Dealing With Red Pill Rage
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- In this video I deal with the issue of red pill rage, and how men should embrace the new found authenticity in their lives the red pill brings.
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Entrepreneurs in Cars i like your sweater and your sleeveless jacket.
What kind of reactions from women do you get when they figure out what the red pill is and how they are exposed for what they are?
Entrepreneurs in Cars jeez dude be careful when driving out in that weather, jobs are not more important than your life
thanx sir..lov from india
I'd say red pill rage comes from ralising that 99% of people out there are controlled by their unconsciousness, they never question anything, nor understand things differently, they don't think anything through actually. That's why all women always want the same thing. It's not something exclusive of women, I'd say it's something that men also do. I call it stupidity.
That's why we've got the society we've got and the systems (politics, economics, etc) in place, that clearly fail.
It's a very dark theory that few people know about, and that a very old philosopher wrote about, and it goes like this: "If you realise how many people out there are actually brainless, soulless biological robots imitating humans, you'll go crazy". And that's why women want X thing in a man without being realistic, it's not conscious thinking, it's prioritizing at a base physical natural level like instead of a human there is an animal with certain patterns and rules to follow, that people with the red pill can exploit because they always have the same reaction to the same actions.
I know, I've gone far away, but ever since I read about it, I can't get it out of my head, since everything is explained with that one theory, just that women and all the red pill thing is just a little part of the whole thing, a little hint more.
A smart man learns from his mistake, a wise man learns from other peoples mistakes.
I guess that makes me a very, very smart man.
Otto von Bismark
Watched my best friend get married and immediality divorced while i was in the process of planning a proposal to a girl I was with at the time, were both under 20. Totally ditched that idea after i saw that.
Do not quote out of context.
Wisdom comes from personal experience and shared experience, as individuals and situations are complex and unique although it all seems the same..
I am 35. No kids, never been married. I have Red Pill rage. Well had... I found myself arguing with women. Expressing nothing but facts. But realizing. It is pointless to argue with them. Never again. Thanks. I know how to fight this.
I am currently going thru the same thing here. Three kids,,16,18,20...and my soon to be x has all the right answers as to why our marrige has failed. I was extreme blue pilled but have recently gone red pill,,or learning it. I simply cant believe in all of my 48 years that i am the whole problem,always have been,and always will be...according to her. I will come back from this..I will not waver, I will not quit..and i will succeed at being the best version of myself and finally make myself my own mental point of origin..and make my dent in the universe..as small as it may be
. Its my time this time.
"What was not learned through reason, can not be argued with reason." - Nietzsche
God, too true. You never argue with them. They don't have self-insight or accountability, and are simply obeying their genetic interests.
@@michaelschubert4636 Hope you are doing well. How have you progressed since you made this post please?
Don’t talk about fight club
This is the biggest problem in the red pill community. A lot of guys swallow the pill, reject it, and become bitter, angry, and hateful. If you hate women after swallowing the pill, you are doing it wrong.
You can't get upset when women do what comes naturally. Might as well yell at birds for flying.
TheSebi23 And this, ladies and gentlemen, is the perfect example of the angry, incel, red-piller. You're an idiot, shut up.
Antonio L Oh ,and I'm an incel for forcing women to have responsibility for their actions, otherwise they can give up their rights and go back to kitchen?
Tell me , how are you different from a white knight or a tradcon, who both throw all the responsibility on the collective backs of men , while women get to enjoy all the power and none of the responsibility attached to it ?
I hated women b4 the red pill now i hate em with a passion
Im a woman & I disagree with u. Using & manipulating a human being should NOT come naturally to anyone. And not all women are like that. Im not and neither are my 2 sisters. I have always worked & contributed to my home/marriage. I think it has a lot to do with upbringing and the culture that some women subscribe to. I dont discount ur personal experience and I realize that there are many women with the mindset that its ok to manipulate men, to use them as there own personal piggy bank. That behavior while reprehensible, could not be so pervasive and widespread if men weren't contributing to it in some way. Men have enabled women to use them for money. Dont think so? Look at all the "mid-lifers" out there with exotic cars making it rain around women who wouldnt give them a second look if they didnt see all that cash first. I went on a date with a man who complained about "wanting to meet a woman who wanted him for HIM and not his money" I said "Well thats easy enough to remedy . . . stop advertising ur wealth" He asked what I meant. I said "since I sat down all u have talked about is ur wealth . . . ur summer home, ur winter residence, ur fully stocked 4 car garage and oh yeah, ur "Piper blah, blah, blah that u fly personally to visit ur son at his college." Then I reminded him that before the date he mentioned that we have children in common but he never once talked about them - only his possessions. He couldve talked about his kids, his work, the weather any number of things. But he didnt. He wanted me to get the message that he had Bank. I thanked him for dinner but politely declined a second date & responded honestly when he asked 'why not?' I replied "men who flaunt their wealth are in the market for another possession and they generally attract a woman who is willing to sell herself to the highest bidder - and thats not me. But I have a feeling that u two will absolutely find each other . . . its inevitable."
“Women love opportunistically” One of the realest quotes you will ever hear. 💯 Thank you 🙏 for saying that.
Why do people rage over reality. Accept it and use the knowledge to benefit yourself.
Alexander Hsiung
It’s a reaction
Eventually we all will accept it but you gotta understand that it might take a while to digest the reality
They rage because everything they looked forward to doesn't exist.
Their dreams shattered, everything they planned for is just some fantasies that never come to be truth, and it hurt.
It's not just the rage, it's the difficulty of maintaining such a paradoxical relationship, where you're supposed to understand it as love but then also as the person not giving a damn if you can't pay up, and you're supposed to pretend in your mind that they do love you and that you can get attached to them, all whilst adapting to what they want, baring in mind that if you don't they'll leave you... it's like walking up a tight-rope of sanity, there's something not quite right about the whole thing to be able to have much to benefit from if it doesn't work out.
Does this not make you just as bad as they are? Selfishness and narcissistic behavior will be the death of our species.
Single never married no kids....older now like it. Introvert here. Keep up the great info thumbs up
Hey Jeff, I'm also single, never married, and no kids. I'm 32 yrs old and although there are times when life can get a little lonely, it's not because I have no woman in my life. It's because I'm early in my journey down the rabbit hole, and I have yet to become the independent force of power that I eventually hope to become.
I have learned that if you place your potential for happiness in the hands of others, you're setting yourself up to be let-down. Don't allow another person to have that much power over you, fellas. Strive to become the best version of yourself that you can.
36. Call me Geralt of Rivia, never going to get married.
Does it get lonely
Fearnoevil2017 yes
Fearnoevil2017
Not really. doing what you want is far better than doing what a woman wants. Having a woman means either being a rigid ruler or being her slave depending on how the dynamic works out. Being a ruler is stressful and being a slave sucks.
+Entrepreneurs in Cars:
- Most men have been raised by women. Red pill rage is almost inevitable🤬
1. I strongly suggest a disconnect from women energy (especially your mom, she’s not representative of the women you’ll meet)🤫
That pill will sink in without any conflict😋
2. Strap your boots, focus your male energy around making smart ends💰
3. Remember to treat yourself before you treat women around you🤓
- This will send a message of love & care to yourself😎
- Therefore you won’t seek women attention/love/etc. with desperation😇
>> Bonus: you’ll handle rejection a lot better😉
- Love from your brother from another mother 😜!
The hell is up with all those emojis?
Words of wisdom.
Red pill rage is just stage-1 of red pill awareness.... the realisation stage.
Once you accept it and re-adjust, life becomes so much easier than it was before!
i'm at stage 2 atm. But not in a sexual or social dynamic way. i'm a neet. i mean that in a political way. The rage was so real i almost lost my will to live. And now i'm just like.... well it is what it easy. it's sooooo easy when you submerge in it and stop trying to stay afloat
It's pretty much the stages of grief. 1st is anger. You're letting go of a comfortable familiar worldview (the matrix/blue pill) to enter a cruel merciless universe and it's hard to accept.
i keep jumping from stage 1 and 2 and back again its been 2 months and im still pissed, think im past it then back to stage 1
@@davlmt this is a great way to put it. Thanks bro
I understood what we are now calling "Red Pill" long ago. At 5'6, most women totally ignored me UNTIL a few promotions later and I had $$$ in my hands. Suddenly I found myself the object of female attention. Amazing, isn't it, how much more attractive I magically got when my wallet got full?
It's all an illusion!
That just means you get to raise them and get mediocre obligatory attention and sex while they'll still seek the thrill of the physical alpha each time your have your back turned.
When I was a young kid, I have memories of the salty loser looking men I used to see in pubs when I was dragged there by my dad or the ones I also saw in movies. Now I know why they’re salty at those rich people.... because of what you just said. Wealth and status. It’s a fucked up world we’re stuck in for sure.
It is amazing.
@@CGSteve8718 Yup never be with just 1 woman because they will replace you faster than they found you.
When I accepted the concept that I am existentially alone and that I think my way and no one else does. My life improved dramatically. As long as you expect other to think and operate the way you do you find nothing but frustration.
I think there's truth in this. I don't think men are alone though. I'm beginning to shape my mindset like this: women are for cuddles, fucking, and some fun. Men are for everything else. A man's appreciation for you as a friend is nowhere near as conditional, or fleeting, as a woman's. I never put a women before my buddies anymore. Just last night, I was looking for something to do after dinner out with some family. A woman I've been hanging out with here and there, ex-model who's body makes me wonder on a daily basis what it would be like to fuck, said I should come over and hang out at her place. My best buddy who was out with his girlfriend said she was beat and was going to bed. I was tempted to go over to the interested girl's house, but I decided that my buddy was more important. I told her I couldn't make it because my buddy was coming out to meet me, and then had some fun. Just like Top Gun, I'm going with the philosophy "Never leave your wingman" now. They are always there, and he's been there through many different women in my life -- one of whom I was engaged to, and another I was considering engaging. Buddies are forever. Women are conditional fun for cuddles and fucks. I'll never compromise my buddies for a woman again, no matter how much they protest or punish me with the silent treatment. Bitch can get gone if she doesn't like it.
Kent Imig my only suggestion is don’t base your happiness on the actions of others
Sono Tom I agree. A man must be willing and able to stand alone, content, living his life as he wants it, fulfilling his vision for his life. If he isn't willing to do that, he will be walked on by women, and even other men. He must be his own mental point of origin. His vision, and his purpose, come first. As long he is on a path that fulfills both, he can be generous and help others, including women, but he must stay on the path, and true to it. He must come first. He must be the foundation that a woman builds a relationship upon. If he isn't his own mental point of origin, there is no sturdy foundation for a woman to build and rely upon.
Same here bro. It is when you accept you are alone, you are totally free from society.
@Dirk Vanderschlong Needy men, who struggle to win attention from women, sell out their bros to women. Unfortunately, today most men are needy, and live for validation from women because they lost and understanding of what it means to be a man. They think that which they struggle to get -- female attention -- will make them feel accomplished and whole. It never does. A man must focus on building himself, and waste little attention on chasing women. When a man focuses on building himself, not only does he finally feel accomplished, and whole, but he will find it easy to win female attention. Needy men have it backwards. They lust for female attention, are desperate for it, and sell themselves and their bros short, for a few crumbs of it. Female attention will never make you feel like, or be, a great man. Build yourself into a great man, and you will get all the female attention you could want, and spend no effort getting it.
I've met plenty of guys that think they are in a good relationship, meanwhile their girl is trying to flirt with me, talk to me, get my number, etc. I have lost friends over telling them what's going on. Male friends who look at me like a wolf there to steal their innocent little lamb when in fact I'm trying to be more of a sheep dog here for them... The real red pill for me is just to remember that none of this matters in regards to ACQUIRING a woman. I'm a Christian guy, and I believe if you seek you'll find pretty much exactly what you're looking for. If all you want is a woman, you may find her... But she may not be as loyal as you think. I also believe that if you DONT tell people about something that could really help them and improve their life, you're doing them a serious disservice. I will say this... A lot of men AND women tend to have a secretive approach to learning stuff like this instead of helping other people avoid the many pitfalls there are out there. I don't agree with everything you say here in the video but I appreciate you putting this content out there and sticking to your guns when it comes to people asking you about your opinions and criticizing them as well... It really puts things into perspective for everyone and gives us another way to sorta say, okay, we tried that one red pill thing, and that didn't work... Or yeah, this one red pill thing works well for improving your life, let's keep doing that.
I know a lot of you guys out there are not Christian, and I don't want to play any sort of I told you so games here, but a lot of these things are outlined in Christianity... I don't want to get into scripture battles or any arguments, but I do hope that any man out there who feels alone, without a woman etc has a friend who is always watching and listening. You're not in this alone
Yeah I've seen women act that way towards me all the time when in relationships with other guys, like they're trying to signal that they're interested and see if I'll be confident and bad enough to swoop in and rescue them from it, even though the guy looks well and truly in love with them, and I've always felt anger towards them and then felt like 'well that's your train wreck'.
Cain and Able bro. Cain had red pill rage, but he didn’t take personal responsibility, he blamed the world. DONT BLAME THE WORLD
@@Bloated_Tony_Danza Exactly.
Thanks bro, means a lot
I'm 26 and I have been on the redpill rage for 11 months already; I'm hardcore mgtow, and even thought I tried dating again, after a 3 year relationship where I was played like a fool, and tbh I ain't got the patience to deal with the drama, the shit tests, or the "victim card", and I have gotten to the point where I despise these b*tches nowadays, I rather do my job, work out, read, and travel, I guess once you go redpill you cannot go back.
How are you now at 30
@@ewolz💀
A man can not unsee the truth; He can not willingly return to darkness or go blind once he has the gift of sight, anymore than he can be unborn
Bryan Charles I totally resonate with your statement! Thanks
Damn 😳 deep!
The tree of good and evil is a metaphor for life.
Like this one
I think the red pill rage happens/occurs more with guys who haven't had much luck with women whether that be actually creating attraction or having a meaningful relationships so finding out about the true nature of women can be overwhelming & devastating to those longing for it.
I'm that type of guy. I'm 38 now and never had a serious girlfriend until i was 34. After 4 years she basically shatter me for no real reason. Tried my best to love and care for her and her daughter but none of that meant anything to her when she found someone else. Almost a year later I'm still in the Red Pill rage phase.
@@kuunami your first mistake was dating a single mom
@@kuunami nothing more you could have done, she was bound to leave from the start
Can confirm
Oh wow, it's been a while since I posted and watched this video... one thing I would add to all of that is - forget about rage, don't fixate on women or flaws (to best you can because I understand how hard that is) and do things for you and that you enjoy and take care of those who genuinely care for you/that you care about. I've been doing a lot to get in better shape and improve at the passions that I care about and any women that I meet that can fit into my life that's awesome if not whatever, I'm living for meself & my family.
Man I really wish I had discovered your videos before I lost everything to one chicks hypergamous nature. I had thick coke bottle blue lenses on for a majority of my life and often thought about why things always went wrong when I was doing everything I thought was right by feminist standards. After watching your videos I realized that I was doing all the right things for them and them only. I was prey. Ripe for the picking. I'm kinda climbing my way out of rock bottom at the moment but at least now I have a better understanding of how to not let this type of thing happen to me again. Thanks for your videos and keep up the good work.
Got any news for us about your situation?
-The greatest piece of advice that truly helps in understanding the red pill is woman don't reciprocate the same love men do
-I'm going to have to put in most woman don't love the same as men simply because
1. I'm not a woman.
2. Still going to have make the statement that woman don't love the same as men because in all my relationships, it's only when I put all my cards down, did the relationship end. Furthermore, you can apply the red pill to all the relationships I've witnessed with friends and apply red pill logic, for the most part, it explains with incredible accuracy & precision (I've only witnessed 3 unicorns and the verdict is still out because I haven't heard of cheating or divorce yet so time will have to tell).
-If there's one thing Richard has stated that has made me really view woman in a different light that lines up with reality is when you're with a lady, she is not yours. Relationships are borrowed time and nothing more. Enjoy the companionship. Don't look at relationships as this special blending of two souls or minds. That is just serotonin levels in your brain being released in-between neural synapses. Enjoy the relationship knowing it's going to come to an end. Everything does. This helps me understand on why I've been able to have positive long term relationships with woman in the past. I never chased them or gave into their demands. Only after some years, of thinking is she "the one" that the relationships stagnated. In retrospect, I was applying red pill knowledge during the period of good times and only when I began acting like a SIMP, a blue pill fool, did the relationship crumble.
I'm MGTOW now for the simple reason that I have a daughter now and I can not afford, at the age of 36, being decimated in the court system of anymore financial hardships. My child custody battle, literally, set me back 15 years financially. Being a college professor, in today's SJW institutions, I'm walking on egg shells.
What would you define as simp behavior?
@@DukanDietexperimen
I'd define as:
- Arguing with a woman.
- Not making her submit and giving in to her demands no questions asked.
- Paying for everything.
- Chasing her attention and whining if you don't get it.
Mostly that...
So eloquent and wise words. I'm impressed
Excellent comment
I dont have rage, but i dont really feel anything for women now. Its like i Cant connect to them, because i can see right thru their fakeness. Everytime something comes out of their mouth, i know Whats real and not. Its their fake behaviour Thats offputting.
I jus turned 30 and i have no feelings what so ever twards women dont wanna talk to them fuck em but thats bout it
What about their fake faces covered in makeup? Ever seen one without the mask? It's not good
Same here man, once taken the red pill the very next day I seen all the shit I was told in MGTOW community unfold right in front of me! I legit felt like it was a twilight zone! Like it was staged or I was really in some sort of prank... I raged..... because I had finally scratched the itch that was buggin me for years upon years (I’m 27) girl after girl... the same behavior. But it was bittersweet.... sweet because I finally got the truth and the itch was scratched..... bitter because I knew I would never be able to see women the same again and I haven’t... I talk to girls and it’s like I’m literally talking to a wall... like nothing is there which is weird because a year ago when I was still blue pilled.... I would get the feels from talking to them... now it’s just “meh 🤷🏾♂️” and walk away..... better things to do....
Don't listen to what they say, look at what they do
This ^^ fuckin hits home, i can't see women the same
Unrelated to the video but i thought id express my gratitude for your youtube channel. Your giving all young men the clairvoyance they need when it comes to making huge life decisions, especially when it comes to women and their true nature and intentions. I am currently 18 and im glad i found this channel a couple of years back. Dont wanna get all over the top but i genuinely believe that this channel is the best thing any young man could watch. Your channel is the epitome of one with true meaning and virtue.
jedi
You notice that the rage isn't as big to others because of the age difference. Some men have spent their entire lives believing the lie while people around our age can accept the truth now and can live with it far ahead of our lives
Yeah i know, im just happy i found out early.
Good, strong truth Richard. The Rational Male has really helped me heal from a devastating divorce. 17 years of suffering in anger and ignorance. No more wasted time.
I'm trying to understand what being red pilled means exactly and this is what i've come up with. Only make improvements on your life for the sake of your life. Never try to make improvements for the sake of a relationship.
My source of anger was realizing that after all these years, Today, woman's love is a lie. They are ever seeking out the B.B.D. and will dump you in a second without the slightest remorse although they ACT like there is. Now I'm just disgusted with them.
True, the plan was from the beginning. They hide their intentions then BAM! Off they go. "In a second" was just an expression for how fast they execute their exodus.
I'd like to replace "The plan" with "Their nature". More accurate, I think.
John Broughton I know how you feel buddy. Our families tell us lies about meeting good girls and getting married. I feel your pain.
Or maybe its because you have poor mental health and you attract these shallow women
This video helped immensely. I was falling into depression with red pill rage. Thanks much.🙏
Great vid as always Rich.
I'm 53, nearing the end of a 25 year marriage and a slow "betatisation by a thousand cuts" during that time.
I've been through the ringer and your content and the works or Rollo and others has truly changed the way I see women, the world, and myself.
Focusing on my own frame of reference has been huge.
I'm happy and grateful to have found this community, albeit late. 53 years young with soon to be new found freedom and liquidity.
Better late than never.
Thanks for all you do.
Aloha.
One word.. EXPERIENCE. You don't become good at your job/career overnight. It can take many years to gain knowledge through making mistakes. Then you can be more proactive hopefully avoiding repeating those mistakes. I cringe whenever I hear young people wanting to marry so early in life. I would have found it difficult to navigate my marriage today if I had only dated one or two people my whole life. I also agree that it's good to take time off from dating. Don't be someone that ALWAYS has to have someone in their life. It will lead you towards the wrong person every time. Good vid Richard.
Red pill rage is part of the process, just don't let it become the process. The anger can help fuel your intensity and urge to understand why things are the way they are. As that anger dies down, your fundamental knowledge and wisdom will have grown exponentially out of necessity. Become the best version of yourself, roll with the punches and lead by example.
I don't think you can really tell anyone how the world works until they have had experiences and a few falls that is when questions are asked and connections are made when the information is presented. By then, however, you are over 50 and could kick yourself for not knowing something about this before.
Land Rover Toolbox Videos ain't that the truth
as you get older you learn not only to question more, but even how to formulate better questions. i heartily agree with you VRTV. the only thing i can say is "become the best version of yourself" (as Richard says) is a choice piece of advice. gym and better eating, and - as i saw in another post - i'm lonely...but happy.
@INTJ-Scorpio-Sigma-Male Interesting you mention Sigma male. I am sure this is my reality/stance on the socio hierarchical structure. But as i am learning, the structure is also fractal and changes depending on which situation you are in. I'd be curious to see what the red man group / Rollo Tomassi would think about the Sigma. I don't think he'd accept it as 'outside the structured reality'.
Agreed red pill can be adapted to everything but life and looking for truth rather than accepting another person opinion as gospel is best. It may be their reality and not mine. Best philosophy for me us........ live and learn.
@@rmglover3191 As you get older you have more experience to draw from but the data may be incomplete and needs to be questioned deeper to gain the most understanding. ...I got it partially right about woman's nature before getting married but tried to work it to my advantage (still blue pilled) however.... after really seeing the real side of feminine nature played out in front of my eyes (which brought up more experience without being able to put names to it) it wasn't until hearing the red pilled message that i could put it all in a box, neatly labelled and fully understood. I know that I was experiencing a collective reality rather than my own distortions. At 50 I got it nailed hopefully!
@EA SPORTS RETRO FIFA I can relate. You may find it helpful to know it’s all just nature working itself out (nothing’s personal). Only the ego gets offended or has preferences. Both likes and dislikes rob us of peace. This being said, there’s no better way to grow and prosper than to list your aversions and confront them one by one.
Sort your life first before you ever think of women and see how they fit into your life not the other way around..
I stumbled across ur page by accident but was mesmerized intentionally. Its a great place to find out how men really feel about women & where u guys fit in ur immediate world. I work with men (im an electrician) & im used to the attitude of divorced men being bitter - and I get it. If I worked my ass off for 20 yrs and my spouse wanted to walk off with 1/2 my life savings (pension = until the grave) all of my stuff AND my kids (and then used them as a tool of emotional extortion) my rage would be the least of my husband's problems (remaining in the realm of the living would be his top priority). I have heard all of these stories and I used to say "Wow, tough break Dude . . . I hope it works out for u eventually." And although I meant it sincerely, it seems a hollow sentiment now. I always thought that I could empathize with them bc I too am divorced (ZERO spousal support bc I have always worked). In fact I purchased our home, furnished it entirely and then bought 2 new vehicles, and paid off his debt (I had none). I received child support for my children and never once pulled that crap that he couldnt see them (women fail to realize that behavior only damages their children) That being said, he never bothered to exercise his visitation - too busy (he had ahhh, several irons in the fire at the time). When I would mention it at work, the divorced guys would get really tight. They were so angry that someone would be so cavalier about the one aspect of the divorce that hurt them the most - losing their kids. I realized then how deeply divorce cut them . . . . to lose everything at once must be de-humanizing. I have to admit tho, after reading the thread I had no idea how psychologically damaging divorce is to men. When dating has become merely a game of strategy, a matter of 'who can get what out of whom' - thats a pathetic commentary on what we, as a society have become. The rage that I see here is not misplaced by any means, but u guys MUST find a way to not carry it with u if u ever hope to have another serious relationship. I understand why u might want to test the women that come into ur life. If u went on a boat ride & the boat sank while u were on it, u may get on a boat again in the future but u sure as shit are going to check for leaks, make sure there are life jackets, check out ur Captain, etc. Ur going to be VERY careful on ur next voyage. I get all of it. And I recommend that u follow EC's advice (cuz she's eyeing u up & testing u) but u should also find a way to have the difficult conversations that people dont want to have in the beginning. Believe me YOU dont want to be blamed for someone else's expectations. And we all sometimes say things we know the other person wants to hear, because we want the short-term gain. For example ... Ur divorced - u definitely DO NOT want more children because ur still hurt & twisted about the ones ur paying for now just to have the privilege of 'visiting' instead of living with. She wants to hear 'Yes, I sure would like to have more kids." Now if shes an attractive girl, self-sufficient, career, nice home - she has 'keeper material' written all over her. And ur thinking about the short-term gain ... like where ur going to end up tonight. So u tell her that u "would consider having more kids." And thats a problem - because thats all she heard. And at some point that will be thrown back at u. No one has a right to demand anything of u, and they certainly dont have a right to interrogate u about ur future, particularly in the early stages of dating. Also, dont be afraid to have the 'pre-nup' conversation in the early stage of the relationship. Once again for the people in the back . . . HAVE THE PRE-NUP CONVERSATION IN THE EARLY STAGE OF THE RELATIONSHIP ! Any decent human being with a modicum of compassion should be able to comprehend ur hesitance at the prospect of being wiped out (financially & emotionally) twice in the same lifetime. Ask her how she would feel if the roles were reversed. Always do this, as it will evoke empathy (in case they came to the table without any). Whatever u do, find a way to alleviate/channel that rage because it will spill over in other areas of ur life. I speak from experience. Im one of the few women that have gone into a marriage with more money than my husband and came out with a whole lot less. So when I say "I get it" I have been there. I was very angry and was carrying it around with me until my 17 yr old daughter said "U have got to find a way to get rid of it because it's toxic & it's poisoning every facet of ur life. Carrying around that anger is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die from it." And that was what it took for me - my own child setting me straight. I started working out (lost a lot of weight, gained a lot of attention) Started sleeping better, working more. Started exploring the world outside. Did all the repairs on my house that I had been waiting for my husband to do. And for some reason that is STILL unknown to me, every time I repaired/replaced/renovated something in the house I felt better . . a sense of accomplishment. I was literally rebuilding my life because I was forced to (I couldnt afford to pay professionals so I had to learn how to do it myself). It wound up being a very empowering experience. Whatever u do, PLEASE work thru the bitterness and get it out of ur system. Push thru it. Do it for YOU. After living thru that horrible experience I can say with complete confidence that living well is the best revenge. If someone hurt u dont let them enjoy it - dont let them see u hurting. After all, anyone can cut u . . . but u dont have to stand there and bleed for them.
rita wix thank you very much for the heartfelt experience you shared. It is refreshing to realize we share common ground, as far as empathy, consideration, etc. from the other side, at least occasionally. I can relate to every word you typed. you see, in my case I wasn't so lucky, going now on 5 years without seeing nor speaking with my little ones. I think I'm lucky to still be here. you are absolutely right, hatred will only consume you. a pointless path. but how I wish I could also choose to rid myself of this unforgiving sorrow. and as you said, I did not stand there and bleed... kind regards!
Buddhist saying " when the student is ready, the teacher will arrive". Thank you, been subscriber to channel for awhile now. Always learning
You are right!!! Once you see things from the Red Pill lens, you cant "un-see" it after that. Its frustrating at first but then it saves you in the end.
This video was extremely eye-opening for me. I’ve experienced my fair share of red-pill rage. The root of it all, was thinking that hypergamy was a choice made by women. Fact is, it’s not a choice at all . . . it’s inherent to their very female nature / design. If a man truly understands that (and doesn’t just say it), red pill rage decreases significantly. It also diminishes the romantic, soulmate, “the one” falsities, men have been (force) fed throughout their lives; prior to the next encounter or relationship. Rich, I am extremely grateful for the content / substance you provide. In the short amount of time I’ve been a subscriber and taken in the content of your message(s), you’ve provided more clarity to the origins of female intention; than any other source. Thank you.
Seeing the comments, I feel so lucky to learn about this at 23
Your generation will do better than mine. It is a bitch to take this in in your 30s.
I learned this at 11 and I am 39 now.
After taking the red pill I became angry and bitter, whereas before I took it I was desperate and tried and failed to “nice” my way into a woman’s life. Since therapy and reading and discovering this channel I have walked away from first dates and my self esteem and self worth and self awareness are now at healthy levels. Can’t express my gratitude for this community and your videos and insights
the strange thing about Red Pill for me was... I was not even raging. I nodded with this kind of "off course, I knew it for eternities, but I blinded myself" ...
I have had first hand experience with this. I thought marriage was literally "to death to us part " until I got married to a single mother!! Didn't realise my mistake until after the fact and found out about the "Red Pill" first hand. Everything I thought about love & marriage has be smashed to hell. Better late than never.
I am feeling liberated and excited after being red pilled, also because I just got out of a toxic 10 year relationship, but also it is sort of a "sad" reality. There are times I have the same reaction as Neo when he wants out, realizing his new found freedom is also a dark one.
I am fresh to the red pill and everything you have been saying is true I have tested it. I am going through a divorce and my ex wife now sees that I have changed and is a bit dumbfounded by the changes I have already made. Its to the point where she is talking about being back with me (not a chance in hell). I am becoming a better version of myself and it is a great feeling to be on the red pill. Thank you for the priceless veiw I now have on life. I'm 24 and the red pill has empowered me!
I apply the red pill to everything now, relationships-religion-politics...Everything in life.
Yes. I always knew there was a deeper meaning to everything not just relationships with women being exploited. This is why I love the red pill.
Yes! Car vidz are back. I had the red pill rage a short time, but mostly before I had read the book. After reading the book I just went “oh fuck... that’s right! ahh...ooh.. now I get it” Don’t be mad, use the knowledge as your power.
what book?
The Rational Male
Thanks, gonna read
Well, the old saying of "Dogs are Man's Best Friend" is true for a reason.
No one EVER said that women were man's best friend. LOL
i believe social media has made hypergamy for a female wayyyy too tempting and convenient , like shopping on Amazon. if a man isnt on his game and starting to lose his frame more and more, there are constant reminders of potentially better male options that are either in her fb news feed, IG hitting her up in the dm or fb messeges..all im saying is that its so much easier these days for a female to jump ship once she starts to question your masculinity whether subconsciously or consciously. Maintain your frame, stay focused on your goals and remember that complacency in relationships can lead to temptation, always try to become the best version of yourself and improve. Become a man of some value that not just she sees but other women can see as well. Competition anxiety is a good thing to have on your side.
Facebook is where my gf of 4 years first met the person she cheated and dumped me for.
@@kuunami you Dodge a Bullet, theres no hypergamy
I took the red pill after a really bad relationship!
I am 27 years old, I am doing great at work, doing no fap, No smoking for 3 months now... still I feel some kind of madness and fire inside me..
Salute from El Salvador Central america.
Whether You Are Aware Of This Or Not Richard, You Are Becoming A Master At Knowing
And Demonstrating The Subtle Skill Of Being Able To Speak WITH Your Viewers/Subscribers
Rather That AT Them!!! I Have Watched I Think All Of Your Videos And Can Testify To Observing
This Evolution In Yourself From Your First Videos To Your Most Recent!! Few Achieve This Authenticity!!!
It's Not A "Gift" Rather A Life Skill That Can Only Be Nurtured From Genuine Human Experience!!
Thank You So Much, Once Again, For Having The Courage, The Intellect, The Humility,
The Grit And The Compassion It Takes To Tell Viewers Today's Reality Amidst The Many
Delusions Out There!!!
Your Words Of Experience Are Golden!!!
thx
Charles VonHollstein Dead on accurate.
Why do you capitalize the first letter of every word?
Yebo Screbo prolly typing it on his Word and then just copied & pasted the whole thing
@@EntrepreneursInCars have the decency to reply with"thank you" instead of thx ffs
Relationships are like crypto currency, get in, enjoy the ride and GTFO! Take your money and run 🤣
Not selling till 70k btc
Definitely had that red pill rage junior year of high school. Had to cut out a lot of people in my life because of that. It gets better just go focus on monk mode
You were brainwashed
It's a trust issue , I am married to my red head for 35 years , total trust that she will do what is best for her . The question is what do you prefer in a person . And as humans age , their wants , needs change . It's a ride , journey , adventure , what ever you make of it .
ouch.
It had the apposite effect on me. I used it in a positive manner. I stopped being pissed at my ex-girlfriend. It's just they way she's wired and if that's the case then she has little to no control over it. Thus... why would I be mad at her? I used it to let go of the anger and move on.
I've always said getting mad at a woman for being hypergamous is like getting mad at a dog for barking. They can't help it. The understanding you now have from realizing these facts is very powerful.
story of my life when my 4 years of relationship ended on a bad note......I am happy gentleman that I have you all as brothers who had been through the same and I feel positive in years....
If you read a book about mountain climbing for beginners, it will mostly be a warning about the hazards. That doesn't mean climbing mountains isn't worthwhile. In life, the deepest wisdom is often the most bitter, so it's important to keep a balanced perspective and not fixate on the negative. If a situation seems hopeless, chances are you're only looking a one small part of a bigger picture.
You're dead accurate on this one. I agree, don't try to red-pill women - they don't have the ability to get it. I've gotten the same response from every woman I've ever talked to about this stuff.
Thanks for informing us, preventing rage attacks and killing sprees.
It is important to be absolutely certain that you are ready for the truth... because you can never "unsee" it.
I’m 17 and have been watching these red pill videos for at least 2 years, so I feel lucky to have learned from other peoples mistakes and not my own.
No, dont do it, you re Being brainwashed
Wanting things to be different from reality is the definition of suffering.
I am 43, single, with a decent job, salary and own home in the U.K. Unknowingly I have been living as a MGTOW for the last couple of years. I suspect I produced my own redpill endogenously.
Becoming red pill aware is like realizing you've been told to play by the rules in a game that's been rigged against you from the start. Anger is a natural respond but you have to get pass it and accept it
Great points, it's all what you make of life, giving up & getting angry at the situation isn't going to change the reality of what is. I use the self awareness & frustration to learn something about myself & be better, it's got me through 22 years of marriage my friend.
I have given up finding true love. The last heartache was something I really could do without.
It's not being mad at the women, it is that playing the game is a pain in the ass. Some people just want a simple, inexpensive, relaxing life and dating is not conducive to that lifestyle.
“If you’re going through hell,keep going.”
Winston Churchill.
Being initially angry is probably the only SANE reaction to this messed up world we're living in. I hope you guys are finding time to be angry and deal with it well
I also hope as time goes on that you're able to forgive the women who may have hurt you in the past and find peace and hopefully a better match for you. Forgiving, forgetting and ultimately moving on from those people and things that hurt you, intentionally or otherwise
Some men get angry some get depressed.
With me, I got depressed.
But I also noticed once I did go red pilled, it became extremely harder to get women because of the truth.
Not just with women but society.
Agreed I'm going through this now.
Certain experiences as a teen gave me issues, but instead of running from the truth confused and stuck in my own misery I'm glad I took the time to finally find and listen to channels like this giving me the unfiltered answers I've been looking for, like AMS (Alpha Male Strategies), BigHerc916, Immortal Mindz, aanghel, Elliot Hulse, and a few more (feel free to leave suggestions)... I'm 21 and just trynna learn how to deal with these things NOW instead of letting them fuck me up more in the future... especially after realizing I've been fed bullshit most of my life.
A moment of realization is worth 1000 prayers!
I will tell you the truth at the beginning when I start to Looking at your videos, I used to hate you, but I grew up with a mother and a sister, I was fed by day-and-night that You gotta be a superhero or a white Knight. But thank you you literally save my life, thank you very much Brother I still need to learn more but I learn my lesson brother.
Everyone's your teacher you learn what to do from the wise and what not to do from the foolish.
I never realized how common it was for women to flake out of long term relationships until I watched these videos. It hit me hard when my last girlfriend ghosted me without even having a fight or anything. I have to admit, I have a bit of red pill rage over this because it seems like most men really love their women and their women have no true feelings for them.
Richard, I can not get enough of your video channel. I found your channel last week after my wife of 4 years ran from our marriage. I have taken the Red Pill...maybe 2 or 3. You have become my newest mentor. Thank you.
I relate to this I am so glad that I got to learn of this all at the age of 19. I wish I knew of this sooner. Thank you for your teachings.
Man I don't know how many times I've listened you, sandman and other guys and still tried to date and have a long term relationship. It's all over know, i'm passing my first redpill rage right know at least 4 years having took the "first pill". there's no way to make it work. i'll have to be single for life
Thanks for this video man. The rage comes and goes as with any negative emotion. I'm trying to allow it, but not buy into its shadow. I want to see women as "my sisters", just as men are my brothers. 35 years old and hope to come more into my power in the future. Inspired by your example. Thank you.
This is high quality in all aspects. I am in very deep anger but try to accept the truth. Its like waking up realizing you are at 0 though you though you have developed as a man. In my view it is important to accept these feelings but not to make a habit out of it like you said.
Love the video, love the channel. I've had the " red pill rage" for almost a year now (I just turned 21) and found that the hardest part of getting over it is making the same blue pill mistskes that were indoctrinated into me without even knowing it. I only realise it when its too late. But after watching this video it sounds like everything else in life, where you just have to keep working and adapting until you find the right way to do it.
I have 2 things holding me back right now. My anger over the child support I pay my ex who, with her husband, makes tons more than I do. With the child support they actually make 3 times more. The second is that even though it is written into the agreement, she doesn't want to mediate to talk with me about getting more time with the kids. She's a control freak, and likes money.
@@alanssnack1192 You seem to think that this guy is somehow advantaged by not being able to raise his own kid. Believe me, there are alot more of us who would rather be Co parents than pay a fortune AND not get to see our kids
Burn them off. Move abroad !
I like that. “Women don’t love men. They love opportunities”. Very true
I'm turning into a red pill and I love it.
Do I have rage within me? Yes, I do and I don´t regreat it at all and I don´t think it is a bad thing. It allows me to see how fake and unsatisfied a women are and how opportunistic they will be once they find themselves in a better position by meeting other guys.
I know what I have been through and how devastated I was when my ex wife left me and right on the spot she was with another guy. So, I will never trust a women again nor put my love on them again.
Good refresher reminder for me. Thanks buddy!
I enjoyed your video and the information you shared Rich. I would encourage fellows to consider having red pill relief instead of red pill rage particularly if they've never been married and now have red pill knowledge. I would have red pill rage if I were in a marriage which I'm not and have never been thank God. I've never trusted the system or women and now at age 50 I see that I've had good reason to be wary all my life.
Hey Richard, somewhere you said men expect women to love them in a certain way. I found out this is true. But I'd like to add something to this. A man expects the same love as the got from his mother, which is in nature unconditional, when he's a kid. So he had it and will never ever be able to get that kind of love from a woman. And I think that is this kind of love most men are looking for.
And it's delusional. A parents love IS NOT THE SAME as a partners love. Those are two completely different relationships (and so they should be). One is not necessarily better or worse than the other, just different.
I had a female coworker who was in a very happy marriage of 8 years tell me she would drop her husband tomorrow if I was open to she and I running off together. I have tried to use this information constructively, but it kind of fucked me up, honestly. She had a great, happy, 8 year long marriage with this guy, and yet she was 100% fine with dropping him at any instant if she had the opportunity to be hypergamous. How can you ever invest in a woman and a relationship after having this kind of knowledge?
Red pill rage is a good thing. Do the work (I suggest hypnotherapy). As Richard Grannon says, Feel the Feels. Let it consume you. Because what comes out the other side of that rage is a truly glorious thing.
Peace. Clarity of thought and emotion. A true sense of self.
When you are being consumed, as the old mindset thrashes in its death throes, you will think this is all there is. But I promise you, you will come out the other side a new man. A real man. A Man. And you will leave behind the little boy everybody wanted you to be, the little boy you remained to please them.
After Red Pill Rage comes Red Pill Tranquility.
So I felt anger and sadness today. A girl I have started talking to did not live up to my ”blue pill” expectations.
Finally took some deep breaths, analyzed my emotions and started looking through the cold hard truth perspective.
Thanks Rich
My grandfather had a saying about women that still resonates with me; "women are the most interested beings of Gods creation".
So true.
I have always been red pilled. Was raised by a single father. Renounced marriage and fatherhood at a young age (about 12 yo) and am now 35, never married, doing well and have had enough gf's. I would date a woman for a while and when feelings get real I'd just start ghosting or dip out. I've had a few women try to shame me saying it wasn't fair playing with their emotions the way I did or say I was just using them for sex and I'd hit back with the "yea and it's fair to let you use me for what ever I can offer you until some one better comes along" which would bring out a response like "I'm not like that, you didnt even try to get to know me" lol, women who deny there own biology are the worst blue pilled people because they do it and most dont why because it's done subconsciously and then they try to deny it. I have never ever got the red pill rage I just excepted the truth and figured I'd play my own game lol. ✌
I should also add that women will always say shit like "why do men play with women, dont they know we are human with real emotions" and I'll say some thing like "yea well women dlnt think about that when they ass rape him in divorce court and family court". Men are starting to care less about a womans feelings it seems and I think it's well deserved.
One thing I understand from red pill awareness is that my heart will never be broken again because now I know how it works and I find myself been a lot more happy for no reason, discovering the truth makes you truly free
Blessings brother!
I just turned 30 im a single guy I live on my own and im almost free, I have been half Red Pilled for a long time being depressed was a big part of not waking up to my freedom as a alone man, now that I am 100% red-pilled, I really enjoy the feeling of alone-ness, I dont have to answer to anyone im about to really take charge of my life in a big way, I have been on my own for a long time, always depressed me, but im starting to realise that this is the best thing in the world :-D
Thank you so much for the videos. They have changed my life. I am a middle school teacher and I see the female nature even in my students. Truly engrained in DNA. I am going through the red pill rage phase now. Once I took the red pill I see it everywhere. It can't be undone. Now I need to focus on responding accordingly, not with frustration.
I remember a time when I would approach women exclusively with the intent of being rejected. If I wasn’t turned down, I felt like there was nothing to learn from and saw it almost as a failure. I really did. I tossed out plenty of numbers as a result.
It was almost like fishing for the experience and throwing back anything I did catch.
This gave me a glimpse into the world of women. They have so many options, particularly today, that they don’t want the easy ones. The men that they know for a fact they can’t have(and those are an extremely select few), are the ones they would kill for, quite literally- that’s not an exaggeration.
I used to have this a lot but now it's gradually shifted more to lacking interest altogether and looking for alternatives all the time. I was looking to be loved for what I am, or at least encouraged to be better as well, but no, it's just about them loving you 'opportunistically' as you say, serving their narrative and getting them to where they want to go, to a woman this makes me entirely replaceable, I am no one, nobody, I'm only what I DO for them, and once I can't do it, I am no longer wanted. At least, this is not for everyone, but I personally find the idea of spending a life's worth of commitment and energy towards someone who would leave me at my worst for someone who could fulfil their 'narrative' better really unpleasant, and also on top of that I would have to constantly remind myself that they don't love me in that way, and constantly having to then ask myself why I am even with the woman in the first place, constantly not understanding the whole point of the relationship and how the woman even loves me in the first place whilst I hand over my wallet doesn't sound like fun or worth the trouble, compared to say travelling to lots of different places, experiencing lots of different music, foods, cultures and even doing relief work for people who REALLY need that money and resources.
You have to unplug daily. It dont happen overnight
Great video... I'm in the middle of a post divorce, several years long "red pill rage." For me, it's not because the pill was difficult to swallow, but because I am powerless to do anything about it. My experience and understanding with hypergamy is simply: no matter how wealthy and or spontaneous a man is, women will find an excuse (usually a dumbass excuse) to get bored and move on. Not to sound like a MGTOW troll, but this understanding makes it impossible for me to justify engaging with the SMP with any level of enthusiasm. It just seems much more rational to cut my losses and place my energy in any other aspect of my life that is far more likely to be fruitful. Thoughts?
The day you stop putting women in the center of your universe is that day that you can evolve and be a better person. You are perfectly right on spending your energy elsewhere that it could really benefit you. You understand things, your adapt to the real world and you move on with it.
Agreed, and that will come with time. But the rage is disappointment. Because, I'm still a straight man who desires a long term, fulfilling, mutualisticaly beneficial relationship with a woman. But, it's just not possible, and that sucks. Lol
@@adarkerpath5513 I am at this exact stage too brother.....guess salvation ain't easy!
@@adarkerpath5513 you can have all that with a woman, there are plenty of men and women who do have this, hypergamy is not how these guys describe it, women do not leave a happy marriage for a "better option " , this is a lie.
This is NOT how hypergamy works, women do not leave a happy marriage only unhappy ones, even if a "better option " comes a long.
Seriously this guy from start until now, he is like a living Jesus to me!!!! There always hope after watching his video.
I'm 26 and definitely got the red pill rage. It is just depressing how shallow women and their motives and reality is.
Wow this is one of Rich's best videos in describing my journey after taking the red pill; fantastic.
Started watching Sandman and looked into creating a glossary of terms for myself because of the specialized language. The more I understood, the more I was amazed at how I was getting life as a man so right all along. It’s filled in the gaps and given me relief and validation, thanks guys!
Thank you for your honest vlogs. Your videos help alleviate the pain of trying to understand the damage caused by being blue pill and the anger that comes after the red pill. Keep up with the videos there are many of us needing the wisdom
TFM did a series of videos on this. When you have been conditioned from berth to expect X from women but now know that's a lie, you get upset. Now what, Is what I said. Where do you go from here. That's why I appreciate your videos. You encourage men to invest in themselves to become better rather than chasing a unicorn they will never catch.
You make a great deal of sense... Women and men think in totally different paradigms. The best thing is to acknowledge this and deal with the reality. Thanks for stating some really awesome truths here! Great video.
Im just gunna to start watching family videos. I felt so much better just imagining myself defending my future child. It gave me so much motivation.
I was in the red pill rage for a while and allowed it to take me to the black pill. Boy, that was rough. Glad I snapped out of it and went back to the red. It’s all good now.