@@s7_wysyou need to block your ex and move on from that drama…..she doesn’t block you because you’re probably her last option if it doesn’t work out with the current relationship.
I’m slowly moving from anxious attachment to avoidant attachment because of this, I never want to get close enough to someone for them to hurt me like this again
@@jeremy.s.millerfacts, in the end becoming more secure will just protect our sanity and emotions. Currently an AP learning about myself after this whole break up of mine, I know I’ll improve 💪
I completely understand this. My fiancé recently left ending a 6 year relationship. I didn't know something could hurt so badly. I've literally been to war, and this is much worse for me.
A Narcissistic tool. It's a power trip. It controls the blocked person emotionally. Imagine losing everything and then when you need them your blocked.
Blocking someone for your own mental health should be okay, especially when the relationship has been toxic even if the love is there you got to learn to love yourself. Take the time to heal everything will be okay, once you heal they may not be the person you want anymore. Heal your inner self
Man I’m grateful you said this. I know my ex was cheating on me. We had this lovely spiritual bond. I’d know when she was down I’d know when something was wrong. No one else could tell and she used to say things like how’d you know? When you have an emotional or spiritual bond with someone you know them like the back of your hand. Long story short she lied to me about something and we got into a big fight. After a day or 2 we got back together and I promise you I basically told her please after all I’ve dealt with in life where I’m still trying to heal if you do anything to me just don’t lie to me. She said ok baby, literally a week later she did the exact same thing. Today my heart was in anguish a pain I never felt before so I offered us to communicate about us when she gets up in the morning cause she’s in a different country. I sent the text within 1 minute iPhone alerted me she put her phone on silent and that was confirmation that we didn’t need to talk about anything anymore. I had to do it cause I was losing myself and she gave zero fucks. It’s all good I’m glad God helped me realize the truth.
😢😢thank u 3yrs ago I was over him but he would pop up in my dreams and there he go and he blocked me again I can’t I love him still but love doesn’t hurt like this😢
M sorry that u couldn’t find the one to love and respect you as u deserve. I reel u and I’m supporting you. Men comes back either way. Hopefully u grow stronger when he comes back to make him regret the day he thought to let u go in. Till then calm urslf and give urslf a big hug and love urslf because u deserve all the love in this world❤
@Rubyrose8305 I want to thank you from the bottom of my broken heart for your support. It's so easy for many to be dismissive and critical by saying there are other men. There are but if it was easy I certainly wouldn't be on here. Thank you for being so kind and providing your support. It hurts as if it just happened this morning. May the Universe hear your words and he comes back and regrets his cruel and cold actions. I know I miss him and do want him to miss me also. Thank you for being a beautiful person. Sometimes i just need to hear support like yours to give me a reason to wipe my tears. ..I can't say thank you enough🫂
From my experience. If they blocked me, I kept them there. They eventually came back, the whole "no one was as good as you". or "I couldn't get over you". etc. My response was and will be for the future to come. "You're loss".
As long as it needs to be. I did everything for a good distraction. I worked out, I completed planned projects. I posted my progress, hung out with female friends and posted them too. And eventual as corny as it sounds. I fell in-love with myself again. Then they seen how good i was doing without them. They message you, but from that point on. It's up too you if you want to take them back. Personally for me, I kept them where they put themselves. I don't take back a cookie that was smashed by others. @@EA-ex2id
My ex told me when he's breaking up with me "You'll not understand right now but you'll understand later on. I may heartless in your eyes right now but believe it's for your own good." Then blocked me in instagram and snap but did not blocked me on whatsapp. Now, that it's been 3 weeks since he broke up with me i understand what he mean i'm more focusing to myself and be a better version of myself ❤
Just remember that hurt you felt and feel right now when he dumped you and if you are considering believing them and taking them or give them an opportunity to redeem themselves, you’re taking a chance of being disappointed all over again. When people leave our lives without being asked, or forced to it’s a testament of the universe’s plan to for you to get out there and find something better. Because you deserve that right or Nah!
Same. He said once i heal I'll be grateful we're not together. I still believe we were good together. But mentally I'm in a better space. I know one day I'll stop hurting and maybe if i find someone who chooses me everyday, I'll be glad this didn't work out.
Thank you. I needed this! My bf blocked me a couple days ago. He didn’t say it was ‘over’ but he got really pissed at me because I kept making rookie mistakes. Im still checking to see if he unblocked me, but im slowly connecting with god in the meantime too! :)
@@S1_s1wagezi was also blocked after i argued that he wasnt putting any effort, n if u cant communicate well u block i sd n without any explaination he blocked me..
Thank you, I really needed this. My ex broke up with me after 6 months, and she was the only person I've ever cared for, and I've been suffering since Christmas
@@PorciaFoxx because blocking is an emotional reaction,that expresses hurt and a trauma response,believe if they didn't care,it would be no response at all to any behavior at all.
@@barbarabagatin8962 You have to be aware of your attachment style and also his,that when you can do the inner work, whatever behavior that was exhibited from him,you can't take it personal,you have some people that terrified of their own emotions,so they express it in negative psychological behavior,learn from this lesson and forgive yourself,you'll be okay.
blocking is toxic. they want you to chase. my ex blocked me on everything but didn’t block my phone number and responded so it’s obvious people block to get a reaction out of you and want you to chase them. narcissist do this often. My ex even unblocked me after a year and I blocked them back. I’m currently happy with someone and have moved on. let them keep that toxic mess over there.
@Los2235 who says they're all bad? Most times they're exes for reasons whether it's a good or bad one. One could better debate that not all exes are meant to stay exes , if that's the point that you were trying to make.
If your ex ignores your calls/ text then you're good, there still is a slight chance👍 if your ex blocks 🚫 you then it's over! Do not waste your time! My blocks are permanent, I don't have time to waste my time!
I miss him tho... I prefer 10 times to tell me he hated me or that he was dating someone else than HE BLOCKED ME, cause I still want his happiness and this is like he never existed, and I know he does. Is like he killed himself from my life when I didn't do anything wrong... He is just heartless, I hope we can have an open conversation one day, this is an open wound for me, no one can tell me otherwise.
I am so sorry, I can feel your pain through this text, I hope each day feels a little lighter and better for you, I can tell you're a good person I promise you this wound will heal but its going to take a minute so you're gonna have to be so kind and gentle with your self, cry it out, sleep it out, laugh it out, think positive , keep busy whenever you can , and watch a lot of positive content. , I send you lots of love and prayers, and I hope you smile for no reason today. ❤
Thank you that's was very helpful and encouraging. I've listened to a lot of different coaches,and I can honestly say, I have listened to 2 of your videos this morning. I've been incredibly needy , out of control, a text maniac,etc....this morning I am making a nutritional smoothie and on my way to the gym!!!! I want to tell you THANK YOU! IT DOESN'T EVEN HURT AS MUCH THIS MORNING.
True, If you got block by your ex, move on and focus on yourself because you dont know if they are coming back. When I block an ex I never look back because I don't play mind games. If I love you I will stay connected to you, we will still friends on facebook but when I am really done, i will block you that means I am focusing on my healing and I don't want anything from you at all.
@@moonlightbabe1983 Yeah my ex was like that too and it stopped me from opening up and being vulnerable with her because I knew at any mood swing she could hurt me and she wouldn't care because she's thinking only of herself. Makes it hard to trust the other person and develop a deeper connection. If you know the other person doesn't give a fuck about hurting you when she doesn't want anything from you anymore, you know you can't trust them fully.
Why does anyone want an ex back .. that’s like selling a car or having it stolen and someone else taking a joy ride in it ! IT WILL NEVER DRIVE THE SAME !! Never ever ever ever but never take them back or go back !! You’re free !! It’s over ! Thank the Good Lord and be on your way !! Get to know yourself .. let go of ego and opinions and just let it be !!
Ladies and gentlemen: This only applies to normal ex-partners. Please keep everything that led to the breakup in mind. Sometimes we need to move on. Your past sometimes needs to stay in your past and you have to open up the doors of what God/Universe have in store for you.
If he was willing to communicate openly, there would be no need to send them long paragraphs and confront him about his behaviour. When he acts wrong, he should be called out on it. But us women have been conditioned to keep our mouth shut in order to keep our dignity. That is so wrong! He blocked me because he had found the new supply he left me for. But I'm going to seek revenge and teach him a lesson through actions, not words. I'm going to expose him soon and then he can do with it what he wants I won't care anymore.
Everyone’s situation is different abuse isn’t something to be tolerated but for people who have constant arguments because of poor communication to me that doors open because I’m willing to make the relationship strong when we both are ready to be on the same level.
I’ve blocked because I was disrespected and haven’t been curious or looked back since… Tons of times people block & move on-not because they’re passionate, sometimes it’s because they don’t have time for games
@@mylegacytransformed Sorry to hear that but 2 people who were involved a in relationship should not treat each other so horribly. What's wrong with humans these days. Sigh
My ex did that last night but it’s okay. I don’t feel like I have to worry about seeing her. Her friends and new flings/bfs. I’m working on myself and I can say that I definitely gain some new insight on myself and the relationship we “had”
Same, she killed my patience. They won't change nor will they ever respect your efforts in trying to understand them, just leave before they hurt you even more by cheating.
I got blocked and I wasnt even in contact with them. Didn’t beg or anything, and they blocked me weeks after they unfriended me. I think they were having a hard time not looking at my page so blocked me cause they can’t control themselves.
Yes, the passion and the fact that he doesn't want anyone else to have me even though he told me he doesn't love me the other day. I don't think he wants me , just doesn't want anyone else to have me. The whole thing just makes me sad. I try too hard and he doesn't try.
I did the toxic stuff as in hitting them up and calling an excessive amount of times. got blocked because of it. 😂 thing is, i understand what i did was wrong and selfish. I don’t ever expect her to unblock me and reach out ever again now. She appears to be happier without me, and that’s okay. Now to make sure I fix myself. 🙂
@@aaronfahr65 you got this, man! Keep pushing and work on yourself. I promise you it gets better, even when you feel like it never will. Stay strong and stay the course.
@@BllyRy. I don’t think she ever unblocked me, but I’m at the point in my life that I’m okay with not knowing that. Haven’t tried to contact her since. I did do some creeping though, and she started dating someone new a few months after our breakup. It sucks but hey, that’s life.
Oh this such dangerous advice!!!!!!! GOOD LORD! Especially for women trying to get out of abusive relationships. No, when I block you that means LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE. Period. What the HELL?!
i needed it. i did it, i stopped contacting him for now. but i am gonna get him back, because only waiting isnt the best option, everything depends on a person. And this is why I am gonna go to him after some time of no contact, I want to talk face to face because this is the only thing that may save some relationsips
@@gerasamaha4417 I dont know how your situation looks like, but I let him know (by message, I couldnt reach him face to face then) that I am gonna give him some time to think about us and our future, and fro some time I didnt contact him at all. After a while he wrote back that he misses me and cant stand being without me. It is good to give that person some time to think, if you dont contact that person they will feel that they miss you and want to get back with you. It may not happen too, then it shows that they really dont want to be with you anymore or they dont have the same feelings as you. But the waiting time depends on a person, mine wasnt long but I cant say how long it would take for other people♥
What got me blocked was sending paragraphs calling texting etc. so yeah she’s done with me sadly. Truly loved her but got into my emotions. I’m in big regret, I just have a big heart and I was scared of loosing her and now I think I lost her with my actions. This fucjing sucks man. First person I ever was sure about
Honestly, im really glad this came up and i clicked it. Thank you.. Was so close to sending a paragraph to her. I just really miss her. but like you said time to start focusing and make stuff happen.
Damn bro. Looked up trying to determine how I could tell if I was blocked and this popped up. She’s the love of my life. I hope things work. This video brought me hope. Thank you.
@@jovanygaytan1153thank you man hopefully we can get our love of our lives back I personally fucked up and regret what I did but I’m trying to make us work!
he blocked me everywhere but on the phone, and he said if I contact him within the next 24 hours and not give him space he'll block me there too... //: I just hope he doesn't choose to block me on the phone too and I'll always be uncertain, I'm so tempted to call just to see if I'm been blocked on the phone but I know it's the worst possible thing I can do at this given moment.
Don’t get your hopes up. I have a feeling that the girl I thought I loved won’t come ever come back and that’s bc she will be happier without me and it is what it is
My ex broke my heart and then after a year of not hearing from me, he got in contact just to tell me about who he was been sleeping with. He is just being cruel. I should block him now
Naw...mine already moved on to somebody else...he blocked me when I questioned it...then on top of that I expressed my anger that he would move on so fast...eh..no longer my business... I'm glad he blocked me saves me from making a further fool of myself 😞
I’m sorry that you had to go through that. I just blocked my ex today and the reason being was she lied to me more than once and she’s been cheating I know because we were best friends but something changed along the way. We have been doing long distance for a while now and we were supposed to finally move in and get married in a few months. So I think because of the love I did give her she was scared to breakup. Before I called it quits though I text her and said we should talk about it tomorrow when she has some rest I just need 30 minutes of her time. After I text her I noticed 1 minute later she put her phone on silent 😂 that was all I needed to know. It’s not good feeling feeling heartbreak but we must thank God for not going deeper with these ppl and then they all of the sudden they switch up making it almost impossible to deal with the pain. For once I’m happy and now I can focus on my purpose instead of allowing someone to try to mess with my head and then play victim
@@juheard3015bro I feel it my ex was about to move in with me I had bought the ho a ring for Christmas long story short she was talking to her ex behind my back we got in a big fight she got physical with me because I told her how stupid she was chasing her ex that cheated it was bad I ended up walking home from the fight and haven’t spoken to her sinse it’s been 6 days now and he’s she did block me but hey better things to come
I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We are both 15 but we are just about to turn 16 and we started going out for 2 weeks. 3 dates, I treated her with love and respect. I was this masculine figure for her. I gave her safety and protection. Gave her support because her ex assaulted her in many ways, stalked her so she has trauma, I helped her. We both liked to play basketball and we met in police cadets which in breaks we could play basketball. She asked me and we started talking and playing. She said she liked me first. This is pathetic and embarrassing to say but she was my first real kiss. We started hugging while sitting on a bench, watching the ocean nothing too serious however she broke up with me because she found it uncomfortable that i put my arm around her when we walk about, We were watching a movie and we were hugging each other. She found that uncomfortable and she never told me these things until the day we broke up which was 2 days ago. We were walking in the woods, we started kissing and we were touching each other. I dont want to go in details. We stopped but then we done it again 2 seconds later. Every SECOND i kept asking her if she was okay and comfortable, she replied yes and she continued. I noticed the 2nd time, things were getting too far so I said maybe we should plan it cause I wasnt prepared. When we were kissing she jumped on me and we started kissing even more but passionately, you know? She walked home and I kept asking her if she was happy, okay and comfortable. She even told me she enjoyed it but it reminded her of her ex who assaulted her and she still loves me. The next day, I thought everything was fine. Oh context, before we started in the woods, how did we get to that point? After 3 dates she invited me over to her house where her mum and sister werent going to be there for 2 hrs. Then wed watch a movie. I bought her mum and sister and even her chocolates and treated the family with respect. Then she walked with me to the train station and thats how it happened. We had a great day. Anyway, the next day. I pretended nothing happened cause she told me everything was fine. I said, "wuu2 xx?" She replied 3 hrs later, with a long paragraph, saying how its unbelievable i was thinking about sex which I wasnt. I was being affectionate and noticed things were going too far and stopped it and maybe we should plan it. So she says I make her feel uncomfortable when I put my arm around her when we are walking and thats the first time she said that in our 2 week relationship. She completely changed, she was a nice person. I wad being a gentlemen and respected it. I told her everything is fine now It wont happen again, Calm down and we can talk later. She kept arguing with me and then later I said "if thats how you feel about me, then we shouldnt stay together. Take care" She said "why are you trying to break up with me when I broke up with you an hour ago thats so sad" I didnt over react. I tried peace, The day before she sent that long message I told her "What happened last night was good but we should take it easy. If it makes you feel uncomfortable. Lets not do it again until we are both ready. I hope things dont change and I still love you for what you are inside" Yet she still argued and even said "Im not what you are looking for" I told her I enjoy being with her and dont care about other stuff..Im slowly picking myself up. I have to see her tomorrow at Cadets. She'll probably gossip but I dont care. Ill still be polite and respectful expecially when everyone likes me there. It was a nice experience. Id like to hear what the rest of you think if you read it all, Sorry if I ranted about this so long 😅 It was painful. It still is. She makes me feel guilty and everyone told me I did nothing wrong and its a natural thing, She overreacted. So Thank you for reading, Hope everyone whos going through a break up heals and moves on to continue living a better life. Dont let her/him win
Gotcha. Ive only been in two serious relationships. Second one was my best one because i handled it better than i did my first. It just makes sense not to send stuff that would hurt them even though they hurt you.
This girl I’ve been dating for two months just blocked me. I broke it off with her but I didn’t mean it. She’s the really stubborn type so I don’t think she’ll be unblocking me or soon for that matter. It could have all been avoided but we just had horrible communication. Now I can’t see a future without her and the pain I feel is unbearable. For now I’m just going to take your advice and focus on myself. If it’s meant to be she’ll reach out. Damn.
@@luxuryqueen42 Yep I did. I’ve realized and self reflect why I broke it off in the first place. It’s because I didn’t have a connection with her. I always new something was off and despite the red flags I tried to go along with the relationship. It’s was my first time dating so I thought we could improve with time but deep down that’s just who she was. I’ll admit I made a couple of newbie mistakes😅 but that wasn’t the foundation on why we we deteriorating. We just couldn’t be what each other needed lol. Anyways I’m in the healing process, the only thing I wish I could’ve done differently was separate on better terms but we live and we learn. Now I’m focusing on improving and when the time is right I’ll know God will bring the one along my path. Thanks for the reply👍
My ex unblocked me out of nowhere 😳 this happened a few days after he sent me a 😍 emoji on WhatsApp reacting to a picture I posted (it was a mirror selfie) 😂 he only blocked me on Facebook tho. We still have each other on social media because he added me back again after some situation happened between me and another dude
It’s been a year, I called them out on their shit, like looking at my instagram story. No contact for 7 months. So I think the most unattractive thing is playing games. Social media doesn’t dictate the terms you are on with someone.
My ex blocked me and told me literally to focus on myself because he was gonna focus on himself then he hit me with that “you’ll never see me again” he’s dramatic but I was being dramatic first 😂
He dumped me out the blue. I blocked him 1.5 months after the breakup so I could heal properly & because he doesn't deserve to be my friend in any capacity. I don't want him to know how I'm doing, if I'm alive. NOTHING!
If they block me I be like thank god. No fake love over here. Any of my exes can move on, and I can be mature about it. I think it's childish. I can see them out in public with thier new "boo" and be mature about it. Sounds like some clown shyt if you ask me.
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I blocked him, partially so that I won't be tempted to reach out to him. I don't want to be tempted to even start back caring. I'm not unblocking him either because I can't deal with the pain of what I might see. I'm forcing myself to move on by not making myself accessible to him.
Sometimes blocking them is to stop yourself from sending paragraphs too.
That part!!
But why don’t they just do it. Send the paragraph to make things better.
Exactly 💯
Yes, that part with that urge of sending paragraph that will makes ur look weak n they will laugh at it
I was worst in this, it was something he never liked
If they blocked you consider that a blessing and move on.
My ex don't block me for some reason. I told her to block me if she does not see a future with me anymore but she dont.
@@s7_wysyou need to block your ex and move on from that drama…..she doesn’t block you because you’re probably her last option if it doesn’t work out with the current relationship.
@@s7_wysthey don’t block u cause u still there for entertainment and energy purposes
I’m slowly moving from anxious attachment to avoidant attachment because of this, I never want to get close enough to someone for them to hurt me like this again
Yooh I'm breaking down because of this
I feel that. Better if we heal tho. Become secure. If someone hurts us it’s best to stay strong and walk away
@@jeremy.s.millerfacts, in the end becoming more secure will just protect our sanity and emotions. Currently an AP learning about myself after this whole break up of mine, I know I’ll improve 💪
I completely understand this. My fiancé recently left ending a 6 year relationship. I didn't know something could hurt so badly. I've literally been to war, and this is much worse for me.
Me too
A Narcissistic tool. It's a power trip. It controls the blocked person emotionally. Imagine losing everything and then when you need them your blocked.
That will be a deep situation
Omg, you're so right!
nah right after I blocked her, she wanted a new guy lmao
You’re absolutely correct my ex was a narcissist and did that.
No one toxic nowadays@@najahfits9619
Blocking a narcissist is necessary.
Yesss!!!!
This!!!
Blocking someone for your own mental health should be okay, especially when the relationship has been toxic even if the love is there you got to learn to love yourself. Take the time to heal everything will be okay, once you heal they may not be the person you want anymore. Heal your inner self
Man I’m grateful you said this. I know my ex was cheating on me. We had this lovely spiritual bond. I’d know when she was down I’d know when something was wrong. No one else could tell and she used to say things like how’d you know? When you have an emotional or spiritual bond with someone you know them like the back of your hand. Long story short she lied to me about something and we got into a big fight. After a day or 2 we got back together and I promise you I basically told her please after all I’ve dealt with in life where I’m still trying to heal if you do anything to me just don’t lie to me. She said ok baby, literally a week later she did the exact same thing. Today my heart was in anguish a pain I never felt before so I offered us to communicate about us when she gets up in the morning cause she’s in a different country. I sent the text within 1 minute iPhone alerted me she put her phone on silent and that was confirmation that we didn’t need to talk about anything anymore. I had to do it cause I was losing myself and she gave zero fucks. It’s all good I’m glad God helped me realize the truth.
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😢😢thank u 3yrs ago I was over him but he would pop up in my dreams and there he go and he blocked me again I can’t I love him still but love doesn’t hurt like this😢
I hope you are right. I cry myself to sleep every night.
Yes,it's true 🥺, May Allah give us right partner, Aameen 🤲🏻🤗
Do yourself a favor and Read ur bible
@@msshay421No thanks.
M sorry that u couldn’t find the one to love and respect you as u deserve. I reel u and I’m supporting you. Men comes back either way. Hopefully u grow stronger when he comes back to make him regret the day he thought to let u go in. Till then calm urslf and give urslf a big hug and love urslf because u deserve all the love in this world❤
@Rubyrose8305 I want to thank you from the bottom of my broken heart for your support. It's so easy for many to be dismissive and critical by saying there are other men. There are but if it was easy I certainly wouldn't be on here. Thank you for being so kind and providing your support. It hurts as if it just happened this morning. May the Universe hear your words and he comes back and regrets his cruel and cold actions. I know I miss him and do want him to miss me also. Thank you for being a beautiful person. Sometimes i just need to hear support like yours to give me a reason to wipe my tears. ..I can't say thank you enough🫂
From my experience. If they blocked me, I kept them there. They eventually came back, the whole "no one was as good as you". or "I couldn't get over you". etc. My response was and will be for the future to come. "You're loss".
how long did it take
As long as it needs to be. I did everything for a good distraction. I worked out, I completed planned projects. I posted my progress, hung out with female friends and posted them too. And eventual as corny as it sounds. I fell in-love with myself again. Then they seen how good i was doing without them. They message you, but from that point on. It's up too you if you want to take them back. Personally for me, I kept them where they put themselves. I don't take back a cookie that was smashed by others. @@EA-ex2id
@@EA-ex2idfor me 2 years
Evil
Hope it’s „ your loss“ tho else that be kinda embarrassing haha
My ex told me when he's breaking up with me "You'll not understand right now but you'll understand later on. I may heartless in your eyes right now but believe it's for your own good." Then blocked me in instagram and snap but did not blocked me on whatsapp. Now, that it's been 3 weeks since he broke up with me i understand what he mean i'm more focusing to myself and be a better version of myself ❤
I know it’s not easy. Focus on something else and try not to think about him
My ex just broke up with me and he blocked me even in wattsapp. But i felt he will come back one day.
Just remember that hurt you felt and feel right now when he dumped you and if you are considering believing them and taking them or give them an opportunity to redeem themselves, you’re taking a chance of being disappointed all over again. When people leave our lives without being asked, or forced to it’s a testament of the universe’s plan to for you to get out there and find something better. Because you deserve that right or Nah!
Same. He said once i heal I'll be grateful we're not together. I still believe we were good together. But mentally I'm in a better space. I know one day I'll stop hurting and maybe if i find someone who chooses me everyday, I'll be glad this didn't work out.
Update?
Thank you. I needed this! My bf blocked me a couple days ago. He didn’t say it was ‘over’ but he got really pissed at me because I kept making rookie mistakes. Im still checking to see if he unblocked me, but im slowly connecting with god in the meantime too! :)
Amen
@@starbeauty672 yes yes Amen. Turns out he ended up breaking up with me bc he said he didnt have enough ‘time’ for me but its alright.
@@S1_s1wagezi was also blocked after i argued that he wasnt putting any effort, n if u cant communicate well u block i sd n without any explaination he blocked me..
Hope your staying strong I’m going through the same
Move on
Thank you, I really needed this. My ex broke up with me after 6 months, and she was the only person I've ever cared for, and I've been suffering since Christmas
Did she ever reach back?
same situation and same time too
If they block you ,they love you
How is that ?🤔
@@PorciaFoxx because blocking is an emotional reaction,that expresses hurt and a trauma response,believe if they didn't care,it would be no response at all to any behavior at all.
bro ure delusional just as me 😭😂
@@barbarabagatin8962 You have to be aware of your attachment style and also his,that when you can do the inner work, whatever behavior that was exhibited from him,you can't take it personal,you have some people that terrified of their own emotions,so they express it in negative psychological behavior,learn from this lesson and forgive yourself,you'll be okay.
Hahaha, I blocked her cuz she annoys me with messages
blocking is toxic. they want you to chase. my ex blocked me on everything but didn’t block my phone number and responded so it’s obvious people block to get a reaction out of you and want you to chase them. narcissist do this often. My ex even unblocked me after a year and I blocked them back. I’m currently happy with someone and have moved on. let them keep that toxic mess over there.
No. I blocked because I didn’t need the drama.
@@11thBlockPartybig Facts 💯💯💯
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My ex did this too
@@11thBlockParty very true your mental health comes first
If they're an ex let them stay an ex.
Every relationship is different
Beautiful said
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Not every single ex is bad. Y’all gotta quit with this
@Los2235 who says they're all bad? Most times they're exes for reasons whether it's a good or bad one. One could better debate that not all exes are meant to stay exes , if that's the point that you were trying to make.
And when they do...dont take them back!
If your ex ignores your calls/ text then you're good, there still is a slight chance👍 if your ex blocks 🚫 you then it's over! Do not waste your time! My blocks are permanent, I don't have time to waste my time!
Or she just wants to play stupid games no one has time for. :)
I miss him tho... I prefer 10 times to tell me he hated me or that he was dating someone else than HE BLOCKED ME, cause I still want his happiness and this is like he never existed, and I know he does. Is like he killed himself from my life when I didn't do anything wrong... He is just heartless, I hope we can have an open conversation one day, this is an open wound for me, no one can tell me otherwise.
God got you boo god can fix it all
I am so sorry, I can feel your pain through this text, I hope each day feels a little lighter and better for you, I can tell you're a good person I promise you this wound will heal but its going to take a minute so you're gonna have to be so kind and gentle with your self, cry it out, sleep it out, laugh it out, think positive , keep busy whenever you can , and watch a lot of positive content. , I send you lots of love and prayers, and I hope you smile for no reason today. ❤
I’m going through the same i cried when you said it’s like he killed himself out of your life
Hurt people hurt people. Try and move on by healing yourself.❤
Hell reach out or if you do he will respond and things will get better just put God first in all your plans 💯💕
Thank you that's was very helpful and encouraging. I've listened to a lot of different coaches,and I can honestly say, I have listened to 2 of your videos this morning. I've been incredibly needy , out of control, a text maniac,etc....this morning I am making a nutritional smoothie and on my way to the gym!!!! I want to tell you THANK YOU! IT DOESN'T EVEN HURT AS MUCH THIS MORNING.
True, If you got block by your ex, move on and focus on yourself because you dont know if they are coming back. When I block an ex I never look back because I don't play mind games. If I love you I will stay connected to you, we will still friends on facebook but when I am really done, i will block you that means I am focusing on my healing and I don't want anything from you at all.
Temporary
Selfish. not considering the pain you are causing to someone you once loved
And? I don't care being selfish as long as I'm protecting my peace
@@moonlightbabe1983 Yeah my ex was like that too and it stopped me from opening up and being vulnerable with her because I knew at any mood swing she could hurt me and she wouldn't care because she's thinking only of herself.
Makes it hard to trust the other person and develop a deeper connection.
If you know the other person doesn't give a fuck about hurting you when she doesn't want anything from you anymore, you know you can't trust them fully.
@@jokee It sadden me to see good men suffer, mine was a narcissistic so I dont care hurting him. You deserve better
If she block or ghost you just leave her alone don't disturb the dead!there are many fish in the sea why should you suffer in a toxic relationship?
The only way they will come back to you is if you move on are happy or they have no one end of story.
They block you & they start looking else where.
only to find empty shells and no love like u gave them
Why does anyone want an ex back .. that’s like selling a car or having it stolen and someone else taking a joy ride in it ! IT WILL NEVER DRIVE THE SAME !! Never ever ever ever but never take them back or go back !! You’re free !! It’s over ! Thank the Good Lord and be on your way !! Get to know yourself .. let go of ego and opinions and just let it be !!
I want mines he is the sweetest guy i no
Ladies and gentlemen:
This only applies to normal ex-partners. Please keep everything that led to the breakup in mind. Sometimes we need to move on. Your past sometimes needs to stay in your past and you have to open up the doors of what God/Universe have in store for you.
Wish I could call her and tell her thank you cause since I’ve been free I’ve realized that she didn’t elevate me but I’m pretty sure I elevated her
If he was willing to communicate openly, there would be no need to send them long paragraphs and confront him about his behaviour. When he acts wrong, he should be called out on it. But us women have been conditioned to keep our mouth shut in order to keep our dignity. That is so wrong! He blocked me because he had found the new supply he left me for. But I'm going to seek revenge and teach him a lesson through actions, not words. I'm going to expose him soon and then he can do with it what he wants I won't care anymore.
I needed to hear this thank you ❤
I disagree. I blocked my ex because I absolutely hate him and never want to see nor think about him again in my life. ☺️
Why?
Everyone’s situation is different abuse isn’t something to be tolerated but for people who have constant arguments because of poor communication to me that doors open because I’m willing to make the relationship strong when we both are ready to be on the same level.
What he do
I’ve blocked because I was disrespected and haven’t been curious or looked back since…
Tons of times people block & move on-not because they’re passionate, sometimes it’s because they don’t have time for games
Communication can help
@@tisha954 Yes, when there’s open honest frank dialogue between both parties, and when there’s not? BLOCKED!
@@mylegacytransformed Sorry to hear that but 2 people who were involved a in relationship should not treat each other so horribly. What's wrong with humans these days. Sigh
@@tisha954how do you communicate with someone who is prideful, egoistic and who thinks they are always right just block and keep it moving
We also block because they didn’t treat us well therefore as part of moving on …..establishing boundaries…..they lose access to us!!!!
Nice words , good pace, feel like im listening to a real bro.
Bro. Narcissists dnt do this out of love. They do it so u dnt see they are already w someone else. Which I dnt care at this point. But thts the truth.
Yup ur right but guess what ….what they did to u is exactly they will do to them😂
Why would a Narcissist care if you see them with someone else, if they don't care about you?
@@jd6331
Exactly
My ex did that last night but it’s okay. I don’t feel like I have to worry about seeing her. Her friends and new flings/bfs. I’m working on myself and I can say that I definitely gain some new insight on myself and the relationship we “had”
i dont want my ex back though 😂😂😂
Change your number and profile.
Google voice helps.
Same, she killed my patience. They won't change nor will they ever respect your efforts in trying to understand them, just leave before they hurt you even more by cheating.
@@xxxfire_leonxxxfacts 💯 this currently happening to me but shes the one who left when i was trying to ask for just a single update only lmao
I got blocked and I wasnt even in contact with them. Didn’t beg or anything, and they blocked me weeks after they unfriended me. I think they were having a hard time not looking at my page so blocked me cause they can’t control themselves.
Happen to me too I got blocked out of nowhere on nocomtact for 40 days..
Same thing to me. I was blocked for no reason at all. I do not remember misbehaving in any way.
Maybe the man’s just not happy his ex went and turned to a thot again
Update please
Update ??
Boy I'm not even thinking about that boy I'm not thinking about nobody but God I mean And I'm still healing myself
Then why’re you here? Why watch? You are lying to yourself
SHE BLOCKS YOU SHE LOVES YOU YOU HURT HER & FIGHT FOR HER BACK
U think that’s true?
@@808nielidk I don't think that's true
100% not true. She got someone new and likely never cared about you. I needed this laugh. Thanks 🫡
True 👌
How do you fight for her when you are unable to contact her ?
Sometimes they just want you completely out of their lives. Move on. Gone. Please be real.
Yes, the passion and the fact that he doesn't want anyone else to have me even though he told me he doesn't love me the other day. I don't think he wants me , just doesn't want anyone else to have me.
The whole thing just makes me sad. I try too hard and he doesn't try.
Lmaooo...You gotta care first to unblock somebody. Some of us don't look back.
No I won't. Once they are blocked, it's permanent.
It is actually scary how on point you are Coach. Truly.
This actually helped me a lot, I really appreciate it I was stressed until you told me this news 🙏🏾👑
I did the toxic stuff as in hitting them up and calling an excessive amount of times. got blocked because of it. 😂 thing is, i understand what i did was wrong and selfish. I don’t ever expect her to unblock me and reach out ever again now. She appears to be happier without me, and that’s okay. Now to make sure I fix myself. 🙂
That's what I'm struggling with right now tho
Did she ever unblock you? Or reached out to you so far?
@@aaronfahr65 you got this, man! Keep pushing and work on yourself. I promise you it gets better, even when you feel like it never will. Stay strong and stay the course.
@@BllyRy. I don’t think she ever unblocked me, but I’m at the point in my life that I’m okay with not knowing that. Haven’t tried to contact her since. I did do some creeping though, and she started dating someone new a few months after our breakup. It sucks but hey, that’s life.
Oh this such dangerous advice!!!!!!! GOOD LORD! Especially for women trying to get out of abusive relationships. No, when I block you that means LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE. Period.
What the HELL?!
My azizam blocked me on everything. Hope shes well and takes good care of herself and family. Our chapter is no more and i am to blame.
This is sooo trueee. Living it now as we speak ✨✨🤩🔥🔥🔥🔥🤙
If your blocked , move on
i needed it. i did it, i stopped contacting him for now. but i am gonna get him back, because only waiting isnt the best option, everything depends on a person. And this is why I am gonna go to him after some time of no contact, I want to talk face to face because this is the only thing that may save some relationsips
but thank you, your words help me have a hope
Imma do the same maybe
@@ofey. in my situation it worked, we are back together much stronger than before ❤ good luck for you too
@cinn4mon_r00I5 can you give more information please, how did you do it? I'm in a similar situation now.
@@gerasamaha4417 I dont know how your situation looks like, but I let him know (by message, I couldnt reach him face to face then) that I am gonna give him some time to think about us and our future, and fro some time I didnt contact him at all. After a while he wrote back that he misses me and cant stand being without me. It is good to give that person some time to think, if you dont contact that person they will feel that they miss you and want to get back with you. It may not happen too, then it shows that they really dont want to be with you anymore or they dont have the same feelings as you. But the waiting time depends on a person, mine wasnt long but I cant say how long it would take for other people♥
You give really good advice and your voice is very calming and us going thru this need more calm
What got me blocked was sending paragraphs calling texting etc. so yeah she’s done with me sadly. Truly loved her but got into my emotions. I’m in big regret, I just have a big heart and I was scared of loosing her and now I think I lost her with my actions. This fucjing sucks man. First person I ever was sure about
Same
Same here
The way Psychology WORKS!!! It's extremely crazy!!! And, this man has the Cheat Code.
Everyone in the comments is saying the opposite of you. Now i dont know what to believe. I want mine back.
I was blocked. I don’t need them.
Bro I immediately subscribed after watching your advice, you’re kind of big brother that I always needed.
Honestly, im really glad this came up and i clicked it. Thank you.. Was so close to sending a paragraph to her. I just really miss her. but like you said time to start focusing and make stuff happen.
Thank you brother! I needed to hear this!
Thank you God for this brother for this message in Jesus name amen 😇🙏
Damn bro. Looked up trying to determine how I could tell if I was blocked and this popped up. She’s the love of my life. I hope things work. This video brought me hope. Thank you.
I fell you bro same
@jaimevaldez1963 hang in there. I’m struggling badly, but I pray you find the strength to overcome and endure.
@@jovanygaytan1153thank you man hopefully we can get our love of our lives back I personally fucked up and regret what I did but I’m trying to make us work!
You really helping people with your videos,other coaches are just after incomes.❤
he blocked me everywhere but on the phone, and he said if I contact him within the next 24 hours and not give him space he'll block me there too... //: I just hope he doesn't choose to block me on the phone too and I'll always be uncertain, I'm so tempted to call just to see if I'm been blocked on the phone but I know it's the worst possible thing I can do at this given moment.
Great advice. Absolutely correct.
Thank you I needed this. Means there is still hope
Don’t get your hopes up. I have a feeling that the girl I thought I loved won’t come ever come back and that’s bc she will be happier without me and it is what it is
Only cowards block
If you feel you have to block me... PLEASE keep me blocked!!!
Chill 😂
Great advice. Been listening to you on repeat recently. Hope it turns around 🤞
When they block you they are still upset when they are upset you still the power over their emotions . The end .
You the one make me so calm
✌🏻. . .thank you on your advice, there is wisdom behind it. Be blessed ✨️
My ex broke my heart and then after a year of not hearing from me, he got in contact just to tell me about who he was been sleeping with. He is just being cruel. I should block him now
No , do me right or do me never. Ain't no going back
Naw...mine already moved on to somebody else...he blocked me when I questioned it...then on top of that I expressed my anger that he would move on so fast...eh..no longer my business... I'm glad he blocked me saves me from making a further fool of myself 😞
Big Facts mine asked me if I was talking to some one else then turned around and blocked me
Same she was already seeing others before ended it. Said she just needed space. I called her out and was needy. Now I’m blocked everywhere
I’m sorry that you had to go through that. I just blocked my ex today and the reason being was she lied to me more than once and she’s been cheating I know because we were best friends but something changed along the way. We have been doing long distance for a while now and we were supposed to finally move in and get married in a few months. So I think because of the love I did give her she was scared to breakup. Before I called it quits though I text her and said we should talk about it tomorrow when she has some rest I just need 30 minutes of her time. After I text her I noticed 1 minute later she put her phone on silent 😂 that was all I needed to know. It’s not good feeling feeling heartbreak but we must thank God for not going deeper with these ppl and then they all of the sudden they switch up making it almost impossible to deal with the pain. For once I’m happy and now I can focus on my purpose instead of allowing someone to try to mess with my head and then play victim
How long after he blocked you did he find someone
@@juheard3015bro I feel it my ex was about to move in with me I had bought the ho a ring for Christmas long story short she was talking to her ex behind my back we got in a big fight she got physical with me because I told her how stupid she was chasing her ex that cheated it was bad I ended up walking home from the fight and haven’t spoken to her sinse it’s been 6 days now and he’s she did block me but hey better things to come
Thanks bro, you're really helping
He Blocked me n hope he wont unblock me ever again coz its my chance to block him back!!!
Nah, i block when i am absolutely done and never ever want to hear from them again.
I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We are both 15 but we are just about to turn 16 and we started going out for 2 weeks. 3 dates, I treated her with love and respect. I was this masculine figure for her. I gave her safety and protection. Gave her support because her ex assaulted her in many ways, stalked her so she has trauma, I helped her. We both liked to play basketball and we met in police cadets which in breaks we could play basketball. She asked me and we started talking and playing. She said she liked me first. This is pathetic and embarrassing to say but she was my first real kiss. We started hugging while sitting on a bench, watching the ocean nothing too serious however she broke up with me because she found it uncomfortable that i put my arm around her when we walk about, We were watching a movie and we were hugging each other. She found that uncomfortable and she never told me these things until the day we broke up which was 2 days ago. We were walking in the woods, we started kissing and we were touching each other. I dont want to go in details. We stopped but then we done it again 2 seconds later. Every SECOND i kept asking her if she was okay and comfortable, she replied yes and she continued. I noticed the 2nd time, things were getting too far so I said maybe we should plan it cause I wasnt prepared. When we were kissing she jumped on me and we started kissing even more but passionately, you know? She walked home and I kept asking her if she was happy, okay and comfortable. She even told me she enjoyed it but it reminded her of her ex who assaulted her and she still loves me. The next day, I thought everything was fine. Oh context, before we started in the woods, how did we get to that point? After 3 dates she invited me over to her house where her mum and sister werent going to be there for 2 hrs. Then wed watch a movie. I bought her mum and sister and even her chocolates and treated the family with respect. Then she walked with me to the train station and thats how it happened. We had a great day. Anyway, the next day. I pretended nothing happened cause she told me everything was fine. I said, "wuu2 xx?" She replied 3 hrs later, with a long paragraph, saying how its unbelievable i was thinking about sex which I wasnt. I was being affectionate and noticed things were going too far and stopped it and maybe we should plan it. So she says I make her feel uncomfortable when I put my arm around her when we are walking and thats the first time she said that in our 2 week relationship. She completely changed, she was a nice person. I wad being a gentlemen and respected it. I told her everything is fine now It wont happen again, Calm down and we can talk later. She kept arguing with me and then later I said "if thats how you feel about me, then we shouldnt stay together. Take care" She said "why are you trying to break up with me when I broke up with you an hour ago thats so sad" I didnt over react. I tried peace, The day before she sent that long message I told her "What happened last night was good but we should take it easy. If it makes you feel uncomfortable. Lets not do it again until we are both ready. I hope things dont change and I still love you for what you are inside" Yet she still argued and even said "Im not what you are looking for" I told her I enjoy being with her and dont care about other stuff..Im slowly picking myself up. I have to see her tomorrow at Cadets. She'll probably gossip but I dont care. Ill still be polite and respectful expecially when everyone likes me there. It was a nice experience. Id like to hear what the rest of you think if you read it all, Sorry if I ranted about this so long 😅 It was painful. It still is. She makes me feel guilty and everyone told me I did nothing wrong and its a natural thing, She overreacted. So Thank you for reading, Hope everyone whos going through a break up heals and moves on to continue living a better life. Dont let her/him win
So wise and handsome my brother...💞💕
Gotcha. Ive only been in two serious relationships. Second one was my best one because i handled it better than i did my first. It just makes sense not to send stuff that would hurt them even though they hurt you.
I gave him space but he found new one😂😂
Welp someone gone be waiting their whole life cause that block button staying block lol 😂
Yooo. Everything yu said. Was right and true
This girl I’ve been dating for two months just blocked me. I broke it off with her but I didn’t mean it. She’s the really stubborn type so I don’t think she’ll be unblocking me or soon for that matter. It could have all been avoided but we just had horrible communication. Now I can’t see a future without her and the pain I feel is unbearable. For now I’m just going to take your advice and focus on myself. If it’s meant to be she’ll reach out. Damn.
You move on with your life. She may not reach out.
@@luxuryqueen42 Yep I did. I’ve realized and self reflect why I broke it off in the first place. It’s because I didn’t have a connection with her. I always new something was off and despite the red flags I tried to go along with the relationship. It’s was my first time dating so I thought we could improve with time but deep down that’s just who she was. I’ll admit I made a couple of newbie mistakes😅 but that wasn’t the foundation on why we we deteriorating. We just couldn’t be what each other needed lol. Anyways I’m in the healing process, the only thing I wish I could’ve done differently was separate on better terms but we live and we learn. Now I’m focusing on improving and when the time is right I’ll know God will bring the one along my path. Thanks for the reply👍
Well said 👏 👌 focus on your self 👏
I'm going to block her again.
My ex unblocked me out of nowhere 😳 this happened a few days after he sent me a 😍 emoji on WhatsApp reacting to a picture I posted (it was a mirror selfie) 😂 he only blocked me on Facebook tho. We still have each other on social media because he added me back again after some situation happened between me and another dude
It’s been a year, I called them out on their shit, like looking at my instagram story. No contact for 7 months. So I think the most unattractive thing is playing games. Social media doesn’t dictate the terms you are on with someone.
My ex blocked me and told me literally to focus on myself because he was gonna focus on himself then he hit me with that “you’ll never see me again” he’s dramatic but I was being dramatic first 😂
Amen I needed to hear that
Wow thank u so much ... I'm passing through one now with my wife. May God help me 🙏
He dumped me out the blue. I blocked him 1.5 months after the breakup so I could heal properly & because he doesn't deserve to be my friend in any capacity. I don't want him to know how I'm doing, if I'm alive. NOTHING!
If they block me I be like thank god. No fake love over here. Any of my exes can move on, and I can be mature about it. I think it's childish. I can see them out in public with thier new "boo" and be mature about it. Sounds like some clown shyt if you ask me.
Agree my brother thank you for these wonderful word's you have my blessings always love always god blessed you always 🙏🙏❤❤💖💖✅✅💋💋💋💓💓💓💕💕💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Yup got anxious and blew them up. Didn’t respect them asking for space. Now I’m blocked on everything. I’m afraid I’ll never hear from her again.
Same bro
did you ever hear from her?
I blocked him, partially so that I won't be tempted to reach out to him. I don't want to be tempted to even start back caring. I'm not unblocking him either because I can't deal with the pain of what I might see. I'm forcing myself to move on by not making myself accessible to him.
I needed this.
I need this, thank you❤
Never go back to a ex over is over
You mean blocking for a few weeks not over 3 months smh
Not true, sometimes you both need space for the relationship to be better
@@Madden-Frangrance-Champfacts
@@Madden-Frangrance-Champ 1% of cases imo
@@Madden-Frangrance-Champman
you are terrific,i am very grateful
You are so right about that
It destroyed me blocking my ex. I felt immense guilt for the pain and lack of control they would feel