the signs 1. you fantasize about them 1:13 2. you idealize them 1:47 3. You can't stop thinking about them 2:24 4. You read into everything they do 3:04 5. you're extremely nervous around them 3:47 6. you get a rush when they message u back 4:20 Cant relate tk any of them since i'm a single pringle (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`) also hello to pie dondon in advance
My crush once told me he needed help with his homework so I volunteered to help. Problem is he's a year ahead of me. I literally spent all day that day teaching myself about shit I never heard of just to be able to help him out with 2 math problems later on. I think I need help Edit: didn't even realize people were replying to me lol. I got friendzoned last weekend in case anyone wanted an update 😂
he is my not so cousin like we grew up together but my blood related cousin is cousins with him i would hang out with him a lot n i developed feelings he’s currently 17 in 15
As someone who moved on from being obsessively in love, I can say the mood swings and constant mental idealisation of the person I liked changed who I was. I exhibited symptoms of having OCD in everything I did. It was awful.
When the person you're lovesick over rejects you, boy you're in a whole world of hurt! I tell you what, it took me about a year to get over it. I've crushed for about two years.
@@BigeuleLP That's what happened to my boyfriend in the past except he was too naive to ever realise it. I hate the feeling that I'm second in terms of the intensity of emotion he felt just because she was better at playing with his heart, only liking the idea of being liked rather than him as a person, causing her to do the things you mentioned in your comment...it sucks.
NO LOVE LETTERS, NO X AND O'S NO LOVE, NEVER, MY EXES KNOW NO DIAMOND RINGS, THAT’S SET IN STONE TO THE LEFT, BETTER LEFT ALONE DIDN’T WANNA BE A PRINCESS, I'M PRICELESS A PRINCE NOT EVEN ON MY LIST LOVE IS A DRUG THAT I QUIT NO DOCTOR COULD HELP WHEN I'M LOVESICK
Tallis includes a list of common symptoms of love sickness: 👇👇 Mania - an abnormally elevated mood or inflated self-esteem. Depression, hopelessness, or helplessness. Nausea. Tearfulness. Insomnia, which may lead to fatigue. Lack of concentration. Loss of appetite or overeating.
SMITTEN (a poem abt lovesickness) When I was fifteen, I first met him His face, I knew, I’d never be forgetting It was the most memorable day of my life Cause I fell for him at the first sight The moment he approached me, I got a shock of a thousand watts Since then, I didn’t have a single moment he wasn’t in my thoughts I felt as if he enchanted me And I’d be lying if I said I wanted to break free Suddenly it was just him and me in all my dreams and fantasies “If he’d become mine I’d never make him beg or say please” This wasn’t just any infatuation or crush I knew I was madly and deeply in love Making this love mutual was all that was left to do Seemed easy because around boys I can easily act confident and cool But why did I underestimate the power of his seductiveness and charm For every time he walked in I lost my courage and calm Butterflies in my stomach, losing my breath and then my racing heart Except, making an eye contact was the most difficult part It’s funny how love can make even a bold and confident person like me Act so desperate and shy when I went around my honey Consequently, I decided to not let him know how I feel As I was afraid I’d turn him off if I reveal To impress him I did things very crazy I spent hours on my dress and make up to make him notice me Was getting insecure about my acne, weight and body shape More worried were my parents and friends who noticed the change in how I behave Controlling my desperation was a throbbing idea Until I found that he’s active on social media Such a pleasure it was to look at his photos online Slowly this love was also taking shape of lust in my mind Writing love songs and making paintings for my boy Became my new hobbies that I quite enjoyed Busy in love, I lost my focus in academics And realized this cute distraction has side effects I can’t forget getting teased by my best friend It would easily make me blush and drown in embarassment For God,”Does he like me too?” was my first question “Will he love me if I tell him about my obssession?” Without wasting time, I just wanted to kiss him and confess However, I didn’t have the guts, just the fear of making a mess When I saw him with his girlfriend , I felt an agonizing pain Eventually, I gave up and my feelings started to fade I always wished destiny would bring us together with time Unfortunately, it wasn’t in my hand to make him mine I hope this poem describes one-sided love and its complexity But please never lose faith in fate and serendipity -Shriya Sharma
@@thewanderingchelmet well since it’s Opposite Day then the opposite of Opposite Day is not Opposite Day so technically speaking then you do love them :)
I did feel my crush's heart beating fast it was a health issue but mine races thinking of her but I don't want nothing bad to happen to her im glad she opened to me about it. I do care about her
This is exactly what I went through a few years ago. My longterm relationship had crashed and burned after 9 years and my "rebound" crush was someone I had no chance with that I waited two years for. I had every symptom. Thankfully, I went through some growth and so did my ex, and in that time I realized what was healthy and what wasn't, and we worked it out over time. Now we're getting married at the end of this year :) and my love sick crush is now just someone I respect and admire as a person without any romance involved.
I mean I have trust issues but at the same time I'm obsessed with feeling romantically loved so- :') Edit: thanks for all these likes! didn't know til' now how many others deal with similar things :)
Ahh, same... even though I’ve only felt that way once ever and after talking to him everyday for over half a year he suddenly changed and acted like he didn’t feel the same anymore (we never said anything about having feeling for each other, but we would say how lucky we were to have each other and how we wanted to go on trips together someday and say how great each other were and sappy things like that) and after he started acting different, months later after crying myself to sleep sometimes because I didn’t know what happened and finally starting to accept that he must’ve lost feelings and it wasn’t gonna be that way ever again, he came out to me as gay. I was really surprised and also really relieved because I knew why he had changed and that it wasn’t something I said or did wrong, and I don’t have feelings for him anymore and he’s one of my best friends and we haven’t ever mentioned anything of the past, but sometimes I lay in bed and think about the way that things used to be and miss it. But it’s not that I miss it with him or have feelings for him, it’s that I miss the feeling of having a crush on someone and feeling like they like you back and just having 100% wholesome nonsexual sappy conversations about how much you mean to each other. *sigh*
Just something I think I should share - I was love-crazy/lovesick for the same girl that I had mentioned in your most recent video. No matter what I did (work, play, help others, plan my goals), I always had thoughts of how it will lead to us being together or with her being included and us succeeding together. I often send her songs, loads of messages to make her night and morning. While all this seemed mad, I really did love her. She doesn't know that I had plans and stuff and since I got friendzoned, now I have to make a lot, a lot of changes. Life. 💔
Met a girl who was a lot like me. Spoiled her like crazy. Confessed and no reciprocation. Left and time and again we'd start talking again. Found out, coming down to the end of 2021, before Christmas, I found out she was with someone else. Here's the punchline. When I confessed, she said she thinks she'll be afraid of love forever.
summary of the video: 1. You fantasize about them 1:13 2. You idealize them 1:47 3. You can’t stop thinking about them 2:23 4. You read into everything they do 3:04 5. You’re extremely nervous around them 3:46 6. You get a rush when they message you back 4:18 Recommend watching to learn more 🖤
my friend: OMG stop, ur legit in love and it's becoming an unhealthy me: no no, it's just a crush :) my friend: You liked him for 3 years!!! And u haven't seen him in 1 year and u still like him! me: I'm positive it's just a crush :) my friend: *shows me this video* me: oh...
Me: it's only a small crush My brain: you fantasies about them, have dreams about them, think they're perfect, had a crush on them for over 5 years and- Me: •_•
I have like 3 crushes... 1 of them is someone I met in my dream, a fictional character... and someone that’s- Idk how to explain *They are all imaginary ;-;*
I'd actually prefer an imaginary crush because this way I'd probably still be able to follow my passion to write... This is the worst side effect ever :(. Especially because last time I fel something similar (but not really similar) it helped me into becoming a writer and now I lost it...
Limerent of 7 years here. 🙋♀️ I would describe it more as an addiction to that person which happens when something is preventing the infatuation for them from turning into true love. Instead of the feelings going away, they intensify so much it turns into an addction which can last a lifetime. And the intensity of it is like lovesickness times 100. Btw I absolutely understand the OCD part. It does feel like that. You can’t get no rest until you see them, speak to them, get their attention etc. You just have to do it, otherwise you’re in agony. This is a part of the addiction.
I met someone back in May this year. She is fun and kind and incredibly forgiving of my shortcomings. When we first met I was completely infatuated. The feeling has died down but the giddiness and nervousness are still there when we talk. She decided that she needed some time to work through some problems that she was having in her life, so I haven't spoken with her for a couple months. We never actually dated but I've thought about her every day since I met her. Long story short, I really miss her...
Please give suggestions how to overcome it tooo..😭 1. Yes 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. Partially yes Please help 😭😭😭 save me I need help Please save me Help!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭
How are you 3 years later? For me it only works by cutting relations with that person. Not talking, not seeing (even by pictures), not reading anything about them.
Love sickness, obsessiveness, over attachment and on edge, increased heart ❤️ rate, sweating ... Rush of excitement well being there done that it happens even to the best of us. It's all good, great job as always
I’ve been guilty of idealising people I shouldn’t because they aren’t good for me (even if it’s something I end up learning later) and these tend to be my ex’s. On very rare occasion, sometimes it’s okay because the person is as great as you thought they were in your head 😊
I had a crush on someone in second grade, but then he had to go to a different school. The feelings never went away, but last year (6th grade) I never really thought of him. But now we are in the same middle school...and same orchestra class. When I saw him I felt sweaty, shocked, confused, and my heart beat faster. I had a huge crush on him still...but I didn't know his personality anymore,, and he was already good friends with another girl. ;( I was always looking at him, but he never looked back. He must not recognize me, even though we used to be absolute best friends. I hated my feelings for him, and tried to push them away. Luckily now I only feel small butterflies when I see him, and I rarely think of him. But I still want to say hi to him...but I'm too scared to approach. I can't help but wonder if we would be super good friends, or if my feelings would have disappeared if he had never transferred schools. Or would my feelings increase to not just loving him as a friend and crush, but more? When we are 16 would we have become bf and gf? Idk, but I still hope he will recognize me, approach me, and say hi. I'm to scared to approach him, but I really want to be friends and see how much he's changed.
My best friend moved to America a year and a half ago. My other friend has her number but I feel like it would be a bit stupid to ask him for it. Fuck..
I was lovesick for someone and tried to maintain a friendship relation with him anyway but it went so wrong! The feelings never went away and it destroyed me. 2 years of daydreaming and fantacising, it changed me. Then I finally made the decision to cut ties and I don't even think about him anymore
thank you!! this makes me feel like i’m not crazy. i had a really hard time doing online school because every time i started doing something i would just think of them.
I just want my girlfriend to actually text me back on roblox :’( she started being offline, it’s day 7. Edit: man a year later she still never said a thing. At least I’ve moved on! 😁
Thank you for these videos and explanations. I still feel like I'm drowning sometimes but feel better after knowing there's a physiological and psychological reason to things.
The thing is all of the signs are true , my crush asked me out and of coarse I said yes ....don’t worry guys it just takes u to say or give them a sign....love them
Ruofan Yu ...look I have been rejected as well ....I am not trying to fight....I am just trying to make sure some of them don’t lose hope....and this is my opinion ....
I'm in a relationship and it's been stable for the past few months as opposed to the relatively unstable couple years it started out. Sometimes our own emotions of lovesickness blinded us but now we're using it to our advantage. Perks of long distance: you have no choice but to voice exactly how you feel even if it's embarrassing 🤣 Edit: and thanks to that, now we're both calm and less lovesick
1. You fantasise about them Me: Haha I don't do that, you weirdos Also me: Has been lucid dreaming for the past 2 months, where I've been in a relationship (with Todoroki)
I have a newly developed crush on a coworker (I've known him for a few months now) and he's just so so sweet. Even if my crush fades or I eventually confess with a high chance of getting rejected, he's the type of guy that I still would want to be friends with.
What I thought after reading the title "We are the lovesick girls" "Yeah we were born to be alone" "No letters no X's no O's no love never my exes knows no diamond rings that set in stones to the left better left alone" "Didn't wanna be a princess I'm priceless no prince not even on my list love is a drug that I quit no doctor could help when I'm lovesick" What I thought when they said "Euphoria" "Take my hands now you're the cause of my euphoria" "Close the door now when I'm with you I'm in utopia" I'm an ARMY and a BLINK
"have you ever liked someone for a long time" Me: ANIME BOYS!!!.....it may seem funny but i never liked someone real romantically i keep daydreaming about them for awhile now although i heard many people does this too but...... EDIT: is it normal
It's normal lol I had a crush on Mako from legends of Korra (idk how to spell his name tho) My mother broke me some terrible news. My crush is not real. I screamed for five seconds and then decided to crush on Bo-Lin (no idea how to spell) Mako’s brother 😂
Fun fact nobody has watched this video all the way through: edit that's the thing about this type of comment you could get 1000 likes or 1 it's just the audience you have also I'm still single but I'm no cap love sick
God- I guess I’m love-sick lmao. I mean- I *don’t* want to have a crush on him or be in love with him, but at the same time, if I get a chance, I would have a relationship with him. 😂😂 Honestly, I just really don’t want to crush on him, but I can’t help it. 😂 Edit: He’s not my crush, but at the same time, I’m love-sick for him for an apparent reason. 😅 It’s so complicated lmao
Omg it’s this!!! This is what I’ve been feeling for a long time!!! I never knew what it was so I was always frustrated when I couldn’t get over that person. It got so bad that I lost a friend over the guy because I couldn’t stand the fact that I wasn’t the one he liked. But even though I’ve long accepted it I still get bitter feelings when I see posts of them together. And it’s been hard because I keep thinking that I should be over it already since it’s been years already (to the point that it’s become one of the causes/triggers to my depression). I keep thinking that Im so petty and that I should just stop and get over it because it’s stupid to be so hung up about a guy I like since I was 8. I like to say I’ve gotten better but it’s only when I don’t see them. Anyways enough about me, thank you @Team Psych2go for helping me understand a bit more about myself
A guy I really liked at work flirted with me in the most cute and charming way, we talked everyday. I think he crushed on me because he always was happy instantly when he saw me and he told me that he'd like the work now only because of me, soon I crushed on him too, but after that I heard from a colleague that he has a girlfriend he even lives together with and since then I'm feeling every sign of this video
@@itzauthenticxd995 Sorry to hear that. It hurts right? I haven't confess my feelings to my crush but it looks like I don't have a hope. Tried to move on but couldn't🙂.
Yah I’ve Been there and right now I’m really trying not to do that lol I’ve got a crush on a guy at work but I realized this even before this video came out I’m going a bit fast and want to date him even though we don’t know each other well. So I just want to go slow and get to know him better and be friends with him first. Ive seen good and not bad, but stuff that makes me go “hmm” but not anything serious like rude or mean, it’s just me and my insecurities trying to take over. But now I understand this part of myself I’m trying to take it slow and work on myself, including loving myself.
if you can realize that, then it’s the first step into finding a healthy and meaningful relationship if you wish :) also cool profile pic btw I just noticed it lol
me: sees the title also me: no love letters, no x & o’s no love never, my exes know no diamond rings, that’s set in stone to the left better left alone
@@adrijabiswas4564 the thing is, its hard to just move on, because you trusted them, but when you they broke it, it's hard to believe it, so that maybe a reason why there not easily not moving on, it's hard.. :/
This is the worst. I haven't had normal sleep or food in my stomach for the last couple of days. At times i feel like i have to throw up, and the only thing i can think about is her.
Comment your celebrity crushes below ;) Also, we posted a live stream yesterday. Did you check it out?
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AND GOTH IHOP ILLUMI
Third comment on this
i’m aroace but uhh... idk keanu reeves is pretty cool lmao
I’ll only say his initials: LD sometimes it’s hard to have a crush on someone kinda famous or popular :’)
I didn’t need to be called out like this tonight.
Lmaooo
Wow you just got 5 likes in 1 second-
Samee, i was talking to my old crush, my old crush cause we are together now :) i guess when he was my crush i was love sick over him xd
Oof
Same
"love is a drug that i quit , no docter could help when i am lovesick"
Saranghe slipping and falling saranghe killing your darlin
Haahaahhahaahah LOVESICK GIRLS~
r/im14andthisisdeep
Edit: Im inlove w kpop (i mean not really but holy shit i love it)
BLINKKKSSSS
YASS
me: it’s a crush
my brain: shut up it’s been three years
Lol
It's been around 3-4 years and whenever I think I'm over them they appear in a dream ;-;
I m 5 years 🙁 but now i can move on
@@cherryworshipper3117 same here 🙁
relatable
Science: A crush should last four months
Me: You- You mean years? Four years right-
@Scotty same thought 😐❤️
When one ends another begins , they all took years to end, so it was like my chest felt like it would bust around them
THIS
No thats guilt you are mad yourself for not TRYING with her or him.
Me: You mean decades, right?
the signs
1. you fantasize about them 1:13
2. you idealize them 1:47
3. You can't stop thinking about them 2:24
4. You read into everything they do 3:04
5. you're extremely nervous around them 3:47
6. you get a rush when they message u back 4:20
Cant relate tk any of them since i'm a single pringle (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)
also hello to pie dondon in advance
Hello
@@piedondon8726 hi
*s h i t*
Wow you're fast :)) tsym♥️♥️
Thank you ❤️😊
"You get excited when they message you back."
Wait so people actually manage to 'talk' to their crush? What level of mental strength is this? 😮😮😮
@Miraculous Lavender no you cant
@Miraculous Lavender than thats not your friend no more
@Miraculous Lavender maybe cuz you love her ?
Yeah. We managed to talk about the trolley problem, and other stuff, though I got ghosted.
haha true
You know, this channel's comment section has a peaceful comment section. No fights, no haters, just wholesome comments.
PERIOD BOO XD
Couldn't say it better
Yeah u r ri8
FIght me
Hate me
Be wholesome :D
Wait what-
Your just asking for a troll
My brain: "we are the lovesick girls"
(well I kinda came to see the comment section lol)
Yessss
I was just thinking about that song 😄
Bruh same
Me too
literally the meaning of the song. and came cos i was listening to it while i saw this vid on my rec😹
HEY YOU-
is gonna be okay, bub. *virtual hug* ❤
brokenrecord _ i saw this right now, pls ily 🥺
Thank you❤
@@elle6634 love you more! 🥺
@• Aki Mirai • yes! ❤❤❤
@@sarthakjain004 ❤❤❤💋
My crush once told me he needed help with his homework so I volunteered to help. Problem is he's a year ahead of me. I literally spent all day that day teaching myself about shit I never heard of just to be able to help him out with 2 math problems later on.
I think I need help
Edit: didn't even realize people were replying to me lol. I got friendzoned last weekend in case anyone wanted an update 😂
👀 you’re not the only one
THATS SO CUTE
You do need help.....get some therapy
Lmao How did it go?
you should get married for that effort. thats some hardcore will-strenght.
*that moment when you realize you’ve had a crush on someone from when you were 4 to when you were 10* (this actually happened LOL)
same
😂
Hobi Water me too but I was 5-13
he is my not so cousin like we grew up together but my blood related cousin is cousins with him i would hang out with him a lot n i developed feelings he’s currently 17 in 15
@@_jennibae Oh wow
As someone who moved on from being obsessively in love, I can say the mood swings and constant mental idealisation of the person I liked changed who I was. I exhibited symptoms of having OCD in everything I did. It was awful.
I am also suffering from OCD .Can u plz tell me what exactly happened with u So I can also relate to it plz😊
Psych2Go: "Have you ever had an intense crush on someone before?"
Me: yes. *Someone who doesn't exist.*
Same
Same
Same
I wish all fictional exist..
:')
Dang I was just thinking about this topic, but like omg, is this coincidential or no?
Everything happens for a reason boo!🥰💖💖
No such thing as coincidence
@@Rek2Chi there is actually, but most things aren't
Yes it's a coincidence
No, you both are soulmates. 🥳
Psych2go: "Do you experience increase heart rate, flashing, shacking, sweating when youre crush is nearby?"
Me: isnt that just my anxiety?
Lol
Yea I thought it was anxiety and then I realized I only had attacks when I was around him🤦♀️
@@emilymarshall7778 i thought i had a crush
Turns out its anxiety
Haha
LMAO
Me: No, I'm not lovesick, no way!
My brain: Ofc, you're not love sick, you're just a stalker that has had a crush on someone for about 5 years.
Isn't your crush shuichi 👁👄👁
@@evilreveluv5120 perhaps
Yep lovesickness
"An average length of a crush is four months"
**Me, who had a crush on someone for 8 years..**
*Yep. Just a crush* 😳
Edit: I'm over him.
You're in love, who's the lucky person? 😂
i love you
r mom (okay that doesn't sound right)
Danggg that’s a long time, I thought 5 years was long 😂😂
Y'all's in the same school or something?
Tamara Aguilera nope
When the person you're lovesick over rejects you, boy you're in a whole world of hurt! I tell you what, it took me about a year to get over it. I've crushed for about two years.
You know whats worse. When the person says she Wants a relationship with you then starts lying To you and ignores you
My high school crush rejected me and it’s taken almost more than 10 years to get over it. Sometimes time isn’t the greatest healer...
Best Detective that happened to me too. Narcissists can be really cruel
@@BigeuleLP That's what happened to my boyfriend in the past except he was too naive to ever realise it. I hate the feeling that I'm second in terms of the intensity of emotion he felt just because she was better at playing with his heart, only liking the idea of being liked rather than him as a person, causing her to do the things you mentioned in your comment...it sucks.
Same. Mine is 1.25 yr. I am happy I finally gave up on him
Why do I feel like this about someone who doesn’t exist like a tv character
Many of us could probably relate lol..
@@Psych2go yep, i have a crush on a number
fAst edit: just a small crush for him, but i also have a human crush which is also an online one, lmao
So true lmao
Waifu?
@@Sol-rk7ze b-beanos?
WE ARE THE LOVSICK GIRLSS
BUT WE WERE BOOOOORNNN TO BE ALOOOONEEE
BUT WE WERE BOOOOOoRN TO BE ALOOONE
BUT WE STILL LOOKING FOR LOVE
But why we still looking for love~~
NO LOVE LETTERS, NO X AND O'S
NO LOVE, NEVER, MY EXES KNOW
NO DIAMOND RINGS, THAT’S SET IN STONE
TO THE LEFT, BETTER LEFT ALONE
DIDN’T WANNA BE A PRINCESS, I'M PRICELESS
A PRINCE NOT EVEN ON MY LIST
LOVE IS A DRUG THAT I QUIT
NO DOCTOR COULD HELP WHEN I'M LOVESICK
So no one is talking about how Incredibly fast they Post UwU
I was still trying to catch up
They are too fast
But I like it
@@Psych2go : O
Psych2go: have you ever felt giddy when they [your crush] text you back¿
Me:
.... *Oh god I'm being exposed, thanks for calling me out-*
I read ‘giddy’ as giggidy 😅
Tallis includes a list of common symptoms of love sickness:
👇👇
Mania - an abnormally elevated mood or inflated self-esteem.
Depression, hopelessness, or helplessness.
Nausea.
Tearfulness.
Insomnia, which may lead to fatigue.
Lack of concentration.
Loss of appetite or overeating.
Did we miss anything else?
Okay so nausea is normal. Each time when I feel "over stimulated" by love, I feel the need to throw up...kinda like throwing up all my feelings 😅😅
Damn ive been called out
@@PGOuma *That's - definitely NOT normal. ..*
Soooo love makes me a depressed narcissist? Cool
I just found out that Marinette is love sick lol
hell yea she is
BAHHAHA
Oh lord, I couldn't agree more
TwT
Yass
SMITTEN (a poem abt lovesickness)
When I was fifteen, I first met him
His face, I knew, I’d never be forgetting
It was the most memorable day of my life
Cause I fell for him at the first sight
The moment he approached me, I got a shock of a thousand watts
Since then, I didn’t have a single moment he wasn’t in my thoughts
I felt as if he enchanted me
And I’d be lying if I said I wanted to break free
Suddenly it was just him and me in all my dreams and fantasies
“If he’d become mine I’d never make him beg or say please”
This wasn’t just any infatuation or crush
I knew I was madly and deeply in love
Making this love mutual was all that was left to do
Seemed easy because around boys I can easily act confident and cool
But why did I underestimate the power of his seductiveness and charm
For every time he walked in I lost my courage and calm
Butterflies in my stomach, losing my breath and then my racing heart
Except, making an eye contact was the most difficult part
It’s funny how love can make even a bold and confident person like me
Act so desperate and shy when I went around my honey
Consequently, I decided to not let him know how I feel
As I was afraid I’d turn him off if I reveal
To impress him I did things very crazy
I spent hours on my dress and make up to make him notice me
Was getting insecure about my acne, weight and body shape
More worried were my parents and friends who noticed the change in how I behave
Controlling my desperation was a throbbing idea
Until I found that he’s active on social media
Such a pleasure it was to look at his photos online
Slowly this love was also taking shape of lust in my mind
Writing love songs and making paintings for my boy
Became my new hobbies that I quite enjoyed
Busy in love, I lost my focus in academics
And realized this cute distraction has side effects
I can’t forget getting teased by my best friend
It would easily make me blush and drown in embarassment
For God,”Does he like me too?” was my first question
“Will he love me if I tell him about my obssession?”
Without wasting time, I just wanted to kiss him and confess
However, I didn’t have the guts, just the fear of making a mess
When I saw him with his girlfriend , I felt an agonizing pain
Eventually, I gave up and my feelings started to fade
I always wished destiny would bring us together with time
Unfortunately, it wasn’t in my hand to make him mine
I hope this poem describes one-sided love and its complexity
But please never lose faith in fate and serendipity
-Shriya Sharma
Please like and tell me your opinion, also do you find it relatable?
This was beautiful! You should be a poet, beautiful poem 💕 and very relatable. Thank you for sharing your poetic talent 🙏
@@nattruelljasso538 thanks for reading and commenting, it made me really happy! I appreciate it ☺️❤️🙏
Its amazing Shriya so relatable 😭❤️💯
@@vm3858 🥰thanks...!❤️
This love sickness is really killing me inside,its so hard to find a cure for it
You cure is therapy....now get out and get some help.It is for your own metal Heath.
Are you ok by now?
Please, signs you want a serious relationship
That's a good one!
Yeah pls do this one 🙏
Oo yeah that would be good
I agree. That would be a good topic.
" If you're nervous around your crush your heart beat will race "
Yandre chan: hold my knife for me
I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
opposite day.
@@thewanderingchelmet well since it’s Opposite Day then the opposite of Opposite Day is not Opposite Day so technically speaking then you do love them :)
@@Bobo-tu6ln smart.
Sorry, my heart does not race
I did feel my crush's heart beating fast it was a health issue but mine races thinking of her but I don't want nothing bad to happen to her im glad she opened to me about it. I do care about her
Why did this randomly pop up in recommended after watching Lovesick Girls by Blackpink?
Me
As a fangirl I kinda Relate
Bro, this just happened to me 😳
Wtf lamo
This is exactly what I went through a few years ago. My longterm relationship had crashed and burned after 9 years and my "rebound" crush was someone I had no chance with that I waited two years for. I had every symptom. Thankfully, I went through some growth and so did my ex, and in that time I realized what was healthy and what wasn't, and we worked it out over time. Now we're getting married at the end of this year :) and my love sick crush is now just someone I respect and admire as a person without any romance involved.
Heeeeeey, you cant calling me out like that 🤣🤣🤣
I mean I have trust issues but at the same time I'm obsessed with feeling romantically loved so- :')
Edit: thanks for all these likes! didn't know til' now how many others deal with similar things :)
Yo why is this me?😭
@@Whimswirl Lol :')
Same :/
Ahh, same... even though I’ve only felt that way once ever and after talking to him everyday for over half a year he suddenly changed and acted like he didn’t feel the same anymore (we never said anything about having feeling for each other, but we would say how lucky we were to have each other and how we wanted to go on trips together someday and say how great each other were and sappy things like that) and after he started acting different, months later after crying myself to sleep sometimes because I didn’t know what happened and finally starting to accept that he must’ve lost feelings and it wasn’t gonna be that way ever again, he came out to me as gay. I was really surprised and also really relieved because I knew why he had changed and that it wasn’t something I said or did wrong, and I don’t have feelings for him anymore and he’s one of my best friends and we haven’t ever mentioned anything of the past, but sometimes I lay in bed and think about the way that things used to be and miss it. But it’s not that I miss it with him or have feelings for him, it’s that I miss the feeling of having a crush on someone and feeling like they like you back and just having 100% wholesome nonsexual sappy conversations about how much you mean to each other. *sigh*
I feel called out :’0
I liked a guy who didnt like me back for 5 or 6 years ;-;
3 years of staring oh yes
Samee
Saaaame
Weirdo
BABY I'VE BEEN DOING IT FOR 7 YEARS.
Just something I think I should share - I was love-crazy/lovesick for the same girl that I had mentioned in your most recent video. No matter what I did (work, play, help others, plan my goals), I always had thoughts of how it will lead to us being together or with her being included and us succeeding together. I often send her songs, loads of messages to make her night and morning. While all this seemed mad, I really did love her. She doesn't know that I had plans and stuff and since I got friendzoned, now I have to make a lot, a lot of changes. Life. 💔
you are not alone, i know exactly what you mean.
@@florianewers1270 another year another heartbreak.
Met a girl who was a lot like me. Spoiled her like crazy. Confessed and no reciprocation. Left and time and again we'd start talking again. Found out, coming down to the end of 2021, before Christmas, I found out she was with someone else. Here's the punchline. When I confessed, she said she thinks she'll be afraid of love forever.
Me: **has homework**
Psych2go: **posts something about crushes**
Me: I have my priorities **clicks**
summary of the video:
1. You fantasize about them 1:13
2. You idealize them 1:47
3. You can’t stop thinking about them 2:23
4. You read into everything they do 3:04
5. You’re extremely nervous around them 3:46
6. You get a rush when they message you back 4:18
Recommend watching to learn more 🖤
Did we miss any?
The sad thing is, I have anime crushes and not celebrity crushes and I know I’m not the only one
*y’all know who you are*
I love how it's only been 45 minutes and I'm already calling out all the weebs
I see, you’re a man of culture
Can I join the club
Poopie fart lol XD hahaha R.I.P X the heck is this name
lovbly yes you can all are welcome, just know that once you’re a part you can _never leave_
No one:
Me a blink reading the title:
WE ARE THE LOVESICK GIIIRLS
Me: it’s just a crush
Also me: watches this video
Me again: oh. Well never mind
Honestly tho 😂
lmao
Me: I don’t like him, I don’t like him, he’s not my crush.
This video:
my friend: OMG stop, ur legit in love and it's becoming an unhealthy
me: no no, it's just a crush :)
my friend: You liked him for 3 years!!! And u haven't seen him in 1 year and u still like him!
me: I'm positive it's just a crush :)
my friend: *shows me this video*
me: oh...
@@ferfavforfour AHAJDOEJEHDJ LITERALLY ME 😹
Me: Sees thumbnail
My head: "WE ARE THE LOVESICK GIRLSS"
This is how many BP fans are out there
⬇️
me
What is BP?
@@sebziez bp is blackpink it's a kpop girl group btw stream lovesick girls
Meee
Hello BLINKSSS
Psych2go really knows how I feel inside
We are you. You are us ;)
@@Psych2go and the world revolves around us
They knows everything about you, your address, name, job.
@@leaf1956 _that's just-_
Imagine being lovesick on a fictional character...
Help
😭😭😭😭 helpppp
Help...
@@naokifujiko girl same
im lovesick on a fictional character
😔🔫
Me: it's only a small crush
My brain: you fantasies about them, have dreams about them, think they're perfect, had a crush on them for over 5 years and-
Me: •_•
dont you call me out like this my good sir/madam/other
same
I have like 3 crushes... 1 of them is someone I met in my dream, a fictional character... and someone that’s- Idk how to explain
*They are all imaginary ;-;*
Literally me....
I'd actually prefer an imaginary crush because this way I'd probably still be able to follow my passion to write... This is the worst side effect ever :(. Especially because last time I fel something similar (but not really similar) it helped me into becoming a writer and now I lost it...
Same-
Sad
Limerent of 7 years here. 🙋♀️ I would describe it more as an addiction to that person which happens when something is preventing the infatuation for them from turning into true love. Instead of the feelings going away, they intensify so much it turns into an addction which can last a lifetime. And the intensity of it is like lovesickness times 100.
Btw I absolutely understand the OCD part. It does feel like that. You can’t get no rest until you see them, speak to them, get their attention etc. You just have to do it, otherwise you’re in agony. This is a part of the addiction.
Sees 'Lovesick'
My brain: We ArE thE LovEsicK GirLS
saranghe skipping and falling saranghe killing your darlin 😔
But we were born to be aloneeeee~
Yeah, we were born to be alone but we're still looking for love ~
I met someone back in May this year. She is fun and kind and incredibly forgiving of my shortcomings. When we first met I was completely infatuated. The feeling has died down but the giddiness and nervousness are still there when we talk. She decided that she needed some time to work through some problems that she was having in her life, so I haven't spoken with her for a couple months. We never actually dated but I've thought about her every day since I met her. Long story short, I really miss her...
Finally, found what was wrong with me, thanks to this video!!! So glad to put a label on this phase
I swear this channel knows everything about me
*Imagine falling in love with a guy for 6 years only to find out days later that they're already head over heels in love with someone else.*
Please give suggestions how to overcome it tooo..😭
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes
4. Yes
5. No
6. Partially yes
Please help 😭😭😭 save me
I need help
Please save me
Help!!!!!
😭😭😭😭😭
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes
4. Yes
5. Yes
6. Yes
...damnit !
Stop simping, thats how
@@user_flowershrts shes a bot
How are you 3 years later? For me it only works by cutting relations with that person. Not talking, not seeing (even by pictures), not reading anything about them.
When she said "If these feelings persist," my brain auto-filled the next sentence to "consult your doctor" 😂
Same lmao
Oh I thought you're the real one
@@OctoHedgy surprise lmao.
Noice
alexa, play me *LOVESICK GIRLS* by *BLACKPINK* 🎶
Hehe..& same
Are you commanding me?!
They gonna have a rush of views on their music
I’m lovesick- all the signs I’ve been through
I CANT GET HIM OUT OF MY HEAD
Me last night: *annoyed about love*
Psycho2go: sIgNs YOu’RE lOvE sIcK
Me: wtf-
Yes. You are love sick child.
ha ha ha
@MYRA ! 20 y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! What is 🔴💋💙?
Lol
@E m i l i a n a I think she's a bot and those people do not belong here
Them : sacred heart university
Me: there's a university for hearts???!!!!!!🤯🤯🤯🤯
Edit: thanks for 146 like in just 4 hours
*Has kingdom hearts flashbacks*
Not only Heart but *scared heart* lmao 🤣😂
Your thought process is the size of a pea😂😂
@@krhervey441 😂😂😂
It izz what it izz
🤣🤣🤣
Me being confused on what is lovesick but still watched this anyway :
Same lol
Same
Same! 😂
Baby don’t hurt me
Love sickness, obsessiveness, over attachment and on edge, increased heart ❤️ rate, sweating ... Rush of excitement well being there done that it happens even to the best of us. It's all good, great job as always
I’ve been guilty of idealising people I shouldn’t because they aren’t good for me (even if it’s something I end up learning later) and these tend to be my ex’s.
On very rare occasion, sometimes it’s okay because the person is as great as you thought they were in your head 😊
Brooooo Im trying to tell myself to not catch feelings for this guy and I’m talking to him rn and I literally saw this vid.
same...
I had a crush on someone in second grade, but then he had to go to a different school. The feelings never went away, but last year (6th grade) I never really thought of him. But now we are in the same middle school...and same orchestra class. When I saw him I felt sweaty, shocked, confused, and my heart beat faster. I had a huge crush on him still...but I didn't know his personality anymore,, and he was already good friends with another girl. ;( I was always looking at him, but he never looked back. He must not recognize me, even though we used to be absolute best friends. I hated my feelings for him, and tried to push them away. Luckily now I only feel small butterflies when I see him, and I rarely think of him. But I still want to say hi to him...but I'm too scared to approach.
I can't help but wonder if we would be super good friends, or if my feelings would have disappeared if he had never transferred schools. Or would my feelings increase to not just loving him as a friend and crush, but more? When we are 16 would we have become bf and gf? Idk, but I still hope he will recognize me, approach me, and say hi. I'm to scared to approach him, but I really want to be friends and see how much he's changed.
It's gonna be ok😌
You never know. I met a girl I used to have a crush on when we were kids 13 years later. Anything is possible
you should talk to him. try to be friends first. get to know him again. if you still like him, maybe then try to make a move
My best friend moved to America a year and a half ago. My other friend has her number but I feel like it would be a bit stupid to ask him for it.
Fuck..
I was lovesick for someone and tried to maintain a friendship relation with him anyway but it went so wrong! The feelings never went away and it destroyed me. 2 years of daydreaming and fantacising, it changed me. Then I finally made the decision to cut ties and I don't even think about him anymore
thank you!! this makes me feel like i’m not crazy. i had a really hard time doing online school because every time i started doing something i would just think of them.
I'm having imaginary conversations with basically everyone I meet and I read into every conversation I have. I also am constantly nervous
me too
same
ever since my bestfriend told me how he felt i couldnt stop thinking about him-
I just want my girlfriend to actually text me back on roblox :’( she started being offline, it’s day 7.
Edit: man a year later she still never said a thing. At least I’ve moved on! 😁
F
😔
Dude that hurts.... :(
Maybe she just got tired of roblox
@@higoogle316 probably...
This is a great video for those who someday had a crush on someone but I have never had a crush on anyone before.
Me with an obsession of anime guys: *aggressively sweating*
Drop some names :)
I mean we like guys
But only if they're 2D
just a cactus I felt that
@@Psych2go I'll guess, Todoroki is one of them.
@@piedondon8726 Ah yes Icy-Hot
I know the answer to my problems…
I’m…
*Obsessed with Singing in a British accent*
ur ancestors who went to war with tze snglish 100s of times:s h a m e
😂
I'm british 😭
OOP-
Me: I have a girlfriend My brain: no you have a crush on someone that doesn’t now you exist. Me: shut up
Thank you for these videos and explanations. I still feel like I'm drowning sometimes but feel better after knowing there's a physiological and psychological reason to things.
The thing is all of the signs are true , my crush asked me out and of coarse I said yes ....don’t worry guys it just takes u to say or give them a sign....love them
Do you even know how being rejected feels? Don't say these empty platitudes that are harmful for some people
Ruofan Yu ...look I have been rejected as well ....I am not trying to fight....I am just trying to make sure some of them don’t lose hope....and this is my opinion ....
*course
Don't mind me, I'm just the girl with OCD 😂
I'm in a relationship and it's been stable for the past few months as opposed to the relatively unstable couple years it started out. Sometimes our own emotions of lovesickness blinded us but now we're using it to our advantage. Perks of long distance: you have no choice but to voice exactly how you feel even if it's embarrassing 🤣
Edit: and thanks to that, now we're both calm and less lovesick
1. You fantasise about them
Me: Haha I don't do that, you weirdos
Also me: Has been lucid dreaming for the past 2 months, where I've been in a relationship (with Todoroki)
LMAOOOO
😂😂😂😂😂LMAO
Damn, lucky. I can’t even lucid dream lol
@@alienqueen3324 girl I was the same, lucid dreaming gas changed my life. I'm cooking up some drama for tonights session
I have a newly developed crush on a coworker (I've known him for a few months now) and he's just so so sweet. Even if my crush fades or I eventually confess with a high chance of getting rejected, he's the type of guy that I still would want to be friends with.
Forget everything, this voice is enough to convince me that I'm lovesick
What I thought after reading the title
"We are the lovesick girls" "Yeah we were born to be alone"
"No letters no X's no O's no love never my exes knows no diamond rings that set in stones to the left better left alone"
"Didn't wanna be a princess I'm priceless no prince not even on my list love is a drug that I quit no doctor could help when I'm lovesick"
What I thought when they said "Euphoria"
"Take my hands now you're the cause of my euphoria"
"Close the door now when I'm with you I'm in utopia"
I'm an ARMY and a BLINK
The thumbnail is 😂😂😂 that man in thumbnail looks High 😂🔥🔥
Does it remind you of someone you know?
Thats how love makes ya feel.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Psych2go me
@@Psych2go yes.. that's me.. 2 yrs ago 😂 in love with my neighbor girl 😂🔥🔥
The thing is I do all these signs
Imma go watch lovesick girls by Blackpink now.
I definitely needed this video, thanks!
Friends: I think you're obsessed with your crush
Me: Nah, I think I'm not.
Psych2go: Let me stop you right there.
"have you ever liked someone for a long time"
Me: ANIME BOYS!!!.....it may seem funny but i never liked someone real romantically i keep daydreaming about them for awhile now although i heard many people does this too but......
EDIT: is it normal
It's normal lol I had a crush on Mako from legends of Korra (idk how to spell his name tho)
My mother broke me some terrible news. My crush is not real. I screamed for five seconds and then decided to crush on Bo-Lin (no idea how to spell) Mako’s brother 😂
*when you realize you have a crush on a 2D anime guy:*
D e a r
N e p t u n e
I’m glad to hear that I’m not the only one 👁💧👄💧👁👍
Ikr its literal torture 😭
yeah💔👁💧👄💧👁💔
@Waqar R. Al Enezi hh yeah XD
Shuichi saihara
Fun fact nobody has watched this video all the way through: edit that's the thing about this type of comment you could get 1000 likes or 1 it's just the audience you have also I'm still single but I'm no cap love sick
You got me, officer
Why are we still here just to suffer
I'm going to watch it the entire way through
Edit: I did it
And I still have homework to do
hellyeah
I have watched it fully
Wow I never thought I would be called out like this
God- I guess I’m love-sick lmao. I mean- I *don’t* want to have a crush on him or be in love with him, but at the same time, if I get a chance, I would have a relationship with him. 😂😂 Honestly, I just really don’t want to crush on him, but I can’t help it. 😂
Edit: He’s not my crush, but at the same time, I’m love-sick for him for an apparent reason. 😅 It’s so complicated lmao
😂 same
I knoowww please😭😭😭
Same thooo 😭😭😭
Omg it’s this!!! This is what I’ve been feeling for a long time!!! I never knew what it was so I was always frustrated when I couldn’t get over that person.
It got so bad that I lost a friend over the guy because I couldn’t stand the fact that I wasn’t the one he liked. But even though I’ve long accepted it I still get bitter feelings when I see posts of them together.
And it’s been hard because I keep thinking that I should be over it already since it’s been years already (to the point that it’s become one of the causes/triggers to my depression). I keep thinking that Im so petty and that I should just stop and get over it because it’s stupid to be so hung up about a guy I like since I was 8.
I like to say I’ve gotten better but it’s only when I don’t see them.
Anyways enough about me, thank you @Team Psych2go for helping me understand a bit more about myself
*we are the lovesick girrrrrrlllls*
blackpink has entered the chat
Psych2Go, what should i do if i have love sickness? Im not in an exact position where im able to seek professional guidance
A guy I really liked at work flirted with me in the most cute and charming way, we talked everyday. I think he crushed on me because he always was happy instantly when he saw me and he told me that he'd like the work now only because of me, soon I crushed on him too, but after that I heard from a colleague that he has a girlfriend he even lives together with and since then I'm feeling every sign of this video
OMG the same situation for me also. But it's girl instead of guy😅
Yep. This is what I had. Now I’m suffering from anxiety and multiple days with depression. Thanks, crush.
Me who has a crush on a RUclipsr who’s too old for me: 👁👄👁
If it makes you feel any better, Johnny Depp is over 40 and majority of the people who crush on him are 13-17 =)
Shiny Pie that-
Yes I have an crush and I think I’m love sick-
Same
I can relate, its annoying and an emotional rollercoaster
Same
ArianaEk Ekg same here😔🥺
Same
4 months? Bro I'm in love with him for more than 6years
Are you guys together? Oo
@@Psych2go No we are not together. He igmores me all the time lol.
Same 6 years.
She didn't feel the same way
@@itzauthenticxd995 Sorry to hear that. It hurts right?
I haven't confess my feelings to my crush but it looks like I don't have a hope. Tried to move on but couldn't🙂.
@@Koharuuuuuuuuuu Yes it did hurt. Atleast I had closure and moved on
Holy crap! I have all six signs! Most accurate video on me up to date. Keep it up.
I feel like I've felt this for every potential partner I've ever talked to, and I think it's why it never works out
Yah I’ve Been there and right now I’m really trying not to do that lol I’ve got a crush on a guy at work but I realized this even before this video came out I’m going a bit fast and want to date him even though we don’t know each other well. So I just want to go slow and get to know him better and be friends with him first. Ive seen good and not bad, but stuff that makes me go “hmm” but not anything serious like rude or mean, it’s just me and my insecurities trying to take over. But now I understand this part of myself I’m trying to take it slow and work on myself, including loving myself.
if you can realize that, then it’s the first step into finding a healthy and meaningful relationship if you wish :) also cool profile pic btw I just noticed it lol
@@priscillawolffe473 you're the only person to compliment it, thanks! I'm assuming you know what it's from?
Jiggonomics yes from the anime naruto, its the mangekyou sharingan from the uchiha clan
@@priscillawolffe473 yeah, my boy Kakashi. But yeah I do hope to find a healthy and meaningful relationship, it's just difficult to obtain nowadays
me: sees the title
also me:
no love letters, no x & o’s no love never, my exes know
no diamond rings, that’s set in stone
to the left better left alone
DIDN'T WANNA BE A PRINCESS, I'M PRICELESS
A PRINCE NOT EVEN ON MY LIST
LOVE IS A DRUG THAT I QUIT
NO DOCTOR COULD HELP WHEN I'M LOVESICK
PERIODT ✋
Me: obsesses over my ex bf who treated me like garbage...
Psych2Go: Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..... ARE YOU LOVESICK???
DUUUUUDE, my ex fecking ABANDONED me and I can't get him out of my head... I hear ya. God, I wish I never met that a-hole...
Saaaaaame
Welp thats so true
He treats you like garbage * surprised emoji * don't give a damn about about him and just move on. You will be happy that way
@@adrijabiswas4564 the thing is, its hard to just move on, because you trusted them, but when you they broke it, it's hard to believe it, so that maybe a reason why there not easily not moving on, it's hard.. :/
I just love hurting my own feelings with these videos 😻
This is the worst. I haven't had normal sleep or food in my stomach for the last couple of days. At times i feel like i have to throw up, and the only thing i can think about is her.
I really needed this...
Same