’s why I come off as emotionless to so many people that actually deserve better from me. You feel like you can’t open up to anyone anymore because they just don’t care.
Wow. I'm so sorry that happened to you😔 My Mom used to tell me, "Never spend time dating or being in a relationship with the wrong man, for if you do, you will neither recognize nor appreciate the right one when he comes along". I think it's true of men, and of people in general that we give our big hearts to. Some folks don't deserve a second look much less a loving chance😔🤷🏽♀️ The Lord Jesus will renew your heart🙏🙏🏾🙏🏽
It really is. I remember one time my husband told me I was using my tears to manipulate him. That really broke my heart.
And I'm so sorry for what you went through. I understand why you are the way you are
He doesn't have the capacity to deal with her or marriage in general
Narcissist
If I was safaree mom I would be soo embarrassed to claim him as a “son”.
@@reyfin4922 she actually doesn’t. Watch the clips of her. She’s checked safaree and comforted Erica, letting her know she has a choice to stay or leave; how she should never feel like she doesn’t have a choice.
Me too
@@TheLovesnowangel I was pleasantly surprised when I did see those.
😀😀😀😀😀😀😀 real talk
She can’t be too ashamed he paying for some of her stuff soooo 🤷🏽♀️ But you know what his mom probably gonna have to put up with his bs for awhile cause he know acting like an ass still gets him paid regardless but he knows acting like an asshole will get him more attention
Safaree: Getting married was the BIGGEST mistake I've ever made!!!!!!
Erica: I'm afraid you don't wanna do life with me...
Safaree: you're so dramatic
Omg girl RUN !
This just heart breaking me 💔 😭😭
He's a scared lil boy, not a man. So cruel to treat her like that, especially while she's pregnant. What an AH
Neither one of them know she pregnant just yet, girl was drinking wine with Sierra and Bambi before they met 😳 I wonder how she didn't feel any signs or anything
@@dappaflawless really? I didn't catch that clip. Do u know where I can find it?
He’s definitely a man, he has 3 children. He acts like a child. Calling grown men boys erks me and allows them to behave this way. You are grown at 21!
@@dappaflawless ppl feel sings at different times. Each pregnancy is different as well. Some things are also just scenes. She might not have actually been drinking.
@Amber Baez that’s your opinion. I disagree. Either way he ain’t shit
Safaree is NOT a man, he's a little boy, and Erica deserves better.
No he’s a MAN. He’s 40. Let’s stop coddling them and wondering why they play these roles.
@@chocolatelovin19 and she looks like a Man, that face is too huge and dominant.
@@chocolatelovin19 Nahh he’s a CHILD. Almost like his brain isn’t fully developed actually. It’s not coddling cause these grown-man childs don’t want to be seen as boys. Coddling is calling them real men when they’re anything but that.😂
@@chocolatelovin19 AGE has NOTHING to do with Maturity. I have Uncle's in their 50's who still act like little boys.
@@luceysimmons1214 THIS
Wonder is he’s cheating? Men tend to act differently when there is someone else in their life
I'm thinking that too plus I noticed in his recent ig photos its more body pics and no wedding band
I think he has. That’s how a man acts, when someone else is in the picture. He’s young in the mind. Not yet, a man
Definitely
Safaree did not really want to be married. He does everything for clout, including getting her pregnant. He will take a few pictures for the gram and now he is tired of the married dad life. So it’s on to the next stunt and now he back to Harlem shaking in the club. Divorce him Now . You will forever be in the marriage alone with him. Safaree still isn’t done being a kid yet.
👏 That is very insightful
True.
Erica can get a husband that will love her and her baby and give her more children and the life she deserves! Forget him!
@@toyacaldwell2388 you think it’s easy for her to just jump into another relationship?
So true
Why’s he acting like he’s a single dad talking about they don’t have help with the baby 🙄
He's already in his mind left her so that's why everything in this video shows he don't want to be with her anymore, but he's too pussy to say it.
Right. A two parent household IS all the help you need.
@@NineDouble exactly like you're already not spending time with them. "Help" is more reason not to do that
@@anthonymarshall2012 He seems extremely uninterested
@@NineDouble Even with 2 parents people still need help.Thats's why thw saying goes it takes a village.They can afford a nanny but Safaree has already checked out.They had no business getting married.Erica's bad behaviour I'm sure played a role. I hope women understand that men eventually get tired.
She’s matured a lot. I’m pretty proud. I never saw her being like this.
I guess being a mother really does change a person
Right.. cause before she probably woulda flipped out & beat his ass!!
Plenty growth!!!
She’s pregnant here that’s why she was trying to stay calm
@@bmmotives I thought she has an older son too but I really think this marriage made rethink her choices.
He really displayed how people see our black men in real life. He just lost a lot of cool points. He’s just lost a lot of everything. Especially his since.
Unfortunately he’s only displaying the attitude that a lot of bm in general walk around with
She literally telling him what she needs and he acting like a victim from a situation he caused. Focused on her behavior and not why she’s behaving that way.
This is what happens when you think you're a brand and make your relationship a business move. Then when the business tanks you want out.
she used to talk to anyone any kind of way, but you can see she’s trying to make it work but the energy isn’t reciprocated.
I said the same thing. I’ve seen her curse the whole cast of LHHNY cheat lie and beat up people but you can see she pulled out her soft side for him and he can careless.
That’s KARMA
She's also pregnant, she trying to be calm for the baby. All that flipping out isn't healthy right now..Now after she gives birth, that a whole different story ...
She has talked to him before like that as well. I believe he has expressed numerous times he doesn't like it.
@@jessicaurbina4246 exactly! I know dj envy wife somewhere sipping wine 🤣
"You got too fat during your pregnancy" was a red flag I would have left him honestly
True
Riiiight
What kind of “man” says something like that?!?!?
Nahhhhh the red flag came before the baby I’m sure, she just ignored it sadly
Same.
He’s weird on another level… like seriously… taking dance class while his son is damn near dying.. that’s insane! Half of y’all don’t think anything wrong with it because y’all daddy was NEVER there.. it’s not okay tho
His face is showing that he don’t care about what she’s sayin at all.
😂🤣
but when she’s gone he’s not going to know what to do! i feel like he thinks he has her at the palm of his hand for life but there’s actually going to come a point where she’s not going to want to do it anymore and he’ll be the one who’s missed out! not her
His overall body language
@@ccx3275 Hi
And the fact that he was the one chasing Erica and proposed to her, then bragged about wanting a family as well?!? What kind of 40 year old man child is he? Erica better walk away while she can and heal from this demon
Wow like she 100 percent innocent I guess u avoiding the fact the she done dragged this man being bitter and wanted a divorce from him then wanted to get mad at him cuz he was dating another chick just wow
Who knows what goes on behind closed doors.
Just like ANY other man out here doing whatever he far from the only one that does this
And walk towards who? She old af
@@Oakcliffagent he knew how crazy she was when He commit
I can't believe this. She shows her vulnerability, she reveals how she truly feels, her fear, that he will abandon her. This shows just how much she cares for him and he shits all over her. What an example of fine specimen of a man. I don't care how volatile people think Erica Mena is, this episode shows that that woman has a heart and she deserves better. What a shame.
No one is meant to be treated like that .She deserves the world and not this overgrown child
She's a human being.
Little b**** don't want no more kids cuz he likes being the baby feeling a little competition are you female Safari
@@mauriceschultz6764 I can't disagree with you there. You hit it on the nail.
She got abused
Awwww you can tell she really loves him she doesn’t even fight him like she did all her other exes she just walks away
Please divorce him, find your happiness for you and your kids. He basically told you...HE DON'T WANT YOU. Not your fault, babes. But this man is a WASTE OF TIME!
It’s definitely not her fault 💔 I hope she sees this
Boy.... Man child....etc but not a man 🤨
Right she’s not a old women she got time. She can still have babies
She's not going to. She wants love, so the moment he realizes she's actually gonna leave, he's gonna give her the love she wants and then she's gonna think "things are getting better" and stay. It's gonna be like that until she realizes it
@@diamonda3253 It’s going to be hard because she just had another child and now she’s a single mom of three. Lord knows how her mood is going to be with postpartum as well. But she’ll eventually find someone else. It will take some time though.
When a man says he don't care BELIEVE HIM
Facts!
Big Facts .💯
Bingo
PLEASSSSSE.🙏🏾🙄✨
I remember when he wanted her so bad! would be gushing over her & she wasn’t on the same page but she gave in and now, he got what he wanted and doesn’t put in that same effort he had to bag her ‼️ he got comfortable and now treats her like she wanted him!
Exactly a classic mistake and lesson that we may all have to go through at some point..but chile this is why I love myself and we have to focus on our careers, friends, hobbies etc that make us thrive not chaining ourselves to partners.
@@Peresphone I’m literally in that same mindset!!! Look at us ✨ what’s meant for us will never miss us
Dated a Jamaican just like this 🙄
Exactly. Where did that energy go??
@Wearing it on my face did he try to get you back when he left?
He chased her for so long and promised to treat her lk a Queen and he has completely failed!!! He is an idiot & instead of being a real man & stepping up, he is acting so cold. I feel so bad for Erica. He gaslight her and love bombed her and then once he had her he completely changed for worse. He’s a true narcissist!
Looks are starting to fade he is bored now and age catching up he wants fresh young and new he is a jamaican
So true! I knew he was full of it when he kept crying at the wedding. His emotions ust didn't seem genuine to me.
Nah cause he would have done it to Nicki. He and Nicki were together for years. If he was a narcissist Nicki would have left his ass as soon as she got famous. She had that power. I think he and Nicky were rebounding.
@@kamacazi9639 what?😳
FACTS ALL NARC SHIT
So this is why Juju didn't want anything but friendship with Safaree. She knew how he was in relationships.
!!!! That part
CNN
Nicki Minaj too! She was like nope!
Exactly
I’m really proud of Erica here. She’s communicating how she feels without flipping out like usual. And also taking the time to listen and respond to what he has to say. She’s flawed for sure, but no one deserves to be treated like how he’s doing her. Wishing her all the best 💛
The bar is set so low nowadays. They should have been more concerned with getting marriage counseling vs a televised wedding before they got married. Looks like he wants to return the product he brought.
Being a mom really changed her
@@bigmaco903 she was already a mom. This is her second child.
@@davidammonds2011 nah this convo with him happened before she realized she was pregnant
@@bigmaco903 She has a teenage son from a previous relationship. All those times she wild out when she was younger, she was already a mom.
One of the worst things you can do...in my opinion...is wake up someones love without the intention to really love them. I despise people like him...chase you...even when you keep saying no...then when you finally give them a chance...they treat you horribly. The engagement proposal he did with fireworks really meant nothing now looking back at it all...just photo ops and fakeness.
Future faking narcissist
Ladies I hope you are all taking notes. This is just so sad. Some men will sell you a dream then not fulfill his promise. Your still not guaranteed happiness even being married.
This whole situation is a lesson to all women out there.
Ladies put yourself first.
Definitely should've had more likes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
💯💯I had to learn the hard way
Oh hell yes I left I couldn't do it girl 7 years
Exactly
@@jacquelinelee8814 same!🤎
Saffaree is an absolute Embarrassment to Erica She deserves much better
Lol that's easy to say when u saw how she acted in past relationships. Despite their ups and downs I think they met each others match.
He’s an embarrassment to himself. Raising kids is hard, let me run away.
Erica needs to work on her communication skills, and don't shout at her husband when communicating with him because he will shutdown because I am the same way. She needs to stop the shouting.
How does she deserve better? Erica isn’t much better lol
have you the watched earlier seasons? she’s a toxic, horrible person.
They’re a perfect match.
@@meishajames531 she literally didn’t even shout at him until near the end…
Erica is a bigger person than me. This dude is simple minded and doesn't care about her. He's checked out already.
Clearly his over her
This man doesn't love her it's so sad !
Her crying and saying, “I’m scared you don’t wanna do life with me and him saying you’re so dramatic “ literally made me tear up. That’s awful.
Facts
Literally !!!! Like this is a real thing spending the rest of your life with your soulmate and they don’t feel the same . Leave run don’t look back
so heartbreaking. it’s like she was really letting her walls down to be vulnerable with her “husband” then immediately after that comment had to put them right back up.
my heart broke for her after he said that. Hope she takes her children from this clown and never look back.
That was real and deep and very hard for her to express but come out and say as well. And he hit her with that wow!
She didn’t even WANT him at first and now look how he’s doing her.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well you know the old saying...Give a nigga a chance you wouldn't ordinarily give a chance to....and he will make you regret you ever gave it!!🤦🏽♀️
This is how it is with all guys. 😂. Ive been in that position but luckily didn't end up married l😂😂
@@Simplythetruthfulone living that shit right now smh lmao 🤦🏻♀️
@@rosee9231 I'm so sorry that happened to you😶 It was a joke saying, but its truths are painful in real life😔 Some men are so insecure all they know how to do is take you downhill in order to make you compliant with their low self worth😒 I hope and pray you find a man that treats you like a queen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏾
"you dont wanna do life with me" thats deep
@Str Girl23 so true
"yOURe SO dRamATIc" 🙄
she hit the nail on the head when told him "its not a rap video everyday" that's literally what he thinks he's in. Folding clothes and being responsible is not part of his lifestyle. he thinks he's a star
He went from LA to NY to ATL just to have the crown of being the lamest dude ever in LHH history
He's an ass next! Girl get outta there
Him and Peter Gunz, 🐕ing women tf out smh, they should just stay single.
Did anyone else notice that he has already disconnected???
He isn’t interested in parenting or marriage!
He realized it’s not playing house and posting internet pics!
It’s hard work, a man desire to work hard for his family… GO FIGURE… GROW UP!!!
100
I literally said he has checked out... Smh...
This is EXACTLY what I was thinking. Although Erica was dramatic at first, here she seems mellow & like she still loves him. He's 100% over it.
Yes he completely looks like he doesn’t give no fcks.
I read yesterday that he was in Jamaica while she was at the NICU with their new son.
This is sad. She’s legit communicating and he’s being so rude and immature
I actually feel bad for her too ( hate to say) this convo told a lot. He actually said he doesn’t care. I don’t know the behind the scene but on the show he doesn’t want the family he created. Who ever thought taking care of kids was easy?
He most definitely has Narcissis traits foreal he gaslighting her very disrespectful an no empathy period.
Erica might get loud & be obnoxious as times but she didn't deserve any of the hate that safaree was giving her but he gone regret it when she's gone
You noticed that she aged like a lot? She looks stressed!
He knew EXACTLY how spicy she was when he got with her…he actually praised that part of her personality. And now all of a sudden it’s too much smh. Ridiculous.
& she a Scorpio they always come back to us 😛🤪😝
@@tRIXIIE1 exactly, you knew who she was when you met her
@@JT_DePrince lmao SIKE
Safaree wants fun and a girlfriend he doesn't want a wife and family. He is way to immature for this. Even to the point of understanding mature relationships. Man Erica can do so much better
I think he thought he wanted that...didmt really take it serious...marriage and children aren't fun and games...its a life commitment
She ain’t that attractive, that’s the best she gonna gey
She should have just had her fun with Safaree and that was that
The saddest line out of all of that is a wife telling her husband that she is scared he doesn’t want to do life with her.. It don’t get no more real than that.. that’s a wife trying to save her marriage, family and whole way of life. This is truly sad and a cringe to see.. no empathy, no understanding, no accountability and no responsibility on his part to be a man and fix your marriage to a woman that loves your dirty draws.. SMH 🤦🏾♂️ pathetic safaree!!
Glad to see there's men out here who get it. Thanks for your perspective. It's not all men that act like this, and sometimes women need to remember that.
Narcissist
Thanks for you perspective!!! God bless you and your family
Thank u.. this was VERY well said 👏🙌
Safaree is a narcissist, that's why he doesn't get it
I have always like Safree but honestly he is such a poor excuse for a man.
You can tell Erica really wanted this marriage to work. But you can't be in a relationship and steering it by yourself. Safaree needs to grow up.
I feel like he's pushing her to say she wants a divorce, instead of just being straightforward and saying he wants out. Then later on he can say that he tried his best to make it work and blame her for their breakup. Overall he got what he asked for and was in over his head.
This is exactly what it is, because he was the one tweeting about divorce but never actually filed.
Marriage is a relationship built on understanding, trust, and commitment
And work. You have to put in the work.
And work. It will always take work. Hard work.
Yes understanding, trust, commitment but most of all good communication and respect, Erica needs to work on her communication skills and stop shouting at her husband when they are having a discussion. They both need counseling and a good caregiver.
@@meishajames531 she was not shout at him in this video. Idk what you heard ? But she was not shouting. She tried to give him a space to talk about his feelings…. He chose not to say anything now that’s his problem.
@@sashn2108 listen to what Safaree said " I do not like your aggressive side " and " I have been sleeping in my studio to be more calm" she Erica has shown the world that she can be very loud and abusive with her words. Listen that man has been hurting and he is over it.
How dead his eyes are and how nonchalant he looks really hurts my heart for her
The part where he tells her he's been sleeping at his studio and she looks broken and ask "Is it fulfilling? Does it hug you back?" 😭😭😭😭
Safaree is like a whole different person now like tf...
I think safaree bite off more than he could chew…he started to realize how hard marriage can be sometimes
I already knew he wasn’t shit when he was f-cking around with DreamDoll like you can’t rationalize someone like her if you ain’t got demons of your own
Idk why ppl keep saying that. Je just as childish, selfish and immature as before they got married. Idk why people think that someone will grow up and change just because they get married or have children. Usually what you see is what you get and we fool ourselves into thinking ppl will change for us. He seems like the same niqqa he always appeared to be. I'm shocked she snd everyone else is so surprised. When did he ever appear to be mature or selfless? I feel sorry for her but a lot of time we set ourselves up when we try to imagine a different version of what someone shows us.
i think it was erica all her ex’s sat the same thing she is too aggressive and violent that will push anybody away married or not
@@piacrudes2741 yeah I think she has her toxic ways as well but she seems a bit more mature in her ability to want to work things out for her family and child. I don't get that same vibe from him. Not that I'm surprised.
I cringed watching this.. from the gaslighting to just the overall lack of empathy.. I feel for Erica, it’s obvious the relationship is over but she still wants her family. Hope she can move on for real.
Being married to a woman is easy. Protecting your queen is only hard when you don't know how to be a man. Respect💯
1 Corinthians 13:11
11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
Yes!!! My father once told me that a real man has to lead his woman and the problem with a lot of these relationships is that they aren't mentally mature enough to lead anyone let alone a wife!!! And the woman has to also be willing to be lead, but only if the man is fit for the role.
Proverbs 21:19
19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
1 Timothy 2:12
“But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.”
“But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.”
Nicki wasn’t lying when she described how he was smh 🤦🏾♀️
What did she say? I wanna know. I can’t believe I actually thought he was a good dude and nicki did him dirty. Im an idiot for that smh
@@damnchyna7164 it’s in her interview with Funk Flex she’s explains everything you’re seeing here
ChynaBihhh she said he's lazy, ungrateful, self entitled and selfish. Pretty much what we're seeing here 🥴 even when you listen to the pink print she describes him exactly how he's acting in this clip.
@@skyexmonique yup. Here’s the RUclips link to the. Interview ruclips.net/video/O0RBngBIKhU/видео.html
@@skyexmonique damn yep that’s exactly what he’s been showing now. Sounds like she was spot on
Erica actually seems like she changed and matured. She’s not crazy like she used to be. They old Erica would of slapped his ass. As for Safaree he is to damn childish and needs to grow up and start acting like a man.
Maybe that’s what he needs. She should have chucked that baby book at him
She’s still the same Erica, don’t let the editing of this show fool you
New Erica is a tired pregnant mom, probably cooking and cleaning all day, taking care of the new baby, she cant waste her energy on this man child no more that cant even fold his underwear smh
@@nunyabizness7019 lol that's what you think
@@chan2009ify Exactly, it's an act. He's not so cold and rude and she's not calm and collective. It's called entertainment and a check.
Nikki basically dodged a bullet by leaving him . “I didnt know babies were this much work “ sir like you seem like a lot of work yourself . What did safaree think ? It’s just laughs and rainbows? Kids are a lot of work . It’s not always easy . Some days are more work than others .
Girl bye! That piece of sh#! Is rich he can can afford fur coats thats hard to come by, He Can Take Care of 1child. He is just looking for away out because they both had hidden agendas and it was all for the money and camaras and now that baby is here Real Life Begins..... He is selfish and only want to be a bachelor not a married man fawk Um!
Just be entertained. What grown man with married and friends that are father's doesn't know that?
@@szhaszha6333 I totally agree with them having hidden agendas. Got married for a check, had a baby for another check and now he wants to check out........
@@szhaszha6333
Facts all for the MONEY.....
What he needs to keep in mind is that being a father lasts longer than being a spouse & if he knew he had no patience/desire for marriagehood & parenthood then why waste time signing up for it smh.
She just tried to express her emotions and be gentle but she said she’s dramatic and now she starting to boil up and says he doesn’t like her aggressive side🙄
He gaslights, basically take the abuse and shut up
Nicki Minaj is a prophet man because everything she say is true 😂 she literally told y’all Safaree was a damn clown and now look he got the red nose and all smh
Seriously 🤣🤣🤣
But she dated a clown. Lol and I don't think you understand what a prophet is
Omg yessss. I used to despise Nicky for him but now I see she wasn’t wrong. She dodged the bullettttt
@@jellybelly6133 u date someone to get to know them so got to know him that’s how she knew he ain’t shirt
@@jeanandre6998 she’s with a convicted rapist now so??? 🤦🏽♀️She chooses losers it seems
Let’s be clear here, Safaree only got with Erica just for her body. That comment of “you got too fat during your pregnancy” is a clear sign he just wanted to have relations with her but still wanted to mess around with others. Please stop torturing yourself Erica, don’t destroy your mental health because of him your child is going to see that and possibly be blamed for it.
So true he's clearly turned out now
She will be hitting the plastic surgeon up soon that's what all the rich hoes do when the get played out
They got together due to their dual HATE for Nicki Minaj. They both publicly bashed her (& still do any chance they get) and thought it’d be cute/funny to be together. But what do they say about unions made solely based off of hatred for someone? They don’t last 🤷🏾♀️
@@Butterflyinthesky1507 Exactly!! I don't feel bad her at all.
I agree
I remember being treated like this. Being married to a narcissist is no joke. You literally start questioning your sanity. It messes with every part of your being; mind, heart, soul. It’s like a slow death of the self.
Yesss I feel you on that!
I was discarded by 2 narcs back to back, left me homeless, having a conversation with a disordered person is draining
This literally makes me tear up, I hope she finds happiness 🙏🏾
He doesn't even look at her when she's speaking. What a narcissist.
@Bet Emnet lust**
I was about to say that
Narcs get bored real quick
@Alicia Thomas and women aren’t?
Yes!!!!!!!!
I don’t know but this shows that it’s more scary about WHO you have a child with than having a child in general
I swear
“I didn’t think it was going to be this hard”
Broooo it doesn’t even sound like your doing what you should be doing
Safaree: Seems confused by where his wife is coming from. Me: Confused by his confusion.
He love bombed her in the beginning got her and now slowly discarding her. He is a narcissist or he just emotionally unavailable
This!!
I also learned that in that love bombing phase, many ask for children. Will you have a baby with me? Then they know you will stick around cuz of the value of family. It's sick.
@@TheTamitude yes it is. The psychological games and emotional manipulation is crazy. I can't even watch this season bc I get triggered from my own experience. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Erica may have her ways but nobody deserves that. I feel for the children especially.
@@complexjanedoe Your absolutely correct. I'm going through it too.
That’s it! He’s a narcissist
The fact that she sat down and was communicating her feelings without throwing a drink or getting in his face says a lot about her growth. She looks like she has matured so much and wants to keep her family together. Safaree on the other hand is a whole man child. She doesn’t deserve what she is going through. no woman does !!!!!
I agree because I use to hate seeing her on screen because she was so extra but I do see the growth in her.
Can't believe I'm agreeing with erica but he tweeted crap out there and upset that she threw the photos in the bin😐. He seemed like he wanted to laugh the entire time. It's just a mess
This is literally the behavior Nicki talked about why she LEFT HOM
He is behaving like a child that can’t get his way. She’s pregnant, CLEARLY.
He's a narcissist
@@nettigarcia3753 it takes a narcissist to see another, how wud u know??
@@mpumelelobeyers957 look it up dummy , his character traits are spot on ..Why are you soo triggered by that word huh?!🤔😂
@@mpumelelobeyers957 it's not hard to tell someone is a narcissist when you know the signs 🙄 read a book maybe. I dated one for two years before I realized what I was dealing with, and trust me, they all have the same childish me me me attitude.
I Don’t Think She Was Pregnant Here She Had Already Gave Birth If I’m Not Mistaken
Safaree broke my heart into a million pieces the way we was speaking to Erica. I used to find him super funny. Now he’s just an arrogant asshole. For him to say she’s being dramatic…come on, now. Your wife is hurting bro. Then he says he didn’t think having a kid was going to be this hard. Like bruh…grow up. Raising a kid, no matter how wealthy you are is going to be hard. There are so many single mothers and fathers in this world, and here he goes with a whole partner, who’s at home with the kids. And he still living the bachelor life. And then putting on social media that marrying Erica was his biggest mistake. Bro, that is hurtful. Eric’s feelings are crushed. And now she’s pregnant with his baby. What the hell?? I will never look at Safaree the same…Ever again!
Wait for it…. Their baby is in the nicu and he’s in Jamaica celebrating his birthday!
💔
He was the biggest piece of sh$t to her to drive her to file for divorce so he could play victim. He didn't want her or anymore kids but wanted a judge to court order for him to be in the delivery room? Best thing that can happen for those kids is if he stays far away.
@Busy Bodies! sometimes it’s better to have no relationship with a toxic parent at all
@@allonjayd.5057 that’s actually true 🙌🏾
He just makes me sick. You chased her, professed your love for her, put a ring on her finger, shed all the tears you could at the altar, got her pregnant and then wanna turn your back on your family the minute shit gets too real. A literal CHILD is what you are Safaree. Erica really looks heartbroken, she clearly loves this man, she loves her child, her new life I think being a wife and a mother was turning her life around and he just snatches it away from her. She's trying to communicate like married adults do and he looks so checked out it's disgusting to see him behave this way to the mother of his child. I'm not surprised though he's always had a head way too big for his body to carry, and she's right he doesn't know how to do real life. Everything ain't a goddamn Best Man sequel, shit doesn't resolve itself like it does in television. Be a damn man and talk to your wife, get some counseling, communicate, tell her how you feel and see if just maybe she can understand. Stop being a boy and grow up because there is only so much a person can take before they decide that what's best for their heart and mind is to leave you for good.
Don’t ever let a man tell you twice he don’t want you . And this boy is something else 🤦🏾♀️
Yes because he surely isn't a MAN...
Easier said than done...I understand you're right but it's hard
Attention MEN of the world: 40 is NOT the new 20. They lied to you when they put it in the song, like literally lied 🥴
They sure did lie🥴 They. Sure. Did.🥴
Truth!!!!
😅🤣😂 Right!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤣🤣🤣🤣they also lie when they tell them 40s is his prime.
Women start to lose value after 30 years old tho
Safaree knows that Erica is right… but you know men when they feel attacked in anyway they try to cling on to anything to make a point which is why he’s talking about the pictures she threw in the bin. She wouldn’t have done that if you didn’t write on Twitter for thousands of people to see that marrying the mother of your child was the biggest mistake of his life 🤦🏾♀️
@Kano but the funny thing is we aren't talking about women as a collective group at all. we are talking about Safaree. A single man, notice how nobody said all men do this. Just say you dont like women and go. Mysogony isn't gonna get you the mental understanding you require.
Nah twitter isn’t real life 😂🤬 He’s a joke
@Kano the irony Is the way that you literally hollered about all women when that's not the assignment, that's not what the topic is at all and that's actually what we're talking about. Irony is the way you are a Safaree, then turn to me and say a hit dog hollers, but my OP comment was literally about you being a hit dog that hollers. Have a nice day lmfaoo
@@centrovorsial2871 lmao
@@worktreemr I stg were all tired lmfaooo
Safaree is the prime example of a man would do anything to get you and once he does, he gets comfortable and shows his true colors.
That’s called a narcissist.
Exactly safaree is something else
He’s so childish🤦🏽♀️ Why publicly humiliating her with that tweet. And you dont need extra help raising a kid, you need both parents. Not all people get nannies and they still manage to work as a team.
I praise her for not getting a nanny it is better when kids have their real parents. I agree with you..
Honestly embarrassing to say that having a kid was much harder than you thought. Then still refuse to help your wife with them. Just selfish. He’s a married bachelor.