BRITTANY DAWN GOT HER FIRST FOSTER PLACEMENT AND I HAVE SOME OPINIONS
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My issues with this situation:
1. SHE IS EXPLOITING THAT CHILD
2. Shit taking the mom
3. Seeming like she understands "sleepless nights" after 1 week
4. The baby shower
5. She acts like she won't need to reunite the child with their mother
Her making baby shower for her foster baby is just making it all about herself!
As someone who struggled heavily with postpartum depression and anxiety this type of content is so harmful for potential moms. It sets such unrealistic expectations of what motherhood looks like, foster or biological mom. She’s making this whole situation about her when it’s about caring for a child who’s home life isn’t safe for them. Truly disgusting. Thank you for speaking up B!
I can completely relate
As a long term foster and now adoptive mom, I agree with so much of what you said here. (And thank you for NOT spreading a child's medical info even for the purpose of snark.) That said, I'm hoping to gently push back on 3 things:
1. Mom vs Bio mom: this is important because it speaks to mindset. For as long as a child is in care, their mom and dad are mom and dad and foster parents are just that. Using those titles for the parents keeps everyone in the mindset that the parents remain the kids' parents and are the more important figures in the child's life. I found in most circumstances, I could clarify by emphasizing my role "I'm foster mom, X is mom."
2. The praying thing: from the time we got licensed we started praying for the kids who would be placed with us. It wasn't praying for them to come. It was praying that they would be safe through whatever trauma had to happen for them to come. That said, I wouldn't have posted that verse publicly as it is too easy to misconstrued.
3. The foster shower: I know this won't be popular, but we had one. My sister wanted to do something to show support. It was close family and best friends only. At that point, we knew our first placement was coming and the gifts ended up being pretty specific to the kids. We hadn't been parents before and while we bought all the basics, it turns out there are a lot of extras that make life easier with preschoolers around. It won't be for everyone, but it worked for us.
This was very nice and educational.
Social worker here.
It’s probably safe to say her licensing org probably has strict policies about sharing information at all.
Who I work for doesn’t allow placements to post personal information or pictures period, any little detail can reveal a child/families identity and is a HIPPA violation.
That's scary all the way around. I feel for you workers. My 4 yr old gets therapy for her autism and her therapists work with social workers they work together. My oldest has type 1 diabetes. She's 14 had it for 3 years. I think it's hard for social workers because of Their case load. Not all parents are abusive or bad either so it's probably hard for some to determine what's abuse but they are taught signs.
It’s like she is celebrating that the parents are going through a hard time. It’s not a good thing when a parent loses parental rights. It makes me so uncomfortable that she has a baby. Their judgment in the past is concerning.
Yes! I thought it was weird too she acts like the foster baby is her baby.
She states clearly that she is praying for the return of the baby to the parents. I think she is amazing and has kindly offered her heart and home after losing her own child. She hasn't shown the child's face, she isn't doing anything wrong. Jealousy is an illness, hope you all get well soon
@@sullyandmike188 oh no this is a video about how Britney dawn exploits people for money. Im sorry you got confused that this was about a foster parent with an illness. 🙂
@@Katied2017 this is a video hating on someone, I follow Brittany and I honestly think you girls may be jealous of the fact that she is stunning. I think she is very brave to open her heart and consider fostering after having her miscarriage. We all want to be foster parents for different reasons, she just happens to already have an online presence which instantly makes her a target for bullies such as this whole channel
How about using this energy for all the children actually being harmed, killed, or raped…
I really hope the org that gave you mattresses and home safety stuff also helps bio families with reunification because a lack of beds, smoke detectors, etc. can absolutely contribute to kids being taken out of their homes. It just really sucks that kids get taken out of home for poverty related reasoning and then they get handed to people who get paid to care for the kids, and it's like, why couldn't we give the bio parents the financial support they need in the first place... yes, I'm oversimplifying here but it's part of the picture and it fundamentally doesn't make sense.
That’s a great point.
100% agree
That…. is a GREAT point! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@XOChristianaNicole it really is
It’s exactly how I knew it would be. My mother had foster children she took good care of. Not once did she post them on social media or share their private info, parents stories, and used them for content creation. So sad! These are NOT her children or babies. They should be protecting the mom and baby and their future.
I'm just glad she didn't share the baby's face or any more personal info. There are rules in place thankfully on that. And the child is now out of her care and back with their family, hopefully she stays discreet with any future kids.
I'm a fairly new Foster carer. I went from 0 kids to 2 aged 5 and 6 in the first lockdown .
I didn't know my name for 6 weeks lol. I wasn't posting, me and hubby barely spoke (not from arguing just busy then sleeping lol)
We are nearly 3 yrs in, they are staying but we know 1 day they'll leave (probably as teens) but so do most children. I update parents weekly, they know where I live, we see them as family, do Xmas gifts and my 2 boys story is there's, their mums story is hers I don't judge I just say to myself I love them but they aren't mine, no child is a possession and we are merely caretakers until they are fully formed humans. She is everything wrong with the system. She's making money off it, acting like she's a saviour. In my head I'm lucky to be blessed with 2 little ones , they are not lucky they aren't with family x
Wow...what a good attitude.
I grew up with an adopted sibling. I love them with my whole heart, but it would have been ideal if they could have been with their biological parents. My heart really does feel for them. Even though it can be a beautiful thing, adoption comes with trauma.
I didn't know anything about anything when I had my 1st kid at 30. She was my 1st diaper. My neighbor came over and showed us how to bathe her. She's 26 now, so we did ok! LOL
I learned how to change my first diaper at 5 and 1/2 years old when my first brother was born. I have five younger siblings now. I am 31 and no children but I think when and if the time comes, I've got the diaper changing thing down. I love how we're all so different lol.
My husband and I were 35 when we had our first baby. Neither of us knew how to change a baby. The hospital helped a lot!
I’m not a parent yet but my sister is pregnant now. I’m 21 and have never changed a diaper in my life. All my siblings are close in age to me and so are my cousins. And the older cousins lived to far for me to know their kids were babies. But I’m absolutely going to learn since I’m going to be a aunt soon.
2 words: virtue signaling. A child is not a prop.
If I was the biological mom I would be so upset that my child was being used like this. I am a foster parent and would never ever do any of this. She is so immature!!!!
I’d be motivated to turn my situation around so I could sue bdong ASAP.
I’ll be honest when we had our kid we didn’t know almost anything about babies. The months before birth was a panicked haze of trying to learn from a base of nothing. And still the nurse had to teach us to change the diaper. The learning curve for babies is huge! You really don’t know what you don’t know until the baby is there. Not everyone has grown up around babies!
I think you cover Brittany Dawn's insanity better and more thoroughly than anyone else. I was waiting for this vid!
If parents had access to proper food, shelter, healthcare, including mental healthcare, that all people deserve, they would most likely be able to care for their child, so these traumatic separations wouldn’t have to happen, and I think that’s what makes me the most upset about this.
I do believe if all people were forwarded all those basic human rights then we all could be decent human beings. If the parents are doing drugs and getting arrested than no they shouldn't be parents atleast in that time of life. After treatment and plans are met then they should be forwarded those parent rights back. (just speaking from experience)
While I totally believe the mental healthcare system is very lacking, in some instances, it’s also a choice as far as doing all of that for the sake of their child. I have two nieces who were adopted from foster care. Both were given services to become great parents. The second child was even reunified with her birth mom. During the court process to determine if the child should be given back the mom told the judge my niece could go and make her own meals in the kitchen. Bear in mind at the time my niece was less than 10 months old when she was making these statements. Still she was returned and the week after she was returned bio mom was leaving her home alone again. And not feeding her. When she was pulled over she had the baby with her. She was drunk and baby was not in a car seat. This was in the mountains and baby could’ve been killed.
Sometimes doing the best for your kids is a choice. It’s like saying if Brittany Dawn was getting services she could be a good person. Her being the way she is a Choice.
As a person from the UK, I honestly think that a large minority of people in your country would be so against this extra help to allow a child to be supported at home financially etc. It would be too much like the "socialism / communism" many seem so fearful of. The wealthier countries in the European Union (no longer us, of course, which pains me greatly!) have these programmes which support the birth family financially and with direct caring input. It's not for all cases, obviously, for as we know some 'parents' do not deserve to be able to keep a hamster, but I think it is tragic when families are rent asunder mainly because of poverty. At home support must be better value for money too, but I believe you have too many people in the USA who resent paying for the needs of others. Just look at the respective health-care systems in Germany and the USA, for example.
Oh, and of course BD and her appalling husband have really shown their selfishness and lack of judgement over this poor infant. She acts as if the baby were an accessory, or a possession. Very sad story.
@@angelamaryquitecontrary4609 Definitely. The culture of “every person for themselves”/ just pure selfishness is strong over here in the U.S. I’m so sad about it
Part of me thinks this is a ploy for the courts to see her doing “Gods work.” I feel like this has been done before eg. Elizabeth Holmes, Diane Downs etc. Brittany couldn’t have a baby fast enough so she decided to do the alternative before her court date. Seems pretty irresponsible to me.
Yup.
Brittany Dawn is always ready to show how much she doesn’t know about the things that she is involved with.
Hahaha this is great
I pray for this child, that their family will be healthy and stable soon and they will go home and never even know about these posts. This baby is having an incredibly traumatic introduction to the world. I can’t imagine growing up and seeing my traumatic life story was shared with affiliate links underneath… by someone who targets and scams women… and someone else who has been fired for brutality… God help this child and their family.
You are so right. We were fortunate to foster our grandson so he stayed in our family and eventhough he is our blood, it was so sad to see him separated from his mom. Some people seem to forget that fosterchildren aren't theirs, but they get to take care of them for a limited amount of time. A fosterparent's goal should always be to get the children back with their parents!
My husband and I had three of our grandchildren placed in our care. We were rooting for their parents to get their lives together so the kids could go back home. But they didn’t. The father is dead now (overdose) and my daughter sadly is heading in that direction. Almost 4 years later, the kids were legally adopted by us this past October. I’ve never boasted about any of it on social media. BD should be rooting for the parents or mother for a reconciliation. If the parents know their baby is with her, they must be sick over this. The goal is always that the children return home.
Sending ❤️. The kids are so lucky to have you, but I'm so sorry for what your family has gone thru.
@@caseyw.6550 Very sweet and kind of you. Thank you. 💕🙏
I'm a mom to a 16 month old and 3yr old. I read the books, listened to podcasts... I didn't know what to expect. Diapers having the color strip... my husband and I thought that was so cool lol. I didn't have a baby shower with either (pandemic babies) and I honestly didn't want one. People were great and asked if I had a Target/Amazon registry and was sent gifts. Brittany's foster baby shower and online grifting is just.... it just feels icky to me. And I don't exploit my boys. Maybe once in a blue moon I'll post a super cute picture of them on my fb that's private, but I don't post anything that could ever embarrass/hurt them.
I'd be so effin upset if I ever (God forbid) lost my boys, and their foster mom was exploiting the sh*t out of them on the internet... making content, money, and financially benefitting off of our traumatic situation. This needs to absolutely be illegal. It's really upsetting... then if the mom is suffering from PPD or other issues, seeing her post things would absolutely be triggering. This needs to stop. How disgusting.
I like how she is going on about how she can’t care for herself properly but still goes to the gym and actually looks fine. I get having a newborn is hard for anyone but it’s not like she is also recovering from pregnancy and birth.
This is giving Myka Stauffer vibes, big time. She adopted a little boy with autism and a brain tumor for content and returned him a couple years later
WHY? Like why are HOW? She is being sued, she is dishonest and did her husband not shoot someone? Am i missing something? What social foster worker would ever think these two idiots would be fit foster parents? Its disgusting.
Husband shot the dog but body slammed a human being.
@@feliciascorner9795 Sounds like a charmer 😂
But she remembered her eyelashes! Just another prop in the next grift.
Thank you for bringing awareness to this.
I’m unpacking at my husband and I’s first apartment and I’m so stoked to listen to your thoughts on this while doing so!!! I’ve been a subscriber since 2020ish and I don’t think I’ve ever commented lol. But I watch every video you put out because I love hearing your thoughts! Thanks, B! Hope you had a great holiday 😊
Congratulations on your first apartment, that’s such a fun time 😊🎉 thanks for being here and I hope you had a great holiday as well!
Aside from the resources readily available, I feel like if she wanted to donate clothes for the kids she could have like an Amazon wish list? At least that way people know for sure the money is going to clothes.
For sure scammer vibes 😒
IMO, not that content creators can't be foster parents ..because many are good people and can share respectfully about their own children, but this is someone else's legal child. I feel organizations should have rules and policies for the children's privacy if they don't already.
Right? That you tuber Nikki Phillipi tried to adopt a kid but because it couldn’t be on camera for a year didn’t bother 😅🙃
At the very least, no monetizing content specific to a child.
I love your perspective on this. I have no experience with foster care and I get really negative feelings about this situation, but your experience helps me understand the nuances of why what she’s doing is gross.
There should be laws against posting foster kiddos online for content.
When you’re sued it’s in civil court-that wouldn’t come up on a criminal background check. It’s not criminal ..
You can absolutely get all that stuff in 2 hours. We did. Ran to Walmart then picked the baby up with formula, pack and play, clothes, blankets, bottles, diapers, etc.
She had a baby shower? It’s really cringe that it’s very obvious this is just her living a mommy fantasy for her. Which she’s allowed to do that but it doesn’t make it not-cringe. What takes it from cringe to distasteful is she is also doing it to earn more money 🫢
I don’t know why they have to post about any of this. If they were that busy, she wouldn’t have time to post this much
I do not know how it is in other states, but I work at an office that provides therapy for DCF cases and end up reading a lot of the case plans and the whole "reconciliation is always the goal" thing makes sense to me. Unless they rushed terminating the parents rights (only done in cases of egregious abuse from what I've seen), then the case plans will often have reconciliation and adoption as concurrent goals. Foster to adopt where I am (FL, so like the WORST state for foster care) foster to adopt works exactly like she described. Wouldn’t want to be adopted by this woman, but that part at least seems to track w my experience w the system here. (Editing to clarify that this is through the state do I don't know how it might be impacted by a private placement company, but unless parental rights have been terminated the reconciliation is always the primary goal, even if DCF is actively trying to prove that a TPR is justified.)
I am from Florida as well. Does FL have private foster placement companies? When I heard of this in the video, I was confused. I always thought it was via the county. But I get that there's private companies that deal with the adoption side.
New viewer here: one thing that I’ve figured out about this woman is that she is calculated. I wouldn’t be shocked if she preplanned/pre shot all these posts a week or weeks in advance (example: the gym) to garner the most attention.
But why would it matter to you if she did? I’m certainly not a big fan of hers but don’t understand where all the hate is coming from? It screams jealously
@@sianevans3159 I mean, she’s getting sued for fraud, weaponizing religion as a way to side step getting sued for fraud, and she using a foster CHILD as clickbait. It’s not jealousy, it’s pure disgust.
@@Strugasaurasrex o don't understand why people automatically jump to jealousy 🙄
Came here thanks to a post in the Snark sub! Love your take on the whole situation, especially given you have fostering experience. Bdong & Jdong don't deserve any children, much less one that is in a traumatic experience when they're barely aware of this world. And then for them to parade it around like it's their own or already adopted child is heinous.
Don’t deserve children!? What have they done?
@@sianevans3159 scamming many people for many years there pet dog did you even know what she really done????
@@joandarc441 not to mention, the horse she abandoned and the other dog that she rehomed.
@B Haney OmGgg I have been awaiting your video on her content on this baby !!!
Please keep covering this!!
Ps. LOVE YOU AND YOUR CONTENT!!! ♡♡♡
B!! Your videos stopped showing up in my feed and it wasn't until Keya mentioned you in her livestream that I realized it. So glad to see you again and will be subscribing finally lol. Hope you enjoyed the holidays!
I'm thirty and I work with children and I had no idea they make diapers that change colors when wet (other than, you know, how fabric looks darker when it's wet lol). To be fair, I only work with toilet trained children!
The thing about not knowing a baby might not be done after you take the diaper off. There are so many jokes about that even if you never experienced it. Anyone wanting to be a parent that badly would have seen stuff like that on social media at least.
Also she has a nephew that she has been around since his birth…how do you not know? Are you telling me you never helped your sister out by changing the babies diaper and did not realize that the soiled diaper had a blue line and that the new one didn’t?? 🤔
Right? I'm childfree and I don't think I've ever changed a diaper in my life even babysitting as a teen. But anyone who has seen a sitcom EVER knows this.
Ya… this all feels really gross… do foster parents have any rights to fight “unfit” bio parents? Seems like the kind of thing these 2 would do if they got a placement that fit their aesthetic 😬 thanks for sharing more of your experience, this is all new to me.
“A placement that fits their aesthetic” god you’re so right, that’s so uncomfortable to think about 😣
@@LA-wv7gf - Such a great point, regarding the miscarriage. I had a similar thought, also.
She has no rights to fight the parent in court from my understanding. I grew up as a foster kid going from in and out of care and reunification. In my state, the parents keep all rights and are still consulted for most things regarding the child and the foster parents have no say. This includes foster parents needing permission to take the kid out of state for things like a vacation, any medical care, even hair cuts when the kids are young. If the parents are unresponsive or the choices they are making are unsafe for the child or it’s an emergency, the decisions about the child go to someone who works for the state called a LAR (legally authorized representative) who will do what is best for the child. Foster parents are there to help reunify the child and parent, not become the parent.
If you have clothes to send to random people online, you SHOULD be just dropping them off at local women and children shelters. Soooooo weird and frustrating to me!
Ahhhh I have been waiting for your opinion on this! I am irrationally angry she is allowed a foster. And she talked about the foster mom on social media!!!!!! Who have her this child?
This is so dangerous for the kid, from sharing personnal info online to shaming the mom and risky behaviours like sleeping with a baby especially on a couch were the child could fall or get smashed
The issue i have with returning the kid with clothes, is they don't know how long they'll have the kid, abd kids grow so fast it could be really impractical on an individual basis.
When I saw BD’s facial expressions years ago… I instantly knew something was off. Pray for this little baby.
I enjoy your content! Thanks for sharing your opinion. Happy New Year and best wishes to your channel!
Thank you so much! Happy new year to you as well 🎉💛
Wow I was 9 years old when I started babysitting and knew more than her geeze
Foster parents of over 11 years🙋♀️. The baby shower was too much. This isnt a celebration to have a child separated from the parents. The part of collecting money and items from other people for when the child is reunified with the parents bothers me so much! As a foster parent the county literally reimburses you for the needs of the child. You get free things often. There is never a financial strain because of the child. There is no reason others should be giving them money. Ive seen this before and i dont agree at all with that. Nothing wrong with people dropping off things or asking if there is anything you need, sometimes thats how people are part of being involved with fostercare if they cant open their home to a child.
This is a long comment lol I have alot of opinions about how people treat fostercare kids to benefit themselves.
Also, i made ALOT of mistakes when we first started with my words and actions so im hoping she sees her mistakes and does better.
The child has already been reunified supposedly...don't know if I believe this
The county i fostered for classified cases as foster to adopt if the parents had previously lost other children. They then get placed in homes open to adoption to prevent extra moves for the kids. Even in this case, the primary goal is reunification.
9:39 as of 10 years ago in the state of California, it was mandatory that your license be fost/adopt. Of course you could turn down adopting!! But, your license was dual no matter if you went thru the state or an agency. She is allll kinds of nauseating!!!! 😢
She should be calling mum, mum, I call my boys parents mum and dad and family time. I'm a Foster carer not mum (I love them like a mum but respect they have parents )
I heard of situation on tiktok related to Britney dawn. I guess she set up a go fund me for a homeless guy that gave his last few cents to the offering tray at her church. However the man never got any of the money from the go fund me. I don’t know if this is old news but if this is true that she pocketed the go fund me money than I wouldn’t trust her with donations for these foster kids. But this is COMPLETELY ALLEGED! I just heard this from tiktok lol
It feels like she just wants to play Mom (on social media) without actually having to get pregnant, go thru labor, and end up with a child she couldn't put any parameters around.
Ah jeeze…. Not hormonal pregnant me (with our 3rd) totally frustrated over Bdawn’s behavior but also tearing up over the stroller pics and diaper stripes because it’s hitting me we are about to start all over again 😅
All the best Mary! I’m going to have my first soon so pretty much everything is overwhelming at the moment lol
Congrats, I hope you have a save delivery.
B-Dawn has a hero complex.
Thats it
At least she’s trying to pivot from malignant to neutral/communal narcissism.
@@Constantin9va there's no room for "at least" wirh narcissism. She needs help
send this video to her states cps administration. even private foster must follow state laws
I have had issue with foster/adoption in this country for a while because when I started learning about the realities of how it works I was horrified. The system often seems to be rigged in favour of wealthy white Christian couples and how *they* want to grow their family or use adoption/foster care as a form of religious conversion and white saviorism of the children. It's not about the kids getting what they need and it's way too easy to exploit them. In some cases, parents of adopted children can even "rehome" them with absolutely ZERO oversight. To say nothing of how the system preys on vulnerable pregnant women and convinces them to sell their baby to a wealthy couple because no one wants to actually help poor families stay together when they could exploit them and buy their babies.
I like how she forgot to brush her teeth but didn't forget to do a full face of makeup + fake lashes + hair done. Interesting.
She 100% is in a foster to adopt program… but wants to play the role of the selfless foster mom… so gross… imagine if she adopted him and is pretending she is foster.
That would be the bdong way to foster…
Being someone who does have experience with foster to adopt, there are very few circumstances in which a newborn is legally free for adoption within the foster system, but also these programs simply mean that you are licensed to adopt, and not necessarily that you are only taking adoptive placements. If you were only licensed to foster, and decided to adopt a child who had been in your care, who became legally free for adoption, at least in my state, you would have to get licensed to adopt. Which is why that program can be helpful if you are considering adoption.
Try having depression, I forget to brush my teeth all the time 😂
Also, I feel like if the foster mother forgets to do simple things like brush her teeth or hair before leaving the house I'm not sure how much I can trust them to take care of my children...
Knowing you’re a foster parent, I was, certainly, curious about what you had to say, after seeing Brittney has now become one, as well.
She could put any future children in danger if she continues posting every aspect of her week. This is serious stuff, nobody cares you haven't fake brushed your teeth or whatever. She isn't considering this is a traumatic even if it's a tiny baby. She shamed the mother, she's only vaguely mentioned the mother. It's just all about her and it's disturbing. I hope the organisation sees her posts and makes her realise she can't post the placements lives like this.
This! Like people who supporting her dint understand how dangerous it is for not only herself but this innocent child who was already ripped from their mother.
Maybe the agency if they see BD's posts will remove the placement.
B! You need a 2nd account that won’t be linked to your RUclips or public insta so you can keep tabs!
11:52 yeah, you would think she’d take like a infant care class or something if she planned to only foster infants..
“We knew that from the start” my theory is she’s seen the criticism and is pretending she never said the “foster to adopt” thing.
Is foster to adopt bad?
I agree! Like it’s nice that they are able to give and nurture this baby that is going through a lot but at the same time… I have a feeling her connection with this baby it’s at some point going to be toxic because when it’s time to take that baby back she is either: “Give it back and be ready for the second placement” or “Using her Christianity to shame the birth mother and not give that baby back” and I think it’s going to be the second one.
She woke up like that 😂
Hi, first tjme viewer so maybe this has already been mentioned but I’m surprised a brand new “foster parent” got a newborn. Also (tentatively) a white newborn? In my region the greatest need is for foster parents for older kids and many children of color have been on the list a long time.
Well, the newborn question was answered later…sorry for my ignorance.
Ugh this is so gross! I can totally understand your frustration! It’s so wrong how she is exploiting this child and it’s all about her! I had to laugh though because you are so fair in all your videos and I think you were still fair in this one! But it was funny to see a little bit of your feistiness come out! It just shows your heart is in the right place! ❤
I'm so getting Della Vlog vibes 100%.
So- these comments are wild to me. this is like saying if you take a picture of your food or any meal - it’s disrespectful to the children starving in Africa….
Not sure if you are a Christian. But judging her is not ok. God put fostering on their hearts. There are children in need of homes. They clearly have the means and a beautiful home and love to give. - as a new mom myself - She’s inspired me to also pray about fostering and helping children in need. It’s a big change. One she is more than clear about. I don’t get an ounce of her “celebrating” for the families going thru hard times.
Wild. U celebrate when u get a job. Does that mean ur celebrating is disrespectful to the unemployed folks.
Less judgment more love.
0 comprehension skills
Just curious and of course you don’t have to answer if you think this is too private, but did you ever want kids or think about kids before being approached for kinship foster care? Has being a foster parent changed anything for you?
I definitely thought about having kids prior but it never felt like the right time. I get there’s no such thing as the perfect time, but I always wanted to make sure we were in a good position if and when we decided to try for kids. Doing foster care made me realize I really do want kids eventually but reinforced my desire to meet certain goals before doing so even though I know my husband and I can adapt to anything that comes our way 😊
Also foster parents get a monthly stipend and even a clothing allowance, up to a certain amount per year. Having some donations at first is great especially when your first getting settled but to take and offer to take money, that’s a red flag🚩
Yea what is this? I was in foster care as a teen and she is doing this for brownie points at her church. Where was the financial background check? 🤔 I love my foster mom but it would have been better if my family would have figured it out. A BABY SHOWER?!
This is making me want to throw up the more I watch. That is an 800 dollar stroller she's flexing with a foster newborn. Don't post about the child's visits.
Why is she being sued? I will have to look back at your past videos. Just found your channel and I just started following Britney too!
Brittany is being sue for work programs she was selling where she *allegedly* promised personalized workout programs that customers found were not personalized. She also *allegedly* charge customers shipping fee when the programs were distributed via email. And the suit is being done by the state of Texas.
Lol! Forgot to brush teeth but can go with a full beat and eyelashes to a newborn doc appt. Ok, girl. 😂
Always love to hear your thoughts about Bdongs antics! Making money off of and exploiting this poor child is disgusting. Also sharing medical information while shaming mom - wow. She should lose her fostering privileges.
“Bdong.” 😂
Listen nothing against kids in general but i dont follow you for mommy content! I’m glad you respected the kids privacy, we follow for your personality and your opinions not kids
*I wish that children weren't such social currency and clout in Christianity!!*
Cash is king for them
Sooo many thoughts and feelings -
1. I am SHOCKED that she is allowed to shared even photos of the child on social media. Not to mention the medical info (and thank you for not furthering it). Everyone I know that’s been involved with fort care has never been allowed to share any information publicly - and that’s how it should be. My gosh, that’s not your child.
2. I hope she decides to stop after a few goodbyes.
3. As a mom of six children, she has absolutely no clue what parenting is like. This video irritated me so much. I felt like she treated that poor baby as a prop or a new puppy.
Shes not doing this to help babies. She's doing this so she can get that sweet MOM experience she so desperately craves and the attention that comes with it. Sickening.
you know what she's missing? Decorum
All of these types of people want infants and young children because they’re more easily indoctrinated. I’m sorry but it infuriates me. There are so many older kids and teens who need help but screw them right?
My grandparents have been foster parents for people with disabilities ranging from 6-35, for my entire life. It’s HARD. How easily she makes it all about her is so…ooooof
Lactation specialist? Why does she need that?
This totally made my day. I’m in bed with the flu and am so excited to watch!
Anyone else feel like there is a inappropriate, almost perverse, amount of glee in this comment concerning the welfare of an infant?
@@Constantin9va um, no.....people just enjoy B's content.
I can't take Britney seriously. She's complaining about not brushing her teeth, but her teeth are WHITE. One day won't kill you.
it's illegal to post a foster child
what’s wrong with her being happy? she’s exited to have a baby because her last one DIED before it was even born.
She's exploiting a child who has already endured a major trauma. No parent bio or foster or adopted should be exploiting their children on social media the way she has.
So as someone who was willingly given up before I was even born. My mother has elected no contact and my adopted parents did do the baby showers and such, but they weren't influencers (adopted before social media). I feel like the shower isn't that big of a deal. It's just her overall character that concerns me as a foster parent. I also has such a major trauma from organized religion (specifically Christianity) so hearing her justify herself with Jesus nonsense is so much of a red flag for me. I know not all Christians are bad, but from my experience, those ppl who are "outspoken christians" are the absolute worst. I'm sorry. I really just can't.
Wow. So your admitting your a bigot?
@@lydiacollins9018 being a bigot? Lol okay
Had a lot of thoughts listening to this...For starters the privacy thing. My best friend adopted a baby through a private agency and even though it was not through the foster care system, under her state's laws she still was not legally allowed to show the baby's face on social media until the adoption was finalized, which took several months!
The donation thing feels weird, too, even if her intentions are good. For one thing, part of the process of becoming approved to be a foster parent is your financial records getting looked at to make sure you'd be able to afford to care for the child(ren) outside of the monthly payment you receive from the state. Maybe it would have been better to redirect her followers to "pay it forward" by donating their items to a charity in their area that helps low income families with baby clothes or other infant supplies so it can help someone who is actually struggling?
I can say, though, I'll definitely have a learning curve with diapers, etc., whenever I become a parent! :) So I don't fault her for that. I have a nephew and I came into his life when he was 16 or 17 months old, but things like diaper changes or bathing him were always mom and dad's job.
I have a feeling (again just speculating) that maybe the foster to adopt fell through bc of her past or husbands past?
Why do I feel like on all of her Q&As she asks herself the questions just so she has something to answer 🙄
I think she has absolutely been exploiting this poor child. I hope that there is some strict supervision going on due to her 'influencer' status. My tin foil hat theory is that she and Jordan have not gone through the legal channels to do this and that they had been trolling hospitals and/or areas where unhoused people live looking for someone who was pregnant. I know that sounds horrific but I wouldn't put it past them based on their pattern of behaviour. Thanks and I hope you will keep covering it - BDawn thinks that if she outlasts the 'haters' she will have the last laugh but we are here and are going no where!