Important things: 3:04 First Thing - Taking Initiative; 4:25 the caveat number one; 4:46 the caveat number two; 5:24 Second Thing - Emotional Control; 6:02 so true about that - you are the boss of your emotions that you control them; 7:50 Third Thing - Willingness To Walk Away; and 10:02 to summarize all the told here. As a matter a fact, Marni you can make an in-depth video of emotional control. Two reasons for that are: 1. Since it's your channel, you're willing to make videos that you want, and that you find interesting; and 2. It can probably show the blockade that some men have (honor exceptions). These things that you have told Marny can be used in also some life situations just like you have mentioned: looking for a job, finding a better place where to live, finding better friends etc. All of these things are doing charismatic gentleman, and that won't be forgotten by any lady at all. I know that it sound a bit awkward, crazy, or a bit surprising, but it's true (believe it or not).
Summary 1. Take initiative (don't be dominant, just lead) 2. Emotional control (control yourself) 3. Willingness to walk away (if situation doesn't suit you, leave)
During the longer relationship 1. "You wanna be my dad or mentor???" 2. "You are so cold and sombre all the time" 3. "You can go, I have plenty of men to meet."
"leading and not dominating" is my favorite. It matches with my values of respect (for me and the others) and kindness, because I am a highly sensitive person.
@@BWS952because he was attractive, and also the movie portrayed him as the good, broken guy. But yeah, the public and by extension women, found the movie likeable and desirable.
Do exercise and fix your body looks up and be patient that the right one will come these days girls are into looks and if you ugly but has the money you will get some to 😂
Such good advice. Every guy loves an obsessed girl. So, learning how to get a girl obsessed is really helpful. I had a girl key my car once. She was pretty obsessed with me.
Hi Marni. Looking lavish as always! Iwould like to see a video, from you, about emotional control. especually in regards to overcoming precieved barriers from a "disability'
Yes, a video on dealing with emotions for men. How to know them. How much to let out. How much or what to keep yourself. Exercises to build confidence in dealing with emotional issues. How these emotions affect your relationship with women. 1) In general 2) Girlfriend 3) Wife. The good and the bad. Thanks
What you’ve just presented here is a modern day version of what the ancient Stoics advocated, of which I’m a huge fan of. I’m already doing this…just checking in from time to time for periodic “tune ups”😉
Yes! Would definitely like a video on emotional control. I find it a bit tricky to keep the balance between strong/confident/masculine vs. sensitive/kind/emotional. Both sides important, just wanna know how to present it to women in the right way.
your right it can often be easier said than done to "walk away" walking away is something you can do when you have other choices available to you, (most don't) and when you kNOW for sure you have other options.
Don't let having other options be the determining factor. Even if you don't currently have a lot of options, you must understand your worth. Believe that you will find someone who aligns with what you are looking for.
It's a topic that more men, especially young men should be interested in. On the extreme end is the loss of many lives and enprisonment due to men not having emotional control. Yet highly emotional men are sometimes mistaken as "gangster" or hard in certain circles. But in fact they are displaying feminine energy.
That's something that we are all born with nobody can mold you to control that emotion or pretend to be somebody you not the true colors are always going to come out sooner or later so why pretend then lose everything you built with that person by being fake
Gentlemen. read up on stoicism-doesn't mean not feeling emotions but how to control your reactions in certain situations. Marni, I see comments asking for more examples. Thoughts?
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I find me being seen with chainsaws and operating them really attract women. Im not talking about budget but big bore 1960 era McCullochs and Homelites
I embody the willingness to walk away thing. I have left toxic situations and am not afraid to cut ties with someone/something i know is bad. Emotional control is a work in progress. Initiative is another.
I totally agree with you Mani, after getting your a few of your courses includes "Become a man women want", I found that I don't have to please women as much as before and more women wanted to talk to me. And the "Walk away" technique holds great power, I have got a kinda arrogant girl open up to me because I walk away after a few cold conversations and now she is my girlfriend! Thanks Mani for putting up great content out there.
Oookey. My experience multiple times. I walked away after some disagreement AND they, the women walked away, finding another men a week later. And I was alone and unhappy for serveral months.
All taking charge ever did for me was get me taken advantage of so many times over. "Yeah, this guy will keep doing these things for me, and I don't have to do anything at all." Sucks.
Hi Marni , I love all your videos, because you put yourself into each one, to help men like me that you don’t even know ❣️🍀 Marni I think you’re Amazing , if you were a chef we’d all be Fat !! Marni, I just want to say that I would enjoy a video on emotional control , but in the long run you already put out more than enough information, if willing to put in the time ❣️ Your Awesome Marni❣️❣️❣️😊 Patrick……
You give a lot of good advice for men who are good looking and thats all that you women look for in a man, but what about the men out there like me who are not handsome and hear the "NO" word all the time. What can we do to get a woman to give us a chance.
I just wanna play! My favorite animals are the Seal and Otters! Cause they swim and splash and sun themselves on the rocks 🥌 all day! I remember once in Morro Bay California I went to a cheap Seal show! I loved the way they bark! You could hear them all the way down the block!
I have a request. How about a video on dating for people on the autism spectrum? You keep talking about how attractive confidence is, but it’s hard to have a lot of confidence in yourself when you’ve spent most of your life being bullied and made to feel like a freak. Not to mention that a lot of us on the spectrum have severe anxiety issues and aren’t good at communicating with people to begin with, let alone trying to approach a beautiful girl. For people like me, it’s not as simple as “just go up to the hot girl and start talking to them.” There are extra layers of fear and confusion involved if you’re not neurotypical. If you haven’t already addressed this topic in one of your videos, I wish you would.
Hi there! Really good video, I totally agree with the traits you picked! I have it all in me, but can't get it out a lot of the time, except for the last. I'm great in that, that's because I know I have it all in me, haha.. Video on emotional control and how to would be great!!
Some stories are different, somewhere we have to adjust if it's very risky for her to reply, But you should have that much confidence that she is totally in you and you continue calmly without messing her married life
I had that mindset of I don't have girls that are eager to go out with me and I have to make this one work. But I do have the willingness to walk away and I'm so good at it that I haven't been or even tried to go on a date for over 25 years. I'm pretty sure I have PERFECTED the willingness to walk away habit. I realize that I'll be alone but I'm at peace with it. My advice to others would be don't do what I've done. I know that not too many people could handle being alone.
Marni, The Rolling Stones wrote a song about you.... "Emotional Rescue" "I'll be your saviour, steadfast and true, I'll come to your emotional rescue." That's you 💯% 😉!
I hope to God you are not single, you give such great advice, and it’s been helping me out! I hope whomever man is in your life, appreciates the kick ass woman that you are! 🤟🏻🍻
It is something your average woman cares about more than your average man. I personally don’t see a problem with it along the lines of being to feminine for a masculine guy depending on how far you take it.
Marni is amazing. You won't find a more interesting & information source of information concerning the female personality nor a more precise guide for understanding the "laws of attraction" and relationship dynamics. I've enjoyed reading and studying behavior my entire life, from the most worthless humanistic psychological narratives (I studied psychology) to the much more honest perspective that we have learned from comparative animal behavior, even insect behavior, and a recent understanding of how such behavior is genetically based. If you simply ask a female friend concerning sexual distinctions, there response would likely be severely lacking because they don't really understand their own behavior (and men are no better at understanding ourselves). This "dating coach" cuts to the chase, literally ha, because she has spent her life understanding the "Rosetta Stone" of sexual behavior and just as importantly, can communicate this topic it in a precise way, patiently explaining the confusing variables that we all encounter.
It can be but it’s more expensive on your soul to stay in something that is harmful to you. And hopefully you don’t just walk away from your wife. You kindly and respectfully part ways
I did enjoy this video. 🌿🐇 Say, what was that product you promoted one day, a green powder for enhancement? (It was like $50) Being older, I’m trying Zinc and Arginine, noticing a slight improvement. I like your direct approach narrative. Never did read that positive thinking book, but here’s the philosophy in play. The stoic challenge against unwanted emotional barriers, yep. Of course it has to work. Supports my courtship hobby. (Guess now I owe you one.🌿🐇) Hearts.
Marni, a lot of men are talking about the concept of NoFap/retention increasing your masculine attraction to the point that women flock to them. Do you believe this is a myth?
If you walk away. How long do you wait to return? Then on emotions. My wife had passed away the beginning of this year. 20 years. I am an established high value man, in my eyes. Blah, blah, blah. Anyways I teared up over from having someone to having no one in front of her. Is that ok? Or am I whimp? Do I still go for her?
Marni can you do a video discussing more on leading not dominating 5:08. I’m confused on how this works when a women wants also desires to be dominated
@@alexanderturner2365 And about those emotional feeling let it show like that you can show the girl your true self never fake nothing because it's going to cost you a lot in the end I'm just saying bro
Hi,I never comented on any of your videos before,but hear I go. ( By the way: I apriciate this videos that you make ,it's not very often we men find women defining requirements,knoledge,etc and share this thoughts,needs and more;making a bridge over fears,ignorance,etc. Thank you). So back to what I started to share,is a anecdote that has to do on the part that is mention in this video about take charge and leaving(this anecdote isn't a personal one,but it made me curios about what it could be said to this person. This man wants to make a point and leave,but his lacking essential things so in that way he doesn't lose his job,and personal belongings,right? So he has somited him self in that rollercoaster of a relationship and he doesn't see the end of it (either leaving or in somehow be comfortable in that relationship) Now, I don't know what's really going on,but looking at him and lisetting,he appears exhausted...
My biggest problem is my deafness. I look at people when they talk to me as I rely on a small amount of lip reading along with my hearing aids. Women think I am weird for looking at them and even more weird when I tell them I am deaf. I then become a deaf weirdo. Happens all the time. So I have given up.
Walking away is easy, emotional control not as easy takes practice, taking the lead also easy. Too bad women dont chase me when I do this, which is fine that's not a problem. I became a Christian so my life is complete, and I couldnt be happier.
I have an established business and am in the process of getting another up and running. Right now I only have time for friends with benefits and need someone who understands. Do you have videos on that subject?
that's just the way it is something's will never change. still I see no changes cause I am a victim of battered man type syndrome suffering psychological victim of damage goods. I cant get out of the life cycle of abuse.
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Important things: 3:04 First Thing - Taking Initiative; 4:25 the caveat number one; 4:46 the caveat number two; 5:24 Second Thing - Emotional Control; 6:02 so true about that - you are the boss of your emotions that you control them; 7:50 Third Thing - Willingness To Walk Away; and 10:02 to summarize all the told here.
As a matter a fact, Marni you can make an in-depth video of emotional control. Two reasons for that are:
1. Since it's your channel, you're willing to make videos that you want, and that you find interesting; and
2. It can probably show the blockade that some men have (honor exceptions).
These things that you have told Marny can be used in also some life situations just like you have mentioned: looking for a job, finding a better place where to live, finding better friends etc.
All of these things are doing charismatic gentleman, and that won't be forgotten by any lady at all. I know that it sound a bit awkward, crazy, or a bit surprising, but it's true (believe it or not).
Summary
1. Take initiative (don't be dominant, just lead)
2. Emotional control (control yourself)
3. Willingness to walk away (if situation doesn't suit you, leave)
😅
All alpha traits yet she stated alphas are out, lol.
Yeah that was funny. True if we were discussing how to be cancelled, but we are not discussing that.@@greenshield1
Summary
1. Take initiative
2. Emotional control
3. Willingness to walk away
Thanks for doing the table of contents ;)
thanks
@@marnikinrysnone of them work during the longer relationship btw.
During the longer relationship 1. "You wanna be my dad or mentor???" 2. "You are so cold and sombre all the time" 3. "You can go, I have plenty of men to meet."
Marni
You are so extremely talented and helpful. A video on honing in emotional control would be appreciated. Thank you for being awesome!
"leading and not dominating" is my favorite. It matches with my values of respect (for me and the others) and kindness, because I am a highly sensitive person.
@@BWS952because he was attractive, and also the movie portrayed him as the good, broken guy.
But yeah, the public and by extension women, found the movie likeable and desirable.
Do exercise and fix your body looks up and be patient that the right one will come these days girls are into looks and if you ugly but has the money you will get some to 😂
@@frankieenlacasa5216 this is very true this ladies in the utube doesnt admit but this is the only thing other than a woman that sometimes itchy
Such good advice. Every guy loves an obsessed girl. So, learning how to get a girl obsessed is really helpful. I had a girl key my car once. She was pretty obsessed with me.
All great points, The ones on emotional control and walking away are HUGE! Thanks Marni.
Oh yes, more in depth. That would be great. Emotional control, is an important topic, that is helpful in these modern times.
Hi Marni. Looking lavish as always!
Iwould like to see a video, from you, about emotional control. especually in regards to overcoming precieved barriers from a "disability'
Yes, a video on dealing with emotions for men. How to know them. How much to let out. How much or what to keep yourself. Exercises to build confidence in dealing with emotional issues. How these emotions affect your relationship with women. 1) In general 2) Girlfriend 3) Wife. The good and the bad. Thanks
Yup, lace us up on recognizing emotional control. You're smart Marni, thanks
What you’ve just presented here is a modern day version of what the ancient Stoics advocated, of which I’m a huge fan of. I’m already doing this…just checking in from time to time for periodic “tune ups”😉
More on emotional control. More examples and how to deal with it will help out a lot of men. Thanks!
Yes! Would definitely like a video on emotional control. I find it a bit tricky to keep the balance between strong/confident/masculine vs. sensitive/kind/emotional. Both sides important, just wanna know how to present it to women in the right way.
I would love an emotional control video and btw I love,love,love Marni!!!
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"It is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener at war." Thanks for your content.
your right it can often be easier said than done to "walk away"
walking away is something you can do when you have other choices available to you, (most don't) and when you kNOW for sure you have other options.
Don't let having other options be the determining factor. Even if you don't currently have a lot of options, you must understand your worth. Believe that you will find someone who aligns with what you are looking for.
That third one hit me really hard
Thanks. Emotional control is one of the most fundamental aspects of masculinity
I do think a more in-depth video on emotional control would be very beneficial.
awesome
Do it!
Great you gave her an idea to do another video to milk you out of more money.
It's a topic that more men, especially young men should be interested in. On the extreme end is the loss of many lives and enprisonment due to men not having emotional control. Yet highly emotional men are sometimes mistaken as "gangster" or hard in certain circles. But in fact they are displaying feminine energy.
That's something that we are all born with nobody can mold you to control that emotion or pretend to be somebody you not the true colors are always going to come out sooner or later so why pretend then lose everything you built with that person by being fake
Gentlemen. read up on stoicism-doesn't mean not feeling emotions but how to control your reactions in certain situations. Marni, I see comments asking for more examples. Thoughts?
More on emotional control and more on first time approaches and chats
Thanks ,,powerful speech, social educational, well beneficial for the ease of future family lives . ⚘⚘
Maarni Make A Video On These Two Topics ... 71st Like 👍🏻
1) Make A Detailed Video On Friends With Benefits
2) How To Make Her Emotionally Addicted To Me
Yes! Would definitely like a video on emotional control!
Yes dive into emotional control Im curious to learning more on this specific topic💙
Yes!
I’d like a video that deep dives into emotional control.
Thx
An in-depth video on emotional control would be most beneficial and thanks for my opinion.
I find me being seen with chainsaws and operating them really attract women. Im not talking about budget but big bore 1960 era McCullochs and Homelites
Marni your advice make SENS ! THNKS girl ! ! ! !😮
I embody the willingness to walk away thing. I have left toxic situations and am not afraid to cut ties with someone/something i know is bad.
Emotional control is a work in progress.
Initiative is another.
Thanks for the Advice support here
I totally agree with you Mani, after getting your a few of your courses includes "Become a man women want", I found that I don't have to please women as much as before and more women wanted to talk to me. And the "Walk away" technique holds great power, I have got a kinda arrogant girl open up to me because I walk away after a few cold conversations and now she is my girlfriend! Thanks Mani for putting up great content out there.
Oookey. My experience multiple times. I walked away after some disagreement AND they, the women walked away, finding another men a week later. And I was alone and unhappy for serveral months.
All taking charge ever did for me was get me taken advantage of so many times over. "Yeah, this guy will keep doing these things for me, and I don't have to do anything at all." Sucks.
I'd like to see a more in-depth video on emotional control!
Thanks again for sharing Marni
Hi Marni , I love all your videos, because you put yourself into each one, to help men like me that you don’t even know ❣️🍀 Marni I think you’re Amazing , if you were a chef we’d all be Fat !!
Marni, I just want to say that I would enjoy a video on emotional control , but in the long run you already put out more than enough information, if willing to put in the time ❣️ Your Awesome Marni❣️❣️❣️😊 Patrick……
You give a lot of good advice for men who are good looking and thats all that you women look for in a man, but what about the men out there like me who are not handsome and hear the "NO" word all the time. What can we do to get a woman to give us a chance.
I just wanna play! My favorite animals are the Seal and Otters! Cause they swim and splash and sun themselves on the rocks 🥌 all day! I remember once in Morro Bay California I went to a cheap Seal show! I loved the way they bark! You could hear them all the way down the block!
Thank you, needed that
This was your best video I've watched. Your confidence and expertise was very spot on
Thank you, you are really great and very helpfull!
I have a request. How about a video on dating for people on the autism spectrum? You keep talking about how attractive confidence is, but it’s hard to have a lot of confidence in yourself when you’ve spent most of your life being bullied and made to feel like a freak. Not to mention that a lot of us on the spectrum have severe anxiety issues and aren’t good at communicating with people to begin with, let alone trying to approach a beautiful girl. For people like me, it’s not as simple as “just go up to the hot girl and start talking to them.” There are extra layers of fear and confusion involved if you’re not neurotypical. If you haven’t already addressed this topic in one of your videos, I wish you would.
When a man knows he gives incredible service, and knows she knows it, too. It don't get more masculine than that.
A video on emotional control would be beneficial ❤
Thanks Marni I have your course
Hope it works...❤😊
Hi there! Really good video, I totally agree with the traits you picked! I have it all in me, but can't get it out a lot of the time, except for the last. I'm great in that, that's because I know I have it all in me, haha.. Video on emotional control and how to would be great!!
I love that u said “Alpha is out!” Im a Sigma . And that u promote skincare I get a facial every Friday!
Marni I know that I would love a more in depth video on Emotional Control 😅
Please make a video about emotional control
Some stories are different, somewhere we have to adjust if it's very risky for her to reply, But you should have that much confidence that she is totally in you and you continue calmly without messing her married life
Good advice.
I had that mindset of I don't have girls that are eager to go out with me and I have to make this one work. But I do have the willingness to walk away and I'm so good at it that I haven't been or even tried to go on a date for over 25 years. I'm pretty sure I have PERFECTED the willingness to walk away habit. I realize that I'll be alone but I'm at peace with it. My advice to others would be don't do what I've done. I know that not too many people could handle being alone.
Spank you very much, it is greatly appreciated 😊
Great video…u know your stuff!
Yaaay Wingie! Another great video.
You’re awesome. Thanks.
Thanks Marni for the great advice as always, every little helps. I always learn something new from my winggirl
Marni,
The Rolling Stones wrote a song about you....
"Emotional Rescue"
"I'll be your saviour, steadfast and true, I'll come to your emotional rescue."
That's you 💯% 😉!
I hope to God you are not single, you give such great advice, and it’s been helping me out! I hope whomever man is in your life, appreciates the kick ass woman that you are! 🤟🏻🍻
Wow hit the wall
Thank you Marni
Yes Marni please make the video
thanks, good video
Thank you
So... confidence. One word
Yes make a video about emotional control.
Just making an observation at least to me but rubbing different lotions and creams on my skin seems extremely feminine.
It is something your average woman cares about more than your average man. I personally don’t see a problem with it along the lines of being to feminine for a masculine guy depending on how far you take it.
I agree, It does seem feminine. Generally having a good diet and drinking plenty of water is going to keep your skin in decent shape naturally.
BOOM👊
All I hear are FACTS 🔥
;-)
Great stuff. All 💯
You nailed it in this video Marni.
Marni is amazing. You won't find a more interesting & information source of information concerning the female personality nor a more precise guide for understanding the "laws of attraction" and relationship dynamics. I've enjoyed reading and studying behavior my entire life, from the most worthless humanistic psychological narratives (I studied psychology) to the much more honest perspective that we have learned from comparative animal behavior, even insect behavior, and a recent understanding of how such behavior is genetically based. If you simply ask a female friend concerning sexual distinctions, there response would likely be severely lacking because they don't really understand their own behavior (and men are no better at understanding ourselves). This "dating coach" cuts to the chase, literally ha, because she has spent her life understanding the "Rosetta Stone" of sexual behavior and just as importantly, can communicate this topic it in a precise way, patiently explaining the confusing variables that we all encounter.
The “Walk Away” move is super expensive when you’re married!
It can be but it’s more expensive on your soul to stay in something that is harmful to you.
And hopefully you don’t just walk away from your wife. You kindly and respectfully part ways
Hello Marni, I always found your relationship advice videos useful. 😊 I am a married woman from Singapore.
I would love to hear more about emotional control
Marni I LOVE YOU OH SO VERY VERY VERY MUCH!
I did enjoy this video. 🌿🐇 Say, what was that product you promoted one day, a green powder for enhancement? (It was like $50) Being older, I’m trying Zinc and Arginine, noticing a slight improvement. I like your direct approach narrative. Never did read that positive thinking book, but here’s the philosophy in play. The stoic challenge against unwanted emotional barriers, yep. Of course it has to work. Supports my courtship hobby. (Guess now I owe you one.🌿🐇) Hearts.
Yes, to emotional control.
Ty Marni
All 3 points can be summarised by "Do rather than think/speak/analyse etc"
A video on emotional control would be a good idea!
Marni, a lot of men are talking about the concept of NoFap/retention increasing your masculine attraction to the point that women flock to them. Do you believe this is a myth?
If you walk away. How long do you wait to return?
Then on emotions. My wife had passed away the beginning of this year. 20 years. I am an established high value man, in my eyes. Blah, blah, blah. Anyways I teared up over from having someone to having no one in front of her. Is that ok? Or am I whimp? Do I still go for her?
Please put a video on emotional
Participating and leading!
I'd like a video on emotional control.
Real life examples are a great help...! One question Marni... Do you have a sister...? you're so dang cute...! 😍
Marni can you do a video discussing more on leading not dominating 5:08. I’m confused on how this works when a women wants also desires to be dominated
I definitely need a video on emotional control. I need details and breakdowns
It's called a psychiatrist you need meds to control those emotional nerves 😂 no hard feelings I'm just trying to help 😊
@@frankieenlacasa5216 yeah I definitely need to go back to therapy😂
@@alexanderturner2365 Yeah bro I feel your pain I need one bad to😂
@@alexanderturner2365 And about those emotional feeling let it show like that you can show the girl your true self never fake nothing because it's going to cost you a lot in the end I'm just saying bro
Hi,I never comented on any of your videos before,but hear I go. ( By the way: I apriciate this videos that you make ,it's not very often we men find women defining requirements,knoledge,etc and share this thoughts,needs and more;making a bridge over fears,ignorance,etc. Thank you).
So back to what I started to share,is a anecdote that has to do on the part that is mention in this video about take charge and leaving(this anecdote isn't a personal one,but it made me curios about what it could be said to this person. This man wants to make a point and leave,but his lacking essential things so in that way he doesn't lose his job,and personal belongings,right? So he has somited him self in that rollercoaster of a relationship and he doesn't see the end of it (either leaving or in somehow be comfortable in that relationship) Now, I don't know what's really going on,but looking at him and lisetting,he appears exhausted...
Women can be strong too
Yeah No The obsession thing can get kinda weird! It can go both ways! You know!
My biggest problem is my deafness. I look at people when they talk to me as I rely on a small amount of lip reading along with my hearing aids. Women think I am weird for looking at them and even more weird when I tell them I am deaf. I then become a deaf weirdo. Happens all the time. So I have given up.
You have a Charming Personalty💖🌷💞❤❤❤
yeah please do emotional control video
Walking away is easy, emotional control not as easy takes practice, taking the lead also easy. Too bad women dont chase me when I do this, which is fine that's not a problem. I became a Christian so my life is complete, and I couldnt be happier.
I have an established business and am in the process of getting another up and running. Right now I only have time for friends with benefits and need someone who understands. Do you have videos on that subject?
I don’t but honestly just be clear on what you want in your life and it makes it easier to get it.
@@marnikinrys like myself… I know you’re very busy. I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to reply.
that's just the way it is something's will never change. still I see no changes cause I am a victim of battered man type syndrome suffering psychological victim of damage goods. I cant get out of the life cycle of abuse.