That's the ghoster basically.. everything goes so well you couldn't tell that anything was wrong, and then in a moment, they're gone. Nowhere to be found.
YourHomieHenry yes and no. That could be it. But my actor was sweet and kind. Then did a complete 180 and controlled my every second of every day, emotionally drained me, and didn’t understand what the word no meant. I think this is the kind of thing they were going for. A complete 180 to how their personality and actions appeared to be
@@blipster0074 Yeah keep it like that because having a crush on someone you know you don't have a chance with by even the slightest is the worst feeling in the world
@@HistoricBlock84 mhmm truth, but my recent one confused me cus idk they said they liked me while having another crush. Next day, they changed their mind and soon found out her other crush liked them back. Messed me up for months cus i desperately believed they liked me deep inside but eventually i contemplated that it's just unhealthy for my mental state. So that's another worst feeling, whole crush thing is not worth it
ok but can we talk about how amazing each of the individual crushes look?? They may not be great people, but *man* have they got AMAZING character designs
I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. More than half of romantic relationships end in a breakup/divorce. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing. It does seem that nearly all fathers are hoping that their daughters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life. Romantic relationships seem like a bad thing since there is a lot of dangers when it comes to them. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and this world would be a much better place without them. If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters ever dating if that ever happened.
Favorite playlist so far from this channel. I love this....rule of thumb for me. Don't tell the person you have a crush on, that you're crushing on them because it will not end well. Let their actions speak. It will tell you everything you want to know
Fun fact: The reason it's called "Crush" is because when you try to act on your feelings for them you are most likely to get "crushed" Note: Quite a few replies have been insulting me because "boys cant take a no" so just to clear things up: im a girl ??? and also i didnt comment this because i was salty i got rejected, dont take this comment as a "dont confess because you will get rejected" instead take it as a "take the risk because you will never know what will happen" so if you're thinking of confessing to someone take this as you're signal to go do it 😏
I love watching her videos bc she can help so many ppl and also hate watching her videos as it reminds me of when I was younger than I am now I would cheat,manipulate,gaslight people,etc. and I have apologized to so many ppl for how I acted back then and still do I definitely still have many problems but have worked on them alot and have improved alot and none of what I js said is trying to defend ppl like that its js saying that yes avoid those ppl but that they can change..❤
Had a massive crush on this girl this year... I always texted first, always initiated meetings, picked her up, drove her back to her place. She never even thanked me for invitations, never asked if I got back home safely, never texted first, always took hours to reply even though I know she's with her phone all the time. She always confirmed the meetings on the day they took place, like she was checking if she's not having better options to spend her time. Good that I finally gave up. She was surprised...
@@jelly458 I just watched a Psych2go video about the fear of intimacy and one of the signs I might have is that I am strangely getting attracted to people that are cold and distant to me... the moment someone shows me warmth and actual sympathy I tend to run away from them. But yes, things are better for me now. I stopped dating and started to focus on my own life and goals.
this video really opened my eyes, I've been dating this guy for almost two months now and in the start he was super kind and sweet but it went down quickly, for example when I was texting my friend he saw that I was online and texted me asking "who are you talking with?" I would respond that I was just texting my friend but he just would say that I should be talking with him instead and that I shouldn't talk with my friend because she could possibly get me someone else and ruin our relationship. It became constant and I'm very tired of it, I cannot go online without already thinking that I will have an argument with him because I was texting someone else, then he just says it's because he's insecure and he's afraid I might cheat... I definitely remembered him when the Isolater came because that's what he always says, why do you need anyone else when you have me?
@@ericaflylady2814 Thank you! I have broken up with him two months ago, and I'm happier than ever, I'm glad I got the courage to finally break it off with him
That's sounds uncomfortable 😕 just let him know you need time to regulate your feelings.. I think if he genuinely likes you, he will try to understand.
I didn’t realize ghosting people after finding out they like you is wrong. It’s just a way I’ve handled things since elementary, I didn’t know it was toxic. Thank you for telling me, I will be more considerate going forward
I didn't know I was actually the first type of toxic crush. I feel so bad for the person, I didn't think about her feelings either, and I thought it would be nice to ignore her rather than reject her. I feel deeply heartened
I was a ghoster too but only because I didn't want to hurt their feelings, I didn't want to say in their face that I don't like them, what I didn't realise is that it might've hurt them even more.. And I am really sorry about that, now if I'm not interested for whatsoever reason I tell them nicely and as gently as I can, just be nice to people, that's it, it would save us a lot of pain and enmity, even if they do get a little hurt they'll get over it easier especially if you're nice, closure is an important thing. I realised this because someone ghosted me too..
Honestly, I have done this, where I just completely ignored someone because I didn't want to reject them and seem like an asshole, little did I know I WAS being an asshole!
Ghosting is so shitty but its a easy way to go to "make things better" which is understandable but from my experience the person thats being effected by it gets worst by time. Please never ghost.
How about the crush you don’t want to like because there’s no way they’d like you back but you can’t help it so you give yourself a false sense of hope only to crash down later.
I was the ghoster one in high school because of my low self esteem and feeling of guilt for not being on the same page. They were all great girls i "had" to let go. I thought disappearing would be the easiest way for things to take their course. I didnt want to cause them pain. I figured if i took myself out of the picture it would be easier for them to move on and find someone better. I came to peace with the idea that if they resented me afterwards at least i wouldnt be an obstacle for them to overcome. I even was at a constant battle with my self for having my own crush. My heart and mind were at a constant clash. I had feelings i never asked for and didnt want, because i knew i wasnt ready and needed to work on myself. Crazy how that works... i knew my only out of that hole was to be rejected by her. So i asked her to reject me even if it was a lie. To my dismay...she didnt. They say time heals all wounds. I guess that came to be. Present day, i havent crushed in years... sometimes i wonder if that will ever happen again. Because of the fact that i know the mess i am... i cant say i regret the outcome. Its only logical all of those wonderful people are doing well for themselves without me nowadays. I wasnt worth the trouble. But now i know theres other ways to go about it. Communication goes a long way.
Now that is the craziest way of thinking I've ever heard. It's like you didn't want to allow yourself any happiness because you thought it was too good to be true.
You’ve been through a lot. Honestly I have a crush on a guy who ghosts me too. Like he is a super nice person and when we see each other it’s only for a few seconds but it makes my day seem brighter. But whenever I text him he only replies after hours and says he was busy with homework. I mean it’s okay but there are sometimes his texts are just dry like “K” or he says “sleepy, bye”. And it kinda hurts you know. I don’t wanna get false hope and go after someone that’ll hurt me. But seeing this from your POV makes me think i should be direct and understand him more.
@@Dinarydino Yes, be direct and try to understand why he's like this towards you. What I get from this is that he isn't interested in you, he sees that you're interested and doesn't want to build your interest more with him.
Another one: "Obsessive". First, you fall in love with them. And then, when your euphoria weaken and realize that you don't need them, they start to feed on you. I've had a few of those. When I told them it was time to end it, whether it was friendship or something more, they started to push pity. Involved their friends, all urging me to stay with him. He cried, he was hysterical, he said I was his air... I don't like that kind of crushes. They're the ones who become stalkers.
Jesus. Had a similar experience, and it was a mutual one at that. We had both fallen in love with eachother WITHIN 3 WEEKS OF MEETING. It was horribly fast paced. Suffice to say we were both unstable, but it became clear to me that my ex only fed on the honeymoon phase where it ruffled his ego up. Whereas In time I actually grew fond of him, and was ultimately used for that
Dont confuse the "isolator" with someone who just has your best interests in mind. Just like with a partner, others can see how bad people are for you, even if they are friends or family. Dont believe someone is toxic just because they want to separate you from the bad people in your life that you're oblivious to.
@@EchoAzurite Yep! Only go with what they're saying if it makes sense, and you can genuinely see why what they're saying is right. If they want you to ditch someone for literally no reason, like... "Oh, this guy's weird cuz he watches anime. You should ditch them and come watch marvel with me instead" That's a red flag
This actually really helped me realize that I'm toxic. I realize that I'm the Ghoster and I'm going to ask my best friend to help me with this. Thank you very much and I will work on this!
Yes! I wouldn't even realise it if someone didn't tell me that, bcuz I thought it's...ok? Like a lot of people do that so why not, now I see it's not like that👌
Its really nice from you that you admit you were doing something wrong (on a way it could hurt someone else) and that you’re trying to change. I totally support you and I hope you’ll be doing great with improving that🙂
“The isolator” is definitely a reg flag. A lot of girls have literal killed themselves by this. This is something that needs to end immediately if ur in a relationship with a isolator
@@lighthazard8166 Sorry, it's just that these comments really make me anger. I as a guy have been in toxic relationships and know how bad it is. Whenever people only refer to girls when talking about toxic relationships or similar stuff I feel attacked like, what happened to me doesn't matter? I say this because this person said that *girls* have killed themselves, not people in general. You can know a lot about someone by just watching how they talk.
It's not just girls who are victims of this. Guys can also fall victim to isolators in a relationship... But it's not talked about as much as it should
@@qorpsey8859 same like its the worst thing and she would always guilt trip me everytime i tried to tell her that she was wrong for controlling me like that tho i have successfully lost contact with her now
Instead of me liking “the bully”, the bully likes me. Just like how this type of crush acts, he also acts like a maniac to others who are younger or older than him (he screamed in a 7th grader’s ear..). We were together for 2 months, and I always have a bad feeling about his future actions on me and others. After leaving the relationship, I was finally safe. I can’t stop going crazy if he keeps bullying my friends..
I watched this as someone who has just gotten over a crush, and it wasn't the crush who was toxic, it was the people who supported our relationship. They tried to push us together too fast, and pressured us into doing things we didn't want to do to the point that we pretended we had done them already. It got to the point where I had to tell the crush that I wasn't looking for a relationship right now, and now my friends don't talk about us.
Oof, I'm really sorry to hear that. All of that outside attention and pressure must have been stressful to deal with as it built up. I wish that people as well as society as a whole could learn to respect such boundaries, because dating someone or not dating someone is very rarely if ever any third party's business, and it's not fair to the individuals who get caught up in all of that social pressure. I've had my fair share of being pressured into things I was not comfortable or ready for and had to deal with the anxiety that followed, so I know how it feels, though I've thankfully gotten better at standing up for myself and holding true to my boundaries because of those experiences. Everyone deserves to have their boundaries acknowledged and respected, and I hope that your friends either learn that or that you manage to find someone who has already learned that. You definitely deserve it, you wonderful human, you
This happened to me and a former relationship. It started before we even got together. I'm aro ace and the outside pressure made me get together with him, and pressure from the outside AND him made me do things I really didn't want to do.
As being someone who’s mostly asexual for reasons that shall not be explained if I may, it’s kind of hard for me to fully grasp the idea of these situations but I can say that forced relationships never really end well, you should always trust your gut/your knowledge of why exactly you like someone and stick to that, unless someone likes you which is different, but either way, I do hope you find someone someday lad
I once had a crush who would "play rough" with me by kicking me at the lockers with their pals. I never thought of it as abusive or toxic even when it seriously hurt at times and he wouldn't help or apologize. My crush was just way too big for me to see the bad in it. It was like a blindfold. But when my friends noticed and could see the toxic behaviour, they openned my eyes to the truth and I started backing away from him. I'm now in a happy and healthy relationship with a guy who knows my limits and respects them. For anyone who's going through the same or has been like me, stay safe and find someone who can treat you better, even if it hurts to let them go. Thanks for reading, have a nice day.
If your crush didn't reciprocate your feelings he could have just said it with his mouth,why use physical force?🤦 No wonder it's a toxic crush! Please always remember physical abuse is never romantic
Same I had a huge crush on this dude and I thought he liked me back he would push me and bully me saying things like I was fat or that I wasn't a girl because I was too flat and it really hurted my feeling to the point where my self esteem was really low
seven types of crushes u should avoid is actually: Grape flavour, diet orange flavour, grapefruit flavour, strawberry flavour, orange flavour, pineapple flavour and cherry flavour.
@@orangetreecko4919 i couldnt name 7 that were not actually good tasting. so i just named all the ones ik. so yea pineapple, cherry, orange, peach. actually taste good. the others. "you should avoid"
Okay, so, unrelated to what's being spoken about, but can I honestly just say how much I love how most of the crush designs appear very androgynous? A good way to subtly say that any type of person can be toxic. Also the designs by themselves are all really pretty, and make my heart go "ooooo"
Seriously...I've dropped several dramas because the male lead was too much of a d*ck that it pissed me off. Also the reason why I don't read almost any Manhua anymore. I don't know what it is about Manhua especially, but it's like they like their male lead to have the biggest ego in the world, also they always have to be stronger than the female lead- ALWAYS, and not only that but he has to be dominant af at all times toward the female lead. And then they copy all these traits and paste them for EVERY MALE LEAD EVER. I couldn't take it anymore. Yea there's a select few with actual good male leads, but how much shit do I need to taste test to get there...
You should get into all the ones in which Dr. Jordan B. Peterson instructs/speaks. The man is brilliant. I just wish he was a man of faith; he would be much happier if he knew there is more after this life, and that he will see his family again after they all leave this frail existence.
Brier-Rose HopeDiamond Religion and God isn’t for everyone. It may be great for you to have a faith you believe and trust in, but maybe for someone else, religion has correlated to pain in their past - even if not directly impacted by or related to - and thus the thought of a certain religion brings them distress. It’s different for everyone.
every gacha community overrated thing mixed up plot: ''i hat u'' ''but i luv you'' ''no ful'' '' :((((( *cries cutely* '' '' (that was hot and coote) '' at bully home :((( ''you butter abuse her or you get alchohol and drug force'' ''yes fathah/mothah'' ''don't bully me'' ''haha nub'' '' n o why me'' at hume '' *cuts* cut can't stay without bein off cute.... uwu depression is assthetic '' '' *sees her on widnwo* omg i feel sos dab!1111!!!!!!!111!!1! '' ze next day uvu '' i luv you do you want me as ur bf '' '' omg yes '' 10 years later '' will u marry me '' '' yas '' 4 months later '' i needdo go to beach '' '' okie doki uwu '' at beach bish '' oh luk @ my ex '' '' which ones '' '' you know the cars that go '' '' i hear you hit it!'' '' WE LIKE THE CAAAAAAARS '' technical diffuCULTies uwu '' when i was lesbian i was with gurl '' '' i was trans once and dated le boi '' '' seems like they together '' '' i got heartbrok 12 tiems in live '' '' i fel dab ;-; '' " holup dat mah brothah " " oh me good " " im gunna go buy lemonade " " o k " " P A P I T O " " ew an ugleh gurl " " l u v e m e " " no 💖💋 " " c h o c o l a t e " " omg she hut " " yas " " Kamukra kamukra yas queen " " why " " omg you're me ex " " GASP " " wow look the gay couple " " hallo my n-n-n-n-name is femboi and the gacha creators think im an cute beanie i luv twerking infrtont of alfaboi. " "Hi guys i am alfaboi and im gaye with femboi" " hello femboi and alfaboi how are uuu:3 " "Oh uh... W-w-w-were good." "You sound very sas" "No im hap" "I no trust e-you" "Im very hap i promise" "Prumisee meh." "Okaye...." "You guyth luk very familier" "I danno wae boot chu do to" (IM FRICKING TIRED IMMA WRITE THIS LATER ALSO IM NOT DELETING THIS TEXT)
I used to be the bully and somehow pulled an amazing girl to be my partner. Though, probably a month after we started dating she broke up with me. While she said it wasn't my attitude towards others (I had a HUGE soft spot for her), I can't help but feel that it was. The breakup left me devastated and took me a while afterwards to realize my bullying made me very unattractive, but when I did, it really humbled me. I stopped being mean to others and became friends with my ex, which I still am today! I still hate that I lost her. Edit: I have a girlfriend now!
Give her space though! Unlike what some believe, a way to a girl's heart is understanding and stability. If you stay friends for a while and show her that you are a good person, she will undoubtedly look at you again, unless there is another in her life. I'm sorry to hear about what happened, but I'm glad you are working through it! If you still dig her, drag up your guts and ask her out!
@Benjamin Tay nah some people who have crush on someone just keep it in a secret and dont tell anyone, not saying that some HAD a crush on you, but it is possible
I cheated on my partner about 3 years ago because he was physically, sexually, and emotionally abusive in the most extreme way possible and i was too afraid to break it off, but now i'm afraid that i might be more prone to cheating on current partners and don't want to get used to being dishonest...
Well that's the point they might be beautiful and attractive but they are going to hurt you a lot, that's why you shouldn't go just with looks when you fall for someone
My bestest friend falling in love with all the toxic people who either never respected her, or tore her self esteem apart. And then there's me who respects her boundaries and makes her feel safe and comforted.
idk how not to be a ghoster, my social awkwardness just lets me discourage myself from not talking to people. and sometimes i even do stuff i cant control. like instead of just saying something normal i say a insult or something, or just have an emotionless face instead of a happy one.
@@swinkerswonker2745 damn I feel you, maybe being more kinder to the person can prevent saying an insult and helping your social awkwardness steadily go away, pretty much just be yourself and be kind and I'm sure you'll be able to not be a ghoster in this way just gotta put the effort in it lol
Uhm.. thats me. I dont intentionally ghost them, im just scared of what im supposed to say so i overthink it. Example “Hey how are you!” *overthinks* “I’m g- oh shit it’s been a year” Pretty much all my conversations.
This is a very informative video, cause some people don’t know what their crush could be doing wrong. They only think of their crush as being this amazing person, that hasn’t don’t anything wrong, or maybe that it’s themselves that are in the wrong. I had a crush on this boy in middle school, and he was a ‘User’. I didn’t really think of it as anything, and thought he would like me by letting him use me, but at one point he went too far. I ran to the schools bathroom and cried so much that day. I told a girl who kept asking me what was wrong, and she wrote it down on a paper and gave it to the teacher. It’s been years since that happened, but its left a scar on me. For a long time, I thought it was my fault for being so weak, since I was already getting pushed around by others during my time in middle school. But now when I think back on it, I’m just mad at all those people, especially him, cause it’s been tough for me after that, and trying to be more positive towards myself. So please, be carful and watch out for yourselves.
ϬⲪ I’m not sure how much I feel this way now, but a few years ago, knowing that someone had a crush on me tore me apart. I became the first type of toxic crush in this video. I subsequently went through some tough mental stuff.
@@DrMd-jr3xt If someone is being toxic it's not your fault if you don't realize it, some people can be head over heels for someone and not realize how toxic they really are. I honestly hope you're better now because something like that honestly can affect your mental state a LOT, and it can hurt you emotionally too...
Yall, I had a crush on a girl and she liked me so we practically got together, and after a month she stopped liking me for no reason at all. You guys gotta watch out for these girls bruh 😭😭😭
I love your videos! But if you can, could you tell me if it is right or wrong to fall in love with a person who likes you but you only fell in love with them because you didn't want to hurt their feelings?
When you're accidentally a ghoster... I mean, it's not that i want to avoid my crush, but i feel like she deserve someone better than me. And i end up distancing myself before i even know it
You need to tell her what you really feel. I know it's tough, but you just gotta do it cuz it might be making her feel really bad as of now. You can do it!
Okay how are you doing that, I have a girl I really like but she is never reaching out for a text or anything, but in person she is super talkative. Also no way going out. I'm willing to break the wall that is keeping her so defensive but how...???
@@ceckolalovia this is gonna sound annoying but just go up to her and talk to her 🤷🏻♀️. It might seem hard but if you really wanna build up some kind of bond with her, you gotta put in some effort first. You cannot just expect someone to magically reach out lol. And before going out with someone, you have to get to know them well first. I suggest you try and hang out with her more often, get to know her better and then see if she might be interested in you back.
0:57 this visual little comic part here though! This HERE! I feel like it’s very often that people will have a friend who gives support and care, and the person will seek comfort from the friend, when often the friend has a crush on the person I know it sounds like a movie but this happens in real life more than you’d think.
@@davidthai5676 If you're at the point when you can just casually ghost people because it's too much effort for both you and the people you're ghosting, then it is likely that neither you or the people you're ghosting really care that much about each other. It's also one of my firm beliefs that you can have success without friendship or friendship without success, all of my friendships have been hollow since I moved away from home so it's a no brainer to me, almost half of my life has been spent here now so that's a lot of time to go with nothing but hollow friendships. I honestly don't think ghosting is as cruel as people make it out to be, especially if you're not ghosting someone you're supposed to be in love with, not talking to people at all is not as bad as lying to people, I'd rather be a ghoster than a flaker.
Who here met their crush this year? Comment below the first letter of their name ;)
I wish, I found out I’ve had a crush this year.
Me, *and I didn't like it-*
(it's an ex crush-)
Me, it was the worst experience ever... Agh stupid A
M
All of mine are fictional :,)
8. The Actor
The type where you won't see any red flags because they're good at pretending since they've done the same things before
That’s when you develop skills to notice when someone is acting. >;)
I'll watch out for them
That's the ghoster basically.. everything goes so well you couldn't tell that anything was wrong, and then in a moment, they're gone. Nowhere to be found.
YourHomieHenry yes and no. That could be it. But my actor was sweet and kind. Then did a complete 180 and controlled my every second of every day, emotionally drained me, and didn’t understand what the word no meant. I think this is the kind of thing they were going for. A complete 180 to how their personality and actions appeared to be
Omg ikrrr!!!!
Me who hasn't had a crush in 7 years:
"Yes, this seems like a good, _relatable_ video to watch."
Oof same but only 4 years for me
I've never had a crush in my life xD
Aiming to not have one for a long time
@@blipster0074 Yeah keep it like that because having a crush on someone you know you don't have a chance with by even the slightest is the worst feeling in the world
@@HistoricBlock84 mhmm truth, but my recent one confused me cus idk they said they liked me while having another crush. Next day, they changed their mind and soon found out her other crush liked them back. Messed me up for months cus i desperately believed they liked me deep inside but eventually i contemplated that it's just unhealthy for my mental state. So that's another worst feeling, whole crush thing is not worth it
ok but can we talk about how amazing each of the individual crushes look?? They may not be great people, but *man* have they got AMAZING character designs
Especially the humiliator, she was the narcissist in the one of the ‘signs of a narcissist’ videos.
My bisexual self: *bi panic*
* my lesbian self crushing on all the female designs *
the bully one was lowkey kinda fine tho
@@emiliasantos6638 I know right?
I'm glad my crush is kind, caring, funny, and supportive. And most definitely cute. They don't do any of these bad thing or anything else
Same
you're so luckyyyy
Ikr
I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. More than half of romantic relationships end in a breakup/divorce. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing.
It does seem that nearly all fathers are hoping that their daughters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life. Romantic relationships seem like a bad thing since there is a lot of dangers when it comes to them. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and this world would be a much better place without them.
If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters ever dating if that ever happened.
Mine too. But I haven't made a move yet...
“The Bully”
Those bully love stories: *Imma pretend I didn’t see that*
XD
enemies to lover 300k slowburn is sweating
LMAO
Drarry shippers, I'm looking at ALL of you!
@@mariunfabregas7533 UH HI- TOTALLY NOT LOOKING AT Y/N HEHE
Unused crush: The self pitier. They say bad things about themselves, and threaten to hurt themselves to try and convince you to date them
lol hate those ones
Fell for this one
Man this one's just flat-out annoying tbh
Roblox role players:
i have a friend that acts like that
1. The Ghoster 0:31
2. The Bragger 1:03
3. The Humiliator 1:41
4. The Bully 2:06
5. The Cheater 2:35
6. The User 3:15
7. The Isolator 3:45
Thanks for putting this together. This will get a lot of likes by the end of the day :)
Still pretty much fine 3 week ago ;)
@princess gamer My Bestfriend Has A Crush On One..
Best To Tell Him To Let Go Of Her
My crush doesn’t even know me :’D
Ah the ghoster sounds familliar-
W a I t
;-;
Favorite playlist so far from this channel. I love this....rule of thumb for me. Don't tell the person you have a crush on, that you're crushing on them because it will not end well. Let their actions speak. It will tell you everything you want to know
"does your crush just.. disappear?"
my cursh being in a whole ass different reality: yes.
BESTIE-
LMFAO IM SO SORRY THAT SUCKS
Hope you can visit soon!
@@exandier4810 what?
Wait I relate to this and had a crush on a character or something but I don’t remember who I had a crush on
@@Majin_Xavierras I assumed the OP was referring to reality shifting lol
Anime? Because yeah-
Fun fact: The reason it's called "Crush" is because when you try to act on your feelings for them you are most likely to get "crushed"
Note: Quite a few replies have been insulting me because "boys cant take a no" so just to clear things up: im a girl ??? and also i didnt comment this because i was salty i got rejected, dont take this comment as a "dont confess because you will get rejected" instead take it as a "take the risk because you will never know what will happen" so if you're thinking of confessing to someone take this as you're signal to go do it 😏
Well that's not very fun.
Well my feelings won’t be crushed because she likes me back
@@confusedcat4387 see you in a couple months
@Confused Cat
Me too, it’s a nice feeling
Ikr my crush liked me, my friend, my enemy and then dated my enemy! And he still likes me -_-
"Does your crush just dissapear?"
My crush doesn't even exist
Your lucky, unlike me knowing we can talk but she doesn’t respond 🥲
ME
Meee
LAMO same
Ur not a human...
I love watching her videos bc she can help so many ppl and also hate watching her videos as it reminds me of when I was younger than I am now I would cheat,manipulate,gaslight people,etc. and I have apologized to so many ppl for how I acted back then and still do I definitely still have many problems but have worked on them alot and have improved alot and none of what I js said is trying to defend ppl like that its js saying that yes avoid those ppl but that they can change..❤
Never put yourself in a situation where you are not sure where you stand in a person's life!
This is so true ;-;
I wish I saw this years ago...
But thanks for sharing this now then never.
but how can i prevent this?
Sometimes you just can't choose who you crush on
I do this all the time , it actually increases my anxiety.
Psych2Go: **has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute**
Romance dramas: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”
666 likes
@@untrustfulsoldchannel9238 not anymore 😔💔
Even the ones that don’t exist? 🥺😩
@don’t worry bout it BAHAHAHAHAHA
How about this one?
Psych2Go: *has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute*
FFs: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”
Toxic Crush Quote:
"I'm not ignoring you, I'm just waiting to see if you'll put in the effort to talk to me"
Woooah, word bruh
Good one ;)
Yea, i guess that's toxic
@@creativetech1701 Lol yeah
@Sinochi ! y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! wtf
POV: you haven’t told your crush you had a crush on them for a year until the last day of school:😅😅😅😅
Blud ive been waiting to ask my crush for 9 whole YEARS😂
How to avoid bad crushes :
Step 1 : Don't have a crush
A man of great wisdom.
I have followed this step since the day I was born and yes, this is great wisdom 10/10 would recommend
Well i have been doing that for awhile
Great
I can’t 😩
1. The ghoster
2. The bragger
3. The humiliator
4. The bully
5. The cheater
6. The user
7. The isolator
I got 💞the ghosted💞
And a person with all of the traits from all of the seven is a total narcissist.
wattpader : *clears throat*
@@lol-qb1ez sameeeeee 🤡🌹✨
I got a bragger for a crush and i got used DO NOT DATE ANYOME NAMED DEVYN JAYSON WILLIAMS AND HAS DITRY BLONDE HAIR AND GRAY BLUE EYES OK
Had a massive crush on this girl this year... I always texted first, always initiated meetings, picked her up, drove her back to her place. She never even thanked me for invitations, never asked if I got back home safely, never texted first, always took hours to reply even though I know she's with her phone all the time. She always confirmed the meetings on the day they took place, like she was checking if she's not having better options to spend her time. Good that I finally gave up. She was surprised...
Sounds bad.
Good thing you dipped. It's called self respect, my man.
Hope things are better for you now :)
@@jelly458 I just watched a Psych2go video about the fear of intimacy and one of the signs I might have is that I am strangely getting attracted to people that are cold and distant to me... the moment someone shows me warmth and actual sympathy I tend to run away from them.
But yes, things are better for me now. I stopped dating and started to focus on my own life and goals.
@@altair91100 awh that’s nice to hear :))
this video really opened my eyes, I've been dating this guy for almost two months now and in the start he was super kind and sweet but it went down quickly, for example when I was texting my friend he saw that I was online and texted me asking "who are you talking with?" I would respond that I was just texting my friend but he just would say that I should be talking with him instead and that I shouldn't talk with my friend because she could possibly get me someone else and ruin our relationship. It became constant and I'm very tired of it, I cannot go online without already thinking that I will have an argument with him because I was texting someone else, then he just says it's because he's insecure and he's afraid I might cheat... I definitely remembered him when the Isolater came because that's what he always says, why do you need anyone else when you have me?
make sure you break up with him
@@ericaflylady2814 Thank you! I have broken up with him two months ago, and I'm happier than ever, I'm glad I got the courage to finally break it off with him
"THE BULLY"
Wattpaders: nah, I'll pretend I didnt see that
Lol
Relatable
lOoL
True tho lmao
Lmfao tRUe
:>
My crush literally walks up to me and puts his arms around me. People tell me he likes me, and he just smiles. I don’t know what to say :(
aw
That's sounds uncomfortable 😕 just let him know you need time to regulate your feelings.. I think if he genuinely likes you, he will try to understand.
USERRRRRRRR
Maybe he’s not ready to admit his feelings.
Sounds like he likes you.
I didn’t realize ghosting people after finding out they like you is wrong. It’s just a way I’ve handled things since elementary, I didn’t know it was toxic. Thank you for telling me, I will be more considerate going forward
the bruh moment
@@bobukcs3353 huh
Sometimes, people notice that and feel genuine guilt. They return to redeem themselves, and I think something like that is worth acknowledging.
Look at you grow 💛💛
character development
I didn't know I was actually the first type of toxic crush. I feel so bad for the person, I didn't think about her feelings either, and I thought it would be nice to ignore her rather than reject her. I feel deeply heartened
Oh dear, me too. Someone texted me that they like me, so I got stressed and blocked the number.
I was a ghoster too but only because I didn't want to hurt their feelings, I didn't want to say in their face that I don't like them, what I didn't realise is that it might've hurt them even more.. And I am really sorry about that, now if I'm not interested for whatsoever reason I tell them nicely and as gently as I can, just be nice to people, that's it, it would save us a lot of pain and enmity, even if they do get a little hurt they'll get over it easier especially if you're nice, closure is an important thing. I realised this because someone ghosted me too..
same to me :(
Well at least you realized this and changed
A lot of times I’ve ghosted people because I just didn’t know what to say social anxiety sucks
Honestly, I have done this, where I just completely ignored someone because I didn't want to reject them and seem like an asshole, little did I know I WAS being an asshole!
Ghosting is so shitty but its a easy way to go to "make things better" which is understandable but from my experience the person thats being effected by it gets worst by time. Please never ghost.
"Avoid having crush with the isolator, instead have it with the conductor"
- science joke
After playing A Hat in Time, I did not read that correctly.
@@seaweeb2258 Holy crap, I thought I was the only one.
That's not isolator in science its insulator
@@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ ok
@@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ thank you
HELP- MY CRUSH IS THE FIRST ONE SHE MENTIONED. GUESS IM NOT ASKING HIM OUTT!
for anyone who needs this
"4. The bully"
You hear em! Now throw all those "I fell in love with my bully" books
It reminds me of Nagatoro
*looks at the bakudeku ships* ITS A JOKE BTW
G a c h a m i n i m o v i e s b e l i k e
@@yoongistoenailclippers LMFAO- WHY AM I LAUGHING - BakuDeku shipper
Dnf
How about the crush you don’t want to like because there’s no way they’d like you back but you can’t help it so you give yourself a false sense of hope only to crash down later.
😿
OML I FELT THAT
@Silver Fang sorry to here that. Mines just a popular guy, we’re kind of friends and talk but I don’t think he’d like me back
me with my straight friend thats now saying shes bi for me even though she has a boyfriend currently.... hahahah
I mean in some cases they do
Why are the designs for the crushes so cool tho lmao
@@dxstiny1055
No, just the characters in the video-
@Puppet Siddiqi 🔫
I don’t have a crush, I just watch this as knowledge to know for the future.
This is totally the reason on why I like fictional character
Edit: okay maybe that was a lie
same chiaki
**sad kinnie noises**
Now I love the person on your profile ! I actually just got done playing that game
Same.
Chiaki is always best girl
Because Chiaki makes real characters look like crap in comparison.
I was the ghoster one in high school because of my low self esteem and feeling of guilt for not being on the same page. They were all great girls i "had" to let go. I thought disappearing would be the easiest way for things to take their course. I didnt want to cause them pain. I figured if i took myself out of the picture it would be easier for them to move on and find someone better. I came to peace with the idea that if they resented me afterwards at least i wouldnt be an obstacle for them to overcome. I even was at a constant battle with my self for having my own crush. My heart and mind were at a constant clash. I had feelings i never asked for and didnt want, because i knew i wasnt ready and needed to work on myself. Crazy how that works... i knew my only out of that hole was to be rejected by her. So i asked her to reject me even if it was a lie. To my dismay...she didnt. They say time heals all wounds. I guess that came to be. Present day, i havent crushed in years... sometimes i wonder if that will ever happen again.
Because of the fact that i know the mess i am... i cant say i regret the outcome. Its only logical all of those wonderful people are doing well for themselves without me nowadays. I wasnt worth the trouble. But now i know theres other ways to go about it. Communication goes a long way.
Now that is the craziest way of thinking I've ever heard. It's like you didn't want to allow yourself any happiness because you thought it was too good to be true.
You’ve been through a lot. Honestly I have a crush on a guy who ghosts me too. Like he is a super nice person and when we see each other it’s only for a few seconds but it makes my day seem brighter. But whenever I text him he only replies after hours and says he was busy with homework. I mean it’s okay but there are sometimes his texts are just dry like “K” or he says “sleepy, bye”. And it kinda hurts you know. I don’t wanna get false hope and go after someone that’ll hurt me. But seeing this from your POV makes me think i should be direct and understand him more.
✨ L O N G ✨
@@Dinarydino Yes, be direct and try to understand why he's like this towards you.
What I get from this is that he isn't interested in you, he sees that you're interested and doesn't want to build your interest more with him.
@@Dinarydino Let me/us know what happens.
The artist who drew this can really draw, just look at the poses and character designs! Very impressive
Its Snuffysbox's art, they have a bunch of bases that are exactly like this and these drawings are some of those bases
fr
the humiliator is just ✨
Another one: "Obsessive".
First, you fall in love with them. And then, when your euphoria weaken and realize that you don't need them, they start to feed on you.
I've had a few of those. When I told them it was time to end it, whether it was friendship or something more, they started to push pity. Involved their friends, all urging me to stay with him. He cried, he was hysterical, he said I was his air...
I don't like that kind of crushes. They're the ones who become stalkers.
Jesus. Had a similar experience, and it was a mutual one at that. We had both fallen in love with eachother WITHIN 3 WEEKS OF MEETING. It was horribly fast paced. Suffice to say we were both unstable, but it became clear to me that my ex only fed on the honeymoon phase where it ruffled his ego up. Whereas In time I actually grew fond of him, and was ultimately used for that
I love this video but why's only one person talkin' 'bout the CHARACTER DESIGNS CMMCNXNC
Weeb detected lol
@@leahh929 You are very correct
IKR
I really like the bad boy and the isolater characters
@@oluchi5798 same
Dont confuse the "isolator" with someone who just has your best interests in mind. Just like with a partner, others can see how bad people are for you, even if they are friends or family. Dont believe someone is toxic just because they want to separate you from the bad people in your life that you're oblivious to.
If they explain it beforehand then sure
But if they start isolating you from others for seemingly no reason then it's bad news for sure
@@EchoAzurite Yep!
Only go with what they're saying if it makes sense, and you can genuinely see why what they're saying is right.
If they want you to ditch someone for literally no reason, like... "Oh, this guy's weird cuz he watches anime. You should ditch them and come watch marvel with me instead"
That's a red flag
YES! THANK YOU! FINALLY SOMEONE WHO GETS THE DIFFERENCE
Psych2go: Don't crush on these people
Me: crushes on them because of their great character designs xD
I felt that
IKR
There’s an artist @madhattey on Instagram that I believe is the animator! Her artwork is seriously amazing
I hate to admit it but I do the same
The humiliator was hot, like, like, likeeeee
Ok i think its time i say it. This RUclips channel is like therapy but online, I love it.
This actually really helped me realize that I'm toxic. I realize that I'm the Ghoster and I'm going to ask my best friend to help me with this. Thank you very much and I will work on this!
Yes! I wouldn't even realise it if someone didn't tell me that, bcuz I thought it's...ok? Like a lot of people do that so why not, now I see it's not like that👌
Its really nice from you that you admit you were doing something wrong (on a way it could hurt someone else) and that you’re trying to change. I totally support you and I hope you’ll be doing great with improving that🙂
@@janahorvat6271 OMG thank you!🥺💖💖💖💖 I'm flattered by your nice conment😂😅💖💖💖💖💖you look like a really good and sweet person!
@@АльбинаМ-и8я Aww, thank you too! And no worries, I’m just trying to spread some positivity😊💕
I do this because I have Asperger's. Annoying asf
"When you're looking at red flags through rose colored glasses they just look like flags." 😑
@Violet Ford lmao😭😂😂
7 types of crushes you should avoid:
*A boy named Ryan*
Who’s Ryan
That’s my brothers name... he’s really chill and nice tho
Like from the Office? Because that Ryan sucked.
What did Ryan do
my exes name is ryan... he cheated on me for his step sister
Can’t forget about the possessive, Obsessive, and flat out Yandere types
1 "the ghoster"
Well shit.
3 "the humiliator"
Well shit.
6. "The user"
WELL SHIT.
Yep
You still love somebody who humiliates you well that means I guess I should love somebody that’s tryna kill me RN 🤨🙂🙂🙂
double kill.
6: The user
**Vietnam Flashbacks**
NAH CAUSE LITERALLY
“The isolator” is definitely a reg flag. A lot of girls have literal killed themselves by this. This is something that needs to end immediately if ur in a relationship with a isolator
Yeah, because girls are the only ones who can be manipulated.
Everyone can suffer if they are in a toxic relationship.
@@lighthazard8166 Sorry, it's just that these comments really make me anger. I as a guy have been in toxic relationships and know how bad it is. Whenever people only refer to girls when talking about toxic relationships or similar stuff I feel attacked like, what happened to me doesn't matter?
I say this because this person said that *girls* have killed themselves, not people in general. You can know a lot about someone by just watching how they talk.
I agree, my crush isnt a isolator but i have isolator “friends” Its horrible but i cant get out
It's not just girls who are victims of this. Guys can also fall victim to isolators in a relationship... But it's not talked about as much as it should
@@qorpsey8859 same like its the worst thing and she would always guilt trip me everytime i tried to tell her that she was wrong for controlling me like that tho i have successfully lost contact with her now
The Toxic Crushes:
*1.) The Ghoster*
*2.) The Bragger*
*3.) The Humiliator*
*4.) The Bully*
*5.) The Cheater*
*6.) The User*
*7.) The Isolator*
*9.) That one guy in school who seems nice but his behavior is all over the place*
10.) The one that mental age is like 5 but is actually 18
11. The insane one
*12. The Killer One*
@@alter_jerry_conner5176 way to ruin the chain mate
Instead of me liking “the bully”, the bully likes me. Just like how this type of crush acts, he also acts like a maniac to others who are younger or older than him (he screamed in a 7th grader’s ear..). We were together for 2 months, and I always have a bad feeling about his future actions on me and others. After leaving the relationship, I was finally safe. I can’t stop going crazy if he keeps bullying my friends..
Me just having a crush on a fictional character like-
👁👄👁
Bokutos ass is my crush-
i can relate LOOOL
@@hyo_unbf bahahahahha
@@hyo_unbf I have a crush on salt😂
At least, our crushes can't avoid or break up with us, lol
1st Crush - He Used Me For Money.
2nd Crush - He Made A Fool Out Of Me.
3rd Crush - He Likes Me.
4th Crush - NO MORE CRUSHES DUDE
Why u no stay with 3rd crush
5th Crush - "I'm calling the cops!"
@@MasterIsabelle *I Have A Boyfriend*
@@pxstxlbxnny1930 bro then why you got a crush with a boyfriend frfr
@@AceBeamedYou I Mean- Idk- And Does Fictional Characters Count? 🥺😩
i like how psych's crushes doesn't only focus on one gender
Sorry i gotta ruin the 101 likes
There’s only male or female, you cannot turn into one or the other and you cannot just not be made or female
@@nukaberry447 Leave
@@nukaberry447 wha- that isn’t true...😭 i am very offended.
@@officialentrapta427 thank you 😊
Your voice is like asmr it’s so soothingggg
I watched this as someone who has just gotten over a crush, and it wasn't the crush who was toxic, it was the people who supported our relationship. They tried to push us together too fast, and pressured us into doing things we didn't want to do to the point that we pretended we had done them already. It got to the point where I had to tell the crush that I wasn't looking for a relationship right now, and now my friends don't talk about us.
Oof, I'm really sorry to hear that. All of that outside attention and pressure must have been stressful to deal with as it built up. I wish that people as well as society as a whole could learn to respect such boundaries, because dating someone or not dating someone is very rarely if ever any third party's business, and it's not fair to the individuals who get caught up in all of that social pressure. I've had my fair share of being pressured into things I was not comfortable or ready for and had to deal with the anxiety that followed, so I know how it feels, though I've thankfully gotten better at standing up for myself and holding true to my boundaries because of those experiences. Everyone deserves to have their boundaries acknowledged and respected, and I hope that your friends either learn that or that you manage to find someone who has already learned that. You definitely deserve it, you wonderful human, you
@@DrummerrDuckie Thank you so much for reading my experience and sharing your thoughts! This was really encouraging :)
This happened to me and a former relationship. It started before we even got together. I'm aro ace and the outside pressure made me get together with him, and pressure from the outside AND him made me do things I really didn't want to do.
Jesus your friends fake as hell
As being someone who’s mostly asexual for reasons that shall not be explained if I may, it’s kind of hard for me to fully grasp the idea of these situations but I can say that forced relationships never really end well, you should always trust your gut/your knowledge of why exactly you like someone and stick to that, unless someone likes you which is different, but either way, I do hope you find someone someday lad
I once had a crush who would "play rough" with me by kicking me at the lockers with their pals. I never thought of it as abusive or toxic even when it seriously hurt at times and he wouldn't help or apologize. My crush was just way too big for me to see the bad in it. It was like a blindfold. But when my friends noticed and could see the toxic behaviour, they openned my eyes to the truth and I started backing away from him. I'm now in a happy and healthy relationship with a guy who knows my limits and respects them. For anyone who's going through the same or has been like me, stay safe and find someone who can treat you better, even if it hurts to let them go. Thanks for reading, have a nice day.
If your crush didn't reciprocate your feelings he could have just said it with his mouth,why use physical force?🤦 No wonder it's a toxic crush!
Please always remember physical abuse is never romantic
@@swatisaini6447 Yea, I know better now.
@Jasmin Alramdhan bruh-
@Jasmin Alramdhan ... I 'unno, masochism just seems like a personal poison, in my opinion...
Same I had a huge crush on this dude and I thought he liked me back he would push me and bully me saying things like I was fat or that I wasn't a girl because I was too flat and it really hurted my feeling to the point where my self esteem was really low
“the bully”
me who has a crush on draco malfoy: i’m gonna pretend i didn’t see that
(thank god i’m over that now)
Hehe
Well, he's not a bully anymore
Same
I have lots of non-existed and i didn't even notice meT^T
Love your content! Your voice is so calm and beautiful and it makes it so easy to watch your vids! Absolutely love this channel, new sub ❤😊
seven types of crushes u should avoid is actually: Grape flavour, diet orange flavour, grapefruit flavour, strawberry flavour, orange flavour, pineapple flavour and cherry flavour.
@Baked Beans well guess what. that now makes 8 things u should avoid
WHAT DID YOU SAY ABOUT PINEAPPLE
@@orangetreecko4919 i couldnt name 7 that were not actually good tasting. so i just named all the ones ik. so yea pineapple, cherry, orange, peach. actually taste good. the others. "you should avoid"
Do you play genshin and if so do you wanna add me
@@amane3010 is random genshin players going around and comment to add them a thing now? but yes i play genshin
I love how they are assuming that my crush acknowledges my existence
ruclips.net/video/ar2UyGn27RU/видео.html
i felt that
I know man mine don't even talk to me
Same, mine has a girlfriend lol 😭 he didnt really know i existed until my friend told him 🙄 his girlfriend wants to meet me so um yeah thats scary 🫠
Personally, I view anybody who cheats on someone else in a romantic setting, as less than human, and no longer deserving of respect
Me who has a million crushes and have encountered every single one of them:
*EXPERT*
Expert mode: *activated*
Crutches*
I don’t want to mean but I can’t tell if you are telling the truth or liying
It’s called liking your best friend your used to being around 👉🏼👈🏼
Jack of all trades; master of none
"7 crushes you should avoid"
Me who never gets any: "man I am nailing this"
I- SAMEEEEE
@Madeleine L idk as i didnt write the comment, my perspective yes. i just dont get crushes on people idk why.
Same.
ABHAHA- SAMEEEEEE
I started thinking I had a crush but didn't even notice it from the lack of crushes
Okay, so, unrelated to what's being spoken about, but can I honestly just say how much I love how most of the crush designs appear very androgynous?
A good way to subtly say that any type of person can be toxic.
Also the designs by themselves are all really pretty, and make my heart go "ooooo"
i know! i follow this artist on twitter and they're so talented; their username is hatteymcgarbage!!
I WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO NOTICE
I agree. I like the character designs
im practically drowning in isolation now, WE STAYING SINGLE AND LONELY WITH THIS ONE 🗣🔥💯❗❗
'"THE BULLY'"
K- drama and c-drama fans: well suddenly I lost my sense
them c dramas forreal lol. i just recently got into c dramas and it's so different from kdramas, much more dominate male. I'm both shocked and amazed
Lmaoo true. Tho I'm glad they are showing healthy relationships in the recent years.
Seriously...I've dropped several dramas because the male lead was too much of a d*ck that it pissed me off. Also the reason why I don't read almost any Manhua anymore.
I don't know what it is about Manhua especially, but it's like they like their male lead to have the biggest ego in the world, also they always have to be stronger than the female lead- ALWAYS, and not only that but he has to be dominant af at all times toward the female lead. And then they copy all these traits and paste them for EVERY MALE LEAD EVER. I couldn't take it anymore.
Yea there's a select few with actual good male leads, but how much shit do I need to taste test to get there...
C drama sooo true like I cnat even explain omg 😂
You didn't have to expose me like that
These videos are the most informative videos on RUclips - honestly. Also the animations are adorable 🥰
You should get into all the ones in which Dr. Jordan B. Peterson instructs/speaks. The man is brilliant. I just wish he was a man of faith; he would be much happier if he knew there is more after this life, and that he will see his family again after they all leave this frail existence.
Brier-Rose HopeDiamond Religion and God isn’t for everyone. It may be great for you to have a faith you believe and trust in, but maybe for someone else, religion has correlated to pain in their past - even if not directly impacted by or related to - and thus the thought of a certain religion brings them distress. It’s different for everyone.
@@kayceequesadilla bruh
They really are adorable
I'm glad my crush doesn't fall into any of these. I'm gonna ask them out tomorrow. Wish me luck!
7 types of toxic crushes you should avoid
Me: My lonely ass watching this at 4 am :)
rookie number, only real lonely people (like me) watch stuff like this 24/7
Destroy the children
@@SpaceMonkeyBoi LMAO
I am watching at 2 am and this is the reasing I will never care about someone dearly
@@Ok-hr4oh Same dude
am i the only one who thinks that it can also apply for friends and not only crushes?
no, i think your right
yeah, that’s true actually
Most people here: * Talking about crushes *
Me: * Taking notes on the amazing art style *
Ngl it's really good!
The person that made this art is named Madhattey!
@@starphobia08 Ooh thank you!! I’ll definitely check them out! :D
Same, It just looks so FRICKING AMAIZING! >:3
IKR? I love it ❤️
I'm DATING 3 of these types in one 😭 gotta love the psychological torture and not having friends anymore and hearing "it's just a joke"
"The bully"
Gacha Community, wattpad:"ima pretend I didn't see that."
a c c u r a t e
I'm in the community and I hated the "bully" ones
every gacha community overrated thing mixed up plot:
''i hat u''
''but i luv you''
''no ful''
'' :((((( *cries cutely* ''
'' (that was hot and coote) ''
at bully home :(((
''you butter abuse her or you get alchohol and drug force''
''yes fathah/mothah''
''don't bully me''
''haha nub''
'' n o why me''
at hume
'' *cuts* cut can't stay without bein off cute.... uwu depression is assthetic ''
'' *sees her on widnwo* omg i feel sos dab!1111!!!!!!!111!!1! ''
ze next day uvu
'' i luv you do you want me as ur bf ''
'' omg yes ''
10 years later
'' will u marry me ''
'' yas ''
4 months later
'' i needdo go to beach ''
'' okie doki uwu ''
at beach bish
'' oh luk @ my ex ''
'' which ones ''
'' you know the cars that go ''
'' i hear you hit it!''
'' WE LIKE THE CAAAAAAARS ''
technical diffuCULTies uwu
'' when i was lesbian i was with gurl ''
'' i was trans once and dated le boi ''
'' seems like they together ''
'' i got heartbrok 12 tiems in live ''
'' i fel dab ;-; ''
" holup dat mah brothah "
" oh me good "
" im gunna go buy lemonade "
" o k "
" P A P I T O "
" ew an ugleh gurl "
" l u v e m e "
" no 💖💋 "
" c h o c o l a t e "
" omg she hut "
" yas "
" Kamukra kamukra yas queen "
" why "
" omg you're me ex "
" GASP "
" wow look the gay couple "
" hallo my n-n-n-n-name is femboi and the gacha creators think im an cute beanie i luv twerking infrtont of alfaboi. "
"Hi guys i am alfaboi and im gaye with femboi"
" hello femboi and alfaboi how are uuu:3 "
"Oh uh... W-w-w-were good."
"You sound very sas"
"No im hap"
"I no trust e-you"
"Im very hap i promise"
"Prumisee meh."
"Okaye...."
"You guyth luk very familier"
"I danno wae boot chu do to"
(IM FRICKING TIRED IMMA WRITE THIS LATER ALSO IM NOT DELETING THIS TEXT)
@@iliodora25 lol
Very accurate
I used to be the bully and somehow pulled an amazing girl to be my partner. Though, probably a month after we started dating she broke up with me. While she said it wasn't my attitude towards others (I had a HUGE soft spot for her), I can't help but feel that it was. The breakup left me devastated and took me a while afterwards to realize my bullying made me very unattractive, but when I did, it really humbled me. I stopped being mean to others and became friends with my ex, which I still am today! I still hate that I lost her.
Edit: I have a girlfriend now!
Aw. Well maybe tell her how you are a changed man.
Give her space though! Unlike what some believe, a way to a girl's heart is understanding and stability. If you stay friends for a while and show her that you are a good person, she will undoubtedly look at you again, unless there is another in her life. I'm sorry to hear about what happened, but I'm glad you are working through it! If you still dig her, drag up your guts and ask her out!
Ratio
@@goldenskull1667 ur mom😐
Idk why that's somehow sounds like movie💀🤡🤡👄
You cant be toxic crush if no one ever crushes on you lmao
@Benjamin Tay I usually unconsciously walk around with a angry frown and it turns quite a few people away 🤷♂️
@Benjamin Tay nah some people who have crush on someone just keep it in a secret and dont tell anyone, not saying that some HAD a crush on you, but it is possible
@Benjamin Tay shit i'd end up looking like a psychopath with the smiling.
*BIG* *BRAIN*
I wanna like but I don’t wanna ruin the perfect 400 🥺
I cheated on my partner about 3 years ago because he was physically, sexually, and emotionally abusive in the most extreme way possible and i was too afraid to break it off, but now i'm afraid that i might be more prone to cheating on current partners and don't want to get used to being dishonest...
4: the bully
Gacha tubers: I’m just going to pretend I didn’t see that
Lmao true😂😂
Lol true
Gatcha tubers be like:NO THATS NOT TRUE MY BF WILL KILL YOU
Dont forget to give them different colors for both eyes and make them secretly an angel who has fallen as a cool edgy demon
@@gonnagohate3230 they also have to be a big boy so big that they’re mom let’s them watch paw patrol now
This is why some people have crushes on their childhood friends. People who they can trust
me UvU
Yeah, if you had one.
@SHMOKEz whats ur freinds sexuality?
@SHMOKEz if shes lgtbq u might have a chance my freind
@@NinjonLazarus oof
The video: Avoid these people
The animators making them look as attractive as possible:
Well that's the point they might be beautiful and attractive but they are going to hurt you a lot, that's why you shouldn't go just with looks when you fall for someone
@@justanotherman6419 Very much a good point
King is the best character
My bestest friend falling in love with all the toxic people who either never respected her, or tore her self esteem apart.
And then there's me who respects her boundaries and makes her feel safe and comforted.
"1. The Ghoster"
Yep, that's the one
idk how not to be a ghoster, my social awkwardness just lets me discourage myself from not talking to people. and sometimes i even do stuff i cant control. like instead of just saying something normal i say a insult or something, or just have an emotionless face instead of a happy one.
@@swinkerswonker2745 damn I feel you, maybe being more kinder to the person can prevent saying an insult and helping your social awkwardness steadily go away, pretty much just be yourself and be kind and I'm sure you'll be able to not be a ghoster in this way just gotta put the effort in it lol
lmfao thats me
thats why i want to stay alone until i can change.
Uhm.. thats me. I dont intentionally ghost them, im just scared of what im supposed to say so i overthink it.
Example
“Hey how are you!”
*overthinks*
“I’m g- oh shit it’s been a year”
Pretty much all my conversations.
This is a very informative video, cause some people don’t know what their crush could be doing wrong. They only think of their crush as being this amazing person, that hasn’t don’t anything wrong, or maybe that it’s themselves that are in the wrong.
I had a crush on this boy in middle school, and he was a ‘User’. I didn’t really think of it as anything, and thought he would like me by letting him use me, but at one point he went too far. I ran to the schools bathroom and cried so much that day. I told a girl who kept asking me what was wrong, and she wrote it down on a paper and gave it to the teacher. It’s been years since that happened, but its left a scar on me.
For a long time, I thought it was my fault for being so weak, since I was already getting pushed around by others during my time in middle school. But now when I think back on it, I’m just mad at all those people, especially him, cause it’s been tough for me after that, and trying to be more positive towards myself. So please, be carful and watch out for yourselves.
So sorry that happened To you 😔 Be brave, you re strong ! Thank you for sharing this with us !
It happens to the best of us, quality people are not common but they always find each other.
Idk how my last comment came off but I wish you the best is part of what I meant
Hiya! What grade are you in?
Aww im so sorry you had to go through this nobody should use people thats horrible im sorry!
Bakugou Katsuki's fans when they see the bully one: "No, I don't think I will."
True lol
mad facts
Low blow lol
looool this is too accurate
Bakugo slander
Okay but the Character Designs are so good
Does anyone just watch her videos for the voice over. Like her voice is so soothing lol
yes i frickin love her voice its so calm
@@dego4578 ikr!
yeah its really sweet!! reminds me of bob
Check out Amanda Silvera's RUclips channel! She has one. Show some support!❤️
Yeah man her voice is beautiful
*7 types of crushes*
*me who doesnt even have a crush*
"interesting"
same
It's interesting the way you said "me who doesn't have a crush" hmmm.....
same (if anime boys don't count)
yeah, samr, lol
So that we know it when we have a crush 👀👀👀
“Everyone likes being liked.” In this context, that’s false.
ϬⲪ I’m not sure how much I feel this way now, but a few years ago, knowing that someone had a crush on me tore me apart. I became the first type of toxic crush in this video. I subsequently went through some tough mental stuff.
@@DrMd-jr3xt I hope you’re doing better now.
same bruh i hope your ok now ❤️
Not everyone yeah, but not entirely false. I like being liked.
@@DrMd-jr3xt If someone is being toxic it's not your fault if you don't realize it, some people can be head over heels for someone and not realize how toxic they really are. I honestly hope you're better now because something like that honestly can affect your mental state a LOT, and it can hurt you emotionally too...
I just love your voice it makes me feel calm❤
Vids: “avoid the bully”
Wattpad: *a story about a girl who fall for the bully/bad boy*
ACCURATE LMAO
Anna oop-
*wattpad and gacha
And gacha to they be like:
"Omg bully is mean"
Bully:"I bully cause I love you"
Tf?!
You're missing episode
@@myfuturelife4445 that moment when I actually liked these kind of gacha and still do
The bully: rude to others, hits, yells a lot
Toradora: imma pretend I never saw that
@Kayla Echols no I meant the anime toradora ahahah
Taiga isn't really a bully, more like an angsty teen. She's more mature after Ryuji and friends supported her and made amends with her family
@@xxprogamerxx7770 lmao I was joking ;-; hope I don't sound that dumb
@Kayla Echols She-ra and The Princesses of Magic? because if so they got together
Taiga is such a horrible girl, but the anime makes her bad behavior looks good
When your crush is fictional: 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
Mine is fictional bully. Shame on me.
i have one
Lol my heart broke 🤣😭🤣😭
Thats honestly so fucking sad
Ha,ha same ;-;
Yall, I had a crush on a girl and she liked me so we practically got together, and after a month she stopped liking me for no reason at all. You guys gotta watch out for these girls bruh 😭😭😭
Omg I love the designs of the characters 🥺🥺❤️
Me too! The artist is called MadHattey in case you weren’t already aware so you can check out more of her stuff
@Competition For LOST Yup, MadHattey
I accidentally read the thumbnail as “types of Crackheads you should avoid”
What's the difference? 😂
Noice
I mean.... what's the difference....
These replies have me dead 😂
NAH BRUH ILL RATHER DIE ALONE THAN HAVE A GF AND THEN GONNA LEAVE U ANYWAYS
OMG so youre telling me all my past crushes have been toxic.... no wonder things have never worked out
The porn bots ruin everything istg
I love your videos! But if you can, could you tell me if it is right or wrong to fall in love with a person who likes you but you only fell in love with them because you didn't want to hurt their feelings?
"the bully"
Gacha stories: I'ma pretend I didn't see that
lol
As an veteran and retired gacha user, this is gold.
I quit the community last year and I can relate
Good point 🤣
Gacha life makes me physically retract
When you're accidentally a ghoster...
I mean, it's not that i want to avoid my crush, but i feel like she deserve someone better than me. And i end up distancing myself before i even know it
Then TELL THEM
GODDAMNIT
Is it going to harm them? Yes, but better a stinging pain that ends quickly than a slow-killing poison that destroys them.
@@bbittercoffee well. You're right. Absolutely
Now, i just need to find the courage to tell them
You need to tell her what you really feel. I know it's tough, but you just gotta do it cuz it might be making her feel really bad as of now. You can do it!
Okay how are you doing that, I have a girl I really like but she is never reaching out for a text or anything, but in person she is super talkative. Also no way going out. I'm willing to break the wall that is keeping her so defensive but how...???
@@ceckolalovia this is gonna sound annoying but just go up to her and talk to her 🤷🏻♀️.
It might seem hard but if you really wanna build up some kind of bond with her, you gotta put in some effort first. You cannot just expect someone to magically reach out lol. And before going out with someone, you have to get to know them well first. I suggest you try and hang out with her more often, get to know her better and then see if she might be interested in you back.
HOLY CRAP ARE WE GONNA IGNORE THIS ART DESIGN?! I LOVE IT-
0:57 this visual little comic part here though! This HERE!
I feel like it’s very often that people will have a friend who gives support and care, and the person will seek comfort from the friend, when often the friend has a crush on the person
I know it sounds like a movie but this happens in real life more than you’d think.
number 1. the ghoster
me: Aw shit,
Bruh same, I just stopped talking to people because it's too much effort, and i gotta focus on studying now. But apparently I'm a ghosted :(
@@davidthai5676 If you're at the point when you can just casually ghost people because it's too much effort for both you and the people you're ghosting, then it is likely that neither you or the people you're ghosting really care that much about each other. It's also one of my firm beliefs that you can have success without friendship or friendship without success, all of my friendships have been hollow since I moved away from home so it's a no brainer to me, almost half of my life has been spent here now so that's a lot of time to go with nothing but hollow friendships.
I honestly don't think ghosting is as cruel as people make it out to be, especially if you're not ghosting someone you're supposed to be in love with, not talking to people at all is not as bad as lying to people, I'd rather be a ghoster than a flaker.
Last time I talked to the girl I liked it was in March and Rn it’s December, left that bitch
I felt called out by that one
Ghosting gang right here lol
Me who doesn’t have a crush: interesting
Edit: Holy shit! thanks for all the likes :)
Me who knows I have no chance with my crush interesting that's what it's like having a chance
Same lmao
When all of your Are fictional
Same😂😂
Same