I'm short, bald, broke, unintelligent, I'm always wrong, I suck in bed..... but as soon as I made over six figure, I'm taller, smarter, I'm always right, and I'm very good in bed... how ironic.
My experience: went from totally skinny, non masculine look to ripped in gym and it makes x1000% difference. Women really love jacked guys, it's the first thing they see on you "this guy is healthy" and then "this guy is disciplined" and then "other women will like him too" so preselection comes in.
Yeah I've been skinny my entire life but once I started getting in the gym suddenly the woman who didn't look before definitely were open to talking all of a sudden I'm still slim and short 5'6 Small 140lb but giving self love to this journey and still dedicated to the gym, The protein powders I've tried don't do well with my stomach I regurgitate that $hit! Keeping it natural.
Women will enter a relationship and slowly begin trying to change you. If they are successful they will leave you or cheat on you with a guy who is who you were. They actually don't want you to change, they think they do but they don't. They want to see if you have principles and resolve. I have seen this too many times.
This is very true, and true of all women I've been with as well. Having inherited 'nice-guy-itis', I thought 'being nice' was going to appeal to her. Not at all.
Ebony Travel Tomassi wrote, "its a fallacy to look at hypergamy from a logical relational equity perspective." We men tend to see things through merit and equity, i.e. the qualities, strengths and efforts you put in are to be met equitably, but not so with women, hypergamy overrides any such thinking, it could take a woman a few months, or 25 years, it's forever looming. "No man in history has ever fully or accurately vetted any woman he married. " R.M. pp.194-196. Spot on!
Parasites often drop off a host when something better comes along or if the host isn't providing as much as before or when they are satisfied and see no further benefit hanging on.
At 54, I can say that being toned with a bit of muscle, nice clothes and good grooming makes a world of difference. I also worked on my socials skills where needed. My confidence has skyrocketed and women notice me. Be sure to swallow the red pill to protect yourself and your assets. Have a life that doesn't depend on a female. I love women, but they are dangerous to your mental well being and finances if things don't work out. Do what is in YOUR best interests.
In my experience muscles helps get women HANDS DOWN. Muscles are attractive, make you more confident and look dominant. Muscles are a great addition to personality. Dont downplay them.
@@mrmackey8956 coming from a guy here that was bigger and pretty cut, for a long time. Your comment sums it up best. Yeah, they like muscles some, but they like money way, way, way more.
Muscles: athletic (strength, triathalon-looking), or bodybuilder'ish, which are you saying? But that women prefer athletic/military body over bodybuilders' size was established a long time ago.
I'm 38. Always been slim and athletic. Toned, but not built. Although I have to work harder for that these days! Women in general definitely prefer an athletic body to a built body. However, I will say that they are initially attracted to it, but once in a long term relationship they see it as a threat. I have had women after a few months of being together, passive aggressively, try and convince me that I don't need to exercise, "because you're fine as you are". Hmm. In my blue pill days I would've taken that as a sweet compliment, but I realise now that it's because they feel the threat of you attracting other women. And what way to best keep a woman wanting to please you? Yep, be attractive to other women. They both love and hate that shit!
Dude I'm the same an ha e had that same thing too. Your fine don't worry about it speech. Its competition anxiety as ya said cos they know other women will be all over ya and she's trying to pull ya down to her level of doing fk all
I always thought it was because they felt like you were better than them and would leave them for another female. They say not to train so you wont have options to leave them, then when you get disgusting and fat, they think they're better than you and leave.
The first thing that came to my mind is that they probably felt subconsciously threatened, yes, but maybe because they felt bad about themselves and their own bodies. Seeing you be fit and getting fitter may have made them feel comparatively ugly. This behavior is more fitting with modern women, at least from my observation and when I analyze myself.
Agree with most of what you say. As for muscular guys. Used to bounce in clubs and was huge. Girls were all over me. I suspect high test levels produce pheromones which stimulate their systems. Don't believe the bs. Big guys get have it all!
Never tell your wife about your business. Never confide in her anything about your illnesses. Never let her be the banker in the family. Always stay in great physical shape. Take my advice.
When you are muscular, the more you feel you are an Alpha, That alone will help you to get the attention of women. It's not the muscles, it's how it makes you feel!
Exactly. It literally changes your mood, emotions, how you carry yourself and feel about yourself, you will notice how people treat and interact with you differently. People will respect you more. You will have more presence. All these in return, change who you are for the better. And dont worry about getting too buff or muscular. Unless you are taking something, you cant look weird and unnatural.
Usually guys who say muscles don't make a difference are the guys who aren't super fit...just generally fit. Get to 10-12% BF and then tell me that women don't like muscles...
He mentioned "Calvin Klein" - which is lower BF, but when he means "muscles" he means the bodybuilders. And i think it comes from relatability or lack thereof.
Women have their pick and all the power from 17-30 ish when their sexual market value is greatest. Thereafter, there’s a steady decline, which soon accelerates. By the time a woman hits 50, she becomes invisible to men. Men only reach the prime of their sexual market value in their late 30’s. If he looks after himself, this can be extended into his 50’s.
I look like a somalian kid, gaunted starving hollow face, like stage IV cancer, when I have low body fat, although with big delts and V-shape and big biceps, so it's a no for me. low body fat is not for everybody, you SHOULD LOOK photogenic otherwise don't do it !!!!
The most amount of attention I've had from women was when I got muscles. Nothing huge, just decent size arms and shoulders and a near six pack, weighted about 95kgs. Especially in online dating I get 20 times the amount of views on my profile. If I could go back in time and tell my younger self something it would be to get muscles. It also made me feel great so do it for yourself anyway.
Yep. When I was 5' 11' and 225 well built, women would come up out of the blue and hit on me. They would simultaneously be feeling my shoulders and arms and smiling ear to ear. I could say anything during a conversation and they would keep talking to me. Now that I am thinner, I rarely get hit on and when I do my verbal game has to be on point or the woman loses interest quickly.
The figure I give is if you are like 20% less than a pro bodybuilder then you are good, anywhere upto hugh jackman as wolverine, possibly slightly larger works, and yes as someone who got to that level once I can tell you it drives women crazy to the point you get random women coming up to you in the street weekly.
I have always hypothesized that most women dont like really jacked guys because they feel threatened by a man's commitment to his body and that said commitment would be in direct competition with her needs. I wonder if there is any truth to it...
its 2 fold. first, it makes them feel shittier about themselves when you are in shape and second, it makes it harder for them because other women will take more interest.
HandGrenades 4Balls dude you say all those things but i have seen many many dudes that match that description. not trying to be a white knight or anything i hate them with passion but to be honest most of the things women are criticized for are also present in men sometimes at least. i mean i know some really nice down to earth chicks who were loyal and supportive of their SO who got cheated on and left behind after years of Ltr.
Workout dress nice build some muscle and continue to grow in your manhood.Screw what women want. They don't even know what they want. Women tell me all the time I have too much muscle but they can't keep they hands off me. Smh
This always comes from people who have it so easy and im sure you have it easy. Dont start with me. I worked 7 days a week for years and worked on my "dream" in the offtime and before bed...i literally worked 24/7 and there is no sign of reaching my goal in the next 5 years and im allready 4 years in...rich people can do that, all others may suffer their entire existance and never reach their goals. ID NOT TRADE WITH THIS OLD MAN IN THE VIDEO THOUGH. Damn i love my hair and my super lean body without so much hair. I love beeing me. I dont want to be nobody else. Im taking the pros and cons. Its fine for me. Have a nice day.
From personal experience younger women tend to go for the Calvin Klein look. When I graduated from high school I was 6'2" 220lbs. Girls my age didn't look my way. When I got into college, because my mature look, I attracted women older than me. About 4 years older than me. I think all men can benefit from dressing well. I stepped my game up in grad school and women will actually approach you if you dress well.
I did dress well for 2 months now in college but I stop dressing well since many girls don’t really talk or be attracted to me so I dress like a nerd now
Life is a game and you show us younger guys how to play it fair so we don't get screwed over. Thank you for that. Your refreshingly insightful. Like the big brother I never had.
I'm sorry but life is not fair, and there's no such thing as a "fair" game. You can play nice and decent, but sometimes you have to get down and dirty. You either win or lose, there is nothing in between. Find your role in life and Master it, that's my best advice. You're good with sales? Great, be the best Seller you can be. You get the message.
Women love muscles. They don't like the unnatural steroid look though, but as long as you're natural you should get as big while staying relatively lean as possible. When me and my best buddy go swimming we catch so many women looking at us it's amusing. I remember when I got with a girl once, she was always making jokes about my fitness or muscles in a negative way. Untill we ended up in bed and she couldn't stop drooling over my muscles lol. I think that women telling you something negative about your physique (if you have a good physique) is just a shit test to see if you have the character to go with the body. Being a low self esteem bodybuilder is a huge turn off for them but if you're a confident muscular dude they love you.
It’s a weird battle they have going on. They want the alpha by nature but at the same time they wanna slowly change them and make them submit like a beta and then leave them for an alpha. Constant shit test for life.
The moment you ask yourself what women want you already lost. They like a guy who don't ask himself stupid questions like that. It's simple really, you like a girl you go talk to her, she doesn't like you, forget about her and move on. One day you'll find your girl, don't obsess over it like a teenage girl.
R. Ann Rousseau women want men to be themselves so they can accurately assess their hypergamic value. That is why women will always repeat this saying. Fortunately for us men we can hack women’s biological nature for our own benefit. It’s a beautiful world 🙂
The thing is you are not supposed to ADJUST to what women want. Keep going your own way and do things the way you see fit. That is called a STABILITY of your own choices, decisions and world views. Train, sleep, eat, repeat. Do not allow society to drag you down. Do not deviate from your own unique course. You should not ADJUST to ever changing, empty and shallow societal norms. A man is a predator. View things from that perspective. Therefore a man should act like a predator. Be a predator. Be tough. Men start at the wall and depart from it. We build our muscle mass, our careers, our wealth and savings and, on top of that- we accumulate knowledge and wisdom. Women, on the contrary, hit the wall around 30 and slide down the path of physical degradation. Therefore we should not pay attention to what women want/ need/ desire. We are the rulers of this world. We run the shit. Women only follow us. If we allow them. That is how things were in the past, that is how we should do today. The patriarchy is the only answer to modern pussyfied and degraded society of imbeciles. If you consider yourself a real man, you should not give a flying fuck what average pussy is thinking about you. Your bicep is too big? You spend too much time at the gym? So what? Let the bitch cry and marry Justin Bieber if that is her standard of an attractive man. I repeat- you should NOT give a flying fuck about what women want. You should be strong and build your own empire. And the others will follow. That is the only way.
Start a RUclips channel or blog or whatever man, this thing is the most truthful piece of info in this watered down "information" hub, the world needs more people like you
i agree with the general idea here but it goes a bit too far imo... you have to always do your own thing, look after yourself and your career etc so yeah don't adjust to what a woman wants whole heartedley. If a woman keeps pushing like that then you have to tell her it's an issue for you. Simple.
I didn't read this whole thing, but damn I agree with just the first few sentences. Everytime I go to another country; able to act masculine, lead the date, lead the relationship, make the decisions - girls are all over me. I can't get along with women in the US anymore. I'm tired of the fat, ugly, liberal, feminists that our country is producing. On vacation in Thailand I even met one that was similarly focused on building a business, has old-school values, raised by a hard working dad. In a place where I could have a different girl every day if I wanted. They're out there, but not in the US anymore. Their values are completely influxed in the US, where places like TH: the sex industry can take any woman that thinks she is pretty down a couple of notches.
Rich, I love your stuff man. From personal experience, I think girls like the "arm candy" as much as guys. So yes Aesthetics is the key (big muscles in the right places). I.e., the old school body building look. I would allow that there is, on average, a point of diminishing returns where additional size doesn't really make you more aesthetically pleasing in a woman's eyes.
True i started lifting for geting female attention like many teens, and after i saw the results i realized that hard work can actually get you results, I also liked that i broke records here and there as i progressed with my lifts and started making small goals along my weightlifting journey, I also stopped doing it for getting womens attention and did it because i liked how i felt after i acomplished those small goals. Attention from women when having muscles and taking care of your body is a plus, but it shouldnt be a main motive for working out. Women also dont give a fuck if you have muscles or not, all they care about is your wallet anyways, maybe in high school girls apreciated looks more than your wallet, but eventually those girls get out of highschool and hypergamy kicks in. Then your wallet is a priority and your muscles and look are just a plus.
Who says im looking ? :) You see it doesnt matter to me if a woman has a good paying job or not. I make my own money and can take care of myself. Having a good job and education won't stop women from being hypergamous. I've also dated a woman which had good job and education, and she turned out to be hypergamous and manipulative on top of that. Its just the way it is.
"Alas, how terrible is wisdom when it brings no profit to the wise, Johnny. [Spoken in insistent staccato phrasing]: Frankly you were doomed from the moment you slit that young boy in half, [a let up pause, to energize the next word from the sacrum and let it out gutturally from the throat]- Johnnyyyy!"
Muscle matters. Fitness model Yes, body builder No. I’m 6’3 265lbs. I can get laid in under 4 hours day or night. Game matters but if you have looks and game it’s done. Getting laid does not make you happier or a better person. Having muscle only increases your success rate. No mater what men...please take your time. One wrong girl will ruin your life...or cause you to take your own. I’ve been there.
You’re on point. As he pointed out, one wrong girl can ruin your life! Speaking from experience, no matter how hot she is, is not worth the hassle, there are some crazy people out there. Just go home and rub one off and you’ll be fine. I wish I’ve done that, would have saved me tons of drama last year.
I agree with you! Personally i love the fit guys, but the kind of fit you get from doing sports like swimming or Tae Kwon Do. The big guys you can't even hug completely. Plus the un-natural shape kind of creates a distance.. You nailed the V-shape back and lean arms+ normal fat.
My husband is a surfer, women love muscles. Broad shoulders and the V back is everything. It is a safe feeling. We live in Maui so eye candy everywhere, but most important folks that exercise and do their passion are so much happier and easier to be around. Thanks Rich! 🤙🏼
Left mine this week, she dragged me down for 20 years! I can't wait to feel really good again.. Doing my own thing already and starting to feel good about myself..
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Woman want you to be a fit, easily manipulated,employee minded ,ray ban wearing douch bag..#industrialathlete
well If you are after a worldly girl you are right everything revolves around money and looks. want a girl who isn't after your wallet as much go to God follow him. give up the world even give up on finding love to follow him. mgtowing it anyways you get a different perspective and find a girl who just wants you for your faithfulness in God. World or God has always been the choice and worldly women are shit.
Arborsaurus The terrible u forgot women also want a man with a cape a billion in the bank and a 20 inch penis whos nice but mean, tall and short, bald and afro.
The most muscular bodybuilding type guys I see at the gym usually have the hottest girlfriends that come in with them. Not buying the whole "women aren't into muscles" thing. That's like when men say "I don't like women with giant asses" but then turn around when one walks by.
DynamicUnreal big asses and the biggest asses (or tits) grab the most attention for sure even from me. But it's important not to confuse it with attraction.
You're on the level with most things but this one you're definitely off point. I'm 6ft and 215lb of lean muscle, competitive lifter and I hang with guys (25 to 35) who are all physique competitors, bodybuilders, MMA practitioners etc. All of the big lean guys have no problem pulling women everywhere they go, so long as they aren't ignorant over compensators. The way you carry yourself and how other men treat you (respect and fear) plays a huge role in female attraction. All the studies done on human sexuality show women prefering men with high testosterone markers. Thick arms, vascularity, broad shoulders, V taper, wide jawline, confident stride. Add in personality characteristics like assertiveness, fearlessness/confidence, stoicism, deep voice. You're better off being well muscled like a large boxer or lifter than you are to be "lean and toned" . Also looking dangerous goes a hell of long way.
Being large is generally a sign there's a lot of testosterone at work. Men in that category are more likely not going to be the guy that comes home and hands over his pay check. It also gets into a few other areas. If you're going to the gym that much there's a good chance you're not interested in working 60 hours a week. It's the dad bod thing: it's not aesthetically pleasing to anyone, it just says to women that you have a white collar job that requires nothing physical and you spend a lot of time at it.
My advice: Do what you enjoy, be ambitious and dedicated. Don't do it to impress someone. Be the person you like yourself to be. If a woman doesn't find you appealling with your dedication - so be it, this woman is not for you. If you have goals and work for them without seeming to look for approval and attention - it is awesome and sexy in it's own way. You will only find the right woman by doing what you love since she has similar interests. I mean that is if you are looking for a woman to have a serious relationship with.
Love your videos. You are SO right on the money about sooooo much. And yes, the cold hard truth can and/or DOES 'hurt'... but I think hearing these truths becomes very necessary so that we can learn, genuinely grow and better ourselves. By the way I am one of your FEMALE viewers, and I think more ladies need to see your videos to get a reality check.
A friend of mine who is a regular steroid user tells me that he seems to attract more women when he's cycling on the gear than when not, he says it's almost like they subconsciously smell the extra T in his system...
I’m glad I dumped my gf before thanksgiving this year. I returned all her gifts and began saving and working in myself in every aspect. I’m now beginning to really feel the effects of the red pill. Gotta stay strong
I am currently cutting and taking my weight down 30Ibs which is easy for me, I've noticed women are saying, "You look really well" or "You're looking really good" the slimmer I get. I have been thinking about this for a few weeks now and really analysing the reactions of women. Currently 254Ibs and 18% BF at 6'4, will go down to 230Ibs and 15%BF. This is my median line between looking broad and muscular and looking long and lanky.
I'm going to tell my own experience from a skinnyfat guy to a lean, far above average muscular guy. Being jacked you get a lot more respect instantly in first impressions, from both men and women. You get a lot more looks, if you have a tight shirt or shirtless at a beach or festival, guys will compliment you more, but the amount of stares, approaches, initiations, proximity approaches hoping you'll start a convo from women will be a lot higher. During relationships, my exes and current gf especially always complimented my body, touched my muscles all the time. Now some women won't like it at all, some may even be disgusted, but if you don't go over the top and look unnatural, a fair majority will love it. And the biggest factor why you'd do it is for yourself first of all. You look better so you feel better. You get more respect and confidence. And you get a lot more attention.
:) I guess it depends on the woman and different things do it for everyone. Broad shoulders are nice, I like strong hands, and need someone who can keep up on hikes or swimming or what-ever (some stamina is important ;) ) everything else doesn't matter too much to me (I've dated bigger guys and smaller guys). You look great Rich, really shows that you take care of yourself, you're a good example for sure :)
From my experience by interviewing or listening to a lot of girls opinions: 1. Arm that fits a shirt sleeve 2. Light V shape (shoulder to waiste combo) 3. Obliques, not six pack that much 4. Lean face and jaw muscle 5. Mystique or serious face, no worries about imperfections like scars, nose or ears...white teeth helps a lot, just don't act like advertising your dentist 6. Finger nails, hygiene and not too rough palms 7. A very small percentage feels attraction from a steroid guy, and those are specific girls often with fake tits I have many friends and heard a lot of stories from guys with 6/6/6 who's girls or wifes been cheating on them with a bums that look like crap, and being dumped or divorced.
If you ask girls, they'll say they want a nice guy who shares their feelings and treats them like an equal. Guess we better believe them! Or am I being naive...?
Dear men in the comment section, if you like women you will have to somewhat care about what they think about your appearance. Just like men look for pretty in shape well put together women. a decent women who takes care of herself will do the same. Stop being so sensitive! It's the cold harsh truth! This is real life.
LILIANA SURIEL the thing is a guy can be all that warped in candy but if she thinks she can do better and there is a guy wouldn't she try to go for thay beter guy ?
i couldnt give a bakers fuck about what woman think the last time i was in love it was for 10 minutes!.. then i kicked her ass out my car an went about my life
not all women are the same some like big muscles some dont like some men like big asses and some dont ....do if ur going to the gym dont get muscles for the women get them because u want them...and i do think women like big muscles...not because of the muscles them selves but if u take up alot of space making u more dominant. but u have to have a strong mind to go with the muscles, i cant tell u how many times ive seen big dudes with giant muscles but girly as fuck and cant approach a women big muscles do not increase confidence when it comes to getting a girl the MIND HAS TO BE AS STRONG AS THE BODY!!
Most Women consider other things more important than muscles.But it is sooo nice to be wrapped up in the arms of a muscular Man.Never too late for you guys to muscle up.I promise she will love it Xoxo
@@damianwayne8948 she can't control the guys with muscle females wanna be the good looking one and controlling one and in the center of attention guys who take care of themselves are not to control
If a woman you are hanging around with says you are carrying too much muscle, go to your phone and delete her contact information. In front of her. You paid for that strength with time, effort, and pain. Its just a shit test.
If a guy and girl are lucky they find true love at a young age and stick it through. The rest are in search thinking the grass is greener only to find out it's not. When you're younger single girls like the popular/attractive guy. When you're older the girls like the successful/rich guy. The relationships where the guys are using the girls for their bodies and the girls using the guys for the success. Usually equates to a business relationship not A genuine relationship. The best thing about working out is it makes you feel better and be more positive which girls can sense. I agree girls dig abs over big muscles.
As a man, if you are more muscular (strong) then other men will respect you more, which women find attractive. Its the status that other men give you that women find attractive.
I totally disagree. from what I've seen for over 20 years women love muscles. they say they don't just the sound cool but they really do. just like how women like to see dick Size Doesn't Matter, they are lying again to sound cool. you got to watch what they do and who they choose instead of listening to what they say. I know after a while everybody likes to say the opposite thing because whatever is less popular will grab attention because it's the new ideal. however I've watched guys who have muscles just stand there and women will gravitate them. you can't show your abs when you have clothes on so women go by other things. first thing they want is 1. Height. I've heard women say height doesn't matter and then when I show up looking down on them you should see how bright their eyes get. next thing as muscles whenever I build up my arms women tend to want to hold on to my arms and all they could talk about is my arms and we end up in bed. I'm talking women not just one chick. the next thing they look at is how you dress. if you have a skinny guy show up well dressed and a muscular guy show up well-dressed they're going to go with the muscular guy who was well-dressed, considering that they're the same height. however if a taller guy shows up while dress they're going to go with the tall guy. I taller muscular guy well-dressed is going to beat out a taller skinnier guy who's well-dressed. then you can throw confidence and intelligence in there but again not because a guy has muscles means he's dumb he could also be intelligent in confidence and a bad boy and know the psychology of a woman and he would stand above everybody else especially if he's tall
roger wilson you're totally right. I think the motivation behind it all is the female search for big dick. They expect tall muscular blokes to be big in their pants. It's almost impossible to get the truth out of females on this topic but I've got a few to directly admit it and I've got dozens of others to unwittingly confirm it. Regardless of what they say, their behaviour points to the truth if eyes and mind are both open enough to see what's really going on.
Getting good arms chest back and shoulders just overall decently lean Girls love it. When you get to freak big that’s when they seem to get grossed out.
I hope women see these videos and realize children need secure, loving mom's and dad's. I am a 21 year old woman and these videos have completely changed how I see men and relationships. Thank you. I am glad I came across this sort of stuff before I got any older.
I'll add that clothes play a big part in attracting women. Attain a slim muscular look and then improve your wardrobe. Big muscles are for impressing and intimidating other males.
This is anecdotal, but for the past year and a half, I've been regularly training hard in the gym, and I'm no Arnold but I'm definitely getting lean and muscular, I've never had so many women check me out, tell me I look good. I love it and I'll never stop, it makes my confidence soar!
Lol I've been with my Lady for 8 years, and take it from me, they'll never be happy with you, their job is to keep you on your feet. One man already stated it but f-ck what they think. You're gonna be into a long relationship and realize you do things for others well-being and all the while your life passes you by. Be up front from the start, this is how it is and will always be...
I'm 5'3 and 110 pounds. I have a crush on a mildly muscular guy with a flabby belly area. Even slight moobs. He's my knight, though, even if he doesn't know it :)
Hyper-gamy, from my experience is not just a gold digger mentality. Even now in my early 50s, I still have a muscular build. The women I meet who are recently separated, divorced or have just broken up, most have subtly/slyly hinted "you could kick my ex's ass" I'm only 5'8" but with an Al Pacino like, no bullshit attitude, so I've been told. Anecdotally this is a hindrance. I literally have to say to them. As long as you are not at fault, I would defend you. If you purposely start a fight or flirt with someone else, (being shit tested) do not expect me to back you up. By telling them this early on is a double edged sword. It is just like a mentioning a prenup. A good woman will understand where you are coming from. A hypergamonster will lose interest quickly because you called them on their bullshit before they've had the chance to shit test you. Expect them to walk. I don't envy you, youngsters. Socially, the dynamics have changed. Just keep swimming.
By all means, have at it. If the topic never comes up, you can start the conversation like this. Let me ask your opinion on something. I have a friend who's girlfriend tends to flirt with other guys. Yet he puts up with it. Now, my question to you is, why would any man tolerate that kind of behavior? Personally, I would dump her in a heartbeat. Life is to short to date someone with such low self-esteem. See what her response is. If she defends the girl, more than likely you struck a familiar nerve and likely has done the same. Your response should be, in a curious tone, "interesting". So you condone that type of behavior. Good to know. Now you have her on record. Plan your exit strategy.
Women have their own version of the "Dumb blonde" and that is the guy who is all muscle and no brains. Also men who can not pass a mirror without looking at themselves (vain) is a turn off. Being preoccupied with your appearance makes a man come off as feminine.IMO Intelligence is as sexy as good health, but not the intelligence of someone who is arrogant or talks as an expert on every subject but really does not know what he is talking about. Get off the couch and be curious about the world you live in. Develop your interests and skills. Skills can be seriously sexy. I date a guy who is very good at handling horses and a sail boat along with other things. Watching a guy do something really well is REALLY SEXY.Become competent at stuff. Remember women are watching you as much as you watch them, only what is sexy to them is different. It tends to be what is inside a man as much as the outside (but more "within" unless she is an idiot)Be healthy. Take pride in your appearance (good hygiene). Don't be an actual jerk but be an endearing jerk (playful) A sharp wit and sense of humor are indications of intelligence plus it makes you fun to be around. More women have slept with men because they made them laugh than because they had large muscles.To differing degrees women like a touch of the feminine in a man but to much and she will stop being sexually attracted to you. She must sense a little bit of herself in you but yet you must remain strange and mysterious territory. But don't be weird like that guy "Mystery" who I think latched onto mysterious and went where no man has gone before.If you use money to attract and keep a woman you will attract a woman for your money and not for you. It works the same way as a woman relying solely on her body (sex) to get and keep a man. In the end it does not work because there is always someone with more money or a better body. The only bait you should use to attract a woman is becoming the best person you can become FOR YOURSELF. Treat your life as the precious thing it is. Use it to create true value that lasts. This is what makes a man attractive because he is attractive not only as a man but as a human being.Your life, not a woman, should be the thing you value above all else. Don't waste it like 97% of the human race does because they are so busy living in the future thinking about what they want and don't have, that they miss living in the moment where they could actually being doing something worthwhile and interesting. Do not live for status because this will make you just like everyone else and status seekers are BORING. Instead live for adventure and remain curious like a child.And for the love of God please do not use pornography as a training manual for how to make love to a woman. You pull a woman's hair who is not into that and she is going to get angry. Rough sex is fun but the chemistry has to be there or it goes bad quickly.Sex is a complex psychological act with endless layers. If you approach it as one size fits all you will be a terrible lover. The more you understand a woman's mind the better lover you will be. It is her mind you actually fuck, not her body. You are simply using her body to touch her mind and her soul when you really understand her but that is unfortunately a very rare experience in a woman's life.Guys worry about the size of their junk but that is not the actual problem with men being good lovers. Assuming the guy even cares in the first place, which many don't
Thank you for your well written feedback Katherine. It's no wonder so few relationships are successful, there are so many things that need to be right before two people can live harmoniously, and so few people make any effort to be the person they need to be in order to have the relationship they want. I've been happily single about 14 years, and in that time have grown enormously after so many failed relationships. I've written, I've read, I've watched and I've observed relationships, and after that I can see love for what it is, a dangerous drug used to produce more humans/batteries to create more energy for whoever created this simulation. I'm with Elon, nothing we think is real is real, it's all an elaborate hoax to generate emotionally charged power for the machines.
I found that when I was in to bodybuilding that girls were more in to one night stands. Relationships were impossible. When I dropped about 30lbs and kept it lean I was getting hit on far more.
Kevin Levrone What? Don't comment on RUclips when you drinkin'. LOL. 😉 Everyone cares about looks! It's called attraction. That's like literally what attracts you to a person first!
I have had different results than you. I've never been overweight, but I go through periods where I hit the weights and my body responds immediately. I look better and get bigger and the women seem to like and react positive to me.
Regarding muscles, I found that working out and improving my appearance massively boosts my confidence and mental strength. And women love a confident guy. So I would say definitely yes, having a muscular build and training your body is excellent for attracting women, in an indirect way.
Have to chime in here... big fan and love your work, but when I started working out again and got pretty jacked, the amount of interest shown in my by woman literally quadrupled. When I say jacked, I mean 100kgs (225) of muscle and not too ripped but a pretty trim midsection. Just my experience. Peace brother.
I think he meant unnatural buff guys. Im 5'11 and 240lb. And i dont look ridiculous. Mother nature will do its work. you only start looking ridiculous and unnatural if you are taking something. So dont fret and happy lifting.
The footnote to this stupid ass fucking saying is that “yourself” is whoever the fuck you want it to be. You recreate “yourself” everyday. I have multiple personalities, looks, even accents. I can be whoever the fuck I want to be at any given moment.
It's silly to think that women don't like guys that are in shape. The problem is that she selfishly wants you to spend all of your time catering to her needs. If your time goes into self improvement and not into paying attention to her, she won't like you. The only exception is if your dedication to your self produces an income or benefits her directly. You are not allowed to have personal goals as a man when you are involved with a women. On the other hand, she can do any selfish thing she wants to.
Right! When I dont feel like having sex its a realllly big problem but she can say shes not feeling having sex all the time and then theres no problem. Sick of these bitches.
This makes it sound like women want submissive men who are practically slaves. How can this be considered masculine or attractive? Women often find confident, masculine, dedicated and determined men attractive but a man who has these qualities wouldn't let himself become a slave to a woman solely serving her needs. This is effectively a contradiction. A man a woman can kick around and control is not a man most woman are interested in yet they are interested in this kind of man because he spends all his time catering to her needs and paying her attention? It's clearly a contradiction.
If you make women the center of your world you will be single fast. Despite what they say they don't want to be. They want you to have goals and dreams that they can be a part of but they don't want to be the dream.
@@shortville2nobody can handle the pressure of being “the dream” for long. We all need our own lives and to give a 100% effort to make a relationship work. Doing things together is awesome though, like yes, the gym, or any hobby, church, social gatherings, etc.
Look at happened to rich piana. Dude to flexed to the max and he still died. Keep it in range and don't over do it. Yes muscles will get you laid but don't over do it. Be you and try your best, but NEVER over do it.
Never cared about guys with muscles until I started weight-lifting myself and changed my lifestyle - so now I really do notice the more muscular guys to the non ones - and thats only because my own interest in lifestyle has changed so now I would so go for a muscular dedicated guy as I am quite dedicated in my fitness too . Unfortunately I don't think I could date an out of shaped guy anymore .
I would agree with you Bea Vegan, Lifestyles need to be aligned. If your dating a bar fly when your into fitness and eating clean then it doesn't work.... period.
That's very interesting. I've experienced the same after I began bodybuilding 5 years ago. I also notice women physiques more. Not just the obvious areas such as the chest and the glutes but also the back the shoulders & arms and legs. Women who train are definitely more of a turn on now than before I began training and it's not just because of the appearance but because of the mental development that comes with it.
I'm under 10% body fat, 6'2" and hover between 238 and go up to 248 lbs. I'm not near as big as the past, but I'm still jacked. I wasn't into nailing randoms, but my size was always a plus with women. I've had women in elevators randomly touch me for thrills. Animal magnetism. Big strong athletic guys trigger something in their brains. It's absolute BS that women don't dig jacked men. Maybe if you're butt ugly and antisocial. It won't keep the girl if you're a loser, but it definitely helps. Get to the gym. Build your body and mind. Constantly strive to improve and achieve. That's the secret. Women are drawn to success. Big and muscular is a sign of success. Go for it!
6'1", 155lbs, and I'm basically invisible to women as far as I can tell. I think I have too much of a nerd body and not enough well developed swimmer body. So my goal to start with is 175lbs.
Am I going to attract the better women if I build some meat on my bones? Never had muscles, look like a teen at 32, should I start working out? The women I've been with never complained of the lack of my muscle mass
If you’re an LTR seeker, I’d say this is fair but bigger muscles are AMAZING to keep a rotation of spinning plates and also attracting they younger ones
Yes exactly.. I am jacked 6'1" 230 lbs shredded and Im spinning 4 or 5 plates at any given week (they are all 8s and 9s) and everyonme one of them LOVE how big and built i am.
I'm short, bald, broke, unintelligent, I'm always wrong, I suck in bed..... but as soon as I made over six figure, I'm taller, smarter, I'm always right, and I'm very good in bed... how ironic.
Lol!
Yep!
X C fuck that.
I mean it probably raised your confidence, making you better in bed and such
X C
Are you a pastor? LMAO
My experience: went from totally skinny, non masculine look to ripped in gym and it makes x1000% difference. Women really love jacked guys, it's the first thing they see on you "this guy is healthy" and then "this guy is disciplined" and then "other women will like him too" so preselection comes in.
@port nut what the fuck are you even saying?
@@user-mq8xg5sp9c We've got the greatest scientists decoding whatever the fuck he just said.
@@jorgefigueroa2231 This cracked me up
@@jorgefigueroa2231 any breakthrough yet?
Yeah I've been skinny my entire life but once I started getting in the gym suddenly the woman who didn't look before definitely were open to talking all of a sudden I'm still slim and short 5'6 Small 140lb but giving self love to this journey and still dedicated to the gym, The protein powders I've tried don't do well with my stomach I regurgitate that $hit! Keeping it natural.
Women will enter a relationship and slowly begin trying to change you. If they are successful they will leave you or cheat on you with a guy who is who you were. They actually don't want you to change, they think they do but they don't. They want to see if you have principles and resolve. I have seen this too many times.
This is very true, and true of all women I've been with as well. Having inherited 'nice-guy-itis', I thought 'being nice' was going to appeal to her. Not at all.
Broken women do love men they can control!
Luke and film, you're both right, it just depends on what phase they're in. They're parasitic chameleons deep down
William Thompson ,,,, That is definitely true 💯
Ebony Travel Tomassi wrote, "its a fallacy to look at hypergamy from a logical relational equity perspective." We men tend to see things through merit and equity, i.e. the qualities, strengths and efforts you put in are to be met equitably, but not so with women, hypergamy overrides any such thinking, it could take a woman a few months, or 25 years, it's forever looming. "No man in history has ever fully or accurately vetted any woman he married. " R.M. pp.194-196. Spot on!
Parasites often drop off a host when something better comes along or if the host isn't providing as much as before or when they are satisfied and see no further benefit hanging on.
Hmmm, .. do you know my ex wife?
surely you can’t refer to all women as parasites 🤣
Ouch
@@aidanLVbeats most women
@@stjohnent yikes
At 54, I can say that being toned with a bit of muscle, nice clothes and good grooming makes a world of difference. I also worked on my socials skills where needed. My confidence has skyrocketed and women notice me. Be sure to swallow the red pill to protect yourself and your assets. Have a life that doesn't depend on a female. I love women, but they are dangerous to your mental well being and finances if things don't work out. Do what is in YOUR best interests.
In my experience muscles helps get women HANDS DOWN. Muscles are attractive, make you more confident and look dominant.
Muscles are a great addition to personality. Dont downplay them.
Just exceptions
Muscles are good for attracting one night stands. Girls love money over muscles all day for long term
Yes. Getting in shape changes a man's confidence. Not only will others look at him differently but he will now look differently at others.
@@mrmackey8956 coming from a guy here that was bigger and pretty cut, for a long time. Your comment sums it up best. Yeah, they like muscles some, but they like money way, way, way more.
Muscles: athletic (strength, triathalon-looking), or bodybuilder'ish, which are you saying? But that women prefer athletic/military body over bodybuilders' size was established a long time ago.
Women aren't turned off by a guy putting time in at the gym, they are turned off by him doing something besides serving her.
Justin Valois Exactly!
LoL no. Women see muscles and know the bigger the muscles the smaller the wallet and more fucked up the priorities.
No name how big muscles mean small wallet if it takes money to get big supplements and meals carbs calories protein
Squatzoatz lol I am one of "those guys"
Patrick King exactly. All their paychecks get spent on supps
I'm 38. Always been slim and athletic. Toned, but not built. Although I have to work harder for that these days! Women in general definitely prefer an athletic body to a built body. However, I will say that they are initially attracted to it, but once in a long term relationship they see it as a threat. I have had women after a few months of being together, passive aggressively, try and convince me that I don't need to exercise, "because you're fine as you are".
Hmm. In my blue pill days I would've taken that as a sweet compliment, but I realise now that it's because they feel the threat of you attracting other women. And what way to best keep a woman wanting to please you? Yep, be attractive to other women. They both love and hate that shit!
Dude I'm the same an ha e had that same thing too. Your fine don't worry about it speech. Its competition anxiety as ya said cos they know other women will be all over ya and she's trying to pull ya down to her level of doing fk all
Just had the same experience. Very true.
I always thought it was because they felt like you were better than them and would leave them for another female. They say not to train so you wont have options to leave them, then when you get disgusting and fat, they think they're better than you and leave.
The first thing that came to my mind is that they probably felt subconsciously threatened, yes, but maybe because they felt bad about themselves and their own bodies. Seeing you be fit and getting fitter may have made them feel comparatively ugly. This behavior is more fitting with modern women, at least from my observation and when I analyze myself.
Agree with most of what you say. As for muscular guys. Used to bounce in clubs and was huge. Girls were all over me. I suspect high test levels produce pheromones which stimulate their systems. Don't believe the bs. Big guys get have it all!
Never tell your wife about your business. Never confide in her anything about your illnesses. Never let her be the banker in the family. Always stay in great physical shape. Take my advice.
That’s a sad way to live your life
@@immers2410 What's sad about it? You need to be in control
@@garymaccagnone3669 facts.
They can tell you what they want, these types of messages speak from experience and all of us who have suffered because of it know what it is.
@@egegulkaya2525 Know the facts.
Stop Worrying About Women So Damn Much!
PRECISELY
SERIOUS AMEN!
Based!
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Agreed, and the right way to do that is to focus on your goals.
When you are muscular, the more you feel you are an Alpha, That alone will help you to get the attention of women. It's not the muscles, it's how it makes you feel!
Exactly. It literally changes your mood, emotions, how you carry yourself and feel about yourself, you will notice how people treat and interact with you differently. People will respect you more. You will have more presence. All these in return, change who you are for the better.
And dont worry about getting too buff or muscular. Unless you are taking something, you cant look weird and unnatural.
Truth
Yes knowing your strength
It's the muscles, first and foremost.
Usually guys who say muscles don't make a difference are the guys who aren't super fit...just generally fit. Get to 10-12% BF and then tell me that women don't like muscles...
Exactly!
going for it!
He mentioned "Calvin Klein" - which is lower BF, but when he means "muscles" he means the bodybuilders. And i think it comes from relatability or lack thereof.
Listen thats what he said
Have zero muscles. My girlfriend x 6 feet 200 pounds muscles. He was 5 min in bed .. you dont need muscles
Remember brothers: Women age like milk, while men age like wine 💪🏼
But men get ugly and old just like women...what y'all think y'all some demi gods or something lol whattt
@@stanfatou2002 but we still got money, which most of y'all getting of off
Women have their pick and all the power from 17-30 ish when their sexual market value is greatest. Thereafter, there’s a steady decline, which soon accelerates. By the time a woman hits 50, she becomes invisible to men.
Men only reach the prime of their sexual market value in their late 30’s. If he looks after himself, this can be extended into his 50’s.
@@stanfatou2002 No shit sweetheart. We are demi-gods
@@VoiceOfThe cope
Low body fat guys! I dropped my body fat from 20% to 10% and women notice. It's not just the six pack- your face will look better.
I look like a somalian kid, gaunted starving hollow face, like stage IV cancer, when I have low body fat, although with big delts and V-shape and big biceps, so it's a no for me. low body fat is not for everybody, you SHOULD LOOK photogenic otherwise don't do it !!!!
@@sapitron i died at this comment xD
The most amount of attention I've had from women was when I got muscles. Nothing huge, just decent size arms and shoulders and a near six pack, weighted about 95kgs. Especially in online dating I get 20 times the amount of views on my profile. If I could go back in time and tell my younger self something it would be to get muscles. It also made me feel great so do it for yourself anyway.
My marriage ended in November ! Best Christmas I've ever had !! Don't wait guys !
William Goble funny.
William D. Goble Yep. Been there. The Christmas’s keep getting better.
Jajajaja savage
Mine on New year's eve as I couldn't imagine starting another year of misery. It's been best 3 months I had in years so far
Ha!!!!
Women say they don't want muscular man. When you become one, you see this is one big pile of shit. That's just my experience.
yeah its quite alot that do. I think some are confusing the heavy bodybuilders
the bigger i got...the more women that look and want to contact me
Facts
Yep. When I was 5' 11' and 225 well built, women would come up out of the blue and hit on me. They would simultaneously be feeling my shoulders and arms and smiling ear to ear. I could say anything during a conversation and they would keep talking to me.
Now that I am thinner, I rarely get hit on and when I do my verbal game has to be on point or the woman loses interest quickly.
The figure I give is if you are like 20% less than a pro bodybuilder then you are good, anywhere upto hugh jackman as wolverine, possibly slightly larger works, and yes as someone who got to that level once I can tell you it drives women crazy to the point you get random women coming up to you in the street weekly.
I have always hypothesized that most women dont like really jacked guys because they feel threatened by a man's commitment to his body and that said commitment would be in direct competition with her needs. I wonder if there is any truth to it...
I would hypothesize that it triggers their insecurity because they know a man who is fit probably has attention and options to stray if he so desired.
its 2 fold. first, it makes them feel shittier about themselves when you are in shape and second, it makes it harder for them because other women will take more interest.
HandGrenades 4Balls dude you say all those things but i have seen many many dudes that match that description. not trying to be a white knight or anything i hate them with passion but to be honest most of the things women are criticized for are also present in men sometimes at least. i mean i know some really nice down to earth chicks who were loyal and supportive of their SO who got cheated on and left behind after years of Ltr.
Damian Furrer whats beta physical traits?
Women don't want a man (prettier) than she is cause she knows there's a chance he will leave her.
My marriage license cost $30. Divorce, $30,000. The divorce was a better value.
Why is divorce so expensive?
Because it’s worth it
You got out relatively cheaply - any tips??
@@JohnSmith-sj2dk
The only man who owns anything is a single man.
You got off light!!!!!
Workout dress nice build some muscle and continue to grow in your manhood.Screw what women want. They don't even know what they want. Women tell me all the time I have too much muscle but they can't keep they hands off me. Smh
Well Said! They don't need to know our drive.
You’re on test at least
Best comment! Muscles make panties wet on sight.
Exactly
Truth
I agree with you here. For me personally, I’ve always been more attracted to the lean muscular look rather than the bulky muscular physique.
Do you also go for nice guys who share their feelings? Lol.
Haley Kristen
Good girl. Lol
@@maxpot46 dude relax, shes just trying to be honest
He lifts you Haley on the days the gym is closed. So afterwards he'll flip ya..flip ya for real.
Just be the best you, following your passions. Eff everyone's opinions.
Easier said then done my friend
Facts
This always comes from people who have it so easy and im sure you have it easy. Dont start with me. I worked 7 days a week for years and worked on my "dream" in the offtime and before bed...i literally worked 24/7 and there is no sign of reaching my goal in the next 5 years and im allready 4 years in...rich people can do that, all others may suffer their entire existance and never reach their goals. ID NOT TRADE WITH THIS OLD MAN IN THE VIDEO THOUGH. Damn i love my hair and my super lean body without so much hair. I love beeing me. I dont want to be nobody else. Im taking the pros and cons. Its fine for me.
Have a nice day.
Erwin agsalud z
From personal experience younger women tend to go for the Calvin Klein look. When I graduated from high school I was 6'2" 220lbs. Girls my age didn't look my way. When I got into college, because my mature look, I attracted women older than me. About 4 years older than me.
I think all men can benefit from dressing well. I stepped my game up in grad school and women will actually approach you if you dress well.
yes dressing well helps.
LILIANA SURIEL Women want a man who is an easily fit manipulated loser.
Darron Brown 👍🏽
Dodged a bullet with that slur.
I did dress well for 2 months now in college but I stop dressing well since many girls don’t really talk or be attracted to me so I dress like a nerd now
Can't help remembering the wise words of one of my classmates: "To get a girlfriend, you have to be a stereotype."
Oof, that's a good quote
What stereotype?
I'm pretty sure he said archetype.
I don't get it, could you explain that?
Damn yep
Life is a game and you show us younger guys how to play it fair so we don't get screwed over. Thank you for that. Your refreshingly insightful. Like the big brother I never had.
I'm sorry but life is not fair, and there's no such thing as a "fair" game. You can play nice and decent, but sometimes you have to get down and dirty. You either win or lose, there is nothing in between. Find your role in life and Master it, that's my best advice. You're good with sales? Great, be the best Seller you can be. You get the message.
Women love muscles. They don't like the unnatural steroid look though, but as long as you're natural you should get as big while staying relatively lean as possible. When me and my best buddy go swimming we catch so many women looking at us it's amusing. I remember when I got with a girl once, she was always making jokes about my fitness or muscles in a negative way. Untill we ended up in bed and she couldn't stop drooling over my muscles lol. I think that women telling you something negative about your physique (if you have a good physique) is just a shit test to see if you have the character to go with the body. Being a low self esteem bodybuilder is a huge turn off for them but if you're a confident muscular dude they love you.
Women pretend not to like muscles because they want the guy to feel insecure.
It’s a weird battle they have going on. They want the alpha by nature but at the same time they wanna slowly change them and make them submit like a beta and then leave them for an alpha. Constant shit test for life.
The moment you ask yourself what women want you already lost. They like a guy who don't ask himself stupid questions like that. It's simple really, you like a girl you go talk to her, she doesn't like you, forget about her and move on. One day you'll find your girl, don't obsess over it like a teenage girl.
You are right Rich. We don't want body builders. Muscle definition is nice. No extremes. Know and Be Thyself..
R. Ann Rousseau women want men to be themselves so they can accurately assess their hypergamic value. That is why women will always repeat this saying. Fortunately for us men we can hack women’s biological nature for our own benefit. It’s a beautiful world 🙂
The thing is you are not supposed to ADJUST to what women want. Keep going your own way and do things the way you see fit. That is called a STABILITY of your own choices, decisions and world views. Train, sleep, eat, repeat. Do not allow society to drag you down. Do not deviate from your own unique course. You should not ADJUST to ever changing, empty and shallow societal norms. A man is a predator. View things from that perspective. Therefore a man should act like a predator. Be a predator. Be tough. Men start at the wall and depart from it. We build our muscle mass, our careers, our wealth and savings and, on top of that- we accumulate knowledge and wisdom. Women, on the contrary, hit the wall around 30 and slide down the path of physical degradation. Therefore we should not pay attention to what women want/ need/ desire. We are the rulers of this world. We run the shit. Women only follow us. If we allow them. That is how things were in the past, that is how we should do today. The patriarchy is the only answer to modern pussyfied and degraded society of imbeciles. If you consider yourself a real man, you should not give a flying fuck what average pussy is thinking about you. Your bicep is too big? You spend too much time at the gym? So what? Let the bitch cry and marry Justin Bieber if that is her standard of an attractive man. I repeat- you should NOT give a flying fuck about what women want. You should be strong and build your own empire. And the others will follow. That is the only way.
Start a RUclips channel or blog or whatever man, this thing is the most truthful piece of info in this watered down "information" hub, the world needs more people like you
i agree with the general idea here but it goes a bit too far imo... you have to always do your own thing, look after yourself and your career etc so yeah don't adjust to what a woman wants whole heartedley. If a woman keeps pushing like that then you have to tell her it's an issue for you. Simple.
When i was reading i bursted out laughing that the part with justin Bieber.
I didn't read this whole thing, but damn I agree with just the first few sentences. Everytime I go to another country; able to act masculine, lead the date, lead the relationship, make the decisions - girls are all over me. I can't get along with women in the US anymore. I'm tired of the fat, ugly, liberal, feminists that our country is producing.
On vacation in Thailand I even met one that was similarly focused on building a business, has old-school values, raised by a hard working dad. In a place where I could have a different girl every day if I wanted. They're out there, but not in the US anymore. Their values are completely influxed in the US, where places like TH: the sex industry can take any woman that thinks she is pretty down a couple of notches.
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Muscle is good, within reason.
Rich, I love your stuff man.
From personal experience, I think girls like the "arm candy" as much as guys. So yes Aesthetics is the key (big muscles in the right places). I.e., the old school body building look.
I would allow that there is, on average, a point of diminishing returns where additional size doesn't really make you more aesthetically pleasing in a woman's eyes.
I agree Tanner. The "Golden Ratio" is the key to the best Aesthetic physique. More than that is not cost-efficient.
True i started lifting for geting female attention like many teens, and after i saw the results i realized that hard work can actually get you results, I also liked that i broke records here and there as i progressed with my lifts and started making small goals along my weightlifting journey, I also stopped doing it for getting womens attention and did it because i liked how i felt after i acomplished those small goals. Attention from women when having muscles and taking care of your body is a plus, but it shouldnt be a main motive for working out.
Women also dont give a fuck if you have muscles or not, all they care about is your wallet anyways, maybe in high school girls apreciated looks more than your wallet, but eventually those girls get out of highschool and hypergamy kicks in. Then your wallet is a priority and your muscles and look are just a plus.
Harry Angel bullshit.. You are looking for the wrong woman... Find one who has an education and a good paying job... Done.
Who says im looking ? :)
You see it doesnt matter to me if a woman has a good paying job or not. I make my own money and can take care of myself. Having a good job and education won't stop women from being hypergamous. I've also dated a woman which had good job and education, and she turned out to be hypergamous and manipulative on top of that. Its just the way it is.
"Alas, how terrible is wisdom when it brings no profit to the wise, Johnny. [Spoken in insistent staccato phrasing]: Frankly you were doomed from the moment you slit that young boy in half, [a let up pause, to energize the next word from the sacrum and let it out gutturally from the throat]- Johnnyyyy!"
Muscle matters. Fitness model Yes, body builder No. I’m 6’3 265lbs. I can get laid in under 4 hours day or night. Game matters but if you have looks and game it’s done. Getting laid does not make you happier or a better person. Having muscle only increases your success rate. No mater what men...please take your time. One wrong girl will ruin your life...or cause you to take your own. I’ve been there.
Good comment aside from last few sentences imo.
265 ISnt fitness model look brother! Thats Bodybuilding territory and no you cant get laid with hotties in under 4 hours! Land whales you can!
You’re on point.
As he pointed out, one wrong girl can ruin your life!
Speaking from experience, no matter how hot she is, is not worth the hassle, there are some crazy people out there.
Just go home and rub one off and you’ll be fine. I wish I’ve done that, would have saved me tons of drama last year.
I agree with you! Personally i love the fit guys, but the kind of fit you get from doing sports like swimming or Tae Kwon Do. The big guys you can't even hug completely. Plus the un-natural shape kind of creates a distance.. You nailed the V-shape back and lean arms+ normal fat.
If you're too good at taking care of yourself then you'll never die and they'll never get to collect that sweet monayy.
no one never dies
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My husband is a surfer, women love muscles. Broad shoulders and the V back is everything. It is a safe feeling.
We live in Maui so eye candy everywhere, but most important folks that exercise and do their passion are so much happier and easier to be around.
Thanks Rich! 🤙🏼
he just said that, surfers are the lean Calkin Klein type look,
Another great video! Huge muscles have never been attractive to me, but a man who looks fit and proportionate is appealing.
Left mine this week, she dragged me down for 20 years!
I can't wait to feel really good again..
Doing my own thing already and starting to feel good about myself..
Woman want you to be a fit, easily manipulated,employee minded ,ray ban wearing douch bag..#industrialathlete
well If you are after a worldly girl you are right everything revolves around money and looks.
want a girl who isn't after your wallet as much go to God follow him.
give up the world even give up on finding love to follow him.
mgtowing it anyways you get a different perspective and find a girl who just wants you for your faithfulness in God.
World or God has always been the choice and worldly women are shit.
Arborsaurus The terrible u forgot women also want a man with a cape a billion in the bank and a 20 inch penis whos nice but mean, tall and short, bald and afro.
Damn! That's me
But I like wearing ray bans. Shit.
What's employee minded mean?
I disagree. I'm a pretty jacked guy and I catch women staring at me all the time. Especially married ones.
D Baker how do you know they are married? And why especially when they are married?
D Baker this is unrelated but I must say, your last name is lit
they were walking with their husbands? duh
Good comment
expecially the a married ones, same situation for me, and the husband look at you aggressivly xd
The most muscular bodybuilding type guys I see at the gym usually have the hottest girlfriends that come in with them. Not buying the whole "women aren't into muscles" thing. That's like when men say "I don't like women with giant asses" but then turn around when one walks by.
DynamicUnreal big asses and the biggest asses (or tits) grab the most attention for sure even from me. But it's important not to confuse it with attraction.
DynamicUnreal and there girlfriends look at the lean guys or body protionate guys all the time while there boyfriends lunk weights no cardio
Caveman man I catch a dude wife starring at me between his sets all the time
Stephon Clinkscales its beautiful
yeah I don't buy it either. women LOVE guys who are built
You're on the level with most things but this one you're definitely off point. I'm 6ft and 215lb of lean muscle, competitive lifter and I hang with guys (25 to 35) who are all physique competitors, bodybuilders, MMA practitioners etc. All of the big lean guys have no problem pulling women everywhere they go, so long as they aren't ignorant over compensators. The way you carry yourself and how other men treat you (respect and fear) plays a huge role in female attraction.
All the studies done on human sexuality show women prefering men with high testosterone markers. Thick arms, vascularity, broad shoulders, V taper, wide jawline, confident stride. Add in personality characteristics like assertiveness, fearlessness/confidence, stoicism, deep voice.
You're better off being well muscled like a large boxer or lifter than you are to be "lean and toned" . Also looking dangerous goes a hell of long way.
Lets agree to disagree.
Did you say "deep voice" is a personality characteristic?
Exactly disagree thumbs down
theperfectbeing This is 100% correct
What does 215lbs of lean muscle mean, because almost assuredly you walk around at over 10% bodyfat.
Being large is generally a sign there's a lot of testosterone at work. Men in that category are more likely not going to be the guy that comes home and hands over his pay check. It also gets into a few other areas. If you're going to the gym that much there's a good chance you're not interested in working 60 hours a week. It's the dad bod thing: it's not aesthetically pleasing to anyone, it just says to women that you have a white collar job that requires nothing physical and you spend a lot of time at it.
Being a FIT man is very important. Gives you the first notice and triggers primal desires.
My advice: Do what you enjoy, be ambitious and dedicated. Don't do it to impress someone. Be the person you like yourself to be. If a woman doesn't find you appealling with your dedication - so be it, this woman is not for you. If you have goals and work for them without seeming to look for approval and attention - it is awesome and sexy in it's own way. You will only find the right woman by doing what you love since she has similar interests. I mean that is if you are looking for a woman to have a serious relationship with.
Love your videos. You are SO right on the money about sooooo much. And yes, the cold hard truth can and/or DOES 'hurt'... but I think hearing these truths becomes very necessary so that we can learn, genuinely grow and better ourselves. By the way I am one of your FEMALE viewers, and I think more ladies need to see your videos to get a reality check.
A friend of mine who is a regular steroid user tells me that he seems to attract more women when he's cycling on the gear than when not, he says it's almost like they subconsciously smell the extra T in his system...
I’m glad I dumped my gf before thanksgiving this year. I returned all her gifts and began saving and working in myself in every aspect. I’m now beginning to really feel the effects of the red pill. Gotta stay strong
Gotta agree with the muscle part. It’s nice to have someone disciplined and cut but not too interested in guys who are overly buff.
It helps, but it's overrated massively by those in the fitness community.
Women like strong men, even if they are on the chubby side. As long as they look like they can protect her
I am currently cutting and taking my weight down 30Ibs which is easy for me, I've noticed women are saying, "You look really well" or "You're looking really good" the slimmer I get. I have been thinking about this for a few weeks now and really analysing the reactions of women.
Currently 254Ibs and 18% BF at 6'4, will go down to 230Ibs and 15%BF.
This is my median line between looking broad and muscular and looking long and lanky.
I'm going to tell my own experience from a skinnyfat guy to a lean, far above average muscular guy.
Being jacked you get a lot more respect instantly in first impressions, from both men and women. You get a lot more looks, if you have a tight shirt or shirtless at a beach or festival, guys will compliment you more, but the amount of stares, approaches, initiations, proximity approaches hoping you'll start a convo from women will be a lot higher.
During relationships, my exes and current gf especially always complimented my body, touched my muscles all the time.
Now some women won't like it at all, some may even be disgusted, but if you don't go over the top and look unnatural, a fair majority will love it. And the biggest factor why you'd do it is for yourself first of all. You look better so you feel better. You get more respect and confidence. And you get a lot more attention.
:) I guess it depends on the woman and different things do it for everyone. Broad shoulders are nice, I like strong hands, and need someone who can keep up on hikes or swimming or what-ever (some stamina is important ;) ) everything else doesn't matter too much to me (I've dated bigger guys and smaller guys). You look great Rich, really shows that you take care of yourself, you're a good example for sure :)
From my experience by interviewing or listening to a lot of girls opinions:
1. Arm that fits a shirt sleeve
2. Light V shape (shoulder to waiste combo)
3. Obliques, not six pack that much
4. Lean face and jaw muscle
5. Mystique or serious face, no worries about imperfections like scars, nose or ears...white teeth helps a lot, just don't act like advertising your dentist
6. Finger nails, hygiene and not too rough palms
7. A very small percentage feels attraction from a steroid guy, and those are specific girls often with fake tits
I have many friends and heard a lot of stories from guys with 6/6/6 who's girls or wifes been cheating on them with a bums that look like crap, and being dumped or divorced.
If you ask girls, they'll say they want a nice guy who shares their feelings and treats them like an equal. Guess we better believe them!
Or am I being naive...?
Yes, every white girl I've dated has told me, my facial structure was their thing!
"6/6/6"?
I like muscles just not the steroid type muscles, as long as a man can lift me tho I like ahahaha :-)
@Chris even that's not enough dude. You need to be able to lift them to the sky.
The magic word here is... as long he cam lift ME!. Its never about you guys, its allways about HER
@@petrusxramulus564 I didn't mean it in a bad way. Idc if my guy is muscular or not. If he's strong enough to lift me than that's good enough for me .
@says howitis Yep
@Álvaro de Bazán Well since your probably weak as hell I'd say you'd need one . But my husband is strong enough so no thanks .
Dear men in the comment section, if you like women you will have to somewhat care about what they think about your appearance. Just like men look for pretty in shape well put together women. a decent women who takes care of herself will do the same. Stop being so sensitive! It's the cold harsh truth! This is real life.
LILIANA SURIEL the thing is a guy can be all that warped in candy but if she thinks she can do better and there is a guy wouldn't she try to go for thay beter guy ?
Jennerick Martina no.
i couldnt give a bakers fuck about what woman think the last time i was in love it was for 10 minutes!.. then i kicked her ass out my car an went about my life
LILIANA SURIEL
As usual I am impressed you are very perceptive, smart, and honest
Wendy Barker thanks!
not all women are the same some like big muscles some dont like some men like big asses and some dont ....do if ur going to the gym dont get muscles for the women get them because u want them...and i do think women like big muscles...not because of the muscles them selves but if u take up alot of space making u more dominant. but u have to have a strong mind to go with the muscles, i cant tell u how many times ive seen big dudes with giant muscles but girly as fuck and cant approach a women big muscles do not increase confidence when it comes to getting a girl the MIND HAS TO BE AS STRONG AS THE BODY!!
Katsu Quiet amen!
Most Women consider other things more important than muscles.But it is sooo nice to be wrapped up in the arms of a muscular Man.Never too late for you guys to muscle up.I promise she will love it Xoxo
I think women are intimidated by muscles sometimes... I personally prefer guys in decent shape...
We all know what that means...
@@luisvanden2053 what does that mean?
@@damianwayne8948 she can't control the guys with muscle females wanna be the good looking one and controlling one and in the center of attention guys who take care of themselves are not to control
@@brucepower3429 That's a valid point
Started doing that crazy level of self care and lost 100lbs this year… and my ex too 😂. Thanks for the content man.
Through my experience, the athletic build such a boxer, basketball or football player seems to produce positive results.
Football player? Lol, I hope you don't mean NFL, because those guys are in another league from the others on your list
If a woman you are hanging around with says you are carrying too much muscle, go to your phone and delete her contact information. In front of her. You paid for that strength with time, effort, and pain. Its just a shit test.
If a guy and girl are lucky they find true love at a young age and stick it through. The rest are in search thinking the grass is greener only to find out it's not. When you're younger single girls like the popular/attractive guy. When you're older the girls like the successful/rich guy. The relationships where the guys are using the girls for their bodies and the girls using the guys for the success. Usually equates to a business relationship not A genuine relationship. The best thing about working out is it makes you feel better and be more positive which girls can sense. I agree girls dig abs over big muscles.
you got it right exactly, fuck those fake relationships, and a genuine one is so hard to find.
@@nimitytei4715 A lot of men don't have a pleasant enough personality to be in a long term relationship though.. I can admit this, most men cannot
As a man, if you are more muscular (strong) then other men will respect you more, which women find attractive. Its the status that other men give you that women find attractive.
I totally disagree. from what I've seen for over 20 years women love muscles. they say they don't just the sound cool but they really do. just like how women like to see dick Size Doesn't Matter, they are lying again to sound cool. you got to watch what they do and who they choose instead of listening to what they say. I know after a while everybody likes to say the opposite thing because whatever is less popular will grab attention because it's the new ideal. however I've watched guys who have muscles just stand there and women will gravitate them. you can't show your abs when you have clothes on so women go by other things. first thing they want is 1. Height. I've heard women say height doesn't matter and then when I show up looking down on them you should see how bright their eyes get. next thing as muscles whenever I build up my arms women tend to want to hold on to my arms and all they could talk about is my arms and we end up in bed. I'm talking women not just one chick. the next thing they look at is how you dress. if you have a skinny guy show up well dressed and a muscular guy show up well-dressed they're going to go with the muscular guy who was well-dressed, considering that they're the same height. however if a taller guy shows up while dress they're going to go with the tall guy. I taller muscular guy well-dressed is going to beat out a taller skinnier guy who's well-dressed. then you can throw confidence and intelligence in there but again not because a guy has muscles means he's dumb he could also be intelligent in confidence and a bad boy and know the psychology of a woman and he would stand above everybody else especially if he's tall
roger wilson you're totally right. I think the motivation behind it all is the female search for big dick. They expect tall muscular blokes to be big in their pants. It's almost impossible to get the truth out of females on this topic but I've got a few to directly admit it and I've got dozens of others to unwittingly confirm it.
Regardless of what they say, their behaviour points to the truth if eyes and mind are both open enough to see what's really going on.
Gym huge often equals gear which equals tiny penis .
Women: Dick size doesnt matter
Also women who've had a big dick
"You've ruined sex for me."
What an elaborate and articulated lot of bullshit sir.
Big muscles... No thank you!
Fit and well toned... Yes please!
my preference is for muscular / large men. I feel like there are a lot of us who do like that. I follow bodybuilding though so maybe I'm an outlier
Getting good arms chest back and shoulders just overall decently lean Girls love it. When you get to freak big that’s when they seem to get grossed out.
I hope women see these videos and realize children need secure, loving mom's and dad's. I am a 21 year old woman and these videos have completely changed how I see men and relationships. Thank you. I am glad I came across this sort of stuff before I got any older.
Ry Normal men are not misogynistic like this asshole.
If you want to get into muscular shape then go for it but do it cuz you want to and not because you want to impress some dumb brawd
I'll add that clothes play a big part in attracting women. Attain a slim muscular look and then improve your wardrobe.
Big muscles are for impressing and intimidating other males.
Agreed.
I agree with the muscles portion for sure. Get rid of the flab boys and rebuild just enough to look great in a good fitting shirt, that's it. Look out
This is anecdotal, but for the past year and a half, I've been regularly training hard in the gym, and I'm no Arnold but I'm definitely getting lean and muscular, I've never had so many women check me out, tell me I look good. I love it and I'll never stop, it makes my confidence soar!
Lol I've been with my Lady for 8 years, and take it from me, they'll never be happy with you, their job is to keep you on your feet. One man already stated it but f-ck what they think. You're gonna be into a long relationship and realize you do things for others well-being and all the while your life passes you by. Be up front from the start, this is how it is and will always be...
I'm 5'3 and 110 pounds. I have a crush on a mildly muscular guy with a flabby belly area. Even slight moobs. He's my knight, though, even if he doesn't know it :)
Wiliam Forsythe damn son
Hyper-gamy, from my experience is not just a gold digger mentality. Even now in my early 50s, I still have a muscular build. The women I meet who are recently separated, divorced or have just broken up, most have subtly/slyly hinted "you could kick my ex's ass" I'm only 5'8" but with an Al Pacino like, no bullshit attitude, so I've been told. Anecdotally this is a hindrance. I literally have to say to them. As long as you are not at fault, I would defend you. If you purposely start a fight or flirt with someone else, (being shit tested) do not expect me to back you up. By telling them this early on is a double edged sword. It is just like a mentioning a prenup. A good woman will understand where you are coming from. A hypergamonster will lose interest quickly because you called them on their bullshit before they've had the chance to shit test you. Expect them to walk. I don't envy you, youngsters. Socially, the dynamics have changed. Just keep swimming.
Wiley Scrapper well said, I may even adopt the no bullshit line there. Would save me the trouble and energy of dealing with unsuitable women
Prenups are toilet paper, they are routinely thrown out. Just don't get married
Wiley Scrapper respect that but a woman will be a woman. They keep shit going.
By all means, have at it. If the topic never comes up, you can start the conversation like this. Let me ask your opinion on something. I have a friend who's girlfriend tends to flirt with other guys. Yet he puts up with it. Now, my question to you is, why would any man tolerate that kind of behavior? Personally, I would dump her in a heartbeat. Life is to short to date someone with such low self-esteem. See what her response is. If she defends the girl, more than likely you struck a familiar nerve and likely has done the same. Your response should be, in a curious tone, "interesting". So you condone that type of behavior. Good to know. Now you have her on record. Plan your exit strategy.
@@johnvas4173 You still active on youtube? You seem cool bro.
Women have their own version of the "Dumb blonde" and that is the guy who is all muscle and no brains. Also men who can not pass a mirror without looking at themselves (vain) is a turn off. Being preoccupied with your appearance makes a man come off as feminine.IMO Intelligence is as sexy as good health, but not the intelligence of someone who is arrogant or talks as an expert on every subject but really does not know what he is talking about. Get off the couch and be curious about the world you live in. Develop your interests and skills. Skills can be seriously sexy. I date a guy who is very good at handling horses and a sail boat along with other things. Watching a guy do something really well is REALLY SEXY.Become competent at stuff. Remember women are watching you as much as you watch them, only what is sexy to them is different. It tends to be what is inside a man as much as the outside (but more "within" unless she is an idiot)Be healthy. Take pride in your appearance (good hygiene). Don't be an actual jerk but be an endearing jerk (playful) A sharp wit and sense of humor are indications of intelligence plus it makes you fun to be around. More women have slept with men because they made them laugh than because they had large muscles.To differing degrees women like a touch of the feminine in a man but to much and she will stop being sexually attracted to you. She must sense a little bit of herself in you but yet you must remain strange and mysterious territory. But don't be weird like that guy "Mystery" who I think latched onto mysterious and went where no man has gone before.If you use money to attract and keep a woman you will attract a woman for your money and not for you. It works the same way as a woman relying solely on her body (sex) to get and keep a man. In the end it does not work because there is always someone with more money or a better body. The only bait you should use to attract a woman is becoming the best person you can become FOR YOURSELF. Treat your life as the precious thing it is. Use it to create true value that lasts. This is what makes a man attractive because he is attractive not only as a man but as a human being.Your life, not a woman, should be the thing you value above all else. Don't waste it like 97% of the human race does because they are so busy living in the future thinking about what they want and don't have, that they miss living in the moment where they could actually being doing something worthwhile and interesting. Do not live for status because this will make you just like everyone else and status seekers are BORING. Instead live for adventure and remain curious like a child.And for the love of God please do not use pornography as a training manual for how to make love to a woman. You pull a woman's hair who is not into that and she is going to get angry. Rough sex is fun but the chemistry has to be there or it goes bad quickly.Sex is a complex psychological act with endless layers. If you approach it as one size fits all you will be a terrible lover. The more you understand a woman's mind the better lover you will be. It is her mind you actually fuck, not her body. You are simply using her body to touch her mind and her soul when you really understand her but that is unfortunately a very rare experience in a woman's life.Guys worry about the size of their junk but that is not the actual problem with men being good lovers. Assuming the guy even cares in the first place, which many don't
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Thank you for your well written feedback Katherine. It's no wonder so few relationships are successful, there are so many things that need to be right before two people can live harmoniously, and so few people make any effort to be the person they need to be in order to have the relationship they want. I've been happily single about 14 years, and in that time have grown enormously after so many failed relationships. I've written, I've read, I've watched and I've observed relationships, and after that I can see love for what it is, a dangerous drug used to produce more humans/batteries to create more energy for whoever created this simulation. I'm with Elon, nothing we think is real is real, it's all an elaborate hoax to generate emotionally charged power for the machines.
Katherine,you don't really now what you want in a man.
Most of these are actually good ideas with great arguments, thank you for your time and effort.
I'm 6'5 and 270lbs and I've been told I'm intimidating by women and men, it hasn't helped me lmao
I found that when I was in to bodybuilding that girls were more in to one night stands. Relationships were impossible. When I dropped about 30lbs and kept it lean I was getting hit on far more.
Mr. Cooper is correct, in my opinion. I prefer a man that I can tell is strong, stronger than myself, but I'm not into overly muscular men.
Kevin Levrone What? Don't comment on RUclips when you drinkin'. LOL. 😉 Everyone cares about looks! It's called attraction. That's like literally what attracts you to a person first!
Kevin Levrone Wow. I think you need some help, buddy. I hope you get it. Peace. ✌🏻
Kevin Levrone get laid dawg
I have had different results than you. I've never been overweight, but I go through periods where I hit the weights and my body responds immediately. I look better and get bigger and the women seem to like and react positive to me.
Muscles absolutely work with women if your ripped.
Regarding muscles, I found that working out and improving my appearance massively boosts my confidence and mental strength. And women love a confident guy. So I would say definitely yes, having a muscular build and training your body is excellent for attracting women, in an indirect way.
Have to chime in here... big fan and love your work, but when I started working out again and got pretty jacked, the amount of interest shown in my by woman literally quadrupled. When I say jacked, I mean 100kgs (225) of muscle and not too ripped but a pretty trim midsection. Just my experience. Peace brother.
I think he meant unnatural buff guys. Im 5'11 and 240lb. And i dont look ridiculous. Mother nature will do its work. you only start looking ridiculous and unnatural if you are taking something. So dont fret and happy lifting.
The best thing to do is just be yourself, and not worry what anyone else thinks.
Women love psychopaths so you're good lmao.
npalmi88 I can't answer that.
unless you are fat
Be the best version of yourself
The footnote to this stupid ass fucking saying is that “yourself” is whoever the fuck you want it to be. You recreate “yourself” everyday. I have multiple personalities, looks, even accents. I can be whoever the fuck I want to be at any given moment.
I strongly disagree with your point on muscles
It's silly to think that women don't like guys that are in shape. The problem is that she selfishly wants you to spend all of your time catering to her needs. If your time goes into self improvement and not into paying attention to her, she won't like you. The only exception is if your dedication to your self produces an income or benefits her directly. You are not allowed to have personal goals as a man when you are involved with a women. On the other hand, she can do any selfish thing she wants to.
joseph domingue... Go to the gym together... Easy.
Right! When I dont feel like having sex its a realllly big problem but she can say shes not feeling having sex all the time and then theres no problem. Sick of these bitches.
This makes it sound like women want submissive men who are practically slaves. How can this be considered masculine or attractive? Women often find confident, masculine, dedicated and determined men attractive but a man who has these qualities wouldn't let himself become a slave to a woman solely serving her needs. This is effectively a contradiction. A man a woman can kick around and control is not a man most woman are interested in yet they are interested in this kind of man because he spends all his time catering to her needs and paying her attention? It's clearly a contradiction.
If you make women the center of your world you will be single fast. Despite what they say they don't want to be. They want you to have goals and dreams that they can be a part of but they don't want to be the dream.
@@shortville2nobody can handle the pressure of being “the dream” for long. We all need our own lives and to give a 100% effort to make a relationship work. Doing things together is awesome though, like yes, the gym, or any hobby, church, social gatherings, etc.
Two words. 'Fight Club'.
You just broke the first two rules.
Bro you never ever talk about the fight club
Look at happened to rich piana. Dude to flexed to the max and he still died. Keep it in range and don't over do it. Yes muscles will get you laid but don't over do it. Be you and try your best, but NEVER over do it.
Never cared about guys with muscles until I started weight-lifting myself and changed my lifestyle - so now I really do notice the more muscular guys to the non ones - and thats only because my own interest in lifestyle has changed so now I would so go for a muscular dedicated guy as I am quite dedicated in my fitness too . Unfortunately I don't think I could date an out of shaped guy anymore .
this is the answer, like attracts like.... in general..
I would agree with you Bea Vegan, Lifestyles need to be aligned. If your dating a bar fly when your into fitness and eating clean then it doesn't work.... period.
That's very interesting. I've experienced the same after I began bodybuilding 5 years ago. I also notice women physiques more. Not just the obvious areas such as the chest and the glutes but also the back the shoulders & arms and legs. Women who train are definitely more of a turn on now than before I began training and it's not just because of the appearance but because of the mental development that comes with it.
Exactly
I like all kinds of "muscle styles". The face and charisma is more important.
I'm under 10% body fat, 6'2" and hover between 238 and go up to 248 lbs. I'm not near as big as the past, but I'm still jacked. I wasn't into nailing randoms, but my size was always a plus with women. I've had women in elevators randomly touch me for thrills. Animal magnetism. Big strong athletic guys trigger something in their brains. It's absolute BS that women don't dig jacked men. Maybe if you're butt ugly and antisocial. It won't keep the girl if you're a loser, but it definitely helps. Get to the gym. Build your body and mind. Constantly strive to improve and achieve. That's the secret. Women are drawn to success. Big and muscular is a sign of success. Go for it!
6'1", 155lbs, and I'm basically invisible to women as far as I can tell.
I think I have too much of a nerd body and not enough well developed swimmer body.
So my goal to start with is 175lbs.
I agree with him about 6'3" 195 pounds paradigm. I love it.
The Hulk is attractive in comics and movies and that's about it.
Am I going to attract the better women if I build some meat on my bones?
Never had muscles, look like a teen at 32, should I start working out?
The women I've been with never complained of the lack of my muscle mass
If you’re an LTR seeker, I’d say this is fair but bigger muscles are AMAZING to keep a rotation of spinning plates and also attracting they younger ones
Yes exactly.. I am jacked 6'1" 230 lbs shredded and Im spinning 4 or 5 plates at any given week (they are all 8s and 9s) and everyonme one of them LOVE how big and built i am.
Holly molly! :D@@WolfStory
Lean muscularity gives you a higher smv. The higher your smv the more options you have Period