Are You Sexually Attractive To Women? (This Test Will Tell You)

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  • @marnikinrys
    @marnikinrys  3 года назад +55

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    • @RedDiamond500
      @RedDiamond500 3 года назад +4

      I was at a party telling a guy, about 35, I’m 58, about this you tube channel and he was like omg! Wing girl! I never miss it.
      We laughed at that and talked about how women glance at your shoes. They are like what boobs must be like for women.
      As soon as you meet a woman they quickly look at your shoes.
      Once you learn this you see it all of the time. We had both learned from wing girl.

    • @JokerrRuth
      @JokerrRuth 3 года назад +10

      @@RedDiamond500 How long have you known that you're gay?

    • @del4866
      @del4866 3 года назад +3

      As long as you have been a lesbian Ruth

    • @sammylane21
      @sammylane21 3 года назад +3

      Ironic if one did not listen to the listening questions.

    • @visaman
      @visaman 3 года назад +5

      @@RedDiamond500 Years ago I went into a gay bar to use the mens room, and a guy said he liked my shoes.

  • @justincase7224
    @justincase7224 3 года назад +872

    Im 5’5, 180 pounds but managed to score 20 points. YES!!! No wonder my computer is always telling me there’s single ladies in my area trying to meet me. Now I know why!!

    • @ApplesOranges123
      @ApplesOranges123 3 года назад +30

      lol

    • @alexeyklyshnikov7145
      @alexeyklyshnikov7145 3 года назад +40

      And talking about hobby: just wait till they see the paint on your space wolfs army -- instant pants drop

    • @jaypres6090
      @jaypres6090 3 года назад +23

      5’5 and 180 and you scored 20? You’re in the 1%. Congrats!

    • @moose5996
      @moose5996 3 года назад +10

      🤣🤣🤣🤣👌

    • @marcosantos1779
      @marcosantos1779 3 года назад +12

      Lol!!! I’ve got the same stats as you and I scored 4, what’s your secret bro 🤣

  • @dansky9674
    @dansky9674 3 года назад +1059

    - VVamen : I want a guy who is at least 6 feet tall
    World reaction : that's fair
    - Men : I want a gal who isn't overweighted
    World reaction : how dare you ?

    • @wendysbrian1
      @wendysbrian1 3 года назад +64

      Only around 14% of men are 6 feet or taller. Then you have to eliminate the ones who are in a relationship, married, gay, not interested, or in prison.

    • @johntrojan9653
      @johntrojan9653 3 года назад +17

      - Men : WITHOUT KIDS ! 😡 !
      - World reaction : That's fair 😁

    • @Proposal12
      @Proposal12 3 года назад +28

      Double Standards ....

    • @VitorCaldeira1980
      @VitorCaldeira1980 3 года назад +6

      lol

    • @henrikljungstrand2036
      @henrikljungstrand2036 3 года назад +34

      Why should we care about the -world- media reaction? Ditch those that are woke and go for those that are sane.

  • @digitalsurfer5458
    @digitalsurfer5458 3 года назад +95

    Here's the complete list for my busy brothers:
    1. Do you have proper grooming and hygiene practice?
    2. Do you put efforts in dressing up properly?
    3. Do you indulge in any form of physical exercise?
    4. Do you have a well-defined purpose in life?
    5. Do you have a dependable source of income?
    6. Do you have an active social life?
    7. Do you have hobbies and passions that you enjoy?
    8. Do you have faith in yourself?
    9. Are you honest?
    10. Do you have clear personal boundaries?
    11. Do people say you are a responsible person?
    12. Do you have a good sense of humour?
    13. Can you keep calm under pressure?
    14. Are you willing to make mistakes?
    15. Do you feel entitled to good things?
    16. Are you animated with your expressions?
    17. Do you laugh or smile often?
    18. Do you use physical touch during interaction with people?
    19. Can you maintain eye contact?
    20. Are you a good listener?
    21. Do you have expansive body language?
    22. Can you start and lead an interaction?
    23. Can you flirt properly?
    Sorry Marni, you're always a pleasure to watch and listen to. But it's a good handy way of taking the test every once in a while. Thanks for the great tips as always!

    • @josealexi5141
      @josealexi5141 3 года назад +15

      I scored 21, but all I seem to attract are used up garden tools and overweight single mothers looking for a payday to support them and their 3 kids.

    • @mblazin1532
      @mblazin1532 3 года назад +1

      This list sounds like a fucking job application. WTF!? If getting pussy is like that then I'd rather just beat my fucking meat and not have put up that impossible bullshit.

    • @rod7177
      @rod7177 3 года назад +6

      @@mblazin1532 Very few guys have all these skills and attributes. Don't be discouraged. Pick one skill or attribute that you feel you need, and read up / learn it. And then go on to another one.

    • @Bill-s5x
      @Bill-s5x 7 месяцев назад +3

      So you're in the top tier of all men, and you're prize is...?
      Used chicks with tattoos?
      Yikes!
      Imagine the rest of us.

    • @AymanSamman-nn5gp
      @AymanSamman-nn5gp 5 месяцев назад

      Thanks a lot. Most of them are tough ones. I scored 7/23. Even the YES answers ain’t 100% solid YESes😅

  • @madant22
    @madant22 3 года назад +58

    1. Hygiene 🪥 Yes
    2. Appearance Clothes Yes
    3. Exercises No
    4. Flirt master Yes
    5. Dependable source of income Yes.
    6. Active Social life. No
    7. Passion Yes
    8. Confidence Yes
    9. Honesty Yes
    10. Boundaries Yes
    11. Responsible Yes
    12. Sense of humor Yes
    13. Keep Calm under pressure Yes
    14. Willing to make mistakes Yes
    15. You feel entitled to good things No
    16. Animated in expressions Yes
    17. Laugh and smile often Yes
    18. Touch Yes
    19. Maintain Eye contact Yes
    20. Good listener Yes
    21. Expansive Body Language Yes
    22. Start and lead interaction Yes
    23. Flirt properly Yes

    • @chatteyj
      @chatteyj 2 года назад +1

      I struggle with 7 having passion for a particular hobby, theres only so much passion I can have for stamp collecting or anything really

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 2 года назад

      @@chatteyj not me bro

    • @OperaLars
      @OperaLars 2 года назад

      And we men only demand big boobs and some fortune 🤣

    • @ArmandoAlejandro2014
      @ArmandoAlejandro2014 2 года назад +3

      Yes to all. But I'm still single.

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 2 года назад

      I didn't take the test

  • @javiersanabria7513
    @javiersanabria7513 3 года назад +14

    I really don't care what women think about me or if they find me sexy. Women tend to change their mind pretty often.

    • @thetempleunfinished
      @thetempleunfinished 3 года назад +5

      100% They change their minds like they change clothes in a fitting room at a clothing store.

    • @ashvideoer
      @ashvideoer 9 месяцев назад +1

      This is facts

  • @ardellklemme3893
    @ardellklemme3893 3 года назад +561

    "Do you use touch when you interact with women?" No thanks, I don't like jail.

    • @weareallbeingwatched4602
      @weareallbeingwatched4602 3 года назад +21

      Mate, you don't touch women on the genitals like shaking hands. Knaa me say. A hand holding a hand, or a palm touching an elbow, that is not a sexual touch.

    • @weareallbeingwatched4602
      @weareallbeingwatched4602 3 года назад +8

      @Made By Mot look at their face & work it out, sure, but if they won't shake your hand you don't want to know them, male or female. Nobody can sue you for a handshake bro.

    • @mgtowmonger2729
      @mgtowmonger2729 3 года назад +24

      @@weareallbeingwatched4602 You haven't been paying attention to the ever-changing laws in the West, have you? And this is an OLD ruling... The newer ones are quite a hoot!
      Does Staring Constitute Sexual Harassment?
      This article was edited and reviewed by FindLaw Attorney Writers | Last updated August 17, 2017
      Mae West once said "It is better to be looked over than overlooked." The California Court of Appeal, however, may disagree. In Birschtein v. New United Motor Mfg., Inc., 92 Cal. App. 4th 994 (2001), the Court reversed the lower court's grant of summary judgment, holding that a campaign of staring may constitute actionable sexual harassment.

    • @maxfischer8977
      @maxfischer8977 3 года назад +35

      @@weareallbeingwatched4602 Mate leave your basement. Asking a woman for her phone number is already considered sexual harassment at universities.

    • @johntrojan9653
      @johntrojan9653 3 года назад +5

      @@weareallbeingwatched4602 Maybe in Aussieland it isn't Mate, but here in Baseballville it sure as Hell is !!!!

  • @curt02762a
    @curt02762a 3 года назад +59

    21 yes, still trying to figure out why I’ve only been on 4 dates in last 10 yrs, got rejected again yesterday........I’m glad I really don’t need a woman in my life.....

    • @cptcurdlessdf1201
      @cptcurdlessdf1201 3 года назад

      you got 21 yes`s out of 20 questions?

    • @buckleymordecai9605
      @buckleymordecai9605 3 года назад +8

      I feel ya! 20, but touching, social life and exercise are my weak points...Will NEVER initiate touch with a woman.

    • @justinmacarrhur1924
      @justinmacarrhur1924 3 года назад +1

      Yeah, y all failing at honesty here.

    • @MP-vf8qz
      @MP-vf8qz 3 года назад +2

      Marni does give good advise. my problem is anxiety and ocd. you will do good. follow your dreams and don't let anyone push you around (except for your mom) LOL

    • @ricbuchwald4911
      @ricbuchwald4911 3 года назад +3

      @@MP-vf8qz OCD is not an issue. Use it to keep your cupboards nice. Looking for a woman to "arrange" ain't gonna happen. Modify your approach !

  • @TorontoGuy
    @TorontoGuy 3 года назад +326

    Don't worry, guys. The lower your score, the faster your bank account will grow.

    • @aldaoroman
      @aldaoroman 3 года назад +17

      100% Based.

    • @eddiewillers1
      @eddiewillers1 3 года назад +6

      ^^ Word!

    • @WeWokeTheGiants
      @WeWokeTheGiants 3 года назад +6

      Yup, yup.

    • @SerginhoSM9151
      @SerginhoSM9151 3 года назад +4

      lol

    • @mgtowmonger2729
      @mgtowmonger2729 3 года назад +5

      And 'professionals' in Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico at the massage parlors do FULL SERVICE 'horizontal bop' and charge $20 USD for half an hour! Hot shower before and after and quite attractive women between the ages of 22 and 32. You just need a passport and get an Airbnb and ride and Uber there and back! What's not to like about that?

  • @ed5308
    @ed5308 3 года назад +57

    I am willing to make mistakes. My first mistake was listening to this video. This sounds like a lot of work just to get shit tested by a women. Can I take charge, listen, entertain, and put up with a women that in the end feels I am not good enough to be with? No thanks I have been down this road before.

    • @brianhanes5413
      @brianhanes5413 2 года назад

      Just do it with every woman and talk to several pretty women at once. Get as many numbers as you can until you agree to exclusively date. And that's not even being a player because players are the ones who decide to never settle down. But regardless of intentions you will do best to talk to as many women as possible, have options so if one ghosts, leaves, cheats, or flakes you just go out with another.
      If you are dating, don't cheat but still have friends. Then it's fair game. If it falls apart you can rebound within reasonable time.

    • @ThatGuy-tx4vm
      @ThatGuy-tx4vm 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@brianhanes5413nah. Every woman says no to even date. It is not an option for many of us. We just have to accept our situations and live our life with the skills we actually posses and the things we can achieve. By 25 not having a single date whilst possessing more than half the things this video mentions means that there is something very deep that women see in a person that they don't like. Something that is inherent to that person and cannot be changed.

    • @edwinmoya8042
      @edwinmoya8042 2 месяца назад

      Your loss then, you don't work, you don't eat

  • @ArmourKevin
    @ArmourKevin 2 года назад +1

    Bonjour à vous. I have a 23/23 SCORE and Still I am single. To be single is not the end of the world. You get to learn to appreciate even more faling in love when it comes. Quantity is not a happyness factor in life. This notion is a teaching of life.

  • @adriantoye
    @adriantoye 3 года назад +224

    Just make her laugh....the more she laughs the more she keeps her eyes closed.

  • @thorstenb.163
    @thorstenb.163 3 года назад +77

    I scored 6 points. That is probably the reason why I never had a date at age 40.

    • @user-ew3hh1mv9l
      @user-ew3hh1mv9l 3 года назад

      Lol

    • @niskristensen7006
      @niskristensen7006 3 года назад +4

      Get start couple danci g NOW

    • @PAIP_Studio
      @PAIP_Studio 3 года назад +7

      Nop... She is just a bad dating couch... Statistically speaking... It is not you dude...

    • @peytongomer2305
      @peytongomer2305 3 года назад

      Yikes bro

    • @Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania
      @Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania 3 года назад +7

      Maybe because you want to date a woman on your same level but women only want to date up? So a woman on your same level do not want you, she want a better man than her.
      A lot of male friends i have are in relationships with women below them. They do not care, they just want a pussy no matter what.

  • @seanmathews1826
    @seanmathews1826 3 года назад +95

    So yeah about touching women when interacting with them early on.
    "Guys don't do that." That is a good way to get you in a lot of trouble.

    • @josephfarrar8534
      @josephfarrar8534 3 года назад

      It really does depend on the guy and the way they touch a woman. Also, building some rapport first is key. Maximizing the simple things too, like shake her hand with both of yours with a friendly smile and eye contact.

    • @seanmathews1826
      @seanmathews1826 3 года назад +9

      @@josephfarrar8534 I hear what you are saying but at the end of the day it is all very subjective. And if she takes offense the consequences are bad.

    • @CGPepper
      @CGPepper 3 года назад

      @@seanmathews1826 touching can be as small as checkout out her watch. If she's against any kind of physical contact. Might as well skip that one

    • @mba7454
      @mba7454 3 года назад

      I once complimented a girl what a great she had! She loved it. Then I grabbed it(just to be sure)...she was mortified..WTF?.??....,, I told her hey you just loved the compliment dintchya..?.? Women🤪

    • @jorpope
      @jorpope 8 месяцев назад

      So the touch part I think is misconstrued by most men, the touch part (at the beginning) is a matter of communication: touching their arm when laughing about something with a woman, touching her shoulder or a hug when greeting them, etc etc. Having a built up rapport makes these types of touch more important. Not doing it in a hesitant way, or a creepy way is also key. Those types of touch also show your confidence levels. Remember that woman is also just another human, and humans tend to thrive on social encounters where the other person is interested in what they're saying, and what they're doing. Matching energy also comes through touch. The idea is not all touch is about sex, it's about connection even if that connection is only in the current conversation, or in the greeting. Keep it simple

  • @frankl2639
    @frankl2639 2 года назад +30

    I’m in a ten year relationship and sometimes feel the need to be single again but not because I’m interested in other romantic involvements. Anyway, anyone get the impression these test questions are more aimed at younger men? I mean, i had a very active social life, worked out and actually dressed well when i was in my 20s and 30s. Now that I’m older, I very much enjoy solitude, a relatively inactive social life and walking around my block a couple times works just fine. It’s just an observation.

    • @BloodyHeck
      @BloodyHeck Год назад +2

      I'm 54 and on my third marriage. I just look at stuff like this for the humor. It's not aimed at us because after you've been in a relationship and especially with at least one divorce, you learn they aren't worth the trouble.

    • @truehearted2295
      @truehearted2295 Год назад +2

      @@BloodyHeck I agree I'm 60 about to get my 2nd divorce. These are aimed at men her age and younger.

    • @steaveblackmon5031
      @steaveblackmon5031 10 месяцев назад

      Amen Bloody heck and true hearted 2295. I'm 66 and the more I understand women today, the more I love steam locomotive's and my 1976 Ford F-150 pickup truck 🛻 eh?

    • @steaveblackmon5031
      @steaveblackmon5031 10 месяцев назад

      😅also steam locomotive whistle whistle's!

  • @jakubukleja2553
    @jakubukleja2553 3 года назад +82

    Three questions are missing and I feel like they should be at the top of the list. Most of the others matter once you're in a relationship, not before.
    1. Are you 6 feet tall or more?
    2. Is your face reasonably presentable or is it a potato that only intensive reconstructive plastic surgery can fix?
    3. Is your hairline good or receding?

    • @JaimeRiveraMusic
      @JaimeRiveraMusic 3 года назад +4

      Nailed it!

    • @dtw63
      @dtw63 2 года назад +17

      I’m 6’4, have a full head of thick hair, been told by several different people I look like Gerard Butler, I’ll be 59 this year. I can’t get a date. Well, I guess I could but it would piss my wife off! 😂

    • @victorglaviano
      @victorglaviano 2 года назад +14

      I'm 5'9", shaved head, 165 lbs, almost a 6 pack still, 32" waist, 44" chest and never suffer from a woman problem, that is because despite the belief that your hair or height is going to make you a shoe in... When you are getting out hustled by the 5'7" guy it's comical... No game, no woman... Believe that!
      I had a buddy when I was in the military, he was 6'6" and couldn't pick up a woman if she had handles on her!

    • @victorglaviano
      @victorglaviano 2 года назад

      Negative... Are you a natural bullshitter or hustler... Wins everytime, women are stimulated mentally, men physically... Believe it, done it a thousand times around the world!

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 2 года назад

      Nailed it

  • @lehelflothmann5174
    @lehelflothmann5174 3 года назад +428

    Meanwhile men:
    1. Don't be super overweight.
    2. Be kind.
    Also women " Men's expectations are so unreasonable!"

    • @ichziehmirdenweissweinrein804
      @ichziehmirdenweissweinrein804 3 года назад +4

      haha. me: have a kissable face, woman.

    • @bobcat24
      @bobcat24 3 года назад +19

      3. Kissable face
      4. Nice sized butt ‘n boobs.
      5. Have a decent personality.
      6. Don’t be mentally insane or emotionally immature.

    • @lehelflothmann5174
      @lehelflothmann5174 3 года назад +17

      @@bobcat24 those are definatly all brownie points but honestly for most men they're not requirements in my experience.

    • @bobcat24
      @bobcat24 3 года назад +8

      @@lehelflothmann5174 Most of them are required from most men I know. Don’t know what ur talking about.

    • @pandaman1331
      @pandaman1331 3 года назад +14

      @@bobcat24 You propably don't know many men. Or you are just trying to defend the unreasonably high standards of women with the infanitle "men do it too" argument

  • @Mikey-Mike_
    @Mikey-Mike_ 3 года назад +172

    Congratulations! You are “Friend zone” worthy lol

  • @CrimsonSurvival
    @CrimsonSurvival 3 года назад +31

    I don’t think I studied for this test...

  • @latt.qcd9221
    @latt.qcd9221 3 года назад +11

    "Do you use physical touch during interactions?"
    Do I look like I want to get arrested? Something sexually attractive women could do is have a little empathy for men and the dating environment they have to navigate through, today.

    • @iceonthesun8880
      @iceonthesun8880 2 года назад

      (wishful sighs), that'll never happen, mate

  • @isaaccarnellkingiv2624
    @isaaccarnellkingiv2624 3 года назад +20

    I need to
    1. Work out More
    2. Get an Active Social Life
    3. Be More Animated
    4. Use Touch
    5. Lead Interactions
    6. Learn to Flirt
    - feeling entitled doesn't count
    P.S. I can hold eye contact, I just don't, so I'll do that more.

    • @gabrielguzman6018
      @gabrielguzman6018 2 года назад +2

      What do you mean be more animated

    • @Viewable11
      @Viewable11 2 года назад +2

      @@gabrielguzman6018 Facial expressions and hand gestures while talking.

  • @magdalenomoreno4560
    @magdalenomoreno4560 3 года назад +90

    Can I keep calm under pressure?? Answer = YES .... BUT my x-wife saw that trait of me being cold-hearted

    • @VideoArchiveGuy
      @VideoArchiveGuy 3 года назад +15

      I didn't panic about things the way she did so I was "dead inside."

    • @grumblesa10
      @grumblesa10 3 года назад +12

      Yep, I heard "you're so UNEMOTIONAL" well yeah when people are shooting at you; you damn well better have your emotions under control.....

    • @harlanwilkinson3142
      @harlanwilkinson3142 3 года назад +10

      My fiance says I "don't care" because I'm not crying and screaming maniacally like she does lol.

    • @KingoftheJuice18
      @KingoftheJuice18 3 года назад

      Gentlemen, they weren't asking you to panic or freak out. They were telling you how much they wanted you to share your feelings with them.

    • @magdalenomoreno4560
      @magdalenomoreno4560 3 года назад +6

      @@KingoftheJuice18 show weakness do they can stomp all over you after

  • @nihalmohammed6674
    @nihalmohammed6674 3 года назад +473

    I freaking love how she went " ... 95% of women are not driven to money.. " at 4:01
    I lost my shit 😂😂

    • @Lonstermash
      @Lonstermash 3 года назад +54

      She must not live in Los Angeles

    • @terrylewis8710
      @terrylewis8710 3 года назад +70

      Sorry lady that simply not true

    • @johndeaux3703
      @johndeaux3703 3 года назад +47

      @@Lonstermash or on Earth.

    • @tomz1daful
      @tomz1daful 3 года назад +18

      You just saw manipulation of facts for feelings. She's stirring the cauldron of chaos, and it will somehow be your fault/ deficiency/ lack of understanding women is you can't make sense of what's she's said.
      Men, it's your money, ability to do the monkey dance, and reliability she seeks, and maybe, you'll get that love and devotion men thirst for.
      She's counting on you being just good enough....
      You won't ever be. You see, she is always looking for "the Better Deal", or, better than you.

    • @dmahadeo
      @dmahadeo 3 года назад

      👍

  • @amantedelmondo1787
    @amantedelmondo1787 3 года назад +64

    Damn! I scored -2. I guess I can't even do math...

    • @terrylewis8710
      @terrylewis8710 3 года назад +3

      Lol

    • @pratik6342
      @pratik6342 3 года назад +1

      Good sense of humour so +1

    • @Gave-rf1hr
      @Gave-rf1hr 3 года назад +5

      @@pratik6342 he's still a -1 lets all press F for him

  • @mmm-ie5ws
    @mmm-ie5ws 3 года назад +47

    Female dating coach: Make it all about her
    Her: I want a bad boy who will treat mea like crap. (ex: olivia obrien, yasmin wijnaldum, etc etc)

  • @budzpuds
    @budzpuds 2 года назад +1

    "make love not war" a man denied and cheated out of any opportunities to make love is left no reason not to make war so war is what he does and who he is.

  • @anarchist_3350
    @anarchist_3350 3 года назад +42

    Lol 😂 well this certainly explains why my girlfriend is always getting on me about almost ANY interaction I have with other women.... cuz I listen, smile, joke, know what I want, look clean and am clean.... she's always telling me I have no idea and I'm just like "WHAAAT?! All I did was order my food!" 😂

  • @Jonathan.T.1000
    @Jonathan.T.1000 3 года назад +120

    One vital thing i learned while dating women during the years : Never listen to women about how to date other women. They think they know what they and other women want, but in reality they don't. Now I'm not saying everything Marni is saying is wrong, but at the end of the day, she misses the point.

    • @Jonathan.T.1000
      @Jonathan.T.1000 3 года назад +1

      @ad izzle Dude what? I'm guessing English is not your first language but I couldn't understand what you were trying to say sorry..

    • @Jonathan.T.1000
      @Jonathan.T.1000 3 года назад +5

      @ad izzle Why on earth are you triggerd now? I was, in all seriousness, trying to understand your comment, and you just got all defensive talking about my grammar. Couldn't you just reformulate your sentence instead of getting dramatic?
      What language do you speak normally?

    • @Jonathan.T.1000
      @Jonathan.T.1000 3 года назад +3

      @ad izzle I see what you mean now. Thanks for elaborating.
      I completely agree with you that Improving yourself is always positive, but only if you do it for yourself and not with the expectation of becoming popular with women.
      What I meant by her missing the point is: Even without much effort, a majority of guys would score 20 points on her list. That would make them the top 1-10%, yet, most of them don't have success with women. That demonstrate that following a "guideline" to change yourself in order to "please women" doesn't work well nowadays.

    • @natemalnaa1
      @natemalnaa1 3 года назад +1

      @ad izzle no idea what I just read.

    • @ErikLiberty
      @ErikLiberty 3 года назад +3

      You are right that you don't want to listen to average women about how to date them, but Marni is one of the few women who tell it how it is.

  • @kevincanales6654
    @kevincanales6654 3 года назад +25

    Like for everyone to see.
    Answer honestly (Yes\No)
    Every Yes* = 1 point
    Test Questions:
    #1 - Do you have proper grooming practices?
    #2 - Do you put effort into dressing properly?
    #3 - Do you indulge in physical exercise?
    #4 - Do you have a well defined purpose in life?
    #5 - Do you have a dependable source of income?
    #6 - Do you have an active social life?
    #7 - Do you have hobbies and passions you enjoy?
    #8 - Do you have faith in yourself?
    #9 - Are you honest?
    #10 - Do you have clear personal boundaries?
    #11 - Would people that know you say you’re responsible?
    #12 - Do you have a good sense of humor?
    #13 - Can you keep calm under pressure?
    #14 - Are you willing to take risks and endure failure in life?
    #15 - Do you feel entitled to good things in life?
    #16 - Are you animated with your expressions?
    #17 - Do you laugh or smile often?
    #18 - Do you use physical touch when you interact with people?
    #19 - Can you maintain good eye contact?
    #20 - Are you a good listener?
    #21 - Do you have expansive body language?
    #22 - Can you start and lead an interaction?
    #23 - Can you flirt properly?
    0-5 = Not sexy at all
    6-10 = Slightly sexy
    11-15 = Pretty sexy
    16-20 = Super sexy
    20+ = Top 1% of all men sexy

  • @dtw63
    @dtw63 2 года назад +4

    18 yes, 5 no. #14 I said yes to mistakes. My 2nd marriage was a huge mistake, the relationship after that was a mistake. I’m getting sexier all the time.

  • @tdrive398
    @tdrive398 2 года назад +1

    Her list (and scoring scale)-
    1. Proper grooming & hygiene practices
    2. Do you dress up properly?
    3. Do you exercise?
    4. Do you have a well-defined purpose in life?
    5. Dependable source of income?
    6. Active social life?
    7. Hobbies and passions you enjoy?
    8. Have faith in yourself (self-confidence)
    9. Honesty
    10. Have clear cut personal boundaries?
    11. Do others say you are you responsible? (women want men who are leaders)
    12. Do you have a good sense of humor?
    13. Remain calm under pressure (the reason women do “crap tests”)
    14. Are you willing to try and fail?
    15. Do you feel entitled to good things in life? (I disagree with her on this- you must *work* for it)
    16. Animated expressions (charismatic)
    17. Do you laugh or smile often?
    18. Do you use physical touch when interacting?
    19. Maintain eye contact when speaking
    20. Are you a good listener?
    21. Use expansive body language
    22. Can you start and lead an interaction?
    23. Can you flirt properly?
    0-5: not sexy
    6-10: slightly sexy
    11-15: pretty sexy
    16-20: Hella sexy
    20+: top 1% sexy

  • @QuadHealer
    @QuadHealer 3 года назад +24

    LOL, during lock-down: social activity = none, grooming/hygiene = none. How am I even going to meet anyone besides the cashier at my local grocery store?

    • @samcrubish1336
      @samcrubish1336 3 года назад +3

      Why not try for the cashier at your local grocery store? It's better than nothing and if you manage to get a date with her, let me know how it turns out. Peace.

    • @MrOgynist
      @MrOgynist 3 года назад +3

      Why no grooming? I admit that my standards have dropped - e.g. I shave less religiously, though my overall regime is still on schedule.
      Now, I'm a bit different, I do rebel against lockdown. Part of that is that I do work in people's homes as a self-employed contractor. My last close interaction - taboo! - was with one of my customers. That's the only time that's happened. A good deal of this list came into play with her.
      I am constantly out and about though. And dressing is sometimes seemingly sloppy but when I'm tiling, painting, caulking, etc. I'm not going to wear good clothes. So I seek to keep the rest of my presentation above par. Even at that, one of my contacts made some indications that I was presenting well.
      Maybe it's just the home Depot cashier, but she might be a romantic candidate.

    • @QuadHealer
      @QuadHealer 3 года назад +2

      @@samcrubish1336 Love your enthusiasm! I don’t know how the situation is in your country but going on a normal date would require that the place is actually still in business and open and that we have both been either vaccinated or PCR tested negative within 72 hours. It takes the romance out of any situation. I can wait until people are less afraid, or until another lifetime 😊. I have been single by choice for many years, and it would take a really special woman to change that.

    • @dmahadeo
      @dmahadeo 3 года назад +1

      What's wrong with the cashier at the grocery store? 🤣

    • @JohnSmith-pp9ot
      @JohnSmith-pp9ot 3 года назад +2

      I haven't showered since fifteen days to flatten the curve.

  • @Hutch76k
    @Hutch76k 3 года назад +6

    Why would anyone put forth this much effort for a woman? It’s akin to running a marathon with a 65 pound sack in 110 degree heat. At the end you get a Tic Tac. Seriously, boys, do what you want to do.

    • @JohnSmith-pp9ot
      @JohnSmith-pp9ot 3 года назад +1

      Especially when you can just lease it for an hour at reasonable rates.

    • @seainc4020
      @seainc4020 8 месяцев назад

      It isn't about doing it for women, it is about doing it to be your best self. You either have it or are generally a bore.

  • @leoraul777
    @leoraul777 3 года назад +18

    Joker from Better Bachelor roasted this chick yesterday 🙂

  • @Ov3RFLoW88
    @Ov3RFLoW88 2 года назад +1

    There is question 24, i suppose, which is "what are your super powers again?". Women love super heroes. and the answer should be "I am rich".

  • @heavenroots7
    @heavenroots7 Год назад +1

    I dont think I would use entitled. I want to work hard for the things I want or already have.

    • @steaveblackmon5031
      @steaveblackmon5031 10 месяцев назад

      Amen brother ( or sister) no one is"entitled" to anything they want. You WORK HARD for what you want or already have. Only God has the authority to say that you are "entitled to anything.

  • @hijj7676
    @hijj7676 3 года назад +38

    Here's the real test guys especially if you're over 30 and dating... Do you pass the rule of 6's and are you willing to put in a much larger % of the work then the woman does to make the relationship work?? Cuz that is what 90 plus % of women that are left in the dating pool are looking for. The ones that actually want the qualities that Marni lays out, they're basically all married already.

    • @thetempleunfinished
      @thetempleunfinished 3 года назад +10

      This answer is 100% fucken true out of all of them!!! I'm shocked most commenters on here didn't pick up on this one. Perhaps that's because most of the guys on here are under 30. I'm 46 and can tell you that you are dead on about that.

    • @whitemakesright2177
      @whitemakesright2177 3 года назад +6

      If women 30+ are too demanding (I agree that they are), why not date women in their 20s?

    • @vahebaldemian
      @vahebaldemian 2 года назад

      What's the rule of 6 s?

    • @iceonthesun8880
      @iceonthesun8880 2 года назад

      @@whitemakesright2177 that's my best policy-- over 30 equals not considered

    • @davidshoyt1979
      @davidshoyt1979 2 года назад

      @@whitemakesright2177 Yeees! I get older ...they stay the same age. Just DeCaprio it !

  • @thetorvic23
    @thetorvic23 3 года назад +7

    19, could've been 20 but she said "entitled" for one of them so that was a no. I work for everything, never feel "entitled"

  • @trxmedia
    @trxmedia 3 года назад +13

    And what are women doing to deserve this perfect guy?

    • @JohnSmith-pp9ot
      @JohnSmith-pp9ot 3 года назад +6

      You get to share her with ten other guys.

    • @eswarsribrahma3122
      @eswarsribrahma3122 3 года назад

      Well , I also want to know ?😊

    • @eswarsribrahma3122
      @eswarsribrahma3122 3 года назад +2

      @@JohnSmith-pp9ot 😑 that looks like smashing my head against a wall and feeling happy about it. 😅😅😅

  • @PeterZandorff
    @PeterZandorff 3 года назад +7

    Forget the test: NOTHING beats LOOKS and especially MONEY when it comes to score women. PERIOD!

    • @eswarsribrahma3122
      @eswarsribrahma3122 3 года назад

      Well yes ,but actually yes.

    • @chatteyj
      @chatteyj 2 года назад +1

      If she wants money ditch her, too much of that type in the world today.

  • @mofo7689
    @mofo7689 2 года назад +9

    everything you entailed was taught to me in the first 4 months of my adult like called USMC Boot Camp. At any time, you were always required to be inspection ready. None of the steps change because you are preparing for a date or uniform inspection. What is taught is how to prepare for an inspection. What is learned is that constant slight upkeep measures will always keep you reasonably prepared. Nothing new learned here. my haircut is always business appropriate, I always keep an extra shirt on standby if something is spilled, and a suit is always hanging up and ready, just shy of a trip to the dry cleaners.

    • @robertwilkinson8421
      @robertwilkinson8421 Год назад

      Bro being that you are Proir Military already Qualifies you as Top 1% of the Male Population here in the USA. Enough said.

  • @BalboaBaggins
    @BalboaBaggins 3 года назад +118

    Never ask girls how to get girls. It's like asking a fish how to catch a fish. Ask the fisherman

    • @ROC4Life96
      @ROC4Life96 3 года назад +5

      But if the fish could talk it could give you very valuable information...

    • @jdee8407
      @jdee8407 3 года назад +2

      What about asking the dolphin? It wants to catch fish to.

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path 3 года назад +9

      @@ROC4Life96 Fishes don't talk and in this case it's a woman with valid points. However, a man who's had tons of success in dating could give you real effective advice rather than a female dating coach. I mean who would you pick a female dating coach or a dude with a successful dating life. My money would be on the latter choice but that's me...

    • @jadoniccryon5898
      @jadoniccryon5898 3 года назад

      Better Bachelor XD

    • @albertgaspar627
      @albertgaspar627 3 года назад +3

      the first question tells you why you don't ask a woman--do you practice hygiene? Gee, why do women rush to sweaty rock stars who are rail skinny like they are on drugs? Women can't tell you what drives them subconsciously, because its...subconscious :) also, women do things when they are drunk and --surprise!--don't remember it.
      but touching a girl? watch a real hot guy--he doesn't HAVE to touch a woman to get her interested. she's already touching him. women don't take charge in interaction? such bullshit! every woman acts on her feelings, they don't ever hold them in--and when a hot guy makes them feel something, they act on it. in fact, most relationships begin with the women sending a signal that SHE is interested, and a smart guy picks up on it...wonders if its real, and then he acts to find out.

  • @teclote
    @teclote 3 года назад +11

    Guys, look. She's already asking you to jump through a bunch of hoops for her. That's what she thinks of you. "You will be given a rating" Jesus. And use makeup, the girls love that.

  • @michaelj.mccall6530
    @michaelj.mccall6530 3 года назад +15

    I think question 15 could be worded better. “Entitlement” implies that we feel like we shouldn’t have to work to earn what we want. A real man should earn what he has and be willing to go after it. Which is what you described. I’m not always the best with words. But maybe someone knows a word that might fit better?

    • @nomical
      @nomical 3 года назад +2

      I agree completely and thought the same. When I heard entitlement I IMMEDIATELY said no. I’m not entitled to happiness, wealth, success. However, I believe I have put in the hard work and effort necessary to achieve that not because the world owed me one but on my own merits.

    • @julianwaugh968
      @julianwaugh968 3 года назад +1

      Entitlement seems rather arrogant, that's not so good.

    • @Chris-jq8tl
      @Chris-jq8tl 3 года назад +2

      I would say being driven is a better word

    • @visaman
      @visaman 3 года назад

      People who say that you are selfish for being entitled are trying to "Gaslight" you. In other words, they are trying to build themselves up, by pulling you down.

    • @visaman
      @visaman 3 года назад

      @@nomical How sad that you think that. Everyone is entitled to those things that you mentioned. It sounds like someone Gaslighted you into thinking that you are not worthy of happiness. I humbly suggest that you watch some Mister Rogers Neighborhood videos on RUclips.

  • @nathanbeales8900
    @nathanbeales8900 3 года назад +11

    What right does this woman have to define and set the standard?

    • @gracedlm
      @gracedlm 2 года назад

      you look... j like the type of person to ask that question haha yikes

    • @nathanbeales8900
      @nathanbeales8900 2 года назад

      @@gracedlm would a fish take advice from a fisherman sweetheart no and while you're trying to insult me based on my looks at least I'm not hiding behind them because I'm afraid of what people will think of me 😂

    • @gracedlm
      @gracedlm 2 года назад

      @@nathanbeales8900 dont you dare call me sweet heart lol no 1 I'm not your sweet heart and no 2 I'm a minor additionally id rather not show my face and be attractive than show my face and look like an incel you are the embodiment of one even if you arent one... you managed to pull the look off so well... and honestly at the end of the day I'm not the one watching youtube videos on how to be attractive to women lol 🙂if I'm attracted to someone i voice it or let them get me first but never will i stoop as low as you lol.

    • @iceonthesun8880
      @iceonthesun8880 2 года назад

      @@gracedlm chill out, sweetfart

  • @thehunter2047
    @thehunter2047 3 года назад +5

    the calm under pressure is something i have to work on

  • @Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania
    @Don-Coyote-De-Transylvania 3 года назад +6

    From stone age until modern era it was easier to date women. Now it is more and more complicated and demanding. Men should bring more and more on the table while women presence is just enough. And i stop here without even mentioning how 50% of marriages end in divorce and how divorce is bias against men.

  • @larrywood3833
    @larrywood3833 3 года назад +24

    Shes a real good con artist. Uses a 20 question list to get to the sales pitch. Guys this is why you never. Never take advice from girls never !

  • @xHiNoTorix
    @xHiNoTorix 3 года назад +6

    I agree with a lot of her points but some are straight up cap.
    1. Humor does not play a role if you handsome and rich enough.
    2. Women DO care if you're rich or not. In fact, it's their first priority.
    3. Passion in a hobby plays no role. It is important which hobby you have.
    4. Honesty plays no role in dating. She said that she never met a woman who SAYS otherwise, which is true, but what women SAY or DO is completely different.

  • @Ben-ww5eq
    @Ben-ww5eq 4 месяца назад +1

    Easy test, 16. I’ve been told that I’m that. But I don’t see it. At all. When I talk to girls a lot of them definitely want to have conversations with me. They smile or smile back at me too. Im able to be confident but I need to work on my chemistry. Im playful and I can keep the conversation going but UGHHHH I need to get much better at the escalation. In person. Over text it’s so easy but in person is what I’ve been trying to figure out and after trying I realized ima need some help. So now I’m here

  • @cnn787-i9e
    @cnn787-i9e 2 года назад +1

    I have 17 YES, and 5 SOMETIMES and 1 NO. It meant that I can do it but it depends on the person that I like or not. I'm not touching every women that I'm talking to. Right now I'm dating and sleeping with lots of women and some even wants to get married and they're from 19 to 30. I was very shy when I was younger and did not have any girlfriend in school. Life is weird, go figure it out.

  • @Solcollector1
    @Solcollector1 3 года назад +15

    Gonna give this video an honest critique (cuz I literally have nothing do to at 4am LOL)
    Many of the points can be boiled down to 2 essential things: Appeasement to social Status, and Monetary Accessibility. Quite a few points are bit pop-psych heavy in category (namely the sense of humor, as that in of itself is subjective. One persons humor is another persons 'offense').
    The thing about money: that's an outright lie. Money matters, but that's an ugly truth that most 'dating couches' will avoid.

  • @ultimatum.
    @ultimatum. 2 года назад +6

    Marni, you just called me 'hella sexy' (17/23). I wish I got that more often in daily life lmaooo
    Awesome video, articulate nature. Subscribed.

    • @adamfistler465
      @adamfistler465 Год назад +1

      People who tend to be more attractive less often get compliments on being attractive because others assume they already know. I'm a total sun sign Libra so tell me I'm beautiful that always works.

  • @MisterMonsterMan
    @MisterMonsterMan 3 года назад +17

    Guys, you dont want to be attractive to this type of "woman". Let these types get the cats they are destined to be with.

  • @MisterLon84
    @MisterLon84 2 года назад +30

    Wow. Question 15 really hit me.
    When Marni talks about social conditioning making men feel we don’t deserve good things
    maybe it’s because we somehow, at least personally, equate “provider” with “martyr”: sacrifice everything for others to the extreme. (If you’re not a bum, of course.) Or because now “privilege” is jammed down our throats to the point of despairing. (“You have so much good in your life stop complaining” -self dialogue
    Marni, it is quite healing to hear a woman so compassionately and lovingly encourage men. Thank you!

    • @ga8065
      @ga8065 Год назад +3

      That one got me as BS. This sense of entitlement has gotten way past ugly, especially with women. Nobody owes anybody a thing. You earn respect and whatever else you want out of life. And most so called Alpha's are loud mouth AH's that dominate the conversion on the verge of Narcissistic AH's. I see Marni has left out one trait and one very important one. Alpha's make the rules and try and force their stuff on people, Beta's follow the rules without questioning......Then you have the Sigma's. They do whatever it takes to accomplish whatever. They aren't afraid to have and get others to help accomplish a goal. They're the leader that leads without the boasting BS the Alpha's put out. They don't go with the so called social norms, they treat everybody equally, they don't really care what other people think about them. A short description of them would be Walk quietly and carry a Big stick.

    • @bmac9886
      @bmac9886 Год назад

      @@ga8065 Completely agree

    • @Petros1974
      @Petros1974 Год назад

      @@ga8065 With all respect, you just didn't quite understand what Marni says. Or, you just interpreted it through your own lens & experience, which is acceptable of course.

    • @HomeStudioBasics
      @HomeStudioBasics Год назад +1

      @@GT350Doc Yes, I just think she titled the question horribly wrong but I know what she meant. In fact, I actually reworded it to say "deserve" in my notes. Entitlement is feeling like the world, or whoever owes you something. No one owes you shit. And this is what's wrong with our current society and why people are so damn lazy and stuck on the hamster wheel.
      I like what GA said about Sigma males because I'd consider myself one. I don't say that to brag, but only to make the point that Sigmas generally go out and get the things they want regardless of what people think (family, friends, whoever). For myself, it would be deciding in 2014 at 27-28 that I was tired of working for people who didn't give a shit about me. I was going to do everything in my power to have my own business one day as I've always hated societal bullshit. And it was one of the best decisions of my life even though I got so much pushback. And very few people I knew in the past even know because I don't care to be boastful about it. It was something deep-rooted inside. And I always try to encourage others to do the same because when you die, no one's going to care that you had a cushy cubicle desk job that you actually secretly hate.
      Now, on the other hand, feeling like you don't "deserve" something is entirely different, and I still battle it daily. This to me comes from a sense of shame about your past, or some insecurities you still may have.
      I remember talking with my brother-in-law who once told me that after his previous marriage fell apart and before he met my sister, he was in this dark place where he didn't feel like he deserved happiness, and true love, and an amazing partner even though he's a fantastic guy. And that's a real problem that a lot of guys struggle with. It's self-sabotage in every sense of the word. As OP alluded to, it's such an incredibly deep thing and I think many guys gloss over. This can manifest in so many other ways as well: fitness, business, etc.

    • @eiffno.01
      @eiffno.01 Год назад

      ​​@@Petros1974I do believe we understood and I think we all know how to read between the lines and that is you can't truly be your own man since the woman in society are programmed to believe all the b.s.( whether somewhat factual, true or not but mainly pertaining to beliefs, biases, perception of a specific group political/ power majority) that Marni spit out. Nothing against you Marni, you can't help it you've been programmed to expect all us men to fall in line and follow suit, if we want to be successful or viewed as potential you must be socially gregarious, smile, be animated and all the other bs spewed is not the de facto secret social dating formula to successful life. It is what the programned women, daughters and mothers might be pushing,( like that, "be entitled" bc women love that ) more likely reason that an entitled man believes that he deserves, and he above the next man. And entitled men take, get and will have certain things, (attain certain assets)that elevates status and thus effecting lifestyle these equalling potential social influence.
      All for make us bow down, get in line and follow suit if we want female companionship. Woman may be programmed but try aint stupid. All I heard is if you men want our sex you must have these attributes and smile and be boisterous and loud and funny and athletic and good listener overlook everything else and let us have our fun. Score less than 5 then you suck and guess who benefits from all this and gets to sit back and enjoy while sipping favorite cocktail beverage. ( Insert any hi GH end lifestyle venue here) I'm tired of talking or else........ So yeah of course modern woman spout this. Trying to program the men. And you jumped on the train. I don't pass most of test questions I think. I'm not sure. But there is a reasons why.i wish life was simpler. Sigma out

  • @placebogazebo9671
    @placebogazebo9671 3 года назад +2

    If you are standing next to a woman or sitting next to her, sometimes shoulders will touch (for many reasons). It starts a communication. You can tell right away if she's comfortable with you if she keeps touching you after it happens. That's all I've ever done but it tells you all you need to know about escalating.

  • @mbizzle4952
    @mbizzle4952 3 года назад +5

    problems with asking the fish on how to catch a fish
    1. women have to be vauge as possible because they don't know what they want and their are to many types of women to bother figuring out. examples- style is subjective so you won't really know whats attractive to women. hears a catch-all: just look like you have money. she won't say that because it's a bad look for women.
    2. she's probably gonna leave out the hight thing because again bad look on women. unlike fitness you really can't change that.
    3. her hobby scenario is trash. coin collecting was so basic and boring that it was like she was trying to give you a free point. if your hobby isn't exciting or has money potential a girl can see then you might as well tell her you waste time and money.
    3. avoid strong successful women. her expectations will be ridiculous and if she has a job where she exerts authority, she may display masculine traits and possibly run you right out of the relationship. you better make more money than her cause girls will flex on you soon as an issue pops up. women usually don't "date down" unless for hookups or have a controlling nature.
    4. the fact that women put you through "shit tests" should already show how bizarre women are. be sure to have your own shit test for women. guys give females to many passes. a girl who fails "your" tests may want to prove something to you and you maybe able to switch the "chase" around.
    5. today's world don't allow men to "express " yourself freely. toxic masculinity is a thing to women. usually only applies to men who they don't find attractive off rip. the reason why women don't get men or our struggles is because men aren't allowed to really express themselves.
    6. initiate touch..... yeah. only works when you know for sure she's into you. usually only know if a girl initiates touch. this girl won't teach you how to initiate touch cause she knows all women are too complex. fuck around and initiate touch if you want but if the world hasn't already told you your a top 20% guy, you gonna find yourself in jail. this also applies to any flirting
    7. final point. woman very rarely date outside their comfort zone. most of these tips will be negated if you fail 1 or 2 of these off rip. don't be too short, bald, make average money because most women like the opposite. girls have this issue where they want to get a point across without making themselves look shitty. this will come off as disingenuous. so ask yourself, would you listen to a disingenuous fish on how to catch fish or should you go to the fisherman who is gonna tell you the fuckery that comes with fishing? also men will be direct, less ambiguous and won't leave you with riddles. thing is women have got a laundry list of things. most want all the things on the list and won't give you any time to display any of these "tips" anyway. the world moves to fast now. you'll have to wait till she's single, older ,maybe a few kids for her to really see your values as the average guy cause let's face it, most guys are average and for most of these tips to work you already gotta be working with something.

  • @ShreeM5
    @ShreeM5 3 года назад +31

    Honestly I scored 20 on your test but still I am single from a long time 😂😂

    • @justinmacarrhur1924
      @justinmacarrhur1924 3 года назад +4

      So what did you fail at ...honesty? Ha ha

    • @gsg6667
      @gsg6667 3 года назад +3

      haha thats why you need to learn to flirt by buying marnis f formula eh :p but yeah man all these are relevant , odds are you are attracting chicks but fail to steer the interaction , another big thing is personal style, keep in mind different places have different trends so if you travel you have to learn to donas the romans do and carry yourself with pride. chicks will see you before you even notice theyre there . if you wanna get that eye contact which you can follow up , you needa look the part first 😉

    • @gsg6667
      @gsg6667 3 года назад +7

      also you say youre single like its a disease . need to be happy with yourself alone before you can be happy with another person. its a mindset change but if you dedicate your time to working on yourself and your goals instead of chasing chicks , they start to chase you

    • @Lonstermash
      @Lonstermash 3 года назад +2

      I scored 21 (maybe 22) and am in the same boat.

    • @seanmathews1826
      @seanmathews1826 3 года назад +6

      Well you just just learned a very important lesson.
      Never take relationship advice from a woman.

  • @showmemojo4784
    @showmemojo4784 3 года назад +5

    I'm thinking this girl and me grew up in two way different neighborhoods

  • @erlendtre4437
    @erlendtre4437 3 года назад

    I answered yes to every question. Now, the final question, which you forgot to ask is do I have time for a woman? And the answer is no. That’s why I can say yes to everyone.

  • @MartysWhiteSuit
    @MartysWhiteSuit 3 года назад +5

    Years ago, I worked with a guy who looked like George Michael's twin brother. No joke. He picked up women all the time. I had seen him pick up three in a day - And I don't think that was a particularly good day. I would say the same things to women he did. But, while he was a "cute guy", I was a "Perv". The reason for this was the looks, like photogenic looks. You've not mentioned how women are hard-wired to look for symmetry, particularly in faces. If you don't fit the mould, you're out. They only think of you as the guy who takes out the trash.

    • @guskneuss6995
      @guskneuss6995 2 года назад

      We can not all be Elvis Presley ...like 1% population born with the gift of beauty.
      99% rest of us = other destiny.

    • @thomashyland3399
      @thomashyland3399 2 года назад

      Good looks do matter. Ditto for money. But money is a proxy for ability, competence, etc.

    • @thomashyland3399
      @thomashyland3399 2 года назад

      Also, she's quite cute herself.

  • @user-bu6oy4ds3g
    @user-bu6oy4ds3g 3 года назад +6

    Dating is a pay-to-win game

  • @frederiktappe1734
    @frederiktappe1734 3 года назад +17

    We men have to do everything 😂😂lead the conversation from the beginning to the end, be purposeful like superman and funny at the same time, sitting straight, being sexy and cool... but what do women have to do?

    • @brettmoyle1195
      @brettmoyle1195 2 года назад

      Nothing they hav a fanny

    • @jakdrpr2106
      @jakdrpr2106 2 года назад +3

      Just lay there😂

    • @ez-g3090
      @ez-g3090 2 года назад +1

      Take our money and time. They want providers not lovers.

    • @ez-g3090
      @ez-g3090 2 года назад

      @@jakdrpr2106 and complain.

    • @bruceperkins2921
      @bruceperkins2921 2 года назад +3

      Present you a used, beat up v. After you've jumped through the hoops, passed the chit tests, and have her girlfriends approval.

  • @kevinscott59
    @kevinscott59 3 года назад +9

    90 percent of these questions have absolutely nothing to do with the question of whether women find men sexually attractive or not.
    Precisely because most of these questions assume the man already has a working relationship with the women that would find him attractive.(Which necessarily eliminates most women for all men.)
    99.9 percent of the women you meet on the street will never know if you have talent,ambition,ethics,a great sense of humor or even a steady job.
    Hence the reason most sexual attraction is purely physical,whether we want to admit it or not.

    • @eldisjokei2videosrecuperad671
      @eldisjokei2videosrecuperad671 3 года назад +3

      I got a 17 but great observation!

    • @kevinscott59
      @kevinscott59 3 года назад +2

      @@eldisjokei2videosrecuperad671
      Well done,my friend.👍

    • @jasonbottle4033
      @jasonbottle4033 3 года назад +3

      if you delusionally expect women to approach you, you are less far from the truth, but even then, despite not ever opening your mouth, many of these points are on the list precisely BECAUSE they are communicated non-verbally by how you carry yourself, move, and interact with the world around you every moment and independent of gender or attractiveness of anyone that observes you...
      ...start a conversation and you additionally open a window where you can communicate anything you want so she is no longer restricted to what she can observe...
      ...in the hope that makes sense...

    • @kevinscott59
      @kevinscott59 3 года назад +2

      @@jasonbottle4033
      1.)You don't know anything about me or the degree to which women are either charmed or repulsed by me.
      2.)I agree - sexually repressed women will never approach men even if they're attracted to them.On the other hand sexually selective women will readily approach or interact with that smaller percentage of men that society deems "high value."
      3.)You and Marnie both seem to be confusing first impressions for actually getting to know someone.
      Indeed this test would've been outstanding had it been simplified to those categories you talk about:looks/grooming,physique,hygiene,communication skills,demeanor,posture etc.
      In other words those attributes that contribute to a first impression.(You can't demonstrate problem-solving skills,talents,moral character or even real intellectual depth in most fleeting encounters.)
      And yet with all this said even at its most reliable I find the test problematic:from my personal experience there's always been a major chasm between what most women claim they find attractive and what most actually find attractive in practice.

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 3 года назад

      Truth. My much taller friend in the same profession, age and BMI gets zillions of ladies approaching him. When I'm with him, I see all the attention he gets that I never see myself or with most other men I know. Most of his relationships fail quickly and he doesn't have many of these quiz points. Peace.

  • @dcaff330ify
    @dcaff330ify 3 года назад +1

    While I think these types of videos are indeed useful, I really don't think it takes any special gifts or dispositions for a guy to get a girl. It just takes a willing partner.

  • @davidkodama5218
    @davidkodama5218 8 дней назад

    I'm 45, broke, no job, dropped out of school in 8th grade, and live with my mom. Does that lesson my chances of getting a date?

  • @timpoole2933
    @timpoole2933 3 года назад +3

    I had a yes for every question , and haven't dated for two years. Marni your the woman I'm looking for!

  • @BboyTurok1990
    @BboyTurok1990 3 года назад +13

    I got an 18. My problems are income which I'm working on. Flirting is a hit or miss. I have to start doing my grooming and hygiene often. Social life I have to go back again which means meet new people and find people who have the same interests/hobbies as I do. I dress up here and there whenever I go to the mall mostly in shorts.

    • @UdoLattek02
      @UdoLattek02 3 года назад +3

      You are 18. Income is not your problem

    • @yourvision4986
      @yourvision4986 3 года назад +3

      You're still a young Rockstar keep working on it and you will get there. Mastery takes 10,000 hours to mastery so enjoy the process.

    • @MP-vf8qz
      @MP-vf8qz 3 года назад +2

      Shorts isn't dressing up. At least jeans or really comfortable pants.

    • @BboyTurok1990
      @BboyTurok1990 3 года назад

      @@MP-vf8qz That's why I'm gonna wear pants often with buttoned shirts.

    • @BboyTurok1990
      @BboyTurok1990 3 года назад

      @@UdoLattek02 Hey I want to reach max sexiness and money can help.

  • @MrPeterthebest
    @MrPeterthebest 3 года назад +4

    imagine a dude asking a girl if she has a source of income

  • @bobjones2460
    @bobjones2460 3 года назад +2

    Question, how would a woman know if you have an active social life if, say, you were at the grocery store shopping?

  • @metalmikerich7937
    @metalmikerich7937 20 дней назад

    22/23. Honestly, it’s only because I’ve sucked at “not chasing” during high stress situations in the past. Sorry, I’m a fixer, it’s what I do. I’m getting better at it.

  • @Philmunda139
    @Philmunda139 3 года назад +3

    Ok, some valid points ticked most, now, what do I get ?
    Now answer my 30 questions ... to see if you wahmen are worthy of me.

  • @paulmorinart
    @paulmorinart 3 года назад +4

    "Women love men with toiletry bags". So this is where I've been going wrong.

  • @DrTechMedRevolution
    @DrTechMedRevolution Год назад +4

    Literally just had a great conversation with a woman using your tactics, definitely works you're amazing Marni 💛

  • @randolphsloan2263
    @randolphsloan2263 2 года назад

    Thanks Marni... I scored 23!!!... I am average looking.. But women tell me ... "You are one of the most amazing men I have ever met..."!. I have been saying what you recommend.

  • @ringspecies
    @ringspecies 3 года назад +1

    What parallel universe was this made in? Did I accidentally fall into the Berenstain universe?
    If I am not handsome and tall, nothing I do and say would matter, as I am not even given the chance to do or say it in the first place. Marni, you really need to check on women's general standards in 2021, you would be surprised how bad it has gotten.

  • @matthewmielke7161
    @matthewmielke7161 3 года назад +29

    I actually thought this test was about "are you sexually attracted to women?" And I was SO confused because I was wondering why you would need a test to figure that out. This actually makes a WHOLE lot more sense. Lol.

    • @andrewhanson1668
      @andrewhanson1668 3 года назад

      That is also what I read 😂

    • @UltimateKeyboardWarrior
      @UltimateKeyboardWarrior 3 года назад +6

      Yeah, I've always thought I was gay until I took this test. Now I know I'm gay af

    • @LaLaTheRockstar
      @LaLaTheRockstar 3 года назад

      You don't need to change. Just be yourself. If a girl needs to come, she will come. If she needs to stay, she will stay. There were no divorce before this dating shits... Men were ok and women would stay. Now a days, even if you become President, your woman won't be happy.

    • @UltimateKeyboardWarrior
      @UltimateKeyboardWarrior 3 года назад

      @@LaLaTheRockstar you leave joe biden out of this

    • @KennethStevenson3
      @KennethStevenson3 2 года назад

      Hahahaha!

  • @talesfromthetom6275
    @talesfromthetom6275 3 года назад +33

    That part about socializing struck a cord with me. That hurts, some men dont have anyone to socialize with quite literally and do try socializing regularly. It's hard, especially when your alone. Can't buy friends or force friends....just saying but thx for helpful video

    • @RS-xo7rd
      @RS-xo7rd 3 года назад +7

      Absolutely agree with you. I'm an older bloke, but am screwed meeting women as my two oldest friends are not interested in women, and standing in a pub on your own is no-no. Women always hunt in packs for good reasons, so a lone bloke is just a weirdo and shafted from the start.

    • @guskneuss6995
      @guskneuss6995 2 года назад +2

      Farmers who live in the middle of nowhere...well this says it all.

    • @guskneuss6995
      @guskneuss6995 2 года назад +1

      Once you're over 60 years old.. .....you're done= weather a man or a woman.
      Life.

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 2 года назад

      Im socialize

    • @Nick64266
      @Nick64266 2 года назад

      I also know how hard this is. I mean, I have a few friends and I guess I’m pretty social. But I’m not clubbing every Friday night

  • @JayBlackthorne
    @JayBlackthorne 3 года назад +4

    I got 16 out of 23, which gives me a score of (believe it or not)... 16 / 23 = ~69%.
    Fuck yeah.

  • @theejamesbennett
    @theejamesbennett 3 года назад +2

    I'm married and not looking to get back in the single game, but it's good to brush up even when you're in a relationship. I got 16-7, pretty good, but I still need to improve. Won't be satisfied till I'm 23-0!

  • @pastortimmothy
    @pastortimmothy 2 года назад

    Im a pastor and Ive been out the game for a while. Thank you for the refresher! Continue doing "Gods" work! (smile)

  • @bikermike
    @bikermike 3 года назад +13

    I guess there's always room from improvement! lol

    • @batdude811
      @batdude811 3 года назад

      Does that mean you know what you need to improve?

    • @batdude811
      @batdude811 3 года назад

      @@appellemoipaul3596 You can create the illusion of being taller by your posture, the clothes you wear and losing belly and other body fat by working out. Unfortunately your height is your height and their are other ways to satisfy a woman besides being tall.

  • @WAZZA1235
    @WAZZA1235 3 года назад +6

    Physical contact? Better not use that in the office though, big brother HR will ask you to visit them...

    • @JohnSmith-pp9ot
      @JohnSmith-pp9ot 3 года назад +1

      John, HR would like to talk to you and would like you to bring your key card.

  • @maxnutty9733
    @maxnutty9733 3 года назад +4

    Men need to feel entitled to good things? Um...how about if you want it, you work hard for it...nobody is entitled to anything unless they work for it. Maybe that is not what she meant, but it is what is sounded like to me.

    • @alexandrubogdan2711
      @alexandrubogdan2711 3 года назад +1

      She is just projecting her narcissistic way of thinking onto men, then bitch about it when she finds out that Chad is more narcissistic then her.

    • @thetempleunfinished
      @thetempleunfinished 3 года назад +1

      Seriously! I thought the same thing. Thats what has gotten people in my country (US) the trouble its in. Feeling entitled instead of actually DOING the things necessary to EARN those entitlements.

  • @sting1111
    @sting1111 Год назад

    i have been using the Hanley products for a month and they are fantastic. got 17 score but lack charisma, smiling etc. this is a very revealing test. thank you marnie!

  • @sutats
    @sutats Год назад

    I know. They look at me with deepest disdain.

  • @THOMMGB
    @THOMMGB 3 года назад +5

    Pretty good test. I do wish there was some middle ground between yes and no, like maybe, sort of sometimes.

    • @MrOgynist
      @MrOgynist 3 года назад

      I made my maybes. It inflated my score a bit, but doing so makes you think about yourself.

  • @8House
    @8House 3 года назад +3

    You're very likeable but totally out of touch with the current toxic state of affairs. Speaking of "touch" making physical contact with a woman you just met can bring you serious trouble. Even if it's just a friendly gesture. At work you can lose your job and face criminal prosecution. As far as having boundaries that fails with today's woke young women. You'll be called all sorts of names. Marni the dynamic between men and women is broken.

  • @scottjohnson9225
    @scottjohnson9225 3 года назад +17

    It all depends on the woman. All women are different. Some like body builders, some like skinny but fit. Some like long hair or short. Some like black, white, asian, or tan, or maybe any. Some like white collar vs blue collar. Some like older or younger or any age. Some like 6 inches others 8 inches. In my 42 years of playing around, coast to coast, border to border, and nine foreign countries, I have found some women very, very specific, while others did not seem to care at all. I consider myself a “5” and I never had any problems finding “some” when I decided I wanted “some”. Peace and good will be to all women.

    • @Lonstermash
      @Lonstermash 3 года назад

      @SEAL CYCLE agreed

    • @Lonstermash
      @Lonstermash 3 года назад +2

      That's awesome, but how attractive are the women with whom you can generally "get some?" Because if I lower my looks standards a lot, I can easily "get some" on a regular basis, too. But I generally want to be with women I'm very attracted to. I'm not talking 10s, necessarily, either, but just someone who would catch my eye from across the room

    • @gorann
      @gorann 3 года назад +3

      @SEAL CYCLE I agree. This video is more like Marni's self-perception of ideal male influenced by Hollywood standards.

    • @ShamblesMD
      @ShamblesMD 3 года назад +1

      Indeed. I just recently realized that I friend-zoned a girl I knew years ago. The was because there's no way a certified "7" on a bad day with an hour glass figure would ever seriously be interested in me. Now looking back I thought my wife was messing with me about being hit on by coworkers and such, but huh...
      Yeah guys, go for it and don't take it out of the realm of possibility that S-class women are just discarding you because (insert flaw)

  • @crankupthechainsaw
    @crankupthechainsaw 3 года назад +1

    Perfect list for every woman who wants to stay single.

  • @stoneddragon5400
    @stoneddragon5400 3 года назад

    Hygiene -yes Dressing - yes Exorcizing - yes I used to have a purpose in life - I don't have a social life - I'm Passionate about METAL - I'm Too honest sometimes - boundaries - yes, I'm goofy - I'm calm in bad situations - no I'm not entitled to anything, nothing good ever happens to me

    • @stoneddragon5400
      @stoneddragon5400 3 года назад

      I am very passionate in how I feel about things

    • @stoneddragon5400
      @stoneddragon5400 3 года назад

      I laugh all the time but everyone still assumes that I'm pissed off all the time this is because I'm sick and i just feel like death most of the time

    • @stoneddragon5400
      @stoneddragon5400 3 года назад

      I don't touch anyone, i try to keep my hands to myself at all times until it's time to part ways then I'll shake hands or hug depending on the person.

    • @stoneddragon5400
      @stoneddragon5400 3 года назад

      I'm okay with eye contact

    • @stoneddragon5400
      @stoneddragon5400 3 года назад

      I am a good listener, that's what i find myself doing most of the time anyway

  • @posest
    @posest 3 года назад +10

    Being completely honest, I got 20+ (this was also verified by friends). However, being a 5'4" asian guy, this score was completely irrelevant. I have NEVER been called sexy by a woman in my life.

    • @littlebad3441
      @littlebad3441 3 года назад

      deep belief that you are a 20+ is better than seeking validation from an emotionally unstable chick

    • @b.r.2562
      @b.r.2562 3 года назад +2

      And you probably never will. Because humans have compassion and empathy, which is what sets us apart from animals. We have sought to balance the playing field by choosing to admire traits and console others who are less physically attractive by claiming that these things matter. Capitalism is also what drives Marnie to utilize human compassion, and market these traits to you and others.
      I am sorry but it is the way it is. Just because you are not sexy to women, doesn't mean you cannot obtain a great woman though.

    • @iceonthesun8880
      @iceonthesun8880 2 года назад +1

      Dude, don't feel bad. I'm 6'2 and white....only women to ever compliment my looks were ALL middle-aged or senior citizens( not a great confidence booster for a young man)

    • @MbgChat
      @MbgChat Месяц назад

      @@iceonthesun8880same. I’ve only been overtly complimented by middle aged women. One woman, with grey hair, turned around and started following me!

  • @saurabhvaishnav2038
    @saurabhvaishnav2038 3 года назад +18

    Sounds like "how to crack an interview" lol. The only difference is that with interview you know what you are going to get. Keep working on yourselves guys and it also comes with the possibility of ignoring 99%
    Of the women around you as they did nothing to deserve such a behavior.

  • @tomdrummy4984
    @tomdrummy4984 3 года назад +7

    Amazing all the things men need to be, and do, and……..what do the women need to do?
    ………besides exist
    Ps. I’m in the 1%

  • @bobcat24
    @bobcat24 3 года назад +1

    Just got here, and my answer is already a hard *no*

  • @peterpitcard
    @peterpitcard 2 года назад

    Be Yourself after you checked all these 23 questions with yes

  • @paddyjock1972
    @paddyjock1972 2 года назад +3

    I took your test, i scored 13 points; yes there’s some work to be done, taking the no’s & making necessary changes ; taking the yes’s & improving them. It’s time to crack on with self improvement & self development. Many thanks Marni! 😊👍

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 2 года назад

      I haven't taken her test yet

    • @bruceperkins2921
      @bruceperkins2921 2 года назад

      Why? for female validation? I wouldn't give them that power over me.
      Pro tip: self improvement for you! Your worth it regardless what anyone else thinks.

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 2 года назад

      @@bruceperkins2921 bro i do not know

  • @TheSuperNick1134
    @TheSuperNick1134 3 года назад +4

    9:02 I disagree. No one is entitled to anything in life. Everything is earned, especially for men. If he feels entitled to good things in life, he's going to feel entitled to you too.

    • @EfficientRVer
      @EfficientRVer 3 года назад

      I'm with you on that one, and so are 95+% of the women I meet. I answered no, and would be happy to reveal that answer to every woman I meet.
      Her list was worthwhile, though. Even if you and the types of women who interest you disagree with her scoring, just forcing yourself to honestly assess yourself on all the questions is a useful exercise. There were about 4 of them where I know I could be a lot more attractive to dates, but just don't bother. I can even think of specific women I've met where it probably cost me a 2nd or 3rd date. But maybe it didn't, because with really desirable women, they may have just been heading into a 4th date with someone else when we were on our 1st date. Once in a while they will be honest about that when canceling a 2nd or 3rd date because a guy they were farther along with got them into bed, even if they were claiming a long "friends first" preference. Fair is fair, I'm sure there are other guys out there wondering why the women I started relationships with suddenly disappeared from their radar or canceled a date.
      The most interesting case was maybe 8 years ago. First date went well. Second date, she invited me into her house while she took a business phone call, then the date also went well. Third date never happened. She called and said "I've met 3 guys who are all great, I'd have a relationship with any one of them if I'd only met one. You're one of them, I think you're great, but I had to make a decision, and I've decided to give things a try with Victor." I didn't ask if she'd had more or fewer dates with him, it would have been interesting to know, but at that point, it really didn't matter. The point was that you win some, you lose some, even when a woman finds several guys with "equal scores". She was different than most, by choosing between the guys before being seduced. The great majority of the time, especially with an allegedly slow-moving woman, elimination comes when someone moves faster on her and she is seduced.
      As my rebound girlfriend after a 1990s divorce told me after we gracefully went our own ways "If you ever meet the woman you really, really want.... get her into bed as soon as you can." Maybe someday I'll use that advice, but in 27 years, I've never had reason to. By the time I'm sure I want a woman, she is usually totally sure she wants me, too. I've kicked the tires enough times that seduction for its own sake, or to keep my options open, is more of a time waster than a way to keep "the one" from slipping away.

  • @BB-uz4tc
    @BB-uz4tc 3 года назад +7

    Great vid as usual Marni
    I am already handsome but Bitcoin made me gorgeous

    • @lomeygoat
      @lomeygoat 3 года назад +2

      Winning the lotto made me super good looking and attractive to women... especially when I drive around in my Ferrari...

    • @jimmydee935
      @jimmydee935 3 года назад

      Love it! Hahahaha

  • @KeroZimerman
    @KeroZimerman 9 месяцев назад

    Hm - 10 points with strict judgement. The good thing is that most points can be gained by changing habits and social training.