Objection about: Not really revealing your wannabe perceived "sexual market value" but rather it is about orientative assumptions coming from the mind of that female/woman. Women are based on anticipations of potential, some women can betray nastly at anytime if they are very egotistical selfish about their survival and that of their offsprings instead of the proper measure of love and decency within them. Also would be more practical for them to love and contribute because that is the real decent true power because sinning is foolish and degrading but many of them don't care enough if they are sick depraved failed cases sadly, they are both funny, ridiculous and disgusting when the sick vessels are demanding more attention, food and genuine connections while their insides are carrying distinct stinks of sin and bad received DNA, those woke females and males reduce the vitality of the population by their wicked tactics and toxicity pollutants but don't worry and instead isolate them(maybe some choose to repent and heal), if the rotten fruits don't fall by themselves various beings and creatures will destroy them suddenly out of the blue... daba diiie dabbaddie daba diiie dabbaddieeeeeeeee... and after that the real fun party begins with all the nexuses of sin vanishing from these realms, such a peaceful bliss with their deserved absences. Ohhh, they were so vile and lousy, they don't even deserve to be remembered, hahaha! Adios! Autumn is just so refreshing of the past falls that happened so naturally for the unrepetended hypocrites ahaaaaahhhhhaaaah. ^....^
Yeah men hypegamy rewards and helps man to be centered in themselves without any external or low motivations like lust or lack of self control , you must learn to treat them like other humans 😂😂😂😂 instead of your conditioning and instincts.
@@JonThompson-bt8rw You completely miss the points, how is genuine detachment "trouble"? It's the exact opposite. Broader implications here--question everything you've been indoctrinated in.
@@jeansollot6419 how would you or I know how his dates with women go dude?? Lol 😂..........it's not his fault that women are hypergamous, Childish,and quite complex .it's good,that clueless men have the accurate information available to them if they want to know.
@@Fstop313 A man first and foremost must respect himself and be devoted to his own values, boundaries, and purpose. Respect women who prove themselves not unworthy of respect, and devote yourself only to a woman who has first proven she is devoted to you.
@@BostonMike68you don’t. All these rules are a waste of time, it just tells you how to manage her emotions. You can’t micromanage other proples emotiins, that’s insane.
i used to think relationships could be "50/50" or we could have "mutual respect". I was walked all over and treated horribly by woman after woman for the past 20+ years. Try to treat a woman good and you will end up with a rude, disrespectful, lying, holding back sex, nagging, fighting, angry, bitter woman ... who is always trying to make you feel small and insignificant. Young men - LISTEN to what Casey is saying and prevent yourself decades of pain.
This is especially true in the texting game. Before you hit send on a text, rethink it and consider sending the exact opposite of what your initial gut told you. Better yet, don't even reply back to her periodically, at all.
@Onewiththesauce8 It's really not confusing. If you've seen enough red pill manosphere content of how terrible women are, you'll understand a few things (1.) They're often not deserving of mutual respect. (2.) You're the problem. By that, I mean you need to build a better you in every way so that you truly start to believe with unwavering fervor that you are the price. Once you start believing that, your interaction with women becomes how she can fit into your life and if she qualifies to enter into your frame. This #2 is the most difficult part. 3.) The why becomes irrelevant because as Casey says when she truly believes you're better than her she'll spend her efforts trying to fit into your life. Still if you're trying to understand all the whys...that's what manosphere channels are there for to show you women's nature and motivations.
I have lost my faith in being devoted to my girlfriend. It only brings me grief. These videos are a saviour. Even though the can't change the wounds, they help me understand the reason behind everything so that helps.
She should be devoted to you not the other way around. Woman like drama that's why they stay with the guy who beats them but a small slap is enough to correct most behavior but most men are gay as fuk now and are scared of woman 😂
His videos have opened up my eyes in a big way. Wish I knew the true definition of a relationship before I started one. Now that I know what im up against I know how to stay within real expectations with a woman
Bro these movies are definitely what has soften men! When I look at them now I get upset at how I use to be. Keep telling myself it’s just fantasy and written to sell tickets not reality!
Music of the 90s and 2000s, the R'n'b ish was a trap !! Nothing soften me that much : Keith Sweet, LSG, Boyz II Men, Joe, Tyrese, Di Angelo... Guyz ! I never knew that one day I would ever disrespect these writting. The vocalizes where crazy but the messages soften my brain AF !!! Jaheim :"Always put that woman first". SMH 🤯🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Beware, Casey teaches game skills to own younger girls that are not high value keepers. In some videos Casey talks about asking himself "...is she the best I can do". High value women accomplished single women see through game skills. I learn from Casey but I do not apply that knowledge because having #Sex with different partners makes you suffer and confused though life - staying at ease will become very difficult, there will be no joy in your life. You can observe these types of people so don’t go by what Im saying - you will observer these people will giggle all the time but you look at them and there is no joy, there is no ease.
If it's their nature then it is there fault if they don't control it, stop giving women an easy pass and hold them accountable for their actions. Men have to control their nature ( masculinity) otherwise the streets would be filled with chaos, constant battles with each other, society would be in a much worse off state than it is now. Stop being weak in needing women only beta's need women it's pathetic.
Wdy@@iloveamerica4891 wdym having sex with different girls makes us suffer and confused🤔❣️😎 I don't know about that..sir in case u don't know we men are biologically wired to sleep with multiple females.. to spread our seeds ( from thousands of years of biological most men with fewer to no options, usually wanna be in love and all connected to their girl( the simping is for real fellas 😂)
@@iloveamerica4891you are spot on 💯 about high value/high quality women. The women you actually want will not go for a guy who does everything by Casey’s playbook. Some of it is undoubtedly useful information to know, but never use these tactics on a high quality woman who is highly interested in you. As you said a woman like that will see through your games and think you’re immature or unstable/unreliable. You will ruin your chances with a real high quality woman by being inauthentic, incongruent, & using tactics or “tricks”
Bro when you said women are survival creatures and she is not going to reciprocate the mutual care. That just blew my mind. I never looked at it in that way but it make so much sense. Casey you have help me so much!!!!! Thank you brother
Read the book the manipulated man by Esther Vilar. For context, Esther exposed female nature from a women viewpoint and was way more aggressive than Casey. She receives to this day Death Threats to her and her family by women. Book was published in 1971. Makes you think.
Correct. A man can never expect a woman to reciprocate. She just does not have it in her. I spent $500 at a marriage counselor to learn this. Casey just gave it out for free.
I'm 42 yo just getting through a gruesome divorce/breakup and I can affirm that these words are true! I've gave her my best for 17 years and she treated me as I was disposable. If I only knew this earlier me and my kids wouldn't be going thru that amount of Sh*t
Same here bro.. and im about your age and 15 years of marriage with a kid. Missing my daughter . Now im just married to amuch younger woman (age 26) and im gonna change my game..
Bro, trust. This is so far from toxic. He is not wrong, they need to respect, admire, and look up to us as men. It makes total sense. Women want to bend the rules, but will not with a man that they look up to, admire, and respect.
Def agree bro….ive literally had all this same shit play out with the past 2 relationships & now i literally apply whats been said in all these vids - & i have a 43yr old teacher that i met months ago telling me that she actually hates that she likes me so much 😂. i know typing this out it doesn’t do justice to the way things are going, but I am doing the opposite of being the one to try to get her to know how I feel about her/be the one who calls and text her to see her and spend time with her. I am 33 and funny thing is she told me the first encounter upon meeting her that we will never really be in a relationship because I am “too young for her “ but that’s all changing and all I’ve been doing is the opposite of putting in that sort of anxious effort that I used to put in and the results are actually amazing to the point where she is saying things that I literally have said to girls in the recent past relationships. and an example of that is “are you mad at me because I dont like to get out of your car if something is wrong” lol yea..i have always done tooooo much & things changed; they stopped showing interest little by little etc
@@coleycole5344I would argue it's good news because it means you don't have to "try" with women. But to be fair, it took me a while of running into roadblocks with women and watching Casey's videos to come to that mindset
No matter how hard I try to say I’m different I have to agree with your stance on this! Too many years of thinking the opposite way is a hard thing to break, but your videos are reminder to stay disciplined in this mindset because I do see that it works in the women I cared little about and how it’s backfired on the woman I cared most about!
hey guys. listen man. I know putting all this effort to try to understand women and female nature can get depressing after hearing all the facts by Casey Zander. but make sure to not get mad at women, their just like that. We can't change em, but we can definitely extract value from them. Stay Strong, don't be emotional, We all gonna make it
Basically us caring for women and being nice to them from there perspective is men being desperate which is of course unattractive from a woman's perspective. Being indifferent/ outcome independent towards women (abundance mindset) is attractive from a woman perspective.
Do a mixture. ●Be horrible within bounds and memorable but some kindness sometimes. When kind she will remember how horrible things can get. ●..and basically you don't even need to try to be horrible. If you are focused on your goal as #1 priority side effects are that she being maybe 7th in your line of priorities if so high, will be forgotten on some routine events; birthdays, anniversaries etc. ●don't use terms I love you. When she says it to you, you can respond "sometimes". Women are turned off by men who say I love you it seems. ...and technically this doesn't even need to be forced. If you focus on #1 goal chances are you have more love for other stuff.
@@g0d182You pretty much sum it up perfectly. What a world man, I love women now. All I got to do is put God/Myself/ My purpose first and put women 2nd or below my priorities for her to love me. Ngl, that beautiful. Women just want men to put themselves first and they will love us.
Exactly 💯. This is total opposite of men mindset. As a living proof, I get it now because when I was nice and caring, I was treated like crap. Being indifferent and careless, I feel the positive treatment because she is trying to win me back.
I am a 54 year old high performing man, i.e., had more than my fair share of hot women and made money in a high end career. I was naturally inclined to the red pill, but had the blue pill indoctrination forced on me and it worked to some degree to obfuscate reality and breed confusion within. That notwithstanding, I have experienced enough to verify what Casey is saying here and in his other videos. I am genuinely impressed with this young man and his ability to have put this all together so early in his life.
That’s like saying if you’re swimming in the ocean and get wet, go swim in another part of the ocean. Woman and games are the ocean. Either adapt to getting wet or stay on land.
Everything he’s saying in this video is 100% correct. I look back at all my failed attempts with women and he literally is hitting the nail on the head. Thank you for waking me up and making me a better man.
Talked tp a guy who I went to high school with. This is how he deals with women issues. He has his main girl who he spends most of his time with. He doesn't share everything with her and stays a little stoic. She's happy because she's got most of his time but wishes he'd communicate more and open up. Then he has a mistress. He shares his feelings with her and can let down. He's even cried and shes all too happy to comfort himr.. she doesn't get nearly as much time as she'd like but she feels special because he opens up to her. He says it sucks to live that way but he has human needs amd just can't risk upsetting the cart with his main girl-- but doesn't really want to fhitch up to the more edgy girl. Both of which he feels he'd lose if he was everything to either of them. I guess it works for him.
Man, I am just shocked again and again. Been reading about these things in the last 3 years, but the way you explain is top notch. Thing is, now it all makes sense. Whenever I acted indifferent, and completely ignored women who wanted me, and did not care, they wanted me even more. It was getting to the point of - f off leave me alone, and they were still eager to see me. But the moment I was showing genuine interest towards other women I really liked - interest / attraction was just dissapearing in thin air. No matter how good you look, dress, it's just their inner compass. I believe the best way is to treat even the most attractive women like they're nothing to you and as if it won't make a difference in your life if you have them or not.
Absolute truth, I had a girl reach out to me, she was chasing me because I really didn't care. The moment I started inviting her and reaching out, tried to understand her, she turned 180 degrees and all the interest from her vanished. And btw she doesnt look nearly as good as me, I am cool, confident, got my shit together. She doesnt even cared about that. I even tried to fix things and no surprise that just made things worse. I am actually curious, now I dont give a crap about her she will be back in a few years, but honestly she never deserved me.
Being butthurt about female nature is like being upset that a siberian tiger would absolutely crush your skull and eat your flesh to the bone.... its just nature. Nature gave men the physical/logical strength to be productive in the world while it gave women the emotional/psychological intelligence to compensate for that gap. Just like you learn how to respect a tigers instinct, you just accept female nature and work with it. Luckily, unlike a tiger, we can still be close to women after understanding them more.. a tiger you can only admire from afar.. either way, your own ignorance is the only thing that will hurt you.
This guy really opened my eyes to what my issues have been all these years. But to be honest this all just seems like more added stress in my life and something not pleasuring to engage in at all and im sure it would show. Im thinking this is a game im not ment to play. I like peace and order in my life screw all that.
@@sarahfranco6802 jezebel spirited women (feminists) would disagree. Go read ephesians 5:29 look at the word NOURISH g1625. Only used one other time in ephesians 6:4. TRAIN UP. A husbands job is to take a woman from her father and continue fathering her unto completion. A man leaves his father/mother (authority). The woman never leaves her authority, it just transfers from father and mother to her husband. I can do this all day. Adam named his wife, named her gender, named creation....man has authority over his wife and children. He is a KING, a ruler in his house.
@@keepingtorah9832 look at Ephesians 5:25 and read again. "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church. He even agreed to die on its behalf." And the example of Christ is this one "Even the Son of Man came to earth TO BE A SERVANT TO OTHER PEOPLE. He did not come here to have servants who must work for him. No, he came to die so that many people can be free." (Mark 10:45)
I don't usually comment on videos, but after watching dozens of them on this channel, I have to say that I've never seen a guy break down the subject in such a logical and understandable way. The behavioral models he proposes fit my experience in all forms almost 100%. This is shocking and I sit in front of the screen with my mouth open and can't believe that I wasn't able to see this and kept making the same mistakes over and over. In my opinion, the points he mentions are relevant to all women, but the problems may not manifest the same way depending on the initial discrepancy in SMV. You could be an 8 and she could be a 4. Here you can make mistake after mistake and still end up at the same perceived level as her, which keeps the interaction/relationship stable. This doesn't work with women at your SMV level or above. With these women, the points Casey mentioned come into play like nothing else, and in addition, with those very women, you also behave as you shouldn't and signal an SMV that is much lower than the actual objective one. Listen to this man, he knows what he is talking about!
It’s 630am and my gf is acting like a brat. I left the bedroom on the couch pulled up RUclips and this video came in clutch. The insight in this video hit it on the fuckin head. Ty! Liked commented and subbed🤙🙏
Youre a good man, Casey. Im getting my masculine mojo back thanks to your videos. Its been 2 weeks since i started taking your advise and my phone is starting to blow up again. Unreal ty
Casey is right I'm currently in a situationship and it has been 7 months in it and the girl started to pull back, withholding sex and being manipulative but since i know the game i kicked her to the curb now she came back and apologized. But after all that i learned that i was almost booty whipped cause i was starting to let her bs slide multiple of times. And thank you Casey for teaching us this game of women
I’ve taken in a lot of these videos and it almost seems like the only conclusion I can reach on how to make a girl like you and how to make them stay is “stay away, keep distance, don’t pursue, barely do anything regarding her barely give her any attention don’t make an effort to see her don’t make her feel wrapped in love when you’re together or when she’s away, don’t give her any validation ever, constantly keep her on her toes, hold back love, and hope, really really hope, that she likes you.” It’s like bro is this seriously all there is to dating? Being a fucking wall of uncertainty, lack-of-neediness, and never making an effort? Like, I just genuinely don’t understand how the fuck I’m supposed to navigate a relationship with a girl if what I have to do is NOT give mutual respect, NOT make efforts to see her and clear up my time, NOT telling her I think she’s beautiful or charming or kind… I just don’t understand it’s almost like the advice is “be a distant dick and treat them like less and hope they like you” like I genuinely don’t understand, I wish Casey would reply to this but ain’t no way in hell. I just really don’t understand what the point of it is if you need to resist everything in your nature to get these girls..
There is a better way, be yourself - authenticity beats masculinity any day , have fun, and love them unconditionally, do not expect anything in return, it’s not that hard actually
Casey's tutorials are how to deal with a narcissistic woman... Normal women don't like such behave, but there is no normal women nowadays... Its fckd up world we live in...
No its not normal. I suggest you check out dan bacon, he strikes the perfekt balance between hardcore redpill guys like corey and the other side of it.
Please do a video on balancing stoicism, being "funny" or using humor, and how much of your personality that should come out in an interaction with a woman in order to maintain attraction.
I still feel like this is going too far the other direction, from my experience it needs to be a little bit of both, if you lean too hard into this it will turn them off too
I literally came on Casey channel one month ago to try to cure my one year relationship, indeed my girlfriend was displaying all signs of toxicity (disrespect, non cooperative, withdraw sex, always on her phone). Through the journey I learnt so much about women’s behavior and especially how I was supposed to behave, on my end (yes did screw up up - but new information new reaction) which mean not being insecure, nor weak for her and not wanting sex. We did break up two weeks ago. And the more I look back on this relationship combine with Casey’s advice, I now understand that the sweet spot (if not the only) is being the « side dude ». Being focus on my goals, being selfish to achieve my mission and having two / three girls around that are part of my journey without me being committed and not seeing them more than once a week. Never thought I would change that much (always been in couple), however I do think now this is the only way to go.
@@proudindian9140 women should work on fixing the relationship. As a man if you push to fix the relationship she runs away because your are revealing your SMV. She was promiscuous, therefore we argue a lot. But I ended up leaving, too much was too much.
@@dersteppenwolf5458 you know what. If it ends, it means it should not last. It is not on you. The girl that is for you is going to fight so that you won’t live her life, if not. It is all for the best. You deserve a genuine connection with a cooperative, respectful, pleasing to be around GF.
I've had women leave me because they thought I was playing her...kind of turns all this on its head. Also, some of this is subtle, and the difference between failing or passing and interest test can be wording and body language. If men aren't capable of appreciating certain nuances, this will be a confusing game to them.
You make us sound so shallow and tickled. I’m going to make an effort to not fall into these self sabotaging behaviors because these behaviors could totally damage otherwise good men, which just shrinks the good bachelor pool for women in general.
Thank you for being objective. Many women in his comment section get mad and automatically attempt to refute his points when I know from experience everything he’s saying is true.
When you look back at all your previous relationships - it’s frightening how all this makes perfect sense. It makes sense to listen to Casey at least twice a week until it’s emboldened in your psyche or until you stop fucking up.
Fact's I Fear I May Have Lost this "One" & I'm trying to bring it Back.... We're at the Phase she has Pulled back and Dropped Contact with me. I May have sent 1 to many msgs and try'd reaching out 1 too many time's instead of Just waiting for her to contact me. It all Get's so Confusing because she was contacting me, now she flipped it around and got even MORE Pissed because I tried to contact her. Casey really helps
All of this applies in a limited way to all women. He's right that we cannot ever totally relax as lovers and mates, just the same as we cannot ever totally relax as parents or employers. We must always be ready for tests and bad behavior. But the more women, or our children, or our employees, know we're not intimidated by them, we're in charge, we're competent, we are kind, and we can be dangerous within the limits of our strict ethical principles, the more they'll seek our approval, our affection, and our company. Casey's white board explanation applies completely to low-value, superficial, immature women who never progress from attraction to genuine love but prefer a frantic, co-dependent anxiety they mistake for love. We should avoid romantic relationships with these women at all costs.
Bro, I’m 41 years old I’m blind had dirty shoes and no haircut. I mean it was a horrible hair overgrowth from excessive work and busyness and yet your program has gotten me more sexual encounters and dates then I could have ever imagined. I mean you can’t make this up. My dental issues even suck and I’m still pulling it bro. I mean this shit is magic. Dude you need to have me as a poster boy do a live stream. We can talk about it. I’m actually a social worker so I kind of have been in tune with what you’ve been saying for quite a while and I’m able to implement it and the exact way you were expressing to my background in psychology and sociology. I owe you dude I mean millions of dollars and when I get it I’m gonna hook you up bro.😊😊
@@powershift5439 yeah, my bad was using the voice dictation feature and I’m blind, so didn’t even realize they were there until the end and the comment was already posted
@@leachjason111 I use special technology that talks to me when I touch the screen or on the computer. Phone is a nightmare cause I have to use voice dictation because it’s so hard to type on a touchscreen. Dude I’ve been screwing up with grammar and everything because voice dictation on iPhone is a nightmare and editing is impossible when you’re blind on a cell phone. I am still pulling the chicks. Thanks to Casey. It’s kind of hilarious that I can be a broke dude with dirty shoes and still get people like teachers lawyers scientist nurses and at this point I’m only bringing in about 2500 a month because my wife caused me to lose my job
So if a woman despises a man that is "attached" to her, then he needs to tell her right after the wedding, "All those vows to love, honor and cherish were just lip service to tradition! We are married and everything is going to be about non-attachement now!"
You're 100% right, cant argue against it. It's a pretty dark notion that I'll, or any man, will never be truely loved. Nothing short of absolute perfection is a necessity to keep a girl. I'm just so goddamn tired of it all
I gotta ask. Is it even worth it? If I have to do all this stuff, learn about their nature when they couldn’t care less about mine, why put in the effort. Like seriously, what are you guys hoping to get out of a relationship when you have more than a 50% chance of it failing. Do you really think you’re gonna be happy?
A life spent with someone who you enjoy being with is incomparably better, more rewarding and more fulfilling than being alone. It can't even be compared.
Zander might be right about human nature, but human nature isn't all there is. There is culture, education, and practical constraints. I have friends who had traditional arranged marriages and it worked out fine for them. Maybe the guys didn't get to be studs, the women didn't get to sleep with Chad, but it seems like the whole package worked well for a lot of them and their kids.
These videos hold a lot of truth and are generally inspirational, but they sometimes reach. It is totally possible to be nice and respect a girl without drying her up. Its all about not being desperate (more often concealing it) and being exciting and not monotonous. Women are not monsters, and their approach to desperation is not that different than men's in any other context, mostly friendship. Nobody wants a desperate boring person that begs to hang out with you
Although it's not a universal law, everything he says here is true and can be applied to most women. I experienced that myself. She was really interested in me and was initiating much more than me, so I made the big mistake of showing her the same level of interest and respect. What happened is that she slowly started to get moody out of nowhere, and she stopped texting me. Even when I asked her what's wrong, she would just say 'every thing is alright'. Eventually she left me with no choice but to leave her. I wanted to act before her, and that's what I did.
@@mat7083 I wouldn't put it that way. I'm not an expert on women, but I do believe that with some of them you don't have to be on this endless route of trying always to be an enigma so that she is always interested in you.
Brilliant but flawed. Your observations of behaviour are totally accurate ... but I disagree that hypergamy exists...its narcissism. Its egoic not biological. It has been developed in recent decades by narratives that create narcissistic entitled belief systems. However it's not real and the solution is not to act a certain way...but to be a certain way. There is a subtle difference that requires a man to find himself. That said...I really like your content.
I looked through the comments section to find a woman's comment stating that this isn't true or not all of us B.S. Most don't even realize that they behave a certain way because it's instinctual. It's us men on the receiving end who notice this kind of behavior.
Yes he is talking about the science of the sexes. One thing I think he should emphasize more is that men need to be those things he talks about no matter what. Even though for example older single moms will accept reality faster than young beautiful women, the older women still need a man to be man in the ways Casey speaks to.
My whole world on love flipped. Crazy shit im learning from this man. Im naturally caring and giving and i keep using my intuition like i did with my last relationship and she broke up so fast lol. This man has so much wisdom and experience to break down attraction to a digestible portion that im just so grateful for. Knowledge is power boys
Yikes! Never thought of it that way. I think at first no because the aggression and aloof disposition can insinuate strength but soon enough women realize these "bad boys" are oversized 12 year olds, slaves to their whims and lack self control. So, yeah, I think you're right!
Well it is partially, the more of those things you have the more you’ll instinctively know you can get any women which will equal feeling like the shit. If you’re already handsome tall then you get wealthy even that man will get a boost but it’s not all about money.
Women think they are superior and above man's emotive behavior. All erroneous. Men can care and love more than they ever could. Just look at the arts. The best music, movies, paintings etc are by men and have more poignancy and passion than them. Generally speaking.
If all of this is True, then Why are there Lesbians? Survival Mentality Mixed with Survival Mentality with the lack of anything Manly? How does that work?
Let’s be clear my friend, what category of woman you’re talking about?? I think you’re talking about those silly and stupid women in your network. Thanks for the information anyways.
I agree with this. Self centered men always do better with these broads. Non-self centered overly empathetic men, Alpha or Beta get stepped on and the woman loses interest.
So I've watched a bunch of these and I have questions. First, is this guy in a happy long term relationship? Also, how does this guy explain all the women out there who don't do those things and don't play games. I mean there are a lot of women, is he saying that literally all women behave this way? And if not what's his advice for dealing with other types? Idk I feel like this guy mostly helps with superficial advice. There's nothing in here about how to have a happy stable monogamous relationship. Maybe he doesn't think it's even possible.
This red pill about no mutual respect and no reciprocation is so bitter and painful to swallow and digest. This is so messed up! How can a good genuine man ever build a long-term stable family with children if womens brains are wired like this!??
Higher Caliber of Women... Hmmm... From what I have witnessed... if they are hotter, they work more and more off their Biology. I rather not Settle with an NPC. I want her to be Smart, not a Biological Robot who cant think worth of shit.
Casey you are a pioneer and a philosopher. I kinda know most of all you say from my experience, but you are the first to organize all these ideas and use the right words. Thanks for the videos.
I need to watch this again multiple times in future to remember me about this stuff - this is the best presentation ive ever seen and heard about this stuff!
I can understand what he’s trying to say but anytime I’ve ever been that bad boy and stood up for myself and treated women like this they literally make it their life objective to sabotage me.
You’re the truth. This is one man on the internet who has done his research. Those who have ears should listen. Listening to you makes me even a better man
No need to fix shit from her, you can invest and advice her, but don't fix shit, that's her job. Your job is to keep going up while she last or just quickly replace her.
I reckon there's a lot of truth here - any behaviour that reveals to a woman that you think she is your superior is deeply unattractive. It's also pretty unattractive to me in a platonic situation - a guy who thinks I'm his superior feels like a student or child to me, not my friend. But for women, this reaction is even more extreme. So basically we should not be putting a woman on a pedestal just for being pretty. In other words have some self respect, and expect respect from others. no matter how pretty they happen to be. I also agree that if you reveal your insecurity when she tests you, that is going to be a problem. On the other hand, there seems to be an implication here of not being caring to a woman lest she think you hold her as your superior. Well, if I cannot care for my partner, if I can't initiate touch because its going to make her go dry, she can frankly f* off - I'm not interested in playing games full time just to get access to shmoo. And honestly, I have not found it to be the case that you have to hold yourself back from being kind or caring in order to have them want to be sexual or stay interested. I think women want to feel looked after, and it actually allows them to be in their feminine, so long as you don't pedestalise them. The women I've been with have universally had a submissive sexuality, and being caring is actually a kind of gentle domination, something that allows them to relax into my care. But if you came at it from the frame of neediness and earning their affection that is not going to work, it's just lame.
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Thanks for teaching. Another excellent lesson.
Bro, you’re crushing it with these titles lately. Gotta click 💯
Casey make a video on how to implement boundaries both from the start and in between of the relationship
Objection about: Not really revealing your wannabe perceived "sexual market value" but rather it is about orientative assumptions coming from the mind of that female/woman. Women are based on anticipations of potential, some women can betray nastly at anytime if they are very egotistical selfish about their survival and that of their offsprings instead of the proper measure of love and decency within them. Also would be more practical for them to love and contribute because that is the real decent true power because sinning is foolish and degrading but many of them don't care enough if they are sick depraved failed cases sadly, they are both funny, ridiculous and disgusting when the sick vessels are demanding more attention, food and genuine connections while their insides are carrying distinct stinks of sin and bad received DNA, those woke females and males reduce the vitality of the population by their wicked tactics and toxicity pollutants but don't worry and instead isolate them(maybe some choose to repent and heal), if the rotten fruits don't fall by themselves various beings and creatures will destroy them suddenly out of the blue... daba diiie dabbaddie daba diiie dabbaddieeeeeeeee... and after that the real fun party begins with all the nexuses of sin vanishing from these realms, such a peaceful bliss with their deserved absences. Ohhh, they were so vile and lousy, they don't even deserve to be remembered, hahaha! Adios! Autumn is just so refreshing of the past falls that happened so naturally for the unrepetended hypocrites ahaaaaahhhhhaaaah. ^....^
Yes men in long term relationships become predictable
The hardest thing isn't even about the women, its about relearning everything you thought you knew.
Yeah men hypegamy rewards and helps man to be centered in themselves without any external or low motivations like lust or lack of self control , you must learn to treat them like other humans 😂😂😂😂 instead of your conditioning and instincts.
Facts
About 3-4 minutes into the video,my eyes just start to glaze over and wonder,is it really worth all the trouble???? Lol 😂 😂
@@JonThompson-bt8rw You completely miss the points, how is genuine detachment "trouble"? It's the exact opposite.
Broader implications here--question everything you've been indoctrinated in.
@@jeansollot6419 how would you or I know how his dates with women go dude?? Lol 😂..........it's not his fault that women are hypergamous, Childish,and quite complex .it's good,that clueless men have the accurate information available to
them if they want to know.
Respect to the guy for making essentially the same video again and again and still nailing it every time
true, but its reworded to the point that you can't. get it wrong
I need him to do that, My brain need the repetition for it to stick.
exactly !! his videos are a cheat code
Exactly keep repeating on auto because I am sloooowwww and need constant daily refreshing 😅
Honestly my brain is smooth af so the repetition helps. The concept itself is kinda hard to grasp so this is much needed
It’s sad because men genuinely want to give women respect and devotion but women don’t want it.
It's sad because men genuinely believe that his respect and devotion is earned by her just being there and looking pretty.
They just dont want it from YOU. Sooner you accept that, life will be less painful.
A girlnonce told me she doesn't want me to respect her. I mean I was shocked, I knew I had lost the game. They want you to disrespect them
It’s very rare but I found it.
@@Fstop313 A man first and foremost must respect himself and be devoted to his own values, boundaries, and purpose. Respect women who prove themselves not unworthy of respect, and devote yourself only to a woman who has first proven she is devoted to you.
How a woman behaves when you are not there demonstrates her true level of respect and love for you.
True
Spot on
Couldn't have said it better!!
But how do you really know?
@@BostonMike68you don’t. All these rules are a waste of time, it just tells you how to manage her emotions. You can’t micromanage other proples emotiins, that’s insane.
i used to think relationships could be "50/50" or we could have "mutual respect".
I was walked all over and treated horribly by woman after woman for the past 20+ years.
Try to treat a woman good and you will end up with a rude, disrespectful, lying, holding back sex, nagging, fighting, angry, bitter woman ... who is always trying to make you feel small and insignificant.
Young men - LISTEN to what Casey is saying and prevent yourself decades of pain.
It’s a fact. They want the exact opposite of what their mouth tells you they want.
🤣🤣🤣
@@thetubenewsandentertainmen713 😦☹😔
Women who argue 50/50 are literally secretly wanting 100.
Amen to that
This is especially true in the texting game. Before you hit send on a text, rethink it and consider sending the exact opposite of what your initial gut told you. Better yet, don't even reply back to her periodically, at all.
You are correct.
Damn. Too many bitter comments on this thread. So sad…
@@FarewellAphroditethen what’s the answer?! This shit is sooo confusing💀
@@FarewellAphroditewell if women weren’t so damn complicated , those comments won’t occur, but that’s not the case
@Onewiththesauce8 It's really not confusing. If you've seen enough red pill manosphere content of how terrible women are, you'll understand a few things
(1.) They're often not deserving of mutual respect.
(2.) You're the problem. By that, I mean you need to build a better you in every way so that you truly start to believe with unwavering fervor that you are the price. Once you start believing that, your interaction with women becomes how she can fit into your life and if she qualifies to enter into your frame. This #2 is the most difficult part.
3.) The why becomes irrelevant because as Casey says when she truly believes you're better than her she'll spend her efforts trying to fit into your life. Still if you're trying to understand all the whys...that's what manosphere channels are there for to show you women's nature and motivations.
I have lost my faith in being devoted to my girlfriend. It only brings me grief. These videos are a saviour. Even though the can't change the wounds, they help me understand the reason behind everything so that helps.
She should be devoted to you not the other way around. Woman like drama that's why they stay with the guy who beats them but a small slap is enough to correct most behavior but most men are gay as fuk now and are scared of woman 😂
Same here 😢
She's not your "friend" Move on 🙏
Same ❤
His videos have opened up my eyes in a big way. Wish I knew the true definition of a relationship before I started one. Now that I know what im up against I know how to stay within real expectations with a woman
"Stop trying to look in between the lines and just look at her behavior."
That would have saved my last relationship. Damn
I am finally understanding the hipergamy/indiference game.
We cant use flowers and chocolate to win her heart.
The movies ruined our love life lol
Bro these movies are definitely what has soften men! When I look at them now I get upset at how I use to be. Keep telling myself it’s just fantasy and written to sell tickets not reality!
With chocolate and flowers, they become entitled and we look needy.
Almost all women bringing me chocolate on a date.
Exactly, you need to be unapologetically ruthless and let her work for everything you do for her, especially if she very pretty
Music of the 90s and 2000s, the R'n'b ish was a trap !! Nothing soften me that much : Keith Sweet, LSG, Boyz II Men, Joe, Tyrese, Di Angelo... Guyz ! I never knew that one day I would ever disrespect these writting. The vocalizes where crazy but the messages soften my brain AF !!! Jaheim :"Always put that woman first". SMH 🤯🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Casey got it down to a science...love how he tells us it's not our fault it's just programming and how it's not their fault it's their nature
= you basically cant trust em HAHA
Beware, Casey teaches game skills to own younger girls that are not high value keepers. In some videos Casey talks about asking himself "...is she the best I can do". High value women accomplished single women see through game skills. I learn from Casey but I do not apply that knowledge because having #Sex with different partners makes you suffer and confused though life - staying at ease will become very difficult, there will be no joy in your life. You can observe these types of people so don’t go by what Im saying - you will observer these people will giggle all the time but you look at them and there is no joy, there is no ease.
If it's their nature then it is there fault if they don't control it, stop giving women an easy pass and hold them accountable for their actions. Men have to control their nature ( masculinity) otherwise the streets would be filled with chaos, constant battles with each other, society would be in a much worse off state than it is now. Stop being weak in needing women only beta's need women it's pathetic.
Wdy@@iloveamerica4891 wdym having sex with different girls makes us suffer and confused🤔❣️😎 I don't know about that..sir in case u don't know we men are biologically wired to sleep with multiple females.. to spread our seeds ( from thousands of years of biological most men with fewer to no options, usually wanna be in love and all connected to their girl( the simping is for real fellas 😂)
@@iloveamerica4891you are spot on 💯 about high value/high quality women. The women you actually want will not go for a guy who does everything by Casey’s playbook.
Some of it is undoubtedly useful information to know, but never use these tactics on a high quality woman who is highly interested in you. As you said a woman like that will see through your games and think you’re immature or unstable/unreliable. You will ruin your chances with a real high quality woman by being inauthentic, incongruent, & using tactics or “tricks”
yeah the highest interest I got from women is when I did not really like them more than a friend
Bro when you said women are survival creatures and she is not going to reciprocate the mutual care. That just blew my mind. I never looked at it in that way but it make so much sense. Casey you have help me so much!!!!! Thank you brother
This is def facts i agree😂
Truth. Choose a genuine person.
Read the book the manipulated man by Esther Vilar. For context, Esther exposed female nature from a women viewpoint and was way more aggressive than Casey.
She receives to this day Death Threats to her and her family by women. Book was published in 1971.
Makes you think.
It is simply wrong. I now many couples were it perfectly works since 50 years. But OK I do not know why it often does not work.
Correct. A man can never expect a woman to reciprocate. She just does not have it in her. I spent $500 at a marriage counselor to learn this. Casey just gave it out for free.
Lol 😅
Ouch... sorry to say but no counselor is going to fix what's deeply wired in her mind.
He paid the money to learn not to fix his woman. It will never be fixed
More nonsense you must be familiar with that’s called the “norm of reciprocity” and actually understand things about respect and how respect is given.
How that relationship now?😂😂 Bet you are spilt up and you simping
I'm 42 yo just getting through a gruesome divorce/breakup and I can affirm that these words are true! I've gave her my best for 17 years and she treated me as I was disposable. If I only knew this earlier me and my kids wouldn't be going thru that amount of Sh*t
Same here bro.. and im about your age and 15 years of marriage with a kid. Missing my daughter . Now im just married to amuch younger woman (age 26) and im gonna change my game..
Less is more w women..if can ..don't invest in women
Looks are so important. You gotta marry slightly down.
This is the exact kind of toxic advice i need. I'm too nice.
100% me as well…and funny thing is it’s the completely opposite of ‘a good thing’.. as crazy as that may seem
Who knows anymore
Here’s to not being a nice guy bitch anymore😂😂 rofl also not to go too far on the other end
It's not toxic. It's just being masculine
Bro, trust. This is so far from toxic. He is not wrong, they need to respect, admire, and look up to us as men. It makes total sense. Women want to bend the rules, but will not with a man that they look up to, admire, and respect.
This is a game I no longer wish to play but it's interesting to hear why it happens.
Def agree bro….ive literally had all this same shit play out with the past 2 relationships & now i literally apply whats been said in all these vids - & i have a 43yr old teacher that i met months ago telling me that she actually hates that she likes me so much 😂. i know typing this out it doesn’t do justice to the way things are going, but I am doing the opposite of being the one to try to get her to know how I feel about her/be the one who calls and text her to see her and spend time with her. I am 33 and funny thing is she told me the first encounter upon meeting her that we will never really be in a relationship because I am “too young for her “ but that’s all changing and all I’ve been doing is the opposite of putting in that sort of anxious effort that I used to put in and the results are actually amazing to the point where she is saying things that I literally have said to girls in the recent past relationships. and an example of that is “are you mad at me because I dont like to get out of your car if something is wrong” lol yea..i have always done tooooo much & things changed; they stopped showing interest little by little etc
Exactly. You have to waste valuable time playing dysfunctional games just to be treated with common respect? No thank you.
@@coleycole5344I would argue it's good news because it means you don't have to "try" with women. But to be fair, it took me a while of running into roadblocks with women and watching Casey's videos to come to that mindset
Gods work. Out of billions of people on the planet, one man chose to write in his notebook about female nature, ty brother
No matter how hard I try to say I’m different I have to agree with your stance on this! Too many years of thinking the opposite way is a hard thing to break, but your videos are reminder to stay disciplined in this mindset because I do see that it works in the women I cared little about and how it’s backfired on the woman I cared most about!
That’s exactly right, it is hard to break.
This is very true
This is so true.
What do u mean care?? How??
hey guys. listen man. I know putting all this effort to try to understand women and female nature can get depressing after hearing all the facts by Casey Zander. but make sure to not get mad at women, their just like that. We can't change em, but we can definitely extract value from them. Stay Strong, don't be emotional, We all gonna make it
Yeah I listen to these videos and feel overwhelmed, I slow down and over time I understand.
@@MelJohnson56Exactly how I felt when reading Ecclesiastes. Dark depressing truths must be slowly ingested before they’re fully understood.
Speaking of truth, Y’all know of any movies or books that demonstrate Casey’s vids?
@@mat7083 check out the movie " In the mood for love" I heard it was a great demonstration of this whole thing
@mat7083 The witcher books are basacally him being showered with women he does not care about while the one he loves threats him like shit
Basically us caring for women and being nice to them from there perspective is men being desperate which is of course unattractive from a woman's perspective.
Being indifferent/ outcome independent towards women (abundance mindset) is attractive from a woman perspective.
Do a mixture.
●Be horrible within bounds and memorable but some kindness sometimes. When kind she will remember how horrible things can get.
●..and basically you don't even need to try to be horrible. If you are focused on your goal as #1 priority side effects are that she being maybe 7th in your line of priorities if so high, will be forgotten on some routine events; birthdays, anniversaries etc.
●don't use terms I love you. When she says it to you, you can respond "sometimes". Women are turned off by men who say I love you it seems. ...and technically this doesn't even need to be forced. If you focus on #1 goal chances are you have more love for other stuff.
@@g0d182You pretty much sum it up perfectly. What a world man, I love women now. All I got to do is put God/Myself/ My purpose first and put women 2nd or below my priorities for her to love me. Ngl, that beautiful. Women just want men to put themselves first and they will love us.
Exactly 💯. This is total opposite of men mindset. As a living proof, I get it now because when I was nice and caring, I was treated like crap. Being indifferent and careless, I feel the positive treatment because she is trying to win me back.
@@caesarprice3252that’s exactly it. Put God first and yourself 2 and everything else will fall in-line
@@BigDirtDawg Amen to this.
I am a 54 year old high performing man, i.e., had more than my fair share of hot women and made money in a high end career. I was naturally inclined to the red pill, but had the blue pill indoctrination forced on me and it worked to some degree to obfuscate reality and breed confusion within. That notwithstanding, I have experienced enough to verify what Casey is saying here and in his other videos. I am genuinely impressed with this young man and his ability to have put this all together so early in his life.
When a women plays games, kick her to the curb. Don’t waste your life with pathetic individuals who play silly games.
That’s like saying if you’re swimming in the ocean and get wet, go swim in another part of the ocean. Woman and games are the ocean. Either adapt to getting wet or stay on land.
@@justlurkin Only a complete idiot would want to get wet.
@@justlurkin play silly games. Win silly prizes.
@@kiko8uplay no game then win nothing.
@@ashinthewind2759 yes just exclude SILLY games.
Everything he’s saying in this video is 100% correct. I look back at all my failed attempts with women and he literally is hitting the nail on the head. Thank you for waking me up and making me a better man.
Talked tp a guy who I went to high school with. This is how he deals with women issues.
He has his main girl who he spends most of his time with. He doesn't share everything with her and stays a little stoic. She's happy because she's got most of his time but wishes he'd communicate more and open up.
Then he has a mistress. He shares his feelings with her and can let down. He's even cried and shes all too happy to comfort himr.. she doesn't get nearly as much time as she'd like but she feels special because he opens up to her.
He says it sucks to live that way but he has human needs amd just can't risk upsetting the cart with his main girl-- but doesn't really want to fhitch up to the more edgy girl. Both of which he feels he'd lose if he was everything to either of them.
I guess it works for him.
This is the way it has always been, a man needs a side piece and a woman who makes him a home. It's nature.
Facts fam. I lived and i learned.
Same here.
Man, I am just shocked again and again. Been reading about these things in the last 3 years, but the way you explain is top notch. Thing is, now it all makes sense. Whenever I acted indifferent, and completely ignored women who wanted me, and did not care, they wanted me even more. It was getting to the point of - f off leave me alone, and they were still eager to see me. But the moment I was showing genuine interest towards other women I really liked - interest / attraction was just dissapearing in thin air. No matter how good you look, dress, it's just their inner compass. I believe the best way is to treat even the most attractive women like they're nothing to you and as if it won't make a difference in your life if you have them or not.
Your purpose as a man is above a V
Absolute truth, I had a girl reach out to me, she was chasing me because I really didn't care. The moment I started inviting her and reaching out, tried to understand her, she turned 180 degrees and all the interest from her vanished. And btw she doesnt look nearly as good as me, I am cool, confident, got my shit together. She doesnt even cared about that. I even tried to fix things and no surprise that just made things worse. I am actually curious, now I dont give a crap about her she will be back in a few years, but honestly she never deserved me.
Correct.
Their appeareance inside your life will most probably provide either way more peace and less drama so stop stressing completely !!!
Being butthurt about female nature is like being upset that a siberian tiger would absolutely crush your skull and eat your flesh to the bone.... its just nature. Nature gave men the physical/logical strength to be productive in the world while it gave women the emotional/psychological intelligence to compensate for that gap. Just like you learn how to respect a tigers instinct, you just accept female nature and work with it. Luckily, unlike a tiger, we can still be close to women after understanding them more.. a tiger you can only admire from afar.. either way, your own ignorance is the only thing that will hurt you.
I like this analogy
This needs to be in every school curriculum. This is how you give the game to men
no keep this out of schools then women will change their game. We men need an upper hand in today's dating world. Women hold too much of the power.
This guy really opened my eyes to what my issues have been all these years. But to be honest this all just seems like more added stress in my life and something not pleasuring to engage in at all and im sure it would show. Im thinking this is a game im not ment to play. I like peace and order in my life screw all that.
Tension is KEY. Genesis 3:16. Her desire will be contrary to you (TRY TO DISQUALIFY YOU), but you shall rule over her.
You must create it
What a way to distort the Bible lmao. When there are verses that state the opposite of what you think
@@sarahfranco6802 jezebel spirited women (feminists) would disagree. Go read ephesians 5:29 look at the word NOURISH g1625. Only used one other time in ephesians 6:4. TRAIN UP. A husbands job is to take a woman from her father and continue fathering her unto completion. A man leaves his father/mother (authority). The woman never leaves her authority, it just transfers from father and mother to her husband. I can do this all day. Adam named his wife, named her gender, named creation....man has authority over his wife and children. He is a KING, a ruler in his house.
@@keepingtorah9832 look at Ephesians 5:25 and read again. "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church. He even agreed to die on its behalf." And the example of Christ is this one "Even the Son of Man came to earth TO BE A SERVANT TO OTHER PEOPLE. He did not come here to have servants who must work for him. No, he came to die so that many people can be free." (Mark 10:45)
@@keepingtorah9832 read Ephesians 5:25...
@@keepingtorah9832 read Ephesians 5:25
I don't usually comment on videos, but after watching dozens of them on this channel, I have to say that I've never seen a guy break down the subject in such a logical and understandable way. The behavioral models he proposes fit my experience in all forms almost 100%. This is shocking and I sit in front of the screen with my mouth open and can't believe that I wasn't able to see this and kept making the same mistakes over and over. In my opinion, the points he mentions are relevant to all women, but the problems may not manifest the same way depending on the initial discrepancy in SMV. You could be an 8 and she could be a 4. Here you can make mistake after mistake and still end up at the same perceived level as her, which keeps the interaction/relationship stable. This doesn't work with women at your SMV level or above. With these women, the points Casey mentioned come into play like nothing else, and in addition, with those very women, you also behave as you shouldn't and signal an SMV that is much lower than the actual objective one. Listen to this man, he knows what he is talking about!
Facts, he has studied the nature of men and women and this should be taught in school.
It’s 630am and my gf is acting like a brat. I left the bedroom on the couch pulled up RUclips and this video came in clutch. The insight in this video hit it on the fuckin head. Ty! Liked commented and subbed🤙🙏
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Youre a good man, Casey. Im getting my masculine mojo back thanks to your videos. Its been 2 weeks since i started taking your advise and my phone is starting to blow up again. Unreal ty
Casey is right I'm currently in a situationship and it has been 7 months in it and the girl started to pull back, withholding sex and being manipulative but since i know the game i kicked her to the curb now she came back and apologized. But after all that i learned that i was almost booty whipped cause i was starting to let her bs slide multiple of times. And thank you Casey for teaching us this game of women
*Ghost her and find someone new. Always have other women in your rotation.*
@@thatguybill34what Billy said!
I’ve taken in a lot of these videos and it almost seems like the only conclusion I can reach on how to make a girl like you and how to make them stay is “stay away, keep distance, don’t pursue, barely do anything regarding her barely give her any attention don’t make an effort to see her don’t make her feel wrapped in love when you’re together or when she’s away, don’t give her any validation ever, constantly keep her on her toes, hold back love, and hope, really really hope, that she likes you.” It’s like bro is this seriously all there is to dating? Being a fucking wall of uncertainty, lack-of-neediness, and never making an effort? Like, I just genuinely don’t understand how the fuck I’m supposed to navigate a relationship with a girl if what I have to do is NOT give mutual respect, NOT make efforts to see her and clear up my time, NOT telling her I think she’s beautiful or charming or kind… I just don’t understand it’s almost like the advice is “be a distant dick and treat them like less and hope they like you” like I genuinely don’t understand, I wish Casey would reply to this but ain’t no way in hell. I just really don’t understand what the point of it is if you need to resist everything in your nature to get these girls..
Brother well put. It’s like becoming a brick wall and occasionally grunt and hopefully she likes you. What kind of woman is that?
There is a better way, be yourself - authenticity beats masculinity any day , have fun, and love them unconditionally, do not expect anything in return, it’s not that hard actually
Casey's tutorials are how to deal with a narcissistic woman... Normal women don't like such behave, but there is no normal women nowadays... Its fckd up world we live in...
No its not normal. I suggest you check out dan bacon, he strikes the perfekt balance between hardcore redpill guys like corey and the other side of it.
@@stevea2125you didn’t learn anything. Women all have the same hard wiring.
Please do a video on balancing stoicism, being "funny" or using humor, and how much of your personality that should come out in an interaction with a woman in order to maintain attraction.
I agree
Friend of mine used to see if you can make a woman life you’ve got her panties half off
beautifully craft useful commet , wish he saw this
I love Casey. Happy I kept watching him over the past couple years, he really opened my eyes to the truth.
I still feel like this is going too far the other direction, from my experience it needs to be a little bit of both, if you lean too hard into this it will turn them off too
You saved my life. I Love you dawg. You’ve gaven me more then any of my exes.
How to get and keep a narcissist. I'm burned out.
I literally came on Casey channel one month ago to try to cure my one year relationship, indeed my girlfriend was displaying all signs of toxicity (disrespect, non cooperative, withdraw sex, always on her phone). Through the journey I learnt so much about women’s behavior and especially how I was supposed to behave, on my end (yes did screw up up - but new information new reaction) which mean not being insecure, nor weak for her and not wanting sex. We did break up two weeks ago. And the more I look back on this relationship combine with Casey’s advice, I now understand that the sweet spot (if not the only) is being the « side dude ». Being focus on my goals, being selfish to achieve my mission and having two / three girls around that are part of my journey without me being committed and not seeing them more than once a week. Never thought I would change that much (always been in couple), however I do think now this is the only way to go.
did u try to work on the relationship, did u try to find out the actual cause why she was showing those toxic behaviors? or u just simply broke up
@@proudindian9140 women should work on fixing the relationship. As a man if you push to fix the relationship she runs away because your are revealing your SMV. She was promiscuous, therefore we argue a lot. But I ended up leaving, too much was too much.
Bro all what you said hit close home. I'm in the same situation with my girlfriend right now, and I'm afraid it will end the same way
@@dersteppenwolf5458 you know what. If it ends, it means it should not last. It is not on you. The girl that is for you is going to fight so that you won’t live her life, if not. It is all for the best. You deserve a genuine connection with a cooperative, respectful, pleasing to be around GF.
The ONLY way, young Jedi.
The ONLY way.
I've had women leave me because they thought I was playing her...kind of turns all this on its head. Also, some of this is subtle, and the difference between failing or passing and interest test can be wording and body language. If men aren't capable of appreciating certain nuances, this will be a confusing game to them.
They left you because they couldn't control or manipulate you. Consider yourself lucky.
@@truthtelleranon It did happen around that time...
@@OGTrollTroll8 Nice deduction, this is what I thought too - she was trying to get me to chase her and lose my frame...Fuck that
@@OGTrollTroll8yup, they also do that. 😂
I wouldn’t take their “reason(s)” at face value.
You make us sound so shallow and tickled. I’m going to make an effort to not fall into these self sabotaging behaviors because these behaviors could totally damage otherwise good men, which just shrinks the good bachelor pool for women in general.
Thank you for being objective. Many women in his comment section get mad and automatically attempt to refute his points when I know from experience everything he’s saying is true.
I doubt u could help it though, if its natural and just plain genetic wiring. Don't worry about it
It’s the truth, and you probably can’t help it. It has damaged a lot of men. The comments section should show you that a lot of men have been victims
Its like nuclear war, the only way to win is not to play.
refers to the movie war games of 1983. let us take our commodore c64 and programm our basic spaghetti code... goto 10 if ...
When you look back at all your previous relationships - it’s frightening how all this makes perfect sense. It makes sense to listen to Casey at least twice a week until it’s emboldened in your psyche or until you stop fucking up.
Fact's I Fear I May Have Lost this "One" & I'm trying to bring it Back.... We're at the Phase she has Pulled back and Dropped Contact with me. I May have sent 1 to many msgs and try'd reaching out 1 too many time's instead of Just waiting for her to contact me. It all Get's so Confusing because she was contacting me, now she flipped it around and got even MORE Pissed because I tried to contact her. Casey really helps
We put women on this throne/ lets let them down gently with class 😎
All of this applies in a limited way to all women. He's right that we cannot ever totally relax as lovers and mates, just the same as we cannot ever totally relax as parents or employers. We must always be ready for tests and bad behavior. But the more women, or our children, or our employees, know we're not intimidated by them, we're in charge, we're competent, we are kind, and we can be dangerous within the limits of our strict ethical principles, the more they'll seek our approval, our affection, and our company.
Casey's white board explanation applies completely to low-value, superficial, immature women who never progress from attraction to genuine love but prefer a frantic, co-dependent anxiety they mistake for love. We should avoid romantic relationships with these women at all costs.
Bro, I’m 41 years old I’m blind had dirty shoes and no haircut. I mean it was a horrible hair overgrowth from excessive work and busyness and yet your program has gotten me more sexual encounters and dates then I could have ever imagined. I mean you can’t make this up. My dental issues even suck and I’m still pulling it bro. I mean this shit is magic. Dude you need to have me as a poster boy do a live stream. We can talk about it. I’m actually a social worker so I kind of have been in tune with what you’ve been saying for quite a while and I’m able to implement it and the exact way you were expressing to my background in psychology and sociology. I owe you dude I mean millions of dollars and when I get it I’m gonna hook you up bro.😊😊
Don't use emoji's.
@@powershift5439 yeah, my bad was using the voice dictation feature and I’m blind, so didn’t even realize they were there until the end and the comment was already posted
Lol....even if he isnt texting a girl?
If you’re a social worker, we know you aren’t making stacks of money, and you’re still pulling women. Nice work.
@@leachjason111 I use special technology that talks to me when I touch the screen or on the computer. Phone is a nightmare cause I have to use voice dictation because it’s so hard to type on a touchscreen. Dude I’ve been screwing up with grammar and everything because voice dictation on iPhone is a nightmare and editing is impossible when you’re blind on a cell phone. I am still pulling the chicks. Thanks to Casey. It’s kind of hilarious that I can be a broke dude with dirty shoes and still get people like teachers lawyers scientist nurses and at this point I’m only bringing in about 2500 a month because my wife caused me to lose my job
Women are so complicated we need a whole whiteboard breaking this shit down I feel like im getting a PHD in womanology
I have effed up this “relationship” so bad I’m just going to move on 😁
Did you move on?
So if a woman despises a man that is "attached" to her, then he needs to tell her right after the wedding, "All those vows to love, honor and cherish were just lip service to tradition! We are married and everything is going to be about non-attachement now!"
lmaoooooo plot twist
Even swiping right on dating apps shows weakness. That’s why you always loose on the dating apps haha
Note to everyone: Not treating her well doesn't equate to downright abusive, it just means dont give a fuck
Only femme, children and dogs can be loved unconditionally. Men cabnot. Chris Rock said this...
If you want the secret to understand, just stop caring about and respecting women. If you need help, take his course.
@Karruxo9 they only show respect to men that don't care about them. Sounds like you need the course 👍
Casey you are dropping gems and I like that I’m going to buy your course because you on point
You're 100% right, cant argue against it. It's a pretty dark notion that I'll, or any man, will never be truely loved. Nothing short of absolute perfection is a necessity to keep a girl. I'm just so goddamn tired of it all
Nice!
Women listening to these talks, musk be 🤯furious 😂😂😂
I gotta ask. Is it even worth it? If I have to do all this stuff, learn about their nature when they couldn’t care less about mine, why put in the effort. Like seriously, what are you guys hoping to get out of a relationship when you have more than a 50% chance of it failing. Do you really think you’re gonna be happy?
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A life spent with someone who you enjoy being with is incomparably better, more rewarding and more fulfilling than being alone. It can't even be compared.
Zander might be right about human nature, but human nature isn't all there is. There is culture, education, and practical constraints. I have friends who had traditional arranged marriages and it worked out fine for them. Maybe the guys didn't get to be studs, the women didn't get to sleep with Chad, but it seems like the whole package worked well for a lot of them and their kids.
These videos hold a lot of truth and are generally inspirational, but they sometimes reach. It is totally possible to be nice and respect a girl without drying her up. Its all about not being desperate (more often concealing it) and being exciting and not monotonous. Women are not monsters, and their approach to desperation is not that different than men's in any other context, mostly friendship. Nobody wants a desperate boring person that begs to hang out with you
U got brought up by women or are too feminized...you are wrong
Love these videos. I don't even use them for the women element but to remind myself of the frame I have to keep working on building and maintaining
Jeremiah 17:9
The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?
My heart was racing through out this whole video. This man is goated 🐐
The more this makes sense to me, the more I want to settle down with a nice femboy.
However, wanting a family, I still need to deal with... this.
Huh 🤨
I feel the same way. Femboys actually are more enamored with you if you treat them with respect. I wish it was this way with cis gender women
This guy is like the Athlean X of dating.
If you like his lectures, listen to Rom Wills, Patrice O Neal, and StephIsCold
Although it's not a universal law, everything he says here is true and can be applied to most women. I experienced that myself. She was really interested in me and was initiating much more than me, so I made the big mistake of showing her the same level of interest and respect. What happened is that she slowly started to get moody out of nowhere, and she stopped texting me. Even when I asked her what's wrong, she would just say 'every thing is alright'. Eventually she left me with no choice but to leave her. I wanted to act before her, and that's what I did.
So, does this mean saying “I love you”, “I care about you”, “You deserve this”, is off the table?
What happen afterwards? Any contact back from her?
@@mat7083 I wouldn't put it that way. I'm not an expert on women, but I do believe that with some of them you don't have to be on this endless route of trying always to be an enigma so that she is always interested in you.
@@bobbysayasane3413 Unfortunately not, but I expected that when I left her. I did it on September 13. I'm in peace with it.
Yes, because uncertainty and mystery keeps them attracted to you, bruh
Brilliant but flawed. Your observations of behaviour are totally accurate ... but I disagree that hypergamy exists...its narcissism. Its egoic not biological. It has been developed in recent decades by narratives that create narcissistic entitled belief systems. However it's not real and the solution is not to act a certain way...but to be a certain way. There is a subtle difference that requires a man to find himself. That said...I really like your content.
Man your videos are preparing me to keep the relationship going smoothly. You are helping millions of men around the world. Wish you the best !
I looked through the comments section to find a woman's comment stating that this isn't true or not all of us B.S. Most don't even realize that they behave a certain way because it's instinctual. It's us men on the receiving end who notice this kind of behavior.
Yes he is talking about the science of the sexes. One thing I think he should emphasize more is that men need to be those things he talks about no matter what. Even though for example older single moms will accept reality faster than young beautiful women, the older women still need a man to be man in the ways Casey speaks to.
My whole world on love flipped. Crazy shit im learning from this man. Im naturally caring and giving and i keep using my intuition like i did with my last relationship and she broke up so fast lol. This man has so much wisdom and experience to break down attraction to a digestible portion that im just so grateful for. Knowledge is power boys
Bad boys are treated like one of the girls due to having girl tendencies of chaotic nature
Yikes! Never thought of it that way. I think at first no because the aggression and aloof disposition can insinuate strength but soon enough women realize these "bad boys" are oversized 12 year olds, slaves to their whims and lack self control. So, yeah, I think you're right!
This is why all of old testament kings had harems.
I always thought hypergamy is an wealth/possessions thing, not if the guy feels like he is the shit. Now it all makes sense, thank you master.
Well it is partially, the more of those things you have the more you’ll instinctively know you can get any women which will equal feeling like the shit. If you’re already handsome tall then you get wealthy even that man will get a boost but it’s not all about money.
If everyone seems to be exposing them for their real intentions, conscious of it or not, then why bother with them in the first place?
Because men enjoy female companionship. Ain’t nothing wrong with that. How you go about it however, is key.
@@BushidoVXX Mostly the pussy...I mean face it, without that, would they really be worth all the bullshit or have any real value?
Women think they are superior and above man's emotive behavior. All erroneous. Men can care and love more than they ever could. Just look at the arts. The best music, movies, paintings etc are by men and have more poignancy and passion than them. Generally speaking.
Logical, not logistical. Sorry for being a nazi
I think if a girl likes you she'll let you get away with a lot of shit, no matter how awkward you are etc.
If all of this is True, then Why are there Lesbians? Survival Mentality Mixed with Survival Mentality with the lack of anything Manly? How does that work?
As true as this is, it's still a bit depressing.
Let’s be clear my friend, what category of woman you’re talking about??
I think you’re talking about those silly and stupid women in your network.
Thanks for the information anyways.
I agree with this. Self centered men always do better with these broads. Non-self centered overly empathetic men, Alpha or Beta get stepped on and the woman loses interest.
true very true.
Literally just be a narcissist
Have narcissistic like behavior without being a narcissist
So I've watched a bunch of these and I have questions. First, is this guy in a happy long term relationship? Also, how does this guy explain all the women out there who don't do those things and don't play games. I mean there are a lot of women, is he saying that literally all women behave this way? And if not what's his advice for dealing with other types? Idk I feel like this guy mostly helps with superficial advice. There's nothing in here about how to have a happy stable monogamous relationship. Maybe he doesn't think it's even possible.
Casey, what about any long(very long) term relationship or even starting your own (Zanders)family?
This red pill about no mutual respect and no reciprocation is so bitter and painful to swallow and digest. This is so messed up! How can a good genuine man ever build a long-term stable family with children if womens brains are wired like this!??
This is kind of making me not like women.
Higher Caliber of Women... Hmmm... From what I have witnessed... if they are hotter, they work more and more off their Biology. I rather not Settle with an NPC. I want her to be Smart, not a Biological Robot who cant think worth of shit.
Mannnnnnn Casey been going ham minus the eggs & cheese lately and im loving it!
Casey you are a pioneer and a philosopher. I kinda know most of all you say from my experience, but you are the first to organize all these ideas and use the right words. Thanks for the videos.
I need to watch this again multiple times in future to remember me about this stuff - this is the best presentation ive ever seen and heard about this stuff!
If she want to leave, let's her leave, find another one that value that you are. Simple as that.
I can understand what he’s trying to say but anytime I’ve ever been that bad boy and stood up for myself and treated women like this they literally make it their life objective to sabotage me.
Women like challenges to,if it's boring for her then she's out of there and that's100%.
The best analysis of male / female dynamics on the internet, hands down ... well done Casey!
Women are a existencial letdown. Just sad i never met the woman of my dreams.
The strongest thing you can do is to disconnect those feelings.
Protect yourself, don't show your cards.
You’re the truth. This is one man on the internet who has done his research. Those who have ears should listen. Listening to you makes me even a better man
No need to fix shit from her, you can invest and advice her, but don't fix shit, that's her job. Your job is to keep going up while she last or just quickly replace her.
I reckon there's a lot of truth here - any behaviour that reveals to a woman that you think she is your superior is deeply unattractive. It's also pretty unattractive to me in a platonic situation - a guy who thinks I'm his superior feels like a student or child to me, not my friend. But for women, this reaction is even more extreme. So basically we should not be putting a woman on a pedestal just for being pretty. In other words have some self respect, and expect respect from others. no matter how pretty they happen to be. I also agree that if you reveal your insecurity when she tests you, that is going to be a problem. On the other hand, there seems to be an implication here of not being caring to a woman lest she think you hold her as your superior. Well, if I cannot care for my partner, if I can't initiate touch because its going to make her go dry, she can frankly f* off - I'm not interested in playing games full time just to get access to shmoo. And honestly, I have not found it to be the case that you have to hold yourself back from being kind or caring in order to have them want to be sexual or stay interested. I think women want to feel looked after, and it actually allows them to be in their feminine, so long as you don't pedestalise them. The women I've been with have universally had a submissive sexuality, and being caring is actually a kind of gentle domination, something that allows them to relax into my care. But if you came at it from the frame of neediness and earning their affection that is not going to work, it's just lame.