7 Types of Toxic Crushes You Should Avoid

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  • Опубликовано: 17 сен 2020
  • Are you having a crush on someone right now and wonder if they are toxic for you? When you have feelings for someone, it’s easy to see everything they do in a positive light, but not every person you crush on is someone you should consider getting into a relationship with. For example, it is not a good idea to develop a crush on someone who treats you and other people badly. So to save you from being in a toxic relationship in the future and heartbreak, we made this video to help you identify the different types of crushes that might not be good for you.
    If any of these types describe your crush and you're looking for tips on how to stop liking them, we also made a video on that: • 10 Tips to Stop Liking...
    Credits
    Writer: Carley Swanson-Garro
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Murielle Lindsley Dela Rosa
    RUclips Manager: Cindy Cheong
    Resources:
    National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) or www.thehotline.org/.
    References:
    Dubrow-Marshall, L., & Dubrow-Marshall, R. (2017). When your life is not your own. Therapy Today, 28(9), 24-27.
    Johnston, P., Tankersley, M., Joenson, T., Hupp, M., Buckley, J., Redmond-McGowan, M., Zanzinger, A., Poirier, A., & Walsh, A. (2014). Motivations behind ‘Bullies then offenders’ versus ‘pure bullies’: Further suggestions for anti-bully education and practice. Education, 10(3), 316-325.
    Knopp, K., Scott, S., Ritchie, L., Rhoades, G., Markman, H., Stanley, S., Rhoades, G. K., Markman, H. J., & Stanley, S. M. (2017). Once a cheater, always a cheater? Serial infidelity across subsequent relationships. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(8), 2301-2311. doi: 10.1007/s10508-017-1018-1.
    Popescu, Adam (January 2019). Why people ghost - And how to get over it. The New York Times. Retrieved 29 April from www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/sm....

Комментарии • 22 тыс.

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 года назад +22799

    Who here met their crush this year? Comment below the first letter of their name ;)

    • @asquarededits9261
      @asquarededits9261 3 года назад +1080

      I wish, I found out I’ve had a crush this year.

    • @breadaroo
      @breadaroo 3 года назад +887

      Me, *and I didn't like it-*
      (it's an ex crush-)

    • @Roxyy_Foxyy
      @Roxyy_Foxyy 3 года назад +759

      Me, it was the worst experience ever... Agh stupid A

    • @Mi-Nasuno
      @Mi-Nasuno 3 года назад +475

      M

    • @signna
      @signna 3 года назад +1485

      All of mine are fictional :,)

  • @chungkrixx1279
    @chungkrixx1279 3 года назад +5919

    “The Bully”
    Those bully love stories: *Imma pretend I didn’t see that*

  • @chrissy1250
    @chrissy1250 3 года назад +32877

    "THE BULLY"
    Wattpaders: nah, I'll pretend I didnt see that

  • @mushforbrains.
    @mushforbrains. 9 месяцев назад +184

    I had a crush on this girl who had a very adult demeanour. We were in year 7 and she always talked about intercourse and adult topics. Being autistic, I thought this was normal. Then in March that year, I got a crush on her. I messaged her a lot, and confessed to her multiple times. She always said “I’ll think about it” and had crushes on different people every few weeks. Eventually we dated. She started sending me very s3xual messages so despite being uncomfortable I sent them back thinking that she’d like them. She then broke up with me by pretending to cheat on me then claiming the way I talked to her was weird, despite me only doing what I thought was correct. A few months after that, she posted screenshots of everything that I said, censoring the context and not showing her replies for her friends to see. When I tried to report it, obviously they didn’t care because she reported me first.
    if you’re starting highschool, do not be friends with someone who acts like they know everything about s3x. Stay with the people you know and trust. Or stay in your own personal circle.

    • @Taffy143_
      @Taffy143_ 6 месяцев назад +7

      I'm sorry you had to go through that

    • @DrXmaQueen.
      @DrXmaQueen. 6 месяцев назад +7

      So true thx for showing this bc kids needed to hear this (I am a kid lol)
      BTW DONT CALL YOUR SELF DUM OR AUTISTIC OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT BC THAT CAUSE MENTAL ILLNESSES OR DOUBTS AND I HATE THOSE
      Mainly bc I have a friend and her friend commited suicide

    • @emilyhemsworth77
      @emilyhemsworth77 6 месяцев назад

      Sex is fun though. Instead of criticizing women. Just clearly stay away from a grown adult woman. Geez, its not that hard. Go hang out with ugly woman even they don't talk about Sex. 🤔

    • @emilyhemsworth77
      @emilyhemsworth77 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@DrXmaQueen.I mean he is autistic and woman can also talk about sex. Its not that hard. There are so many gay people, transies, ugly girls you can have a crush on. Why not the woman who loves to talk about sex. Those type of women are known and just looking for mature men.

    • @lerolero6948
      @lerolero6948 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@DrXmaQueen. yk autism is neither a mental illness or an insult, right?

  • @JohnField-cr6tv
    @JohnField-cr6tv 9 месяцев назад +61

    To sum this up: make sure they're a nice, caring person who wants the best for you

  • @remyhavoc4463
    @remyhavoc4463 3 года назад +3838

    8. The Actor
    The type where you won't see any red flags because they're good at pretending since they've done the same things before

    • @epcza13
      @epcza13 3 года назад +169

      That’s when you develop skills to notice when someone is acting. >;)

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 года назад +42

      I'll watch out for them

    • @YourHomieHenry
      @YourHomieHenry 3 года назад +36

      That's the ghoster basically.. everything goes so well you couldn't tell that anything was wrong, and then in a moment, they're gone. Nowhere to be found.

    • @amberb.6395
      @amberb.6395 3 года назад +34

      YourHomieHenry yes and no. That could be it. But my actor was sweet and kind. Then did a complete 180 and controlled my every second of every day, emotionally drained me, and didn’t understand what the word no meant. I think this is the kind of thing they were going for. A complete 180 to how their personality and actions appeared to be

    • @user-rq3zy3li4q
      @user-rq3zy3li4q 3 года назад +4

      Omg ikrrr!!!!

  • @samdwimch7345
    @samdwimch7345 3 года назад +10257

    Psych2Go: **has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute**
    Romance dramas: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”

    • @untrustfulsoldchannel9238
      @untrustfulsoldchannel9238 3 года назад +50

      666 likes

    • @samdwimch7345
      @samdwimch7345 3 года назад +46

      @@untrustfulsoldchannel9238 not anymore 😔💔

    • @eatmyshortsnoobs3282
      @eatmyshortsnoobs3282 3 года назад +37

      Even the ones that don’t exist? 🥺😩

    • @kat74055
      @kat74055 3 года назад +16

      @don’t worry bout it BAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @rejilalohithakshan7620
      @rejilalohithakshan7620 3 года назад +72

      How about this one?
      Psych2Go: *has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute*
      FFs: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”

  • @droopystar
    @droopystar 6 месяцев назад +21

    i adore the fact you called out an isolator. As a half one, my issues are NOT purposefully and ive been working very hard. I try my hardest, and im glad you made this. :) your voice is very sweet btw

  • @C.D14
    @C.D14 9 месяцев назад +58

    Its not about beauty, its about personality ❤

    • @arnand6636
      @arnand6636 9 месяцев назад +8

      Hell naw. I am NOT dating someone unattractive.

    • @legosi2736
      @legosi2736 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly @aliyahrapahferenal216.

    • @legosi2736
      @legosi2736 9 месяцев назад +2

      I prefer personality over look's

    • @Sezaru29
      @Sezaru29 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@arnand6636💀

    • @SophiaTheSecond123
      @SophiaTheSecond123 8 месяцев назад

      HAHAHAH@@arnand6636

  • @jjmaybankswife4957
    @jjmaybankswife4957 2 года назад +7446

    "does your crush just.. disappear?"
    my cursh being in a whole ass different reality: yes.

    • @exandier4810
      @exandier4810 2 года назад +146

      BESTIE-
      LMFAO IM SO SORRY THAT SUCKS
      Hope you can visit soon!

    • @Majin_Xavierras
      @Majin_Xavierras 2 года назад +39

      @@exandier4810 what?

    • @oceanti6791
      @oceanti6791 2 года назад +63

      Wait I relate to this and had a crush on a character or something but I don’t remember who I had a crush on

    • @exandier4810
      @exandier4810 2 года назад +53

      @@Majin_Xavierras I assumed the OP was referring to reality shifting lol

    • @lightyagami8517
      @lightyagami8517 2 года назад +29

      Anime? Because yeah-

  • @T355V
    @T355V 3 года назад +3671

    1. The Ghoster 0:31
    2. The Bragger 1:03
    3. The Humiliator 1:41
    4. The Bully 2:06
    5. The Cheater 2:35
    6. The User 3:15
    7. The Isolator 3:45

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +481

      Thanks for putting this together. This will get a lot of likes by the end of the day :)

    • @Haventplayedgenshin
      @Haventplayedgenshin 3 года назад +39

      Still pretty much fine 3 week ago ;)

    • @Matthew-vs8iz
      @Matthew-vs8iz 3 года назад +18

      @princess gamer My Bestfriend Has A Crush On One..
      Best To Tell Him To Let Go Of Her

    • @gianragandan6532
      @gianragandan6532 3 года назад +19

      My crush doesn’t even know me :’D

    • @bozhanatoneva1973
      @bozhanatoneva1973 3 года назад +18

      Ah the ghoster sounds familliar-
      W a I t
      ;-;

  • @Mydnight21
    @Mydnight21 Месяц назад +2

    Favorite playlist so far from this channel. I love this....rule of thumb for me. Don't tell the person you have a crush on, that you're crushing on them because it will not end well. Let their actions speak. It will tell you everything you want to know

  • @ash1570
    @ash1570 Месяц назад +3

    I'm glad my crush is kind, caring, funny, and supportive. And most definitely cute. They don't do any of these bad thing or anything else

  • @abandonedchannel9803
    @abandonedchannel9803 2 года назад +3601

    "Does your crush just dissapear?"
    My crush doesn't even exist

  • @Ari-pf9qn
    @Ari-pf9qn 3 года назад +2928

    Me just having a crush on a fictional character like-
    👁👄👁

    • @hyo_unbf
      @hyo_unbf 3 года назад +40

      Bokutos ass is my crush-

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад +18

      i can relate LOOOL

    • @Ari-pf9qn
      @Ari-pf9qn 3 года назад +5

      @@hyo_unbf bahahahahha

    • @Ari-pf9qn
      @Ari-pf9qn 3 года назад +21

      @@hyo_unbf I have a crush on salt😂

    • @teenshii
      @teenshii 3 года назад +61

      At least, our crushes can't avoid or break up with us, lol

  • @AlfredMarionMartinezDucu-tu7fy
    @AlfredMarionMartinezDucu-tu7fy 10 месяцев назад +29

    👇people's who have no crush

  • @LennyTheHopeless
    @LennyTheHopeless 3 года назад +5891

    Me who hasn't had a crush in 7 years:
    "Yes, this seems like a good, _relatable_ video to watch."

    • @jyjaeskz
      @jyjaeskz 3 года назад +51

      Oof same but only 4 years for me

    • @stardust5606
      @stardust5606 3 года назад +135

      I've never had a crush in my life xD

    • @blipster0074
      @blipster0074 3 года назад +31

      Aiming to not have one for a long time

    • @HistoricBlock84
      @HistoricBlock84 3 года назад +35

      @@blipster0074 Yeah keep it like that because having a crush on someone you know you don't have a chance with by even the slightest is the worst feeling in the world

    • @blipster0074
      @blipster0074 3 года назад +8

      @@HistoricBlock84 mhmm truth, but my recent one confused me cus idk they said they liked me while having another crush. Next day, they changed their mind and soon found out her other crush liked them back. Messed me up for months cus i desperately believed they liked me deep inside but eventually i contemplated that it's just unhealthy for my mental state. So that's another worst feeling, whole crush thing is not worth it

  • @Son-Deniz
    @Son-Deniz 2 года назад +25766

    How to avoid bad crushes :
    Step 1 : Don't have a crush

    • @spoon4976
      @spoon4976 2 года назад +905

      A man of great wisdom.

    • @sponge8868
      @sponge8868 2 года назад +660

      I have followed this step since the day I was born and yes, this is great wisdom 10/10 would recommend

    • @rtertth
      @rtertth 2 года назад +174

      Well i have been doing that for awhile

    • @arianaganguly
      @arianaganguly 2 года назад +55

      Great

    • @cookie_crossing4020
      @cookie_crossing4020 2 года назад +68

      I can’t 😩

  • @keopijelli
    @keopijelli 4 месяца назад +4

    this video really opened my eyes, I've been dating this guy for almost two months now and in the start he was super kind and sweet but it went down quickly, for example when I was texting my friend he saw that I was online and texted me asking "who are you talking with?" I would respond that I was just texting my friend but he just would say that I should be talking with him instead and that I shouldn't talk with my friend because she could possibly get me someone else and ruin our relationship. It became constant and I'm very tired of it, I cannot go online without already thinking that I will have an argument with him because I was texting someone else, then he just says it's because he's insecure and he's afraid I might cheat... I definitely remembered him when the Isolater came because that's what he always says, why do you need anyone else when you have me?

  • @user-wx7go5vy8y
    @user-wx7go5vy8y 9 месяцев назад +3

    UR VOICE IS SO CALMINGGG

  • @user-dt8eu9wy9v
    @user-dt8eu9wy9v 3 года назад +3171

    1. The ghoster
    2. The bragger
    3. The humiliator
    4. The bully
    5. The cheater
    6. The user
    7. The isolator

    • @lol-qb1ez
      @lol-qb1ez 3 года назад +95

      I got 💞the ghosted💞

    • @Some-Rage-Inducing-Provocateur
      @Some-Rage-Inducing-Provocateur 3 года назад +75

      And a person with all of the traits from all of the seven is a total narcissist.

    • @444zza6
      @444zza6 3 года назад +46

      wattpader : *clears throat*

    • @thepettiestbitch7332
      @thepettiestbitch7332 3 года назад +6

      @@lol-qb1ez sameeeeee 🤡🌹✨

    • @EnosCountryballProductions
      @EnosCountryballProductions 3 года назад +21

      I got a bragger for a crush and i got used DO NOT DATE ANYOME NAMED DEVYN JAYSON WILLIAMS AND HAS DITRY BLONDE HAIR AND GRAY BLUE EYES OK

  • @goofser
    @goofser 3 года назад +1800

    Unused crush: The self pitier. They say bad things about themselves, and threaten to hurt themselves to try and convince you to date them

  • @Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire
    @Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire 9 месяцев назад +7

    When I have feeling for someone, I don’t want them to love me back. They are too perfect that I can’t reach….I don’t deserve them….I can never ask them to like me back else…..it’s too overwhelming for me😢

    • @Elthan-Fam
      @Elthan-Fam 14 дней назад +1

      As someone who's damn polar opposite of you, I suggest we should be friends and play roblox sometimes. Hahahahahhha

    • @Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire
      @Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire 13 дней назад

      @@Elthan-Fam lmao, if you want to that is

  • @DeffinetlyNotEgg.
    @DeffinetlyNotEgg. 6 месяцев назад +2

    THIS ART STYLE IS JUST AMAZING

  • @caseyperryx
    @caseyperryx 3 года назад +1886

    7 types of crushes you should avoid:
    *A boy named Ryan*

    • @justinpereira8589
      @justinpereira8589 3 года назад +42

      Who’s Ryan

    • @milodious6319
      @milodious6319 3 года назад +88

      That’s my brothers name... he’s really chill and nice tho

    • @Boondoggle4213
      @Boondoggle4213 3 года назад +44

      Like from the Office? Because that Ryan sucked.

    • @islandk.6917
      @islandk.6917 3 года назад +20

      What did Ryan do

    • @victoriawhite6157
      @victoriawhite6157 3 года назад +48

      my exes name is ryan... he cheated on me for his step sister

  • @xenongd6974
    @xenongd6974 3 года назад +861

    1 "the ghoster"
    Well shit.
    3 "the humiliator"
    Well shit.
    6. "The user"
    WELL SHIT.

    • @willamfitzgirld7111
      @willamfitzgirld7111 2 года назад +3

      Yep

    • @plou1858
      @plou1858 2 года назад +5

      You still love somebody who humiliates you well that means I guess I should love somebody that’s tryna kill me RN 🤨🙂🙂🙂

    • @simpyydimpyy4715
      @simpyydimpyy4715 2 года назад +2

      double kill.

    • @jessetheking5756
      @jessetheking5756 2 года назад +3

      6: The user
      **Vietnam Flashbacks**

    • @beidoulvr4217
      @beidoulvr4217 2 года назад

      NAH CAUSE LITERALLY

  • @P_stelz.
    @P_stelz. 9 месяцев назад +28

    I’m just gonna state my opinion. I don’t see how any one can manage to “fall In love” with someone who is clearly a jerk or a mental/verbal abuser. Physical abuse is harder to spot, so I can understand that.

    • @cg15150
      @cg15150 9 месяцев назад

      physical abuse is not hard to spot

    • @P_stelz.
      @P_stelz. 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@cg15150 ? Wdym? I mean, I don’t expect a physical abuser to just SMACK LIKE A FAMILY MEMBER OR SUM IN PUBLIC- how would you know right away?

    • @cg15150
      @cg15150 9 месяцев назад

      @@P_stelz. because the bruises r apparent

    • @P_stelz.
      @P_stelz. 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@cg15150 sometimes they aren’t. From what I’ve seen, a lot of people hide their bruises and scrapes and stuff with clothing.

  • @caidenrykerjaxjohnson2273
    @caidenrykerjaxjohnson2273 7 месяцев назад +4

    Not everyone deserves love.

  • @PlanetPsych
    @PlanetPsych 3 года назад +2010

    Toxic Crush Quote:
    "I'm not ignoring you, I'm just waiting to see if you'll put in the effort to talk to me"

  • @Therabeeee
    @Therabeeee 3 года назад +1351

    "The bully"
    Gacha Community, wattpad:"ima pretend I didn't see that."

    • @phantasm5840
      @phantasm5840 3 года назад +41

      a c c u r a t e

    • @misslove6693
      @misslove6693 3 года назад +21

      I'm in the community and I hated the "bully" ones

    • @iliodora25
      @iliodora25 3 года назад +17

      every gacha community overrated thing mixed up plot:
      ''i hat u''
      ''but i luv you''
      ''no ful''
      '' :((((( *cries cutely* ''
      '' (that was hot and coote) ''
      at bully home :(((
      ''you butter abuse her or you get alchohol and drug force''
      ''yes fathah/mothah''
      ''don't bully me''
      ''haha nub''
      '' n o why me''
      at hume
      '' *cuts* cut can't stay without bein off cute.... uwu depression is assthetic ''
      '' *sees her on widnwo* omg i feel sos dab!1111!!!!!!!111!!1! ''
      ze next day uvu
      '' i luv you do you want me as ur bf ''
      '' omg yes ''
      10 years later
      '' will u marry me ''
      '' yas ''
      4 months later
      '' i needdo go to beach ''
      '' okie doki uwu ''
      at beach bish
      '' oh luk @ my ex ''
      '' which ones ''
      '' you know the cars that go ''
      '' i hear you hit it!''
      '' WE LIKE THE CAAAAAAARS ''
      technical diffuCULTies uwu
      '' when i was lesbian i was with gurl ''
      '' i was trans once and dated le boi ''
      '' seems like they together ''
      '' i got heartbrok 12 tiems in live ''
      '' i fel dab ;-; ''
      " holup dat mah brothah "
      " oh me good "
      " im gunna go buy lemonade "
      " o k "
      " P A P I T O "
      " ew an ugleh gurl "
      " l u v e m e "
      " no 💖💋 "
      " c h o c o l a t e "
      " omg she hut "
      " yas "
      " Kamukra kamukra yas queen "
      " why "
      " omg you're me ex "
      " GASP "
      " wow look the gay couple "
      " hallo my n-n-n-n-name is femboi and the gacha creators think im an cute beanie i luv twerking infrtont of alfaboi. "
      "Hi guys i am alfaboi and im gaye with femboi"
      " hello femboi and alfaboi how are uuu:3 "
      "Oh uh... W-w-w-were good."
      "You sound very sas"
      "No im hap"
      "I no trust e-you"
      "Im very hap i promise"
      "Prumisee meh."
      "Okaye...."
      "You guyth luk very familier"
      "I danno wae boot chu do to"
      (IM FRICKING TIRED IMMA WRITE THIS LATER ALSO IM NOT DELETING THIS TEXT)

    • @allylovely
      @allylovely 3 года назад +5

      @@iliodora25 lol

    • @Shichi_arts
      @Shichi_arts 3 года назад +4

      Very accurate

  • @Jac2214onyt
    @Jac2214onyt 6 месяцев назад

    I'm happy people like you post these because they help me out emotionally which rarely happens in the real world. There was this one time where there was this girl I liked and I slid her a note, and she liked me back (or so I thought) and she seemed really committed but during the relationship I was really nervous to talk to her. When she told me that she didnt like me and she was doing to be nice I decided to not chase love anymore so I could not get my heart broken again. It's people like that that give love a bad name.

  • @chuckisnthere
    @chuckisnthere 6 месяцев назад +1

    i love how these videos have a different artstyle each time

  • @diligantlydistracted3542
    @diligantlydistracted3542 15 дней назад

    0:57 this visual little comic part here though! This HERE!
    I feel like it’s very often that people will have a friend who gives support and care, and the person will seek comfort from the friend, when often the friend has a crush on the person
    I know it sounds like a movie but this happens in real life more than you’d think.

  • @Shreksgyatt27
    @Shreksgyatt27 3 года назад +3986

    Me who doesn’t have a crush: interesting
    Edit: Holy shit! thanks for all the likes :)

  • @theshywolfie6655
    @theshywolfie6655 3 года назад +2833

    ok but can we talk about how amazing each of the individual crushes look?? They may not be great people, but *man* have they got AMAZING character designs

    • @dfquartzidn6151
      @dfquartzidn6151 3 года назад +130

      Especially the humiliator, she was the narcissist in the one of the ‘signs of a narcissist’ videos.

    • @donjohnston1536
      @donjohnston1536 3 года назад +74

      My bisexual self: *bi panic*

    • @rosemarie5719
      @rosemarie5719 3 года назад +36

      * my lesbian self crushing on all the female designs *

    • @emiliasantos6638
      @emiliasantos6638 3 года назад +60

      the bully one was lowkey kinda fine tho

    • @dfquartzidn6151
      @dfquartzidn6151 3 года назад +12

      @@emiliasantos6638 I know right?

  • @RileyWolfLynx
    @RileyWolfLynx 6 месяцев назад +4

    POV: you haven’t told your crush you had a crush on them for a year until the last day of school:😅😅😅😅

  • @KrowsVeil
    @KrowsVeil 6 месяцев назад +2

    Love your content! Your voice is so calm and beautiful and it makes it so easy to watch your vids! Absolutely love this channel, new sub ❤😊

  • @peecondom6729
    @peecondom6729 3 года назад +8372

    My crush is a 31 year old man that doesn't shower and likes cat- and he is an anime character-
    Edit: 1 year later and I still like him

  • @wisteriashika
    @wisteriashika 3 года назад +1154

    "4. The bully"
    You hear em! Now throw all those "I fell in love with my bully" books

    • @ascended1802
      @ascended1802 2 года назад +8

      It reminds me of Nagatoro

    • @yoongistoenailclippers
      @yoongistoenailclippers 2 года назад +20

      *looks at the bakudeku ships* ITS A JOKE BTW

    • @bestless862
      @bestless862 2 года назад +27

      G a c h a m i n i m o v i e s b e l i k e

    • @Mikaelaxie
      @Mikaelaxie 2 года назад +4

      @@yoongistoenailclippers LMFAO- WHY AM I LAUGHING - BakuDeku shipper

    • @daphneolivia6197
      @daphneolivia6197 2 года назад

      Dnf

  • @supersizedbannanaprivitedu8088
    @supersizedbannanaprivitedu8088 9 месяцев назад

    I like the design , it’s so good!

  • @03v45inroblox
    @03v45inroblox 9 месяцев назад

    Her voice is so calm!

  • @alfalifr
    @alfalifr 2 года назад +3060

    "Avoid having crush with the isolator, instead have it with the conductor"
    - science joke

    • @seaweeb2258
      @seaweeb2258 2 года назад +37

      After playing A Hat in Time, I did not read that correctly.

    • @seabass1428
      @seabass1428 2 года назад +9

      @@seaweeb2258 Holy crap, I thought I was the only one.

    • @TheGreatWallOfJapan_
      @TheGreatWallOfJapan_ 2 года назад +36

      That's not isolator in science its insulator

    • @leleste5465
      @leleste5465 2 года назад +5

      @@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ ok

    • @notrecognizedyt739
      @notrecognizedyt739 2 года назад +1

      @@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ thank you

  • @mxxriie2004
    @mxxriie2004 3 года назад +863

    "the isolator"
    Gacha kids with a yandere boyfriend: i'm going to pretend I didn't see that

    • @DUCKMANOG
      @DUCKMANOG 3 года назад +14

      Your comment speak truth and nothing less

    • @tsukasayugi4282
      @tsukasayugi4282 3 года назад +11

      vibes in slightly yandere
      I don't have a problem with people hanging out with my girlfriend but people have told us to shoot ourselves before and that was overboard

    • @wonderlandsshowtime
      @wonderlandsshowtime 3 года назад +8

      @@tsukasayugi4282 whoa thats very overboard

    • @deadaccounut
      @deadaccounut 3 года назад +6

      As a Gacha person:
      This is accurate

    • @Veriosity
      @Veriosity 3 года назад +3

      *Le gacha logic* ✨
      That's what they say.
      A
      *AND I TOTALLY AGREE WITH IT.*

  • @thatoneguyintheback123
    @thatoneguyintheback123 4 месяца назад +1

    Im really impressed by the art style

  • @Rubix_cube809
    @Rubix_cube809 7 месяцев назад

    Ok, for real, why is so calming? Like, currently, I’m trying to get to sleep, and.. how did I find myself looping this video?

  • @Chipsanimation
    @Chipsanimation 3 года назад +17152

    This is totally the reason on why I like fictional character
    Edit: okay maybe that was a lie

  • @cheesedoosh
    @cheesedoosh 3 года назад +1454

    You cant be toxic crush if no one ever crushes on you lmao

    • @bemotivated8443
      @bemotivated8443 3 года назад +12

      @Benjamin Tay I usually unconsciously walk around with a angry frown and it turns quite a few people away 🤷‍♂️

    • @twins2936
      @twins2936 3 года назад +2

      @Benjamin Tay nah some people who have crush on someone just keep it in a secret and dont tell anyone, not saying that some HAD a crush on you, but it is possible

    • @johnnycripplestar5167
      @johnnycripplestar5167 3 года назад +2

      @Benjamin Tay shit i'd end up looking like a psychopath with the smiling.

    • @moonchild8477
      @moonchild8477 3 года назад

      *BIG* *BRAIN*

    • @s0Cc
      @s0Cc 3 года назад

      I wanna like but I don’t wanna ruin the perfect 400 🥺

  • @NAH87245
    @NAH87245 6 месяцев назад

    omg you helped me so much i had crush on user and he / she just say : "busy" , "can you do the dishes?" , don't be lazy " and much much other thank you!

  • @Alex-jm4ed
    @Alex-jm4ed 9 месяцев назад

    Why is this so soothing to my ears

  • @katsudon7791
    @katsudon7791 3 года назад +731

    Psych2go: Don't crush on these people
    Me: crushes on them because of their great character designs xD

    • @koifish4276
      @koifish4276 3 года назад +21

      I felt that

    • @emanessa8795
      @emanessa8795 3 года назад +7

      IKR

    • @jilsanimated928
      @jilsanimated928 3 года назад +8

      There’s an artist @madhattey on Instagram that I believe is the animator! Her artwork is seriously amazing

    • @mediatorraptor3349
      @mediatorraptor3349 3 года назад +3

      I hate to admit it but I do the same

    • @iambutterpuppy1143
      @iambutterpuppy1143 3 года назад +3

      The humiliator was hot, like, like, likeeeee

  • @AmimeFanOver9000
    @AmimeFanOver9000 6 месяцев назад

    I love how this person is giving real red flags

  • @DocDoge.
    @DocDoge. 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hey bro, this helped me, tysm for recommendating this video😁

  • @hypercaat9531
    @hypercaat9531 2 года назад +8673

    Fun fact: The reason it's called "Crush" is because when you try to act on your feelings for them you are most likely to get "crushed"
    Note: Quite a few replies have been insulting me because "boys cant take a no" so just to clear things up: im a girl ??? and also i didnt comment this because i was salty i got rejected, dont take this comment as a "dont confess because you will get rejected" instead take it as a "take the risk because you will never know what will happen" so if you're thinking of confessing to someone take this as you're signal to go do it 😏

    • @yaboi4587
      @yaboi4587 2 года назад +328

      Well that's not very fun.

    • @confusedcat4387
      @confusedcat4387 2 года назад +230

      Well my feelings won’t be crushed because she likes me back

    • @douk990
      @douk990 2 года назад +212

      @@confusedcat4387 see you in a couple months

    • @jacklarson8049
      @jacklarson8049 2 года назад +41

      @Confused Cat
      Me too, it’s a nice feeling

    • @rainbowgirl3973
      @rainbowgirl3973 2 года назад +43

      Ikr my crush liked me, my friend, my enemy and then dated my enemy! And he still likes me -_-

  • @LogicPsycho1
    @LogicPsycho1 3 года назад +1312

    Never put yourself in a situation where you are not sure where you stand in a person's life!

    • @onlyhuman5669
      @onlyhuman5669 3 года назад +20

      This is so true ;-;

    • @marqueechan
      @marqueechan 3 года назад +17

      I wish I saw this years ago...
      But thanks for sharing this now then never.

    • @elmiyk
      @elmiyk 3 года назад +11

      but how can i prevent this?

    • @Sallyskin
      @Sallyskin 3 года назад +16

      Sometimes you just can't choose who you crush on

    • @ok.4877
      @ok.4877 3 года назад +6

      I do this all the time , it actually increases my anxiety.

  • @bruh5680
    @bruh5680 7 месяцев назад

    Ur voice is so calming i love it!

  • @AxlAro
    @AxlAro 7 месяцев назад

    you fricking do masterpieces so much-

  • @xxrandom_weebxx1989
    @xxrandom_weebxx1989 3 года назад +1478

    Most people here: * Talking about crushes *
    Me: * Taking notes on the amazing art style *

    • @Mianashya
      @Mianashya 3 года назад +19

      Ngl it's really good!

    • @starphobia08
      @starphobia08 3 года назад +29

      The person that made this art is named Madhattey!

    • @xxrandom_weebxx1989
      @xxrandom_weebxx1989 3 года назад +12

      @@starphobia08 Ooh thank you!! I’ll definitely check them out! :D

    • @sarahlange9029
      @sarahlange9029 3 года назад +3

      Same, It just looks so FRICKING AMAIZING! >:3

    • @windtoons5295
      @windtoons5295 3 года назад +2

      IKR? I love it ❤️

  • @divinity2306
    @divinity2306 3 года назад +18681

    When your crush is fictional: 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

    • @honey9060
      @honey9060 3 года назад +692

      Mine is fictional bully. Shame on me.

    • @Jewel_Man_Kisser
      @Jewel_Man_Kisser 3 года назад +189

      i have one

    • @vilscheonit8457
      @vilscheonit8457 3 года назад +204

      Lol my heart broke 🤣😭🤣😭

    • @born2ded16
      @born2ded16 3 года назад +223

      Thats honestly so fucking sad

    • @saney4728
      @saney4728 3 года назад +73

      Ha,ha same ;-;

  • @SebPearson-zw9iu
    @SebPearson-zw9iu 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks this really helped

  • @Limit_living
    @Limit_living 6 месяцев назад

    This voice helps me calm down

  • @ilovecheeseandtoesd834
    @ilovecheeseandtoesd834 3 года назад +763

    "7 crushes you should avoid"
    Me who never gets any: "man I am nailing this"

    • @gabi69420
      @gabi69420 3 года назад +8

      I- SAMEEEEE

    • @gabi69420
      @gabi69420 3 года назад +5

      @Madeleine L idk as i didnt write the comment, my perspective yes. i just dont get crushes on people idk why.

    • @yippeeyahoowoohoo
      @yippeeyahoowoohoo 3 года назад +5

      Same.

    • @eddroll9824
      @eddroll9824 3 года назад +2

      ABHAHA- SAMEEEEEE

    • @dogu_east4593
      @dogu_east4593 3 года назад +3

      I started thinking I had a crush but didn't even notice it from the lack of crushes

  • @Sghgyv
    @Sghgyv 3 года назад +514

    “the bully”
    me who has a crush on draco malfoy: i’m gonna pretend i didn’t see that
    (thank god i’m over that now)

    • @BytzDrawz
      @BytzDrawz 3 года назад +10

      Hehe

    • @Allucario
      @Allucario 3 года назад +9

      Well, he's not a bully anymore

    • @preciousmagpili1463
      @preciousmagpili1463 3 года назад +4

      Same
      I have lots of non-existed and i didn't even notice meT^T

  • @The_most-Enthusiastic_Loser1.
    @The_most-Enthusiastic_Loser1. 8 месяцев назад

    I LOVE THE WAY THERE'S SUCH A LIVELY AND INTRIGUING ANIMATIONS TO SUCH A PAINFUL TOPIC❤🎉😂😊🤩👌👏

  • @3DANimator.213
    @3DANimator.213 9 месяцев назад +1

    idk why but i kinda like her voice! It's so soft

  • @ochakouraraka3113
    @ochakouraraka3113 3 года назад +285

    "When you're looking at red flags through rose colored glasses they just look like flags." 😑

  • @iwontminddoingyou8857
    @iwontminddoingyou8857 2 года назад +1307

    '"THE BULLY'"
    K- drama and c-drama fans: well suddenly I lost my sense

    • @ahgazenity.aliverse
      @ahgazenity.aliverse 2 года назад +28

      them c dramas forreal lol. i just recently got into c dramas and it's so different from kdramas, much more dominate male. I'm both shocked and amazed

    • @webcomiclulu9056
      @webcomiclulu9056 2 года назад +11

      Lmaoo true. Tho I'm glad they are showing healthy relationships in the recent years.

    • @LennyTheHopeless
      @LennyTheHopeless 2 года назад +16

      Seriously...I've dropped several dramas because the male lead was too much of a d*ck that it pissed me off. Also the reason why I don't read almost any Manhua anymore.
      I don't know what it is about Manhua especially, but it's like they like their male lead to have the biggest ego in the world, also they always have to be stronger than the female lead- ALWAYS, and not only that but he has to be dominant af at all times toward the female lead. And then they copy all these traits and paste them for EVERY MALE LEAD EVER. I couldn't take it anymore.
      Yea there's a select few with actual good male leads, but how much shit do I need to taste test to get there...

    • @Yanniezzz
      @Yanniezzz 2 года назад +7

      C drama sooo true like I cnat even explain omg 😂

    • @jisooturtlerabbitkimseolam7888
      @jisooturtlerabbitkimseolam7888 2 года назад +5

      You didn't have to expose me like that

  • @Slayalldayb
    @Slayalldayb 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for being my therapist

  • @user-iv1no3xn8z
    @user-iv1no3xn8z 6 месяцев назад

    Even though I don’t have a crush, I love to watch these videos so I know that I’m not doing anything wrong and how I could be better.

  • @cinta4985
    @cinta4985 3 года назад +656

    Vids: “avoid the bully”
    Wattpad: *a story about a girl who fall for the bully/bad boy*
    ACCURATE LMAO

    • @ItsKim_Him
      @ItsKim_Him 3 года назад +4

      Anna oop-

    • @lil_is_dum
      @lil_is_dum 3 года назад +8

      *wattpad and gacha

    • @myfuturelife4445
      @myfuturelife4445 3 года назад +7

      And gacha to they be like:
      "Omg bully is mean"
      Bully:"I bully cause I love you"
      Tf?!

    • @remytate6498
      @remytate6498 3 года назад +2

      You're missing episode

    • @FarrahKeks
      @FarrahKeks 3 года назад +1

      @@myfuturelife4445 that moment when I actually liked these kind of gacha and still do

  • @lizz.303
    @lizz.303 3 года назад +1332

    4: the bully
    Gacha tubers: I’m just going to pretend I didn’t see that

    • @sudeshnaghosh2824
      @sudeshnaghosh2824 3 года назад +4

      Lmao true😂😂

    • @laziness852
      @laziness852 3 года назад +1

      Lol true

    • @kruzzz4852
      @kruzzz4852 3 года назад +30

      Gatcha tubers be like:NO THATS NOT TRUE MY BF WILL KILL YOU

    • @gonnagohate3230
      @gonnagohate3230 3 года назад +40

      Dont forget to give them different colors for both eyes and make them secretly an angel who has fallen as a cool edgy demon

    • @zomb2531
      @zomb2531 3 года назад +16

      @@gonnagohate3230 they also have to be a big boy so big that they’re mom let’s them watch paw patrol now

  • @imgood-sf6ty
    @imgood-sf6ty 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for showing this video

  • @diannasdaughters
    @diannasdaughters Месяц назад

    I'm definitely the user. whenever someone has a crush on me and i can see some advantage on them, like when they have money or a motorcycle, I would order them around. I'm not proud tho, but I can tell you more about this behavior.
    i was once a tolerant of poverty from my exes and I received nothing from them even if sometimes, they have something to share. i told my self that I wouldn't be a victim of poverty when it comes to relationships because it was hard and draining. that's why it would be refreshing for me if someone who has something courts me. I'd take advantage of them but I won't like them or something.
    that's why it is important for you to show absolutely nothing of your wealth or helpful skills (like drawing or writing ot whatever academically) to your crush when he or she is STILL a crush

  • @itsmsfantasy1608
    @itsmsfantasy1608 3 года назад +3011

    i like how psych's crushes doesn't only focus on one gender

    • @Shichi_arts
      @Shichi_arts 3 года назад +36

      Sorry i gotta ruin the 101 likes

    • @nukaberry447
      @nukaberry447 3 года назад +102

      There’s only male or female, you cannot turn into one or the other and you cannot just not be made or female

    • @officialentrapta427
      @officialentrapta427 3 года назад +174

      @@nukaberry447 Leave

    • @billieismybsf153
      @billieismybsf153 3 года назад +75

      @@nukaberry447 wha- that isn’t true...😭 i am very offended.

    • @billieismybsf153
      @billieismybsf153 3 года назад +58

      @@officialentrapta427 thank you 😊

  • @mr.dickbutttheog2064
    @mr.dickbutttheog2064 3 года назад +478

    Me: *Laughs in having fictional characters as crushes*

    • @glitchydood1558
      @glitchydood1558 3 года назад +5

      Yea lol

    • @justlearn7136
      @justlearn7136 3 года назад

      Ty Lee

    • @FarrahKeks
      @FarrahKeks 3 года назад

      I like your' profile picture! 😁 It's cute

    • @w1ll0w45
      @w1ll0w45 3 года назад

      SAMEEEE

    • @gilliancastle5106
      @gilliancastle5106 3 года назад +10

      I've literally never had a crush on a real person before. I've only had 2 crushes in my entire life and they're both fictional. The current one isn't even canon.

  • @gabrielisah703
    @gabrielisah703 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the tip, it helped❤

  • @Just_._M3
    @Just_._M3 9 месяцев назад

    Really good video
    Thank you
    You probably helped a lot of people

  • @z4c_602
    @z4c_602 3 года назад +1263

    7 types of toxic crushes you should avoid
    Me: My lonely ass watching this at 4 am :)

    • @aqsem9073
      @aqsem9073 3 года назад +14

      rookie number, only real lonely people (like me) watch stuff like this 24/7

    • @SpaceMonkeyBoi
      @SpaceMonkeyBoi 3 года назад +10

      Destroy the children

    • @z4c_602
      @z4c_602 3 года назад +2

      @@SpaceMonkeyBoi LMAO

    • @Ok-hr4oh
      @Ok-hr4oh 3 года назад +3

      I am watching at 2 am and this is the reasing I will never care about someone dearly

    • @z4c_602
      @z4c_602 3 года назад +2

      @@Ok-hr4oh Same dude

  • @Kindred_Lamb
    @Kindred_Lamb 3 года назад +1133

    "The bully"
    Tsundere enjoyers: Imma pretend I didnt hear that

  • @JunxiSalamander
    @JunxiSalamander 13 часов назад

    If I had seen this sooner, I wouldn't have spent half my 8th grade trying to impress my previous crush, but then again I made some really cool stuff to impress her, so it's kind of a win-win

  • @_Flower-Mouthz
    @_Flower-Mouthz 11 дней назад

    The fact my parents say like all of these to me DAILY says alot
    About how nothing is improving despite me seeking help for counselor my parents had multiple meetings with them where people talked to them for them to improve their behaviors and its still going on today

  • @Frrogss
    @Frrogss 2 года назад +2570

    My crush literally walks up to me and puts his arms around me. People tell me he likes me, and he just smiles. I don’t know what to say :(

    • @soup6752
      @soup6752 2 года назад +113

      aw

    • @VivianValeriena
      @VivianValeriena 2 года назад +414

      That's sounds uncomfortable 😕 just let him know you need time to regulate your feelings.. I think if he genuinely likes you, he will try to understand.

    • @lubercayesyes9401
      @lubercayesyes9401 2 года назад +46

      USERRRRRRRR

    • @moonstone4893
      @moonstone4893 2 года назад +134

      Maybe he’s not ready to admit his feelings.

    • @ashlankemp2400
      @ashlankemp2400 2 года назад +104

      Sounds like he likes you.

  • @LolaGirl257
    @LolaGirl257 26 дней назад

    I can relate to this from a 3rd person perspective. My best friend is crushing on a guy that I was in a toxic relationship with and I told her he's just a player who will break her heart and I told her this because I didn't want her to get taken advantage of like I did. She kept going after him even though I told her he was bad news and this has happened so many times, not with my exes but with types of people in this video. After a while realized that it was HER problem and that it doesn't matter what the person is like or if I warn her about what she's getting into because she just wants attention from anybody.

  • @Child-ec8vw
    @Child-ec8vw 8 месяцев назад

    Is this your real voice if it is your voice is really comforting

  • @ignoreme2275
    @ignoreme2275 3 года назад +757

    The Toxic Crushes:
    *1.) The Ghoster*
    *2.) The Bragger*
    *3.) The Humiliator*
    *4.) The Bully*
    *5.) The Cheater*
    *6.) The User*
    *7.) The Isolator*

    • @RiskierGoose340
      @RiskierGoose340 3 года назад +55

      *9.) That one guy in school who seems nice but his behavior is all over the place*

    • @LilCat_UwU
      @LilCat_UwU 3 года назад +48

      10.) The one that mental age is like 5 but is actually 18

    • @YourAverageNormalHumanBeing
      @YourAverageNormalHumanBeing 3 года назад +36

      11. The insane one

    • @pachimoki3679
      @pachimoki3679 3 года назад +35

      *12. The Killer One*

    • @Spring_15
      @Spring_15 3 года назад +20

      @@alter_jerry_conner5176 way to ruin the chain mate

  • @ellatheuntalented2126
    @ellatheuntalented2126 3 года назад +12782

    I accidentally read the thumbnail as “types of Crackheads you should avoid”

  • @JB2Rulz
    @JB2Rulz 8 месяцев назад +1

    Ok ik that the video is supposed to be helpful with other stuff, but GOD THE ART IS TOO GOOD

  • @2drippy697
    @2drippy697 6 месяцев назад

    You are speaking facts 🗣️🔥

  • @mehakverma7043
    @mehakverma7043 3 года назад +1173

    "the bully"
    Bakugo Fans: I'll pretend I didn't see that

  • @BlightedOmen
    @BlightedOmen 3 года назад +489

    The video: Avoid these people
    The animators making them look as attractive as possible:

    • @justanotherman6419
      @justanotherman6419 3 года назад +52

      Well that's the point they might be beautiful and attractive but they are going to hurt you a lot, that's why you shouldn't go just with looks when you fall for someone

    • @BlightedOmen
      @BlightedOmen 3 года назад +14

      @@justanotherman6419 Very much a good point

    • @samtheman5176
      @samtheman5176 3 года назад +2

      King is the best character

  • @sheslooking4me
    @sheslooking4me 9 месяцев назад +1

    If ur getting into middle school this will help alot bc most ppl get crushes in high or middle school

  • @army_blink6526
    @army_blink6526 6 месяцев назад

    Love can't be changed

  • @aseel7457
    @aseel7457 3 года назад +1258

    The bully: rude to others, hits, yells a lot
    Toradora: imma pretend I never saw that

    • @aseel7457
      @aseel7457 3 года назад +40

      @Kayla Echols no I meant the anime toradora ahahah

    • @xxprogamerxx7770
      @xxprogamerxx7770 3 года назад +30

      Taiga isn't really a bully, more like an angsty teen. She's more mature after Ryuji and friends supported her and made amends with her family

    • @aseel7457
      @aseel7457 3 года назад +2

      @@xxprogamerxx7770 lmao I was joking ;-; hope I don't sound that dumb

    • @lexie1287
      @lexie1287 3 года назад

      @Kayla Echols She-ra and The Princesses of Magic? because if so they got together

    • @carlogustavovalenzuelazepe5774
      @carlogustavovalenzuelazepe5774 3 года назад +7

      Taiga is such a horrible girl, but the anime makes her bad behavior looks good

  • @sabishi2000
    @sabishi2000 3 года назад +576

    *7 types of crushes*
    *me who doesnt even have a crush*
    "interesting"

    • @dego4578
      @dego4578 3 года назад +8

      same

    • @naucing6566
      @naucing6566 3 года назад +3

      It's interesting the way you said "me who doesn't have a crush" hmmm.....

    • @ramieru8117
      @ramieru8117 3 года назад +2

      same (if anime boys don't count)

    • @TWStimes
      @TWStimes 3 года назад

      yeah, samr, lol

    • @iaa.1o162B
      @iaa.1o162B 3 года назад

      So that we know it when we have a crush 👀👀👀

  • @henna6522
    @henna6522 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks now I know who to pick

  • @user-ox1ue9rl7s
    @user-ox1ue9rl7s 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the help I've just started midle school and this kind if stuff is starting to enter my life and it's just really scary

  • @Official_Acelynn
    @Official_Acelynn 3 года назад +751

    **laughs in having a crush on an anime boy**

  • @Dino-lw4mj
    @Dino-lw4mj 3 года назад +430

    Why are the designs for the crushes so cool tho lmao

    • @Dino-lw4mj
      @Dino-lw4mj 3 года назад +9

      @@dxstiny1055
      No, just the characters in the video-

    • @Dino-lw4mj
      @Dino-lw4mj 3 года назад

      @Puppet Siddiqi 🔫

  • @SirKingdomC
    @SirKingdomC 7 месяцев назад

    I couldn't read the words fast enough but overall, that helped me really well. i had a crush on a bully once but since you made this vid i dont like them now

  • @letran9446
    @letran9446 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for advice👌🏻

  • @loliliketoeatcake7654
    @loliliketoeatcake7654 2 года назад +2240

    How about the crush you don’t want to like because there’s no way they’d like you back but you can’t help it so you give yourself a false sense of hope only to crash down later.

    • @Nazia87_
      @Nazia87_ 2 года назад +30

      😿

    • @stewarthodge7634
      @stewarthodge7634 2 года назад +73

      OML I FELT THAT

    • @loliliketoeatcake7654
      @loliliketoeatcake7654 2 года назад +26

      @Silver Fang sorry to here that. Mines just a popular guy, we’re kind of friends and talk but I don’t think he’d like me back

    • @baleighwilliamson7332
      @baleighwilliamson7332 2 года назад +10

      me with my straight friend thats now saying shes bi for me even though she has a boyfriend currently.... hahahah

    • @lavalodong2473
      @lavalodong2473 2 года назад +1

      I mean in some cases they do