Give up control Lower the bar(about how perfect and smooth you think dating should be) Stop being so careful (afraid of her reactions) Amuse yourself first! Adopt empowerming beliefs about yourself You're welcome
Focus on yourself king 👑 get that job, that education, that outfit. Workout, read a couple books, eat right. You’ll gain confidence without even thinking about it
Right there with you. Weirdly enough, because I was backed into a mental corner I’m standing and fighting harder than I ever have to get out. Keep pushing. It will get better!
Confidence is game, set, match. A more powerful force is not known. Because if you get rejected you still are confident. And if you get accepted you still are confident. There is no greater force than believing in yourself. Good video. Good insights. Great clip Marni!
I have been working on my purpose and constantly on my grind! I also eat very clean and I have noticed the results! Better girls have been checking me out!
Marni, when you got to the part about the rejected 5th grader, it was as if I had told you one of my stories and you used it as an example. Secondly, if I could find a woman who talks like you, I wouldn’t even need her to do anything else. I usually become annoyed with people whose channels I subscribe to, but you are truly amazing. Thanks!
Thank you Marni. I do all 5 of these, and I have amazing interactions with girls. In my opinion,when you do something not very cool, you can apologise for it or brush it off playfully according to what you did.
Marni gives very good advice, I'm a man who is working to improve his own mentality and wants to stop being so worried about constant rejection I suffer, thank you so much for these tips besides in this video she looks ellegant and very beautiful
Good advice Marni. I learned from this video why I feel nervous on dates. The woman I’m dating can sense that I’m nervous too! You have a new subscriber
My new girlfriend really appreciates that I take the initiative to plan all our dates. Being an ER doctor, she finds it relaxing to just enjoy the experiences I arrange. I don't usually ask for her preferences; instead, I set everything up and she's always content with whatever activities I choose for us. She loves that I take charge in those things. Now I’m planning our vacations and she’s loving that.
Your content is spot on Marnie! Always put pressure on myself to how I believe the interaction should go. Letting go now and it’s so liberating. Thank you lots x
I have such a crush on you! I was listening to your recent podcast on open relationships and I fantasized: if she were ever to decide to have an open relationship...I'd really love to go on a date with her and see if I'm idealizing or if we had chemistry. "Why,?" I ask myself. I mean, I don't know you in the least and here I am fantasizing as if I did! I genuinely love listening to you talk. Not just your advise but your sincerity. I won't lie: when I first discovered your work, I thought: here's someone else trying to sell me something. But out of curiosity, I read a few of your books, articles, and binged a good amount of your videos, and started listening to your podcast, and I truly do believe that you mean and quite care about what you say! I mean, you strike me as honestly passionate and passionately honest which I find on the one hand too rare and on the other perhaps not being someone's flaw so much as someone's lack of proper/sufficient healthcare -- mental and physical--- and education. Meanwhile, (hoping you don't mind one more compliment...you warn of being too complimentary but,, if you really feel morally obligated to bring it up, based on the principle of "giving credit where credit is due"...well then, would you not agree that "it had to be said," at least from my point if view, lol~!) For the same reason, I had to be verbose, and as not to make my verbosity excessive, I tried to make it as much "a matter of fact" "as possible"
@@munkeefinkelbeen5395 I just can't bring myself to get with someone and I will just freeze up if I try too ask someone out. I'm already happy so I think I'm going to be single forever.
@@mrx-od3ji doesn't sound like you're happy so much as you're settling into a perceived fate. I believe that you can be as confident as you want to be, it'll just take work to get there 🙂
I did make mistakes in the past I learned from it marni I treat her with respect not needy me and my bae are good we get along with each other you are right about that listen to marni she is right
Marni, I can't thank you enough. Today I had a birthday dinner with three beautiful friends/co-workers and it was awesome! A few months ago I would have been intimidated (aka borderline terrified) by being the center of attention, but I was very confident today. Dinner was great and fun. I made them laugh and we enjoyed it so much that I am going to invite them over to my place for dinner in a few days. This is all practice for me, but I have a future date in mind. I've always been a shy guy, but man, I'm really coming out of my shell swinging and -- Thanks you for your tips and advise. I'll always remember you. You've helped me more than anyone else in the world when it comes to dating/women. I purchased a couple of your products a few weeks ago, so I can already tell it's paying off for me.
I'm in a wheelchair due to a hereditary thing, but when a woman asks why or how I ended up in a wheelchair, I would make up a story of how this happened. Like I'd go into details about me working on a high budget movie with (enter famous movie star here) and while I was doing a stunt scene it all went wrong... and BOOM.. here I am in a wheelchair.. gets laughs every time haha.
Best covid pick up line i accidently stumbled upon by just saying what i thought. I seen a woman who i could tell was beautuful even with her mask on. I stopper her and said can you..... Just pull your mask down for one second. ( she did and allready had a huge stupid smile on her face lol) . . wow you are more beautiful than i even imagined. I cant walk away without your nunber now ... And i just stopped talking while she processed what just happened. Point of the comment is that wouldn't have worked if i wasnt confident it would work. Confident and sincere......
@@travisandrews3909 well covid masks aren't still prevalent you will catch a lot of chick's still wearing them. Especially little Asian chickities. Try it out. Give it a go. You won't be disappointed. Just reading it and saying OK won't get your wiener touched lol
Concerning no.1, I am doing a deep-dive into stoicism. The central idea is the serenity prayer. This change in mindset will hopefully build my confidence.
I think you should always be respectful! But also have respect for yourself. I once had a female tell me that , she gets what she wants , when she wants it and how she wants it. and that I was the first guy that have ever told her no. If you asked me to rate her looks from 1 to 10 , I would rate her 30. Just because I find a female extremely attractive , I am not going to let her run all over me.
They are the kind who work their way into people’s homes and win the confidence of vulnerable women who are burdened with the guilt of sin and controlled by various desires. (Such women are forever following new teachings, but they are never able to understand the truth.) 2 Timothy 3:6-7 NLT
2004 to 2010, I was rejected instantly. No matter what I did, no matter the advice I took. "rejection doesnt happen instantly". Yes, yes it can - and yes it does. I make the call in a matter of seconds if I like someone or not. There's no reason to assume a women cant, and does not, do the same.
Firstly confidence is everything secondly Marni why is my Christmas 🎄 at your house hmm I wonder 🤔 Thirdly I am Soo full of confidence to the point that I am going to steal your heart as a Christmas gift
I have not yet seen a single youtube video with many likes and comments..that is whitout thumbs down, strange world we are living in...where not everybody can get along once!?! Thank you for this video 🙏
1) I never try to control anything, I go with the flow 2) you cannot imagine how low my expectations are, I expect the woman to spit in my face from the first hello 3) I am never afraid of making mistakes or failing, to tell the truth, this is my forte, making mistakes and failing 4) I never take things seriously, never ever 5) unfortunately, empowering beliefs after 40 years of failure are almost impossible to come by I don't know how many times I must say it, it is always a question of money and looks. When u can barely afford your own drink and u cannot offer the girl a glass of water even, please, tell me how will she not send me packing
I always have the same and the one only issue. I never even get to meet women. What I mean by this? Well mostly when I talk to a woman I win her over pretty much effortlessly. I used to do modeling, financially I am well off and I look very much confident, I am talkative and able to crack a joke, listen a lot too. It is easy for me to get a girl. It is hard for me to meet and find her. Are there any ways I can meet more women and get more opportunities? Please no nightclubs or bars. Thanks.
Think of girls like one of junior boy from your college. How would you treat them? Respectful and yet confident and ensure that you dont give them your power! And you have attraction magnet with you!
Confidence with women I don’t have anymore. I haven’t in many years. Being a bad boy isn’t my thing either. That said it’s no real wonder I have never been married; etc. I am ready to throw in the towel and say; this is something in your life that is never going to happen. Accept it. Accept being alone. You have a lot practice at it. I am truly afraid to even try now. I Have been on Zoosk for almost a year and it’s gone completely no where. I haven’t even voice talked with a person. Not great at texting. That’s a problem I know. Basket case? Probably a give up and accept it. Any thoughts?
Heard, brother. I did the coaching thing with Marissa, subscribed to Marni's stuff, (and other coaches); even did a bootcamp. I do all the stuff you're supposed to do: flirt properly -check; dress-check; smirk and maintain eye contact-check; initiate touch in the proper way-check. The results have been SOME success, but none of them went anywhere. I'm also pretty certain, I'm just unattractive to women too; and I'm VERY cool with that. Oh, and I had a very successful military and now civilian career. Been in situations a helluva lot more lethal than talking to women-I never got "wow he's really cool/confident" because I'm not trying reactions. I DID get..."you seem distant/cold"-yeah. IMHO, it's really just a crap shoot, these techniques just increase the "sample-size" and by increasing the sample size SOMEONE's bound to connect with you. Don't have time or the inclination for that.
I agree about what you say.Maybe stop trying and it could happen without you wanting it to.As John Lennon once said ...life is what happens to you when you are planning other things. Best of luck.
I'd say "get rich". Not only will it help with your other goals in life but attaining this goal puts other things in perspective. Why be nervous around a woman whose main attractive trait is lucky DNA? Moreover, once you have a certain amount of dough more women will suddenly find you attractive, so sheer practice will improve your interactions.
Plausible deniability can save you from the embarrassment of rejection example "sorry if I was a bit forward you just remind me of my girlfriend" or if you wanna try again don't mention you have a girlfriend💯
The older men get . The less they want to waste time . Trying to attract women . They focus on their future and retirement . That's money in the bank !
@@travisandrews3909 I should have been more specific in my reply. I meant it's non-existent for some, not me personally. There are many men out there that, no matter what, will fail every time. I'm disabled and in a wheelchair, but my confidence is just fine, I never act like something/someone that I'm not. I'm always 100% myself and I don't care if they like it or not.
5. The problem. I have spent my entire life being told I am not good enough at anything... Kinda hard to believe the opposite when I have 32 years of being beaten down and berated.
Just letting go of compulsive control, and willing to be self. Giving it away so don't be too serious but pay attention I am spilling the beans here, well... Wow! The, the way you're just glowing and express yourself, like you're definitely my type. And actually on this video recording based on your physical appearance and body language, you blew all the supermodels out of the water and Hollywood. You are so cute and so lovely. Just because one is on a diet it doesn't mean that one can't look in the Menu. Right? Well..., sorry I couldn't defend myself from such power beauty. Okay, that's enough in regards to your physical appearance. On second thought, If there's ever an election to determine who most enhances the quality of our environment, I thought you should know you've got my vote! Anyway. But looking to the windows of the Soul (your eyes~) I see you shining like brightest Star and so I know that you are a unique important Divine Being. On third thought, if you were ever accused of being incredibly beautiful, you would have to plead guilty as charged! Thank you very nice Marni for the best video of you and for you being you.
Anatomy of a Marni video: 1) Kind of a clickbait title... But I don't blame her for this since it's the way the game is played. 2) Good content. Logical, helpful advice. 3) Horrible comments from sad, dumb, incel trolls who can't be helped, lol.
I know that many of us lately are so afraid of the following dating because... love replaced by loyalty. finance and work. rejection. lack of interest. boundaries. demanding. routine schedules. loneliness. desperation. fear of being yourself. worries. discipline life. fussy. depression. the bachelor reality show has left many people heart broken feeling miserable for the rest of their life because the singles didn't get chosen. 🥺😩😫😣☹😭 and yes it's happened to me and many others that I've known that are not rich and famous in the world. these reality shows won't help anything or trying to become like well known celebrities.
Give up control
Lower the bar(about how perfect and smooth you think dating should be)
Stop being so careful (afraid of her reactions)
Amuse yourself first!
Adopt empowerming beliefs about yourself
You're welcome
You forgot #3, stop being so careful
@@jimmyr545 I think he has mastered that one.
@@wulf67 I think he mastered baiting. ;-)
@@philztops He mastered not being careful because he forgot some shit.
When the D is small the confidence is low.
2:11 1) 'Give Up Control'
4:27 2) 'Lower The Bar'
6:56 3) 'Stop Being SO Careful'
8:44 4) 'Amuse Your Self First' (Self-amusement)
10:37 5) 'Adapt Empowering Beliefs'
Ty homie
Bro this is hard to do 😅🤣
@@mr.shihab4089 No It's not. anybody can do it
@@90s-Trance_86 i can do it
What Marni says at 12:42 is immensely powerful _inner game_ material.
My ex did a number on my confidence but it’s coming back as time goes on!💯
Focus on yourself king 👑 get that job, that education, that outfit. Workout, read a couple books, eat right. You’ll gain confidence without even thinking about it
Also "fake-it-til-you-make-it."
Same here, recovering after a decade of steady decline in confidence.
Right there with you. Weirdly enough, because I was backed into a mental corner I’m standing and fighting harder than I ever have to get out. Keep pushing. It will get better!
I can relate...when you get to the point where you don't give f--k (as far as if a women is instantly attracted to you or not) things start to happen!
Confidence is game, set, match. A more powerful force is not known. Because if you get rejected you still are confident. And if you get accepted you still are confident. There is no greater force than believing in yourself. Good video. Good insights. Great clip Marni!
I say you have to act normal and not drugged with confidence or cool stuff
I have been working on my purpose and constantly on my grind! I also eat very clean and I have noticed the results! Better girls have been checking me out!
Steve Crane I agree.
True if you feel better you will be more confident and it will show.
So you have a girlfriend now or gotten some action... Right? Or they just been checking you out still.
That's great bro
Marni, when you got to the part about the rejected 5th grader, it was as if I had told you one of my stories and you used it as an example. Secondly, if I could find a woman who talks like you, I wouldn’t even need her to do anything else. I usually become annoyed with people whose channels I subscribe to, but you are truly amazing. Thanks!
Real men are sick of so-called "women" thinking they are the prize. Men, YOU are the prize. Women work to have YOU in their lives. Fact.
That is a fact
All summed up in one word, guys - relax.
@Luciano Elliot so you broke the law?
Don't do it!
Easy said then done
@@khalbar8935 Honestly
I try. Trust me, I try to relax. Doesn't work, my heart beats hard
Thank you Marni.
I do all 5 of these, and I have amazing interactions with girls.
In my opinion,when you do something not very cool, you can apologise for it or brush it off playfully according to what you did.
Hi. I have question
Marni gives very good advice, I'm a man who is working to improve his own mentality and wants to stop being so worried about constant rejection I suffer, thank you so much for these tips besides in this video she looks ellegant and very beautiful
Yes marni gives good advice
Good advice Marni. I learned from this video why I feel nervous on dates. The woman I’m dating can sense that I’m nervous too! You have a new subscriber
My new girlfriend really appreciates that I take the initiative to plan all our dates. Being an ER doctor, she finds it relaxing to just enjoy the experiences I arrange. I don't usually ask for her preferences; instead, I set everything up and she's always content with whatever activities I choose for us. She loves that I take charge in those things. Now I’m planning our vacations and she’s loving that.
Your content is spot on Marnie! Always put pressure on myself to how I believe the interaction should go. Letting go now and it’s so liberating. Thank you lots x
your clients are so lucky to meet or talk to such a well educated and smart woman !
I would say this is the most important video I've seen from you Marni. Really foundational stuff here. Thanks!
Defiantly it is
I’ve always been a goofy playful guy and when I meet a girl who vibes with me and makes me laugh as well , it’s a sight to behold
So do i bro
Jesus Marnie! This was exactly what I needed right now, thanks!!!
I don't think her name is Jesus Marnie.
So do i bro
I have such a crush on you! I was listening to your recent podcast on open relationships and I fantasized: if she were ever to decide to have an open relationship...I'd really love to go on a date with her and see if I'm idealizing or if we had chemistry. "Why,?" I ask myself. I mean, I don't know you in the least and here I am fantasizing as if I did! I genuinely love listening to you talk. Not just your advise but your sincerity. I won't lie: when I first discovered your work, I thought: here's someone else trying to sell me something. But out of curiosity, I read a few of your books, articles, and binged a good amount of your videos, and started listening to your podcast, and I truly do believe that you mean and quite care about what you say! I mean, you strike me as honestly passionate and passionately honest which I find on the one hand too rare and on the other perhaps not being someone's flaw so much as someone's lack of proper/sufficient healthcare -- mental and physical--- and education. Meanwhile, (hoping you don't mind one more compliment...you warn of being too complimentary but,, if you really feel morally obligated to bring it up, based on the principle of "giving credit where credit is due"...well then, would you not agree that "it had to be said," at least from my point if view, lol~!) For the same reason, I had to be verbose, and as not to make my verbosity excessive, I tried to make it as much "a matter of fact" "as possible"
So do i
This advice definitely works for more than dating. Thank you for uploading this, Marni! ☺
it does not work and im fine being singel no dating no getting married and no kids for me.
@@mrx-od3ji sorry to hear that it's not working for you. What part are you struggling most with?
@@munkeefinkelbeen5395 I just don't see myself getting married and being confident but if it works for you it's cool.
@@munkeefinkelbeen5395 I just can't bring myself to get with someone and I will just freeze up if I try too ask someone out. I'm already happy so I think I'm going to be single forever.
@@mrx-od3ji doesn't sound like you're happy so much as you're settling into a perceived fate. I believe that you can be as confident as you want to be, it'll just take work to get there 🙂
Wow Marni that was an awesome video, one of the best you've ever done.
Thanks for giving us knowledge that is worth two hundred dollars at a seminar..bless you and your loved ones with peace love
STFU MATE
Defiantly thank for giving us knowledge
I did make mistakes in the past I learned from it marni I treat her with respect not needy me and my bae are good we get along with each other you are right about that listen to marni she is right
Marni, I can't thank you enough. Today I had a birthday dinner with three beautiful friends/co-workers and it was awesome! A few months ago I would have been intimidated (aka borderline terrified) by being the center of attention, but I was very confident today. Dinner was great and fun. I made them laugh and we enjoyed it so much that I am going to invite them over to my place for dinner in a few days. This is all practice for me, but I have a future date in mind. I've always been a shy guy, but man, I'm really coming out of my shell swinging and -- Thanks you for your tips and advise. I'll always remember you. You've helped me more than anyone else in the world when it comes to dating/women. I purchased a couple of your products a few weeks ago, so I can already tell it's paying off for me.
I'm in a wheelchair due to a hereditary thing, but when a woman asks why or how I ended up in a wheelchair, I would make up a story of how this happened. Like I'd go into details about me working on a high budget movie with (enter famous movie star here) and while I was doing a stunt scene it all went wrong... and BOOM.. here I am in a wheelchair.. gets laughs every time haha.
Huh ?
hahaha you're the boss man :DD !!
Best covid pick up line i accidently stumbled upon by just saying what i thought.
I seen a woman who i could tell was beautuful even with her mask on. I stopper her and said can you..... Just pull your mask down for one second. ( she did and allready had a huge stupid smile on her face lol) . . wow you are more beautiful than i even imagined. I cant walk away without your nunber now ... And i just stopped talking while she processed what just happened. Point of the comment is that wouldn't have worked if i wasnt confident it would work. Confident and sincere......
Okay
@@travisandrews3909 well covid masks aren't still prevalent you will catch a lot of chick's still wearing them. Especially little Asian chickities.
Try it out. Give it a go. You won't be disappointed. Just reading it and saying OK won't get your wiener touched lol
Needed this so badly
So do i bro
Right on point Marni. Thanks for the assurance!🙂
She does make a good point
Hi love you Marni you are a good teacher love your videos watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲
So do i
actually the best video of you, Marni!
Yes it is
Concerning no.1, I am doing a deep-dive into stoicism. The central idea is the serenity prayer.
This change in mindset will hopefully build my confidence.
I think you should always be respectful! But also have respect for yourself. I once had a female tell me that , she gets what she wants , when she wants it and how she wants it. and that I was the first guy that have ever told her no. If you asked me to rate her looks from 1 to 10 , I would rate her 30. Just because I find a female extremely attractive , I am not going to let her run all over me.
I would rate a girl i like a 10
They are the kind who work their way into people’s homes and win the confidence of vulnerable women who are burdened with the guilt of sin and controlled by various desires. (Such women are forever following new teachings, but they are never able to understand the truth.)
2 Timothy 3:6-7 NLT
That is a fact
That's brilliant.
So much fresher and better served knowledge than a majority of male coaches. For real!
Yes it is brilliant
Thanks a lot Marni. GOD bless.❤️
Defiantly thanks marni
You realistically pointed to be oneself and enjoy as many moments as possible, sidetracking the negative ones.
Facts
2004 to 2010, I was rejected instantly. No matter what I did, no matter the advice I took. "rejection doesnt happen instantly". Yes, yes it can - and yes it does. I make the call in a matter of seconds if I like someone or not. There's no reason to assume a women cant, and does not, do the same.
Thank you for this! I stumbled on your page. Now I'm a subscriber. Looking forward to more of your expertise. This is very helpful.
Hell yeah it is
One of the best videos of yours!
Great topic. Thank you
Yes it is
Great message & looking beautiful !
Yes it is
Wow! This really helped me. You are a blessing.
It helped me a little bit
Firstly confidence is everything secondly Marni why is my Christmas 🎄 at your house
hmm I wonder 🤔
Thirdly I am Soo full of confidence to the point that I am going to steal your heart as a Christmas gift
My Christmas wasn't at her house
1 million percent...this is totally me....I'll def be watching this again
So have i
I have not yet seen a single youtube video with many likes and comments..that is whitout thumbs down, strange world we are living in...where not everybody can get along once!?! Thank you for this video 🙏
Well i have g.!
1) I never try to control anything, I go with the flow
2) you cannot imagine how low my expectations are, I expect the woman to spit in my face from the first hello
3) I am never afraid of making mistakes or failing, to tell the truth, this is my forte, making mistakes and failing
4) I never take things seriously, never ever
5) unfortunately, empowering beliefs after 40 years of failure are almost impossible to come by
I don't know how many times I must say it, it is always a question of money and looks.
When u can barely afford your own drink and u cannot offer the girl a glass of water even, please, tell me how will she not send me packing
I can offer a girl a glass of water 💧
@@travisandrews3909 they would not even accept it from me
I guess she upgraded her camera
The video looks much focused and clear
Nice job😀😀👍
Most definitely bro 💯
My brother used to tell that i was ugly a d i grew up believing him .but now i just stop worring about this and women do smile at me and smile more
All of your videos are amazing, but if I had to choose one video that I had to watch for the rest of my life, it would be this one. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Id really like to hear your advice for someone like me who is hsv2 positive and wondering how to approach women...
So do i
I completely agree with that last chaps comment. Your best yet. You da bomb baby
Yes she is the bomb 💣
Just very good advice in general in this vid, Marni. Good stuff.
your speech is fabulous madam.all the videos are pretty good.thank you god for creating this woman!!
Defiantly bro
First stay grounded in my own apartment and surroundings
Im trying that
Wow Marnie! You sure look nice in green and combined with that red lipstick... Definitely makes for a very nice Christmas feeling.
Oh yes she does
Super exciting wing girl !!
Yes she is
Great video Marni!! One of the best ones I’ve listen to so far.
Yes it is
I wanna have a convo with this girl SOOOOOO badly!
Bro so do i
Lmao i have found that being my weird aelf has been a lot more successtul than pretending im not a weirdo. Best video i have watched of yours yet
True bro we gotta be ourself. If they don't like us for who we are then why do we want them anyway?
I always have the same and the one only issue.
I never even get to meet women. What I mean by this?
Well mostly when I talk to a woman I win her over pretty much effortlessly.
I used to do modeling, financially I am well off and I look very much confident, I am talkative and able to crack a joke, listen a lot too.
It is easy for me to get a girl.
It is hard for me to meet and find her.
Are there any ways I can meet more women and get more opportunities?
Please no nightclubs or bars.
Thanks.
Its not easy for me
#6 Realize that most women don't know what they want, and when they think they do, that'll change on a whim.
That is a good point
This video was awesome leant so much about interaction and was really deep. Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️
Yes it was
Did you study psychology Marni? You have a real insight into the psychology of attraction.
@Michael G oh really damn
All of this assumes we have no eyes to see or ears to hear etc the world around us.
I would like to know that too.!
Your awesome marni thankyou
Yes she is awesome
Self affirmations for confidence.
Yes it is
love the video game analogy
I love this video too
Your techniques are A1
Jajajajajajjajajaja got that language reference
Yes it is
Marni looking good in that Greenish teal shirt! 😍😏❤️👌👌🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥
She looks good in the green t shirt 👕
This actually helps....thank you Marni....love from India...
It doesn't help in india sorry
It doesn't help me because im still not confident
She will talk your ears off but she's God damn right!
Hell yeah she is.!
Think of girls like one of junior boy from your college. How would you treat them? Respectful and yet confident and ensure that you dont give them your power! And you have attraction magnet with you!
I would treat them respectful
SO HELPFUL!?!?!?
Yes it is
Confidence with women I don’t have anymore. I haven’t in many years. Being a bad boy isn’t my thing either. That said it’s no real wonder I have never been married; etc. I am ready to throw in the towel and say; this is something in your life that is never going to happen. Accept it. Accept being alone. You have a lot practice at it. I am truly afraid to even try now. I
Have been on Zoosk for almost a year and it’s gone completely no where. I haven’t even voice talked with a person. Not great at texting. That’s a problem I know. Basket case? Probably a give up and accept it. Any thoughts?
Heard, brother. I did the coaching thing with Marissa, subscribed to Marni's stuff, (and other coaches); even did a bootcamp. I do all the stuff you're supposed to do: flirt properly -check; dress-check; smirk and maintain eye contact-check; initiate touch in the proper way-check. The results have been SOME success, but none of them went anywhere. I'm also pretty certain, I'm just unattractive to women too; and I'm VERY cool with that. Oh, and I had a very successful military and now civilian career. Been in situations a helluva lot more lethal than talking to women-I never got "wow he's really cool/confident" because I'm not trying reactions. I DID get..."you seem distant/cold"-yeah. IMHO, it's really just a crap shoot, these techniques just increase the "sample-size" and by increasing the sample size SOMEONE's bound to connect with you. Don't have time or the inclination for that.
I don't go on dating website
I agree about what you say.Maybe stop trying and it could happen without you wanting it to.As John Lennon once said ...life is what happens to you when you are planning other things.
Best of luck.
This video is awesome and great massage, excellent tips
Yes it is
Don’t care/ I’m not confident,but basically had really beautiful women show interest in me ,like the tops ,because I’m handsome
Same her bro
I'd say "get rich". Not only will it help with your other goals in life but attaining this goal puts other things in perspective. Why be nervous around a woman whose main attractive trait is lucky DNA? Moreover, once you have a certain amount of dough more women will suddenly find you attractive, so sheer practice will improve your interactions.
Im trying to get rich
Any advice for an over thinker? I'm confident. I sometimes appear to lack confidence as I'm putting myself 3-4 steps ahead in a few directions.
I over think too
Marni's all right for sure...
Yes she is
Tell M solid life coaching skills. Yup perception and exhortations. Yup the minds goofy triggers. He'll yes
Defiantly hell yes
Plausible deniability can save you from the embarrassment of rejection example "sorry if I was a bit forward you just remind me of my girlfriend" or if you wanna try again don't mention you have a girlfriend💯
I dont have a girlfriend yet
this vid is solid gold
Hell yeah it is
You want a woman? You have to touch her mind before she let's you touch anything else.
TRUE!!!!!! TOUCHY TOUCHY
Tis the season...So nice looking!
Pretty as can be!
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Marni, your tree looks just beautiful too! ♥️😉💚
Yes it dose
You are looking better and better.
Yes she is
Super coach ever. Love
Yes she is
love that Christmas tree!
@Simon Edwards oh, extremely sorry! I didn't know
So do i
This was perfect marni
Yes it was
Outstanding video Marni.
Yes it is
The older men get . The less they want to waste time . Trying to attract women . They focus on their future and retirement . That's money in the bank !
For sure it is
"smooth and easy" is non-existent. a total pipe dream.
No its not
@@travisandrews3909 I should have been more specific in my reply. I meant it's non-existent for some, not me personally. There are many men out there that, no matter what, will fail every time. I'm disabled and in a wheelchair, but my confidence is just fine, I never act like something/someone that I'm not. I'm always 100% myself and I don't care if they like it or not.
@@GatorAl you mean there is a lot of women out there ?
@@travisandrews3909 of course there are, but self-confidence is still key.
@@GatorAl i was self confident
So good on the biology, coach ! (Skin is great as well ?)
Hell yeah
Yeah its reading the (Magic Of Believing)
Most definitely
Swear I love this woman 😍😍😍 we should be best friends forever. I absolutely adore your work 💯💯. Amazing 🙌🙌🙌🤷♂️💯
So do i
5. The problem. I have spent my entire life being told I am not good enough at anything... Kinda hard to believe the opposite when I have 32 years of being beaten down and berated.
Not me bro
Just letting go of compulsive control, and willing to be self. Giving it away so don't be too serious but pay attention I am spilling the beans here, well...
Wow! The, the way you're just glowing and express yourself, like you're definitely my type. And
actually on this video recording based on your physical appearance and body language, you blew all the supermodels out of the water and Hollywood. You are so cute and so lovely.
Just because one is on a diet it doesn't mean that one can't look in the Menu. Right? Well...,
sorry
I couldn't defend myself from such power beauty.
Okay, that's enough in regards to your physical appearance.
On second thought,
If there's ever an election to determine who most enhances the quality of our environment,
I thought you should know you've got my vote! Anyway.
But looking to the windows of the Soul (your eyes~) I see you shining like brightest Star and so I know that you are a unique important Divine Being.
On third thought, if you were ever accused of being incredibly beautiful, you would have to plead guilty as charged!
Thank you very nice Marni for the best video of you and for you being you.
That is a good point 👉
God bless you you are the greatest you are so fun
Yes she is
Anatomy of a Marni video:
1) Kind of a clickbait title... But I don't blame her for this since it's the way the game is played.
2) Good content. Logical, helpful advice.
3) Horrible comments from sad, dumb, incel trolls who can't be helped, lol.
It is a logical helpful advice
I got it! Watch a few Hip Hop videos rappers get alot of chics so act like Riff Raff or Snoop Dogg, that might work!
So have i g
Amazing video
It is amazing video
This Is one of your best videos.💖♥️
Hell yeah it is
You've earned a subscription from me.... Eye opening clip
Most definitely
I know that many of us lately are so afraid of the following dating because...
love replaced by loyalty.
finance and work.
rejection.
lack of interest.
boundaries.
demanding.
routine schedules.
loneliness.
desperation.
fear of being yourself.
worries.
discipline life.
fussy.
depression.
the bachelor reality show has left many people heart broken feeling miserable for the rest of their life because the singles didn't get chosen.
🥺😩😫😣☹😭
and yes it's happened to me and many others that I've known that are not rich and famous in the world. these reality shows won't help anything or trying to become like well known celebrities.
That is a good point