I used to think this boy liked me, since he told me he liked me. But he bounced from loving me to hating everything about me. I got stabbed in the back. Yet he was always there for me. He would get mad at me for reaching out to others, but he told me to. He didn’t make much effort to open up more. Over a year, I got torn down since he got mad at small things. It’s still painful. And I still wonder if it was me that wasn’t enough for the partnership to work. This happened on Valentine’s Day. We no longer talk. And we ended on terrible terms. Turns out, he hated me.
In 4th grade I liked someone and I thought they like me back but one day my bsf told that person that I liked them and they said they don't give a s*it
I have autism and am extremely introverted I have no friends and no family where I live. These short entertaining videos are extremely helpful and I'm genuinely looking forward to my next social gathering and will be taking part in more events in public spaces. Thank you ❤️
Please get a job where you interact with people regularly in a social way and get hobbies where you will meet normal people often (like yoga or dance classes) to advance your social skills. Also watch the Rom Wills RUclips channel
"get ready to receive" that only works if youre a woman lol. if youre a man, and you "wait to receive", youre not gonna get anywhere or get anything lol
Went to a dance recently and was able to dance with my crush. One of the best things that has happened to me in quite a while. I still get happy whenever I think about it
@@AdmiralHalimesh naw, I got the memory of a goldfish I completely forgot about that. But I went to the same dance this year with someone else and got rejected by them 👍
It’s really hard to consider they actually do, I’m diagnosed bipolar, and I constantly bounce back from “they need me” to “they hate me” this video helps honestly, it makes it easier to settle in the middle to make sure I’m not going insane
@@anderstermansen130 bipolar is quite literally a real thing. It’s trauma related personal development. If I wanted attention, I would act like you. Now, you’ve gotten your attention from a stranger on the internet, I suggest you rethink your life choices, and consider if it’s worth telling someone their literal diagnosis is “fake”. My childhood has left me with developmental struggles. I don’t need your approval.
@@anderstermansen130 also, here’s a note for you. If you can’t attract anyone, self reflect. You’re on this channel for a reason, yes? Figure out why “no one would develop a crush on you”. I have a slight idea darling, I think it’s how you talk to strangers.
Great video! One thing I have noticed which applies to both girls and guys: It doesn't matter how busy they are, or how busy they SAY they are. if they are interested in you, they WILL make, or find, the time to be with you.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. There's actually some evidence to suggest that gay couples are more likely to be healthy because they are less likely to have preconceived notions and roles imposed onto each other, e.g. discarding legitimate grievances from your wife because "women are hormonal" or doing all the housework while your husband lays around because "men are helpless," etc. I read a study concerning this years ago so it'll take some digging before I can find it. Though of course, I'd still exercise caution when considering statistics like these. Something I have noticed is that straight couples often blame “otherness” for their difficulties. Women are difficult to live with, men are like children, that kind of thing. Straights can just accumulate their “otherness” blaming until they are convinced that all men are morons or all women are shrews, and this problem they are having is not because of individual circumstances but because of their whole gender. Gay couples don’t have an “otherness” to blame, just “sameness”, so they have to focus on whatever the actual relationship issue happens to be and resolve it. Also, abuse in homosexual relationships is significantly less prevalent than it is in heterosexual ones.
@@icysnow57cold64Honestly I think it comes down to communication, genuine care, and emotional maturity above all else. Solid romantic relationships don’t work for a lot of people, partially because romantic relationships are expected and enforced in our society to such a degree that anyone not in one is considered actively strange or “missing out”.
Asked my crush or one month ago after some time listening to your content. She said no due to family issues ( strict Filipino family). I really wanted to say thank you for supporting us with great content and help. I also went in a bit cheesy by asking them out with a paper bouqete bucket with a movie ticket inside. Thank you again, P2G!
@@MrPaxioHahaha aww no bro… wth! You don’t know the girl! Maybe that kinda thing is right up her alley or maybe the commenter is just young. It’s a cute gesture, can’t say it’s my cup of tea but I know a lot of girls who would like it
@@MrPaxio You've obviously never known someone with a strict and controlling family then lol. One of my friends wasn't allowed to date until they turned 18 and moved out because of this exact reason. Luckily she's moved out now though and has a lovely boyfriend, but that's not the point I'm trying to make
@@user-bt3ft8ov5z but im surprised he thanks for the advice, so going to the movies is recommended by blue pilled ppl/channels? movies is a horrible idea for a date. if he wasnt so blue pilled she would of probably said yes regardless of what her family thinks. people will make exceptions for you if they want to.
1. 0:18 - That awkward moment when- 2. 1:49 - Forced smile vs. giddy and genuine smile. 3. 2:50 - What do they say when they're busy? 4. 3:28 - Their voice changes around you. 5. 4:13 - Their pupils do what-? 6. 5:18 - Something has changed.
I think I found out why nobody wanted to date me. I was definitely a nervous wreck whenever I spoke with someone I liked, and I'm sure it gave off a vibe that I wasn't confident... so naturally women turn away from that. I've been working on keeping composure around people I gain a crush on, and I've improved dramatically. I still haven't scored a date or anything, buuuut it turned out to be a good thing. Plus, there's more fish in the sea.
That's not necessarily true. My current girlfriend thinks it's cute that I'm kind of a nervous wreck. People can find that sort of thing really endearing. But hey, I'm sure you'll find someone eventually. Just be yourself if you can lol
@@user-bt3ft8ov5z Usually women don't give me the light of day when I'm nervous. It's probably just how women are here in the South of the US. They like the big strong confident type, or the bad boy type. At least that's what I think from personal experience. At least you found a girl who likes you for who you are. If I want a girl I can't be nervous.
@@DeRez19 Well, I don't really know how things are in the South, so that could be right, but if someone can't love you for who you are, they probably don't deserve you dude
This is me in so many levels, though I haven’t reached that arc yet where I’m confident enough cuz I haven’t really exposed myself too much but eventually I will I swear 🥲 Hopefully we both overcome our fears because man it sucks
I had a crush on this girl from work for a few months and been thinking alot about asking her out. I would've asked earlier, but I just got out of a 3-year-relationship in november, so I wanted to make sure to wait until I'm ready to meet someone new because didn't want her to be some kind of rebound. There have been some signs that were mentioned in the video, that she likes me back, like I could see that her pupils dilated, she was searching for opportunities talking to me and was excited and kind of nervous, while we were talking (so was I). We also have been laughing a lot, and even a friend of her randomly asked me if I'm single a about 3 months ago. So five days ago I ended my shift, went outside, as she just came back from her break on her way back inside. We talked and laughed for a bit, when I finally had the feeling that this was the perfect opportunity to ask her out. I was so nervous since it was my first time asking someone out in person. I took a deep breath, hesitated for a second, probably turned red and while pulling myself together, she was looking at me, smiling and even giggling in such a sweet way. She knew what was coming. So I finally said "Hey uhrm, would you like to go out sometime, maybe into a bar or something? Cause I have this feeling that we're getting along pretty well and I'd really like to get to know you" She immediatly answered "Yes! I'd love to!". In this moment I felt so incredibly happy and excited that I just couldn't believe it. She then continued with "but you do have a girlfriend, right?", to which I answered "No, it's been a while", she said "...because.. I do have a boyfriend..." I was still in such a dopamine rush from finally asking her out that I couldn't stop smiling and said "Ohhhhhh...". She said "yeah... I'm sorry :/ but I'd also like to get to know you better", I answered "Oh no, that's alright, I totally respect that, I wouldn've asked if I had known that. Don't worry, it's alright. But can you do me a favor and not tell anyone at work? You know... gossip and stuff", to which she responded "Don't worry, I won't haha. I just hope things won't get awkward between us, because I really like you.". I said "Thanks haha. Also please don't worry or feel bad or anything, it's absolutely fine. Anyway, have fun at work! :)" And eventho she had rejected me, which was quiet disappointing, because I really like her, I am still so incredibly happy about the fact that I finally asked her out. I couldn't even lose my smile on my way home. The thing is, that I would've regretted it so much more if I had never asked her out. Now I have an answer and can move on. It just felt so liberating asking her out, I even got a little confidence boost from it. What I'm still curious about is, that she knew I was single but she was probably nervous on what to answer. But I still kinda got the feeling that if she had been single, she would've said yes But I'll try not to cling to any hopes in that way and just continue working together. Also of course I won't pull any further moves or something.
It does seem like her response amounted to "If I was single, I would say yes, but I can't." Either way, she does like you and your company so, you can still be friends and enjoy each other's company.
Almost same situation going on with me right now. Almost to a T, except for the ending. We are both single and we're getting coffee tomorrow :) When I asked him if he wanted to get coffee sometime, he just smiled hella big, and looked at his shoes and was like "Yea.. yea.. actually. I would like that!" We are both very awkward around each other lol. However, he did mention that he may not be ready for "dating" but he likes me and wants to get to know eachother. (He was in a relationship for over a decade, they broke up in the summer). He also offered to give me his old drum set out of his garage, when he heard at work that I've always wanted to learn
I am currently succeeding in hiding my feelongs for my crush. One girl in my class even said "Everyones crush is written on their face except yours" I guess I am good at controlling myself Update: We've been dating for a bit over a year! She's coming back in a week's time (we were doing ldr for 11 months).
Ive learned that someone liking you and wanting to do what's necessary to date you are 2 very different things depending on the personalities present Some people are confused by those emotions, possibly scared It can be frustrating to say the least
Here I am, watching this video in excitement to find out if my crush really likes me. Butterflies in my stomach, all tingly and warm. Until I realize that she was just being friendly Love hurts man...
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions. I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count. He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though. Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot. However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures. I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back? (P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me) Btw, for you're situation:- Yes, love does hurt, but know that if its meant to be, it will. It'll not just pass you by.
I thought this for the longest time until she one day said to me she was a lesbian, she does all the signs that are said by this video to me, but im mainly in the dark about how she feels, we've also been shipped 18 times so far, and it is very annoying to explain. we gave known each other for 8 years and are best friends, but yeah she is very confusing sometimes, she also didnt even know you dont have to stick to a preference.
@@matthewmatt6 I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions. I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count. He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though. Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot. However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures. I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back? (P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
Could you do a video about having a crush you don't know super well? Most videos assume you are friends with your crush but that is not always the case.
One thing to add is when they keep asking just you about everything. Back when I was at work, this one girl always kept asking me about everything. Of course I thought, well I was the most accessible to her. But after awhile alot of her other friends kept teasing her when she approaches me. Too bad I was too numb on the subtle signs. 😆
All my life I’ve been totally oblivious on the hints and hitting ons . And still do . Just don’t pay attention to such actions . Unless it’s straight up smacking me upside my head.! Hahaha.!
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions. I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count. He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though. Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot. However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures. I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back? (P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
@@vibaj163 months ago, my friend asked her bf (whose kinda friends with my crush) and I got to know this. To confirm, I even had my other friend ask him (not in a suspicious way tho). Btw, after todays incident, i feel a bit weird bcz idk if he likes me or not. P.S.:- It'll also be nice if you could tell me why you think he likes me. Today I saw him at school after so many days. After the exam was over, we made eye contact for just 2 seconds or something. We were with our friends so we were ig smiling and looking at each other from far. As soon as that happened, he said something to the guy who likes me (who was also beside him). Maybe he is just determined to set his friend with me...idk.
@@anonymous.4643 People only regularly glance twice if they are attracted. He may not want to act on the attraction. Have your friend and your friend's boyfriend draw him and his friend into a group conversation, and then you join in. That way, you will start talking to him and it breaks the ice. If he is interested in acting on the attraction, that opens the door.
Yeah, she was giving off a few of these signs. We've had more than our fair shares of awkward moments. I even noticed recently she gives off a few clear signs. Well, I was a nervous wreck too. Yes, she's been giddy around me for some time. We have a few mutual friends but no one knows we're finally together. Last week on the 14th I had the nerve to call her up and it felt good that I did not just to say Happy Valentine's Day but to make it official, not just valentines but now she's my girlfriend. But still haven't had our first date or kissed yet, just long hugs and awkward laughing despite that we've been friends for a very long time.
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions. I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count. He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though. Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot. However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures. I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back? (P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
My best guess would be he likes you but because his friend likes you and made it clear, he is staying quiet and not wanting to step on his friend's toes. If you actually like him, I'd talk to him when his friend isn't around and then make it clear to his friend that you're not interested.
@@____Paradox____ This reminds me of a mutual friend of mine the day I met my best friends mutual friend he wouldn’t stop looking at me multiple times for only seconds? The twist in this plot is that the mutual friend would only kiss my best friend when they’re both drunk and the day my best friend introduced me to him (mutual friend) is the day they also started to date and be official. I felt a weird vibe from this guy once I first met him, you know the feeling when you can feel someone stare at you but you physically don’t look at them so you don’t catch them doing the deed as you would create this awkward tension?! I’m not sure what’s going on in here but I’m going to see him again as my best friend mentioned that he wants to get to know his girlfriend (my best friend) close friends (me and this other girl) more up close and maybe I can confirm and double check that this time around that my gut feeling is true. I don’t like immediately judging people like this don’t get me wrong but my intuition and gut feelings never lied.
There was this girl where I work. She was like 10 years older than me. She was the kind of girl that I'd be thinking something and she would just come right out and say exactly what I was thinking. She wasn't shy one bit. She would always invite me to have lunch with her. If I was off doing something by myself, suddenly there she was asking if I needed help. Sometimes we would have long deep talks about everything. She had no problems telling me about her sex life and things she liked/didn't like. She always smiled when she saw me and I often wondered if she was hitting on me. Then it got to the point where she would always hug me before she left. Towards the end she hugged me for much longer than what would be considered normal. I took this as a sign that she really liked me. One day after work we were talking in the parking lot after work and the conversation was just screaming with sexual tension. I tried to kiss her. She pulled away got mad at me and said how dare I. She said she was married even though she didnt have a ring on and would never be with someone like me. I apologized and tried to explain that maybe I had the wrong idea. She refused to talk to me the next couple of days. About a week later I found out she quit her job and I haven't seen or heard from her since. That was about 8 years ago. I never forgot her face to this day. She was the soul mate that never was
She def!! liked you and was hitting on you and deliberately wasn’t wearing a wedding ring.I hate!! when people do this and females are the worst at it.They want to flirt and have you flirt with them for attention but have no intentions of it going any further..
The truth is, I really want to make a relationship work, but for whatever, no one finds me attracting. I've learned to love myself, but others don't feel the same towards me. I've been praying to God and hoping one day, I would get a girlfriend who accepts me at least once in my life. A girl who respects me for who I am. Kind, responsible, determined, curious, and smart. Unfortunately, that moment hasn't happened and probably won't happen in the near future. 💔
I’m sorry to hear that, truly. I’m going through something, relatively, similar. Waking up every day wishing to find the love of my life. But, you know what? Someday, in the most unexpected way, i will come across the man with whom I’d live the rest of my life with. He or, in your case, she will not be perfect (no one is rlly) but they will love us, and we will love them back. That, my friend, is enough. It doesn’t matter if it will take days, months or, even, years to finally become true. When it does, the world will find its colors once again. Ps: not my native language, sorry for my poor grammar 😅 Love from Brazil ❤
life is unfair. if you are physically attractive, you get praised and have many people like, love, appreciate, and adore you. if not, you are dismissed and ignored by others, only seen as a "friend" or a side character.
The pupil thing had made my journey to self love so much harder, because I'd look in the mirror and they'd constrict. I try not to pay attention to my pupils whenever I do that now
I'll die alone. the last girl I was with did this. then got what she wanted then left.... now she taken me to court. I'm just a complete loser. I need to let this out. This woman has made me feel like I'm unworthy no matter how good or nice I was I'm only good for one thing. I'm just a tool to women. I all ways will be. 😢 I'll just work come home. Be on this couch where I belong.
I think you should make a video about why we get upset when we see our crushs hanging out and having a good time with others. I currently have a crush and when i see them hanging out with someone else and laughing it hurts me more then i think it should. It also hurts to hear other people talk about liking my crush. Idk how to deal with these feelings so it would be nice if you could shine some light on it or something like that. Thank you in advance if you do make a video about it, if mot I understand. Have a wonderful day/night ❤️❤️
I recommend you read up on anxious attachment. Jealousy is one of the symptoms of anxious attachment. Also, you can look at possible abandonment issues. That too causes jealousy and clingy behavior. From a fellow anxiously attached human with abandonment issues ❤️
@@TylenOneal239 no not really. its a common instinct we humans evolved to protect people we like from others. its hard to explain, but its a necessary trait that all of us have and should have, it also strengthens social and emotional bonds. without it, we probably wouldnt have a specific person we love and like, only hundreds of people and choosing if one of those hundreds are the best in doing.. the thing. its why jealousy exists and its alot more useful than what society portrays. also without jealousy (and also greed) we probably wouldnt have technology, healthcare, and big communities and civilizations today.
i can relate alot.. half the time, my crush doesnt interact with other people and usually does her own thing, but when she does i feel a slight sense of jealousy. her interactions with me are a bit awkward and goofy, and with others its friendly. she has more fun with others than with me, and i feel a bit jealous because of that.
i watched a bunch of these vids and i express most of these signs to a girl i like and am close with she expresses 2 of above 27 with me (i counted) damnit
The animation around 6:10 made me laugh it was soooo cute! Love is so good. It's always exciting to fall in love. I just seem to have trouble keeping that vibe going or I ignore the redflags so much that I fall into a trap rather into real love. Sad but I've been working on myself.
You know what's weird? I get excited a little around her Depending on the conversation i might feel high for the rest of the day But im never really nervous around her Probably because the person i created in my head isn't as intimidating as the real life person
I have a friend I know since we were kids. We were in highschool yet. Now that we finished school, I'm starting to realize I feel t h a t for her. I thought it was because I have some (damn) social anxiety, but the truth is that I care more about my appearance when she's around and I'm more nervous and emotional. Doesn't happen with others, just with her. I've noticed that change of my way of speaking too, like if I'm imitating hers. Btw, I'm a girl too xd. Surprise I'm bi now. And I don't know about her preferences, but I know she's very open minded and respectful. We have been interacting a lot lately...9 months, and I've started feeling that attraction. Also I've noticed she has some of the signs, but the confusion is that: 1. She's already a nervous person / 2. She's usually very kind / 3. She can even be very nice in order to not make a person feel bad / 4. Even when we trust each other in a certain way, I haven't seen any signs she might be interested in girls too. And since she can be very emotional (like me), I don't want to make her uncomfortable, or overwhelmed, or to ruin our friendship after all we went through. I would respect her answer whatever she says, but it's clear that she wouldn't look at me like before anymore. I don't want her to feel sad, guilty or disgusted. And also I know she dreams about having a husband some day. That xd
I don't need to know this, because it's literally always just my imagination. No one really likes me. Even having a friend seems impossible. I'm 30 and always alone. I'm a human "doing" not a "being" anymore... What am I doing wrong, though!? 😢
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions. I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count. He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though. Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot. However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures. I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back? (P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
You could ask a friend to go and ask him if he likes you cause they noticed the eye contact, or you could ask him yourself cause if he does like you he's probably more nervous than you and if he doesn't it's just a normal conversation between you so nothing to be afraid of. I don't think it would reveal your crush on him.
@@koboldwizard That seems like a decent idea but he is always with his friends and tbh if I were him and if his friend came and asked, I'd just hide my feelings. Also, today finally we saw each other after so many days. (We had exams and our schools gonna end so we'll see each other only on exam days) When the exam was over, we made eye contact for 2 seconds or something (We were far away). As soon as that happened, he says something to his friend who likes me (who was kinda beside him). So now Im thinking maybe he is just determined to set his friend up with me. Im loosing hope...lets see where this'll go. Btw, thanks a lot for taking the time to reply! I really appreciate it.
Everything’s reminding me of how badly I want a friend. 💔 I want a good, trustworthy, reliable, caring friend. I want just one so I can be the best friend for them. One best friend I mean. 💔💔
In retrospect, I have a very, very hard time remembering many, if any, times when someone reacted this way to me, even when they WERE being very forward with their approach. In fact, it's been an awfully long time, and this list applies to *no one* that I know right now. ☹
What were the age ranges of the participants? I believe that with certain ages come different levels of reactions. Also wondering how diverse were the group of participants.
I really like this guy from school. We aren't classmates but we have a class together. He is a nice person, nice to people, kind. I kinda have this crush on him since last year. One day,in the break, I was with my group of friends but I didn't see him with his group. After 2min a searched again and he was already looking in my direction and then smiled at me. I smiled back obviously. It was so cute. We don't really speak. I don't know how. We liked each other's stories all sommer. How should I take this situation?
@Cinna Nah, at this point I just learned you either have to force yourself to settle for someone you know you don't have any feelings for or just give up because even though they may be the one for you you'll never be the one for them and it's either already too late to pursue them or that they don't feel for you at all. Especially after my previous crush who used me as a side dude and dumped me over a year later I learned this harsh reality and just accepted that nobody would ever want to love me and date me. Oh well, at least alcohol will never leave me :')
I disallow myself to be attracted to anybody. Given the quality of modern people, there are far more chances of finding myself attracted to a negative person, than a positive person. This can be extremely dangerous. Thus, I interact with humans only in a manner that a client would interact with a service provider of merchant. I get to know nobody. I befriend nobody. I fall in love with nobody. To find myself attracted to someone constitutes a personal weakness on my behalf. I will never allow myself to be attracted to anybody ever again, whether for amicable or amorous reasons.
Share a time where you thought someone liked you, but turns out they didn't.
Also, met someone who looked like joji so he seemed cool.
classmate, turns out he was straight :'V
I used to think this boy liked me, since he told me he liked me. But he bounced from loving me to hating everything about me. I got stabbed in the back. Yet he was always there for me. He would get mad at me for reaching out to others, but he told me to. He didn’t make much effort to open up more. Over a year, I got torn down since he got mad at small things. It’s still painful. And I still wonder if it was me that wasn’t enough for the partnership to work. This happened on Valentine’s Day. We no longer talk. And we ended on terrible terms. Turns out, he hated me.
In 4th grade I liked someone and I thought they like me back but one day my bsf told that person that I liked them and they said they don't give a s*it
my old crush was really nice to me but then it turned out he liked my best friend 💀
when both of u make extremely long eye contact but u can’t see if his pupils dilate cuz his eyes are dark brown
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Me fr
Haha my eyes are dark brown. Must be frustrating for him lol
@@fuckallhell not only for him but for me too 😭 like does he actually like me or not 🙄
Fr 😭
I AM 22 YEARS OLD THE FACT THAT I STILL HAVE TO WATCH THESE VIDEOS 😭😭
Me being 22 looking at this comment 👀👀
Im 27 and still tryijg to find signs 😂😂😂😂
I’m 20 bro ya good
I’m 30
@@veek74818Same
I have autism and am extremely introverted I have no friends and no family where I live. These short entertaining videos are extremely helpful and I'm genuinely looking forward to my next social gathering and will be taking part in more events in public spaces. Thank you ❤️
Please get a job where you interact with people regularly in a social way and get hobbies where you will meet normal people often (like yoga or dance classes) to advance your social skills. Also watch the Rom Wills RUclips channel
Good luck hope all goes well
Good for you! 😁 keep going!
Best wishes to you 🤗
Everything will be ok
If you are reading this right now everything you want in life is on the way get ready to receive and great video by the way 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
I wish bro.
Thank you I try to believe this but the gods hate me
"get ready to receive" that only works if youre a woman lol. if youre a man, and you "wait to receive", youre not gonna get anywhere or get anything lol
@@nohumanhere2167 God don't hate you he loves all 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
@@The_Bee33 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Went to a dance recently and was able to dance with my crush. One of the best things that has happened to me in quite a while. I still get happy whenever I think about it
Congrats bro!
Well done soldier
Checking in a year later. You're not still riding that high as your happiest memory are you?
@@AdmiralHalimesh naw, I got the memory of a goldfish I completely forgot about that. But I went to the same dance this year with someone else and got rejected by them 👍
It’s really hard to consider they actually do, I’m diagnosed bipolar, and I constantly bounce back from “they need me” to “they hate me” this video helps honestly, it makes it easier to settle in the middle to make sure I’m not going insane
ong bro I feel like I got this but don't wanna diagnose myself what do I fo
@@alliara289 please talk to a professional if you're really concerned about it
Bipolar isnt a real thing. You just want attention. Maybe start behaving normally?
@@anderstermansen130 bipolar is quite literally a real thing. It’s trauma related personal development. If I wanted attention, I would act like you. Now, you’ve gotten your attention from a stranger on the internet, I suggest you rethink your life choices, and consider if it’s worth telling someone their literal diagnosis is “fake”. My childhood has left me with developmental struggles. I don’t need your approval.
@@anderstermansen130 also, here’s a note for you. If you can’t attract anyone, self reflect. You’re on this channel for a reason, yes? Figure out why “no one would develop a crush on you”. I have a slight idea darling, I think it’s how you talk to strangers.
I wanted to truly know if my crush likes me, and i just proved i like her lmfao
EXACTLY LMAOO
LIKE SAME LOL
Omg 🤣🤣🤣
😭❤️😫😫😫
Same 😢 but I now I really now it
Great video! One thing I have noticed which applies to both girls and guys: It doesn't matter how busy they are, or how busy they SAY they are. if they are interested in you, they WILL make, or find, the time to be with you.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
There's actually some evidence to suggest that gay couples are more likely to be healthy because they are less likely to have preconceived notions and roles imposed onto each other, e.g. discarding legitimate grievances from your wife because "women are hormonal" or doing all the housework while your husband lays around because "men are helpless," etc. I read a study concerning this years ago so it'll take some digging before I can find it. Though of course, I'd still exercise caution when considering statistics like these.
Something I have noticed is that straight couples often blame “otherness” for their difficulties. Women are difficult to live with, men are like children, that kind of thing. Straights can just accumulate their “otherness” blaming until they are convinced that all men are morons or all women are shrews, and this problem they are having is not because of individual circumstances but because of their whole gender. Gay couples don’t have an “otherness” to blame, just “sameness”, so they have to focus on whatever the actual relationship issue happens to be and resolve it.
Also, abuse in homosexual relationships is significantly less prevalent than it is in heterosexual ones.
@@icysnow57cold64Honestly I think it comes down to communication, genuine care, and emotional maturity above all else. Solid romantic relationships don’t work for a lot of people, partially because romantic relationships are expected and enforced in our society to such a degree that anyone not in one is considered actively strange or “missing out”.
Asked my crush or one month ago after some time listening to your content. She said no due to family issues ( strict Filipino family). I really wanted to say thank you for supporting us with great content and help. I also went in a bit cheesy by asking them out with a paper bouqete bucket with a movie ticket inside. Thank you again, P2G!
yeah..... lemme tell you its not "family issues" 😂😂 movie tickets im dead af
@@MrPaxioHahaha aww no bro… wth! You don’t know the girl! Maybe that kinda thing is right up her alley or maybe the commenter is just young. It’s a cute gesture, can’t say it’s my cup of tea but I know a lot of girls who would like it
@@MrPaxio You've obviously never known someone with a strict and controlling family then lol. One of my friends wasn't allowed to date until they turned 18 and moved out because of this exact reason. Luckily she's moved out now though and has a lovely boyfriend, but that's not the point I'm trying to make
@@willsquidth9848 you tell me which girl wouldnt like a free movie and snacks, lol
@@user-bt3ft8ov5z but im surprised he thanks for the advice, so going to the movies is recommended by blue pilled ppl/channels? movies is a horrible idea for a date. if he wasnt so blue pilled she would of probably said yes regardless of what her family thinks. people will make exceptions for you if they want to.
1. 0:18 - That awkward moment when-
2. 1:49 - Forced smile vs. giddy and genuine smile.
3. 2:50 - What do they say when they're busy?
4. 3:28 - Their voice changes around you.
5. 4:13 - Their pupils do what-?
6. 5:18 - Something has changed.
wtf
why does it say 3 weeks ago
wh-
how tf
That was fast🤨
I think I found out why nobody wanted to date me. I was definitely a nervous wreck whenever I spoke with someone I liked, and I'm sure it gave off a vibe that I wasn't confident... so naturally women turn away from that. I've been working on keeping composure around people I gain a crush on, and I've improved dramatically. I still haven't scored a date or anything, buuuut it turned out to be a good thing. Plus, there's more fish in the sea.
That's not necessarily true. My current girlfriend thinks it's cute that I'm kind of a nervous wreck. People can find that sort of thing really endearing. But hey, I'm sure you'll find someone eventually. Just be yourself if you can lol
@@user-bt3ft8ov5z Usually women don't give me the light of day when I'm nervous. It's probably just how women are here in the South of the US. They like the big strong confident type, or the bad boy type. At least that's what I think from personal experience.
At least you found a girl who likes you for who you are. If I want a girl I can't be nervous.
@@DeRez19 Well, I don't really know how things are in the South, so that could be right, but if someone can't love you for who you are, they probably don't deserve you dude
@@user-bt3ft8ov5z I can agree with this. I just wish it wasn't so tough for me here. Maybe in college it'll be better... maybe.
This is me in so many levels, though I haven’t reached that arc yet where I’m confident enough cuz I haven’t really exposed myself too much but eventually I will I swear 🥲 Hopefully we both overcome our fears because man it sucks
I had a crush on this girl from work for a few months and been thinking alot about asking her out. I would've asked earlier, but I just got out of a 3-year-relationship in november, so I wanted to make sure to wait until I'm ready to meet someone new because didn't want her to be some kind of rebound.
There have been some signs that were mentioned in the video, that she likes me back, like I could see that her pupils dilated, she was searching for opportunities talking to me and was excited and kind of nervous, while we were talking (so was I). We also have been laughing a lot, and even a friend of her randomly asked me if I'm single a about 3 months ago.
So five days ago I ended my shift, went outside, as she just came back from her break on her way back inside. We talked and laughed for a bit, when I finally had the feeling that this was the perfect opportunity to ask her out. I was so nervous since it was my first time asking someone out in person.
I took a deep breath, hesitated for a second, probably turned red and while pulling myself together, she was looking at me, smiling and even giggling in such a sweet way. She knew what was coming.
So I finally said "Hey uhrm, would you like to go out sometime, maybe into a bar or something? Cause I have this feeling that we're getting along pretty well and I'd really like to get to know you"
She immediatly answered "Yes! I'd love to!". In this moment I felt so incredibly happy and excited that I just couldn't believe it. She then continued with "but you do have a girlfriend, right?", to which I answered "No, it's been a while", she said "...because.. I do have a boyfriend..." I was still in such a dopamine rush from finally asking her out that I couldn't stop smiling and said "Ohhhhhh...". She said "yeah... I'm sorry :/ but I'd also like to get to know you better", I answered "Oh no, that's alright, I totally respect that, I wouldn've asked if I had known that. Don't worry, it's alright. But can you do me a favor and not tell anyone at work? You know... gossip and stuff", to which she responded "Don't worry, I won't haha. I just hope things won't get awkward between us, because I really like you.". I said "Thanks haha. Also please don't worry or feel bad or anything, it's absolutely fine. Anyway, have fun at work! :)"
And eventho she had rejected me, which was quiet disappointing, because I really like her, I am still so incredibly happy about the fact that I finally asked her out. I couldn't even lose my smile on my way home. The thing is, that I would've regretted it so much more if I had never asked her out. Now I have an answer and can move on. It just felt so liberating asking her out, I even got a little confidence boost from it.
What I'm still curious about is, that she knew I was single but she was probably nervous on what to answer. But I still kinda got the feeling that if she had been single, she would've said yes
But I'll try not to cling to any hopes in that way and just continue working together. Also of course I won't pull any further moves or something.
It does seem like her response amounted to "If I was single, I would say yes, but I can't." Either way, she does like you and your company so, you can still be friends and enjoy each other's company.
Almost same situation going on with me right now. Almost to a T, except for the ending. We are both single and we're getting coffee tomorrow :) When I asked him if he wanted to get coffee sometime, he just smiled hella big, and looked at his shoes and was like "Yea.. yea.. actually. I would like that!" We are both very awkward around each other lol. However, he did mention that he may not be ready for "dating" but he likes me and wants to get to know eachother. (He was in a relationship for over a decade, they broke up in the summer). He also offered to give me his old drum set out of his garage, when he heard at work that I've always wanted to learn
@@TheEvergreenGirl1 Sorry I'm curious...How it's going now?☺️
Hey thank you for sharing this sweet story of yours. Hope you have a good day :))
u know your crushing hard when you end up watching tons of these until 3am
me
That’s me fr
Its already half past midnight, wish me luck soldier 😭😭
Normal people: *trying to see if their crush likes them*
Me: *trying to see if my crush can tell*
we’re on the same boat dw 😭
Me: *does both of these*
Me too
Me who sees this videos to know what to do so my crush can take a hint
Nobody even likes me, or I don’t crush on anyone but I still love watching this channel because it’s so good!!!
Lol right. I'm like who does these things around me? Nobody
@@justinjones143we are the chosen ones😂😂😂
Me watching this even though I'm scared of commitment and intimacy: Ah yes, I will definitely ask someone out if I see these signs
i think I'm embarrassed knowing how I acted when I find someone attractive, my voice changes, get nervous, and asks them about everything ksksks
I am currently succeeding in hiding my feelongs for my crush. One girl in my class even said "Everyones crush is written on their face except yours" I guess I am good at controlling myself
Update: We've been dating for a bit over a year! She's coming back in a week's time (we were doing ldr for 11 months).
Okay guys I confessed and guess what? We are dating now!
@@Telmuun_davaadalaiwtf! I'm happy for you😁
lets goooo
@@Telmuun_davaadalaiyes man, that's great. It going good
@@Telmuun_davaadalaiomg congratssss🎉! Any updates?
When they don't like you, but does all these things:💀💀💀
We’re in the same situation bruh 💀
It feels really good to listen to such things that will never happen in my life.
Decided to watch some of these videos with my crush and found out they liked me back too, thank you :).
OMG THE DETAILED EYES ARE SOO PRETTY
Ive learned that someone liking you and wanting to do what's necessary to date you are 2 very different things depending on the personalities present
Some people are confused by those emotions, possibly scared
It can be frustrating to say the least
"I'm right, aren't I?" Omg my heart😭
Ur voice is making fold pls😭
he looked at me with his dreamy gaze smile expression, I saw that when I caught him staring at me.
Here I am, watching this video in excitement to find out if my crush really likes me. Butterflies in my stomach, all tingly and warm.
Until I realize that she was just being friendly
Love hurts man...
Ong
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions.
I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count.
He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though.
Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot.
However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures.
I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back?
(P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
Btw, for you're situation:- Yes, love does hurt, but know that if its meant to be, it will. It'll not just pass you by.
I thought this for the longest time until she one day said to me she was a lesbian, she does all the signs that are said by this video to me, but im mainly in the dark about how she feels, we've also been shipped 18 times so far, and it is very annoying to explain. we gave known each other for 8 years and are best friends, but yeah she is very confusing sometimes, she also didnt even know you dont have to stick to a preference.
@@matthewmatt6 I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions.
I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count.
He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though.
Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot.
However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures.
I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back?
(P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
Could you do a video about having a crush you don't know super well? Most videos assume you are friends with your crush but that is not always the case.
Step 1: get to know your crush.
They absolutely don't love you back if they don't know you exist
This fact is only relatable in my dreams and imagination 😀
This channel just reminds me of how much have I missed in my life
One thing to add is when they keep asking just you about everything. Back when I was at work, this one girl always kept asking me about everything.
Of course I thought, well I was the most accessible to her. But after awhile alot of her other friends kept teasing her when she approaches me. Too bad I was too numb on the subtle signs. 😆
All my life I’ve been totally oblivious on the hints and hitting ons . And still do . Just don’t pay attention to such actions . Unless it’s straight up smacking me upside my head.! Hahaha.!
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions.
I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count.
He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though.
Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot.
However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures.
I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back?
(P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
@@anonymous.4643 I think he likes you. How exactly did you find out that he isn't interested in dating?
@@vibaj163 months ago, my friend asked her bf (whose kinda friends with my crush) and I got to know this. To confirm, I even had my other friend ask him (not in a suspicious way tho).
Btw, after todays incident, i feel a bit weird bcz idk if he likes me or not.
P.S.:- It'll also be nice if you could tell me why you think he likes me.
Today I saw him at school after so many days. After the exam was over, we made eye contact for just 2 seconds or something. We were with our friends so we were ig smiling and looking at each other from far. As soon as that happened, he said something to the guy who likes me (who was also beside him). Maybe he is just determined to set his friend with me...idk.
@@anonymous.4643 People only regularly glance twice if they are attracted. He may not want to act on the attraction. Have your friend and your friend's boyfriend draw him and his friend into a group conversation, and then you join in. That way, you will start talking to him and it breaks the ice. If he is interested in acting on the attraction, that opens the door.
I will forever be alone
The cheek to cheek smile is my natural smile, in photos I can’t see my eyes
Did I just click the first Psych2go video only to feed my delusions 😭😭😭
Yeah, she was giving off a few of these signs. We've had more than our fair shares of awkward moments. I even noticed recently she gives off a few clear signs. Well, I was a nervous wreck too. Yes, she's been giddy around me for some time. We have a few mutual friends but no one knows we're finally together. Last week on the 14th I had the nerve to call her up and it felt good that I did not just to say Happy Valentine's Day but to make it official, not just valentines but now she's my girlfriend. But still haven't had our first date or kissed yet, just long hugs and awkward laughing despite that we've been friends for a very long time.
Aww..! So cute. Im glad it worked out for you...all the best!
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions.
I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count.
He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though.
Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot.
However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures.
I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back?
(P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
My best guess would be he likes you but because his friend likes you and made it clear, he is staying quiet and not wanting to step on his friend's toes. If you actually like him, I'd talk to him when his friend isn't around and then make it clear to his friend that you're not interested.
@@____Paradox____ This reminds me of a mutual friend of mine the day I met my best friends mutual friend he wouldn’t stop looking at me multiple times for only seconds? The twist in this plot is that the mutual friend would only kiss my best friend when they’re both drunk and the day my best friend introduced me to him (mutual friend) is the day they also started to date and be official. I felt a weird vibe from this guy once I first met him, you know the feeling when you can feel someone stare at you but you physically don’t look at them so you don’t catch them doing the deed as you would create this awkward tension?! I’m not sure what’s going on in here but I’m going to see him again as my best friend mentioned that he wants to get to know his girlfriend (my best friend) close friends (me and this other girl) more up close and maybe I can confirm and double check that this time around that my gut feeling is true. I don’t like immediately judging people like this don’t get me wrong but my intuition and gut feelings never lied.
I've once blurted out my crush name by accident, and my heart dropped. I meant to say my friends name.💀
Got he or she on the mind sis/bro lol.
Sounds extremely mortifying-💀
@@cleverclovercreates3249 I wanted to collapse into nothingness. It was so embarrassing💀
I’m gonna confess to my crush tomorrow!!! I think he likes me back! Wish me luck! ❤️❤️❤️
There was this girl where I work. She was like 10 years older than me. She was the kind of girl that I'd be thinking something and she would just come right out and say exactly what I was thinking. She wasn't shy one bit. She would always invite me to have lunch with her. If I was off doing something by myself, suddenly there she was asking if I needed help. Sometimes we would have long deep talks about everything. She had no problems telling me about her sex life and things she liked/didn't like. She always smiled when she saw me and I often wondered if she was hitting on me. Then it got to the point where she would always hug me before she left. Towards the end she hugged me for much longer than what would be considered normal. I took this as a sign that she really liked me. One day after work we were talking in the parking lot after work and the conversation was just screaming with sexual tension. I tried to kiss her. She pulled away got mad at me and said how dare I. She said she was married even though she didnt have a ring on and would never be with someone like me. I apologized and tried to explain that maybe I had the wrong idea. She refused to talk to me the next couple of days. About a week later I found out she quit her job and I haven't seen or heard from her since. That was about 8 years ago. I never forgot her face to this day. She was the soul mate that never was
She def!! liked you and was hitting on you and deliberately wasn’t wearing a wedding ring.I hate!! when people do this and females are the worst at it.They want to flirt and have you flirt with them for attention but have no intentions of it going any further..
@@SarahWells777 tf you are absolutely delusional
You got played yet she played victim I say you dodged a bullet mate. Hoped you found someone better!
The truth is, I really want to make a relationship work, but for whatever, no one finds me attracting. I've learned to love myself, but others don't feel the same towards me. I've been praying to God and hoping one day, I would get a girlfriend who accepts me at least once in my life. A girl who respects me for who I am. Kind, responsible, determined, curious, and smart. Unfortunately, that moment hasn't happened and probably won't happen in the near future. 💔
you just have to be friends with them. get to know them better
i love you for them homie 😤😤
@@DanzyRemix ulterior motives
I’m sorry to hear that, truly. I’m going through something, relatively, similar. Waking up every day wishing to find the love of my life. But, you know what? Someday, in the most unexpected way, i will come across the man with whom I’d live the rest of my life with. He or, in your case, she will not be perfect (no one is rlly) but they will love us, and we will love them back. That, my friend, is enough. It doesn’t matter if it will take days, months or, even, years to finally become true. When it does, the world will find its colors once again.
Ps: not my native language, sorry for my poor grammar 😅
Love from Brazil ❤
life is unfair. if you are physically attractive, you get praised and have many people like, love, appreciate, and adore you. if not, you are dismissed and ignored by others, only seen as a "friend" or a side character.
The pupil thing had made my journey to self love so much harder, because I'd look in the mirror and they'd constrict. I try not to pay attention to my pupils whenever I do that now
Think of it this way, pupils dilate when there's sexual attraction, so you're just not attracted to yourself sexually. That's actually good tbh
@@gartharyes8211 I was thinking the same thing ☺️ Glad @jaren you are on a self love journey, I am too 😊
Don’t think of this as a failure to love oneself, pupils dilate and constrict for numerous reasons.
I was thinking about how hard it could be to have visible pupils, I like the anonymity of dark eyes personally
In the first few times I said Hi to my crush, I was sooooo nervous, even though I'm completely fine with other people
I think that’s normal
Idk why I watch these videos even tho I don't talk to any girls or even try to go talk to them lol
Your deepest desires seep through in this way
Can you please do one on Avoidant Personality Disorder and how to get over it or identify it?
The animations were so pretty 😌✨
Most dates get mad if I'm nervous or "shy" but maybe that's why they're 40 and single.
I'll die alone. the last girl I was with did this. then got what she wanted then left.... now she taken me to court. I'm just a complete loser. I need to let this out. This woman has made me feel like I'm unworthy no matter how good or nice I was I'm only good for one thing. I'm just a tool to women. I all ways will be. 😢 I'll just work come home. Be on this couch where I belong.
I didn't notice any of them from around me, and I probably never will, even from myself.
Thanks for this great video.
I think you should make a video about why we get upset when we see our crushs hanging out and having a good time with others. I currently have a crush and when i see them hanging out with someone else and laughing it hurts me more then i think it should. It also hurts to hear other people talk about liking my crush. Idk how to deal with these feelings so it would be nice if you could shine some light on it or something like that. Thank you in advance if you do make a video about it, if mot I understand. Have a wonderful day/night ❤️❤️
I recommend you read up on anxious attachment. Jealousy is one of the symptoms of anxious attachment. Also, you can look at possible abandonment issues. That too causes jealousy and clingy behavior. From a fellow anxiously attached human with abandonment issues ❤️
@@TylenOneal239 no not really. its a common instinct we humans evolved to protect people we like from others. its hard to explain, but its a necessary trait that all of us have and should have, it also strengthens social and emotional bonds. without it, we probably wouldnt have a specific person we love and like, only hundreds of people and choosing if one of those hundreds are the best in doing.. the thing. its why jealousy exists and its alot more useful than what society portrays. also without jealousy (and also greed) we probably wouldnt have technology, healthcare, and big communities and civilizations today.
i can relate alot.. half the time, my crush doesnt interact with other people and usually does her own thing, but when she does i feel a slight sense of jealousy. her interactions with me are a bit awkward and goofy, and with others its friendly. she has more fun with others than with me, and i feel a bit jealous because of that.
YALL SHE LIKES MEEEE LFGGG
not basing that off the vid, she made it pretty clear and i just needed somewhere to vent
That moment when you realize that your crush have these signs but not with you
:/
@@giugiuJuve they do be like that tho
"Whoooaaaaooohhh!"
i watched a bunch of these vids and i express most of these signs to a girl i like and am close with
she expresses 2 of above 27 with me (i counted)
damnit
@@levimurdoch3918 2 doesn't count, should be at least 3
I feel extremely called out
Don't do that... don't give me hope... 😞
Me writing this down for me and my bsf right now. OUR SINGLE ASSES NEED THIS
Thank you so much for the work you put in your videos❤️❤️❤️
As someone with Asperger's and a very low self esteem I believe that most people I interact with probably hate me.
I have no idea why I watched this… but I found it interesting
Yes so I am inviting you to come and get closer
I'm condemned to loneliness. Whether or not somebody likes me or not is irrelevant.
Same, it’s just me, my books, and poems :(
*all the signs*
“Wanna go out”
“no”
The animation around 6:10 made me laugh it was soooo cute! Love is so good. It's always exciting to fall in love. I just seem to have trouble keeping that vibe going or I ignore the redflags so much that I fall into a trap rather into real love. Sad but I've been working on myself.
"If they hug you longer than their other friends" me whos barley ever even so much as touched her shoulder to get her attention 😒
Obsessed with these lil characters
Gotta confirm that nobody likes me
Yeah no just popping in to get my hopes up at the same time as getting my hopes down
You know what's weird?
I get excited a little around her
Depending on the conversation i might feel high for the rest of the day
But im never really nervous around her
Probably because the person i created in my head isn't as intimidating as the real life person
This made me realize that I might have feelings for my best friend
I have a friend I know since we were kids. We were in highschool yet. Now that we finished school, I'm starting to realize I feel t h a t for her. I thought it was because I have some (damn) social anxiety, but the truth is that I care more about my appearance when she's around and I'm more nervous and emotional. Doesn't happen with others, just with her.
I've noticed that change of my way of speaking too, like if I'm imitating hers.
Btw, I'm a girl too xd. Surprise I'm bi now. And I don't know about her preferences, but I know she's very open minded and respectful. We have been interacting a lot lately...9 months, and I've started feeling that attraction. Also I've noticed she has some of the signs, but the confusion is that: 1. She's already a nervous person / 2. She's usually very kind / 3. She can even be very nice in order to not make a person feel bad / 4. Even when we trust each other in a certain way, I haven't seen any signs she might be interested in girls too. And since she can be very emotional (like me), I don't want to make her uncomfortable, or overwhelmed, or to ruin our friendship after all we went through. I would respect her answer whatever she says, but it's clear that she wouldn't look at me like before anymore. I don't want her to feel sad, guilty or disgusted. And also I know she dreams about having a husband some day.
That xd
Finding out if the pupils dilate when they look at you is hard when eye contact is something you struggle with
Lucky me because my crush at work blushes and giggles he also stays past his scheduled time on days I come into work night shift
The ones who are trippy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.
Nice video as always, keep it up!
I don't need to know this, because it's literally always just my imagination. No one really likes me. Even having a friend seems impossible. I'm 30 and always alone. I'm a human "doing" not a "being" anymore... What am I doing wrong, though!? 😢
This is great 👍, thank you for sharing it 😊
She has such a sweet voice
Probably I'll never need to watch out for these signs because I really doubt somebody likes me
But it still was fun to watch
I feel so lonely watching this-
Same
Honestly, I watched the whole way through because of that smooth voice. Not a woman, but I'd be jealous if I was
Their eyes dilate if they like you
My crush: *goes Herobrine *
Don't trust anyone, they will disappear if you don't give them what they want
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions.
I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times...maybe 30+ times at least...idk. I've lost count.
He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though.
Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out). He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy..? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere...like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot.
However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago). Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures.
I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back?
(P.S.:- Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to...Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
You could ask a friend to go and ask him if he likes you cause they noticed the eye contact, or you could ask him yourself cause if he does like you he's probably more nervous than you and if he doesn't it's just a normal conversation between you so nothing to be afraid of. I don't think it would reveal your crush on him.
@@koboldwizard That seems like a decent idea but he is always with his friends and tbh if I were him and if his friend came and asked, I'd just hide my feelings.
Also, today finally we saw each other after so many days.
(We had exams and our schools gonna end so we'll see each other only on exam days)
When the exam was over, we made eye contact for 2 seconds or something (We were far away).
As soon as that happened, he says something to his friend who likes me (who was kinda beside him).
So now Im thinking maybe he is just determined to set his friend up with me. Im loosing hope...lets see where this'll go.
Btw, thanks a lot for taking the time to reply! I really appreciate it.
@anonymous.4643 no problem, hopefully things turn out well
@@koboldwizard Thank you so much! If this'll be the last time we're talking, I hope you'll lead a good life!
@@anonymous.4643 I wish the same to you
Everything’s reminding me of how badly I want a friend. 💔
I want a good, trustworthy, reliable, caring friend. I want just one so I can be the best friend for them. One best friend I mean. 💔💔
I feel bad for you
Hi there, Psych2Go. Thanks for your videos, your channel really helps me though, hope your videos can help many other people. Thanks ❤️
Her voice is very soothing and attractive
In retrospect, I have a very, very hard time remembering many, if any, times when someone reacted this way to me, even when they WERE being very forward with their approach. In fact, it's been an awfully long time, and this list applies to *no one* that I know right now. ☹
Same brother man
I simply don't think it's possible to tell.
How about when someone tells you "We aren't compatible." Even though we had lotsnof fun dates?
thankyouuu!! now were besties
Thanks for letting me know that my crush doesn't like me.
What were the age ranges of the participants? I believe that with certain ages come different levels of reactions.
Also wondering how diverse were the group of participants.
I really like this guy from school. We aren't classmates but we have a class together. He is a nice person, nice to people, kind. I kinda have this crush on him since last year.
One day,in the break, I was with my group of friends but I didn't see him with his group. After 2min a searched again and he was already looking in my direction and then smiled at me. I smiled back obviously. It was so cute. We don't really speak. I don't know how. We liked each other's stories all sommer. How should I take this situation?
Update: I focused more on myself, and I don't like him that much enymore.
Ahaha, funny of you to assume anyone actually will ever like me when I've been rejected and led on a countless amount of times :')
In the end, there will always be someone out there for you. Keep your head up!
Don't worry there are like 8 billion people in the world, and you'll meet even more people as you live and do things :)
-Someone who is also single
@Cinna Nah, at this point I just learned you either have to force yourself to settle for someone you know you don't have any feelings for or just give up because even though they may be the one for you you'll never be the one for them and it's either already too late to pursue them or that they don't feel for you at all. Especially after my previous crush who used me as a side dude and dumped me over a year later I learned this harsh reality and just accepted that nobody would ever want to love me and date me. Oh well, at least alcohol will never leave me :')
Great video, now I know my crush don't like me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Don't worry I've got social anxiety, I'm nervous around everyone
me too 😭
people : someone like HIM
him: in CONFUSION
step 1: speak to your crush
I disallow myself to be attracted to anybody. Given the quality of modern people, there are far more chances of finding myself attracted to a negative person, than a positive person. This can be extremely dangerous. Thus, I interact with humans only in a manner that a client would interact with a service provider of merchant. I get to know nobody. I befriend nobody. I fall in love with nobody. To find myself attracted to someone constitutes a personal weakness on my behalf. I will never allow myself to be attracted to anybody ever again, whether for amicable or amorous reasons.
i really like this girl whos a friend of a friend but after 3 rejections from other girls I'm scared to ask her out
6:02 mini dance love it.
Nobody likes me. Nobody knows me to like me.
Nice I can now look out for the signs no one will ever give me ever
Your animation is so good that is sounds like therapy to me💯❤️