Important things: 1:00 First Thing - Have Standards Beyond Beauty; 4:00 Second Thing - Do Not Over Communicate; 6:02 Third Thing - Slow Down; 7:06 Fourth Thing - Don't Be Available 24/7; 7:50 Fifth Thing - Create More Options; and 9:00 so true about the master of flirting. Some of these things that you have told Marny, can be used also in some life situations. Especially the first thing (or tip, call it whatever you want). Looks can be deceiving (like it or not). Attraction is nothing, without showing the intelligence, or how smart is that person. In Balkan for the first thing we say this thing that goes like this: ,,Kakav na jelu, takav na delu." Translation would of been like this: "The way how he / she eats, is the way how he / she show the deeds. Reading between the lines means that you have to see the way how does this person is behaving (and the deeds will tell a lot, even also how is someone clever enough). When I was listening to you Marni, I remembered two things that my parents told me. And here are the things (probably I have mentioned it in some of your videos): 1. My father told me this long time ago: "Son, when you meet new people, don't be with everyone, here's the heart in the palm of your hand." ; 2. My mother told me this thing long time ago when I was wondering when will I ever find a girlfriend: "Son, when you solve all your obligations, only then will girls want to be with you." All of these things gentlemen do (believe it or not). And I will always be a gentleman, no matter what happens. I might also as that we have to go also like this: "Go with the flow." Meaning be relaxed (meaning to be normal, and overthink), and enjoy.
To get her attention get a Dog and give all your attention to the Dog. She’ll short circuit from jealousy and become obsessed with you. Then still ignore her , because you didn’t need that headache anyway. 🤘🤘🤘
This may be a joke, but dude man got a point. This actually works. I've dealt with several women that paid me more attention because I gave more attention to my dog. It bothers them when a pet gets more attention then they do.☠☠☠
Please don’t listen to this foolish advice. Imagine being so incompetent in love that you go to a RUclips channel advising on love and give dopey advice.
Get a kid, or two, and spent a lot of time with them and let them see you engaging with them. It will work like the dog thing but on ‘roids. Trust me it’s worked like crack in the last 6 months.
There is so much power in the fruit of self control. Her beauty may be attractive, yet that is only the package on the outside. Open the gift presented and see what is inside. Time will reveal the truth. Never rush. Patience is golden.
I've had several women get mad at me and 'break up' with me because I'm not communicating enough, not calling them enough. It seems that no matter what I do, women get pissed and reject you if you are too 'needy' , and get pissed off if you are not 'needy' enough. I've come to the conclusion that American women, especially, are a pain in the ass and not worth the effort, usually....
Why succumb to the neediness of the woman if she doesnt reprocicate. Honestly these videos are informative but it shows how fked up dating is. Not once you talk about being honest and true no matter the "standards" you fill or not. You keep pushing the standards. Literally nothing matters if the connection is true, it just works and its amazing. No games no bs no mind games or appeareance obsessione or image or frame, nothing. Just pure love and joy.
Why succumb to the neediness of the woman if she doesnt reprocicate. Honestly these videos are informative but it shows how fked up dating is. Not once you talk about being honest and true no matter the "standards" you fill or not. You keep pushing the standards. Literally nothing matters if the connection is true, it just works and its amazing. No games no bs no mind games or appeareance obsessione or image or frame, nothing. Just pure love and joy.
As a Sigma male, I can confirm what you say to be true but not all women are looking for the same qualities in men. There are even those who claim to be looking for one sort of man when they actually want something completely different and aren't even aware of it themselves, lol. I would say that conversational banter and flirting is key to keep anyone interested in what you have to say but recognizing the toxic women asap is even more important. Your presentations are entertaining as always and thanks for the laughs. You could have your own late night show with the gift you have to convince men about how they need to conduct themselves.
I was called needy. call it inexperience. This is excellent advice. Being labeled needy is the equivalent to the death penalty in love. You are toast. Good advice on texts. I was told once that the woman did not care for my long texts.
Hey there. I've watched through a lot of Marnis videos now and just want to say that I really appreciate the effort. At the same time, with every video I watch the whole dating world and women become progressively more daunting to me. I know I'm not a dumb guy (Or maybe I am. The dumb ones never know they're dumb, right?), but my looks don't match my personality at all. I look strong because I work out a lot, hygiene is incredibly important to me and probably I'm handsome too, but I'm extremely high in neuroticism and have a sense that I don't deserve nice things in life. This is a huge issue, because I may tick the boxes of intelligence, fitness, looks, even emotional availability and willingness to listen to what a partner may want, but the stoicism, carelessness and leadership attributes aren't there. It feels like those issues are rooted deep within me, maybe even as inherent personality traits, and I'm honestly not certain how to tackle them. Not certain why I put this here. I suppose I just had to get it off my chest and maybe someone else has had the same issues and successfully overcome them. If so, let me know. Cheers
Things I always forget to do when I first start seeing a girl is I show too much interest. Like I want to get to know her more and do things with her. This is a HUGE no-no. Showing too much interest right away sets off her brain that I am somehow low value or have no friends or just needy. Commonly it's not the case with me or most men but it's how a woman's primal brain thinks. So good advice as usual!! Men do need to lead heavily in the beginning but at a woman's pace. Listen to her as she talks about her lifestyle, job and past relationship to see how you need to handle her. Always keep things light in the beginning with teasing but not sexual and you will make her FEEL stuff and that's the key to women. Her feelings will make her chase you.
Hi Marni glad to see u survived COVID-surely rough for dating coach!- & resumed ur biz. Truly provide a valuable, service, teaching good guys what to do to be successful w/ good women who otherwise have much smaller pool to chose from-everyone wins. God bless
I feel this changed my mindset and perspective on talking to or interacting with women, I read it on a forum, I thought the guy hit the nail right on the head. It changed my perspective and mindset on talking to women. A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice "It bothers and annoys, enrages me or pisses me off a lot when people use the word practice, because the way I see it, for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men, because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first" I thought to myself, never truer words have been said or spoken. I thought that was bang-on right there. and i got a response from a dating coach on youtube, which enraged and pissed me off more, while I don't disagree with him, I just don't like how he said the brutal cold harsh fact of how different for men and women when it comes to getting better at talking to and interacting with the opposite sex. It makes sense and I like to believe there is far more advice for guys in the world on how to talk to and interact with girls then there is advice for girls on how to talk to and interact with guys. He said: "Don't worry about what other people don't have to do or why something is easier for them or whatever the comparison may be. Focus on you, where you want to be, what you need to do to get there and then get moving." That pissed me off more when I read that. Another reason why I don't like it is because it feels or seems like the way a guy talks and interacts with people or a guy's social skills, the way he behaves around others, has a much bigger impact on his attractiveness or ability to get a girlfriend then the other way around. As in, the way a girl talks or a girl's social skills doesn't impact her attractiveness or ability to get a boyfriend as much as it does for a guy to get a girlfriend. Men need to focus more on the behavioral aspect than women do when it comes to attracting someone it seems. The main reason why i hate that, is because guys, men, can unfortuneately be labeled creepy or weird in interactions or social situations with women, even if the guy, man, never meant any harm, was never trying to hurt the woman, the reverse isn't true though. And due to men always having been expected to walk up to women and open our mouth, it makes more sense for the man to need to practice but not the woman. If an interaction or conversation goes poorly or bad between a man and a woman,. It's always the guys fault, it's impossible for a woman to screw up a conversation or interaction with a guy, it seems. Yeah I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times in my life I have hated being born male due to how for all time men have had to do everything in dating and courtship and seduction, relationships, etc. I get more pissed off in and raised when people say us men are supposed to feel lucky or grateful for being born a man, or that we men have it better than women do in dating.
I agree with those points, its why when i do meet a woman i present myself as a warm welcoming person who also leads. I wont talk much more like just listen (unless im ordering food for the both of us) i will listen and only talk alot when explaining an answer that is complicated. I gain the trust and respect aspect first before anything else, now when the person i go out on a date with hugs me ill be respectful and kind and hug back. There's nothing that I do that would make a woman turn off by me, im traditional which means everything that is respectful towards a woman i do.
One think I’ve done which was successful is not reaching out after a date or a simple meet up. I wait for them to get back 😅 and it increased attraction a lot on there end. I learned this by reaching out too fast and then not being interested for being needy. Always learn from your mistakes and next time it’ll be a different story 😏
Never ever in all my relationships, flirts or anything she reached out. Here in Germany not reaching out as a man is "Ghosting". In Germany man has the initiative.
I needed this - thanks! Saving this to be resisted often. I would be interested in how this advice is applicable for those that are engaged or in marriage.
Okay, Mariah, what about question 3? We man should not rush to get the girl. What if we go slow and take our time? And we lose her to another guy. Because we didn't act quick enough.
Marni great video as always.I ve made a date for lunch with a lady i met on line. Unfortnetly i dont have the cash before next week or the time. To get the F formula i know i could use it. So if she calls i didnt follow ur advice in leading. I asked her to pick where she wanted to go for lunch. Thinking she would feel safer a place of her choice for our first date. Advice if i dont here back from u i saw 16 coments in less than 1 min. I know u read them i understand.
Marni , great informative video! Two things that stood out to me. One is that women will make time if they want to talk to you. And two is don't be available 24/7. I had a girl tell me that " I get what I want , when I want and how I want it and that I was the first guy that have ever told her no " She was absolutely gorgeous! Oddly enough by telling her no , it turned her on and it also turned to amazing sex.
Hello Marni, you did not mention something that can really drive woman to go for a certain guy. I am sure you have heard of this. It is called "Hitting the Wall". When my wife found me she was 25 years old. The idea of " Hitting the Wall " did not exist back then. At this time, I was running a small business and all of he sudden I had women approaching me all of the time. In fact I had many young women working for me at that time and they all started telling me that my future wife is very interested in me. Guess what? Women read other women very well. It was true. We have been married for over 20 years. Thoughts?
The first question I ask myself after watching your video is, but what if it goes the other way and she thinks you’re disinterested or not into her? I guess a happy medium has to be derived.
Why is texting different? It’s communication imagine if you like a man and ask him a question and he ignores you for a day then answers you the next day? Is this acceptable?
With the texting thing, I'm fuckin over texting TBH. I've never been an overtexter as an adult, but frankly, after my lucky streak ended, I had several situations where we were texting only, and she didn't meetup when I asked to. If the girl never meets up with me, then the point of texting is defeated. I've reached a point where I'd just rather not have her number, and that's what I've begun doing is just asking in person. I'm not unreasonable for this; I just don't want a "texting buddy." With regards to the "create more options," I've seen nearly every PDF ebook and every RUclips personality tow this line, but the problem is, I haven't seen anyone do enough to explain how to get options to happen, _from scratch_ . Because the issue is that guys listen to this, and they _talk to more girls,_ they increase their volume, but the issue is that _every girl is_ the one that's either not taking them as serious as they want, or she's talking to someone else. So they move on to a different girl... just to have the same exact thing happen ten more times in a row.
If dudes are doing this then there are more serious issues than dating etiquette. All 5 of these sum up to a dude who many women probably wouldn't pay attention to anyway. The work is more about being a better man than not being needy.
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot. Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. And I don't get or understand why a guy or a human male or just a person in general has no right to feel depressed or feel bitter and forever resentful if they manage to get their first relationship late-in-life. For example, if a person doesn't have their first relationship until their 30s or 40s and older. People say that a person like that should still be happy, but I feel a person like that has to have a right to feel forever depressed and bitter and resentful because they feel that their youth went to waste or their youth was stolen from them. I feel men have a right to be angry about something like that more than women do because for all-time men have always been dealt with the burden of having to accept or take responsibility for their lives while women can simply rely on others to do it for them. For all-time relationships and dates are basically handed or given to women on a silver platter but not for men
Pretty sound advice even though I'm not ready for dating yet. Because I got to work on myself and deal with my own skeletons in my closet. Also I wonder if someone bought the F Formula never use it and returned it for a refund within a 24 hours. That's not a joke, I'm being serious.
I think #3 falls into the rule that men are the gatekeeper to a relationship, women are the gatekeepers to sex. Which means men should never initiate the " what are we" talk. Let the woman always initiate that talk to let the men confirm the relationship.
And what if your not needy. Atractive , have your shit together , and have still never once dated a woman or had a relationship in your life ? What then, because none of this seems to work ? ...As for options, they all just assume you are with whoever the other girl is you spoke to.
What are the signals (woman body language) that show a woman interpret you as needy because I want to be able to run away before i feel too much insulted?😊
Well, to be realistic - if a lady is WORTH attention, for her, it's not a secret. If she has her aims at a guy she really wants - him she herself will try to get - needy, or not.... And if a guy shows little to no interest in her - well, she'll probably conclude - he's GAY ..... ( not that anything's wrong with it..) 😀
Don't you wish there was a "secret" to Women? Spoiler alert: There. Is. Not! Too many variables. What's sexy to Emma is an insult to Rebecca. Good night.
You have never dated a Latino woman. They are needy and lacking trust in men based on their experience. If you don't answer their text in an hour or less, they freak out. Very funny.
I heard men falll in love in 90 seconds and a woman takes 11 or 15 dates but it also takes a man 90 seconds to fall out of love over the stupidest shit
Once a legend said - if you want to know how to catch a fish than dont ask it from a fish but ask it from a fisherman. No female in the world will tell you about the exact right way to catch hoes but a badboy or a playboy can
Not sure why I clicked on this one...Its pretty simple...be the top 10%. Either in wealth or looks...preferably both. If not I have a hard time seeing exacly how you get into position to even show 1 of these things. Women are screwed..guys dont need to really do anything.
Needyness is underrated and Confidence is over rated! "I know what I can offer you that no one else can! Complete and utter dependence!!!!" -Homer Simpson
4:36 WRONG! This does not turn ALL.people.off, not just women. To the contrary, this actually turns most men on if it is a woman doing this we find pretty. It's real simple. Absents makes the heart grow fonder for WOMEN, but it is the opposite for guys! PRESENCE makes the heart grow fonder for guys. This is why women are the more comfortable ones with a long distance relationship. THIS is why men get too needy and "obsessive". THIS is why we blow up your D.M.s THIS is why we get frustrated if Dms or text are not constantly answered back and forth rapidly like a machine gun! Women NEED to understand that men CRAVE attention from women. We WANT to spend time WITH you, not apart. So stop thinking we are gonna change in this. Just like you women are stuck in your ways.
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Marna I can tell You put every thing into what You do.
Important things: 1:00 First Thing - Have Standards Beyond Beauty; 4:00 Second Thing - Do Not Over Communicate; 6:02 Third Thing - Slow Down; 7:06 Fourth Thing - Don't Be Available 24/7; 7:50 Fifth Thing - Create More Options; and 9:00 so true about the master of flirting.
Some of these things that you have told Marny, can be used also in some life situations.
Especially the first thing (or tip, call it whatever you want). Looks can be deceiving (like it or not). Attraction is nothing, without showing the intelligence, or how smart is that person.
In Balkan for the first thing we say this thing that goes like this: ,,Kakav na jelu, takav na delu." Translation would of been like this: "The way how he / she eats, is the way how he / she show the deeds. Reading between the lines means that you have to see the way how does this person is behaving (and the deeds will tell a lot, even also how is someone clever enough).
When I was listening to you Marni, I remembered two things that my parents told me. And here are the things (probably I have mentioned it in some of your videos):
1. My father told me this long time ago: "Son, when you meet new people, don't be with everyone, here's the heart in the palm of your hand." ;
2. My mother told me this thing long time ago when I was wondering when will I ever find a girlfriend: "Son, when you solve all your obligations, only then will girls want to be with you."
All of these things gentlemen do (believe it or not). And I will always be a gentleman, no matter what happens.
I might also as that we have to go also like this: "Go with the flow." Meaning be relaxed (meaning to be normal, and overthink), and enjoy.
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To get her attention get a Dog and give all your attention to the Dog. She’ll short circuit from jealousy and become obsessed with you. Then still ignore her , because you didn’t need that headache anyway. 🤘🤘🤘
In-between compromise solution: just divert attention away from her temporarily to stall out time, then give her some attention spontaneously.
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This may be a joke, but dude man got a point. This actually works. I've dealt with several women that paid me more attention because I gave more attention to my dog. It bothers them when a pet gets more attention then they do.☠☠☠
Please don’t listen to this foolish advice. Imagine being so incompetent in love that you go to a RUclips channel advising on love and give dopey advice.
Get a kid, or two, and spent a lot of time with them and let them see you engaging with them. It will work like the dog thing but on ‘roids. Trust me it’s worked like crack in the last 6 months.
There is so much power in the fruit of self control. Her beauty may be attractive, yet that is only the package on the outside. Open the gift presented and see what is inside. Time will reveal the truth. Never rush. Patience is golden.
I've had several women get mad at me and 'break up' with me because I'm not communicating enough, not calling them enough. It seems that no matter what I do, women get pissed and reject you if you are too 'needy' , and get pissed off if you are not 'needy' enough. I've come to the conclusion that American women, especially, are a pain in the ass and not worth the effort, usually....
Yeah....women are insande...and Marni has no idea what she is talking about. Tried half of her advice and nothing has worked.
Then it may be time to start taking and asking questions to get their needs
Why succumb to the neediness of the woman if she doesnt reprocicate. Honestly these videos are informative but it shows how fked up dating is. Not once you talk about being honest and true no matter the "standards" you fill or not. You keep pushing the standards. Literally nothing matters if the connection is true, it just works and its amazing. No games no bs no mind games or appeareance obsessione or image or frame, nothing. Just pure love and joy.
Why succumb to the neediness of the woman if she doesnt reprocicate. Honestly these videos are informative but it shows how fked up dating is. Not once you talk about being honest and true no matter the "standards" you fill or not. You keep pushing the standards. Literally nothing matters if the connection is true, it just works and its amazing. No games no bs no mind games or appeareance obsessione or image or frame, nothing. Just pure love and joy.
The having options is the most best advice imho. Made everything so fun and simple now. Heard it years ago tho cant give u credit 4 it.
As a Sigma male, I can confirm what you say to be true but not all women are looking for the same qualities in men. There are even those who claim to be looking for one sort of man when they actually want something completely different and aren't even aware of it themselves, lol. I would say that conversational banter and flirting is key to keep anyone interested in what you have to say but recognizing the toxic women asap is even more important. Your presentations are entertaining as always and thanks for the laughs. You could have your own late night show with the gift you have to convince men about how they need to conduct themselves.
I was called needy. call it inexperience. This is excellent advice. Being labeled needy is the equivalent to the death penalty in love. You are toast. Good advice on texts. I was told once that the woman did not care for my long texts.
The key is to be balanced. Do not let yourself become obsessed with her have a hobby.
Hey there. I've watched through a lot of Marnis videos now and just want to say that I really appreciate the effort. At the same time, with every video I watch the whole dating world and women become progressively more daunting to me. I know I'm not a dumb guy (Or maybe I am. The dumb ones never know they're dumb, right?), but my looks don't match my personality at all. I look strong because I work out a lot, hygiene is incredibly important to me and probably I'm handsome too, but I'm extremely high in neuroticism and have a sense that I don't deserve nice things in life. This is a huge issue, because I may tick the boxes of intelligence, fitness, looks, even emotional availability and willingness to listen to what a partner may want, but the stoicism, carelessness and leadership attributes aren't there. It feels like those issues are rooted deep within me, maybe even as inherent personality traits, and I'm honestly not certain how to tackle them.
Not certain why I put this here. I suppose I just had to get it off my chest and maybe someone else has had the same issues and successfully overcome them. If so, let me know.
Cheers
I salute your honesty; good luck on your quest for self knowledge and to improve yourself
Things I always forget to do when I first start seeing a girl is I show too much interest. Like I want to get to know her more and do things with her. This is a HUGE no-no. Showing too much interest right away sets off her brain that I am somehow low value or have no friends or just needy. Commonly it's not the case with me or most men but it's how a woman's primal brain thinks. So good advice as usual!! Men do need to lead heavily in the beginning but at a woman's pace. Listen to her as she talks about her lifestyle, job and past relationship to see how you need to handle her. Always keep things light in the beginning with teasing but not sexual and you will make her FEEL stuff and that's the key to women. Her feelings will make her chase you.
Self-entitlement brothers. Get on it. Be entitled, always put yourself first
Great job Marni. Lotta dudes need this
Marni, this is your best video. I wish i knew all these things when i was younger.
Excellent Marni, as well as what your wearing
Hi Marni glad to see u survived COVID-surely rough for dating coach!- & resumed ur biz. Truly provide a valuable, service, teaching good guys what to do to be successful w/ good women who otherwise have much smaller pool to chose from-everyone wins. God bless
LOVE THIS ONE. . .thanks for all the tips. .I am a widower, and haven't gotten out there. . Dating ladies has changed so much. . Again . .Thanks
I’ve checked out the F-Formula Marni I highly doubt it will work for me.
I feel this changed my mindset and perspective on talking to or interacting with women, I read it on a forum, I thought the guy hit the nail right on the head.
It changed my perspective and mindset on talking to women.
A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice
"It bothers and annoys, enrages me or pisses me off a lot when people use the word practice, because the way I see it, for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men, because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first"
I thought to myself, never truer words have been said or spoken.
I thought that was bang-on right there.
and i got a response from a dating coach on youtube, which enraged and pissed me off more, while I don't disagree with him, I just don't like how he said the brutal cold harsh fact of how different for men and women when it comes to getting better at talking to and interacting with the opposite sex.
It makes sense and I like to believe there is far more advice for guys in the world on how to talk to and interact with girls then there is advice for girls on how to talk to and interact with guys.
He said:
"Don't worry about what other people don't have to do or why something is easier for them or whatever the comparison may be. Focus on you, where you want to be, what you need to do to get there and then get moving."
That pissed me off more when I read that.
Another reason why I don't like it is because it feels or seems like the way a guy talks and interacts with people or a guy's social skills, the way he behaves around others, has a much bigger impact on his attractiveness or ability to get a girlfriend then the other way around. As in, the way a girl talks or a girl's social skills doesn't impact her attractiveness or ability to get a boyfriend as much as it does for a guy to get a girlfriend. Men need to focus more on the behavioral aspect than women do when it comes to attracting someone it seems. The main reason why i hate that, is because guys, men, can unfortuneately be labeled creepy or weird in interactions or social situations with women, even if the guy, man, never meant any harm, was never trying to hurt the woman, the reverse isn't true though.
And due to men always having been expected to walk up to women and open our mouth, it makes more sense for the man to need to practice but not the woman.
If an interaction or conversation goes poorly or bad between a man and a woman,. It's always the guys fault, it's impossible for a woman to screw up a conversation or interaction with a guy, it seems.
Yeah I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times in my life I have hated being born male due to how for all time men have had to do everything in dating and courtship and seduction, relationships, etc.
I get more pissed off in and raised when people say us men are supposed to feel lucky or grateful for being born a man, or that we men have it better than women do in dating.
Just finished a 24 hour shift and I would LOVE to be on Marni's bed right now, taking a nap!!
I agree with those points, its why when i do meet a woman i present myself as a warm welcoming person who also leads. I wont talk much more like just listen (unless im ordering food for the both of us) i will listen and only talk alot when explaining an answer that is complicated. I gain the trust and respect aspect first before anything else, now when the person i go out on a date with hugs me ill be respectful and kind and hug back.
There's nothing that I do that would make a woman turn off by me, im traditional which means everything that is respectful towards a woman i do.
Valuable information. Thank you!
This is gold, thank you!
Thank you for sharing
Thanks, Marni! Definitely helpful in my current situation.
Trouble talking to a lady❓
One think I’ve done which was successful is not reaching out after a date or a simple meet up. I wait for them to get back 😅 and it increased attraction a lot on there end. I learned this by reaching out too fast and then not being interested for being needy. Always learn from your mistakes and next time it’ll be a different story 😏
Never ever in all my relationships, flirts or anything she reached out. Here in Germany not reaching out as a man is "Ghosting". In Germany man has the initiative.
What if they don't come back?
I needed this - thanks! Saving this to be resisted often. I would be interested in how this advice is applicable for those that are engaged or in marriage.
Hello Marni, I always enjoy watching your amazing relationship advice videos. 😊 I am a married woman from Singapore.
This is common sense. Thanks for the clarification however 😊
Marni. I wanna thank u. I've never had so many girls chasing me. Even with out trying girls be all over me. Just cuz of your teachings.
Interesting video, Thank you
My favorite part of this video is placement of your lavalier microphone. 🤩
Good advice as always ive bought that Tiege Hanley its decent to be fair
Okay, Mariah, what about question 3? We man should not rush to get the girl. What if we go slow and take our time? And we lose her to another guy. Because we didn't act quick enough.
Ultimate Drinking Game:
Everytime Marni touches her hair chug a beer!!! LOL
There's about to be a lotta drunk men ;)
@@marnikinrys ,
Better yet...
A lot of less needy drunk men! Haha!
@@marnikinrys
How about you play along? ;-)
Give Up! Marani We are in The Last Days
Some more great advice
thanks
Marni great video as always.I ve made a date for lunch with a lady i met on line. Unfortnetly i dont have the cash before next week or the time. To get the F formula i know i could use it. So if she calls i didnt follow ur advice in leading. I asked her to pick where she wanted to go for lunch. Thinking she would feel safer a place of her choice for our first date. Advice if i dont here back from u i saw 16 coments in less than 1 min. I know u read them i understand.
Marni , great informative video! Two things that stood out to me. One is that women will make time if they want to talk to you. And two is don't be available 24/7. I had a girl tell me that " I get what I want , when I want and how I want it and that I was the first guy that have ever told her no "
She was absolutely gorgeous!
Oddly enough by telling her no , it turned her on and it also turned to amazing sex.
Marni is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
All the mentioned points above will take time to replace the person u re now, but surly saying as a old viewer these points will gona work for sure❤
MARNI!!❤❤❤❤
Marni, I watch these videos, as a woman. But is there a series for women to watch on what a guy likes?
Thanks ❤
Try watching Matthew Hussey, his videos are aimed at the female demographic and are (predominately) about guys!
I cant´ marnie I got to fix my telegraf fiirst-but so on Pet,,shops boys sing a song-You always on my mind-oh and thanks for God,,advice--
I used to be TERMINALLY guilty of 2. I was BAD…
If Tiege Hanley isn’t sold in stores I’m not interested.
Totally get that. Online is scary sometimes. But so many great brands are not in stores. Teige is a huge company with great customer support :-)
Does this product work for any skin color ?
Hi😊Marni🌷you have a magical voice💘 Awesome as always💕Looks so beautiful in this shirt👗👌 Love your Videos &👩💞❤🖎📱
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I have several hobbies im quite passionate about but a lost cause
Hello Marni, you did not mention something that can really drive woman to go for a certain guy. I am sure you have heard of this. It is called "Hitting the Wall". When my wife found me she was 25 years old. The idea of " Hitting the Wall " did not exist back then. At this time, I was running a small business and all of he sudden I had women approaching me all of the time. In fact I had many young women working for me at that time and they all started telling me that my future wife is very interested in me. Guess what? Women read other women very well. It was true. We have been married for over 20 years. Thoughts?
Women gossip as if it's their superpower. They tell each other everything bro and I mean EVERYTHING.
Slow and steady wins the race guys.
The first question I ask myself after watching your video is, but what if it goes the other way and she thinks you’re disinterested or not into her? I guess a happy medium has to be derived.
Why is texting different? It’s communication imagine if you like a man and ask him a question and he ignores you for a day then answers you the next day? Is this acceptable?
These rules apply to everyone except Chad and Tyrone. Chad and Tyrones neediness will be interpreted as romantic.
Thanks for the 95% talking F2F rule 💪
There’s nothing that turns women off, like everything.
With the texting thing, I'm fuckin over texting TBH. I've never been an overtexter as an adult, but frankly, after my lucky streak ended, I had several situations where we were texting only, and she didn't meetup when I asked to. If the girl never meets up with me, then the point of texting is defeated. I've reached a point where I'd just rather not have her number, and that's what I've begun doing is just asking in person. I'm not unreasonable for this; I just don't want a "texting buddy."
With regards to the "create more options," I've seen nearly every PDF ebook and every RUclips personality tow this line, but the problem is, I haven't seen anyone do enough to explain how to get options to happen, _from scratch_ . Because the issue is that guys listen to this, and they _talk to more girls,_ they increase their volume, but the issue is that _every girl is_ the one that's either not taking them as serious as they want, or she's talking to someone else. So they move on to a different girl... just to have the same exact thing happen ten more times in a row.
If dudes are doing this then there are more serious issues than dating etiquette. All 5 of these sum up to a dude who many women probably wouldn't pay attention to anyway. The work is more about being a better man than not being needy.
If you ask a girl out 2 times and she says she’s extremely busy or other things is she avoiding me or is she playing hard to get
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot.
Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
And I don't get or understand why a guy or a human male or just a person in general has no right to feel depressed or feel bitter and forever resentful if they manage to get their first relationship late-in-life.
For example, if a person doesn't have their first relationship until their 30s or 40s and older.
People say that a person like that should still be happy, but I feel a person like that has to have a right to feel forever depressed and bitter and resentful because they feel that their youth went to waste or their youth was stolen from them.
I feel men have a right to be angry about something like that more than women do because for all-time men have always been dealt with the burden of having to accept or take responsibility for their lives while women can simply rely on others to do it for them.
For all-time relationships and dates are basically handed or given to women on a silver platter but not for men
Yikes. Get some therapy.
@GenRN no because a therapist won't make me younger again, I have a right to my mentality and mindset
@@nobodysperfect06 yes, enjoy your pity party. I’m sure many women will find it attractive.
@GenRN yeah tons of men will Overlook a pity party in women, but sadly not the other way around
Yup
A female goes out on the town and only goes home alone if she wants to.
I think vagina envy is real
Pretty sound advice even though I'm not ready for dating yet. Because I got to work on myself and deal with my own skeletons in my closet. Also I wonder if someone bought the F Formula never use it and returned it for a refund within a 24 hours. That's not a joke, I'm being serious.
Ugh I think I broke #2 recently 😞
I think #3 falls into the rule that men are the gatekeeper to a relationship, women are the gatekeepers to sex. Which means men should never initiate the " what are we" talk. Let the woman always initiate that talk to let the men confirm the relationship.
That's actually excellent advice, thanks KevinLewis!
No
And what if your not needy. Atractive , have your shit together , and have still never once dated a woman or had a relationship in your life ? What then, because none of this seems to work ? ...As for options, they all just assume you are with whoever the other girl is you spoke to.
Yes guys give her time to respond because all women are like Mrs. Butterworth they take their own sweet time.
I just can’t afford the F-Formula Marni so I think I’ll pass.
What are the signals (woman body language) that show a woman interpret you as needy because I want to be able to run away before i feel too much insulted?😊
Well, to be realistic - if a lady is WORTH attention, for her, it's not a secret. If she has her aims at a guy she really wants - him she herself will try to get - needy, or not.... And if a guy shows little to no interest in her - well, she'll probably conclude - he's GAY ..... ( not that anything's wrong with it..) 😀
Imagine to have contract/mariage and dont deal with any of this bs, and keep building society for better.
DON'T TRY ANYMORE IT ALL COMES TO ME WHEN NOT LOOKING WOMEN HERE OR GIRLS I HAVEN'T EVEN DONE ANYTHING YET.
Don't you wish there was a "secret" to Women? Spoiler alert: There. Is. Not! Too many variables. What's sexy to Emma is an insult to Rebecca. Good night.
No offense Marni, but I think if I listen and take your advice I’ll never be able to attract beautiful women.
All men? Are you kidding? How about BL couple?
You have never dated a Latino woman. They are needy and lacking trust in men based on their experience. If you don't answer their text in an hour or less, they freak out. Very funny.
Can confirm, they watch too many novellas. Not worth the headache.
This is so depressing
My only question : HOW DO I GET YOU LAID
I heard men falll in love in 90 seconds and a woman takes 11 or 15 dates but it also takes a man 90 seconds to fall out of love over the stupidest shit
Only text her if she texts you back guys.
"1 of 5, standards beyond beauty": divas are mediocre lovers... Yes they are, belive me.
what’s that between in your mojos 🗿
Ok. These are all rules for men. What do women have to do?
Once a legend said - if you want to know how to catch a fish than dont ask it from a fish but ask it from a fisherman.
No female in the world will tell you about the exact right way to catch hoes but a badboy or a playboy can
Well, say hello to Marni the Mermaid. What she says makes a lot of sense... 👍🏼
You definitely Lost my interest on the "PRODUCT UPSELL" 😢
P r o m o S M 😅
Be a player and use women, check.
5:14 seems like a woman problem, stop texting because hes 1 min late
Teige won’t help if you’re displaying needy behaviour so don’t buy it 😂
Don’t make a woman your hobby guys.
Not sure why I clicked on this one...Its pretty simple...be the top 10%.
Either in wealth or looks...preferably both. If not I have a hard time seeing exacly how you get into position to even show 1 of these things. Women are screwed..guys dont need to really do anything.
oH i just saw a video on youtube whit you Marni martini in bikini-And shes so sweet and cute-fellas,,
man on his 40s like to date younger girls what the secret
Hope you get over your cold real soon..
8" cut 😉
No telegram 😕
Rules
#1-5 DONT SIMP!
always keep 2-3 girlfrd and none of them will leave you, if you will have only one, she will leave you sooner if not later 😂😂
Dorky Marni farts and snorts lol
Needyness is underrated and Confidence is over rated!
"I know what I can offer you that no one else can!
Complete and utter dependence!!!!"
-Homer Simpson
4:36
WRONG! This does not turn ALL.people.off, not just women. To the contrary, this actually turns most men on if it is a woman doing this we find pretty.
It's real simple. Absents makes the heart grow fonder for WOMEN, but it is the opposite for guys!
PRESENCE makes the heart grow fonder for guys.
This is why women are the more comfortable ones with a long distance relationship. THIS is why men get too needy and "obsessive".
THIS is why we blow up your D.M.s
THIS is why we get frustrated if Dms or text are not constantly answered back and forth rapidly like a machine gun!
Women NEED to understand that men CRAVE attention from women. We WANT to spend time WITH you, not apart.
So stop thinking we are gonna change in this.
Just like you women are stuck in your ways.
Men who attract and sleep with lots of women rarely call them back after sex. So no, not all men are needy for attention.
Dont tell me wahat a women whants,i khow what they want